Facts!!! 🔥

KiwiTigerLoon · 2021-06-28T03:23:29+00:00

Truly. I saw a tweet that was like “I don’t believe it when anyone says it’s been ‘months’ since they had sex. Not possible.” and I was like….damn what a way to tell the world you can’t fathom someone thinking another person is not good enough to have sex with

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RecordingImportant94 · 2021-06-27T20:12:17+00:00

Despite always having had a high sex drive, I have really enjoyed my year of celibacy. It feels amazing to take back control of my body and treat it as the temple it is, especially after years of coerced sex with my ex. I initially toyed with the idea of getting a dating app for the first time just to scratch an itch so to speak, but I’m so happy I didn’t, the longer I go the more clarity I find. A few moments of hormonally driven lust with some random, probably shitty guy is not going to make me happy in the long run. Finally feeling that I have total control over who accesses my body is incredibly empowering.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2021-06-28T03:55:30+00:00

The majority of men don't deserve any pussy.

yeahhh22 · 2021-06-27T20:17:26+00:00

I can't get past the fact that when you have sex with a man you are symbolically and potentially allowing him to father your children. Of which you will inevitably invest disproportionately more into by nature. It makes sex very not recreational to me. Anymore. Especially since as has been said so many times before. Dick is abundant and of low value. I don't really see sex as a display of love or symbolic of a special bond anymore but a replaceable and disposable resource highly sought after by men. And I am not aligned with that lol.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-06-27T21:31:26+00:00

I hate being a woman and judged for being single and not having had PIV sex, by fellow women! I had a therapist judge me for being single, a family acquaintance, and my female roommate.

I am single because I was raised by a gross man who abused me and didn’t want me to have a bf, I didn’t get out till 24 and met with more trauma.

A lot of women are single due to male violence or male abuse, why do some women judge women for being single? (In my experience they’re usually pick me’s but it still hurts.)

From now on if another woman asks me why I’m single I’m just going to say “because no one has been worthy of me.”

I was raised by a porn sick pedophile, snd the way most men talk reminds me of him 🤢a lot of them openly brag about their “prowess” and have crass and crude humor and it’s constant. How are women attracted to porn sick overcompensating men?

I would want someone who is authentic and honest, doesn’t care if other men like him but cares about having values and respecting others. Especially women. Someone who values themselves and has worked on themselves and has ethical values. But I’m not holding my breath.

I’ll never have sex or share a bed with a man who uses porn. I’d be afraid of being raped in my sleep. Men are dangerous, they really are dangerous. I’d say 1 in 3 are rapists. How do people downplay how dangerous it is? I won’t even entertain the idea of dating a man till I heal, and won’t ignore red flags. I want to want it, but not feel I need it or desperate.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-06-27T20:04:06+00:00

That’s a given. Battery operated boyfriends at least aren’t one pump chumps or 4” inches of ED, and your pleasure is guaranteed. Better to be celibate and to respect your body than to get some useless soul tie to a scrote that sucks in bed, which is most of them.

aplaceformythoughtss · 2021-06-27T19:13:59+00:00

I completely agree with this!! I can never sleep with a low value men ever again 🤮I’m so glad I read the handbook on this matter. Remember ladies, never sleep with a man until they show commitment!

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-06-27T20:23:39+00:00

I just can't stand to make a shitty man happy 🥰

_Amarantos · 2021-06-27T21:57:30+00:00

Currently vetting and going on dates with a guy and a lot of people are shocked that I haven't slept with him yet...it's been 3 dates.

camille_san · 2021-06-27T23:17:24+00:00

Shit at this point I feel like most of these men don’t deserve to set their eyes on me, much less their hands

frostedgemstone · 2021-06-27T20:08:04+00:00

100%. If I could prevent them from even looking at me I would

Peak_Tree · 2021-06-27T19:20:20+00:00

Can confirm. no s*x >>> unfulfilling potentially risky s*x with a pornsick sc0.te.

arnezuara · 2021-06-27T20:14:36+00:00

Early in my teenagehood, I was thinking that the first time I’ll have sex will happen with a person whom I love & who loves me back. I dreamt of a healthy, gentle relationship.

A year later, I was consistently manipulated, abused, groomed, and almost got raped by a man who was close to my distant “family”. It started once I was of “age of consent” in our state/area. I was a foreigner, with no family around.

I was disassociating until maybe my early twenties. I viewed sex as something I could just do to my body, since I knew I wouldn’t get attached (like this was some superpower). I regret this so much & I still don’t know what a loving, healthy sex looks like.

Since my last relationship ended, I decided I won’t share my body with anybody unless a clear, consistent commitment has been established. Until that person tells me they love me & prove it, time and time again. Otherwise, it’s just not worth it.

Lykah · 2021-06-27T19:40:51+00:00

This is pretty much along the lines of what I reply when friends act bewilderded about me not having had sex yet. I just tell them, have you seen most of the men we know? Thanks, but no thanks. If I wasn't living in such a homophobic country I'd probably eating my wife out right now thouhh.. sigh

Winter_Magician2594 · 2021-06-27T19:03:04+00:00

That part.

waddamelone · 2021-06-28T07:35:47+00:00

I’ve been saying this to everybody I know for a very long time. I have a friend who always tells me that it’s true BUTTTT she needs affection, to be held and kissed. People who are celibate also crave that. They just don’t give in easily because they KNOW that the male species is... different (by lack of better words).

And being kissed, held or having “affection” shown to you by a stranger that you’ve met on tinder after 1,5 hours of being in their house as a firsy date.... Nah. Doesn’t seem like a great setting to be having your “needs met”. But hey, whatever floats their boat!

Dolphin_Moon · 2021-06-27T22:17:21+00:00

Honestly these past two years deciding who is worthy to enter my body and touch me has changed me for the better. Its a lot of filtering and vetting but feeling confident in my choice to who i have sex with definitely helps me feel better.

That being said I have only had sex twice within the past year lmao. Dildos and vibrators for the win!

Dinaslabyrinth · 2021-06-28T00:21:07+00:00

Honestly, ego aside. This is actually a really really true statement.

SolunaJune · 2021-06-28T03:31:20+00:00

I think that if asexuality is a spectrum, I’m probably more asexual than not…but I wouldn’t call myself an asexual because some desire is there. I’m a 38 year old woman and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never met a man that made me want to have sex with him with all the risk of pregnancy and STDs. I got a lot attention from men when I was younger, and how they would talk to me and treat me was vile and just turned me off of men. I was a thing to them.

I grew up in a religious household that had positive and proper views of sexuality. Not too different from FDS values really. It helped me to value myself more than not.

There is a lot of stigma for older women who are still virgins. I don’t tell anyone other than my doctor, and still I don’t like to then because I’ve been judged by so-called medical professionals.

sowhatisallthisthen · 2021-06-27T21:04:30+00:00

period.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-06-27T20:07:42+00:00

Yesss, my bc is gonna remain at 1 for a very long time 🤣.

IAteTheDragon · 2021-06-28T14:53:31+00:00

I sometimes just wonder, how would a guy react to an idea of casual sex that would involve me coming to him and handing him a decent sized dildo to pleasure me with, and after I climax I leave. I am sooo curious, cause in theory it sounds really great. 🤔

shutup201 · 2021-06-27T20:02:53+00:00

Yep!

munissa · 2021-06-28T04:01:45+00:00

This is so true hahahahahha

Rosee-lil-feet · 2021-06-28T12:01:28+00:00

Exactly how I feel

Twolipz_78 · 2021-06-28T09:49:26+00:00

This is IT, exactly, It’s not easy for me but at least it’s easier!

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-06-29T06:05:20+00:00

I find myself with high libido at times but ughhh the local dating pool in my area.

Title	Facts!!! 🔥
Author	BlissfulThunderStorm
Upvotes	3203
Comments	62
Date	June 27, 2021 6:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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