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Usually I just try approaching during the day any opportunity I find, opening an individual in the mall particularly, the waterfront etc. I don't do much hiking but I can definitely see it being profitable considering how fanatic about fitness most people here are. Perhaps I'm looking through the wrong avenues, I am looking for a book club to join as I enjoy reading and I guess its already a common denominator, similarly to ur hiking scenario. I'm also not sure if day game comes off as creepy es…
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:17 PM
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Yeah I'm based in southern suburbs Cape Town, I think its still a subconscious thing with white being superior. This sort of system where white>coloured>black. Rather nowadays black>white>coloured. Im yet to try day game at UCT but long street was a bloody mission
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:05 PM
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Wouldn't title this a "How to", more like in field footage. Regardless, was a smooth pickup +1 OP and subbed
/r/seduction14/09/16 10:03 PM
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Hiding your true intentions is the epitome of being creepy
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:49 PM
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Exposure yourself to this situation over and over again. Eventually you won't be nervous
/r/seduction14/08/16 07:30 AM
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Bump
/r/seduction07/08/16 01:13 PM
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YOU think you're ugly
/r/seduction17/07/16 11:45 AM
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Try something other than her looks
/r/seduction12/07/16 12:47 PM
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Not a huge fan of calling a girl pretty, never the less good practice I suppose
/r/seduction11/07/16 09:48 PM
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Wouldn't bother messaging hot girls on Facebook you'll look like a creep, just go out brah
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:48 PM
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Exactly, you are slowly inadvertently doing so. You should be acting on impulse, see a woman you think is hot do it. Speak, anything. In a debate and something doesn't seem right? Speak up.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 11:34 PM
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As a fellow blue-piller aspiring the heights of red-pillism I can identify pretty well with the post. However at the end of the day, you are essentially describing your emotional state as a result of rejection. Such mental depth is unnecessary, you need to recalibrate your thoughts to move you forward and rid yourself from the blue-pill ego holding you down.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 09:08 PM
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I suppose it just comes down to being a genuine alpha. Genuine with your intent, genuine with your behaviour and genuine with your emotions. You shouldn't be having to put anything on. You can judge the situation by te level of investment of both parties both emotional and physical. I don't see why your persona changes all of a sudden when you meet a particular girl. Congruency is key and if you can remain consistently genuine, then you've nailed it. I suppose it just takes time and adjustment s…
/r/seduction29/06/16 06:38 PM
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I'm at a similar spot. Grabbed a number on monday while I was in town. Messaged her 2 days later saying Hi, it's "___" from town! and no response. I definately gave her an impression, joked around etc. But it is really true as they say, strike when the iron is hot, one of the most common factors I believe is waiting too long. A part of me still wants to attempt to salvage, by sending a second message referring to something on the day, but another part of me is saying "onto the next one"
/r/seduction29/06/16 03:45 PM
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Feel like I'm back at high school. Would it be alright to message her again just in case she forgot who I am since she was pretty hot she must. Be approached. By loads of dudes a day
/r/seduction29/06/16 01:09 PM
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Texted her, been 4 hours no reply. Don't know if she remembers me I mean she was pretty cute so she must be approached by loads of guys daily
/r/seduction29/06/16 10:02 AM
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Sent, no reply
/r/seduction29/06/16 09:46 AM
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Hi, my names mystery
/r/seduction29/06/16 04:58 AM
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I've been pondering how to send the first message for the whole day I will message her tomorrow morning saying hi it's ' ' from the mall the other day
/r/seduction28/06/16 04:25 PM
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I got her number yesterday and haven't texted her yet. I want to meet her some time next week should I wait till then to ask or ask now? But what if she forgets
/r/seduction28/06/16 01:27 PM
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So uplifting, love this community
/r/seduction28/06/16 08:05 AM
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Yeah I'm not worried if she flakes/ignores me I'm just amped I finally grew the balls to approach. Is there any sort of "rule" in how long I should arrange a meet up.
/r/seduction27/06/16 07:49 PM
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How long should I wait before messaging her ?
/r/seduction27/06/16 07:48 PM
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Same brother, saw my definition of a 10 today looked at her, froze up ended up smiling looking at the floor...
/r/seduction26/06/16 03:31 PM
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Practice is key
/r/seduction21/06/16 05:13 AM
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Yeah, when I do it with myy mates it feels friendly and normal. But strangers feel weird
/r/seduction21/06/16 05:04 AM
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This hit me hard. Solid truth.
/r/seduction21/06/16 05:03 AM
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Thanks for the responses! I will definitely be trying 'the game' making a conscious effort to keep eye contact as you guys said. It was just in a lecture earlier today I saw my definition of 9/10 pale skin, dark eyes dark hair. They are a rare breed in my country. Will not be making the same mistake again
/r/seduction19/06/16 08:24 PM
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Will definitely be picking this up
/r/seduction13/06/16 04:02 PM
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Probably made a joke about their computer literacy then helped them out
/r/seduction11/06/16 04:31 AM
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Okay like a video game quest
/r/seduction05/06/16 08:19 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction05/06/16 08:19 AM
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Perhaps find out when her shift ends/starts and go and ask her when she's free
/r/seduction02/06/16 03:38 PM
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What's your whattsapp dude? Hella inspirational
/r/seduction02/06/16 06:27 AM
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Some guys (myself) are just low-status and don't have the social network, decent job, and so on.. and don't have much room for improvement. I'll give you this: I never leave my comfort zone to approach women. But I know if I did, they would not accept me. I don't have the right body language and I have virtually no social proof. I'm just a permanent virgin, Forever Alone type. It's hard to think that ANY amount of pushing my comfort zone would lead me to sex or romanc>e. That is not the mindset …
/r/seduction29/05/16 08:15 AM
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So you're saying if I just fuk off from my comfort zone and approach a girl. It'll all make sense?
/r/seduction28/05/16 07:22 PM
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Fuck the opener
/r/seduction12/05/16 11:13 PM
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I find head nodding to be more natural, whenever I walk past a colleague or someone I know I'd give a head nod, sort of just a natural reflex. I'll keep this into mind next time thanks
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:16 PM
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awesome, I guess natural smile is the new game plan
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:36 PM
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It was during my lunch break, was really busy. I had one goal- to grab me a Monster from the shop and head back to work ASAP. I was more surprised than anything else to be honest, but after I realised she smiled at me I felt that giddiness later on. If only it hit me earlier
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:21 PM
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Is it more relaxed than a full on smile, almost like a smjrk?
/r/seduction20/04/16 04:20 PM
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Its only day 2, although depressed initially, feeling motivated for tomorrow!
/r/seduction16/04/16 08:04 PM
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I think it was mostly feeling so overwhelmed I needed to sit down and consolidate my thoughts. I'm going to check out /r/socialskills material and just improve normal conversation. I've also been talking more to friends of friends who I usually would not talk to
/r/seduction16/04/16 08:03 PM
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Thanks man, this sub is so supportive. Its only day 2 of my pickup quest but I felt so depressed when j got home I just went to sleep. I've identified that currently my problem is being surrounded by lots of people so I'll look for more isolated scenarios- maybe a girl is sitting by herself eating lunch or outside having a smoke by herself etc. In my experience more people aggrevattes social anxiety. It makes me feel as if everyone around me is wondering wtf is up with this kid just walking out …
/r/seduction16/04/16 08:01 PM
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This is really warming advice, thank you. I will organise a feel-good playlist, I from experience music really helps. Always had a playlist before a soccer game, putting me in the right mindset
/r/seduction16/04/16 06:14 AM
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I always have a tired and aggressive feeling when going out, I have no idea why- may be anxiety related
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:12 PM
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Heading out tonight to the mall, hoping to pick up a few numbers. This will be my second approach, (my first was 9 months ago) and feeling really nervous but at the same time I feel ready to kill it.
/r/seduction15/04/16 09:49 AM
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So let me get this straight, you just met a girl and told her you liked her? I reckon she took it as more of a compliment than a "I like you too" or "I don't feel the same way". I'd probably just brush it off for now. Last thing you want is your mind fixated on one girl
/r/seduction15/04/16 09:41 AM
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Awesome seeing such positive vibes. Weekends coming up and I'm definitely going to try an approach. Following yours and everyone else's journey is awesome! Time to add my journey to the thread
/r/seduction14/04/16 06:21 AM
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Awesome job, I've heard from people once you've done your first one. Others become easier
/r/seduction14/04/16 06:14 AM
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We've all had that problem. Self improvement will lead to you picking up a wide variety of girls and not just your crush.
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:51 AM
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Awesome job! Slowly gathering the courage to do this myself. I know almost all the theory behind it etc. Just need to bite the bullet and do it
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:20 PM
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Breaking the barrier 1) Go up to a girl 2) Say absolutely anything, first thing that pops to your mind (obviously not racist/mysoginistic etc) 3) See how it goes. If she finds it amusing, great. If not, who gives a fuck
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:07 PM
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Would love to see this flourish. Good luck! Do it for all of us!
/r/seduction12/04/16 08:52 AM
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I quite like that actually, gives me something to fall back on. Basically playing with the truth
/r/seduction11/04/16 09:24 AM
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Not at all, in fact you'll be making friends in the process! It's a win win. While trying to get laid you can enter her realm, being able to access her friends and her friends of friends etc. It's a chain reaction!
/r/seduction10/04/16 06:17 AM
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Cool. But shows some good qualities, what do you mean by that. Also till what age range is it acceptable to say that till. I feel as if saying that to a 35+ year old could be a bit weird.
/r/seduction10/04/16 06:13 AM
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I was mainly asking about the "though u were cute so wanted to talk to you" line, followed by digit extraction (not exactly like, that but variations of it, if you know what I mean). The opener isn't really the problem but in the event it fails I want to know I can safely hold back onto something. Even if I just say some nonsense then follow it with "can i have ur number...blah blah blah"
/r/seduction09/04/16 06:05 PM
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