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Lately women sports have been enjoying a bit more media coverage. There are a lot of newspapers in europe that in their sport section are reporting more about female leagues and athletes. Even more tradicionally male oriented sports, like mma, are having an increase of female fights heading events. Slowly but surely, I believe we are on the right path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:13 PM
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I am a semi professional athlete, and I compete for the sake of competition. Competition gives me goals, and motivate me to be constantly improving my fitness, my technique, my mentally and my resilience. I think branding competitive sports as a toxic male pursuit does a disvafour to women, and sports in general.a Instead I am a firm defender we should encourage more women to participate in sports, and to compete, especially on amateur level and small local leagues. Sport is healthy for body and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:09 PM
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Before you meet: Don't give him your phone number or address. Do not send nudes or suggestive pictures. Do not talk about traumatic events of your life or bad relationships. Do not engage in sexting. Do a quick google search of his name, just to check if he isn't a wanted criminal or already married. If you meet: Do not let him pick you up. You should drive yourself, or walk, cycle, take public transportation or get a taxi. Do not get inside his car. Send his photo, name and place where you are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:18 PM
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Tall, athletic and handsome ex boyfriend: Never cheated on me. We split on good terms, and we are still amicable today. Shorter, fat, average looking ex boyfriend: cheated on me multiple times. Tried to commit financial fraud. We split badly. Stalked me for over 3 years. Take whatever conclusions you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:32 AM
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I used to live in a popular turistic city, and I absolutely despised summers. The amount of dudes wanting a "holiday girlfriend experience" was dauting. I avoided them like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:48 AM
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Yeah I know a few. One guy broke up with his then gf because she cheated on him. He was heart broken. He moved to a new city for work and stayed single for years. Another broke up with his then gf because she was abusive, and also stayed single for over one year before he started dating again. I also know a few that didn't, including one ex that broke up with me while he was already in a relationship with another woman (which I was unaware at the time). I don't have enough data to make a conclus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:44 AM
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Yes! Accountability! This is what makes us grow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:18 AM
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In Spain a male doctor cannot see your genitals without a female nurse present. Which makes me wonder how many sexual assault complains the hospitals receive to make this a law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:03 AM
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Why would I? In my country we have both mother and father families' name in our name. It basically tells other people who my parents are. So why would I insert my potential husband name at the end? It makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:38 AM
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What in god's name???!!!! This can't be real...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:32 AM
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I suppose it's an inheritanted human flaw. Just the same as white people don't always understand how harder it is to be a person of colour, or an able person doesn't grasp the hardship of being disabled, why people that come from money can't fully understand the life of someone poor, etc. It isn't until we are "forced" to really think about, usually because of a loved one (i e. the birth of a daughter, marrying a black person, seeing a family member become disabled, etc) that we become aware of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:31 PM
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This is why there is that trope of the father meeting the boyfriend with a shotgun or something equally frightening. It's because the father, being a man, knows how men think and what they want from his daughter. Usually it's because the father doesn't want her daughter to be treated like he treated women when he was young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:38 PM
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my love will heal him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:57 AM
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Yes. Judite de Sousa is her name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:28 AM
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In my home country one of the most famous and "trusted" news caster is a 60 year old woman that has been that job for over 30 years. I'm glad in some parts of the world progress is being made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:46 PM
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Before I found my (seemingly, always keeping my eyes open) hvm, in the first few dates/months I never talked about: how much money I had how much money my family had who owned my house previous relationship traumas family issues (my mother has a mental illness) previous sexual experience (number of partners, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:50 AM
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I am very fortunate that in my family everyone helps. I never saw my father just sitting his ass on the sofa waiting for xmas dinner. I remember one xmas bringing a scrote ex for dinner. We were all doing stuff and the scrote was just sitting in the sofa. My dad actually went there and told him "in this house, no one is your server. Get up and help". I'm so glad those lvm days are over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:22 AM
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I meant if you ever found something about a man through that service that made you not meet him. I off the dating market now hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:57 AM
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Did you ever find something? I'm very curious about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:45 AM
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There is a difference between being a homebody and being homebound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:33 AM
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In europe braces for your teeth is not as popular as in america. The same for teeth whitening procedures. Natural teeth can have a slight yellow tone, especially if people drink a lot of tea and coffee (which Europeans do). However that is very different from dirty teeth. No excuse for dirty teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:18 AM
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Let's agree to disagree about this game. What I do vehemently agree with is that you should have ypur own boundaries, and they should be enforced. If you don't like the witcher or any other media, then that is your boundary and it should be respected. Good luck out there. Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:16 AM
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The most powerful amazing characters in the game are female. One of them has a huge scar on her face and ends the game as the absolute ruler of the land, and the other is a deformed, old witch, who is the most powerful sorceress in that world. And then there is the viking princess, with her face covered in scars, and far from beautiful, that outwits all the males and gets the throne of the small nordic islands. And what about the blind sorceress that murders a scrote king? This game is one of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:43 PM
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Alright, but the witcher is a really good game 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:58 AM
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Fair enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:45 AM
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What's wrong with PewDiePie? As far as I know he is married, faithful to his wife, a self made millionaire, and takes good care of himself (health and looks). I don't follow him closely though, so maybe there is something else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:47 PM
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I have autism, so I'm always straight forward. It's both a blessing and a curse 😅 I'm not a book snob, and I don't mind if people don't read that much, but I sure as hell ain't gonna let some shitty little man call me a poser. This was the same guy that said I was trying too hard to be "artsy" because I enjoyed going to the ballet once per year. Can you imagine? 😂😂😂 You see swan lake once and that's it! You are an artsy wannabe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:50 AM
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I think what annoys them the most is that I actually enjoy being tall. I have had many insecurities with my appearance, but being tall was always a plus for me. Whenever a short man starts negging me about my height, my go to answer is "I enjoy reaching the top shelves. Wouldn't you love not needing your little stool?" I'm super happy I found a (seamingly) great man that doesn't mind that I am tall. He is slightly shorter than me, but loves my body. He even likes it when I wear high heels, and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:44 AM
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It's very long, super straight, very full and strawberry blond. But like... My eyebrows are the same colour, and I usually wear ponytails and braids, so you can clearly see it's not hair extensions, a wig, or coloured. Plus I'm SUPER white. Like transparent white. "You can see my veins" type of white. All colours match 😂 He just wanted to nag me. Another nag I got relating to hair was "your hair looks too expensive". Sorry I ain't bald, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:11 PM
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Yes as a tall women it's interesting seeing the double standards. They complaint that being short shouldn't be a hindrance for their dating life, but they sure as hell made my height a problem. I had one dude telling me he was up for being sex buddies, but I couldn't be his girlfriend because I was taller than him, and that looked bad. 😂 I just laughed in disbelief, and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:05 PM
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I actually had an ex claiming when I flexed I looked like a man from behind, and it was ugly because "😭 too much muscles 😭". Mind you I am a tall slender woman, with a little bit of a muscle tone. I dress a size smal, although I'm very tall. So, no real volume on my back. It just happened that this scrote was fat and short, so he resented me for being athletic. I never dated anyone not into sport and fitness again. My current partner is a natural bodybuilder, and he VENERATES my body, he literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:02 PM
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Luckily that one was my last ex, and by then I was already changing my mindset. I believe I answered something like "I enjoy reading and learning. And you? Have you read a single book since you left highschool?" (I already knew the answer was no. I broke up with him very soon after that, as he kept being an asshole).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:53 PM
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you are quite feminine, even though you are so tall. oh wow you are a champion of "specific sport"? Isn't that because you are taller than them, so it's like beating midgets? I think you have a beautiful athletic body, although most guys don't like women with 6 packs. Is that your real hair? (Yeah, it's my real hair. And it's obvious it's my real hair) you were a model? Yeah you are so thin and flat chested. wow, you have a lot of books! How nice.... Do you really enjoy reading, or is it just to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:16 AM
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The website you provide says those rumors are most likely fake. I don't follow celebrity gossip, but I'm sure if the future king of England was caught cheating those news would explode everywhere, just like it happened with his sleazy father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:54 AM
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William is a notorious cheater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:42 PM
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Aragorn from Lord of the rings. Honorable, dutiful, goal oriented, faithful, a good friend, a leader. Knows how to express his emotions in a healthy way. Dated and married an age appropriate woman/elf, and respected and appreciated her, in all instances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:57 AM
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Yes. I would not only stop him, but also not go out with him again. Although I might be overly reactive to this, as I hate being touched by people I am not familiar with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah. My clit is pretty much dead. Even with toys it doesn't work properly. My g-spot however is very sensitive and ...happy go lucky 😂 Even when I'm using toys I go for that, and not my (useless) clitoris. I still enjoy oral as a warm up. However, I am aware I am in the minority of women here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:09 PM
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Godamn it took me over 30 years to find ONE good person to be with, why do these people think they can find so many?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:59 PM
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Wow! How FUN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:50 PM
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My favourite gifts were all from my current partner. He has got me big things (a ps4, a top tier harness for rock climbing, shoes, jewellery etc), but the small things he made for me are still my favourite: a 3D printed pink dinosaur to hold my phone, he made the model himself. A bonsai of my favourite tree, also made by himself. My desk, that he built himself. It just shows me that not only he knows me very well, (favourite tree, favourite colour, favourite animal, favourite wood treatments), b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:45 PM
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I don't care about race. As long as we share the same morals, values and goals, and he is a hvm, I'm good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:36 PM
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hey Lisa! Hey Anthony! My name is not Anthony Neither is mine Lisa. This interaction actually happened with me at work (names are changed for privacy lol). I don't know if it was a honest mistake or some shit test, but I never saw the dude again so it's all good 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:30 PM
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I think most people (both men and women) are just meh. Neither good nor evil. Meh. And then you have the outliers, the great people, and the fucking horrible psychopaths. It is our job to choose wisely. A small circle of great people around us is better than a large circle of meh people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:48 PM
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This is one of the reasons why I am not having children. I would be the one left to take care of them alone, without financial support from the guy, to the detriment of my personal and professional life. It's just a risk I'm not willing to take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:43 PM
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I want to get married to my partner. We have just moved in together and I told him I am looking forward to marriage in x amount of time. I have a lot of assets. A lot of real estate, and a big family inheritance. He earns a lot of money, and is investing in real estate too. If we get married we are doing it with full separation of assets. I don't know if this is an option in other countries, but for us it seems like a good option. As long we are together we both get to enjoy each others things, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:28 PM
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I have autism too, and I posted this a few months ago in a sub reddit for women with autism: "Special interest in fashion here 🖐🏻 Here are my tips: 80% of your wardrobe should be made of "basic" stuff, that will last you years: neutral colours (black, white, beige, grey), simple cuts (minimalism is great for us aspies, you can look on pinterest for minimalist chic outfits), comfortable breathable fabrics (cotton, linen, wool). These neutral colours will look good on anyone and they all combine t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:10 PM
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I am extremely lucky that my father is a hvm. He was always aware of harassment, and having two daughters meant he taught us how to protect ourselves. From learning how to shoot, to decades or martial arts, he taught us well. When I was younger he also often volunteered to drive us where we needed to go, so we could avoid walking alone in the streets, especially at night. I also never saw him harassing any women in any way shape or form, so he was a great role model. I was sad when I realised he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:44 AM
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"not quite like in the western world" is quite a stretch. Hostility towards women is waaaaay worse in non western countries. Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, India, Sudan, Chad, amongst many MANY others are horrible countries to be a woman in. It is important to remember that, yes, we have issues in our society, but let's not forget how much forward we have came in the last decades in regards to human and women's rights. And let's not say hostility towards women is the worse in Western countries, because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:39 AM
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Similar story happened to me. Until I was 18/19 I was considered VERY ugly. Tall, slim, no shape, and I dressed like a tomboy. Boys rejected me and mocked in the most cruel way. Girls made fun of me. Even adults made fun of me, which honestly was the worse part. After 18/19 my body changed and so did my styling. I even went on to do some modeling. Everyone treated me differently, EVERYONE. Even teachers (both males and females). People are shallow, and I hated most of them for it. Eventually I l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:09 PM
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That's a very easy decision. They imply they don't want a condom = we are out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:47 AM
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That is not an excuse. There are latex free condoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:21 PM
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I am lucky I can also lean on a few great men too. My father actually saved my life from that awful guy too. And now I am in a great relationship with a (seemingly) hvm, and he has moved the world for me. We should all be better for each other... Much love to you sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:38 PM
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🤣 from Chris Hemsworth to Danny DeVito. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:14 PM
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I was in the opposite position. One woman contacted me to know about my experiences with my ex. Turns out she was his lastest victim, and she was calling from the hospital after he physically and mentally abused her. We talked a lot, and it was very healing for both of us. We ended up that conversation with me strongly advising her to change her house door locks, and contact the police. The day she was released from the hospital and went home she changed her locks. He tried to enter her house at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:55 PM
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I have never had a hookup/one night stand/makeout session with anyone I wasn't in a relationship with. My body count is low. You wouldn't believe the amount of pressure I had throughout my life to "loosen up", from both men and women, even from some family members -_- I just never saw the point of casual sex. I get that men can often orgasm with meaningless casual sex, but women are taking a huge risk (pregnancy, stds, assaults, slut shaming, etc) for what? For a almost zero % chance of orgasmin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:37 PM
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I had a gyno shame me for being a virgin when I was 19. He actually refused me as a patient. It was unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:32 PM
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Oh wow I was demoted because as a busy woman I don't want to waste my only free night on dinner dates with assholes? 😂 Ok. Let's ignore that, as I explained, in a lot of European countries (mine included) coffee dates are NOT low value dates. You sit down, you have table service, you eat expensive fancy cake. It's NOT a starbucks/american coffee shop experience. It's a whole cultural aspect. I cannot see how a man carries himself on a phone call. I cannot see him interacting with the waiter and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:48 AM
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In america maybe. In my country police is actually helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:34 AM
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I can't help but notice how most of these collages are similar. Dirty, smoking/vaping, immature, broke. It's amazing how similar lvm can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:32 AM
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redpillers: Avoid girls that can't pay their bills. Also redpillers: I want a young 20 something year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:35 PM
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The dumb dox method. It's in the handbook 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:07 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:01 AM
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May I ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:40 AM
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Read. The. Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:36 AM
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Thanks... I guess? For proving why we need fds to weed out all those shitty options? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:07 AM
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Edit your comment and delete the link to the sub. They are notorious for getting anyone from fds banned just for linking to their sub. It happened to me and to a few others. The pickmeishas over there absolutely HATE us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:00 AM
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He killed your cat??? WTF?? Can't you report him to the authorities? Because that's illegal in a lot of countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:50 PM
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There is a lot of love on this sub, but it can be tough love. There is also a bit of an unacceptably of different views, even within the fds spectrum. However I think this is one of the most female empowering places online, even if it's not perfect. Stay around, we level up together 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:34 PM
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Ah so THIS is the guy shera mentioned once (while laughing). I love her so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:44 PM
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I dumped the scrote around 9 months ago, does that count as recently? I am doing fabulous. Well I did own the house, plus no children and no marriage. So I just kicked him out and carried on with my life. I am so much happier, healthier and productive. I'm doing so much better as a single lady, that I am having a hard time deciding if I want be with a man again. For the foreseeable future, I am staying man free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:40 AM
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This post needs to be deleted. She clearly never read the handbook or anything fds related. This is not a sub to talk about random stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:27 AM
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She is a pickme. Why is she buying him presents? She is acting like he is the prize, and blowing up her own money trying to prove him she is not like other girls. Meanwhile he is enjoying being with a girl with model looks, while offering absolutely nothing. And what about personal financial responsability? She needs rent money, but bought a watch, goes to yoga classes, full face of makeup. Guuuurrrl. She needs to break up with him and get her act together 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:22 AM
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You can't tell a man is HVM in 5 months only. I hope he is, and that everything works out, but don't assume he is. Keep vetting, and keep your eyes open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:52 AM
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I have often spoken against porn (including revenge porn and child porn) online and IN REAL LIFE too. I recently did a talk about it to teenagers aged 15 to 17. And just 3 days ago I had a debate about porn hub with a few friends, that made them research and watch documentaries about the porn industry. So save your condescending words please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:25 AM
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But an "innocent" men could receive just one, and be a false one. I'm not defending scrotes, I just understand a website like that could bring a lot of stuff that is not necessarily good for anyone, us included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:47 PM
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Because there is no proof, and while I am sure most dudes on those websites deserved to be there, I'm also 100% sure "innocent" men were there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:19 PM
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I'm all fds and "yaaas queen", but let's be real here. I'm sure there were toxic women adding completely decent men to those websites, just because they were horrible women out for revenge/drama. Imagine scrotes making a similar website and adding your name to the list. It's up to us to educate ourselves to identify abusers, toxic and lvm. That's why fds exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:17 PM
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Being a man is enough 😂 Male lurkers: if you are overweight and untrained, you are NOT an aLpHa MaLe. 71% of american adults are overweight or obese so.... Yeah. Statically you REALLY ain't that much physically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:14 PM
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And if they don't pay and you don't have sex with them, you were a gold digger expecting money for sex, and if you do sleep with them you were free sex. Definitely can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:44 PM
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Yes, because the typically overweight, untrained, physically unfit redpiller can totally fight off a gang of 7feet tall men from the next village.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:40 PM
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I'm not a lawyer. However I know there has been a few websites like that in the past, and most were shut down because of court orders related to slander and defamation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:32 PM
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Ok, but why is it all in caps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:27 PM
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It legitimately made me sad for him. That whole sub made me wish I had the empathy levels of lvm scrotes (zero).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:37 PM
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You might have a point there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:35 PM
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Reason #749
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:52 AM
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Yas queeeen! Cite that handbook like it's the bible! Book of dread and negging, 9:45 and 9:46!!! Praise the fds! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:39 AM
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Just browsed the poly sub. The posts are mostly people utterly crushed by their commitment "phobic" partner wanting to go "poly", feelings of loss, jealousy, confusion and even people with kids asking what to do about them. Basically, THIS. Offcourse we can say mono relationships are just as fucked up (hello r / relationship advice), but that's why fds exists. Maybe what poly people need is pds (poly dating strategy), to weed out the creepos, the cheaters and the "commitment phobes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:29 AM
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Same. I haven't disabled my dms yet because honestly... They make me laugh. There are so many guys sending me dms, it's hilarious. And then on top of the ragey ones, I have the "hey wanna chat, you sound so interesting" ones. I got a lot of those when I wrote about having a lot of money 😂 gold digging scrotes on reddit 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:15 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:37 PM
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Last "chill" guy I got peed in a bottle during the night. Never again. High maintenance toilet users only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:09 AM
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I never thought of this. It's a great idea! Pretend you found god. Go to church every Sunday. Start telling him he should go with you. Tell him no more sex, as it is a sin before marriage. Memorise bible verses and quote them often. Talk about religion all the time. Annoy him. Pretend you want him to be just as religious as you are now. Wear more conservative clothes. Wear a cross necklace and "pray" for him right in front of him. It might actually work. If it doesn't, If you think he will turn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:06 PM
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But how would he use her and her money if he broke up with her sooner? Don't you understand? They USE us to build themselves when they reach their goals they dump us and go after their dream girl. He literally used that women to get rich, then dumped her and jumped off to the girl he actually wanted (who would probably never be with him if he wasn't rich).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:56 PM
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Girl, you rock!! Why are you insecure about your age? THIS is your best age. Carry on being awesome please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:50 AM
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I don't think so. Only if you subscribe to the patriarch of what is masculine (big, rough stinky, rapey). Because for me that man appears quite masculine, in a good gentle way. His powerful moves, strong athletic body, his inner strength, his work ethic and his successful career seem quite masculine to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:49 AM
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I don't think we can say jimin is feminine. I think more like a "gentle" and graceful masculine. His moves on the ON kinetic version were... FIRE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:46 AM
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No, not me. My granny is goals 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:43 AM
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Me in my 20s: a pickmeisha, a "not like other girls" idiot not a lot of money sad, co-dependent didn't look that good cause I was wearing shitty fast fashion clothes, was insecure, didn't know what would look good on my features was begging for attention and accepting any scrote crumb Me in my 30s: a hvw lots of money, baby 😎 happy top tier looks! Clothes, makeup and hair on point don't give a fuck about scrotes, even though I have offers from 18 to 52 year old men. Yes, I'm not kidding, I have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:42 PM
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I'm just here to say thank you to the mods too. If this sub ever gets banned, I'm leaving reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:24 PM
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People who don't have friends and family have bigger problems than covid-19, but that doesn't justify not wearing a mask when out in public. I think it's good she is staying safe, even when going to the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:19 PM
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Who is talking about social isolation? You can still see your friends and family and go out and about... JUST WEAR A MASK AND KEEP A 2 METER DISTANCE. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:05 PM
2

It might be a legit claim. Something like she being pregnant or going through some shit. BUT.... he could also be fucking her. If you can't trust him there is no point being in a relationship with him. Don't go through his phone. If you feel the need to do it, just break up and move on with your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:18 PM
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Once you have the "ick" there is no comeback. That happen to me in the past. I couldn't even kiss that man, I was so disgusted by his presence. I kicked him out of my house. He absolutely killed my sex drive, I am yet to have any sexual desire towards men. It's been one year. Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:11 PM
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Why are you living with a man that doesn't clean and doesn't even pay for his expenses? You are being his cash machine, his maid, his mother and his fuck doll. You are not in a partnership, you are being USED. You are a pickmeisha. Like... a big one. It's ok, there is a cure. Read the handbook, then kick that fucking scrote out and start your level up journey. Good luck sister, we have all been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:06 PM
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I mean, if you are jimin or jungkook (bts), you can pretty much wear all the makeup you want and you will never look feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:00 PM
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Hey girl, I agree with you 100%. Although I tend to mix and match high end with home made stuff. Here is what I do to look and feel high value: I make my own nails at home (I hate going to nail appointments), every week. I cut and file them and apply a transparent light pink nail polish. I cut my own hair at home too. Lol. Because I hate when other people do it. However I do soft highlights on my hair every few months and for that I go to the salon. I do a hair mask every week at home. I also ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:01 PM
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If you fell victim to this sort of manipulation you might look into "co-dependency" and "surviving narcisistic abuse". Google it, or just youtube it. There is help out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:34 PM
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In psychology, the dark triad (DT) comprises the personality traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. They are called "dark" because of their malevolent qualities (source: wikipedia). Basically people you want to avoid at all costs. They will destroy your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:32 PM
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I wouldn't ghost. It might make you feel like you have unfinished business. Just send him a short text with no explanation. Example "I'm breaking up with you. Bye." Then block him immediately and move on with your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:20 PM
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Financial independence is FREEDOM and POWER. Get your coin and avoid gold digging scrotes like the plague. Get your own house, your car, get your own bags. Low value men will be intimidated by you, high value men will be impressed and will want to INVEST in you. Level up. You body, your mind and your finances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:48 PM
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Girl... you need to read the handbook again. Print the pdf version, take notes. You broke so many principles. First do NOT DATE DURING COVID-19. Only low value people are dating during these times. If you can't be single for a few months, then you are a pickmeisha and need to work on yourself. Second DO NOT ACCEPT WALKING DATES. Third NEVER GO INSIDE A STRANGE MAN'S CAR. Fourth DO NOT LET STRANGE MAN KNOW YOUR ADDRESS. I strongly suggest you stop dating that guy, and don't go back to the dating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:38 PM
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Probably not even that generous with his dick either. Strong chances of it just being a 3 min jackhammering session, straight after he goes back to sleep and she finishes herself in the bathroom with the shower head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:38 PM
3

I love how we are all traumatised by the guy that slept in a nest story 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:33 PM
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Fds does not support being fwb with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:48 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:00 AM
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That changes real quick when they hit 30. In a blink of the eye they look like old ugg boots: wrinkly, saggy and the hair is falling off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:59 AM
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ROSE IS ALSO MY FAV FIGHTER OMG 😍 And yes. Tendon and ligaments are the worse. I have a recurrent issue in one of my Achilles, the physiotherapist has been my best friend for years. And I see the bag of frozen peas knows no boundaries 🤣 I thought it was a martial arts trick lol I loved your description of their sad wanks hahaha. Poor lil scrotes, they can't be us and they can't have us. Sucks to be them 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:24 PM
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Another queen already said it, but I will say it again. We must resist the urge to answer. They know exactly what they did. THEY KNOW. That's why they do it. You mentioning it just makes him feel good about himself, that he is so important, that he matters, that he has the power. They love the attention. They talk about it with their homies, they show the text messages to each other and laugh. I have SEEN it. They mock your answers, they high five their friends. Never answer. That's how you win.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:57 AM
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Decades/centuries ago there were less overweight and obese people. In general people had better bodies because they were more physically active: There were no cars, so you had to walk, ride horses or get a carriage if you were very wealthy. Most jobs were physical, so everyone had more muscle mass and less body fat. From the farmer, the blacksmith even to the rich banker, they had to move more. entertainment was also more physical, there was no tv. People danced played games, sang, etc clothes, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:46 AM
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Thank you! Our mods are awesome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:14 PM
7

Hydrohomies?? Hahaha I gotta check that sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:31 PM
3

Yeah I would like to. It's a fun sub. Thank you 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:20 PM
5

Wow you did ballet professionally? That's incredible. I believe ballet is the marriage between peak performance and art. It is extremely hard and competitive. I absolutely adore going to the ballet and before corona I used to go once a year. Take my bow, ballerina. And yes, the scrotes throwing snippets at me it's hilarious. I literally spend most of my free time training and hitting and being hit by top tier men. And these scrotes think their small dick energy is something 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:18 PM
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Actually I do date shorter. My ex was 5'4. Height is not an issue for me, they are the ones insecure about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:58 PM
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I'm usually mass reported by my fans, so I almost never am able to create posts. I can mostly only comment. They work really hard to silence us 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:57 PM
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Well I have 6 followers (I assume mad scrotes stalking me online), and I am constantly mass reported. I get SOOOO many dms from scrotes, it's hilarious. Usually they go like "but how are men supposed to do this, then?" and "why won't you date men like me? (short, poor, non-athletic, etc)", or straight out dudes asking me for my info, wanting to chat, dates and ACTUALLY sending me offers. My DMs are the place to be at if you want to have a laugh, I tell you! This one was extra hilarious, so I dec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:48 PM
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A sad scrote just sent me this. They are angry that they can't be us and they can't have us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:15 PM
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Awww thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:13 PM
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A quick google search will show you the main idea. Here are a few links: https://www.businessinsider.com/no-such-thing-alpha-male-2016-10 https://io9.gizmodo.com/why-everything-you-know-about-wolf-packs-is-wrong-502754629 https://www.mawer.com/the-art-of-boring/blog/the-myth-of-the-alpha-wolf ​ http://www.sketchyscience.com/2014/08/the-alpha-myth-real-science-of-wolf.html ​ ​ This has been disproven DECADES ago, but uncultured redpills and mgtow with zero science knowledge and double digit IQ sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:07 PM
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I have a problem with this. You see I am an amateur kickboxer. I win fights. I win titles. Last year I had a fight broadcasted on national television. I am also 5'9 (although only 55 kg). A lot of my friends are also fighters, or trainers. To be attracted to a guy, I need to feel like he could fight better than me, and save my ass in a complicated situation. But I'm usually 10x more athletic and nimble than they are, plus taller. On top of that I have my own business, car, house etc. It is extre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:09 PM
14

I think I need to be initiated on that kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:03 PM
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The whole alpha and beta males is also wrong. The scientist that came up with that theory based it on wolves in captivity. A few years later he observed wolves in the wild, and he concluded his previous observations were not correct. The fact that dusties hold on to those terms is laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:58 PM
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Yup. LVM complain about being called scrotes and dusties, but we call the low value women pickmeishas, boba the builder, bonneta, starter girlfriend, bangmaid. These are NOT nice words 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:23 PM
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Yeah, that sub is not the best. I was on it for a while, but it's mostly spam about newspapers articles and some women complaining about men, instead of focusing on themselves and being happy. I left the sub. The best sub for enjoying singledom right now (imo) is r/happysinglewomen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:15 AM
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At 16 she has probably already been catcalled by older men, groped by at least one of her colleagues, and body shamed by her peers. Girls start experiencing horrible behaviours from men from an early age. I'm sure reddit will be nothing compared to what she has already been through.
/r/askFDS29/08/20 08:13 AM
3

Well people can be happy with unhealthy behaviours/traumas. That's why I'm considering what to do about it. Maybe I'll just go full lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:10 AM
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I'm so happy you found a safer place to live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:06 AM
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Yes, she can start reading it now. That way she will have a headstart and basic knowledge on how to avoid creepos and low value men that only want to use her as a maid and fuck her. She can participate in the sub too, so she can learn from the mistakes other ladies did before, and see first handed how men can destroy her life, if she chooses poorly.
/r/askFDS28/08/20 11:12 PM
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Level up sistah 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:08 PM
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I'm not sure it's a good place to be in. It certainly killed all my desire to go back to dating, and it helped me embrace my best single life. I feel happier today than I have been in the last 10 years. However, being disgusted at the thought of intimacy is probably induced by past trauma. I'm still considered if I should just roll with it and use the positive side effect of being repulsed by men, or if I need therapy 😂 Since I am so happy with my life, I might just roll with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:07 PM
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During covid you don't date. Any high value person will not be dating right now, male or female. A hv person will be taking care of his loved ones and making sure they don't get and spread the virus. Only dusties and pickmeishas are dating now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:01 PM
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Every morning I woke up cuddling with my cats and thought: " wow.. 2 months later and he would be stuck here with me. I escaped hell!!" My celebration was leveling up my business, buying an expensive bag, and getting my cats new toys and snacks so we could all celebrate together 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:59 PM
17

But women are GoLd DigGeRs and LiArS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:45 PM
13

I kicked mine out in January. I praise the gods everyday for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:42 PM
5

You write so well. Keep writing. And stay strong. It hurts right now, but you were being used and wasting your life away. You will overcome this and come out on the other end stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:38 PM
10

First step is to level up yourself. That includes stop seeing charlatans like psychics. Second step (after you level up) is to go to places where hvm go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:31 PM
12

This is the only course of action. Whatever you tell her she won't listen, she is "in love" and probably thinks she is so mature and special for an older guy to pick her. You must tell her parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:26 PM
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She is amazing, and I'm glad most people on the comments are on her side. A happy ending 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:23 PM
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I don't mind going 50/50 on a date if it's truly 50/50. So he better show up in a dress, coifed hair, nails done, high heels, a 600 euro bag on his arm and make up. 50/50 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:14 PM
8

That coach tote bag is EVERYTHING (and it ain't cheap!) I love it! You got an awesome husband ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:10 PM
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Well, I'm further ahead. I totally lost all desire for men in general. It has been around one year, and the longer I go without, the more the simple idea of being with a man again makes me sick in my stomach. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:08 PM
92

Unresolved circumstances 😂 bruh... The unnecessary floral language just kills me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:06 PM
51

I never raped anyone, therefore I'm a GREAT person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:50 PM
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He almost hit you because he didn't want to do the dishes??? Holly shit. I'm glad you got out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:49 PM
16

Ok, but why is her voice so soothing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:39 PM
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Yup. My mother was a say at home mum. He deposited money in her account frequently, plus they legally own everything 50/50. They are still together after 37 years. This is what traditional means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:44 PM
5

Exactly. Kill them with kindness. Maybe the pickmeisha would realise who the real low value person is (hint, it's not the wife).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:15 PM
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Here come the downvotes from the lurking scrotes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:14 PM
12

Why don't you offer her some coffee? "Girl, you up at this hour? Poor thing, have a coffee" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:47 AM
10

What the fuck? "He is so amazing", but he throws things at you, calls you names, tells you it's over. And you want to marry this? Sister... Nooooo. Read the handbook again. We don't want marriage we want GOOD, HEALTHY relationships. This is NOT it. Please don't marry this guy, you will ruin your life. Please, break up with him and level up. Seek therapy, as you seem to be going for abusive men over and over again. Please girl. Stay safe, love yourself. It's better to be single than being with a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:03 AM
5

I'm gonna do this. My best friend always calls me bro, I'm gonna go all James Charles on him "HAAAAAIIII SIIISTAAAAH"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:58 AM
12

Why can't we slutshame? I sure as hell judge a men that sleeps around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:56 AM
5

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:49 AM
72

A liar with an anger problem that can't fight. What a prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:46 AM
64

The true unconditional love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:40 AM
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If he wanted to he would. He doesn't want to plan anything with you or for you. Do with that information what you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:50 AM
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Yeaaahhh that was me 😬 last scrote I was with, I booked his appointments, I had to tell him what papers to bring, remind him of the hour, drove him to his appointments, spoke on the phone for him, did his tax for him... Yeah, and it was MY fault because I allowed it and did it for him. Glad my pickmeisha phase is over. What we permit... We promote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:46 AM
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Wtf?? He actually WROTE it? Loooolll bruh, the rule is you think it, you don't say it 😂 He must have missed the mgtow/redpill class about keeping his mouth shut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:23 PM
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This is NOT queen shit. This is wasting your time. Didn't you see his final comments? He learned nothing. He cares for nothing. He wants submissive pussy. That's it. Save your words. Just block and move on. do no explain... They know do not try to teach... They know do not justify... They know THEY KNOW. BLOCK. MOVE ON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:16 PM
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They are only sorry they got caught. They couldn't care less about their (ex) spouses pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:10 PM
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In one of the comment they compare older women with dog shit (easy to pick up). This is why, ladies, we don't sleep around with scrotes. Stay safe out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:09 PM
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Godman I'm in my 30s, never married and I'm still in the single digits. I have never met any women that has been with more than 15 - 20 guys, and most of my friends have been with less than 10 (average must be 3 or 4 maybe?). 100?? Lololol they say that because that's what THEY would do if they could have easy sex like women have available. They simply don't understand that women think differently about sex and love. Fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:08 PM
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I want to be friends with the wife 😍 And look at the assholes crying now. They weren't crying when they were betraying their spouses, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:57 PM
7

Have you fully recovered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:30 AM
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Hey, it's ok. We are all learning. No one is perfect. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:15 PM
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Don't mind me, I'm just bookmarking this post. Fire! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:49 PM
13

First, thank you for being honest about redpillers only wanting women for sex with no commitment. That is actually the majority of men. Fds is born as a defense mechanism against that. Manipulation? No. We are actually very clear and very transparent of what we want. Confused why fds advises the man to pay for dates? Very simple. Hop on to the redpill and r / seduction and you will see many threads about what is the best way to have cheap dates so you can date (have sex) with a lot of women. The…
/r/askFDS25/08/20 09:45 PM
2

If the house is comfortable and there is a nice place to sit in, I would actually be very impressed, as I also don't have a TV. But if it looks like a ww2 bunker, then no.
/r/askFDS25/08/20 03:54 PM
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While I usually believe we should immediately block... That answer was godamn PERFECT 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:41 AM
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Actually... It seems to be a lot more men than one would assume. I don't have any statistics, but from personal experience the majority of guys are somewhat like that (the level of disgust can vary). Luckily there are also awesome men out there.
/r/askFDS25/08/20 11:35 AM
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Damn right. Spend 5 minutes there and you will swear off marriage and kids forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:33 AM
2

I know, right. Far from harassment, I was showing empathy for the situation they are in 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:27 AM
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The 80/20 is not about reproduction, and you know it. Red pillers say 20% get to FUCK the majority of women, while the other 80% scramble to find pussy to fuck. The red pill is not about relationships, it's about treating women as discardable flesh lights. Fds is about being happy as a single woman and only getting into a relationship with a man that treats us DECENTLY. It's a completely different logic, paradigm and goal. We don't hate men, we don't use them for sex, or employment, or gold digg…
/r/askFDS25/08/20 11:24 AM
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80/20... Ok, this is red pill lingo. Stop reading the red pill, that sub is full of Mgtow dudes lacking self awareness.
/r/askFDS24/08/20 05:06 PM
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Yeah. There have been multiple stories on fds about men peeing in bottles (so they don't go up to use the toilet... Too much effort I guess), guys brushing their teeth once per week, guys refusing to wipe their ass after shitting (because it's gay. I kid you not), and guys not showering (because the natural oils of their body/hair would reach an equilibrium). It's rough.
/r/askFDS24/08/20 05:02 PM
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Yeah, the bar is LOOOOWWWW. Go and read r/femaledatingstrategy and you will see what we mean. The bar is so low that it's underwater by now. Probably in the Mariana trench.
/r/askFDS24/08/20 04:58 PM
7

"social vegetables" 😂 I'm gonna steal this.
/r/askFDS24/08/20 04:53 PM
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READ THE HANDBOOK. Then break up with him, block his number and all his social media, and move on. THEN READ THE HANDBOOK AGAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:40 PM
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Hear hear, sister! I too allowed myself to be in shitty relationships in the past. Yes, they were shitty men, but the common element in my relationships was me. I was the one allowing low and negative value men in my life, because I had low self esteem and attachment issues. I faced my own issues. I acknowledge my own guilt. Only then was I able to level up. I "detoxed" my life from boyfriends and friends that were bringing me down, or straight up using me. Today I love myself, my life, my job, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:36 PM
1

The most used words were "lol" and "sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:18 PM
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"I fooked her" not "I fooked with her" Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:10 PM
2

Oooooh I like that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:07 PM
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She can get an annulment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:37 PM
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They should report and ban themselves from reddit. After all, all they do is talk ill of their husbands and children online 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:30 PM
6

Me too! Just in time, I would have killed myself if I had to quarantine with that arsehole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:12 PM
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This is the comment that got me banned for harassment 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:58 PM
15

Why lower the pants though? It looks like he just pooped and ran out of toilet paper, and has to walk like that to the larder to get more tp. Just take the pants off. Or better yet, don't take that picture at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:22 AM
4

What restaurants? What dinners? He ate his food in front of his computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:09 AM
2

Even before moving in together pickmeishas give them orgasms, free therapist and pay meals and holidays etc 50/50. Some even go to his house and help out with the cleaning and will cook nice meals for him. All of this in the first few months. I mean, come on, some even fuck them on the first date. That's why they will keep pickmeishas on breadcrumbs, and even move in with them (they think of all the chores she will do for him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:07 PM
6

Not exactly a podcast, but SheraSeven1 on youtube always does long videos, that you can listen to like a podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:44 PM
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Keep yourself safe, ladies. When in a taxi/Uber always sit in the backseat. Do not give them your exact address. Review them after the service. If anything of this sort still happens record them and call the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:39 PM
7

😢 I hope she finds a way to get out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:25 PM
10

Thank you. Fds helped me in my journey to become a better, more confident woman. With or without a man, THAT is success 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:23 PM
1

He was married 😂 not even kidding, I just laughed in his face and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:14 AM
2

I lived with men before. I will NEVER do it again. I don't even want marriage anymore. At most I will find a boyfriend, and we each live in our own houses. That's it. That's as far as I will go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:07 AM
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I think the hardest for me was two words "THEY KNOW". I really wanted to believe they were just lost, confused, they were looking for something, they wanted to be better, they weren't hurting me on purpose. But no. THEY. KNOW. They know what they are doing. My ex knew exactly what he was doing (moved in to my house, quit his job, didn't pay bills, played videogames the whole day) and he kept doing it because he really believed I wouldn't break up with him, and he had just hit jackpot. Basically …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:55 AM
5

League of legends soundtrack, cause that's all he did when he was awake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:33 AM
7

"jk lol" 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:52 AM
5

No, don't wear unattractive clothes and a head cover if that's not what you are into. That will not deter men, and you will only be lowering yourself. The best advice is to stay alert, and to keep yourself safe. always lock your doors and windows, even when you are home do not engage in conversation with men, if they start it just smile and excuse yourself (you forgot the stove on, or you have an important meeting) do not give your number or address to men keep your outside light on, so when you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:38 AM
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Funny how guys' self esteem goes down when they don't get laid. It's the opposite for me. I haven't had sex in a year and my self esteem is at the highest it has been the past few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:30 AM
13

This is actually a great idea. Thank you 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:21 AM
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Read the handbook. You don't give any explanation, because he doesn't care. He knows what he is doing. You just move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:10 AM
13

Why wouldn't he? Put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you start dating a dude you are not that into, but he cooks for you, he cleans your house, he gives your orgasms, he supports you emotionally, and he pays half your bills. Wouldn't you keep him around for a while, and then dump him after a few months or years when you found someone you actually like? That's why they do it. If we stop cooking, cleaning, fucking and be a free therapist to boyfriends, and paying for shit, they won't string you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:07 AM
6

Awesome move and good instincts, she should join a kickboxing club 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:12 AM
2

Yeah, I have received some dms with guys giving me arguments against my posts. I haven't had anything too dramatic to be honest, mostly guys just wanting to engage with me and discuss ideas further. I never answer back, because I don't want to chat online with random men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:31 PM
10

If she really didn't, she wouldn't answer.... Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:25 PM
8

Cancel the date. Then block him and move on with your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:23 PM
2

Yeah, you need to do a culling on everyone on your life. Analyse with emotional detachment who actually IS your friend, who helps you in times of need, and who is only there when they want something from you. Distance yourself from those that are only using you. You don't need to burn bridges, but develop boundaries for friendships and acquaintances. You might feel like you will lose a lot of people, but it will be people that were only using you. The good ones stay close. Take good care of them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:20 PM
8

Always listen to your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:12 PM
181

She actually pulled the measuring tape out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:10 PM
19

Yeah, you actually got the idea. A HVM is basically a decent honest man. Which just makes the whole thing so sad, because they are so rare. You also got why so many guys hate fds, they feel called out and don't like it. The percentage? I don't think anyone can give you one. I'm sure it will vary a lot by cultures, countries and cities, but they are a minority for sure.
/r/askFDS16/08/20 03:45 PM
5

What are your references?
/r/askFDS16/08/20 03:42 PM
16

Cars do. They are very high maintenance. Just like men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:59 AM
12

Oh I don't listen to trash music, that's why I don't know 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:38 PM
3

Seems like you need a new therapist. My old therapist once told me "you will regret not having children. I am a mother and it's the greatest achievement of my life. You need children too". I smiled and never went back. You need to find a therapist that won't tell you what to do, especially if it's something you already told them explicitly you don't want for your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:28 PM
13

Nah, similar shit everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:20 PM
4

What culture are you from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:19 PM
27

I'm probably not in the top 10%, but I must be close if we account for assets (own house, own business, own car, plenty of money, 2 cats 😺😺), childfree by choice. After I kicked out the last scrote I too fail to see any advantage of having a man. I have been purposely single for 10 months, and I don't know if I will ever date again. Time will tell. But what will a man bring? Realistically the majority of men don't give me orgasms (my vibrator does), they don't do the chores, they can't cook for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:17 PM
3

What the hell is WAP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:57 PM
15

I thought this was uncommon, but I guess not. My ex also peed on water bottles, then he graduated to piss on a pee pot he stored under his bed. He didn't empty it or clean it for 3 to 4 days each time, until I had to flip out and demand he did so. The house stank of stale urine. I thought this was an extreme behaviour, but now you are telling more men do it too? What a fuck? If I ever date again I will have to add "pissing in glasses, bottles or piss pots" to my growing list of deal breakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:04 AM
7

The only thing a boyfriend ever gave me was a special cake with lard in it. I'm a vegetarian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:56 AM
10

Yaaas queen!!! Ready to glare is the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:56 PM
42

I'll gladly pay when he shows up in high heels, a dress, makeup, gel nails, hairdresser blow out, waxed genitals, I'll show up in a tracksuit, hairy legs and armpits, and we have sex where I cum in 3 minutes and he doesn't at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:36 PM
7

2 Kings 2:23-24 "From there Elisha went up to Bethel. As he was walking along the road, some boys came out of the town and jeered at him. “Get out of here, baldy!” they said. “Get out of here, baldy!” He turned around, looked at them and called down a curse on them in the name of the Lord. Then two bears came out of the woods and mauled forty-two of the boys." I like how even in bible times men were so fragile about being bald. To the point they KILLED scores of children for mocking their baldne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:03 PM
2

I have read the bible more than once. The quran too. But thanks for the tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:47 AM
3

Oh damn, that's even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:15 AM
2

Yeah, not sure which country would classify as more pickme. I am european and live in europe, and still had a few dinner first dates, and they always paid even when I offered to. However, If I ever date again I will prefer going to a fancy coffee shop, because if he is a dud I can quickly finish my coffee/cake and leave. No more wasting time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:14 AM
10

Don't worry, it also teaches men not to covet their neighbours wife, and how it's ok to impregnat your slaves.... Ohhh. Nevermind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:58 AM
18

"you are so lucky you only lost your 2 legs, I lost 2 legs and an arm". No one is so lucky to be fetishized over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:53 AM
12

Yeah the guy is still hot as fuck. He won the genetic lottery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:37 AM
13

The answers guys are gibing are mixed. Some (decent) guys are questioning why he wants the alcohol factor and calling him a creep. And then some are recommending walk dates LOL. I kid you not, so many "walking on a park is free" answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:34 PM
5

No we don't have a stronger pickme culture. Food here is more associated with friends and family not so much dates (especially first dates). It's cultural. But as said previously, coffee shops here can be very fancy, where you can have expresso or tea and high end cakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:12 PM
3

You therapist directed you to this sub??? Wooooow! That's amazing! You are the second girl telling us so. So either you guys go to the same therapist, or there are at least 2 therapists amongst us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:35 PM
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I'm a host at a fancy hotel, and I had two guests propose marriage to me so far. Sir, it's my job to dress well and be nice to you. Please leave me alone 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:40 AM
14

I encourage you to read the fds handbook. There is a free pdf version available on the side bar of the sub.
/r/askFDS13/08/20 10:36 AM
1

Ohh. Now I feel dumb LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:20 AM
3

Yeah, a lot of us come from the same background. People pleasing and codependency. The best investment you can do is in your mental health. If you can afford to, find a good therapist to deconstruct why you have these issues, and then work on it. Usually it's traumas/issues from childhood and early life. Good luck on your journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:19 PM
7

Well of course. Porn addicts can only get hard with naked women faking orgasm on a screen 😂 best we get is a semi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:16 PM
3

I wanna know! I googled it and all it came up was a coffee shop, a dance class, a book, a tv series about zombies. Lol. What is itttt???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:10 PM
6

My granny is the epitome of fds. She runs her own business, has her own house, her own vintage mercedes, dresses well, goes to the hairdresser every week, gel nails always done, diet always on point and she is 78. She had a boyfriend after her abusive husband died but she caught him cheating so she kicked him out immediately. She hasn't dated since (almost 10 years now). She receives proposals from guys almost every month, even marriage proposals. She just says NO THANKS. I can totally imagine h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:59 PM
11

A scrub is guy that thinks he's fly And is also known as a buster Always talkin' about what he wants And just sits on his broke ass So, no I don't want your number, no. I don't want to give you mine and, no, I don't want to meet you nowhere, no. I don't want none of your time and, no, [Chorus:] I don't want no scrub A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me Hanging out the passenger side Of his best friend's ride Trying to holler at me I don't want no scrub A scrub is a guy that can't get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:53 PM
6

I'm so lucky my family is actually happy I'm not dating any LVM. My grandmother keeps telling me : "don't get married unless he is extremely good, or you will be a maid. Learn from past generations!" Bless her ❤️ she is living her best life as a widow lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:48 PM
17

Cats too. One of my cats who is super mellow slightly fat, extroverted, playfull and loves all people, literally attacked my ex. He did a sneaky ninja attack on his head when the guy was on the sofa watching a film. I had to separate them. I was already considering breaking up with him... And then I looked at my cat and thought "oohhh, you too, heh? We might have to dump this guy". Could have sworn my cat gave me the thumbs up on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:28 PM
2

Wtf is a z spot? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:24 PM
32

A lot of LVM lurk on fds, and they really like to downvote comments and posts. It gets their peepees semi hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:21 PM
4

You keep giving him excuses. He might not be a bum money wise, but he is a bum LIFESTYLE wise. Read the handbook, follow the principles. This is not it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:53 PM
3

Ah, ok. Phew! I'm glad you found this sub. I'm sure it will help a lot (it helped me a lot too).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:51 PM
8

True, and not just for romantic interests. Friends and family too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:50 PM
8

You read the handbook, and still went on a date to a guy's house? Big NO sister. Also, when a guy is late you leave. You don't wait an hour for him. You get up after 5 mins, and you LEAVE. Then you proceed to block and delete his contact. The handbook is very clear about this. No room for error.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:17 PM
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37 years old, doesn't own a car, dates women 12 years younger, and his dates are talking on the street, not even a coffee at fucking starbucks 😂😂😂 Are you kidding me? This is an atrocity. Please read the handbook, save yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:13 PM
7

I guess I now have one kid, cause I mostly wear tennis shoes 😂 I must have lost the kid somewhere along the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:53 PM
2

I guess they do 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:31 PM
9

Financially wise you can check the youtube "financial diet". Education is tricky, it really depends on what you want out of your education. In general youtube is your friend here. There are a lot of ladies talking about leveling up, finances, jobs, health, fashion etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:47 PM
3

Didn't you read the automoderator bot? Read the handbook and wiki before posting. Honestly, the amount of ladies just posting without even reading is starting to bother me. We want to help you, but you gotta do the work first. It takes 10 to 15 minutes to read the handbook. There is even a free pdf compilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:44 PM
5

HANDBOOK. TY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:41 PM
40

"No man will come to save you. You have to save yourself"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:40 PM
10

I terminated a bunch of "friendships". Low value people add nothing to your life, they just take. Even so called friends. I terminated friendships with people that: only called me or had coffee with me when something bad happened and they either needed my help or wanted to talk about it. They never asked about me. One of them didn't even know I had broken up with my ex 9 months ago, but called me crying when her bf broke up with her. never reached out to me and expected me to ALWAYS be the one i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:38 PM
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Very well written. I agree 100%. Whenever I shared posts or images from fds to the HVM I know they ALWAYS agreed. I have a HVM friend I regular send screenshots, and he keeps saying "yes, that's what you should have done years ago!" HVM want a HVW that loves herself enough to have standards. N/LVM hate us because they don't pass our standards. For a lot of them it's the first time they are confronted with the fact that they are low value and not wanted, and they got shocked and angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:21 PM
1

Kill bill vol 1 and 2 terminator 2 aliens hanna the messenger, the story of joan of arc (with mila jovovich) million dollar baby winter's bone hidden figures elizabeth 1 and 2 (with cate blanchett)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:54 PM
1

I wrote a godamn poem about how special he was in the first month of dating. Fast forward a few years and he was fucking prostitutes behind my back. Lesson learned 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:04 PM
7

Because women cannot understand or like to discuss economics and politics 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:26 PM
1

They can go and ask their hero millionaire Dan Bilzarian to build a men's shelter. I'm sure he cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:18 PM
18

It's clearly stated in the bible, "thou shall not dress thy dog in fabrics and have instagram for them". It's in menverbs, 6:9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:24 AM
9

That's what stopped you? Not the probability of getting a deadly virus and infect your loved ones? Ok............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:57 PM
10

I would never go on a 3 day getaway with a man that wasn't my boyfriend already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:55 PM
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My grandmother married at 17. By 19 she had her first child. Her husband started drinking and soon after he started beating the shit out of her and their kids. He also cheated on her as often as he wanted (or as they used to say, he had "mistresses"). Divorce was not an option at the time. He died of cancer 20 years ago. My granny never remarried and is now living her best life. She has a lot of offers, marriage proposals even, but she refuses them all. "I already pay all my dues in this life. I…
/r/askFDS09/08/20 11:38 PM
13

He doesn't care if you catch the virus and die, or have to get on a ventilator struggling to breath, or (best case scenario) if you have to quarantine and take weeks of your work. As long as he gets some pussy it's all good. Seems like a nice guy ™
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:18 AM
2

It's basically racism. Some people think that just by being white they are superior. No my dude, it's your actions that count, not your skin colour 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:16 AM
2

He is very good looking and well spoken. That helps a lot creating the illusion. I guess that's what makes some desperate women pay for his 10 000 dollars per hour one on one consultations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:14 AM
2

Just google him. He started his career in the PUA crowd. It's so funny he sells the idea you have to be with someone but he is in his mid 30s and is still single. Last famous girl he dated was Camila Cabello, who is 10 years younger than him. A wolf selling a dream to the sheep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:03 PM
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Korean men are tall, take really good care of their skin, they dress fashionably and are usually really hard workers. They aren't perfect ( a lot of old fashioned gender norms), but white dudes really need to step up their game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:07 PM
4

Matthew is a con artist. He follows the money. He started writing for PUA (pick up artist) websites how to trick women to sleep with them. He quickly realised there was more money on selling women a few cookie cutter phrases to make them feel good about themselves. None of his advice is new or interesting. Now he has full blown retreats where all the pickmeishas pay thousand of dollars to hear more bullshit from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:03 PM
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One time a girl friend of mine made a fake tinder profile with pics from an insta model. This girl was beautiful, but clearly surgically enhanced. She swiped right on all the guys that said "if you are shallow or fake, swipe left. Only natural girls". Every single guy swiped right on her. She would ask them "oh I wasn't sure we would match because you wanted natural girls and I have breast and bottom implants" and they all answered with "ooohh but there are always exceptions", one even said "wel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:43 PM
32

Damn girl! I gotta learn some things with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:19 PM
53

Wow! This is... Horrifying. The kids were staring at you in bed? WTF he couldn't even close the door?? This is one of the reasons why we don't have sex for a few months. It's much harder to hide having children/wives/girlfriends for that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:15 AM
66

Errr... What? You think only black men can be absent fathers? 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:09 AM
5

It sure belongs here. Being successful and independent is a fds cornerstone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:00 AM
1

Like the Titanic going full speed ahead into an iceberg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:08 PM
3

I'm glad you got the rounhouse kick in 😁 I saw this way too many times. Last time one guy did a fault (grabed my foot mid kick and held it in his arm) just so he could give me a devastating liver shot punch (while still holding my foot) that left me on the floor for 30 seconds. Big man had to do an illegal move on a woman 30 kg lighter than him just to protect his manhood 🚮 He was immediately invited to leave the gym by my head coach. (Head coach is an older super hvm ❤️).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:56 PM
3

Oh I'm jealous! I don't live in the US, so I don't really have an opportunity to see her live. Maybe one time, when this pandemic is all over, I will fly to las vegas to see her fight! Or maybe the ufc will do an european event (doubt it lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:23 PM
3

Valentina Schevschenko and Rose Namajunas are my idols 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:29 PM
3

Oh yeah. Their fragile ego. I refuse to spar with new guys trying out for the team because they get furious when they can't hit me and I hit them. They legit start committing faults just to try and hurt me. Luckily my teammates and trainers are awesome dudes, and they don't tolerate lvm either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:28 PM
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Yeah, it's not even the looks (it helps) it's about lifestyle. It was super off-putting when I came back from training and he was just laying there on the sofa every single time. And soon afterwards the jealousy started, because my teammates are fit. His comments "Who are you trying to impress" when I literally left the house wearing a baggy t-shirt with big letters saying KICKBOXING and running shoes, were really sad. Or when he complaint my shorts (regulated official kickboxing shorts) were to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:25 PM
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And if you don't have a career they call you a gold digger. But if you have a career, you are selfish. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:24 PM
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Funny thing is I don't even look muscly. I do kickboxing and we have weight categories, and I'm tall but low weight (1m75 or 5'9 and 55kg or 121 pounds), so I don't look muscly or butch. They mostly give me compliments and ask me if I am or was a model (I actually was... LOL). Anyway, so I am strong but not super strong, I'm mainly very technical and fast. And I can still lift more weight than they can. It's sad. I'm so used to being around fit people, that I just kind of gave up on dating non a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:18 PM
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I know a few that are still in good shape in their 30s, 40s and 50s. I am an amateur athlete, so there are older athletes and some trainers that look really good still, as they train regularly and have their nutrition in check. But they are a minority. Outside this very specific sport world, guys look like they didn't just hit the wall... They crashed into it. So I really struggled to find them attractive... I'm used to muscles and shaved legs, but then these dudes show up with beer bellies and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:08 PM
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Brad Pitt looked his best in his 30s. However he is a genetic freak with extreme good looks, and he took care of himself, so he still looks really good in his 50s. Most guys are not genetic freaks and they don't take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:01 PM
34

Not to renounce the throne. The throne was never his. I guess he just wanted to distance himself from the royal family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:54 PM
50

We don't use derrogatory terms like waity katy to describe women in this sub. We support women here, we don't bring them down. The previous poster made it clear her observation about Meghan Markle was sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:52 PM
17

A lot of women have no standards and get annoyed at those who do. I knew a chick that had 3 kids from 2 different men, never married, lived on minimum wage, but she was giving ME shit for not dating just anyone. Sorry, don't want that shit life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:45 AM
7

What a wholesome story ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:25 PM
6

Yup. Relationship advice is cesspool of shit advice. Good luck with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:21 PM
18

If it's a lie, he is a liar and a bad choice. If it's true, he drives dangerously and puts other people's lives in danger and he is a bad choice. Either way, he is a bad choice. Block, delete, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:15 PM
6

We need more threads with good information like this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:11 PM
48

This is more than pickmeisha. This is stupidmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:07 PM
73

Yeah, all these games... Why? It makes me want to stay single forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:38 PM
17

All those fishes back on the dating ocean. Good thing I'm on dry land.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:24 PM
9

This is why all my social media is private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:12 PM
3

I will start using this one 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:00 PM
25

I love the future faking "it could have turned into a relationship". Thank you fds ladies for teaching me about all of these red flags that I would have missed in the past. Now it's so easy, most fuckboys use the same techniques and even the same words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:55 PM
12

You need to read the handbook. Everything you are saying is agaisnt what we believe here. 1st: he is NOT a hvm. 2nd: we don't endorse friends with benefits or casual sex here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:20 PM
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Yeah, I also can't do it. It seems that kind of dating only works in big cities where you might find more than one guy to date. Where I live I will be lucky to find even one guy to go out on a date with, much less 2 or 3 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:06 PM
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There was a lot of women commenting about similar situations happening to them. I thought this was a running joke, I had no idea guys actually did this!!! Wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:45 AM
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Let's be honest... Usually no orgasm 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:52 AM
2

I live in europe, our cops are cool 👮❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:45 AM
49

One more reason to be fit: to be able to literally run away from dangerous dates 😬 (gotta practice my high heel run).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:07 PM
26

This is gonna be a bit of tough love. He wanted to be in a relationship with you, but you weren't ready. Now that he is pulling away you are suddenly interested. If the genders were reverse everyone would tell him to get away from you, that you were breadcrumbing him, using him as a free peostitute and probably just liked the validation. If this is the case, please leave him alone. We don't tolerate lvm actions, so we shouldn't do lvw actions either. Read the handbook and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:12 PM
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😂 I'm sorry but this is hilarious! He went from wanting to hit you to crying? Omg. I'm glad you left and got safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:04 PM
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Well I guess you have a point. If that's how she feels.... I too would have cried into a banana split instead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:18 PM
2

Gotta say he made me laugh with that lord of the rings joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:58 PM
27

How is this revenge? She was used, and then humiliated online. Meanwhile the guy made a tiktok with a friend where he was praised like a king.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:40 PM
46

"you just won fuckboy not the year" like it's a good thing. "This is the American dream right here" This is how they see us. Never be the cool girl, never chase, you WILL be used like a cum dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:36 PM
2

Trolling and gaslighting? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:17 PM
28

FDS knows this. That's why we are against casual sex, hookups and friends with benefits. Because that puts you in the 90-95% they only fuck. If he wanted a relationship he would try hard to impress you, and put in effort. If you want a relationship, keep your legs closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:40 AM
8

"I'm a black man racist as fuck. But I'm a hero cause I settled for a darked skin woman. Now suck my dick." Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:31 AM
26

Only 7 years for shooting someone's face off 😐 da fook...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:17 AM
99

He causes painfull vaginal tears. He splits the corner of her lips. He makes her vomit. She tries to pull her face away, and he grabs her head and FORCES himself on her mouth... Isn't this sexual abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:20 PM
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Yup. Just compare r/mgtow2 and r/wgtow. Mgtow has so many posts hating on women, talking about treating us like cum dumpsters, calling us names, harassing women on twitter and on OLD. Wgtow is about how to be happy when single, examples of extraordinary women (scientists, writers, business women), social issues that concern women, and hobbies. The difference is stark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:40 AM
13

Amazing! It's true, being singles saves so much money. I dropped an lv scrote 8 months ago a I just save so much more. Bills are much smaller (fucker lived here for free and spend tons of electricity and gas), no more going out to dinner (50/50 offcourse 😬), no more driving him around and spending diesel (he had no car 💩), no more food wastage. I saved so much money the past 8 months, it's incredible. And they say women are gold diggers, while scrotes are literally out there living off of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:49 AM
1

I just told you I agree with you, that it exists. Why are you fighting everyone? Take a chill pill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:33 AM
4

Why wouldn't they want a bed to sleep in? It's an honest question, I don't understand. Why sleep badly and uncomfortably for years, getting back pain and restless nights, when you can at least buy a mattress and put it on the floor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:30 AM
66

It's so sad how the groom barely said anything. That idiot just stood there while his mother berates his bride, ON HER WEDDING DAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:40 AM
18

Hahaha I would wear a white sheet over my head like a ghost, and then directly ask them "hey is this enough coverage?" And then dance around making ghost sounds. But sometimes I get weird, so... Yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:36 PM
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At first I was like "wooow what is she saying??!!!"... But then I was like "wooooow what is she wearing??!!!" A tshirt and jean shorts to her son's wedding hahahaha 😂 I guess the outfit matches the brain cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:27 PM
11

"here's my plan: we are going to (insert your favourite expensive restaurant here) and you are paying"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:06 PM
7

Especially funny because we don't want a man with money (hvm is NOT the same as having money).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:38 PM
22

Don't worry. It's actually really cool you asked her before sharing all her intimacy online. Respectful men are awesome 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:44 PM
10

Yeah it's just the back of the clitoris. We still call it g-spot. And we can definitely orgasm from stimulation on that area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:43 PM
16

I like how you remember the nest guy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:41 PM
11

Yes exercise is crucial. A guy with no strength and no stamina is just sad sex. He can't quit 5 mins in saying he is tired and his legs hurt when I'm still doing backflips trying to get something going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:39 PM
9

Next time on r/mgtow2: I chocked my wife and told her "remember this feeling next time you tell me no in bed, cause me denying you oxygen is the same as you denying me your pussy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:15 PM
23

Never heard a man with actual money being afraid of gold diggers. They usually know what they want and can spot people with nefarious intentions. Broke guys on the other hand... Bruh, you ain't got no gold to dig. Chill. If you live with your mum because you can't afford rent, I know you ain't getting me a Chanel bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:01 PM
36

She really needs help. This is beyond reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:30 AM
21

I have my own space. It's called my whole house 😂 Cohabitation? No thanks. Already tried. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:22 AM
26

I'm an aunt to a beautiful boy. I'm so proud of my sister. However I don't want children of my own. I enjoy sleeping too much. I have had difficulty finding childfree men, but I am currently purposely single, so it doesn't matter. As I don't have a biological clock ticking, I don't have any rush or time frame to find a partner. Goals: too many lol.They surely include traveling a lot (when the covid situation settles down).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:16 AM
12

You would be surprised by the amounts of ladies on fds that have Aspergers syndrome.
/r/askFDS28/07/20 09:08 AM
7

You clicked on it 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:30 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:41 PM
62

I'm fine with this. He isn't hurting anyone, just doing his own thing. Isn't this what mgtow is supposed to be? Kudos to him 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:26 PM
39

His mouth is stuck on blow job mode. Maybe from sucking his bros off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:24 PM
4

The starter wife, boba the builder, placeholder girlfriend, forever girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:13 PM
9

Yet when a woman tries to help a man improving, they complain about her nagging and trying to change him. So what is it? You can't complain about both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:52 PM
72

I like the visual message too: You are only a real woman if you are half naked and begging for dick. Ok 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:12 AM
1

I have a friend that got it from a one night stand. She was really bad for over a month, like almost bed ridden. From a sad fuck that didn't even make her cum! No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:57 AM
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Figures. No sane person and their entire family would block someone just because they separated. He cheated, tried to denie her a propper education and now he is stalking her. That's VERY different from the story he wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:07 PM
106

If she and all her family blocked him it's because he did something he isn't telling us. The whole story is so one sided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:22 PM
5

Well, at least you understood what you were doing was not very correct. I hope it all goes well.
/r/askFDS26/07/20 07:48 PM
6

He got exactly what he wanted: entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:02 AM
5

I don't put a number on it, but certainly only when I feel like I know the person. That doesn't happen on the second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:39 AM
5

That explains a lot. Do you have any links to those studies? I would love to read them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:50 AM
4

Your views and your language usage is very lvw. We don't appreciate casual sex, sex tourism or racism on this sub. Please read the handbook before posting again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:33 AM
10

Kissing on the second date? Hell no! I'm not gonna risk herpes or mononucleosis with a dude I saw literally 2 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:29 AM
2

Wow I didn't know about that. Shan Boody just went from sad to creepy. How much lower can one get? 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:14 PM
27

Yeah I hate when they do that. Purposely trying to make you not just feel ugly, but make yourself ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:10 PM
60

I gave a chance to a guy that was shorter than me by 15cm, slightly ugly too. He seemed very nice at first. As time moved on he started projecting his insecurities towards me, and I went from "looking like a model" to "being average at best". He started constantly putting me down, ignoring or demeaning my accomplishments, and trying to make me feel ugly: -"you should die your hair red, or just shave it off" (I have straight, long, dark blond hair) "are you bringing the acne look back?" (when I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:22 PM
133

I do kickboxing fights. I have had broken bones and kept on fighting. I have been stitched in cold blood (no anaesthesia) close to my eye. I have had liver shots (the worse pain!) and kept on going. Some weeks ago I went running with 3 teammates, in the middle of the fucking run my period pains came out, and we had to stop because I started vomiting. 99% of scrotes couldn't even carry on with a broken bone, much less period pains. Fuck. Them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:19 PM
4

I would never engage with a man cold approaching me. I have no idea who he is, his intentions, and with all the PUA, rapists, "nice guys" and lvm out there, it's safe to assume it's not good intentions.
/r/askFDS25/07/20 11:03 AM
1

Read this sub and you will find the answer to your questions. There was literally a guy asking about martial arts. Short answers: yes you can become hvm, and yes martial arts are usually a green flag.
/r/askFDS25/07/20 10:56 AM
1

It won't make you lvm or hvm. It's just about preference, like tattoos. Some people will like it, some people won't.
/r/askFDS25/07/20 10:54 AM
13

It's very lvm if you plan on attending that church only to get with her. It's manipulative and honestly a little bit creepy. Go find yourself a church you agree with and where you feel comfortable. If you want to date this girl just ask her out directly.
/r/askFDS25/07/20 10:22 AM
15

From personal experience, Denmark has a LOT of hot guys. I wouldn't be worried 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:37 AM
14

We were talking by text message and it was going well. He invited me for dinner at a cool pizza place in my town. I decided to check his social media. Apparently he was a hardcore member of the communist (Stalinist) party, like being a flag bearer at communist rallies level of communist. I asked him about that and he ended up defending Stalin and the murder of millions of Ucranians. I cancelled the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:32 AM
6

Gerardo has a really cool, minimalist and clean apartment. Very nice. The others... Godamn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:23 AM
15

"If a man realises that nothing is required to be inside of you, then nothing is what you will you get" Simple, concise, well spoken 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:37 AM
7

I noticed that too. She has the saddest eyes. Poor girl 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:11 AM
4

I'm very happy to see a lot of guys acting in a very kind, humane and logical way. The original poster was an absolute scrote, but the others weren't having it. I think we need more positive examples here on fds, as all the screenshots of scrotes' messages and depressing stories (including my own posts ✋) is dragging the whole vibe a bit down. An equilibrium would be good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:09 AM
3

"I'm a nice guy". Ok, cool. We all love good men, right? "I cheated on my gf".... Oh "A bitch like you".... Oh my "Just because you got raped a few times"..... Ooooookkkkk never mind then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:36 PM
5

Did I mention this was the only open relationship she ever had, and it was because HE demanded it? So she just completely changed her life and belief system to accommodate for that guy. Oh and did I mention he is a failed rapper living off of her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:59 PM
7

I remember your story 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:30 AM
10

Are you the girl that went on a road trip with him? And then he stole your phone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:53 AM
13

Oooh I remember that one! Absolute gold!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:37 AM
48

Ahhh the lovely Shan Boody. She was in an open relationship where the guy fucked a lot of women , but she didn't fuck any men. She only kissed them. And he still left her. And now they are married, with a wonderfull super one sided oPeN mArRiAgE. I would feel sorry for her if she didn't make her living selling her delusional lifestyle to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:57 PM
9

They even got the base premises wrong. Mgtow is supposed to be about men NOT dating women, and fds is about finding a good man to date. It's literally THE OPPOSITE 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:13 PM
5

I'll happily send him a snap of my homemade sushi and tempura dish... But if he wants someone to cook for him I'll send him the address to a nice restaurant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:26 PM
4

Ask her. An open and loving conversation about what the future looks like for both of you.
/r/askFDS23/07/20 02:23 PM
2

Because getting up to use the toilet was tOo MuCh EfFoRt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:07 PM
10

Yup, I don't want to do my chores and then his on top. I don't want do share my bed every night and wake up because someone is snoring or going to the toilet. I don't want to argue about cooking. I don't want a guy asking me where am I going dressing like that. I don't want to clean dry piss from the toilet seat. I don't want leftover pubic hair on my shower. I want to come home and know exactly what to expect, everything is where I left it, and there is a sense of peace. I eat what I want, when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:04 PM
10

Very in depth. I have never been married or divorced, but this is gold information. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:30 AM
4

Yes men like that exist. Also, maybe don't cohabitate with men, that way you get to keep your own personal space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:19 AM
9

I don't want children (biological or adopted). I'm not looking for marriage either. I'm not against marriage, if it happens it happens, but I'm not counting on it. I also don't plan on cohabitation (tried twice, hated it). I am happy single and I plan on staying single, unless a very compatible hvm or hvw comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:08 AM
10

Step 1: stop rating people by numbers. That's what scrotes do. We ain't having none of that here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:00 AM
9

She is such a smart cookie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:38 PM
6

Just check the sub r/breakingmom soooo many women are living that reality. I would say the majority or marriages look way more like the second example than the first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:38 PM
19

They praise themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:28 PM
2

Read the handbook. It's all there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:23 PM
16

BMW driver 😂😂😂 I swear to god I will get a Chanel bag and go on tinder writing my bio like "Chanel bag wearer" like it's a personality trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:22 PM
20

I would love to be a housewife to a hvm that treated me like a queen. He would go to work and make shit tones of money, and I would stay home, take care of the house and the meals and the cats. He would take us on holidays, would get me chanel bags, pay for my makeup, gym, hair, pay all the bills. We would have plenty of sex, with plenty of orgasms, and stare into each others eyes giggling in love. A perfect dream. Reality is very different. You are a housewife, he goes to work and barely makes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:14 PM
12

So he is not married, he does not live by himself, he can't afford a house... Why is he giving advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:04 PM
6

Omg! That made me recoil 🤮 at least my ex was exiled in his room and we didn't sleep together, so my room was safe. Ewww. The things we endured as pickmeishas 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:52 PM
15

We got you girl. This is the start of the best journey of your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:48 PM
2

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:47 PM
15

Thank you. I'm glad I can give back to the sub that helped me too. We all started as pickmeishas, and we all need to level up everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:46 PM
19

Read the handbook. Read the handbook. Read the handbook. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:59 PM
17

A few months???? Ohhh girl... Noooo. Can't you move in with a friend or family member?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:55 PM
150

Understand that the fds mindset is basically self love, self worth and knowing what you won't accept from other people (not just men and not just in dating). Here are a few tips to level up: Prioritise seeing a therapist. You are extremely fragile and seem to suffer from low self esteem. Please, take care of your mind first. This is very important. Do NOT DATE for a while. You are very vulnerable and easy prey for malicious men. Please stay off the dating scene until you level up and build yours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:52 PM
17

This is why sex education is so necessary. If she knew how things worked she wouldn't have been fooled. Knowledge is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:04 PM
13

I'm glad too 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:39 PM
49

I got tired of coming home from work and having the house smelling like piss (literally, because he went to pissing on bottles to using an old piss pot, and not emptying it for days, so imagine the smell of 4 or 5 day old piss) and having locked doors and no access to areas in my own house. I was trying to be supportive and helpful with his issues and depression, but he started screaming at me, calling me a bitch, and putting me down regularly. Trying to help and let him live FOR FREE in my hous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:36 PM
7

Check the subreddit r/breakingmom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:51 AM
5

And that's how you level up!! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:47 AM
72

Next on r/relationships: "my (f25) boyfriend (m43) of 10 years stabbed me during sex, I just woke up from the medical induced coma at the hospital, but he is such a nice guy otherwise. What should I do?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:37 AM
32

True. And while Brad Pitt still looks very good (insane genes, but even him doesn't look as good as when he was younger), Leonardo DiCaprio looks like a potato now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:31 AM
16

Not for the vast majority of people. Just look at debt, and the amount of people living paycheck to paycheck. Only a minority of people in general get rich. These scrotes want us to believe they are the ones that made it, but their mortgage, student debt, car loans and child support to the ex says otherwise. And I can buy my own bags darling 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:29 AM
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When my ex moved in he actually asked if I was asexual 😂 no bruh, you just moved in, quit your job, didn't pay bills, didn't clean anything and spent 6 months locked in a room playing videogames, masturbating and peeing in a bottle (yeah, going to the bathroom was too much trouble I guess). Then he would complain I wouldn't fuck him 🤷🏼‍♀️ Sorry if I didn't find that sexually attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:19 AM
8

It takes 15 minutes to read the handbook. Cmon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:49 AM
4

If you read the handbook, then you can post all your questions. It's just that the handbook is the basic information. We are complaining about those that don't read the handbook, don't read any previous posts and just drop a rambling question here like this is r/relationships. Please post all your questions, you won't be judged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:48 AM
1

I see. Thanks for taking the time to write that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:18 AM
3

No. But why is it a red flag for men, but not for women? Or is it also for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:56 PM
3

I'm in my 30s and I never married. Why would that be a red flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:48 AM
15

10/10 therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:47 AM
115

Yet another example of why you don't give wife privileges to boyfriends. you don't move in with a boyfriend you don't buy assets with a boyfriend you don't adopt pets with a boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:37 PM
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To the angry male lurkers: as shown by this example, Hvm behaviour is NOT dependent on money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:31 PM
43

Go vegetarian 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:44 PM
6

I agree, actually. It's within his rights not to pay for anything. And it's within my right not to move in, not to clean any of his shit, not to give any emotional support, not to have sex with him... Hell! It's within my right not to date him at all 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:43 PM
9

Hahahaha! I'm sorry, I can't. I just can't. She keeps defending him in the comments. The guy literally makes more money than her and if he paid a little more they could live in a much bigger house. But because they go 50/50 they live in a tiny space, and the compromise is... SHE SLEEPS ON THE FLOOR. This scrote would rather his gf sleep on the floor like a dog, just to save money, than pay a fair share for a bigger house. She is paying 50/50 to sleep on the floor!! Imagine paying rent and bills,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:40 PM
5

Oh come one. Would you EVER just put spaghetti on top of the stove? I have Aspergers too. Let's not give these scrotes the autism shield. It's just ridiculous. An adult man, with or without aspergers, is capable of cooking and doing his share of the house chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:39 PM
5

Yeah, this is what my ex did. He loved living in the Mediterranean for free, in a house with a swimming pool, close to the beach. Too bad I kicked him out. He still owes me 6 months of bills, but I'd rather take that L than ever talking to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:18 AM
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I'm sorry, but can we stop using autistic as an umbrella term for stupid? I am autistic and I am tired of people misrepresenting autism like that. Just say it like it is: the guy is an absolute asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:13 AM
3

(from google): Serial monogamists can not stand to be alone and often suffer from vast commitment and insecurities issues. Because they jump into relationships immediately after the previous one has ended, serial monogamists typically don't take the time to reflect on their behavior or why their previous relationships failed; thus, they end up making the same relationship mistakes over and over again. If you can't even bear to stand on your own two feet for any significant period of time, how ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:01 AM
6

It's painful. I think most of us have been there. You need to read the handbook (on the side bar). You can even print the free pdf they provide here. It is a life saver. Tips (from the handbook) for the future: never tell a man about your past traumas or abuse. They will be used to manipulate you. words mean nothing. Actions do. Do not fall for the trap of their sweet words (I will love you better) block and delete. Never engage with lvm. Don't send answers, don't send paragraphs. High value wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:15 PM
20

Can you give us the link pls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:41 AM
4

If you find this funny, then surely you will also laugh when men post a picture of a small breasted woman next to an ironing board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:38 AM
8

Yes, I agree too. If we don't like to be mocked or shamed for our bodies, we shouldn't do the same to others. If we don't like LVM, we shouldn't act like LVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:36 AM
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I guess you are right. I counted 4 cooking pots. 2 days, so 4 meals. It fits. That mofo literally leaves every thing behind. There's even toilet paper on the bathroom floor 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:27 AM
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My ex was funny. At the begining of the relationship I was the most beautiful girl he ever dated, I looked like a model, I had perfect hair, I dressed so cool... At the end of the relationship I was average at best, I had small breasts, I was bringing the acne look back, (I had an allergic reaction to a sunblock), I overdressed and tried too hard, and my hair would look so much better if I either died it red or shaved it off. Throught the relationship I looked EXACTLY the same. I didn't gain or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:00 PM
74

That's day 2? Holy shit. How can one person create so much mess in 2 days only?? What's it gonna look like in a week?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:30 PM
8

Yeah, Brad Pitt is a hottie, but he seems nvm. He may have the looks and the money, but (in his own words) he spent most of his days either smoking pot or using alcohol. He is also a serial monogamist, just look at the amount of girlfriends and fiancés he had over his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:01 PM
16

A 28 year age gap is a challenge. Even if he is a wonderful person, a hvm and decides to marry you and have kids. He will be a father in his 60s, he won't have the energy or health to help you raise children. His sperm will also be lower quality, with high chances of birth deformities occurring. Then you will have to take care of children and take care of an elderly man. Imagine changing diapers to both your son and your husband at the same time? Lovely. Also prepare yourself to be a young widow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:58 PM
10

Google attachment styles. It will help a lot understanding relationship issues we all have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:37 PM
15

You have 3 options here (assuming you want children) A) leave him now and look for hvm man with similar goals. B) stay with him. In 5 years time he will decide he does not want to get married, and at 39 you will probably not have enough time to find another man to date, marry and have kids with. C) stay with him. In 5 years time he will propose. Then after another year you will get married, then after another year he will want children. But at 41 you will probably not be able to, or have high ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:35 PM
3

"I'm sorry you feel that way"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:08 AM
2

Oh damn. I wish I could get a guy like that. Pancakes every morning? Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:41 PM
24

He is just enjoying some wine and ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:37 PM
12

I corrected it. My french is terrible 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:33 PM
8

The choices are: A) find the unicorn, be happy B) settle for a lvm, be absolutely miserable C) be single, be happy A lot of us won't find the unicorn, that's a fact. I tried option B for a while, most women go for that. Just take a peak at r/breakingmom to see how that turns out. No thank you. I choose option C everyday now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:59 PM
11

The video was shaming? What? First we get called prudes for not having casual sex, now we are shaming others if we don't have our tits out. Ok. I thought as women we were free to live as we wanted, even if that is covering our bodies and not having casual sex. Or is it only freedom the other way around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:43 PM
4

She was feeding the baby, putting it to bed and tidying up the living room while he was playing games. She is his maid, and he is so used to her doing everything, he didn't look at her or asked if he could help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:40 PM
56

"you only have sex when you are in love? That is very limiting... To me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:32 PM
102

Saw this on Instagram. She described the image as "l'amour en été" (love in summer). Haven't we all been here? We love them, and they love our body, and sex. Mostly just sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:28 PM
24

Breakingmom is the best way to firmly decide to be single. Whenever I start waivering or feeling doubts, or wishing for a unicorn hvm to appear, I read a few breakingmom posts. It snaps me straight back to reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:48 PM
5

I think I would be considered a nice girl by most men (low body count, never cheated, didn't have a wild phase, never lived off of any men, have my own job, house, plenty of hobbies, have a masters degree, eat healthy) but saddly a few men abused my trust and used me in very negative ways. Maybe because they saw me as "the nice girl", easy to abuse, easy to manipulate. So lesson learned: don't be too nice to people, they will only use you. Vet them, let them prove they are worthy first, and even…
/r/askFDS12/07/20 05:53 PM
3

Hmmm he did have a thing for white, blond, thin and tall (both me and his ex are like this). A bit creepy now that I look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:48 PM
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So your question is: how do I find a high value woman? Well, that's our struggle as well, finding a high value man. Can you imagine how much harder ir is to find a man that didn't have casual sex when he was in his 20s? Lol You just have to date them and spend time with them to see what kind of person they are. Then apply our vetting system to your situation: look for a woman that is goal oriented, that takes care of herself, that has hobbies that match yours, that has a job/does well at univers…
/r/askFDS12/07/20 11:40 AM
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It's true most men don't enjoy the company of women. It's not true that men are these super accomplished, plenty of hobbies, rich, traveling guys that have so much energy in their late 30s. Most guys reaching their 40s are NOT rich, they are fat, bald and have very low energy. They sit on their sofas watching football, drinking bear, order take away, might play videogames online and jack off to porn. Only a minority of men (of all ages, not just in their 30s) are like the guy in the article. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:28 AM
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If he had so many girls chasing him, why is he wasting time sending voice messages to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:18 AM
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I assume she wants marriage and children? She already wasted 5 years. She is 29 now. She is just wasting time and opportunities to find a good man. This is not it. He is just waiting for his dream girl to come. Meanwhile your friend is just a placeholder. She needs to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:11 AM
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Asian man that wants every woman except an asian woman. Ok. Is this a thing? My last ex was asian (chinese ancestry) and he said he never dated asian girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:06 AM
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Read the handbook. Read the comments. It's a waste of time. He doesn't care. He won't change. You are just showing him you are weak. You are wasting energy. JUST BLOCK AND MOVE ON. This is lvw behaviour. Level up. Become a hvw. Do you think a high value woman would act like this? You think Amal Clooney, who was busy being a lawyer for the UN, wasted her time explaining herself and arguing with pricks on tinder? DON'T ANSWER. BLOCK. MOVE ON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:01 AM
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Most women that don't fuck their husbands is because they work full jobs and then do all the house work. Just google unpaid house labour by gender. In every single country, even the more evolved, women spend a lot more hours doing chores and childcare. Eventually you get pissed for being treated like a maid. Also if you want to find women that are not like the ones your cousin gives ectasy to, change your social circles. Do a sport, join a book club, do something that you know will have people w…
/r/askFDS12/07/20 10:52 AM
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Yes, there are plenty of women that never went for the bad guys. Actualy the majority of women I know never chose "bad guys". Saddly, sometimes, guys that appear to be decent and nice turn out to be bad, incompatible or inadequate. In that case, they end the relationship. Just like you had 3 girlfriends, and the relationships ended. Were they "bad girls" and now you want to settle down with a "good girl"? If you browse fds for a bit you will see most women there also never went for bad guys. The…
/r/askFDS12/07/20 10:45 AM
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Don't drop knowledge. Not only is a waste of time (they don't care) but you are also teaching him how to best manipulate the next victim. Just don't answer. Block, delete, gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:29 PM
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Worse than just nazi... 1990 nazi germany!!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:19 PM
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😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:19 PM
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If you read the handbook, you will know. Everything is explained very clearly there. Someone even made a compilation of everything in a pdf document, available for free. Go and read it. And I suggest you stop dating for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:15 PM
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How many more reasons do women need to NOT engage in casual sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:24 PM
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That's part of ghost in the shell 2 (anime film). It explores AI and the human/robots frontier, but there is a scene where sex dolls designed to look like children start killing their owners. It's glorious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:18 PM
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Why didn't he bring any water or food to a 3 hour drive? Why didn't he stop at a restaurant/grocery shop/ gas station to eat when he realised the trip would be much longer? Why didn't he go to a store to buy some snacks and water before driving to the hotel? I have done many trips that got prolonged by several hours because of traffic, accidents, weather etc, and I never collapsed because of exhaustion, hunger or thirst. This man is an incompetent human being. Perhaps next time he can ask his mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:00 PM
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Yes, I loved it. Even the female robot hated men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:50 AM
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You are most welcome here. I think you can use a lot of fds advice on your general life, but also in your dating. I'm sure you want to weed out all the lvw and find yourself a hvw. Despite what all the male lurkers and haters want to believe, this is one of the most inclusive subs I know off. We don't discriminate based on colour, sexuality, disabilities, religion, nationality, politics, nothing. As long as you are a woman, you are welcome. This is your space ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:46 AM
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Covid just helped me cement that I never want to live with a man again, because if I had to quarantine with any of my exes I would have probably killed myself by hanging with one of their dirty stained underwear full of holes. I praise the gods I kicked my ex lvm out of my house before covid. I love living alone, and I want to keep it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:39 AM
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I will give you a answer, even though I am almost sure it's a waste of time. Anyway: incels/lvm: offcourse there are incels and lvm that bathe. I'm positive that post is a humorous post, mostly. However if you read a lot of fds, then surely you are aware a LOT of men have sub standard hygiene. From not wipping their ass (very common) to peeing on the floor, to not using shampoo (because hair oils will reach equilibrium 😑). Not all men, but a lot of men. I don't know why this shocks or offends yo…
/r/askFDS11/07/20 11:35 AM
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Well, this answer explains things a bit better. I'm glad you are finding your way around leveling up. I hope he gives you the divorce so you can finally be free. Good luck sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:47 AM
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The super high up pants and the shinny belt gave it away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:58 AM
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My grandmother told me the same. Her husband died decades ago, and she refused to marry or live with another men again, despite many MANY offers (she is well off and very attractive). Why? "I already served one man, ain't about to serve another". Absolute queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:54 AM
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You need to read the handbook. Every single thing you describe is agaisnt fds rules. jumped from an abusive relationship to another relationship not using condoms fucking without establishing exclusivity you told him about your abusive ex You need to stop dating for a while, and focus on yourself. Also, READ THE HANDBOOK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:51 AM
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Report her to tinder. This is not ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:44 AM
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Not just a queen, an empress!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:01 AM
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At this point I wonder if this is just comedy. How on earth can she questioning what to do? Lol wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:57 PM
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You need to seek therapy asap. Please girl, you deserve more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:35 AM
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You need to read the handbook. You did everything this sub and the handbook tell you not to do. Go to side bar and read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:21 AM
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Writing for example in latin 😂😂 r/Iamsosmart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:16 AM
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You already posted about this on other subs. I understand you are unsure/afraid, but you need to do it. Tell him over the phone it's over (just a text message), and then block him. Do not answer any of his communications. ANY. If you feel like you are in danger contact your family and friends and stay over for a few days. Having people you love around you will help you a lot. Do not drag this one. Narcisist and abusers tend to escalate the abuse. You need to leave NOW. After this is done you nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:14 AM
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Why isn't he your ex yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:56 AM
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"make some pancakes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:52 AM
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That guy is a wonderful man indeed. Now imagine women got as much praise as he is getting for doing the laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:48 AM
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I would tell her. She is blind sided, young and naif. She doesn't deserve a lifetime of misery. Please tell her. She might be angry at you but at least she will know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:42 AM
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This is NVM. Op, why don't you leave? I understand he is depressed, but you are not paid to be his caretaker not are you a therapist. Plus, one cam be depressed and not be an absolute asshole to those around them, especially those literally doing everything for him. Is this how you are gonna spend your whole life? Slaving for a man that calls you fat? He literally adds nothing to your life. If you lived alone you would have less expenses and more time for yourself. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:36 AM
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Something very similar happened to me. We are even a similar age. I gave another chance to a guy afterwards, and although he wasn't as bad as the first one, he was also not good. So after 2 bad experiences, I am now closed off, for time unknown. I am lucky that I never wanted children, so I'm not under pressure to find a sperm source. I can just focus on living my life the best way I can. I'm not saying closing off is the best choice, but it certainly is working very well for me. I have been muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:41 AM
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MEME MOOOOM!!! ❤️ I'm overjoyed that people here know her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:26 AM
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Fuck you, Jake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:23 AM
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Because they all believe the are god's gift to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:59 PM
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Gary the sheep shagger - A 10th century drama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:15 PM
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That's oddly specific, and I love it 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:24 AM
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Herstorical! Haha that's hysterical 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:19 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:15 AM
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It's not insecurity, they are just wired differently than we are. They love the chase and the attention of women, as much as possible. It inflates their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:14 AM
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You are free to copy it 👍 and thank you. Godspeed, fair maiden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:06 AM
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Yup. How many OLD men profiles have "no fatties?", "Only C cups and +", "I like my women curvy". A lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:44 PM
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And that's why we need to keep our profiles private. Sad, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:42 PM
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Because they like the attention and validation, not just from you, but from any woman. It keeps their peepee up at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:19 PM
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Hmmmm interesting I have the same experience. The ugliest was the one that treated me the worst. The nicest was the better looking one. I wonder if there iare some statistics about this, or if we are just having confirmation bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:16 PM
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This! Yes! Self love is the ultimate "being hard to get".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:01 PM
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This is why men become paranoid when they have daughters. They know what they did to women, and they know most men will do the same to their daughters. And they are terrified their daughter's boyfriends will be just like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:55 PM
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That's because his IQ is 85
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:50 PM
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Perhaps I should write historical fds novels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:43 PM
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The sheep with bigger udders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:42 PM
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Men do that all the time. I don't agree with either of them, but people are entitled to have preferences. Some girls want tall guys, some guys want big boobs. Meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:59 PM
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Yorkshire, 10th century 2 british boys, Thomas and Gary, are looking after some sheep. They are unwashed, haven't bathed in 3 years, their breath smells like sun dried salmon and their hair is filled with lice. Thomas has syphilis scars on his face. Gary regularly has intercourse with his favourite sheep of the flock. Gary: ayyyy Thomas, has thy seen Björn? Elizabeth is always drinking mead with him! Thomas : ayyyeee Gary, don't thy know bitches are gold diggers that only like chads? Elizabeth o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:53 PM
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Assuming they have a car. I see we are being generous today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:27 AM
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😂🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:15 PM
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They banned pornfreerelationships... Wtf? What was the justification? Those folks had literally no racism and no sexism there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:59 PM
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Well I didn't mean to be harsh, but I guess it was. I just see no value in believing in destiny and soul mates or whatever, especially regarding lvms. It is what it is. When they are trash we need to move on. But some people do tell me I am a bit... Too honest. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:47 PM
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Why would she even want to be with a guy that didn't wanna be with her to fuck other women. Even in a decade or so, why? He made his choices, let him go pump and dump pickmeishas. He has shown his values and morals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:41 PM
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This is a terrible idea. Here are a few reasons why: you don't know when he will be ready. Or if he ever will be. Just read the posts about mid 40s scrotes still wanting to bang 20 year old chicks; he might get ready eventually, but not for you. In 10-20 years he will meet a lot of women, A LOT. Chances are, he will be with one of them, not you; both of you are young, and both of you will change. The man he is today won't be the man he is in 10/15/20 years. He will be fat, bald, have loads of ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:11 PM
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In my last relationship it reached a point where I (an extremely homey person) didn't want to go back home after work because he was there. He always had a complain about something, or a thin veiled insult to spew at me. Then I realised... Hold on... This is MY house! And I kicked him out. Now I love being in my house, and I am converting the room he used as office space (aka masturbation den) into a small gym 💪 Ain't no scrote invading my space ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:55 AM
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This comic ilustrates well the difference between compliment and harassment. Male lurkers, please read that comic twice. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:46 AM
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We have bans now? That's awesome! So tired of people coming here and not even reading the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:23 AM
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Yeah in reality Akeem would be hiding not a throne, but 2 baby mommas he ditched as soon as they got pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:07 AM
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I think a HVM would appreciate that you have your own values and boundaries, and respect them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:04 AM
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I'm happy for her, and everyone can have their goals, I'm just personally not into this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:16 AM
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Yeah that guy is just an asshole. He didn't value her at all. From bullying her because of the dress, to having "the final word" on the wedding, I'm glad she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:08 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:59 AM
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One more reason to not get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:53 AM
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Eww? Shopping at fast fashion stores with a man that has (what looks like) drug dealer cash? This is the opposite of my goals. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:35 AM
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I have a similar issue, but with being tall haha. I just reply with "I wish I was even taller" or " you should see me in high heels". It throws them off, as they all expect me to be uncomfortable about my height... But I'm not 😂 Just throw something unexpected. Maybe roll your eyes and say "why are people so predictable". People hate not being "unique". Or just pick something from their physique an throw it back at them "and you are so fat, you are short too, you are bald, etc". However, most of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:57 PM
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At least everyone is calling him the asshole. There is some hope out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:47 PM
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"Unattractive"... Ok. The fact I did a few modelling gigs must be because I am ugly as fuck. 😒 I just love these "news" outlets completely making shit up, out of their ass. They literally CANNOT see any of the women here. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:33 PM
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True facts. I will edit it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:13 PM
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Ok, let's reverse the question. "I looked thro your history. Are you still abusing people because you have borderline personality disorder?" My guess is you didn't like that. With good reason. So maybe don't do it to others. We are all trying to level up and be the best version of us we can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:08 AM
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I hope she goes to jail. All evidence seems to prove she was a real abusive bitch. She cut off his finger, burned a cigarette on his face, pooped on his bed... What a real lvw. She can go together with all the (majority) male abusers. No excuses for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:54 AM
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If you want the risky option of giving him a chance: I don't walk around with strangers, but good luck on your fitness goals; I thought you were gonna ask me for a date. I must have read this convo wrong. If you are done with the scrote: Nop. Unmatch; No answer, just unmatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:50 AM
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Wtf is this comment? Most of us have a pickmeisha past. That's why we are here. Instead of pushing other women down, try bringing them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:40 AM
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"my (18) boyfriend (57) of 5 years is a wonderful man, except he has this thing for sexually assaulting baby kittens in front of me. I tried telling with him that that makes me feel uncomfortable, but he punched me in the face, knocking out my front teeth. What should I do? Except leaving him offcourse" Redditor answer: "have you communicated with him? He might be depressed. Maybe couples therapy will help"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:28 AM
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What about the pink tax? Products for women are more expensive, from the shampoos to the razors. What about mentruation stuff? Pads, tampons and menstrual cups all cost money? What about bras? Bras are super expensive. What about the fact that women's clothes are on average much more expensive than men's clothes? Same with shoes and bags. What about waxing? Not only does it hurt, you have to pay for it! Also women's haircuts are waaay more expensive too, even if it's just a simple cut. Women pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:21 PM
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Ah ok. No I didn't know the original meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:09 PM
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Guy: "I have a job, I can cook and I respect people" Women: OMG HE IS SO RARE! PRAISE HIM NOW! SUCK HIS DICK NOW! Girl: "I have a Phd, I have a job, I can cook, I can clean, I go to the gym, I have my own house, I have my own car, I garden, I take care of my elderly parents, I donate to charity, and I respect people" Men: yawn. But what do you bring to the table? Do you have at least C-cups?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:36 PM
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Why 1993? I meat plenty of guys born in the 80s and they were even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:23 PM
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Well short answer is "you were dating the wrong men". Long answer is, you were an insecure pickmeisha and you were attracting low (or even negative) value man. You must face your traumas, understand why you were a pickmeisha, do the work on yourself, level up, become a high value woman. Then apply fds principles to filter out lvm and nvm from your dating prospects. A hvm will not hate you or mistreat you, but they are hard to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:18 PM
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A woman that will fuck on the first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:35 AM
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His heart was fine. It was just another complain to annoy me and try to turn back when we started. And yes, all that crying for a 2 hour walk. Ridiculous. Even more ridiculous is the gall to advertise himself on OLD as a hike and mountain lover. It's like me (a vegetarian) saying I love going to steak houses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:26 AM
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"I want an independent woman, but she can't be independent" Bruh... What??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:44 PM
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"sorry not my vibe. Take care" YoU SoUnD vIoLeNt 😒 K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:36 PM
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I bet this guy can do the splits. He had a lot of gymnastics training for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:25 PM
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Sucka women hahaha it's a nice way to say pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:19 PM
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It's the male lurkers!! Nothing new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:17 PM
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The downvotes are most likely from male lurkers. There's a lot of them coming here just to downvote and report us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:16 PM
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They all went to the same school 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:31 AM
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I once caught my ex on a dating profile (long story, it was a toxic relationship). He said he loved hiking in the mountains, and had a pic of him in a mountain. The back story of that picture is that this dude hating leaving the house. He hated hiking, he hated mountains. My brother in law at the time was a hiking tour leader, so he invited us to go on a 2hour hike in the lake District (uk). I had to plead and beg for this scrote to come with us. He eventually budged, but he complained THE WHOLE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:33 AM
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It's not friends with benefits. It's men with benefits. Friends care about us, these fuckboys don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:39 AM
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They all like hiking, travelling, food and cinema. They never hiked in their lives. They only "hike", to get the bus. They travelled to a shitty "resort" once. If they are american the "resort" was in mexico. If they are european the "resort" was in the shittiest place in southern spain. They love food, but they can't cook. Also, who doesn't love food? We literally need it to survive. They love cinema. As in, blockbusters that everyone and their mum sees (I looooove the avengers... Yeah Tom. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:36 AM
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A tale as old as time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:12 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened in your family. I hope you were all able to heal from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:04 AM
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Gender critical and blackpillfeminism are both gone. Fds is still up 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:57 AM
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🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:25 AM
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"we can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved" She even deleted the post. I guess she didn't like that people were telling her he was being abusive and she should leave. She is choosing to be blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:21 AM
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So I would be in one of the most physically painful and emotionally charged moments of my life... And he would be playing videogames?? Why do they even ask these questions? Offcourse it's not acceptable. What in the fuck???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:01 AM
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🚩 his ex was jealous of the time he spent with his friends = he spends way too much time with his lads, and won't prioritise you. Ever. 🚩he goes on trips with his friends = they all ditch their girlfriends and wives to fuck around 🚩he goes on baecations = He completely separates his (many) women from the rest of his life. You will be dessert, never the main course. Also, 32 and uses BAE? He can't even say girlfriend?? Is that too much commitment? 🚩I can't handle jealousy = you need to accept I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:23 PM
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This is what r/blackpillfeminism was all about. The bitter pill to swallow, but the truth. But it was banned as a "mAn HaTiNg SuB". Also, very small correction (sorry I'm a history nerd), it was Henry VIII ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:01 PM
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So he went from teaching men how to sexually assault women, to "teaching" women how to get commited relationships. Sure. Wherever he gets more money from, right? Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:50 PM
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Yeah, I also found it weird. They are going to spend one week of holidays together... How can she not be with him during the holidays? Even if she is normally busy and "unavailable" , they are spending a week together! I would be extremely annoyed if I went on holidays with a boyfriend of 8 months, and he just left for no reason everyday. Like wtf? Like... I wake up and he went to yoga by himself, during our holidays together??? Just be with the damn man. It's less than a week and it's a holiday…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:40 PM
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"We are not exclusive but we are not seeing anyone else" Wut? Isn't that being... Exclusive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:33 PM
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Just one mile away! Don't miss this amazing opportunity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:21 PM
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What the fuck? Who would rape their own mother???!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:00 PM
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"don't judge me for being such a shitty man that my (ex)wife turned gay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:54 PM
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Manslator: "She didn't choose me, so she deserved getting raped".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:35 PM
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The fact the guy answering said it took him THREE YEARS to learn basic higyene... and only because his wife withheld sex from him 🤯 Wtf is thiiiisssssss???!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:34 PM
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Why did I love this so much? Must be her facial expression, her outfit + classical music. Absolute diva!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:24 PM
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Can you imagine dating someone for THREE whole years without seeing his house? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:22 PM
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Well, a few years later she and the official made peace, and he actually became one of the biggest advocates for woman's sports. For all his work for gender equality in sports he is the athletics hall of fame. So, yeah he was a lvm to begin with, but he evolved into a super hvm. So... There is some hope out there 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:00 PM
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Maybe he showers every morning after waking up 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:57 PM
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Worse is he actually says "we have a good RELATIONSHIP". This scrote really thought he was having all the perks of a boyfriend while he could do all he wanted. He just got miffed when he found out she was not all his despite him only wanting fwb. Their warped logic is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:38 PM
5

Oh sorry, I misread it. Thank you for the post. It really is a sad but inspiring story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:34 PM
103

😂 best plot twist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:16 PM
46

And it smelled because he doesn't wash it. Can you imagine not changing your sheets for 5 years? It's the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:14 PM
246

Scrote didn't want a committed relationship, but got butthurt when he found out she was fucking other guys. Classic. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:13 PM
25

Just a small correction, she ran the Boston marathon in 1967. And in this story we can also see two hvm: her coach, and her friend. These 2 stayed with her the whole race and finished together. The boyfriend was a lvm, abandoning her during the race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:58 PM
78

We all hate low value man. And we all love a decent man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:03 PM
15

She looks like Miranda Kerr, he looks like an average dude with no bone structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:43 PM
49

They think we want that because that's what they want. It's almost every man's dream to fuck a different woman every day. We are literally disposable pieces of warm meat for them. They cannot possibly conceive that we don't want that. That's why they feel so offended. They assume we will fuck almost every dude (because we can), but we chose not to fuck the incel. That's why the Chad and Stacy narrative exists. In their mind, that's reality. They really think we love going out and fuck random guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:39 PM
64

"my boyfriend is fucking a prostitute in our living room in front of our 10 year old twins, what should I do?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:16 AM
3

Fds hasn't been banned yet. Maybe we won't?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:56 PM
58

"hey girls, maybe we shouldn't have casual sex" OMG tHiS iS mEn HaTe!!!! MiSaNdRy!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:46 PM
2

Thank you 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:38 PM
12

Well, at least you will have a large pool to chose from 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:28 PM
2

As a 5'9 woman I am just happy when they are at least my height 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:21 PM
5

Worst gift I ever got was his existence in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 PM
16

It's not about class. It's about being an asshole, and this guy is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:13 PM
3

I think as long as you truly respect the woman and have no ill intention towards her (the traditional femdom you explain), and if the lady is truly into it, then I see absolutely no problem. You just need to find your match. I have never heard about this original femdom thing, but honestly it sounds great 👍 I think some women won't like it, because they are looking for more "alpha males" (god I hate that expression), but again, it's just a matter of finding someone that is into it.
/r/askFDS30/06/20 12:42 PM
8

They have created a website with a forum. You can join it now, before they ban this sub. Aso, it's never too late to get knowledge 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:09 PM
20

Somehow fds got the reputation for being a bunch of gold diggers men hating women that want to destroy humanity and kill your dog. Basically a bunch of lvm hated us and spread misinformation everywhere they could. I have had a lot of posters dismissing my opinion on other subs because "she is a fdser". I literally had a guy on r/aspergers arguing that there was no sexism on that sub, while being sexist to me, and that surely I had FAKE aspergers because I was on fds. I cannot make this shit up! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:44 AM
8

What? I never saw a single thread about trans people here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:32 AM
13

It can be replaced by "people"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:26 AM
22

Well, if cooking for me, cleaning my house, giving me money, massages and orgasms is your idea of femdom, godamn I am all for it! Where do I sign up?
/r/askFDS30/06/20 11:22 AM
1

How do we send private messages on reddit? 😑 And who do we send them to? The mods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:39 AM
70

Why are you still talking to him? Ban, delete, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:49 AM
48

Because reddit is mostly a male space and you know how much they hate women and women's spaces they can't control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:45 AM
1

Not weird at all. Check out r/wgtow to find fellow women that are single by choice, and living their best lives ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:40 AM
24

I participated on that sub. It was awesome. Yeah there was some men hating, but very mild stuff. Mgtow and redpill are 100x worse than anything blackpillfeminism could ever conjure. And yet they are still active. Seems fair, right? 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:38 AM
540

I can't believe they will ban this sub.... Why aren't we allowed women's spaces? Just why? Why is mgtow and redpill still up but pinkpillfeminism is gone? Why must we be afraid to lose this space too? I'm beyond sad. I felt every single word you said. I feel the same way. I was on a downturn, and fds was one of the things that helped me level up and be the best version of myself . Kudos to all you ladies. And I hope we don't get denied our existence once again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:35 AM
3

She may have a shitty husband, but she sure has wonderful daughters 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:30 AM
10

Oh yeah. When I was at uni I worked at a gym, where my boss literally told me to smile and be friendly. The amount of dudes thinking I was interested in them was creepy. I kept having guys asking me out and asking for my phone number, while I was just working. Not cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:25 AM
13

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:53 PM
3

Dropping these sort of dudes feels like a huge pressure of the shoulders. I remember when I left a very abusive relationship of 5 years, it took me a few days of grieving, but then suddenly one morning I woke up and I felt so light, like I could finally breath. For the first time in years I knew I would go through the whole day without anyone criticizing me, devaluating me, I wouldn't be anxious about anyone watching porn, contacting exes, cheating, I wouldn't feel inadequate about my body, I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:08 PM
10

He wants an instagram model (skinny fit blonde, light eyes tanned skin, feminine) that isn't on Instagram 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:41 PM
6

Yes, doctors say butt implants are the most dangerous plastic surgery, with a high mirtality rate. Some docs even refusing to perform them. Something about having really big blood vessels there, that can easily be clogged or carry the silicone to the heart and pulmonary veins (which leads to death). If you look for that on google or youtube you will see some doctors commenting on it. It's scary and stupid, because you can just go the gym and grow your ass with squats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:46 PM
4

Ah yes. When being thin with huge boobs was in (Pamela Anderson style).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:34 PM
2

Not just incels. When I tried tinder (for 3 hours lol) I had a picture with a dog on my lap, on the beach. I had at least 2 guys making sexual jokes about that. It was surreal. "What are you doing with the dog?" "That dog is a lucky bastard" Like... Dudes... It's a dog... On my lap. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:03 PM
22

How to avoid: no wife privileges for boyfriends (no moving in together, no adopting pets together, no shared finances, you don't clean his house, you don't cook for him, he is not invited to family events); 1 to 2 years max without an engagement; at the begining of the relationship 3 months max without exclusivity and a proper relationship/girlfriend status; consider yourself SINGLE until you are married; always keep your eyes open, watch out for red flags; be prepared to leave, do not become de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:58 PM
92

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e017h7/the_dumb_fox_credo/ Basically you agree with everything, smiling, you are polite and the picture of elegance. You let them speak, you listen. You might even play dumb a bit. You come off as misterious. In reality, behind your smiles you are evaluating them, like a fox. And then you make the decisions that are best for you, without justifying anything. In my case I let him spill out all his beans, figured out what he was really after (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:39 PM
6

"I'll pay you to let me suck your dick" Sis... Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:33 PM
113

Went on a dinner date. He was a "gentleman" and insisted on paying for dinner. Too bad he kept the whole dinner complaining about his ex wife, and how the many chicks he fucked didn't want to use condoms because they wanted to get pregnant. I played the dumb fox, I smilled and was polite, and encouraged him to talk more, and he just kept shooting himself in the foot. He kept chasing me for a second date, but I politely refused. Sorry bruh, I'm not one of your pickmeishas desperate to have babies…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:52 PM
23

I don't think it's fair the girlfriend changed the deal after they had agreed on something else. That's lvw behaviour. I know men do it all the time and they trick and leach of women, but we don't really want to set OUR bar by how lvm act. My question is, why are they living together at all? If she is unhappy with the financial deal, she should either date another man, or live separately. I personally would never live with another boyfriend again (boyfriends don't get wife privileges).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:45 PM
22

15 years ago it was about having huge boobs. Today it's about having a huge ass. The saddest part is that 50 years ago women would use clothes and shapewear to conform to the fashion of the day, today it's surgery. What will all the girls with fake asses do when petite skinny frames are back in fashion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:57 AM
16

I thought huge hips were in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:54 AM
7

He just proved our exact point 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:43 AM
2

If that's how you feel, I'll delete my comment. I don't want to bring negativity to this sub. We are supposed to support each other, not fight. I apologise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:15 PM
15

People are not plates. Please don't refer to men like that. The idea is that you put the same energy in as he does. It's good to keep your options open if you are a recovering pickmeisha, so that you don't go all on on one guy. You don't necessarily need to date other guys, especially if you don't find other suitable ones, but for sure keep busy, and do not prioritise a man you barely know. Make sure you don't see him too often, focus on your job/studies family and friends. Just look at the fact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:35 PM
3

✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:10 PM
4

Yes, one of the things that study mentioned many times is that marriage satisfaction was a key element for prediction of divorce when one spouse got sick. Which makes sense, if he is a shitty husband that does zero house chores and just uses his wife as a sex doll, he will leave if she gets sick. If he is a hvm, he won't leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:05 PM
3

After having a read, the health insurance issue only applies for marriages where the husband is 11 years of more than the wife. The results in general showed that husbands are more likely to leave in certain illnesses (such as stroke and certain types of cancer), but not in all diseases. The picture is slightly less grim than we thought, as the difference seems to be only 1% (in THIS study, I am aware other studies showed a difference of up to 20%).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:16 PM
0

Very interesting. Thank you for the link 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:57 PM
4

Sometimes they did. But honestly, most of them just didn't know da fook they were doing. I tried giving directions... But I only got frustrated. Not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:56 PM
10

No fighting, just love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:53 AM
6

Show me your references, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:53 AM
47

Yup. Almost every man failed me (except my first boyfriend, kudos to that guy). No matter how much I did, how many gymnastics like poses I got into, they always finished first, or they didn't have enough strength or endurance for what I wanted. I got a toy. Giiiiiiirl I can finish myself in less than 2 minutes. I legit have to delay it sometimes cause it's too fast. With my last boyfriend whenever he came first, I got my lil friend out and finished myself, sometimes in front of him. Initially he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:06 PM
12

Oh yeah. This. I also have a friend like this. The only time I ever hear from her is when she has drama with her fiancé. She never asks about me or my life, she didn't even know I was single again (have been for over 6 months lol). It's all about her and her drama, but she never does anything about it. She even told me "omg, you broke with your boyfriend 6 months ago, oh no, I'm so sorry I am a bad friend", and then she kept going about her stuff. Didn't even ask if I was doing ok, or if my fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:15 PM
54

Their mum... I mean their wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:50 PM
9

That's very true. I don't mind a fat guy, but eventually we will be incomparable in our lifestyles and hobbies. I like cooking healthy foods, I exercise almost everyday, and my main hobbies revolve around being active and sports. Someone unhealthy and overweight will eventually not do any of the things I love with me. Honestly... Even sex with unfit people is sad. They have no stamina, no strength, no endurance. Very underwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:45 PM
5

Don't be too harsh on yourself, teenage years are hard for most people, even those that get boyfriends. I think you are right when you say it's a good thing you never got a guy, as there was a high chance of you getting abused, due to your fragile state. Check out the subreddit WGTOW. It really builds us up to enjoy our best single life, even if you don't want to be single forever. You have your whole life ahead of you, lady, level up! Find yourself and be happy 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:14 AM
9

Why are you with him? What do you get from that relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:00 AM
7

"you are not good looking enough to pull this off, buddy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:55 AM
6

That I am a single cat lady. They are absolutely right, but I see it as a compliment 😂 my cats are clean, well educated, follow me around the house, play with me and are super cute. I bought a king sized bed just for me and my cats, so we can all sleep streched like a starfish✌️ no scrotes are allowed in my house. They stay at the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:44 AM
5

Must have been a tradwife chick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:33 AM
22

Maybe she only has one leg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:32 PM
42

HOW DARE YOU!!!!?!!!1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:15 PM
33

They do this because he has all the privilege of a wife (cooking, cleaning, sex, emotional support, companionship) and zero commitment. They keep enjoying the privileges while waiting for their dream girl to come. That's why... NO WIFE PRIVILEGES FOR BOYFRIENDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:26 PM
43

Yup. They miss their house clean, their meals cooked and free vagina. Not the girl that did it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:01 PM
4

You are so right. It gets to a point it's them from themselves, not from the men. I too was in an abusive relationship and I know it's true. The last year I was with him it was all my stupidity, as he had already showed me very clearly who he was. This lady knows what he is. She is perpetuating her own abuse by staying. I hope she finds the strength to free herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:55 PM
17

That's why having small boobs is great. At least you KNOW he ain't with you for your big jugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:21 PM
26

I think you are right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:48 AM
21

This is sad. I usually get annoyed at pickmeishas, but she is a depressed and desperate pickmeisha. If only she could see her worth as a woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:46 AM
5

Hahaha bad ass!! I will remember this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:58 AM
9

Nah, it's straight harassing women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:56 AM
12

Yes, that's true. But a lot of posters here are still begginer fds. This is just another proof on how right fds is, and how much it needs to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:50 PM
11

👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:49 PM
12

Being aware of their tactics is our first line of defense. Be aware, be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:48 PM
27

The reason FDS encourages us to be high maintenance is because lvm scrotes do not usually approach high maintenance women (10s). You can see it is true, in their own words! The trash takes itself out. Level up ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:46 PM
47

Yeah, this is why scrotes are not allowed in my house. NEVER AGAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:45 PM
34

They think 10s are much harder to get because they are used to having a lot of attention. So, logically (for them) 10s will reject them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:52 PM
47

Yes, it was a PUA. Especially telling because he gave up only at the THIRD time you said no. That's a direct rule from their game "ask 3 times, only give up at the 3rd no".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:50 PM
93

Because they cannot tolerate that we have boundaries and high self esteem. They need to keep us within their reach, and ready to use. That's why we are "toxic", because their peepees won't get fucked as easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:49 PM
8

Yeah, we want you to. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:47 PM
87

Yes, it is. They teach each other to approach us with a question, are you an *insert whatever here (artist, athlete, student, model, etc). It's a non threatening way to start a conversation. Sorry. You were picked on by a PUA guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:37 PM
3

After all that disgusting stuff... "Separated". So he still has a wife too 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:31 PM
5

Same. I'm glad I never did. Dodged a few bullets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:13 PM
8

Exactly. That's why now I don't give second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:04 PM
21

High standards queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:03 PM
10

Yup. Sex is the main, and sometimes the only objective in their sad lonely lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:54 PM
14

Faaaaake. Catfish!! This is probably a fat short bald broke guy in his 40s role-playing. NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:44 PM
8

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:36 PM
2

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:52 PM
4

SheRaSeven1 YouTube channel. It's hilarious and it made me feel empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:49 PM
12

The bar is so low... Dumpster diving level. What next? Wanna hang out in the sewers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:45 PM
4

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:44 PM
6

It's like MGTOW posting on the WGTOW. Why won't they just go their own way? Loool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:22 PM
4

From my experience the extroverted talkative girls get a lot more attention from men. So I'm not sure why your family thinks otherwise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:16 PM
44

She should have payed the hitman to stab him, not her. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:03 PM
85

This is one of the many reasons why I don't want children. Not because my body would be "ruined" but because my hypothetical husband would feel like this about me and leave. Because a lot of them do. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:01 PM
11

Hahaha the male lurkers trying to downvote us. The fragile male ego comes out again. Sorry scrotes, we are entitled to make jokes about short men, just the same way you make jokes about flat chested women. Get fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:48 PM
14

Have you read the fds guide? Please do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:20 PM
84

"I was slaving away in the kitchen". Poor dude. He felt like 99% of women feel on a daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:19 PM
10

5'2" is like 157cm, right? Is this a gnome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:08 PM
14

Why would you kiss someone you only know for a few hours? Don't feel pressured. A decent person wouldn't even try it, you are basically strangers. They just wanted sex, so you effectively dodged lvm that wanted easy quick pump and dumps. Keep it moving girl. For contrast: I have a male friend. He started seeing a girl. Since they are both young and basically on holidays because of covid, and since the quarantine has been lifted, they have been seeing each other almost veryday. After 3 weeks of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:01 PM
14

Ah... the good old sexual coercion and threatening. Keep the screenshot and if he causes any issues show it to hr or the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:50 AM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:55 AM
8

That last sentence cracked me up hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:35 AM
14

The only guy that ever went 50/50 on a first date turned out to be nvm (surprised pikachu face). If I ever go back to dating and a man asks to go 50/50 I will pay my share with a smile, get up and immediately leave. There will be no second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:13 AM
8

Pigs are actually really clean animals, so please don't compare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:54 AM
16

Really? Cause I got nauseated about her having sex with that thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:52 AM
8

The whole situation is a godamn nightmare. A 9 year old being raped by a men, over and over again. With her parent's approval. It's just.... Sadness, really. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:21 PM
0

The guy died first...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:29 PM
6

No there aren't. I have seen plenty, and they not only don't work, they actually teach you dangerous movement that will compromise your safety even more. I am an amateur fighter, and I have tested some of these moves. They are bad. They are dangerous. Join a real gym with a real martial art, again personal suggestions are Brazilian jiu-jitsu and kickboxing. Self defense classes are a scam, even if the teacher is a woman. Please, PLEASE, understand that you will be putting yourself in more danger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:17 PM
10

Please don't. Self defense classes are the biggest scam. They put you in mortal danger. Just go to youtube and check out real fighters trying self defense classes techniques. It's really bad. I encourage women instead to do Brazilian jiu-jitsu or kick boxing. These two will actually be very effective, unlike self defense classes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:30 PM
4

Actually she is just a very smart woman. She knows there are a lot of lvm and nvm scrotes that are weebs and obsessed with teenagers. She made her business around milking those idiots for money. Kudos to her. She probably made millions already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:25 PM
23

Yeah this is not a positive of hvm meme. This is a guy making fun of rich women, and their "businesses".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:27 PM
3

I'm so happy for this plot twist! Congratulations 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:22 PM
25

I know a really young girl (she is now 14) and she has already experienced so much bullshit from guys. At 13 she was already being manipulated into sex by 16 year olds. It's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:18 PM
27

I got a king size bed just for me 😁 no scrotes are allowed. Get the bed you want for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:52 PM
4

She is not even dating him?? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:04 AM
2

I didn't even notice that one. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. He seems very self centered. He never once talked about your feelings and needs. It's all about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:28 AM
3

Hahaha! I think the european equivalent would be taking a date to a shopping centre restaurant 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:55 AM
3

A whole ass wall of text and not a single "I'm sorry, I'll do better". Nop. Just throwing sand at your eyes. Excuses, pretty words, future faking. Nice gaslighting there. I would pack him in a trash can and throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:54 AM
2

What is Dave and Busters? (European here)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:43 AM
1

I have naturally very little body hair, and what I have is blond and thin. However I still get most of it out (I shave everything off once every other week, and that works for me and the little hair I have). I like being hairless. I also prefer men having little to no body hair. Maybe it's because I have always been around athletes (myself being one) and most of us shave/wax (because you do not want to put tape on top of hair, or have a physiotherapy massage with hair. It hurts).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:18 AM
3

"doesn't know" what he is looking for yet. At 40 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:59 PM
5

They get worse. As they age not only do they remain boring, they also lose hair and get fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:55 PM
3

I'm usually taller, so technically I look down on them 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:51 PM
6

A guy with 1.67m in Amsterdam is basically a midget. Good luck gold digging, lil man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:47 PM
8

It's called the metric system. The whole world uses, except the United States, for some odd reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:46 PM
8

Well, maybe you should have said "money upfront " 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:41 PM
2

I'm upset beyond words. I hope the police gets involved and he is arrested. I hope he gets beaten up and raped in prison. Everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:32 PM
39

So that's what happened to black pill feminism!!! I was wondering why the fuck it disappeared from my feed. Why are feminist spaces disappearing while while subs like the red pill still exist??? Argh! It makes me mad!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:14 PM
4

Girl, same. My parents once even invited an boyfriend to go to Paris with me, payed his trip and all. For what? I was never invited even for their birthdays. Bunch of assholes. LVM have LV families. If they had decent parents they probably wouldn't be LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:53 PM
2

Yeah, it's not a game. It has to be a real mind set. We have to love ourselves enough to not need external validation from men we date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:30 AM
45

They don't even wanna get dressed 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:21 PM
1

Why not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:19 PM
2

At some point people have to take responsibility for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:11 PM
28

That's not high maintenance at all. These scrotes be mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:48 AM
2

Let's not forget Corvus was almost always in his wife's castle hall, looking out for her, making sure she was doing well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:44 AM
7

In the comments people are telling her to leave, and she keeps defeding him. "he treats me like a queen, he loves, he is just wild". They have been dating for 1.5 months. Pickmeisha award for her please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:38 AM
3

What was your list?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:23 AM
10

You have a few options, that do not involve the absolute shitshow that is online dating: start doing a sport. Martial arts are awesome. I personally suggest brazilian jiu jitstu or kickboxing, you get to meet people, get fit and learn to defend yourself. If you are not into martial arts try climbing/bouldering; volunteer (animal shelter, homeless feeding, etc); engage in a hobby, like history society at the library, painting, clay sculpture, or any other artistic/intelectual interest you may hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:45 PM
4

These guys make a lot of money from this. That means there are a LOT of guys wanting to learn their "techniques". Be safe out there ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:44 PM
2

It's bad that he follow those women 🚩 It's worse that he lied to you 🚩 It's even worse that he tried to gaslight you 🚩 3 red flags. You should leave when you see one, you got a bundle already. What are you waiting for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:42 PM
13

They teach men how to manipulate women into sex. The footage shows their workshops, then them in bars being horrible to women, some clips of them talking about how they treat asian women like trash (white men in japan experience), clips showing them them pulling random women's head into their crotch, clips of him fucking women and filming himself laughing, one of him teaching guys how to coerce a woman to let a guy in her house and choke her with his belt during sex, a clip of him using his auti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:31 PM
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The attitude was good, but the execution was bad. The best is to not answer at all. When we explain they will just lie better to the next one. They don't care. You think he thought of this convo for even 30 seconds afterwards? No. He was on to the next one. Save yourself some time and energy. It just shows you are bitter. The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. He is nothing. Block, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:00 AM
21

Whenever they say "I'm not ready for a relationship" we should just say "I'm not ready for sex". And POOFF disappear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:56 AM
14

Wow! It's like spotting a snow leopard! Super rare 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:44 AM
6

Zero orgasm but a lot of drama. That's how it always goes with "casual" relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:43 AM
3

He is 42 and doesn't know what he is looking for yet. Dude is middle aged and still doesn't know W. T. F. 😂 I sweat when I was on bumble 90% of dudes were like this. Wanted children one day but still didn't know what they wanted relationship wise. All of them 30+. The delusions are strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:22 AM
10

expects sex when "dating" ☑️ will not use protection ☑️ has scummy friends ☑️ can't write properly ☑️ Wow, where can I find this man? I really want to go out with him, so I can go 50/50 on a shitty dinner and have horrible sex afterwards, then I can go home with less money on my wallet and zero orgasms. Oh, and probably aids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:13 AM
1

Men of the wall has been banned??? Whaaat? Has the women's equivalent been banned too, or is this yet another reddit sexist act?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:38 PM
70

They can barely make me orgasm, so never mind cleaning lol. That's why I am determined that if I am ever with a guy again, if he doesn't make me orgasm, when he is close I will stop right there and leave him with blue balls. If I ain't cumming ain't nobody cumming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:34 PM
93

It sucks. That's why I refuse to do anything for a dude that he wouldn't do to me. I am yet to meet a guy that would come clean my house, so no, I ain't cleaning nobody's house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:50 PM
8

Wow, he must have gone to the Olympics, with that amount of mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:44 PM
9

Don't know about his wifi, but my home wifi has a password, and I only give it to whom I deemed worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:43 PM
19

Plenty of short, fat, ugly and broke guys get married and have kids. In what planet is this guy living?
/r/askFDS16/06/20 03:51 PM
3

This is a women's sub, you are not allowed to post. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:45 AM
29

Not some, all of them. It's part of their strategy to look for fragile and damaged women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 06:33 PM
9

This is true. The more you do for them, the more they take you for granted, and the more they expect from you. They don't do anything in return, because they get used to just receiving. Don't do shit for someone that doesn't do it for you. Match the energy level they give you. Mirror their effort in the relationship. Otherwise, you WILL get fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:46 AM
1

he knows you want exclusivity, but he doesn't 🚩 he knows you don't want casual sex, but he is still trying to put you in a situation where you will be coerced to 🚩 he doesn't respect your boundaries 🚩 What are you doing? He is just going to use you. This is not it sis! Drop him. Tell him you are not a whore. You told him what you want, he isn't willing to give it. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:16 AM
89

Yup. That's why no one is moving into my house. I got my own place, he better have his own place. No husband privileges for boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:11 AM
28

If I'm with a man, he better get ME a ps5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:08 AM
21

Next time try something like "I'm sorry, but you really need to go to the gym, dad bods are not a thing". Or something like that. If he is fat maybe tell him to lose the man boobs, if he is skinny tell him he needs to look like a man. When they all ofended and call you a bitch just laugh and say "bro you really need to learn to take a joke".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:22 PM
2

Don't let them win ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:10 PM
4

Last straw that broke the camel's back was finding he was hiding eggs, behind his cereal. I kid you not. When I found the eggs I asked him why was he doing it, especially since I frequently bought free range eggs from my workplace (we have happy chickens). He said they were HIS eggs, that he bought them in the supermarket for himself and that I was a selfish bitch. Living rent free in my house, and hiding food? Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:06 PM
6

In a way harder, because there are less available hvm. But in a way, much easier because I know what I want and I don't waste time with lvm scrotes, and I know I won't be in another toxic relationship. I would suggest you get comfortable with the idea of not finding a man and not settling down for less. You need to be happy by yourself. Otherwise they will be able to spot your desperation and you WILL find yourself in another toxic situation. Good luck out there and stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:06 PM
3

Well she is 19, so he wouldn't go to jail. He is just being a creep. She already said no, whatever the ages he should just accept and move along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:38 PM
7

The wall is a myth. Everyone ages, but if you age gracefully scrotes will always line up. My granny is 77 years old, and she has tone of scrotes wanting to be with her. Last month she even got a proposal for marriage from a desperate one. She said no. Her logic? "My husband is dead. One was enough. I ain't gonna be nobody else's maid". Scrotes be mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:48 PM
2

You should not have answered. As soon as he turned the conversation sexual just block and move on. At most just say "ok, I see this is not going to work out, bye" and block. Personally I would just immediately blocked and moved on. You don't need to justify why, you don't need to be witty. He is just wasting your time. He doesn't care. You think he spent even 30 seconds thinking about this convo? He went on to have dinner, probably jerk off to porn and then tried his cheesy one liners on 20 othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:43 PM
10

I don't know who ir correct. Maybe we should just say SVM shit value male 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:36 PM
3

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:34 PM
5

NEVER give them your number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:42 PM
55

11.5 years, only for him to get cold feet and abandon you on the night before the wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:38 PM
35

No value male? I use nvm as NEGATIVE value male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:29 PM
30

Lvm hate women with high self esteem. When my last ex started dating me I was recovering from an abusive relationship, and my self esteem was at an all time low. He would tell me often how good I looked and that I had "model" looks, and my answer was always " no, I know I look hideous". When I recovered and start loving myself, looking in the mirror and saying, "hey I feel really good today. I look good too" he started calling me conceited and that my looks were average at best. So yeah. Test th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:40 AM
13

The first matrix is really good. It was revolutionary at the time. Highly recommended. The female lead is really bad ass also. The sequels were a pile of manure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:35 AM
10

I forgave my ex cheating on me with prostitutes.... It didn't end well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:13 AM
1

It WILL end. And not too long after he starts university. High school relationships don't last. Stop obsessing over this boy and focus on yourself. Be the woman you want to be. If your life is boring and lame, go find purpose and goals. He WILL leave, he WILL want to fuck all those beautiful girls. That's just how it goes. You still have a few relationships and broken heart moments ahead of you. So be a better women, for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:36 PM
8

To the vast majority of men, no they just wanna fuck you. However there is a small minority with whom it is possible. I have 1 male friend that NEVER wanted to fuck me. He now has a wonderful partner, that I met and am very good friends with too. He knows me since I was a teenager. This guy helped me out on more than one occasion, and I help out when he needs it too. We have been through a lot, and he was always there. Him and his partner support me, my goals and my business. He is amazing. But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:50 PM
6

This is, unfortunately, very common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:40 PM
26

Oh I misunderstood. I thought it was like an orgy or something, and he stuck his finger in one pussy and had to ask who's it was 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:32 PM
1

A man... Friend and equal? 😂😂😂 That won't happen, regardless of age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:12 PM
7

Congratulations! It's the first step to a full leveling up. Stay strong sister! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:32 PM
14

I also enjoy watching them. They seem to have a mostly balanced views on things. I don't agree with everything they say (especially Aba), but they are always entertaining. I do like Preach a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:28 PM
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3 years is too much. If you waste 3, years on each guy you will be 70 when you find one that want to get married. At the 1 year mark you should know where he stands on that. If he doesn't want it, leave. Men know early on, it doesn't take them 3 years to decide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:26 PM
9

He said one thing correctly: younger women see him as a fossil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:15 PM
9

I don't believe it's real. BUT if it is, this might just be retribution. Maybe he did something to help her in the past and now sh.... HAHAHAHAHA who am I kidding? Pickmeisha award 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:13 PM
8

I dated man my age and they are still not mature. Men in general are trash. I don't want children, nor marriage, and I'm not letting anyone move in to my house. If I ever date again is just for casual fun, but I doubt even that will happen. If it does, at least he gotta have hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:19 AM
20

What about older women with younger guys? Cause at least they have hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:33 PM
2

"I like TV series, films, gaming, music" Ok Brad. We ALL like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:32 PM
6

Gaslighting is abuse. Leave now. It will only escalate. Leave before it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:27 PM
59

Have "unlimited babies"??? 😂😂😂 Da fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:21 PM
43

Why is she mad at the girl? Be mad at the scummy boyfriend. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:15 PM
38

Queen shit, right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:13 PM
18

They want a harem of women that only sleep with them. Because we are nothing but fuck holes for them, but we must be THEIR fuckholes. We can't be tainted by other dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:55 PM
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I was just rejected by a dude. Now I am off to my home lab to create explosives and blow all the scrotes I can, maybe I will go to a football game and blow all the hot fit players, because this one dude rejected me. Said no woman ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:54 PM
2

Been there done that. Never again. I don't want anyone in my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:50 PM
7

Oh he knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:54 PM
15

Why would you even want to start over? Just block that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:25 PM
2

Here, you dropped these 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:17 PM
6

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:13 PM
21

True. My last ex we waited a few months before being intimate. He was over the moon "in love" with me. Cue 1.5 years later and he is just using me financially. He even told me he knew I was never gonna break up with him because I was " co-dependent" (ahh, the joy of having shared with him a past relationship with a narcisist ex). The audacity. Well, he was wrong. I kicked him out of my house and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:23 PM
69

Saoirse Ronan is actually very beautiful. She is just not inflated with plastic balloons under her breasts and buttocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:05 PM
16

I agree. There will be a minority of people that do have libido problems, but I believe the majority is just relationship issues. In my case he kept complaining we didn't have sex anymore, while he spent his days playing videogames, unemployed, not doing any chores and talking shit about me. I don't know what he expected? That I would just suck his cock? When I literally told him to sleep in another room because I was unhappy in the relationship? Lvm are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:36 PM
8

Imagine thinking paying for a bag of chips entitles you to sex. 1€ for sex 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:37 PM
4

Satisfaction 😎🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:28 PM
3

Yeah, it always starts with the little things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:23 PM
30

Yup, checks. With my ex in the last 6 months of our relationship there was no sex. The relationship was on the rocks, and I didn't wanna have sex with someone that was being an asshole to me. As my libido was low it was easy. I actually thought "wow it has been a few months without sex and I don't want any, maybe I am done with sex forever, I lost that need". As soon as I kicked him out my libido just went up like crazy. To the point I went back on the pill to lower it a bit. Bad sex and lvm kil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:44 AM
1

Your initial post only mentions you flirting with your ex. It does not mention how he mistreated you. You asked people's opinion here without giving the full contest, so people will give you the opinion with the information they have. If you don't want judgement perhaps you shouldn't ask for it on reddit. Because you literally asked for people's opinion (which is a judgement). Regardless, you and your boyfriend just appear to not be good for each other. Maybe it is time to move on, and work on y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:35 AM
1

That relationship seems to be just too messy and toxic for both of you. Time to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:12 AM
3

He is not a great catch. Even if we ignore the age difference, do you really wanna deal with a divorcee and 2 kids at age 22? Being at stepmother at age 22 is not goals at all. You need to read the FDS handbook. Read it carefully, take notes if needed. You never text first. You block immediately when they neg. You set clear boundaries and you respect them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:27 PM
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If the roles were reverse, and a lady posted something like "I'm feeling depressed and my boyfriend flirted with his ex, and now he is unsure about our relationship to the point he doesn't want to visit my family" everyone would be telling the lady to leave him. I think you need to break up with him, and take a long hard look at yourself. Stay out of the dating scene until you level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:21 PM
4

It appears that not only did she not help, she made his depression worse. This is extremely low value behaviour. I think she needs to let the boy go, and work on herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:19 PM
7

Cope. They know they gonna be fat and bald, and so they need to believe you will too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:07 PM
3

Welcome to FDS. May you never find yourself again in a subpar relationship like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:07 PM
2

Comment of the year so far 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:18 PM
2

All 5 women in my close family have had a husband or boyfriend cheating on them. None of us have ever cheated on a men. Result: I am single and I don't want children. Men? They ain't moving in with me and they ain't marrying me to steal half my shit. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:27 PM
3

Renting is not fine, because you don't move in together with a boyfriend. That's husband privilege. Imagine you rent a house with a dude. The lease is for 1 year. 4 months in he breaks up with you, cause he met Stacy and wants to date her. Now what? Your name is on the lease. Who is gonna leave the house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:53 AM
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Anti depressants have more side effects than that, and I certainly don't want to risk having them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:00 AM
3

Why would you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:58 PM
2

Yeah, for some ladies the side effects are quite severe. I am lucky, my acne clears, my menstrual cramps get more manageable and my libido gets lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:54 PM
11

This doesn't work for everyone but it worked for me. The contraceptive pill makes my libido much lower. At the beginning of the quarantine I decided to go off the pill, and my libido got high. REAL HIGH. So I went back on the pill. I still have some urges, but it's by far much more manageable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:13 PM
4

Guuuuuurl 😂😂 how did we let these dusties in our lives? Godamn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:47 PM
14

And my ex didn't even get me a birthday or xmas gift 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:19 AM
29

Is this real life? Sorry, I might be jealous haha. Good for you, enjoy the good times 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:03 PM
5

I prefer thongs too. My buttocks are muscular and perky, so even with normal panties they end up rolled in the middle, which is 10x more uncomfortable. So yes, thongs all the way pls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:58 PM
5

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:54 PM
18

Wouldn't those just be red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:52 PM
12

Some good news. Thank god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:33 AM
5

Was he going to pick you up from your place? If so, that's a big NO. It's not safe for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:18 AM
7

Write that letter and then burn it. Do not send it. She is free from you, let her live her life.
/r/askFDS04/06/20 10:13 AM
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It's good when they said it like that. At least they are honest about their intentions and you can just move along. I find the liars with profiles catered to trick women into fucking them with relationship promises much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:57 PM
24

Divine comedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:53 PM
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That was a funny post indeed, but I was talking about my own experience lol. I went to my sister's wedding with a boyfriend and now everytime I look through the album I have his fucking scrote face ruining the pictures. Same with some xmas photos. Never again. We ain't married, then we ain't family, so you ain't gonna be in any family photo. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:36 PM
9

There is a list in one of the top comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:49 PM
2

There is a list on of the top comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:48 PM
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On top of what the others said, adopting a pet, renting a house together, having children, starting a business together, moving to another city or country, inviting him for important family gathering like xmas or easter, appearing on family photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:47 PM
31

That's like saying you don't support the film industry because you saw a porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:03 PM
1

He doesn't want to live on a farm. He wants to live in a VAN 😂😂😂 and then do some organic farming as some sort of job, while fucking multiple women. It's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:52 PM
2

I will tell them general stuff like "I'm going to the hairdresser", or "I have an appointment at the dermatologist". If they ask specifically I don't mind explaining further, but they generally don't. I also don't do that many treatments so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:22 PM
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I would ask him to pay 50/50 now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:58 PM
5

The sadness when the AITA threads were real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:45 PM
18

A mgtow, redpiller that looks like a potato and hits women? Wow... Colour me surprised 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:44 PM
11

Her latest edit mentions that she is leaving him. Not all women are pickmes. Good for her! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:12 PM
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basic higyene (shower daily, brush your teeth, wipe your ass properly) skincare! Moisturise and use sunscreen daily hit the gym or any sport, regularly. Both for looks and health learn to cook basic healthy meals don't smoke, avoid drinking, no drugs learn what sort of clothes fit you. And don't dress like a teenager when you are a grown man. sleep enough hours every night Doesn't matter if you are short or bald, if you don't age like a crusty scrote, you WILL be ahead of 90% of men when you hit…
/r/askFDS28/05/20 07:46 AM
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The sad reality of dating as an educated woman. That's why it is better to be alone than to completely abolish any and all requirements we have. Because if you settle for shitty men you will end up divorced, with 2 kids, and having to go to court for him to at least pay his share towards the kids. Welcome to poverty. No thanks. Me and my cats are doing just fine ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:26 PM
15

If all men were like this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:28 PM
23

"Lifting is the main goal" I love working out and it is an important part of my life... But the main goal?? Maybe a job should be his main goal so he can get a car. Lol wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:21 PM
6

Tell him to clean a toilet. If he can't do it properly, bye bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:37 AM
5

"But I thought she was born with gold eyelids!!! 😭"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:33 AM
15

In OLD there are 3 photos men usually have: selfie in a car (sunglasses and hat) naked torso on the wc mirror (with a hat on) holding a fish by a river or on a boat (fishing with friends). 90% of men will have one of these. Usually with the profile saying "education: school of hard knocks"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:32 AM
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This man is disgusting and is breaking the law (extortion). People have reported him to the police. However, it does show that woman claiming that sex work is empowering are lying. If it was so empowering they wouldn't be ashamed of it. Something that empowers me is something I share with my loved ones. If I have to hide, it's because it SHAMES me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:17 AM
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Hard pass. I ain't gonna be nobody's step mum. I would rather go to a sperm bank and have a child by myself than be a man's second family. Luckily I am child free by choice, so I don't even need to go to a sperm bank. It does limit my choices, because most people want children, but that's just how it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:08 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA NOW SHOW ME A MAN DOING THE SAME FOR A WOMAN. Ohhhh yeah that's right, they leave you if you get sick or injured. They literally dump you when you are dying of cancer to fuck other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:42 AM
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This is a really good idea. It does give me a new perspective. It's true, we have much higher standards for women. I have actually said before to a friend "I want a man that knows how to clean a fucking toilet", while I assume any adult woman will know how to do that. I had to learn how to adult in all regards. Not just work, clean, cook, laundry, but also how to change a car tire, how to do basic DIY in my house, how to fix my computer, I can even carry a fucking sofa up the stairs by myself. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:08 AM
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And my ex couldn't even use a screw driver 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:00 AM
34

It's not just reddit, it's in real life. Even when it's not related to dating. Example: I am an amateur fighter. A very well known fighter was recovering from his latest tournament in the hospital, using a wheelchair to move around. My team colleagues responses: wooow he is so tough! I asked if in my next fight I left in a wheelchair, would they also say I was tough. They laughed and said no, we would just make fun of you cause you are too delicate. Mind you, out of all the athletes in the club …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:34 PM
5

Because it wasn't a shared pot. You see when he moved in in MY house he made more money than me. I asked him to make a joint account to pay for bills (where we would pay 50/50), and we could keep the rest individual for ourselves. He said NO. Then he quit his job, and was living of his savings, while I kept working. He kept buying stupid shit for himself and his money started running out quickly. That's when his resentment for my financial choices and freedom came along (despite me being much mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:07 PM
20

This was especially cruel because he knew a few years ago I had a horrible experience with an IUD that gave me cystic acne. It took me almost one full year to recover from that. My skin is back to normal now, but godamn he really tried putting the finger on an old wound. This is why men should never know of any past trauma. Even something as insignificant as acne will be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:23 AM
12

He was furious I had more money than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:20 AM
67

Yeah, I did the same, with a man who was much shorter, skinnier, weaker and uglier than me. He turned bitter, jealous and tried to destroy my self esteem. He said I shouldn't go to the hairdresser because it was expensive (he never paid for anything btw, I went to the hairdresser to cut my fucking hair with my own money). I shouldn't wear any makeup, because that was try hard. I should "bring back the acne look", when I had a very small breakout. I should only wear tracksuits and baggy clothes, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:55 PM
25

At 18 his personality and morals are pretty much developed. Which means he developed into an arsehole. I'm glad at least the father is an actual good father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:09 PM
5

The meme literally says it's a game he mastered. He is making sure she is having a good time. Nothing in the meme implies male superiority, or female inadequacy. I have played different games with friends before, and the roles change depending on who is more seasoned with the game. I had games where I carried, and others where my friends carried. I get that we must be wary of men, but this case specifically is a wholesome meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:04 AM
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She said she did something shady, and he left her. This sounds fair. He could be hvm and she could totally be lvw at the time. My question to op is: if you were lvw at the time, have you leveled up? Have you made the steps you needed to be a hvw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:56 AM
3

Future faking: mixed with love bombing: talking early on about a future together (like a few days or weeks in he is already telling you how beautiful your marriage/children/house will be) the guy that will never commit: as the relation keeps on going, he will talk a lot about your future together, but there are only words, no actions (forever girlfriends, fwb that won't let you go but won't commit "I'm nor ready yet"). Any mention of actually DOING something (asking "what are we", "when will you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:21 PM
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Your first post had so many red flags. It was a little bit obvious this was an incoming disaster, and that he was love bombing you. Once you know how they operate it all becomes so clear. I'm glad you got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:41 PM
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In that case you just ignore. You don't need to understand WHY they do lvm shit. They are just lvm. Never answer them back. It's a waste of time and you just end up feeling stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:29 PM
5

After many years of being heart broken, I don't believe in soulmates. Now I only believe in swole mates (gym friends).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:11 PM
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It's called rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:43 PM
7

I think most of of us have done similar or even worse things. Ladies, I set up a whole company for a guy that was living a double life with another women, and cheating on both of us with prostitutes. I literally MADE the company, early investments and all. Imagine my surprised pikachu face when I discovered what was going on. 5 years setting a man up. So... We live and learn. Btw loved your phrasing "my spirit animal isn't a doormat after all" 😂 I'm gonna steal it, just so you know hihihi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:37 PM
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Love bombing and future faking are extremely important to be aware of. That's how men trick women into bad relationships and situationships. If we can identify it early on, we can save ourselves a lot of trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:30 PM
8

Yes I agree! We should make more real-life situation simulations. It would greatly help everyone, me included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:27 PM
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Yes! These type of posts almost give me hope ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:21 AM
3

Exactly! What do women have to gain from a one night stand? We risk violence, stds, stis and pregnancy. All of that and we are not even gonna cum!! Literally, why do women even hookup with guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:05 AM
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I dated an ugly guy. Short, skinny, weak, and he tried to destroy my self esteem. Lesson learned, I will never date down again. Remember, even ugly guys won't give any ugly girl a chance. They have no pity for others. Don't feel sorry for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:08 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised if she is also the breadwinner 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:41 PM
18

We have it easier if we just want to fuck dudes. Any woman can go out and find a guy to hook up with. But that's not what most women want. We want quality relationships, and that is extremely hard to find. They on the other hand just want to wet their tiny dicks. So cry me a river, you STD carriers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:36 PM
5

Thanks, I just joined the community ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:37 AM
20

It gets worse. She posts on redpillwomen aaaand she is gonna marry this idiot. In the comments she keeps defending him "mAyBe hE hAs SoMe KiNd oF AuTiSm". No, he doesn't. He is a just nvm and she is a lvw. She is 36, knows he is an absolute loser and she is still marrying him. At some point people just gotta take responsibility for their choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:24 AM
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It's not your area, they are just like that everywhere lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:20 AM
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Let me guess his profile: education: school of life, university of hard knocks Photos: 1 selfie in the car, 1 photo holding a fish, 1 selfie in the bathroom mirror with no shirt. All of them with a baseball cap on What I'm looking for: just looking to meet interesting people and see where things go "if you are fat swipe left"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:05 AM
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Don't even think about men right now. They are the bane of our existence. What they do to us is not an indication of our value, it's an indication of THEIR value. Focus on yourself, your battle with cancer. This is what matters the most right now. Find the strength for this opponent now. The rest will come later. Love yourself, heal yourself. Stay strong sister! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:01 AM
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She said the opposite. She said after 30s the pool of available HVM gets smaller and smaller, because they get snatched quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:12 PM
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Never. Even after marriage. Most you can do is a sensual photo. No boobs, no vag and no ass showing. Something that you would be ok with his friends and coworkers seeing. Because odds are , they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:07 PM
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I smell a fake story. "She" says she has no money, yet they were married. She would be entitled to child support. Also no woman would leave HER house with their child, while the cheating husband stays in the house. He would leave, get divorced and pay alimony. Then "she" says she shouldn't have married a younger model. Hahaha. Sorry, I think this is an older man, fat, bald and broke writing his fantasy about punishing women for not choosing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:03 PM
20

Yeah, they could "just" be misogynist, but noooo. They gotta be racist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:49 PM
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I am so white that people on the beach tell me if I lay down on the sand they can't see me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:55 PM
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I really think that would be best. Don't rush back to dating either, take your time to heal, and to understand what healthy relationships (romantic and not others) should be like. I wish you all the luck in the world. It will be tough in the beginning, but you you will be so much better off in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:14 PM
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3 kids Wife is pregnant with another one wife is cooking and taking care of the kids he is playing videogames she asks for help he gets angry 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:08 PM
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Your age and being a mother are NOT low value traits. You actually seem to be quite a high value woman. You are independent, you are objective, you are goal driven, you are humble, and you are obviously well educated. I would suggest NOT dating because you seem to be insecure, and that will attract all kind of predators and bad men into your life. Practice self love, maybe see a therapist, work on yourself. Level up that part, because darling, in every other aspect you are such a HVW. Don't let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:41 AM
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I agree with you. It means nothing. They will say it to 90% of women that passes by, and they would fuck 99% of them. What I do appreciate is when they compliment something other than my body. Maybe my work ethic, my intelligence, my personality, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:36 AM
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I don't want children. I am financially independent. I am also extremely picky, he gotta be intelligent, athletic, educated, not too clingy, well read, goal driven, honest, clean. If I add age restrictions on top of that, girl, I will be getting nobody. So I am open to date all (legal) age groups, as long as I find someone compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:31 AM
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Is there any way you can move out on your own? Maybe get some roommates (some girl friends, maybe)? It seems both your family and your boyfriend are toxic. I'm so sorry. It really seems you gotta find new, better people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:22 AM
2

Well I'm a history nerd, so I've been reading a lot of history books. My last one is "how to be a victorian" by ruth goodman. It's really good even if you are not into history, it just shows how far we come but yet how similar we still are. Very interesting to see how fashion and social pressure was basically the same for women back then too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:54 PM
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Not wanting children is the great equaliser. We get as much freedom and time to decide things as men do. I'm happy you too reached a happy place in life. Narcisistic abuse causes so much trauma, it's hard to overcome. But we did it 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:48 PM
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Men are truly scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:35 AM
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I have small boobies and I don't wear pushups, so I totally get you. If I ever was with a guy and I saw his dick pushup, I would just laugh and leave. If I ain't lying about my boobies, I won't let a scrote lie about his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:34 AM
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Why do you think fathers are so protective of their daughters? "Hur hur any boy wanting to date my girl has to go throw me!!", It's because they know most males just wanna fuck. So now they have to watch their little daughter getting pumped and dumped, just like they did to other women, and they hate it. Any men denying this is lying to you. Even if he is a hvm, and doesn't act like this himself, he still KNOWS this is how most guys act. They all know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:27 AM
2

She is the pickmeisha queen. Every single comment is telling her to get away from this man, and she just keeps defending him. She's a lost cause. Some people only learn from their mistakes. Others never learn at all. In 10 years she will be complaining about how life is unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:06 AM
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It's called GAY 4 PAY This is very common in the bodybuilding world. I didn't know normal guys did it too. But I guarantee no woman is paying for his nudes. It's guys. And he is probably doing some masturbation videos, and maaaybe even some prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:52 AM
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1002 D.C., Britain. "Omg, did you see Bjorn? Tall, blond, blue eyed, broad shouldered guy, with his clean combed hair, new clothes and smelling of roses?" "Yes, but don't forget your husband John, that hasn't washed his ass in 7 years, has bad teeth, is shorter than you, and has a hump". "I'm totally fucking Bjorn"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:38 AM
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It seems to be going well. Enjoy your relationship. Just be aware it's still early days, and keep your eyes open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:28 AM
1

I never ask. I have my own money, job, house and car. However, I do expect a men to offer. It doesn't have to be resources, sometimes it's time, favours, help with things. A man that is interested in you WILL provide something. If he doesn't, he isn't into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:26 AM
1

The same way other humans did for thousands of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:17 AM
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Never tell them your boundaries. They will just lie better. Act your boundaries instead. Don't want a house date? Just say "no, thank you". Don't want casual sex? Don't have it. Want him to pay on the first date, but he doesn't? Pay your share and don't go on a second date. Etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:04 AM
3

Well, to be fair. Isn't that the equivalent of a push-up bra?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:00 AM
0

It really depends on the context. If we are both talking about attractive people, or people watching, and having a fun back and forward about it, no problem. I would probably point out a few guys and we both have a giggle about it. If we are just walking and he says it out of the blue, I think I would just leave. It's just bad manners and disrespectful. Lvm red flags. Block his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:51 AM
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At 19 she already has 3 relationships where her boyfriends hit her. Poor girl. Life is gonna be hard for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:37 AM
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"open relationship". Manslation: I'm out here to cheat on my girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:28 AM
2

How dare you not give me free netflix??? You BITCH!!! 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:27 AM
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Quarantine level up story! I'm single, so it's all about self improvement here. I tried a new skin care routine, and my skin is feeling FREEEESH! cutted my own hair, and it came out good 😁 I stopped taking the pill, and my body did a full hormonal reset. Feeling good! practiced my sewing practiced watercolours been reading really good books deleted all dating apps. Never going back on that! had a (hvm?) man call me an exceptional person (good boost to the ego 😁) All and all, quarantine has been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:21 AM
2

What is about your face that you dislike? Most face issues can be solved with skincare, makeup, teeth whitening and a good haircut to frame your face shape correctly. We also tend to be overcritical of ourselves, so practicing self love will also help. If you have issues that you cannot change and maybe cause extreme anxiety (let's say a certain nose shape you detest) you can also do more invasive treatments, like plastic surgery. Just make sure if you go that route is not for a man, but for you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:12 AM
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Same. I just assume everyone is lvm, until they prove otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:04 AM
2

Wow, men actually took a dump on you? That's horrifying 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:00 AM
8

After leaving a 5 year relationship with a malignant narcisist, where I was on the brink of suicide, I got into a relationship with a guy that seemed "normal" and safe. Second guy wasn't a monster, but he was also not good. I realised something was wrong WITH ME, because I was the one allowing these guys in my life. I started reading about narcisistic abuse, co dependency, being a people pleaser, etc. I went to therapy. Started listening to empowering youtube videos. Eventually I stumbled upon f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:58 PM
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His "joke" says it all (do I keep it for the next girl?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:48 PM
1

Yeah. After I dumped one guy for cheating on me, he called me, crying, begging, clamming he couldn't live without me, he had an epiphany, he was a new man. I could hear the snot through the phone. I didn't know better and took him back. 3 days later he was visiting prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:34 PM
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"they hate you because they hate themselves". Yes! Perfectly put! I experienced this with my last ex. He was much shorter than me, tiny dick, physically weaker, had less money. He was so insecure he started projecting his self hatred towards me. Never again will I date down. EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:30 PM
1

If he had student loans only, it would. But he has credit card debt as well. Plus he showed how irresponsible he was by quitting a job before finding another one. If he is broke at 40, whatever the reason, it's a huge red flag. One thing is not being rich, but having a lot of debt should be a deal breaker (at any age, really). Imagine you get together with this guy. All you resources will be funneled to pay his debt. What if you want children? What about buying a house together? A car? Travellin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:09 PM
15

Never from a boyfriend. But I experience true love from my family and my cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 09:33 PM
26

"I pulled the trigger because I could not control my emotions" BUt WoMen ArE tOo EmOtiOnAl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 09:30 PM
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Almost 40 and still can't handle his finances? This dude is gonna be broke forever. And guess who he thinks will fund his dusty lifestyle? That's right, you. Clutch your purse and run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 09:19 PM
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All the HVM men I know are engineers. One is a dam construction engineer; another is an environmental engineer and the last one is an electronical engineer. But it might just be a coincidence, I don't know. On the other hand the two most low (negative even) value males I know are IT engineers. So maybe profession does not have that much of corelation with HVM or LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:56 PM
2

I have seen guys swiping on tinder. They don't look at profiles because they mass swipe right, sometimes they are not even looking, just using the hand motion to swipe. This is to increase the odds of a match. And this is also why OLD is not a good place to find a romantic partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:48 PM
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Yes, indeed. Let me rephrase it. Men's logic: Him masturbating to other women getting violently ass fucked = fine She non sexualiy liking a video game character = depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:24 PM
2

I've had coffee with guys before. I just went with my tracksuit on, trainers, ponytail, no makeup, and afterwards I went straight to the gym. Coffee is not a date. It's just getting coffee, and if he happens to be there cool. I'll be gone in 5 minutes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:53 AM
1

My bunny dildo/vibrator makes me happy. Guaranteed orgasm in 2minutes or less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:40 AM
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Practicing fds from an earlier age will save you so much heart brake and emotional trauma. Well done ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:35 AM
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They are extremely rare. I know 3 hvm. All of them married with children. I have recently met a younger guy that seems to be one too, but that remains to be seen (they all look so nice when we meet them). Honestly they are so rare that I have pretty much accepted I won't be getting one. Statistically, that is just the most likely outcome. That's why I am single, and I'm probably gonna be for a loooooooong time. Because being single is infinite times better than being with a lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:12 AM
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Men's logic: Masturbating to other women = fine Liking a video game character = depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:02 AM
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😆 Not only are they useless in bed, they are also useless with DIY. Honestly though, I had to teach my ex how to use a drill and hang a painting. Fucking LVM are good for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:36 AM
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No issue with men wearing them, but I wouldn't personally like it on a partner. Not a deal breaker though, just a preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:33 AM
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If this is the only "problem" I don't see a reason to break up. He might just happen to like older women, and that can be for a lot of reasons (more established, they know what they want, have their life figured out, more experienced in bed, maybe he is even more physically attracted to them). Can it be a fetish? Yeah, but so can your feet. So far he is treating you well, keep vetting but just enjoy your relationship. IF he actually starts acting like you are a fetish, THEN remove yourself from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:29 AM
1

Nice trolling bruh
/r/askFDS29/04/20 12:55 PM
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Most women will take that as a red flag because they will be alone with a men at his house. It can get you raped. If your intentions are genuine, why not save it for later, when you two know each other well and have an established relationship. For you it might be different because you live with your parents, so the girl wouldn't be alone with you.
/r/askFDS29/04/20 12:54 PM
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I have never been through a hoe phase. I have never had a one night stand, a hookup, nor a friend with benefits, I haven't even kissed someone that wasn't a boyfriend. My first boyfriend was very respectful of the fact that I was a virgin at the time, and never tried to rush things. Eventually we had sex, and trust me girl, you quickly catch up to things. This guy saying these things to you just shows he is looking at you like you are just a hole with tits to be fucked. Stay away, nothing good w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:32 PM
2

Dates? This is something you do with friends, family or when you are already in a relationship. Godamn I do that in the summer almost everyday, minus the alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:19 PM
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This guy is beyond disgusting. He is willing to fuck her but doesn't want her "type" working on a supermarket because it would contaminate his food. Any men willing to pay to have sex is immediately a negative value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:13 PM
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Manslation: my wife is suffering physically and mentally and I don't care. I just wanna fuck. Will you fuck me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:06 PM
5

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:05 AM
15

"yeah, I think you are right. I don't think you would he good to have a relationship with. Bye 👍"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:49 PM
4

I think it's obese women, not sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:05 PM
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I think the first thing is to improve yourself. Level up. Become a HVW. We can't demand quality men when we are not quality women ourselves. Drunk driving is very low value not only it endangers your life, but the life of others. Revaluate if you need to quit drinking all together. Calling names, threatening to break up, emotional manipulation... This is all seriously worrying behaviour. Perhaps you can look into therapy after the corona virus dies down. And please, don't jump into dating again …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:59 PM
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This is why I loooooove being single and childless. I come from work and everything is nice and tidy ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:52 PM
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"BuT I lOvE hEr" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:40 PM
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A lot of them are. Some have asked me not to wear wheels (lol). I also have had men tell me "I would fuck you, you are gorgeous, but I would never date you cause I couldn't be seen with a taller girl like you". Others have a taller girl fetish instead. It's weird. I live in southern europe where I am much taller than the average men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:40 PM
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Or a tall guy lol I'm 5'9 and I want a guy taller than me for a change. Tired of having shorter insecure scrotes complaining about my height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:57 PM
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Manslation: I am only with my gf because I have a fetish about extremely large breats. I do not care about her as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:27 PM
2

He can't get "any better", and scrote mentality is "ugly pussy is better than no pussy". Sad really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:29 PM
9

Can you imagine being her? So happy you are getting married, you get a nice dress invite friends and family, you take all those nice pics, you go on honeymoon, you have a kid, you put in the hours of love, labour and dedication.... A few years later you find your husband's reddit account. And now all those memories you have are all false. None of them were genuine. He didn't even think you were pretty in your wedding day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:36 PM
10

Tbh I got one foot on fds and one foot on wgtow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:29 PM
17

Woooow how the hell did she do that? That's some next level queen revenge shit right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:26 PM
2

Godamn, I must have forgotten to sign up for my free stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:25 PM
24

It's because men ARE scummy, so when they do nice things we all get surprised and confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:17 PM
13

Minecraft too. There are so many videogames to chose from. Just get all you girl friends and go at it. Most of these games can run on crappy laptops too, so you just need a steam account and some basic headphones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:15 PM
7

Watch moribito: guardian of the sacred spirit. The lead character is an amazing woman, and there is no sexual shit. Prime example on how to write relatable strong female characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:13 PM
3

A grown man fighting over stuffed toys. Somehow that's even worse than fighting over your favourite socks 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:03 PM
3

Not all women are high value. I would actually argue that most people are not high value. I don't know about you your description is very short and biased (since you have depression it will be negatively biased). What I can tell you is that a high value person does NOT mean a rich person, rather it means a GOOD person. Nevertheless, if you are suffering from depression I would recommend "sorting" that out (seeking therapy, medication if needed) before starting dating, as you will attract predato…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:20 AM
2

Are they separating old socks in a divorce proceeding at court?? Wtf is this?? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:00 AM
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Especially now in quarantine, if he isn't texting me, it's because he doesn't want to. He doesn't care. Harsh but at least I know 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:58 AM
1

When they don't even know the difference between effect and affect.... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:32 AM
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You are wrong. Every era has a different body type that is valued (mostly by women, as men are basic as fuck and just want ass and boobs), but variety is still allowed. Pamela Anderson was an absolute top celebrity and she was know for her huge breasts. Alicia Silverstone, Demi Moore, Lucy Lawless, Drew Barrymore, Sandra Bullock, and many many more were not rail thin. You are thinking of models like Kate Moss, but again men are basically slightly higher thinking gorilas and they just want BeWbS …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:27 AM
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These days you have to be a hyper hourglass, kim kardashian type, which can only be obtained by a very small minority of women. Others just go the plastic surgery way. So no, we are nor better now than in the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:16 AM
2

Fds tough love right here lol ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:09 AM
2

Wow. Just read the article. If what they say is true, men and women are indeed BRUTALLY different. For them is all about the chase and hunting a prey. They don't care about you. How sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:08 AM
3

She is vibrant because her clitoris is vibrating like never before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:51 AM
7

What if she is actually happy? There is nothing wrong with bagging a millionaire that will take care of you (assuming he is not abusive in any way offcourse). Have you considered they can actually be in love or at least happy and content with each other? And I don't think she will be changing ANY diapers, nor his nor of any baby they might have, as if he is a millionaire they will pay for professional help, should they ever need to. Maybe instead of focusing on what other people have accomplishe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:22 AM
7

It's not that much better here. The only plus is the obesity rate is lower. Nothing else. They are the same scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:14 AM
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Since she is such a cool girl ™ and so ok with porn, I guess her next step is to buy some bodypaint and do black face for their sexy time 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:58 AM
2

We can have a safe word, or just do slight bdsm (not hardcore). Honestly it is something I am quite curious/interested about, but as me being the dominant one. I have never tried it though, and as I am currently practicing celibacy I might never. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:45 PM
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I have Asperger's syndrome and I kicked my ex boyfriend out in the beginning of 2020. Being alone by myself is better than being lonely with a man. On the practical side of things, I make an effort to reach out more to the few friends I have, as well as my family. I also focus on my job, my pets and myself. Regarding hobbies, I make sure I have social hobbies (I do a team sports, and I was attending some history related events at the local library), and solo hobbies, (sewing, painting watercolou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:16 PM
7

Ok, but what if I wanna be rough with them? As in, THEY are getting chocked, slapped, tied and whipped. Not me. Is that fds approved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:16 PM
165

EVERYTHING is about them and their dicks. EVERY THING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:35 PM
22

I'm in my 30s. I have had exactly TWO orgasm with men. TWO. I communicate plenty, and I am very active during sex. I bought myself a bunny dildo vibrator, and and I can cum on average in 1min and 30 seconds. I can't help but laugh when people ask if as a single woman I don't have sexual needs. Yeah I do, but I fix them myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:30 PM
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If I ever get into a relationship again, I will ask him to clean a toilet. If he can't or he does a shit job, then it's bye boy. If he can't perform basic adult tasks, I'm not gonna be the one to teach him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:09 PM
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They move on quickly because a) they were never in love and b) they want sex with whomever, so they will trick another "feeeeeemale" into a false relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:06 PM
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Jay Z, that looks like a fucking frog, cheated on Beyonce. That's all we need to know about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:53 PM
14

This is not necessarily true. While some people will find a hvm, others won't. And that is ok. But I HATE it when people say "He Is OuT tHeRe" and "dOn't WoRrY yOu WiLl FiNd ThE oNe". I think this mentally leads women to settle for lvm, desperate to be with the one... Or anyone. Let's instead teach women that our life and happiness does not depend on finding a man. If it happens that's great, if it doesn't happen, that's great too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:45 PM
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I would also love to be myself and go to work wearing a tracksuit and trainers. I would also love to eat nothing but pizza and not get fat. I would love not wearing makeup when I didn't sleep enough and just be myself. I would love to have sex without condoms and not get STDs or pregnant. Saddly that is not how the world works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:34 PM
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Let them taste their own poison! Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:27 PM
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We don't know anything about your relationship. What you described seems to be a very non issue situation. If I was in a house where someone is having a party I think it would be a)impossible to play minecraft and chat because of the noise b) rude to the party goers that I was ignoring them. I would have done the same your boyfriend did, call and ask if we could postpone. Bear in mind that this is assuming you have a healthy relationship and he is a hvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:49 AM
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A man never monopolizes all my time, because my time is full of everything else. My question is, for busy active people, how do we find the time for this? It seems to work only if you have a lot of free time. Cause if I have a scrotation of say 4 guys, I can only see one per week. That means I only see the first guy once a month. Might as well be pen pals. I never have sex with dates. Ever. But that won't stop the gossiping. And we can all say "I don't care about gossip", but when you run a busi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:48 PM
69

A young QUEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:10 PM
24

I had this conversation with some men before. All of them said they could hate fuck someone. How, I asked? Well you just fucking fuck that bitch. Sex and respect/love are completely separated in a man's mind. COMPLETELY. We release oxytocin (bonding hormone) after we had sex with someone, they don't. It's biology. This why casual sex sucks for us, no matter how "opEn MiNdeD" we are. Biology is agaisnt us, it's not a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:03 PM
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Sounds good. A few questions how do you find the time for this? (Let's imagine coronavirus goes away magically). I work full time plus I workout 6 times a week. I also live alone, so I have to clean and cook. I can fit dating one guy in my schedule, but more than that? How? how would this work in a small city? Because eventually word would be out in the streets that ErikaNaumann is a "slut" (even if it's just casual dating). Mind you I am a bit well known around my area because I run a business …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:55 PM
24

You know we talk about Negative Value Men? This is the female version. NVW right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:47 PM
57

Yeah, even our friends should be high level people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:33 PM
12

Is this real life ​ w.t.f.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:30 PM
3

Yes Ben is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:36 AM
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Yes, book Faramir is amazing. One of the few people to immediately recognize how evil the ring is, and he never wanted it. Also helped the hobbits and was so good to Eowin. I was a bit sad how they wrote him in the films. To be fair, Lord of the Rings is full of HVM and HVW. That's the biggest fantasy in the story lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:33 AM
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They like the attention and the girlfriend benefits, without having to putting in any of the efforts of a real relationship. They are playing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:18 AM
6

The fact you DIDN'T answer is awesome. Queen energy 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:08 AM
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Exactly, scrotes always complain "gold diggeeeeeeerrrss they just want a rich man rrreeeeee", meanwhile we are here asking for things like Don't chew with your mouth open "Impossiblleeeeee standaaaardssss!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:02 AM
12

Having a baby with a BOYFRIEND.... Couldn't be me 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:58 AM
13

In short: A 35 year old man lives in a house with no kitchen, has very few and shitty outfits and no car. He is so ill prepared for life in general that when a public health issue happened he HAD to move in to your house so he can use your kitchen and eat your groceries (that he isn't paying for). On top of that you are not allowed in his house... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:48 AM
9

This warms my cold cold heart. Such a HVM move. Wholesome 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:36 AM
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Lord of the rings. Aragorn is a HVM. Even when he was far away and tempted by another woman, he was faithful. He also fought for goodness, was loyal to his friends, was humble, and always perceived Arwen as his equal (in the end of the 3rd filme he didn't even let her bow to him, as they were equal). In L.A. Confidential, the character portrayed by Russell Crowe is also a (flawed) HVM. He is an honest cop, and is true and loyal to his friends and partners. He believes in his mission and in his p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:17 AM
41

Men have always invaded female spaces. They think they know what is best for us. Tip: they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:12 AM
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I disagree. If possible avoid all the boys she described. They are only gonna bring you trauma and depression, which will scare you for life. Date decent people or stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:11 AM
21

I hate that people see autists as abusers and harassers. Like wtf, have they actually met anyone on the spectrum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:08 AM
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I'm also autistic (Asperger's) and nobody EVER cut me any slack for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:07 AM
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And the answer is always ALWAYS "Have you talked to him? He might be depressed"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:56 PM
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Yeah I do see that as just wanting attention. They were probably ignored by women in real life, or looked at with contempt. This way they get a reaction. And sometimes they even get a pickmeisha engaged in the conversation. Bullies bully in school for many reasons, one is to have the attention of other kids. To show how cool and how strong they are. Because at home he is probably ignored or even abused. LVM are basically just sad little boys. But we ain't their mommas so they can fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:39 PM
11

True. Sometimes it just feels good lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:35 PM
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HVM are not dating right now. HVW should not either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:40 PM
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The best answer is not to answer. You wanna bet this answer made him happy? They love this type of shit, that's why they send those opening messages. If you ignore them they get pissed. Any answer is attention, and that's what they want. STOP ANSWERING LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:12 PM
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This is true. I know a few men that only follow accounts related to sports, comedy, memes, etc. What you can do is check what accounts they follow, if it's full of instagram "models" hard pass. If they are following friends and keeping up with their hobbies, than it's not a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:52 AM
5

Hahaha that's so disgustingly true! Why are they so dirty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:47 AM
33

Sex. They don't get sex. I don't want your gonorrhoea, thanks mate. If we just started dating and aren't exclusive, you ain't seeing my panties. Godamn I won't even kiss you, cause I don't want herpes. Most you get is a SIDE hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:13 AM
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This is a man fantasizing. No fds women would say "you will never get laid if you don't pay", because we have a non casual sex rule, even if they pay. Just another scrote scroting around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:03 AM
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😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:06 AM
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The men suck, because they are misogynistic (yaaaay islam) the woman sucks, because she outright lied to everyone It's a shit show, and everyone sucks. Clear example of a horrible culture, and clear example of how not to act as a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:42 PM
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How you get them is how you lose them. Her "best friend" is gonna get cheated on soon enough, or dumped for another "friend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:36 PM
5

She is clearly a side chick and the man is a fucking monster. But... Eventually she has to be accountable for her shit too. She stayed outside for hours in sub zero temperatures? Girls... Have some self respect. Godamn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:28 PM
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"I love him and think he is a great person" Meanwhile he literally causes her to have vaginal tears, does not give her orgasms, does not care about her emotional wellbeing, does not respect her and refuses any solution to solve her problems (refuses the VERY minor inconvenience of feeling the strings). He is NOT a great person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:08 PM
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This is an excellent article. It is important to understand that a bad relationship is not just going to damage you emotionally, but also physically. Stress and anxiety depress your immune system. You literally get sick and destroy your health. One of the many MANY reasons why it is better to be alone than in a bad relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:04 PM
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It's two things external feedback: people telling us we are too picky and we will die alone as old crazy cat ladies internal fears: "I would rather have a shit relationship than feeling lonely The only way to get over this is to practice self knowledge and self love. Seems easy but is extremely hard to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:10 PM
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Well don't you know? You exist as cum holes only, so don't you dare behaving as if you are a person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:02 PM
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This is a perfect reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:01 PM
20

AVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:59 PM
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Fantastic woman. If all women were like that granny, men would be forced to behave better. This is like herd immunity ladies, we as a group need to set the standards higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:45 PM
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Lol last time I told a person I was currently celibate and planning to keep that way for a long time he asked me if I was religious 😂 No, I'm not planning to be a nun. But this just goes to show how much it is ingrained in people's mind that YOU MUST HAVE SEX!!! Even if in a shitty relationship, or just a fuck buddy, whatever it takes!!! Be miserable but have sex! Bad sex where you don't orgasm and get super gonorrhoea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:15 AM
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Well, as shitty as that men is it probably wasn't him giving you the virus. It takes longer than one day to develop symptoms. Ironically you might have spread the virus to him. Either way it was irresponsible on both of you. This is how the virus spreads, and this is why the world is fucked right now. I wish you a speedy recovery, and to us ladies, let's learn from this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:08 AM
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I did that one time. It ended up with him trying to tear me down, because he felt so inferior (I was 17 cm taller than him, slender but fit, long blond hair. He was a small, skinny and derpy guy). It started with small jabs like "are you really going out like that?", Mind you I was wearing a men's t-shirt, denim shorts and trainers. When he realised I was not backing down to wearing what I wanted he escalated his jabs. Started calling me average looking, conceited, that I should bring back the a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:03 AM
8

This is why we are better off not marrying at all. Jesus, can you imagine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:39 PM
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I wouldn't even do that to a friend. Whenever a friend comes over I offer food, coffee, tea, whatever I have. It's called being a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:41 PM
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Hahaha I never met a woman to scream "take it away" during labour. This is clearly a man that has never been with a woman. "MEN ARE SHIT AND IT'S WOMEN'S FAULT!!" yaaawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:37 PM
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The usual fuckery. Although there is a very small minute chance he got played or hasn't found the one yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:30 PM
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I became happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:10 PM
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