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| 22 | If Miranda was a man, no one would have viewed him as the villain.If Gordon Ramsay was born a woman, he would never been famous and well loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 52 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matches"my kingdom" You're not a king, you're a court room jester. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 11 | It's just a myth that attractive people have terrible personalitiesLol, you had a group of outcasts that dated each other too? Ugly people really be having the most sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 4 | We’re both mid-30s lawyers. This is first date offer lol.I would just leave and go home at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:50 AM |
| 7 | Wife gets divorce so her husband can marry his foreign girlfriend. I think she may be the supreme pickme queen.It's sad because she knows in her heart this situation is wrong but refuses to just leave. I heard somewhere she did eventually leave but she should've been a long time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?Im glad most of the comments are supporting the wife. There's even a highly upvoted comment that points out how men are allowed to want threesomes with another woman, but would hate to have their wife want a threesome with a second man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 226 | All men are 100% lying when they say they don't notice if a woman pays them attentionThis is why I don't believe in the whole "men are oblivious to when a woman shows interest in them" trope that's used to encourage women to chase or make the first move on men. Usually these men already have a specific girl they like, they just don't like you. Abraham from Clone High sucks and Joan of Arc deserves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 17 | I'm so happy I'm single since this is the trash that's out there. Men know they're trash and are seemingly proud of it.Porn sick most likely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 159 | Men are complex creatures....what?I noticed that women are generally pressured into accepting male partners who like to look at other women or have very close female friends in fear of looking like a stereotypical jealous bitch girlfriend. I read this aita where this teenage girl was upset her friend started acting different(described as cold) because op got a boyfriend. So her friend started flirting and even leaned into her boyfriend and rubbed his arm despite op confronting her before. Of course the comments told op she was i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:34 PM |
| 16 | Dating to marry vs. Dating to be happy? (My thoughts in the comments)I kind of agree more with the woman on the top because I feel like the one on the bottom might lead to a forever girlfriend situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 7 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣Exactly, literally a majority of american males are overweight (assuming this is mostly american reddit it's). They immediately always attack a woman's appearance first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 148 | Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrativePeople who cry about there being more homeless men than homeless women are probably the same kind of people who complain about poor people and single mothers using government assistance imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 36 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.Men: Lolz, women getting raped or abused. Also men: whY DOesnt SoCietY caRE abouT Male VICtims of Rape and ABuse?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himProbably from all the plaque buildup and stains.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:49 AM |
| 85 | If being a straight heterosexual man means you're attracted to women then there are not that many straight heterosexual men out there. Most men ARE NOT attracted to women, they just like girls.More reason to keep it natural down there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The fact that people think that this is a "hate" subreddit just has me in tears.Men: why do you hate men, not all of us are bad. Y'know what, you deserved to have gotten r * ped and beaten for thinking like that, dumb b * tch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Has this opener actually worked for him?Lol turkey neck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 12 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageI was honestly thinking to myself I should wait till I'm in my thirties to date and stick with younger men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageOmg that's hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How Being Unassertive Makes You the BitchAbsolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 6 | How Being Unassertive Makes You the BitchI get that too. When you immediately start off as "bitch" people just don't expect anything more from you and leave you alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 10 | How Being Unassertive Makes You the BitchI agree. Communication doesn't work when the other person simply doesn't care about what you say or how you feel. I was told to communicate with a coworker who was trying to start arguments with me over nothing. But when I said something she simply denied it and acted like nothing happened, no apology. The person who suggested to me to communicate with her is always arguing with her, so his advice failed. Or people who say "just sit down and talk like adults". Most grown people can be childish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 7 | How Being Unassertive Makes You the BitchI've had people get mad at me when i speak up and fight for myself because I'm generally a "good, nice" girl. I don't mean to be a nice girl on purpose, it's just how I was raised. Ive had people be nasty to me and expect more from me for being smart and nice. But when I've had enough of their shit and speak up they get angry and tell me I'm the problem. And it not necessarily men who mostly do this to me, but other women. I had a coworker scream at me for ignoring her( I was ignoring her becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.I pretty much accepted my butt is naturally flat and bbls are too risky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Why do scrotes think you’re either pretty or smart, but not both?She dresses like your typical instagram model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.Well technically your butt does need exercise since it helps you walk and lift heavy items. But it is ridiculous that women are being shamed into doing squats to "fix" their flat butt. It can literally take years to build a big butt in the gym and you most likely are going to get somewhat bigger and muscular all around( which alot women don't want). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.I think it was around the time of the day acceptance movement trying to be inclusive of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:52 PM |
| 208 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.It's scary and disturbing that having a specific body shape is a trend. Women's bodies shouldn't be a trend that goes in and out of style. What are all these young women with obvious fillers and brazilian butt lifts going to do when 20 years from now it's going to be something else trending? I had to accept that my body is not "in style" unless I get plastic surgery and that lots of current fashion(like fashion nova) isn't flattering for my body type. The only body trends I've seen for men are e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 63 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?Aww, that's really sad. It's awful for him to take his insecurities out on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:10 AM |
| 17 | Men who say "just don't be fat"Honestly when women stop caring about men's(or society in general) opinions, life gets easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:24 AM |
| 11 | Men who say "just don't be fat"He liked you bigger? This makes me feel less bad about having a bit of a tummy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Financial Red flags and the GME MeltdownGet you a house, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 18 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Most women look good to me, the average male is so unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Damned if we do, damned if we don’t. This is why men’s opinions don’t matter. They only live to bring women down.I thought what was most ironic about this was this happened not to long after the George Floyd BLM marches and protests. Lots of people making fun of her for almost getting murdered. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Any man who aspires to be a “house husband” (even joking) is LVMLol my manager says he wants to convince his girlfriend/fiance to get pregnant so he can quit his job and be a stay at home dad( she makes more.monwy than him) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:06 PM |
| 4 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereLmao "me sad and lonely again" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 19 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Wait, so he can telepathically see into millions of young women's home and watch what they're doing and just happens to know all of this information as true scientific facts?/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Because women deserve nice things for simply existing, too.I remember watching a trailer for a show about a young woman who discovers her much older boyfriend's talking sexdoll and it looks like they become friends. It's crazy how much media sends messages to young women and girls to put up with awful relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Because women deserve nice things for simply existing, too.Omg yes. If a woman dates a bad boy and gets raped or beaten, it's her fault for choosing to date an asshole. But if a guy spends all his money on a woman and gets dumped, she's the gold digging bitch. I remember watching one of those truly/strange love type of youtube videos where a 20 something came girl is dating a rich 50 something former child actor. Everyone is in the comments section goin on about how nice he seems and how much he loves her and that she better not break his heart. 🤮 I'm l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 44 | Men feel entitled to your helpThe audacity of this man to ask a strange woman he's never met before to do all this work for a particularly intimate occasion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Men feel entitled to your helpExactly. Alot of older women are resentful of how they were treated when they were young. However instead of seeking therapy, they abuse young women around them. They won't abuse young men as much ironically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Men feel entitled to your helpIt's so sad how older women who hate young women exist. I've dealt with it too. I told myself when I get old to not turn into an angry bitter old woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | She had us in the first half nglI know this is late, but are you replying to me or did you mean to reply to Lekina? Because I also agree that women should be able to receive gifts from men without feeling like they owe sex in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:37 AM |
| 4 | A “trad” man is just as low value as a “fuckboy”I remember questioning gender roles back in a highschool, and some obnoxious smart ass girl was like, " Its your job, you have to wash your husband's underwear!" Me and this other girl were like, wth? We dont have to do anything if we don't want. It really made me question marrying a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)whats your opinion on male sex dolls, or realistic sex toys that resemble mens bodies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 233 | Reddit User complaining about FDS shares salary unprompted and admits to making his dates pay an ugly taxLiterally every male on Reddit claims to make over 6 figures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Woman’s husband is pressuring her to engage in his foot fetish despite her not being interested in it.I'll probably delete my comment to not give any male lurkers any idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 118 | ‘Cool girls’ out in full force on OLDShe really doesn't know her worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Woman’s husband is pressuring her to engage in his foot fetish despite her not being interested in it.What were they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:54 PM |
| 11 | Yet another reason never to “date down”... If you, do they can’t handle it. Never settle.What does that even mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 92 | I just joined Hinge and this was on one of the first profiles I came across. Hard pass.Oh wow, we don't need to sleep with a man to determine their character. Most men give it away immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 13 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰This is so sad. Couldn't be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 16 | So many lvm at my workplace.Retail, unfortunately. As a woman, your best option, if possible, is to have lots of skills and start your own business and be your own boss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 5 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWLmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 14 | Short Men who become offended because a woman is not attracted to them over something like height.Ugh, I hate how short guys gravitate towards me because I'm super short. It makes them feel better about themselves. I prefer men 5'9" to 5'11". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:36 PM |
| 9 | She had us in the first half nglGood for you. I guess all women are grocery items on a shelf ready to be purchased./s Edit: if it wasn't obvious, I was disagreeing with Lekina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I feel so bad for OP. Imagine spending 9 YEARS with a man who you think loves you and financially supporting and paying his rent and broke ass, who then turns around and dumps you for some woman y'all just met. It's funny how OP has been financially supporting her boyfriend, but then he wants to break it off with her because she isnt independent, but at the same time doesn't want her to move out, because she's paying a large share of the rent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)This was deleted but I found this on the relationships sub. (26m) boyfriend of 9 years asked me to go on a break so he can trial going out with our (26f) roommate. They believe I should continue to live with them and be friends. "So my boyfriend of 9 years (let's call him Andrew) and I just moved to London so he could do his undergrad degree and I could pursue my career. To live as a couple we have been living with a roommate (let’s call her Lauren) in a two bed apartment. I have supported him f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 8 | 😖😖😖I had a high school classmate who loved Harley Quinn, she also came from a toxic, misogynistic family, and had a gross boyfriend who didn't really like her. She apparently said that she was going to make him like her before they started dating and believed bjs were a sign of love and wasn't a sin like premarital sex. It was a mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:03 AM |
| 10 | Vietnamese women shutting down sexpat losers on OLDFor real, men are so sheltered. I've heard nastier shit said to my face compared to what any of the women said to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | 26m_boyfriend_of_9_years_asked_me_to_go_on_aI feel so bad for OP. Imagine spending 9 YEARS with a man who you think loves you and financially supporting and paying his rent and broke ass, who then turns around and dumps you for some woman y'all just met. It's funny how OP has been financially supporting her boyfriend, but then he wants to break it off with her because she isnt independent, but at the same time doesn't want her to move out, because she's paying a large share of the rent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | 26m_boyfriend_of_9_years_asked_me_to_go_on_aSo my boyfriend of 9 years (let's call him Andrew) and I just moved to London so he could do his undergrad degree and I could pursue my career. To live as a couple we have been living with a roommate (let’s call her Lauren) in a two bed apartment. I have supported him financially over the last 4 years at different times paying his share of the rent. In that time he has had a part time job in retail. Last year 2018, he was working full time and I was working part time and studying but I paid the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Just another prime example of how “the wall” men like to say exists doesn’t. JLo (50) and Shakira’s (43) after performing at half time. They were amazing.Tbh, people don't really need to be a multimillionaire to age well. Anyone with a job can set aside a little money for sunscreen and moisturizer, and eat a balanced diet and work out at home. But I get what you're saying, that most women will not have the same resources or ease as female celebrities to look good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:03 PM |
| 34 | Reddit really has their priorities in orderI already started disliking men long before I came here. I discovered GC a few years back and then discovered this sub last year through a comment on GC. I know GC and FDS aren't 100% compatible, but these are some of the very few subs where women can actual hold a discussion about what a threat men are to us without pandering to the male perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 12 | Don't let this dumb bitch be U!Maybe some women can. I did read Why Men Love Bitches and the part at the end where it says that the day your boyfriend/husband calls you a bitch means he really loves you rubbed me the wrong way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.I agree. Men nowadays will really talk garbage about women out in the open and be surprised when they can't land a relationship with a woman. As a younger woman, I've had vile, unprovoked, words said to me by males who were mad I didn't want to sleep with them. It's scary what easily accessible porn can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 22 | Don't let this dumb bitch be U!I agree with this post, but I feel maybe we should try not to refer to women who haven't hurt us as "bitch". We already get called bitch on the regular just for existing as women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | In response to r/BlackPeopleTwitter praising men getting sex without taking women out on dates/belittling women who want more than coffee & soda dates. The male view on women who are male Twitter's ideal woman (one who doesn't expect anything or have standards), straight from the horse's mouth.I still have to dm her, I was too tired last night lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:59 PM |
| 62 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.It definitely struck a nerve for me to hear that a man could really be served a nice home cooked meal and still refer to a woman as another dumb b*tch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:12 AM |
| 16 | TLDR; 38F quits her job and moves across the country for a 46S just to be used for sex. My heart genuinely breaks for this lady. (From Askwomenover30)Dummy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:06 AM |
| 403 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.Not even grateful for a home cooked meal. We really got to make men work harder. To alot women new to how FDS works, this sub may seem extreme at first, but when you really start to have your eyes opened to how men really see women, it becomes clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:04 AM |
| 49 | I need your help. I know the answer but i need to hear it.Honestly, he sounds like trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 70 | Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑What's sad is that the main reason women's weight lifting only started getting popular wasn't because of wanting health or strength, but just to have a big butt because some female celebrities decided to get bbls and keep it a secret that it was plastic surgery, even though it's pretty obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:53 AM |
| 20 | Old ugly men really do have nerve sometimesYeah, I definitely dont internalize what he said. He's a just another loser to me. I don't think he was referring to me as the pretty young woman, he was literally specifically referring to the lady I saw offering samples. I basically told him I didn't know her and that she was already gone. I'm honestly flattered if he was really trying to make an attempt to put me down, it just means that he's knows he way below me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 7 | In response to r/BlackPeopleTwitter praising men getting sex without taking women out on dates/belittling women who want more than coffee & soda dates. The male view on women who are male Twitter's ideal woman (one who doesn't expect anything or have standards), straight from the horse's mouth.Care to share or tmi? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 101 | We can't have a single thing to ourselvesTrue, men already dominate multiple platforms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:57 AM |
| 23 | Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑Wow, she looks no older than 30 in that photo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 16 | Old ugly men really do have nerve sometimesThey're so delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 25 | Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑She looks physically fit in that photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:18 AM |
| 16 | Old ugly men really do have nerve sometimesI considered going up to her and telling her what happened but decided not to bother her, especially since she probably has to deal with male stupidity occasionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:11 AM |
| 3 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!That makes so much more sense if she identifies as bisexual tbh. I'm definitely not biphobic( I hate biphobia), but I'm not surprised. She probably like those other super libfems who call themselves queer or non-binary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:05 AM |
| 11 | Some PPD Scrotes plot to exploit impoverished women from Asia and Latin America because they are too poor, uninteresting, unattractive, and stupid to entice women of quality in their country of origin. European Colonialism is the fall back plan for LVMs.There's this black guy who is short and ugly at my job who called our Spanish female co-worker a "rare breed" because she has parents from two different Latin countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 13 | Some PPD Scrotes plot to exploit impoverished women from Asia and Latin America because they are too poor, uninteresting, unattractive, and stupid to entice women of quality in their country of origin. European Colonialism is the fall back plan for LVMs.Exactly, they're not stupid. They have been dealt bad circumstances and only have so many options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 27 | Did you get the guy sis? Did you get a ring? Did you cum? Did you get a bigger house?? NO! All you got was 2 minutes of jackhammer pump and dump action for putting your health and body at RISK. That’s why he needs to be paying your bills pickmeishas! 💁🏻♀️And he used a photo of Jay-Z, an ugly cheater, to boost his reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:21 AM |
| 7 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!I wouldn't be surprised, so I know I'm not the only one who thought that was a weird thing to open with, then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 15 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!I find her so strange because I know there are lesbians who acknowledge that men can be terrible towards women as a class, definitely a random handmaiden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 9 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!It's ironic because gay people usually like to say how miserable hetero relationships are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 11 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!Honestly people really miss the point of FDS, have fun with your breadcrumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:36 AM |
| 58 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!"forreal. like... im a woman. A GAY WOMAN OF COLOR. Mind you" Okay then, so you've probably have never dated a guy and actually experience what it's like to be in a toxic relationship with one. Go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, the potential HVM who you let pass by:That's really interesting, im glad you are doing better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Men on Reddit focusing on the hard-hitting issues in society like cherry-picking and misinterpreting scenes from movies and TV taken out of context about sexual assault of men. They will be the first to defend a rapist and act like false rape accusations are rampant and that #metoo was a joke.Yet men will turn around and say the reason why most writers are men is because men write better. Translation: men are the main cause of their own misery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Not worth it. Undeservingly boosts his ego while costing you sanity AND bomb ass skinAfter almost two years of working in retail,.I feel like my face has already aged a bit. I hate it. I'm not even 25 yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Not worth it. Undeservingly boosts his ego while costing you sanity AND bomb ass skinYeah, that was kinda creepy to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Not worth it. Undeservingly boosts his ego while costing you sanity AND bomb ass skinThis is why I want to leave working in retail, i hate having to smile and laugh at stupid jokes by customers. I don't laugh or smile as much as I used to when I started but it's still expected of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | "I set my age preference for 18-25 bc I might want kids one day" - every man over 35 on OLD. Since when did men start openly pining after having children? Since when were men struggling with baby fever?Yep. Why have children in your 20s when you're still figuring life out? What can you teach your children what you haven't learned yourself? ALOT of younger(20-30) parents rely on WIC benefits to help feed their children. I had one couple use wic with 3 little children including a baby. Why do this to yourself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:31 PM |
| 5 | #truthI think calling women "females" has been around since the 90s, but was more of a Urban African American phrasing. I was watching a talk show from the 90s and this black guy refers to women as females. I think it becoming more and more popular might be due to hip-hop and rap becoming much more mainstream. That's why I sometimes see more people on Twitter trying to speak in a ghetto tone even though they clearly weren't raised in the ghetto. This is just my guess, though. It could just be men beco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 7 | 21 year old woman tells 34 year old fiancé that she’s pregnant, he joked about throwing her down the stairsIve seen women on the childfree sub laughed along with men who in their lives who joke like that. It's disgusting. The op says in one of her comments that she and her boyfriend have always been cynical and are messed up, as a way to excuse the bad joke. Girl, just because you have issues doesn't mean you have to date a guy who has issues, too. You're the one who is going to get hurt, not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:08 AM |
| 17 | [Discussion] What are some indicators that reveal they person you're interacting with buy into the red pill?I wonder if the last guy I talked to was into the red pill. He would say my name in a weird way. Like my name in itself was an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:20 AM |
| 17 | How long do you wait?You did good on telling to bug off. Why would a man do this to a date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:11 AM |
| 12 | He was doing great... Until thisI'm trying to understand what he's getting at.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Join Us at the FemaleDatingStrategy Discord Server!Oh, I clicked on it and it says expired. I actually just got a message that the server is down and everyone is kicked out. I thought I left the server by accident but I guess it happened to others too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Join Us at the FemaleDatingStrategy Discord Server!Can you make a new invite please? I think I accidentally left the server while messing around on my phone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:25 AM |
| 4 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"I remember standing outside a store using the wifi because I didn't find internet at home, and some big old black guy yelled at me at he walked by to stop texting. Like, mind your own fucking business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:41 PM |
| 21 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"Older men are so annoying, they think their opinion should matter to random women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:05 AM |
| 14 | What happens to PickMeisha when she tries to bag a HVMOh well that's different if she's trying to manipulate people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 03:51 AM |
| 19 | Shakira at 42. The propaganda claiming we hit the wall at 30 is a lie.Yeah as we age, our faces lose fat. I suggest you stick with facial cleansers that moisturize rather than wash with handsoap or bodywash. I was guilt of this as a child and now understand why my face got so greasy at the end of the day. Healthy clean diet. I noticed when I was eating produce more often my skin was clearer and had a glow. Sunscreen everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 65 | What happens to PickMeisha when she tries to bag a HVMThis reminds me of Will Smith, who admitted to sometimes having his head up his own ass and appreciating his wife whenever she has to shake hime out of it. I won't lie tho, I feel bad for pickmeisha. She wants so badly to be liked and is doing what she thinks will work but ultimately backfires on her. I'm also sorry she has childhood trauma, not something I would judge someone for. Just not really appropriate to share with new people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 02:43 AM |
| 30 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...Ehm, ok, pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:50 AM |
| 19 | Persuade me why "going Dutch" is a bad idea for women, according to this subreddit.The fact that your gut is trying to tell you something is definitely a sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Truth!If it ups your confidence, then why not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 13 | Liberal Feminists are doing a massive disservice to women by completely ignoring the practical reality of male/female biology and the behavior of men. This exchange on r/askFeminists illustrates why their “gender theories” for relationships repeatedly fall apart in practice.True, I rather be alone if I can't date the best. Men suck the life and energy out of women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 15 | Liberal Feminists are doing a massive disservice to women by completely ignoring the practical reality of male/female biology and the behavior of men. This exchange on r/askFeminists illustrates why their “gender theories” for relationships repeatedly fall apart in practice.Absolutely, men were doing this to first wave feminists, which is ironic because men today like to claim that the only good feminists were the ones asking for the right to vote. But of course there are men who hate that women have a choice to begin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 37 | Liberal Feminists are doing a massive disservice to women by completely ignoring the practical reality of male/female biology and the behavior of men. This exchange on r/askFeminists illustrates why their “gender theories” for relationships repeatedly fall apart in practice.When I was younger, i used to think (liberal) feminists were the true feminists, and (radical) feminists were ugly hairy man haters, the last thing I wanted to be(pick me syndrome) But then I realized that liberal feminists simply want to "play nice and fair" with men, while men are still treating women like garbage. Where as radical feminists know and understand the true nature of men and social and biological dynamics of men and women, and know we have to use it to our advantage as much as we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for thatDifferent guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 58 | Saw this on r/all and stole. What the actual fuckery!?Misogyny is deeply ingrained. Some men will get mad at accusations of misogyny and really say things like "I'm not a misogynist, you're just a stupid b*tch who deserved to get abused." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:59 AM |
| 178 | Saw this on r/all and stole. What the actual fuckery!?Considering the wife looks young and put together and the husband looks like a goat, I'm not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 01:45 AM |
| 19 | What his deal? Makes a big fuss if I suggest going on a night out together, but he is okay to go with his friends..Honestly, don't stop living your life. He sounds really controlling. I don't see how you can have a relationship with a guy like that, especially if you lost friends over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 7 | Pickmeshia asked the guys at the bar if they want her seat after I ask if shes leavingThis is really funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?Yeah, I decided to drop this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:39 AM |
| 8 | The lowest of LVMThey're all disgusting. Men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 8 | Male wanted to try “nonmonogamy” with his girlfriend then flips out at her when she shows interest in another guy. They’re always mad when “nonmonogamy” isn’t exclusively in their favor. 🙄They definitely should have talked more about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 02:01 AM |
| -15 | Male wanted to try “nonmonogamy” with his girlfriend then flips out at her when she shows interest in another guy. They’re always mad when “nonmonogamy” isn’t exclusively in their favor. 🙄It might be because he said he "might be interested" non-monogamy but didn't push it, more like a suggestion. I wouldn't call her "cheating trash", though. But it is gross that she tried to involve him in group sex. He's an idiot for suggesting non-monogamy, but he never agreed to participate in a sex party with another couple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?I ended up not going on the date and I'm so glad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 5 | How do you time physical contact with a guy?This is very helpful. I kissed him the second time he came to visit me after we spent around 3 days texting throughout the day. There wasn't a spark, so it was clear we probably weren't for each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 05:33 PM |
| 7 | The Oxytocin MythOuch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?Thank you. Part of what's pulling me into this is because I've never experienced a date and want the experience and want to learn more from this. I've read alot from this sub, but actually practicing this is in real life is tough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?Would it be wrong of me to go on this date just to finally be sure of myself whether I truly like this guy or not? I feel really conflicted. I know most comments are saying don't go but im not obligated to sleep with him after the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?Could you elaborate on "his first impression" ? Are you referring to me kissing him? I'm just confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 6 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?You're not wrong, when he was sitting next to me, he starting eyeing this woman! I called him out on it and he played dumb. Part of me wants to go on the date to have fun and have some attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:03 AM |
| 29 | Same, sis. Same.Awesome, another gc person. I don't hate trans people either, but apparently I do because I disagree with the ideology and beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 07:46 AM |
| 6 | Do not date a man based on his potential.I think your situation may be different since you guys have been together since teens, bit who knows. I agree with u/Eurasianempress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:37 AM |
| 13 | Pickmeshas somehow never fail to surprise me...somehow men kissing other men on the lips while in a relationship is okay, lorrrrd. So we just going to ignore the flu?? HSV-1???Boundaries???I was accused of wanting to "kill" my coworker by a anti-radfem sub for being upset that my coworker said I got sick for being transphobic. I had gotten verryyy sick which lasted a couple weeks and my coworker thought it would be funny to say it was karma for "hating trans". He's a typical dudebro, too, he has probably never dealt with trans people before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 12 | “MeN dOnT hAvE a wALL”I had an old guy try to joke with me that we went to highschool together. He was easily 30 years older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 2 | I think HVM don’t exist on Tinder or in FranceThere's a home makeover skit with JLo and Matt Schatt, and even the guys in the skit are like "why are you with him?". Apparently Matt Schatt has a reputation of dating and dumping hot women for another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I think HVM don’t exist on Tinder or in FranceI think it's JLo and Chad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:32 PM |
| 16 | Growing up with pickmeishas totally warps your perceptions on what is acceptableJust remember you don't owe men anything just like men feel they don't owe women anything. You are not holding a gun to a man's head and demanding he pay for dinner. He can choose to pay or walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Feeling nervous about a guy I just started talking to.He was a customer, so Def not a coworker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 05:15 AM |
| 9 | Men will rise to meet your expectationsInteresting. I had a male superior at work pay for my groceries and he got annoyed that I still wanted to pay partially in cash. I let him pay for most of it, but I can't help but feel bad. Now I have to unlearn this myth that as an independent woman, I can never let men pay for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 9 | If this post hurts you or your baby dick...tough. 🙌🏻Also why racist white guys may not want a girl who has been with a black guy because they feel not good enough to compete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 19 | r/unpopularopinion: “As a man, there's nothing wrong with being bald, being short, or even having a small dick” (nothing wrong with it, but we’re not obligated to find it attractive 🤷♀️)Probably also because people don't stay active like they used to 30 years ago and fast food is so readily available, on top of high and rising obesity rates. Now you have lots of young people, unfortunately even children, who are overweight, parents partially to blame.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Post wall men be like....Old men in my personal experience are desperate for attention. They'll literally just start talking to random young women about nothing. They will then have their ego crushed when said woman doesn't laugh or smile.o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 16 | Don't end up a starter wife.I agree, plus, accordingly to the Wikipedia, she was living in an expensive property and taking home $16000 in alimony a month after the divorce before she murdered them. And had two cars and a new boyfriend, she should have moved on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Are only pornsick men turned off by pubic hair?It's the opposite for me, I used to shave down there as a kid but it would itch from the stubbles glad they grew back. So I stopped and it doesn't really bother me. I don't have a problem with women who enjoy shaving down there, I don't know if some took it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 08:47 PM |
| 18 | Finally tased this A-holeThat's awesome. What happened after you tased him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 17 | 🚩🚩🚩BEWARE if a male ever says anything like this. He WILL probably hit you in the future 🚩🚩🚩More reason for women to carry guns where legal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 07:11 AM |
| 21 | Still can’t figure out why scrotes think only attractive men are the problem.Ugly old fat guys can be rude but sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 06:57 AM |
| 47 | Men Who Think They're The Prize 🤢"I’m really not sure why my generation’s men are so entitled and lazy" Porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:52 PM |
| 44 | “Women don’t want to fuck me. Therefore, they shouldn’t have rights. There’s no other option. I hate that it has to be this way though :/.”Like, is he really going to ignore that there are women police officers, EMTs, soldiers, nurses, doctors, pharmacists, teachers, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:43 PM |
| 8 | Scrote Admits Brain Rewiring / ED Due to Excessive Porn Consumption. Laptop Turns Him on More Than Stunning Woman IRL.Lol at least she got oral | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:00 PM |
| 28 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.Yeah, honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if most of the users criticizing her are male. They're were just being condescending. She later deleted her post and made a new one that she's okay with her boyfriend about it and the top comments were praising her for being "mature". It really grosses me out and it feels like grooming. She even said her boyfriend wasn't mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 26 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.Well I'm not judging you. There are plenty of times I wish I stood up for myself and didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 12 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.Yes, I remember a story that broke out awhile ago where a man literally just attacked his gf/wife and bit part of her nose off. You can't be too careful with because it can literally mean life or death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 19 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.So how did you actually leave for good? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Has Anyone’s Sexual Partners All Been Amazing? Or Even Mostly Good?How did you meet them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 07:32 PM |
| 60 | Has Anyone’s Sexual Partners All Been Amazing? Or Even Mostly Good?Men always say women are picking the wrong men, but in my personal opinion alot of men are just subpar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 07:03 PM |
| 8 | How To Progress Things With A HVM?Ooh girl~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 06:57 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about dressing provocatively?I think dressing provocatively is okay, the problem is when it looks trashy. I wouldn't recommend wearing a dress that shows underboob or those see through dresses that show your underwear. I dress very modestly and have a victim of sexual harassment, but I guess dressing provocatively may increase your chances. Men are trash. I've seen women dressed sexy walk by men who don't so much as glance at them. To be honest, I wouldn't want to show alot of skin because the average man on the street or i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 36 | It isn't "people", it's men.Exactly. I remember on some random thread a woman was complaining how multiple men she's dated were abusive or crazy. Someone replied "people just suck". No, it's not just people, it's just men in general. But I won't deny that plenty of hateful women exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 61 | When a pornsick loser encounters the reality of women's bodies: AITA for deciding to ban my boyfriend from the delivery room after finding out him and his brother were placing bets on my labor and delivery?"im hoping he'll show his true colors once the baby is born" 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Am I supposed to be having fun dating?I feel when I do get attention it's usually from older sleazy looking men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Don't date men who use porn!!Wow that's just unbelievable. So you he is semi aware of the dangers of porn, but still wants a woman who is okay with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:39 AM |
| 24 | Someone else’s boyfriend discovers his GF is an FDS member. Y’all gotta stop leaving your browsers open.Dinner stealing? Crazy how men offer free shit to women at their own expense, then when things don't go their way they claim we took advantage of them. There was a story on nextshark about a rich guy who spent alot of money on his girlfriend. He was running out of money and stole alot from his uncle to spend on his girlfriend. He got in serious trouble and a bunch of the comments were blaming the woman or how "bitches ain't shit" it's your dumbass fault for spending money that wasn't yours in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Don't date men who use porn!!"giving me lectures about how porn is bad and promotes violence against women" We're you ever like, "why are you mansplaining this to me?", ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 3 | I decided to check out OLD again. I’m just gonna close my account again. Oh god help us all.He sounds immature and selfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 18 | Someone else’s boyfriend discovers his GF is an FDS member. Y’all gotta stop leaving your browsers open.Misandry doesn't exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Ask for pics before meeting up with your online date. Men lie about their ages to prey on younger girls. Don't accidentally date an old scrote!!Yeah, alot of older men has gross nails too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 02:37 PM |
| 18 | A horrifying but very clear rehashing of "The power of your sexuality ends once you fuck him". Hold out, ladies. KNOW him first.Why are men like this? And yet we're the evil ones... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 04:23 AM |
| 42 | Ask for pics before meeting up with your online date. Men lie about their ages to prey on younger girls. Don't accidentally date an old scrote!!If I arrived at a date and a guy pulled this, I d just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 04:20 AM |
| 17 | Why most women need FDSYes! I remember feeling afraid of being taken advantage of but finding this sub is a life saver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 07:54 AM |
| 6 | How do you like to dress on dates?I definitely felt conflicted about this. I know in general this sub suggests dressing feminine and I do consider myself naturally feminine, but at the same time I don't want to pander to gender roles by wearing makeup, heels, and dresses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 9 | How do you like to dress on dates?“Dress like a lady to be treated like a lady” That definitely bothers me, too. All my life I was raised to as a jw, I never flirted or dressed slutty, always dress tomboyish or covered up. Even in a button shirt and vest uniform, I've had men try to touch me or disrespect me. Being a "lady" isn't a bad idea, but it won't make men not see you as an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 06:53 AM |
| 14 | TL;DR SCROTES MADTo be honest, the women in the article described sound more desperate that the women here. It mentions them also sending unsolicited nudes, faking orgasms, and hooking up, all of which this sub doesn't support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 21 | Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.Lol for real, when I was reading this I was like "i don't care if you cum, stupid" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 05:24 AM |
| 25 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 FiguresWould he had been upset if his friend wouldn't date a girl over 130? Probably not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 11:57 PM |
| 35 | Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.Women don't owe you sex, get over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:38 PM |
| 54 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 FiguresPart of the reason I'm holding off from dating is because I don't want to settle and am trying to build myself up physically and financially. Nothing wrong with high standards. Men like to say "no man will want you" as if thats a threat. It's no loss to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 21 | Men Shocked That Women Prefer Fit Men. Guess all that Dad Bod Propaganda isn’t working.🤷♀️Yeah some of those guys do have an addiction and personal mental issues that make them feel like they aren't big enough. I would like a guy who just enjoys taking care of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 21 | After posting here, received a DM from a man trying to "help" me XDI don't see short men being judged here on this sub simply for being short. I see women not wanting to settle with short men and date men who they are truly attracted to. And also that less objectively attractive men may have complexes that hurt the relationship. Also I wouldn't say the women here are stuck up, we don't owe any man our time and love. Also it doesn't make sense to compare a relationship to finding a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:10 PM |
| 13 | Super quick question, dont upvote plsI think if you're a lesbian the majority of advice here won't really be for you then. Especially since men and women are socialized differently and bond differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 3 | PointsAs for your second point, I think having men pay for dates is meant to weed out low effort men who don't want to put work into relationships. If you want to go Dutch that's fine, I get how you feel. I was raised not to accept big favors from because they may expect sex in return, but I also learned from this sub I don't owe them my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 14 | As an objectively ugly woman how can I avoid being used for sex when dating?You don't sound ugly, do you think maybe the way you feel about your looks could stem from not aligning with european/Caucasian beauty standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 05:47 PM |
| 31 | Nosy Male “Friend” wants to know AITA For Calling Out My Friend Who Has Been Heavily Browsing /r/femaledatingstrategy?Lol yes there's people actually calling him out on comparing FDS to incels and redpill. He even admits he doesn't know much much about redpill and doesn't understand dating from a woman's perspective. This is more reason for women to disregard male opinions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 60 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?red pill women supports women being dependant on men, this sub encourages independence and having a life that doesn't revolve around a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?Okay I misread your comment Yeah rpw is sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?Oh okay I misread the comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?Wait who is larping here?! How did you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Should a woman wait till marriage to lose her virginity or nah?I asked this because I've seen some users on this sub suggest if you give it away too early a man wouldn't want to marry you. It's just a question I thought of from reading advice here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Should a woman wait till marriage to lose her virginity or nah?I mean I guess. I've never dated or lost my virginity, but I still recognized obvious red flags and ended things early with a guy i was talking too. I've honestly learned so much from this sub simply through other women's dating experiences and am grateful for that. I'm honestly glad I never dated in highschool because I wasnt mature enough to handle a relationship and I know I would have gotten hurt. I'm glad I never was that girl in highschool who already had been orally raped or was in a an a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Expectations vs reality of when an old rich dude marries a young hot chick for "love"I feel bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 20 | "Controlling" Wife Mystified by Husband Repeatedly Cutting His Own Hands Making Breakfast. (Spoiler Alert: Cut hands = no chores for scrote.)"doing a disservice to society by marrying men with mental disorders" That's not even my entire comment but okay. Also, no one is entitled to marriage. Another thing, dating someone with mental disorders could possibly put your safety at risk if that person has violent impulses because of their disorder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:48 AM |
| 19 | "Controlling" Wife Mystified by Husband Repeatedly Cutting His Own Hands Making Breakfast. (Spoiler Alert: Cut hands = no chores for scrote.)Right? She even said he's smart and is an engineer. Something isn't adding up... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:02 AM |
| 57 | "Controlling" Wife Mystified by Husband Repeatedly Cutting His Own Hands Making Breakfast. (Spoiler Alert: Cut hands = no chores for scrote.)As hateful as this sounds, women are doing a disservice to themselves and society by marrying and/or having children with men with mental disorders. And I say this as someone who comes from a family with genetic mental disorders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?Oh i see That's crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 11 | Update: I rejected him harshly after he’s been harassing my coworkers and me at our job. He did not take it well. Can you see why him claiming to be a nice guy is ironic?I'm confused, how does he have your number? What a creepy loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 6 | Backstory in comments. I’ve encountered my first low-effort man-child.I had a guy message me first on OKC and I didn't swipe right on him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 4 | I personally feel so ashamed that I ever judged Madonna for trying to dress or act 'young' for her age - and it's men that are so OUTRAGED and try to shame women that they can't be themselves past a certain age. If anyone can pull it off, it's Madonna.Ugh yes Madonna has always lived an active healthy lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | i would change eat ass to eat pussyI'm assuming because you pay your personal trainer and having a romantic relationship may ruin your professional relationship to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | i would change eat ass to eat pussyI don't get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 13 | Backstory in comments. I’ve encountered my first low-effort man-child.I hear tinder is mostly used for hookups, so you use any other dating apps? Also his game is weak af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 17 | Indian Father and grandfather caught burying baby girl aliveI should ruin the mood and bring stuff like this up every time I hear a woman say she rather birth a boy than a girl. Heard a young female co-worker who has no kids she wants boys because"boys are fun". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you compose your photos on dating apps?Thankfully growing up my mom always told me not to post pics of my face, I have technically but poor quality and filtered. I thought about just obscurring my face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?So what do you suggest? I'm not using tinder, I was looked at okc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?I'm just wondering, what pushes you to do online dating rather than meet a guy in person? I'm getting suggesting to meet men in person which is fine but I'm not really doing much except work. I'm just keeping dating apps in mind for the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:47 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Yeah, some will brag about terrible shit they've done like it's funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?What if I'm super selective about who I match with? Will that make it better? I'm really trying to incorporate advice from this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 13 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Yeah I really took the "if someone shows their true self for the first time believe it." Men might not realize or maybe don't care, but some will straight up admit they are bad people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Oh okay, I was confused because when I first joined this sub, one of the top posters here was giving advice on navigating dating apps, so I assumed this sub is okay with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 19 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Lol I was just scrolling through and swiped left on some nice guys profile. It was basically" most girls are just going to judge me by my face and swipe. If you're not like those other girls message me". Such negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:30 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?All right I'll keep that in mind. What do you mean by hellscapes? I honestly have zero dating experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:28 AM |
| 19 | How do you compose your photos on dating apps?Men suck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 27 | When the monsters you’re marrying shows his true coloursIs there any way for you to get out? I'm sorry to hear that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 9 | How do you find men you’re attracted too?Do you like younger men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Do women honestly enjoy sex with men?I'm honestly uncomfortable with the idea of having sex with women, it's always been something off the table because of my upbringing. I do feel some sort of attraction towards women but I feel embarrassed when I think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Do women honestly enjoy sex with men?Ive never made out with a man or engaged in petting with a man. Ive tried fingers and little objects but I don think I'm doing it right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Homeless scrubs in holiday destinations.Im curious, are these surfers hobos white or are they like the original Hawaiians? Honestly this reminds of of a story that broke out of a ratty homeless local in Thailand or some Asian country who picked up white female tourists to sleep with at his cave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 2 | My type is never interested in meDoes OLD stand for online dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:06 PM |
| 49 | PSA: Never send nudes.I've seen comments shaming people for not wanting to send nudes for being boring. Aight, when your ex leaks your nudes I'll be the one laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 17 | Dude tells girl to sod off “as a joke” then doubles down in an effort to manipulate her... tells other guys to do the same.The guys on that sub seem pretty unattractive. One tried to claim they are supposed to be the more rational calm gender. Yeah right, that's why your kind constantly shoot up places, commit terrorist act, commit majority of violent crimes, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 22 | Watch as Cardi B correctly explains that since moids only date women based on their looks, women should only date moids for moneyI thought she got alot of hate, though. Plus weren't there people comparing her to Cosby? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:28 AM |
| 12 | Watch as Cardi B correctly explains that since moids only date women based on their looks, women should only date moids for moneyI was wondering that too with how the comments supporting Johns were so highly upvoted. Johns are gross and so are people who defend prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:27 AM |
| 3 | How is your experience with courtship/dating with men outside the US?Locally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:20 AM |
| 31 | If you want to learn the truth about men's relationship desires, look at gay men.I don't know if anyone has watched Nikocado Avocado on YouTube, but he just recently uploaded a video of him and his (ex?) Boyfriend/husband( not 100% sure their current status) talking about their sexcapades. Basically they've both slept around alot in I assume an open relationship and the boyfriend had caught something( the clap) from another guy and gave it to Nikocado. They act like it was funny and basically "oopsies". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How old are you guys?21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menNumber of people you slept with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:17 PM |
| 9 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menMy n count is 0 actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 04:53 AM |
| 5 | He confessed that he had a year-long relationship with an older blood relative. Is there any getting around this?woah How old are you guys now? That's some deep sh*t right there. Was she like an aunt or something? I'm sorry you had to find that out. As far as keeping the relationship, I don't really have any helpful advice but i hope you find the right answer. My main concern is he may have secret kinks or fetishes or whatever that stem from whatever kind of abuse he went through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:14 AM |
| 70 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menI remember forcing myself to feel attracted to certain kinds of men(out of pity) because I would seem them complain on reddit about how women, even those with the same traits as them, didn't find them attractive. I would think to myself "oh I would date a guy who was____" and so on. I realize now those men just have terrible personalities and don't know how to talk to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:08 AM |
| 3 | What are your sex tips?That sounds amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 12:00 AM |
| 5 | What makes someone a high value woman?If it gives you any motivation, you should be eating better because constantly eating junk food and pre made meals is expensive over the long run verses eating fresh in season fruits, vegetables and rice. Also you won't feel sluggish on a healthy diet. Not trying to tell you what you already know, just want to motivate you. I also have depression and it's a real pain sometimes trying to improve myself. It's like a voice in my head telling me I don't deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:57 PM |
| 16 | Just realized some guys I thought we were my friends "negged" me and destroyed my mental healthThat really sucks. Those guys are trash. I'm glad you realized that. If you don't mind me asking, for how long have they been doing this to you? They all deserve a swift kick to the curb. I remember dealing with really gross boys in my last year's of highschool and wonder how they ever had a relationship to begin with. Of course, they usually fall through, but still. It seemed like they saw me as a challenge because I wasn't a slut. It's so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Words from my grammaAlso, I remember having a superold white man blurt "women belong in the kitchen" while I was checking his items out. Maybe he was senile, I don't know. I also believe back then, men simply held each other to higher standards for each other's respect as a real man rather than because they simply respected women more back then. Maybe "equality" has meant to men that since women are now working more, they can slack in relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Words from my grammaI don't think men really respected women even back then tbh. It's good that your grandpa treated your grandma well on dates, though. I do agree women's fight for equality has definitely changed the dynamic between men and women. But then again women used to not have the right to vote. And being independent of men was really difficult too. I mean, look at countries like in the middle East where women aren't seen as equal, they get beaten and murdered by their own male relatives for even talking t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What is this sub's ideology?It's pretty obvious this sub is not related to incel or redpill. The advice given on sub is supposed to weed out men who follow the redpill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:40 AM |
| 14 | I gotta say, I absolutely ADORE that this sub exists.The bar for men is set really low. I'm sure there are plenty of women with dating standards lower than this sub supports, why get so worked up over one woman's opinion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Fuck being humble. Why should I, a good looking, educated woman with a nice income should give these scrotes a 'chance'?I feel you. I'm working on getting healthier and working on myself more before I even consider dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Fuck being humble. Why should I, a good looking, educated woman with a nice income should give these scrotes a 'chance'?Keep doing you, you have my support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 20 | Sisters from those generations deserve betterYes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 42 | Sisters from those generations deserve betterThe "rEsPEct WahMen" is annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 56 | Why you should avoid men who want an "openminded" woman.Open-minded = no boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 02:12 AM |
| 13 | ( repost) Moid hits wall, posts vile misogyny to OLD bio https://imgur.com/gallery/fuEpxCQ"toned and athletic" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 11:10 AM |
| 2 | The Wall is Real -- For MenI've been trying to cut back on sugar. Do you it stay away from added sugar oy or does that include natural sugar from fruit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 04:46 AM |
| 9 | What do you do to keep yourself beautiful?I remember thinking when I was younger I was stuck being fat and ugly, but it's definitely empowering realizing how much control I really have over myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Out of curiosity, what do you ladies do for a living and what are your hobbies?You're right I'm probably just going to delete this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Despite all his rage he still doesn't look great for a man of middle ageWho is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Moids who are perpetually cheating on their GFs / WivesWhat kind of "shit" do you mean by? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 11:37 PM |
| 20 | I work in customer service and I'm tired from dealing with men.I hate it, too. These male customers are very aware that as long as they don't cross a line, you can't really do anything about them. They know how to be creepy or flirtatious, but keep it vague, if that makes sense. And they're usually always old, ugly men, too. Especially if they're not from the U.S. I say this as a mixed race person too. They probably have this perception that all u.s. women are easy. I don't know if you're American yourself, im just assuming. Also, I think because it's usual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Why are there men in this sub?Girl yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 02:45 PM |
| 4 | I (F18) "emasculate" my Father (42), And Act Small to make Him Happy, but Not Any More:It's good you're realizing this and trying to make a change now at 18. You have the right to be happy, be "selfish", and put yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 12 | Why are there men in this sub?Exactly, I've experienced this by older men who think they have some wise secret to share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 14 | Why are there men in this sub?Yeah , I just got a dm by some guy trying to tell me something I already know. Like did I ask for your opinion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 01:05 AM |
| 10 | A Good Man Is Getting Even Harder to FindMen make it sound like women are doomed if we don't let ourselves settle for a loser and keeps our standards high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Never Pay For a Man's EducationAlso, maybe don't co sign with your boyfriend on something he's supposed to be paying off. My aunt had co signed with her then boyfriend for some car he was getting. They eventually broke up and months later she had to pay thousands of dollars for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Trying to "level up"Yeah, I should definitely learn some skills. I really should be studying a second language. I am worrIed about smiling too much as I don't want too many lines and creases in my face overtime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 04:20 AM |
| 12 | Moid finds out about GF's sexual past, abortion. Her reward for her honesty? GETTING DUMPED! Typical male response. She dodged a bullet.She deserves better, good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 08:04 PM |
| 7 | I need an adviceI remember being on a thread and a woman shared multiple bad experiences she had had with men. A user really responded with "people suck" no the men she met suck, alot of men suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 07:29 PM |
| 5 | I need an adviceThat thread pissed me off. So many people think men should have total ownership over their girlfriend's sexuality. Like God forbid a woman has control over sex life. She gets called a hypocrite for not sleeping with her fiance when she's slept with alot of men before, but I disagree. She's doing out of respect for herself and her fiance. Women are allowed to grow and change. It's like men think once they meet a girl, they owned her since the day she was born. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 07:26 PM |
| 8 | I need an adviceI feel like instead of saying "people" we should just say men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t guys approach me?Yes! Let yourself grow and expand your knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 12:39 AM |
| 12 | Always into older men, what red flags should I be aware of?"geriatric dick". That's too good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | MALE DEFLECTION TACTIC: Pretend Everything A Woman Complains About is A Personal Problem Rather Than A Pervasive Cultural IssueAbsolutely right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/19 05:08 PM |
| 6 | The Truth About Relationships and HonestyHonestly if most men are like this, what's the point in giving them our time? I'm not hating or anything on this sub, . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | I (26F) Dumped my BF (M30) this morning. I re-activated OkCupid and have 855 + likes on there (not paying to see them). 19 new messages to respond to, and I've been online less than 1 hour.I love your approach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/19 04:21 PM |
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