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"This is how we got over it“ He didn’t have anything to get over. It was all her being a desperate doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:34 PM
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“Now” They always have. Now we can call them out because they are blatantly displaying it for the public to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:28 PM
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I think he should get dick cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:11 PM
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Can you make a post about this please? I am extremely interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:24 AM
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All my abusers were Muslim. And I wear hijab. I also don’t have a father in the picture tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:23 AM
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I wish I had your parents :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:06 AM
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Lmaooooo your comment reminds me of Severus Snape “Potter, what is the difference between Monkswood and wolfsbane? What would i get if i added powdered root of asphodel to an infusion of wormwood? Where, Mr. Potter, would you look if I asked you to find me a bezoar?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:00 AM
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Thanks for sharing. This is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:46 PM
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The husband had an onlyfans as well? Meaning he posted nudes of himself online??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:29 PM
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Stopped reading after the met a girl on discord part. Yes you made the right call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:45 PM
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I think you're right. I've been gradually putting myself back together after the worst abusive NVM of existence, and working through the years of subsequent PTSD. I've tried years of therapy and it hasn't done shit. But fds has definitely helped. I know I'm right and I'm allowed to feel and think whatever I'm feeling and thinking. After everything that's happened to me, of course I am the way that I am. I have endless compassion and empathy for myself. And I think you're completely right in sayi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:31 PM
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Thats such a good point!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:07 PM
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Reading this is like a salve to my irritated heart <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:12 PM
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This checks. My NVM ex walked miles ahead of me on the first date and every date after (of which there were only 2).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:07 PM
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TAKE IT ALL!!!!! Who the fuck is he to create RULES about stuff that YOU BOUGHT no less? If you bought it, it's YOURS. You dont even need to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:02 PM
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That's great! Ugh see now Im tempted to re-download it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:42 PM
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Thanks sis ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:45 PM
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Thank you sis ♥️♥️👸🏻👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:45 PM
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😂 yeahI saw that show as well. It was so embarrassing. More like men are dumpster fires. The apps don’t work, the websites don’t work. The common denominator is males. I am happy for you 💕 Where did you find him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:43 PM
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Yes, I definitely will never forget this lesson. I’m just glad I found FDS and have somewhere to post this stuff and not be gaslit about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:41 PM
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Thank you, I hope we all do ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:39 PM
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You know, as soon as they realize what this video is about, they lose interest, or leave comments like “shut up and show us your tits”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:13 PM
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Omg what is wrong with these psycho therapists (pun intended) Ive had bad experiences with them as well and I also dont trust them. They took my trauma and blamed it on me. I was traumatized and didnt wanna date and she was like "...aaaaand there's that trauma mind :)" as if mocking me for being so stupid and i should just stop being traumatized and give males a chance because NOT ALL MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:14 AM
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That wall already smashed him in the face so hard his hair follicles fell out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:29 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:42 PM
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This needs to be a full on song!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:24 AM
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Report the fuck outta him!! If the religion is Islam, he should know that it is obligatory on Muslims to follow the law of the land. If the country he is in states that polygamy is illegal, it is prohibited for him to engage in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:37 AM
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:05 AM
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I've witnessed a male (60) looking at a girl (20) with false lashes, coloured contacts, and heavy eye makeup, and say: "Now THAT'S NATURAL BEAUTY" unironically. And when I said, she's wearing contacts and false lashes he just didnt believe me. Males are actually brain dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:36 AM
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Yeah it’s so embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:30 AM
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Oh my god this makes so much sense. I used Minder before, which is like tinder for Muslims. And this explains why a lot of guys have “we can lie about where we met” on their status. And this makes me feel so much better for the fact that no one on there is serious and no one wants to get married. I was getting so frustrated and upset over it. But now it makes sense. Thank you for posting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:16 PM
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The satisfaction when you see his face turn from eagerness to disappointment because he realizes you’re not easy and hes not getting any :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:19 PM
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Their brains are literally broken and they have zero logic. Male actor being tortured in screen = BLASPHEMY Girls and women being tortured for real = men need this stop kink shaming. Like the fucking idiocy is real and I ALMOST can't believe males could be this depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:39 PM
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Ok this is what I'm afraid of. Someone seemingly HVM but then years later it turns out he was exceptionally good at hiding his porn use. Are you telling me there were NO SIGNS? I guess not having sex with you is one. Were there others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:34 PM
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Very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:28 PM
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I went through abuse too, with a narc for a year. This gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:11 PM
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Wild meaning... wh0ring around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:58 PM
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Lmaoo same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:21 PM
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That's a good point. Thanks sis 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:42 AM
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Thank you 💕 I did recently start using tretenoin, so I will wait 6 months and see if it made a difference. What kind of depuffing product do you use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:25 AM
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"Converse more better" indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:37 PM
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Thank you 💕 I hope so. I was with him for a year and spent the next two years crying and dealing with the trauma. I did a lot of therapy. I think I'm in a better place now mentally even though I'm still not fully healed from the emotional abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:10 PM
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The wrinkles went away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:06 PM
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I'm crying at that reveal lmaooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:17 AM
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Which video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:04 AM
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I'm in my 20s and my LVM ex traumatized and aged me. So I don't look better than before i met him and I never will again. He stole my youth even though I was only with him for a year. It's over for me. He aged me. He stressed me and stress ages you so I'm aged. He aged me. My face has less fat now and i have dynamic wrinkles under my eyes when I smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:03 AM
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Ok it was just a fucking question, no need to jump down my throat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:58 AM
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Is this real or fake though. It seems too good to be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:01 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:16 PM
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The last one lmaoooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:52 PM
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Lmfaooooooooo needed that laugh first thing in the morning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:40 PM
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I would be great to have a post explaining some resources for complete novices. I am intrigued by investing and stocks etc but I am overwhelmed and don’t know the first thing about it or how it works. I think financial literacy is something we should be pushing for in this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:23 AM
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Ew so fucking cringe lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:56 AM
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This is an example of a white worshipping man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:10 PM
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Yesss. Call a spade a spade. Gold digging wh0re.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:53 AM
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Or cheat. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:19 AM
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He’s gonna “respect” his way to cheating on her in the near future. Guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:19 AM
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I was watching Selling Sunset the other day and one girl (the playboy model one, I forget her name) said her pubic hair grows in a bush and guys love it and think it’s sexy. So maybe that trend is coming back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:35 PM
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I don’t think of it like that, I focus on what I’m comfortable with regarding n count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:26 PM
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I don’t fuck with any wh0re-male that’s fucked more than 3-4. They desensitize themselves and are unable to bond or commit to anyone. Yeah like the others say, don’t tell people you’re a virgin, males will be obsessed with “corrupting the innocent” and then tossing you aside when done. Take some time and read the handbook a bunch of times and really internalize it before dating anyone. These LVMs will be really easy to spot after that. You’re on the right track already though :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:31 PM
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What is your job if you don’t mind? I am in a career rut and want to change careers. Any ideas would be helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:27 PM
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Fuckboys using religion to slut shame women while acting holier than thou and pious as if they don’t watch porn every night and haven’t fucked non muslims out of wedlock since the age of 17.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:16 PM
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He looks like an actual Demon. Fucking scary as shit. No idea how anyone would ever voluntarily want to look at that face let alone fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:04 PM
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Ew he's so embarassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:16 PM
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I love their hand gestures. It really just adds something to the scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:09 PM
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I like to block fuckers mid sentence hahah it pisses them off so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:04 AM
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That sounds like a cozy and relaxing life. So... thanks? I will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:55 AM
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Because everyone knows most women’s confidence is dependent on looks. I wish it weren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:55 PM
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Pig sty’s are red flags. Clean spaces are red flags. The fuck are we supposed to do lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:25 PM
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That was amazing 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:45 PM
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I had this one piece of shit schedule a phone convo with me for the future, and then after I confirmed, he waited hours, and then said "but that doesnt mean you go silent until then" So i replied "I could say the same to you" And he dares to say "Im busier than you..........." Like, BITCH, you WHAT? So I left him on read. Predictably he tried to say "hey" as if nothing happened like one hour later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:44 AM
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I wish I could watch this, but it has nudity. If there was a censored version somewhere, i would SO watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:47 PM
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Cant stand this woman. I dont get why everyone here loves her either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:47 PM
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That’s so wonderful I wanted to make my own bread for a long time now! What’s with the shower caps? I’m confused about those How long have you guys been together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:54 AM
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Everyone here is fawning over him and making excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:26 AM
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If he wanted a date the end result in mind was pussy. He didn't wanna be married at 19 that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:41 AM
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We were all just doing the best we could at the time. Obviously we would never act that way now that know what we know. But back then we didn't know. So it's not our fault. Society taught us a lot of misinformation and we had to unlearn it ourselves. We should be proud we got to this stage of knowledge and wisdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:32 AM
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I'm saving this comment. It was so short and concise but full of so much info. I thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:14 AM
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Legit. They think they're worth something for some godforsaken reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:31 PM
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Because they don't want to. Look it's useless trying to understand males. They aren't human. They do whatever benefits their dick and don't care about the repercussions that women face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:34 AM
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Nailed itttt No one wanted to marry me when I was younger, naive, quiet, and innocent. They just wanted to play with me and dip. Even the ones claiming to be serious WERE LYING. And when I rejected them because of their lies and the fact that I wasnt attracted to them, they'd make up rumours about how I'm a gold digger and THEY rejected ME. Anyways. I attract hotter guys now in my mid/late 20s than I ever did before now. So my sexual market value is INCREASING BITXH BOYSSSS STAY MAD ABOUT THAT :…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:57 PM
3

Exactly. We learn to look out for ourselves and exude confidence rather than meek naive innocence. They cant fuck with us anymore and have to come correct or not at all :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:54 PM
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I understand her pain. We've all been brainwashed and I'm still trying to unlearn the brainwashing. I still have days where I cry about my age. But then I realize I look better now than I did at 20 And I think about how the fuck we've arrived at a society where women in their TWENTIES are panicking about being old?? Like we're not middle aged. Why are we having a middle aged crisis in our TWENTIES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:13 PM
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You phrased it so well. We already were perfect wifey material and no one worth their salt was interested in treating us nicely. I'm saving this comment as it is such a good reminder for those dark days where I start believing their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:51 PM
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I'm mid-late 20s and my sexual market value increased since age 20. I attract hotter guys than ever before. Since when is 25-30 considered OLDDDDD LOL these fuckers are pedophiles plain and simple. Real men don't wanna fuck children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:49 PM
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Haha Im being disrespected in front of my fami.y teehee its so funny i cant stop laughing. And how predictable that he apologized to his DAD but not to THE WOMAN HE DISRESPECTED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:20 AM
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This makes me sad. Its always someone 20 years younger. Always. Fucking sickos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:04 AM
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But also want whores and love virgins. Cant please em, dont want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:04 AM
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I always swiped left on all gamers and anime watchers. One time I decided to give it a chance and he turned out to be surprisingly mature and chivalrous. It didn't work out for other reasons but he was great. He watched mononoke, attack on titan, Ghibli, and a couple others. But he was into a lot so maybe he just didn't mention the creepy ones? I don't know. From what I saw, he wasn't a perv. His insta didn't have any naked girls on it either. Great conversationalist, very sweet, and serious abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:57 AM
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Yup I always check their insta and block and delete them without warning when I see naked girls on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:14 AM
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Ok I love this because I never thought to walk away mid order even when I see they are being stingy with their toppings and not making it how I like. But now 😈 I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:28 AM
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To stop going to my neglectful parents for any emotional support. It's a stupid habit of mine that I CANT HELP BUT DO AND I NEED TO STOP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:45 PM
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Ughh I love hearing about HVM. I absolutely love it. It lifts up my spirits and at the same time shocks me that real men like that exist and aren't just fables and legends. Yeah, I don't have many good males in my life so I'm always surprised by stuff like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:31 PM
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EXACTLY. No one fucking CHOOSES to be abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:09 PM
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It's true. I started dating late in my mid 20s, and I ended up with the worst mistake of my life because I was naive and didnt know what boundaries even were and didnt know how to recognize abusive behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:50 PM
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Youre the type of hero we need in this world. This warms my bitter ice cold heart :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:16 AM
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These pickmes sound like mommys who have misbehaving toddlers. It's nauseating to read tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:59 PM
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My birthday gift to myself is to completely FORGET about him/it and everything associated with him/it. No talking about it, no thinking about it, no writing about it. IT NEVER HAPPENED :) IT DOESNT EXIST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:49 PM
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Such brainless sheep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:31 AM
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Sucks for him, he's not in charge, we are. Deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:13 PM
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Not even that. Its literally "well he hasnt punched me in the face yet so he's good on the inside, just a little rough around the edges :)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:21 PM
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No porn use No insta wh0re ogling No checking out other women No anime No video games Must eat healthy Must work out but not be a gym rat Must be a polite gentleman Must be clean and hygienic No drug use of any kind Good with finances Taller than 5'7 Must be slim Must be cute in the face Must not dress like a slob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:56 PM
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My sentiments exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:44 PM
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"anxious attachment style / anxiety / broken relationship with father" I have these exact issues. Can you tell me more about your journey and how you overcame these?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:58 AM
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He’s rich but classless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:44 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ... males are scum of the earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:34 PM
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I look hotter in my mid to late 20s than I did in my early 20s. The hotness of the men I attract reflects that. Stay mad bitchass scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:10 PM
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That’s psychopathic. I bet some are like that. I’ve always thought most were extremely protective of their own daughters because they don’t want her getting hurt the same way they hurt girls in their youth. They feel uncomfortable of the truth that they were users and manipulators. So they’ll just paint the boys her age as “trouble makers who can’t be trusted” and use violence and threats to keep the boys away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:08 PM
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This explains so much. I was always in the mood for my ex. The one time I wanted to delay it for 5 minutes he raped me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:02 PM
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I’m crying lmaooo men are so delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:48 PM
7

Bald head brighter than his future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:33 PM
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I thought the cut off was 30. This is a disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:44 AM
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Dont bother replying. I am quitting this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:15 PM
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I didnt post in vicdicta, I posted here. When someone is venting on FDS about how life sucks because of the male gaze, the appropriate response isnt to tell them to "stop complaining or youll get banned/downvoted/whatever" and basically mocking the person by saying they are lamenting and writing paragraphs. SO WHAT IF IM WRITING PARAGRAPHS. ILL WRITE 10 IF I WANT. I AM HAVING A BREAKDOWN. I NEED UNDERSTANDING NOT MOCKING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:12 PM
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Or... This is EXACTLY why you tell them :) jk jk. or am i.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:11 PM
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Thats a great way to deal with someone whos asking for help and advice. To kick them out. Kick them while theyre already down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:06 PM
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Sounds like its all downhill in terms of womens available choices. Maybe its true all the good HVM get snapped up early, and if you dont get married by a certain age its over. I dont know what to think anymore tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:03 PM
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Its not self loathing lamentation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:39 PM
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I dont see how I could stop caring about it, I want to be wanted. I want someone to accept me, and cherish me, and love me, and put me on a pedestal and be crazy about me. And we all know they are shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:21 PM
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But how do these males look 32 at age 44? Like? It's not like they even take care of their skin. I don't fucking understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:40 PM
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Exactly. Sit down and shut up when women are talking. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:45 AM
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It’s the only way they make an impact on the world. I cackled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:38 AM
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Destroy him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:18 AM
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Im not doing ok and it has been a year. I never would have labelled it rape if not for the women on this sub. I am now a RAPE VICTIM. I HAVE BEEN RAPED. IM A RAPED PERSON. I WAS RAPED. SOMEONE RAPED ME AND VICTIMIZED ME. IT HAPPENED. I WAS RAPED. TOO BAD. SUCKS FOR ME. IT HAPPENED AND I CANT CHANGE IT. I GOT RAPED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:21 AM
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Thank you for your words of kindness. I really do need to retake ownership of my body, as I have been neglecting it for over a year now, and I do not see it as my own anymore. He ruined everything for me. I used to work out and now I cant do that without thinking about his comments about how i should workout more to look like "her". Im revolted and repulsed by working out now, and by my own body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:33 PM
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more like "sex positive, monogamous, pick me ass bitxh" Ok. So how about we cheat on our husband when they are at work, and then spew this monologue when people have a problem with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:25 PM
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This video made me want to learn self defense and be strong, but then I started thinking about how i already got raped, no whats the point of trying to defend myself, i already lost. And it just made me burst into tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:21 PM
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She probably wouldve blamed the girl. That's how pickme ass moms raise their bitchboys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:16 PM
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Yeah, and this is why when people in this sub told me that what I experienced was RAPE and not CNC, I was retraumatized, and couldnt stop crying for days after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:07 PM
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Anyone notice he said "MY Mary"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:04 PM
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Exactly. lmao. I suggest not bothering to reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:02 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:39 PM
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Bodybuilder forum misc language detected. Now that you've shown your level of internalized misogyny, I will not be responding any further. Good day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:38 PM
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U don't need to be a wh0re or pure girl for a man to pay for you lmfao. You're valuing money over your own dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:57 PM
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U really need to read the handbook hunny. I don't split bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:55 PM
10

Then continue being cheated on/cheated with. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:52 PM
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I love her energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:35 PM
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If you want to buy into it and play by males rules go ahead, but that ain’t FDS and it will not benefit you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:24 PM
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That makes sense. Thank u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:50 PM
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Because these type of women have the mindset that “a man marries the boring good girl, but still wants the hot bad girl“ And they have this mindset because they’ve been taught this from men and society growing up. So they think there is value in being the side wh0re. Meanwhile those women who are “holy pick mes” think that there is value in being the virginal submissive good wife. It’s just buying into the Madonna whore complex, they have internalized it. Newsflash it sucks being in either posit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:38 PM
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Ok but HVM ARE rare so how do I stop myself having scarcity mindset? For example I’m currently speaking to a very polite guy, too early to say if he’s hvm. But there’s no one else who’s as attractive or polite or communicative as him CURRENTLY in my life speaking to me. So how do I NOT see him as scarce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:27 PM
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Ok so how do we suss out his type?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:04 PM
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I love that last paragraph, I never thought to take my anxiety into consideration, and accommodate it and look for people who accommodate it in a certain way, I always just thought this is something that’s wrong with me and I need to fix myself before finding the right person. But this is such a good way of looking at things so thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:50 PM
51

Am I the asshole for not letting him take advantage of me and give nothing in return? Am I the asshole for not letting him call me a bitch? Am I the asshole for not letting him punch my face during sex so i have two black eyes? Am i the asshole I dont let him sexually abuse my daughter? Am I the asshole for not letting him being a cheating wh0re? Am i the -- I FUCKING SWEAR TO GOD, WHEN WILL WOMEN STOP THIS??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:54 PM
42

Jesus fucking christ. If you havent already left him, just be aware things are gonna get more abusive the longer you stay. LEAVE HIM IMMEDIATELY. RESPECT YOURSELF, EVEN IF HE DOESNT. HE IS GARBAGE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:44 PM
1

Video games are such a fucking turn off. Yuckkkkkkkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:40 PM
2

He's acting like he sacrificed a limb for his wife and kids. So pathetic. And she just gave him permission to check out of the marriage by doing this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:38 PM
11

" I had established boundaries with this man several times, he would violate them, and I would send him paragraphs of text reminding him about my boundaries. He would apologise, promise to never hurt me again, and then the cycle would repeat. " Oh my godddd i couldve written this word for word. NO ONE TOLD ME I HAD THE OPTION TO LEAVE. No one told me its OKAY TO LEAVE. No one told me to look for patterns REGARDLESS of his words. No one told me males will say ANYTHING to keep a girl by their side…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:20 PM
3

I trust him = I dont wanna know because it will destroy me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:41 PM
3

Im sorry you went through that, and i agree, some people say "but shes ur mom" and i know that, but its about what's best for me, and I will always love her, but she is clearly not healthy and not helping me be healthy so I must distance myself and eventually move out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:11 PM
3

Thank you for your message 💕 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:08 PM
1

reach out to the local shelters to see if they are taking new volunteers Really good ideas for me to consider, especially the animal shelter one, thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:06 PM
1

Thank you 💕 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:53 PM
2

Thank you for the link, I will definitely check that out, i really do need a support group of similar people. Yes I am old enough to move out, but I need to save up a bit first. I love the idea of living alone and having my own cute little apartment and a cat and plants everywhere and playing xmas music loudly and just being alone and not feeling the need to interact with family members or turn to them in times of need because they wont be around!! :) Ill only have myself and thats the person th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:53 PM
2

It works, thanks so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:26 PM
18

My thoughts exactly. This aint FDS, its lib fem. YUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:22 PM
2

Please try and link the pdf if you can, they don't have it in the Library where I am and it would be a great help. Thanks for your help 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:53 AM
46

" Men who get bored of their belongings easily " This is a good one to pay attention to, consider males see women as objects. The same parts of their brains light up when looking at women and tools to be used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:14 AM
1

That sounds exactly like me! My therapist mentioned to try meetup .com for online groups and im also struggling to find interesting ones. Yeah it would be nice to keep in touch! Thanks for offering :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:50 AM
1

Thanks for reaching out, and hopefully others like us will read this and chime in too. I dont have a solution either but right now I know that I need healthy connection with people to re-write the way my brain has been wired. I have anxious attachment, and I need secure attachment to people so that I can become securely attached as well. But I dont know how to make that connection, as I mentioned in my post above. It's like trial and error. I know emdr will be helpful, so maybe i will start that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:48 AM
3

I wish I could find another source of emotional connection, but I dont have either parents, nor my brother, I only have 1 friend, as I cut the other off for being blatantly rude about something she knows i would be sensitive about, and I only see that one friend once a month. I dont have any way of making new friends because of covid, and the only other option is online. Im currently on OLD which I know, isnt the best. But what other choice do i have for connecting with humans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:15 AM
4

Youre right. Being alone is better than being continually frustrated. I need to leave. Id rather live alone and according to my own preference, even get a cat if I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:13 AM
64

Exactly. He doesn't give a damn if you unfollow him on socials.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:15 PM
10

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:12 PM
7

I feel you on this. I've had a Pyrrhic victory myself and it doesn't feel good at all. And you are clearly very introspective and self aware. And I know you will figure out what part of you failed to protect yourself soon. But remember that other parts of you protected yourself swiftly and immediately. Two months is a short amount of time compared to my 10 months. And I continued being traumatized by the echos of his words for a year and a half further. He took 2.5 years from me. He raped me. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:17 PM
2

They're too brainwashed to accept the truth and think that your "radical ideas are threatening the family unit" lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:49 PM
3

Sounds like a LVM who doesn't want his daughter to be treated the same way he treated his own wife. Not to be cynical. I do like the message. But he sounds like he only realized how to treat women after he has a daughter of his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:27 PM
10

Yeah I don't see the appeal of having sex with a stranger. It sounds stupid and boring. You KNOW everything they're saying is to manipulate you into bed and you KNOW they don't give one single shit about you. How do you reward someone with your pussy knowing that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:23 PM
7

Your sis is pickme supreme. Glad you shut him down. After he paid I wouldn't have even brought up the issue again. He admitted his mistake so no need to open up the discussion and give him a chance to one up you with a snide remark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:10 PM
48

So she's calling herself and all other women bitxhes. How fucking stupid of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:27 PM
2

What the hell did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:16 AM
2

I only use it to insult males and women who disrespect me. I don't use it in a joking way, and next any male that uses it in any capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:10 AM
21

This is pure gold. And 100% agree with point 5. My ex was rp and he was both ex military AND collected guns and loved shooting Bruh. It's like they're all cut from the same shit cloth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:44 AM
7

Ew how delusional can males be. Apparently an obese 87 year old is in his prime because he has the potential to lose weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:34 AM
21

It's their attempt to manipulate you. "stop acting like a child and enjoy my pornsickness and pander to it!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:25 AM
11

LMFAO I do this too! They get so triggered. I even do it for God, who is taught to us as being genderless and yet everyone refers to her/him as a he. They get so shook when I refer to god as a she it's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:13 AM
8

Lmfao I would laughhhhhh and then block just to trigger his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:56 AM
64

I wish someone had taught me boundaries and red flags early on. But I was kept naive and just told to stay away from males for religious reasons. I ended up in my first situationship in mid twenties and had to learn the hard way through getting abused and then months later realizing he was abusive (yeah, that's how naive I was) and then tried for another few months to make him realize he was hurting me and wanting him to care because I COULD NOT FATHOM for the life of me that anyone could be sou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:13 PM
3

always going to feel either disgusted or inadequate. str8 fax
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:26 PM
5

but men find that sexy Pedos*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:44 PM
7

He doesn't go beyond 4 days without talking to me. He isn't serious, please dont build him up in your head. I talked to a guy online like that before and he wouldnt go a DAY without texting/calling/or video. If this male can go 4 whole days, he is clearly trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:34 PM
32

Because its a pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:17 AM
16

I love seeing women with younger husbands :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:51 AM
6

can you explain this further please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:42 AM
7

Jfc... I'm terrified of having a kid now... Thank you for sharing and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Fuck those doctors and nurses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:28 AM
8

Videogame and porn addiction has ruined men. I keep seeing so many of these giving birth/playing games posts it's really pathetic. I'm glad I've always been turned off by videogames and never dated a gamer. Never fucking will! They are losers and unattractive. Get a real hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:25 AM
5

Yeah they always say "men must spread the seed" even though they'd abandon the woman and the child. They just love feeling like their worthless semen is valuable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:52 AM
15

They just base our value on looks and nothing more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:58 AM
18

Aww emotional little bitchboy thinks he's scary hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:50 AM
32

That last scene is so fucked up and it shows male mentality. You smile at them and they think you wanna fuck them and have their babies. Never smiling at any male ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:07 PM
16

They trade them as such as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:54 PM
3

Thanks girl ♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:21 PM
2

Girl happy belated. You got the best present of all. Freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:37 PM
3

😂😂😂😂😂oh dear lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:35 PM
15

"I don't condone ft" Proceeds to condone it Males are such fake two faced little snakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:13 PM
26

I thought 1 in 1000 or something like that lead to conviction? The chances are so low, I've heard, which is why I never bothered reporting mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:02 PM
23

I wasted 8 months, and he gave me ptsd which tormented me for the next 2 years. So I guess im in the same boat as her. Im a stupid fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:00 PM
10

A husband should already be fully built ;) in all aspects lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:14 PM
47

I’m glad I’ve never stood behind a male :) I’ll wait at the finish line and pick from the winners thanks. Also wouldn’t clicking on the link to read the article bring more traffic to that trash site? Maybe screenshots would be better than linking to TRP sites. Just a thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:13 PM
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