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This comment also goes back to the top comment’s point about net worth. Let’s take a doctor. If you are paying 50% in taxes and 20% on student loans and 20% on a mortgage and 10% on lawyers for malpractice suits then what are you left with? There are other things too, like simpler. Let’s take driving for Lyft or Uber. You have to pay for a car and insurance which you might not have needed at other jobs, your car loses value and must be kept in good repair, you have to pay for gas, if you are out…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:55 AM
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Nah nah nah, get out of here with that science stuff we just want to believe our own confirmation biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 07:15 PM
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I'm borderline obese, have a six pack. Not too many women out there like that though so I trust their numbers more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 10:59 PM
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My rule of thumb. Anything before 16 is too many. 2 per year is reasonable for serial monogamy levels aka dated someone for a few months, had sex, lasted a little then ended, few months single rinse and repeat with bad luck and high standards. Anything over 4 in one year or 10 total honestly is too many. Let's say you had one HS relationship and it lasted until you were 19, went to college, had 2 more in a year, took a break to figure yourself and dating out, went back into it and had 4 more in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 04:22 AM
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I went from 250lbs to 150lbs in about 6 months, went from invisible to catching eyes. I joined TRP but didn't have an interest in hooking up with anyone, just the self improvement (I later went through a depression and found out I was low T, with a doctors help fixed it and developed a sex drive) I also was celibate and nofap for a year. I asked out maybe a hundred or more girls and dated about 3 dozen. I only went on second dates with about 2/3 of them and only dated for any length of time a ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 03:16 AM
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I think you are slightly aware that this behavior and these thoughts exist in these dudes outside of the Internet but not fully. The internet is a place where there are essentially no rules, no society to hold you accountable for you do not even have an identity online when you can throwaway an account that is "burned". Dudes would do this in real life (and given the right scenario such as anonymously at a bar etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 11:26 PM
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Same. Try staying up 3 days straight doing intense manual labor under high stress finally getting off a two week straight shift, popping just enough pills to get you through your 5 hour drive home and turning down a BJ in favor of falling asleep. After 3 days of sleeping most the time I recovered and was doing it 5-10 times a day before repeating the process.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:41 PM
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Dude, she obviously doesn't give a fuck. She is fucking you and you are happy which likely means she is happy. That said you eat the pussy right? If not let her ride your mouth and just spend a good half hour to and hour figuring out what she likes the best. Maybe you will get lucky and she will cum but that isn't the mission. Another good move is (don't know the name for this position or any position really) do missionary but where you sit back on your heels and while you are rocking into her r…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:03 PM
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Fuck the flaking, Never again. Just ghosted two coworkers that flaked on me, and a potential roommate who did the same thing. The last one was a no brainer as why the fuck would I trust someone that would flake last minute for no good reason after having to hassle over the exact date to meet up to talk about rooming together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:03 PM
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If you live on planet earth (well actually next to a college full of people in the prime of their looks) and not in some fantasy land where a 4 and a 5 can talk about how an 8 is below their standards with a straight face, then yes, welcome to the world.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:27 AM
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I stand behind a counter all day at a super market that sees many many people. Probably 10-15 10s women a day and 5-10 guys that I would say have reached chad status. That's what I say to people rating like Brad Pitt as a 7. For real, you can hamster so hard that he is a 7? Like you go to the supermarket and see dozens of people hotter than him and some that blow him out of the water.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:05 AM
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Sitting outside my coding class listening to pump up music to try to get myself to stop crying. I'd been depressed for a while, dated 3 dozen girls in a year after a body transformation made me go from reject to desired but I was celibate and had no sex drive which made me realize in the absence of lust that girls bullshit is very off putting. Got fucked over by a paperwork error that left me on paper as having $13k per semester ... if I worked 80 hours a week, so I worked 40, and went to school…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 06:29 PM
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You have to be a sexual threat for kino to work Can't stress this enough. Some people think the goal of kino is to be unobtrusive, non threatening and basically any word to describe sneaking in touches. My favorite kino is sitting with a girl ask her if she works out (if she looks like she might) and immediately squeeze her thigh and compliment her legs.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:23 PM
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Was celibate for a year, didn't even masterbate. Then I got depressed and was suicidal. I went to a doctor and I had very low testosterone, hopped on gear, don't want to kill myself and fuck my wife 3x a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 01:14 PM
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Look, most girls can't handle pain and of course pain and pleasure don't mix. Taking her home and not talking to her is just frustration bleeding through. You could have tried talking about it and then maybe offering to just watch TV together instead, my girl would suck the soul out of my dick for a week in that situation because I'm nice to her. Completely anti redpill I know but try a little honey next time.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 02:46 AM
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I've never seen a woman so precisely and elegantly describe a problem that principally affects men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 09:42 PM
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I'm a dude, relatively attractive but not enough to really have crossed over to the dark side. I've seen glimpses of how girls can be though; married women being overtly flirty, girls grabbing me inappropriately on busses, hanging out with some friends and girls I've never met at Denny's and having two of them touching my junk and asking for a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 12:46 AM
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Another idea is that it's only certain kinds of women. Some accept a half truth and try to rationalize that only a select few sluts are doing the fucking. The reality is I'm not even that good looking but in college girls these guys would never suspect of having a single slutty thought in their head wanted to blow me in a bathroom or have a threesome with their friends. I worked a job for a weekend at a festival and disregarding the girls at the festival 3/5 of my female coworkers asked me blata…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 09:52 PM
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... I don't know if I want to laugh or shake my head. This is exactly what girls are doing. Did you ever go to clubs? Ever had a "chad" friend who used tinder. It may not be true outside of college though I think it just takes a different appearance and the attitude changes, but at college; it's the norm that a girl is hooking up regularly, like go home with a random guy type hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 09:46 PM
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Divorce rates would seem to support you there ... and that's just divorce. Just take a look at your real life. How often are people breaking up, to me it seems to average a few months ... maybe approaching a year. Seems more like a steady main than an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 09:42 PM
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... ever heard of the 80/20 rule? 80% of casual sex with women is had by 20% of men. With the top 5% having about half of all hookups to be had. Your logic doesn't apply to an average dude who gets none of the benefits of sex and all the leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 10:01 PM
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I used to go out and would be sober. I've had a few bad experiences literally being the only one sober enough to give a friend at a house party cpr as he was literally dead. Other times where I herded a drunk friend or two home. So when I go out I don't drink. Women 90% of the time find this to be off putting and both sexes go as far as putting a bottle up to your mouth trying to force it on you. I'm now on meds that preclude drinking at least in excess and people don't care though more people c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 03:06 PM
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I feel like I identify with being a man too much to not be a dude, even the bullshit like having a job where survival was genuinely a concern and regularly went days without sleep. I identify with grinding through struggle. This implies being a woman is easier and frankly it is and if you find it being rewarding I liken it to being that character that starts out with a slight advantage and a more padded inventory but eventually your max potential is exceeded by characters that take more developm…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 02:47 PM
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You ever heard of getting the soul sucked out of your dick? As someone who has made his wife pass out from orgasms and made her reach probably about 30 in one session, I can still say I'm capable of having just as intense orgasms. I also used to train myself to have orgasms without ejaculation and even got to the point where hypnotic files could give me back to back shaking orgasms without even touching my dick. Sex can be fucking great for guys too. About once a week I really get into the sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 03:36 AM
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Agreed, far too many absolutes being thrown around. Shoutout to the girls that don't really experience random guys coming up to them. And shoutout to the dudes that are so glad they finally have money to pay car payments so they can stop getting molested on the bus ... doesn't happen? Well it happened to me a handful of times and I'm not even that attractive, imagine the crazy shit models deal with. Some girls understand the pain of rejection but what is there to do? Date every guy that asks? An…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 09:53 PM
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You are right on the sexual options. A hot dude will hook up with a low mv woman but he dumps her, it's the 80% 20% rule vrs the 50/50 rule 20% of guys get 80% of the girls ... for sex. There is still a hard limit on lifelong commitment, the fact that roughly there is one guy for every girl. Obviously the high mv men dump the women they fuck or they wouldn't be available to fuck so many. It's kind of like market correction and eventually if they ever settle down they are going back to their mv r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 04:34 PM
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They are like unicorns or fairies. Women with proper father figures who grew up carrying outdated ideals about what kind of man they need and what kind of women they need to be for that man. They have strong willpower and self identity to go through their youth ignoring most of society and choosing a rare path. Many fail, I'd say less than 1 in 100 make it to unicorn status and the number falls with each generation. For 95% of men they have no chance of getting a shot with a unicorn, unicorns ar…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:11 PM
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I read the financial success stories and never once ask if they are getting laid. I know of many self improvement posts I've read of people who are married, not scoring N counts in the double digits every week. The main value of this sub is self improvement not getting laid. Getting laid is the result of the hard work; lifting, being career driven, being financially savvy, learning social skills that propel you through life and other tactics for living a highly success driven life. I literally s…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 01:21 PM
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No
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:10 PM
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Start flirting more. Anything you do, practice it a lot, identify what needs to improve and then do it again with that change. Once you get comfortable it'll sound more natural.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 11:33 AM
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You have to learn how to effortlessly prioritize tasks, develop a time table and list of goals, regroup after setbacks, and like the other poster said, cultivate discipline.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 11:32 AM
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Same as any other risk you ignore. It doesn't do to be anxious about things you can't help. You have a good chance of dying every time you drive to work but you don't get in the car every time like oh God this is the day, or if you do it should be like "fuck it I could die today, I'm going to ask for that raise."
/r/askTRP25/06/17 11:30 AM
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You have to walk before you can run. Why would a 9 or 10 want to fuck you? Can you honestly say you are worth a 9 or a 10s attention when they can literally fuck anyone they want? Probably not. Try 6-8 range. You are right that the club isn't the place to find hot girls. Be active in the world and charismatic everywhere. One of the cold approaches I recommend to all my friends is when you are at a store pay attention to girls carts, or rather look for the girl with a basket and a bottle of wine …
/r/askTRP25/06/17 11:28 AM
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People have to want to change, sometimes that reason can be you but you would be better off trying to figure out how to guide them towards their reason like mentioning the kids to a mother than being directly involved.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:51 AM
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If you want to be with her then you should care about making her happy. Make her feel sexy and secure with you and odds are you will have a much healthier relationship than insulting her because a bunch of virgin teens on the internet told you it will get you laid and mad respect.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:49 AM
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I wouldn't sweat it too much. Either she was on her period and wanted to have meaningful and pleasant sex with you not a messy period fuck or a BJ, or she doesn't want to have sex with you and you shouldn't push it as there is no point convincing a girl to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:48 AM
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Yes, if she is willing to lie to you and force you to settle in one area she will in others. Is this a girl you can see yourself marrying and being the envy of all your bros years down the line? Do you feel lucky being with her; happy?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:46 AM
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Either drive the talk in directions you want or hang out with people who actually have something interesting to talk about. Being comfortable with silence also goes a long way.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:44 AM
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Read to develop your vocabulary and language skills then pursue a hobby to make you actually interesting but don't be that guy that only talks about his thing.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:42 AM
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Entertainment: Ender's game will last a while and has some insight into human nature if you look for it. Self improvement: Go through the personal finance subreddit and read their reading list
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:07 PM
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Omad is suboptimal for healthy weight loss as opposed to IF which works really well for a lot of people. Yes omad works but ask people who did it if they had any trouble with binging or any other eating disorders. I did. IF doesn't cause this because let's say you eat 3 meals a day to maintain at 2400 cals (800 cals per meal). Well skip breakfast and you have a big deficit going though odds are you will now eat closer to 1000 cals per meal but still 1000 cals is a healthy meal size and sustainab…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:09 PM
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That is true, my face is already on the internet connected to my name in multiple spots so at this point ...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:52 PM
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Dropped about 100lbs and 20%bf total but from that photo about 50lbs. Took me 5 ish months total.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:51 PM
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I hate when people waste good genetics. I know this Asian dude with wiiiide as fuck shoulders, good face but doesn't do anything with it.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 07:08 PM
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Dude that's amazing you look so much better.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:47 PM
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Man but try convincing them. I hear it all the time especially here online like over and incels. "I'll never be attractive because I don't have a good face". Bullshit ... maybe you won't be a model but you will at least get a face that doesn't handicap your body. My before and after
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:29 PM
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That's what I tell bros I know. I'm alpha in the ways that count but I hold doors for women, listen to them bitch, pamper girls I like, seemingly let them order me around (really is doing something for someone because you like that it makes them happy something deplorable?) and more stuff that is absolutely blue pill. The difference is I don't resent myself or them for these actions, and I refuse to put up with bullshit drama. I will dump a girl without even a thought if her attitude is affectin…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:30 AM
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Maybe girls see you in the streets and fuck you right there /s but some of us actually have to work our game and the club scene or parties are the easiest damn place to do it. If you can't get laid after a party at minimum 1/10 times you must be bottom 10%.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:21 PM
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I'm going to go ahead and agree that this is stupid. Especially if you are a college student. Getting laid, making out or even just a number is easy at a club if you get into the scene.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:13 PM
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Be a sex God in bed. I turned my last girl into a nympho doing it 3-6 times a day only taking breaks when my dick needed to heal. Just get really good at pounding and you won't have to ask.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:42 AM
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Haha man you have no idea how accurate this is. A confident guy not immediately drooling over her is like spotting a unicorn.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:23 PM
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TL;DR we realized it was shit after getting our egos bashed.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 05:15 PM
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All theory of course but I'm going to go with. Had a boyfriend, they had a fight and he was going to dump her, she wanted rebound sex, you didn't initiate and she felt rejected again then went to the boyfriend, they sort of make up but now it's pretty much limping on, she wants to jump ship but now she is both in the market for a provider and a cock to ride, hence the mixed signals you are likely feeling. I'd personally go and then push for sex then next.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 05:08 PM
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Yeaaaah it's more the opposite. You try to fuck other girls, fail and then oneitis sets in as you convince yourself that 1.) Girls are better than you and 2.) You'll never fuck again. I say the opposite after a breakup distance yourself from relationships. These people are the most successful. Take some time to analyze what went wrong, not with her or with women or whatever but with you. What did you do. Fix that, get some kickass hobbies and just cruise for a while. Then I guarantee you will ha…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 02:31 PM
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People keep saying "while you are there" ... I'm curious would you find this any less shitty if she said it without him there?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:16 AM
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I think he is trying to help OP out, telling him his girl is disrespectful and likely a cheater and that he can't really say he won't do anything but even if he did she would just ride some other cock, instead if it happens he'll let him know because you know maybe he is wrong and she is just stupid saying shit like that or had too much to drink or whatever.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:15 AM
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Look to her actions not her words ...
/r/askTRP29/08/16 03:08 PM
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I shat all over where I eat ... with two different girls who worked where I worked. Yes worked ... I quit and they were a small amount of the reason why but even worse is I used to frequent the place I quit and have coworkers who I have become friends with but one of the girls is so unprofessional when I visit my friends that I don't bother going anymore. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:39 PM
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I like playing basketball, currently I play 2-7 hours a day.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:16 PM
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Exactly, If you never implied or especially outright stated monogamy then it's your prerogative who you sleep with though fair warning they will still call you a cheater if they find out, throw a fit and you dump them so be careful about this if she knows your friend circle.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:18 PM
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Yeah I think this is what is confused as being "a natural". Women have shit game. I go clubbing with girls a lot (they make good wing women so don't judge) and it's hilarious to watch them, especially the ugly ones, go for an alpha. You should see what they say and how they react to rejection.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 08:47 PM
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That is a good rule of thumb, I'm going to go with that
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:09 PM
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Lmfao and it's just like real life. If you are throwing out plates left and right ... Odds are they are paper plates aka ugly
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:08 PM
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Generally you would want to fuck on the weekends when you and they have more time. But you only have so many weekends to go around so if you have one sex partner that means once a week, two and it's every other week and so on. Doesn't always work out exactly like that all nice and neat. Could be one girl is a focus during the summer and your lab partner takes over during school for example if you are a student.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:05 PM
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Can't really tell without your deadlift weight. If you squat 200+ and dead 300ish you will be gtg for the 185 you said but if you dead 100lbs you will snap under even 135. Also reps, reps, and more reps. Do front squat basically as a pump exercise until it feels natural.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:57 PM
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Outcome independence man. Doesn't matter if she comes home used goods, not something to put on second of stress into because if she does it's simple ... He nexts her. He's not mate guarding at all and he isn't worrying about other people and other things. This guy is truly a good example of what trp teaches imo.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:25 PM
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Yep, don't do the whole "I'm busy this year how about next year" shit. They aren't that busy ... Nobody is ... They just want to procrastinate and keep you on the hook for whatever reason. Never had a date past a week of first meeting not fall through. Even across one weekend is too long so if you meet a girl Thursday and she doesn't have one fucking hour this weekend and isn't in China ... Next. There's no point. Too much effort for very little chance of any reward.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:19 PM
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Don't fuck with these types. It's really as simple as if they like you they will pursue. Took me forever to figure out and I looked like a desperate fuck asking to hangout all the time and getting stood up when I didn't even really care to hangout with these "busy girls". People get busy ... It's true but think about yourself. Let's make an appointment for doing your taxes that isn't really pressing and could be rescheduled or transferred to another company. What do you have to do tomorrow night…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:16 PM
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That's some of the thread, the whole improve yourself mentality and it is why I read the posts but you can't deny a good percentage of posts are along the lines of "fuck women". Those don't help and can defiantly hurt if you find a nice girl. Or least a girl that would resist her urges and be nice because of you.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:19 PM
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Dude, what trp doesn't understand is there is a small fraction of the female population that are essentially "betas" of the female world. They don't work like what trp is designed for. If you are with one of these and you genuinely feel like she isn't gaming you then you have what people dream of, someone who wasn't polluted by western society. You usually find these from stable households both parents married and respect(not necessarily love) each other and usually conservative even religious. …
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:22 PM
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Bro ... Cmon. Don't fucking text her fishing for a "no you didn't rape me" reply. Listen this is going to get me downvoted because "it isn't alpha" or whatever but either cut contact and cross your fingers or ... Try to hangout with her and her girl friends. Be a perfect gentleman and don't take her home. If she has no one to hamster with then nothing happens. Girls do this for the attention and sympathy. Win her friends over and the rape talk will stop.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:33 AM
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Dude ... Tip number 8 never even occurred to me. And at one point I was being careful not to like cum in a chicks mouth or belly without making sure it disappears because she wanted a kid. The whole time there was an endless supply of my semen right in the bathroom. Geez man thanks for the info.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:01 PM
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Well I thought all guys gained the super power to drain a boner after highschool. But seriously all the random awkward boners from that time ... I just drain it now.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:34 PM
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No, you next. There isn't even another option. Does something else occur to you as first instinct?
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:32 PM
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Going for a huge PR right now. This is da shit. Also I'm right where he is. I'm getting into basketball and suck shit. I have crazy cardio and speed though so basically I run the ball to key players in the latter half. Every once in a while I get to miss a shot but eventually they won't be missed. Getting better each day and moving up in the pick order. Anyways bro let me squat this shit. 240 at 150 BW nothing too impressive but yet another thing I have to work on.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 03:52 PM
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I've phased out sugars in a week multiple times from 150g+ sugar and felt no change. I don't get the whole sugar is bad ... Kill your insulin sensitivity ... Get fat utter nonsense going around but I know I'm in the minority. I'll just keep eating my fuckloads of sugar and die at 40 or whatever they say.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:40 PM
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I do something like this at the store but sober. Basically just walk around talking to women as see how many you can get in the time you get your shopping done.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 05:02 PM
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So I'm in my 20s but there is this really cool guy at my work in his 30s. He has absolutely no trouble with women and gets waaaay more action that I could generate. He goes out and does stuff like for example playing volleyball, and looks fucking shredded so he gets their attention and his game is on point. He has no problems standing out in a crowd of gawkers and getting the hot girl (it may help he is over six feet tall). Then they realize he is a cool guy and hanging out with him is always fu…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:20 PM
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This is the best thing I have read on these subs yet. Thanks for wording it so well.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:44 PM
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Hey bro, I'm at UT. Yeah bubble tea is a good first date idea because it's like a thing everyone does do it's pretty casual.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:14 PM
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Thanks for sharing, also cool to see someone else come from the 200s to the ripped through range. Girls started paying attention huh? To me I learned a lot from the fact that girls will notice hot guys. Anyways yeah thanks for the write up.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 06:13 PM
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Oh yeah that was for average height. It scales up.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 04:08 AM
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I got solid results waking up, and planking till I drop every morning.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 11:18 PM
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The line seems to be 150@10bf anything lower in weight is like not impressive at all. You look like a starving dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 11:16 PM
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Especially if you had some sort of desensitization from masterbating that being gone combined with sex feeling so much better and wanting it so much more and also the fact that its mostly a mental thing ... yeah it doesn't help some people. Though some it fixes the mental thing for them and that's the big issue so they have good results.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 06:01 AM
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My best friend is now a full red pill disciple. He saw me at my lowest, all due to my blue pill ways. He was also near his lowest all from blue pill ways. I worked on myself, got into this sub and came out the other side better. I started having success across the board, he knew what I was doing. After he reached his lowest point he followed in my footsteps. If your friend wants to change and he sees you growing as a man he will follow. You can't force people to follow you and "preaching" will d…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:03 PM
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One in the suit, one on the beach and the one with the dog. Girls love the excuse of "oh I wanted to talk to you because dog".
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:58 PM
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This man. To add OP, "working on herself" basically means things were okay but now you just aren't fixing her problems. Maybe she used to be happy with you and you made her forget about her problems (girls really need that) then it became she forgot about her problems when you were around but slowly you didn't make the problems go away. It probably wasn't even your fault, some women really are just like this and only they can fix themselves. If there was a red pill for women it would likely say …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:55 PM
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Haha first off that poor bastard, she is already way to far gone but second off she is going to get what she deserves. She has at best a few more years on the carousel then she will hit the wall ... She will have left what sounds like a great man and probably die alone ... Hope it's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:43 PM
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Here is my exact strategy I use for you to blast. Leangains bastard, so IF 4+ hours after waking and 2 hours leading to bed 16hrs+ for me. Cut cals by 500 from maintenance out of carbs and trade 50g of carbs for protein. .5g fat per lb and 1g protein per lb becomes .5g and 1.25 ish. Try to get any activity in that you can especially in the morning. I don't even like basketball but jam out to some music and play. 200cals hitt no more try not to get less every day. 3x a week program low volume ver…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:49 PM
2

I don't think anyone gives half a fuck lol but can't hurt.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:39 PM
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I think it's crap. My last gf wanted to fuck 3+ times a night but I could only cum 3 times max. This has been pretty standard so far but maybe I'm looking at a different audience.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:33 PM
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This is the only right option. It's never simple ... If you start turning the hamster wheel. If not and you just see things for how they are promiscuity->immediate disqualification for LTR then it's the definition of simple.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:46 PM
1

Not to overanalyze but the top "cool" response seems forced and probably like a minor jab. Okay seems much better.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:44 PM
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It would take a very tight control of this situation to come out on top. Most wouldn't bother. First set up an immediate out (like a friends you can always crash at for a week) then a backup (maybe another friend but friends are unreliable so be careful) and then a long term solution (money saved away to move completely). Don't get stuck, be able to leave immediately and without someone having leverage over you. Don't do something stupid like sign a long term lease or get a dog together. Then yo…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:39 PM
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Same ... Was constantly getting 5 hours of sleep and my gains got trashed, got dependent on stims, lacked motivation in work and other areas. I'd rather jerk it than do that again.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:33 PM
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You need some introspection. Start with why. Why is "insert problem" happening. Once you answer this you need an outcome independent connection to this problem ... In basic terms ... Don't give a fuck if you solve the problem or not just accept whatever you make happen in the long run as long as you did everything possible. After these steps on only after (maybe even after a few more depending on the severity. Tackle the problem. Let's take loneliness as an example. First step, monk mode and ask…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:32 PM
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So just if you want to have a little fun and mess with her. Have sex as normal once then next time after that pretend like you are frustrated and not able to come. Pull out and pretend to readjust her to "see if it helps" when you are about to come. Play with her when you are close. Go slow and then go fast then pretend to need a little break cause you are tired when you come close again. Do this for as long as you can until you can't go at it for more than 30 seconds then just flip over and loo…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:37 AM
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You are in college man. Perfect time to use all that spare time to work, lift and learn. Then once again your in college. You have access to hundreds of 8+ young girls. Just get around. Start talking.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 06:51 PM
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I don't know if this is my story to share but on another sub a girl went on vacation with her girl friends and she called her BF. She was drunk and he knew it. She then said, "Can we take a break?" And in the most red pill response I can think of he responded with "Sure take all the time you want because we are done." He saw correctly what he question was. She met a guy at the party and wanted to fuck him but she wanted to be able to abort if it didn't work out and come back and say "You agreed …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:40 PM
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You know a lot of guys will just blame the women and do nothing to change things. It's really the males fault. The 20% ers need to stop being lazy and fucking down. That is what supports this atrocity. Commit to fucking up, for yourself and for the 80%. And to the 80% stop bitching and playing woe is me (I realize that this audience isn't the main one doing this but you are out there and you know who you are). Do something, change yourself and make yourself as close to that 20% as you can. Don't…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:20 PM
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Came here to say this. GF gives dread ... Shouldn't be happening that's for guys looking to keep hot chicks on their plate.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:25 AM
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Avoid talking about or implying monogamy. It's not her business for two reasons, if you haven't implied it or offered it it isn't her business and along the same lines two, if she doesn't want to date someone who doesn't offer or accept monogamy she shouldn't have dated you from the start without getting a yes. She will likely call you a cheater and all that shit if she finds out like every other girl but it's not really any of your concern what she has to tell herself. Anyways get some on the s…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:22 AM
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You need to sleep, diet can be a factor like others said, I fast for clarity. Do some yoga and focus on yourself. Learn how to ignore emotional responses and have tasks organized so you can rationally tackle every problem that comes your way without feeling overwhelmed. Cut out those that throw shit at you ... Oh yeah and I'll finish the same way I started by saying sleep more.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:51 AM
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A solid gold post. I am going to steal that ordering take out comparison to porn ... It's spot on. Anyways I agree that women fear if you can do it yourself you won't want them, that's the root. If a girl blows up about it first off you picked wrong and second you probably didn't have control of the frame of the relationship since the start. Tell her it's not cheating and that you will continue to do it, if there is a problem then you are more than happy to move on. Don't explain further don't e…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 05:28 AM
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This is chalked full of info. Personally I have found many of the techniques and tips you put forth to hold during the action. The take away for me was RYTHM ... That's what I've been forgetting. And guys, here on trp masturbation is beta or whatever and gets all kinds of shit. It shouldn't. Use masturbation to your advantage. I took about 3 months training myself. How to have a hands free orgasm. How to have multiple orgasm. How to basically pump inflate my dick. How to edge like a fucking beas…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:56 PM
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This is true. Pick one ... Easy, attractive, monogamy/"relationship material". Don't fool yourself. There are no "easy fucks" once you get over 7. Unless you are literally top 10 fucking percent you have to work for it. This is the whole point of game. Minimizing work. Minimizing but not eliminating. Did this guy catch all kinds of shit? Yes. Did his frame/game hold up? Yes. So what happened ... He got laid. Sure he could have given up and said this is too difficult and moved on to a 6 but he fu…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 03:31 AM
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Personal rule. Never take your pants off until the girl gives you a boner. If she can't do it you don't take your pants off. Doesn't matter the reason but this is the best way to avoid an embarrassing moment plus it helps the build up ... On both ends.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 04:16 PM
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165 weight with squat 185 and deadlift 225 Ha! Jokes on you I am 160! ... Oh nvm that's worse. Anyways I'm 20. Last year I weighed 250 @ ~30-35% BF and today I weigh 160 @ ~12% BF. I fall into the young adult new identity class. I won't stop. I never lose motivation. Even when my body is failing my mind doesn't. Also PR today at 225 x 10 squat almost ass to grass so happy to read that that is good enough to pt at planet fitness lol. Anyways great read.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:27 PM
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nah, but if you are really playing the roles ... she could have died in her sleep and you just think she is a really good actor and a little cold. Dunno I think about weird things.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 12:39 AM
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Can confirm. Be gentle first is my opinion but nibbling wakes her up to hornyness. If you are looking to basically wake her up with penetration ... I wouldn't try that without talking. Just a grey area. May not be very redpill of me but I'm picturing necrophilia charges ... Anyways good luck. Morning sex is hot.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:50 PM
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Well said man ...
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:19 PM
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You got this right. She is going to expect ... No demand you "treat her better". She will expect you to buy shit and scare you by applying her own dread. I don't see why OP considers this a blowup. Keep reading if you don't know what to do next but this isn't exactly a fail what would be a fail is responding to her throwing drama at you. Shut that shit down real quick.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:27 PM
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That's another thing. I may be redpill but that doesn't mean I can be an ass. I think I could have a spat of LTR or open LTR so if that's enough for her when it comes up I may be blue pilling it for a bit.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 09:58 PM
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Yeah but seems like I should ride it out till then right?
/r/askTRP26/05/16 09:57 PM
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Not a joke. I spend ... A fair amount of time with the girl and she is clingy but manageable. To me that last sentence makes a small part of me cringe. Was wondering if anyone had any opinions.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 07:56 PM
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Haha I must sound oblivious, yeah thinking about it it isn't really all that different. Main concern redpill wise is that I do hang out with her when I'm bored. Don't know if that is too attached or if I'm just overthinking things. It's low maintenance for me though which is why I don't mind.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 06:38 PM
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I don't know why someone doe voted you but this is true sometimes(maybe the absolutes?). What has spoiled women of the modern west is that nowadays they don't grow up believing that they need a man... The worlds a cock fest and she is going to ride em all and then rope in a beta. She will then be unsatisfied and long for her slut days, knowing there are others out there and all she has to do is secretly explore again ... In other countries it isn't impossible to find virgins who value men.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 09:31 PM
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Someone recently posted that a girl will use religion to their benefit. They didn't go into much detail but for me they didn't have to. I have had second hand experience with this. My friend dated a preachers daughter who like most preachers daughters was sleeping around ... Only thing is he wasn't getting any and thought she was a virgin. He was just who she brought home to dad. Same thing applies to culture. "In my country we don't get drunk in public" or "In my country we don't have sex on th…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 09:27 PM
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If you have already established a "tradition" of using text only for logistics then logistics all the way. Sometimes people get desperate and some women will only be interested if there is some chit chat over text before and that is hard to change but after the first few meets migrate towards only logistics. Also my personal opinion if she asked you "is there a problem" and you do not respond ... You have already hard nexted. If you want to soft next reply with something that doesn't sound like …
/r/askTRP25/05/16 09:16 PM
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So hit the gym and get a routine?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:53 PM
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I'm just going to put this out there. If you google how to pick up chicks literally millions of results but don't worry, I'm not calling you a shit ... Because half of them are stupid blue pill shit coming from people who have no clue what they are saying. I can hear you going "But they are hot guys that get laid they know what works". Wrong they are hot, confident, and experienced ... 90% of the time what you say has no bearing on attraction a women feels. So what is the solution? Talk. Talk to…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:51 PM
1

The reason people say no marriage is because women get preferential treatment under the law and marriage favors them. A OLTR isn't forbidden as long as you don't actually get married. Don't take my words out of context and yes I may be new but I have read every single top post and comments up to about 300 pages of text.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 05:53 PM
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You trust and give your time and effort to those who don't cause drama/ sling shit for as long as they don't cause drama and sling shit. Once the relation is fucked ... move on. Same applies to a job. You land a good job using your alpha skills ... then all of the sudden the boss is being a cunt and making your life hell ... doesn't matter ... move on. There is another job. Ask yourself "Knowing what I now know would I still jump into this ... and if not what is the quickest and cleanest way I c…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:16 PM
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Abundance. Don't give a fuck. That's a shit test. This is a game. OP listen, if these things aren't going through your mind constantly ... Your playing on the losing side wanting something you can never have. This girl is definitely a slut and like this guy says don't fucking bother with that. Have sex? Sure, go for it! Get all feminine? Man this shit isn't a game ... Oh wait it is and that is the easiest way to say "Hey women, I can't hold my frame come abuse me!"
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:25 PM
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This guy is giving you solid advice OP. If they buy that shit who gives a fuck. Abundance mentality isn't just for plates. You know how easy it is to meet great people who don't dish shit?
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:18 PM
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I don't think most women recognize the shit they do, and most of trp seems to agree with me. Another split decision is how true love in women is reserved for their kids, yes AWALT but mothers aren't. There is no sexual attraction only feelings of love, so the games can fall away IF you are open with your mother.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 05:53 PM
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I love analogies. Really clicks. Currently trying the could give a shit persona out and guys it really works. For the first time girls (yes multiple at once also a first) are texting me, complimenting me and most importantly chasing me. I don't put in any work I don't stress and things are better than ever. It's really amazingly simple. It's not about being an asshole it's about controlling attraction and it really is like fishing, if you are gaming up its like fishing with your kids rod trying …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 02:48 PM
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I used the term open marriage because I don't really know how to describe a domestic union for the purpose of having kids where no party is expected to be monogamous yet we probably favor each others company. Also there isn't a set definition of red pill so saying that isn't red pill doesn't make any sense.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:04 PM
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Because I have a healthy relationship with my mom and we talk about life issues often. It's the only person as a man I think you can allow yourself to appear weak to, though this isn't necessarily weak.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:37 PM
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Why did you tell your mom you are red pill? It's the same situation. I never used the words red pill I merely made my stance on women clear, like you seem to have.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:36 PM
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Well I disagree. The idea wasn't to brush off a joke it was to explain my views. This just so happened to trigger it. I don't live with my mom so long texts are the only way to let her know my thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:35 PM
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160 I think. Why?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:33 PM
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Haha, well I wanted to share my views, not just with her but in the future with my little brother and this was primer for that goal.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:31 PM
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I am pretty open with my mom and accept her counsel, I was interested as to her opinion on this issue and since my circle of potential relationships is in a different area than her, saw no reason in the moment not to. Also, I wanted to prime her so that when I talk to my little brother and be the male role model (he has none and when I was a kid I had even less as the only male in a house of 4) when he blabs because he is curious my mom won't be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:29 PM
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Seems to be 50/50 hit or miss but I'm glad some people like it and I hope it enlightens at least one person
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 12:45 AM
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That's what I'm thinking but recently I've found even if things seem good in the surface like got a num and meet up set they ghost out. That user another comment posted is really hitting home. Going to test out theory and hopefully spin up a full fledge soft harem.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:15 PM
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I try not to talk to my soft harem ... More likely to fuck things up so I just bed em monk style.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:13 PM
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Haha fucking perfectly said
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:12 PM
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That's my problem. If you just go straight to logistics the next
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:31 PM
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Good point...
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:30 PM
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I'm still working out my beta tendencies ... The sub is helping but a lagging aspect is my initial texting game.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:58 PM
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Sorry man, probably should have posted to asktrp. Kind of wanted to see what trp thought of this ... Confirmed my text game sucks.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:57 PM
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Nah I need to hear it. My in person game is pretty on point but reading my own texts I was wincing at the thought of posting it for all to see. I'm working on my game all the time but that is definitely an area that needs improvement.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:55 PM
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Amiright? Ha no but I think I need to delete my emoji keys. Use them wayyyyy too much.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:54 PM
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Fair enough. My texting game while unconventional for trp has worked out well enough for roping them in. After the first meet, I default to a more alpha text game but I should learn to be consistent.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:52 PM
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The girl that agreed to meet then apologized which is a power concede. I'll update tonight but she seems dtf.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:51 PM
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Lmao, yeah I fucking know it. I'm new and have always over invested in terms of text. Basically text beta af.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:49 PM
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Consequences of playing the game, have to keep current on the shit. I like one post that says just saying oh well women are woman, it's just natural is like not calling out a rapist or a murderer. But yeah definitely good to keep your own frame and not let the shit shake your foundation.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:00 AM
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Just imagine for a second that, in a public place, you tell people "If a girl lets herself go after marriage she is no longer attractive and I will leave her." Imagine the utter shitstorm your would endure as all the beta buxs in an effort to please the women they want to fuck try to shame you. But then on that post, they women literally says that and the feminists reward he whoring ways with comments of how she did the right thing and it was his fault.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:32 AM
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Yeah haha work your plate hard man, 2 kitty up your sleeve amiright?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 07:10 PM
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Haha yep man, you hit college and realize damn it's a buffet. Really helps the abundance frame...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 07:07 PM
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blackdragon How To Soft Next Step-by-step instructions Thank you, good reading on this blog.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:20 AM
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It really is. I'm secretly hoping someone on my plate decides to shit test me just a little too hard or even just a little so I can walk. See what I'm made of and feel that freedom. Hearing other people talk about not taking any shit inspires.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:14 AM
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Well said. This goes back to expectations of women being why we are resentful. It is hard when all the media out there trains you to believe there is only one kind of relationship and that if it doesn't work like that then you fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:09 AM
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You get the point of the red pill. It isn't to shame other men or say my way is better it is to come together to share our experiences and in general work on self improvement and goal oriented attitude regardless of what those goals are.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:01 AM
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You guys truly inspire me. I may not ever adopt full withdraw but I embrace the essence of what you teach. My time is my only resource. I can buy great things with my time or I can squander it in the world of feminists that will suck me dry. Funniest thing is, at a certain age, when the women realize they did nothing with their lives and sleeping around in college because they liked the attention while they flunked out of lit, they will come crawling to you, successful and stable men since you c…
/r/MGTOW15/05/16 09:22 PM
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Very insightful, thank you I will try to up my game in that area.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 06:44 PM
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You examples of approval seeking behavior honestly describe how I have been in the past. This post really hits home. I have utterly embraced red pill, give me a few months and I'll be so deep I won't recognize myself.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 03:46 AM
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