| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 241 | Your standards aren’t high! | REMINDER 👑 | melodicamagica | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:09 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 26 | «Men will sexualize us anyway so why cant we earn money off it?»Sure, men are going to sexualize us anyway, but it doesn’t mean we should put our bodies up for sale. I don’t understand that logic at all. I think it’s creepy that random men probably want to see me naked/ use me to get an orgasm but it doesn’t make it any better if I say “okay. Pay me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Moving in with him = You are his ATM.That makes sense. I’ll definitely have to rethink my stance. Thanks for explaining ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:39 PM |
| 129 | The only right way to use dating apps 😂And of course some scrotes felt called out when she said half of the men on tinder are in relationships and told her to “shut the f up” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 12 | This is a silly question but I don’t know where else to ask, pls help 😬Yeah men like that are garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 12 | I’m so jaded and cynical. I want to find this sweet but part of me feels uncomfortable knowing the amount of time he had to spend with a bunch of underage girls to make this. Also, IT guys are notoriously creepyI don’t think dancing with a bunch of young girls in what look like cheerleading outfits (so a shirt and basically underwear) is cute at all. I would hate this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:38 PM |
| 26 | This is a silly question but I don’t know where else to ask, pls help 😬Girl, do yourself a favor and dump him. not worth it. Also, if he can lie to you so much (lying by omission absolutely is equally bad as lying to your face which he’s also doing!!) then he doesn’t respect you. And I don’t think you can love someone you don’t respect. Go find yourself a man who is worthy of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 13 | Even the CDC is promoting 50/50 😅Why would you miss paying for your own meal? Or worse, if you order something like a salad and he gets a steak :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:04 PM |
| 38 | Ummm...yes? And?Wouldn’t doubt it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 127 | Ummm...yes? And?Yeah definitely but I definitely couldn’t ignore the “this is not your friend ;)” part. Like they not only don’t listen to good advice.. they also resent the women who give sound advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 570 | Ummm...yes? And?That’s so dumb… she’s a great friend. Women shouldn’t do shit for men if they won’t reciprocate. We’re not maids. I guess a friend who questions your behavior is bad? Nah sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 9 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....His body language and everything is so threatening. Like even if I didn’t listen to the video my intuition tells me this guy isn’t safe to be around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Be careful who you have children with…Right, I noticed he was proud of his muscles but that’s not the only thing women look for? He could have used a haircut and a shave and a shower at least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:38 PM |
| 12 | I should dump himHe sounds like he’s not adding value to your life. I’d advise you to focus the energy you used to spend on him on yourself. You sound like an amazing woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 195 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.That’s so terrible! I’m so glad you got out of there safely. It’s just.. so disturbing how you were hurt and that creepy man thought “huh.. how can I take advantage of that?” It’s like they’re just hiding in the grass waiting to strike 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Wow ! New here, pretty certain this sub saved my lifeAh, that makes a lot of sense of sense actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:40 AM |
| 95 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.He must know at least one woman he can ask about this?? And he knows he’s doing something wrong by posting on there but of course he gets coddled. “We should be more inclusive!” 🙄 NO! Men need to stay out of women’s spaces. I don’t care what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 71 | Wow ! New here, pretty certain this sub saved my lifeWow. I can’t believe a friend would push you towards a guy who clearly made you super scared! He was oozing red flags!! I’m so glad you didn’t listen to that awful advice to give him a second chance and that you found this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:41 PM |
| 115 | Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen??Lol they’re probably thinking HE isn’t good enough for HER 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:02 AM |
| 8 | All of the Female Dating Strategy Social Media Accounts - Please FOLLOW, LIKE, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE!!I just liked you on Facebook ❤️ I don’t really use other platforms so it’s nice to see you’re posting content on there too ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 86 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleI hate how he expects her to eat the same amount she ate before pregnancy and even puts quotes around “eating for two” as if he doesn’t believe that she actually needs to eat more because she’s pregnant. And he knows best of course 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 14 | Violent Sexual Lingo…Yeah that’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 49 | Obtaining Self loveFirst of all, I don’t judge you for ending up in this situation. Men are very good at manipulating and our society basically grooms us to accept abuse and mistreatment. I congratulate you for taking the first step in learning to love yourself above all- deciding to leave a man who is not good for you or worthy of you. I wish you so much luck!! I do have some advice to be kinder to yourself and love yourself: change how you talk to yourself. You deserve your own kindness. Don’t call yourself “stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet?Very good point! Babysitting my autistic brother is nothing like what my mom experiences. At the end of the day, I can have quite a lot of freedom when I’m off the clock but she has very little free time. Please before anyone has children, consider also that your child could be born with special needs that require so so much more time and attention than other children. I adore my brother. He is smart, funny, and affectionate. But being his caretaker has taught me that children are hard work and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:57 PM |
| 78 | Facts!!! 🔥Wow yes!! How did I not think of that? Patriarchy has really pushed the narrative that only coitus is real sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 10:22 PM |
| 14 | LVM I see it now and I am ready to leaveI’m struggling to see what redeeming quality this man could possibly have. I’m so glad you’ve decided to extricate your lovely self from that situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 18 | Man who has a gf won't stop sending me nudes of ex girlfriends, refuses to grasp the concept of consent.Sure, they consented to their nudes being viewed by him, at the time they were in a relationship. But they did not consent and are not consenting to having their nudes viewed by others or even him now that they’re no longer together. LVM will really brandish the word consent like a shield lmao but they don’t even understand or care what it actually means. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 10:36 AM |
| 35 | How can I ever forgive myself?I am so sorry that he treated you that way. But don’t blame yourself for being a loving person and some asshole taking advantage of that. You are able to truly love someone and that makes you better than your LVX, who I doubt would be capable of a genuinely satisfying, mutually respectful relationship (even with a woman who is his type). And you know much better now. You know how to protect yourself, armed with the FDS teachings. Would you look down or blame anyone on this sub who has put her tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 10:32 AM |
| 40 | The mask always slips. Sometimes it's four months, other times it's four days.Yeah, absolutely not, dude. One time a classmate who wanted to be my “friend” invited me to go to a park with him… when we had never had an interaction outside of campus. At the time I thought I was being mean but declined anyway and I’m glad I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:02 PM |
| 9 | LVM stay mad at HV behavior!Ooh, that looks so yummy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 11:25 PM |
| 172 | Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys?I think that’s a reasonable standard. I would feel very uncomfortable if my bf had been with multiple women before me (considering I only had one sexual partner before him). A guy who has been with lots of women probably doesn’t have the same values as you. My bf and I both think that sex is special and should be reserved for people you love. It was actually him who wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. Also, lots of guys are awful and want to have sex with virgins for disgusting rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | "Women have it so easy."I can’t help but think… if you can’t get aroused, should you even be having sex? If a man’s body isn’t healthy enough to get an erection, why force it? If a man can’t make a woman wet he shouldn’t be having sex with her either. It’s one thing to have to use some lube but I’m personally kind of bothered that men can’t just accept the reality of aging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 42 | I made a meme out of my cats for you beautiful women 😘78 in 1 shampoo 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 75 | Gold flags over green. Put your phone away and have a peaceful night.Beautifully written. You’re absolutely right, too. And honestly? His loss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 63 | This 29F is scared to ask a guy to be exclusive but also is willing to move countries to be with him??Oh no no no no. Why are women willing to go to such great lengths for men who don’t make an effort? (We know why but it’s so frustrating!!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 17 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.yesss!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:48 AM |
| 63 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.Wow. Men should just not be allowed in the delivery room since they clearly can’t behave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 22 | Creepy trait about LVX I just realized…Oh yikes, that’s even worse. What a blatant double standard 😠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:19 AM |
| 15 | I can't stop laughing at this. Hit top of a popular subreddit for jokes. His wife falls from the sky and this LVM says "okay"? I'm dying.He’s even carrying her wrong 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:13 AM |
| 70 | Creepy trait about LVX I just realized…Very good point. Keeping others’ private information to oneself is basic decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 92 | Netflix: I am not an Easy ManI enjoyed this film. It was cathartic to see the tables turned on men for once because that’s the only way they’d know how we feel. But also, it just made it so much more clear how soul-crushing it is to live under patriarchy. Not because I don’t empathize with women but I think that we have grown a little used to seeing female suffering. So to have it enacted on males is very illuminating. I urge anyone interested to watch it and tell me your thoughts on it please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 32 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.Punish a man… by shaking your ass in his face? By objectifying yourself? Sure 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:21 PM |
| 8 | What is even the point of being in a world where you are constantly preyed upon and looked down upon I don’t even have the energy to keep working or going on anymoreI’m so sorry you have to deal with such LVM. I have wanted to give up so many times just knowing how terrible things are for women everywhere, how misogyny transcends borders and cultures. But I have found so much hope on FDS, in all places where women are aware and outspoken. Maybe someday you could find a job with mostly female coworkers or better managers who will actually care about your comfort and peace of mind at work? Ugh, it makes me so so angry that you even have to deal with that! I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Communication is OverratedUgh yeah, for real. It’s exhausting. Good call saving yourself from that trouble, Queen. I’m sure pursuing and reaching your goals will be much more fulfilling than babying a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 83 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.What?? What an asshole! Men really feel SO entitled to female attention, so much that they do idiotic shit like that apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.Ugh, that is just awful. Pedophiles are some of the lowest scum. I’m so sorry you went through all of that. I really think you did the best you could at the time. You were a young girl yourself and surrounded by older creepy men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Advice from Baba Yaga (written by Taisia Kitaiskaia)This is so beautiful! Men who only bring crumbs to the table can get the hell out of my kitchen 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Ask a man why he loves youAww, he sounds so sweet. I’m happy for you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 7 | I Always Wanted to Date a Man I Could Look Up To. It Appears There Aren't Any.I feel like wanting a smarter man that yourself might not be the healthiest thing? I feel like you should ideally want someone who is as intelligent as you but has qualities you admire. My bf has strengths I don’t and I have strengths he doesn’t that he admires. I think if I thought he was overall more intelligent than me there’d be a power imbalance. Obviously you are allowed to have whatever standard you want. Just some thoughts I had while reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Left a six month relationship with a lvmI’m so happy for you!! Sounds like you’ve been able to thrive without some scrote weighing you down. Brava!! 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Scrote hollered at me and random women today "I can be your sugar daddy I found a quarter"That’s just sexual harassment.. nothing funny about it 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:17 AM |
| 6 | FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulationBadly dressed dude thinks he’s such a catch lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:38 PM |
| 126 | Listen to a man describe his dream woman, whole time it’s his mother 🥴Damn, is she okay??? Why would she be okay with doing that?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:08 AM |
| 24 | I am not a fleshlightYou are so so smart! I wish I’d been this aware of men’s bs at your age. You are right to feel insulted by how men treat women and you are worth so much more than what pornsick men would have you believe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:16 AM |
| 34 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.I doubt they would do this kind of affirmative action for women. So a lot of competent women are being cheated out of the education they deserve just to coddle a bunch of idiot men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:08 PM |
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