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just block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:21 AM
39

error / slipping them off and raping women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:41 AM
6

must have been doing something right 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:47 PM
2

i actually think men PREFER knowing that the women are being abused. sex is an act of hatred by men towards women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:00 PM
3

because they 1) dont want women joining and 2) feel threatened by women growing spines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:43 PM
10

sooo misogynistic - try pointing that out on any other sub on reddit and see how much reddit hates women 🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:41 PM
4

my ex is solidly 95% of that description
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:11 AM
2

in my experience small business owner, paratrooper, cinematographer, doctor and lawyers plural
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:28 PM
3

This says more about the shitty legal system that doesn't protect women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:23 PM
41

his father is clearly low value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:07 PM
7

Women are at the very least going to be polite. Scrotes don't give a shit who they hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:49 PM
233

I mean, I definitely don't blame their mothers since they likely stayed and took care of these awful Scrotes. Their fathers on the other hand are probably absent or semi absent useless douches who taught them misogyny and little else. Scrotes aren't thanking their dads since they barely registered in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:12 PM
1

Does he not realise that HE is the product?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:05 PM
1

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:12 AM
27

Congratulations on leaving your awful husband and I like your interpretation of the Bible, I can definitely support that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:36 PM
2

Men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:06 AM
6

I enjoyed reading this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:54 AM
3

Ahahahahah I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:29 AM
9

He sounds like he has a mental illness. Not saying that to be funny, it just really sounds like he has some issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:24 AM
13

Exactly. It's to lie to men like everything else about porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:14 AM
6

Agreed, I've gone looking and it's all absolutely shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:13 AM
44

Men hate women. It's confirmed yet again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:10 AM
10

Wow. Just 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:08 AM
23

Exactly. And saying it makes us want to scowl at them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:07 AM
34

Well there's some genes none of us are going to let thru to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:06 AM
58

Doesn't look like something a woman would say. Probably male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:15 PM
2

🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:58 PM
1

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:49 PM
11

Yeah and the worst behaviour is always justified in the mind of the perpetrator....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:20 PM
4

Did you also date my ex 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:17 PM
13

Yeah well women learn from life experience how completely worthless their ex partners were to them. How they were abusive and mean. How they were narcissistic. How they stole from them. Men are far more likely to be a threat to us than of any benefit whatsoever and prove themselves to be low value over and over and over. Women over 40 have just lived long enough to accept this is the reality despite how awful that is. Just gotta get on with your life without the fairytale because there are no Pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:50 AM
5

Except we don't need to "settle" anymore because we are able to work and have bank accounts and mortgages without a scrote around to make us miserable and ruin our lives. Suck it scrotes. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:36 AM
16

Total scrote. They're just used to treating women like dirt and getting away with it. He can suck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:27 AM
10

Ahahaha my ex scrote was PROUD of himself he managed to scrape together his 50/50 of the bills. He flatly REFUSED to clean the bathroom and as things got more abusive over time stopped me from GARDENING because "inside the house is your responsibility, you leave outside to me!" The yard basically turned into a jungle from that point onwards Honestly I'm sure life will give him exactly what he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:53 AM
8

Dogs are the best people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:47 AM
8

That sounds like a worthy pursuit regardless of what's happening in your life! And maybe not ahead of his time but universal, and fundamental and true in a way that transcends time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:25 AM
24

There is a reason Rumi's work has been admired for centuries. Always so profound and so meaningful. What a cultural treasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:17 AM
58

Why marry her and make it official when he can just have a forever girlfriend instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:14 AM
63

Desperate and creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:12 AM
29

Yeah it is just projecting a man's problem (being an abusive murderous pos) and deflecting it onto women so that "why doesn't she leave" is the focus rather than "WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS PATHETIC SHIT OF A NVM" and by extension men generally since I don't know if anyone has noticed but this is a MENS PROBLEM and no one gives a fuck if it's sometimes not men or it's not all me or whatever the fuck other deflection tactics the Scrotes will RAIN DOWN MEN ARE THE PROBLEM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:10 AM
3

Yeah well if he really likes you he will go see you in your own town. Otherwise he's just using you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:05 AM
3

It sucks but...Where's the lie tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:52 AM
3

He literally moved city. Don't waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:20 AM
22

Omg who cares if she's pretty, no woman no matter what she looks like should put up with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:13 AM
25

That's right. My ex didn't want me changing jobs or buying a house. He was afraid of me being great and abused me to try to keep me small. I am so happy that POS is out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:19 AM
19

Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:14 PM
24

Where's the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:13 PM
32

Ok then 🤷‍♀️ so leave women alone then because we literally have no use for men otherwise and whatever else you're trying to get out of us (sex) we're not giving you so move along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:12 PM
7

What? This is not a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:52 PM
3

Ah got it. Thanks for the reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:43 AM
8

And this is how it should be when there is no justice for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:19 AM
5

They don't actually know any women do they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:15 AM
4

Yeah, this is truly upsetting... And the timing 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:02 AM
2

Yeah they don't want us talking with other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:31 PM
1

Yeah my jurisdiction is over twice as large as Texas and we had no new cases yesterday. So no thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:29 PM
8

If it weren't for all the COVID there I'd move immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:56 AM
8

I can really relate to this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:08 AM
41

r/relationships banned me - I just want to throw those women life buoys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:42 PM
3

They are the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:37 PM
2

They actually have no idea of the difference between makeup and no makeup - you could test them all day long and they'd fail every single time to identify whether a woman has on makeup or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:12 AM
1

Don't waste your time on men who are of no value. FDS is unionising women. If we collectively stop putting up with their bullshit they will be FORCED to pick up their act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:07 AM
3

Agreed Nothing about men says "love" it's all just use and abuse Hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:52 AM
6

Men 👏🏻projecting 👏🏻their 👏🏻issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:49 AM
3

Omg YES My ex used to take photos of himself with his nephew and I was like why are you taking these for social media? Clearly he was trying to hook up with other women while we were still together - but I used to think GO RIGHT AHEAD DICKHEAD - no woman is going to want you with your stupid baby photo Stupid scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:47 AM
6

Excellent post. Agree strongly on all counts. Thank you for writing this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻.... here have a cocktail🍹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:41 PM
3

Seriously my exes have been shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:24 AM
15

She is a hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:19 AM
31

There is literally nothing about their own failings they won't project onto us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:46 AM
3

Honestly who even knows. I'm not even sure they're real, just demons/ software bugs sent to test us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:48 PM
4

Yeah exactly. You pose for yourself in the mirror all you want showing yourself your biceps - doesn't make you more fuckable from where I'm standing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:06 AM
17

Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:32 AM
3

Those were the days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:13 AM
53

Agreed. There is no point. My ex scrote stole thousands of dollars worth of power tools and camping equipment that I bought in my name as he was moving out his stuff. Rather than fight him for it I let it go. Better to see the back of him than deal with him ever again. According to that scrote what was mine was his and what was his was his. He had one of the blackest souls I have come across. I will never let a man into my space again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:46 AM
37

Yes the manosphere is men's anger at women being granted any legal rights (reproductive, harassment etc) plus their misdirected anger due to socioeconomic factors that impact them and must be the fault of women or any "other" group to their own because corporations don't have faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:49 PM
6

Not op but thanks. It's so Goddamn frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:28 PM
9

You will 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:26 PM
2

I know right? I couldn't even get a lift to the transport department from my ex scrote when I really needed it. Instead he SCREAMED at me and told me how worthless I was. THIS was supposed to be my partner? The man I was supposed to be able to rely on? Not up to the task. NEGATIVE value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:24 PM
5

Deprived of options, men will fuck whatever is in the pantry and fridge mixed in with kitchen implements and whatever bags and wraps are lying around in your kitchen drawers (naturally their own kitchen is not stocked, if they have one at all). They're MiNiMaLiSTs afterall, not simply poor. And the only thing "complimentary" about them is the free mansplaining, sexism and verbal abuse which you definitely did NOT order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:14 AM
12

They're the ones who say "Do you REALISE how difficult it is for men??? There are so few women who want to bang me whereas YOU just walk into a bar and get laid! YoU HaVE No iDeA!!!" My silent judging eyes reply "No honey. I don't feel sympathy for you, I pity you because you think your complaints are valid. They're not, and neither are you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:53 AM
8

Yes it is cultural. Yes we were told to expect nothing and give everything. Yes it makes us completely miserable and heartbroken most of the time. No, it shouldn't be this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:10 AM
40

Exactly. They cheer on the bullies until they are the ones getting stepped on. Sorry, you'll get no sympathy from me - you get back what you send out the the world and you send out nothing but selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:07 AM
8

As if that's the only thing we expect 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:03 AM
105

Trust your gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:02 AM
15

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:01 AM
62

I mean if there's no trust it's time to bail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:35 AM
20

Amen 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:31 AM
20

People don't take these rights away, men do. Don't let them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:50 PM
74

Together we can resist their oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:47 PM
2

My ex partners ENTIRE personality is on that list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:36 PM
1

Agreed. It's the only safe space on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:30 PM
2

Dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:28 PM
7

If you're looking for a cesspit filled with nothing but LVM I suggest OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:25 PM
3

Is the captain single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:21 PM
9

They are trash. Of course it should be illegal!! Why isn't it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:17 PM
3

They are zero value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:10 PM
3

I can catch my own bugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:12 AM
18

That's cool. We don't need to value men neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:10 AM
42

Women don't think it's ok. They just haven't joined the FDS union yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:08 AM
3

Block delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:05 AM
25

Not my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:28 AM
26

Me too. I'd be like "who needs shoes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:28 AM
3

Just dump him already and gtf back to sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:27 AM
1

Women are always afraid of men. It's our default setting since they are so much bigger and stronger (even the ones that look really weak can still kill us). It's also the reason they get away with treating us so badly. If we were the same size they'd be in the ground with their behaviour. They wouldn't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:34 PM
44

Ah yes, but they're not interested in vetting - that would imply they want something to last - they just want random sex with random strangers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:30 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣 this is how they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:32 AM
23

Ever. For any reason. To anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:31 AM
16

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:48 AM
16

Exactly. They are creepy old men preying on young women to exert coercive control over them as usual. And then turn into cry babies when some justice gets wielded against them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:11 AM
22

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:58 AM
6

Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:42 AM
14

Yeah men love to hurt women so you basically handed him instructions. Also, wasted time on him before he proved himself worthy. Lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:40 AM
6

Oh I should go do this 😍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:38 AM
110

Because they're all about high volume traffic and the lowest possible effort and commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:35 AM
68

Agreed. It's not your job to educate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:33 AM
4

Yes, we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:44 AM
5

They're mostly shit. Just remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:12 AM
6

Exactly. She didn't want him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:27 AM
14

I love this post so much. Thank you for writing it 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:25 AM
43

Yeah of course- male projection strikes again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:00 AM
7

This is inspirational
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:20 PM
13

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:19 PM
35

Good for YOU 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:18 PM
6

That's correct. They literally think they can do this for months if not years and it means nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:36 AM
45

That is bravery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:39 PM
3

Honey, it isn't safe. It never has been. I'm sorry this is new to you and you're adjusting to the realisation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:30 PM
4

Investing is sound. Day trading is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:18 PM
17

So partnership for the purpose of revenge ie by treating the next woman badly in order to even the score?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:13 PM
10

I used to think this too. But now I'm not so sure. Now I'm wondering whether at least some of them are actively trying to partner with women (who they hate) so they can access them as "their partner" for the purpose of hurting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:11 PM
15

Do you think that men are capable of seeking to have a partner for reasons to do with hate rather than 'paternalistic love'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:58 AM
8

And world. Like we cannot walk down the street without them trying to intimidate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:35 AM
21

Are you sure it's that benign?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:37 AM
9

Maybe they only ever intended to hate their higher earning partner. Maybe they only chose her because they hated her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:36 AM
61

I mean OBVIOUSLY women have dick preferences. We're just not allowed to talk about it. That would almost give the impression we're sentient humans with opinions of our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:31 AM
4

Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:05 AM
44

So degrade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:00 AM
6

Isn't that the real reason they have a relationship? They're there to hurt their partner however they can, as much as they can. It's about power and control. Completely sadistic but honestly I think that's their real motivation Its the furthest from love you can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:41 AM
8

Yes and not have to worry if they're going to disagree, intimidate you and get violent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:33 AM
3

God I wish the captain had told me this three years ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:27 AM
58

Almost? ... it literally does that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:29 PM
31

Buy a house See my friend he doesn't want me visiting Park my car in the garage Store my belongings in the shed Do gardening He's gone and thank God for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:08 PM
126

I prefer to go by Ms and have forever because fuck anyone who wants to know my marital status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:05 PM
15

Meh no loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:55 PM
3

Staying is failure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:28 PM
2

Protect your money don't let him weasel it from you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:06 PM
1

They're so desperate to message me - delete delete delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:04 PM
17

Yes or maiming and terrorising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:52 PM
2

Do they sell these online?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:31 PM
2

Nope coercive control was the issue with my ex. He is a narcissist and a misogynist,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:30 PM
71

Thanks for the reminder. I've received a lot of messages of hate from men recently. I don't reply to any of their comments. I have no interest in changing their warped views as they are completely disconnected from reality. My only aim is to stay far far away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:46 PM
44

Tell me about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:38 AM
2

That's exactly right. We put up with them only because they are a constant unyielding threat to our safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:22 PM
5

Yes. Because they're desperate to be heroes. It's really all they want in life. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:11 AM
1

It is actually impossible to have standards "too high"... they miss out. Sucks to be them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:08 AM
9

True. The only reason we put up with their revolting behaviour is because they can kill us if we don't. It doesn't make us like them or respect them, just fear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:03 AM
3

Agreed. Orgasm for me, nothing for you. Yes, it's called revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:02 AM
2

Because they're entitled. They refuse to compromise. Can you imagine a man putting up with this shit endlessly the way women do? It would never happen. They wouldn't even find a compromise, they just expect us to suffer to cater to their whims as always. Best strategy (particularly now a lot of people are working from home) is not having a scrote in your house and being able to control the temperature!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:00 AM
16

Who knows. I can't even remember why I was interested in them other than a lifetime of people telling me I should get one and put up with their shit. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:53 AM
7

Honestly they don't care about anything as long as they're getting laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:52 AM
2

That would imply I'm looking, which I'm not. I have better things to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:48 AM
17

You can literally tell them "he is abusing me" and their response is... I'll chat to him (never happens)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:43 AM
6

Yeah they have no ability to think logically. They're just so unbelievably emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:42 AM
52

That's because they're disgusting. They're trying to justify they're sticking around to be a dad so that should be enough. Women don't get to complain their partner is fat and gross because LOOK HES BEING A DAD! They're so low effort and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:25 PM
8

Gotta say, I've only ever had men say "you're over thinking it" Nope, pretty sure that thinking was the right amount tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:56 PM
31

Oh I'm sorry, they would have lost you at respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:53 PM
173

Men shouldn't be allowed to vote. Men shouldn't be allowed to read and write. Men shouldnt be allowed to own property. Men should need permission from their wives to make healthcare choices. Men shouldn't go out in the world without a woman relative to escort them (otherwise they are asking for it) Taste of your own medicine scrotes - you like it? Now spread this shit over your whole life and see how you like that. Tasty huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:51 PM
6

Ya. Can totally relate to this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:34 AM
6

And that's how it's done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:52 AM
25

Correct. Men's abhorrent behaviour makes us want to stay tf away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:32 PM
10

Good for YOU. Fuck them. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:12 PM
4

🤣🤣👏🏻this is so accurate OMG! Like WHY ARE YOU HERE ASSHAT! I was hoping to never have to see you EVER AGAIN after the pain you caused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:10 PM
10

How can any person go through life being unable to feed themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:56 AM
7

Wish I could figure out how to get into the website and login but whatever system they've got doesn't seem to work and/ or isn't obvious where or how to type in a code.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:54 AM
24

Huh. I got rid of my scrote before the COVID shutdown. I can relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:44 AM
12

Yeah well silence is acquiescence so prove you're not one of them Scrotes. Otherwise, yes, all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:41 AM
18

Yeah we should petition Netflix to reclassify these to horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:37 AM
3

To be fair, women are never interested in this shit. Pickmes are just lying about it to stroke their damn egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:28 AM
3

How are you friends with this sociopath?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:47 AM
5

Me too. I sleep so soundly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:42 AM
1

For me, definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:34 PM
25

That's right. Lower yourself down to them because they can't go up to meet you... Alternative? Stay single (this is better for your health including avoiding domestic violence)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:22 PM
34

Wow. This is so shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:16 PM
4

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:10 PM
24

That's how we know we are doing FDS right. They hate us because we speak the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:54 PM
12

Yeah tell these Scrotes where to go. If they are way too old for you - tell them. Fuck them. If they're so ridiculous they don't get how disgusting they are to you tell them. Crush their fucking egos. We shouldn't have to be silent about this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:50 PM
2

Good for YOU. What selfish entitled picks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:24 PM
5

Honestly when was the last time you knew a woman in a relationship where the benefits to her outweighed the costs? We get stuck because our biology makes us stay even when they are completely awful to us. Best way to avoid them costing more than they ebenfit you is avoiding them in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:45 AM
41

God they should survey some women younger than that! Any woman who has had some experience dealing with their crap will tell you they prefer not to do all the housework when - why? Seriously there's nothing in it for us at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:30 AM
6

No they just stop trying to impress a women once they've fucked her. They don't value any woman so once they've done that they really don't need to bother trying to pretend any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:33 AM
7

No men's idea of marriage is that it locks THE WOMAN down from other men In his mind he's free to do whatever the he'll he wants Classic double standard b.s. I mean think about it - these dicks celebrate marriage by GOING TO STRIP CLUBS Like if that isn't the most basic sign he really doesn't care about his vows I really have no idea what does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:32 AM
2

Yeah men created this problem, not women But because men just blame all their shit on women they're blaming us for this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:29 AM
5

Honestly there's no point engaging with them they are a waste of space and a waste of oxygen. Better to just stay away from them and they can keep their idiot views about the world We can keep our vaginas under lock and key until they fucking learn to respect us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:28 AM
3

Wow. He wasn't even pulling his weight. Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:22 AM
10

Yeah they'd treat those women like shit until the women left because they couldn't handle the abuse any more... pretty much just like men without any money basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:14 AM
9

Yeah exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:11 AM
22

Wow, they are so pathetic jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:11 AM
11

I prefer dogs to cats or men. Dogs are also bums but at least they're protective, affectionate and loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:07 AM
23

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:05 AM
18

Yeah no point communicating to the Scrotes they never do what we want. Dump them all I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:03 AM
2

Love this and yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:02 AM
3

It's harassment. Let them know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:28 PM
3

Also there's a solid percentage wondering whether the sausage is worth the effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:03 PM
11

Just different tactics. Have dated men from all over and can assure you their tricks may be different but the bullshit is the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:02 PM
2

Wow what a total narcissist. He's just trying to Hoover you. He's sick and toxic and incredibly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:42 PM
2

What a load of manipulative trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:40 PM
8

No thank you, you can keep your dick in your pants and find someone else to deal with that dumpster fire of a situation you call a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:36 AM
40

That's right. If he's not investing he's taking and it's time to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:28 AM
2

Oh my Lord. Thank you for valuing yourself and getting out of there. I am so sorry you didn't have good enough women in your life to teach you how not to put up with male b.s because those good women would not let that happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:07 AM
6

Feeling like you miss your ex is ok. Your brain needs to rewire and grow some better neurons with better connections and then you'll be ok. Just gotta let us brain grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:57 AM
44

🤣 it's not defamatory if it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:52 AM
3

Yeah my ex refused to have a prenup so we had no future basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:50 AM
2

Wow. This was my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:39 AM
4

Yeah apparently I can provide for myself AND bake pies So no thank you honey I'm busy 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:22 AM
2

Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:36 AM
2

None of us would be with them if we could be with women. Women are just better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:35 AM
2

On purpose. Every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:31 AM
1

Depends who they're talking about. Probably great for the sons and really shitty for the daughters. A lot of men would answer that yes it would be a good thing because in their eyes women's experiences are irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:26 PM
5

Very simple. Wait for them to experience more male behaviour until they open their eyes and can see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:23 PM
7

Agreed. I'd just tell my brother what a waste of oxygen he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:15 PM
6

Pretty much all men will use you and waste your time for years without any intention of sticking around. Commitment first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:13 PM
9

They're looking for a bangmaid with additional maid duties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:57 PM
3

Omg I love this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:57 AM
18

Abuse everyone who says "no thank you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:56 AM
12

God So true. They don't see you as someone to care for, love and show empathy towards they see you as prey that they want to take from and destroy. Don't tell them anything that could show them weakness or vulnerability because they will absolutely use it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:55 AM
11

Because they're so unbelievably selfish they don't care how Mich time they waste. Honestly they don't care if they destroy you. As long as they get what they want they will happily bleed you dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:16 AM
2

Yeah cut that rot out of your life. Tumours need to be removed so they don't take over and kill you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:14 AM
8

If he sees her as an equal she must be massively out of his league 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:02 PM
31

Yes that's the problem with marriage. It passes on a whole lot of male genetics that had no right getting through to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:59 AM
22

Yes. No one should know the truth. Because it's shit how they treat us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:41 PM
1

So pretty much why is she trying to keep him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:46 AM
3

Exactly. They don't seem to understand that if a woman is looking for money in a relationship it's because she wants compensation for the shit she has to deal with. She's not looking for something extra or unfair... that's what men are looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:45 AM
5

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:41 AM
10

I really relate to this one because no, he's really super low value so I don't really want that for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:35 AM
41

Yes agreed. However a lot of men are basically super selfish and refuse to do anything that doesn't directly and immediately benefit them. Basically we need to boycott anyone who behaves this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:33 AM
21

At least some of them have that. They're so abusive most of the time I can understand why women resort to this as a way to try to get some sort of control over their predicament.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:30 AM
10

They treat women so badly they will eventually run out of women who want to date any of them at all. Women are sick of their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:29 AM
4

Yeah she's not there yet, but she's not far off either. She will hopefully leave sooner rather than later. I give it three months tops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:26 AM
22

They just know there's no competition. They collectively don't try and believe women will just take whatever swill they can get. They don't seem to understand that since we do not have penises controlling our every move in life that we have a perfectly legitimate third option, namely no man at all. I'd say with the FDS backlash that is headed their way they can either sit up and pay attention or understand there is a tidal wave of "No thank you" headed their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:24 AM
9

Yes me too. They take too much and give too little and it's completely expected in our society. I say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:19 AM
15

I find the abusive men who need counselling the most are absolutely the least likely to take the steps to get it because they're so perfect and also getting counselling is "weak" which they definitely are not 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:18 AM
95

Yes but by this time women have received a lifetime of abuse from men and not interested in their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:13 AM
3

Wow that is super impressive. I hope you learn everything you can from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:06 AM
2

They think all men, no matter how useless, should be considered worth more than a woman. Getting angry at a woman who outshines them just exposes their sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:05 AM
2

Awesome work! 👏🏻👏🏻😊 I'm so happy for you and I look forward to doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:00 AM
2

Thanks and good point. However I think after my experiences with my ex and other men before him, I honestly don't see the point in bothering with men at all anymore. They just take and take and abuse and manipulate. I don't need one for money and I know they're unreliable for any other support whether it's simple favours (a lift from the hospital) or emotional support. They lie, they gaslight, they watch porn and goto strippers, they lie, they flirt with other women and they cheat. And that's ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:58 AM
19

I can guarantee he would have refused to pay rent because he said as much. And I wouldn't have objected to him calling it his house (even for face saving purposes) I wanted him there and wanted him to share a life with me. It would have been his home too. Just a pity he has so many issues because of men placing these weird requirements on each other so they turn into whatever the collective noun for asshats might be. A misogyny of asshats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:35 PM
5

Thanks and good for YOU TOO! 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:29 PM
6

Thank you on both counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:16 PM
18

I know right? Also, how terrifying if someone found out 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:10 PM
15

Yes exactly this. God forbid you know anything they don't. The sky wouod literally fall in if they understood how much we have to pretend we are stupid just to manage their emotional issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:42 AM
17

That is awesome. When I was really little I used to hang out with my dad while he fixed cars and did odd jobs around the house, whether it was putting up a shelf, fixing a leaky tap, or wiring a new power outlet (he was a qualified electrician among other things), I'd hand him tools and he'd show me how to fix things. I never really let on to my ex I knew how to do all this sort of stuff because I knew he wouldn't have been happy about it. He had issues with all my other skills without adding an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:25 AM
20

Amen. Women just need this place too much for it not to catch on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:07 AM
5

It helps. Men respect the property of other men more than they respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:01 AM
106

That is correct. Because he thought "people" would think less of him living in my house. Had some fantasy about conversations at bbqs. Totally worth throwing his life away over apparently. This is how fragile they are. And the more fragile, the more abusive. None of it makes sense but this is how they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:37 AM
7

My ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:33 AM
19

Yep. Their favourite past time is mental gymnastics to deny being monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:29 AM
2

So the reason men kill women is because Men have morals??? This sad fuck needs to be excommunicated from humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:01 PM
5

I don't think misogynist fits in my definition of the word good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:56 PM
5

Yeah it's just "I hate women because..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:34 PM
1

He's wasting your time. Move on,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:11 PM
27

Thank God she got away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:07 PM
31

The world is our prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:54 PM
6

I really like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:48 PM
6

Me too. I don't know if I'll ever date again after my last relationship. I couldn't think of anything worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:46 PM
10

Can you put that on a t shirt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:28 PM
56

Yeah mine was all "what will I say at bbqs?..." Like wtf? Literally no one is going to bring it up at a BBQ you moron. Work on your ridiculous ideas about masculinity and move on with your life... (said this inside my head of course because he was to fragile) Nope, it hurt his manhood too much. He decided emotionally abusing me was then a good strategy to get what he wanted before eventually walking out. Which is great, cause now I'm renovating my house that I own without this deadweight to deal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:00 PM
61

So did I. I had had enough of his b.s. He said we should break up. I said I agreed because I wanted to buy a house (which he said he couldn't handle because he couldn't handle the idea of living in my house) NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:48 PM
2

Also my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:46 PM
4

My ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:44 PM
3

He sounds awful and not worth your time basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:26 PM
16

Take as much as possible and give nothing in return. How about no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:22 PM
7

Society is doing what it's always done. Groomed us from birth to be servants to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:11 PM
17

What kind of scrote drafts this shit. It's not even an agreement. At best it's a declaration that the person named is over 18. That's it. What a waste of paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:06 PM
16

Agree with your daughter. They are trash. Also, it's not new. Have yet to be in a relationship with one that didn't turn out to be a pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:00 PM
2

It's concerning he's not able to work out that yes he is an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:53 PM
13

Yeah they literally don't care about you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:51 PM
1

Yes I bet the Scrotes are horrified we don't want to play their stupid games anymore. Dickheads, we're done with your "relationships". You've bastardised them so much we can't get ANYTHING out of them. So we're opting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:41 PM
43

Love this. Also that sniveling idiot might have a gun to come kill us all so yeah, poor them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:24 PM
48

1) Doesn't allocate domestic chores according to sex. Understands all chores are able to be done by either person and contributes a reasonable amount. 2) doesn't emotionally or verbally abuse me (or use any other kind of abuse). 3) doesn't hate women. 4) I'll find other items for the list when I find a man who manages items 1, 2 and 3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:31 PM
4

Yeah well it's cheaper for men if they can use and abuse women for free. So of course it's empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:24 PM
15

Honestly their behaviour is revolting. Why men thinks it's "ok" to do this to their partners just tells me how completely unequal relationships are. If your partner goes to strippers just dump him. Particularly if he goes to strippers before getting married. It's basically a very public statement telling everyone how little he respects you. Why women put up with this shit is just as unbelievable as all the other shit we put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:35 PM
4

Calling the cops. They were not invited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:17 PM
2

Glad he's your ex so you're away from that creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:15 PM
21

Not all men is men literally admitting they are sexist misogynists and part of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:13 PM
1

Yes exactly. But this every day for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:30 PM
2

Super low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:51 PM
2

Marriage is just sex slavery for women. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:40 PM
1

Yeah old boyfriend sends a photo he literally sent me years ago "Your turn!" Ah no... also.... just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:37 PM
42

My LV ex would start recording me on his phone when I was super pissed off and angry at him while having an argument with him. Entire purpose was to get me to shut up. Total power play. He was so abusive I think it will take ages to get over. He was already living with me when he did this. He waiting until it was difficult for me to leave before he really started treating me like shit. Any red flags early on - you run. Don't wait until your stuck with a scrote in your house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:25 PM
3

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:18 PM
73

Arguably counselling is also set up to be biased towards men due to psychology training being developed by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:56 AM
36

Yeah they start with the assumption that by going to couples counselling you want the relationship to continue. Counselling for individuals perhaps less likely to hold that bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:54 AM
0

Only use Instagram. Boycott all others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:52 AM
3

Yeah there are plenty of news articles, journal articles "Women! Lower your standards!" Whole societies are terrified at what would happen if men can't access regular sex (uprising?) Marriage was created by men to benefit men and keep them under control at the expense of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:30 PM
131

So I just heard that he 1 recognises he personally benefits from women being treated as a lower class than men; 2 recognises FDS is a protest against that (specifically in the treatment of women in the private sphere); 3 don't like no one taking his privileged entitlement away; and 4 discredited FDS in front of a large male audience in response in order to attempt to silence FDS for the purpose of maintaining status quo ie his class being treated preferentially when compared to ours. He then use…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:04 PM
7

Finally, one of them showing some sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:33 PM
7

It is super frustrating. More women writers, more women directors and dops, more women producers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:23 AM
9

Because they honestly believe they are better than women. Unfortunately women know they're not valued and so act accordingly. It takes a mindshift not to put up with being devalued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:02 AM
6

They're so ridiculous. It's such a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:54 AM
11

The new ten commandments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:53 AM
9

Yeah I'd agree with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:50 AM
13

Exactly how I feel. I came so close to settling for him. He was so low value. I can't imagine how much worse my life would have been if I was still stuck with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:32 AM
25

Yes. I'm buying a house and have the option of a great new job. Couldn't have done it without dropping the deadweight holding me back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:20 AM
23

This was my life for about two years. He didn't want me to change to a better job or buy a house and wanted a "joint calendar" which turned out to just include information about where I was not him... He made my world smaller and smaller. I hated him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:28 PM
21

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:02 PM
14

Yeah also the pink tax on our products and the fact we get paid less than men doing the same job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:56 PM
43

Yeah I'm going to go renovate a house for a while. I don't have any interest in being with a man. My life experience to date has taught me they are far too selfish, they cost me time and money, they're abusive and then when they're bored they simply leave. They add absolutely nothing to my life. I'm done trying to get blood out of a stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:02 PM
29

That's how I feel all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:57 PM
18

Exactly. They seem to desperately want a woman locked down to have sex with all the time but insist on treating all women like shit all the time Then get all shocked and disappointed women want exactly nothing to do with them due to the shitty treatment. What about this is so difficult for men that they don't understand they cannot get what they want from women unless they give women what they want - which is really basic by the way Just stop abusing women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:28 AM
23

He had the biggest tits. The women all turned him down and took the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:22 AM
9

So true. Who designed that software of theirs anyway? Its so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:01 PM
34

Wow. If I ever thought the cops would give a shit there'd be a bunch of exes who would have gone to jail on similar grounds (and some much worse) Never trusted the police to take care of a woman in a dv situation so never reported
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:08 PM
4

Excellent. Don't put up with their b.s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:53 PM
2

Wow. He must actually value her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:40 PM
7

Of course there's an expectation men should have their own private space but women don't need that Honestly, who do you think makes these one sided rules designed to benefit men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:00 PM
3

Me either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:54 PM
10

Men are disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:46 PM
83

Men tend to prioritise themselves no matter what pain or destruction they cause to anyone around them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:38 PM
10

Wish I was a lesbian. Or even better, a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:14 PM
43

Because those women aren't having their bodies depleted of nutrients and ripped apart then doing unpaid community volunteer work for 20 years If women weren't pressured into motherhood none of them would do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:13 PM
4

Yeah even when I lived with my ex I was the only one who bought flowers. Pretty sure that guy didn't love me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:37 PM
10

Yeah honestly it's really difficult working out what they bring to the table at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:30 AM
1

Proud of you. Your life will only get better from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:43 AM
2

What a good man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:40 PM
39

Yeah the correct response is to go speak to a lawyer without letting him know, to open her own bank account, redirect her mail and arrange for a new place to live, to pack her belongings, and to leave him. All without letting him know. He will figure it out for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:33 PM
20

Yeah pretty much the same social conditioning everywhere because it benefits men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:21 PM
5

Yeah once I get my FDS website code I think I'll be outta Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:00 PM
3

Yeah they don't complain they get abusive then walk out. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:17 PM
2

Just stay away from them. Live your own life. Nobody needs em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:08 PM
12

Because any excuse to treat women like shit will do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:49 PM
10

I think most men's goal is to treat you unequally in the relationship so he's #winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:44 PM
4

Also I wonder if he's into killing me? We should try that next! Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:18 PM
10

Yeah not enthusiastic when they disrespect you, control you, and threaten you either. It's a wonder some women even wash the way their partners treat them. Anything to repel them. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:59 PM
11

The delusion. Redpill fails because it's "too tricky!" And definitely NOT because karma from being an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:41 PM
19

I'm just going to copy yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:20 PM
7

Also: "don't be a gOlDdIgGeR" "Ok... am now earning five times your income" "NOT LIKE THAT!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:12 PM
1

My experience says yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:43 PM
3

Yes Im sure he implies we are having sex when clearly we are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:23 AM
6

I'm pretty sure he's not planning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:15 AM
4

Yes so strange he can't deal with a real relationship and instead has an immature fantasy and stays alone. His choice. But what an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:11 AM
3

I make my own security. I certainly don't need his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:10 AM
2

Pretty much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:08 AM
2

Thanks. It does suck. I do feel like our friendship is pretty dead as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:08 AM
7

Healthier, safer, not abused... yes happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:03 AM
7

It's actually just illogical so whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:00 AM
5

Ja my ex had a lot of issues and treated me terribly as a result. He didn't think counselling was manly enough for him so refused to go, hence we are no longer together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:58 AM
144

Firstly, thank you. Secondly, who does he think he is? I'm busy 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:47 PM
4

Because women will fuck men for nothing. Collectively we've lowered our price until we get nothing out of the interaction at all. They get laid and we get nothing. It's actually a total waste of time for us to do this. FDS is unionising women so we get a decent bargain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:24 PM
3

Men are basically trapped in their own fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:09 PM
4

I really wouldn't marry this guy if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:03 PM
21

Honestly I ran into a guy I knew years ago- a very close friend back in the day - and he used to be hot and fit. We used to go running together. Anyway fast forward 20 years and he bumps into me where ai work (there are a lot of people there). We were talking for a while and I'm thinking I have no idea who this guy is but he seems to know me He realised and called me out on it - when he told me his name I was floored. What a person can willingly choose to do to their body daily over decades to l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:33 AM
85

And it's often because they are sad and insecure. The more successful you are the more liķely they are to cheat on you. Let that sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:17 AM
6

Honestly cannot think of an example of any man who I've dated who has honestly been worth my time. If they have jobs they turn out to be selfish, controlling entitled narcissists. Doesn't matter how long the relationship, they've turned everything to shit sooner or later by demanding I do more for them than they would ever do for me, and been abusive and controlling while they do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:14 AM
10

They benefit from our pain, which is why they hurt us and why they don't care they hurt us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:05 AM
5

Yeah me too. I hope they all step on Lego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:12 PM
22

To be honest - yes. This should be illegal. And women should lobby to get those laws changed. Why should men get to lie to us to get their dicks wet. They lie, they should pay the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:08 PM
7

Yeah me. I am. Thanks for asking loser. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:59 PM
35

Yeah exactly. My ex was overweight and although he insisted on eating low carbs (and lots of animal fats) it never improved his weight. I'm pretty sure all that processed meat will give him cancer one day but whatever that's his choice. He thought he was hot af. No. He wasn't. I loved him, but he just wasn't. Also - his weird diet didn't help. It was just an excuse to eat a lot of bacon. His diet was terrible and he would sometimes ask why I wouldn't bake desserts. Did he really want me to have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:49 PM
54

Also hilarious - old men have NO CLUE what age appropriate means. A guy 20 years older than me recently told me he went on a date with someone "age appropriate" who was 15 years younger than him. I nearly spat out my negroni. This guy is worth TONS of money, millions, and struggles to date at all because he cannot get past the fact he is OLD and needs to date someone his own damn age if he wants to date at all. (Or find a woman unemployed or maybe one with a gambling problem idk) He's hardly dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:43 PM
4

Yep. They only ever say this stuff when denying sexism and misogyny exist before go back to being completely self absorbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:41 AM
2

He is. I'm grateful he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:40 AM
24

I bet his girlfriend earns more than him. But women are gOlDdIgGeRs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:00 PM
17

My ex would just lie to me. Lie to me about the massive porn use and the strippers. I would find out in conversations with friends, family and of course in the wedding speech (he was the best man). He told all the men he circulated porno to that they should lie to their partners about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:44 PM
3

Also they better get their skates on because no woman, no matter how old wants them after that. If they aren't bothering to give a woman some commitment ie marriage then who exactly do they think will be interested in them and why? Exactly what do they think they're offering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:25 AM
2

Why would anyone be interested in this unless it involved desperate financial circumstances or human trafficking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:20 AM
8

That's why they act like children. No reason to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:16 AM
12

A sign of commitment is called a proposal. Anything else they're just playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:14 AM
43

Yeah show some investment or go away. I'm sick of their b.s. attitude of "let's live together first"... How about you work out whether you're going to invest your time and energy making it work or honestly you've told me all I need to know with your waste of my time attitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:13 AM
33

If men don't get laid they have an overwhelming urge to destroy the whole world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:10 AM
29

Maybe he should wait until he has his life together before wasting some woman's time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:06 AM
1

Could be low value and manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:03 AM
5

Low value men degrade women however they possibly can. This is just one example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:01 AM
1

Yeah they think THEY are the prize. Basically they're delusional. It's only women's socialisation that makes us all panic and think we need a man for social status. When we wake up and realise it's a method of control we realise we don't inherently want men, we've been pressured to be with one no matter how shitty they are to us, or as people. What we actually want are full lives, free from control and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:57 PM
14

Wow what a turn off. He's obviously been on a bunch of dates where the women have had the good sense not to go back and instead of dealing with his underlying problems he's complaining about the cost of the meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:47 PM
14

Honestly, he sounds like a controlling, entitled narcissist. He's already pulling misogynistic crap trying to make you drive far, and pay for an expensive meal (like he's telling himself hes already terrified that you're a "gold digger" totally using him for a meal) He clearly doesn't value you. He's just trying to get sex out of you for the lowest investment possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:11 PM
19

Men are obsessed with degrading us. It'll all be up again soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:25 PM
8

Your perspective is totally valid. Those men were pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:20 PM
2

But not surprising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:57 AM
2

Honestly what do they think we'll say when we get their shitty dick pics. "Looks great I totally want that?" Like wtf. Have they never met a woman in their life? Do they not understand we think their junk is offensive and gross? Or do they do it to terrorise us like most of the other awful shit they do to us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:43 AM
5

Hopefully they will just take out their abusive control issues on the robots and leave us alone forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:32 AM
7

Shut down was initially extremely stressful and traumatizing but I've been focussing on self care to help process amd deal with everything. Basically my skin and hair look amazing as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:13 AM
9

Fermented omelette is my new go to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:48 AM
19

Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:20 AM
3

God So look true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:19 AM
7

If I ever see him again I will walk right past and ignore him. If he engages me in conversation I intend to deny I know who he is. Dead to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:18 AM
18

Yep - got the Viking part also. What a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:14 AM
5

Correct. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:12 AM
24

So true. Until four months ago I lived with a man who flatly refused to clean the bathroom ever and would only clean other parts of the house very occasionally. I didn't see it coming before we moved in so it's my own fault. I will be MUCH more careful in future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:11 AM
8

I'll let you know when I find it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:00 AM
18

Very valid. Beauty is just another tool in the toolbox. It goes in there with all the others and has a couple of limited functions only. Let's not overplay it's usefulness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:27 PM
4

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:59 PM
15

The problem is men dont want that. They generally want a servant they can abuse and control. Your female friends are your family. Take good care of yourself. Self care is key. Reach out to your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:30 PM
11

It benefits men for them to treat women like they're not good enough - so women work harder and do more for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:59 PM
5

Feel like this was written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:52 PM
2

My ex was like this. I bought ALL the power tools as soon as he left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:48 PM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:47 PM
4

Me too. Who cares what they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:10 PM
5

Agreed. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:09 PM
10

It is for them. They need to maintain power over women. This is not apolitical. It is class warfare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:08 PM
9

It really just proves our point. We are discriminated against everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:07 PM
8

No but they are afraid feminists will gain enough support and it will force men to treat women like people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:06 PM
6

They don't want a shift to the status quo. They like treating us as second class citizens. They don't want us to talk to each other, build support for feminist ideas and create change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:03 PM
4

Yes. Also refusing to acknowledge their policy of targeting discrimination against the more vulnerable group... it's all lies or they would have left all the feminist subs alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:01 PM
1

Of course they did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:59 PM
9

Yep. We need a female only reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:58 PM
8

Exactly. They don't want us talking and supporting each other lest we collectively raise our standards so they have to start showing us some basic respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:57 PM
9

You know they won't. They want women shut down not hate speech shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:55 PM
3

Yeah you're missing the part where they remove the oxygen and shut us down...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:54 PM
10

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:02 AM
42

Amen. What's more if a new man is telling you about a "crazy" woman and proceeds to talk about his interaction with her the only questions to ask are 1) what did he do to her? and 2) what could he do to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:52 AM
3

Don't end up taking care of his kids either. His kids, his responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:28 PM
9

Yep. My ex narc did the same thing. Everyone thought he went on weeks long holidays by himself. He was a complete asshole. I'm so glad he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:40 PM
2

Thanks. I need to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:44 AM
19

After I told a good friend about my abuse she said "I can see you're not ready to leave right now. But I know you realise you need to and you'll know when the right time will be"... It was a couple more months before I could make that happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:17 PM
7

Who among us hasn't been in this exact situation before 🤢🙈🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:36 AM
7

Agreed. We should support each other and calling each other bitter is internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:10 PM
6

It's exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:51 PM
2

My ex subscribed to this ideology. I don't respect him. If I feel anything it's probably a mix of pity and revulsion. I consider him to have had a traumatic childhood, a traumatic brain injury, drug abuse problems and a range of psychological problems he refused to get counselling for. He lacked the skills to act in a loving way and instead employed abusive angry controlling behaviours before finally walking out without even a discussion. Nothing about him was high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:05 PM
3

I am sorry it didn't happen the way you wanted but your body had had enough stress. It was done waiting. I did the same thing about 2.5 months ago. Lockdown was looming and I couldn't just COULDNT take it anymore. I was so stressed at the thought of getting stuck with him 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:46 PM
7

Later on... not allowing you to have opinions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:29 PM
8

Tick, tick, tick. They all exhibit this horrendous behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:38 AM
34

Why would she want to walk that back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:37 AM
4

No. Creepy. Do not do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:35 AM
12

Awesome Reject their Bullsh*t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:09 AM
54

My ex wasn't incompetent, he was just abusive. If it's not one thing it's another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:57 AM
18

The truth hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:29 AM
3

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:49 AM
3

No woman is that incapable of understanding this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:29 AM
3

If only someone would film their behaviour when they're in your house abusing you so we can also post that online and dissect it with commentary...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:49 PM
5

Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:49 AM
5

What's new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:37 AM
6

So gross. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:22 AM
6

Yes and ask them about their exes. Why did they break up? What happened? If he can't explain or doesn't want to talk about it - red flag If he admits to having been abusive to previous girlfriends - HUGE RED FLAG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:33 AM
3

Why should she have to date down? She's smart and successful and deserves someone on the same level. If men can't raise their standards to meet ours then they will have to be left behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:57 AM
3

Excellent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:04 AM
5

Yep. I did the same thing, bought flowers for myself. He never cared enough about me to get me any either. Were not together anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:28 AM
7

Now I know where I am. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:22 AM
2

Ahahahahah 😂 yeah....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:01 PM
1

Thank you. That's helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:30 AM
70

Ahhh no. For clarity, its manipulation to get their dicks wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:28 AM
65

Oh dear god. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:27 AM
5

Definitely a numbers game, the smarter you are the more likely your partner won't be as smart (for men or women) Men definitely like being with a partner they can manipulate and feel "alpha" in competition with that person. When they don't get that feeling "they're better than you" they have a meltdown and leave be it due to income, intelligence or attractiveness (after negging you for a while)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:38 AM
31

Yeah I date narcissists due to a narcissistic parent. It's a problem. Wish I could figure out how NOT to. They just feel so normal even though I know how broken and wrong they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:20 AM
17

Don't bother with OLD. It's just an easy way for men to burn thru lots of women with zero effort and zero respect. Waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:18 AM
7

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:25 AM
2

He did work outside the home. He just didn't work long hours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:22 AM
51

God my ex NEVER left the house. Whenever I was there HE WAS THERE. I couldnt even get any privacy to just do some hair removal or whatever in the bathroom without him walking in on me or just have an afternoon WITHOUT HIM. I kept telling him I needed privacy until I just gave up and though f*ck it! If you insist on this behaviour Im not grooming myself for you (asshole)! He wouldnt get any hobbies or friends but projected all his stupid issues onto me telling me that I NEEDED TO DO MORE AND GET …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:00 AM
11

Women have to find small ways to survive when theres a whole class of men oppressing them. Great example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:47 AM
3

This is a great talk. I really recommend watching this its well worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:19 PM
17

I would buy that T shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:58 AM
45

Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:13 PM
9

Its about numbers. If you cant be bothered pairing up with some NVM (because vomit) the other guys have to compete with MORE men when compared with FEWER available women. So yeah, it terrifies them. It also terrifies them because they think MGTOW (ie men taking themselves off the market) is in any way a loss to women. Its infuriating to them that mostly women dont care or notice other than when theyre in our faces being violent and rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:36 PM
15

No clue. Agreed, terrible stupidity. Male get their dicks wet agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:57 PM
17

So true. Although to be fair Im planning on replacing my ex with a guard dog since the only useful thing he did for me was protect me from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:05 AM
5

Hes the one in desperate need of a fuck. Hes the one who needs to put on a show. Watch some david attenborough documentaries ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:04 PM
3

Yeah vomit. Theyre so selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:46 PM
3

Yeah. Those morons must be ten times more desperate than normal right now. Less access to prostitues, women refusing to fuck them for absolutely nothing in exchange Im surprised the internet hasnt permanently crashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:33 PM
14

And when you think youre done vetting them, vet them again to be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:38 PM
3

This is hilarious! Love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:22 AM
4

I love this so hard, I have discovered a hard form of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:54 AM
3

Meh. Screwed for what? More of the same? The patriarchal bs story of getting stuck with one guy and taking care of his kids. Youre only missing out on drudgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:58 PM
14

Dont wait. Youll just get older. Nothing else will change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:47 PM
8

This is wonderful. Robots who dont put up with their bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:38 PM
5

Yeah when you stop moving forward youre not standing still youre going backwards. If he wont commit the relationship is doomed. Dont grow older waiting for him to change. He wont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:16 PM
5

Yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:14 PM
16

Yes. Its just violence against women. Yet again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:11 PM
16

Yet they still want women to spend all their time cleaning and cooking... Using all your time and energy to support someone else makes THEM the gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:40 AM
15

Its even stranger when you can earn waaaaaaay more money and they still have no ability to put a ring on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:35 AM
13

Oh no. He left me. Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:05 PM
6

Fair point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:04 PM
4

Honestly I only just learned about thisnplace recently. Were it not for covid lockdowns I think Id be on a plane there already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:05 PM
9

I cant tell you how true this is. How Ive wished I had a boyfriend who just one time would buy me a bunch of flowers. Theres only so much nothing they can give you before you realise they couldnt care less about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:02 PM
66

Wow. I cant even imagine a partner being so kind to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:48 PM
12

Seriously we may need to circle back on this one daily...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:41 PM
8

Never send
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:31 PM
10

Im so sorry you were treated so badly. And I'm so sorry you felt you needed to put up with it. You survived. You're out. And now you have perspective when before you couldnt possibly. I wish I didnt have a similar story. I wish every woman here didnt have a similar story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:48 AM
2

Ja... Solid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:44 AM
5

I agree sex work isnt exactly ideal. Its great feeling attractive but those fuckers hate you for it because they hate themselves so much but have to project all their problems onto women (zero self awareness) Lthat aside, dont you think its incredible that men would pay for any service and then also threaten the supplier... Like do you do that to your mechanic? What about the guy down at the hardware store? Like its so terrifying to pay for sex to the point you call up a sex worker to threaten t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:19 PM
23

Your female friends are also far more likely to still be friends with you in ten years, more likely to be there for you when a family member is sick or dies, more likely to be there for emotional supprt thru everything from losing your job to getting cancer... They will be your rock whether u have a man in your life or not. Your female friends should be everything to you. They will stay when the boyfriends and husbands dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:48 PM
16

Ive heard the word "fuck" is an acronym (history on this is probably not correct but whatever) Forced Unlawful Carnal Knowledge Sums up the sentiment nicely I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:40 PM
1

They would BE the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:50 PM
3

I know many of the.comments here disagree but my interpretation of value here is not value to the future society but value in what they think and feel right then. Their autonomy and their rights. Children have very restrcted rights well past the age it makes sense in many cases. They are less likely to have their opinions heard or considered to matter, they are less likely to be believed as witnesses. They are more often called liars. They cant enter contracts or vote... In fact they are patroni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:22 PM
10

Just gives them another way to control you, degrade you and hurt you. If a man pesters you for them they are LVM and lilely NEGATIVE VM who will take from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:53 PM
3

Yeah men think women are objects which can be owned by people (people being men)... Its completely illogical but thats men for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:46 PM
4

No such thing. Be your own soulmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:36 PM
3

Because it changes the narrative from "he is better at everything than her" to... Maybe shes better at some things than him. Maybe shes better at many things... This language we use creates a story designed to bolster men and degrade women across the board. Women who are successful at conveying this narrative are rewarded. Its not real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:30 PM
0

Remind me why book burnings are bad again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:22 PM
5

A lot of men are monsters. A lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:00 PM
3

It terrifies them that we have a voice. Heres a tip scrotes - we still think all these same thoughts even when you make it impossible for us to say these things out loud. Even when you threaten and harrass us. We still think it. Shocking I know. Deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:58 PM
2

They have always been a burden. Women have just put up with it in the past. Men are bigger and can kill us. What choice did we honestly have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:52 AM
1

The only tool you need is critical thinking. Men who disrespect women are monsters. Some of those monsters kill women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:50 AM
1

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:42 AM
5

So very true. So many men just abandon their partners if they get sick. Dont accept their poor behaviour. If you're injured and they dont take care of you, if you have a scan at the hospital and theyre too busy to pick you up... You know already how things will be if you ACTUALLY need to rely on them for help. Cut your losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:54 AM
4

Great idea. Lets even the score on this term. All it takes is for people to start using it in their conversations... "Kevin just wants someone to do all the housework and cooking, someone to plan his life for him. He's such a gold digger." "Greg is a total gold digger. He barely lifts a finger around the house. Have you seen how he treats his girlfriend?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:41 AM
4

What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:57 AM
1

Not anymore. His toxic masculinity BS was too heavy to carry. I put that bag down. Im safer and now have access.to.all areas of my house including yard and shed and can park my car in the garage (he was forcing me to use a smaller and smaller footprint of the property). Id had enough of letting his toxic behaviour slide. I didnt want to be stuck in isolation with an unemployed depressed waste of couch space smoking weed and taking his frustrastion out on me with the various elements of coercive …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:59 AM
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