Men stay invalidating our experiences while simultaneously never having to actually experience them. It’s actually insane.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-08-23T20:16:00+00:00

Yess, how often have I heard men exclaim incredulously “He did what?! But he’s a cool guy!” Yeah, to you. You aren’t a woman he’s intimate with. It’s hard for them to wrap their minds around just how different men can be with each other vs. a girlfriend. Even if they themselves act differently! No self-awareness.

PizzaPigeon · 2020-08-23T21:03:07+00:00

Especially when men say they have dealt with it too so they must know. Women and men are socialised completely differently from birth. Men are socialised to be independent and strong. Women are socialised to be peace keepers and helpers. Never mind the biological aspects that mean women face things men cannot comprehend. Things like pregnancy, miscarriage, ovarian cysts, endometriosis, pcos, child birth etc.

ms_monquis · 2020-08-23T21:31:24+00:00

I tell every man I know to spend a week — hell a DAY — online as a woman. Anywhere, just normal places, doing normal things. Those who have even accidentally done so we’re aghast. Most wont do it.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-08-23T22:05:46+00:00

Men defend other men so much it’s insane. Like I’ve seen some defend their friends over their own significant other

MalloryDame · 2020-08-23T19:31:54+00:00

And male politicians are the worst kind since they can actually pass laws against women...

lacyvulture · 2020-08-24T00:11:49+00:00

Almost chucked my iPhone at a wall recently when I saw this overweight neckbeard-looking dude pop up on my for you page on TikTok talking about how women need to make guys "earn" sex and withholding sex is the only way the guy will respect her enough to commit to her. Maybe there is some overlap with FDS ideals, but FUCK when a guy's saying it, it's infuriating, mainly because THEY ARE THE ONES PERPETUATING THIS SHIT! Here's an idea! If a guy is so concerned with women finding commitment, maybe he should tell his friends not to fuck a girl if they don't see long term potential with her? WOW. Or maybe consider that sex is an intimate activity and a woman may fall for them afterwards? CRAZY. Can you imagine? Holding a guy responsible for treating a woman like a subhuman?

These guys just come across as so judgmental, misogynistic, and totally dismissive of women's wants and needs.

--wellDAM-- · 2020-08-23T20:04:09+00:00

Let’s legislate men’s dicks, then talk equality.

Men are 👎🏻

--wellDAM-- · 2020-08-23T20:03:24+00:00

get this shit tattooed.

throwthisawayred3 · 2020-08-23T23:31:03+00:00

Including gay men.

Including gay men like Dan Savage who excuse adults dating underage girls cuz he dated an older woman in his youth.

Only shame is the other women who call in to his show and ask him questions as IF he could answer them properly.

mostdefinitelynturs · 2020-08-23T23:36:26+00:00

Thats why I say "Unless youre dating men too, nothing I say will make sense to you."

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2020-08-23T23:29:44+00:00

All the comments on this post are why women NEED to be suspicious of male feminists.

Men do not understand what it’s like to be a woman and they’ll never ever experience it. Men who know feminist talking points are simply parroting them to get laid.

CarrCamille22 · 2020-08-24T00:44:35+00:00

Exactly. I don't care how a man acts in front of other men. If you're a man, you should be made aware that your bros are sick, lying, cheating, incestuous, rapey, pedophiles.

m00n5t0n3 · 2020-08-23T23:49:27+00:00

Retweet

OrchidLion · 2020-08-24T18:27:27+00:00

Literally. Like have you ever dated a male? No? Then shut the fuck up and listen.

Title	Men stay invalidating our experiences while simultaneously never having to actually experience them. It’s actually insane.
Author	tauruspiscescancer
Upvotes	1252
Comments	41
Date	August 23, 2020 6:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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