Men and women, to an extent, are natural enemies. They want things from us. They'll perform to get them.

That is not the same as "men love women."

My ex husband cheated relentlessly, hit, verbally abused, moved me around multiple times each year.

I was a "tradwife."

I finally left with the kids.

His new wife has custody of zero of her children (four from four different marriages) and they both have extensive assault records.

He still goes on about how I'm the bad guy for leaving. He still plays off like his side piece turned wife (I assume they'll divorce when he FAllS In lOVe with some new chick) is a "stepmom."

I had to fight tooth and nail just to get out of the abuse and into my own apartment with the kids.

He refused to let me drive, and we sold my car to do work on his.

If you give AN INCH, even to ones who are "committed," they'll backstab you and take ten thousand miles, give you STDs, and leave you for dead.

Marriage is not enough, and needs to not be the end goal. Marriage, honestly, is a woman signing up to do more work, be legally required to put up with sexual harassment, and put a clueless scrote "in charge" of family finances and big decisions.

They don't see women as partners. I was a virgin. I pickme'd in every way I could.

Wrong. Method.

He is now $12,000 in debt from various lawsuits, and I'm trying to get approved for a mortgage loan from my credit union.

Unless a man has something to offer, NEVER bank on honesty or loyalty.

They don't view women as deserving of those things.

Oh, he was an alt-right "Christian" type, too. :)