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10

Spiritually married? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 10:25 PM
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THIS! Strangers barely know my full name because I’m the only one with it in this small country I live in. I ALWAYS go by a fake name and then an abbreviation of my real name if I feel safe enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:52 AM
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Absolutely not. He needs to show some human decency and understand that we’re adults with responsibilities. I think it’s a bit different when it’s your actual boyfriend or husband. Because I sometimes triple or quadruple text when I remember something I forgot to say. But still. They (husband or boyfriend) don’t have to exaggerate and quadruple text me some bullsh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:39 PM
5

Men are also shitty in bed so what’s his point? Sheesh. Thank God for those dildo machines. At least they don’t cum and complain after 2 mins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:45 AM
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I would honestly just want to see it. That way I can be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:41 PM
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I agree! It’s a no. What do men and women have in common? Everything I want to do with a friend are things that men would never even be interested in. So they cant stay faaaar away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:20 AM
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When I was dating men I would probably go on 1-3 dates a year. And sometimes none cause I wasn’t feeling the whole dating thing. They weren’t worth my time and there was never a second date cause they were doodoo. This year I dated 2 people. One of which I’m in a relationship with now. My country is currently in a lockdown (again 🙄) so I’m not really able to go on dates. But me and my boyfriend would (try to) go on a date every week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:51 AM
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Boobery muffin lol? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 11:05 PM
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My real family doesn’t even deserve the title “family”. Why would a random guy I’ve shared some memories and possibly some kids with, be “family”? Eventhough he’s used and abused me? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:42 PM
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Sounds like a him problem. And why is he bragging about not being able to cook? A basic life skill? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:30 PM
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Men are so incredibly dumb, woah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:55 AM
6

For the love of Jesus Christ…….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:27 PM
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Change your name on OLD if you ever go back. Thats what I did cause sqruotez always do this SHIT. What made them think that I wanted to speak to them on FB after ignoring/ghosting them on OLD? No one will ever know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:26 PM
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I agree! I don’t have a type so I would never ask for a partner that has abs, works out religiously etc. cause it’s personality and someones vibe that makes them beautiful to me. And they just have to take care of and groom themselves. The bare minimum. But my boyfriend is REALLY handsome. People keep telling me that and I wholeheartedly agree. Sometimes I just look at him just to appreciate his looks. And he has abs, is tall and works out. I would’ve never thought that I would be together with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:00 PM
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Only read the first screenshot but that’s enough. Throw him out of the apartement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:30 PM
11

Her eyes tell a different story… I feel sorry for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:02 PM
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EX-FUCKING-CUSE ME?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:10 PM
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“At first you seemed so bitchy to me” “You have a resting meanie face” “You’re intimidating” - a lot of people who meet me for the first time. Good. I want every single person to think about how they should approach me and be careful about it. I’m actually really laid back and open when I’m sure that someone will not disrespect me or my boundaries. If I’m not? They’ll get the stone cold, direct version of me. I don’t go anywhere to make friends. I go there to get things done that I’m supposed to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:00 AM
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LMAOOO “did you change the netflix password?”. This reminds me of those videos that someone used to post of these 3 girls on tiktok. Who did a whole play about LVM. Does anybody remember their tiktok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:27 PM
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Yaaaay! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 08:38 AM
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I honestly just groom with some scissors and shave the back + bikini line. When I feel like it. Otherwise I just let it grow however it wants to grow. Shaving everything gives me ingrown hairs, unpleasant bumps and itchiness. And I’d rather be comfortable than uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:58 AM
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But men ARE allowed to reject women based on weight, length and all other types of bullshit reasons? BoYs WiLl Be BoYs (yeah I said boys not men). Like some people said… It’s not about their height. It’s about the audacity and the disrespect that comes with it because they’re insecure and think they can compensate. Now look at em. Ranting on internet forums that women are BLABLABLA. It’s not us. You did this to yourself. Now suffer from the consequences 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:17 AM
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Yup! I was dating someone this summer and when I first saw him the only thing I thought was “He looks good. But is he really 185cm?” Then I asked him and he kind of got offended because “I never told you I was 185cm, I’m 180cm so maybe you’re thinking about your other dates?”. 185 or 180cm… He still looked shorter than both of those heights lmfaoooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:48 PM
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WHAT THE ACTUAL F^(&:@?! I’m so disturbed. Everytime I think it cannot get any worse, men prove that they indeed can make everything much worser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:53 PM
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THISSSSS. I honestly don’t understand how they don’t understand? They must be lazy and not care. Cause 5 minutes is literally all it takes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:54 PM
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This is meeeee. I’m not nice until they prove to ME that they deserve the nice version of me. Plenty of them actually don’t get the chance tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:43 AM
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Whaaaaat!!! We love to see it. 🤩🤩🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:53 AM
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What if she lives in a country where riding a bike is more normal than owning a car? To me it also really depends on the age that OP and potential date are. If they’re fresh out of college or mid twenties riding a bike wouldn’t be a red flag. To me it’s different if you’re in your mid thirties or older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:50 AM
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What the actual…….. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:28 PM
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For me, it really depends. Some never ask so IF I went on a date wit them we just discussed things on the OLD app. I would give them my number after the date if I liked them. Others got my number before the date. It just depends on the vibes that someone gives me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:43 PM
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Mine reacted like this when I asked what he thought about choking! “Why would I want to purposely hurt you if you’re my favorite person in the world? 🥴”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:25 PM
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This is actually very true! I was “dating” somebody a few months back and he wasn’t that great. I normally don’t give people a second chance but something in me told me to just try with this person (in hindsight: wtf lol). When I went on a date with him I was real nervous which I normally am not. I couldn’t even look him straight in the eyes because he was watching me so intensely. At one point I even told him. There was nothing wrong with the guy and he didn’t do anything weird but still... It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:51 PM
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As he should. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:56 AM
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My eyes popped out of my head while reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:18 PM
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I wish I kneeew! I’m embarassed to even think back to this! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:53 PM
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I didn’t even deliberately follow a lot of these guidelines in the past and there still were no second dates. Because they just exposed themselves without me having to even blink. We just can’t win in this world where 90% of men are NV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:27 AM
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This! I’ve never had a problem with men being into me. Most of them were skinny and/or gym fanatics that were well built. I honestly wouldn’t mind a little chubbines but it’s never came onto my path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:59 AM
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I was once sent a link to a porn video by some scrote. Then he told me “this is what I would like you to do to me”. I was so shocked... Then he had the audacity to ask me to send him a pornstar that had similar boobs to me since I wouldn’t send nudes..... ¿Que?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:55 AM
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Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:53 AM
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1 I want to find a new job because my current one doesn’t make me happy 2 Start studying immediately after my classes so I don’t stress right before my exams 3 Get back into going to the gym 4 Have a consistent nighttime routine and sleep early 5 Clean my room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:11 PM
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Me too! Good luck. We can do it. 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:09 PM
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Was talking to a grown ass man who seemed nice. But some of the things he would do or say made me go “hmmm..”. They weren’t major red flags but still. During the last 2 weeks of us talking he showed that he doesn’t give a fuck about me anymore. I won’t say that it’s entirely his fault that it ended. And that’s also why I was a bit bummed because I really started liking him. But in hindsight it wouldn’t have worked anyways. This is a great reminder to follow the fds guidelines and your intuition …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:08 PM
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I cheer people up and make them laugh I’m understanding I’m trustworthy I’m goal oriented and always get sh*t done I go hard for the people I love I’m smarter than a lot of people would think I am I’m a diy queen and pretty good at everything I diy (also a broke college student so kinda have to lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:42 AM
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This comment is pretty rude. As if you’ve met every black woman to make this broad generalization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:37 PM
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I’m convinced these men dont have mothers, daughters, cousins, girlfriends, acquitances, neighbors whatever... that are women. Why else would someone be so f*cking dumb?! WHY?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:19 PM
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Sorry, what does that mean? Edit: do you mean that he’s showing the behavior that I was showing hm in the beginning? Yeah.. that’s what I was thinking as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:35 PM
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That’s not harsh. He needs to go. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:18 AM
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Guy wanted to date me soooo bad. Finally warmed up to the idea and have time. Now he’s just going along with any and everything I say. Maybe in fear of hurting my feelings? Idk what the fuck he’s trying but I deleted him. It’s pissing me off because I was actually a bit hesitant (because of my own insecurities), still gave him my time of day and now this. Ugh. 🥴💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:59 AM
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Embarrazzing....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:07 AM
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What? What is this scrote even trying to say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:37 PM
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Spiritanimal Sandra didn’t stutter 🤩🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:31 PM
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I know! I would never because He doesn’t care It won’t change anything and will make me look “emotional” He’s getting blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:52 AM
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Beautifu ring. Congratualations :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:49 PM
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Thanks for your reply! Made me feel a bit better. 🥰 I’m still a bit bummed because I wasn’t even really looking for someone. He accidentally came onto my path, wasn’t really my type (I honestly don’t really have a type but when I told my friend about it she said this was... different lol) and I honestly should’ve just kept it moving. But we live and we learn! I’m normally not big on giving second chances because why would you need to deliberately mess up in the first place? But I’m also human an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:39 PM
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NEEDED THIS! I had been talking to this man who really wanted to meet up and get to know me. I was a bit hesitant/nervous and had to focus on my exams. Told him that I would have time after my exams (my last one was 2/3 weeks ago). So he asked a few more times. We finally decided on a day. AND HE FUCKING FORGOT. It pissed me off knowing he was doing all that work to just... “forget”? Then he tried the “is it okay if we meet up an hour later?” No. “Tomorrow?” No. Then he started pulling back. Typ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:23 PM
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I hated watching this show. They all annoyed me to the core. And the ending pissed me off even more. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:40 AM
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Sis.... You better eat the whole plate and order some more if it’s not enough. If he’s making dumb comments about you simply eating...? You can eat him as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:40 AM
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What is this baffoon talking about? Most 55 year old women look amazing for their age. Even if they have gray hair, wrinkles or saggy boobs. I’m glad they don’t want him and don’t give him the time of day to be sexual with them (aka being a “prude” or “close minded”). He’s an ass, sucks ass and he knows it. Swiping younger women wont change that. They also dont want you. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:28 AM
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THIS! There’s nothing sensual, slow and sexy about most porno movies out there. They don’t know anything about love making and caressing. It’s all about penetrating the other person as fast as they can so they can orgasm. And the women their bodies.... Lord I feel bad for them. Huge butts and boobs that look like satelites, lips as thick as a sausage, hair fried to the Gods. And why? All for the male gaze. Most women don’t even look like that in real life. And I’m glad. But also sad because sinc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:52 PM
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EXACTLY! I rarely make last minute plans with my friends so last minute plans with a man? Absolutely not. Unless he’s my serious boyfriend or husband. That guy was just lazy and/or bored. Turning down his lame attemps is defintiely not playing games. He could’ve had a chance if he would uhm... just listen to what you told him. But men are a different kind of stupid so they would never. And it seems like all of them have hearing problems. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:37 PM
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You could tell them that you have a busy schedule or would like to mentally prepare for a date. But honestly? You don’t own them an explanation. “I like to be asked on a date ahead of time” is enough. If he doesn’t respect what you’re telling him, you know enough. Personally I think that it’s not reasonable of him to feel this way because it’s your boundary. It’s like not wanting to meet someone for a first date at their house. It doesn’t matter why you don’t wanna go there. No is enough. Even i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:56 PM
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“This is going to keep happening”?! EXCUSE ME?! Rapist vibes 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:01 PM
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YES! I always say that they need to ask ahead of time. Aint no spontaneous dates. I’m not spontaneous with/for men. If they don’t, there’s no date because they obviously dont respect my time. There’s been plenty of times where I’ve had nothing to do all day and was probably counting my nosehairs or studying my ceiling. And I still turned down the date. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:58 PM
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I love her energy! She sounds like she would knock him & the friend out if they breathed the wrong way and..... Violence is not the answer but we need more women like her. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:28 PM
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Sis said dinosaurs 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:53 PM
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Time to ditch your male friends...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:15 AM
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Weird flex but alright....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:06 PM
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T H I S ! Its always been the broke people I briefly talked to, who complained about me being a golddigger and that I should be patient until “they make it”. Sir, you’re not even putting in the work to “make it”. And being a rapper is NOT your calling lmaooo. It was also the people who werent serious who dared to open their big ass mouths talking about “I’m not looking for a woman who wants me to spend money on her”. I’m not looking for a stingy man BYE! Hardworking men who are actually willing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:06 PM
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This made my vagina close. I’m disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:36 AM
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That’s a great reason for a divorce! What kind of fuckery is this? How does this scrote have the audacity to even compare a complete PENIS to a diva cup or tampons? Nowhere near comparable in size? Idiotic....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:47 PM
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Had me during the first half
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:18 AM
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I love her and the way she speaks on issues. Scrotes are always mad at her for exposing their patterns 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:43 PM
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Time to bleach my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:59 AM
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I like this post. It’s obvious that OLD is a dumpster fire for the most part. But just like there’s a few HVW on there, there must be a few HVM. Yes it’s hard to find them, there aren’t a lot, you will have to invest time into finding them blablabla. But calling people pickme’s because they’re on OLD (I’ve seen some people say this/make posts about this) goes a bit far for me. I think we tend to forget that not everyone gets approached in RL. And some people are way too busy or shy to find someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:51 AM
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How is her chasing her dreams “being impulsive”? This is some real small dick energy. If he’s broke and jealous he should just say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:04 PM
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WHAT DID I JUST READ LMAOOOO 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:10 PM
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Hahah affection from animals is definitely better than male attention!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:27 PM
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I’ve been saying this to everybody I know for a very long time. I have a friend who always tells me that it’s true BUTTTT she needs affection, to be held and kissed. People who are celibate also crave that. They just don’t give in easily because they KNOW that the male species is... different (by lack of better words). And being kissed, held or having “affection” shown to you by a stranger that you’ve met on tinder after 1,5 hours of being in their house as a firsy date.... Nah. Doesn’t seem lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:35 AM
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Bless your grandpa! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:18 PM
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I honestly don’t have a tip right now but I just wanted to say that I’m very proud of you. You stood up for yourself and didn’t let him walk over you. I know it might’ve been scary but you did the damn thing! And of course I’m sorry that the pathetic piece of human felt the need to come into your personal space and bother you. I’m glad that he decided to f*ck off and that he didn’t harm you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:00 AM
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No no. I meant that if guys are willing to lie about their age to me (someone who’s not even that much older), imagine who else they’re lying to. Knowing the male species they’re probably swiping cougars as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:08 PM
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I didn’t know this was a thing until it happened to me a few weeks ago. Wasn’t a major age difference. He was 2 years younger than his profile said and my age. I still wasn’t impressed though. Just up your age range if you’re into cougars. There are women out here who will match with you. Stop lying to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:30 AM
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Definitely! And the hair is laid too. Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:27 AM
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I’m just here to say that she’s soooo pretty. And of course the message slaps and is 100% accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:05 PM
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Beautifully written and I fully agree! There’s nothing else to add. Chefs kiss✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:47 PM
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EXACTLY. I like how you said that to him. And surprise surprise! Of course he was eager to dissapoint. Happened to be a few weeks ago as well. This guy was asking me why I was on dating apps blablabla. Then he proceeded to say “you’re so beautiful. I’m gonna make sure you’ll be off this app in no time and I’ll sweep you off your feet. I would never disrespect you BLABLABLA” Guess what happened? Yeah. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:38 AM
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YES. I don’t send messages, don’t explain myself, don’t get mad (might get annoyed but they’ll never know). They’ll try to contact me again they’ll realize that they’re blocked. Bye. One chance is all you get. These are perfect examples of “if they wanted to, they would”. It’s not difficult to communicate, understand and respect what the other person wants and needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:34 AM
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“Red flags #3-27” lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:29 AM
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YUP! Sad truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:16 PM
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Thank you so much. ❤️ Wasn’t anything major but still annoyed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:26 PM
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How come everytime I feel shitty about dating/love/men, there’s always an FDS post that comes up a few hours later that says EXACTLY what I need to hear? Coincident? I think not! Really needed to hear this after something that happened yesterday. I love FDS man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:09 PM
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EXACTLY! They can talk on there or to their wall at home. Their choice. Thanks for sendinf the alternatives. And happy cake day 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:02 PM
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Yes! You’re absolutely right for doing that. I tell them that I don’t use social media. When they ask for my number I say no. There’s only a handful of people who actually got it after a while because I felt comfortable enough after talking for a bit. But I also dislike giving my number because these scrotes can only keep up the facade for a week and after they stop texting. What’s the point of having my number then? Just send your nonsense on the app and dissapear afterwards. I don’t like the i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:59 PM
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I don’t even respond to “do you have snapchat or instagram”. Why? So you can watch my everyday life and never speak to me again? But still leave the door open so you can occasionally (every 6 months) compliment me when I post a nice picture of myself? Or judge me for my goofy personality which isn’t even how I am HALF of the time? Instead of getting to know the real me on a real date? NO THANKS. There’s nothing to discuss for us on instagram or snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:34 AM
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That’s exactly how I feel! Took the words out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:03 AM
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Yeah there’s also a lot of those out there. I don’t want to be bitter towards men. But it’s soooooo tiring. They’re all different people but keep doing the same fucking thing. WHY?! HOW?! What’s the point?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:02 AM
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This is definitely something I’m learning at this very moment. Some people tell me I’m too harsh/strict and should cut people some slack. The moment I tried to do that a few weeks ago I immediately regretted it. I’m just so exhausted. Why is it so hard for people to act right from the start? Why do they need room to intentionally mess up? And WHYYYY do they expect me to be okay with that? I’m so over people and blocking + deleting at the first sign of disrespect. I don’t care anymore. But I real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:26 PM
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THISSSS. “You should stop holding grudges” Nah. I saw them for who they truly are. And I’m not forgetting it, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:59 AM
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Definitely! No need to pain ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:10 AM
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Exactly! Feels like sitting on clouds and I loveeee it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:09 AM
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I recently bought new period underwear. They’re hella highwaisted and I was looking at them yesterday. I chuckled when I saw how big they were. They reminded me of a pillowcase. But idc. They’re really comfy and I actually like the highwaist. They don’t cut into my skin and are a bit roomy. I like it a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:24 AM
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Glad that’s not me. Pay up. AND do the emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:57 AM
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You’re welcome! I worked a parttime job while studying and made friends at my job which kept me busy. But I’m not gonna lie. Sometimes I still felt lonely which is totallt fine as well. It’s okay to feel the emotion and be sad about it. Maybe you can join a student club/studying club or some kind of sorority. People make friends there as well. Of you can pick up a new hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:31 PM
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ChAnGe hiiiiim? Did he sh*t himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:27 PM
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I’ve been out of highschool for a while now. And there’s only 1(!!!) person I frequently speak to and see which is my best friend. There are 2/3 others I occasionally speak to through social media but we’re not friends which is fine. Everyone is on a different path in their life and focused on different things. And I didn’t even make that many friends while doing my bachelors degree. There were 2 girls I talked to. 1 of which I knew from my highschool but we weren’t really friends back then. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:51 AM
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One of my favorite songs ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:38 AM
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So funny lol...... 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:30 PM
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You’re not a failure but you should really choose yourself in this situation. Being blamed for something you had no control over at all will not help you while you’re on the road to “recovery”/learning how to deal with your trauma. And like eveyone else is saying in the comments. The only one failing anything is him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:29 PM
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I don’t even see anything wrong with asking for things just because. Scrotes have the audacity and do it all the time right? Porn sick, pizza-faced, no daily showers, onion armpits with the greasy hair. But they want model girlfriends with long legs, no body hair stomach on flar flat and lots of money so he can leech off of her. Why are we labeled as crazy/golddiggers when we ask for mentally stable men, with lots of money, who are generous AND have a big dick? Honestly, that should be the stand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:48 AM
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I’m so so sorry this happened to you! I can imagine how scary that must’ve felt especially in a parkinglot.... Shivers.. Is it maybe possible for you to start parking in different places/grounds of the garage, maybe take different routes or start leaving at different times instead of always leaving and arriving at the same time? My mom always told me to sometimes switch up your journey just in case. Becausw you never know who might be watching so you need to be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:42 AM
8

Why do people deal with this? WHY?! What would she say of her friend told her that she went through this nonsense this morning? The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:21 AM
11

Calling me all those times when I didn’t answer. I got annoyed, answered to tell him that I was busy and we could talk later. He then had the audacity to ring me 2/3 more times that night. I met him on a datingapp but I always turn off notifications so I reply whenever I feel like logging in. Which is every 5/6 hours and sometimes even after a few days. He would send “?”, “you probably left me” and that kind of nonsense on there. He told me that he had caught covid while doing groceries or in hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:41 PM
12

YUP! The gut aint never lied. Next time you know what to do because you’re not “tripping” or “seeing things”. I was talking to someone a few weeks ago and he started displaying some weird behavior. I probably wouldn’t have caught it if I wasn’t on FDS but thank God I seen the signs. This was the first time that I was talking to someone since being on FDS so I’m not as ruthless as I want to be yet. I blocked this guy and then he started calling me 5/6/7/8 (who knows how many) times cause I wasn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:13 PM
28

I never even thought of it like this! This is actually really interesting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:58 PM
1

EnJoYyYyYyY?????? Get out! There’s so much stress free ways without being used to enjoy things out there. Not on my watch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:48 AM
48

HOW?! WHY?! WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND?! Imagine the damage he already has done/could’ve done if he actually pulled it. WTF?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:56 PM
46

Yup! Happened to me a few weeks ago. I replied after 2/3 hours and sometimes even the next day. Because I was busy and I have important things to do. This scrote kept sendig ‘?’ or ‘you still there? you probably left me didn’t you?’. I dont like insecure people. I’ll reply if I want to. Don’t try to guilt trip me into replying to you because you’ll get blocked REAL QUICK. He then also tried calling me 5/6/7/8 times one day. I didn’t pick up at first. The 6th time I picked up to tell him that I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:43 PM
111

She never lied! I was talking to this guys and I asked him something about lamp wiring because he’s an electrician. He told me that it’s doable if you know what you’re doing, explained how I should to it and offered to do it if I was scared since it is electricity we’re talking about. Men who care and want to impress you, would put in the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:32 PM
6

Newsflash: we still dont want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:25 PM
6

I don’t even know why I’m shocked but I am..... Disgusted as well. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:46 PM
36

No you’re not! Why should I put myself in discomfort? I don’t allow anybody to go there anyways so what’s the point? I’d rather not walk around with rashes, ingrown hairs, bumps and an itchy vagina all day. And people who say that you should do it for yourself AND because it’s more hygienic? Get out my face lol. If it sweats it sweats. Doesn’t matter if there’s hair or not. We’re human. Wash off the sweat in the morning/at night and you’re ready to conquer the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:47 PM
4

Absolutely right. It may take a few tries in the future but one day you’ll be absolutely done with men their shenanigans. You’ll block them when they breath the wrong way at you lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:04 PM
3

Should’ve dropped him in april babygirl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:45 PM
12

Even men with daughters are crazy which scares me a lot. Do they know understand that someday someone who’s just like them will (try to) treat their daughter like they treated women as well? Unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:26 PM
8

I would nevaaaaa read that novel while scrolling through profiles on OLD. What the hell is he even trying to say? I really did try reading it so we could collectively roast the scrote but... nvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:01 AM
3

Congrats 🥳🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:12 PM
11

I needed to see this! So glad I came across this post cause it once again confirms the thoughts I already had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:50 PM
32

I leave men on read ALLLL the time. It always makes me giggle when they send that “oh you just gonna ignore me?” “???” “Hello are you still there??” Shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:41 AM
1

I have my dad’s last name as my second name. His family aint shit and I dont even know how many times they’ve seen me (probably 1-2 times and I’m in my early twenties). I’m glad that the hospital accidentally gave me my mom’s last name which is fine with me. So id I ever get my masters or something higher, our name will be on there and just my first initials.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:25 PM
4

So we can only compliment eachother if we know eachtother? Get lost Lewis. The only compliments that truly make my whole entire day are from other women. Because I know that they would never lie to get something out of it. And I like complimenting other women just because. It can really make someone’s day. So shut the hell up Lewis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:50 AM
14

Men only like men. They might as well all become gay so we can live in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:59 AM
1

I still live at home but anytime someone asks me what my ideal place looks like and I say “A house. Not an appartment. A fucking house with a few rooms” they look at me like I’m crazy. “But an appartment is easy to maintain. And you don’t have a boyfriend right now. A house for just you?” You heard what I said and I’m not repeating it. Within the next few years that will be exactly where I’ll be. With or without a man. BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:56 AM
13

That description of their “musk” made me vomit 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:36 PM
14

EXACTLY! I knew that men sunk that low but women?! Nahhh we’d rather not 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:36 PM
94

WHAT?! SNIFFED A GUYS UNDERWEAR AND LOVED THE SMELL OF HIS DICK? That cheese dick that they barely wash with them stinky balls? Who has these insane ideas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:56 AM
8

Definitely! Hopefully there wont be a next time but if there is.... Silent snitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:24 PM
20

I know. But I‘m not risking getting my ass beaten if I see this guy at the grocery store here in the neighborhoor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:56 PM
41

Scrotes will be scrotes! I was on OLD a few weeks ago and something told me to look up this guy that I matched with. Found him pretty quickly and he has this big ass “IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH X” on his profile. I stupidly told him “you sure talk a lot with women on here for someone who has a girlfriend at home. Does she know (of course she doesn’t)? I should probably tell her right?” He panicked and asked how I knew blablaBLA. He then deleted his account. But then remade one, took the time to sear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:03 PM
2

Nicki Minaj voice: shawty Imma only tell you this once you the illest. Babadadado. What the actual fuck did I just read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:32 AM
28

Yup, same. I can’t even hide my annoyance or ruthlessness while talking to those things anymore. Some of my friends think I’m too mean and should give people a chance. Hell, even men themselves beg for second chances like their lives depends on it. And what do they do? Dissapoint as if they’re being paid for it. People calling me mean is almost becoming a compliment. I call it “seeing your true colors and not un-seeing it”. I’m not accepting less than what I want cause I’ve observed my peers, fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:25 AM
69

WHAT?! The water is brown because of how much shit he has around his asshole? I’m about to collapse. And then he has the nerve to sit on the couch and bed naked while basically smearing his shit on the furniture? If this is supposed to be love and support, I DONT WANT IT. 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:09 AM
22

It’s the YEE HAWWWW for me 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:54 AM
39

I’m glad that this story didn’t end with him k*lling her... But boy do these men got the audacity?! Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:25 PM
4

Thank you! Hahaha 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:48 PM
29

I (early 20’s) remember this “man” (mid 30’s) sending me a message on OLD about two weeks ago. He asked me what I was looking for so I told him. I told him I’m looking for a rich man. He asked if I was serious or joking. I told him that I wasn’t laughing. He then proceeded to call me a few names, got angry at me for saying that and told me that women like me shouldn’t have the right to exist on this earth because they’re only trying to lift off of others their “succes”. My response? “You can jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:59 AM
45

I’m not sure and can’t relate. I’ve seen a bunch of social media posts with people calling me (and other women) golddiggers for cringing at people their pandora engagement rings. Excuse me. You want someone to share their whole life with you, take care of you, the kids etc etc but you can’t give them the ring they want and deserve? You really think you’re only worth $70? Get out of here. Financially stable men (or women for the lesbians) could neverrrrrr. That’s embarassing. I’m not accepting no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:31 AM
16

Imagine being this angry at someone for stating their opinion..........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:05 AM
3

Thanks for sharing your view! Symphony and poems took me out though hahaha. I don’t mind having drinks (read: drinking juice or something else that’s non-alcoholic) as a first date. But he indeed needs to make an effort and take the initiative when planning. I gave this guy two chances to plan a date. First time he did alright, second time he didn’t. Blocked him on whatsapp and then he started calling me. 2/3 times. Being blocked says enough right? I guess he didn’t get the memo cause he also se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:28 PM
2

Is having a picnic a low effort date? How come because I haven’t really seen anything about it yet. Of course I do know about the walk dates, having drinks etc. But this is a new one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:18 PM
12

Engaged for 5 years.......? What are they? 17?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:15 AM
5

Lmaooo you’re absolutely right. Noted. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:59 AM
3

Alrrrright, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:58 AM
3

Lol you’re not coming off as bitchy. I just said it as background information. Even before FDS I would never go to someone’s house and a pandemic won’t let me do it either. I’m just curious about how other women would handle this since I actually haven’t dated while being on this sub. Haven’t had the chance to implement the principles in real life. Still learning 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:57 AM
6

The Netherlands? Yeah you’re actually right. I’m definitely not going to his house. That’s something I’ve never been a fan of and I’m not doing it just because there’s a pandemic. Nope. He did come up with a few outdoor activities but I didn’t like any of them because they were in his city. He claims to not really know my city. Well, get to know it then. Thanks for your ideas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:53 AM
8

And that’s how it’s supposed to be! 😌😌😌 There’s nothing you’re missing out on. It’s ghetto out here in these streets. Focus on yourself and love yourself. Don’t be in a rush to get into a relationship. (UnfortunayelyH men have been around for ages. If you’re ready the’ll be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:40 PM
22

Paid menstrual leave? How amazing! More companies should do this since people (=men) often think that periods aint that serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:06 AM
3

Looks like shit stains. She has some audacity to blame anyone but that boyfriend of hers. Idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:18 PM
19

THISSSS. I’ve been told so many times that I’m difficult or too much. So now we’re telling women they’re difficult because they don’t give in to each of your requests? Oh? 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:57 AM
2

YOU DID THIS! YOU GOT ACCEPTED INTO GRAD SCHOOL AND THATS AMAZING. You’re going to do great things while in grad school and after. He’s actually jealous of the fact that you’re chasing your dream. Sounds like his own problem. Congratulations on your achievement. Don’t let him dim your light because you’re better than that. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:09 PM
2

You aint sh*t? No problem. Move away from me cause you’re in the way of me being great. I’m not a dickhead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:56 PM
9

He looks like a predator. Everytime men start talking I just sigh and get annoyed. They just never seem to understand that their opinion on things is something nobody wants to hear because their opinions are bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:07 PM
7

EXACTLY. Sometimes I say the most random things just to have something to laugh about with my friends. For example: “What are you doing right now” “Looking outside of my cell window” scrote thinks we’re the same and starts spilling about his criminal offences, how he was kicked out of the army and had a lot of debt Uhh... 🌚💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:14 AM
19

I just went back on there for shits and giggles with my friend this weekend. After being off for more than a year. -1819/10. Do not recommend if you’re not into dumpster diving. A lot of them are in relationships and their SO doesn’t know about them using old. They’ll act butthurt when you find out and ask. They’re oh so sad because wifey isn’t giving them attention and now they’re trying to find MeAnInGfUl connections. Then there’s the same trash that’s been circulating in there for years with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:41 PM
4

Thank you. I already knew. But sometimes confirmation is needed. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:00 PM
1

I went back to the dumpster fire called OLD. My friend wanted us to swipe together since the passport function is free this whole month. I must say that I’m not dissapointed at the non-existent quality called “men” who are on there. I tried swiping for an hour and I was embarrazzed the whole time. Who actually raised these people? The streets? Even animals have more decency. The saddest thing I came across was this guy who seemed alright at first. He could see that our locations were really clos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:19 PM
8

I remember reading threads and threads about women being proposed to with pandora rings. And people would get angry at me for laughing at them. I was supposed to appreciate the gesture, be mindful of men not having money and doing the best they could, be happy men even WANT to get married BLABLABLA. Girl, BYE! I would never accept that nonsense. I want to live more than comfortably. Want to live lavish. Being with a grown ass man who had a job and his own house, means he should have fucking mone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:50 PM
29

I’m laughing so hard at you girls’ comments 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:44 PM
5

I’m actually shooketh. Who in their right mind would EVER do this shit? WHY WHY WHY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:43 PM
28

So disrespecting women, raping them, killing them for no reason etc. isn’t enough? They also want to have sex with lifeless bodies now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:07 AM
6

That one tiktok sounds starts playing in the background..... You wouldv’ve jumped off your fucking balcony? So what’s stopping you then? Do it. Jump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:52 PM
129

THISSSSSSS. An acquitance got back together with her ex but “no labels”. He was trash to begin with and continued to be trash when they got together again. She started talking about re-painting his house, bought him a couch for his bday, decorated with plants and other furniture (that she bought), cleaned his whole closet etc etc. Because “ShE wOuLd MoVe In EvEnTuAlLy” Oh, you wanna know what happened next? They broke up within a month. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:02 PM
43

Imagine being so bothered about a community that wasn’t designed for you in the first place. So MuCh AnGrY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:29 PM
8

That’s exactly me! My score is under 150.000 eventhough I send my friends multiple videos a day. These men are just whores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:14 PM
12

I remember matching with 2 guys who wanted my snapchat instead of my number (🙄). When I saw their snapchat scores I almost passed out. Around 450.000!?!?!?!!!!!!!!! Why the hell does a guy have a score that high?! I send videos to my friends all the time. And I do “vlogs” to entertain them. Eventhough I do that my snapchat score isn’t that high. Not even half of 450.000....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:10 PM
8

I smiled while reading this. I actually never saved peoples number unless I chatted with them for a long period of time. (That’s the past though. If I start liking you and you have lame ass excuses about actually going on a date, you’re blocked. Find some friends elsewhere cause I aint it). ANYWAYS I remember being out with my friends once and my phone was on the table and facing upwards. This one guy texted me and my friend looked at the screen saying “who’s that? Why is the number not saved?” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:22 PM
2

I’ve started to discuss it more extensively with one friend who I always share my dating stories/REGRETS with (and vice versa). She get’s what I say and somewhat agrees eventhough she doesn’t really put it into practise. She has had sex on first dates and has a fuckbuddy that she met during the pandemic. But she always tells me to not do those things because she knows I’m better than that. There’s another acquitance who I tried to sprinkle some fds on but she doesn’t really get it. She’s into bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:10 PM
8

“Littarly” 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:03 PM
46

WTFFF?! That’s so disrespectful. I remember this one scrote sending me porn videos of what he wanted to do to me. And how he expected me to suck his dick. He knew I don’t send nudes and didn’t want any from him. He then had the audacity to ask me to send him a pornstar who had similar looking boobs to mine. I remember thinking “what the fuck’s going on? Why’s he sending me this shit. This is so private and crossing a huge boundary” I was very weirded out by what he was talking about and asking. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:31 PM
34

They really annoy me. And because of fds it’s easier for me to spot BS behavior. Not only from men but also women. Whenever someone gets back with her ex for the 3rd time after telling all the drama theh went trough, starts decorating and cleaning the “boyfriends” house because it’s so empty and nasty, gets engaged to someone who hurt them multiple times, see huge age gap relationships... I just laugh internally and think “damn... these men really are being enabled and get away with everything. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:05 AM
45

“He was too ugly to fuck anyways” 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:03 PM
2

Prostitution is “legal” where I live. We don’t really have mass shootings here. But men sure as hell still do other dumb shit to harm others. Surprise. The idea doesn’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:45 AM
10

Let the church say Amen. Hopefully she sees the light soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:43 PM
7

GARGLING HIS OWN CUM???????? I’m speechless. There’s no words for what the fuck I just read and how this idiotically unstable person is trying to switch it all on you. Un-fucking-believable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:43 PM
21

The ONLY fields we accept out here 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:52 PM
10

I can confirm all of this! I wasn’t a frequent dating app user. A lv friend of mine was really into it a few years ago. She was always (desperately) trying to find men on there and told me I should try it as well. I did. Then I deleted tinder after 2 weeks. Did that a few more times over the span of 2 years maybe. Then I stopped. The people I met on there were... quite special. Very low/no value. Angry, narcicists (?), playing games for no reason and overall time wasting. They were looking for f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:21 PM
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This message would’ve definitely hurt me if I was a pickme. Good thing I’m not. And let’s hope that the pickme’s who read this and feel some type of way, will do something with that feeling and this information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:58 PM
15

Every time I think I’ve seen it all, there’s some more shocking things showing up. Who in their right mind would feel SO entitled that they would call the police for this?! Ridiculous. Would they come if the girlfriend called the cops because the boyfriend is forcing himself onto her anyways? That’s a much more important question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:09 PM
2

Giiiiiirl, hoi! Did you find anything? I’m also going to look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:38 PM
42

What the actual fuck?! I’m so sorry this happened to you! That’s the most disgusting thing a person can do. Were there any cameras where you were? Try to report this to the police asap and ask for camera footage if you were in a populated area with stores/houses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:18 PM
12

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS do this! Unfortunately I don’t know if there’s actual backgroundcheck-websites here in Europe. If there are I would definitely make use of them. But I always look for them on social media. I try to find their family/friends and see what kind of vibe they give off on the social media they THINK I don’t know about. See if they/their family are racist, is he a women-hater, does he find belittleling (?) people normal etc etc. I would hate for a guy to act like he’s interested in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:58 PM
3

What does her having a tummy tuck and working out have to do with the whole situation? He wanted to force her into motherhood so she could take care of the baby and he could be the “fun” dad. Too bad she outsmarted him. Boohoo, so sad that he’s burnt out. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:28 PM
12

This must be sarcastic right? I can’t even think of one woman who would post some nonsense like this. They have better things to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:32 AM
31

Thank you! I needed this reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:44 AM
11

I totally understand how you’re feeling! This is honestly how I think about almost all my friends their boyfriends/fuckbuddies.... They can do soooo much better but they don’t see it themselves. It’s frustrating but oh well. I state my opinion once and never again. They know how I feel. I won’t repeat myself because otherwise I’ll be the “jealous” one. Sisters, your men don’t even brush their teeth, they have you thinking you should cook and clean for them. And the best if all. of them doesn’t e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:31 PM
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We want security and indeed, competence. Why should we go after broke men who don’t have their life together? So we can have a family and raise the children in poverty? Aht aht! I’d rather stay alone then. Because I know I’m competent and will always make a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:39 AM
4

EXACTLY THIS! Men are supposed to be the providers and go after what they want right? Then why should we women approach them first? I really dislike the “shoot your shot. Why do men always have to take the first step?” Because they just do! Most of them are mad because they can’t keep a woman’s attention. They’re not interesting enough. They expect us to listen to all of their complaining about BS. Go complain to your mama or therapist. ANDDDDS their perception of a nice guy is not even nice?! I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:36 AM
2

The only thing men have is audacity. It doesn’t work with me though. I’m not on there to hook up. There’s plenty of people who actually find a partner on there so I don’t believe when people say you can’t. But I hate putting in “effort” because I know many of them aren’t even worth it. So what’s the point of wasting precious time? You’re right about receiving a million matches with very few matches though. I hate that. What’s the point of swiping then? And then they (men) will be complaining on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:13 AM
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I'm sorry that you went through that. He was definitely a bad person with cruel intentions. Who gets mad at a woman for stating the obvious? He's acting as if he would even let his sister (or daughter) go to a strange man's house to chill with him and his 5 friends. He would flip the f*ck out because he knows. It's funny how I seen your post at this exact moment though. A friend of mine introduced me to using tinder 3/4 years ago when she as super desperate for a relationship. She got played a t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:51 PM
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I would love to learn how the sewingmachine works do I can repair clothing. But my “new”-ish hobby has been doing my own gelpolish and nailextensions. Playing an in instrument or a new sport is also something I’m interested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:56 PM
4

That gap looks so good on her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:49 PM
23

Why wouldn’t you want to spend all your money on her and treat her like a queen in general? 🤩 She’s beautiful and I’m sure that she’s smart as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:46 PM
1

That’s all you girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:46 PM
4

Poor baby. Look at his innocent little face. Uggh. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:45 PM
23

Lmaoooo 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:19 AM
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Just checking on the prayer I’ve been sending... any updates? scratches head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:03 AM
3

He needs to shut the fuck up. God doesn’t like ugly. And by the looks of it, this scrote is atrocious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:52 PM
8

There’s lots of people who say it in a funny way. I’m sure she’s a loving mom who spends all her days catering and taking care of them kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:03 AM
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LMAOOOOO sis really said “fuck them kids” okayyyy 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:58 AM
23

Tea at 10pm? Oh yeah you were totally waiting for a random ass dude to ask you to drink tea with him! A stranger! Yes!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:55 AM
5

He looks dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:08 AM
3

LMAOOOO “sort your life out”. He aint never lied though. It’s always the lvm with toes throwing gang signs and black, crusty nails who whave the ✨audacity✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:43 AM
3

Yesssss! I discovered her a few days ago because she popped up in my recommended videos. Love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:43 AM
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So according to him Tinder’s for ugly people? Hmmm, interesting that he’s confirming everything fds says about OLD! These screenshots remind me of this one time a scrote tried to tell me that I wasn’t on tinder just because I wanted to talk to randoms out of boredom. This b*tch really argued how I wasn’t allowed to do that and I should’ve just admitted that I was looking for dick (??????)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:44 PM
2

Could definitely be a hobby! I think anything that has to do with taking care of yourself could be a hobby if you put a lot of time and effort into it. My hobby is doing nails. I use builder gels, polygels and gel polishes. I could do it all day everyday and love watching youtube videos or browsing facebook groups about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:51 PM
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She can dig all the gold she wants because she’s worth it. Broke people always want to tell others what they should(n’t) do. Mind the business that pays you! Oh wait... Oops. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:39 PM
5

EMMAAAA, I love her! 🤩She aint never lied tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:44 AM
6

HUH???? Cake??????????? Stop playing man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:45 PM
15

GIRL I closed the app when I saw that and decided to just focus on my own life lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:25 PM
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I just opened facebook and someone was asking to see people’s engagement rings. Then she proceeded to be proud of being engaged for 7(!!!!!) years and receiving 3 ring upgrades during those years. I was shocked lmaoooo. Someone in the comments even said “wtf, why not tie the knot. What’s the point of all of this?” she answered that it’s because being married is so expensive but her fiance helps her a lot in other ways. But the icing on the cake? Someone commented that her parents have been engag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:20 AM
7

Is there shit in my eyes or am I seriously reading this? What the fuck!!!!!????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:58 PM
23

He can just admit that he’s broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:43 AM
19

A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on. Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:50 PM
4

I hope he’ll be ashamed forever because this aint it 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:44 PM
10

Aren’t they ashamed? What the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:49 AM
8

I am SO doing this for my master thesis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:38 AM
24

We love to see it!!!!! 🤩🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:36 AM
6

Sissss I love seeing someome who looks like me on here! The nails, the ring I love it all. 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:41 AM
11

Will scrotes just ever shut the fuck up? They’re a waste of air man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:36 PM
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THIS! Scrotes would kiss my ass and even compliment my hair follicles, send me paragraphs of love confessions and as soon as I told em “you know, you dont even have a highschool diploma which I find really bad... You probably smoke weed everyday (he wouldn’t tell me how much but my gut told me)... I dont want you as my boyfriend...” YOU FAT BITCH YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT I EVEN WANT YOU. I SHOULD FEED YOU PEANUTS. YOU FAT ELEPHANT. WHORE. Oh lmao....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:58 PM
4

Men who are unfriendly to your friends/other women but not to you. Or when they have a bad relationship with their mom but blame it on her. Most of the time it’s not the poor woman’s fault but her scrotatious(?) son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:22 AM
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You really said “world war II era dick”. 😭😭That took me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:49 PM
23

Lmaooo I thought it was me who wrote this comment. But forreal tho. Hey God, it’s me again. How is the prayer I’ve been doing, doing out there? Any developments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:46 PM
2

As you should! And it actually works My badass mom also does this for me. Because of that I’ll never be impressed by what these lames do for their girlfriends, wives, fwb or whatever. I’ve seen and experienced better so I won’t settle babyyyyy. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:04 AM
11

Some of you in the comments are reaching and sound a bit miserable. This is a cute and sweet video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:42 AM
9

Giving my mom a gift and dassit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:33 AM
3

I just barfed in my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:30 PM
3

Exactly! Stop playing and get that ring that’s been through the struggle and abuse away from me NEOOOOWWWW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:20 PM
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Don’t tell men your “bodycount” or that you’re a virgin. For whatever reason they’ll start to feel entitled to YOUR body as if you owe them anything. And they’ll keep up the nice guy act just to have sex with you and dump you afterwards. Because it’s some kind of trophy to them to have sex with virgins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:24 AM
1

Stop screaming at me 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:50 PM
6

Eventhough I’m in my early twenties that’s a HELL NAWL for me dawg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:09 AM
12

Praise the Lord because I probably would’ve spiralled into a depression. Thank God for intuition and the gut feeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:45 AM
6

DAYUM! Happy birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:59 AM
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He wanted to go on a date but was going out of town to his friends afterwards. He would come with all his belongings in a grocery bag because he didn’t have a suitcase/backpack. Then he got offended because I didn’t know there were men outchea who couldn’t afford a suitcase or backpack... He was surprised that I didn’t want to hang out with someone who was walking around with clothes in a fucking plastic bag. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:56 PM
5

The fuck....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:56 PM
27

LMAOOOOO “you have arthritis” took me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:07 AM
6

Sounds like my own problem if I want to walk around like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:54 AM
18

That’s the only important question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:54 AM
9

I made the mistake of using my abbreviation/nickname on OLD which I also use on FB because I don’t want people to easily find me on the internet since I have a unique name. There was this one time I talked to a random guy on OLD and stopped replying because he was boring and unattractive. What did the idiot do? Found me on FB, sent a friend request and started asking why I stopped replying.... The fuck? Ever since then I’ve never used my nickname/abbreviation ever again. I started using a fake n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:12 PM
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LMAOOOOO that lecture almost made me pee my pants. 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:54 PM
12

My mouth dropped to the fucking ground while reading this. Not even sure why I’m surprised but yeah... I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:08 PM
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That guy is a crazy idiot. Everytime I saw him on tv I was embarrassed to know that I live in the same country as him and breath the same air. 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:01 PM
6

WOOOOOO! Things you did? THAT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:32 PM
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And that’s what we always should do! My ears broke baby, you gotta show me! And if what you’re showing is trash? BYE! I understand that having sex with your fiancee might be a normal thing to do (differs per person). But this definitely shows that you shouldn’t have sex with strangers you just met/started dating because it seriously messes with your head and feelings. But onto better things! We should be happy that we realised these things when we did. And not 10 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:12 AM
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THIS! I’ve encountered a few guys who hated their moms/talked bad about their dads......... Needless to say they were total jerkoffs 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:08 AM
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I knew I wasn’t crazy and I’m glad that I saw this reminder. Cheers to a peaceful life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:30 AM
3

What’s a cherno boy? I never laughed so hard lmaoooo 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:29 AM
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My friend’s in one right now. I told her I don’t like the guy. He broke up with her twice and the reason? First one was so silly I can’t remember. Second one he didn’t want to move into an appartment. Told her after they broke up that he would find someone better than her because he always does.... Girl.... WHY ARE YOU GOING BACK TO THAT SCROTE WHO IS WASTING YOUR LATE TWENTIES. I just want to shake her until her brain flips to the right side again. And she can see things for what they truly are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:28 AM
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Do we owe men chances now? We owe them entitlement to our bodies? Oh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:23 AM
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It’s sad isn’t it? I think exactly the same about anyone who ever claimed to like me. They didn’t. If they did they would’ve behaved correctly. Even though they know I was nothing to play with, they still tried to disrespect me. Oh well. We know better now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:21 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that he wasted your time like this while being a big asshole. At least you know better now! Men are so weird. How are they so worried about what other men will think about they fiancee/girlfriend/wife? “They’re going to highfive me”? Because of your looks? So basically you could have the ugliest personality but that wouldn’t matter because you’re beautiful and have an exotic accent? I... men... Just a big no lol. 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:20 AM
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That’s not his best friend. That’s his wife lmao. She should get the hell out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:43 PM
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That’s the weirdest shit ever, I swear! They just want to waste our time to make themselves feel better? Or use us as a free therapist. And drain the energy, positivity and life out of us while doing it. Well thanks to these scrotes we will never ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:41 PM
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Lmaoooo this has been me for the last few days. Except I didn’t do wifey shit, he didn’t want to date and in hindsight he never liked me. OH WELL. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:54 PM
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That last sentence actually made me smile. I hope you keep this feeling forever and wish this upon all of us in fds.❤️ Thank you for replying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:13 PM
2

How did you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:42 PM
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Lmaoooo people from the Netherlands are something else. She should just move on. This story in a nutshell is dutch men for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:49 PM
2

Went on a date with someone I didn’t really like. His face was nice on the pictures but he didn’t bring anything to the table. Personality was unseasoned, we talked once in a blue moon and the conversations were boring. He asked me out, I said yes while knowing damn well he was boring as f*ck. But “He CoUlD bE ThE oNe” right? First of all I was late because I missed the bus and didn’t really care. When I arrived and saw him from a distance I was disgusted by his appearance. His style of clothing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:25 PM
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I’m glad that they all got to witness this idiotic behavior with they own eyes. But there’ll still be someone saying “well... it wasn’t that... bad? He just didn’t realize his strengths”. Man, get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:08 PM
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That’s great! Especially since you had a fear that you now concquered. Keep doing your thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:06 PM
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“We can’t afford you” THATS DAMN RIGHT THEY CANT! The only thing we accept is expensiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:06 PM
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This. This. This! I stopped talking to guys and TRYING to date almost a year ago. Started working on figuring what I want and what I definitely DONT want. Reflected on the SHITTY people I spent my precious time on. I thought I knew what I wanted (which is true) but I didn’t know the full details, which I do know now. And guess what? I came to this exact conclusion. Even talked about this with my friend yesterday for 4 hours on facetime. I was never really a pickme. Just clueless about some point…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:25 AM
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Alexa, PLAY THIS SONG AGAIN BECAUSE WE LOVE TO HEAR IT. You’re worth way more than being a hookup buddy. He better recognize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:05 PM
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Compliments from people who you admire hit your soul in a different kind of way don’t they? They give me fuzzy feelings haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:19 AM
2

We loveeee to see it baby. 10/10 reviews for a 10/10 woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:18 AM
1

Very true! I was thinking it had something to do with gourmet haha! Nice wordplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:17 AM
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“You’re beautiful” “Why is a pretty woman like you still single” blablabla. I hate these statements! Of course I’m beautiful. Why are you bothered by why I’m single? Confidence is a beautiful thing though! Keep shining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:16 AM
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Those are some really great compliments. We love to see an intelligent queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:59 AM
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The energy we neeeeed! We should never settle because there’s ALWAYS someone out there who wouldn’t be intimidated by what we want. My mom ALWAYS tells me that she’s believed from the moment I was born, that I was going to be great. And that she’s always prayed that I find my equal who meets me at my level or even higher. A mother’s prayer is powerful so I have no doubt that I’ll find my HVM. I just need to recognize him when he’s in front of me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:47 AM
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That's a beautiful compliment! Hopefully you'll be able to REALLY be at ease very soon. 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:09 AM
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That’s a very true thing! Strength should always be acknowledged. And people who do so are very much appreciated. Thank you for standing up for the women. They maybe would’ve never done it themselves out of fear. But we as women need to have eachother’s back and help eachother out. I love your name btw! Gourmay is very unique. Is it French?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:00 AM
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You’re a nurse? Thank you for doing everything that you do on the daily! That’s a beautiful compliment from your grad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:57 PM
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She should really join us! This space has confirmed time after time that the things I used to think about life and love, are actually not crazy things! Standing on your own is a huge accomlishment! Many people are afraid (eventhough they don’t admit it) to be alone. I get it, it’s hard. But it gives you so much more power and freedom to do whatever you wan’t without being held back. May we forever not be afraid to walk alone and stand on our own. Great things happen when we do. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:56 PM
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Giiiiiiirl I loved reading this comment! We honestly don’t give ourselves enough credits for the things we do. I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been used and abused my NVM but I’m so happy to hear that this didn’t let you stop from shining. You’ve done amazing so far and things can only go up from here. I remember being at my friends birthday party 2 years ago. Her others friends who I’ve only met through her parties were also invited and we were just all talking and enjoying the night. We came ont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:53 PM
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OMG I lived overseas for my internship when I was studying for my bachelor degree. I ended up in a house with 5 other male roommates and I was the only woman. It’s was so DISGUSTANG I was uncomfortable every second I spent in that house. Imagine sharing a bathroom and kitchen with 5 stinky, unmannered, hairy, disrespectful men. Fortunately I was always in my room or in the garden where it was alright. But never ever fucking again in my life. When I was younger I always told myself that I would n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:30 PM
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“You’re a golddigger and should appreciate me, a broke man, being into you because women hit the wall at 16” “Okay and?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:14 PM
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She’s beautiful. And that hair cut looks fabulous on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:09 PM
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That’s a great compliment! And of course very admirable indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:07 PM
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I see you! You did the damn thing! Being told that you’re smart is such a great feeling. Especially after struggling for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:07 PM
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It's always the NVM or LVM coming with some dumb shit! I've had someone tell me "if you lost weight you would be like Beyonce". Okay, I don't want to be like Beyonce but.... ok??????? But being valued by other people who have the same aspirations and goals is always a good thing! That makes me feel great as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:39 PM
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I'll start with mine! This happened about 2 years ago but I frequently think back to this memory and it always makes me smile. My younger (kid) cousin was going to attend a wedding and she started getting herself ready. She has naturally thick and curly hair and wasn't able to do it on her own yet. I wasn't going to the wedding so I was just chilling around the house when she asked me to help her. I got the hair supplies out and started doing her hair. We were just chatting about random stuff wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:27 PM
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Wow me tooo! Feels good to see someone say the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:00 AM
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Seeing this honestly made me feel good. And seeing you ladies in the comments agree made me feel great. Thank you for the reminder. Because even though I KNOW this, sometimes social media still influences my brain and I think there’s something wrong for not having experienced the “normal” things like love yet. But I think there’s more people out there that haven’t than people that have. It’s just that people don’t really talk about it. Maybe because of shame? Meanwhile it’s nothing to be ashamed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:45 PM
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“Mismatched kids” LMAOOOO not the kids. But you’re absolutely right! She had a great life where she came from and regretted even going to America. This husband of hers is a shame! She can do so much better and DESERVES so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:23 AM
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“I’m defending him because he’s a single father with a kid” This guy has 6 other kids he doesn’t even take care of lol. And are we still patting men on the back for doing the bare minimum? He’s supposed to take care of that child, the fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:18 PM
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I remember having this “friend” who would clean up her FWB’s studio appartment so she would earn points and he would ask her to have a relationship. He hates women and takes every second to bash them. But she still wanted to be his girlfriend soooo bad that she did shit like that. One time while cleaning she found a used thong and other clothing items from his previous FWB’s lmaooo. She won in the end though! Cleaning the appartment and her having money earned her the girlfriens title. She got a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:13 PM
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This is the energy we all need to project. The excuse for nog seeing your own BLOOD “they live a little far”. I bet it’s not even far. And he won’t put in the effort. Why would he put effort into women then? Since he doesn’t even do it for people with his dna. The true definition of a SKRRROTE. How old is this manchild and what is “around your age”? I bet he’s a pedo or groomer as wel. How can he be tricked into having kids? If he didn’t want them he should’ve taken the right precautions but of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:05 PM
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Dear God, this is what I want in my future husband. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:34 AM
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NOOOOO?!?!?! What the actual fuck!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:24 AM
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We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:34 PM
4

Happy new year! May this year be our year. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:05 PM
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What the hell.... This is so disturbing! First of all, who told him that tinder is a hookup app? There are plenty of people who find their partner there. I never understood people who go to someone’s house for a first date or get in a man’s car because of this! Thankfully women on fds understand. But when I’m on facebook or other social media I see so many women who think a house date or car date is okay (especially now that there’s a pandemic). Men are crazy and WILL hurt you if you don’t agree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:35 PM
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Beautiful! Love the nails as well. Happy new year 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:24 PM
2

Definitely! As soon as they tell me something’s off.... Gone with the wind I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:30 AM
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Sis’ hair is laid though. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:23 PM
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DAMN this sounds like what happened to me when I was talking to this certain individual. He had me at first with the sad stories. I even cried once about his sad past. Thankfully I quickly came to my senses and afterward it started getting real fucking crazy. Unfortunately I didn’t know reddit and fds back then but I’m glad that my common sense had my back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:22 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA this comment 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:22 PM
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Fellow dutchie here. Groetjes vanuit Nederland! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:13 PM
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Why is she laughing like it’s funny though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:31 PM
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This reminds me of the ever so popular FB post I saw yesterday about someone proposing with a €89 engagement ring and if women would accept it. I knew desperation was real and people settle for less than the bare minimum. But tell me why nearly every comment out of the 200 that were posted said that “it’s about the gesture”, “you’re a golddigger if you don’t accept”, “you people can’t even find decent men but expect a ring that’s more than €89?!?!”, “an engagement ring shouldn’t even cost more t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:20 AM
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Hell called. They want their residents back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:51 AM
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Congratulationsss! 🤩This gives me hope but lemme calm down 👀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:30 PM
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“Get the fuck OUUUUUT” and that’s on period boo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:50 PM
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I appreciate this kind stranger 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:13 AM
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I feel you 100%! I’ve started realising that a lot of people I know surround themselves with NVM and settle for less in general. The more they revealed about their boyfriends/dates the more disgusted I’ve been by the men and sad for my people because they dont see their own value. Luckily there are no low value friends in my circle because they removed themselves from my life. And my no value family had never even been around anyways so that’s great (sarcasm)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:04 AM
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Love your username! 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:05 AM
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So women are little kids that need to be disciplined now? What in the living fu-...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:05 AM
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That hairline tho lmao. In 1 year men age 27 years with that ugly receding hairline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:38 AM
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NEVERRR! I watch ID channel and I know men are crazy enough to k*ll their wive over her own money because they can’t spend it. As far as men know I’m broke and forever will be. My financial situation is none of their business and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:24 AM
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EXACTLY! That’s her son so she should be the one worried sick. Not a random step mom who’s been in the picture for 3/4 years. I’m honestly so happy that my own mom was smart enough to have everything together so I would never have to worry about a low life man ruining our life. This whole situation is disgusting me. But I know there’s so many women in these situations. And a lot of them probably would’ve given the money in the name of love. Well... if this is “love” I DON’T WANT IT. And people w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:21 AM
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Her husband and his son need to shut the f*ck up. Why do they even know about this money? This makes it even more clear to me that a man should never know about money I (!!!) saved up and worked my ass off to earn. Edit: Where is this man’s own mom to pay for the expenses? Why does this husband feel entitled to the money? Why is it selfish of the daughter to refuse this shite? That’s not her responsibility. And it sounds like this man baby of a son has had this addiction for a while (probably be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:59 PM
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Yup, that’s on God baby. Sometimes I still cringe at the 3 times I semi tried to get a reaction from some bum ass dudes. But then I remember I’m just a human being and it wasn’t that embarassing because it could’ve been worse. Oh well, you live and you learn! Nowadays people get the silent treatment from me and I love it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:23 PM
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Yes, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:48 PM
2

Knowing how “men” are there’s probably someone in this world who’s done this. I remember someone telling me that their daughter’s ex boyfriend threw the daughters dog at the wall. While the woman and her ex their daughter was in the room... Bruh 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:48 PM
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I know lol! But that one caught me off guard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:46 PM
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So you get the chance to have a “date” with your crush which has taken a long time... And you don’t even have the decency to put the food on a plate? Imagine thinking you can do less than the bare minimum and impress your CRUSH WHO YOU HAVE LIKE FOR A WHILE. The audacitayeee. This pasta shit looks like the buckets they use to feed chickens. And is that fried chicken laying on a leaflet? Just casually absobing all the ink? Oh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:32 AM
2

Can I dm you about your passive imcome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:24 AM
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How do you start with being financially independent and investing? I’m so interested in this topic but have no idea where to start
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:20 AM
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Hol’ up he ate the dog? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:05 AM
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Sounds like me! I’m actually a clown, smart and beautiful. I love seeing them be intimidated because they thought THEY were the prize. You aren’t mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:00 PM
11

Bruhhhhhhhhhh men are so annoying. Every time I think I’ve seen it all they just come up with an extra little dash of bullsh*t. WHY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:09 PM
2

You are all so so soooo appreciated! Let’s never stop looking out for eachother. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:03 PM
8

You know what I think? That men should take their own mental health more serious. This has nothing tp do with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:11 AM
130

saves this comment because 2021 is my playa year and I wont have any remorse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:36 PM
3

I didn’t even expect anyone to reply because it was just a random thought. But thank you so much for your message! Any tips on how to start trying new things? I like the idea but never really know where to start. I really want to start dating with a purpose in 2021 so I can meet my match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:13 PM
5

Stay safe and God bless! 💕I live in a place where riding your bike is more common than using public transport or a car so I know how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:09 PM
2

Nice guys be like 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:37 AM
17

I want a man in 2021. A real HV one. But I don’t want to try my hardest to find one. He needs to find me but he can’t break into my house because... Well, who would want that? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:14 AM
6

He didn’t even try to hide it. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:53 AM
2

Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:46 AM
4

YES! If you’re ever dreading a date DON’T go. I can count the amount of dates I’ve had on one hand and they were all with people who didn’t even have my interest (I know WTF?) This year on valetines day I had a date. A few days before I was considering not going because I didn’t like the guy like that. I should’ve followed my instincts because he was a fucking moron, the date was shit and he blocked me in the end as if he was the prize lmaooo. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:38 AM
10

My friend (25F) started dating a 44(M) year old and I’ve been a bit disgusted by it. 😳Haven’t said anything elaborate about it but seeing you post just validated my feelings. I just can’t imagine why someone in their 40s would want this other than for predatory reasons. And the “older men are more mature and know what they want” is so played out to me. Anyways, you did a good job. I wouldn’t even have replied but your response is a good one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:35 AM
2

EXC-AYU-SE ME?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:03 AM
4

Exactly! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:00 AM
33

How is this “man” sex starved if he only had sex once and probably wasn’t even good at it? And his definition of low quality is... Special... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:55 AM
3

We’ve all been there! But I’m glad that you realise that they were bad situations that shouldn’t re-occur. That’s how you grow. Before I would feel a bit sad about my friends always having somebody and me being by myself. But I know better now. The grass isn’t greener on the other side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:32 AM
20

Oof that last sentence! It’s definitely 1000% facts that second hand learning is very effective and important when looking at others their relationships. And you’re absolutely right. Most women settle and it’s so sad to see them struggle and be unhappy because of... Their fear of being alone or something? I definitely know what I won’t accept from a man after seeing what my friends went/are going through. Some might call me harsh for it but oh well. I’d rather not argue with some lowlife about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:12 AM
139

I’m the friend who has never had a boyfriend. And my friends always tell me that I’m not missing out on anything. Which I know. Seeing them stress over their low quality boyfriends/entanglements makes me glad that I’m not in the same boat. Sorry not sorry. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:20 PM
7

Exactly! Or he would say “oh... you can come to mines though”. Sir, fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:56 PM
8

Lmaooooo as if horny and desperate men would do this. They would move onto the next woman who is desperate too and doesn’t have higher standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:03 PM
9

Yup! She’s a clown. And he’s not even her husband 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:40 AM
9

Exactly! They have some sick and twisted fantasies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:39 AM
21

T H I S. They’ll even have the audacity to get angry at you for not wanting to have sex. But first they’ll conceal it for a little while. Before you know it they’ll call you a wh*re and all other types of names because.... You dont’t want to give them your body? Which is your choice? Dellusional if you ask me lmaooo. And don’t forget the weird fantasies and rude questions. “Men” are really something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:52 AM
25

I’ve seen people repost this on facebook. And this girl who’s from my neighborhood and pregnant as well, commented saying something along the lines of “I would be happy that my hubby would be able to de-stress during my labor by playing the playstation. It’s also a stressful period for him and he doesn’t understand all of it”. Girl, just be quiet pls 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:40 AM
11

sends a virtual hug You’re not perfect. It’s okay for you to fall back into old habits as long as you recognise that this is not who you really are. Letting go is a weird proces (for me at least). It’s okay to hurt and allow yourself to! You’ll probably keep thinking about this LVM for a while and how annoyed you are with yourself for “stooping down to his level” but it’s a part of life! You’ll think about it for a month, 2 months maybe even 3 but suddenly you’ll find yourself thinking “wow, I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:54 AM
3

This reminds me of my friend’s LV “boyfriend” or whatever he is to her. I could name 1001 reasons about why he’s a trash person. But what shocks me the most is that he doesn’t shower or even brush his teeth?! Last year him and his friend joined me and my friend for a festival that lasted multiple days. My friend told him to book a hotel and kept asking him if he already did. Of course he didn’t. What did he do? He parked in a parking lot and slept in a van where he had put a mattress. When we we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:16 AM
2

A leather purse LMFAOOOO 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:06 AM
7

My gut has never failed me. Even when I thought my thoughts might’ve been ridiculous life always proved me I was right all along. So you did the right thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:48 AM
5

Hahaha I didn’t even think of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:37 AM
13

I’m glad I’m not the only oneeee 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:27 PM
5

Exaxtly! Focus on yourself and the rest will come. If it doesn’t then that’s fine too. But it’s always good to be aware of what other have went through so you don’t make the same mistakes. You’ll be alright girl. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:02 PM
16

Don’t do it. You’re so young and have a whole life ahead of you. You’ll be mentally scarred by these no-life scrotes and it’s not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:54 PM
73

He doesn’t. And then he’ll be bitching on a relationship sub talking about what an amazing person he is and how weird it is that he doesn’t get ANY matches. I wonder why 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:02 PM
3

AND the nails are super fresh as well. We love to see it! Congratulations! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:00 AM
6

He sounds broke AF. Only broke men talk about being used for money because there’s none in their pockets. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:49 PM
1

Hahaha that’s so cute! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:46 PM
2

Ouuuu that looks delicious. Happy late birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:17 PM
6

So basically a girlfriend without the title so he can still do whatever he wants. Yea, okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:29 PM
2

What the actual f*ck..... What am I even reading.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:06 PM
16

One lied about that he was circumsised................ I didn’t ask and never even came close to having sex with him so WHAT WAS THE REASON?! WHAT WAS THE REASOOOON!?!? Another one lied about not having done criminal stuff. I randomly asked him if he had been a dealer in the past because my gut told me to ask. Of course he was lying. What else did I expect. 🙄 Then there was also this guy who told me he was around 165cm (my height). Always thought he looked funny in pictures. Unfortunately for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:57 PM
5

Sis needs to think about her blood pressure. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:09 AM
7

Not the wig lmaoooo 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:46 PM
9

That room must smell like rotten ass and sweaty ballsacks 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:51 AM
5

I’ve never heard of this. How does that work? Do you buy them or make them yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:46 AM
5

This is a must! I always have a few in my bag just in case. Can’t leave my sisters hanging like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:44 AM
89

What the actual f*ck?! This also happened to my old coworker. She was trying on clothes in the fitting rooms of a store. And the employee there tried filming her while she was doing that. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:38 AM
4

Happy birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:25 PM
4

I know right. Can’t believe I have the audacity. Should probably go throw myself away right now. After that I’ll go to the fields.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:56 PM
2

Exactly! They’re acting like they don’t pee or poop in those 4 days. Their underwear must be full of shit stains lol. And even if you don’t do anything intense you’ll still sweat a bit. But I guess that having a good hygiene is too much to ask for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:51 PM
55

Thank God for your dad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:55 PM
10

Nobody: .... Randoms in the comments: well yu see i werk frum home and uhhh yeh sometimes i showur once in four dayz becos i dont leave meh house and dont do any physical activity so yerh its fine yanno? 💀🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:10 PM
1

LMAOOOOOO THE TLDR 😭💀. I wasn’t ready
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:13 PM
6

LMAOOOO that’s probably the greatest thing she did this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:23 PM
15

YES! Okay girl you believe you! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:36 PM
84

THE FIRST SENTENCE!!!!!! People are so quick to tell women “you attract the vibes you send out”. You think that we send out “gimme broke, ugly, mentally ill with no intentions on working on themselves, abusive”? Get out of here. But the last part is definitely true as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:36 PM
28

I was waiting for someone to post this BS here. I read the comments and she had the audacity to feel offended by the people who called her out. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:47 AM
16

This!!!!! I really want to buy myself one because I deserve it. And my husband needs to replace it with my wedding ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:22 PM
1

You’re absolutely right! When I actually look at my friends who have a relationship I can’t really think about anything good it’s brought them... They try to disguise it but I know their boyfriends are highkey trash. And some of them eveb explicitly tell me to stay single because there’s nothing out there worth disturbing my peace. I didn’t think much of it but after reading your comment I’ve started to realize that they’re trying to protect me from harm. Honestky, I’m so glad I randomly found t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:51 PM
2

Okay you spoke to my SOUL! This actually made me smile so wide I thought my face would split. Thank you so much this really made my day 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:45 PM
4

I... I don’t get the joke... Seriously. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:59 PM
8

Aint this the muhf*cking truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:22 AM
16

I stopped reading at engaged for 11 years. Girl BYEEEEEEEEEEEE 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:38 PM
10

That’s so badass that you’re a programmer and did this! And the results are interesting and... sad at the same time. But what can we expect from deez scrotez. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:02 AM
24

Bruhhhhhh c’mon now.... Does he not have any common sense? Of course they can track every little thing he does on that computer. Is he dumb or stupid? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:06 PM
7

LMAOOOO I saw this on facebook too! Then someone in the comments tried to say that “he’s having a hard time and mental health issues”. Sis, be quiet. His mental state sure wasn’t suffering when he typed that “we can CudDlE and watch NeTfLiX” aka get muhh peen wet. I want better for all women but some just seem so stuck on degrading themselves by accepting this less than nothing. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:44 PM
2

Thank you for your insight! You’re absolutely right. Dating isn’t a necessity and I’ve always had that philosophy. It shouldn’t be a chore because society says that you should do XYZ and have things (relationship, house, kids) by a certain age. And indeed! I’ll get much more satisfaction from accomplishing my goals than chasing someone’s dusty son. Maybe I just want to find someone because I’m growing up and becoming an actual real adult. When I was younger I never cared about dating and a boyfr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:26 PM
3

Thank you so much for this! You’re actually right. Eventhough it would be nice to have someone that values me and to be in love for once... Working towards my carreer is something I should really focus on. People (myself included) might not see what the benefits are of what I’m doing right now. But I can’t wait for the day I’m finally done and happy/satisfied with what it’s brought me. I just want better for myself, my family and (hopefully) my future family. That’s it, that’s all. I think that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:31 AM
10

It seems like everyone around me is getting in relationships, moving in with their boyfriend and pregnant. Even one of my old “friends” who’s in a relationship with another one of my old “friends”. He never wanted her in the first place but they “accidentally” slept together when they went out with a few other acquintances. Ever since then she’s been OBSESSED with him and he never really wanted her to be his girlfriend. She begged and begged. Cleaned his house for him while he was gone (and foun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:35 PM
9

Exactly! I just want better for all women and this aint it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:17 PM
96

A walk in the woods........ With someone you don’t know...... Alrighty 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:06 PM
5

It is lazy! Can’t imagine ever agreeing on it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:10 PM
28

Is going on a walk an american/english thing? I’ve seriously only been asked once to go on a walk and I shut that down realy quick. But I’ve never even heard my friends talk about a guy asking them on a walking date lol? 😅 But hold up... how didn’t he know the basics of you being 21? He wants to go on a date with someone he barely knows their age? Putting in effor is sooo hard these days man oh man 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:07 PM
3

You’re very right! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:22 PM
5

Amazing, thank you so much! Some of the things that are on there made me go “hmmm, yes!” but I haven’t really hough about it myself. This is definitely going to help me when I decide to go back into the wild called dating. I need my soulmate to save me from this ghettoness called “men”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:23 PM
5

Lmaooo 😭😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:20 PM
45

Does he even shower on a daily basis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:46 PM
60

Congratulations! Any tips on dating very intentionally except for the basic “vetting”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:44 PM
3

LMAOOOO😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:30 AM
26

She’s so pretty and has this nice aura around her! And she’s absolutely right. Didn’t know I needed this but I’m glad I saw it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:47 PM
7

That’s always me wearing my cow or whatever animal onesie I want 😂. Never understood the relevance of that question anyways. They’re really out here expecting us to tell them we’re naked so they can let their crazy/nasty thoughts loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:15 PM
2

Thank God for friends like you! Even though it’s annoying to have to do that after a long day of work, I’m glad you looked out for her. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:41 PM
4

She looks amazing. But what we’re not about to do is let someone move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:12 PM
11

I’m so glad you guys are smart enough to understand that it’s crazy to do this with someone you barely know. (I know I know you could be with someone for 60.000 years and not know them). I used to have a pickme friend who was DESPERATE for love and affection. She would just jump in the car with a stranger to go on a date 2 hours away from where we live. I really wanted to cuss her out for doing that. It’s like she had no brain whatsoever when it was about guys. I’ve never understood why some wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:10 PM
2

Congratulations! YOU did THAT! 🤩👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:03 PM
5

Amazing! I need to do something for my mom as well. Good luck in school. 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:07 AM
16

I’m going to the gym tomorrow. Haven’t been able to go in the last 2 months because I just started my new degree. It’s been difficult to adjust to the workload especially with corona. To makenthis losing weight thing more pleasurable for myself I just ordered some workout stuff. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:38 PM
3

Lmaooo that one’s original too! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:53 PM
6

Hahahaha 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:16 PM
109

“A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on” - all the NVM’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:44 PM
3

Wow human decency, so amazing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:58 PM
2

Absolutely! I’ve tried giving people who weren’t on my level the benefit of the doubt and I’ll never ever do it again. Men have the audacity either way. Wheter they’re broke and ugly or not. Hopefully we’ll all find our HVM who’s worth the wait. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:41 PM
3

Definitely! I barely use instagram for this exact reason. People always wanna keep up this facade and impress others on there. I distanced myself from that a long time ago for some inner peace. I can’t avoid it all togethers because I still watch youtube or scroll through facebook sometimes. But patience is key. I know I’ll find someone who’s just for me and it’s going to be nothing like I’ve ever dreamed of. So for now I’m focussing on myself and my goals (like always 😜)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:37 PM
20

I needed this! My friends also always tell me to never settle and that I deserve the best. Of course I know that but sometimes your surroundings and social media (the devil) really tries your spirit. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:43 AM
10

Engaged for 8 y-....... HOL UP?! 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:58 PM
11

Sounds like he needs to GO. Idiot. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:01 AM
14

Woahhhh this looks amazing! Where do you get inspiration for your meals? 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:20 PM
18

If he truly wanted to, he would sis! Not enough people understand this. It also works vice versa 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:42 AM
24

I don’t even shave or wax for myself because I don’t care. I have sensitive skin so I’d rather just trim. And a lot of times I don’t because I. Don’t. Care. What makes men think I would do it for them lmaooo. Some of them don’t even brush their tongue so imagine how foul their body parts down there smell. Hell nawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:20 AM
43

Everything you’re saying is a big fat OKAY SIS!!!!!! This is what I love to see. They’re not playing is anymore. We’re DONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:07 PM
8

LmaoooooWhyWasThisMeoooooo. That taught me to just let it go man. Just go for someone you’re ACTUALLY attracted to and interested in. Because giving men a chance because they “might be the one” never worked out to this point. 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:51 PM
1

Exactly! And that’s what keeps me going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:46 PM
18

Facts. This guy who was trying to get to know me would be up at 2am just to call or text me while he would have to get up at 6am to work crazy shifts. I would ask him why and he’d tell me “because I want to know about your day” or he would just want to talk. Even when he was moving while still working crazy hours he would MAKE time. (He turnt out to be a shithead in the end lmao but it really showed me that if they wanted to, they would sis).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:13 PM
5

LMAOOOOOO WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:16 AM
2

Well... 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:07 AM
20

Do you mean: almost my whole life? 😜I’ve been done with men ever since I can remember. The audacity, laziness, no effortness, ugliness and all other negativity just irritates the living crap out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:43 PM
9

Sell the belt and treat yourself with that money. I’m sorry to hear about the guy and his crazy behavior. But on the other side... You don’t know someone after 5 weeks so you weren’t able to tell if he really was HV or not. Men can keep up a facade for very long (some forever). But this is a learning moment for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:50 AM
8

ShaBYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:36 AM
9

Mannnnn, if I had a son and this would be how he spends his time.... Smh 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:52 AM
6

This is a joke right? All that explaining and arguing about 20$? Isn’t he embarassed? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:39 AM
3

IMAGINE TRYING TO MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY. The bare minium.... Being happy... We should all just find a bum who doesn’t care about us and makes us depressed, sad and maybe even worse. Because being happy is doing too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:35 AM
7

I know silence is golden but people like this just make me want to tell them to shut the fuck up. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:33 AM
2

LMAOOOOO whuuut 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:23 AM
3

Barbara the buildress 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:42 PM
5

That’s some small dick energy mate. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:37 PM
2

The fuck is he talking about? Is this supposed to be funny? They’re gorgeous. Even my feet looks better than him when I haven’t scrubbed them and have polish on from 1975. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:36 PM
16

🗣OKAYYYYY!!!! This just gave me the chills and motivated the f*ck out of me because this is my life goal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:26 PM
1

Little did you know... But never again! You know better now 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:37 PM
11

Shiiiiii never for free girl! They would have to pay me. That’s what I would get out of this 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:22 PM
4

You go girl! Happy birthday and enjoy it to the fullest 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:08 AM
17

Lmaoooo sometimes I think I should’ve just went to college for psychology instead of law because the way these “men” are set up... I would’ve at least been able to get something out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:05 AM
7

Love you to all the moms who did their absolute best to raise us 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:32 AM
15

I have a good friend who’s like that. We’ll listen to eachothers miserable stories about guys. I’ll always tell her no and she’ll always tell me HEEEELLLL NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:39 AM
14

THIS!!!!! It happened multiple times with different guys. If I say something I meant exactly what I said wtf. I never understood why they’re trying to tell ME what I mean 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:45 AM
6

The fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:20 PM
124

“You just turned 33 on your 18th birthday” killed me. But it’s nothing but the truth💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:14 PM
3

You can spot people who don’t seem pregnant but actually are. The decent human beings will give up their seat. I don’t know and I don’t care about what the assholes decide to do because I dont associate with them. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:32 PM
5

The bad bishes don’t want you boy. Rotten fish smelling head ahh. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:47 PM
23

That’s why in London they have small buttons you can put on your clothing saying “Baby on board”! I think that’s an amazing idea to prevent these sort of thinga from happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:38 PM
3

Exactly! Because if you’re vague and want to see where it’s going, the other person might think there’s a slight chance for things to develop into a relationship. It’s a trap ladies don’t fall for it! No clear intentions = no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:51 AM
49

He want’s to see what? At your age they should KNOW what they want and do not want. It seems like they’re just wasting your and their time because you’re not exactly what they want. But they don’t want to be alone. I think you know what to do. Especially since you’re not invested in them. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:01 PM
14

LMAOOOOOO the last part of your comment 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:44 PM
4

Lord Jesus be a shield 😩🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:15 AM
2

I’m gonna to start saying this lol. Their feelings are gonna be even more hurt than they were from the ugly, cheap, ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:52 PM
7

You’re absolutely right! I have a “special” name which isn’t common where I live. That’s why I never use my full name on social media (except on LinkedIn). I use an abreviation of my name to somewhat remain “anonymous” on the internet. When I started using OLD I would eventually ignore people who I had some smalltalk with but wasn’t seriously interested in. Some of them had the actual audacity to look up my abbrevition on facebook, add me on there and start asking why I was ignoring them (WTF?!)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:50 PM
6

Some even say “it’s the thought that counts. He could show up with a ring from the candy machine and I would still say yes! Don’t be a golddigger you should BLA BLA BLA”. Girl, bye! I want the ring that I want and I’m sure as hell going to get it when I find a man who’s worth ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:00 AM
4

I couldn’t even read the whole thing. What a f*cking idiot. The way he talked to you as if you were a small child he was telling off. BARF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:54 AM
21

If your name is on your profile, no. Why should he ask for something he already sees?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:39 AM
3

I support this message 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:25 PM
3

I totally agree! Age gaps become more normal once both people have an established life. I wouldn’t mind dating a 40 year old when I’m 30. But when I was 20? *barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:24 AM
7

THIS!!!! You hit the nail on the head with your comment. I don’t even have anything to add lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:55 PM
3

I’m glad you didn’t decide to stay because he had “potential”. He was a poor excuse of a man. This sub is amazing. I don’t even know how I got here but I’ve been reading as much as I can for the last few months. It makes me happy to know that we all support eachother and help eachother to grow and learn important things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:53 PM
13

I’m still trying to understand why women buy that crap. “We’re getting divorced soon” and “I live with my ex but we’re not together anymore” are the biggest lies on this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:40 PM
5

DAMN he did cocaine?! Thank God those women and even his own daughter warned you about him! You’re right tho. You’re legally an adult at 21 but it’s actually soooo young. I’m in my early twenties and I often still feel like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:37 PM
15

I didn’t even look at it like that! He is indeed disrespecting his vows. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:35 PM
5

I wish I knew lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:40 PM
8

I think it’s wild how certain men don’t even have basic life skills. How did your ex-husband survive before he met you? Did he just not wash his clothes? Did his mom do it for him? People need to stop babying these guys. The majority would basically die without women. I’m glad you found someone who’s a good person and treats you well! I know they’re out there because I’ve experienced it once. They’re just hard to spot in the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:01 PM
19

In my Beyonce voice: “So sad you're hurt. Boo hoo, oh, did you expect me to care?” He just wants to use someone who hasn’t even fully experienced life yet. Once she’s traumatized and sees him for who he really is, he’s going to tell her that it’s her own fault. Scrote, BE GONE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:54 PM
16

The only thing I sometimes worry about is not finding someone who meets my standards. I really want a big happy family with a husband and kids when I’m older. It’s something I never really had growing up. But if that means I have to lower my standards and end up with someone who doesn’t even want to wash his boxers skidmarks, brush his teeth or change their baby’s diaper....? I’ll be the single cousin who’s always on vacation and drinking mimosas at 10 PM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:49 PM
11

Hmmm.. They say that at 25 your brains are fully developed right? Age gaps are more acceptable when the people are a lot older (if you get what I mean). 27 and 37 could be totally acceptable. Just like 32 and 42 is socially acceptable. Personally I wouldn’t know if I would date someone who’s 37 when I’ll be 27. But then again, I’m tired of men and haven’t even started dating seriously lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:46 PM
2

Yup! Great point. Is this the same as grooming though? Or is that somehing totally different?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:42 PM
33

The bar is in hell and men still can’t reach it... UNBELIEVABLE! I’m glad you’re seeing your worth now though. Better late then never. We all live and learn! I’m in my early twenties but FDS and the comments you ladies post really teach me what I do and don’t want when I decide I want a relationship. These guys aren’t ready for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:34 PM
28

I wonder why he’s getting divorced in the first place. 😉 But let’s not go there and destroy this girl’s feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:32 PM
12

Woahhh I’m so glad you got out of that! I could never understand why a grown ass man with adult pregnant daughters, would want someone who’s his daughter(s) age?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:31 PM
39

YES YES YES! I actually commented: “Look for someone your own age, honestly. Why is a grown ass man interested in a 20 year old?”Look for someone your own age, honestly. Why is a grown ass man interested in a 20 year old? Her answer? “well, i’m grown too and guys my age are too childish “ Okay girl.... Remember that regret is one hell of a feeling. Then someone else had the balls to tell me that she’s 24 and her babydaddy’s 40 no ragrets (😜). All of the commenters except for w few are basically …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:27 PM
9

Lack of experience is definitely something they thrive off! They love to pull that “you don’t know anything about that because yOu’Re A bAbY”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:21 PM
66

That’s actually a really good point you made! Men indeed think they can walk all over women. They don’t want a wife who’s an equal but a (bang)maid. God forbid you expect your husband to help in the household, wash clothes, do the dishes! Back to 1730 we go when women had no rights since we’re “abusing” our rights. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:17 PM
18

LmaooooooSHUTUPooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:49 PM
3

ENERGY!!!!! I just had someone I went on a date with a while ago (don’t even remember when lmao) text me and ask how I was doing. Didn’t respond. 🙂 Why does he care about how I’m doing after so many months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:43 PM
3

Might as well go for the people you ARE attracted to because they have aspirations, goals and something going for themselves. They still might be dissapointmen(ts) 😜. But at least you were attracted to them and didn’t settle in that department. Bums don’t make a chance from the beginning. And they still have the audacity to demand whatever they demand while being trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:30 PM
38

OUUUUU she snatched ALL of these edges. Take em sis, didn’t need em in the first place 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:13 PM
2

I absolutely hate this line! How would you be able to fake being someone else if you’re indeed, VERIFIED?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:08 PM
8

EXCUSE ME?! FORTY SEVEN? Oh hell nawl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:25 PM
2

UGHHH WTF?! 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:18 PM
15

Lord if this aint the truthhhh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:35 PM
1

I’m sorry! Hopefully it’ll get better and we’ll find someone who’s worth all of the struggle. 😛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:37 PM
3

Yup! I agree with the comment saying that it’s not a competition if you refuse to play the game. But the pickme’s do make it harder for us to be ‘accepted’ because indeed. Why would you put all of your effort into a HVW while you can get a pickme who will do everything your heart desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:36 PM
50

It wasn’t shocking but opened my eyes and made me realise that I’m not crazy. Wanting someone who is financially stable and makes good money is not being a golddigger. Wanting an expensive wedding ring is also fine. Because women have to endure a lot during their lives. Childbirth, being underpaid, being seen as less of a human etc etc. I will also never accept a man to be babied. When I find a HVM who’s absolutely worth it and I want to get married to, we will be eachother’s equals. We’ll both …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:35 PM
3

Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody has those days. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:36 PM
2

Thank you so so much queen! This message made me feel a lot better. I hope you get everything you desire and deserve in this life. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:21 AM
2

He did! But he was a classified NVM if I’m being honest. I went to a party yesterday and funnily enough his best friend was there and he recognised me. So me and my friend are going to his funeral. Just for closure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:58 AM
9

I’m 23 and graduated this year. I’ll start my masters in a few weeks. Dating while in university hasn’t worked out for me lol. The very few dates I did go on were trash and the guys were weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:13 AM
56

Well if “it’s 3,5 hours” he can come to you right? 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:03 AM
2

Last night my friend told me that this guy I met on OLD at the end of 2018, passed away. I feel so incredibly sad and keep crying every few hours... I never met him in real life because some things he would do or say used to put me off. We had our ups and downs, the latter being the reason why I cut contact with him. He had some physical (which I knew) and mental health issues (which I didn’t know) and he told me after something happened because of it. I told him several times to get professiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:39 PM
25

Yup, you’re absolutely right. I’m glad I’m a woman and not a man. Imagine being stupid enough to weekly spend $150 on drinks with strange women to get sex. Just go to a prostitute then? 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:44 PM
68

Why is he going on dates with people he sees no potential in? Unless he has no standards and sees potential in everyone. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:10 PM
5

Didn’t know that women need a legit reason to wear yogapants but ok... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:15 PM
19

I don’t see Tommy in the picture. Where he at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:10 PM
1

Definitely! Even though I don’t know it that second guy was an actual HVM, he made me realise that the things I ask for aren’t too much. It’s human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:24 PM
3

They’ve told me I’m picky but still manage to pick the wrong one lmao. Made that mistake twice and never again. Fortunately those mistakes taught me what I really do and don’t want. And I never did anything with those people so it’s whatevaaa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:13 PM
3

Is he looking for a life partner or someone to hold hostage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:03 PM
14

“You know I’m fat right?” NVM: No you’re not. You’re absolutely beautiful and I love curvier women. I see you in my future and would do anything for you “I don’t see this going anywhere because you don’t have a highschool diploma(!!!!), you’re broke, you don’t do anything in your day to day life besides trying to be an aspiring rapper and I simply want someone that’s on my level. NVM: YOU AINT SHIT. I TRUSTED YOU. I NEVER TELL PEOPLE MY PERSONAL BUSINESS. YOU JUST SIT THERE AND JUDGE ME LIKE EVE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:56 PM
2

YES. I remember using an OLD app. I typically just have 2/3 pictures and a dry bio so all the idiots skip my profile. They’ll think I’m either a catfish or bot which is perfect. There was this one guy who matched with me and indeed thought I was a catfish. I told him that I had better things to do. We had a brief conversation on the app and out of nowhere he’s like “you’re too extra”. SIR, are you even enough? 🤢You don’t know me so don’t even try to start negging/disrespecting me. A few months l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:43 PM
2

🗣HOW STINGY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:16 PM
62

Why would anybody be interested in this guy who rants about any- and everything? Who bashes his ex in front of strangers? Who seems like he has low self esteem? He doesn’t even try to put his best foot forward lmao. Yeah that’s a no from me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:01 AM
27

Guys with their shirt off or showing off their muscles Guys with a whole group of other guys in a picture. Who is you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:20 PM
3

He must be a special kind of stupid lmaooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:36 AM
3

This is terrifyinh wtf! Why does he feel so entitled?! It sucks to be ghosted but people on apps don’t owe you anything. I have a unique name so I never use my full first and last name on social media. When I was on dating apps I made the mistake of using my nickname on there. Some imbeciles had the audacity to look me up on Facebook when I decided to stop replying to them. And they would be like “why are you ignoring me on dating app name?” Sir, F*CK OFF I don’t know you and definitely don’t ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:22 AM
3

This is so sweet! Reminds me of when my good friend sent me a card on valentines day, telling me that she wishes I find an amanzing man who’s good for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:36 PM
42

What the actual f*ck?!?!?! How does he even have the audacity to fantasize about this?! This is honestly so disgusting that I can’t write a proper comeback. Imagine her having a baby with this idiot. He’d probably get angry at her when she breastfeeds the baby. “BeCaUsE bReAsTfEeDiNg’S rEalLy LiKe gEtTiNg YoUr BoObiEs SuCkEd DuRinG sEx”. Awful. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:32 PM
-11

Well first I always daughters. Now I would love to have a son first and then daughters. But we’ll see when it’s time! I might be blessed with only sons. I’ll make sure that they’ll never be like the guys I have had to encounter. Disgraces to society. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:56 AM
3

I remember the personal things they say about themselves. Where they work, what town they live in, which school they went to etc. Combined with a first name it’s pretty easy to find them on facebook/google. I also have a friend who’s really social and knows a loooot of people. If they’re from the same place as her, I just ask her about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:49 PM
4

It’s not a red flag. You don’t know him and he doesn’t owe you anything. You shouldn’t settle for the first thing you see when dating. It’s like wanting to buy a car. You shop around, compare prices, go to different dealerships to test drive (don’t literally test drive these men, they ain’t shit 😛) etc. My tip is to also talk to multiple people and go on different dates. It’s going to help you define what you want and do not want in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:31 PM
7

I also live in The Netherlands and you can easily find professional prostitutes in a heartbeat. WHY are these “men” not going there?! As if a woman would want to hang out (let alone have sex) with someone who stalked her, made her feel unsafe and didn’t respect her boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:25 PM
3

I totally agree! There’s also a lot of women who come from a single parent home but who are amazing people. So there must be HVM who come from a single parent home qnd are also good people. You as a person can’t help that you were only raised by one parent. If you had the choice you would probably never have it that way. The same goes for the abusive parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:13 PM
165

I’m sooo glad you trusted you intuition! Who in their right mind says that they’re organizing their tools in a shed that’s very isolated?! I don’t even want to think about what could’ve happened if you actually went on that date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:26 PM
3

Yes, THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:42 PM
14

I love love love those two together! This reminds me that I actually need to finish that show lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:01 AM
5

He seems to talk the talk. But you have never met him/experienced him so you don’t know if he walks the walk. He could say and promise any- and everything. Men can keep up a facade for weeks but eventually they’ll show their real face. Up until then you won’t know if he’s a HVM or a clown. But please don’t be head over heels for someone you don’t know. It’s only gonna hurt you in the end and he won’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:51 AM
37

Oh hell nawl! She looks like she’s been hit by a car. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:11 PM
6

I wish I could enter a screenshot of someone who shared this on facebook. I told her this aint it sis! Why would you even romanticize this bullshit? You’re not build-a-man or captain save a man. Her response? “Sis the point that i’m tryna make is you can build with someone you love. Thats it. Thats all. Wasn’t saying i wanna take care of a worthless man.. someone you love can be down on their luck. and its not because they dont try. Life can be rough for ANYONE.” LMAOOOOO alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:51 PM
15

The only person that’s going to help him stop being an asshole is.... tada, HIMSELF. If he doesn’t want to he’s a lost case. You’re not a free therapist who’s supposed to save him from his misery. He’s a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:28 PM
5

Get off the ground and stop this nonsense sis 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:59 PM
3

I’m waiting for that post! The Netherlands is definitely full of pickmeisha’s. It’s so sad to see how people here don’t even have basic standards for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:37 PM
21

Wow all this agression because you canceled?! It’s never that serious! I’m glad you didn’t go because imagine what he would do if you did something more “serious” than just cancel a date. Ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:16 PM
52

The audaaacity! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:21 PM
2

That’s what I’m saying! He could get a €30 bag and it would last him a while. He was just stingy and broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:10 PM
8

Lord, didn’t he know how much the movie cost?! That’s really awkward. And I’m sorry that he was feeling on you. Guys are so weird. I can’t even imagine that I’m going to find the least weird one who’s (of course) a HVM. He needs to come get me though because it’s ghetto out here. I was so shook when he mentioned that he didn’t have a normal bag/suitcase. I understand that times can be hard but dis tew much. And I’m not dealing with it! He had the audacity to get angry at me and say that I had no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:36 PM
28

He tried to ask me to be his girlfriend while I’d never seen him in person. He did this after I told him that it was my birthday but he didn’t care at first. He would only care if it was someone important like his girlfriend. Then he started talking about how we couldn’t really have 4 kids in the future and 3 would be enough. (I want to have 4 when I get older). He was broke and couldn’t afford the date so I was supposed to pay. But he wanted to show up with his belongings in a plastic grocery b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:38 PM
1

He was hinting towards sex. If you don’t want that, you’re right to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:43 AM
13

I seen some people talking about how it’s not that bad because the girl he abused was 15/16 and he was 17/18 when it happened. GIRL, BYE! A sex offender is a sex offender. How are you going to defend that shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:27 PM
16

I would’ve eaten it but that’s just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:06 AM
2

I just try to remember how draining it was to entertain these low lifes who tried to stay in contact with me. The attention was “nice” but it brought me nowhere. Them just wanting to try and talk their way into my pants because I’m of a certain ethnicity was cringeworthy and disgusting. (They thoughhhht lmao, nice try). There was this specific guy who was broke as fuck and tried to guilt trip me into a relationship? He got angry because I told him that being broke is a real turn off. Started ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:19 PM
11

One thing all the scrotes have in common is the audacity! Blehhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:00 PM
3

I love this. One more time for the people in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:04 PM
1

Yep! Lace/bedazzled/velvet things underwear has to be handwashed. Cotton and spandex can be thrown into the washing machind with no issue. The facts that he asked her so she wouldn’t be embarrassed is nice. But the whole ordeal is human decency in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:39 PM
30

Is this high value or human decency? It’s nice of him but I bet she never gets praised for washing HIS underwear...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:33 AM
15

What in the world is this supposed to mean?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:26 PM
5

Is this badoo? I only found trash on there. And people who indeed just want to cuddle, have sex, tell you they love you after texting for a few days etc. etc. What a time to be alive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:26 PM
3

How would he survive if he didn’t have her? This is so weird to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:52 AM
6

I don’t know/pay attention when there’s a retrogade but some of them do inderd come crawling back. I once blocked this guy who disrespected my time and effort. He wasn’t even that great so I don’t know why I tried in the first place. He got a new phone number and had the audacity to contact me, trying to apologize. Told him I didn’t know who he was and asked why he was contacting me. His ego was crushed, kept apologizing, I told him thanks and BLOCKED. There’s no time for these types of idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:50 AM
9

I tell them to plan something if they’re so “desperate” to see/get to know me. The LVM will ask me to come watch a movie at his house. Or won’t come up with any ideas but keep repeating the same crap. They all get left on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:37 AM
1

Me too lmaoo. But since I know there are good women there must be good men as well. They’re just a bit hard to find. The guy quickly shower his colors and it’s no surprise that he was a LVM. He was throwing all his emotional baggage onto me. And when I tried to have lighthearted conversations he starter acting crazy as if that was wrong of me. Boy bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:34 PM
5

Ughh this gives me flashbacks to when I was using OLD. I once got a message from an (adopted) black guy who said “Normally I’m not into black women but you seem different”. That’s not even a compliment so shut the hell up. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:49 PM
6

What the fuuuuck?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:14 AM
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