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| 68 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.Thank you for this post! I know it’s not going to speak to everyone and that’s ok. I had a similar upbringing in that you’ll have more opportunities if you are at your best, most fit, and most elegant, while observing proper etiquette. Now… I severely broke the china plate by being leg, arm & back sleeved with tattoos. However, that’s just the norm now, kind of. Trendy I guess. People trust and offer opportunities to attractive people. They see what they wish they were in them. They see what oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?That is a great idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?Damn, yea. You laid it out very well. What else could we have done with that focus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 16 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?I agree, in many cases women are happier alone than in a relationship. It’s a hard one to ponder because sometimes experience helps to know what one needs. Thank you for sharing that. It’s really important to say you are in the best relationship you’ve been in but it’s still settling. I think many of us have been there. I totally agree I’m more productive alone. Only focused in myself & advancing. I’m grateful for this conversation and that other young women can use it to make decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:29 AM |
| 25 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?Do you you think a woman would be put at a disadvantage if she has never dated and has no idea what to expect? She’s grown her career and moved country. Has assets but no idea how men act, what she likes, what makes her happy? I don’t think dating is bad. Being alone forever with your money is great, but not everyone wants that. It’s hard to find a truly lovable man, but when you do, it’s wonderful. I’d say allowing yourself to search for an honorable man outside your comfort zone and zip code i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 12 | If you’re emotionally recovering from dumping a LVM, avoid listening to sad love songsOh ha! Well I’d definitely describe myself as that with certain things. Mostly with music and scents. I can somehow have emit memories attached to them that it takes me a long time to remember. Things I smelled or heard even under 5 yo, the feeling of that moment comes back very strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:14 AM |
| 10 | If you’re emotionally recovering from dumping a LVM, avoid listening to sad love songsI looked that up and it said hereditary spastic paraplegia. I’m not sure if that’s what you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:02 AM |
| 69 | If you’re emotionally recovering from dumping a LVM, avoid listening to sad love songsThis is good advice. I’d even say many songs are actually damaging love songs without even being sad songs. I’ve distanced myself from music lately. Mostly because songs get stuck in my head and assault me while I try to sleep. But then I realized my favorite songs from my favorite 50s, 60s, 70s artists are promoting things that are not ok emotionally regarding relationships. Music is so emotional to me, right up there with scents. The music attached to visuals in movies and tv shows are very em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:39 AM |
| 10 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingYes! The exact same. Most cult leaders and world leaders show narc characteristics. I feel like a lot of these regular woke guys are dictators without a country and always looking for someone to lead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 9 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingNot easy to explain because in this context ego has 2 definitions. It’s also an overused term in esotericism. I’ll try my best. When using psychedelics they “dissolve the ego” instead of feeling fiercely connected mostly to yourself, you realize how much more there is to yourself that you did not know. You feel more connected to and empathy for everything other than you. It’s a good thing. So in this context “ego” means the feeling of being yourself that you are used to. So when the “ego” is inf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 26 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingOh sis preach! “How dare you insist a professional has more insight?! They aren’t tapped in like I am” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:39 AM |
| 73 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and Negging“Quit trying to blow my mind with plagiarized wisdom nuggets” I’m dead! I love this so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 36 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingAlso, on my theory about psychedelics effecting people with personality disorders differently. I can say there is scientific proof that SSRI medication reduces the effects of psychedelics and sometimes causes a negative reaction. I don’t have a link to the study so please no one come at me. That is why in ayahuasca ceremonies they suggest the person stop taking this medication for 2 weeks before. I have assisted in an aya ceremony with someone who did not stop taking the SSRI meds and they react… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:22 AM |
| 74 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingThank you for posting this! Toxic positivity is so real, and thrust upon women heavily. The way woke bros use it is more like asking you to preemptively gaslight yourself. “Act happy while I make you suffer. Never ever mention that my behavior effects you negatively” um… no thanks. We will be over here happily having boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:15 AM |
| 181 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingYes I feel this! I’ve personally experienced it with men who are into self improvement and spiritually. It inflates their ego insufferably. They feel like philosopher, using the words of wiser people who probably also had an inflated ego. They want to be impressive. They aren’t excited to know a woman can keep up with their “oh so enlightened state of being” If you do end up with one, every rational criticism you have of their behavior is met with YOU not being in the high and enlightened plain … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:45 AM |
| 13 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?Hell yea I did! Looking back, I shouldn’t have told him. I was a kid & thought I was doing the right thing. That could have made him dangerous. I’d advise against disclosing abortion if you don’t want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 114 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?Oh! I’ll go. Another baby trap story for this post! I was a kid, 22. Dated a man 10 years older (ugh) who worked in the kitchen of the restaurant I served at while in college. He told me he was infertile and spoke of it often as he was very torn up he’d never have his own children. (Lies to hit raw that I believed) One day I realized he had been slowly moving his things into my apartment. He spent less and less days at his own 30 something home. He would not go back home. He decided he lived wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 04:41 AM |
| 44 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?I feel the same. I’m not trying to sound overly confident here so please don’t miss understand, I know most will take anything. But I’ve realized something that has changed my view on humanity. I don’t know a single married man or man in a relationship (no matter how happy) that wouldn’t sleep with me if I was open to it. They let me know in an easily deniable way. Somehow, no matter how amazing I am, intelligent, interesting, beautiful, accomplished, caring… after a few years, men do not apprec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 76 | Vet like your life depends on it, because it does“Nobody teaches you” no they don’t. It’s all “be a joy, give them everything they want & you’ll be treated well, don’t mention your needs you nag, acts that don’t stimulate the penis aren’t sex, make them happy & you’ll be happy” That’s why In many cases these happen in age gap relationships/women in LTR that began in their teens or 20s/young relationships in general.” Not that they’re isolated to that but it is a factor. Women grow up and realize the deep issues in their abusive relationships. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?I enjoyed reading yours as well! You seem like you’ll be raising some amazing future adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Congratulations on your appointment! It’s hard to secure and gave me so much peace in my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Thank you for that well thought out reply. Our reactions to it and the propaganda pushed to normalize it does show it is not natural. I feel more and more women are completely changing their view of what’s acceptable and mor instinctively spotting men we should not allow into our orbit at all. We can only controls and change ourselves. If enough of us grow and change how we interact I think there is some hope of change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Yes we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Thank you:) it definitely felt like pain shopping on my part to watch it and pain selling on theirs for putting it out. I turned it off and posted here instead. I’ve received some really interested perspectives and also facts I’d not known. Knowing why probably won’t help anything at this point. Still that was just immediately what was on my mid. Thankful for our supportive community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 15 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Totally agree that women should not give up reproductive freedom & control. I think I’m am a minority though a growing one. Men are a factor in me not wanting to have them but not the only one. I’m very supportive of women who do want them. I believe the new generation of women will help create a much better society of future humans But I’m so so glad that I was able to choose a permanent solution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Thanks for sharing the website, I hadn’t seen that. Conversations are a lot more productive without “please stop, educate yourself” no need to be insulting when someone hasn’t seen a website. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:38 AM |
| 56 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Aw god. Watched a few minutes and it is all the way fd up that there is such a market for this. Not surprising but usually don’t hear it talked about so candidly. Kind of like the first hostile movie but about kids. It seems like this is in places where abortion is not legal. I just don’t know what to say about it. I think most of the feelings men have about sex and human life are abnormal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:06 AM |
| 39 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Yes this is exactly what I am saying. Our sexual appetite, no matter how insatiable, has not led us to be predatory. 99.9 % of us anyway. There are always endless men any woman can have regardless of beauty or youth. Even men a woman could physically overpower. None of these things drive us, most of us to accept or take it. Especially because random encounters do not usually lead to orgasm in women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 50 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?This is gold! I’m a writer and your text reads like the academic papers I research for my work. After what you said I now remember a doc I watched about an African area that force fed women from childhood and sent them away from the village before arranged marriage. In these camps they would be fed lard mixed with grain all day long, as that was the most fattening combination. The reason being, thinness was associated with poverty and not being able to afford food. The men were most attracted to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:06 AM |
| 20 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Yes it is very often brothers and cousins. Also often moms boyfriend or stepdad (3 different men over 2 women in my sibling group) pedophelia may be less prevalent but males preying on any female in their orbit is not rare. Not rare at all. I should have said 1/4 women and girls. I just don’t think men or boys have access to 20-100 women or girls to do these things to even in a lifetime without killing them. Maybe a Catholic priest or a youth pastor. Usually it is an uncle, step dad, brother, co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 57 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Thank you and It definitely is a privilege. I had to do a lot of gymnastics and searching before anyone would even consider. This was 5 years ago before abortion ban mania. Much of the world is denied this protection. I dare say it was the best day of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 31 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Thank you for your reply. Definitely agree with this is how it is so let us evolve. I know we won’t understand them. Currently watching my 40 plus older sisters go through some things because of the SA has this on my mind. Plus my own therapy. Unfortunately thinking about it more of late. Bless the time when We can all focus on up rather than why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 04:55 AM |
| 113 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Woah! That is one hell of an informed answer & I didn’t know any of that. Thank you, and I agree just like other traits, aggression has been favored and rewarded in human evolution. I will definitely look up your suggestions. On the propagation of our species, I could never have a child with a man and trust he’d help to raise them. Aside from any harm one could do. I have thankfully secured sterilization🙏 Sadly I think the men allowed to have the most children are the worst of them. Think (Idocr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 04:51 AM |
| 18 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽Lol, definitely had a “taking my dog on walks” type of vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 12 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽Right?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 70 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽Right? Im also a writer professionally and read a lot. That absolutely is not a pass to be a lump of a video playing nothing. My book is not my relationship. This person is totally serious and people are like “ omg relationship goals!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 33 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽Omg killing me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:36 AM |
| 112 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽This is real, not a joke and comments are praising how sweet and amazing this relationship is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:37 AM |
| 19 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:18 AM |
| 105 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Sorry mate, as much as I agree with your point, women have been conditioned to do this. It’s sic and sad and soul crushing. However, we can’t classify women as beyond help because they are doing what we were all conditioned to do from birth. I get it. Pick me is awe full. Thing is, it’s a cult like indoctrination that is very hard to come out of. Giving up your dignity for a scrap of love had been beat into baby’s, kids, toddlers, 5 yo, 10, 13 16… at incremental degrees of ferocity. Is it too ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:08 AM |
| 10 | Please watch, let’s talk about it. Media has always taught us we were less. Pick me is taught from infancy. This is why we need us.Netflix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 33 | Please watch, let’s talk about it. Media has always taught us we were less. Pick me is taught from infancy. This is why we need us.I can’t either. And as a child, I couldn’t imagine anything but what was shown to me. God I wish something, someone, anything, any piece of non submissive feminine media had gotten to me before my first male experience at 13. All I knew was, (from media) life is doomed until a man loves you. To get a man to love you, you have sex. The sex goes from platonic friendship to PIV sex in 3 seconds. Woman has orgasm 3 seconds after that. Loving relationship forever. I followed that very flawed script f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:33 AM |
| 57 | “Relationships are a mirror” - BS 🤡The toxic positivity in the self help and psychologically realm is gaslighting. “Just realize you pick men who abuse you because that’s all you know. Then you’ll attract non abusers” no… too many of them are abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 85 | Please watch, let’s talk about it. Media has always taught us we were less. Pick me is taught from infancy. This is why we need us.Media is and has been made by men and for men. Then rated and critiqued by men. There is a reason for the fervent exclusion of women. They are terrified of a woman being allowed to be seen as more than a sex object who has to fawn for male attention. This is why female positions in media are 1/2 of 1% representation. If women are making media, women will be shown in power. That is more powerful than anything that can be done after the damage has set in for a young girl. Disney fd us up. Everythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Media is Relevant👯♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:02 AM |
| 9 | Media is RelevantThat was my post and I’m in no way saying we shouldn’t discuss media. It is one of the most influential things in our society after all. I completely agree with you. It’s all propaganda and most of it is curated. It all illuminates harmful agendas and is meant to groom us. Calling it out and discussing it is important and relevant. It’s also important to realize reality tv is far from reality and that it IS seen as reality by so many. There is such a huge difference in how we discuss known scrip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Friendly reminder: Reality shows are casted and scripted. XYZ did ABC on 90 day fiancé is pathetic for us to be talking about here.Exactly this. I think you maybe put it better than I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder: Reality shows are casted and scripted. XYZ did ABC on 90 day fiancé is pathetic for us to be talking about here.Ha! I got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 45 | Friendly reminder: Reality shows are casted and scripted. XYZ did ABC on 90 day fiancé is pathetic for us to be talking about here.I can see that the shows make the red flags so damn red because the entertainment value is in making the entire plot a red flag. If they are able to help someone spot red flags that’s awesome. I’d be amazed if anyone could find a green one. I’ve noticed so many people talking about the women and men in these shows in a different way than they discuss characters in a movie or scripted tv show. When we talk about characters in captain marvel, we talk about the writers aim in the characters portray… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:21 AM |
| 24 | Friendly reminder: Reality shows are casted and scripted. XYZ did ABC on 90 day fiancé is pathetic for us to be talking about here.I don’t see many discussions about the nuances of relationships in known scripted media. I see something about 90 day fiancé every day. I think some people have no idea this is scripted. I bet I made the 90 day fiancé posters mad too. Not my aim at all. Also your “keep scrolling “ bit wasn’t necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:18 AM |
| 37 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sMy meaning is that men only value things that are hard to get and hard to keep including romantic partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:43 PM |
| 40 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sWhy yes, yes they are. I don’t know enough about that one even tho I know it happens all the time so didn’t mention it. But yea. Let’s add that to the list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 101 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sOmg haze me daddy is the best sh I’ve heard all day. Thank you and so true. Lord why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 6 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Yes, to be fair I do in passing know some strippers who make good enough money. Not amazing but good enough. It’s most definitely not their preferred job. They do pass it off like it’s something they want to do. Then complain constantly on the same page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:17 PM |
| 11 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Yes, all I seem to see is people saying they make tons of money for caming. Most of them aren’t making $30 a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:25 PM |
| 212 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.only fans/selling nudes absolutely does not pay what people think it does AT ALL. It pays so low, you’d make more working fast food. I have a very attractive 25 yo friend who goes hard on OF. She literally fully naked masturbates on camera for men & makes less than $30 per person. It’s really sad and hurts me for her. Nipples? Give me a break. Not true. The only people making money off that pathetic shit are women already having a huge fan base. Once that huge fanbase is secured, you’ll never wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.From what I’ve seen I agree but that’s at least 50% due to feeling like everything related to having children would ruin my life and body. I’ve heard some ladies in here say they have great partners. So I really hope there are some worth it for those who do want children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:03 AM |
| 68 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Preach the truth! I can’t stand that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:12 AM |
| 113 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Never. There is no loyalty extended nor respect offered for suffering endured. They wonder why the birth rate is falling. The financials are a big part but the main vein is that other half isn’t being a partner. That’s why they are trying to force births. We know now it’s not a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:04 AM |
| 182 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Thank you for sharing. I know it has to be hard to even speak on that kind of betrayal. So many women have no idea how little the father knows about anatomy and what it actually takes to produce a child. We know, so we can’t imagine how cruel their vision is of what’s expected. I’m glad you are getting away from him and have had the change in feelings for him. You will have better. Alone or with someone who deserves you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 257 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Girl I also once dated a fat guy. His personality wasn’t even that great. For some reason I was in love with and dated him, for years. We’re just not the same. We can love someone even if they aren’t physically attractive. I was a kid but now I know, that’s not worth it at all. They can’t most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:10 AM |
| 231 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Gang gang sis. CF and I knew I was when I was still a child. I don’t want to hurt myself. I don’t want to take care of children. I especially don’t want to hate life with a man who finds me gross after I give him the kids he begged for. Again I’ll say, how many men are with their original baby’s mothers? Not many. I think it’s deliberate to breed with a woman, ruin her, tie her down to a responsibility and move on to another. It’s actually pretty alarming how many men demand children and don’t w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:04 AM |
| 249 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.The most simple of word configurations express a whole epidemic. This is why I love yall. Yes, many grown ass over 30yo men think when a woman gets pregnant, she has a big belly for a year… then goes back to looking exactly like she did before. I’ve heard many many men say a version of “if she works out her body will go back to normal. If she looks gross it’s because she didn’t work hard enough” an alarming amount of men. I work in holistic medicine and these are supposed “body positive woke dud… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 104 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.I can not imagine. The despair she is in for. The labor, the neglect and resentment. All because she had the child I’m sure he was happy to have her sacrifice everything for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:23 AM |
| 201 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Oh man this hurts me on her behalf to read and he seems serious. This is a comment. The post, which I’m sure many of you have seen already, says he’s grossed out by the baby being in her. That’s the reason for not wanting intimacy with her. No, here you have it. He admits he thinks she’s fat and gross. WHILE SHES GROWING HIS CHILD. He even goes so far as to compare her pregnant body to a man eating fast food for a year and becoming disgusting. He then goes on to expect her body to return to exac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 26 | Marriage is a financial contract. Many IRL examples are showing it does not protect us the way we think it does. If knowledgeable please advise. (CF)What you’ve outlined sounds like what I’ve heard. If he turns out to be awful, living w him, much less outliving him sounds grim. Doesn’t sound worth it to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 15 | Marriage is a financial contract. Many IRL examples are showing it does not protect us the way we think it does. If knowledgeable please advise. (CF)Thank you for your contribution! Yes, marrying anyone is a financial risk. Exactly like starting a business with someone you are not married to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 43 | Marriage is a financial contract. Many IRL examples are showing it does not protect us the way we think it does. If knowledgeable please advise. (CF)Good point. Added US to the post. There are a lot of variables but most of them are not in the woman’s favor. The mother sub constantly reports being left financially destitute from women in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 6 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Ha thanks! Congrats on being in control of your own body! Never heard anyone else say it but I’m Sure I’m not the first to come up with that fun turn of phrase. Spread it to your hearts content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.I did not see that! SM does a good job sometimes of outing shit people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 16 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.You’re right. Aside from being illegal, that’s the kind of thing that will get you attacked by someone. Sorta fun to think about but, I’d have really just liked to have warned the wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:14 PM |
| 59 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Yes girl, spay day was the best day of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 19 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Ha yes it does seem that way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:45 PM |
| 41 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Damn fine idea lol. Wish you’da been sitting next to me. I didn’t even think of blackmail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:51 AM |
| 55 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Yea I see that. Here’s the thing. He’s not being forced to do this. He’s not being financially held to a standard of stealing a woman’s life. He has his own career, life and decision making ability. Just because everyone in your family wants you to do something doesn’t make it less damaging. My main point is the consumption of humans for sex using the Internet, much like we often notice men doing to women. He’s not some poor dude forced to marry a woman and loving a man because he’s actually gay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:31 AM |
| 84 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.Thank you for pointing that out. I wanted to say something similar but don’t want to speak on a situation I’m not completely familiar with. I know things are pushed in many families. Still, super shaft for the woman involved. I’m so glad your friend is thriving now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:47 AM |
| 64 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.As for the crew, this was a shorter flight, maybe 4 hours. The only time I saw them was for the snack time which was not hard for him to notice. I’m not sure if they even would have said anything if they’d seen? I wonder what the protocol is for that. He was trying to hide it. He didn’t know anyone could see. He took great pains to hide it when someone stood up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:24 AM |
| 117 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.I never got his name. I was looking for it if only to find his wife. There is a woman out there right now, taking care of a toddler while he is doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:00 AM |
| 8 | Two shy introverts go on a date…Weird to even notice that right? It wasn’t as blunt as the Mormon “keep sweet” mantra, but it was always there. We are humans, we are not required to be a joy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 23 | Two shy introverts go on a date…Completely agree! I am the same and absolutely need time to recharge after social interaction. I also don’t become instant best friends with every stranger I’m thrown into a prolonged interaction with. I used to feel strange that I wasn’t able to entertain and interact explosively with strangers. I had to examine that within myself and others. That part of me is not me being an introvert. That part of me was being conditioned as a woman to be a joy to everyone. I felt as though I’d failed when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Two shy introverts go on a date…🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:18 AM |
| 49 | Two shy introverts go on a date…The introvert/extrovert thing is something I think is misinterpreted a lot. Not that you are. Most humans don’t usually have rolling and enthralling conversations upon first meeting each other without an anchor person present that they do know. Someone who isn’t immediately interactive for a 1 on 1 with a stranger isn’t an introvert. They are completely normal. Interest and common ground to speak on takes time. That’s why meeting ppl on OLD feels weird AF. All that to say. If you are a butterfly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | There is a huge percentage of the unvaccinated population who are women being kept from getting it by their male partner.I didn’t even mention the children of these men being effected. Thank you for raising that point. The entire family is being threatened into not receiving health care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:01 AM |
| 9 | There is a huge percentage of the unvaccinated population who are women being kept from getting it by their male partner.Exactly this! The “shedding” my god. They are abusing women and their families into not being vaxd. Women I know who have not gotten it because of fear of loosing everything are even being accused of getting it behind the mans back when they get sick. This situation is truly showing the testerical nature of a large population of men who flew under the radar before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 11 | There is a huge percentage of the unvaccinated population who are women being kept from getting it by their male partner.For most I do not think it’s a religious thing. The men are deeply influenced by the misinformation they’ve been able to find. I do not know why they believe it so fervently. But so many REALLY do. From mind control to infertility and everything in between. I get that the government and media has proved they aren’t truthful much of the time. That’s unfortunate in this situation. I think the anti of this specific vax is a high horse men are, for some reason wanting to wield over their family. Edi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Leveling up this weekThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Leveling up this weekThanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Leveling up this weekThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:19 PM |
| 71 | Leveling up this weekI’ve spent years ghost writing successfully selling cook books for 2 male doctors who don’t treat me with respect. They do well because of their social media following. -This week I started building my own following by shooting cooking videos for my healthy recipes. -Bought a great LED filming light. -Bought a flexible tripod for camera. -Filmed my first video, made social media for my recipes, and posted it! -Not many are paying attention yet but they will and I will be the one profiting off of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 15 | Best perfumes that you recommend?I love Annick Goutal “Eau D’Hadrien. It is an earthy sweet ginger scent. Not floral or fruity. Always get super complements. They used to sell it at Nordstrom but not anymore. I now have to order from the Annick Goutal website… which is all in French 🙃 but I figured it out. So worth it. I also love the glossier YOU scent. Also sweet herbal. That being said. I do not want everyone to smell it all over the room. My mother gave me great advice that I always follow. Always wear just enough where som… | /r/askFDS | 26/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 52 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade upGod bless you OP for knowing how to link a Twitter thread to Reddit. I saw this earlier. Died 1000 deaths from laughter & wanted so badly to make this a post for us all. They think they wanna be out there. They do not wanna be out there. 🔱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:04 PM |
| 99 | Channel your romantic energy into your friendshipsMy good friend told me while we were out the other day “going out with you makes it hard to be impressed by the guys I go on dates with because we treat each other and make thoughtful plans for one another”. Thought I’d cry. I said “well I hope so” I love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Childfree POVCF sterilized young woman here! HV treatment means respectful, equal, loyal, honest, effort and deeply romantic connection. Everyone deserves that in a relationship. Men are just usually the only ones receiving that in a het relationship. We are used to extreme disrespect, so the above may feel like asking for the moon. Hardships don’t buy anyone those things. Not having the extreme hardship of child rearing placed on you 90% doesn’t discount one these things. HV treatment isn’t special, it’s no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, I got lost on YouTube and found this gem of a documentary. Even in the Ultra-orthodox Jewish community there be LVMs. Their concept of dating with purpose though was quite intriguing.Can you please get started on the “thank god I’m not a woman” prayer? What TF is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.I am loving hearing about others doing this with their friends. It’s so fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 31 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.Yes! I love how we are all setting the bar for each other🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 25 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.I know there are several schools of thought on performing femininity here. I kind of agree with all of them. I’m not happy that I feel I have too, but I also really enjoy looking good. I enjoy the social and career benefits I receive from doing it. I love dressing up around other people who have put in effort and to be able to enjoy their expression. There’s a lot for us all to unpack surrounding that. But I agree that it’s like art. On a date I think it’s important for us to have an opportunity… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 54 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.I love outdoor things too. Especially water related like kayaking. I think “trendy” is maybe something I’ve aged out of caring about avoiding. I love fashion. I love to dress fun and feel lovely. I love the theater and the ballet. Some people in my city will actually wear jeans to the ballet in a full on symphony center. That irks me. I love nice experiences and I didn’t curate my amazing wardrobe to go to the park in it. I go to the park with my dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 30 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.Totally agree. Nice experiences don’t have to be expensive. Just throwing out my own experience on people enjoying showing each other a good time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 223 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.My friends and I going out together has put this into perspective for me. I have a friend and 2-3 times a month we go somewhere medium nice together. We alternate paying for each other & the bill is usually around $100. It is usually a place the other has never been before & is nice enough where we can both get dressed up and feel amazing. I personally want to take her somewhere nice because that’s fun for me. She feels the same. We want to show the other a new place because that’s fun. We love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Josh Duggar: Porn to CP/CSAM Pipeline (Trigger Warning)I’m so sorry that happened to you. It is really not talked about enough. It happened to my little brother as well by a teenage family member. And he did blame it on porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 35 | Josh Duggar: Porn to CP/CSAM Pipeline (Trigger Warning)I think it is not said enough and important to note that PORN INSPIRES YOUNG BOYS TO MOLEST THEIR SISTERS. It also inspires men to molest their daughters. Not because of the incest plot line. Because (excuse me, but I’m right) there is a female hole in the house that they have constant access to. Yea gross but it’s true. Young boys should be having normal interactions with girls their own age who they do Not have constant access to. They should be learning how to have social interactions with pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:27 AM |
| 7 | Groomer word of the day: "infantilizing"There needs to be a word for the opposite of infantilism. I’m sure there is. That is what is done to young girls. Let us remember the post about (born yesterday and sexy af) calling attention to movie tropes where a super hot, mostly naked woman has materialized because of some sifi reasoning (like The 5th Element) she knows nothing, but one thing is for sure, someone is going to have sex with her. When I was 15 I was groomed by a 25 yo man and thought it was completely normal. It was society’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | That's why.My entire body has become defined. My aura has been etched in stone. The transformation from a girl to a woman shows in all ways. Yea I do look better but I am more attractive in all ways. I don’t get cat called anymore, god bless. They don’t feel comfortable making me feel uncomfortable. even in revealing clothing. I’m god damn intimidating. They don’t approach without bringing what they imagine I deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:30 AM |
| 193 | That's why.When you’re mind is too fully formed and less able to be manipulated. YES THAT IS THE WALL. They want to scare us into marrying and having children to trap us before this happens. So afraid we’ll be ugly and withered. God the comedy. I look better at 35 than I could have ever dreamed I would at 25 I laugh at bs at 35. I cried over bs at 25. The wall is the mind not the body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Coercive control - clothing, shoes, hair, nails, make-upMe, a beautiful healthy woman from the years of 25-35. (I looked fucking fine without makeup) LVM: 12am, I go to the bathroom to pee. “don’t wash your makeup off” because it is insulting to him to fuck someone not wearing makeup. LVM: before going to the gym “are you actually putting on makeup to go to the gym?” Me: “yea, I now have anxiety about anyone seeing me without makeup” LVM: “who are you trying to impress?” 3am. I have waited and allowed the makeup to burn my eyes alL Day and night. 7 y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Block and delete applies to family members as well — Documentary of father who faked amnesia for decades just to escape adult responsibilities and live like a kidGirl thank you so much for writing that out. Really interesting. The moving around so much and family collecting says so much. I don’t know why I’m still shocked at how many men do this, but I am. It probably helped the son process what happened to him to put it all together like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Block and delete applies to family members as well — Documentary of father who faked amnesia for decades just to escape adult responsibilities and live like a kidIt seems you watched this in its entirety, will you give a play by play? It seems interesting, I just don’t have a hour to give to it right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 88 | Is it just me or are many men disgusted by women's bodies?I would change femininity to prepubescence/child likeness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:39 PM |
| 10 | A question?I haven’t ever heard anyone say this in person but I’ve heard it on the internet through the years. I used to get a version of that when I smoked weed. It dont smoke it anymore but while with a NVM I would smoke and instantly be repulsed by him. Just couldn’t understand how or why I loved him so deeply 10 minutes ago. All love gone, all feelings, just deeply annoyed and ICK. Then it would wear off and love was back. Soooo, post high clarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.Exactly. I get Botox, I have injections but I will never ever get online saying I’m completely natural or try to encourage other women to feel bad about what they do to feel better about how they look. She is editing her body smaller and trying to be a body positivity beacon. It’s not cool because not all plus size women have the hourglass shape, not even her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 10 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.I think that trauma reaches back to childhood for most of us who don’t consider the experience traumatic. I started feeling too fat around age 8. I was not, I just wasn’t as thin as the thinnest child I knew. I also realized she was treated better than me by adults and other children. That sink in that thin and pretty equals care and opportunities. I never became overweight. I had an eating disorder by 13 but still didn’t feel thin enough or worthy of receiving care. I blessedly only used it thr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 21 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.She also heavily edits her entire body, face, arms, legs, waist. In her photos she looks like the large version of the ig body that everyone else face tunes themselves into. She edits literally about 100 lb from her posted photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:50 PM |
| 3 | A Woman's TouchCongratulations!!!! Love to see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 11 | A Woman's TouchOh my goodness! How crazy he was just raging alone in your home. What a psycho. I’m so sorry that happened. Fun fact on the sheet tip. I have discovered that Ellen Degeneres (she may be canceled now, not sure) has a line of the most amazing sheets I have ever owned for an ok price . On par with $200 sets. So thick, soft and never pill after a year of washing. Go on and treat yourself after that mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 23 | A Woman's TouchThank you for sharing because someone needs to hear these thing we say. I stayed 12 years. I knew it was abuse, I was addicted and likened it to heroine withdrawal when trying to leave. Hard to understand unless you’ve been there but I know many of us have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:18 AM |
| 4 | A Woman's Touch🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 7 | A Woman's TouchShoulda given it to (?) porch pirates... I don’t support good will. Good of you to donate to the boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:54 AM |
| 38 | This scrote has an affair, wants sex from his wife and fames it in a way that makes it seem he just wants her to be happy and wants sympathy because she won’t sleep with him?!? This is from his point of view so who know what’s really going on in this relationship...Poetry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:36 AM |
| 15 | A Woman's TouchOmg that is hilarious! Look how you inspired him to be better 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:27 AM |
| 46 | A Woman's TouchI laughed in real Life at this one girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 88 | FDS is more supportive towards single mothers than the actual single parents subI saw a post today that asked what’s a sub you wished you’d never have looked at. We were mentioned 5-6 times at that time with 10-15 agreeing comments per mention. Along with literally the most disgusting corners of the net like rape stories and countless snuff / gore subs. Crazy that we are so gross and problematic to humans when we are one of the only women’s exclusive spaces. Surprise! We talk about the hard times we’ve had at the hands of men and how to avoid them. OH NO! Single mothers are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:30 AM |
| 84 | A Woman's TouchOmg I love you and everything about you. Hell yea it feels like a home. Your home! You guys w these stories are giving me life🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 57 | A Woman's TouchOh lord let us not forget the things of ours that we bought to make the shared space nice... that they smashed in an abusive rage fit! Mine are 3 lamps, a 6 foot custom made mirror of vintage driftwood and a 6 dresser chest of drawers. Plus holes in walls obv but I wasn’t gonna take those lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:50 AM |
| 50 | A Woman's TouchThat sounds passive aggressive type “look I don’t want this cause you picked it😭!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 58 | A Woman's TouchHere’s what pick me tried when it was come to Jesus. I started my decent by throwing away all The dishes save 1 of everything. If someone wanted to eat, they had to wash the one fork and plate. I also stopped cooking and doing all laundry. I cleaned nothing. Instead of stepping up as an adult human, The king decided to buy meal preps, live in towers of trash and throw away clothes then buy new when they were dirty. I’m not even joking. He left with a $3k mattress, 70 inch tv and an entire room f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:32 AM |
| 39 | A Woman's TouchHe was super comfy benefiting from your labor. I bet he was surprised rooms don’t decorate themselves and healthy meals don’t appear out of thin air. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 65 | A Woman's TouchWith all your lovely things you bought over the years that made a home. Bet he never thought “hmm, wonder what the longest lasting fabric is suitable for bathroom rugs?” This is why they have nothing without a woman’s extreme labor that they call a touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 89 | Dear Scrotes, children aren’t trophies 🏆 🙄I can’t believe as many women have children as they do. It’s just common knowledge, no matter the generation, that the sperm donor will not be sacrificing anything. Unpopular opinion: I think impregnating a woman and separating from her after is the goal of many men. It’s the perfect situation for them. They never wanted to be a full time parent, but damn they wanted that kid. And for sure someone else is gonna take care of them. The woman will likely be caring for the child 75% of the time. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 88 | A Woman's TouchHa! That’s all they got! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:41 PM |
| 707 | A Woman's TouchDo you know why this mans place looks like this after she left? I bet you do. Sho bought everything that made a collection of rooms a home. Men do not care so they don’t buy things for a home. They just enjoy “a woman’s touch” aka a woman buying something for the home every week to make it a comfortable living space. I know this from experience. Towels, sheets, pots, pans, microwave, vacuum, couch, book shelves, accent chairs, art, fir blankets, area rugs, silverware, mirrors, dressers, bed fram… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:05 PM |
| 6 | 'Born Sexy Yesterday' and the Male Fantasy of "Her naivety [...] that allows her to see something special" in a mediocre man "that more experienced women cannot"I’ll be sure to watch some of his others! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 159 | 'Born Sexy Yesterday' and the Male Fantasy of "Her naivety [...] that allows her to see something special" in a mediocre man "that more experienced women cannot"I wanna say bra fucking vo to this video. I literally never watch these things all the way through because I know exactly what the point is. But this one just kept me going. This break down of how grown women are morphed into pedophilic roles is so damn spot on. He’s the only, the first, never been kissed, touched, naked, fucked. Accept she’s a grown ass woman AND a new born baby!? Clutch! They get to be a pedo and a teacher. Idk man. This video was grand and I’m glad it exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:39 AM |
| 28 | Scrote fantasy vs realityI remember the part where he was wearing silk pajamas, naked underneath. He baited the 6-9 year old girl into a wrestling/tickling match solely for the purpose of grinding against her with his penis. Purposely in silk pajamas for max contact. I think It went something like “I finally crushed out my erotic pleasure against her leg while she laughed and writhed against me. She skipped along and then I went to clean my shame” I don’t give a fuck how “beautiful the prose” are in this book. I am alwa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 37 | Is marriage good for women, or a liability to freedom?My reasons for even considering marriage are purely self serving. If I grow my wealth with a man and we have property together, what happens when he dies? His next of ken inherits his share of our shared investment if we are not married. If that share is bequeathed to me in a will, I will have to pay taxes in that which is already mine if we are not married. I will not risk my future financial stability or have what I’ve built with a life partner squabbled over. If no marriage, I will not own a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 11 | How to stop women from seeing you as competition and more as leader/respectable friend?Queens who uplift each other and are outright down to have a reciprocal loving platonic relationship are out there!! I don’t have any suggestions on where they are but you WILL know them when you encounter them. It won’t be about you showing or them showing what a priority you are to eachother specifically in the beginning. They will tell you singular things about your interactions that stand out to them. You will feel comfortable doing the same. You will feel like being around them gives you a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:37 AM |
| 57 | Finally had enough of choosing the latter so lvms will 'pick me.'Add on: I’ll also never reciprocate your effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 17 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)We were talking about this on another thread. You are so right it hurts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 30 | Stop Centering male opinions in women's issuesClear headed decisions for their own benefit. They are consistently making clear headed decisions for their own benefit. Remember that. Decisions made to receive a mans approval/lust/love/veiled respect/loyalty/human decency... those are not clear headed decisions and they do not benefit us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy.I have never heard that before this thread but I’ll say in my experience the skin on men’s bodies below the neck deteriorates far slower than women of the same age. Above the neck the skin seems to age faster than women of the same age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy.I agree. Women have spent a lot of effort looking after their face. Men not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 22 | The Bizarre History of Masturbation, Vegetarianism, and CornflakesSo interesting! I can not remember the doc I watched mentioning Kellogg, but they ran the whole gamut of what you said. Only they replaced masturbation with “mental illness” never once mentioned that weird ass motivation. I think it was one of the anti meat docs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:06 AM |
| 20 | Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy.Ha! Glad to bring the laughter wherever I can. FR tho, we all have seen them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 132 | Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy.Educated rant incoming The head piece is where the true age is displayed. The whole face and the hair obviously. It rots it is horrible from having no routine. Men who keep themselves in shape look like golum head on a 30 year olds body. I truly can not understand it. That being said, I was a massage therapist for many years and as much as I hate to say it. Men’s actual skin below the neck does age slower. If they work out at all their body fat also stays in check. For one simple reason. I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Medium to low value step father and how to advise him on his relationship issues with my HV mother?Yes to all of this. I’m thinking I’ll ask him to tell me if he has a medical concern. And that other than that not to discuss his relationship issues with me. I have a strong urge to explain to him why he is wrong and not being a good partner to my mother. I think that is my own issue. My mother is completely capable and no one needs my help navigating their relationship. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Medium to low value step father and how to advise him on his relationship issues with my HV mother?It does feel awe fully intimate. Almost like he feels like it’s a pass that he’s confiding his relationship problems to me sense I’m super safe. I have always told her when he has called upset that she is upset w him. and joked at how puppy dog he is. She laughs, I laugh, it’s just our family. But this is the first time he has ever asked that I not say anything. I don’t think he has any idea of my loyalty to her (not sure how he wouldn’t) if there’s something I’d want to know if I were her, Shes… | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 04:04 AM |
| 7 | Medium to low value step father and how to advise him on his relationship issues with my HV mother?And why TF does this emotional labor fall to me?! I’m seriously mad he’s putting me in this position. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Medium to low value step father and how to advise him on his relationship issues with my HV mother?I haven’t ever met up with him before about any issues. He has called me and said your mom is mad at me what do I do.. I tell him to man up and then never hear about it again. This time is different. He has never acted worried about her before. I get vibes of 1900s she’s crazy for disagreeing w me. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Trying to Leave LVMI saw that you said he has control over all of your bank accounts. Does he still? Are you able to withdraw your money and move it to a completely different bank? Maybe that can happen the day you leave so there aren’t any flags before you get your pets. I know what you mean about leaving your abuser and having that trauma bond. For me it felt like going through what drug withdrawals are described as. All I wanted was relief from the pain of being without the drug that was destroying me. It’s mor… | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 3 | How to make female friendsMy new friend who I met through my hobby of roller skating (awesome and has a community of women in almost every city) said that joining a cross fit gym has been monumental in moving from place to place because it comes with a built in set of friends! That it’s not like a normal gym where no one talks to one another. You must interact and it’s a group activity of sorts. Sometimes you choose partners for certain days and so on. I’d recommend that and also roller skating:) | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 11 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenThis is dangerous. I can vouch for being beaten within an inch of my life for doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 10 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenThough this does feel good in the moment and we should be able to do this. DO NOT DO THIS. They will want to hurt you if you do. Some WILL hurt you right then, some will stalk you for months then hurt you later. The second happened to me. I couldn’t walk for months. Also to spite 2 years in court, absolutely nothing happened to him legally. Edit: some won’t hurt you at all, but rest assured that the really want too. The only reason they don’t is because they fear being caught hurting you. You ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 40 | "My wife listens to music, watches movies, doesn't wear the hijab, what should I do?" THE HORROR! , THE SHAME! HOW DARE A WOMAN WATCH TV !?Yes lawd get the strap. Mandemic tm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:24 AM |
| 19 | How to avoid being used by a guy while he prepares to date a woman he desires more?Everything you said are great ways to avoid this. Especially not moving in with someone. I’ll add to this, be on the look out for a “tragedy” that strikes his life. There will be one. This is when many LVM will groom you to take care of them. It seems so simple. I care about this person, something horrible has happened. I’m absolutely willing to step up and help in any way I can” whatever help you give at this time will be help you’ll be expected to give forever more. | /r/askFDS | 22/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 15 | "Etiquette" your social media profileLike @luvmyvulvaxoxo I have a ton of tattoos, this gets me attention I didn’t consider when I got them, not that I regret them. I also dress in quite revealing clothing in the summer because I’m active and well, fuck it, I love the way I look. On ig tho I do not do the poses or revealing type things many do. I have maybe one pic of myself in a bathing suit on a nice boat but my booty isn’t featured or anything. I’m a writer, so I work for myself and my hobby is roller skating. I look hot doing m… | /r/askFDS | 20/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 12 | Caught Him In a Lie? Now What?Girl I completely feel you and what I said absolutely does not mean he didn’t lie. BUT on this one thing, I literally delete comments all the time. | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 25 | Caught Him In a Lie? Now What?No idea if he was or was not lying. I’ll say that I constantly post and then delete comments on fb, ig and on Reddit. It will be for different reasons. Sometimes I get worried I’ll maybe offend someone or felt I let on too much about myself or painted myself in a way that could be misinterpreted. This especially happens when I say something I think is funny. Sometimes I just change my mind about publicly saying what I said, and I delete it. I’d look at the post in front of him and say, oh I don’… | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Dating long distanceI can tell you really want this but honey what the hell is wrong with actually dating people you can date? It’s easy to fall in with men you already know. In this case, hell no on all points. You’re setting yourself up For a shit show. Not only are LDR an absolute horrible idea, dating men who even travel often for work is guaranteed to wreck your life. These men have no accountability, period. You’ve never met him IRL? No You’re LEAVING THE COUNTRY TO SEE HIM... for your first meeting? Fuck no!… | /r/askFDS | 24/12/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to fall in love but not get attached?If you’re in love, I don’t think what you’re looking for is possible. Of course you’re going to be effected. What you’re describing is how sociopaths with no emotions operate. I see the allure, but if you aren’t suffering from a personality disorder, you’ll feel things. The only work around I’ve seen is women who commit to men they love but aren’t in love with because of this risk. My mother did it. He checked all the boxes and most of all adores her. He loves the most in the relationship. He wo… | /r/askFDS | 27/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 131 | Boyfriend checking out other girls in front of me #justLVMthingsThe biggest tell on if your needs will EVER be met in a relationship is how a man reacts to a problem WHEN THE PROBLEM IS HIM. He just told you every man is going to treat you just as shitty as he does, so lower your standards. He also told you he doesn’t care in any way to change his hurtful behavior and that he’s rather loose you than not eye fuck strangers. Not trying to be alarmist, but this man is going to emotionally abuse you. You will never ever be able to set a boundary or ask for what … | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What is a HVW's stance on their partners EX?Well that would be a red flag for me and I’d probably pass on the man. I don’t buy a tee shirt on amazon without knowing others experiences. I trust women and would hope if they were abused they would help another not be. A simple hello is there anything dangerous I should know about Is something I’d answer. The risk is too great to go in blindly. | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What is a HVW's stance on their partners EX?Trash talking an ex is one of the ways abusive men like you into a false sense of safety “not threatened” by them because they’re just so horrible right? Talking about them all the time is a way abusers triangulate a new person into jumping through hoops trying to get picked. I personally will be needing to speak to any future partners ex for an honest review before allowing him into my life. If she has horrible things to say and is telling the truth, well that’s what you have to look forward to… | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 10:55 PM |
| 14 | Wife benefits vs girlfriend benefitsPlease ladies do not consider cleaning after him a wife benefit! That is extremely problematic and gets old super quick. Get ready to hate his guts a year in if you clean up and cook for a man. This shit has to be equal even if you’re a SAHM. Wife does not equal mom. That is never a wife benefit. Edit: my queen mom didn’t even do these things for me or my brother. We did them for our selves. Slave is what I meant, not mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:13 AM |
| – | Me "I am interested in making friends with people over 30". Then the gates of hell opened.Is this on a dating site that also has a friends category? Just curious, I heard one of the apps has a feature like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 31 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Right? What is a... “nature setting”? Like pre history, hunter gatherer society? Or the rainforest cafe? Hey girl ima need to get you into a nature setting for conquering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 9 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Wow. I have never had someone describe it exactly like I did. I told my abuser/12 yr forever boyfriend, when I found he’d given me 3 (curable) sti, that the pain was worse than when my father died. He said “that’s fucking sad” in the you’re pathetic way. And sis I was. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 16 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?I need this report as well. They really do not in any way see the systemic damage they have done. The ex is always crazy. How do they have this delusion? Why oh why are they so confident that their need of a new woman’s service is appealing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 16 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Bless it, anoint in oil and bow. This is heaven. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 4 | “wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!”Yes, that’s why we put having your own career and bug out fund so high on the priority list. I’m So glad you were able to escape. You lost a lot but gained tour freedom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 3 | “wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!”That was heroic and I know so unimaginably hard. There need to be more resources for women in this situation. I know lady Gaga put forth a huge sum when the pandemic hit because so many more women needed out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 46 | “wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!”Warrior god damnit. That’s something can’t even imagine. The damage you must be harboring. How evil he must have been that you knew you had to play that deep psychological game to save yourself. I’m so thankful you are free of him. That’s the kind of man who ends up like the man in OP story. You are alive and he’s gone. You’ll heal day by day. There will be a new you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 14 | Is the myth that “men who are attractive will women badly”,spread by unattractive men who are just trying to manipulate attractive women into giving them a shot?I’m my younger years I had LTR with 2 men who would be considered unattractive. The pickme in me thought he’d feel lucky to have me and treat me well. They were both abusive and absolutely horrible. I have never had an attractive man treat me badly. I think this logic is spread by both men and women and it’s absolutely false. The thing is, a high percentage of of the men on the planet will cheat of given the chance. Attractive men have more chances and opportunities to cheat, and most will. So t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 11 | Please, just PiCk HeR already! The drive for male brownie points is high in this one at 5’11.... brave soul. I couldn’t sis.The worst thing about short men is how abusive they are because of their short man insecurities. I’d love to have the man I love be 6’ but aesthetically it was never a deal breaker. I didn’t even care. But you know who did care, the damn 5’9” abuser who ruined my life. The ferocious way short men act to compensate for their perceived inferiority is frightening. To me, shorter dudes aren’t unattractive. Short dudes are dangerous to our mental health. Far higher chance of being abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Sharing my dream/goal boards. I want a peaceful modern Mori-girl life. <3These are so lovely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?Thanks! I see it now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:07 AM |
| 21 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesSpot on. Italian fingertip kiss. I love how much and how eloquently we are talking about having children with men lately. You put into words exactly how I imagined feeling if I’d had a child. The woman is faced with the reality on the deep Inequality. When the child comes it is criminal the low effort most men perform. The sex goes because every day, the hate seed of injustice grows. Every dish, every diaper, every meal slaved over by the new mom is gasoline on resentment. No matter how HV the M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 17 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesRight!? And then, THEN! He said, sense she wasn’t recovered enough to do porn tricks after having the baby... it seemed like the perfect time to open the relationship. The perfect time to open the relationship was directly after her having his second child. I hope he feels the pain that she felt. That had to break her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 6 | A day in the life of our lost sisters at breaking mom.Agreed! Spay day was the best day of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 95 | A day in the life of our lost sisters at breaking mom.Oh the horror. Breakingmom is the best birth control anyone could ask for. Acceptable man turns into the worst thing that’s ever happened to you once you have that child. Few, almost zero men are worthy of fathering children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:24 AM |
| 14 | Terminal uniqueness and proud non-conformity are red flagsTerminal uniqueness, lord Jesus this is just so perfectly worded. They have no idea how repulsive their hunger for attention is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 18 | You should always be the most beautiful to himYes queen! Own your place in that mans heart. We don’t call attention to our insecurities because they have been curated. A woman doesn’t have to be better than another. A woman is the best because she is. You are the shit because you are. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:02 AM |
| 6 | The anti-porn: Share your favorite love scenes from movies/TV here!Seconding outlander Also, Most love scenes that feature the song (Elderly woman in a small town) by Pearl Jam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 9 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”Ohoooo dayum! That was so spot on. Thank you I loved that. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:27 AM |
| 30 | I thought I married a HVM, but not 2 months in and red flags are starting to show.Ok here you are, you’re in this shit situation. A marriage, that’s forever ideally. So think about that... FOREVER. You’re not attractive enough to have sex with right now in his eyes. When you’re young and more than likely in great shape and very attractive. Forgot all the glaringly obviously soul crushing red flags that you should let this relationship go for the present reasons. What about the future reasons? Are you going to grow old with this man? Who can’t be sexually attracted to a comple… | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 31 | Goddamn, the breaking mom subreddit is just one disaster LVM story after another. They should change the title to their sub to "breakingmyspirit" insteadBreaking mom makes me hurt for women. I live in the south and the women here don’t even bitch about the low effort and usury of their NVM . It’s all these women have ever known. Just as long as they’re not being hit and don’t know they’re being cheated on, it’s A Ok. This is why I’m child free. It’s so hard for them to escape the abuse and being used. Men having children makes them jump to a new level of audacity when it comes to sucking the blood of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 36 | Don't rush into babymaking , they don't necessarily deserve being a father...I also read that sub often. Every post is about how much worse their husbands make their lives. Very rarely do I see a post about the actual kids being the bane of their existence. I know there are exceptions but I do not think any man is fit to be a father. Even when they aren’t leaving kids on a porch they definitely aren’t parenting like moms are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 52 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Travels for work Eats all meals out (won’t cook) Overly concerned with fitness and diet (orthorexic & overly critical) Mixes subtle “joke” negs with flirting in order to avoid putting himself in the position to be rejected. Status symbol item overload. (He’s looking for a human status symbol) Doesn’t ask meaningful questions to get to know you Bragging Physical escalation before you signal invitation, no matter how long it’s been. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.Lord yes girl! And thank you. The freedom to just do whatever the hell you want including eating cheese and nuts for dinner is the best. I’m super excited for you to enjoy your new place and it’ll be so refreshing to make it your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 3 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.I really love this! I think I’m going to adopt this strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 10 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.Amazing! What language you learning? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:25 AM |
| 12 | Polyamory uncoverThey really are tho. I have never ever met an attractive poly guy. They all resemble the grown up trench coat mafia (if you’re 30+ you know what that is). Also the poly pod is equally LV in looks and doing life well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | I swear to God I have a neon sign over my head.What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:30 AM |
| 11 | Any FDS attorneys? Please chime in! FDS references website for men?? Feasible?This is an absolutely amazing idea. I feel like I heard there used to be something like this. The risk of a relationship with a man is just too high for us not to be able to hear from other women they have been romantic with. We need this so badly. I’m not dating at this point but when I do I would really feel like I need to speak to their ex before feeling comfortable getting serious. I don’t even buy easily returnable things from amazon without multiple reviews. Relationships have much higher … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | I hate small talk on dating sites and I’m at the point that I just talk about anything and everything with no shame.Just stop asking what someone is doing at that moment. Of course they are just relaxing or taking a shit & doing nothing. They are texting on a dating app. If he was doing something interesting like climbing a mountain, painting, reading a book, he wouldn’t be paying attention to a dating app talking to you. Ask them something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Loving the pics of queens buying themselves flowers so here are mine🖤 I’d love to see yours!I completely agree! I think we put a huge amount of importance on our sanctuary. This is our womb and our safety. It’s also pretty amazing what can be done with minimal funds and a clear mind open for creativity. Nesting and decorating is a kind of mediation for me. You can’t really see mine but I’m very proud of my safe space and I love seeing other women’s style and comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Thank you. It is amazing how long it took for me to realize this was wrong. I think the thing that’s most hurtful is how early I started allowing myself to be used and how many years into my adulthood that same mentally endured. It has definitely fueled my conviction now and my commitment to always put myself first. My well of GAF is long dry and as an adult I can smell abuser a mile a way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏The possibilities for predators to reach kids through the Internet shakes me. There’s no telling how much worse things could have been if my net was cast that wide at a young age. But you know what to teach your daughters. They will be better off than we were as kids. I don’t think our mothers knew exactly how afraid to be for us and how to arm us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Fuck a Princess, I’m a King.Ashnikko bangs! Wet is my fav, video is super amaze too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:12 AM |
| 21 | Why do so many women make excuses for their bfs/husbands/male partners?I find it very telling that there are droves of posts from women trying to figure out how to stay in abusive and shit relationships. While there are zero posts from men explaining how horrible they are treated and asking for advice on keeping the relationship alive. “TaLk tO hiM” “hey therapy to feel better about being treated like shit” bitch what? I honestly can’t understand the experiences the people who say this have had. Like have they successfully changed their LVMs behavior by talking to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:50 AM |
| 76 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I retch at the things I allowed when I was a child. I was 15, he was 25 circa 2002. Pre iPhone/IG/snap etc... he groomed me at gatherings for meditation. Father was dead and I was desperate for male affection. Met up at a mall where he kissed me and told me I tasted like butterscotch (puke) 15 yr old me swooned. He took me on the city bus to his house. I told my mother I was at a friends house. I consensually let him use my body for 3 days. 1 day into this naked free love fest and faking orgasms… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Stay toxic Kings. Bring the BS at any time of the day, we not going. Your LV contact will never be a sign.Why tf do they think we pay attention to things like this? The advice they give each other is funny and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 6 | I'm very insecure/jealous/compare myself to every woman. Feels like other women are competition. With regard to my bf, I view women thru a lens of "is she a better choice for him than I am?"/ "she would be better for him" /"this is the type of girl he will leave me for"Maybe explore why you feel that way. Could it be a gut feeling? Are you subconsciously picking up that you are not safe in this relationship? It may be a you problem, you may be insecure, but I think many women feel this way in relationships because we know exactly what our mates are capable of. My former pick me self was driven by this exact feeling. If I won’t do it, someone else will, better do it. Better be the best looking woman in any room, if not hel want her instead. Better not turn down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 12 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?Yes, my NVM father just could not be arsed to cook for us. She fell down some stairs holding me so couldn’t catch herself. He had a great life tho. Tons of hobbies, out till 3 am every night. And man we were always so excited on the rare occasion we saw dad. Anyway, he passed and she married a good guy. He doesn’t check all the boxes but she hasn’t cooked a single meal for the last 20 years. He cooks. And I’m glad about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 33 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?My first memory of life is my mother cooking dinner for me and my dad ON HER KNEES WITH 2 BROKEN ANKLES while my dad watched tv. At that moment I knew I’d never have kids. Men can not be trusted to be an equal parent. I bet my dad said he would be. They definitely have no idea what it’s like to raise a child. They don’t even know what it’s like to be alone with a child for 30 minutes in most cases. All they know is mommy did everything in their house growing up. Being a dad looks great. If I cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 13 | "child free" Men are manchildsI have met a few child free men and they seem socially inept. I’m Child free. I haven’t dated one though. My NVM abusive ex wanted children very badly and didn’t wash clothing, dishes or cook a meal in 12 years. He wouldn’t listen that child care is mostly cooking cleaning and laundry plus doing many things you don’t want to do. Your time is no longer your own. He kept pressing though. So I got sterilized In secret and told him The surgery was for something else. My reasons for being child free … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Correct me if I’m wrong....That’s for sure. Best not to wait until he messes up on the bigger things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:56 AM |
| 10 | The WAP problemWell this’ll be long. I completely agree with every single thing you said. I know it’s been beat to death, but there’s so much to unpack and I’m glad you brought up this aspect of the song. Number one being the performance aspect. Wet Ass Pussy... being something a woman just has going on out of nowhere. That’s what bothers me. A man being lucky enough to enjoy a WAP without having to make a woman wet. Without having to do any of the things that make a woman wet. The lyrics in this song are porn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:41 AM |
| 15 | Correct me if I’m wrong....You are absolutely right! You don’t know them until you challenge them on something they said that makes you uncomfortable. Until you aren’t in the mood for sex. Until you’d like to leave when they’d like to stay or vice versa. Until you live with them and see if they do dishes/laundry/cooking without a mommy to ask them. Until later in the relationship when they do or don’t give physical and emotional affection outside of sex. Until you’re sick and by comparison they are sick. Until you have a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Mood.Ok got ya! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 82 | Mood.Love the being rich part and turning down dick you don’t want... but did you see this movie? She’s doing this because she has just found out he cheated on her. Chooses to stay with him because, money. Goes on to have several more kids with him while he’s a drug addicted trash monster who constantly takes antibiotics for the STIs he gets repeatedly from fucking hookers. Edit: maybe I didn’t get the joke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | How often do you Queens get approached?It really is dehumanizing. I also forgot to mention awful things that happen when we say we’re not interested. I was once followed home and beaten so badly I couldn’t walk for 3 months for turning down an aggressive older mans advances. That’s obviously not the norm but it happens. Every time a man cold approaches, he puts it on you to save his ego from the crime of your no. The danger women are in when not accepting advances is high. Edit: thank you for complementing my articulation 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 6 | How often do you Queens get approached?This is not a brag, it’s my reality. I work hard to look the way I do, and it’s not for the pleasure of LVM. It doesn’t matter anyway because they would fuck a mc chicken or Thor own ass if they could. I get cold approached all day, every single day, everywhere I go. The thing is, these men literally see a beautiful woman they’d like to put their dick in, and approach me. It’s not flattering or even personal. Rich men, homeless men, men pumping gas, tall handsome men, gross ugly men, men working… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:25 AM |
| 5 | To redditor orangesandbears about your chat question: "Do you think men have to always be the providers in a relationship"When the last bite of chicken sandwich is chewed and swallowed. Scrote- That’l be 1 sex please🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 20 | To redditor orangesandbears about your chat question: "Do you think men have to always be the providers in a relationship"Right?! Like do they think all these women are near homeless and starving? Enough so that they would put up with the company of some douche bag just for a god damn free meal. No! No one is doing this. I’m risking my life to allow you to eat a meal with me. You may even drug the meal. I would avoid going to the bathroom even before I’m done eating. Women are not dating for free food. How the hell did this even start to be a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:01 AM |
| 36 | To redditor orangesandbears about your chat question: "Do you think men have to always be the providers in a relationship"If they can’t afford to buy a few meals in order to allow a woman to asses if she would like to risk her health and life... they shouldn’t be dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:57 AM |
| 71 | To redditor orangesandbears about your chat question: "Do you think men have to always be the providers in a relationship"I’m so tired of hearing how these poor men are trying to avoid getting used for free food. Who the fuck puts themselves in that kind of situation for a meal? That can’t possibly happen often enough for men to have this blanket agreement of no real first dates. I think they mean “I kept buying women food and they didn’t fuck me after that one single time meeting them! They used me!!! Never again!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 39 | Ok coomerSheeewww! My NVM ex (12 miserable waisted years) would lament how disgusting strippers were at a bachelorette/bachelor party. He’d say he would leave a woman who watched strippers before their wedding because that’s CHEATING. Surprise! Went on to fuck every single person he could possibly poach from his famous boss. Dozens of women over years. While putting on this act of how disgusted he was by people who cheat. I guess he meant only women who cheat are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 50 | Turn down for what?Constant recovery is needed when wasting life on nvm. Every drop of energy is drained. No life force is left. Once that recovery period is lifted a woman is able to flourish like the god she is meant to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:03 AM |
| 4 | FDS has ruined “romantic” songs for me...I like that approach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 14 | FDS has ruined “romantic” songs for me...So much of the music I loved in my youth is exactly that. Hearing the lyrics from my now perspective is saddening. Just constant vitriol of psychological abuse of women and idealizing a made up version of them. I have been actively avoiding listening to music in favor of audiobooks. Not for this reason but because I get an extreme version of (song stuck in head). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 16 | FDS has ruined “romantic” songs for me...Omg just had this realization listening to Ava Adore by smashing pumpkins. I love their music so so much. But that song is a beautifully done anthem to abuse, using, and ownership of a woman while hating her for it and not letting her leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | On keeping your options open. How have you worked this out in real life.Yes! Makes complete sense. I’m glad you spelled it out in that the way. It’s a bit hard to understand putting multi dating into practice. That was perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | On keeping your options open. How have you worked this out in real life.You’ve explained that so well! I feel like I understand what you’re saying. It doesn’t sound like an easy convo to have but better than wasting my time dragging out vetting the intentions of one dude at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | On keeping your options open. How have you worked this out in real life.That is a great point that in times past, women would have many suitors. My issue would come in at us both having “platonic” dinner dates. How are you able to tell his dates don’t involve intimacy? How are you ever to know someone’s real intentions? I feel like that arrangement would have a high chance of devolving into an implied open relationship in the mans view. I like the productive jealousy/mate guarding. I’m just not sure I could trust a man to not abuse this arrangement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | On keeping your options open. How have you worked this out in real life.Thanks for that. Explains it pretty well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:39 PM |
| 11 | On keeping your options open. How have you worked this out in real life.Yes I agree with this. However that’s not what I’m asking. There is much mention of continuing to see other people even when there is an established relationship. I am curious about the real world application from women who do this and advocate for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | The disappointment I had when I realized this wasn’t satire 😬I have to speak on this. Using an alt account because that’s what mods suggested. Now my posts don’t get up because of flair but I hope this one does. The ride or die mentality is a plague on women. There are so many allowances expected that it literally erodes a woman’s inner being. This is a pick me hall of fame. This person she describes doesn’t have to be a “street person” more to the point a person who makes their living dealing drugs. The allowances you end up making because “we are living… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:20 AM |
| 8 | Yes. Yes. Yes.Even when you are a hairless pink slit, outrageously attractive, loyal and agreeable... they will hate you and cheat whenever and with whom ever they can. They hate women they know. When they know you, you aren’t an attractive, hairless slit anymore. You have a personality and ideas and feelings. When we cease to be an idea we aren’t idealized any longer. It’s the new that gains their adoration. The new is an abstract construct in their mind. In short, a person who has not yet been effected by t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:33 AM |
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