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QUEEN SH*TXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:46 AM
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QUEEN SH*TXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:19 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:32 PM
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#KickHimOut2020XHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:41 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:59 AM
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LIES MEN TELLXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:34 PM
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DISCUSSIONXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:16 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:27 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSXHelheimX/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:44 PM
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The nuclear family as weird conservative Christians imagine it to be has never existed. There has ALWAYS been a division of labor in marriages/ families. If women weren’t directly contributing to the family homestead she was maintaining the domestic chores while the man was toiling in some form of labor. When he came home the domestic chores were not solely for the woman of the house to take care of as they were never ending. Imagine if you will a time before refrigeration. The time it would tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:55 AM
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That’s a relief it’s trending on r/blackpeopletwitter where I found it. Do you have the link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:37 PM
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Nah it’s classic pickme delusional thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:31 PM
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Yes I completely agree and I meant that even so look how it’s still a silent epidemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:59 AM
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Men still murder us. They still rape us. They still use and abuse us. The statistics are outrageous whenever you feel the need to look them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:57 AM
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That’s a great quote and the stark reality of the state of heterosexual relationships today. I got married to a pure parasite of a man who I still have to deal with because of our kid. I enjoy this sub very much but I honestly think so many women really believe that every other man is HV but they just haven’t landed theirs. It’s just not realistic. I’m sure plenty will come to comment about their husbands or boyfriends and how great they are but while they type out all their praises they aren’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:53 AM
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I still don’t agree with you on this. If you consider a HVM to be a man who is so autonomous that he doesn’t need or even look for a companion or a HVW to equally be someone who has such agency of their lives that romantic partners isn’t the ultimate goal, then we have to agree to disagree. That sounds like someone who is Asexual. I think people automatically look for a romantic partner to share their successes with once they start gaining them because we see most everyone doing it when they are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:42 AM
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How exactly are we supposed to do that? My sentiments exactly btw. Men were trash and men are trash. I obviously want the Chris Evans version of a husband but that’s just not realistic. What is realistic is tryna find someone who isn’t going to use and abuse me or mine. Idk this rant was the result of a shitty holidays and this time of year just has me in the feels. I think social media is pure poison when it comes to self esteem from all the fake realities people create about their perfect live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:23 AM
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Men have always been in large part LV. We just get the bits of history that glorify whatever small efforts they contributed to the world. I doubt there is an abundance of HVM just waiting in the wings or tied up in the wrong relationships. How many other subs dominate the front page with endless stories of the most LVM and their shitty behavior in whatever marriage or relationship they weaseled their way into. It seems like women are being hoodwinked into believing all those trash cans are actua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:19 AM
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Then there’s the paradox. If HVM are out living their best lives knowing full well they don’t need a single woman to occupy their bed or their time is that in fact even a HVM? It seems like a HVM is also concerned with finding a suitable partner to share his successes with and anyone else just getting bread is a glorified fuckboi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:08 AM
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I asked because as pure speculation it seems like women who often praise their husbands come from more traditional homes and fill more traditional roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:05 AM
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Do you work as well or is he the sole provider?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:00 AM
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I don’t consider anyone perfect but I also don’t really believe that there is a high quantity if any HVM just waiting around to be scooped up. It seems like at some point in time most women resign themselves to the LVM they keep getting in contact with and I don’t really blame them because where exactly are all these apex males?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:51 AM
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Why do you consider your husband HV?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:48 AM
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I don’t understand what you mean when you say your husband messed up, you left but his reaction to you is what matters? Again I don’t find it personally appealing when women claim they’ve bagged a HVM tbh. I just don’t. I’ve been around long enough and have heard enough out of context of framing stories about husbands and boyfriends to seem HV to know that few if any actually exist. I also don’t appreciate your insinuation that my post is to decry FDS as being solely about finding HVM. I never o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:44 AM
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This is the realest shit. For me if he can eat it right I’ll put in the time and effort because the rest can’t even find where to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:32 AM
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Being a single mom is too much of a hobby killer. I doubt I’ll ever find a proper man to be the lead in this story of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:30 AM
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Sometimes it’s entertaining tbh and I need to break the habit of making my life into a comedy by finding a new clown to be the lead man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:10 PM
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They should get a chemical castration if they want a sex slave/house slave but that’s too radical to say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:20 AM
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Guys like this aren’t fucking anybody which is why they live on this absurd notion that pussy even stretches out and stays like a wizards sleeve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:16 AM
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Ha! This stuff writes itself, looks like some of them are starting to admit their real feelings. Chad vs Virgin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:58 AM
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Just for clarity I highly doubt this creep ever had a gf or that whatever he’s saying about her drunken reveal happened. This is just the inner workings of a typical 20+ something year old virgin and their own affirmation that sex is vile because (diicccckkkkksssss)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:48 AM
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I worked with a guy that amongst his many issues would literally tell stories about girls he had brief encounters with like he gave me a whole story about sitting on a park bench next to some girl that he made small talk with some YEARS earlier and still cherished that memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:54 PM
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I’ve had a number of guys go from being friends to revealing their love for me after a breakup. I don’t even allow those kind of LVM to keep orbiting around me. It’s better to just cut them off with ice if you need to then to continue any kind of awkward situation where they will continue to misinterpret normal fucking behavior as romantic intrigue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:13 PM
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bUt sHe sMiLeD aT mE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:18 PM
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Food/drink* fucking autocorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:42 PM
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Well Banks have forensic examiners who would be called for something like this but that involves lawyers and fees that they probably take most people at their word before elevating it to the next step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:43 PM
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Why did I watch this? Who would even date this guy let alone ASK HIM to marry you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:47 PM
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Wow my heart hurts reading this. Bitch fuck your credit score. There’s literally nothing you can do but stop making payments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:45 PM
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Someone get him some milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:44 PM
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You’re completely right! I’m dyslexic and often numbers and words get mixed around when I’m reading. My whole post is now ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:49 PM
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I agree. This is some disgusting behavior on his part. At what point does raising a child have nothing to do with biology anymore and about your time together? He raised this girl. He’s her father. His relationship with the mother is completely separate relationship from this little girl who even after 3 years he was still so bitter about the whole thing he just completely iced her out with the nasty way he told her he isn’t the sperm donor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:47 PM
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This post of course got a resounding NTA response from all the weebs, incels and neckbeards who have never kissed a girl in their lives because they want any reason to hate women. All of the cheating aside and the wrongs of the mom, this man, aside from his relationship with this woman has been raising this girl as her father and he literally just drops his relationship with her because she may not be his. The reality of it is she may in fact be his. How far along could she have been before they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:20 PM
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Yeah now this also helps make me understand her comment more. And to add, rightfully so! Men today are such trash but I imagine they’ve always been this way except in more recent history we’ve allowed all sorts of unworthy men to father children, obviously to disastrous consequences. Overpopulation, genetic issues, hereditary diseases, lack of support, resources and ability to even raise these children into adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:18 PM
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The point of the post is about men and their behavior. If you have your own boundaries about when you can and will text back that still has nothing to do with the OP. People either make you a priority or they don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 04:10 PM
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This isn’t about the normal texting habits of people who already know each other. It’s about whether you’re being treated as a priority in the very beginning of a new relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:45 PM
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This isn’t about normal texting with people who you’re really familiar with though, this is about the guy you’re starting to date or starting to talk to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:44 PM
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Ok I still have no idea what you’re trying to say and as snarky as I normally am on Reddit please don’t be offended. In order for children to be produced it takes one man and one woman respectively. Regardless if a man can have multiple children in a year compared to a woman, in the ancestral line of each individual child they still would only have the father and mother as their ancestors. This of course does not apply when considering relatives and extended families. In the living age of each i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:30 PM
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It’s true. The window of time where someone doesn’t text you back at most is an hour because they legitimately were working or driving but nobody is going full-tilt, completely unavailable, not able to check their phone beyond an hour. This post can hurt for anyone who’s going through it right now but ladies, it’s true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:57 PM
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Same, we’d all have the same equal number of ancestors because it takes two to tango as they say. Maybe in some cyberpunk future it’ll be a skewed number when creating babies can be done in a lab without the necessity of human sperm/ova but not currently or retrospectively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:38 PM
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It’s wild when men are literally taught their entire lives how important they are. Their opinions, their careers, their education, their experiences are all held to higher more important standard than women yet most aren’t worth wasting your time on. The average man thinks he’s God’s gift to humanity. They literally have no family name to carry on when their families are minuscule in the grand scheme of things to begin with. It’s like when someone who makes minimum wage votes for billionaires to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:40 AM
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They’d have to be funny tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:07 AM
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My hot take is that as a bisexual I’ve been invited to numerous three sums as if this is some kind of compliment. I’ve always been more prone to be friends with men over women and the moment a new friend learns I’m bisexual they try to persuade me into a weird 3 sum. I’ve had this happen a dozen times or more since HS. It’s so gross and weird and ultimately brings whatever friendship I had with said guy come to a screeching halt. The grossest part is the way they all go about it exactly the same…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 09:34 PM
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He sounds like a literal child from his emotional IQ to his height. I’m gonna go with 12 on both fronts but probably irl 22.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:09 AM
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I really wrote this whole long, from the heart and truthful advice on how to change his dating app approach to at least land a date and then he’s gotta figure out a personality from there but, I deleted it when I saw he went from 5’4 to 5’1 and from attractive to being called ugly, from fit to his grandma calling him fat, to being a gentleman and paying for dates to complaining that “she probably expects us to pay for everything too!” Like oh virgin crusader go on with your broke ass, whiney ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:08 AM
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That’s model height which most people don’t realize is actually really tall compared to the average woman. I’m 5’5” and usually feel like I tower over other women. They all have such insecurities about their heights yet don’t realize how ridiculous lil tini-tiny guys sound whining about anything makes them so comical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:03 AM
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Yes unfortunately look up his username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:01 AM
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There’s no sound!!! Lmaoooo I couldn’t highlight shit either so I’m happy the shaking made sense to somebody!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:01 AM
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I wrote this motherfucker a thesis on how to approach changing his dating app style
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:00 AM
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Women in general just get fucked by life in every way possible and it’s infuriating having even just a little bit of self esteem and education to know that men ain’t shit but all our fellow sisters keep getting treated like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:23 AM
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r/relationship_advice r/twoxchromosomes in a nutshell you didn’t add the part where he’s horrifically sexually assaulted her but he’s so sweet so it must be my fault and we just got engaged and I’m definitely gonna marry him no matter what anyone tells me God I hate all those fucking neckbeard rape fantasy posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:18 AM
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Ok just making sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:01 PM
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Sorry about that, should I delete this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:28 PM
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This should be a sub lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:30 PM
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I think for clarification: She values her education foremost which then creates the ability for her to have a career and that career makes her money. Regardless of layoffs or bills this woman will always have her education and therefore will always be ready, willing and able to work in her chosen career field. Therefore she will always be able to earn more money. Y’all with the ridiculous nitpicking fail to see the larger point. Men leave. Men are disloyal. Men use, abuse and lose women everyday…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:34 PM
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Thanks sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:29 AM
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He sounds like a 25 year old basement dwelling virgin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:02 AM
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Can’t be a gold digger when there’s no gold. These bottom feeders really think their 16.99 meal was some baller level payout. I swear women need to demand more or just move the fuck on! I won’t fall into the trap of thinking basic dating traditions are somehow old world and antithetical to feminist positions when it’s just courtship rituals. Equality has nothing to do with with a man making the effort to woo you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:05 PM
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I think you misunderstood my point, pickme women often don’t make their intentions clear or settle for less to appease a man. If it’s a date he’s picking me up, paying and bringing me back home. I don’t leave it in the air though, from what I’m reading about the whole going dutch thing it seems like a lot of other women just resign themselves to LVM bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:59 PM
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I’m kinda torn on this entire post. In one regard I admire your confidence to own yourself and your life on the other hand using jealousy tactics to push this guy to make a move probably will end in a stale and short lived marriage. I say this as being someone who’s divorced. You really shouldn’t even consider staying with this guy if you’re in such a hurry to get locked down when the two of you seem to already have future plans set. If marriage in and of itself is your only goal then what’s the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:53 PM
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I like that he’s known her a month and these other guys are the “strangers” like bro, who are you again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:42 PM
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Thankfully I’ve never even experienced a guy trying to split the bill. I’ve never gone on a date with the assumption I’d be going dutch but in my experience it’s very clear that it is a date. Maybe other women are more nonchalant about it and it’s more like a hangout?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:38 PM
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When you go dutch you’re just hanging out with a friend. When a guy pays you’re on a date. If he has no interest to invest a small amount financially to try and woo a woman in basic courtship rituals like a dinner and a movie then he has no interest in a long term relationship. Are you dating for entertainment or dating to find a partner? It may be different customs based on cultural factors however the fact remains universally, if he isn’t investing now he isn’t interested in investing later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:11 PM
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I never go dutch in the dating phase but once you become a couple it makes sense. Men are the ones who need to offer something in order to have your time. That’s just my opinion but then again you’ll have angry incel guys that are 25 or older who’ve never even kissed a girl tell you that’s bullshit. Whatever a man needs to make the efforts in the beginning financially. If a man can’t afford a 20 dollar meal for you in the beginning then what kind of dating are you even going to do? It’s an incon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:54 PM
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I think this mindset comes from the past as in like the dowery for the bride past when a family would gladly pay up for some man 30 years older than her, to carry her off and out of their home. People and families in general have a weird sense of urgency to get girls into relationships as soon as possible as if we are incapable of fending for ourselves. Look at the state of men today. Maybe if anyone gave that same look at our boys they wouldn’t be impotent from porn, permanently living as some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:12 AM
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Men complain about “women today don’t cook and clean” well the gender roles have all been nuked and everyone needs to start reevaluating what a partnership is and how a two income household means two people maintaining it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:19 AM
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This is fucking horrifying. Even if most aren’t true there definitely are real ones mixed in yet, having a female dedicated sub to give tips and advice to watch out for men, just men, because this is what men do is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:41 AM
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She used the joint bank account to buy groceries without permission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:06 AM
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No I’ve seen this before probably last year so it’s a repost on r/all at this point. It was a totally serious “cute” family holiday photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:06 AM
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No don’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:21 PM
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Grown men don’t care about this because they care about you! Fuckboys are just living in a porn-rotten brain that women are IG models and plastic toys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:15 PM
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All these baby dicked guys are raised to think they’re special and important and therefore think they’ll be successful in every avenue of their lives. Women need to stop faking orgasms and pretending like these guys are even good in bed if we want any real change in their overall behavior and mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:18 PM
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r/unexpectedgot lol I swear men are just babies that want a mom and a sex toy at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:17 AM
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I love this sub. It’s so refreshing and also kinda heartbreaking to see all of us just share the same exact experiences over and over again. Is there a man’s lexicon of How to be a fuckboy asshole 101 that us ladies are just unaware of? How is it they’re all the same? I swear since I’ve found this sub and started OLD it’s just become a mirror of my experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:13 AM
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I needed this rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:10 AM
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The worst part of the post is every women reading it immediately thought about their last, worst relationship and how this is completely ordinary behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:08 AM
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Preach just keep preaching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:33 AM
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BuT sHe sMileD aT mE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:55 PM
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It’s such a hard truth that a lot of women willfully ignore and play it off like these dudes are really that busy all the time. Yeah he’s busy, busy talking to other females and meeting up with them, busy hanging out with his boys or doing other things for entertainment. So many women fall into the trap of being a side piece instead of the main one and don’t realize it. Not to mention that guys will keep a chicks number for months or years as a backup plan and just hit u up outta the blue. Ladie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:30 PM
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It’s the unfortunate truth but everyone has time for people and things they’ve made a priority. If he only hit you up and wants to spend time on his schedule then he really doesn’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:01 AM
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The whole im busy thing is just his way of saying you aren’t a priority until I’m horny and I’ll hit you up when I want female attention. It’s such a small thing but if a guy won’t make time for you or cancels plans more than just once then he just doesn’t care. Just move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:10 AM
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My ex literally threw out all of my toys when we became a “couple” lawd I forgive myself for missing those neon flashing red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:55 AM
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Same I’m going through a divorce and have a LO. I went a long LONG time not being sexually active because men are trash and sex has never been that phenomenal to me but this year was really ruff (financially, emotionally, family) that I’ve decided to seek out the comfort of having a man again and like idk all those little things you forgot about like just cute phone calls or even when I get home at night (I work late and get home/parked by 1/130) to just have someone waiting for me or to get in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:52 AM
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I think those kinds of guys like the one you described are just romantically immature and unfortunately allow the game of dating to make them bitter and therefore even less likely to get laid. Not to mention a guy who has glorified sex so much that, that’s his endgame for any casual dates, is definitely NOT gonna be a good time sexually speaking. He probably won’t know how to put the condom on and will be fumbling around to get the whole thing started and then will probably last a short time and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:39 AM
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Exactly...not one of them wants to actually be treated as a casual hookup..they want to be treated like they’re the only man to ever rock your world lol I haven’t had a lot of partners but at this age my mindset of needing to date the guy or be exclusive isn’t important anymore. Yes I want a new man in my life. But for rn I just wanna get back into it before attempting to lure some dude into a relationship with me. I’m not even sure I want to deal with the emotional baggage of being with another…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:34 AM
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Regardless of what he makes which (12) is laughable but guys don’t get that taking a girl out doesn’t mean sex. If that’s all he’s looking for he should just say he’s looking for a hookup or like men have throughout time just pay for a hooker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:07 AM
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I wish I had better self esteem when I was in my 20ies. I feel like I lost the best decade of my life to my ex who took everything from me. Now that I’m in my 30s I’m trying to have my bullshit radar permanently up to just cut them off right when it looks bad. Not one of them is worth losing any sleep over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:03 AM
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I never thought about it until one guy I actually kept interacting with on SC for whatever reason I finally changed my stance about him coming to my place. He had told me initially that he had roommates. When he wanted me to come through it was to his mom’s house that he was “sitting”. I wasn’t into going there I just told him to hmu when he’s back at his own apt. Look I’ve lived in the city for a decade. I get it. People have weird roommates or rules but then he just never invited me over there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:59 AM
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I love u lol your hot takes are the best thing this early Friday morning! 3. ⁠guys in their twenties are mostly trash anyway, and the "good ones" that marry young are likely "good" because their wives/gfs support them and taught them not to be trash creatures. Men are completely unaware of how much training their first gf’s give them. They have no sense of how to act. Now that I’m interacting with them again in a romantic way it’s like you can automatically tell the guys who’ve actually been in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:50 AM
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lol damn it’s so hard trying to just change my view like I don’t consider myself naive but I have such a warped sense of reality when it comes to men and the fact that they are all consistent liars and schemers. It’s hard to just accept it that they aren’t straight forward and want their own needs met no matter what lies they tell or behavior they have to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:42 AM
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Omg this is what I’m saying!!! I don’t get it. Rn tbh I’m just looking to meetup first and then have a hookup. Every guy that matched with me follow the same exact formula: 1) obligatory salutations 2) what are you looking for 3) what kinks/ sex are you into (like bros lets be real you probably can’t last for 10 minutes like fucking missionary is all you’re getting out of a hookup) 4) wants nudes and just sends dick pics of in reality all unimpressive packages like no I’m not turned on by this (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:34 AM
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Yeah I probably should lol what’s the point of dealing with that kind of inconsistency?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:26 AM
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I don’t know you but that was such a nice response about the age thing. I’m 31 by the way. Going through a nearly 5 year divorce. Tbh I just wanna find a guy to have a good time with who isn’t out to play games but lol isn’t that all women/men who want a man in their lives?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:25 AM
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I went on a date with a guy who spent the entire time talking about all the bad dates he’s had and doesn’t have any hopes for dating apps. I gave the guy a kiss good night because he picked me up and bought me a couple rounds. The dude ghosted me for the entire thanksgiving week up until last night he hmu asking when we’re going out again....it’s been 2 weeks since that date...wtf!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:20 AM
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lol I haven’t even gotten to that kind of stage yet. Personally I was on a bit of a dry streak which I self imposed after a bad breakup from a toxic relationship. Anyway a few weeks ago I decided to break the dry spell. Every guy I match with goes through the rudimentary greetings and what do you do for a living etc. i just got some runarounds about meeting up. I stopped using Tinder altogether and use Bumble. I had a hookup and a proper date from it. But still the idea of actually meeting a new…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:16 AM
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This is a really insightful comment. I never thought about the fact that they get an emotional high from texting with a woman and use porn as the means of sexual release. It actually makes a lot of sense with all of the endless nonsense I’ve personally dealt with trying out dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:05 AM
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I’ve been dealing with this but they’ll jump into sexting whether wanting or sending nudes or asking what kinks or things I’m into. After a few times I’ve realized this is some kind of pattern for these guys on dating apps to just occupy themselves for like whatever reason. They aren’t actually interested in meeting up. I’ve gotten into that zero tolerance mode myself. If they aren’t down to meetup right away I’m definitely not interested in any penpals. It’s frustrating but I’ve decided to just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:00 AM
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