Over a year of dating and I still feel like I’m chasing after crumbs. I spent hours helping him with his personal statement for residency (we are both in medical school) and he can’t be bothered to even read mine. I get so little affection from him that somehow I end up feeling grateful when he bothers to text me back. I’ve avoided thinking about leaving him until now because I was scared of losing the person who was my best friend prior to us dating. But if he treats me like I mean nothing to him then we obviously weren’t really friends in the first place. I deserve better, and he definitely doesn’t deserve me.