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As others have said, blacking out drunk is more than enough to serve as a red flag
/r/askFDS29/01/22 01:46 AM
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Could you thank him for his interest and send him your rates for a portfolio review? He's trying to get you to work for free, and probably thinks he's doing a damn good job of weaseling his way past your boundaries. Once I had a guy ask for a free drawing of him where he then sent me selfies, before I had a chance to answer bc he thought he made that decision for me. When I told him I wouldn't be doing it for free, he said my art wasn't good enough to charge money - very much sour grapes lul whi…
/r/askFDS28/01/22 03:58 PM
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Agreeing with all the replies about canceling to follow ur intuition. "Let's meet and see where it goes." = "I want to say noncommittal copy+paste stuff to keep things purposefully unclear so I can try to get away with as much as I can while trying to extract benefits from you"
/r/askFDS01/11/21 08:30 PM
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This is also why we block and delete - if we explain, they just use the feedback to better deceive the next victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:38 AM
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Meanwhile they whine about "what about the men" and how men have no social support resources, as if they aren't complicit in wasting them to harass/ concern troll women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:44 PM
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Thank you! I'll be sure to check her out. So glad her content is reaching new audiences like on Tik Tok and here. Shoutout to OP for posting this clip bc otherwise I may not have ever known about her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:35 PM
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The guy has ankle biter energy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:54 PM
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Completely accurate translation. We need to shame weebs and koreaboos more 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:47 PM
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INB4 someone comes crawling out of the woodwork to talk about how it’s justified and “equal” and 50/50 because he’s doing the yoking and she’s the one getting yoked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:23 PM
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That’s what I’ve seen as well. Even if romantic relationships are off the table, I hope that everyone of FDS can cultivate more female friendships and de-center men from our lives, and grow to our best potential
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:22 PM
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omg the types that think they’re Marcus Aurelius 2.0 after having made their bed as suggested in a Jordan Peterson book 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:02 PM
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Seconding the last part!! One of the challenges is dealing with pickme’s (bi or not) who see relationships with women as just another way to appeal to men, like the idea of women being there to fool around with vs. looking for something serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:59 PM
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The Bratz logo tank top kills me... As if it wasn’t apparent enough that she’s targeting girls and young women to promote the subculture. Presenting herself as an authority figure that doesn’t have real authority (which would threaten men too much and make her less attractive to men) with all the plausible deniability of her wearing the shirt because the brand being part of her childhood 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:53 AM
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Her feeling that it’s empowering doesn’t actually make it empowering. Her choice to overlook the pornofied history of the term bimbo doesn’t mean that it’s history has been scrubbed clean of being used to degrade women. Even if she feels like she’s lashing out against building a solid foundation for herself (education, financial, independence, etc.) because she thinks they’re constricting expectations, undermining her ability to be truly independent from the good will of a man is anything but em…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:46 AM
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Thank you for clarifying - my bad for taking men at their word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:12 PM
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Men continue to tell on themselves about how they're attracted to obedience bc they're obsessed with control. That guy sounds incapable of understanding that people exist outside of his own pleasure, and he's so far gone that even at least a 9 looks like a 6 because of his entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:54 AM
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I’m so sorry you had to experience that, OP. ;=; FWIW, this guy is dumb as rocks for sending you that message bc it’s evidence that he intended to speak falsehoods with malice of forethought. Even if writing that cringe message made him feel better, he comes off as absolutely unhinged. He admits to being a sex-crazed degenerate that’s so hormone driven he mistakes rejection for hostility. He’d be barely functional if society by and large didn’t turn a blind eye to his kind of behavior. I pity th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:15 AM
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How dare women have the gall to be attracted to people they have sex with, am i rite lads 😤/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:09 AM
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Men telling on themselves on how they use marriage to trap women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:07 AM
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I agree with you - you can do the best you can to help people, but they have to be willing to help themselves. You shouldn't have to sacrifice everything just to prop him up. He's an adult and should put his best foot forward if he wants a relationship vs. sticking to his comfort zone. Many people have anxiety, and he does a disservice to all of us by suggesting that anxiety = we can't get better.
/r/askFDS05/04/21 09:32 PM
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I think he's just mad that he couldn't get away with doing the bare minimum because of the vetting. Even he doesn't realize it, he might have tried to pull the "bumbling fool who doesn't know any better" to try to get you to lower your standards/ expectations of him.
/r/askFDS05/04/21 09:24 PM
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If he really wanted to help you, he would piss off and never bother you again. He's doing it to see if you'll take him back because he doesn't believe you really have boundaries. If he's changed at all, it's that he's become more entitled because he feels you "owe" him for the time you spent apart.
/r/askFDS05/04/21 09:20 PM
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omg you wrote the whole article for them 😳 now they’re just gonna copy that when they late scroll through here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:10 AM
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OP of the Tweet sounds like every guy who claims to be pOLy, coerces his girlfriend into an open relationship, and then makes a surprised Pikachu face when women aren't throwing themselves at him, and how his girlfriend is having more fun without him since she knows now she can do better, is spending less time around a man-child, etc. Meanwhile, he's seething because he thought that he'd be surrounded by women without losing his girlfriend, so he claims it's unfair when it was his idea in the fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:22 AM
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I think it's that guys feel more entitled to ask because they come in with the mindset that women exist for their enjoyment, and that they h8 competition so they would never willingly invite another guy. Plus, women have been gaslit their entire lives and told that their sole purpose is to please men, so it's harder for women to stick up for ourselves without facial social backlash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:15 AM
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I don't know your personal history, but I know you aren't alone. It reminds me of how many women who have been abused will seek out experiences that put them at risk for abuse because it's what they believe is "normal" and what they deserve. (Disclaimer for any lurking males: I'm not blaming victims; I want to acknowledge that trauma changes our decision-making process.) I'm reminded of how some women who have been sexually abused end up showing hypersexual behaviors (aka, I think it's no surpri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:46 PM
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It's hard to take them seriously when we're getting called abnormal or somehow socially-deficient by diaper-wetting weirdos that dress up as animals and fantasizing about eating people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:47 PM
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My vote's for the OG Hitachi Magic Wand. It's kind of large though but it's weightiness means it does the work by itself. It's not waterproof, however. Please avoid buying on Amazon since they might re-sell stuff and it's hard to tell if what you're getting is new or has been used If you're looking for something waterproof, I think the FemmeFunn Ultra Wand isn't bad. It's smaller than the Hitachi and I think the turquoise colour is very cute :3
/r/askFDS15/03/21 03:53 AM
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Yes! I'm glad to see that women on Tik Tok are speaking up :) I love her makeup style also
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing - I'm glad that some people are using Tik Tok for good. Her insight got me thinking how another reason men dislike when women eagerly have sex is it means that he's not as special as he thinks he is (since he's so convinced that overestimating himself = accuracy lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:11 AM
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If he actually thinks the accounts are fake, I wonder if it’s bc he spends too much time around male LARPers who spend their own time making fake accounts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:28 AM
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I'm a lesbian and I think that FDS is valuable regardless of one's sexuality bc FDS helps us vet men in our lives, especially ones we don't want as romantic partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:26 PM
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The comment about how men “bring nothing to the table but problems and a weird smell” is my fav 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:21 PM
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Given how much they love easy access to guns and restrictions on abortion, they really wanna go for Afghanistan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:14 AM
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Seconding the part about avoiding certain breeds as a first time dog owner, and seconding the part on the benefits of female dogs. A lot of them are naturally skeptical of men (especially if they had previously been strays) which helps the vetting process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:49 PM
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Oh god, one of our family friends told us that she thought someone had tagged her house for a robbery (they put an X on a window with tape that she later removed) while she was at work, but good thing she had two German shepherds who love to bark at anything that could be remotely suspicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:45 PM
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Not that I’ve seen on Reddit. /GenderCritical was receptive to Dworkin and they got taken out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:24 PM
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When you reach out to them every time, but after you reach out, they post on social media how no one even reaches out to them 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:56 AM
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Here are a few of my favorites: taking a hot shower, or maybe a bath making a nutritious dinner that's also tasty making a conscious effort to drink more water (ex: heating up water for tea) calling a friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:55 AM
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So what you’re saying is you only date lesbian women, not bisexual women? No, and you'd know that I didn't write that if you read my comment before replying. However, I can see the appeal of only dating other lesbians. I can't blame anyone who wants to date people who have similar experiences. ​ I didn't mention that at all so, why did your previous comment start with "Also going to add: bisexuals exist" if you didn't mention bi women at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:52 AM
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I hope no one got the wrong impression and thought I accused bisexual women of lying or implied they didn’t exist. To clarify, I was talking about women who call themselves lesbians while they currently date men, not women who have previously dated men bc of compulsory heterosexuality. Guys take it as “evidence” that they too can have sex with lesbians if they “try” hard enough, or they claim that so and so “converted” a lesbian so he felt emboldened to try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:36 AM
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Please don’t put a lot of pressure on yourself. There’s no “right” way to be a woman attracted to women. I don’t know your situation but I can throw out some general advice that I wish I knew when I was younger: * you don’t have to come out to anyone you don’t want to * if you’re in uni there’s a lot of people who call themselves gay but aren’t homosexual and they’ll get mad at you if you point that out. Also, there’s going to be women who claim to be lesbians but they’ll actively pursue and dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:52 AM
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LOL at the last part. It’s too real - it helped me become more comfortable with my sexuality. I kept feeling I was an imposter RE: being a lesbian until I realized that saying I’m attracted to women and not men isn’t a new observation if the whole time I was pointing out how much nicer women look than their husbands and boyfriend 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:46 AM
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My suggestion as a lesbian - be extra specific about what you're looking for, and vet, especially when it hurts your heart. I've heard horror stories of lesbians who think they're dating another woman and things are fine, until they find out that their date never told them about the date's husband/ boyfriend and was looking for another woman to join them in the bedroom Edit: be careful of wokecels that will try to guilt you into dating people you don't want to. They'll try to accuse you of being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:44 AM
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This is so true. Even if they don't expose themselves at first (some have had way too much practice in deceiving women to get into their pants), you're under no obligation to stay friends with someone if that relationship isn't benefiting you. Friendships as well as romantic relationships should only be sustained if they're mutually beneficial. Once he starts acting like a parasite, it's time for him to go. Deworming is essential both for are fluffy four legged friends and for ourselves! Men wil…
/r/askFDS19/02/21 05:41 PM
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Too real, just like how they get up in arms when we have the aUdAcITy to want to be physically attracted to people we want to have physical intimacy with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:03 AM
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Great post, OP I wanted to add that we should take special care around wokecels, because they'll try to guild women into having sex with them. I've seen wokecels accuse women of being discriminatory if a woman doesn't want to have physical intimacy with them, in attempt to "cancel" a woman they see as "out of line." Even if they're engaging in bad faith, it's telling that they view women as a public resource which No means no, and "no" is a complete sentence. You don't have to explain why, and y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:42 AM
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Hard agree on the last part. They likely operate under the hidden assumption that women outside their communities are "easier" and will feel too shy to speak up, especially if they keep trying to "justify" their abuse as "cULtUrE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:22 AM
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What does 'liberal view' even mean? LOL I bet he can't even articulate it because he thinks he's automatically going to get praised for repeating words. Plus, I'm pretty sure he would whine nonstop at Chinese women who understandably resent being treated as less than their male peers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:00 PM
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omg the “but what if it was reversed!!!” crowd... I like how they get mad over hypothetical situations that don’t happen instead of focusing at what’s right in front of them /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:14 PM
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If being average makes him insecure I have some tough news for him. By definition 50% of people are below average 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:36 PM
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Friendships with women > friendships with men, in the vast majority of cases, and not just bc I'm a lesbian lel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:53 PM
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Even if the young woman "got lucky," that doesn't mean other men won't try to blackmail other women into creating similar types of videos, so they can traffic them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:15 AM
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It's cringe that they denigrate women as if the foul odor was our natural state, and not the result of pH imbalance/infection like one caused by encounter with men, especially if there's ejaculation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:15 PM
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All these apex redditor males writing about their authoritarian state of nature fantasy are so dense that they don't realize that they'd be some of the first to get taken out because of their lack of skills to survive and meaningfully contribute to society lel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:38 AM
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I can't believe the bar is so low. This is like asking if it's a good day if you don't get your leg stuck in a bear trap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:03 AM
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I like how their so called “experts” conveniently forgot about hypersexuality as a hallmark of trauma, especially sexual abuse /s 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:32 AM
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Men are so porn sick that they can't get off unless they strangle their members in deathgrip because that's how they get themselves off. Now they've deluded themselves into thinking it's normal and can't get off any other way so they blame women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:53 AM
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One core part of FDS is that you should only stay in a relationship if it benefits you, and it's an improvement from being single. Men know this and that's why they're so scared their girlfriends/ wives will find out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:58 PM
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Siberians are so beautiful! I love their ear floofs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:26 PM
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The last paragraph addressing male lurkers is so beautiful 😌 brilliantly written, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:42 AM
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Men tell on themselves: that's how they use women but they project so hard and are in love with their own pOtEnTiAL, not reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:22 AM
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Piggybacking to add the role play shows how he’s into breaking down women in the end because through the power of His Bedicked Masculinity, he conquerors her and she screams how much she loves being used as a fleshlight 😒 Bonus points - he expects ahegao faces or some other weird shit from hentai
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:02 PM
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His entitlement off the charts 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:14 AM
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MB, I edited the post. I misspelled regarding. I wanted to say that guys that fetishize East Asians often go for a certain type of East Asian in terms of looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:29 PM
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There’s definitely A Look that they go for regarding their with preferences for Asian women. IME they pursue ones who have stereotypical features (by Western standards)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:58 PM
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“The wall” = sour grapes + negging. They think that if they continually put us down then we’ll worship a guy that’s so generous to deign to recognize us, as if it’s anything special. Being desired =/= respected. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:56 PM
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So iconic! I admit I do the same 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:58 PM
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That’s a good point - I read it as another example of the man taking stuff from women (ex: he took her last name like he’s still taking his mother’s money) but we should be more straight forward about it being the failure of the man/ his father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:40 PM
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LOL I get so mad when guys order women to do stuff. "Send me your..." like what makes them think they get to speak to us like that? They think so highly of themselves that they're unwell. Get better soon lul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:17 PM
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It feels into their victim/ persecution complex and schemas about how silly wOmEn dOn'T kNoW wHaT tHey'Re mIsSiNg They want to hear something they think is wrong so they can blow up at you to soothe their overinflated egos (their concept of self is threatened bc it's usually based off of misogyny and dominating women so if they don't get to have the last word/ be the one to dump vs. be dumped, they feel like they've been wronged since they feel they've been denied the prerogative to dunk on wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:55 AM
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Absolutely, I don't think men realize how risky it is for women to have children. Not even mentioning health concerns like dying in childbirth, women lose substantial earning power when they take maternity leave, and even if they return to the workforce, their time not working is used against them. If men want women to raise their kids full time and manage the household, men should at least be able to afford it. The 1950's domestic life was only possible because one parent working was enough for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:46 AM
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Hard agree on the leeching - be careful for the guys who do it on a smaller scale because it still saps your time and energy. They're the guys who never do housework, but finally offer offer to do something but deliberately do a poor job so you'll just do it yourself next time so it's done right and so you won't ask them again so they can keep using you for free labor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:40 AM
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Bold of him to assume he can get a date (Unfortunately, he could get babied by a pickme)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:25 PM
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Expanding on this: Gray rocking on social media/ text can look slightly different. If you reply something like "ok," as a way to express disinterest, some guys will actually take it as encouragement to continue going talking at you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:22 PM
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I know it's a rhetorical question but only now did it hit me with how much women get blamed for it. Namely how the phrasing is "daddy issues" rather than "piece of shit male is an all star at avoiding responsibility for his actions." This way, even the name of the term puts the blame on women as if it's something that "happens" rather than the result of men's failure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:26 PM
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Abrahamic religions (esp. Christianity) just scream men's daddy issues to me. An all powerful creator father who sacrifices his own son and is jealous and vindictive if you don't dedicate everything to him? Also has the super power to impregnate women without touching them? Ok cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:24 PM
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I remember when the movie came out and men on the internet wouldn't stop throwing tantrums because of the line "We [women] are not things"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:58 AM
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Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:18 AM
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Yes! Does anyone know the source of the clip?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:06 PM
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The second paragraph is really well phrased! I didn't know how to put those into words, and reading it made it click for me. To echo what others have said - I also avoid saying it even when joking bc even when women refer to each other that way, men see it and take it as approval for them to denigrate women because they see it as us knowing "oUr pLAcE"/ accepting what they think is the "nAtUrAL cOnDiTiOn" (patriarchy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:07 PM
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“Not all men” bc u/sentinelsexy’s sammy would never do something LV 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:01 AM
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I love her videos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:58 AM
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Once again men tell on themselves: men know they have no money, and their delusions of grandeur + victim complexes mean that they think everyone is after them/it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:44 PM
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Our superpower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:42 PM
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I love the way you mentioned supporting firefighters without supporting fires!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:14 AM
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Love this advice! When he shows you who he is (a scrote, undeserving of your time and energy), believe him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:46 AM
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omg OP the phrasing is brilliant. They've lied to themselves for so long that they don't even recognize the truth anymore (and they try to cover it from the rest of us)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:53 PM
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I'm so glad you posted this because I'm sure women everywhere have similar thoughts but may not know how to articulate them. I think there's an insidious component where misogyny is so widespread that we rarely consider that women are raised to be so docile partially bc there's so much contempt for women that it's seen as a good thing to make us as pliable as possible so someone will take the burden off their hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:13 PM
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Do they need to be real life examples or are fictional ones ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:43 AM
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I wonder if this is how they approach job interviews/ background checks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:23 PM
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Porn (including hentai)-induced brain rot = men don't know what women actually look like. Now they're upset and try to blame it on women that they can't get it up anymore because they fap too much to edited ahegao selfies from Only Fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:36 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your plant. I think it's great that your brother is there to support you during these times. Could he hang out for a few days, or even longer than a week? Please change the locks as soon as you can (or call the property manager to do it immediately)! Even though your ex has only been there since March, he could have made duplicate keys What your ex did was cruel and spiteful. Good on you for breaking up with him since he showed his true colors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:41 PM
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Gotta love the “but what does she bring to the table?” so he can start plotting how to rob her of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:41 PM
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INB4 we learn he's a hobosexual (i.e., no property), so he's trying to invade and steal the home of whatever woman is unfortunate enough to try to give it a chance because he thinks it's his right as a "man of the house"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:58 PM
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I think the wants the protection, without having to pay a lawyer. It wouldn't surprise me if he thinks he's entitled to lawyer's services, without having to pay them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:56 PM
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You put it so well! LVM/ NVM would never "allow" their partners to experiment because they'd leave in a heart beat lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:50 AM
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Thank you so much for your dedication It's awful how predatory men can be... The Y chromosome can't shrink fast enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:46 AM
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Yet another possible reason why women live longer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:42 AM
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Can't wait until they wipe themselves out, but pissed that they're taking us down with them because they have 0 self control or regard for others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:47 PM
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It's their not-subtle way of asking for nudes and/or suggestive photos. Before Only Fans took off, lots of people would upload racy photos to Snap stories. They think they're entitled to those kinds of things, or that they can get a foot in the door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:42 PM
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You put it really well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:32 PM
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That book is fantastic. I wonder if older men know that it's no longer "cool" to trash talk women they date because they realized that women their age have enough confidence to break up with them on the spot for trying it -which is probably why there are so many creeps going after younger women who usually aren't that assertive yet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:18 PM
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If sperm can change women's DNA then we should start treating it like a carcinogen and make sure we stay as far away from it as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:42 PM
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Yes! We love that at least 20% zinc oxide for mineral UVA and UVB protection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:02 AM
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Please don’t beat yourself up. I’m glad you’re safe. Those creeps sound truly frightening and it’s not your fault that pornsick men are trying to lure and trick women into becoming their bangmaids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:11 PM
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I hope he won’t have anything to worry about once FDS gets more members. Once former pickmeshas can see that they deserve to be treated better, no one should want to marry someone like him. He’ll be safe from divorce for sure 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:43 PM
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They have superiority complexes bc they think their fetishes make them more “authentic” than others and that they’re unconventional. However, I can’t think of anything more socially acceptable that misogyny, especially during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:40 PM
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Us lesbians pray for you as well. 😔 Even if you're not sexually attracted to women, we also hope that u can find deep and meaningful female friendships!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:30 PM
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We love to see it LOL Two queens are better than one hahah Good for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:18 PM
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As usual LVM completely misinterpret wolves (and themselves in the process). Wolves owe a lot of their success to their ability to cooperate (ex: younger wolves will chase and hold prey, while large males will aim to kill). A typical lone wolf doesn't stand a chance against something like an elk that can weight 700 lb and kill a wolf with a kick. Lone wolves that don't find a pack typically starve to death, or get killed by enemy packs. Exception: a FEMALE wolf (known as '06) in Yellowstone. Peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:05 PM
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Absolutely, it's like when they say they want independent women. They don't actually want independent women. The independent part means that they want to make sure they can put in minimal effort, and maximize their likelihood for finding someone take care of themselves and the LVM also. They're hoping to trap and break her because they want a bangmaid mommy to dote on them until they expire, even better if she's self sufficient so they can parasitize off of her financial (or other kind of ) succ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:19 PM
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I completely agree. They're the first to tell you that Kim Kardashian isn't wearing makeup in her latest photoshoot promoting makeup, as if just because eye shadow is brown = it doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:39 PM
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I completely agree. No surprise when poly men are resentful that women don't want to be near them, and when their female partners get more attention. They want to be doted on, during all hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:45 PM
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Pls don’t apologize! I’m a lesbian also and this sub has helped me a lot. I’m pretty sensitive so this sub has helped me stand up for myself. ;w; Unfortunately, guys like that are a dime a dozen. It’s a shame they think they’re unique when they’re run of the mill misogynists that figured out that handmaidens will praise him for shitting on women but somehow it’s Unique™️ because he’s also wearing bad eyeshadow. What a king /s I’m sorry he’s your roommate. Do you have to live with him much longer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:21 PM
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Most likely since OP isn’t under 13 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:36 PM
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Sour grapes lul. They know they’ll never have a chance with women their age because of their pornsick brains and inability to take care of themselves because they want a bangmaid mommy to do it for them. They think they’re clever for claiming they aren’t attracted to women their age, but we know they say that to make the rejection sting less 🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:35 PM
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Jesus Christ, I hope someone hits him with “ok, groomer” because this reads like “ACSHTUALLY not only do I condone pedophilia bUt ALSO this isn’t that bad because I prey on younger women who are more pliant and easy to manipulate and nOT JUST CHILDREN UWU” What a porn sick loser. I bet he also children who worry about climate change are also fair game 🤨 (as if worrying about the survival of the planet = someone’s old enough to manipulate into sex)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:31 PM
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Does he think he’s off the hook for painting his nails or something? Getting off to brutalizing women is the opposite of “fairly gender-nonconforming” 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:33 PM
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I completely agree. His blurb reeks of “I’m talking down to you but you should be grateful because I’m giving your advice and it’s good because it’s from me. Also, buy me a house and do all the housework and do all the work I have for my shitty business because I’m the Ideas Guy, and no I won’t get a better job (assuming he has one) because I’m too good for X Company and they’ll steal my ideas. I’m like the next Elon Musk and it’s so sad that no one can see my genius. Now, fondle my penis 😩” He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:42 PM
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Once again men taking credit for women’s accomplishments and grossly misinterpreting the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:37 PM
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His “you might as well be entrepreneurial” makes me think he registered for an LLC and is hemorrhaging money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:35 PM
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Hard agree, that intuition has helped our ancestors survive to this day. It’s still useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:21 PM
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Him “letting” her order water is such a red flag. It never stops just there with men who want to make you ask for permission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:22 PM
7

Reading Right Wing Women was eye opening. I recommend her for anyone interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:37 AM
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“Sex work is work” gets pushed a lot by the pimps and johns that lobby for a sanitized image of prostitution so it’s easier for them to get access to women. They’re trying to legitimize abusing women. When “sex work is work” is used to silence the abuse of women all over the world who want out of prostitution, but is music to the ears of human traffickers that sell girls into sexual slavery, I think we have an idea of who “sex work” benefits. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:36 PM
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I think superficially, FDS reads as "conservative" but given how the right sees women as private property (the idea that women must serve their husbands) and the left wants women to be public property (women should be LiBeRaTeD and freely have sex with men), FDS is more in line with 'women aren't property'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:37 PM
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I wanna die from secondhand embarrassment whenever I see them musing about their survivalist fantasies. Their lazy entitled asses contribute nothing to communities, have 0 skill, are unwilling to learn, can’t cooperate to save their lives, and yet they still think they’d be the “alpha” of a caveman group. If we’re playing along with them, I can almost guarantee they’d be among the first to be carried off by wolves, assuming wolves even want them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:54 PM
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I hate how they think that their lack of self control = positive because it accentuates their viRiLitY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:42 PM
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It’s extra cringe how they expect Asian women to act like their waifus 🤢 anime/hentai/RPG brain rot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:55 AM
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Change your passwords (for Apple ID and anything else that shares it) and the lock screen codes (sometimes used to validate devices) for your devices. Is there a way to kick an unfamiliar device off of using your Apple ID from Mac settings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:43 PM
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No, the only type of legit consent should be enthusiastic consent. Going along with something reluctantly (like to avoid a fight) is a sign of being coerced. Anyone who can’t take “no” for an answer = massive red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:45 PM
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Such kindness, wisdom, and poise. What a perfect delivery! I felt like she spoke into my very soul 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:38 PM
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It’s so tilting how they expect us to end over backwards to accommodate them. “To be honest I don’t like it” is his personal problem. No one asked but he insists on bringing it up anyway as if he’s some profound authority and we should gather in droves to hear his sage aphorisms. The entitlement and tone deafness makes me so mad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:31 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised if he did it because he doesn’t care :/ like, “it says lesbians only but I’ll post bc the rules don’t apply to me”. Male entitlement never ceases to make me cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:47 PM
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Right?! This is like self indulgent fan fiction. I hate how they see themselves as these brilliant tacticians when they can’t strategize their way out of a wet paper bag, and certainly can’t scheme their way into regular bathing habits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:34 AM
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omg I didn't even realize he was 55 - that just goes to show how well he's aged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:02 PM
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Love seeing other radfems ❤️ my heart goes out to you! Great post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:24 PM
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Love that coevolution 😭 doggo coming in with the real talk Jokes aside, I think it’s telling how men react to animals, especially animals who aren’t automatically warm like more aloof dogs, and/or animals with hard boundaries like cats. If a guy gets pissed a cat doesn’t let him harass them after clearly showing signs of distress (hissing, ears back, swiping, etc.) you can bet that he’s going to ignore your boundaries too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:18 PM
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I think they rate themselves lower than other men in terms of physical attractiveness but IDK if they even recognize HV traits like emotional intelligence as worthwhile bc their worldview is so focused on selfishness and misogyny. They see little value in cultivating skills that would benefit a partner because they think that their partner should serve them. I’m willing to bet that they think treating women fairly is appalling because in their minds that would mean debasing themselves. I noticed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:08 PM
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What a fantastic post! I’m dead at the part where they parrot Foucault from a cringe Jordan Peterson video LOL. They’re the type to brag about reading Nietzsche as if we aren’t aware of their masturbatory delusion of thinking of themselves as Übermenschen Looking forward to more of your stuff, OP. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:53 PM
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I noticed that these smug males who overestimate their own intelligence and capacity for critical thought like to pick topics where they think there’re few wrong answers (if any) so they feel they can talk down at you with less chance of being definitively and unequivocally told that they’re sorely mistaken while they bask in talking down at you. They’re so delusional that they think they’re doing ya a favor by sharing their “knowledge” with us, which they see as inferior creatures 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:47 PM
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We love to see an onion grass digging Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:26 PM
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I checked her Twitter and IG and I wonder if it’s a promo for her clothes line (swimwear, intimates, loungewear) she’s part of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:20 AM
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That book is incredible and I bet Lundy Bancroft has saved the lives of countless women from awful men. Disheartening and telling how men rarely speak up about male victims of domestic violence unless it’s to silence or belittle female victims’ experiences or resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:12 PM
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Overjoyed to see radfems on Reddit and women who name the problem! I think at the very least it’s helpful to cultivate more friendships and positive relationships with women so we can be less dependent on men overall. That way, they’ll have less leverage over women, so hopefully women won’t feel as pressured to get into relationships with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:40 PM
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If a guy can’t respect your time then how likely is gonna respect anything else about you 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:32 PM
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