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| 2 | So a HVM is just a decent good person. That’s what I’ve learned from reading FDS. What percentage of men are decent good people, and what percent are assholes?It's good you recognize you need to work on yourself before you date, I'm doing the same thing now also. I think people in general, man or woman, need to realize that dating in a vulnerable state is not a good idea. | /r/askFDS | 19/08/20 06:42 AM |
| 7 | So a HVM is just a decent good person. That’s what I’ve learned from reading FDS. What percentage of men are decent good people, and what percent are assholes?"So yea, I’d like to hear your thoughts on the percentage of men who are basically scumbags." I can't give you an exact number, but in my own experience it has been the majority. I'm 28 and I've never been married and it's precisely because I've never met a man who is worthy of my love. OLD is pure trash, as others mention. Fuckboys, PUA's, incels, MGTOWS, and TRP fuckers are everywhere online. I work in tech which is a male dominated field and unfortunately it's not much better. I was physicall… | /r/askFDS | 18/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Question regarding a unique situationI'm an Iranian-American and I was in a 2 years abusive relationship with veteran who served 8 years in the Army, deployed in Iraq. He is truly a hollow and sadistic individual who gets off on the desecration of the female body, and while I'm sure his perversions began before the military, I genuinely to my core believe the violence he witnessed and participated in during those 8 years fucked him up more. The wisdom I gained from that experience: human beings are extremely resilient. We can be … | /r/askFDS | 18/08/20 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Answer a compliment on tinderJesus fucking Christ. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 8 | How to handle this situation?Your ex still believes he controls you and he does, because you're still thinking about him, you still feel obligated to say thanks, you still feel like you have to check in on his mom. You know what a man who ignores you for weeks at a time when you're in a LTR deserves? 100% silence. Not a single text, not an ounce of your concern. Yeah it's harsh, but codependents sometimes need to hear the harsh. You broke no contact, you fed into his scheming. Time to block, delete, and forget. Who gives a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:09 PM |
| 4 | How to handle this situation?this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?damn girl, really making me get creative over here lol. A body pillow?😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?get a dog, they snuggle with you without their phones blowing up with nudes from the side piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:28 PM |
| 22 | What are some random things you filter out early on OLD?imagine using your frontal cortex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 23 | What are some random things you filter out early on OLD?The truly sad thing is that after all is said and done only 5% made the cut. What has happened to men? They’ve stopped evolving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?I got myself an amazing vibrator lol. Does the trick for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?Oh, I’m sorry hun 😞 it’s not right. I hope you’ve been able to make peace with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020What can I say, Scrotes be scrotin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?Awesome thx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?😂 same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?I’m glad you got out. It is a hard pill to swallow, but if we stopped grooming our daughters to become married mothers who wait on their family, then maybe it wouldn’t be such a heavy “moment”. Maybe if the focus, from day 1, is self improvement and independence then it would just be a normal thing for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?That seems to be the trend for many of us, coming to FDS after the “moment” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?Amazing. You must have been such a resilient teen. To have come to that conclusion on your own when it would’ve been so much easier to slide into a toxic relationship. Thanks for sharing, you’re lucky your “moment” happened when you were so young. 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?I know I know I know, it’s just hard to have much faith in men. I find myself hopeless. Pa good job girl !! Gettin it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Oh ok got it! is that global stat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Exactly, it’s men who have brainwashed us into thinking that we spend too much on makeup, that we spend too much on clothes, or self hygiene products. They do this so that they don’t have to buy it for us. Yet, as you said, they also have expensive habits, electronics, hobby cars, motorcycles, drones, prostitutes, oh but those are ok. “No let’s just tell women they spend too much money on makeup. Oh but if you start letting go of yourself I’m going to cheat on you, but if you spend too much mone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?Which podcast? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?For what? I’m finally happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 12 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?wow. just wow. couldn't say it better. first of all, girl you are a gd package! good fucking job on getting yourself to where you are now! i'm 100% focused on leveling up to bad ass bitch queen status. i'm not wasting another gd minute chasing a fucking scrote. i'm doing me. thanks, and i applaud you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 21 | Did you guys have a 'moment' when the true meaning of being a queen finally hit you like a brick wall?thanks girl, I love your positive perspective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:43 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020The threat worked. He signed it. He’s such covert piece of shit, he can’t have his family knowing what he really is under that mask. He also wrote me this long ass poor me letter about how sad and hurt he is that I’ve left blah blah blah. Should’ve thought of that after you abused me and cheated and lied so much . Thanks for your tip. It truly helped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Wow amazing advice, I just emailed him back telling him that if he doesn’t sign the lease and send it back to me by the end of the day that I’m sending his mother pictures of bruises he’s given me over the years. I think that should scare him enough. I’ll keep you posted, and thank you thank you 🙏🏼 Ps there is 10 months left on the lease agreement, and it’s $2k per month, and I’m an unemployed full time student. If he breaks lease I’ll be financially responsible for $10k, this is what the proper… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020HELP! I’m on a lease agreement with my ex LVM who I went no contact with 3 weeks ago. Today I emailed him a copy of a lease amendment that removes me from the lease (because he’s explicitly stated that he has no problem breaking a lease, and if he does I will be financially responsible). I want no responsibility regarding the lease agreement because I no longer live there, so I need his signature on the form. However, he knows I’m no contact with him (because I’ve blocked him on everything excep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Yeah, going on the third day of casually texting and he hasn’t made any indication of wanting to move forward from here....I’m thinking to just unmatched with him bc if he really wanted to date me he’d have no doubts about it by now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 17 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 27 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨I’m tired too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.I’m not sure that’s actually true hun, women definitely have higher rates of obesity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Women have higher levels of obesity as a gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:45 PM |
| 105 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Nah sis, you’re wrong. I 100% disagree w you. Sure we do buy more products, but that is absolutely NOT the reason why men have more money. Don’t get it twisted, sis. They have more money because they pay us less for more work, have a hiring bias against women, discriminate against us in the workplace, and don’t promote us at the same rate as they promote men. Let’s not forget that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 7 | I miss the LVM I was with. I really fucking do. But I really miss the idea of him. He wasn’t who I thought he was. And I will never regret walking away from that lie. I feel happy and free again!And the most fucked up part? That 10% isn’t actually high quality interactions, it’s normal. It’s normal interactions that get magnified as being better than they are bc they’re surrounded by abusive interactions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)?Ohhh lol nvm then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:02 AM |
| 164 | 👏👏If I’m paying for my own vacation I’d rather go with my girls lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 8 | I miss the LVM I was with. I really fucking do. But I really miss the idea of him. He wasn’t who I thought he was. And I will never regret walking away from that lie. I feel happy and free again!Mine was so pornsick he could hardly even fuck me. These guys are such trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Would this be considered codependency? If not, what would you call this (assuming there is a word for it)?I would say yes. The fact that she felt bad bc her brother got in trouble for something that wasn’t her responsibility suggests that she seeks external validation from him aka if he’s happy she’s happy, if he’s sad she’s sad. But it could be different for children, she might just be a very empathic and it hurts her to see anyone get in trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 27 | I miss the LVM I was with. I really fucking do. But I really miss the idea of him. He wasn’t who I thought he was. And I will never regret walking away from that lie. I feel happy and free again!When I felt this way I would ask myself “do you actually miss him ? Do you miss the abuse? Gaslighting? Cheating? Lying? ...Do you actually miss all that?” Turns out I only miss the good stuff which occurs 10% of the time, once I remind myself of the 90%, I stop missing him. Make a list of every fucked up thing he’s ever done to you, I promise it’ll be 9x longer than the list of good things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Ty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020So he messaged me back around lunchtime and didn’t say anything about leaving me on read. He just picked up the conversation we were having last night. I feel like this is fine considering we’ve only known each other 2 days....but at the same time something in my heart tells me that a HVM would end the days long worth of messaging with a goodnight, or at the very least acknowledge it the next day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Ladies beware when guys "unexpectedly" cancel dates.Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Talked to this guy on hinge throughout the day yesterday, but last night at 10 pm he left me on read and it felt kinda shitty that he didn’t officially end the conversation with me or say goodnight. I’m assuming he just fell asleep which is fine, but I’m wondering if I’m being overly sensitive? Is this something you ladies would tolerate? Also, if he does get back to me, should I bring it up? If so, how? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 14 | I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength...Good job!!! You will start to feel so amazing soon, you will experience an excitement for life like never before 👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 8 | When they lurk FDS and know all the talking points 😂Guys we need to start changing up our terms regularly to spot the lurkers omg!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Thank you for giving me the strength to leave my marriage. I deserve better.Couldn’t have put it better myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 10 | He's NOT your friend (and likely never was) - any man who gives you creep vibes under the guise of a platonic relationship, especially when you have made your disinterest clear, should be cut out of your life ASAP“Some fuckery is afoot” 😂 love it. Girl! Don’t I KNOW it. These men also LOVE to guilt trip you. They say shit like “you don’t pay attention to me”, “I haven’t seen you in so long, I guess we’re not friends anymore (sad face)”, or “I’ve been your friend for so long, I don’t deserve to be ignored!” all in the hopes that you’ll be hoodwinked into fucking them, and meanwhile they lurk in the shadows. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for giving me the strength to leave my marriage. I deserve better.Truth. LVW think HVM are weak, or pussies, or betas or something. WTF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Thank you for giving me the strength to leave my marriage. I deserve better.I finally “got it” one day too. The older women in my family are all pick me’s, and I came out and told them they could stop asking me “wHeN aRe YoU gEtTiNg mArRiEd” because there was a pretty good chance I may not. Of course they all freaked out and said garbage like “you’re too picky, your standards are too high, you’ll never meet anyone” but that’s the point. ‘I’ll never meet anyone because my standards are too high’ is the problem. It means the number of HVM out there is laughably low, so lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:57 PM |
| 20 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Do FDS ladies hit on men?This makes sense, ofc LVM would respond, what do they have to lose? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Do FDS ladies hit on men?Thank you, great advice. Something about making the first move just felt wrong in my gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | WUT?!What the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 9 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: What Have YOU Personally Done to Be Less Trash At Sex?Teach your friends lol 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 10 | why is fwb and casual sex labeled as a bad thing in FDS?Get an expensive vibrator. It’s less of a headache! | /r/askFDS | 30/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken downFirst of all, love your freaking name 🤣 Ugh I bet that feels gross...while we were dating he took a picture of ours, cropped me out of it, and put it on his tinder to meet women. POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken downI mean if he doesn’t take them down in a few months I’ll most likely do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:05 PM |
| 13 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣Got his doctorate 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken down👍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣Ayyyyyy get it girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣Wow I’m so sorry girl! Best of luck, wish I could help but I don’t know sh*t about cars lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣Yay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣Lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Husbands of Target 🎯 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken downThere is hope yet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken downI will absolutely REFUSE to contact him, so no worries there! I actually don’t have a fb account which is why I can’t just report it, but mainly the reason I want them down is so that if I start dating again, I would feel terrible if the future guy saw those pics and assumed I had relationship baggage/crazy ex drama. But yeah, I guess I should just accept it and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 15 | My NVM ex still has pictures of us on his facebook and I want them taken downGood call, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 84 | And this, ladies, is why education is fundamental, and porn is not educational.😂 my ex said every women he slept with climaxed every time, and all they needed was his pathetic 5” limp dick. Then he went on to correct me that in fact a minority of women need clitoral stimulation, and that I was the black sheep of my gender. 😂😂😂 I laughed SO hard 😂 I told him at a later time that all those women lied to him, and that he couldn’t make a woman climax even if he wanted to. Needless to say he became inflamed and defensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 30 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsDamn! I never watched that show, I had no idea...but it makes sense that other media normalized porn, porn is after all just another form of entertainment. Back in the day men used to be shamed for watching porn, they’d be shunned into dingy theaters with other pervs if they wanted to watch that stuff. But eventually, like with everything else, it became something you could consume in the comfort of your own home....and honestly I can’t blame anyone for that transition. Do you think porn sick in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 113 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsWhy is it that millennial women are subconsciously taught to tolerate this from men? I’ve always known that I’m not ok with it, and that it’s hurtful to me, yet at the same time I’ve got men AND women telling me it’s nothing to worry about. It makes me so very frustrated and also hopeless bc I don’t know a single man my age who doesn’t do this type of thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!Thx girl girl 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Looked up Female Dating Strategy on YouTube and it's all mockery👏🏽👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 38 | For those of us that have been gas lighted, told we are too much or not enough, or called toxic by a man... delete and block him. Learn to vet to avoid more of thisI endured two years of this before I woke up. I felt insane. I was so desperate I even signed myself up for therapy and started doing a bunch of self help because I genuinely believed I had lost touch with reality. I thought I was definitely the crazy one. By chance I was listening to an interview with someone who specializes in NPD and it was like the veil was lifted from his disgusting face. I started to recognize all the gaslighting, future faking, stonewalling, and covert manipulation tactic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | This instagram video is from a biblical/ Christian perspective, but scrotes be scroting and even David was a NVM.The video won't load for me, so I can't watch it unfortunately but I love "scrotes be scrotin" I'm stealing it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 79 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themexactly, I'm not going to enable your ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 24 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for them😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 30 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themBecause I'm not your goddamn mother and you're not 12 years old. Grow up and take responsibility for your own thought life. I have a mere 100 years on this planet and contrary to what men think, they are not at the center of my life. They do not occupy the contents of my mind 24/7, and I certainly am NOT looking for a project. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:04 PM |
| 27 | Every day on relationship_advice...😂🤣 This is actually disgusting. When I was 18 I dated this guy who was 30 and everyone in our lives thought it was so weird but I defended it like tHeY'rE JusT jUdGmEntAl aNd jEaLOuSe...but now I'm like ew what a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Your body goes where your mind goes, you control your emotions, not the other way around, self-responsibility is the key to ultimate happinessI’m sorry you feel that way, you can always dm if you need to talk. I know how rock bottom feels, and I know what it takes to climb out🤍🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 11 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Your body goes where your mind goes, you control your emotions, not the other way around, self-responsibility is the key to ultimate happinessExactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | literally one day since blocking a LVMTy!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Have no wordsYou’re asking us for advice, but you already know what we’re gunna say....if you’re looking for a reason to justify staying you sure as hell won’t find that here, doll. Good luck🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:16 PM |
| 7 | literally one day since blocking a LVM👏🏼 what’s FLUS? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:10 PM |
| 2 | BeardfishingNext time a guy complains about your makeup just offer the alternative of growing out your beard ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:27 AM |
| 7 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.This was so fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:23 AM |
| 50 | They don't even try to hide it anymoreAt least the useless fuck knows its rank | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 118 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!I used to go to a gym exactly like this, then I found out the 3 girls who taught there were all in a polygamous 4-way with the owner of the gym, a self proclaimed pick up artist who would swindle simps for thousands of dollars 😂 I pretty much stopped going there after I realized how brainwashed those girls were | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 16 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themEw, save your running for the gym ladies, never chase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:59 AM |
| 9 | To you who message me warning about FDSBeing lonely and being alone are two completely different things. I’m alone often but I love it, and I don’t feel lonely. These f*cking scrotes are just using petty fear tactics bc they want women to stay with a shitty man for fear of being alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 21 | The suggestion of therapy will feel like an insult until you really sit with this question. So grateful this finally clicked for me😌100% self responsibility. You can’t control what other people do, but you can control whether or not they are allowed to participate in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 6 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!I was supposed to go for a hike with this guy I had been chatting with a few days. He texted me 15 mins before we were supposed to meet and said sorry I slept through my alarm, I can’t make it, can we reschedule to next week...I politely said I’d think about it and then blocked his number lol. There’s no use in arguing with these scrotes b/c no matter how much evidence you provide they will just try to evade personal responsibility. Just do a graceful exit b/c it’s not as toxic to you that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Lol the purple pill is a complete jokeCan someone tell me pls wth this red pill blue pill purple pill stuff is referring too?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerWhen you stay hollow and bitter and resentful, they are still controlling you from afar. It kills them to think that you are free and happy and whole 🌸🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of power👏🏼🌸🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 11 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerDr. Leaf is neuroscientist, she’s been specializing in toxic thoughts for almost 40 years. Listening to her podcasts has completely changed my life. When you own responsibility as an adult (obviously children in abusive situations don’t have a choice), you start to learn how to take back control. And you learn to never give your control away again. I’m not personally responsible for the actions of my abuser, but I was responsible for getting myself out. And it was hard. But it taught me to be in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerThat’s awesome 👏🏼 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerI think part of the “woke” is taking self-responsibility. No one is going to change your mindset besides you. The sooner we accept that, the sooner we can transition from surviving into thriving 😊🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerI’m sorry dear 😞🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 13 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerYou’re welcome🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 61 | Reconceptualizing the traumatic abuse into a source of powerHonor the toxicity you have endured, you are not a broken vessel. When you mend the scars with self-value, control, and mindfulness, your pain has increased your value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | The audacity is astronomical .. Can you say toxic?I had endured this cycle for two years before finally gaining the strength to cut him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Covert misogyny is deeply embedded and can even seem “sweet”Interesting, thanks for your response! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Covert misogyny is deeply embedded and can even seem “sweet”😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 34 | Covert misogyny is deeply embedded and can even seem “sweet”I’m not suggesting this man is misogynistic, I’m suggesting that misogyny is so deeply embedded into our culture that people think it’s totally normal to treat women with respect only because you have one in your life. Like shouldn’t there be a deeper motivation to respect individuals? ...this thread is called cultural misogyny, look at this misogynist. I was hoping to make about regarding how subtle misogyny can be in our culture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 147 | Covert misogyny is deeply embedded and can even seem “sweet”Found this on IG, at first I thought it was sweet, then I realized in fact this is just more covert misogyny. You should respect woman because that is what descent human beings do, not because you have a female figure in your life that motivates you to be nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:18 PM |
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