Ladies beware when guys "unexpectedly" cancel dates.

ErikaNaumann · 2020-08-03T13:20:42+00:00

Honestly who has time for this shit? Get a hobby dude. Go running or something.

ChocoBananza · 2020-08-03T13:56:16+00:00

Canceling a date is ok, as long as it’s done in advance and he offers an alternate date, and doesn’t do it again.

I bet this is one of those ‘gIrLs aRe AlWaYs pLaYiNg GaMeS’ guys 😩

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-08-03T13:38:23+00:00

Mommy didn’t love him enough

powerline2500 · 2020-08-03T13:42:35+00:00

Here these idiots go thinking their the prize. Men are more preoccupied with women than women will ever be with men. PERIODT.

But this fool is out here cancelling dates to "test" a woman to see "how interested she is".

Boys stop lying. Youre testing to see how insecure she is and how weak her self respect is. Because the Manosphere advocates preying on weak willed women.

Their biggest fear is accidentally going on a date with a woman they cannot control. These fools think theyre filthy rich, drop dead good-looking, or super famous. If you are none of these things, most women arent going to be that pressed to date you. The end.

So when a woman who has self respect say "No thank you." And moves on these idiots attribute it to her being not that pretty, too head strong, wanting to be chased. But never to the fact that cancelling dates last minute for fun is stupid and annoying and probably a behavior they should stop.

Nah. Its the womans lack of interest.

jeanneeebeanneee · 2020-08-03T16:53:27+00:00

They don't do this to see if we're "actually interested." If I said yes to a date, that means I'm actually interested. They do it to test how desperate you are/how much bullshit you will tolerate. If you let this slide, you're now marked as someone who he can shit on and still get what he wants from you.

BeADecentHumanBeing · 2020-08-03T13:49:14+00:00

If a date cancels I lose any interest instantly :)

peaka25 · 2020-08-03T14:40:17+00:00

I don't even understand the logic here. If a guy (or anyone, really) abruptly cancels on me, I assume he's not interested and move on with my life. Why do men expect women to waste their time proving their interest to them, especially when the guy is purposefully doing things to show he's not interested? 🤦🏼‍♀️

dior-not-war · 2020-08-03T13:18:21+00:00

Men are fucking weirdos.

3vad127 · 2020-08-03T14:13:23+00:00

What a sad, desperate existence this guy lives.

OrchidLion · 2020-08-03T13:49:41+00:00

That's such a turn off.

Saitschik · 2020-08-03T13:57:30+00:00

That game maybe works short-term. But if they continue and finally meet her expectations for him and the date will definitely be higher. It's is very likely she will eventually dump his ass because mindgames don't transform you into an attractive man

rightascensi0n · 2020-08-03T13:32:26+00:00

If a guy can’t respect your time then how likely is gonna respect anything else about you 🤔

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-03T15:09:18+00:00

This doesn’t surprise me at all. Cancelling on people can be a very manipulative act.

Incredible_Alligator · 2020-08-03T19:03:08+00:00

Since I never want to go on dates in the first place and usually have to force myself, if someone cancels my first reaction is, "whoo hoo!!! Yessss! I get to stay home with my plants and Netflix!" and I wouldn't reschedule. Actually it's a win win 😂

enharmonia · 2020-08-03T18:17:29+00:00

This is a classic PUA tactic: it helps them "test" whether or not you'll put up with more crap like this in the future.

miwamus · 2020-08-03T17:00:00+00:00

"How has that been working for you?"

manisfestationqueen · 2020-08-03T19:39:25+00:00

Self sabotaging dates because they know they have nothing to offer

NoNarcs_ · 2020-08-03T17:36:46+00:00

2020-08-03T20:08:13+00:00

Is this why so many men cancel? I wouldn't know I block them after.

namnedhairamamme · 2020-08-03T20:43:56+00:00

A guy did this to me a few months ago (tried canceling the day of the date & gave me short notice) and when he asked to reschedule I said no ¯_(ツ)_/¯ the only thing I regret is that he blocked me before I could block him.

Quicklyquigly · 2020-08-03T21:09:19+00:00

And women play games? You’re gonna fuck around and some woman is gonna break your dumb lil heart so bad you’ll be wheezing.

Bratsociety · 2020-08-04T00:47:49+00:00

Ain’t nobody got mf time for that bs.

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