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Fabulous! Congratulations! I was going to ask you if you'd climbed El Capitan, but looking at your post history it appears you have. Which is awesome! (I'm not a climber but I love El Capitan and Yosemite.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:20 AM
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She's gorgeous and I love her emphasis on weight loss for health. That is the only reason for doing it. Not because excess weight is displeasing to other people's eyes. Losing weight for that reason, I suspect, is why so many women gain the weight back—losing it didn't "fix" the real underlying problem. Which is, the cruel way society treats women for their appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:42 AM
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Sarcasm is funny if it isn't being used as a mask to put other people down. Exactly. I love sarcasm when it's funny, when everyone is in on the joke, and when no one is a "target" of the sarcasm in a hurtful way. In my family, we're quite sarcastic, but usually in a nonsensical way. If we do say something sarcastic directed at someone else, we do it when we KNOW they're in on the joke, and THEY know there's no venom there. It's hard to explain, but the intent of the kind of sarcasm in my family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:12 AM
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Que feo. (Translation: How ugly.) That's all the Spanish I can muster. (I'm an intermediate Spanish student.) So pathetic. Fortunately, at least based on the Mexican telenovelas I watch (currently trying to catch up with "Vencer el pasado") there is some pushback. At least in media. "Vencer el pasado" is a telenovela about women overcoming BS from scrotey men. One girl is the victim of revenge porn. Another had her brilliant scientific idea stolen by her scrotey ex-fiance. Another is an ambitiou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:14 PM
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I KNOW! She's gorgeous! And he's got forgettable looks. What audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:05 PM
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I doubt that coercion wasn't involved in her "agreeing" to put writing on hold. I'll bet that she thought the "agreement" was that she would focus on the baby when she was at home. (Why that was the "agreement"—that SHE had to give up a career but apparently he didn't—is another matter.) So she agreed to that. Fair enough. She thought that as long as she was not sacrificing baby-time AT HOME that she was honoring the "agreement." And she thought that the WRITING wasn't the "problem," it was doin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:58 AM
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This is nothing but a scrote frothing because she is a badass who is way more brilliant and successful than him, and his plan to keep her tied to the home after she bore his child didn't work. Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:38 AM
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He wanted to take something from her and instead she became more efficient. This. He thought with satisfaction that she had "quit" her successful career, the thing that gave her joy, for the sake of the baby and the family. Yet somehow she found a workaround and he's suddenly pissed, though all this time he never saw any difference because SHE WAS AT WORK. What normal person cares if she uses her precious lunch break to do whatever?!?! Only a scrote cares. He begrudges her one free hour that he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:38 AM
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LV/NV "men" don't like it when you strive for better or are working on accomplishing anything. EXACTLY. And then they simultaneously bitch that women aren't accomplished and talented (and point to historical figures like Mozart to "prove" that men have always accomplished more and women just don't have it in them to have that kind of genius). So they bitch that women don't "do" anything, but if she does "do" anything, they want her to quit ASAP and are pissed and resentful. Makes sense. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:32 AM
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"She was supposed to QUIT being successful and talented, to assuage my fragile male ego! The baby was a pretext to get her to quit outshining me and to stop finding satisfication in her accomplishments, but she found a workaround anyway! NOT FAIR! How dare she!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:29 AM
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can any men on reddit reassure me that my completely selfish views are perfectly normal?' It's on Slate. The answer is very good and succinct. Basically calls him out on his BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:27 AM
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It's insane that he is begrudging her this success when what she did was amazing. She kept their "deal" by focusing on the baby at home, while still squeezing in time at work to write this book! He's not mad that she found a way to squeeze in a book at work, he's pissed that she's WRITING ANYTHING. "She was supposed to QUIT that incredibly successful writing career, but she found a way to not do it! Not fair!" That's what he's thinking at the bottom of his heart. He resents her writing anything—…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:26 AM
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they act like they don't believe you/you're only pretending to be into it for attention. I had a guy do this to me—I was like oh sure, so I grew up with this interest, family is super into it and it's deep in my heart since I was really little, but sure, it's just a flash in the pan, something I only claim to be interested in for "attention." lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:44 PM
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Because devout religious men haven't treated women like shit? Abused, killed, raped them? Luke 6:46 "Why do you call Me 'Lord, Lord,' but not do what I say?" There are many people who say they're "devout," who many others will call "devout," but raping, abusing, and killing proves that they're not. Either they're completely ignoring the Holy Spirit or they never had the Holy Spirit (and thus are not saved by Christ). Many people think they are "saved" but it's all talk talk talk, as Luke 6:46 sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:09 AM
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No burden is placed on me that isn’t also placed on my husband. That's the way it's supposed to be. The scrotes want us to forget that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:41 PM
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Christianity has become men using the Bible as a tool for their own selfish destructive goals. Such truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:40 PM
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Religion is to be cherry-picked. You take what you like, you ignore what you don’t. I like it think of it this way. You EXAMINE why certain things are being taught. So often there are different interpretations of Bible passages (legitimate interpretations, not just people looking for an "out"), and the chosen interpretation a particular church adheres to doesn't HAVE to be the interpretation you follow too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:39 PM
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despite them not agreeing with other biblical reasonings outside of misogyny. The scrotes will conveniently ignore the parts that require men to use self-control and keep it in their pants, that expects them to treasure their wives, that expects them to be responsible for their families and put their family's wellbeing before their own. Nooooo nooo, just ignore that part... lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:16 PM
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Currently: my faith in God is my own. I’ve read the Bible 3 times over. I’ve studied and used Greek, Hebrew and Aramaic concordances to make sure the words of each verse are read in their correct context. Gods word (the Bible) has been twisted for evil. God even says that man would do this. I'm not the scholar you are, but I'm slowly going through the bible while reading several commentaries. It's been really eye-opening. There are different interpretations as well as opinions given by the autho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:08 AM
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My Christian religion is very important to me and has given me great comfort. I like the Bible commentary written by Warren Wiersbe. I'm not saying it's going to please everyone, but his writings and interpretations were a vast improvement over what I've seen written (and practiced) elsewhere. He specifically addresses some women's issues in a way that made more sense to me. As an example of what I've seen claimed elsewhere, I once saw a scrote state online that we should all follow the Bible, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:47 AM
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If they care about the children so much, their #1 goal should be to urge men to stop being pieces of shit. THIS. It's often (not always) the men who bitch about women getting abortions who will also bitch about paying child support, or joke about when they were "sowing their wild oats" that there's a possibility of some kids out there (somewhere) with their DNA. Oh yeah, that's okay. These are also often the same men who bitch about having to wear a condom and also bitch if she doesn't put out i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:07 AM
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This reminds me of a cute story my HV father liked to tell. One of his co-workers told him that her first impression of him wasn't that good, until she met my mom. She told my dad that she figured if he could get a woman as nice as my mom, then he must have something going for him. The difference with this story was that she judged my mom's character, she wasn't a "bro," and my dad was really proud of this fact and used it to praise my mom and try to raise her confidence. (And needless to say, h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:08 AM
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there’s a point where it’s all ‘expect the worst from men’ and not an ounce of ‘hope for the best’, let alone anything constructive about dating a HVM. I think we had a post a while ago which advised against being overly pessimistic. I agree, we shouldn't be. It's not hopeless. HVM exist. I interpret a lot of the posts here as more like, "Hope for the best, but don't ignore red flags" and "Get to a place where you can happily accept the alternative." (The alternative being no HVM but no LVM eith…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:57 PM
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So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:42 PM
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Even as a child, I knew this was the reality. Which is ironic, because I didn't learn it at home. My parents always said they got together because of their shared love of music (she sang/played the piano, he loved music). So naturally, he supported her. He tried to push her to be more confident with her music. So no, this wasn't something I saw play out at home. This was something I saw everywhere else and I absorbed it as the "reality" of life. If he and she both have careers, goals, dreams, hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:29 PM
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Anyone who would block you over your ethnicity is the lowest of the low. I know it was a blow to your ego, but really, for what? A racist scrote didn't want you? The trash took out itself. (Edit: I see that last phrase is being used by everyone! Well, because it's true!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:23 PM
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If men placed more value on intelligence or personality, maybe we would see more women writing books or making educational content as a form of validation. But sadly this is not the case, in fact, in many ways it is the opposite since its not uncommon for tradcons to shame women for pursuing careers and educating themselves. Agreed, they absolutely do not care if she has any accomplishments, and in fact for some of them it's a turn-off. Men like this absolutely pay no attention to all the other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:02 AM
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Black and white thinking like all men are bad and all women are good is not a healthy or safe ideology and I'll be glad to see less of it going forward. I agree. I am fairly certain that I have some good HVM in my circle of relatives and friends, and to hear that no, they're ALL worthless is disheartening. It's just not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:56 PM
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Yes, I imagine these vent posts would be cathartic. As long as they're labeled appropriately and sort of "quarantined" in their own thread, so people know what they're getting and know what to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:50 PM
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Thank you! FDS needs this. The fatalism bums me out sometimes. I know it can be bad out there, but it's not hopeless. This sub is for leveling up, for recognizing red flags, and learning to achieve contentment and happiness in a healthy, productive way. Some age groups and communities have a higher percentage of LVM and some have a lower percentage. It depends on the group you're personally encountering. When I hear ladies say "It's hopeless, they're all worthless" I just assume that these ladie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:46 PM
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If you have children you have to be sure that you do want to have this kid and will be satisfied if you end up having to raise the kid on your own. This is excellent advice, for both parents. They both have to face the possibility of going it alone, if something happens to their partner (maybe through no fault of the partner—heaven forbid, illness, death, etc can occur at any time).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:51 PM
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There are crappy women out there but the crappiness is different: Women who go off the rails don't usually have the physical strength to do too much damage. (Yes, some do, but when I think of a crappy woman, I usually think of a toxic gossip or Bridezilla, not a rapist or child predator.) Women are brainwashed/gaslighted more from childhood into being "nice" and so fewer of us will have nearly the same level of audacity that many "ordinary" men can have. The bar is set so low for men. "Boys will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:24 AM
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I came here to say this! She is awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:17 AM
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A lot of my friendships were destroyed by gossip, so I personally find that behaviour disgusting and refuse to engage with people who want to ego-trip by spectating and tearing down others Yes, this. There definitely is a toxic type of gossip that I want no part of. What I think is some men believe that a woman crying on another woman's shoulder, or venting about something that is upsetting her, or just talking about HER life is "gossip." And he's afraid that she might "get ideas" from her frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:36 PM
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I honestly prefer the way men act toward me when I'm overweight. It's a good filter. It is indeed. I was an ugly duckling in school and was treated horribly. Once the veil has been lifted and you see just how many people are not good people, you can never forget. I saw firsthand how two-faced some people are—horrible to those "subhuman" unattractive people, but super nice to attractive people. After experiencing this for too long, it's really hard to trust that people are really who they present…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:26 AM
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THIS! Thank you for this. It drives me nuts how so many people trivialize the trauma and ordeal women go through when they are facing these options. But men wave it all away, as if it's nothing. Because why? They don't want to wear a condom and heaven forbid, they don't want to be required to help support the baby they helped create.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:22 PM
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SO TRUE. I had a male friend (semi-HV) say that to me about women being more emotional. Since he has fits of temper, I reminded him that anger is an emotion. He waved it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:48 AM
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I've done that for a man, BUT He was and never will be my boyfriend. (More like my annoying little brother.) He has many high-value qualities (has lots of sisters so he sees women as people). He has helped me and my family when we were down, many times. My male friend didn't expect this and there have been many times when I paid with my own card and he never acted perturbed or butthurt. But because of the reasons listed above, if I feel like it, I'll do this. For a romantic partner, no, I'd neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:55 PM
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I did the same (to an extent) a few years ago. It totally changed my mindset. Those sites explained SO MUCH of what was going on. Even a woman with nonexistent self-esteem should know that she doesn't deserve what these men expect of her. Constant abuse? Treating her like an appliance, a slave, and a vagina life support system? No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:20 PM
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Perhaps there is some trolling there (I try to tell myself that) but that site is flourishing and popular. It tells you a lot about the kind of men out there. Some may assume the articles are part hyperbole, but still—too many defend crap like that. Seriously. But FDS saying that we should delete and block is "hate speech" to the very men who read sites like that... all of this really tells you something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:34 PM
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Guys are all bitching that women's "standards are too high." Standards too high? Oh yes, now women won't tolerate him leaving skidmarks on the sheets. Oh, the horror, will nobody think of the poor men?!!? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:31 PM
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This is a big reason why FDS exists. Too many women aren't aware that this shit is circulating out there and that a portion of men that they meet will seriously buy into this (or else laugh at it). I had an epiphany some years ago when I stumbled upon an online community with lots of these types of men. I knew that scrotes existed, obviously, but didn't know there were so many of them and that they were so open about their strotacity. Every woman needs to be cautious and aware and vet, vet, vet.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:27 PM
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I remember when I turned 25 I started to see things more clearly and I was constantly saying, "I'm fed up with this!" It took additional time to break free even more, but the brainwashing that I got as a young girl began to fade at age 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:15 PM
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Just ask Michelle Pfeiffer if she's useless and if life ended for her when she was 18. Scrotes want us to think we're useless but they'd feel lucky to breathe the same air (only from a distance) as Michelle Pfeiffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:09 PM
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Do I think they should be forced to sit on a couch and rot, no. But I also don't think they're doing society good by continuing to enforce their sexism, racism, and general prejudices on everyone under them. Thank you for your response. I agree with this quote above. I'd like to add that sexism, racism and prejudices come from all age groups (probably more from older people, granted) and that is the real issue, not necessarily the age of the worker. I'd rather work with a cool granny than a 25-y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:43 PM
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who are stuck grinding in a low/middle career role because Boomers will not GTFO and retire. I gotta say, I'm with you with a lot of this, but I don't like the sound of suggesting that people of a certain age must stop working to "make room" for younger people. When I am 70 I still intend to be working. (Not some boring office job, but something I love and have a passion for.) I still intend to earn money. But by this logic, I "should" stop earning money at that age because younger people "deser…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:18 PM
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I grew up in an environment where we always pursued our hobbies. My dad was our "enabler." He bought my mom a fabulous grand piano and I remember her practicing (it seemed for HOURS) Chopin or something. My dad loved it—he'd sit in the living room and just listen. He drove her to church choir practice every week and would encourage her, even when she would whine about how the choir director chose her for that solo out of pity. OH HELL NO my dad didn't allow her to whine and reminded her of how a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:31 AM
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Someone absolutely can share a picture they took of you. If it's of you nude, and in a private setting, you can sue them for "publication of private facts." https://www.dmlp.org/legal-guide/publication-private-facts I agree, you don't own copyright of someone else's photo just because you're in it. The takeaway here is, don't pose for photos without a model release outlining when the photo can and cannot be shared. If someone takes a photo of you unawares and then publishes it, they can be sued …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:02 PM
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The artist had my release, so he would have had to ask for the pictures to be taken down. And he SHOULD HAVE. Why didn't he? What is wrong with him?!? If it were me, I would have, and would have been outraged to find my artwork published without my consent. I agree that stuff can spread, quickly, and that it's better to not take the risk. And, that once a picture is out there, can be difficult to remove. But, scrotes will argue that since they have a copy of a photo, they "own" it, they'll even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:42 PM
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So very, very, VERY true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:52 AM
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It was seen by millions of people. Someone I knew spotted the picture. It's not legal and you could have gotten it removed. It might have been difficult (as these sites are often full of a-holes) but legally, you're within your rights. I'm an artist and I'm careful to always get the permission of the model, and I don't paint a lot of nudes (or if I do, the faces aren't usually recognizable). That's why artists and photographers want a "model release." It's a very important thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:02 AM
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If you took a photo, then the copyright is yours upon creation. It doesn't have to be registered. Even if you don't ever make money off of it (and nobody else does either) it doesn't give someone the right to use your photos without your consent. https://www.csusa.org/page/Basics If a person has an intimate photo taken without their consent and it's published or shared, they have a right to privacy and can have it removed from the public eye. Not sure how it would work in a court case about rape…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:01 AM
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100% LOVE LOVE LOVE this and yes it crossed my mind that it might be fake, but I don't care. It's setting a standard. This should be normalized. More more more of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:14 AM
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I tried to link to it but it didn't go through. I googled the title of this thread (put quotes around the exact title" and Google took me right to it. The OP was deleted but they still have a copy of it and all the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:06 AM
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I haven't read this book yet but this quote rings SO true. I've seen so many women who don't "allow" themselves any personal time. Everyone else comes before them. They feel guilty ever doing something for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:47 PM
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I dare you to walk in an art school/ college .... is full of very talented ladies that actually surpass the middle ground- level wise. I believe you! I've seen it. One thing that aggravates me is when the scrotes boast about mens' "historical" accomplishments, while if we look at TODAY, when women have more opportunities, things even out. And besides that, a scrote who brags about Mozart and DaVinci isn't remotely as accomplished as Mozart or DaVinci himself. In fact, his scrotey boasts are like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:57 PM
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Many of the great female artists throughout history are unknown by the general public True! And the scrotes have the audacity to push this narrative that all the great talents in history were men. No, not exactly. There have been women, but they remain unknown or we don't even know what "might have been" because they were never given the opportunities. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2017/12/26/florence-theyre-bringing-works-women-artists-out-basement/981190001/ For ages, the paintings…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:06 AM
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I personally agree that NOBODY (men or women) should be having casual sex, but that's my opinion. I don't believe that FDS encourages casual sex, and I was never into it (was raised sheltered and religious) but society pressures many women (and men) into casual sex and makes them feel like they are "abnormal" if they don't engage in it. That's a lot of pressure and a lot of "normalization" from society. One of the reasons why I like FDS so much is that it doesn't push casual sex and explains all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:42 AM
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Meanwhile if a woman does the same she loses her value and her reputation tarnished. And she's judged and devalued by the same guys who "sowed their wild oats." Because that's different. /s What we need is to absolutely SHUT DOWN any guy who "sowed his wild oats" but has even a tiny speck of judgmentalism towards women who have done the same as he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:35 AM
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If you had low standards for others, because you were young and stupid and accepted crap because you didn't know anything better, somehow that means you should keep your standards at their lowest and accept the same bare minimum all of your life. Scrote logic, I know. THIS, and it bothers me so much. The audacity. The hypocrisy! For any scrotes lurking (and I KNOW you are), I am from a religious background, very sheltered, so I'm not speaking from personal experience here. I'm not butthurt for m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:32 AM
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I have modest requirements. The middle of the middle class income for whatever city. The lower ends of middle class might be an issue if there is debt, but it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:01 AM
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Question: what would be your ideal income for a potential partner? I thought I answered this already. But here goes again: Every woman is going to have different requirements. It will depend on the cost of living in the area, what she earns, what her lifestyle has been, and what her interests are. Some women would consider a modest life in a cabin by the lake to be ideal. Other women would recoil at the thought and would want an expensive condo in a large city. If that's the life she's had all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:55 AM
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Yup and i think the same of women who use FDS. We're on the same page, then. They don't want to waste time with you, and you don't want to waste time with them. We can all happily avoid each other. That's how it's supposed to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 11:58 PM
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Lol imagine if all girls went by the fds It'd be great! :D nah not for me lol You've weeded yourself out and nobody is wasting their time. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 11:16 PM
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Again it's not about sex at all, It apparently is for many men, because it's almost always one of the first things they complain and criticize. "I'm paying AND there is no sex?!?!" Yes, the "waiting for sex" thing is a tremendous bone of contention. it's the fact that the guy is expected to pay and plan for everything between the two during the "courting" period, while also talking to other men. You forget the part where he can also be talking to other women. If she is only talking to men and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 11:10 PM
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I've never said once i wanted to date a FDS I said what i think the problem with that sub is and that's it, you don't have to agree at all it's my opinion. I think you have revealed, inadvertently perhaps, an important reason why women have this "rule." You said "for a girl I don't even know" but you still sound rather indignant that she'd make a guy wait for sex? Even though he doesn't even know her? The takeaway I get from this is that women cannot win. If she has sex with every guy she goes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:59 PM
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If you are in a relationship and ain't intimacy for a substantial amount of time During the "courtship" phase, before there is a commitment, there should be no sex. The men only there to get some no-strings sex will leave on their own, which is the plan. When enough time has passed and a commitment has been made, then sex can begin. I don't think FDS insists that a man always pays even when there is a long-standing relationship with intimacy. Or at least I've seen discussions where there is far …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:45 PM
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No we do know. It's on another thread in this sub but a majority were subscribed to subreddits such as the ones I mentioned. I saw it. 36% or something? That's not a majority. Again you're bringing up marriages only with the 5% stat, I'm STATING all relationships. Whether marriage, gf, long term, short term etc. I think the marriage stats give us a valuable insight into how relationships as a whole shake out. And, if a man wants to have children (as we discussed before) he's probably going to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:28 PM
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I just told you that the sub that most FDS users frequent are to subs for women over 30, Yes, 36% for one sub, about 31% for the other. Likely many women belong to both subs. That doesn't prove that a majority of women are over 30. Maybe 40%? Maybe more, but that still leaves a large percentage—even if a minority—who we just don't know. I doubt the ladies who run FDS know the age rundown, so I don't see how you can either. 100 Dollars for a date equates to 900$ on a girl you don't know If in thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:14 PM
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Statistically most women on FDS are 30 or older. I don't know the percentages and you don't either. At least 30-40% Yes. Most? None of us know. I doubt it. Unattractive in the sense she can improve her looks sure but baseline she's unattractive. You haven't seen the makeover videos, I take it. A woman can do a lot to improve her looks, get in shape, wear flattering clothes and hair, and then makeup is just amazing. It's rare for a woman to be "unattractive" after a good makeover. A few maybe? Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:00 PM
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This shit is written in the sidebar guidelines, I am not making up things for as much crazy as they sound. You sound indignant and outraged at the thought of a girl "making you wait" for more than a month. And then she expects you to pay too? Crazy talk! The system works perfectly. It weeds out men who feel this way. Exactly the plan. Any man who feels entitled to sex within a few weeks and is begrudging paying for a date when he's not even having sex is exactly the type of man that FDS women ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:39 PM
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Obviously not all women are going to be 30+ but it's safe to say the majority. Not so sure about that either. Could be 40% for all you know. Could be higher. Either way, it's not all of the women and very likely a sizable portion are younger. Neither of us knows the true number. Thinking that they are not having sex within the 3 months that you are "courting" them is Naive. You're mistaking men for women, I think. Many women (especially if they follow FDS) are not desperate to have sex with anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:15 PM
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if you seek a realtionship sex and intimacy go with the pack. Sure it does, but not too soon. "Too soon" means that he's just looking to get laid and is not interested in anything long term. She's wise to weed such men out of her life and not waste her time. When a woman values a man, it really matters. He loses value immediately if he seriously expects her to have sex before she is ready. Before she knows him well. Before she feels safe. Many men appear to be high value but it's only a facade a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:13 PM
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People will do or excuse a lot for money. I'd say that most of us won't tolerate bad behavior or bad values for the sake of money. Our goal is to be financially independent so we can be with someone who genuinely cares for us. Having more money but having a husband who is emotionally distant, selfish, not a good father, is not a good deal. FDS ranges higher in age so honestly they don't have the same opportunities to "gold dig" even if they wanted to. I don't know the age range of all FDS member…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:03 PM
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Meaning they are still going out with other guys. That does not mean having sex with the other guys. Sex should equal commitment, and she wouldn't be dating more than one guy if she's already having sex (which means commitment) from one of them. It's not unheard of to go on different dates (meaning spending time, having dinner, but not having sex) with different people for a while. Men are free to do the same and I believe do. They can date other women at the same time if they want since there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:47 PM
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There'll be always another girl who will sleep with him sooner than you, Good riddance, then. It just shows he only was looking for sex and nothing more. The strategy of restraining sex may work for thirsty men, not for high value ones. Not every woman is so desperate to pair up with any man that she'll sleep with him sooner than makes her comfortable and/or safe, and sooner than what she feels is morally right. He will not be viewed as "high value" if that's what he expects. He will be no great…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:54 PM
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But you're neglecting the fact that man work in higher paying fields then men. That is true to some extent, but much of the wage gap is directly connected to child care. If a woman has no children and is in a good-paying job, she may not make as much as some men, but she won't be broke or poor. She won't have to marry Mr Moneybags and FDS thinks she shouldn't if he's really old, or is in some other way lower-value. She can buy her own stuff. Contrary to what many people claim, FDS is not for gol…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:12 AM
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Financial stability is tough because statically most people are poor. But regardless of that fact men on average make more then women. Yes, and a lot of the reason for that is because women are spending more time taking care of children, take time off of work (sometimes years) to take care of children, and if they work, take lower-paying jobs that allow more flexible schedules. Men don't do that as much, so that's part of the reason why men make more. They have a mom taking care of their childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:06 AM
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What would you categorize as the worst of trp vs the worst of FDS if I may ask? I don't lurk TRP sub here, but I've seen comments about how women are more like "children" and that the man can't view her as an equal, how he views her more like a "pet." There are some very ugly things out there. Complaining about women having the right to vote, some edge cases even complain that women are allowed to get a college education. (Some of this I saw on RP blogs or some RP-adjacent forum.) Women are gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 07:27 AM
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I don't agree with each and every comment. Most of us don't agree with each and every tidbit uttered there. Age gaps are concerning, but "pedophile" has a specific meaning. The "worst" of FDS, however, cannot compete with the worst of TRP, that's for sure. I mean honest question but how can any 30+ woman ever match up with a hvm when his assets and status can only grow whereas her looks and youth can only diminish? The question I have (and you've seen it on FDS if you've looked) is why does a 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:57 AM
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but that same girl you were doing the most for was getting fucked by other guys every day. Some FDS women may be more into casual sex, but the standard advice there is to not be sleeping with a guy without commitment. There are multiple comments discussing the risks of catching STDs and getting pregnant with the wrong guy. FDS actively steers women away from casual, no-string sex because of all the risks inherent in being female. She needs to be very protective of her safety and health. Casual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:50 AM
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I always thought it was a given that the FDS women need to work on themselves. We talk there about how we're still struggling with areas of self-improvement, and how we're taking a break from dating to improve ourselves. There's even a companion sub for "leveling up." I always assumed that it was obvious that an FDS woman isn't going to demand someone very high quality without being able "match" him with her own good qualities, in looks, fitness, and accomplishments. Women are constantly bombard…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:37 AM
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So very true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:51 PM
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Not even the worst of men argue this anymore! I've seen it many times. I know of one manospheresque community where they'll have regular bitchfests about women being allowed to vote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:07 PM
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There are so many "flavors" of Christianity, there's no way that one can make a blanket statement about all of them that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:59 AM
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You know something is very wrong when so many women openly state that the men there only view them as slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:19 PM
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They commit the overwhelming majority of violent crimes in the world. The majority of women have experienced some sort of abuse, rape or harassment at the hands of males. They are the perpetrators of awful things such as sex trafficking and rape porn. Yes, some women have been so traumatized and are simply tired and AFRAID. I don't hate men, but like every other woman on earth, I know well enough to be cautious around one that I don't know—and even to be careful around someone I don't know well.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:03 PM
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So true. It's about what she does for HIM. Never about who SHE is as an individual. Just how "submissive" she is and how she gives, gives, gives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:51 PM
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True. "They are all like that." We are all clones, all whores, have no brains, are all gold-diggers. Even when we're obviously not, we are. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:44 PM
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It's not LOVE if you're crying all the time and miserable. Or it's not ENOUGH. If a woman is making a man miserable, all the other guys would urge him to leave her. "But I love her" wouldn't be a good enough reason to stay. But if he's making HER miserable? Bitches can't be faithful, what about LOVE? Good grief. They just don't get what we're saying here. Again and again, I see obvious points being made go completely over their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:20 PM
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Tell broke men to keep their dicks in their pants and focus on working on themselves instead of pursuing sex. And helping create babies that they are unable to support. I'm not even talking about 100% support—these men can't afford 50% of the expenses of raising a kid. They need to keep it in their pants until they can afford at least 50%. That's the minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:38 AM
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Those same people will turn around and blame the mother for being a single mother if they pick a poor partner. Exactly. He leaves or they split up, and who has any money to support the kid they BOTH had? Certainly not him, because he's broke. Who wants that? How on earth is it appropriate to pressure a woman to pick a guy who will be too poor to support his own offspring? Assuming she has a job too, she's going to have to adapt her work schedule to take care of the kid or pay for daycare. Why ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:34 AM
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This is a misogynistic site but even they are like “men pay for date”. My thoughts too! (I didn't know what kind of site it was when I linked to it.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:43 AM
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The bible also commands men to love their wives and treat them with respect. Yes. It's definitely not a one-way street. A husband has to do a lot for his wife and family. It's not all about her "serving" him as he sits there being useless and a taker. The New Testament puts constraints on men's sexuality too—the Apostle Paul was quite pointed about it. Christian men don't get a free pass to be scrotes or fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:12 AM
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The man always pays, especially during the first stages of courtship in dating. Yes. That seems to be the consensus. Also, even if you're just inviting someone to dinner (a friend or whatever) if you don't want to pay, you need to TELL them up front. That's what Miss Manners says. You can't "invite" someone but not pay. If you don't want to pay, it's more like, "Hey, I'm going to this restaurant, want to tag along?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:28 AM
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Thanks for the heads-up! I'm glad I deleted the link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:26 AM
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Calling himself a "prophet" is a HUUUUUUGE red flag. I'm Christian and take my faith seriously. Someone stating this in a DATING profile is off-the-charts scary to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:08 AM
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They're not interested in learning about her as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:05 AM
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(I don't know anything about this website other than what is said on this page.) I took the link away because I have no idea about this site but the URL is on the graphic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:01 AM
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Oh wow, that has happened FAST!!! Congratulations, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:48 PM
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This is the truest thing. If he's not proud of what you do, interested in what you do, and encouraging you in what you do, he's not for you. I saw my parents live this out (my dad was very supportive of my mom, and she with him). They set a high standard but really, it's sad that it's considered a "high" standard. Growing up, I thought this was normal. Sad that it's not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:22 PM
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Men are pathetic addicts and create that situation themselves by being both easy and shameless. It's amazing how they blame women for their shamelessness and blame women because men are so sex addicted that they'll relentlessly chase women. But the woman is "bad" if she has casual sex? Look in the mirror, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:20 PM
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That's what I saw too. A bunch of attractive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:28 PM
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In the aforementioned thread, some women preferred average (or the smaller side) because of the way their vagina was configured or whatever. I'm sure these ladies weren't lying. They have no reason to here on FDS. There is no "one size fits ALL" and there is no one universally-agreed-upon "best" when it comes to sex. None of us speak for all of us, at least not on something as so personal as sex. The scrotes are being infantile babies in having a shit hemorrhage over that other thread, and part …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:58 PM
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If I recall, you tried to explain to them that basically, "There's a lid for every pot" because many of the ladies responded that for their own physical reasons (a shallow vagina, etc) they preferred average or small penises. And that is the truth. Every woman has different preferences. One size does not fit all, literally. But still, the scrotes had a meltdown. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:57 PM
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Growing up, almost all my friends had divorced, disinterested fathers or crap fathers. I can remember at least three friends whose dads cheated. I had the only decent dad who was always there for family and my friends LOVED him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:31 AM
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They want us "under control" and they want us to "submit." ALL women need to "submit" and know their "place." They openly talk about this in some of the manosphere subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:24 AM
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The actual clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHW1GS8ZxS8&ab_channel=DCTVclips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:30 PM
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I love that show and I love Julia!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:23 PM
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Can I have the link too, please! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:42 PM
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More recent studies have actually shown there’s no real difference, and if anything women are more visual than men. I looked for an article on this; I was intrigued! https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/men-not-more-visual-or-easily-aroused-than-women-research-shows An important quote: "If you still feel like in your bones that the above myth is true, you're probably talking more about nurture than nature: We, as a society, have, of course, artificially created and enforced social norms that d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:23 AM
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I think testosterone gives them an edge on horniness on average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:06 AM
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I'm not in favor of polygamy or polyamory, and FDS certainly isn't advocating polygamy or non-monogamy. The thing that most of us talk about is holding out for a good guy, a HVM, or if we end up single because the only options we see are low-value scrotes? Single life it is! The scrotes and incels want to force us to settle for low-value men who put in little effort and will abuse us. In the "old days" before women could support themselves, vote, or own property, we could be "forced" to settle f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:02 PM
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I am even more confused about Christianity because lots of christians are huuuuuge hypocrites, and had a "side chick/mistress" culture for many centuries so IDK about that "analysis"(if I can even call that analysis lol) of his. Christianity has so many "flavors" and variations that it's easy to get confused. Many Christians are like, "Yeah, I know the Bible says that but I'm just ignoring that part." The Bible clearly only supports monogamy. Some scrotes try to argue that men having harems are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:41 PM
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You can't be called a prostitute if you don't have sex with them Exactly! If the option of sex was NEVER on the table for you, then what is the problem? Either he pays for the date or he doesn't. He's still not getting sex either way. And we all know that if sex happens soon, he hates the woman and will never take her seriously (because of course, it's only HER that is "bad" for having sex after a few dates, never him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:20 PM
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May god bless them My thoughts too! How lovely is this?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:01 AM
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I came here to say that. It's so beautiful. I love this sub for these kinds of posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:00 AM
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I hadn't heard about this. I Googled it. He is one of my favorite celebs too. I'm not going to search for this picture. It would make me feel dirty. I like him just as he is, I don't need to see more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:58 AM
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but it turned out his father told him to always tell girlfriends that so they would be too insecure to leave and always smell good. That it was a thing that was passed down from father to son tells you that it happens a lot more than we think it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:49 AM
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I have never thought that a higher percentage of men are brave. Bravery comes in different forms. It can be physically protecting someone, it can be speaking up when you know everything is on the line, it can be not giving up...it can be many things. Some people are just cowards. Some are not. To assume a man will be brave because he is a man is foolish. His willingness to stand up and protect has to be gauged before commitment. You should never assume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:45 AM
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when we've had to deal with subs that literally ADVOCATE RAPING US or putting us in sexual slavery or even taking away our right to fucking vote. I know, I know! This sub is the antidote to those subs that gripe because we are allowed to vote and can refuse to have sex when we feel like it. It's such a breath of fresh air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:03 AM
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I agree. He should have never gotten married and never fathered children if he's going to have that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:05 AM
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Agreed. Air-tight prenup. The only way it would work. I do think being a stay-at-home mom is an important job. But that's it, it's a JOB. I changed my mind about women opting to be stay-at-moms after witnessing the way so many scrotes minimize stay-at-home parents, say how "easy" it is and how the moms are lucky that she gets a roof over her head and food and that's all she's "owed" for all she does. "I didn't make her decide to stay at home! If she loses out because of a divorce, that's not my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:01 AM
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Not fucking a man is basically the same as killing a woman. Basically. Because he can't divorce her or leave her. Literally, his only choice was to kill her. /s This is one of the main reasons why scrotes hate FDS so much. We talk about how we don't owe them sex, that we will be more selective, we are advising refusing to have sex after a few dates. We're plotting to kill them through refusing to give them the sex they need to breathe and exist! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:16 AM
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:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:13 AM
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"omg most guys unmatched you because you lied to them and they actually want a real relationship " I know, I know! Oh, I am SO SURE that the guy talking about his pullout game or the guy offering orgasms was ONLY wanting a long-lasting, real relationship. Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:15 PM
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I've dated guys who'd be wIlLInG tO sUpPoRt me if I gave up my entire fucking career!?!??!? But then they don't support you. If there's a divorce you're far, far more likely to be worse off financially than if you never stayed at home in the first place. I think staying at home to take care of kids is a very important job, but because so many scrotes devalue it, and because women end up earning less and ending up financially in the hole because of it, it's not worth it. Men want to bitch that wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:04 PM
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I know the guy is Eugenio Derbez, who can be very funny. I'd like to see this film too. Will have to scour his IMDB and see which film matches. Edit: "How to be a Latin Lover" (2017)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:56 PM
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When I think about it, you're right... they weren't "the good old days" at all. But I like to think that grandpa who wrote long love letters to grandma (and they were sweet, kind, thoughtful letters) was a high-value man who probably loved her and stuck with her. I like to think that this was what that man was thinking when he wrote that tweet. High-value men existed back then. Back then men could put in a lot less effort if they wanted to and still get and keep a wife. They relied on the fact t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:20 AM
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So very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:09 AM
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Plus if I don't want to be used myself why am I gonna use someone else? I agree. We're here to AVOID low-value men who use us. The answer is to block, delete, avoid at all costs. Don't allow yourself to be used. I can understand a woman who looks back and realizes that she was used but "at least I got something out of it" (material goods) but it's not something that we advocate here. Leave, escape, get out. Don't stick around, get used, and settle for designer goods in your closet. That's not wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:58 PM
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The sad truth is you can be the most interesting and unique woman in the world, they will never care. So true. They don't care. But they bitch about women making money off of her looks and accuse beautiful women of being "shallow." But how would they know what her personality is like? They never ask, they never listen, they do not care about her personality. They only bitch about her to neg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:50 PM
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I really would prefer a partner who loved me for who I am and not what I look like. But so many don't. They don't care what you are like inside, they aren't interested in your goals or dreams or hobbies. Naturally, they will bitch among themselves about how "boring" women are (claiming that we don't have hobbies or anything interesting to talk about) but as we see from your post, THEY DON'T ASK, THEY DON'T CARE, IT'S NOT IMPORTANT TO THEM. To these men, a woman's looks are what determine whether…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:44 PM
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Because it's not the incels, it's not againstmalehatesubs, it's not MGTOW, it's most definitely NOT PUA. That is so true! They should be vetting women with whom they hope to have a committed, healthy relationship. That's what high value men would do. But the manosphere groups are looking to find a "submissive" woman or one who can be manipulated into giving more and expecting less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:08 PM
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Yeah, it does happen. It does, and it makes me sick when it does. Some poor guy rotted in jail for several years and missed an opportunity for a football career because some lying woman falsely accused him. (For the money. I think she won some lawsuit from a school district by claiming she wasn't protected from the rape. But it was all a scam.) We need to call these women out. Yes, there are many LVW doing all sorts of shit. There's no excuse for it. The thing is, the percentage of times that fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:05 PM
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You owe them nothing, not sex, therapy, or safety. You'll just end up sad and used by the users. Avoid that as much as possible. I can't fault a woman who is being used in expecting some sort of compensation for that, though. (But it's always better to avoid being used!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:44 PM
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I still think that much older men who marry much younger and very low income women and then have them be their trophe wife, had it coming though. Yeah, I just can't muster up a whole lot of sympathy for them. If she is using him for his money and cheats on him? Yes, she's low value. I refuse to defend her behavior. But if he picked her because he thought she'd be malleable, "submissive" and would put up with his B.S., then I can't feel too sorry for him. Sorry that you tried to play her but got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:34 PM
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Because they're all about high volume traffic and the lowest possible effort and commitment Yes, that's what I suspect too. He is in a rush for a date because he wants to get some sooner rather than later. But paying for dinner? Why bother? He's not in it for the long haul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:57 AM
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This is a good point. If she's young and hot but has LVW tendencies, then he should vet her, just like we are saying we need to vet all men. The problem is (and this is one of the reasons I have less sympathy for them) is that they are so blinded by "She's hot! She has sex with me!" that they think no further. Or another old standby that they love, "She's submissive." Yes, she might be submissive when she's young, naive, and green as grass, but she won't stay that way forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:09 AM
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Some links: https://www.legalzoom.com/articles/men-v-women-who-does-better-in-a-divorce https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/04/the-divorce-gap/480333/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/ Women typically do not make out as bandits during a divorce. This is a myth. Sure, I'm sure some men are treated unfairly by the courts, but it's not the norm. As a bonus, behold this interesting example of a woman almost losing her house to a manipulative man: https://www.reddit.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:56 AM
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They don’t need to be coddled and we don’t need to explain a damn thing to them. They are plugging their ears and going, "LA LA LA I DON'T HEAR YOU!" while droning on about how women cheat and are all sl*ts. And that b*tch Melinda wouldn't date me but dated a taller guy instead, therefore all women are evil. If that's where their mind is, the LAST thing they'll do is let any of this sink in. But to other "onlookers"? Maybe some of them will get it. One can hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:07 AM
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I absolutely LOVE men! I’m lucky to have wonderful men in my family and was surrounded with (mostly) good examples growing up. This, all of this. I have many good examples of wonderful men in my life too. I believe humans are capable of changing and improving, and as such I want a man that can see that and apply those principles to his life as well. Agree with all of this too! I've seen enough (and witnessed enough online) to understand that a deep sense of entitlement exists in some men that is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:33 AM
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What about people who come from bad families but work on themselves and become good? I agree. There are plenty of people from "bad" families that turn out great. And I agree, some people are wired differently and there's only so much that can be done about that. I'd say that the odds are higher that someone from a good upbringing will turn out better than someone brought up in a household that teaches them horrible values. In general. All other things being equal, in other words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:43 AM
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If a young boy is raised to value those traits, he’ll be fine. The thing is that most boys aren’t raised to value those traits. I agree. I know some men from good families. Their parents raised all their kids right. And the guys are now good, high-value men because of that. It's not ingrained in men's DNA to be selfish or scrotesque. They can be raised to be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:46 AM
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The same guy will beat you into a coma for cheating on him. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:58 PM
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More importantly, when they compare a girlfriend to a sex doll, they’re accidentally admitting that they don’t even see us as human beings in the first place. This 1000 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:52 PM
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Here's a good analysis of the film: https://film.avclub.com/gentlemen-prefer-blondes-is-bubbly-and-smart-just-like-1835919873 The last paragraph: There’s a sort of loosely accepted myth that cultural progress is linear—that of course a movie made in 1953 would be more sexist than a movie made today. Yet once you lock into the satirical tone beneath its surface-level pleasures, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes refutes that idea in nearly every scene. It’s both an old-fashioned romp and a shockingly progr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:55 PM
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You can even do that as a blue collar worker. But we don’t even look at layabouts and NEET losers because we don’t want a leech. All this. What we want is someone who isn't going to be derogatory to our finances. We don't have to support him or get into debt because of him. He can be blue-collar and avoid all of that. He doesn't have to be super successful—just not a drain. I'd rather have a guy who worked hard, did his share, but didn't live for work (so he would be there for his family). Such …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:52 PM
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"the uglier the guy the uglier the attitude" https://www.spectator.com.au/2015/08/the-uglier-the-man-the-uglier-the-attitude/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:40 AM
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Yes, the manosphere community will sometimes post memes about the wrongdoing, perversion, "badness" of women, but the problem with that is that they can NEVER compete with the "badness" of men. We can post examples of depravity ALL DAY and never have to repeat an example. There are so many. Can some women be awful? Absolutely. But when citing examples of violence and depravity, they can NEVER compete with the depths men will sink to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:11 AM
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That is a concern, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:42 PM
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These websites have no legal right to publish your photos: https://www.dmca.com/faq/How-can-I-get-my-nude-pictures-removed-from-a-website I don't think you necessarily have to pay for a service to take them down. Scrotes like to say, "she 'gave' them to me so I can do what I want!" Not true. Unless you signed a copyright release form, you can send photos to anyone but they don't "own" them. If they took the nude photos of you, they may own the copyright, but there are laws to protect models from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:58 PM
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They’re scared of having a daughter because of KARMA I heard a story about this once. Long story short, a young woman was date raped and it really scarred her. Her rapist was never held to account. (Not sure if she wasn't believed or if she even ever told anyone.) Years later she was walking down the street and saw her rapist with his wife and baby girl. It came to her (she believes God let her know) that this was his punishment—that he would always worry about his daughter because he KNEW how d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:00 PM
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Sadly I still feel grateful for his statement because the large majority of men are not even that close.... That's how I feel too. I'm grateful for the crumbs we are given. It's so much more than what we're used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:30 PM
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If Men want to continue to be immature, then they are going to end up alone The thing is, that they are always saying that if we don't settle, we'll end up alone. As if that's a fate worth than death. Better to settle for someone who will make us miserable than be alone? Seriously? So many women on here have said that they realize being alone is a perfectly find and happy choice. They're not desperate to "settle" for someone who will cheat, lie, or just be apathetic and a drain when they can be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:55 AM
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Men might reject women (for relationship, even if they have sex with her) because of shallow qualities like appearance or any other stuff they might find significant for them and guess what? We don't care and understand, it's their choice and right too. Everyone, men or women have the right of choosing what's better for them. If Yes, I agree. Men have a right to reject women for any reason they like, and more power to them. If they choose a sex doll instead, no problem! They don't owe women a re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:51 AM
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Wanting to "prove them wrong" by physically being conventionally attractive is a pipedream, and it's pickme shit. They delude themselves into thinking that only women they consider unattractive feel the way we do here on FDS. They try to tell themselves that hot, young "fuckable" women are still ready for the picking and who cares what FDS says, they're all invisible and ugly anyway. But they know it's not true. They are scared because they see videos with absolutely "fuckable" women saying the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:44 AM
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How dare she not agree to a coffee date where we go Dutch when SHE’S ONLY A FIVE!” Yes, I've seen multiple examples of that kind of outrage. "She's a single mom, she HAS to put out!" "She's overweight, she CAN'T refuse me!" Their scrote law dictates when women can and cannot refuse them. What I find so amusing is that they are always complaining about the "ugly, fat cat ladies" on FDS but when we talk about being selective or we say that a certain behavior from a man is an instant no, then there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:40 AM
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Excellent list! I learned from my parents and other family members: Nobody is supposed to be cheating, men being promiscuous is not a badge of honor, the father is supposed to stick around and do father stuff, if a guy pressures you for sex before commitment don't fall for it—he doesn't care for you, it's better to be alone than be stuck with an a-hole, and so forth. Seeing how my parents adored each other really helped. They both taught their "share"—my mom gave us a lot of FDS-adjacent wisdom,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:26 AM
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One of the things I thought when I saw this was that the scrotes are gonna have to scramble to figure out why a young, beautiful woman like this would say such things. Aren't such thoughts only for faded, bitter old cat ladies? /s She's gorgeous and she could have any man she wanted. But she wants THIS instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:47 AM
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Wow, how depressing those statistics are. Way, way too many men are ruled by their penis (and in perverted ways), that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:39 PM
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IMO, The reality is that approx 90% of men are total LVM/NVM. I honestly don't know the percentage. In my experience, it's much less than 90%, but I live a cloistered, hermit-like life (I work at home). I pick and choose which men I socialize with and they are mostly very nice church men (who probably are mostly HVM, but only their wives know for sure) and a few other work associates who seem pretty decent. I'm not arguing that other women have different experiences or saying that those experien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:17 AM
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Scrotes are men who are shit. If women calling shit men a name hurts your feelings, it's because you're shit. Exactly! If you call women "gashes" or "holes" or other such terms, you're probably a scrote. Deal with it. If you're a high-value man, then you're not a scrote and there's no need to be butthurt. If you're butthurt, explore the reasons why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:10 AM
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Sorry if it came across like I was pointing something out in your direction. No apologies necessary! I know exactly what you're talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:11 AM
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I know. I'm just saving them the trouble of saying it. (We know it's not all men, because we also talk about HVM!) Except when THEY say "all women" they mean all women. "Because that's different." LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:17 PM
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Not all men are this but all men are threats. Yes. The POTENTIAL is there. We don't know which ones will be dangerous and which are harmless. So we have to be on our guard all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:43 PM
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That was not the ending I was expecting! Dark humor to be sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:41 PM
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This. No, of course, it isn't "all men" (just getting that in there) but enough men that it's a worry and a problem. We have to be on our guard far more around men than with women. And if we aren't and something bad happens to us? "You should have known better!" "What were you thinking?" "What did you do?" And if we're on our guard, some butthurt man is like, "You're treating me like I'm a potential rapist when I haven't even done anything! It's not fair!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:38 PM
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It says a lot that he assumes sex is even on the table on the first date. So true. These men get MAD if she has sex on the first date. I mean, they'll accept the sex, but then they don't respect her. So, she shouldn't be having sex on the first date no matter what. He hates her for it. So why does she need to pay 50% for a date where there SHOULD never be sex in the first place? Oh, right. He actually does assume there should be sex. So he can hate her for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:14 PM
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I don’t entirely disagree with that, but I don’t ask men out, therefor I don’t pay. This. And that side-steps the whole "50-50" thing since the "asker-outer" pays. Why invite someone and then expect them to pay half? If he does the asking, he pays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:57 PM
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but that word is considered a slur and we shouldn't use it This. We need to be careful. I understand the frustration very well, but please, let's be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:30 AM
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I'm so sorry you have endured all of that! And so glad you're getting rid of him! You KNOW some scrote is reading your comment and saying to himself, "That didn't happen." You must have "done" something else. You're lying about something. Because that couldn't happen. Or if it did happen, it's really rare, because men don't do what your husband did that often—it's mainly because SHE did something to "deserve" it. Maybe an individual man reading your post wouldn't do what your husband did, but en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:14 AM
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Apparently we only want to be with rich handsome men and I’m like, isn’t that common sense? Because they themselves only want to be with impoverished unattractive women. Right? Right? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:18 PM
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I'd read their stories, full of vitriol and hate, many featuring an ex-wife who finally realized her worth and left, and saw this reoccurring theme of them smearing the entire female sex. I read one where a guy went on ONE date with a girl. Asked her for another date, she politely avoided and declined. Then he sees her later on a date with another guy. And he WHINES about how "all women are like that"! What in the hell. You weren't dating her, dude. It was ONE date and she refused to go on anoth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:46 PM
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I have a friend (like a brother to me) who doesn't date—he's very poor at the moment and is focusing on catching up with all his debts. The thing is, he's truly a decent person and women LOVE him. They chase after him. He says that other guys can't figure it out and are pissed sometimes. He explained to me that it's because he genuinely likes women. (He has a lot of sisters. And his whole family is high quality.) Women can sense when a guy likes them as a fellow human being. He's not after getti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ikc4cp/time_to_begin_crossposting/ I read the comment there claiming that we say "ALL men are trash." We don't. WE DON'T. Scrotes are gonna scrote, but seriously, is a high-value man a scrote? Are the many men we praise here "scrotes"? Are the husbands and boyfriends women praise here "trash"? Obviously not. The mantra at some of these manosphere subs is that ALL women are like that—yes, even your sainted grandma is like that. It's women's "nature" to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:28 PM
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And what some of them don't understand and some of us are in relationships with HVM so no we are not " men haters" I like to think of as more of haters of shit men. This. No, "not all men are like that." That's a catchphrase (all women are like that) on a lot of the manosphere. Not here. No, only LOW-value men are like that. If you aren't low-value, then you're not a scrote and we're not talking about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:44 PM
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If they were truly HVM who "aren't like that" they wouldn't be bother nor would even have the time to hate on women subs as they'd have a life that it's too busy and fulfilling for that. Exactly. HVM are too busy living life and enjoying everyone as people (fellow human beings) to be here trying to police what women who have been hurt say about low value men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:36 PM
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It only looks bad when viewed using the double standard. EXACTLY. It "looks" bad when the assumption is that it's "bad" to say "XXX are trash" while simultaneously IGNORING how far more vile things are said elsewhere and nobody blinks an eye. We're being held to a standard that the people criticizing us don't hold for themselves or anyone else. Women on this sub are not happily discussing how they masturbate to the sight of men in pain. Women on this sub are not trading tips for how to coerce me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:33 PM
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If they can use "Karen" and the C word so fluidly, then FDS using "scrotes" is nothing. They say that "All women are like that" over and over again. We don't say "all men are like that" (hence such a thing as a high-value male) and scrotes is just for the manosphere douches. Scrotes are gonna scrote. The high value men are gonna high value. Women vent here, but there are so many of us who praise high value men (like the recent Chadwick Boseman thread), for their excellent character. There is no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:58 AM
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So true! I guess they think that is "manipulative." To cut him off and block him, to deny him the easy and commitment-free sex he is immediately entitled to for buying you a Big Mac, is "manipulating" him! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:12 AM
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It's very weird seeing people not understand something simple yet effective as FDS. Yeah, we have a lot of man-hating, but let's face it, the shit men do is ridiculous and well earned. There's a lot of crap men get away with that is ingrained in society as "boys will be boys." Yes, there is a lot of shit-talking about men. It's venting. I understand that. It "looks" bad if taken out of context, if everything else on FDS is ignored, but we know that the "venters" are letting out their frustration…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:27 AM
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Wow, the butthurt is strong in this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:42 PM
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The scrotes will talk about "divorce rape," and I am sure that sometimes that's a factor: "Cheaper to keep her" and all that. But that still begs the question: WHY does she want a divorce in the first place? Very often it's because he's slacked off and doesn't give a crap anymore but has no idea that she's unhappy (and has been unhappy for a LONG TIME) because he's not paying attention. The signs were all there, she told him, but he ignored her. Then she asks for a divorce and he's dumbfounded. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:28 AM
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Since we were 11 or 12 (or even, sadly, younger) men have been hounding us. I don't remember hounding boys when I was that age (or at any age!). It starts young. And we already know widowers are more likely to remarry than widows: http://connect.legacy.com/profiles/blogs/why-more-widowers-date-remarry-than-widows#:~:text=In%20a%201996%20Annals%20of,months%20after%20a%20spouse's%20death.&text=And%20the%20U.S.%20Bureau%20of,widows%20find%20a%20new%20mate. Many older widows also discover and enjoy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:25 AM
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I say normalize because in my culture and religion (Christian), divorce is very taboo. That's one of the problems I have. In my particular church, it is taboo, but it depends on the individual congregation. Some are more lenient than others. A married couple (from church) are both divorced because their first spouses cheated on them. Divorcing because of infidelity is acceptable in the Bible. But they still get crap from some church members because they are...divorced! Horror! I just don't think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:45 PM
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This is one of my favorite videos of him WOW! What an amazing gentleman! WOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:19 AM
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Good question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:25 AM
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Thankfully thanks to heightened awareness (and places like FDS) women are aware of what red flags to look for and who to avoid. At least we have a fighting chance to avoid the worst of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:08 AM
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Once you realise this you will be a lot more careful around males. Yes, and since by their logic we WILL submit because they will force us, it's in our best interests to be as invisible and unattractive to them as possible, right? And avoid them as much as possible, right? Knowing that they can physically "force" us, we should treat them like they are pariahs and keep far, far, away from them. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:07 PM
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I'm an old movie fan too and applaud everythingandlove's movie list and I also understand her explanation for why she enjoys some films even if they're not entirely comfortable or correct in today's society. I'll echo the same feelings: Some movies have elements that are not "there" in 2020, but I still enjoy them. One of my mom's favorite films of Marilyn Monroe is "Bus Stop" which is probably her best performance. Google it before deciding to watch it. (It's the ending that makes it, as far as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:25 PM
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I like both versions, but hold a special fondness for the 1995 version. However, you can't beat Audrey. Watch them both!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:14 PM
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Why are you lying about this? It's so easy to disprove this claim by looking on YouTube for a clip of the wedding scene at the end. She marries the son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:13 PM
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She doesn't marry the father. I posted a video of the wedding scene here. She marries the son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:12 PM
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She does not. I posted a video clip of the wedding scene. She marries the son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:11 PM
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Here's an interesting article about this film: https://film.avclub.com/gentlemen-prefer-blondes-is-bubbly-and-smart-just-like-1835919873 "There’s a sort of loosely accepted myth that cultural progress is linear—that of course a movie made in 1953 would be more sexist than a movie made today. Yet once you lock into the satirical tone beneath its surface-level pleasures, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes refutes that idea in nearly every scene. It’s both an old-fashioned romp and a shockingly progressive o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:10 PM
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No, she married the son: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=30&v=nXU3qFAAiM0&feature=emb_title
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:07 PM
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She didn't marry the father. Damn. https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=30&v=nXU3qFAAiM0&feature=emb_title
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:04 PM
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I was heartbroken when I heard. I remember seeing photos of him in the last year where it was obvious he had lost a lot of weight, but never thought this could be the cause, or that the end was so near for him. He seemed like a lovely person and was fantastic in "Black Panther." RIP and condolences to his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:00 PM
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I really worry that he was caught up in some pseudoscience and didn't take the diagnosis as seriously as he should have, like Steve Jobs. I read some article (an interview from a doctor, I think) that said that Steve Jobs still wouldn't have made it. I was surprised because I always assumed that it was his delaying conventional treatment that did him in, but according to this article, I guess not. Though that doesn't mean delaying conventional treatment is okay. I wouldn't take the chance, that'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:57 PM
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It burns them alive that woman always have this option available to them and they do not. AND, they assume because women have this option, that ALL of us are taking this option all the time and are promiscuous. And then they call us all sl*ts and wh*res even if we're virgins. We're all cheaters too. Even if we're virgins, they assume we're not. All because if they had the options we did, they'd be mansluts and cheaters, I guess? And so they project that on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:54 PM
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Don't feed into their bullshit and let them stay mad for not getting it lol This. Since you're NEVER going to win, no matter what you do (and especially if you give in to them), then it's best that you give them NOTHING. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Better that you don't, then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:51 PM
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This is why I love FDS: to eliminate redpillers and PUAs we simply don't have sex within 3 dates. It makes perfect sense. You weed out a lot of crazies and nutcases too. You make them wait and they're pissed because: 1) they want you to give it up much earlier even though they'll hate you if you do, and 2) if you hold out, they're pissed because they imagine (even if it's not true) that at some point in your life, you put out earlier than you are with them. And because they assume you put out ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:51 AM
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Oh yes. They do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify their lack of standards. Either both genders are held to the same standard or neither are. That's the only way, in my opinion, it makes any sense. Otherwise it's just a hypocritical double standard. How can something only be a "sin" for one gender, when both genders (in the context we're talking about) have to be involved in the activity in order for it to take place? No "lock and key" doublespeak can explain that away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:42 AM
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A man cannot simultaneously claim a woman is "tainted" because he slept with her and call himself clean. But they do it. Yes they do. I grew up religious, am still religious, and in my church, everyone was expected to stick to the same moral and sexual standards. It shocks me that some men actually think women are "tainted" by sleeping with them, while they, the men, are still perfectly good and fine. It sounds like insanity to me. It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:29 AM
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And you KNOW they'd be outraged if a virginal or low n-count girl rejected them for being mansluts. You KNOW it. They rely on women not knowing or caring. We're "supposed" to not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:23 AM
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Comment found on the manosphere (to this same tweet): Why does a woman expect monetary compensation to fulfill her basic role as a mother? Where do we start? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:12 AM
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Wow, so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:56 PM
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It's funny how "treat me with basic respect" is equivalent to "eat shit" in their minds, eh? I guess the thought of treating a woman with respect is so abhorrent to them? It really says something, doesn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:53 PM
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none of this would be possible without voting! And they are soooooo bitter about that. I've seen plenty of (non-ironic, completely serious) manosphere discussions about how women should have never been allowed to vote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:52 PM
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I haven't seen all the things they say in various other subs, but have lurked a little. They are flat-out delusional and twist things around to fit their script. They hate it if women have experience but are angry if she refuses to put out. Us saying that we want to be treated like humans is actually us wanting men to be our "slaves" and so forth. Us having boundaries (like every person is entitled to have!) is just us cheating on them behind their back. "Why can't we all just get along?" Becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:50 PM
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It’s if I’ve been fresh,they assume I’m single (I am but they wouldn’t know that), and “don’t get any ideas little lady.” I've had that happen with men who I would NEVER NEVER be interested in. I want to say, "You flatter yourself if you think you have to worry about any interest from me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:36 PM
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Ofc they resort to doubling down on their misogyny after these well deserved rejections rather than looking at themselves They think we're wondering about their anger and believe it's because men are finally "waking up" to how eeeeeeevilllll women are. When in fact you and other ladies have spelled out why they are increasingly angry—and it's their own doing. But they'll never accept that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:57 AM
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W O W !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:24 PM
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Yes, that was an AITA thread, and she asked a lawyer friend about his prenup. The lawyer friend wasn't her lawyer and didn't give legal advice, but said no way. Then the lawyer friend somehow leaked the info and it got around to his family, friends, and at work. Everyone thought he was a first class douche and his reputation was in tatters. Oh, so sad, too bad. (The lawyer friend shouldn't have blabbed, though. But I don't feel sorry for the man.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:29 PM
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What stands out for me in his post is that he wants to "enjoy the company" of girls again. Like, view them as people? I think he's heading in the right direction, if he keeps on going in that direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:40 PM
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It's shocking and heartbreaking and infuriating all at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:35 PM
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I give him credit that he now understands that he misses just enjoying being in the company of girls again. That means he must want to view women as people. That's definitely a step in the right direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:33 PM
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WOW. I never liked the idea of porn but always thought it was just one of those things that I wasn't supposed to understand. I didn't think it was morally right, but I'm old fashioned, so whatever. This sub has opened my eyes. It's straight-up evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:29 PM
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Oh yes. Scrotes say stuff like, "Childcare is easy!" And, "I didn't make her decide to stay at home. I fed her and paid the bills when she was at home with the kids, so I owe her nothing if we divorce." Why is staying at home to take care of kids a thing, even, if it is so completely worthless? This scrote thinks it is, anyway. But if she wanted to work and have her kids in daycare, scrotes are bitching and saying it's not good for the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:08 PM
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I have no idea what the true percentage is, or if there is a way to definitively pinpoint who is "good" and who is "bad." I mean obviously, some people are crap and that verdict on them will be unanimous, but there are probably some that reside in a grey area. I love FDS but sometimes the venting about "All men are trash" bothers me (because I definitely don't believe that is true). But I'm not trying to police what women say there. I don't doubt that for these women, ALL men THEY encounter ARE …
/r/askFDS16/08/20 04:47 PM
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When someone is in a relationship where their partner is cheating, I don't understand the outrage if the cheated-on person starts cheating too. I HATE cheating, but when one person "starts" it, the relationship is changed, broken, and honestly, the first-cheater has no right to get upset when they get cheated on right back. What a double standard that a guy can cheat but once his SO does, he's the "victim." I'm casual friends with a lady with an adult married daughter. My friend was saying that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:36 AM
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LOL! Perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:21 AM
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YESSSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:19 PM
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I don't want to take away the safe space this is to do these things, or devalue it, I just want to make sure we keep our own integrity so other subs can't compare us to the men we ourselves hate. I feel exactly the same way. I think the best way to do that is to do what we're doing now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:13 PM
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I don't want to see this sub turn into non-stop ranting either, but it doesn't appear to be. There are enough of us coming from all different perspectives and experiences so we're not all having identical experiences. We have happily married women here telling stories about their HVM as examples of how it should be done, we have women who have had such abusive experiences that they're exhausted and have given up on men for a while (or forever). We cover all the bases here. I definitely don't wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:08 PM
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This sub is so hated in part because it appeals to EVERY woman, if she's honest with herself. It's sharing a universal truth. Healthy, well-balanced men understand this and don't have a problem with the basic tenets of this sub. Low-quality men who view women as sex vending machines and maids don't like this. This sub appeals to women of many political and religious backgrounds, (or no religious background), from all races, from all over the world. It cuts across racial, religious, political, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:34 PM
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I worry that this sort of behavior could become the female version of what women hate about how men treat us. It's not right, no matter who is doing it. I understand what you're saying here exactly. I'm not defending the "Men are worthless" statements here; they kind of make me uncomfortable too. They are part of a rant. Women need to vent. It's cathartic. I think if the "Big Picture" is seen, these rants mean to say, "Scrotes [LVM] are trash." There are enough posts here about High-Value Men, l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:17 PM
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I see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:17 PM
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WAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:19 PM
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People crave values, people crave something "real". So very true! They're starting to realize that's never going to happen for the vast majority of them, they look at their pathetic lives and instead of deciding to improve themselves, learn something, be better etc they decide to amp up their misogyny, become more extreme and cartoonish with their hatred and contempt for women. This is the Manosphere, RedPill, and MGTOW in a nutshell. (At least the majority of them.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:56 PM
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It’s good that we get so much hate from men. I would be weary if we didn’t. Weary and wary, yes! It's so tiring that they are hateful, but if FDS brings that out in them, we know we're onto something here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:49 PM
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Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:46 AM
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That's priceless! And true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:43 AM
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Many people will only do what is demanded of us, and if the expectations for us are low, we'll settle for that and do no more. We all know that and have seen that. LVM and NVM are evidence of that. There's the nature vs nurture thing going on. If someone is from a very strict (but loving) church, culture, whatever, and they are held to high standards, and they see good examples all around them, many more of them WILL step up to the plate and be better people. I know some very HVM, usually from m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:35 PM
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Women want someone who is at our own stage of life, emotionally and in maturity. We also have some shame. It's skeevy to lust after someone that much younger. Damn, they're like your kid's age? Who wants that? These men, I guess. Most of us wouldn't have a whole lot in common with someone 20 years younger than us. But who cares about that? Apparently these men don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:39 PM
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I cannot upvote this post enough. Nailed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:10 PM
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Bravo! Good for you! I dispute your claim that you're not smart. You are very articulate, as evidenced by your post here. You're smart. As far as your looks—do what you're already doing. Work on getting healthier, glow up because it feels good, and you will be attractive because that's how attractiveness works. "Attractive" covers a lot more than the incels and scrotes tell us it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:23 AM
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If they don’t think you’re desirable to fuck, you’re non existent to them. This. You are a woman who should only exist to be fuckable. By not being fuckable (or just as bad, being fuckable but refusing them), you have denied them something they are owed. You've robbed them of something and they are pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:52 PM
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Totally. I've seen so many examples of this kind of hatred and bullying. An acquaintance online is married to a larger woman (whom he adores) and he says he constantly gets crap for it from other men. Why would they care? But they do and they get very angry at the thought of any man paying attention to a woman who they (the scrotes) view as unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:05 PM
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Uhhhh... because that hasn't already happened. I know! I know! But if even just ONE woman is happy while not adhering to their beauty standards, it enrages them. So many get men pissed at the sight of a girl with short hair, who is a little bigger, or in some way not "fuckable" enough (according to these men). It's amusing. Ladies, by just living your best life with short hair (or whatever), you're enraging countless scrotes. You're not aware of it, but you are. Bathe in their tears, ladies, bat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:42 PM
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One theory I've heard is that if some men like big girls or girls that do not fit the incels' narrow idea of attractive, then more women will think it's okay to look like that too. Therefore, men owe it to all other men to shame and hate women who do not fit that narrow attractiveness standard so that all women will be pressured and shamed into fitting in and being "fuckable." Otherwise, mankind will have sad peepees from all the ugly women, and the world revolves around that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:40 PM
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"Lower your standards." This is what his whole rant is really all about. He's butthurt because women have higher standards that he can't meet. How transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:24 PM
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How dare a mother have pictures with her children! I’m trying to masturbate over here! Exactly!!! How DARE she!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:28 PM
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Now that I have time to digest this a little better: So he's actually grieved, butthurt, put out, indignant that she is "literally using her kids as a human shield"? And that's a problem? That's not right? He's complaining about that?!?!? DOES HE NOT THINK ABOUT WHAT HE'S WRITING THERE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:27 PM
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HOLY CRAP WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:23 PM
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There's a huge difference between glancing at pretty women in passing, and seeking out, subscribing to, favoriting and responding to hot Instagram models online. I think most women know that a guy may glance (hey we glance too) but staring, drooling, and making an effort to seek out hotties online are a completely different thing. Besides, the OP made it clear from the start that ogling Instagram models was not okay. He knew it was a dealbreaker from the start. He should have found someone who d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:31 PM
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I see it simply as this: if man cares about you, he'll want to treat you well (provide for you) and make a good impression. This. I think I also read here that if a guy is stingy about paying, it may be because he's got other women lined up and it's "too expensive" to pay for all of them. Since his objective is to get laid. Why pay for dinner for a bunch of women who might not put out. Let's face it, if a guy had a chance to date his long-time crush, he wouldn't be scrunching up his nose and exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:46 AM
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A normal place would be at a class, some social events hosted by friends, church, and so forth. Places where you would be naturally meeting and talking to people anyway. Occasionally I'll make a passing comment to a woman I don't know. Because I'm another woman, I know I'm not likely to be threatening, but I'm cautious about how I do it. Like if I need directions somewhere or I'm asking them if they're waiting in line, I might compliment her hair or something. But I don't linger and I don't try …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:57 AM
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I found the thread and it looks like she is going to talk to a lawyer and is DEFINITELY not going to let her gambling loser husband touch a cent of it. I'm so glad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:08 PM
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He's 33 years older than her? And he wears a t-shirt to his own wedding? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:47 PM
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Yeah. The risk of encountering an LVM at church is a very real possibility. (And I agree with you about the misogynistic thing: They might expect all women to take on a more 'traditional' role, which can mean a variety of things. Vet carefully.) I think in most churches, porn use would be a no-go. A lady who refused to date a guy who used porn would not be shamed—it would be the man who would be shamed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:59 PM
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I don't have to "justify" my hatred for porn. I used to think it was just "one of those things" but now I see that it is evil. On so many levels, evil and damaging. Damaging to the girls who are in porn, damaging to those who watch it. It is NOT okay. It is not just "women's insecurity" to not like it. I'm not "threatened" by it, I just happen to think it is evil and that men who indulge in it have something wrong with them. I don't hate them, I just think they need to stop watching porn. I don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:40 PM
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ALL OF THIS is true. On this point: hoping that homemaking and being the stereotypical "good woman" will inspire men to do better. The only way the "good woman" role will work is if men are 100% better FIRST. Sure, if women who are domestically inclined anyway could KNOW that a man would be totally supportive, faithful, loving, always putting her and the family first, then she could take the leap and be a stay-at-home mom and all that entails. But the men don't want to do what it takes. They wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:23 AM
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people subconsciously frame men as being bad by default We all expect so little from them. Anything that is not really bad is now "good" instead of just being the pathetic bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:40 PM
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It's all progress! Yes. I don't want to say anything to discourage these ladies from posting their progress. It IS progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:37 PM
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I will not let some depraved male take that away from me after everything else he stole. There's a special place in hell for people like that. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:09 PM
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I'm not sure whether to call myself a virgin or not. Being raped doesn't (can't) take your virginity away. Virginity must be given. I'm so, so sorry for what happened to you. What an evil person he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:08 PM
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I just mean for me, I’m super sensitive and the blue collar guys I’ve known have felt it’s a huge burden to not make lewd jokes to me. I don’t feel safe or related to. I don't blame you one bit. When you get burned too many times, you're right to be wary. If a wholesome, HV blue collar guy comes along, you'll be able to tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:36 AM
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Me too! He's supposedly got all these girls chasing him but he's wasting time leaving her a message. Hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:31 AM
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I tried blue collar guys bc I felt like I was being too judgemental and privileged. My parents were blue-collar but had high-class tastes. This explained why the low-class next-door neighbors talked trash about my parents. The difference is, some blue-collar people are from a background that encourages learning and exploring, and some aren't. You have to be sooooo careful because the ones who are not interested in learning can be very defensive, easily butthurt and they will be really nasty abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:22 AM
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OH YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:39 AM
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So many repulsive red flags. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:36 AM
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Shah Rukh Khan I've seen some of his movies! He's a good actor and has lovely dimples. His movie "Zero" was basically about an LVM (maybe NVM) who works hard to prove himself to the heroine in the end. It also is fascinating because they used heavy-duty special effects to make him look 4'6". Here's a video from the film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xar5u_3ixWo (Edit, it has a lot of spoilers. Here's one with a lot of dancing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGPmFSB8qVY )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:23 AM
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To be frank, that's how it should be for most of us. I saw somewhere else on Reddit (can't remember now) some guy whining about how the quarantine and precautions are harming him emotionally because he can't have sex on the regular. These guys are getting more and more desperate and will likely be less careful and cautious. That's a big no. They have "needs" you know, so what if they spread the plague?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:10 AM
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I doubt they would have done it were it not for a lot of us making a stink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:01 AM
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There's no guarantee that any of us won't be alone. With married couples, one usually goes before the other. The one "left behind" is alone. What then? Better to be "alone" than to have your energy, your joy of life, all sucked away by a cheating piece of shit, as you say. If you stay with him, you waste too much of your life dealing with his shit. Then if he dies before you, you're still alone in the end. Either way, you end up alone. Or if you die before him, you die having squandered too much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:46 PM
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There's this trope that when you stop looking, they'll find you... or it'll all just fall into your lap. I doubt it works that way all the time, but being happy where you are now is never bad advice. Being so convinced that you MUST have this or that for happiness is just asking for misery. Live your life and if a HVM comes your way, great. If not, you've already mapped out a great life, so it's a win either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:36 PM
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There was a recent thread which discussed a scrote's blog where he assumed that FDS was just for the sad, leftover women that were invisible and overlooked by men. This thread debunks that myth in many ways. For one thing, women with various "looks" still get plenty of male attention. For another thing, it makes absolute sense that women who get a LOT of male attention would flock to FDS, since we talk about how to deal with scrotes a lot. We don't talk about how to attract a man—that's rarely o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:16 PM
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Ah, I see. They can just sign up through a throwaway reddit account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:06 PM
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I was verified through Reddit. Just use your reddit account for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:02 PM
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Oh no, I'm so sad your grandfather (dad's dad) wasn't a good memory. My grandfather died when my father was barely a teenager, but from what my dad said, he was awesome. Like your father, he went the extra mile as a dad. Most of my friends envied me, to be honest. They had faithless or just disinterested fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:03 PM
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Many men aren't attracted to overweight in women (in fact, most of them are ruthless about it, even if they themselves are big), so there's nothing wrong with you feeling the same. I agree with you that in his 20s, it's not hard for most men to keep the weight off. If the guy is 50 and has a little bit of a dad bod, most of us cut him some slack. But 25? Something is going on. I'm not hating on bigger guys in that age range, but it's not very common so it makes me wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:58 PM
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Some day’s I forget he didn’t have a male role model of his own because he’s been such an amazing one to me. This is my dad. His dad died. Raised by a single mom. Still a great dad. There for every play, every school event. Treated my mom with love and consideration. I think he was an attentive dad BECAUSE he didn't have a father growing up. He didn't want for us what he had—namely, no father. He made damn sure he was always around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:50 PM
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Fantastic! Tell me how you like them! I love both the 1995 and 2005 versions of P&P. I can't choose. The 1995 version is longer and that gives it an edge. But they are just unique. There's also a 1980 version of P&P that I like a lot. It's different and (I think) less favored because the guy who plays Darcy is so "cold," but he's actually very like the Darcy in the book. The 1995 Darcy is a little warmer and earthier. The 1980 Darcy never has a hair out of place. But I grew to like him, and espe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:38 AM
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There are two main versions, the 1995 version with Emma Thompson, Kate Winslet, Hugh Grant, and Alan Rickman. Then there's the 2008 BBC version which is longer and has David Morrisey and Dan Stevens. I personally preferred the 2008 version, because in part, the Col Brandon actor didn't look so old. I love Alan Rickman, everyone loves Alan Rickman, and a lot of people love his Col. Brandon (so feel free to disregard my opinion) but he seems markedly older than Kate Winslet and he was always so se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:52 PM
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Misogynist men think that once a woman is in the “whore” box, she has to stay there forever and isn’t allowed to make better decisions or learn from her mistakes. All of this, every single word, is true. They truly put women in Catch-22 boxes and blame them for wherever they are. She's a whore and cannot escape being a whore. HOW DARE she refuse him, she's a whore! It's scrote law she can't refuse him! They want “madonnas” to vet hard to maintain their “purity” (for their future male owner) But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:27 PM
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kpop stars gang raping https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-50596943 Apparently so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:52 PM
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Good for you! You have to do what you have to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:43 PM
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But like he's co-opting the accomplishments and skills of other people (and conveniently mentioning male dominated fields), presumably to defend the position that women need romantic relationships. EXACTLY!! Dude, men who repair downed power lines are paid in dollars, euros, or pesos, etc. They are not paid in blow jobs. I appreciate what my plumber does, but whether or not he is in a romantic relationship is none of my business. I fulfill my obligation to him by paying him. I "need" him to perf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:29 AM
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Mr. Collins was annoying sure, but like she said he wasn't malicious or abusive, and he had a sizeable inheritance. Again, feelings are important, but wanting some sort of security in life wasn't a bad thing, especially back then. It was very sad, and Charlotte made the best of it. Mr. Collins was a buffoon, but he would never cheat on her or beat her. She maneuvered it so he would be busy with other duties and she could have the house to herself more often. It was very sad that she had to make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:01 AM
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It's the best. It's a perfect blend of wholesomeness and wonderful romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:05 AM
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Yes he is!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:36 AM
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Man on Reddit later: "after I opened up to my girlfriend and was vulnerable with her she left me, this is why men are oppressed :(" -10k upvotes And, "I never had any warning. She just left for no reason. Women are irrational."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:34 AM
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“That doesn’t sound like me, I don’t behave that way”. Male Amnesia, that's what I call it. They don't remember it, so it never happened. Even when it did. Male Amnesia is a powerful, powerful thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:32 AM
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Sex "starts early" for women because people are trying to fuck them the second they're born. "Sex starts early"? You mean "abuse starts early." That's what Jenna Jamison is talking about EXACTLY. If a girl has a parent watching over her like a hawk, sex isn't going to happen "early." These scrotes talk like sex happening early for girls just materializes. It doesn't just happen—it happens because the girls aren't sufficiently protected against scrotes like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:30 AM
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Before their confrontation, she 100% hated his guts and refused to accept his affections (his reality up until then). It's only when the(his) potential became the new reality that she warmed up to him. Yes, at the end he says he was embarrassed by how he was before. He had to prove himself to her first. And he worked at doing that. Another classic story is "North & South" (the BBC drama from 2004, based on a novel from the 1850s). In the dramatization, the hero, Mr Thornton, really turns off the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:23 AM
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For me, it's "just don't be shorter than me." Same here, but everyone has their own standards. They're entitled to them. Guys are quite picky and selective with women's appearance, deeming huge swathes of women "invisible" because of their looks, but turn around cry bloody murder when some girls reject them for being short. Cry me a river. Women can never be as superficial and as shallow as most guys when it comes to rejecting for appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:43 PM
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Men do that all the time. And if anyone were to suggest they shouldn't, they'd scream bloody murder. But when the tables are turned, it's suddenly "shallow" to decide not to date someone based on their looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:34 PM
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It’s utterly nauseating, to think how they’re so concerned about people falling away from their pornsick folds that they’re sabotaging these recovery groups. It's insane! How dare they!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:22 PM
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The Psychology Today article is about psychology. It brought up some useful points. I would hope that most people here could see the differences and similarities (and understand that no, someone who is deriving a health benefit from meat is not the same as being a porn user). However, that the extreme reaction, hatred, trying to coerce someone into "returning to the fold," so to speak, is an interesting phenomenon. The Psychology Today article gives reasons for it which are also revealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:08 PM
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people really do react as if you’re shaming them, merely by being, and they do try to talk you in to eating meat. Yeah, I've heard stories of family members trying to sneak meat into dishes, to do anything they could to sabotage someone who is vegan or vegetarian. They just couldn't leave it alone. Very strange behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:04 PM
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It's not fair to shame people for that. Food is necessary for life, porn isn't. I understand what you're saying, but the Psychology Today article wasn't really discussing vegans or vegetarians trying to "shame" anybody (which I know does happen) but the hatred that they receive. I'm an ovo-lacto vegetarian and not an activist of any kind. I try to conceal my vegetarianism when I can, but inevitably people find out. Some of them react right away like they're spoiling for a fight, even though I've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:17 PM
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That Quora link I posted has several "asked and answered" posts about this very subject. Edit: (Here's a link that will gives an opinion that many vegans and vegetarians will share.) If you have more you'd like to discuss, you can probably go to quora to debate it further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:17 AM
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Every vegetarian/vegan gets asked that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:05 AM
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Porn is the same. It makes you feel uneasy but people have been groomed into consuming it. Once you start consuming it there is this peer pressure to feel ok with it. YES. This is so true. I've been a vegetarian (will eat eggs, milk, and cheese) for many years now. (In my case it's partly for moral reasons, but mainly because I have never liked meat that much and only ate it out of "obligation." It was "normal" to eat it and "everybody did" so I thought I had to as well. Finally, I got sick of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:58 AM
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The entitlement! The audacity! Seriously? One date and he is actually butthurt? Wow. The price of a meal is now what professional sex workers are charging, is that it? I mean, that's how he's thinking of you. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:01 AM
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They simply can't call women whores, useless, and other disgusting names, they can't expect us to drop our dreams and aspirations and serve them, without us fighting back. The truth right here. They expect us to give up our goals and dreams for them. They think our careers are a joke and not nearly as important as their own. They want us to serve them, and at the same time feel contempt for us. Hell yes, we will fight back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:24 PM
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This is all spot-on. This is why we need to vet these men, so we don't become just another woman who succumbed to his "charms," only to be discarded. If he's not willing to wait and to help prove he's not a scrote—newsflash, he's a scrote. (Not that waiting for sex is "proof" he's not a scrote—it takes more than that—but being utterly unwilling to wait is proof. He's ruling himself out by refusing to wait.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:21 PM
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If that were so, there would be no HVM out there. Yet many of us believe there are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:24 AM
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I would say that the scrotes fit this description. The Red Pill, Manosphere guys have a deep resentment towards women. We are a vagina life support system to them and they don't like us at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:49 AM
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I've seen some say that they regard their girlfriends (or women they're involved with) as "pets." Just an amusing creature who provides a service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:41 AM
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men think that theyre entitled to use/discard/manipulate unattractive/average women without consequence and its disgusting. Yes, and that she should be "grateful" for the abuse, because why would she expect any better, being so average or unattractive? Women know instinctively that being abused is not better than being alone. Like, it's not hard to figure that out. This, apparently, is a groundbreaking concept for men: Dude, no matter how low on the attractiveness scale she may be (or how low yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:19 PM
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Idk why these men are so pressed and oppressed by our decision not to fuck and date just anybody. It's our decision to not put out, not because there is a dearth of penis. Wonder why they cannot get that into their thick, empty skulls. This, exactly. Especially the part I bolded. They're so disturbed that more women might be educated and enlightened enough to stop putting out to guys like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:47 PM
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A separate subheading in this article to just shit on black women. The audacity. I noticed that too. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:40 PM
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I'm not sure she can actually do something about it :/ I think he can use that screenshot under "fair use."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:39 PM
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Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:29 PM
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Every woman, attractive or not, needs to know in her bones that she deserves better than the lies, manipulation, and abuse on offer from so fucking many men. That’s what this sub is about. So totally this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:27 PM
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It's quite obvious that many of the women who post here are beautiful and get hit on all the time. He totally cherry-picked his posts. Women here all share experiences of unwanted attention, unwanted advances. How would we understand how these unwanted advances feel if we were all so ugly and invisible that no man wanted us? Being wanted sexually by a fuckboy or some selfish loser who will drag our lives down is not a great triumph. It's a problem. Much of FDS is to help us learn who to weed out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:21 PM
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I haven't read all the comments here yet, but I read his whole blog post. He asks this: "Would A “High-Value Man” Wait Months for Sex?" Then he says that he fits the criteria for "high value." The answer, dear sir, is that you are not high value and neither are men who would never consider waiting months for sex, even for a great girl. Men like you, dear sir, are who the women here are trying to avoid. We define what we want, what we respect, what we know won't cause us pain and trauma. And you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:14 PM
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I know, I know. And he was just yuk. (I met him a few times.) She had a lot of life left in her and I think wanted to do so much more. She got tied to him and all hope of that died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:27 AM
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If he is the ugly/fat/awkward guy aiming to get the attractive female lead, unless it is a superhero movie, he just stay the way he is and the girl will get over the look and see his "amazing" personality. I remember seeing a re-run from a really old TV show (B&W from the 50s) where they actually did have the nerdy guy lose his glasses, change his looks, and be more assertive and win the girl. If I recall, another guy helped him with his "makeover." It was so unique I still remember it. There ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:21 AM
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There are men on this Earth who'd cross an entire ocean so their refugee families could live better lives while these privileged guys don't even bother to surprise you with flowers. It just shows you that being an LVM not some foregone conclusion—it's what's been allowed to happen. When the expectations are higher, there are far more HVM. By only expecting the bare minimum from them, we continue to get the bare minimum. Another reason why avoiding LVM is essential. They are doing the bare minimu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:17 AM
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Other than the brainwashing by toxic society, there's literally 0 reason why being forever single is worse than being with a scrote. One of my mom's friends was single for a long time. She was either widowed or divorced and I think in her late 50s or early 60s. She got it into her head that she really wanted to get married again. She found some old goat. She was much more attractive than he was and younger. He was also pompous and I think had a wandering eye. (Or at least liked to "look.") My mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:12 AM
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Bitch I want my looks match FUCK YOU. What I've heard from the manosphere is, "What does she bring to the table?" Well, the answer is often, MORE THAN YOU. We're talking about women bring plenty to the table. They merely ask that what they bring be matched and are told that it's too much. Something doesn't add up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:56 AM
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Wtf with the hyperbole. I know. I was expecting more than, "She decided she didn't want to see me anymore." At least some screaming or stalking or something... but just deciding to not see him and being up-front enough to tell him that? What is psycho about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:51 AM
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Basically, you can never win, so do whatever you want - and whatever benefits you. She looks bomb. Exactly. No matter what you do, now matter how you look, someone is going to bitch about it. I agree, she looks fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:46 AM
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The point is the gesture. If it was a more low-income man, he might get flowers. EXACTLY. The gesture of appreciation. That gesture is going to be different for every couple. Compare this with the man who is playing games all during her stay in the hospital, or who just can't even be bothered to be there for her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:50 PM
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Men will NEVER turn down an opportunity for a woman. And the thing is, we're conditioned to never expect them to! We know they won't anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:40 AM
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It doesn't make cruel kids grow a conscience, it just makes the most receptive children into future adult victims. So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:35 AM
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This was something that really worried me when I was a teenager. Other girls never had time for the things they loved because of their boyfriends. The boyfriends would expect her to suppress her own interests to devote more time to him. I was so afraid that this would happen to me. (I was never put to the test because I was a plain jane, but my fear of this probably also repelled the rare guy who might have been interested.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:29 AM
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LOL! Thanks! I try to stay pragmatic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:11 AM
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Probably not. I wouldn't put it past someone, though, to develop a nest habit, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:44 AM
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They are not compatible. Not everyone wants a boyfriend or husband who can only sleep in a nest. What does he do when he travels? And why won't he wash his smelly nest? His "nest" is weird but harmless so I'm not up in arms about it, but damn, it's going to limit his romantic options because it is BIZARRE. Most women aren't going to want to adjust to his damn funky-ass-smelly nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:44 AM
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You're not the only one. Since I don't intend to invite a man out, I don't see why I should pay 50/50. I don't ask people I've invited out if they can help with the bill. A lot of us won't sleep with just any man. It means nothing to so many of them. Nothing. It's just another night, another woman. Something that they "expected" (or at least hoped) would happen, because they think that's what is supposed to happen. An entitlement. Our obligation. But to a lot of us, it's a bigger deal and a huge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:28 AM
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"...and she owes me sex because I bought her a Happy Meal."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:08 AM
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Low value men: I hate women because they don't want to have sex with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:04 AM
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Forgiveness is not synonym for reconciliation. I forgive you, but... Boy, bye! Exactly! Forgiveness is just that...forgiveness. Nothing more. It doesn't mean you have to put yourself in harm's way or hang out with that person again. The forgiveness was a gift that you chose to give. You owe them nothing at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:53 PM
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May we all get what we deserve lol I don't know about that... None of us has always experienced the total consequences for our stupidity or selfishness. (For example, I have run red lights and gone over the speed limit but haven't gotten a ticket for each time I've done that.) I personally am grateful for that! Not every mistake is followed by what a person technically "deserves." However, if I keep on running red lights or habitually speed in traffic, I am going to start getting more tickets be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:49 PM
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Yes, I saw that. I think they said "medium" chance (edit, you're right, it's low), but FDS wasn't asterisked. Subs with an asterisk (according to the list) indicate that they're more likely to be on the chopping block. So I guess the chance is there (which makes us all nervous!) but it isn't a done deal yet. So, we have some hope. Still, having an FDS space entirely independent from Reddit is a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:00 PM
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Yeah, I found this sub by chance, and at first thought it was the flip side of the manosphere subs like red pill and mgtow. But soon I realized—no. It's just teaching women to identify bad behavior and avoid it. To understand their worth. To lift women up and help them realize they don't have to put up with the B.S. There are some women who rant about "men" (when I think mostly can be interpreted to mean "LVM") but NONE of the rantings are a fraction as incendiary as what we see on red pill or m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:57 PM
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This is why abusers cut women off from their friends and family, so they don't have someone to say hey, that's effed up! I actually think that's a big element here. LVM are always afraid that her friends are going to get her to see that he's no good for her. FDS is like a whole lot of friends saying, "Sis, no!" to his B.S. Obviously that needs to be shut down. Scrotes can't have that. There's also the heresy of encouraging women not to have sex right away. That right there should be considered h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:22 AM
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We don’t hate men—we hate the percentage of men who treat us like shit. Exactly! There are decent men out there. The ones who manipulate and gaslight and treat us like shit are the ones we talk shit about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:47 AM
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Another way to put it is, "Consider the source." Excellent advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:49 PM
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Really good advice right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:48 PM
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Suddenly he starts thinking like one of us FDSers when HES the one being taken advantage of. But . . . but that's different. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:06 AM
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What did I just see . . . Why oh why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:29 AM
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Who knows. One of those things wouldn't mean much. But ALL of them . . . well . . .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:28 AM
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not all men are like this honestly, i have actually spoken to men who are normal and decent. Very true. Normal and decent men still exist. We get a skewed perception from online dating and reading crap on Reddit, LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:32 AM
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Males are the ones begging for a crumb of pussy so stop acting like you're the choosy one, little bitch boy. Stay in your fucking lane. Choosing beggar. We dictate what we expect. You OBEY or go suck your own dick. This is golden. And true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:31 AM
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so many women were lied to and continued getting sick with radium poisoning as they licked the tiny paint brushes for making watch dials glow for the soldiers. How horrific. Unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:23 AM
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I love it! What a treasure! Thank you for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:22 AM
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He has a good point though we shouldn’t go out with men who won’t pay for us because it means he sees us as a “2/10” and he reserves paying for “9/10” women Exactly. He's reaffirming that FDS is right in expecting men to pay for dates. It's not about the money, it's about weeding out those who actually care about us vs the ones who don't really value us but won't turn down some sex. But only if we pay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:12 PM
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They hate fat/ugly women for daring to not please their penises, and they hate hot women for daring not to fuck them. This is the sad truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:18 PM
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I’ve really glowed up the past few years and get a lot of ‘positive’ (or at least it’s meant to be 🙄) male attention but during my overweight phase I was consistently laughed at and bullied in public by adult men when just going about my business. And these are the same men who will treat you "nice" when you've glowed up. And you're supposed to just forget how they really are. Edit: The important point is that you were treated this way when you were just "going about your business." You weren't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:17 PM
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Oh well guess he will never be happy then Oh noooo! I feel so sorry for him!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:12 PM
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Men are willing to pay if they value you, and will go Dutch if they don’t. There you go. We have our answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:10 PM
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Then why would you go on a date with mediocre pussy? Because HE'S mediocre. But HE "deserves" better, so he's going to "punish" her for being as mediocre as he is? That seems to be the logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:08 PM
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a man who won’t pay for you is TELLING you he thinks you’re mediocre, and WHY would you want that??? Exactly. Not dating at all is better than settling for someone who thinks you're so mediocre. I'm gonna guess that there are some 2/10 men out there who would be happy to treat a 2/10 woman nicely. And she, in turn, would treat him nicely. And they'd be happy. Why shouldn't she go for a guy who would treat her well, rather than a guy who is holding his nose and deigning to date her and acting lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:07 PM
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But the qualities of a HVM don’t change because he is religious. THIS. It's like with any man you know. He may seem nice, but how is he behind closed doors? He might look good "on paper" but in practice, he's insufferable. I like to think that the men of my church may have a higher percentage of HVM just because porn use isn't tolerated, along with a few other behaviors and habits that are trademarks of an LVM. But guys can conceal porn use and slip through the cracks in other ways. You can neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:22 PM
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"Men are more likely to declare bankruptcy" Yeah, and if I were to declare bankruptcy, what would the scrotes say? "Women suck at money." When women don't do as well statistically, they blame us. When men don't do as well statistically, they still blame us. When men outperform women, it's because we're losers and men are superior. When women outperform men, it's because the men are victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:54 PM
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Agreed. And I love the use of the word "vidya." She's a genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:51 PM
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Men from x religion and y culture are not special or a different breed of male. Just vet them the way you'd vet anyone else, don't give them any special exceptions, don't give them the benefit of the doubt. Also be super aware of bad people pretending to be religious. YES, THIS. All of it. "But he's from a good church family!" means NOTHING. NOTHING. He has to be vetted like everyone else. Religious guys MAY have a higher percentage of HVM if they were raised with porn not being tolerated, where…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:10 PM
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Be very careful, take your time, and vet them like you would any other man. I would be wary of a man who was "returning" to his faith or had started being more active after being inactive for a while. (He may be just coming back to find a wife.) There are all kinds of men at church. My pastor and his wife were high school sweethearts and are still happily married after probably 60 years. (They're almost 80.) Another man has been his wife's caregiver for I don't know how long and is such a sweet,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:05 PM
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A lot of help can be had through friends on the Internet! It can be a lifesaver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:44 PM
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You will escape this, you will heal, and you will have a good life. Please protect yourself and wait for the right time. Yes, you should take him to court. I know you're getting good advice here and on other social media. Please be careful until you're fully free. I missed this from your other post: You’re right it doesn’t say that anywhere but sadly that’s the thing; it abuse isn’t listed as a reason to leave, rape isn’t an unforgivable sin but blasphemy is. There are so many different interpre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:46 AM
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No one here validates me and I’m isolated right now so I’m so grateful for the compassion and support on Reddit and fb because I lose my faith for humanity being surrounded by narcissistic social workers who blame me for the abuse or don’t believe me or see me as a hysterical joke. Yes, we're validating you. There's just no way that what you're experiencing is normal. To quote a line from "Planet of the Apes" - it's a madhouse. You're in a madhouse and we can see that clearly. I don’t believe in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:58 AM
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Imagine a woman said she likes doing drugs and masturbating for hours in her free time. This needs to be highlighted and emphasized. Scrotes would think she was the lowest of the low. But if a man does that? It's just different somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:30 AM
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even though Jesus was the biggest feminist to ever walk around in sandals. Yes, this. Scrotes cherry-pick out parts of the Bible that favor men, without taking into account the cultural differences in the Ancient Near East (that we aren't expected to follow now), and ignore the parts that outline the obligations of men to be decent people and not scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:25 AM
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Marriage is the end all be all of my existence I heard stories like that. Some friends became Mormon converts and said that they were strongly urged to not pursue higher education because they should be looking at getting married. Yeah, that "conversion" didn't stick too long. Glad my friends escaped. I knew that Mormons had some weird cultural things, but I never dreamt that covering up abuse from family members was something they'd do, or that it was widespread. I'm in total shock to learn how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:10 PM
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Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. I had no idea. I am at a loss for words. It is evil what was done to you. There will be a special place in Hell for them. I'm so sorry. I think my mother didn’t want to disappoint her parents or the church. I don’t understand. I don't understand either. She mixed up "church" and "God." That church has absolutely nothing to do with God. Because nowhere does God say it's okay to protect child molesters and abuse children. How evil, evil, evil. Please continue to heal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:05 PM
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There was a woman who left because their husband raped their 5 year old daughter. She actually got so much shit for divorcing him. OH MY GOSH. I know some Mormons. I never would have dreamt that they dealt with this. Is it possible that it's regional? I have heard mentions about the "California Mormons" being let off the hook with some of this crap. I just cannot wrap my head around this. I'm active in my church and none of this would ever be tolerated. I am not saying that my church would suit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:40 AM
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Plus men age like coleslaw FAST and hard. There are some brothers I've known since childhood. These are good guys, who don't party hard and don't smoke. They are HVM. But most of them have lost their hair. The one brother who has all his hair has gained weight (like his dad did—I'm sure there's a genetic component there). They're not ugly or anything, but hair loss and weight gain hits them like everyone else. But you know what? Because they are good-hearted, sweet guys, HVM, they all have lovel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:55 AM
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I KNOW!! She is awesome! Whoever she is, she is well-chosen for such a task. Genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:37 AM
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Men take so much out of you emotionally, and sometimes you don't always have the most control over that, but you can definitely tangibly control other things like giving them money/gifts or sex. Yes, when you measure all that is given emotionally, you still are giving. We don't live in a perfect world, where there's give and take and it balances out. Ordinarily, common sense would say that it would be okay to give because they will give back. But that's not what we're seeing here, is it? Since t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:19 PM
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give as little as humanly possible. This is part of the advice given on one of the PUA / Men's Rights blogs. "Whatever she gives, ALWAYS give less than that." (Paraphrased.) It's one of the scrote laws. Hell no. That's a red flag. When he always gives less than you do? No. It's never going to change or improve. It's about him taking and never about giving back. It's all about what's in it for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:14 PM
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there's still gonna be some douchebag who will cheat on her. Same with Jeff Bezos. He married his wife before he made his fortune; she helped him. They both were nerdy and as the years passed, she glowed up and looks fantastic. Him? Not so much. She presumably married him for love and stuck with him all that time. And how does he repay her? Cheating, of course. It's a character issue. They don't have any. If Bezos or Affleck were unhappy with dead bedrooms (which I don't know, but I doubt) they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:04 AM
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It's just 5-10 minutes of time she will never get back and some added laundry. There you go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:50 AM
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OK but if this is true, why would I agree to be in a relationship where I have to give up autonomy over my body? Why would any woman? This. Women have to be able to say no without trembling in their boots that they "made" him cheat. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and nobody gets into a romantic relationship just to have a sexless partnership. But there's a middle ground between "No sex ever again" and "I'll never say no, even if I am not feeling well or am very upset with some crap …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:49 AM
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Thank you! A woman who allows the men in her life to walk all over her, abuse her, neglect her children, is not doing anyone any favors. She should be RUTHLESS in vetting potential partners. Scrotes complain that women aren't content staying at home anymore. Part of it is because she has other options and not everyone wants to stay at home. But if she ordinarily would be open to the idea, she'd probably feel comfortable doing it if she knew he would do his share, and if she knew he'd support HER…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:41 AM
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Women are literally conditioned to stick by a man no matter what whereas men get to be selfish and do what they want while no one blinks an eye. I know. We expect her to be faithful. We expect less from men. The bar is set so low. Don’t be naive building a man will always end up badly stop showing sympathy for men who wouldn’t show the least bit of empathy for you. I agree, she shouldn't be building up a man. It's too risky. But I wouldn't excuse a woman if she dumped her husband after he helped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:15 AM
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The judge ruled that supporting a spouse was her choice and she should have let him take loans otherwise. Ouch! Oh no. Oh my gosh. Scrotes will say the same. "Nobody made her sacrifice everything for me. I took her support happily but I owe her nothing now." And then they wonder why women don't want to sacrifice their careers to stay at home or work to put him through college. Her trust and love are rewarded with impoverishment. It's not worth the risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:05 AM
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They want a traditional housewife, but don’t want to be traditional husbands smh. They just want to be able to continue to use women by being built up with their money and labor, only to leave them once they get on their feet and go for their dream women that doesn’t have to lift a finger,its such bullshit. Yeah, that's no good. I've heard stories on both sides: Man supports his wife while she goes through college, as soon as she graduates and he pays off the student loans, she is out of there! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:54 PM
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This gives us lots of options in men so thats why they shame women who want financially stable men that can provide and call them gold diggers because they know they won’t stand a chance. A lot of women wouldn't mind a man who wasn't rich, as long as he was stable. If she's not making a huge income herself, she's probably not holding out for a millionaire. She just wants a guy who she can count on to remain employed so she doesn't have to support him. She doesn't want her position in life to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:43 PM
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What did I just read! LOL! Nice try, my little dude. Nice use of all those "woke" words. It still won't get you a date, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:34 PM
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Some men actually created MGTOW2 and female hate is NOT allowed, it is the sub rule- I can respect that. Truth. I totally respect that. There have probably been men who have "gone their own way" before it was a thing. They lived their own life on their own terms, enjoyed it, and didn't expect anything from women and didn't seek them out and most importantly, didn't constantly bitch about them. They were busy accomplishing things and being happy with life. I'm sure there are guys doing that now. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:21 PM
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Even if some women hate men, it is nowhere near MGTOW or Red Pill. This. Some women are making generalized statements like, "Men are all trash" which I usually interpret to mean LVM & NVM, but yes, some women legit are fed up with all men. But what do they do? AVOID them. All we do is say, "Nah, sis, dump him" or whatever. That's it. The hate and degradation coming from parts of the manosphere is staggering. If the manosphere was just avoiding us, there wouldn't be a problem. But there are too m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:03 PM
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Nothing about this screams gaslighting; it screams her saying "how high?" after he told her to jump. I still feel sympathy. She may be gullible or stupid or whatever, but she doesn't deserve this. She doesn't have self-respect? Yeah, that happens to a lot of us. I have sympathy for people like that. I want them to get help. And I desperately want her to get out of this situation, if for no other reason than this SCROTE won't be able to abuse her anymore. If she sees the light, it will make one l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:46 AM
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What the hell...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:20 AM
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It is basically like narcissist calling the victim that don't tolerate their lies and bullshittery as "toxic" and "manipulative" - it is a projection. Exactly. This. The outrage that you're not falling for their B.S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:56 PM
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Can’t win. These types of men want to have their cake and eat it too, and being confronted with the idea that it doesn't (won't) work that way? RAGE! HATEFUL! It's crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:47 PM
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They just expect that they will buy you like a toy for cash and that's all they need to find a wife. lol Yep, that's the way some of them talk, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:46 PM
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That's why we are "toxic", because their peepees won't get fucked as easily. We are depriving them of the consequence-free sex they are born being entitled to. How dare we!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:30 PM
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I see so many comments saying FDS is a toxic place. It just isn’t. Male dating subs are about tricks, capturing, possessing women. Here we just say ‘respect yourself, and demand that respect in return. If not, block and move on.’ I KNOW. I KEEP ON SAYING! (Sorry for all caps.) I admit I wondered what FDS was at first, but I soon realized it's about being aware of what's going on and if it's not good for you? Leave. Avoid them. Don't mess with them or hurt them. Just leave. But the PUAs and manos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:28 PM
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And then blame women for not treating real life as a porn scenario and being ”shallow” for not giving naked mole-rats a chance. LOL, "mole rats." Yeah, I've seen on the manosphere them saying that "women don't care about looks" but when it's shown that she DOES? Oh, the ANGER! ANGER! How dare she! When they themselves would reject a girl immediately for the same deficit in looks. But she's supposed to not care! It's scrote law!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:01 PM
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Men have and always will think that money is more valuable then womens bodies and dignity. This comment needs more upvotes. I was warned by my mom about this and I heeded her advice. (I'm an introverted nerd too, that helps.) I'm SO GRATEFUL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:06 PM
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Oh wow, I'm so glad I could provide you with the title! It is one of the most beautifully filmed movies I've seen. Filmed in the wine country on the California coast. With a wonderful supporting cast, too. Such a great movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:22 AM
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I liked it too. Love Keanu! Edit: Have any of you seen "A Walk in the Clouds"? A WONDERFUL movie. So beautifully made. My mom and I have watched that so many times together. She just loves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:11 AM
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How hard is it to follow a list and buy things you need? My dad was an HVM and he did this all the time. It was my mom that was the problem. She would buy all sorts of extra crap that we didn't need, lol. So my dad was in charge of shopping and was great at it. Would buy the right kind of tampons without blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:06 AM
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MGTOW is the equivalent of a spoiled toddler throwing a tantrum, telling mommy he hates her, while checking every other moment whether she's there paying attention and coddling him. This, exactly. I've noticed the same thing. It's no coincidence that we're all describing them in this same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:02 AM
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Omg yesss and mgtow have to let you know they’ve gone their own way every 5 minutes Boy, is THAT the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:15 AM
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It's sad that almost every girl over the age of 13/14 has made experiences with sexual harassment. It's such a sick world Very true. Very depressing to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:11 PM
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Friends don’t even treat each other like that, let alone someone who’s trying to date you My thoughts exactly. I sometimes run late and I am always texting to let them know. I have friends who run late and they text me beforehand. Not even bothering to text beforehand is so damn rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:00 PM
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So let me get this straight: You text him HOURS in advance to confirm and he ignores that. I would already be thinking, "I'm not meeting this guy today, and perhaps never." Then he FINALLY texts FIFTEEN MINUTES afterward, and makes some vague "before sunset" time? OH HELL NO. He should have been texting you before 6 pm. He should have responded to your text at 2:30, but he definitely should have texted before 6 pm. That right there shows that he doesn't care. And then he's vague about when to me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:59 PM
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Erm we don't owe them shit. I know! And they are SO pissed off by that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:01 PM
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Oh wow. I forgot how bad it used to be. Like I said, I live in a naive dream world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:01 PM
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If I were a dude, I would encourage and WANT my sisters/family/friends to be reading this. Agreed! NO man who has any love for his female family members would watch them fall for the manipulation, disrespect, abuse, and lies from low-value men without saying something. So what's so egregious about FDS? Oh, that's right. We're telling other women to not be manipulated into sex, to say "no." To stop and think. And that is "hate speech." SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:13 AM
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LOL! I have seen that said elsewhere. I didn't come up with it! But it certainly is true for some men, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:04 AM
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Change my mind. I am not going to argue with that! LOL! There are plenty of men who view women as a life support system for a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:54 AM
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I know this link has been posted before: https://www.cracked.com/article_19785_5-ways-modern-men-are-trained-to-hate-women.html This quote sums it up: "So it's very frustrating, and I mean frustrating to the point of violence, when we don't get what we're owed. A contract has been broken. These women, by exercising their own choices, are denying it to us." "We're mad that women are distributing to other people the sex that they owed us."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:03 AM
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You speak the truth. The primary message of FDS is to AVOID. That's it. AVOID. These types of men are already PISSED because women are allowed to refuse them. And then FDS further encourages women to hold out, wait, or avoid? Hate crime, obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:59 AM
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It's crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:42 AM
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That was great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:41 AM
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That's what it boils down to, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:26 AM
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I know, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:24 AM
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I did a quick Google search. 90% of violence is committed by men, as well as male animals, all across the globe. It can't all just be "nurture." http://nautil.us/blog/nurture-alone-cant-explain-male-aggression
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:58 AM
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WHAT THE HELL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:19 AM
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He makes no sense. We aren't making anyone do anything. We just won't have sex with men who aren't worth the bother in our opinion. We still reserve the right to say "no." Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:05 AM
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It only took reading for a few minutes from that site and I was DONE. This is beyond evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:01 AM
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I hate porn it’s so fucking evil. I never watch porn (I keep on saying I live in a naive dream world lol) but until recently I never knew how truly wicked it is. It is EVIL. It is the devil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:34 AM
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I think they were always like this, and then porn happened and they were like aha! This must be just like real life! In the naive dream world I live in, I would prefer to believe that before online porn was a thing, that most guys would feel some initial attraction to younger girls but would never consider acting upon it. Because the stigma against it was strong. Sure, some men obviously still acted on it (think "Lolita") but the stigma was there, along with angry brothers and fathers who would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:29 AM
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Ohhhh, he's preemptively butthurt about the height thing. Sorry, buddy. You writing about your height in your profile makes her immediately assume you're too short for her. I can guarantee she'd rather not waste her time with a guy who is going to decide her boobs aren't big enough or her weight isn't within his preferences. She'd rather you know that about her sooner rather than later so you can rule her out now if that's your intention. But, never mind. She's already ruled you out because you'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:50 PM
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I can live with the description of "decent." I think that covers a lot of ground. There are some qualities that are so ingrained in men that are foreign to women. The presence of these qualities probably will always keep men from being judged as anything better than 'decent' by many women. So, let's just agree on "decent." "Decent" is not an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:28 PM
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The police officers handling the case realised the family wouldn’t get justice in the end so they just shot them and told press that the rapists tried to escape so they had no other choice but to shoot. This is good to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:54 PM
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I remember some documentary saying that the female orgasm helped push the sperm farther into the womb. So it does help facilitate reproduction. Plus, as you say, why have a clitoris at all or even allow women to the ability to orgasm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:50 PM
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They’re not loyal, don’t love like women, provide shit to zero emotional support, and barely see us as human. FDS does still acknowledge the existence of HVM. These are men who were raised right and made the right choices. We just wish there were more of them. If women stop putting up with LVM bullshit, there will be more of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:30 PM
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Wait a minute. So your clothes still fit, you had just overcome an extreme illness, and now you were finally able to resume regular activities (like working out) but he couldn't even wait to find any of that out? He just turned on a dime? Besides, you couldn't have been that much larger if your clothes still fit. You are well rid of him. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:11 PM
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I can’t stand the breast size negging, How ridiculous for them to try that crap. I come from a family where the minimum is C, so no one would be giving us a hard time trying to imply our breasts were too small. (More like, they creeped out on us for having boobs when we were 14. You know, because we grew them on purpose so old creeps could stare at us.) The thing I learned growing up is that if it's not one thing, it's another. No, I wasn't given a hard time for having small breasts. I had Cs an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:05 PM
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And what tf is wrong with C's? Absolutely nothing. This is so obviously negging. (I come from a family where the minimum is C, so most of us are bigger than that. But we all know the universal truth. Cs are MORE than fine.) Bs are perfectly fine. As are also perfectly fine. What the hell. All boobs are MORE than fine. These scrotes are lucky to be within 6 feet of a genuine set of boobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:01 PM
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I just barely know what's going on! Here's a video where she "came back." (I never knew she left! I have no idea who she is.) I guess she stopped being active in whatever for over a year and then returned. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YhyNqXWqiU This Watson guy absolutely lost his mind because I guess her "leaving" was just too coincidental, and he thinks she chickened out and laid low when other alt-right people were losing their YouTube accounts. Or something. I'm really lost. He's blowing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:40 AM
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Why are feminist spaces disappearing while while subs like the red pill still exist??? Argh! It makes me mad!!! I know, that's my question too. They think The Red Pill is a-okay but they want FDS gone? Seriously? Our main message is to AVOID low value men and not have sex with them. Not have sex with them! Apparently that's hate speech! Not having sex with them! LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:31 PM
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Like some women just don't find short men attractive, not because of insecurity - but because they don't like it, and that's OKAY. ABSOLUTELY. Men are pretty ruthless about overlooking women they don't find attractive. Some of the "unattractive" qualities a woman may get rejected for are outside of her control. But she gets rejected anyway. But when a short guy is rejected for being short, he always whines, "bUt I cAN't CONTROL tHaT!" as if that makes a difference. It doesn't make any difference…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:14 AM
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It’s not because you’re short. It’s because you suck. Yes. A lot of women would easily and happily not care about the shortness if the guy was a great guy. I linked in another post to some movie trailers for a movie (two films that used the same storyline) that illustrated that. The guy was about 4'6" (they used special effects to make the actor look that short) and was great in every way. The woman in the movie got a lot of pressure and strange looks, but in the end, he was a great guy and she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:06 AM
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I am reminded of this movie (which you can—I think—rent on Amazon or iTunes with English subtitles). Here's the trailer with English CCs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r19syvp2dGY The whole point was that this guy was (for the most part) okay in his skin and a wonderful man. The woman, in the end, decided "Screw it, I love him!" because he was a great guy. He was hurt by the prejudice but he didn't have a chip on his shoulder. He was funny, loving, successful, and a HVM. The actor who played h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:47 AM
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Theyre also socialized to not see women as people so their ability to empathize with us is incapacitated + throw in the psychological reinforcement that comes with orgasming to our abuse and it's pretty fucking hopeless. Without porn, so much of this depressing shit wouldn't be happening. Especially since boys are able to start watching at such a young age. This is very new. Previous generations just didn't have access to this much porn (and while they were still so young!). We've opened a Pando…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah, dude, whatever. At least this woman has (at least temporarily) removed him from the dating pool. That's all I've got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:50 AM
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The smile does not reach her eyes. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:31 PM
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That poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:30 PM
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Omg can you imagine the collective outrage from the manosphere if a woman tweeted this? Oh, I can imagine. I can imagine. But if they do it, it's "different." LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:23 PM
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Oh yeah, I understand. Like Brock Turner's dad saying his life shouldn't be ruined over a "few minutes." Oh my gosh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:24 AM
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It’s a really horrible mentality because it’s so insidious to place even tenuous relationships with men over the physical and mental wellbeing of black women at large. I agree with you. I don't know what else to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:59 AM
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Thanks. I wasn't trying to give her a hard time. It's just hard to wrap my mind around this. I agree with you. I don't think I could not call the police on someone who raped me. I get that some women don't pursue pressing charges because of how awful the whole process can be for women, but damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:39 AM
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Thank you for your explanation. What a horrible position to be put into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:37 AM
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I wouldn’t have called if he was black Please, I don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:18 AM
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He was white so I think that would have been the right thing to do. What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:54 AM
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Men put themselves first more. Which they should, as everyone should. Relationships are not a charity. It's not a bad thing to NOT tie yourself to someone who hurts you and drags you down. I don't wish this kind of misery for men or women. But yet women are somehow guilted or "trained" to be "fair" and "kind" to their own detriment. And then blamed for it later! And yes it's much better to be single and happy, then unhappy in a relationship with someone you settled for and still doesn't treat yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:12 PM
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Ladies being picky will increase your life by 1000% The truth is, everyone should be picky! We only get one life! Why select someone who will drag us down? Refuse to be shamed because you won't give someone who is a drag on you a "chance." The problem is that some men (and some women, though I don't think as many based on cheating statistics) will use a woman for a while then discard her. A higher percentage of women will just stay alone rather than use a man. Part of this is because of the phys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:02 PM
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How is that possible if men are not hypergamous? Oh yes, and the midlife crisis where they start banging their secretary. Men remarry or keep dating because they want sex, they want a woman taking care of the house, they want a pretty woman on their arm to show off to their friends. But when women get "too picky" then men whine and say, "Wait until the sexbots come and then you'll be sorry!" Not realizing that if there aren't many quality men around, most women will just stay alone. (This is ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:34 PM
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Men on the other hand... when was the last time you see a couple whose male is so much more attractive than the girl? Never. Exactly. He's not going to purposely go with a woman who is less attractive than he is, because he wants to be "fair" or to prove he isn't "shallow." Hell no, men would never do that, but yet they expect women to? And let's not forget that men are far more likely to leave her if she gets seriously ill. I think some men believe hypergamy equals her "upgrading" and cheating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:28 PM
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Oh my gosh, that's horrifying. I knew things were bad, but never had a clue they were that bad. I'm so sorry for what your grandmother (and then her kids) endured. So they actually had their lives stolen & their kids taken off them, because of a cheating man who wasn't living up to his 'faithful husband role' as they were promised. But the scrotes will still insist that women had it made, because the men would be pressured by society to "take care of her." Except if he didn't, she'd end up in a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:02 PM
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Black people shouldn’t have to live with the possibility of getting shot by a cop for no good reason. That’s it, anyone who debates that is an ass. Pretty much an obvious statement! There's no reason to "debate" that, any more than there's a reason to "debate" whether the Holocaust was "bad." Anyone who even attempts it is setting off red flags. I have a variety of friends on social media and they'll sometimes argue about the "political agenda" of specific movements and groups—which I personally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah, I KNOW that "not all men" are like that. I've been blessed with many good men in my family and social circle. The scrotes I encountered along the way didn't stick around for long. But here we are. Because there are scrotes in abundance out there. The examples we see from dating apps, from the manosphere subs and abundant personal experience of many ladies demonstrate that. Yes, we realize that some women make bad decisions or are just bad people. Some men are truly decent and kind and a ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:02 PM
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To scrotes, equality feels like oppression. Exactly! Scrotes say that 50-60 years ago, all a guy had to do was have some sort of job (it didn't have to be that high end) and he could find a girl who would marry him. And she'd always be sure to be pretty and subservient because marriage was her only option to have a roof over her head. So, as long as he had a job, he could have an attractive wife who would be his housekeeper and raise his kids. And if he stayed out late, or he was emotionally stu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:19 AM
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Drama drama drama. What a whiner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:34 AM
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Wow, this speaks the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:31 AM
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Will someone please synthesize and inject that mediocre straight, white, male confidence right into my fucking veins already. Oh boy, tell me about it. Sometimes that confidence can be "used for good." I've had male friends try to boost me up and infuse me with that kind of confidence. I appreciate that. But sometimes they turn around and argue and mansplain things to me when they have NO CLUE. Very frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:29 PM
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I feel the same way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:48 AM
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But success doesnt impress me anymore. Money doesnt make me nervous. All ot that can be lost in a second, and who you are without it, is what you are really worth This is so true. A person close to me has done very well in life, did everything right, and now they are successful. And I'm happy for them. They deserve that success. They earned it. I don't feel jealous or petty or competitive. At the same time, I may not have as much money, but I'm doing something I love and I think I'm reasonably g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:19 AM
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Your post reminds me of this (though it is a bit tangential). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1D0s0WCRSCU The man in the neon yellow-green shirt is a hero. I love him. And several others too. But the "married men" starting at the 6:40 mark are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:28 AM
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You love being outside in nature and they denigrate you for that? Ridiculous! Not liking the outdoors and the natural beauty all around us is LOW VALUE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:11 AM
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Right, the Holy Spirit gives us ‘fruits’ of the Spirit which HVMs have in abundance- peace, patience, kindness, goodness,...self control! Exactly! Is he seriously suggesting that the Apostle Paul's "thorn in the flesh" was a sin similar to porn addiction and that God REFUSED to relieve Paul of such a sin even though Paul prayed many times about it? (As you probably know, scholars speculate that Paul's 'thorn in the flesh' was probably an ailment of some kind.) It's laughable. And offensive! And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:28 AM
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You're 100% correct. If you aren't sorry and you're not going to even try to stop doing it, you can't be forgiven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:25 AM
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He doesn't express his regret for that habit, or his understanding why its wrong, or assurances that he will step up. Nope, he doesn't express remorse in the slightest and yet lectures you on your inability to give him grace....sandwiched between his fear mongering and guilt tripping. Exactly! And yet regret, understanding about why it is wrong, and an intent to improve are all things needed to receive forgiveness and grace. Grace is not for people who refuse to acknowledge that they've done any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:24 AM
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They're often super obsessed with women having large families and are extremely obsessed with race. They'll often eviscerate women involved in sex work as well... they have no empathy for women except for those who are "pure" This really bothers me on so many levels. Who was one of Jesus's most beloved friends? Mary Magdaline, a former prostitute. The Samaritan woman at the well, who had five husbands? Jesus had a lot of love and forgiveness for her. The woman caught in adultery? "Go and sin no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:20 AM
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I find it laughable that people still think religion has some basis in validating that their shitty actions are okay. I'm Christian and I love my church, but my parents (also faithful Christians) always warned me that sometimes the ones who made the biggest display of their "Christian-ness" were the worst. You go by their character, first and foremost. There's no guarantee that a person is "better" just because they say they're Christian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:53 PM
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I don't know what these men assume guys did 50 years ago when only weirdos viewed porn. Yeah. They may have had a Playboy tucked away, but if they had too much stuff hidden, their wives or kids would find it. So you know they didn't. And they would have had to go to those creepy X-rated theaters downtown, where their neighbors might see them. Or their boss! You know they didn't do that. So they just didn't watch porn. Imagine that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:49 PM
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He sounds thoroughly horrible. I wonder what his pastor would say if they saw what he's been writing. (I don't know what his pastor would say, but mine would give him an earful!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:46 PM
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Exactly. This guy is a self-indulgent scrote who has no interest in improving. In order to receive grace, you have to be truly repentant. You may stumble and do it again, but you have to be sincerely sorry. This guy is citing the Apostle Paul as a way of copping out. He's not sorry in the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:44 PM
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Damn this is the first time I've seen them defend their porn usage with the Bible It's incredibly offensive. The Apostle Paul was rather strict about sexual behavior. There's no way the "thorn in his side" was anything sexual. Scholars suspect it was a physical or health ailment. (Not that this guy is saying Paul's problem was sexual—but to even compare it?!??!) There's no way that God would deny anyone relief from a sexual malfunction (sin) that they were begging to be freed of. To suggest this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:41 PM
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Lol imagine writing this Biblical passage just to defend porn I know, right? There's no way that this guy believes that crap he is saying. He just wants it to be true because he's too lazy to BE BETTER. The Apostle Paul would NEVER condone porn addiction. Never in a million years. The Apostle Paul, scholars believe, probably had some physical ailment. Not some stupid sexual addiction. Furthermore, there's no WAY that God would permit the Apostle Paul to not be freed of sexual addiction—what the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:37 PM
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We complain about LVM/NVM, we encourage each other to LEAVE THEM ALONE, and to seek only good men. How is that any similar to these incel groups that stoke their desire to enslave, rape and murder women? There is no resemblance whatsoever. But they feel we are hateful and robbing them of something they deserve—the ability to manipulate us into having sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:22 PM
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If anything, FDS is a way to protect ourselves from their zero value selves. That's exactly what FDS does, first and foremost. A lot of the problems women have wouldn't exist were it not for men who buy into the red pill. We are here to encourage other women to protect ourselves, to deny these men the sex they feel entitled to, and to stay away from them. Denying men something they were never entitled to in the first place is not hateful. Identifying LVM so we can avoid them is not hateful. We k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:21 PM
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I hate it when guys want a virgin because of religion, but excuse themselves, because it’s ‘unrealistic’ for guys. I hate this kind of hypocrisy. If they're all in with their religion, be all in. Excusing themselves for not being all in but expect everyone else (meaning: women) to be is worthless. Begone, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:52 PM
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It also suggests that men can screw around for years yet women have to jump into serving men immediately while being pure and virginal. I find this so yukky and repulsive. When they're both younger, maybe high school sweethearts, both virgins and get married? That sounds sweet and I know of several marriages that are long-term happy that started like that. But when he's been screwing around for a while and then expects some pure virginal girl? Get out of here, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:49 PM
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Two 20-something (only a year or two apart in age) virgins getting married doesn't weird me out. They were kids, they grew up together, and as long as one of them wasn't a jackass, it probably worked out. I think a lot of happy marriages from 50-100 years ago started out like that. A 36-year-old marrying a 25-year-old, virgin or not, does weird me out. I don't know his back story, but it sounds odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:46 PM
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I just think it's fucked up to judge someone based on how they will look compared to you at a certain age. I agree in theory that judging people by their looks isn't the nicest thing to do... but... Men do it all the time. They talk about how her mother looks because they're soooo afraid she'll age badly. They care very much about how she looks and how they need to feel attracted. And I agree, we should feel attracted to our partners. Basically, it's not nice to judge people for their looks for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:31 PM
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I would love to meet/be with an artist who is also a HVM tho. I'm sure they're out there! Your artwork is awesome. The line is blurred between "amateur" and "professional" these days because everyone has access to the same selling tools and methods to get exposure. When we all can share our music or videos on YouTube, sell our art online, sell our books by self-publishing... who cares anymore whether you went to art school, as long as your art looks great?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:04 PM
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he had a job and a car and I did not and I always felt so impressed and admiring of it all. Looking back I feel far less impressed now that I have my life together just as much as he did if not more. I didn't have this with an ex but I had this with some friends... I was a late bloomer, didn't have a car or drivers license when all my friends did, didn't have a job (but still was making money on the side) and I always thought my friends were so superior and so put together. And they let me think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:00 PM
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It was hard but I managed to get though that and my hobby helped so so sooo much. It's so wonderful to hear! Your artwork is amazing. It obviously took a lot of effort and discipline to get so good at it. The people I see usually aren’t jealous of my art but I keep away from men who earn their living through painting or drawing. The ones I met though out my life were deranged. I've known some creative, artistic men who aren't insane, but their partners usually aren't artists. There are a few fam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:43 PM
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Wonderful! I love your artwork! It is awesome! And this is how it's done!! Do something for yourself, something that you're proud of, and it will be with you for the rest of your life. The kind of validation you get from something like this is a thousand times more satisfying than hoping for the scraps from a scrote. A good litmus test for men is to find out if he is proud of your artwork, or if he is indifferent or not curious about it? LVM aren't interested or are more likely to show latent je…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:16 PM
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Best defence is not to play. Love and enjoy yourself and stay healthy and happy for yourself. Who even cares about being attractive to scrotes? I am strongly agreeing with EVERYTHING you've written. This is exactly what the scrotes do—they don't want her to be merely not focused on or unconcerned about her beauty (another way of putting it would be, "not vain") they want her to be INSECURE about herself. To see herself as "lesser than"—forever "lesser." To be always scared and worried because sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:06 AM
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And he believed God would forgive him for everything if he repented. Being forgiven is part of the Bible, but nowhere does it say that you can keep repeating the same bad actions over and over without facing consequences. AND, you're not forgiven if you aren't truly sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:44 AM
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There are two different ways to be confident about your value, including your looks: Confident, and vain. A confident woman knows her worth and what that means is, she KNOWS she doesn't deserve the scraps off the table. She KNOWS she deserves good treatment. A vain woman is all about how she's superior and better because of her looks, not because of her inherent value (that she would have whether she was pretty or not). I personally think vain women have some insecurity in there and they want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:38 AM
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This shameless old gold digger is tryna scam off someone 7 years younger The first thing I noticed! He has no shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:57 AM
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basically forcing me out of the manosphere of Reddit because I didn’t comply with either silence or laughter, standing up for women is against the social rules of Reddit, especially if you are a woman. And at the same time, they howl about this sub and constantly message us and complain. Some of us make blanket statements about men (which usually should be interpreted as "all scrotes" because many of us have HVM in our lives) but we have never, as far as I have seen, joked about the suffering an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:35 AM
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This is what a lot of men secretly think. They may deny it, but what else could explain the lack of utter sorrow at the loss of life when women die en masse? It's the bitter ones in the manosphere that are like this. They enable and encourage each other on the Internet and it gets worse and worse. There were plenty of misogynists around before the Internet became a thing, but (maybe I'm naive) I suspect that back then, a lot of the would-be incels and would-be manosphere guys were told to suck i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:30 AM
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What a beautiful couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:48 PM
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This is tragically so accurate among so many of these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:36 PM
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He'd lived through the Depression and the loss of his own father at a young age, so he saw his Mom have to deal with that and it likely shaped his views a lot. Grandpa was ahead of his time and a real HVM. A family member had the same experience, and yes, he was also a HVM as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:49 PM
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I feel really hopeless like I will surely die alone NO YOU WON'T. Life is just beginning for you. You've got many beautiful years ahead of you and you're still quite young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:40 AM
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These older men have no qualms about spoiling the careers and youth of women That's because most or all men in the manosphere don't take the career of any woman seriously. They think it's a joke. Women aren't cut out for being good at anything professionally. They believe her feminist sisters told her she ought to have a "career" (which is always something meaningless and expendable—like pushing pencils on a desk). That's because scrotes don't think women can have ambition or talents. Don't EVER…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:36 AM
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That’s a total marriage privilege being handed out for nothing! TOTALLY agree. Hell no, he doesn't get kids named after him unless he puts a ring on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:09 PM
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Considering how many children are raised without their fathers in their lives anyway, it makes no sense whatsoever. If he's a deadbeat who is never there, there is no way he deserves to have his kids take his name. If he expects it anyway? The hell with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:25 AM
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Ultimately I don’t care about taking a man’s name in marriage but what I don’t get is when a woman has a baby with her bf and gives the bf’s name to the child. Um he’s not your husband so why are you giving the child his name?? Yeah, I don't get this either. There is NO EXPECTATION that the kid will have to have the father's last name when the parents are not married. Traditionally, when a couple marries they share a last name. (I'm not saying it has to be this way, but it's tradition.) Then the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:22 AM
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What if women personality isn’t relate to breast size? Crazy huh? Personality? Who pays attention to that? Her personality isn't the least bit interesting to him until much later, when he can complain about her not putting up with his shit and blame it all on her personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:44 AM
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there must be a spot in it reserved for all these current "Christians" who have extremely nihilistic lifestyles. There is, I believe it! You can call yourself "Christian" all day long, but if you're actually a sadistic, unrepentant pervert who loves torturing people and sees nothing wrong with it, there's NO WAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:40 PM
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Being pornsick goes against his god. It's not normal to get turned on by seeing your partner in pain. Agreed! It's abnormal. Being turned on by torture? He's a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:37 PM
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People will fight tooth and nail to defend their “kinks” but anyone with a modicum of understanding of psychology can see that it’s a neurosis. Totally this. Instead of trying to figure out what abuse or dysfunction led to this, they just accept it as their kink. Horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:35 PM
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It sure does!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:33 PM
6

OH MY GOSH. WHAT DID I JUST READ. I'm sure Jesus would totally be okay with him beating the crap out of his dream girl. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:32 PM
17

This is accurate. He wants a free monogamous prostitute. In what fucking world bro? Nailed it. And she's supposed to be thrilled with this arrangement! LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:26 AM
8

Like, if you claim to have washed your hands off women, you wouldn't even think or talk about women but instead you'd focus on your women-free life and other things. So true. They want our attention and feedback. They want us to be butthurt about them "going their own way." They want us to care. If they just wanted to go their own way, they'd go. They wouldn't make a big production of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:20 AM
4

LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:25 AM
24

Red flag 6: using the word "intend" instead of "intent." LOL. Seriously, he only tried to reach her because she blocked him. How dare she! "Spontaneous"? How about apathetic until he wants something from her at 10 o'clock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:19 AM
15

Editing to say that I infact just turned it into a blanket. I'll have it by July third. That is AWESOME!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:27 AM
7

Looking for a chaste nun to cheat on next.” Perfect interpretation!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:50 PM
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