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4

I’m so out the loop, I had no idea he has 7 kids. That should’ve been an automatic disqualifier right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:21 PM
4

Sounds just my like ex who uses IG (constantly) to be on the prowl and seek out other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:50 AM
15

Buying diamonds from Zales, getting a facial and/or massage, getting my hair blown out, buying desserts like cakes and pies, etc. I might drive myself to a new city and shop and explore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:47 AM
66

Who even makes a joke like that? I hope no woman ever gets involved with him because you’d probably end up missing too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:34 AM
47

He’s either on the run, or on his way to committing suicide. The latter is a wild guess but if that happens, her death will probably remain a mystery for years to come unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:41 PM
18

His family are POS, too. I don’t care if that was my son or not, I couldn’t defend him. It’s obvious who’s at fault .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:20 PM
12

Is he James Charles or something? “HEy SisTeR” 🤪🤪🤪🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:10 PM
5

Probably, I don’t care. I don’t want my “dad’s” last name anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:17 AM
44

This subreddit has shown me that I should’ve left at the first red flag instead of hoping things would CHangE, and that he’ll come to realize how important and valuable I am. Instead of wasting additional time and getting attached, I should’ve left and known my worth sooner. Reading the handbook made me reflect on a lot, and I appreciate everyone who put the handbook together for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:29 PM
6

One dude always told me how much he wanted to ——in me. Never said anything about wearing a condom or even me using birth control… I would never take BC, but there were no precautionary measures taken on his side. All he thought of was sex and obviously sought to put his pleasure above my own, and he totally ignored the potential risk of getting pregnant. What a POS. I didn’t let him get any btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:37 PM
10

Sorry, but she’s weird as hell for putting herself through this. She’s using her hard-earned money to pay his legal fees and other court-related expenses. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:01 AM
16

Not paying, or wanting to split the bill. Not checking to see if you got home safely after the date. Being rude to the waiter/waitress. Trying to make a move after the date is over… Following random girls on social media and/or liking their pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:00 AM
47

I honestly wouldn’t even read all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:58 PM
38

Same here. This dude was faking the funk and essentially, strung me along because deep down he knew he didn’t want to commit to me. But he sure knew that he wanted to sleep with me like 30 days in. Glad I dogged that bullet. Don’t know where his crusty peen has been 😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:54 PM
64

It’s even worse when they scribble out the face or put a clown emoji over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:35 PM
9

OLD is such a waste of time. It’s literally finding the same types of people in different bodies. I don’t think I’ll ever find my person on dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:33 PM
12

Nothing lol, not my type. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:57 AM
10

Well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:41 AM
28

This!!! Many women put white men on a pedestal, and I truly don’t know why. I’ve been with a few and some are extremely conniving and disrespectful. Certain dudes will always be shitty regardless of race, it’s just who they are as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:31 PM
9

As a pessimist, I think things will get worse. Guys in this generation seem to be so obsessed with virtual gratification, porn and endless sexual content. They always seem to be looking for the next best thing. These guys are so used to temporary situations/hookups/causal dating and don’t know how to be in healthy, committed relationships. Boundaries don’t get respected and you just get called insecure for having them. It’s no point anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:39 AM
27

I’ve never been taken on a date either. The one guy I was talking to was trying to bait me w the whole date thing and ended up standing me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:32 AM
13

That’s so true, even asking strangers online for advice. I remember asking is it okay for a man to follow random women online and like their pictures and watching girls’ OF content. Hahaha, I was such a fool but now I’m on the right path. Of course, I got called all sorts of names including insecure and argumentative, and that’s how I knew I wasn’t the problem. Some men will literally gas light you to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:45 AM
13

I’m not surprised. There’s too many scrotes out here for that to even happen. I wouldn’t call “only fans models” creators but ok 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:13 PM
27

I don’t think so. I remember one guy I was talking to had casual sex w at least 10 women and stated that the majority of his relationships lasted 3-4 months max. His longest relationship was in HS. I don’t think he’s the commitment type and he has no experience with a LTR so when things get “hard”, he bails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:35 PM
7

Another thing to add is: women need to stop gaslighting each other. I’ve been seeing that a lot lately for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:22 AM
18

Woooooooow. This made me reflect a lot on my past situations. They were just less abusive - definitely weren’t HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:35 PM
187

This is embarrassing and foolish. You shouldn’t have to beg or drop hints. If a man wanted you to have his last name, you would’ve had it already. And actually the fact that a man isn’t willing to provide the safety net of marriage for the woman and kids is disrespectful and should be a dealbreaker…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:46 PM
92

I started having less interactions with “men”. They believed that I was supposed to entertain them, send nudes, be the fun cool girl, etc. Now I’ve been getting ghosted, left on read, unmatched, etc. some of these dudes try to come back around, but I don’t pay them any mind. I have stronger boundaries and cut men off quicker. Because I was in a situation where I ended things a few times and he would come back begging and pleading, but when he was finished with me, he cut me off with no hesitatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:22 PM
41

I love to see it. I hope the people who gained tons of money invested it, brought the essentials first (house, car, etc.), and paid their debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:15 PM
5

If I’m too much, go find less 😀. I hope I didn’t misquote that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:46 PM
12

You got that right. I’m just SO glad that I never had sex with him. Low-value losers will just go on and disappoint the next woman. They’re not worth keeping, EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:33 PM
22

If I were a guy I wouldn’t date a sex worker, but don’t be hypocritical about it. Don’t shame the same women you’re paying $5.99 a month to see. Men have made the porn industry a million dollar industry… so technically they’re the problem, not the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:57 PM
73

You got that right. I thought he was so sweet until my usual dealbreakers came up - him following random women and liking provocative pictures, and him having an obvious type and just lying about it. That situation was harder to get over because those were the only issues compared to all the issues I’ve had with other guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:52 PM
23

Honestly no. If he wanted to get a decent ring (that’s only like $1k at zales, bare minimum), he would. I knew guys who blew hundreds of dollars on golf, beer, sneakers, and so forth. They’re not giving a woman a better ring bc they don’t think she’s worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:34 PM
72

I have not. I keep finding the same dude in different bodies if that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:32 PM
68

I agree. One guy “broke up” with me yesterday bc I wouldn’t stop bringing up the fact that he stood me up. And, the fact that him following random women and liking provocative pictures was inappropriate to me. He claimed they’re friends, some were some weren’t. I was referring to the women who didn’t follow him back and the wanna be OF and IG models. It was a whole back and forth and now we’re done. Boundaries should not be a debate. Either he will respect you and those boundaries or he won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:26 PM
83

If your friend is prettier just say that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:06 PM
33

homonyms are kicking his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:43 AM
67

Well said. I never understood how feelings, or lack there of, could be a phase. I used to read online how the honeymoon stage lasts for a few months up to 2 years and that a man is going to treat you the best during that time period and that time period only. Like shouldn’t your partner be treating you right for as long as you two are committed to one another?? It doesn’t should cut on and off like a light switch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:52 AM
6

Never a good idea. Whenever things went south, the guy would always want to remain friends with me. So in other words, you’re the problem and you know it bc if I’m such a terrible person, you would want to cut all ties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:57 PM
12

I saw that this morning, and im like wtf is she okay??? She could’ve kept that pick-me mentality to herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:38 AM
59

That’s why I enjoy putting men in their place. Sometimes I feel like I’m being mean, but a man isn’t gonna treat me any old type of way and think that it’s acceptable. Either you step up to the plate like a real man should or you get blocked for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:55 PM
19

I blocked him on Instagram and Snapchat. He called me today, and I feel badly but the choices and decisions he made led up to this point. I have to continue my journey with someone else. There’s a void now, but I’ll find something to fill that void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:05 AM
10

Yes, very much needed post! I just blocked a guy on all platforms bc he continuously put his friends over me. He would never inconvenience himself for me, he never made time for me, and the best he could do was fit me in somewhere in his schedule. I told him I wanted to see him and basically he rather play golf the bros. It’s no point in beating a dead horse so it’s best to remove yourself from the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:56 PM
9

This is so tawdry, what is that a silk worm?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:52 PM
27

Mini golf, carnivals, zoo, aquarium date… that’s all I can think of for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:51 PM
11

That’s what I’m trying to figure out as well! Lately I’ve been obsessed with Halloween, but I strictly buy men’s costumes because they’re way more scarier. I don’t understand why I have to be a sexy nurse or a sexy maid. Women’s costumes don’t do anything for me :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:33 PM
16

Yes yes!! I thought about this a few days ago actually. I’ve only been in one relationship and it was terrible. He allowed me to have the strength the leave situations sooner. As soon as the guys I talk to exhibit behavior similar to that of my ex, I’m gone. No more playing games for 6 months and trying to keep someone who doesn’t wanna be kept. No more justifying bad behavior and believing empty promises. But now I kinda have trust issues sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:12 PM
26

You’re right! Let me change that to parasite 🦠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:58 PM
173

He sounds exactly like my ex ewwwww. But threatening to smack a woman bc she doesn’t tolerate disrespect?? Who raised these little parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:32 PM
13

Ahh the classic “you up”, at 2:11 am, text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:56 AM
29

I said this a few times, but I made it a point to respond first thing in the morning. Like you said, who’s sleep for that long like seriously?!! As soon as I hear a stupid excuse (especially in the beginning. The I fell asleep, phone got lost, phone died multiple times, etc.), I already know what the situation/relationship is gonna be like. He’s entertaining multiple women or at least trying to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:53 AM
22

Red flag. My LVex is obsessed with social media. It literally affected him to the point where he failed university.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:40 PM
51

Girl, speak for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:05 PM
51

Agreed! He’s definitely not worth keeping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:03 PM
219

Men as usual caring about their own selfish desires. She better lock him out of the house for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:59 PM
6

Congrats!!! 🎉I need to learn how to do my makeup better so kudos to you! It’s hard work. working on getting another masters (or PhD) but this time in forensic science or chemistry. blocking men who attempt to waste my time refinancing my car lol, I have a 2021 Kia and would love to get the payments down. going to the gym more regularly. I brought a membership but only go a few times a month lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:27 PM
3

??? She should’ve gotten the hint when he rather have unprotected sex (risking pregnancy) before getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:03 PM
19

Thank you 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:22 PM
4

I would just say no, no matter how much I liked him because public proposals are embarrassing. I would die lol - everyone is staring and saying accept it, it’s too much. A nice, intimate proposal would be wonderful 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:21 PM
27

I blocked one guy on bumble for this. He was like “oh you’re putting me on the spot hehe”. It ain’t funny. Be a man and court me. One other guy asked where I wanted to go and I told him, he didn’t care about price or anything. I picked the place and he picked the day and time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:18 PM
13

Congratulations!!! Books over boys 📚you can never go wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:14 PM
215

Uh. He’s 28 with no kids, he’s not going to take her seriously. He’s just using her for sex. Trying to change a guys mind is fruitless. Just focus on the child, and hopefully the right one comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:13 PM
1

I do the same thing. Boo hoo, become more successful then. Either do better or get lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:58 PM
5

Very insightful, thank you 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:53 PM
51

You leave me alone (cease texting, calling, etc.), you won’t ever hear from me again. We’re not validating no man’s ego, better go call your mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:48 PM
6

I haven’t experienced that either. Don’t feel bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:10 AM
13

50/50 is just low class and shows that the man isn’t trying to impress me. Two guys were literally going back and forth with me on Instagram this morning over this. I don’t care what a man’s standards are, if they don’t align with my standards then I’m gone. Im not lowering my standards nor am I going to waver on my standards. Step up or get dropped. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:07 AM
6

Sorry, I should’ve been more clear. That’s what I meant 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:35 PM
33

Yesss, my bc is gonna remain at 1 for a very long time 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:07 PM
9

Something similar happened last year but not for that long. Long story short, he wanted to keep his options open and was a user. Obviously, it didn’t last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:13 PM
49

Idk what makes his cuter but ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:25 PM
9

I prefer to date up, or at the very least, date someone at my level. I have 3 degrees and make a lot of money as a single person with no kids. I expect similar. I was dating one guy who had less than me and he resented me - never doing that again. The guy I’m talking to now is middle class-ish and so am I. So it’s pretty good right now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:12 PM
24

One of my friends had a “FWB” and she paid for all the arrangements/meetups/Airbnb’s. He didn’t have to lift a finger, only show up and he was on his merry way after the deed was done. Blows my mind to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:57 PM
49

Right! Guys who told me I “want too much” were those who always put in very little effort, if any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:16 PM
8

You had me in the first half, I’m not gonna lie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:43 PM
32

I don’t ever want kids. I couldn’t imagine being responsible for another human being lol. And I value time, sleep and money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:07 PM
31

Luckily my LDR was only 6-7 months. It was TERRIBLE, but I’m now able to easily identify red flags. He had like 1000 red flags lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:45 PM
14

Oh wow, I’d be so hurt. I know it’s easier said than done, but I’d file for divorce. Just think about you actually being excited to see your man after work and wanting to spend time with him, all for him to think “I could’ve done so much better than this 😒”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:57 PM
19

His pee pee probably contains thousands, if not millions, of bad bacteria. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:22 PM
6

That’s so sad! I couldn’t imagine what she’s going through. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:31 PM
25

I’m really grateful that the trash always takes itself out early because I truly would hate to be with a man who couldn’t care less about me and treats me poorly during marriage, pregnancy, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:04 PM
1

Yessss! The guy that I was recently talking to, but cut off, would always prioritize his friends over everyone else. Men hardly adjust their lives for women, they can be so selfish. It’s ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:42 PM
2

I agree. It’s something that I kinda long for but I’m not going to lower my standards just to say I have a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:39 PM
12

Men can be so gross and predatory. They love younger women because they’re more impressionable and won’t put their foot down. These are the same dudes who will be 50+ trying to go after 20 year olds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:34 PM
3

Well I’m 25. And, I never really made boys a priority. I always focused on my education first - still do to an extent, but I definitely don’t regret it. I just wish I had more experience in the dating department. That’s pretty much it. OH, and looking out for red flags by vetting men and sticking to my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:18 PM
13

It was 1K but I forced him to pay me back. He owes $400 now. He’s on a payment plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:14 PM
31

Some do. I did once and it was such a waste of money. Super overpriced and messaging men first/chasing is such a turn off! Prices range from $17.99 to like $200.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:31 AM
50

But they make sure they collect their 17.99 weekly payment 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:11 AM
33

Hush. In other words, he’s trying to keep you a secret so he can explore his “options”. Cheating 101 lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:52 PM
5

I’m always learning in this subreddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:50 PM
64

YES. A million times yes! I learned this fairly quickly when this one dude drove 2+ hours each way to see his friend, but couldn’t be bothered to drive 50 minutes to see me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:43 AM
4

This is a hard one. One guy asked me out but stood me up. He had the day, place and time nailed down. These guys are literally just time wasters and energy vampires. Some are also trying to fuel their egos with no intention of actually doing anything besides staying online all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:23 PM
6

Funny that you mention beer because that’s all he would drink 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:37 PM
46

No ☹️. Ive been talking to a guy for a while now, and he showed his true intentions. He thinks it’s white boy summer since he’s moving to a new city with a friend this summer. I definitely had to cut it off. It was gonna end anyway so why not speed up the process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:18 PM
4

Agreed. I’m not begging a man to take me out. If we’ve been “talking for weeks/months” or if he’s still using dating apps, I’m not asking him to stop. I’m not asking someone to court me and respect me and my time. I’ll simply find someone else who will. A [potential] relationship shouldn’t be a power struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:49 PM
2

That’s good to hear! A man who’s into you should always be making good impressions and doing everything he can to make you want him. You certainly shouldn’t be doing all of the work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:56 PM
6

Maybe when his snap score increases by a lot, despite him saying that he barely uses the application.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:54 PM
3

Are we talking to the same guy?! Is his name Jared by any chance lmfao. Seriously though, you two have been talking for a while. He should’ve taken you out by now and got off tinder. He should be courting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:41 PM
11

Let her be at peace….without you forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:18 PM
2

Queen of clapbacks 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:41 PM
4

Yes girl! Same here. I was recently talking to this dude on tinder and I’m taller and he’s shorter. He would constantly ask me if I’d wear heels for him and look “sexy” for him. I personally don’t like wearing heels because I feel like a giant bean stalk. But I don’t get why men think that I’m gonna inconvenience myself and make myself uncomfortable for their pleasure? I told him “listen, if you’re so hellbent on a woman wearing heels, find a shorter woman who wears heels”. And he said, “that is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:41 PM
9

This is hilarious. It’s true though, introspection certainly wouldn’t hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:38 PM
11

I am not on birth control, but they don’t know this. I do not bring up sex and they always find a way to do so. These males only care about their pleasure and nothing else. If we’re not in a relationship, then the booty he shall not get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:50 AM
9

These are all ignorant comments, but that last one really took the cake. Like how are weekend plans more important than the birth of your child???? I hope his pp falls off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:06 PM
9

And that’s probably reason 104 why the relationship didn’t work. What she said typically went in one ear and out the other. He doesn’t care - never have, never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:16 PM
7

Exactly. There are no benefits. Men and women can rarely be friends without the guy thinking that it will somehow turn into more. The trash took itself a few times in high school lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:11 PM
7

And this is reason 48209 why males constantly believe they’re the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:39 PM
11

Exactly, I blocked one guy for offering me a car date. I would be more comfortable at home as opposed to sitting in a car with a man I barely know. That’s a tragedy waiting to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:05 PM
40

True! One thing about me is that, I’m gonna say what I have to say. I don’t exist to appease inconvenience myself for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:16 PM
15

Happens 24/7, even this morning for example. I responded to a video on Instagram saying that I don’t prefer guys with high body counts, and some random man jumps in and says “caaaaapppp”/ you’re lying. How is he, an internet stranger, going to tell me I’m lying about my own preferences 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:27 PM
11

That’s because the majority of the dudes don’t have good intentions and are always looking for the next best thing to service them in some capacity. OLD is a good way to sift through the junk, as you talk to more and more guys you’ll notice patterns/habits associated with LVM (e.g., love-bombing, lying, inconsistency, gas lighting, etc.). I feel the same way... I might have to meet people organically in real life because the success rate is low (at least for me it is 🤣).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:08 PM
57

I cannot stand men who think that we owe them something. This is certainly a bullet dodged bc whatever he does for you, he’ll expect something in return. We don’t need that drama in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:36 PM
19

Inflated sense of self worth. That’s exactly why I don’t give guys who don’t meet my standards the time of day. They certainly don’t make exceptions for us and give us the benefit of the doubt, so why should I?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:35 PM
7

Pea brain, low-effort males sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:27 PM
22

And add tax 💸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:25 PM
12

Never has, never will 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:21 PM
63

She 👏🏽did 👏🏽that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:56 PM
3

Oh wow, this hit close to home. I know at least 6 guys like this off the top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:13 PM
5

Thank you for this! I say it all the time, if I’m just getting to know someone and they don’t ask me a question within the first 3-4 messages, I know it won’t progress much further (IME, it usually doesn’t). I just delete and move on, can’t be bothered to pull teeth and carry a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:04 PM
8

God forbid a man truly loves his woman and would do anything to make her smile. If you don’t respect women and would prefer to treat them like garbage, just say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:44 PM
23

Agreed. Yesterday, this dude wanted me to have a “car date” with him and go back to his house to do “whatever”. That is literally so tawdry, and I cannot believe he fixed his mouth to even say that, especially on Valentine’s Day. Instant block. I will never be proud of him, and I damn sure don’t respect him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:23 PM
2

Often times, they just want free nudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:06 PM
3

My ex used to ask me for money and like a fool I gave it to him. But by force, I am making him pay me every dollar back (+interest). Currently he is on a weekly payment plan. He’ll be done in July.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:55 PM
4

Now this is a ring!!! Congrats, happy 30th 🎉🎊🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:14 PM
26

One guy I started talking to always snapped me good morning, and one day he randomly didn’t do it anymore. So, I took initiative and he didn’t respond. Then hits me up 2 days later with, “so no response” 😂. I’m not stupid, and I’m obviously not your first choice. Looks like it didn’t work out with who he actually wanted and that’s not my problem ✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:40 PM
216

And in the same breath, they’re like “I know you’re pretty, I can just tell”... 🙄 yeah ok, guys will sleep with anything so no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:20 PM
29

Agreed. Tik tok is such a weird place. Vine, which was 10x better, was PG and had people with talent - not people doing the same dances 24/7. And there was definitely 0 nudity on Vine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:10 PM
26

Ask a direct question, get a direct response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:59 PM
4

Im buying a few more diamond rings from zales and I’ll probably get my nails done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:57 PM
12

Cute how men think they can tell us about our own bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:08 PM
3

And it hides my acne, but at the same time it gives me acne lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:11 PM
8

...so we’re just supposed to put our bodies at risk for random men lol??? What kind of logic is that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:20 PM
37

LOOL. One guy I swiped left on had “I don’t have a car, so you better have 1” in his bio. Like sit your entitled self down 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:53 PM
0

A waste of time lmao Edit: the comment to this post was by an outsider who obviously checks FDS regularly. Before I could respond your comment was deleted. So if you’re reading this, answer the following question: How are we gold-digging whores because we know our worth and won’t settle for the bare minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:09 PM
7

Oh I definitely agree. I don’t offer advice out of the blue. It’s tiresome when she tells me how he’s doing x, y, and z and it upsets her. At this point, all I can do is just let her figure it out on her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:07 AM
8

Big facts. One of my friends has been “dating” a guy for like 8 years, and I keep telling her she’s wasting her time. She just believes I’m jealous and I’m like OK girl... keep wasting your time with a guy who’s not taking you seriously. Couldn’t be me. If he wanted her to be his wife, he would’ve BEEN made the commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:14 PM
23

Very creative omg 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:31 AM
19

Yes, because if you have low self esteem, it is easier for a man to manipulate and gaslight you. LVM loooove when women don’t know their worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:26 AM
2

This is so true! I’m usually not invested until the 2-3 month mark so I vet men within that time frame and if they say or do something that I don’t like (e.g., inconsistency, lying, lovebombing, etc.) I’m out. It’s so easy to block and call it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:57 PM
0

This is the weirdest thing. I would’ve never posted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:16 PM
-18

I’d die before I ever talk to another female about my man lmao please. Let a man act how he wants to act and move accordingly. Edit: have fun downvoting. I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:07 PM
14

IMO, she doesn’t belong on FDS lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:47 PM
274

...and if you didn’t, that would make you less of a woman or less of a valuable partner??? Hmmm, his priorities are wrong. On to the next one. What a jerk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:42 PM
4

I know what it’s like to be super attracted to a guy and want a relationship with him but he only wants a hookup or FWB situation. This is a big deal and I’m glad that you didn’t let him use you. He showed his true colors. He didn’t have time for a relationship but he could surely make time for a hookup... of course 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:39 PM
5

Exactly, thank you!!! My coworkers always ask “where’s your bf/husband”, “you don’t have kids, omg, why not”? And it’s like, why can’t I focus on my masters degree and making sure I’m financially stable before I start a family? I have very little experience with real relationships but I’m not too concerned with that because men will always be here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:26 AM
4

Well with my track record, I should never get cancer in my life then lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:23 AM
226

Dump. And at this point, he may be testing the waters (without permission) since it seems like it’s been on his mind for a while now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:46 AM
77

A guy who randomly stops texting for days at a time with literally no heads up, then comes back around with excuses and a woe is me attitude 🙄. Basically hot and cold and inconsistent. Never let them come back around. Once they leave the first time, close the door permanently. OH and a guy who never makes plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:48 PM
6

That you’re not a priority. Don’t wait for him because you’re just gonna be a placeholder or some toy he can pick up when he’s bored, then leave you on a shelf when he finds a better toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:52 PM
8

She’s better than me because I would’ve took the hint and never asked that third question lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:47 PM
3

0 to 100 real fast, and he can’t even speak proper English. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:46 PM
24

He is and I thought he would’ve had some common sense at almost 30, but I guess not 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:01 PM
80

I’ve been saying and doing this for years. I’m not double texting or triple texting no man, if he got my message the first time, the what is the issue now. As she said, women don’t chase, that’s a man’s job. If a guy I’m talking to dude doesn’t respond to my text or return my call, that’s the last time we will ever speak again. Just like the guy who did not respond to my text for 11 days and was like “damn, so you not gone text me”????? Like what lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:48 PM
30

loooool. This dude was like “I told you my secrets and I said I loved you”. He never referred to me as his girlfriend of course. The games boys play 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:34 AM
5

I never even knew this was a twitter page lol yikes, they must be speaking from experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:42 PM
4

He wanted me to use my mortgage money to pay his debts. And the other dude was just inconsistent as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:41 PM
28

Reminds me of one of the guys I blocked who enjoyed watching young girls on snap and admitted to watching cp on a VPN or something 😓 some men are so twisted and literally have no shame. Idk how they can sleep peacefully at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:33 PM
24

He was an inconsistent, future faker. Like how are you gonna talk about having kids and getting married when you can’t even maintain daily communication
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:51 PM
13

His karma is gonna be sweet. It may be not be tomorrow or next week, but it’s inevitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:58 AM
5

He claimed he was busy with work lol. I’m glad I cut it off as well. In my heart, I knew that the situationship wasn’t going to go anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:50 PM
16

I would’ve kicked him in the neck. How dare you throw something away that is special to her and her patients. He can go f*** himself. I’m sorry but this is making me really angry like they’re just socks?!!!!! Especially socks that she has spent time collecting. No no no. So disrespectful and selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:26 PM
6

Who cares she moved on and so should he. He should’ve treated her right when he had her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:50 PM
2

So, he rather share those experiences with his friend and not his own wife? We know what he actually wants to do side eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:45 PM
42

Exactly. I’m so nonchalant now it’s crazy. I refuse to let a man see me sweat. I no longer show them I’m upset with the lack of effort being given bc what’s the point anyway??? They don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:43 PM
88

I can’t stand lukewarm, so-so “interest”. I take it as a no and move on. Men really want you to beg to be in their presence and they get so confused when you return that lukewarm energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:39 PM
175

One guy literally asked if I could wait for him and mind you we were texting for like 2 months. I had to immediately sever ties. He was in a relationship for 3 years so there’s no reason why he couldn’t commit - he just didn’t want to commit to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:30 PM
7

Now I’m definitely guilty of this. With the right man you wouldn’t even have to guess and he’ll make sure he doesn’t lose you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:49 PM
1

I can definitely relate. The dude I was talking to did something like this and was the king of future faking. But I’m glad you asked him to hang out because then you were able to see his true intentions. He was never gonna be serious. He probably would’ve been texting you for months on end with no intention of actually meeting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:00 PM
10

Great advice! For all that why even “plan”something in the first place 🙄 he sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:48 PM
8

🤣🤣 now that’s a good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:00 AM
25

So how about dumping him and never going to his apartment again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:37 AM
17

I let a LVM go because he was super disrespectful - we weren’t dating, we were in the “talking stage”. He exhibited so many red flags and I couldn’t be bothered... AND GUESS WHAT HE DID TODAY. My tinder account is now banned. He told me he made multiple accounts and reported my profile because I’m a “rude bitch”. And I literally renewed my subscription yesterday, how convenient
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:41 PM
130

One guy called me an “itch”, then a “bitccchhhh” within a week. He was like “I’m joking, I guess it sounds different through text”. Long story short I ghosted him on thanksgiving. I don’t have the time to argue and go back and forth 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:44 AM
23

Guess he assumed you owed him something since you two hung out all day. Weirdo was thinking about that the entire time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:16 PM
2

Congrats!!! A new home for the new year and peace of mind. He was jealous and felt inferior and attempted to ruin your amazing milestone. He needs to grow a pair. But he’s no longer your problem. Continue getting what you want out of life 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:04 PM
37

So as long as we are doing something for you, that makes us easier to deal with. Hm ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:44 PM
27

Dudes on dating apps think that being the “plug” and smoking weed is a noble trait. They literally having nothing to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:42 PM
2

I feel this girl! I let him keep talking about all the things he wanted to do with me in the future and I hardly entertained it. This was like 4 weeks in and he already said he loved me. I’m like I definitely don’t feel that way this early on and so he ghosted me for a week. Then came back because he thought I was gonna chase him and be in my feelings because he promised so much. 😂 bye loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:04 PM
1

I kept doing this and eventually got ghosted lmao. Like no one is telling you to make these grand gestures for no reason, it’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:00 PM
31

Okay and... you’re not the first guy to say it and you definitely won’t be the last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:53 PM
8

Projecting for no reason. He just wanted a response in the form of an argument 🤦🏾‍♀️ this is why my exes are blocked on all my devices
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:49 PM
14

I found out the guy I was talking to followed a whole bunch of underage girls on Snapchat 😟 I’m like who are all these random females in my friend suggestion list???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:37 PM
5

Good for you! You deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:59 PM
12

1/5 damn 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:42 PM
4

Sounds like my ex and he had the nerve to gaslight me. Oh, you’re just insecure, all men watch it, etc. stfu 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:14 PM
8

I happily go back and forth with men. Ain’t no man gonna treat me any old type of way... I dare a man to touch me (that’s all I’ll say lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:56 PM
88

Nor did I text him happy birthday 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:07 PM
54

If I am dating a guy and I’m not proposed to by the 2 year mark, I gotta go. There’s no excuse and a diamond ring from Zales won’t break the bank. Men will waste time with you as long as you let them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:53 AM
187

Beautiful ring, congrats! This reminds of me that meme where it’s like “if he wanted to, he would”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:41 AM
10

Ew desperate and pathetic. Just hire an actual prostitute for all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:40 AM
7

Same here girl! I got a few diamond rings from zales. No one will ever treat us better than ourselves. We deserve royal treatment 24/7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:39 AM
133

The nails and ring are sparkling :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:37 PM
20

Dishonesty, cheating, and the like A man with kids bc wtf I look like 😂 No college degree or vocational training Bad/no teeth inconsistent cheap Broke Doesn’t take initiative makes excuses shorter than me. I’m pretty tall so good luck lol low-paying job, like less than 35K-ish a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:06 AM
2

Funny how he says “...the three kids”. Didn’t say “my” kids or even “our” kids. That says a lot actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:27 PM
27

I know a dude who always talked about what his ex liked sexually and always compared her to me and I’m like yo, go back to her then since you seem so compelled. Damn, I’m not changing my likes to please you 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:15 PM
4

:/ I can’t gift wrap to save my life lol. That’s why I just buy cute gift bags and call it a day 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:44 PM
11

One dude I liked was always trying to share me. Like wtf, you can get a lifelong disease if you want to, I’m good. No woman should ever objectify herself to please a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:43 PM
1

Exactly. Men never just want to be friends with a woman. My ex was supposedly friends with this one girl for like a decade. I went on his social media one day and went through his posts because I was bored lol. Prior to our “relationship”, he would joke and call her his wife. He would buy her stuff even if she didn’t specifically ask him, but me on the other hand, Ive never gotten a damn thing. Men always want something - money, emotional support, nudes, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:36 PM
2

And that’s when you go to the bank, take out hundreds, head back home and throw those crisp hundreds in his face and leave. Never entertain/acknowledge that man ever again. I hate people like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:08 AM
7

My patience gets lower every time. I used to hold out hope for months like a fool, now all I can do is 3-4 weeks and that’s being generous. I loooove when guys show who they are early, it makes it easier for me ✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:20 PM
9

I said something one time and he literally disregarded my feelings. So, he owns a business and said he couldn’t always make time because this is a busy season for him in terms of work. He wanted me to wait for and bear with him until things slowed down so he could take me out properly. But yet, he has time to go to the gym 7 days a week for at least an hour. All we did was text for a month and I got tired of it and became bored, now he’s mad at me. I have no interest in waiting around for a man,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:51 PM
46

Yeah return the favor and ghost. Pay these dudes dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:59 AM
3

One dude opened up to me about his attraction to younger women/teens, especially during Halloween when they wear skimpy outfits. I never blocked someone so fast in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:10 PM
6

I’ve seen a dude with a pp that looked like a dry, crispy crunchbar. He said he never moisturized it in his life 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:09 PM
15

Definitely! If you even have to ask it’s no point. I don’t ask a man for anything because I wanna see where his head is actually at. My man should wanna do these things with me and be excited to share holiday experiences with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:03 PM
7

Yup his brother. He loves the idea of sharing and I’m like no thanks. Omg, that’s so odd. I’m glad he’s an ex. There’s no telling how far they would’ve tried to go 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:08 AM
9

Oof this hit really close to home. Dude wanted me to sleep with him and his brother. Or, he’ll settle for me blowing another guy 😲 like wtf. Who even thinks like that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:34 PM
2

First of all, fuck him and his family. She’s nicer than me to consider it but what he did was VILE. He’ll figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:27 PM
6

Mhm. I just recently ghosted someone because of something similar - I don’t feel like going through the same stuff I went through w my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:25 PM
6

My ex was infamous for this. Instead of respecting my wishes, he just gaslighted me and came up with random lies/excuses. I have no time for the petty, immature bullshit anymore. If you think grass is greener and you think you can get better, then go get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:25 PM
13

Says a clown with face tattoos and (most likely) a struggling rapper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:19 PM
52

This is such an odd thing to ask. I’m not gonna tell you so you can just fake it until you get the booty and bounce 🍑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:41 PM
4

She should’ve left him after the first offense... ole cheap, selfish ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:17 AM
4

Same here :( this makes me really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:43 PM
6

I just got an unsolicited dick pic on twitter the other day but OK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:51 PM
3

Ahhh those summertime memories... catcall galore 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:32 AM
1

I wanna date it alllllll 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:54 PM
6

That cake looks so gooood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:57 PM
6

If it’s such a chore to be in a relationship, then just be single because games such as this one are stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:12 AM
7

Exactly and that is just a reflection of himself not you. I look at it as, if my intentions were pure and I truly meant well, I didn’t lose anything. He did. And true, I get to the point where I read the message and go on about my day lol. Cannot even be bothered to give him a sentence 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:06 PM
4

LMFAO 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:55 PM
21

I’ll die before I ever send another man a paragraph. They know wtf they’re doing when they treat us poorly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:51 PM
70

You can’t make them care because they don’t care and never will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:56 PM
1

Wish I could relate to this lol. Hopefully I find a good one soon - guys are so inconsistent nowadays 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:25 AM
4

Agreed. IMO, her last great album was B’Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:13 PM
5

Once I’ve learned this, life has been way more simpler. I’m definitely not going out my way to please a man, and a LVM won’t appreciate it anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:10 PM
46

HELL NO! Please don’t do it, chase a check not a man. I seriously got so tired of guys doing me wrong and was fed up 2 years ago between being ghosted or just in bad relationship in general and ended up going to get a masters degree to get my mind off things. This coming spring, I’ll be done :) still single but at least I can get a raise and have another degree under my belt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:06 PM
8

I know a girl like this omg. She would wake up at like 6:00/6:15 each day, shower, apply makeup, and hop back in bed. That’s so strange lmfao. And, even though I don’t have clear skin, guys never made a fuss about it. The good ones don’t care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:17 AM
20

Well said! There’s no reason to like another guy’s picture. I don’t even like selfies of guys (& im single) because it just gives the wrong impression IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:07 AM
19

My ex was notorious for this. And even lied one time and said oh, she’s my friend’s girlfriend. Yeah yeah yeah and tried to gaslight me when I sent him screenshots of his previous misconducts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:59 PM
7

Only fans seems extremely degrading when you look at how men actually talk to and treat women. Idk couldn’t be me 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:11 AM
12

I don’t understand last minute “dates”. Like it’s clear you’re putting in no effort and you expect me to drop everything for you lol. That’s so inconsiderate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:09 AM
2

Took a screenshot! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:53 AM
2

Omg this is a real place?! I wanna go visit 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:13 PM
44

The “with you” is silent. You’re simply a placeholder until they find a woman they actually want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:12 PM
15

Lmfaooo. Yeah and some women will comment that on twitter then say “hehe, I’m just joking hehe”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:40 PM
6

False, they’ll actually feel emasculated and start to despise you but ok lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:12 PM
17

I’m triggered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:05 PM
21

😩I just started talking to this guy last week and we hit it off so well, or so I thought. Long story short he hasn’t opened or replied to my message in over a day , now I gotta block him. Self respect is leaving me dickless 🤣 oh well, I’ll just focus on my studies then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:59 PM
28

Ain’t no man and I mean NO MAN will ever be knocking me up unless I have a ring 💍 on my finger. And I will get the ring appraised bc I am not playing. I will never be a gf of more than 3-3.5 years, which is being generous imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:09 AM
5

Guys always tell me that my standards are too high. Like awwww you just want me to lower my standards so you can manipulate and gaslight me 😩 bye lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:31 PM
8

Put the phone away or I’m walking out since the phone is so damn important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:42 AM
12

Many people say I look really mean and intimidating but once I speak, they’re like “omg, I thought I wouldn’t like you”. Welp, that’s my face and idk what to tell you. If you feel some of type way, then that’s on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:11 AM
6

Nothing is going to keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept. Men cheat with some of the ugliest women, but as one guy told me “maybe she can do “tricks“ that the other girl can’t” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:19 PM
1

A Walmart date! Omg I’m sorry 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:08 PM
2

Sounds like the dude Ryan I was talking to. Kept saying he couldn’t get enough of my energy. His bone-headed ass just wanted his ego stroked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:53 PM
3

LOL. Ok sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:43 PM
3

It would be nice to have genuine friends who share similar interests as me though :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:42 PM
15

I called many guys out on tinder because of this. One guy told me, “well it worked before, so I thought it’ll work again”. I appreciated the honesty but hanging out is not a real date at all. I’m a grown woman, I’m not 14. If you cannot or do not want to take the time to plan properly... get to stepping 👋🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:34 PM
3

I can’t believe people paid to give that dummy an award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:16 PM
21

Exactly. One dude took 21 hours to reply and I just blocked him. If you can take that long to reply, then I’m obviously not a top priority. Adios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:25 AM
1

Depends on the status of the “relationship”. If this is the talking/dating/getting to know you stage then no, lol. If we’ve been in a relationship for some time, then yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:07 PM
8

Well my first time doesn’t count then 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:18 PM
8

You’re mad at me bc I’m mad you for liking other girls pictures and following random women... gotcha. Instead of changing your behavior, apologizing, and not doing it again, you gaslight and invalidate my feelings. Thxxxxxx :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:15 AM
30

I deleted a few guys from my Snapchat on Friday because if you’re not responding or not initiating contact with me, there’s no reason why you should be looking at my stories. If you want to see me, ask me out, take me out, plan a date. I’m not letting anyone see my life through a screen, especially guys who are hot and cold, or just seem uninterested in communicating with me. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:17 PM
137

Men don’t really respond to words, they respond to actions. You can write a thesis about why his words and actions were rude/disrespectful/demeaning/ whatever and at the end of the day, they’ll do what they wanna do. Personally, I wanna see what he truly wants to do or say without my input. I’m not coaching a man-child.... better get your momma bc I’m not it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:10 PM
8

LMFAO, I’m cracking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:55 PM
2

I don’t chase men. Just like on dating apps when I match with guys then they get mad and unmatch with me because I didn’t take initiative. So you want me to carry a conversation, take you to dinner, and spoon feed you??? Leave me alone. And age doesn’t even matter, 19 year olds and even 30 year olds have this chase me mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:26 PM
5

If you’re not my husband, I’m not going all out for a man, especially if he doesn’t even claim me 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:20 PM
2

Men love getting defensive when you call them out on their lies, and he really had no reason to lie about his name 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:16 PM
3

I have a wholeeee bunch that can be used for this show lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:57 PM
25

I just blocked him this morning. I’m pretty sad but in reality, I was just wasting my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:59 PM
17

It’s funny when you don’t catch feelings and they get offended. Me and this guy had sex and he did a complete 180, but I already knew what it was. So he was like, “you’re not attached that’s weird, other girls would’ve been upset”. So you know you’re doing me dirty and you wanted me to cry over you and chase you. I literally just wanted dick, relax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:03 PM
4

Agreed! I no longer ask questions... I’m not begging a grown man for the time of day or to prioritize me. I’ll gladly see myself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:58 PM
9

One dude I was gonna hook up with said, “I’ll take a shower and brush my teeth, so I won’t arrive all stinky”. Like duh, that is what you should be doing. You don’t get props for that 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:51 PM
3

That’s true. He came four times, I didn’t come at all. And he couldn’t even find my clit during oral, like what the fuck. Worst first time ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:25 PM
60

Same. And it actually made him come running back. One of the guys that I’m talking to literally was so confused bc I didn’t ask him why he was taking forever to reply and why I didn’t seem too eager to reach out and talk to him. So it’s like you’re taking forever to reply on purpose so I can chase you LMFAO, wtf I look like???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:02 PM
4

This guy I’m about to block used to respond to me within seconds. He used to send me voice notes and pictures and just pretended he wanted to get to know me. Then boom, he got what he wanted and now it’s like we’re having this long drawn out conversation that really should’ve been an hour conversation. Every time I try to end the conversation, he asks more questions and I’m so over it. Taking 10+ hours to reply is so dead, especially when you’re watching my stories. If he wanted to, he would and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:40 PM
17

Then these same guys get mad at me when I say white guys tend to treat me better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:53 AM
4

LMFAO, the good lord better come punch me in the head if I ever even think of some stupid shit like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:39 PM
31

If you’re not feeling it, don’t force it... especially if there are red flags. Guys usually state their intentions early on anyway, or you can just read in between the lines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:28 PM
49

Men on OLD never want anything serious. Somehow they always lead a normal conversation towards sex. So annoying. One dude asked if he can “have a crumb of pussy”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:41 PM
53

Some men just see women as sex objects and nothing more. They get offended when women want to be treated as human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:38 PM
15

Met a guy on tinder a while back, we hit it off. Then, he asked for nudes and money/to be his sugar momma. He’s a literal clown. If you wanna make fun of him let me know 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:33 PM
13

Says the guys who have little to nothing to offer. And, most of the time, they aren’t even attractive :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:51 PM
7

Lol creep mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:00 PM
64

Men defend other men so much it’s insane. Like I’ve seen some defend their friends over their own significant other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:05 PM
2

Thank you 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:43 PM
32

No, I actually broke up with him when he wanted me to use my mortgage money to pay his debts about a week later. I told him no and he called me a bitch. Then I just cursed him out and embarrassed him on his public twitter page by taking a screenshot of how much money he owes me and how he tried to hide the relationship. I aired screenshots of him begging me for money and everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:40 PM
16

Gave my ex $100 and an e-card, and he said my necklace was coming via mail, we were long distance. Necklace didn’t come obviously (he’s a lying piece of shit) but he sent his female friend a box of snacks. His karma is going to be so sweet 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:24 PM
13

Heavy on the “never again”! If I have to address something more than once, I just have to move on. These behaviors will occur again regardless of my feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:46 PM
22

“What’s wrong with following other (local) women, I’m just looking at their pictures...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:43 PM
10

Didn’t know honesty could get you banned on here 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:26 PM
2

And mine just started today 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:44 PM
2

Omg this is so true, you need to write a book decoding men’s stupid comments. I hear the first comment way toooo often. Or, he’s like “it’s a joke lol...” no it’s not. That’s how you really feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:50 PM
1

My ex used to tell me “why you so emotional” and “you take everything too serious”. I cannot stand that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:48 PM
10

I agree. I wish I would sell my body (pics and vids) to random men for $3.99 a month lmfao. Once those pictures hit the internet it’s all over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:42 PM
9

He would’ve been dropped so fast smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:37 PM
3

OMG. My ex is the same way. He used to say “you’re so fucking weird, why do you keep that stuff?” Like that’s not the point, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:15 PM
2

THANK YOU!!! I CONFRONTED THIS GUY ABOUT LYING TO ME FOR MONTHS. I have screenshots and everything and one day I just snapped and laid his ass out. I sent him a screenshot of every lie and excuse he told to me. Then of course, he attempted to turn it on me and called me bipolar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:08 PM
12

This is why I always call men out on their BS. One dude blocked me off snap to post thirst memes about Somalian women. He lied and said he deleted the app and within 5 mins I found out and cursed his ass out. He obviously had something to hide 🤣 smh some men are sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:49 PM
10

😬she has a point lmfao. I’m way hotter than my bf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:37 PM
10

I feel this. Many men (or should I say boys) are so disappointing and aren’t worth two shits. I’m petty when it comes to dating now - if a man does something that I deem as unacceptable from the beginning, I’m out NO EXCUSES 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:20 PM
28

Wish I could upvote this 100 times. I used to sit there and analyze his every move and every comment. Then I tired myself out and came to the realization that he just didn’t give a fook about me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:54 PM
47

My ex is probably doing the same thing right now. Broke up with him and he’s all over twitter liking any female’s pictures for attention and being salty. I’m over it at this point, but don’t forget when I paid for your transportation to college, food for when you were hungry, and just being there when you cried bc life got too hard. So if you shit on me just remember how much I was there 😚 bc as usual, I have receipts and screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:36 PM
47

My first ex broke up with me twice and I just recently broke up with him and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:21 PM
23

Some guys just waste time with women until they find someone they actually want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:33 PM
20

Rapist mentality but ok😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:14 PM
7

I never use modifiers with men, I tell them exactly how I feel. I’m not hiding my feelings/intentions/thoughts from no grown ass man. Either you can take my blunt honesty, or you can leave it. But my boyfriend is a little sensitive so I gotta watch what I say sometimes 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:41 PM
10

Never been there. Soon as I hear “just causal/fun”, or “nothing serious”, I’m out like sauerkraut. And what’s the point of settling with an unattractive guy? Most of em aren’t shit anyway, so at least stress over an attractive guy lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:59 PM
15

Facts! Guys gas me up all the time, and I’m like thanks, but you’ll never see me gassing you up. And it’s so funny when they ghost or get mad at you like you weren’t just in my inbox first - saying dumb shit like “l love you” within the first few hours of messaging or “you’re so beautiful”, etc, etc. Hear it all the time and it never means anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:41 PM
1

Wow that’s actually a good idea. And his name is only 6 letters lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:33 PM
34

This one guy I talked to for like two months on okcupid ghosted me out of nowhere for a week. Then he messaged me “hey”... I’m like you have a lot of nerve to be messaging me when you didn’t have the decency to respond to my text, and he’s like oh my grandmother died. I honestly knew that was a bullshit excuse, but I didn’t wanna be rude. So we talked for a few more days, then he ghosted me for a month. Following that he texted me, “hey you”. Leave me tf alone, ain’t nobody concerned with you an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:43 PM
41

Imagine the number of roaches in that place 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:26 PM
2

Damn now this one hit hard. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:45 PM
7

Now if you let a man do that you’re dumb as hell 🤣🤣🤣. Y’all gotta know when to draw the line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:41 PM
10

I never text twice - this guy messaged me, didn’t seem too enthusiastic so I stopped messaging and he reached out to me again. If he doesn’t increase his level of enthusiasm, he’s getting blocked 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 07:30 PM
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