Ok coomer

ieatrainbowsprinkles · 2020-08-11T00:02:08+00:00

My very recent ex went to the bachelor party of his best friend last September and I had my suspicions because he went radio silent over text the night they got strippers to come to their air bnb. The next day he came home and told me all about it, swore up and down that he didn’t do anything, said all his friends “had an agreement” aka they weren’t going to cheat on their gfs.

We were at the beach with his friend group a few weeks ago when someone let it slip that there weren’t only strippers, but they’d also brought back a fucking group of girls from a bachelorette party they met at the bar to their air bnb.

I confronted my ex when we got home and he swore up and down that he told me about the bachelorette party when he came home in September and also denied ever mentioning anything about an agreement not to cheat. He gaslighted the fuck out of me.

I’m so glad he’s an ex.

chateauduchat · 2020-08-11T00:18:24+00:00

Heavily considering buying my own ring for myself and living happily married to no one if this is what I need to be concerned about

onlyamelia · 2020-08-10T23:47:49+00:00

In my years as a stripper every bachelor party that came in would force the bachelor to get a dance. Only two in the entire 9 years asked me to just tell their friends I did, no funny business and they told me about their wedding plans and honey moon in the time they were supposedly getting a lap dance. Every other one was a complete and total pig.

beautysubthroww · 2020-08-11T02:32:28+00:00

My husband and I didn't even have bachelor(ette) parties. I don't get the whole "last night of freedom" thing. You gave up your freedom when you agreed to be in a committed relationship.

AyemHerself · 2020-08-11T00:22:58+00:00

Yes. Strippers, porn, and flirting with other women is absolutely cheating. Thank you for clearing that up, random IG man.

2020-08-11T00:51:44+00:00

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naturopathicfantasti · 2020-08-11T02:47:38+00:00

Sheeewww! My NVM ex (12 miserable waisted years) would lament how disgusting strippers were at a bachelorette/bachelor party. He’d say he would leave a woman who watched strippers before their wedding because that’s CHEATING.

Surprise! Went on to fuck every single person he could possibly poach from his famous boss. Dozens of women over years. While putting on this act of how disgusted he was by people who cheat. I guess he meant only women who cheat are trash.

PinkElephant20 · 2020-08-11T04:01:34+00:00

Damn right! Why do I feel like I am the only one to feel so strongly about this? I don't get American culture.

penhasink · 2020-08-11T05:38:58+00:00

He probably gives this speech to his pickme gf. To which she’ll agree with him in the name of liberal feminism but inside she will feel like throwing up a bit.

0kfornow · 2020-08-11T13:35:57+00:00

Honestly their behaviour is revolting.

Why men thinks it's "ok" to do this to their partners just tells me how completely unequal relationships are.

If your partner goes to strippers just dump him. Particularly if he goes to strippers before getting married.

It's basically a very public statement telling everyone how little he respects you.

Why women put up with this shit is just as unbelievable as all the other shit we put up with.

talldrankofH2O · 2020-08-11T04:43:38+00:00

All the replies to the tweet are scrotes and pickmes saying it’s not cheating, like ok🙄

UrsulaVanTentacles · 2020-08-11T14:04:05+00:00

Yeah, I've never understood this either. "Last night of freedom" you've BEEN in a committed relationship for a while, but because there's rings involved now is the time to give up being a nasty pig? I would hope that would have been a standard before you got engaged. The whole concept is weird as shit to me, I dont think I could stand at the altar with a dude knowing less then 24 hours ago he had another chicks boobs in his face and her thong clad ass in his lap 🤷‍♀️

vmuzondi · 2020-08-11T16:20:03+00:00

Honestly that tradition just shows how much men hate women. I always tell my friends I will never marry a man who even jokes about being shackled to me by marriage. If I marry someone it’s because they genuinely love me and don’t feel obligated to. That’s why I hate all those wedding jokes where they’re giving away their freedom or whatever. Some women laugh a long but I know deep down inside they know their now husband resents them.

loudest_gusset · 2020-08-11T12:41:28+00:00

Yes. Those are all cheating. What's your point?

Lavender_flow · 2020-08-11T14:11:39+00:00

Watching porn is cheating. So yeah, fuck off out of here with your scrote logic. And liking another girls picture is fucking disrespectful as fuck, if she isnt a good friend and it is a selfie etc. There is no reason for that other than pure scrummyness. Also this dude looks like a fucking toe.

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-11T16:06:48+00:00

A man getting a lap dance in a strip club isn't considered cheating but a women that's not his girlfriend grinding on a man outside a strip club is considered cheating? Male logic.

Fitncurly · 2020-08-11T16:21:15+00:00

Never marry a guy who goes to strip clubs ladies, they do NOT act like gentlemen, even if it’s a so-called “gentlemen’s club” (worked some of those too, yea right “gentlemen” 🙄). So many men with rings on their fingers while trying to grope other women. One time there was a raucous bachelor party at the club and the bachelor requested me to dance. I go over and he proceeds to act like a horny drunken animal. I remember asking him if his soon-to-be-wife would be ok with how he was acting. He didn’t answer me (you can tell it annoyed him though 😆), but that combined with them being grabby AND cheap made me leave to greener pastures 💵. I always asked men with rings on who were very lusty over me, if their wife knew/minded, or if he’d be ok with her doing the same with male strippers. I think they hated that but I was a straight shooter so I gave no fucks.

Title	Ok coomer
Author	6969throwawayy
Upvotes	285
Comments	29
Date	August 10, 2020 8:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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