Revenge porn does destroy women's lives. Do not put yourself in a position that could strip you of your very humanity in the eyes of society just so a man can nut. If he is high value he will not want you to endanger yourself, he will not put his orgasm above your literal safety and future.

Do. Not. Send. Nudes.

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/04/opinion/revenge-porn-privacy.html