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| 21 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢So true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 15 | In this society, we are all pickmes by default, we have to unlearn it, and this work is hard. FDS is life outside the caveAnd we shouldn't feel ashamed of acting upon the narrative we were sold. Let's forgive ourselves, and transform this society one woman at the time. Setting an example for future generations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with "asking for things " my whole life if I desire something, I get it myself. If someone is standing next to something I need, I rather get up and walk to get it, I hate asking for things.Thank you for the lovely advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Need advice with "asking for things " my whole life if I desire something, I get it myself. If someone is standing next to something I need, I rather get up and walk to get it, I hate asking for things.You're a great writer. starts to turn into a natural and energizing flow of giving and receiving, rather than the eternal resentment-building one-sided giving and self-sufficiency you've been trapped in. I'm still learning too! Exactly how I feel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 13 | Need advice with "asking for things " my whole life if I desire something, I get it myself. If someone is standing next to something I need, I rather get up and walk to get it, I hate asking for things.Yes, I want to embrace the femininity of receiving. New year's resolution. I guess we just have to begin asking, if they say no its ok. Nothing really changes. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 20 | Need advice with "asking for things " my whole life if I desire something, I get it myself. If someone is standing next to something I need, I rather get up and walk to get it, I hate asking for things.I hope we all realize we are worthy of asking and receiving. First step is to ask... the worst thing is if they say no. Not the end of the world... Tomorrow I'm going to start, and see how it goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 29 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.So true I love the content. I forget what happens behind the curtain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 17 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄The topic is survivors, I know its hard to focus buddy. Those video games and porn have destroyed your brain. But try hard and focus on the topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | No thanks scrote🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | For 3 years I had hope in changing my LV husband. I gave him his last chance 2 months ago and I’m finally leaving.Omg I wish I could hug you tight and welcome you to the sister hood. I am so proud of you!!! This your journey and it has begun, no one to hold you back... The places you'll go!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 107 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .Have you seen women in unhappy relationships? They look old and tired. Being unhappily married ages you so much, is like the husband is a vampire taking his wife's youth. It's so evident... Best skincare tip is staying away from LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:11 PM |
| 15 | Literally the “sex posi” movement in a nutshellSo true! My ex had a fetish with being tied up. He was also anxious/avoidant, and had extreme fear of being caught by police due to his illegal status. He said being tied up felt like being held tight by someone, he also loved controlling people or being controlled. The man had serious psychological issues that will probably never be uncovered. But having a fetish is easier than admitting, that being tied up feels like an embrace, I mean he still talked badly about his mother's lack of physical … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 10 | Yes our society is mysoginistic, and so many individuals are playing their roles to support this narrative. But guess what? You don't have to play this role. You don't have to follow along. When LVM say disgusting things you don't have to nod and smile. You have free will.Synchronizities 🌈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 14 | Yes our society is mysoginistic, and so many individuals are playing their roles to support this narrative. But guess what? You don't have to play this role. You don't have to follow along. When LVM say disgusting things you don't have to nod and smile. You have free will.Amen! I'm so glad you rose to your queen status. It's funny how they react when we return the energy they give us. One time I told my ex to relax, after he had told me the same thing not even an hour before. He was so shocked and appalled to receive the same treatment he gave me. That surprised pikachu face... I can totally relate to your story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 52 | Yes our society is mysoginistic, and so many individuals are playing their roles to support this narrative. But guess what? You don't have to play this role. You don't have to follow along. When LVM say disgusting things you don't have to nod and smile. You have free will.I signed a pact to thrive when I joined FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 14 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herWe know that LVM want a mommy they can also have sex with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 39 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herSo not only is she probably providing, but she's also doing the chores at home... Wow I'm so glad I found FDS... I used to not see a problem with this. I was so blind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.It says a lot about them as people. If someone has a strange harmless hobby, why disrespect it? That says a lot about a person. They are intolerant and rude. I love my cards, crystals, astrology, thankfully I dated some guys who hyped me up for being "unique". I'm also an aquarius so the slightest form of judgement turns me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | LVM Bitching About Paying $20 For A MealLady you need to get out of there and not entertain this clownery. I would have thrown the cash at him and left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 16 | Now we know who to blame... 😂Her facial expression cracks me up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 7 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!Oof you are in for a real treat! I hear she's amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 6 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!I just drove down my street, rolled the windows down and laughed while singing to the radio, then I thanked myself for the amazing company. I fkn love laughing, enjoying myself. It's pure bliss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Another proof you shouldn’t tell men your insecuritiesIt is! Hurt people hurt people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 38 | Another proof you shouldn’t tell men your insecuritiesI got called a pathetic sl*t for posting progress pictures of my weight loss. I felt the sadness eminating from the scrote, he wanted me to hurt like he does. Some people just want to share their emotional state with others, their emotional state is nothing but low frequency emotions. They are so miserable, misery is all they can offer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.So true. Because it's so childish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 12 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Lmao like hunger games/castaway. I'd love to see that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 38 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Such a good point. Some of these people can't even run a mile without dying. But love to talk about themselves as if some premium grade hunters and skilled hut builders. They pick and choose where their "primitive" ideals are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 16 | FDS isn’t about menExactly! It's about being in love with yourself, radiating from within. We could meet the "perfect" man and if we ourselves have issues, the relationship will still fail. This is why I love being single, I can put it the work for myself and evolve. I also love spending time with my friends, I been giving them the attention they have always deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 8 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.Exactly!!! He knew after a year. And still seems to be grateful for her even after a decade! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 7 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.Exactly. It can be corny, but it's sweet to me. Sometimes if they don't post about me, but they have old posts about exes or friends it's shady. If my future husband has social media, I would appreciate him posting on our anniversary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 6 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.No way!!! Ugh some people just can't live without attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 15 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.Yes it's true. You never really know, but I thought it was a cute post. Especially since it follows FDS standards in the sense he proposed to her a year after dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 43 | It’s amazing that so many “red pilled” men think women can’t take accountability for their actions and yet these scrotes can LITERALLY ABANDON CHILDREN and somehow make it women’s fault.Aw I'm sorry. It took me maturing to see the reality. I used to blame my mom for a lot of my issues, until I realized she was the only one who was always there no matter what. Someday I hope I can repay all of the sacrifices she made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 146 | It’s amazing that so many “red pilled” men think women can’t take accountability for their actions and yet these scrotes can LITERALLY ABANDON CHILDREN and somehow make it women’s fault.Don't worry though. The children know, they mature and thank their mother and see how she gave her all. My mom is a literal angel, her conscience is clean, her children adore her. My father, looks 20 years older, has a bunch of medical conditions due to his guilt, and if he died I wouldn't even bother to go to his funeral. Society can spew as much as it wants, at the end of the day, mom has children who absolutely adore her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 36 | Fun fact really sad factWhen you walk out of your marriage without actually leaving it. Yup!!! My ex husband moved states yet never filed for divorce. I had to, he didn't lift a finger, didn't even sign the papers. The only reason I was able to get a divorce was because he got a new girlfriend who contacted me and my bf at the time. She made him get the divorce. He would refuse to contact me, I was desperate to get divorced because we were living in different coasts, he blocked me on every single platform. It was a nig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I literally could only bear tinder for an hour tops. I installed it this morning and yikes. Between the hatfishes, no bio (zero effort whatsoever), and serial killer eyes, I know I'm not going to find what I'm looking for there.Hehe no I saw it here first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 11 | Let it goYes coping strategies and regulating my emotions. These things go hand on hand. Also getting older helped, I know by age 25 our prefrontal cortex is developed. I'm really thankful to be alive honestly, I was so bad to myself, so now I love the contrast. Nothing but love from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:48 PM |
| 19 | Let it goThanks I was literally mentally ill. Took me years of growth and a bachelor's in psychology to see my worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 17 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?She dumped her rapist bf 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 21 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?Every movie or story where women are bitchy to each other are written by men either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 59 | Let it goTrue! I was thinking of hitting up my ex. Then I remembered that for 3 years he didn't get me a birthday present, yet I drove 6 hours to take him to cheesecake factory on his birthday. Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 23 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?I can't find it :/ maybe it got deleted by male moderators on a women's subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | The most popular career for men is...Imagine being so privileged and yet amounting to so little in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 21 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?I'm trying to find it and I can't. I wouldn't be surprised if it got deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 52 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?At least we have women to keep our faith in humanity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:38 PM |
| 55 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?Same. I'm losing hope in them. This is one of the few times where I hope to be wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 164 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?Yup. I'm really losing my hope in men, not humanity, men. If any good men are out there please show yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 39 | Of course the pick me gets upvotes while the WOMAN gets downvoted for acknowledging her worth and stating facts.Reddit is mysoginistic AF! The other day I posted to unpopular opinion, not only did my post didn't make it, it got downvoted! Admin scrote probably looked at my account and got triggered. It's ridiculous! Our duty is to keep doing the work of demanding respect in the real world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:50 AM |
| 14 | I literally could only bear tinder for an hour tops. I installed it this morning and yikes. Between the hatfishes, no bio (zero effort whatsoever), and serial killer eyes, I know I'm not going to find what I'm looking for there.Yes it takes too much time. I knew it was a waste of time because my poor doggies were begging for attention. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 22 | I literally could only bear tinder for an hour tops. I installed it this morning and yikes. Between the hatfishes, no bio (zero effort whatsoever), and serial killer eyes, I know I'm not going to find what I'm looking for there.Exactly! Hat in every single picture, also they're not even 30 what the heck is going on? Nutritional deficiency? Bad genes? All of the above? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | SIS.. trust me when I say absolutely NOBODY wants your LVM. Embarrassing.No one wants your man, not even you want him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020This resonates so much w me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 62 | I only have one question: WHYI always thought it was so disrespectful. I had an ex who would openly talk to his friends about sex stories w other women, while I was there listening. But karma is a beautiful thing, when years later he sends me a picture of himself, says hi. He looked like a skeleton, the cigarettes stained his teeth, his skin too. I deleted and blocked. His mom tells me he still asks about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 88 | When You Try to Help a PickMeI just got flashbacks from an ex pickme friend. She put a restraining order on her ex, he broke into her house wrote his initials on her mirror, took a picture of this and sent it to her. Was abusive in every aspect. Cue to me knowing this, I walk into her house, pictures of them splattered all over the walls. "I thought you guys broke up?", She says "oh we got back together, but don't tell anyone because of the restraining order I could get in trouble"... The she proceeds to bash him for a full… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Makes me laugh now 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Exactly, both parties need to do their part. Good thing we see through their lazy tactics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“Yes, I'm over codependency, it's so cringe. Especially in grown up couples | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 9 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“Same. I need my space. I would love a room to meditate, relax with my dogs, be on my own. My motto for my future partner is "let's be free together" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.Yes I so relate. But I been working on my intuition and following it. She is so loud and sure of herself because I honor and respect her, she knows she is a force of good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Aaand we need to stop saying hi to men... I can't believe they wonder why don't we act friendly.Wow lol that was fun to watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 19 | This thread made me realize how much I have been groomed. I remember this man called «Batmanforever» that wanted to meet me when I was 13 years old. He told me he was 25. Its heartbreaking to read.Yes when I was 15 a man online groomed me to send him pictures, would call me and text me extremely sexual things. Then I found a bf who was 19, he got into my email and saw all these pictures. He printed them and put them all over his room, I was made to be the bad guy. I felt so ashamed by these two grown scrotes. Looking back at it now, it never occurred to me I was the victim, yet these men took advantage of me, and my bf at the time victimized himself, instead of being there for me. I'm so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 94 | Aaand we need to stop saying hi to men... I can't believe they wonder why don't we act friendly.Men should compliment each other since they're always bitching about not getting compliments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 153 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:It's ran by men, like many many subreddits. Sometimes I post on different subreddits and my posts don't go through. I'm guessing scrotes are getting triggered by the truth of FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | What are some girlfriend benefits?-being available any time to text/talk -cooking for them -cleaning for them -sex -affection such as touching, or hugging -getting to know family -posting about each other on social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 4 | I just want to say, I've had male friends pay for me multiple times for my meals/entertainment, because they wanted to. Whether it was gay male friends or straight men who were true gentlemen. They happily wanted to pay, and I didn't even expect them to do this.Never feels transactional, nice said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 14 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂True. I feel the exact same way. You cannot control me unless I let you. Sadly these women have given up their power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 9 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passHypocrite. He wants to be impressed, but can't be bothered to impress the woman. Hypocrisy at it's finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 28 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂It is. We have a huge Hispanic community, but sadly some negative aspects of seeing women as property are prevalent. I'm Hispanic too, but luckily for me I was raised by a single independent mother who never took crap from anyone. I like the fact that the culture is still around, like for example we speak Spanish often and we have the mannerisms, which are respectful. But yeah some old fashioned ways need to be eradicated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 74 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂I know it's crazy. Even more, sometimes they're not allowed to wear makeup or revealing clothes, but then the men cheat with women who dress flashy and wear lots of makeup. It makes no sense to me. My coworker always talks about her body and style as a single woman, as if getting married entails a different identity from her past one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 219 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂Y'all I live in south texas and it's normal here culturally, for husbands to not let their wives go to the gym because there are men there. I know 2 ladies who can't go to the gym, because of their men and I been asked if my husband is ok with me going to the gym. Of course I laughed in his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Guy wouldn’t post selfies, his instagram had no pics??I think it meant that he already had a love interest who wasn't me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 44 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!Yup! It's only empowering to the men, literally gives them power over the women. Ladies please, no amount of money should be worth your dignity. Especially in first world countries, there's so many better ways to earn money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 30 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?Narcissists are always insecure. Not every insecure person is a narcissist, but every narcissist is insecure. My psychology professor made it a point to teach us this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 58 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?I'm sorry you had to put up with that. But your description made me laugh out loud, so creative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 84 | Omg. This is so real it hurts.I'm sorry did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 9 | I did it! I ended things with him! But then I was weak again :(Now It would the time to take responsibility for your emotional state. What will you choose? Use free will wisely, for you know the consequences of each action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 12 | How to still be friends with women who don't follow FDS?I felt in a similar situation, unfortunately I just couldn't align with their behavior. Things like unsafe sexual behavior, like risking her life with a complete stranger. Also taking back exes after a restraining order was set. It really depends on what behavior they exhibit. I just couldn't pretend I was ok with the lack of self respect. Things ended, I just felt like they were purposely hurting themselves, through these horrible men, by choice. I explained FDS but I couldn't save them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 38 | Finally left my LVM bfAww sorry you're going through this. But you need this to become the woman in her full potential. It's going to be hard. But you left him, and now you can move forward. You are so young, have so many great memories to make. We are here for you. Whatever you need, you're not alone many of us have been in your shoes. But we rise and through this contrast, we create life aligned to our true self. You are worthy, you are enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 7 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isMommy buy me mcdonald's and take me to the basketball game mommy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?I thought it was pretty funny and random. But it's been a while since I've watched it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 12 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?Queen energy here. Precise, concise, don't mess with my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Guy wouldn’t post selfies, his instagram had no pics??Omg when I use to date I would always do tarot readings on them. The cards never lied. I got the devil for the man child who tried to pressure me into doing coke. I got the lovers for the loser who talked about his ex on the first date. The cards are so honest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 20 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverIt's true. Wanting something so bad means you are lacking it. So once we stop focusing on the "love" of a man, if you could even call it that, we begin to focus on the love to ourselves. We love ourselves so much with honor and respect, we radiate love from within. I have had people ask me out at work, the store, and I'm not even seeking anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 37 | Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important.No tea no shade, but all my girlfriends make more than their spouses. Not one male spouse surpasses my intelligent female friends. They are also more educated than their significant others. The men have been unemployed multiple times, my girlfriends have never lost a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:05 PM |
| 25 | Men "Going their own way" etc, why are you stalking us so intensely? FDS went private for a short amount of time and all these LVM have nothing to do other than stalking us. May I suggest therapy? Why are you so obsessed with us?Scrotes go away! Get a hobby or something. The reason you don't get dates in real life is because you're boring inside and out. Instead of stalking us do something more fulfilling. Become interesting by picking up a book or something. Seriously, I literally gotten half a dozen DMs until I turned that option off. You scrotes send the dumbest messages too. Thinking I have never gotten laid, a projection for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 78 | Look at those protectors helping her/sImagine being born physically powerful and strong. Actively choosing this trait to intimidate people. It feels like you have no physical escape when a man does this. This is why I don't date super tall guys anymore. A lot of them don't understand how easily their body language can trigger people's fight or flight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | I don't care if I trigger people by my high standards. I'm not here to make you comfortable sweetheart. I'm here to shake the ground. I'm not regurgitating what didn't benefit me. Im done caring about how people are going to react, to me honoring my self? What am I even afraid of?I know. They separate themselves from us. It's like, I'm in this great place and I can help you, but you rather be envious. Not true friends when they don't respect women, or themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:17 AM |
| 9 | Just my HVM and me taking in all the wisdom FDS has to offer 🤩He's a handsome one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | I don't care if I trigger people by my high standards. I'm not here to make you comfortable sweetheart. I'm here to shake the ground. I'm not regurgitating what didn't benefit me. Im done caring about how people are going to react, to me honoring my self? What am I even afraid of?Thank you. It's ok to make others uncomfortable we grow up with these Disney movies, talking about kindness and such. We become too complacent of others needs, but we ignore our needs. It's time to take our power back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 32 | All the money I sent to my NVM ex in 2 months. Green is him. Don’t be a 🤡🤡🤡Yes they are. And they don't even do anything to thank us. They're parasites that sucks and suck. At least when I got money I made the man feel amazing for doing so. All I got when giving out money was requests for more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are disgustingThat's so true! Without a woman to control they have nothing, absolutely nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 29 | Start ostracising men who fail to be decent humans. That’s the only way to make the world safe for girls/women. Don’t excuse friends and family members either.So true. I used to be upset at my mom for leaving our family in south America, my dad, and everyone to come to the United States. But I understand her so much now. She was taking her children away from danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 7 | How Do I level upHey at least you know you hold limiting beliefs. But you also know that you are more than that. You are perfect and worthy. Please know that your mentality of yourself can be changed, you are young. Your glowup is coming, you will be stunt on how much you are going to evolve. Give yourself compassion. I can't do much for you, but let you know I have faith in you and I know you will become the woman you always wanted to be. What traits does she have? What is she like? Dream up of your future self… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:55 PM |
| 22 | How Do I level upIt pains me to see how you see yourself. But this is your journey and it has begun. Your journey of self love and compassion. Please have compassion for yourself you've been through so much. Practice gratitude for yourself, a little self love goes a long way. I would love it if you mentioned 7 positive traits about you. Can you please do that for me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Don’t fall into this trap! This is a great time to work on ourselves instead of desperately looking for any LVM just to be with someone.Glad to know I'm in good company on this frequency. Virtual hugs to you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Ladies: Don’t fall into this trap! This is a great time to work on ourselves instead of desperately looking for any LVM just to be with someone.Can't relate. I'm so connected to source, how can I feel alone? I'm surrounded by amazing friends, supporting family. Dating, especially OLD makes me feel lonely. Being seen as nothing but a hole makes me feel lonely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 55 | Lying Awake At Night After Getting Played for the 12th Time Thinking Maybe Those FDS Bitches Are RightBitches get respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 8 | I was looking through my blocked contacts and I found this gem. 5'7, 40 year old single father... Y'all ever think that because they are old they'll be mature? But it's not the realityYup. We hold old men in a pedestal, as if their age means anything of value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 17 | I was looking through my blocked contacts and I found this gem. 5'7, 40 year old single father... Y'all ever think that because they are old they'll be mature? But it's not the realityI'm thinking they ask for intimate pictures to later extort them if they don't do as they please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:23 PM |
| 32 | I was looking through my blocked contacts and I found this gem. 5'7, 40 year old single father... Y'all ever think that because they are old they'll be mature? But it's not the realityBack in my pick me days, I would mentally tell myself well at least he's nice. Newsflash, they are not even that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:47 PM |
| 83 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.My mom always told me "your career will never abandon you, ever, even if the worst happens in relationships, you can always rely on your career and education" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:39 PM |
| 18 | I was looking through my blocked contacts and I found this gem. 5'7, 40 year old single father... Y'all ever think that because they are old they'll be mature? But it's not the realityLmao I should have done that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:31 PM |
| 51 | Something I madeIt's like saying all lives matter, when someone says black lives matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 56 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.She's icey ❄️ super Zen honestly. Letting them know you're untouchable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 27 | 😘My boss told me I'm getting white hairs, I told him at least I have hair... He's balding of course 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Sent to me from a friend ... a hard pass if I see one 😂Exactly! They moan and complain about their mental issues, that society doesn't care about men. Go to therapy bro! Help yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 30 | It's definitely our fault, huh?🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 43 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?🙋🏽♀️ me! Too many risks too little benefits. Don't get me wrong I love men. From a distance though. 6 ft apart please sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Ladies I messed up. I discovered FDS too late and now I have regrets. How can I overcome these?Babygirl, time machines don't exist. You're good, forgive yourself it's ok. You stopped the nonsense. The shame doesn't get you anywhere. You're a new woman now, a High value woman, don't look back. You're good, you learned and now it's time to move on. Hugs to you. Please forgive that woman that didn't know better, please!!!! We love you and we're here to support you and lift you up ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 34 | Something I've encountered on the apps lately as a 30-something...I met a man who had just turned 40 and wanted kids ASAP. I was 21, and not interested in that. I saw him 4 years later, childless and desperate. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Looking for tips of how to be seen as a high valued womanSo I was having trouble at work. I want respect, I prayed to God to please let my bosses respect me... While meditating, I realized, it doesn't matter if anyone respects me or not. Do I respect myself? Do I value myself? Do I know I'm worthy and enough? If I am, then what does it matter what the outside sees? It has to come from within. If the fire inside you is out, no amount of outside fire will make you feel warm. You have to treat yourself how you want others to treat you. Now my bosses fina… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 19 | I told a guy that messaging a girl on IG (after breaking things off with her on Tinder) is creepy. I am entitled because I THINK that I have an expectation of privacy... This is why men terrify me.It's like talking to a wall. I don't even waste my time anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 15 | I think my boyfriend cheated on me months ago and is still lying about itYou deserve someone who you can trust. Believe me, being single is amazing! It's been 2 years now and I haven't looked back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 7 | “nOt AlL mEN”🙄🙄Funny thing is I was having these thoughts on "not all men" BS. I saw your post and it was the perfect opportunity to share. But for real, being single for the rest of my life looks better than putting up with a energy vampire for eternity. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 18 | “nOt AlL mEN”🙄🙄Not all men. Yet all men say that. Seems like a paradox. Never in my life have I put down a men's experience by saying "not all women". Because I don't get defensive or triggered. If a woman opening up about trauma triggers men to defend themselves, then maybe they should look within and see why it triggers them to get defensive. Let women speak, stop shutting us up, even in safe spaces like these I get DMs... Obviously I turned off the option to receive them. This revolution of women realizing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 20 | The way men cry "NOT ALL MEN" but think its okay to harass a women this way. DisgustingMen, go to therapy. Get help. We help ourselves, do you think people coddle us? No, that's why we get help for ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 61 | Sent to me from a friend ... a hard pass if I see one 😂All I got from him is "Be my stuffed Twinkie, risk pregnancy and STD's because I can't stand myself and need a distraction. You will gain absolutely nothing from this. Ok maybe some trauma 😜" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 7 | A father shouldn’t be praised for parenting his own childrenLadies be careful who you let inside of you! I rather be childless my whole life, than be a single mom with a deadbeat dad. If you want children from me, prove you're a provider, not a sociopath who thinks children ought to grow up without a father, and wake up to help with the kids because they have sympathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 40 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30Everyone who has bragged to me about their high sex drive, or libido is just 🤮. Something so personal shouldn't be discussed so openly, especially if I don't even know the person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 24 | Is this a red flag?Intuition gets louder the more we listen to her. Your intuition is obviously telling you something is off. Listen to it, honor it and trust your gut feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 35 | Tried to have an open conversation about our relationship 😬 yikesI hate with a passion when men speak on my behalf. Are you psychic now? You read minds? Speak on behalf of yourself, what your emotions are. Don't be putting words in my mouth. It shows real maturity for a person to speak on their emotions, obviously it's way easier to blame others and victimize themselves. Ugh this reminds me so much of my ex. He loved to speak on my behalf and my damaging behavior. Yet he wasn't capable of speaking about himself, because pointing a finger is easier than admitt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Becoming weak againDon't force it! That's my motto. If it flows it flows, if it doesn't it ain't for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 24 | Does anyone else get sick of men telling them to smile more?I'm the same way. I just don't like to fake smile, because of wrinkles. Trust me I'll be grinning from ear to ear if I'm having a good time. Honestly last time someone told me to smile I told them " tell me a joke! Come on... I'm waiting".... They didn't say anything I kept pestering them. "Come on don't be shy... Just tell me a joke, I'm waiting"... They got very uncomfortable, after that no one has told me to "smile" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Online dating profile, what would you write?Mmm.... I like to do 2 truths and a lie. To get the conversation going, and that way they also reveal information. I personally don't like the other half saying, but that's because I read a book and it said, you're not a half you are a whole person. But I do hope you find someone nice. I been putting off online dating, but I'm curious sometimes, I want to see what's out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 28 | Women I don’t know have little to no reasons to have a hidden agendaI love complimenting girls, their reactions are sooo genuine. They have put their hands on their cheeks while laughing and smiled quietly for a few seconds. All because I complimented their voice, and the second one was telling this girl she must be 23 because her skin is flawless, she was 29 and needed a few seconds to herself so she could smile after my compliment. So cute. With men, they just want more compliments or they ask me "are you sure" repeatedly, thinking I'm a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.That's how I feel. But they're just really critical to each other too. I honestly think it's how they normally deal with people. I mean they have their nice moments. But holy Jesus, do people act just like their families. The thing is their in a position of power, so now I just have to deal with conflict by quitting. Which I hate lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Thank you so much! Yes honestly I know I deserve better. I'm going to the VA to talk to them about jobs I'm sure they'll help me out ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Thank you, thank you! You are so right, very encouraging ❤️ I'm already looking for other jobs. Things are looking up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 6 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.What my ex got me the job too. We are the same person!!! I'm glad that things turned out for the better. Yeah after being in the military, I honestly don't put up with any disrespect, I physically can't. No to toxic forever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 16 | Pay attention to your body.Thank you. Yes we need to honor our intuition, the more we hear it the louder it gets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Thank you. Thank you so much for your words, and your genuine sympathy. I believe every word you say, I do hope they choke on their spit. I'm their only employee so I cannot wait to know they will be desperate, looking for someone to do what they cannot do. Yes, I felt so bad for that woman enabling that behavior. I hope you have a good day, you Def cheered me up and made me feel supported | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 3 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Aw, I'm sorry. No one should be disrespected at their work. Especially if you are doing your best, I know how you feel when people are extremely critical. Yes healthcare is tricky. I've met angels and demons in that field. You never know who you'll be around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Thank you. I'm sorry about how they made you feel. I'm glad you got out. Yes being talked about, in such a low value, when you know who you are. Because you worked for the respect you know you deserve. I'm glad you taught them a lesson. I definitely don't feel alone when you share your story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Yes! You are so right. I am in such a good place, emotionally and spirituality. I'm not going to allow complete strangers to belittle me, or even think that it's ok to treat anyone like this. Yesterday I learned that my boss would make the previous worker cry. He thought it was funny, she would ask him "why don't you like me"... Yeah I'm out. And you're right about us normalizing this by staying. So I'm out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 15 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Omg yes they talk about me too. They tell customers I smoke weed and smoke crack. They don't even call me by my name, the call me by the last employee's name I have no idea why anyone thinks that's ok. I also worked there for 2 months. I do feel small working there, sometimes when I throw out the trash from their desk, they won't even move their leg so I can do my job. I literally have to touch their legs (owner and owners son) to do my job. It's degrading. Thank you for letting me know I'm doin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:44 PM |
| 12 | I'm finally quitting my job with my disrespectful bosses. They've told me I don't know anything, I'm always messing up, make me clean their trash, wash their dishes. Talk about my personal life to customers and yell at me even when I'm doing the job right. I don't do toxic anymore.Now yeah I have other places I previously applied asking for interviews so I have a backup. Also I want to use my degree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 12 | Being here is deep. It has changed everything. I am worthy. In every sense of the way. Not just in relationships. I am worthy at work, with friends, with strangers, with anyone.You're so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 17 | Being here is deep. It has changed everything. I am worthy. In every sense of the way. Not just in relationships. I am worthy at work, with friends, with strangers, with anyone.A fellow queen who understands ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Asking men how tall they are before agreeing to a date?Yup! 150 pounds can be me overweight, or it can also be me being muscular. Weight is so different from height. I know people who weight 160 pounds and have a tinier waist than someone who is 120 pounds. You obviously explained it the best way possible. I'm just glad to find a group of other ladies who back me up, and are geniuses, writing down exactly what I was feeling. Seriously, I can write one sentence and one of you Goddesses will create paragraphs of relevant information, cited sources and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 44 | Asking men how tall they are before agreeing to a date?I just ask. "Hey so how tall are you"... Most men answer, and the ones who ask about my weight in return, I tell them. Then I ask for their weight. Then I block them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Reasons to vet before sex with a man 🤢🤢🤢Lmao their little minds and the way it works is hilarious to me. But yes as the other comments suggest, they should just have sex with each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Are there any FDS approved podcast?Same with shallon. She can be problematic but she's hilarious. Especially when she talks like a man... I can't explain it but it makes me laugh so hard because it's so accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 134 | Bonus points for the colourful languageThey want a wifey... But we want husbands too. You want me to do my role then do yours. Inspire me. If you think I'm going to show off to you, you better have something to bring. We coddle men to the point where they have absolutely zero to offer, yet we're supposed to bend over backwards to get noticed... Nah I'm playing the game differently now. I want different results | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 7 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?just...making shit up then labelling it "tradition," "nature," and "biology" with unearned authority. and women fall for it. the male and female brains r not different (is gender not a construct??), it's the conditioning each gender receives that is. Wow you just shook my mind. That is so true. I hope everyone sees this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 46 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Stay away from shrek. Tell him if he wants a piece of ass to go look for Donkey! 😂😂😂 I laughed so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 82 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?You look like a living tree stump, you don't get to have high standards. If you were really that visual you'd get corrective facial surgery. Get real" 😂 A living tree stump, I'll remember that one forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 34 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Preach!!! 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 48 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?You're hilarious. I'm probably going to use that line next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 44 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Yes, the amount of men I know who don't groom, not even trim their beards... You make such a good point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 162 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Yes! My boss wears fishing clothes every single day, yet he wanted to comment on my sandals. I'm not taking fashion advice from someone who dresses like a toddler 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.Thank you 🌹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 213 | This girl is about to become a forever girlfriend and the commenters are telling her to CoMmUnIcAtE. Waiting 5+ years before talking about marriage? No thanks.My crystal ball says he never proposes, she leaves him and he goes on for the rest of his life moaning how he was left by her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.Exactly! You stated the truth and nothing but the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 20 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!Wtf! The nerve, the audacity! I'm glad you still took off your jacket | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:08 PM |
| 37 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 41 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.Oh I have a libido! I just get off in ways that don't involve a man. I know it's crazy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 8 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.What kind of house would you like to have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 32 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.I know! I just stare at them and don't say anything back. I love an awkward silence. I work retail so thankfully the people have to keep it moving, because there are other customers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 32 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.Thank you! It's easier than I thought it would be 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 7 | I've noticed something and statistics prove me right.Well it's just statistics, from what I learned. She didn't give us actual reasons as to why women become more open to women. But I'm sure we can come up with reasons: women age better, the older we get the less we care about others opinions so dating the same sex is not such a big deal, most women had abusive relationships with men, to the point of deeming the whole gender unattractive. I wished she had elaborated more, but we just learned the facts, which is still so interesting to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 42 | You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested.Aw I love the idea of a little ceremony. I used to be very promiscuous and it left me hollow, exactly how you describe it. I was celibate for a year, hooked up with a NVM who ghosted me (obviously came crawling back later) and realized, who am I giving myself to and for what? Now it's been 2 years of celibacy and I don't miss dick at all. Mind you I do satisfy my needs... I'm glad that I'm not the only one who feels powerful in her sexuality, without needing to give myself to anyone. Thank you f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 41 | You Aren't Being Kind When You Mother HimSo true. If he's not the man I want, then he's not the man I want. I cannot change him, cannot force him to get educated, workout, meditate, or do anything that I see as living to one's potential. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 39 | Having a deadbeat father does not negate the fact that a mother may feel bitter from experiencing a LVM's incompetence, negligence, mistreatment, and disrespect for fulfilling their fatherly duties. Instead, it's easier to play victim and feed into the "toxic angry ex bitter mother trope"....Of course mom was bitter. She had to work full time, take care of the home, and raise the kids. While dad is away living his life. But now mom is not bitter anymore, the kids are grown and she has a clean conscience. Dad is deciding to come back, because he too has a conscience, but his kids do not care about him, never will. Dad looks 20 years older, because all these years he realizes he's a POS. Mom looks young, happy and full of life, because she never abandoned her children, and they have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Online Dating Apps are a cesspool full of LVMI'm so glad you can relate 🌹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 15 | Online Dating Apps are a cesspool full of LVMYes, I don't do it because I know it lowers my vibration. They don't take it as seriously as we do, and a lot of the time we get our hopes up, for disappointment. I been curious about dating apps, I'm not going to lie, but something keeps me from downloading them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 9 | Dumped.. 😞Hey the best part of this is recognizing how it is not in alignment with you anymore. Like a radio station, your frequency has now changed. Not only are you in a different frequency, you will also attract others who are in higher frequencies. It's never too late. Keep purging all this pain, it is a process. I'm on the same page as you, I'm not interested in men or dating. I just use my time to work on myself, and attract someone similar, but I'm not looking or putting energy in looking. Just for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 40 | I've noticed something and statistics prove me right.My humanities professor, made it a point to let us know the older women get, the more chances they have of being attracted to other women. She even made it a question on the final. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 5 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"That's so accurate. I never understood this because I don't have a problem leaving men. But I know there's women who been raised, with the mentality that a relationship is forever, they must stay no matter what. You make such a good point, sabotaging through cheating, because they don't see any other way out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Sorry, I'm on a low carb diet, I don't need your breadcrumbs!I love it! It really works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 27 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"My friend got cheated on. He was a heroin addict, spent all their money on drugs. Lied to her about it for 3 years. He came crying to me, she cheated on him. But honestly I don't even know why she stayed married to him, he literally got himself on debt thousands and thousands, all for drugs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Cue the “nOt aLL mEn” replies 🤪So true. I never get upset when men complain about cheating, "gold diggers", etc. Because it has nothing to do with me. Yet it triggers them, because many identify with the topics we expose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 9 | NVM expects me to drive 8 hours to hang, proceeds to neg me..Lmao yet we're the ones asking for too much. Sure Jan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 9 | Just say you are broke and go. 🥱Of course! I been the main provider in all my past relationships. Never have I dated someone who has made more than me. So now I want to know how it feels to be on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 74 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.He offers the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:38 PM |
| 70 | Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan!Exactly! And anyone so paranoid of love from others will never be able to love someone else. Zero emotional maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:33 PM |
| 161 | "yOu'Re nOT LiKe oThEr GiRLs"A father of 2 little girls told me this at the gym, because of my tattoos. He thought it was a compliment, I thought why is he talking to me, I have my headphones on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 13 | This is so terrible. Props to sis tho💅🏾✨My ex husband served me raw chicken once, it was his first time cooking for me... It was pink and cold in the inside. I spat it out. Second time we bought expensive lobster, he also undercooked it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 28 | "That's it?" I thought instantly when I got in bed the first time with my ex and he removed his pants. I wanted to stop instantly but didn't want to offend him. How to tactfully handle getting in bed with a guy but he instantly does not have what you want (particularly in the length department)?I agree! I been with smaller guys and they really try... Take their time and don't rely on just penetration.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Today I saw my ex had moved on. It hurt. So I wrote a letter to myself. A reminder when I get in my feelings.Wise, mature, and emotional stable. You are such a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:56 PM |
| 26 | If men don’t have anything to offer, they have the audacity.They're literal energy vampires. Let me take your freedom and peace and in return I'll traumatize you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 64 | I have no words.Meanwhile he's a solid 3, balding and looks pregnant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 9 | When someone shows you who they are the first time and all signs point to him being a LVM, don't let emotions dictate your logic and Queen energy. Walk away with grace and don't engage. He knows what he did and he thought he could get away with it, but that's not who you are anymore! <3Exactly! Yesterday I learned to just be uncomfortable for a bit, and not go out reaching for outside influences. Just ride the wave. Funny you mentioned tools, because the podcast I heard was especially talking about tools. Synchronizations ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 35 | When someone shows you who they are the first time and all signs point to him being a LVM, don't let emotions dictate your logic and Queen energy. Walk away with grace and don't engage. He knows what he did and he thought he could get away with it, but that's not who you are anymore! <3This is handy for my sobriety too. I always have a choice, always. No one, nothing can take my energy, unless I allow it to happen. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | This couple (man is a senator in México) the husband says in a IG live video: "you are showing too much leg" I translate the rest in commentsHe married an influencer and wants her to not show her leg? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 254 | Do they really like women?That's my go to for men who hate on women. I tell them if you hate us so much, date a dude we don't judge it's 2020. Shuts them up really quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchYou're an amazing writer. Please keep sharing your wisdom with us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 21 | Women aren't "making men feel special" anymore because we're tired of so many men not meeting our standards for even being a basic decent human being. I'd much rather make myself feel special than a man who thinks I owe him anything for existing and wants me to inflate his ego even bigger than it isMake yourself special! Get a degree, go to the gym, wash your face, meditate, Read a book. Nothing attractive about a person who puts zero effort on themselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 60 | Ladies, I just wanted to share my recent victory.I'm glad you let him know he's a POS. It's ridiculous how we get mistreated and how they suddenly have a conscience when we manage to escape the abuse. Exes always come back and always feel sorry. They know they will never find someone like us, because we were a special kind of stupid giving and giving but never receiving. I'm glad I see my value now, literally every ex has sent me a similar message like the one you received. I'm sure they must feel stupid now, life was probably easier with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:57 PM |
| 10 | How to heal and forgive yourself for being a pickmeisha 😭I would say maybe think of the qualities you would like to have: confident, beautiful, kind, smart, funny, successful, ambitious, worthy. You have to look at the future and build the best version of yourself. Your past does not define your future. Forgive yourself, imagine you are hugging a child version of yourself, what you would tell her, inner child meditation is really helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 15 | Always about them 🙄🙄🙄Hey men! Maybe this is your chance to help him out! You can donate yourself if you are so concerned. There's many organizations that will take your $. Maybe ask celebrity men to help, I promise they have plenty of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 10 | If I could slap my past pick me self...It was just a moment of weakness... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | A man that respects me financially!Yay! That's great news and inspiring! I had similar issues with finances, so I'm glad successful men do exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 13 | My LVM ex lied about his SAT score being higher than mineMen just have to compare themselves to others. Idk why, I guess it's insecurities. I had similar things happen, when I was getting my degree in psychology I would have men tell me they were also studying psychology, through "books". I thought it was cool, but it's definitely not the same. I also has guys talk about their non existent military knowledge from "books", I'm a veteran, and these men will talk over me on military knowledge... It's funny to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backSo true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 44 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backYes! I had a pickmeisha ex friend who made a lengthy post how her household doesn't celebrate Valentine's day, because love should be celebrated everyday. But the thing is, chocolates cost no more than $5 her man literally cannot spend $5 on her. He's also 20 years older than her. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone, and tricking myself to writing a whole paragraph to make myself believe I am not worthy of a valentine gift. Same guy who cut off the heater in winter time, because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 13 | Thanks FDS for having a platform to explain & call out PickMe behaviorGood thing you didn't have sex with him! Maybe he's emotionally avoidant? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 16 | Stay safe girls. This is so sad!Something like this happened in my city. A woman declined an invitation for a drink, the scrote went to his car, got a knife and sliced her face. She survived but needed intensive surgery to fix her face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 9 | Why do people think that FDS means that we hate men?Because it makes them hate themselves for being such pieces of 💩 because the things we post are true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 7 | He wants her to wear a bra because it makes HIM uncomfortable! 🤣🤣🤣Hey buddy! Control yourself, not others. If it bothers you close your eyes then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 12 | How to bring up height without seeming shallow?Yes. Ask. If they throw a fit even better, you don't waste your time with an immature person. If he tells you straight up, maybe he's confident or lying about it too. Guys literally put "looking for blue eyed 5'5 brunette, dimples and DD cups" it's ok for us to have certain standards too. Don't be shy about expressing your interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Thought my ex's planned a reunion or something... 🤡Funny cuz my ex worked in a circus lol. 🎪🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 20 | Dude you’re not getting dates because you’re an asshole, not because you’re shortOof that was a harsh truth. I wish men knew this. It's not your bad looks that turn us off, it's your shit personality, lack of compassion and inability to be interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 9 | Why do men expect women to take equal responsibility for violence, pedophilia, and rape despite glaring statistics showing otherwise? I'm so sick of ITs NOt aLL mEN. The overwhelming majority committing these crimes are men. Are they just delusional???Yes today I got a DM I wanted to reply. But I know that they are not ready for any sort of decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 21 | Why do men expect women to take equal responsibility for violence, pedophilia, and rape despite glaring statistics showing otherwise? I'm so sick of ITs NOt aLL mEN. The overwhelming majority committing these crimes are men. Are they just delusional???I don't even engage with scrotes. It's like talking to a wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:12 AM |
| 115 | Married pick me mom friend said the part above the original post...no wonder she’s settling for her LVM husband🤢Women like that scare the crap out of me. Because i can sense they're lying to themselves. They are miserable, no one can go like this without a mental breakdown at some point. I don't care what people think women are supposed to do, but my existence is not to ease yours. I'm not here to make your life better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:10 AM |
| 16 | Sisters, I recommend reflecting on how far you’ve come in your journey from being a Pickme to the Queen you are now. It’s very empowering!Aw I'm glad everything worked out for the better. I feel you. Today I remember all the amazing things I did for him. Especially on birthdays and to know it was never reciprocated. I truly hope they get someone exactly like them, so they know how it feels to love them 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Why are strip clubs the norm?I don't pay attention to those men. I'm not dating someone who's paying another woman's bills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I know I'm being extremely positive... But I hope someday we all find that person, and we'll think "wow that was worth the wait"I felt this. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD?Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 58 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.That video too, so disgusting! I feel bad for her though, shows you money can't buy confidence and self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:50 PM |
| 11 | Freudian F*ckboy Wants a Plant Mommy to “nurture” him 🤢Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 260 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.And Kevin Hart's wife was pregnant too! Literally the worst time to stress a woman out. He literally stressed his child before they made it out the womb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Should I tell a female acquaintance she should stop being a pick-me?You can be an example to follow, or just talk to her about this subreddit. I wouldn't tell someone they're a pick-me because they might get insulted. But I noticed with my girlfriends, we really can influence one another. Just plant the seed of FDS and if it's meant to be, her curiosity will lead her here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Vent/rant/IDKAw I'm sorry. Have you talked to him about this? It's really not fair that you do most of the household duties while working 10 hours! Seems like he got too comfortable with you taking care of him. You probably feel unappreciated, I would feel the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Ideas for high value hobbiesSo true. I love to sing, even if only my dogs have the "privilege" of hearing me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | I know I'm being extremely positive... But I hope someday we all find that person, and we'll think "wow that was worth the wait"Exactly! Where the mind goes the energy follows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I know I'm being extremely positive... But I hope someday we all find that person, and we'll think "wow that was worth the wait"Yes!!!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | All those times we felt we were not enough. It wasn't that, it's just that people were too blind to see our worth. Now I can see, I am worthy of love and respect. I am worthy of happiness, joy and peace.Hey, if you feel like that would help then make your own post about it. Maybe that way you feel like you're helping someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | No you don’t need closure, there’s nothing to talk about. CUT that LVM out your life now!Yes. Our bodies literally sense danger and wants us out of there. I used to think it was "chemistry" but now that I'm in a better place, I can see that it's not a good feeling at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | All those times we felt we were not enough. It wasn't that, it's just that people were too blind to see our worth. Now I can see, I am worthy of love and respect. I am worthy of happiness, joy and peace.How do I do this? I know what it is but I've never gone into depth with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendGood! You already know how to adult, teach them a valuable lesson, and stop being their mother. The only people who deserve this kind of support are children if you ever want to, or pets. Anyone else can take care of themselves. You are strong and you deserve peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 9 | Found some more clownery on insta. Most of the comments chewed him out except for the ones I circled.Small dick energy!!! Lmao I'm going to start using this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 19 | No you don’t need closure, there’s nothing to talk about. CUT that LVM out your life now!Yes! I don't want to have a conversation with him because he triggers me. My body goes to flight or fight right away, he is filled with anxiety and fears and I can feel it. Thank you. My ex has been baiting me, goes to my job and uses his dog to get my attention. I cannot wait to move to grad school next year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 12 | Remember a couple of months ago when everyone was freaking out about the loss of access to toilet paper (that never happened)?So true! Made me laugh ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:51 PM |
| 15 | Y'all ever wonder about the HVM you let go because you were so fucked up from dating LVMs?Also the drinks after were my idea. He was even hesitant to do that. God do I hope to meet a man like that again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 19 | Y'all ever wonder about the HVM you let go because you were so fucked up from dating LVMs?Yes. One time I met a HVM. Took me to fancy dinner, a play and fancy drinks after. I messed it up by sleeping with him after that. He even let me know he wasn't looking into hooking up so fast, but obviously I didn't listen to him. I thought he was just playing. I thought he was boring so I never got together again. He was in his 40's too, you could tell he was ready to settle. I was not ready for that. I'm glad that I know those HVM do exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 18 | You might think you are being kind, loving, and patient when you do nice things for your man. The LVM probably just thinks you're a dumbass and a sucker.Great post and all truths! We are collectively increasing our value and I'm glad to be on this journey together ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Ladies beware when guys "unexpectedly" cancel dates.Self sabotaging dates because they know they have nothing to offer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 17 | Daddy issues, how it affected you. The thing about family is they set the tone for what's FAMILiar, so we unconsciously gravitate towards that "comfort". Like when I was a kid, I could watch the same movie over and over and never be bored. What was familiar to you? How did it affect you?It's an ever going journey. But when you're ready to date again you'll know. I'm not ready either. I'm 26 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 11 | Wow it seems like I lost all my fucks to give... I look and look and I can't find them. I must have used all of them and ran out. I literally cannot find one fuck to give.Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | "selfless serving is masculinity, appreciation for the female energy increases testosterone" "fulfilling needs of others raises testosterone". John GrayHonestly I posted this because what I got out was, men feel good and worthy when satisfying our needs if they're in tune with themselves. But I can see how the message can be taken differently. By the other comments the guy has some negative reviews. These are good questions, great points but I'm not qualified or even knowledgeable enough to answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 57 | Love this!!!!!!! No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.Glowup goals!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 20 | Pickmeisha attitudes can destroy friendshipsShe sounds insecure. Which makes sense because every narcissist is highly insecure. A saying I love is "a lion doesn't have to say it's a lion" meaning, if you are beautiful or whatever trait you truly have. You don't have to tell people, because they should notice it by looking at you. You don't have to explain anything, because it's your essence. Also pickmeishas are misogynistic AF. They hate women and disrespect them, because it's how they treat themselves. They're very sexist and do not kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | "selfless serving is masculinity, appreciation for the female energy increases testosterone" "fulfilling needs of others raises testosterone". John GraySee I didn't read the book so I can't say much. But the podcast I heard was a few years old so maybe he's expanded his views. But from what I heard he was pretty succinct on letting women know, we have reasoning behind the romance, financial support and non sexual touch we crave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 7 | So much this!I really just want to be free with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | This video talks about how long the bar is for men, and how we need to set standards. She said something like" I have a car, a job, and my own place, does that make me a good man?"Yes! She preaches to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | This video talks about how long the bar is for men, and how we need to set standards. She said something like" I have a car, a job, and my own place, does that make me a good man?"She's amazing! Do you listen to other YouTubers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | This video talks about how long the bar is for men, and how we need to set standards. She said something like" I have a car, a job, and my own place, does that make me a good man?"I watched it twice today. It's actually pretty positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | This video talks about how long the bar is for men, and how we need to set standards. She said something like" I have a car, a job, and my own place, does that make me a good man?"Oh yes she's hilarious!!! I listen to her at work and have to make an effort not to cackle at loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 13 | Another guy who has never heard of dinnerYes. Things I've heard on first dates: "your too pretty for me" which sounds insecure AF, like he'd want me to dress down. "I'm crazy" , "it's hard to get to know me"... Honestly most men, they are straight up, we just ignore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 64 | Another guy who has never heard of dinnerRed flag saying he's pretty weird. I've learned that guys will warn you right away who they are. He wants you to know right away that he'll make you uncomfortable. I'm serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 67 | I cackled 😂😂😂Eeww the other day I got a Snapchat memory from 3 years ago. It was me and my ex, he was taking me to burger King and my quote was " how he spoils me 😍" ... 🤮 I was such a pick me... Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Stopping trauma bonding. We get so attached to our trauma, we think it's part of our identity. Once we shed this layer, we will not have a lot of common with those who bonded over our traumas.Exactly! I think it's ok to share, but we just need to be patient as to when. If they stick with us long enough, then they get to know all our secrets. The good and the bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Stopping trauma bonding. We get so attached to our trauma, we think it's part of our identity. Once we shed this layer, we will not have a lot of common with those who bonded over our traumas.I'm so glad! We deserve to be happy and at peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Stopping trauma bonding. We get so attached to our trauma, we think it's part of our identity. Once we shed this layer, we will not have a lot of common with those who bonded over our traumas.Thank you. I look forward to the day of doing healthy activities together with my significant other. My first marriage was junkie love. All we had in common was our love for drugs, drugs I don't even want to type. But I have faith in myself and my ability to attract a healthy relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Poor guysUgh I'm glad you realized that wasn't benefitting you. What made you stop though? Not judging just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:37 AM |
| 62 | Poor guysExactly dad bods with no children. The only time I see people using mom body, is when referring to mommy makeover. They praise their poor diets, while we shame our bodies after giving life. The double standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 14 | Height is a flaw “in the eyes of women.” Nah, being a scrote who speaks for all of us does that. 🙄😓Me to men: "do you believe in psychics" them: "no I don't they're a scam" me: "then why TF do you pretend to be able to read women's mind?" . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowYes purge it all out. We're here to help. And I'm glad you are taking the road of healing. We're ending all those negative cycles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 32 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowAw I'm sorry. You were just a girl looking for love, and someone took advantage of that vulnerability. It's sad how out of reality these people can be. They don't have the emotional capacity to sympathize. Good thing he's out of your life, and now you know you deserve nothing but the very best! I hope you are healing through the abuse. That's all that I want. For all of us to heal and live the life we deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowYes! I know how you feel I felt the same way. Now it's time to make good memories, we experienced the contrast of the goodness is about to arrive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 114 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowYes ma'am. But we made it easy for them to love us. Thank God we got out of those relationshits. Last time he sent me a selfie, on my birthday, and does it really show how the body decays if it's not cared for. I never replied, just blocked. He still asks his mom about me, because me and her are friends on Facebook. I heard once "If you only have good memories of the relationship, you were probably the shitty partner". So relatable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 350 | Fuckboys think bare minimum acknowledgment that they’re FOS makes them a good person somehowI had an ex tell me," idk why you think our relationship was that bad, I have pretty good memories of it". Of course he did I was nice and respectful, he was a pain in the ass. But it's ok, I'm thriving, educated and I give all this love to myself, none of it ever goes to waste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 32 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usThat's why it's important to parent ourselves. It's not easy, but it's a very healthy thing to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.Wow, a gift in itself! The trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 26 | Gaslighting: Table for 3Wow this is gold! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 9 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.I can agree with you on not feeling lonely anymore. It's like we used to get our heat from outsiders, but now the heat is coming from within, so we're always feeling warm. I'm sorry about your mom, but I'm glad you see it's not healthy, and you honor yourself. And please share everything, I can tell by your reply that you are extremely wise. Please please share it, I am very curious about this DEARMAN technique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 14 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.Yes it's so easy and it's so easy to spot it too. We don't even entertain it anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.Your positive energy is a gift to those who deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:28 PM |
| 9 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.I like that term "upward spiral". First time hearing it, I can feel the momentum of it spiraling up. Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Yes if they can commit to that, they can commit to you. And if they work out, they probably eat healthy, and have more stamina. I'm with you on that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:22 AM |
| 3 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?I like those traits also. A lot of relationships on my behalf failed because we went separate ways, aka me working on myself like going to therapy, and they wanted to stay the same. So it's important to be with someone who will grow with you, even inspire us to grow with them. Self improvement will always be attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 4 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Yes kind and compassion are very important, especially for those like me who would someday like to start a family. We need compassion and kind fathers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:06 AM |
| 5 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Being considerate is a great one, someone who puts themselves in your shoes and makes an effort to keep the harmony. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 2 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?You should write a list! When you write something it comes to life. I purposely did this post so I can add more qualities to my list 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?I love all of these. I like how it's formatted as a list too. May I suggest using positives only (sorry if I'm coming off as giving unsolicited advice) . For example instead of not abusive, we can say respectful and kind. Or not addicted to porn, could be a healthy, amazing sexual relationship. Of course is easier to think of what we do not want, because we've been exposed to it. Yes, a girl can dream, but out of 7 billion people there has to be someone for everyone. You deserve the best, if you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Initiative is a great one. Imagine a man who takes initiative, at the home, will start cleaning without us having to "nag". Knows what needs to get done right away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 5 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Yes I think a man with abundance shows he is great at manifesting. Polite is important too, respectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 7 | I see no liesSo exactly my point. We're doing 100 of the birthing therefore we expect them to be 100 involved, wether is providing, or anything else we ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | I see no liesTo me it's 100/100 I do my part all the way, and you do yours all the way. If you see me struggling of course help me out, take initiative. A smart man knows if he helps out, or takes initiative, then the woman will have more energy for intimacy. If I'm cooking I'm going all in, but I expect you to be the same way. Both committed into what we bring in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 91 | Thought this was a joke at first, but there are legitimately lvm in the comments complaining about having to propose? It's a privilege! I'm just at a loss for words.And when he cheats on her he gets to say " I didn't even want you anyways" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 42 | Be extremely careful who you have children with! I can’t believe she’s still asking for advice on how to fix the relationshipYes... The amount of crap my friends put up with. Court fees, having their man pay child support, putting up with the hatred from kids. My friends stepdaughter said to her "idk why my mom hates you, because I don't want to hate you"... That's a lot of turmoil for little or no benefits to her. The relationship didn't even last either way. It's way too much responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Had a chuckle seeing FDS listed as a female incel subI know! Seriously, don't want to toot my own horn, and I'm sure you agree with me. But most of us if not all, are drop dead gorgeous. My life has been over saturated with men, to the point where I have to ignore their existence for peace. But they wouldn't understand, because it will never happen to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Had a chuckle seeing FDS listed as a female incel subLmao, if they only knew!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 79 | Be extremely careful who you have children with! I can’t believe she’s still asking for advice on how to fix the relationshipOof I feel for her. But I'm thankful I will see red flags. and if I'm with a man it's going to be a loooong time for sex. Also to me, baby mama drama is something that never ends. So we must be extremely careful when dating men with kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I don't believe in equality between men and women. Equality is limiting to us, I aspire to be greater than them.We should! Even if it's posting flowers some of my fellow women receive. It really changes the outlook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe in equality between men and women. Equality is limiting to us, I aspire to be greater than them.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 7 | I don't believe in equality between men and women. Equality is limiting to us, I aspire to be greater than them.That's true. They can do better, but it's something the person themselves has to choose. I see so much LVM content here, sometimes I lose hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe in equality between men and women. Equality is limiting to us, I aspire to be greater than them.I respect the need for feminists in regards to equal rights. Women were property, and still are in many places. But let's acknowledge we have gained momentum for our own success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 21 | Does He Love YOU, or Does He Love What You Do For Him?Oh yes trust me someday she'll see the truth. I am Hispanic also, and the area where I live is prominently Hispanic. The other day, my mom's co-worker gave me a ride. A beautiful woman in her late fifties, she was telling me how much happier she is being single. She said her ex husband, wanted home cooked tortillas every morning. This lady not only was caring for the household and children (6 kids), she worked full time. She happened to buy tortillas from the store, and he told her she was being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Remember this post every single time a man complains that his ex/current wife/girlfriend refuses to have sex with him. Makes me wonder how many posts on r/ deadbedrooms are from the perspective of the abuser. No, she's not "asexual" or inherently "low libido", he's probably just an asshole.Yes! My libido shut down too. But I see it as a blessing, because I'm not out there risking pregnancy or STDs. There's some really attractive men at the gym, but they're so vain it's unattractive. They make poses on the mirror and lift their shirts and shorts while flexing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 32 | Stay lowkey and then pop out. Have them like since whennnnMy goal!!! I'm applying to grad school for next year. That is my biggest glow up plan! 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Lol aww thank you! You made my day 🌻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:41 AM |
| 34 | How direct should we be when talking about sex while vetting/dating?I wouldn't talk about it period. Because it's private to me and I only share it with people I'm close with. And the men that ask about body counts sound very insecure to me. I personally don't care how many women a man has been with. So why should they? If they ask about sex, just laugh and say it's your private life, if they keep pushing them you know it's a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 20 | Does anyone else notice the difference between the way your pick-me friends treat you vs. men?Drop her! I just ended a friendship this month with a person who acted similar. They have no self respect, so they don't respect you either. I rather be mean and feel bad about it once, than feel like an idiot for being used repeatedly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 184 | After having joined FDS a few weeks ago and memorising the Handbook...I could NEVER imagine myself ending up in this situation!!I promise you, the desirable women at his job don't want him at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Yes, the craziest part is that we give importance to these stupid comments. I hope we can become immune to them, to a point they don't impact us in any way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 9 | Yep 👏🏼Married for one year separated for 3 because it took that long to get a divorce. Think about really hard! I think he low-key hated me because he served me raw chicken one time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!I have tattoos also and trust me when I say this. They are absolutely beautiful! Especially on women. I remember when I was little and I saw a woman with a full sleeve, wow that was beautiful to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Thank you! I read a book called manifestation made easy and the author called herself manifestation queen, so I just copied it 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Ooh I did learn in psychology that most women date other women later on in life. I guess we start seeing the reality of what men and women offer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 17 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!I know what you mean. Last time I dressed up someone asked me if I was going to a job interview. Lol. I was at work too so it made no sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:46 AM |
| 35 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!😂" you toad" ... I felt that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:44 AM |
| 26 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:19 AM |
| 281 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?So what's their use? We birth, we cook, we clean, we pay bills, we decorate the home, we provide emotional support. What's left for them to do? Nah, I'm better off being single until someone that can add onto my life comes along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 53 | Digital boundaries are just as important as ones IRL!!When they realize you are no longer of use to them, they will walk away. Works for fake friends too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:27 PM |
| 6 | behold this person unwittingly doing us a favor. keep helping us spread the word, by all means!Exactly! They need to get a life. My ex stalks my reddit and told me that now he gets notifications from this sub. Hopefully these scrotes learn something while they're here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:25 PM |
| 33 | A true catchSome men are secretly gay. They hate women so much! Go fuck a dude then it's 2020 we don't judge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 148 | He clearly thinks he can convince her to let him “hit it and quit it” 🙄Sounds like a rapist to me. She said she doesn't want to hookup and he wants advice on how to go around that? What's the advice rape her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 22 | behold this person unwittingly doing us a favor. keep helping us spread the word, by all means!We only speak the truth. If it triggers them then it's on them. I've gotten a few requests myself and I know for a fact is salty scrotes. I Decline every single one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.Btw I love your avatar of Momo!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 6 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.And it's not even equal. They don't put the same effort as we do in looks, or attitude. So it's never equal. Love is 100/100 I do my 100 you do yours. Don't want to, I won't either. We don't benefit at all, better to stay single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 25 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.And then when we leave they victimize themselves. Just saw my ex post about me on am I the asshole? The whole post was Victimizing to the max. Obviously he omitted all his faults. "She just left me I don't know why?" I'm so glad I got a glimpse of his thought process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.He's probably single (not by choice) and thinks he's about to enter his prime. Delusional and entitled.and Yes we are the prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 9 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Exactly! We have the universe to offer. They know it, they know how deep our love is. All we ask is that they earn it. This weeds out the entitled people. I'm glad your mindset changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 4 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.Share as much as you have to. We're here for you!!! Share until you get tired of sharing, get all of this out of your system. We will never judge you. We're here for you to support you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.Omg I'm so so sorry for this! I meditate and I've learned where the mind goes the energy goes. So if you're constantly stuck in this low frequency emotion you will manifest things similar to it. There is hope for you! At least you know in your heart what you do not want. It will be useful to focus on what you want. But I'm so sorry you had such a horrible example. I wish I could hug you and take all those experiences away. But I'm glad you know, it's not ok to put up with stuff like that. I hope… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 20 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.The post got deleted... I'm not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 31 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.The sperm still swims to the egg. The sperm still needs to get inside the woman. Somewhere in "between"? The sperm makes it's way to the egg, which is inside the woman. What is your point? That they meet halfway? If they were meeting halfway it would be outside both parties. But it's not, it's inside the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:10 AM |
| 76 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.They do not have the mental capacity to see other's perspective. It's all about them, even when it's not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 29 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Im glad you made the connection when I used biology. Because I was thinking the exact same thing as you. They use the term to their advantage, so we should too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:20 AM |
| 62 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.Exactly!The narcissism is so evident, I feel sorry for any woman that thinks it's ok to put up with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:18 AM |
| 45 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Know your worth and multiply it times 100! And please keep posting for us because I enjoyed way too much reading this comment!!! Yes, you have your own path and whoever chooses to keep parallel to you is very lucky! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 26 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Yes you got this. Don't force anything and have fun. You are already attracting people to you! You're a magnet for HVM ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 60 | Gamers+inherent selfishness of a NVM is clearly evident.Once we respect ourselves, we are no longer victims to this crap. Because we don't put up with any disrespect. I hope she finds herself!!! Also this sub makes me see "gamers" as a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Where do men get the audacity to tell women what is best for their bodies 🤣🤣 dm I got in reference to a tattoo I have on my lower backNo problem same with us. So if we're nice to others is because we're nice to ourselves 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Where do men get the audacity to tell women what is best for their bodies 🤣🤣 dm I got in reference to a tattoo I have on my lower backYes ma'am. Remember how they talk to you is how they talk to themselves... And you cannot change that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Pursuing the guy????Don't pursue! I personally like courageous men who take risks, and make sacrifices. A man who doesn't pursue, will not exhibit any of these qualities. You can let them know you are attracted, greeting them, making eye contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 85 | Where do men get the audacity to tell women what is best for their bodies 🤣🤣 dm I got in reference to a tattoo I have on my lower backI've noticed that people who are in the least control of themselves, want to control others. They rather micromanage their entire environment, rather than going inwards and change themselves. The narrative to others is their self talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 9 | trueSurprised Pikachu face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 89 | trueLol no I wish, you made me laugh though. We were on the same rank, but I was just on the job for longer so I was training him. Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 5 | When your date has high earning potential but cannot afford paying all of the couple expenses, should I split the bill until he can in years?I'm celibate and it's great! If it's something you're open to do it I highly recommend it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:28 AM |
| 571 | trueOne time, when I was in the Navy. I was giving orders to my subordinates. I wasn't putting up with any distractions, I just finished a 14 hour day. This boy asked me if I was on my period or something. I told him "no, but if I was I would shove my tampon down your throat". I admit it wasn't my classiest comeback, but he never made any stupid comments after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:46 AM |
| 18 | I was told that my ex “only gets better in my head”. That’s such a profound realization.Yes, I reached out to an ex. (Before FDS of course) Guess what? Absolutely nothing had changed for him. The only thing that changed for me was, I went from hating him to not caring about him anymore. This is a very profound realization I can totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | I took a LONG break from dating apps and this is what I come back to. Somethin is seriously wrong with him. JANUARY?!?Love at first Heyo 😂 ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 63 | Tired of men trying to pit women against each other. CAN WE LIVE?!How many men can say "I wash my face" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:33 PM |
| 75 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.This makes me wants to cry for her! Why so many women sacrifice their lives for these cockroaches we call "men". I feel so sad for her. I'm 26 and I'm really doubting having kids at all. These men are absolute trash! I'm feel so sad for this woman, I hope she has the support she needs for her and the baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 16 | SexGet some sex toys. It's 100% better than putting up with men and their issues. Also you will get off every time and they don't make you feel bad about yourself. If you want to lose the weight, it will only happen if you do it for yourself and no one else!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 126 | When your date has high earning potential but cannot afford paying all of the couple expenses, should I split the bill until he can in years?I'll tell you something. One time I met this girl, she would tell everyone her boyfriend is a doctor! He's a doctor!!! He had recently graduated so he wasn't earning much as a resident. She would even pay for him many times, in her eyes, she was soon to be the wife of a doctor. How exciting! She paid his bills. Now they're no longer together, now that he earns over a 100k he's gone. But when he needed her help financially he was around. Potential doesn't mean anything, a homeless man on the stre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | We don't need men, they need us.Yes you cannot unsee it! But at least we're not putting ourselves out there for this abuse anymore. We see right through them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | We don't need men, they need us.That's such a good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 24 | We don't need men, they need us.Thank you my fellow queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 54 | We don't need men, they need us.I would love to change my mentality. I really would and I am open to it. If it's meant to be it will be. But for now I accept that men have failed me. Beginning with my father. I hope someday I meet someone who will change my mentality. Because just like most of us, I will love to know how it feels to be with someone who loves themselves. In my meditation I heard "I'm sorry I failed you, I made you believe I wasn't even supposed to be there for you to begin with". I forgive anyone who's wronged … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:44 AM |
| 29 | Relationship advice for men teaches men to be predatory and exploitative, relationship advice for women teaches women to be masochistic and confused.Yes! Men on relationship advice " my wife ate my cake". Women on relationship advice "my husband is abusive and I need help". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 42 | Why buy the cow...So let's charge very expensive for the milk. You can't afford it? Too bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldAw I hope that you overcame any negative feeling that came with that experience, and you're now thriving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesI know the only time I see people talk about a mom body, is when referring to a mommy makeover. We only use the term as if something that needs fixing. And dad bod is not attractive, it's also weird because they don't have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:48 PM |
| 59 | FREEEEEEEEEWoohoo! Now go live your life to the fullest and give yourself all the love you deserve ❤️ I'm free too and it feels so good to have my energy be untouched by anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 18 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldSadly the same thing happened to my brother so I think he was specifically avoidant of his children overall. Thank you yes my mom is amazing, taught me I don't need to depend on anyone financially and I grew up in a household full of freedom and away from the control that some fathers exert on their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 57 | Imagine being petty with your child who made a decision when they were thirteen years oldReminds me of my father. I feel sorry for him he tried having a daughter again, and he got 2 boys. He tried to hug me one time and I shrugged in discomfort. I know he suffers, he tries to talk to me at times but it's nothing but small talk. Like most men, they only appreciate it when it's far too long. I was blessed to have an amazing mother who did his job and hers too. I am very happy and grateful for my life. Last time I saw him he looked 20 years older than his actual age. He kept trying to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Been doing long distance with this guy since coronavirus. He surprised me with a really nice bouquet of flowers delivered to my house.Woohoo so you're telling me that FDS does work? ☺️ I am looking forward to meeting my HVM when the time comes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 21 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesI know what you mean about still loving then despite not being attracted to them physically. The thing is they also are unattractive in the inside, so there's nothing in it for us. I also relate with not being blunt with them, their self esteem is so low, you don't want to add more damage. I hope someday they realize that as much as they want women to look a certain way, we also have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 33 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesI think I'm going to date younger too. I've dated around my age and older and they look terrible! And are very insecure. So I rather have someone pleasing to eye while I'm at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 89 | The lie misogynists tell about female/male happinesIt's a lie they tell themselves to feel better. I've dated so many men who's looks are declining, wrinkles, gut, balding. And they were in their late twenties. I don't know what fantasy world they live in but they will not get better with age unless they physically do something about it!!! I know guys who think it's "gay" to do skincare, or who think their "dad bods" are acceptable although they don't have children. Then they wonder as to why women are not sexually attracted to them anymore. I f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 24 | Imagine being such a pickme that you flex that you post your nudes for free and hating on girls who wanna get paidWith all these women being brainwashed into empowerment by sharing their bodies. I've found actual empowerment in modesty, celibacy and not letting these dusties see me being vulnerable for a few likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 53 | Reminder: Don’t be Barb the Builder (on a thread asking men what made them “settle down”Why do some guys realize that women were worthy after the relationship ends? Seriously, it's been my experience so many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 6 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Yes!!! The thing is we've been through way too much to be made feel small. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:42 PM |
| 9 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Thank you. I already knew him from before, but honestly I know I'm my heart we are not compatible for many reasons. I'm glad to have the support of you guys with these decisions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:08 AM |
| 6 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Thank you. We do have history that's why I felt comfortable enough to be like that, but I think our relationship was hanging by a thread either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 5 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Thank you! Yes that's exactly how I felt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:06 AM |
| 30 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Thank you! 🌹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 9 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.:D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 34 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Yes in these times of solitude, if someone doesn't add positivity to my life, they can go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:23 PM |
| 47 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.Thank you. He didn't eat the really good one, because he left by then. Lol so more for me. We were at my place so thankfully I just told him to get out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 13 | Flowers sent to my house even though he was seeing me later that day.Aw I'm glad to see HVM do exist out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 19 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Lol I hope someday years from now, when his prefrontal cortex fully develops. He thinks of this moment and cringes to himself. You're hilarious btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 6 | This is how I’m gonna respond now, before blocking and deletingI'd be like. Why do you want to talk about other men on the first day? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 57 | TruthHonestly I think they're just jealous. And I wish they knew a lot of those encounters where so lame!!! Maybe they think sex is better than what we get from our perspectives. It shows insecurity to me, jealous of someone I don't even remember that well. Also why you want to talk about other men? This is suppose to be about us 2 ...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 16 | Just a weekly reminder to drop your toxic friends. They're draining your sanity and your time.Exactly! It's all about them and their problems when you're together. You're just there to listen, they never ask about you and your life. And when you do open up to them, their reply brings the conversation back to their needs and theirs only. They drain your energy, and you feel worse after being around them . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 14 | Just a weekly reminder to drop your toxic friends. They're draining your sanity and your time.Yes! I recently cut a friend off. I just lost respect for her and her dramatic lifestyle. She got a restraining order on abusive, stalker ex who broke in her place several times. I even let her stay at my place. Well she took him back! I almost barfed in my mouth when going to her place and seeing all of their pictures together plastered on her walls, then she proceeded to tell me how much she despises him. Yet they got back together! Mind you she 14 years older than me. The latest news is that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 14 | excuse me.... what? He never got a response.Well at least he didn't waste too much of your time before showing his parasite self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 14 | I’m honestly Speechless. Madam please call the police.Honestly that subreddit makes me sad for all the women suffering, but on the other hand at least they can get some support or advice in getting out of the nightmares they are living. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:45 AM |
| 13 | Explaining “the wall”My goal is to glow up at 40, it's only getting better from here on. I work out, use sunscreen and keep away from fuckboys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 7 | My Horror Story - God Bless FDS for giving me the courage to block, delete, and level up.Hey, I read everything. So first, I'm so proud of you for stepping out and standing up for yourself. Second I know you are so very ashamed of yourself, and if I could hug and tell you that it's ok, you didn't hurt anyone but yourself. You are in a different place now, you get to look back. You can go to sleep with a clean conscience, because you haven't harmed others. Forgive yourself, for putting yourself through this. It's ok, aren't you glad you can see this with a different lense? This means… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 26 | This is how I’m gonna respond now, before blocking and deletingOr on a first date when they ask you when was the last time you dated someone? So insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Looking good at any age ladies!Yes it's not that much. I just had Botox done 2 days ago. On my forehead and crows feet. It was $360 but omg does it make a difference and I feel expensive now. I'm 27 and it's a gift to myself. I've spent more money on other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:01 PM |
| 18 | If he makes an unreasonable request, let him GO. No sticking around, no explaining, no negotiating.Yes, in situations like this I don't even explain myself, because I know for a fact that they'll get aggressive and I'm not putting up with that type of energy anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 21 | Would it be okay to take him back in this specific scenario?As other people mentioned if he wants you, he'll contact you. Don't make excuses for him. I promise you as soon as you stop thinking about him he'll contact you again. But if he's making you feel like ??? Then he's not the one for you. Pretty much every person is glued to their phone. You're talking about taking him back and he hasn't even made his way to you. You deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Wow this is a prophecy!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 80 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Could be the physical manifestion of the Tinder app Haha that's genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.I recommend looking up Abraham Hicks on YouTube. She talks about being connected to source within. I read one of her books too. It changed my life to realize my connection to source is all I need to be satisfied. Source could be God, universe, whatever higher power. If you end up checking her out let me know if you liked it. Also meditation helps, I do guided meditations on YouTube, there's some really short 5 or 10 minutes ones for beginners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Oh yes it drives them crazy when you're busy!!! They want what they can't have? Who knew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 5 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Seems to me like you are staying out of trouble. And if you meditate that's is such a plus!!! I am the same way too. We're just careful with our energy honestly, I don't have drama either, and being at peace is priceless. Don't be so hard on yourself, you keep busy and take care of your needs. I wish everyone was doing what you are doing. Either way with the virus is hard to do too many activities 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:45 AM |
| 5 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Hey all you need to start is the desire for change. And I've never met a boring woman in my life, and I refuse to believe that they exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:38 AM |
| 9 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Yes, you don't have to settle and it's ok to be selfish. What? Am I suppose to put others needs in front of mine? That's pretty selfish to me. Obviously not everyone understands our logic, but there's enough of us to support one another. And you know it feels GOOD to strive for the high value woman spirit. Keep doing what you are doing! You deserve to be happy we only have one life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 13 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Oh it's not an easy concept at all. To love without attachment is to love, knowing that they will not always be yours. When you attach yourself you feel ownership of people, but they're not ours to begin with. You can be sad if they leave, but if you attach yourself you will always be sad, even if they are always with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:18 AM |
| 27 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.The best thing to come out of 2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:41 AM |
| 5 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Aww we love you too ❤️💕 and you deserve all the happiness in the world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:41 AM |
| 10 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Yes. The journey has just started, we keep getting better and better. We will come out of quarantine as new women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:40 AM |
| 42 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.You're like a magnet attracting confident energy. There's no need to chase when you have this magnetic energy within you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 14 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Yes, nice seeing you around again! I remember your other posts ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 33 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.This place is toxic to the fuckboys because it repels them lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 22 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.Love without attachment, if they choose to leave or stay is within them. We can only control ourselves! Just enjoy the ride! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk myself out of online dating?It will drain your soul and frustrate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 15 | 'He chooses to be home'She found a son | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Guys asking to hangout on dating apps?Emotional avoidance at his greatest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 10 | She Was "Raised" To Be This?!Everyone has their breaking point, or they eventually go insane ignoring the reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | AVOID THIS AT ALL COSTSHow he cares for himself and his place is how he'll care for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | I am a high value woman and males and females will honor this. I will set boundaries and enforce them. My kindness will not be taken for weakness! In love and in friendship I am to be respected!Oh no yes I think with aquarius is all or nothing lol. So we fully commit if we know it's going to serve us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | I am a high value woman and males and females will honor this. I will set boundaries and enforce them. My kindness will not be taken for weakness! In love and in friendship I am to be respected!I'm aquarius and we get the same stereotype of being cold. But in reality is just that we don't want to burden others with our emotions. That's a lot of virgo though, I'm sure your style is impeccable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | I am a high value woman and males and females will honor this. I will set boundaries and enforce them. My kindness will not be taken for weakness! In love and in friendship I am to be respected!Oh I can believe it are you a virgo? I have virgo friends and they're so kind and giving (like mother Mary, all about sacrifice), people really take advantage. I can imagine how shocked they were when you didn't want to be the servile person you were at some point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | I am a high value woman and males and females will honor this. I will set boundaries and enforce them. My kindness will not be taken for weakness! In love and in friendship I am to be respected!Thank you! I think this situation happened so I can set my boundaries and enforce them. I'm so used to worrying about making others comfortable, but I'm a grown woman and I need to step my foot down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 7 | I am a high value woman and males and females will honor this. I will set boundaries and enforce them. My kindness will not be taken for weakness! In love and in friendship I am to be respected!Thank you! It's a little hard to stand up for myself with women sometimes, with men I don't have an issue. But this woman is very possessive of me and I don't like that. I'm done being nice to people who don't care about my needs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?I'm so proud of you for quitting drinking, it does nothing but makes us depressed and dehydrated. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?You know it's a heartfelt compliment when a girl is saying it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?Yes this quarantine is really helping us evolve!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?Yes girl I love doing those facial massages! They are like a face lift!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 5 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.Yes, all we can do now is look to the future. I'm thankful for the positive things. I'm glad you are making the best out of it. We are stronger than we know and we're still alive and we will make the most out of this lifetime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:16 AM |
| 20 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONI'm not really sure. But I think it might be probable. Yes I can see why you were worried though and I can imagine the stress of having special needs step kids. Good to know he's an ex though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 52 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONYikes! Someone needs to let these men know that their fantasy of not having a biological clock is nothing but a fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 85 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONYup, in college we learned that older father's are a huge factor for autism in children. It's on the men's genes, I have no idea why they think they are exempt from the rules of aging. https://www.healthline.com/health-news/does-older-sperm-cause-autism#1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 9 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.Thank you. I was young and naive. But now I am wise and I have all these queens with me reassuring me that I'm safe and I'm powerful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 37 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsYou are a beast at writing. "tries to portray his loneliness as an empowering form of solitude" wow that's so beautiful. Please keep writing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 23 | What do you think of snooping partner's phone?If your intuition says yes then do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 99 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I joined because I didn't have any help from my family and I was expected to have a degree. Yes it was tough, I did suffer sexual assault. Thankfully I got a degree in psychology and go to therapy. I turned it around. But it was a very stressful environment. If I had help from my family I would have never joined, some of us think it's the only choice we have at success. I feel for this woman, she just wanted to serve. I'm glad I joined because I gained so many skills. But if you have support fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Men talking about bumble: “Women have to send an interesting first message that isn’t just Hey or What’s up, you should also mention something in our profile and make it interesting.” Men sending first message on Tinder/Hinge: “Hey”Or gifs!!! I always hated that. Dating apps can be soul sucking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 55 | Let the trash take itself out. I think it hilarious that he’s upset she “never” offers to pay and it was only their THIRD date! She is the one who dodged a bullet!!!!They expect sex by the third date. That's their payment. Our bodies are the equivalent of a few dinners to some.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?Me too, and it is not a waste of time at all. It's fun! And yes it is nice to always be picture ready too because we look so great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?Honestly because I go to the gym often, I been splurging on expensive workout clothes, making it casual too. But I do want to keep looking more and more feminine. What about you? What's your aesthetic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?You are so right!!! I just bought clothes online after reading these comments. We deserve to look our best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?I love this energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 15 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?I used to judge women who did their makeup often, now I realize I was just jealous. Now I see another woman wearing makeup, and see the effort they put to look nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 15 | Anyone else been polishing their looks lately?You're right I am expensive 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 30 | Excuse me, what? She shouldn't have even stayed the night, much less even THINK about moving in with him.Ladies, they will show you right away what their standards are. Will you lower yours to match them? Because we know they will not change. I am so grateful to know now that you cannot change a man, and they are already set in their ways. This is who this man is. Imagine having kids with him? He'll have them sleeping on the floor... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:19 PM |
| 22 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?It's hard to relax enough to get there, when you are with someone you don't fully trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 210 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?Most if not all men orgasm with a one night stand. With women, it's extremely difficult. Almost impossible. So really what are we gaining from this? Also add the release of oxytocin and some of us become attached, which hurts us even more. There's nothing to gain from a one night stand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:29 PM |
| 25 | He's taking crazy pills. Women are loved on the condition that are consistently attractive and providing sex.What? Even as little girls where are told we are less. We kinda have to earn love, by cleaning, behaving, taking care of siblings. It's men who are loved unconditionally, since boys. They are preferred just for being alive. They are just jealous that we love ourselves, it's easy to love ourselves with a clean conscience. I can see why men hate themselves, I'm sure they have a lifetime of pain they've caused others for their pleasure. I'm sure that burden can limit someone from self love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right choice to cut him out?By the way. Look at what he wrote. He struggles, do you want a struggler? We have to closely look at what they are telling us. Because the emotions they evoke will repeat themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choice to cut him out?What did you do? Did you reply or ignore? Yup they only want you when you're not there... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 37 | Don’t let yourself get scammedDefinitely avoidant attachment . They push love away, then cry because they are lonely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 16 | Don’t let yourself get scammedYes reading things here. Some women are literal angels and I'd hate to see that side of them go because of an ungrateful crusty boy. We just have to scan them early and take red flags seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep a HVM? (help please)Be secure and confident. Draw him in with your magnetic energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choice to cut him out?Ok so is he getting help for his anxiety? Or just using it as an excuse. Cut him out. As soon as you drop him he'll be crawling around for another chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 59 | Don’t let yourself get scammedLol I can relate. Mine walked away. Literally left my place. The avoidance to love, yet it's looking right at them. Aww... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 41 | Don’t let yourself get scammedIs ok babygirl! You are an empathetic angel, and even though someone took advantage, do not lose what makes you the epitome of love. The person who is getting this love next will fully deserve it and act like it. It will be reciprocated. I refuse to make undeserving men make me bitter. I'm just more careful with my love now. Do one will dim my light! We are naturally giving and loving, and there's people out here in this world who deserves and will earn this love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:23 PM |
| 36 | A Man Who Games vs A "Gamer"So true!!! It also says a lot about the person trying to escape reality on the daily through games. They can be on them for hours and hours on end. They consume any time for healthy hobbies too. Very well written post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:00 PM |
| 23 | Block his assYes, you're right. As soon as I told him I have a degree in psychology he begun to dump his past on me. I am unsure if I should even let men know about my degree. But I think that a HVM will not see my achievements as something he can benefit from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 101 | Block his assI've done this! 30 year old man showing me pictures of him and his ex. I kept quiet because a free meal, is a free meal. I was blocking him while smiling to him and nodding. Didn't care enough about him to let him know he needs professional help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.I know how you feel. My cousins ex would act like this. Sometimes it's harder to be honest with women. With men I got no problem speaking out, but with women is so hard. You want to be in good terms with them. Honestly just create space, you don't let anyone drain your energy. It is not fair. You do so much to be at peace for anyone to disturb it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 131 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn.So true! I worked at urology and it literally took like 30 minutes to do the procedure. And it can be reversed too. Guys were shocked how quick it was, you can even request anxiety medication, like Xanax before the procedure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 21 | Turnabout is fair playI hope you find peace! You deserve someone that will please you in every sense of the word. I think the damage is done. We are here for you, be good to yourself. It feels good to get revenge, but at some point it becomes toxic to us. I hope you can find peace and a partner that you can fully trust. I'm not going to lie, I did enjoy reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 16 | When a woman in a relationship with a man finally snaps...You're so right. We deserve someone who brings peace into our lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 87 | SeXuALLy ReJeCtiNg mEn iS A HaTe cRiMeI'm so glad I found this place. I was holding off on sex and I kept questioning myself. I thought something was wrong, because "sex positivity" made me believe I need to have sex. But I don't. Because it's so much to risk. Going here explained that I was doing the best thing for me for abstaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Idk if right now is a good time to be in a relationship,.I'm not in a good place. Meanwhile he persued me for 9 months...Reverse psychology is real special with childish men. They only want you when you're not there. Once they have you, they don't know how to act. Obviously there's great men out there, somewhere, out there... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:10 PM |
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