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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSSolunaJune/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:44 PM
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I’m glad you asked! My brother has told my dad he is available to help him. I tell my dad that my brother can help him at anytime. Yet, my dad won’t bother my brother. My dads ego won’t let another man help or handle his finances for him, but he has no problem with women doing it for him. Women are mules to him. He doesn’t outright say it, but his actions speak volumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 01:22 PM
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I wonder how much of this return to work onsite bullshit is because so many men relied on the women on their teams to do the work for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 04:43 PM
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I totally relate to this post in so many many ways. I'm sorry for the long post, I don't expect anyone to read all of this, but I gotta vent on this topic. I've had to deal with lazy male coworkers in my IT department (which IT can attract the scrotiest types of men.) One guy, who even the other male coworkers despised, would fuck everything up. He was paid $7/hr more than me, and they would send me to fix his fuck ups. Eventually he was laid off, and we were the better for it. Some of the male …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 04:30 PM
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As an IT gal, I'd advise her to wipe her system clean with Divorce.bat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:16 PM
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Does he think women are so dumb to believe that only in marriage a baby can be made? Or did he just discover that himself and thinks the rest of the world might not know? I don't know which is more painful to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:17 PM
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I know some guy whose wife left him, and he treated every woman he knew like shit after that. (Me included.) As if we as a group hurt him. Men treat women like shit if they don't like their mothers. Damn straight women are held accountable for shit we didn't do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:27 PM
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I worked at a credit union call center. I've had a few people make claims on certain charges. Most were benign, and they were just trying to get their money back on everyday purchases. The most scandalous one was a man saying his card has been used to purchase Grindr subscription. I was a babe in the woods and I looked up Grindr....lollol..uh, I think he got caught and was trying to pass it off as fraud. Another guy blew his entire paycheck in 24 hours at a casino and tried to claim fraud. At 11…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:39 PM
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lol, my mother outright told my father that if she had saw him clean shaven before their marriage, she would not have married him. Honestly, she probably should have, she would have been better off anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:50 PM
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If I see any guy with a beard like the one in the bottom right corner, I immediately conclude he has a weak chin. Only those guys grow out those types of beard. It's like they're overcompensating for their weak chin by making their beard that pointy and long in the front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:46 PM
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I'll say the quiet part out loud: He's very physically unattractive with, clearly, a terrible personality. So, he is incessantly rejected by women, and rightfully so. Instead of having some introspection and working on himself, he channels his energy into hating women. This guy needs therapy. I see a budding violent predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:42 PM
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Add a little listerine to the water flosser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:21 PM
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LPT: Mix listerine and water together in the waterpik resevoir to create a antibacterial wash that will get into your gums. Take if from someone who's recently had a tooth infection. I did this about once a month, but now I do it every week. You don't want that kind of pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:19 PM
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Toothaches can be very painful, and surgeries to fix tooth decay and periodontitis are expensive. Tell me about it. Recently, I had to take for 2 weeks, a strong antibiotic to resolve an infection in two of my teeth. And I brush my teeth daily - morning and night, use a waterpik, and mouthwash. I think a low-grade bacterial sinus infection got into my teeth. Because the antibiotic also resolve some persistent nasal congestion I was having. Now because the infection ravaged the roots of these tee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:12 PM
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It was just something that occurred with time. She was (still is) emotionally immature, and has suffered with mental illness because of her abusive childhood. She just realized she did somethings really shitty and she felt bad. She wasn't "evil" she just didn't know better or was too self absorbed to think things through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:57 PM
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I knew I was the scapegoat and my other brother the Golden Child Until you have walked in my shoes and grown up with a mother who resented and hated you, then judge. Are you me? I grew up similar, the scapegoat/black sheep/the "bad" kid and my brother couldn't do a single fucking thing wrong, even when he did. The only difference I have from you is my mother realized she was fucking horrible to me when I was growing up and she genuinely apologized and has tried to make up for it and has actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:34 PM
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I title this, "A vent": My mother had a stroke last November. I've been saddled with getting her to physical therapy and doctor's appointments. Don't get me wrong, I love my mom and she would sacrifice for me, which is the only reason why I have done everything I have. My dad has been a piece of shit during most of this. He bailed on her and me while she was in the hospital. He went back to work like life was normal. Didn't assist in anything. He only showed up for a half hour in the evenings. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:16 PM
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Men and children age women and I want to look young forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:08 PM
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Yes, they're just large and loud and inefficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:31 PM
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Relationships are a part of life, whether platonic or romantic. We even have a relationship with ourselves. Honestly, I can't think of much else there is to create music about that isn't about some sort of relationship. Music is emotional and our emotions are generally tied to relationships, in one way or another. I happen to really like her latest album, I haven't been a fan much before, but this one has made me into one. Adele will make the music she needs to make. Whether a person chooses to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:56 PM
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I think that Lady Gaga would prefer to be a blues singer, but she knew that pop music would make her a millionaire. I have this pet theory since Lady GaGa first came out, that Lady GaGa knew she would never get record deals/famous with the music she played then unless she went into pop and also be insanely outrageous with her style. And once she got to a point in her fame, she would go back to be "normal" and then do the music she's always wanted to. So far my theory is proving correct..lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:48 PM
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I don't think she means that literally. It's a way of saying she was ignorant like a child when she was younger and didn't know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:45 PM
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My father never wants to kiss my mother. Been that way my whole life. Many fights between them over it. Even as a little child I knew that wasn't right. Good god, I need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:36 PM
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The latest TikTok craze of women wearing the bearded cutie filter and acting like men on podcasts has been a riot...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:35 PM
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He got upset b/c she wouldn‘t give him a bj, started yelling and telling her to suck the babies d, since he was her husband now. How fucked in the head does a man have to be to even think, yet utter those words out loud?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:17 PM
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Sorry for the late reply. I've told him that when my dad gets severely ill, it's his responsibility next time. I can't take care of an old man who is hostile when he feels inconvenienced. My sister-in-law, did the cleaning. He assisted...lol... Probably better than most men, and he does like a couple hours away. He however, doesn't want to see his mother if it inconveniences him. He chose to go to a party than show up the weekend she came home. He's only been out once since. He puts a lot of lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:37 PM
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Sorry for the late reply. My dad said something similar like: "I knew your mother before you were born!!" Like no shit dad, really?!? lol... I didn't want it to escalate any further because at this point my mom was home and asked us to stop fighting. I really wanted to clap back at him that knowing someone for a long doesn't mean jack shit, especially if you fail to show up when needed to take care of them. And this clown bought my diabetic mother Honey Cheerios when he was finally forced to go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:33 PM
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This. As soon as my mother had a stroke and was laid up in the hospital, he honest to god expected me to start making dinner and cleaning the house. I dispelled that notion from him very quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:47 AM
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Seriously, next time go down the aisle with the cleaners, find a spray can of something and spray it on him like RAID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:14 PM
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My brother defended my father's strategic incompetence. Either my brother is stupid to what strategic incompetence is, or he knows and is covering for him. This right after my dad even tried to pull some strategic incompetence right onto my brother....lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:04 PM
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Can just anyone vote on these polls? Or only people flaired by mods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:17 PM
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FDS has helped me see that I will probably never find a HVM because today's society doesn't produce them. They're so few and far in between, and as someone approaching 40, I know as I get older, they're just not available in my age range. I've given up. A partner is supposed to bring you peace. And a lot of men do the opposite to women. They just make women's lives harder. And they don't care. It's also stopped me from making excuses for the men in my life. I'm only involved with my family becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:57 PM
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We got this new temp contractor guy who calls himself a "reactive empath." He's claimed that once he was having a bad day and was feeling sick, and it was because, unbeknownst to him, his sister in law was breaking up with her boyfriend. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 He's tried a few manipulative tactics on me and quickly learned I don't fall for that bullshit. Also, he does this thing where he will stare at you from 6 feet away and expect you to address him, instead of just coming up to you and asking his question. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:16 PM
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When the tiktok algorithm gets to know you, like really know you, it's crazy scary how it sends videos your way that feel like they came from inside your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:01 PM
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Good for you. My father in his 60's is learning for the first time in his life to look after himself and clean after himself, and I can tell you.....it's a nightmare. Toddler level of tantrums. It took my mother having stroke for this to happen. If this was how it should have been for years, it would not have been as bad as it has been trying to make him step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:42 PM
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I posted elsewhere in this thread about my dad after my mom's stroke. Now whenever he does a basic ass chore like starting the dishwasher, he comes to tell me. I just say, "ok." but I'm getting annoyed and soon enough, i'm going ask him if he "wants a gold star for doing the bare minimum?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:40 PM
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I look forward to listening to the episode. I'm a few episodes behind but this is moving to the top. My mom had a stroke on Thanksgiving this year and spent the last 3 weeks in the hospital/inpatient rehab. I live with my parents, I'm 38, COVID and a job loss in 2020 sent me back home with parents and I've been here since. My self-absorbed, moronic, severe executive-dysfunctional father could not take care of himself. I had to lay into him dozens of times about cleaning up after himself, doing c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:35 PM
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Very very fascinating. Thank your taking the time to write that out. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:40 PM
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Edit: In what song does she hint at wanting a child? What I think OP doesn't know is that Taylor Swift has said the Folklore album is fiction and not based on her life. (See Long Pond Studio sessions on Disney+). The song is Peace and is on that album. So, it's to be taken with a grain of salt any words or meanings conveyed on that album.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:41 PM
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Their lives aren’t what you think they are. Would you be interested in expounding on this? I'm curious what it's really like for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:38 PM
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The patriarchal kool-aid must be delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:54 PM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:53 PM
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As an American, this is correct. Our media refuses to cover it because they gotta keep the propaganda going that America is great!™ but we are not in a good place right now. My job is being outsourced to India and I will be laid-off in November. Income inequality is at an all time high, wages are getting lower and prices are skyrocketing on a lot of items - basic necessities of life. Housing costs have risen to the point of unafforability, people are made homeless because they can't afford rent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:13 PM
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You know the bar for men is low when you see a man still wearing a mask in a store an you think, "Oh, a responsible one!".....lol Very very few people in my area are still wearing masks in public enclosed spaces right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:03 PM
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So, being a traditional provider is now called being romance scammed. Yet, we're supposed to be "traditional" in every way possible. They really want Mommy-bangmaid-breadwinners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:46 PM
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The untucked shirt as well. Couldn't even be appropriately dressed. She has to say in her gown, he should have to stay in his suit/tux. Couldn't even do that. smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:35 PM
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The combo of beard, man-bun, rolled-up sleeves, and an untucked shirt.....on a his wedding day. Just.speaks.volumes. He doesn't take that day seriously. That might seem a little judgy, those those types of guys...9 times out of 10, they have issues. Sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:34 PM
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Um, they're Richards. Because they are dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:12 AM
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Mental health issues don't discriminate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:54 PM
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JFC. I did not know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:53 PM
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Just stick to cities in the US that have consistently voted blue in past elections. But men are terrible everywhere. They're just less terrible in some places. I'd stay in the UK because you have free health care and more worker's rights than we do. I prefer ginger Tom to Loki Tom too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:50 PM
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Her latest albums have some FDS themes. I hope she find FDS if she hasn't. I remember some years back she was shitted on for being a so-called "prude", for not sleeping with men as quickly as they wanted her too. Then she was shitted on for having too many BFs. Girl needs to know she's not alone, she's welcome in this community. We all were pickmes and did pickme things and she's had to live her pickme past life in public. That's gotta be rough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:21 PM
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When I first heard that song I honestly thought his ass must have been so toxic for her to exile him from her life like that. Change her number, get friends to get her stuff. What the fuck was he like? He must've been awfully abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:13 PM
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Fitness, fitness, fitness. Loving yourself for you. Get therapy because you have good health insurance. Find a career that's not a desk job. Stay away from IT. And just don't bother with men, they'll ruin your self-esteem. And your brother is an asshole and a monster, his opinions have negative value in your life and they are not accurate. Work hard, save money, don't go into debt. Now I'm 38 with high blood pressure, 70lbs overweight, in misogyny-laden career I hate. I might be autistic and/or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:38 PM
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As an aside: The whole "men who like/love cats are HV" bullshit that some women are desperate to believe. I had an ex who was a narcissist abusive cheating lying piece of shit who LOVED his cats. He bought cameras so he could talk to them when he was at work. Thing is, he liked cats because they had boundaries and he could violate those boundaries at any time and they would fight him and he loved it. If a cat doesn't want to be touched and it hisses at me, I leave it alone. He would grab it and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah, the LVM never changed. He just stopped talking about his "burdens" aka his children with that coworker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:34 PM
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Pelvic exams always feel violating to me. I know it's medically necessary, but it still feels violating. It hurts every time, even when women do it. Thankfully, they get it over with quick because they know what it's like. Men do not. I will never see a male OB/GYN ever. I once went to a pelvic exam and the male medical assistant laid out the exam tools. He put out the largest speculum size they had. Thankfully, he left the room and when the female doctor came in and saw it, she said, "uh, no." …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:29 PM
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I work with all men too. The things they speak about, tell you, etc. because they somehow think because you're working in a male dominated field, you must somehow hate women. Hoo boy, they got it wrong. The amount of times I had to set some male coworkers straight on whatever they think they're in the right for is too damn high. It's shut them up and made them leave me alone knowing I won't validate their fee fees. When I first started my job, I was confused because this one NVM coworker was tal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:00 PM
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You know what? I feel better I’m single too after reading that! Lol, thanks OP! 😂 This is like birth control, but for marriage. Marriage control? We gotta come up with a term for that..🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:57 PM
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Maybe this is a gross overreaction or maybe I finally feel this threatened….I have an appointment to file the paperwork for my US passport. I feel like I might need to flee in the future and having a passport will make that easier. I’m just starting to feel very scared at the gross amount of misogyny that’s out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:58 AM
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If it was against an ethnic group, he would have in the least been labeled a racist. And probably a terrorist. But if it's against women? "Nah bro, that is all those bitches fault, amiright? lol." <-- Say all the scrotes.🙄 People think because two men were killed as well that it wasn't against women. They were in the wrong place at the wrong time. He actually walked around to shoot the little girl directly, he wasn't aiming for the father. He targeted women and the girl primarily and the men got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:07 PM
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Mine too. I totally believe it. My brother gifted me some money once, then a few days later he said to me that I owed him now because he gave me something. I'm his own sister and he was trying to financially abuse me. I told him gifts are gifts and not I.O.U.s. I gave him his "gift" back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:41 PM
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There's that word again, "need." I don't think they know what it means. Humans need food and water to live and air to breathe. Nobody needs sex. They desire it, not need it. And if their so-called "need" makes them uncontrollable, murdering psychos, then they should be controlled by governments until they can prove they can have self-control and respect for human life over their so-called "need."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:46 PM
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Because a majority of men are abusers and manipulators and they won't get sex if women are wise to the ways they abuse and manipulate. Teaching women the signs that a man might actually be married = toxic to men. Teaching women the signs that a man is just using her for sex = toxic to men. A big lesson in life is learning that nobody owes you anything. Women don't owe men sex, companionship, or respect. Those are earned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:43 PM
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I've had a mixed bag of experiences with managers. I think the management role tends to attract people with less empathy. My current manager is male and probably the best manager I've had. Makes sure I know that I'm valued, gives me clear instructions and guidelines, and otherwise leaves me the fuck alone to do my job. He lingers in the background (figuratively) for whenever I actually need managerial input. Otherwise I am independent and empowered to make decisions. He cares about quality of wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:03 PM
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Any man that utters the words "Honey-do list" is an automatic LVM in my eyes. Thanks for the 3 words that just showed me you are a child who has his "mommy" give him a chore list for the weekend. I pity those wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:12 PM
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Haa, I got one of those too. It’s some loser scrote taking his angst about his tiny manhood out on you. Consider it a rite of passage! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:39 PM
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Temporarily embarrassed chads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:25 PM
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To me, marrying a man in this modern era is almost like marrying a child, given how incompetent and/or selfish in life they are. It's not attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:23 PM
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Yep, whenever I'm around married women they just whine about their husbands who are clearly just LVM. I've given up trying to have friendships with married women because they always end up saying something to me about how nice it is to be single and childfree. All the freedom I must have. And then they start to ice me out of the group. Yeah, same here, I'm good. If being single means I'm not a bitter unkind person, I'll take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:04 PM
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If you are the only one on the lease, check with your lease paperwork and/or talk to the office, some places will put a early buy-out clause where they will let you out of your lease early if you pay a small fee that is equivalent to 50 - 100% of rent plus the prorated last month rent. So, if you talked to them tomorrow they might tell you that for $600 + $1200 you can leave in 30 days. Just something to check out in case you can get out of the apartment early. I had to that due to covid. It sav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:48 PM
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She should talk to the Wife. I wonder how much of a joke it really is. Or if they just read her reaction and realize she wasn't kosher with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:01 PM
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There is many misspellings as well...lol. Someone needs to proofread. I'm guilty of that myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:07 PM
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Wow, talk about drinking the pickme juice. Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:05 PM
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Bono said it best: A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:19 AM
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I mean, like for real. If several women get raped in the same region they actually tell women to stay home and not go out late, not men. It's always women who are punished for men's deeds. Just imagine if a woman shot up a school.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:17 AM
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What makes me especially angry is that our parents warned us about boys being trash and only wanting sex, so we have to guard ourselves. Yet, they did NOTHING to raise their own sons to be better. They did NOTHING to correct the bad behavior of other men and boys. They could have made society better for us, but they essentially told us to put up and shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:39 PM
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He knew what he was doing. He ordered $77 worth of stuff because he knew he could force splitting the check. And it's her fault for not standing up to him. Fuck awkwardnesss, fuck making life hard for the waitress. Scrotes are gonna scrote. You don't let scrotes like this walk over you. He knew she wouldn't put up a fight. I had a guy-friend once pull the "I don't have any money to pay" after we got done eating dinner at a restaurant. He literally said he was going walk out without paying if I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:33 PM
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It's been reinstated by TikTok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:12 PM
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https://www.change.org/p/uk-parliament-legalise-the-use-and-possession-of-pepper-spray-in-the-uk-for-self-defence-purposes?signed=true ​ "Legalise the use and possession of Pepper Spray in the UK for self defence purposes."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:09 PM
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Sorry, I tried but it wouldn't let me select videos. I don't know what went wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:12 PM
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This is the best answer I’ve seen to this question, but it was also inspirational for me. "Water always meets at it's level" is probably the best tagline for leveling up. Also, sorry, I don't know how to make the video viewable straight from the post. Edited for clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:45 PM
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Signed the Change.org one for my sisters in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:10 PM
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I found out a few years ago that my great great grandfather and his children (he only had sons) would force my great great grandmother to get on her knees to pray to god for forgiveness, multiple times a day, just for the supposed sin of being a woman. I have never been so disgusted of my lineage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:54 PM
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They like to feel needed, but that's about it. Actually doing something about being needed is a whole 'nother story. Waiting for him to come around and actually do it she could have built the same fence 5 times over. If he ever came over at all. Then he'll hold it over her head for helping her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:20 PM
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I have this as my second profile for FDS, but I keep forgetting to switch when I post on other subreddits…lol 🤦‍♀️ Yes, turn off PM/DM feature ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:40 PM
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And then….and then they have the audacity to call them a Mary Sue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:36 PM
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If a man wants a traditional woman, I want a traditional man. I want him to drive to my house, walk up to my door, ring the doorbell, does not ask to come inside, walks me to his car, opens the door for me, closes it. Drives me to a very nice restaurant (not chain), makes good conversation, has excellent table manners, tips well and pays for the whole dinner, drives me home, walks me to the door and then leaves without any expectation other than a second date. And he does this over and over unti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah, no contact is not possible, but even my parents have him on a low information diet for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:05 AM
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Right? lol... Everyone I've told this too gets this scrunched up look on their face that says "WTF?" I just bought a nicer car than he has ever owned. And it's not even that nice. He just doesn't want me to have anything he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:27 PM
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I could write 5 paragraphs back to you regarding his psyche and our history but you're not my therapist...lol. Technically, he has been more "successful" than me. But that's because he had a lot handed to him and I've had to work a lot harder. It doesn't matter if I have been successful or not than him, he just doesn't like anything good happening for me. I don't think I've gotten a congratulations on anything from him in years - decades even. Everything I have done is met with scorn from him. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:24 PM
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My brother treats me that way, he even said I need to consult him first before I make decisions about my own life. He sent me a 3 paragraph email about how stupid I am and I need him to make decisions after I went and bought a car. I had my parents with me to help me look - and my dad to help check the condition of the car(s) (and I was 35) but the fact I didn’t consult him is what grinds his gears. My dad has his flaws, but one of the things he has got going is he was never a controlling piece …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:03 PM
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Thank you, it does. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:44 AM
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I think that if asexuality is a spectrum, I’m probably more asexual than not…but I wouldn’t call myself an asexual because some desire is there. I’m a 38 year old woman and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never met a man that made me want to have sex with him with all the risk of pregnancy and STDs. I got a lot attention from men when I was younger, and how they would talk to me and treat me was vile and just turned me off of men. I was a thing to them. I grew up in a religious household that had posit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:31 AM
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As an elder millennial, I'm out of touch with all these acronyms anymore...lol 👵🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:32 PM
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“If, instead, you find yourself often pitying someone who consistently hurts you or other people, and who actively campaigns for your sympathy, the chances are close to a hundred percent that you are dealing with a sociopath.” Martha Stout I knew someone that would always excuse their bad behavior away with: "I'm having a rough time in life. My parents did [XYZ] to me. WAH WAH!" Yet, they would never stop being shitty...even after being told how their behavior was shitty. I just realized in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:22 AM
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The amount of average to ugly looking men who disparage their beautiful good wives simply because their wives demand they be a little bit responsible in life is too damn high. Seriously scrotes, don't disparage your wife because she makes you do a "honey-do" list around the house. I had a male coworker tell me that lately and it was just disgusting. Your wife has to give you a chore list cause you're a fucking child that can't take the initiative to care for your own domicile like an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:36 PM
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It's getting to the point where Merriam-Webster should just change their example sentence under the definition of Audacity to be, "Men have the audacity."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:00 PM
5

And also reinforced by their male-worshiping mothers who tell them they’re the handsomest man and such a catch for any woman starting from before they’re out of diapers.🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:34 AM
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I mean, Kevin Spacey has been cast in a movie. Even when men make rape accusations against men, it doesn't affect them...not really and not for long if it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:49 PM
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When we were young adults, my brother was sports obsessed and I was and still is the least interested in it. I openly hate watching sports and getting invested in any one team, etc etc. I actually like to play sports tho. But watching it on the couch....just fucking no. He pulled that line on me about how no guy will ever like me if I don't like watching sports and getting involved in it. And I said, "Good, then I won't have to deal with a sports bro for the rest of my life." His brain about bro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:37 AM
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#13 reminds me of what's happening in the handmaid's tale subreddit after this week's episode. No spoilers ahead... Some of them are upset at June for being angry and that it's not helpful, how she's not "moving forward", and she shouldn't act out her anger, and she is acting "crazy." And I can't help but smell the internalized misogyny. Women are pressured by society to not to show their anger and to suppress anger. June is acting so counter to what's expected of women that these redditors can'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:24 AM
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Seriously, I would have skipped the ring (and the man) and bought that Star Destroyer for myself. (I want one so bad!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:54 PM
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He's not upset at what he did, he's upset he got caught. Dumbass probably forgot you can track that shit. The fact he looked for and found nudes in a hidden folder on her phone and sent them...is so deeply troubling. He actually went looking for risque pictures and sent them for later repeat viewing. How she can't feel the drain of self-esteem knowing her husband desires her sister over herself... I just couldn't deal. Divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:45 PM
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I've been dealing with a non-compete clause in my employment contract. I'm trying to get released from it. It's very difficult, and the financial penalty is high. Starting to think marriage should have non-compete clauses...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:22 PM
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I didn't like that scene, just like all the other rape scenes before it in the show. It was to show the viewer how fucking broken and damaged June is. It doesn't excuse what she did, which was vile. I think the writers were trying to find a way to give June her sexual power back and they went about it the very wrong way. She should have had consensual sex with her husband that was loving for both of them. It's really fucking hypocritical to now be offended at rape, when that has been the whole t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:55 PM
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I think that right now, I desire to have a key to a house in my hand than a ring on my finger. That picture above has made me more jealous than any woman posting pics of her engagement ring in the past. Happy for you OP! Enjoy your new home! 🏡🌞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:20 PM
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When a guy I was dating found out I had a decent savings account, he all of sudden wanted me to pay for things because, and I quote “you have more money than me.” He got pissy whenever we went out to meals or shopping. He was a fucking gold digger the moment he got whiff of my bank balance. He could not even pay me back money he borrowed. Men project everything they harp on women for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:08 PM
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Written by a man, first off. Second, they have an agenda: If all the women are leaving their app, their business dies. So, of course they're going to try and guilt women into staying on the app. And yes, this was written towards women because I highly doubt men are blocking women en masse over bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:23 PM
21

He's 52 and can pass for 35. We need to clone him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:20 PM
62

I’m 38 and same. I don’t wear makeup unless it’s a special occasion and I’ll know I’ll be photographed because it will be a memorable occasion. But even then, I don’t wear much at all. I’ve never understood wearing makeup all the time every day. Seems exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:21 PM
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And he was good in Band Of Brothers as Captain Sobel. He kills every roll he's had (at least the ones I've seen.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:19 PM
9

Good god, this sounds exactly like a male manager I had some years ago. I left for lunch one day and never went back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:59 PM
7

I'm sorry if this is obnoxious: WE'D RATHER BE LONELY THAN BE WITH A SCROTE. Die mad, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:13 PM
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"He was unhappy with weight gain, ...he was unhappy because too thin" Sis, he is simply unhappy with you. He hates you. Deep down, he really does hate you. He is betraying how he really feels, little by little, with these comments. You don't treat a person you really love like this. He knows what he is doing. There are men out there loving and making love to their wives who don't have perfect bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:52 PM
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Projection. Because everything he told her is really about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:28 PM
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I’ve seen where like after you get married they just...settle in a give up. Like they assume you won’t ever leave just because you signed a piece of paper. Fuck that That's my worst fear and one of the reasons that has kept me from getting married. I've seen it happen to other women, and I couldn't bear it happening to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:52 PM
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Show me he secretly hates (wants to fuck) you, without telling me he hates (wants to fuck) you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:19 PM
104

Yet no one polices groups of men talking about tight vaginas...etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:16 PM
12

I share your opinion. If me and my brother left dishes on the sink like that and my mom told us to put them in the dishwasher, she would make come back down and do what we were supposed to do. I don’t think she is enforcing consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:33 PM
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I hate that older generation because they will never see what's wrong with talking to children like that. I'm 38 and I had my fair share of those kind of comments from people of that generation when I was growing up. And because it still happens, we as a society we just really need to stop insinuating that little kids are "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" when they play with members of the opposite sex. And happen to become friends with one. I had a little boy when I was in 1st grade that I made frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:00 PM
6

What happens if you just stop showing up for work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:34 PM
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I've always found it pathetic when I see women get married and they change their facebook profile/cover pictures to their wedding photos and keep them there FOR YEARS. Then she will repost pictures of her wedding every so often, even several years later. Like, doesn't anything else exciting happen for you or is this it? Is that all you got in life? No trips, no outings, nothing? You can't take a recent selfie but repost your wedding photo from 4 years ago? What a fucking boring life when your we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:24 PM
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Thank you. He was a really fucked up person. I actually don't have anyone in-person I can tell that to, mostly because I am so embarrassed I fell for his manipulation. I am very humiliated. The more I learn, the more I feel like I was trauma bonded to him. He was one of those types that can suck you in if you're gullible enough (which I was). And then guilt trip you ad nauseum if you try to get away. The cycle of abuse. Thanks to FDS, I feel that I have the tools now to not let that happen again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:39 AM
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Just don't loan money to anyone you're dating. Don't. If they're a shit and don't pay you back, even in a timely manner, it will cause resentment. I don't even do it with friends anymore because once (a now ex)friend needed $200, and then I had to watch him over the next two months buy all sorts of expensive shit ($$$$) at Best Buy and not even think of paying me back. When I confronted him on it, he said "oh, you don't need the money, because you don't have the kind of expenses I have..." My bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:21 PM
43

That also reeks of so much resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:41 PM
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Women opt out because a person with half a brain knows that time, peace, and freedom are far more valuable than any monetary incentive to have a child. And that monetary incentive is probably not even guaranteed for the child until their 18. Make child birth completely free. Make daycare completely free. Made good education completely free. Pay women equally as men, and then give us more paid time off to be good parents. Year long paid maternity and paternity leave. And then give the option to w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:47 PM
13

When my brother and I were still living at home in our early twenties, we started the same diet and exercise regimen. (Adjusted for body-types too) We would buddy up and go to the gym together and work the same machines. (We use to be close... 😕) and he dropped so much weight so quickly than I. He got shredded and I was still dealing with stubborn ab fat. They have no excuse. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:43 PM
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Agreed. And I'm pretty sure that man doesn't love her back either. At least the job gives her money, aka independence, freedom, and autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:06 PM
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Another testerical scrote throwing a tantrum. Die mad, scroties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:34 PM
2

I see them interacting with other friends stuff too. They liked this and commented on that, but me, they're radio silent. It's very telling that they've just followed me with spying eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:09 AM
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I've removed people from my social media friends/followers list that do not even like or comment on anything I post. I like their stuff, I comment on their stuff. But they never seem to offer any kind of interaction with me. So, I've taken to removing them. If I feel like my friendship is a one-way street, I get off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:22 PM
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I agree with you and I was just adding on to what you said. She probably doesn’t know the difference between epidemic or pandemic or has them mixed up with one another. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:08 AM
45

If we were to count the number of women murdered by men in the last 50 years alone, It would be the biggest genocide of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:03 AM
20

My brother destroyed and I mean destroyed his video game controllers because he would lose. He always had anger issues growing up. Yet, according to my mother, he was the perfect child. (Perfect because he was male. And she is a pickme.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:24 PM
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I have mixed feelings about Melania. First off, I don't think she is in such dire circumstances as we would like to believe. I think she is a really shitty person like the rest of them. I don't think she is some helpless waif trapped by Trump. And second, if she was, if Katie Holmes can leave Tom Cruise, Melania can leave Trump. But she chooses not to, and that's what I don't like about her. It took her so long to go live in the white house with Trump after he was elected because she was renegio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:34 PM
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He gives me a creepy chuckle and says, 'I was worried you'd leave out the bathroom window' Sounds like this has happened to him before...Oh I wonder why. 😐 You'd think he might get a clue after the first few times, but nooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:23 AM
5

crooked dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:55 AM
21

Men are dumb. Sit there quiet long enough and they'll start talking to each other and not realize you're still there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:33 PM
14

How does one realize they're being overly used by another person unless they keep a score? People always say, relationships are give and take, how does one determine how much give and take there is unless they keep a score? Now, I don't believe in tit for tat, but healthy relationships have to be mutual between two people. We have to make judgements of others and we have to determine how much we are going to let someone use us up without reciprocation. That can sound harsh and cruel, but in toda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:28 PM
3

She took down all her videos. She is an actress now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:09 PM
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mombie New favorite word. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:49 PM
2

Depends on the state. The rules on that can vary slightly depending on varying factors. Mostly car insurance follows the car, but if the driver is at fault, then it becomes a complicated issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:37 PM
3

My dad isn't a bad person per se, but he is a moron. An absolute moron, and the amount of his stupidity my mother has had to fix and work around throughout the years made me so wary of marriage, which is why I wasn't in a desperate rush to get a man. I saw what being with an incompatible man does to a woman, and I just wanted no part of it. My father is a LVM because of his laziness and stupidity with his wife, his kids, and lack of common sense. (I'm certain he has an IQ in the low 80s/high 70s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:45 PM
5

OMG. I would watch the shit out of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:33 PM
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They were actually insulting her for having a "flat ass" in her costume and have CGI enhance her body. Um....all the males had the same CGI enhancements FFS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:30 PM
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(this is also why I am increasingly hesitant to becoming friends with women who have young children. They tend to think that a childless woman’s interests/hobbies are frivolous.) Preach. I have many various hobbies, and because I am child-free I can afford and have the time for them. Somehow, in their minds, my interests are frivolous or silly, and therefore I am more immature than they are because my life doesn't revolve around diapers and playgrounds. People who don't know how to say no, or la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:08 PM
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And men like this wonder why their wives end up not wanting to have sex with them anymore. He had one job. ONE JOB. And he decided to do things his own way, and bought a dead woman's ring. He did more work hunting down the cheap ring than he did buying the ring she wanted. Just why?? Now she is going to look at that ring for the rest of her life with resentment because she made it so easy for him, and he couldn't have enough LOVE in his heart for her to just buy the damn ring she wanted. He care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:52 PM
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Exactly. Gotta ask why he hates her so much to not buy the exact thing she wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:44 PM
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At my current job, I have male coworkers calling off of work because of little pains and one male coworker will call out over dumb issues like "my elbow hurt" and "my foot hurt." Meanwhile, I'm sitting there at my job enduring menstrual cramps, nausea, AND hobbling around with plantar fasciitis in my left foot. So, if I could have a day off to not have to deal with the embarrassment of bleeding through my tampon and onto my work pants. That'd be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:36 PM
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Unconditional love for me, but not for you. Everybody leaves me (who I manipulate) Cleaning, what's that? (Women's Work.) Friendzoned. (Why? I'm a nice guy.) Low EQ, High Score. (A gamer's ballad)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:31 PM
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I honestly meant that as a joke because periods suck, that’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:12 AM
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I really meant that with humor because periods suck. That’s all. Pleas take it as the joke it was meant to be....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:11 AM
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A woman with the bodyfat % of a fit male (10-15%) would be infertile and have no periods. Don't threaten me with a good time. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:04 PM
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If you asked any of those scrotes their opinion of Brie Larson pre-Marvel, they would've called her a good actress and hot. As soon as she became the most powerful Marvel hero, she got tons of hate and vitriol. These scrotenerds can't handle a woman superhero being more powerful than any male superhero. Hey Scrotes, take it up with Stan Lee, he - a man - created her and made her the most powerful Avenger. And Wanda Maximoff - who if Thanos didn't rain missiles on her she would have single-handed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:00 PM
3

Most men look better with well kept beards. No beard should be longer than a couple of inches though. Because it just looks nasty then. But I like to see them without beards on occasion because I want to know if they're hiding a weak chin...lol. I always thought Sebastian Stan was younger than me. I found out recently he's my age, 38. And Paul Rudd is a vampire because he doesn't fucking age at all. He's 52!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:49 PM
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Plus Brad Pitt has a fuck ton of money and resources available to him that the average man does not. Brad can hire a personal trainer and spend all day, every day, getting fit. He can hire a chef to cook him healthy, delicious meals. Plastic surgeons to fix cosmetic issues...I could go on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:39 PM
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38 here. Honestly, I have, to a degree, have been less of a pickme than my peers. I rarely chased boys, I rarely threw myself at men. I never dragged a man into marriage and children, like I saw a few friends do. I'm unmarried, always have been, relatively stayed away from most men. And I've always felt like there has been something wrong with me because of it. And other people, even family, has made me feel bad over my singlehood. But, I always knew deep down that if I man really liked me, I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:11 PM
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I wouldn't leave him alone with the baby. I wouldn't put it past him to harm the baby. He sounds dangerously self-absorbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:34 PM
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Not only is the bar in hell, but satan is standing on top of it. smh. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:48 PM
3

I'd cut the carpet out and put it in his hot car to bake in the smell. But shit like this is why I'm not married or wouldn't be for long with losers like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:01 PM
3

FDS didn't create us. We've always existed. This is probably one of first few public spaces we have had to come together and talk about our mutual issues with men. It's helped some women to feel not alone (like me) and help others to level up and have better standards (again, like me.) Even if FDS were to ever be banned by Reddit, it doesn't matter, we still exist, we will still grow. As long as there are LVM/NVM, women will keep isolating themselves from men. The FDS way of life will keep growi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:27 PM
3

"Mommy Bangmaid" is quite possibly the best descriptor I've seen of what they really want. A mother that cleans them, picks up after them, feeds them, worships the ground they walk on, gets a tan from sun that shines out of their ass, and then will fuck them whenever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:02 PM
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I’m 35 (the age when women get their wings) Ha, seriously. I'm 38 and I have no fucks left to give anymore. I've started getting really mouthy and confrontational after 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:57 PM
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This vaccine is an MRNA vaccine that tells your body to make the spike protein. Your body's immune system goes after the spike protein to defeat it. This puts your body under stress, ergo, it may affect your period. It would probably be the same if you got the flu or a cold...or even COVID. It's not a result from the vaccine, but the body's immune response that can alter your period. I received the pfizer vaccine back in January (healthcare worker) and it didn't affect my period at all. Some wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:34 PM
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I've noticed that decent men know not to approach a strange woman. When I'm out on walks around my neighborhood and the men who also happen to be out are walking as well, will notice me, but won't talk. Men with wives say hi, but their wives say hi too. Any man worth his salt will know women are scared of strange men and give women a berth to not feel scared. Won't try to start conversation, won't get too close or follow. Men who don't do this are not to be trusted. Good job OP on leaving, you d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:54 PM
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A lot of these men had people who cared about them: wives, partners, and family members, but would push them away due to their manipulative behaviour." A thousand times this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:18 PM
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My personal opinion is I would work at a shelter for women only. There's too much risk in any of the homeless men targeting a woman volunteer for whatever nefarious reason. It's sad we have to think this way, but there it is. I wouldn't risk my safety over it. I would volunteer at a women's shelter only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:16 PM
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Ted Bundy walked his coworker Ann Rule to her car for her safety. Don't trust any of 'em..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:33 AM
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I laughed, but I really shouldn't have...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:08 PM
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Hey Tom, that just means don't stick your dick in if you don't want the financial responsibility. Scrotes be wailin': Oh no, there's consequences for my actions!! OH NO!! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:28 PM
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It is completely and utterly arrested development. So many women I've talked to who had gotten married and had children young, seem to be more immature than others who didn't. My own mother, who had her first baby at 19, has traits of a teenager and not a mature woman. She didn't even understand women's anatomy until I was a teenager and had to teach her about women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:40 PM
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The shit i've heard listening to The Murder Squad and Small Town Dicks has made me lose my faith in men for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:12 PM
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I was always annoyed when I was growing up and even as an adult how I would go to parties and I saw the men lounging around while the women worked. Women did cooking, cleaning, and the decorating, while men sat on their asses or played games. Bugged the shit out of me. Even then when I was a child, I knew it wasn't right nor fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:42 PM
16

A real apology is not words but changed behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:24 PM
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A youtube video made by a mechanic (with nice arms) showed me how to dismantle parts of my engine to get to the spark plugs in the back to change them. If I can learn how to do that and do it well by myself. A dude can learn how to do household responsibilities from the interwebs. Cooking and cleaning is a lot easier than dismantling and removing and reinstalling an intake manifold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:01 PM
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And now that they're adults, they can teach themselves how to live and not rely on others and/or gender roles to get their needs fulfilled. Grow up and be an adult. We all have things to overcome from our childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:57 PM
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In the era of youtube, where anyone can learn anything, it's unacceptable for an adult to make a child do anything for them because they, the adult, simply don't know how. This is child abuse and should be reported. She's 9, she could hurt herself. She should not be doing adult responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:18 PM
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Yes, every man. LVM coworkers, friends, even family can do as much damage as any romantic LVM relationship. You don't have to be having sex with them to be abused. Sometimes, we can't help being forced around them because of employment or living arrangements, but we can limit our contact as much as is needed. ​ Every woman has had this happen to her with a male friend whom she genuinely loved and it can be just as devistating as a break up is. Yes it is. My ex male friend started to treat me lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:17 PM
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Same, I was made to think about an ex friend who was very toxic and it just triggered so much inside of me. I really want to get to that point to where when I hear their name, I feel indifference. I figured the best way to get through it is to practice what I would do the next time heard their name or even saw them and how I would react and feel. I think the preparation helps me to feel a little more in control. We'll get there. It will take time. But we will. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:31 AM
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I removed a friend from my life a year ago by blocking and deleting. I got to the point I couldn't have this person in my life anymore. The constant drama, negativity, the outright meanness and hostility. It was causing me more stress than anything. I exiled that toxic monster out of my life. Yes, he was a NVM. Probably narcissistic. I was only friends with him because of a mutual hobby. But I finally blocked and deleted him. I recently had a mutual male "friend" argue on their behalf, telling m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:28 PM
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You missed the point entirely. He was feigning incompetence to get out of a chore he was asked to do. And I'm not married. Reread my comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:16 AM
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Her doctor was a woman. This asshole had the audacity to ask one woman to that to another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:43 AM
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All I hear is from men is: We can hate women, but women can't hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:42 AM
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SShhhh.....don't give them the answers to the question....lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:37 AM
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it was not the men that were the worst to the childfree women, but other women. As a child-free 38 year old woman, this is very very true. I have the hardest time making friends and maintaining friendships with married women with children. And it's not my problem. They put down my life experiences because it's not involving kids. Somehow, my hardships are not "hard" simply because I don't have kids. They really only try to befriend other married women with children. I'm pretty much left out a lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:00 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:14 AM
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I had a friend of a facebook friend post in our women's only group that her husband was loading the dishwasher badly and she has shown him many times how to do it. He was getting frustrated and just said she should do it. She was upset. I told her to tell him that "practice makes perfect" and he'll get it right someday and she shouldn't cave. As soon as he figures out he isn't going to ever get out of doing it, he'll just start doing right to get it over with quicker. She really likes that and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:52 PM
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By unflavored gelatin....do you mean a kind of Jello? Sorry if I'm dumb...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:43 PM
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Today they gave out his name, and he isn't "white". However, he is 21 and is an American Citizen. Being that age, growing up in this country, most of what you said still applies. Wouldn't surprise me in the least if in the coming weeks he's outed as an incel, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:31 PM
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In one of those AskReddit threads about abusive parents, I read one story of a person who's father kept track of every last dollar he spent on them in an excel spreadsheet and even tried to get the money back from them once they turned 18. I think he wins the award for NVM of that kid's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:22 PM
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I could give a really long story about this that confirms it, but i'll just say: truer words were never spoken. Stay away from those types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:18 PM
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Male relatives can be like this too. Queue my story: I bought a semi-used car in 2018. It was only a year old, low miles, great shape, good price. I researched what I wanted and what would fit my finances. I am a capable fucking adult. My older brother has a reputation in our family for giving unwanted opinions, and they're almost never nice. He thinks he is smarter than everyone else and he knows best. It took a week for me to even tell him I bought a car. He was nonchalant about it, strangely.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:09 PM
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One time I was working out, I was at a machine for the lower back, when I happened to just look around. A guy had sat down at a machine not to far from me and I was just at the right angle and I saw up his shorts. No underwear. Dude wasn't wearing underwear. I saw balls. I looked away. Why wouldn't you wear underwear? I don't get it. So fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:50 AM
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The true crime podcast "Small Town Dicks" has an episode called The Imposition where a gamer, lazy - no job, loser "father" murdered his 35 day-old baby. The also found the baby was neglected and abused beforehand. The mom was forced back to work and he was abusing the baby while she was gone. The cops on the podcast pretty much said that the gamer types tend to be the most violent towards children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:18 PM
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Looks like I just got it overnight! YAAY!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:58 PM
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I'm still waiting on a flair, and I feel bad because I'd to verify any way possible I am indeed a woman but I know the mods are being cautious. This is my new alt account. I'd like to delete my old account asap....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:25 PM
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