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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:18 PM
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Yes, and that may be why we see an increase in certain mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:02 PM
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I mean, the chart in there agrees: women's fertility declines after 30. Things get harder biologically. The babies have greater chance of having health problems. It's harder to find a guy to settle down with for the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:50 PM
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Are you really not going to admit that fertility declines with age?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:16 PM
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A 30yo is a lot more aged than a 20yo. There are much better things you could have discussed with me FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:09 PM
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I mean I've stated what I feel twice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:24 PM
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I don't see how that translates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:45 AM
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I've had quite a few of them, actually, and a lot of them really don't know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:22 AM
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It is better that women take their time to mature more and grow and set themselves up financially before getting married and having kids. Is it? Evolution crafted women to get pregnant in their teens and early 20s. To choose to go against the very thing biology is trying to get you to do while discounting the impact this could have on your happiness seems like a questionable action to me. At the very least, you really cannot say that taking your time to get these major life events done is superi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:42 AM
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Okay, I barely know what you're saying, but I do suggest you read the last bit of my post again. I literally said she could absolutely lock down a guy better than myself. I'm not happy that this particular girl is not interested in me, but that's the way things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:01 AM
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You really did that? You're really going to waste time on me? I matter that much to you? By the way, I'm not eternally rejected, I don't know where you're getting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:57 AM
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I said men like you act like it’s a rare treat. I don't act that way and I don't believe that, so what the fuck are you talking about? If you don't believe me, then you're just being vindictive at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:52 AM
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If you are a woman I'd never date you. This is the most annoying comment I've read yet and it doesn't add anything to the conversation. And no, I don't think I'm a great catch. There's good and bad things about me like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:47 AM
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I'm not saying she should be into me at all. In fact, I've had a very stressful year and I wouldn't expect any woman to be into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:45 AM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:52 AM
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Oh you definitely assume being with you is of value by this drivel you wrote. That's not what you claimed before. You claimed that myself or men like myself think being in a relationship is a 'rare treat'. You also claimed that myself or men like myself believe we are valuable enough to assume any woman should want us. I never made that claim. I actually do have value to a number of women, and that's been proven plenty of times. And yes, I am alone and kinda miserable because of it. And the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:52 AM
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lmfao. One literally invited me back to her house. The other couldn't stop rubbing her body on me. And no, a 29 year old man such as myself has no interest in being in an age gap relationship with a 35 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:32 AM
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It doesn't make me feel better at all. It makes me feel worse, exactly like I said in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:25 AM
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Never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:24 AM
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Only two of the five were interested in me. No, I didn't claim those three wouldn't give me a shot. I was just making observations about their behavior and connecting it to my experiences with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:24 AM
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I've never written that, and I don't assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:22 AM
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She verbally stated once that she wanted a child. Every year that goes by it gets a little harder biologically. And there are fewer eligible men on the market. This is a woman who has a 100% chance of finding a great guy if she filters properly. Yes, I'd say she is gambling with her future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:22 AM
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Why do people keep saying I was after that Detroit chick??? Where is that coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:15 AM
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I wasn't leading any of them on. I weighed the option of the obese woman, but decided I didn't wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:15 AM
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I was only pursuing one of the women. Then I decided not to go all the way for political reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:12 AM
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I mean.. My SMV feels pretty low. But I just can't drop my standards down to obese, not smart women. Honestly, my SMV is probably higher than I think. It's just a lot of work to even find women in this town while I've got other priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:09 AM
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I don't have any fear of rejection when I'm in an environment where people are open to meeting others and I get to talk with the woman cordially first. Bars don't suit me. People get aggressive and I don't want the drinking lifestyle. It's just hard finding the right environment where there are ample eligible women to talk to if you're not depending on friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:11 PM
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Honestly, a post I rambled out at 1am doesn't say much about my mindset in real life. Many people here are jumping to conclusions in the very way they accuse me of doing I have many problems in dating that prevent me from even getting to the point where women can make a judgment about my personality at all, except maybe about the fact that I am fairly introverted in big groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:25 PM
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What's happened is that I've noticed a pattern and I am seeking further information.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:15 PM
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Um, yeah. Plenty of times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:14 PM
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Only in the same sense as a 20yo woman who attracts lots of attention from old creeps. The 20 somethings will bang me but it's a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:42 PM
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This information could become relevant to me in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:40 PM
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Like, they're not in my range in the same way Natalie Portman or Charlize Theron aren't in my range. They're hot and probably smart but they're too old. I'd date them if they were younger, actually. Except the obese gal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:26 PM
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Obesity is the biggest one. Badly handled mental illnesses are the second. Another one is negativity and lack of tact in situations that are supposed to be fun. Also, general lack of intelligence. Actually, that last one is pretty big.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:24 PM
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The point of my post was not to lament my shitty dating life, it was to express my observation that the single women in their 30s do not appear to be happy and I want to know what their future looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:20 PM
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The point is that I frequently encounter women who I would never consider dating because they've got major, major malfunctions. If I would definitely never date them, then the hot ass guys they are openly shooting for won't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:17 PM
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I am shallow to a certain point. We all are. But I'm not looking for a model. I want a normal and non obese woman. This woman was heavily biased toward very hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:13 PM
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They can both choose to remain single and be unhappy for remaining single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:08 PM
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I'm not gonna say that, but I'd never seriously date any of them except the enhanced Asian woman. She was nice to hang out with, and I can accept the enhancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:07 PM
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I don't think I've read a single comment from a self identified woman in this thread saying that they or some of their friends are unhappy for this very reason, even though these women are highly visible to me, a guy who gets out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:05 PM
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Yup. That's that's what I'm calling them. Their reproductive years are 3/5 over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:02 PM
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A lot of them are, or at least have expressed negative emotions about their situation in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:01 PM
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..And yet many are desperate and have verbally confirmed that in my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:01 PM
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I actually know a lot of women like this. Women on antidepressants. Women with a history of suicide ideation and maybe attempts. Addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:57 PM
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This makes less sense than you realize. People choose each other for looks and personality in a way that is complex and highly individual. People who are less shallow exist today, you just have to filter properly, no need to wait. That last one is a stat that probably applies to a particular demographic. Hard to draw conclusions from it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:56 PM
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Lol at that last part. That's plainly not what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:20 PM
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Oh, I've thrown up tons of red flags to her and that's def why she doesn't want me. It's been a stressful year inside and outside work. But broadly, I can't help but wonder why she's still single even though I think she has tons of good qualities. I keep wondering if she is going to become like these women I encounter more and more these days. And that thought troubles me on a number of levels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:15 PM
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Interesting perspective. This is what I'm here for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:15 PM
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Most men like younger women than themselves. Men generally prefer natural beauty. Men generally prefer non obese women. The first and third are basic things that are barriers to romantic connection. We all have our limits, and these are low standards that a lot of people can meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:14 PM
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Yes, but I want to know how this affects their behavior and we'll being as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:07 PM
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I'm solidly in the top 10% of Americans. I earn several times the median, and I have the potential to earn much more. I also live with my mom so I save a lot. It's not as large in my current city though. No, my income still does not matter to women as far as I can tell. I have a mix of good and bad in other areas. I'm looking for a non-obese otherwise average woman and I haven't succeeded this far
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:06 PM
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She doesn't like me at all, I know that. And yes, it does concern me what their inner lives are like because I am a single male who wants a partner. No, I'm not projecting my feelings onto a woman when she says she's unhappy about a guy going for the cute 27yo who is 'out of his league' instead of herself (35).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:01 PM
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I've encountered them in a variety of settings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:54 PM
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To me this just says that they've given up on relationships for whatever reason. I mentioned in my OP that one of the women said that much about herself and her female friends. She cites the lack of success with men. I'm sure there's other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:46 PM
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Best quality in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:41 PM
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I'm not so sure. From the science I've seen women get less happy as they age. Men get more happy. I'm wondering if the relationship stuff contributes a lot to that. And I'm wondering what the trend towards unstable and fewer telationships will do to society in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:41 PM
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No I don't believe that it's most women, but I feel like it's a good portion. And I feel like I'm starting to become aware of what that type of woman looks like at various age levels. The younger ones seem happier, the older ones are not happy. That's my perception based on my limited experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:38 PM
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Erm is that what it sounded like? The German lady and I were hanging out with the female friend she was travelling with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:35 PM
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Partly. I do adore that girl. But I was being earnest about everything I said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:33 PM
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I'll have you know that my ego has been ground down by repeated bad experiences with women my own age, but these 30+ women who I didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:41 PM
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Not what I said. Read again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:29 PM
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Getting women who meet my low standards is a laborious, soul crushing process that is often not even worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:29 PM
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I was in a situation recently where I was talking to a girl and then a guy literally comes up to us and says to the girl "You can come with us to bla bla bla," completely ignoring me. She ended up going with me to a thing, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:56 AM
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Honestly, I've never gotten the impression from any of the women I've been with or spent time around that income matters at all. Objectively, my income is within the top 10% for Americans (less meaningful here in Austin, I know), but no woman that I'm aware of has ever responded to the fact that I obviously make a lot of money. And men? IDGAF what they think about my income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:31 AM
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> "Oh, you know men, they just can't open up" This is the one that always gets a chuckle out of me. As a man, it can often be a very, very bad idea to open up with any emotion that is anything less than positive. If you are vulnerable with certain women, they will drop you almost immediately. It's happened to me several times. You're left unsure about whether you dodged a bullet or if all women are like that to some extent. > a cope for women who make excuses for guys who actually don't care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:31 AM
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Anywhere else? Do you think dating in Europe is easier in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:32 AM
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While most of the women are now shit out of luck and blew their chances to nail down a HVM before they had any competition for him. Where? I'm literally about to go to Europe for three weeks. I definitely wanted to at least sample the dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:13 AM
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Raises hand I myself am in the category of men who's had sex in the past year and is still incredibly unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:19 PM
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because men generally don't get a lot of women (even good looking guys ) This is false. In a world of dating apps, guys at the top of the looks range get an absolute tsunami of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:26 PM
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Sounds a bit narcissistic like you said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:05 PM
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This has happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:59 PM
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I've seen plenty of heavy women who go for men who are just... Never ever going to see them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:45 PM
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A soon to be doctor woman. Who wanted a man who made around half a million a year, same as what she believed she would make in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:44 PM
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Evidently you didn't read the through this place ..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:40 PM
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You know, this entire post is about why it can be difficult for men to bridge the gap between themselves and women. There are a lot of factors at play beyond one's quantity of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:13 AM
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Yeah, I just don't see the part about men only wanting sex expressed here. I'm sure it happens sometimes but I don't see it. I've been coming in and out of this sub for, like, years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:22 AM
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You are reasoning way too much about me personally. You are distracting from the point of what I'm saying. Why do so many people dump so much energy into finding partners if those people can be fulfilled on their own? Because a person's relationship with an SO is a unique sort of bond that provides special benefits. Why do humans feel romantic loneliness at all? Because nature endowed at least some of us with a particular kind of hole that you either fill or temporarily distract yourself from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:19 AM
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You keep repeating that while ignoring everything I'm saying. I cannot choose to be completely fulfilled without women. I cannot do it. It's not about waiting. It's not about changing my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:05 AM
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How I express myself on reddit doesn't affect real life, aside from those with the two people or so who have somehow discovered my reddit account because they have nothing better to do. In real life my interactions are quite varied. My interactions with women usually go alright. When they don't go so well, the women are as my much of the problem as I am. Often, when things go well, I'm doing all of the leg work. The end result is almost always the same: they don't see me in a romantic light. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:25 PM
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That's not my perception of the men here on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:19 PM
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What doesn't jive, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:52 PM
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I could, but not with women I had feelings for. Remember, the point I was making was that I am not frustrated at women's frivolous pursuit of casual sex because I am failing to get casual sex myself. I have a history of refusing casual sex with women that I don't care for. I'd be having more casual sex if it were a lot easier to get, but it would not fulfill me like a relationship would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:50 PM
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That 'many' was over an 11 year time span
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:48 PM
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I can't easily get sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:38 PM
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I earn a six figure salary, I work out regularly, I get out regularly, I have hobbies, I meet people and make friends any time I put myself out there. I am starting to travel again and those travels have been a great time. I'm actively trying to find women but they so far just don't see me that way no matter how good the interactions go. I will confess that I have my days or weeks where I'm very unhappy and lazy because I am deeply lonely in a romantic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:51 PM
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You don't get it. I can't choose to not have this desire and I can't choose to be completely happy without it. I can achieve a level of happiness without it, but life is still a lot better with it. Not to mention that having it can shore up a lot of deficiencies in other areas. If you don't accept this then I really can't explain it to you. My experiences will be corroborated by many if not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:33 PM
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I'll give you an n=1. I have turned many women for casual sex. I was almost completely indifferent to it in college. When I get it, it's not fulfilling. What I've always wanted is a fulfilling romantic and sexual relationship with a woman I enjoy being around. What I definitely do want is the power to choose this woman, and I will admit to using the ability to get sex from women as a proxy for how much power that I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:29 PM
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Part of my happiness is definitely bound to whether or not I'm getting love and sex from women. I think most men can relate. That's why men are so driven to get these things. What people don't understand is that women need men less than men need women. So you might be projecting your psychology onto me. Maybe you can be perfectly happy without love and sex from men, but I can't until something changes in me chemically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:21 PM
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Maybe standards don't change, but the ones who don't settle are the ones who have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:09 PM
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I mean, tons of men never wanted a culture of casual sex where they're on the losing end, but they had it foisted on them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:07 PM
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That's one of those statements that I just don't see the logic in. Who is deciding what the best version of myself is? If it's just me, then okay. But what if my standards don't get me what I need from women and I remain unhappy? If it's society, why do I care what society thinks of me? What am I getting from society? Am I getting society's approval? How is that different from doing stuff to get women to give me what I want? And why shouldn't I seek rewards from women? I am programmed to desire …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:06 PM
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For a lot of people, going out and 'socializing' in bars is often a boring, lazy, repetitive experience where you meet people who have no interesting thoughts in their heads, tell shit jokes, and somehow think they're at the apex of society. A similar experience can be obtained doing lots of activities that are 'social'. Or at least that is often my experience. It's no wonder that men might choose something that actually stimulates their minds over that. But I definitely agree that the challenge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:51 PM
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I mean, a lot of them have hobbies like drinking in bars, standing around or dancing badly at concerts, reading fiction. A lot of those women genuinely believe these activities make them better, more interesting people while simultaneously preferring men who actually do things mentally engaging and productive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:41 PM
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Certain problems during youth are becoming more common among both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:38 PM
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Oh God. Once I tried something different on OLD by listing the things I didn't want. Some woman matched me and said they were going to put my shit on her insta so her followers could trash me. That genuinely scared me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:35 PM
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Serious question: Would women today accept men who used makeup and had lots of plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:31 PM
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Bullshit. This world was thrust upon us before we had any concept of what was good for us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:30 PM
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They do. It's just that they set the bar a lot higher for men and act like they themselves are meeting it. I wanna say to them No, going to lots of concerts and museums doesn't make you that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:19 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:16 PM
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I'm lazy because my hard work doesn't get rewarded. I put in thousands of hours of work and suffering to get my degree and maintain a good job. Nobody cares. It's not enough. Maybe putting in another thousand hours into the gym would get me there, but maybe not. I'd still be 5'7.5 and I can't change that without hyper expensive surgery that would hurt my body. I'm also balding. And I'm not that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:12 PM
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Fatherlessness. My parents sucked. My mom had no ability to guide me. My father was a selfish, checked-out alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:02 PM
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I think this post captures the defects of men today. I definitely fall into most of these buckets in some way. But I will say that my good traits don't really seem to be rewarded. Trying to date is like getting kicked in the balls over and over again. To get motivated to do anything requires perceptible gain for effort put in. If women actually rewarded these things you'd see men improving like maniacs. And when I do get something, there's usually a major issue. A couple of girls were super into…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:37 PM
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Women's standards have increased because they have more education and career success than ever before and want men more educated and successful men than themselves. Many cities have more men than women due to the presence of certain industries. People are fatter and men are less tolerant of that than women. More time spent at home or working long hours. Lots of women just don't perceive male interests and activities as valuable. Women's perception of their own value has inflated because the inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:35 PM
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TL;DR: You're probably not as valuable as you think you are. You are probably more on par with your current partner than you realize. Your perceptions of what make people valuable is projection of what you yourself have developed to find valuable. None of the things you mention necessarily imply that a person has any desirable characteristics at all. Any fool can go to self help groups, read books, attend concerts, etc. And you have painted pastimes you believe men engage in a negative light, bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:16 AM
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What you've communicated to me thus far has adequately answered the question in the OP and we need not proceed further. But I do have a point to make. Of course women and men value different things in partners.... I just so rarely see guys who truly have looks, money/career, charisma/personality, and are good partners/empathetic, You've missed my point. If men and women value different things in their partners, and if one partner has a wrong idea of what the other values, then it is possible tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:26 AM
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So, what you've said is very interesting on a number of levels. I can't comment on how yourself and your friends actually compare to your partners without knowing you personally. What I do know is that when people claim to be x and x and x, they often don't have the traits in abundance that they say they do. Additionally, there is a strong disconnect between what the sexes value that seems to be skewing your perception. Being accomplished, having a graduate degree, going out and doing things tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:42 AM
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This is honestly horrifying. The amount of work involved to achieve that much muscle is completely insane and totally unsustainable for almost all of us. Is this really what pussy takes? Fuck this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:52 AM
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Really? That sounds like it could be a very high floor depending on how much of those traits you're looking for. Also, I have met very few women who are all of those things. I just got back from a 2 week trip to Canada where I met a couple dozen women. I'd say exactly none of them were all of those things. The difference between you and I is that I don't actually want a woman who is all of those things. I don't need a woman who makes lots of money or is super interesting and fun. I really just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:38 AM
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If we include very light abuse in that definition, then it is probably extremely common. Recently, I visited my brother and his family. His wife would frequently express frustration toward him for things that simply did not call for it. For example, there was a fly buzzing around the dinner table one night. She ordered him to kill it, then expressed frustration at him for failing to kill the fly with his hands the first and second times. This is forgettable when it happens just once, but when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:33 PM
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So do you think that alone is sufficient for a man to get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:52 PM
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Heh. I don't know about that, but I've had drunk women touch me inappropriately on several occasions, and I've seen it happen to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:51 PM
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This reminds me of that time I asked for consent before I kissed a woman sometime when that metoo stuff was going on. Night instaruined. As expected, as I've grown older, I've lost a lot of empathy for woman's problems... This is one of the things I hate about getting older. I liked it better when I was younger and more naive, but I keep seeing people create their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:49 PM
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The AF BB phenomenon to a tee. OP's girlfriend is masquerading as conservative sexually, waiting 1 month to kiss and 3 months to have sex. Only interested in vanilla sex with him. Yet, she had a threesome with a complete stranger at a frat party. She's only 24 so it can't have been that long either. I read to about here. I don't disagree that men get gaslit in these types of spaces, but I don't think this is a good example. IMO, the most effective thing a woman can do to filter out the horndogs …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:52 PM
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How many women are setting these filters?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:25 AM
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Different people seem to have different thresholds for this kind of thing. I've witnessed crude talk about the opposite sex from both sexes. I myself have gotten worse about this stuff over time in ways that I feel like I need to tone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:14 AM
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Nope. Women have no issues finding short term partners. But a lot of women today have major issues with finding long term partners. The prescription that I think is best for them is to give men a bit more leeway when it comes to the superficials. IMO, women's responsibility in dating is to enable men to put on their best performance, to give men a little leeway when it comes to small mistakes, and to give men a little more time to acquire more data points before they decide that he is unworthy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:19 PM
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Yes, and nothing in there asserts a belief that "You said men are allowed to not want to date ugly but women aren’t." I was saying that it might be a good idea for women to compromise a bit on physical attractiveness because they might wind up developing feelings for the man in the long term. As for men? Less of a good idea. I did make some errors when I was typing that up. Maybe that's the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:15 PM
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I didn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:12 PM
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I legitimately don't understand how this post relates to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:35 PM
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This may sound ridiculous, but the sensation of physical attraction is actually influenced by things other than physical appearance. I'm not going to explain the science so you'll just have to believe me. So if you have amazing chemistry with someone, it increases your physical attraction to them, making the premise of your question contradictory. The one thing I will point out about the science is that the act of repeatedly having sex with a woman increases a man's physical attraction to their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:43 AM
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Well, the disconnect is that a lot of men are considered unattractive when they actually do bring a lot to the table, whereas the fat single mother brings nothing to the table in the eyes of most men, and actually has a good chance of making his life worse. Furthermore, women's attraction psychology works differently than men's. They have a different outlook on physical attractiveness at different stages of the relationship. Physical attraction matters more to women early on in the relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:41 AM
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I dunno. I've seen morons and scumbags still get female attention for no other discernible reason other than the fact that they were physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:11 AM
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I actually do filter out a lot of people and I'm not getting attention from the women I'd like to date. But is it really realistic to tell someone like me that their standards should be lower? I've had a couple of fat single moms want to date me. To do that, I would probably be roped into acting like a father to some extent, which could lead to a drain on my finances with the law potentially getting involved. For what benefit to myself? To be with a person who is preoccupied with her children? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:27 AM
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With the appearance of confidence and an extroverted attitude, you can be accepted socially by attractive people, including women. But will those women fuck you? That's a different matter entirely to which I do not know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:21 PM
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Disagree. Hot dudes don't have to make good money to bang hot chicks in this market. My dating profile experiments tell me that women will simp for hot guys regardless off...anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:16 AM
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I wonder if these are college students
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:04 PM
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Beyond innovation, we still need armies of male technicians to support the tech. Men are stronger and tougher and more technically inclined than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:14 PM
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Hint: The less easy girls are still easier for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:48 AM
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There are consequences of men becoming disengaged, assuming that's what will actually happen to men. Society is increasingly technological. We need men to advance, build, and maintain tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:19 PM
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Do you live in a city or in a more rural area?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:18 PM
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Some of them will simply associate democratic politicians with the women that they know secretly hate them, and vote for republicans out of spite This is already the case among several men that I know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:17 PM
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Not that often. Most people's partner counts aren't that high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:24 PM
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The problem with this is that those numbers are for all people, not for the younger generations which are heavily impacted by shifts in behavior. Inceldom was a lot rarer ten years ago. We're going the way of Japan, where a lot of people never had that love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:06 PM
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The only thing this arguments shows is that you ignored reality and wanted to be in the clouds. Women are constantly lying to us about the reality and even stringing us along, and by the time we face the facts a lot of damage has already been done. And no, young, undeveloped boys cannot truly be held responsible for learning this by themselves. Society has a responsibility to educate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:16 PM
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Nations the world over are definitely beginning to feel the effects of declining population. There's a good argument to be made that Russia started its war with Ukraine because of its declining demographics. They are trying to capture bodies as well as landgrab a buffer zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:11 PM
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This is a good one, I've never made this connection before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:56 PM
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Purely? No. But it's a big part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:44 PM
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Do I really dislike feminism, or do the vast majority of women prefer talking about the Kardashians and thus I actually want more for them. I'm more feminist than them. I want them to try harder. Be more intelligent. BE my equal. I feel kicked in the gut whenever I think about this. I have a very, very powerful desire for a strong, confident woman who can be my equal or better. I want the kind of woman feminism tells women they should be, but they just aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:38 PM
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This is one of those things that is bizarre to behold. Everyone with two eyes and a brain sees that hot guys with absolute shit personalities get infinitely more action than the nice, hard working below average guy. Yet people still lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:10 PM
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Interestingly, I always got the impression that the one incel subreddit I wandered into had the clearest and most rational takes of all the subreddits in this space. It was also the funniest in the darkest way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:05 PM
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Exactly. The old slurs aren't acceptable anymore. People still wanted them though. So people along incel around
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:57 AM
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The word "incel" might just be the new "nerd". It seems like there's always a need for a word to capture the notion of a man who is unworthy of both love and respect. "Nerd" has been embraced by the culture as kinda desirable in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:53 AM
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IMO, the best way for a woman to stop fucking around and find a husband is to filter out all the horndogs by making them wait a little while. I am a man and I absolutely will wait for a woman I am genuinely emotionally attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:57 PM
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Boys need strong, competent, engaged men in their lives to teach them how to behave, and to encourage them to take emotional risks. And they need men who are equipped for the 21st century. That "make women feel loved and respected" stuff is not what boys need to get what they need from women. They need to be told that women today reward physical beauty and extroverted engagement with the world above everything else. I learned a long time ago that it was far easier to approach women when I had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:40 PM
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They... They can't.... That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:26 PM
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It's probably at least 50% who feel starved for sex. If you get laid a couple times a year, you're excluded from that 30% category.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:13 PM
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Do you actually meet people in bars and nightclubs and cafes? Because whenever I go to these places, all I see are groups of friends that are relatively closed off. It happens sometimes, but it's kinda hard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:46 PM
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You think so? Older folks have more resources and more established careers to raise kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:14 PM
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put himself out on the scene though What does that mean to you? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:07 PM
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This is the thing that hits me hardest: Women's romantic lives move so fucking fast that 1-2 days without that kind of stimulation is a long time to them. Meanwhile, I've had a crush on this one woman for months and months who has probably fucked multiple men in the interim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:59 PM
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I've gotten to a point that I'll at least give second and third thoughts to any woman that is not ooverweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:44 PM
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Which country? I'm thinking about a euro vacation pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:42 PM
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Isn't Mexico one of the fattest countries in the world? Maybe you were in a city
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:34 PM
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.you honestly wouldn't believe it... I think anybody in their late 20s who knows single women has seen this happen over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:31 PM
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Yes, it does apply to me. I don't deny that. I've lived a fucked up life and I've got fucked up problems that I've put in extraordinary effort to fix. Also, what I've said may seen obvious, but I don't think the extent to which this is true is obvious to a lot of people. Like, if you surround yourself with assholes, you might start thinking everybody's an asshole if you don't actively think about the fact that your environment is distorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:31 AM
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Maybe you're just low on hypergamy relative to the average woman Perhaps a better way of putting it would be to say that the average woman is hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:33 PM
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This is an interesting point. Socioeconomic status does not necessarily translate into the kind of status that would trigger a woman's hypergamous instincts. If that were true, then all those well-off software engineers would be swimming in it. It's a man's ability to gain esteem among his peers that is more likely to trigger those instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:32 PM
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There will always be quality people who wind up back in the dating pool for various reasons, and some of us mostly-singles will correct course and become good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:16 PM
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I never said that hypergamy is a RP concept, just that RPers are the ones who endorse it as reality and are complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:07 PM
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I'm a 29 year old male, single. I have major issues that stopped me from getting into a good relationship. I have made progress in working through those issues and I do feel like I'm more and more capable of having a relationship. I find that the phenomenon I described in my post is actually comforting. Keeping it in mind helps me understand that there are plenty of good women out there, I just keep encountering the ones who aren't so good. Additionally, there is a reason why I'm single beyond m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:46 PM
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You're right, but the RPers are the ones going around actually talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:08 PM
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Almost all of those are nice to haves for an average ish man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:08 AM
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The science says that looks matter less the longer you know somebody before a relationship begins. It also says that looks matter less for women long term and that physical attraction matters for men throughout the entire duration of the relationship. Even more, the science says that physical attraction is influenced by factors other than beauty. People focus on beauty as much as they do because men and women don't spend as much time together through work, activities, etc. and OLD encourages us …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:19 AM
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agreeableness is the area I scored the very lowest (like the super bottom of the low This doesn't mean I'm nagging or difficult. It just means I'm highly assertive, I know when to say yes/no, and I know how to pick my battles. If you actually score that low, then you're selfish, untrusting, and aggressive. That's literally what the trait says.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:36 AM
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We had a good time, but I don't believe she saw it as a date.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:56 AM
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Dawg, I think this might be one of the most true things I've ever read in these subs. Men have to break the rules a little if they want to be happy. Women do not understand what it is to be men. They don't have our interests at heart. Their rules make us suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:37 AM
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The preference is definitely there, but I genuinely have no idea how strong the preference is compared to anything else nor do I understand how universal the preference is (compare to something like the male preference for waist to hip ratio). I've seen quite a number of attractive women with men who aren't particularly tall. Assuming they're not all friend pairings, the lack of height doesn't seem to be a total dealbreaker for plenty of women. Also, I, a 5'7.5 male, was able to attract TONS of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:24 AM
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Honestly, it's really hard to meet chicks in bars around here. The ratio is completely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:29 AM
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I don't care about race. I don't know where you've gotten that. I do care about passing on genes of smart, kind, resilient people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:10 AM
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Alright. Then I guess climate change doesn't matter. I guess it's okay to let democracy decline. None of it will matter after we're dead, right? The human race is fucked, so why preserve anything for our descendants, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:08 AM
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I made the point in the op that the desire for sex and the desire for children are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:06 AM
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The west is declining in birth rate, and the world does not share our values. If our way is good, then we should bend the parts of our culture that don't work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:05 AM
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Nope, my concern is broader
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:03 AM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:08 PM
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First of all, I don't care if anyone I'm talking to is a woman or not. And who's bullying who? If someone doesn't understand what I'm actually arguing, then I'm going to tell them about it. The individual above seemed to suggest that her being childless and happy somehow contradicted my post. Actually, women's happiness has nothing to do with my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:28 PM
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Where are those stats and data?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:21 PM
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I'm obsessed with childless women because I am obsessed with the future of my society and my species. No children = no future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:10 PM
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A woman's individual happiness isn't the issue. A woman can be quite happy without children. I'm sure there are people out there who are happy smoking crack or playing video games to their grave, or following some other null obsession. But those people are degenerate. How they act isn't congruent with a society that can sustain itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:07 PM
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Just because they don’t want them it doesn’t mean they don’t want social interaction. I'm happy to chat with you if you look up the term "antisocial" and pay attention to the context in which I'm using the term and reform your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:54 PM
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Men tend to want children more than women because men have a stronger desire to pass on their genes. Absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:56 PM
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From your comments, I really don't think you did get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:16 AM
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One of those things is not like the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:15 AM
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Those hormonal changes may yield permanent biological changes. That would certainly make sense from an evolutionary standpoint. You’ve clearly never known anyone who was pressured into motherhood and surprise surprise hated the role Whether or not I do, it doesn't matter. I'm considering species-level trends, not anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:35 AM
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You're completely missing the thought I'm trying to entertain in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:31 AM
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I'll check in with you in another 15 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:22 AM
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The thought that I'm entertaining here is that pregnancy lifts women into a new life stage: motherhood. Avoiding pregnancy means that a lot of women will never reach that life stage. Whether or not that changes her subjective experience for the better is besides the point. From an evolutionary standpoint, those women are dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:12 AM
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They are genetically human, but the biological consequences of living in the 21st century may make them think, feel, and behave in a way that is so far removed from the way women in ages past did so that they are women in name only.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:57 AM
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I don't know what part you're having trouble with. Women were much more likely to have biological children than men. Evolution should have pushed both sexes to perform behaviors that led to reproductive success. Men don't succeed as much as women. So it's harder for men to reproduce than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:54 AM
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> You seem to think that women don't know exactly what they want or why People cannot fully predict what they will want in the future. They cannot. That's why people change majors, careers, SOs, and just about everything else. People change. People's attitudes towards ideas, things, and other people change. And people are also often very regretful of the things they did or didn't do in the past. Perhaps I should clarify my statement above: I have absolutely no doubt that women know whether or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:50 AM
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My statement draws from the fact that, in terms of human evolutionary history, there are far more biological female ancestors than male ancestors, meaning that it was harder for men to reproduce. I believe the same is true today, though things have likely changed quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:11 AM
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One of my suggestions is that women actually CAN'T understand whether or not they want children or would be good mothers until they have them, since carrying a baby to term, among other possible biological vectors, may configure women into a different biological life stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:07 AM
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Evolutionarily it wasn't easy. This is proven by looking at the quantity of male to female ancestor ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:05 AM
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The 'script' I refer to is evolution's plan to increase the probability of reproductive success if there is any chance of success whatsoever. I suppose I should take back my comment about evolution having no script for childless women. It does have a script but one that is on a null loop. Evolution should push those women towards greater and greater promiscuity to maximize the probability of a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:03 AM
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Would it be a good thing for society to accept spinsters? Women are the ones who ultimately make the next generation, and, if the human species having a future is a good thing in your mind, then a kind, smart childless woman is potentially robbing the future of one or more kind, smart people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:54 AM
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I'm glad you mentioned this because I need to clarify something. I'm actually not saying that childless women have better or worse lives, in spite of what some of my wording may suggest. I am suggesting that their childlessness is actually causing them to experience life in a way that is fundamentally different than women experienced in ages past. They are not women or even human in the same way that their grandmothers were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:52 AM
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It’s not “very easy” for a fertile woman to get pregnant (and also keep the fetus); you have about 30% during ovulation or something. Relative to men, it's lightyears easier for a woman to have a biological child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:47 AM
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A lot of what people call 'game' is just preventing the woman from being scared off at any point during the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:06 PM
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Interesting... I've always gotten the sense that foreign women treat me WAY better than American women, whether they're from the west or the east.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:51 PM
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Yeah, if there's a direct contradiction of interests like that then the men should bug off. But you'd be surprised how often persistence can turn a woman around. Usually doesn't work but it does sometimes, and that's enough make a few more passes at a particular woman after waiting a little while. When it comes to women, 'No' this day or this week or this month actually doesn't mean 'no until the end of time'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:50 PM
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Where do you live? Dating has been a bitter struggle where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:45 PM
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Women have always been fickle, but they'd eventually let a few motivated men through the screen almost as a courtesy. Seemed to be how our fathers did things, anyway. Urbanisation and the internet have ruined this completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:42 PM
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Men have no problem speaking over women while women will not interrupt men in the same way. Women have done this to me, a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:26 AM
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I'm going to put it bluntly: Very few trans people are capable of fooling cis people, and trans people fall into the uncanny valley for many cis people. I am a long haired male. Even I get that reaction from a lot of normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:26 AM
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I'm sure men and women get treated differently, and I'm sure trans people get treated differently. I just don't take trans people's anecdotes about what it's like to be the opposite sex seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:16 AM
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I don't believe it from anecdotes alone. The experiences of a trans person should not be taken to be representative of the experiences of a biological member of that sex. Hate to say it, but people will not react the same way to a trans person as they will to a biological. Also, I have, as a man, experienced being treated like trash on many, many occasions by men and women. In fact, lately, I feel that I've had a bigger problem with the women at work treating me weirdly. As in, I've had women ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:07 AM
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Hypergamy. It's called hypergamy. It has been talked about ad nauseum in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:40 AM
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Probably true, broadly. But I meet plenty of flawed, but good quality people who are single beyond 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:29 AM
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Neither strategy is 'better' because they do not conflict with one another. You can do both at the same time. Also, I'm not sure my standards can get any lower without abusing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:57 PM
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Not gonna buy it. There’s little actual change, only more freedom to express the same emotions that they have been going through since the 70’s I have no hard evidence beyond a lifetime of anecdotes that I can offer you, but I'll say this: We know that women are somewhat flexible with who they are attracted to. We know that women prefer men who are taller than themselves. If a woman is tall, she has fewer options for fulfilling that part of her psychology, so she is forced to lean on the other s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:35 PM
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Here's what I want to know: Why do so many women feel entitled to men's tax dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:19 AM
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When I was younger, it genuinely seemed like women were less interested in appearance. I feel that we should not underestimate the degree to which women, today, have changed in response to the influence of social media and technology broadly. For example, I feel that it is possible that women's hardwired preferences for certain bodies and faces now overlap with status signals. Being athletic, tall, well-groomed, good skin, are all now indicators of status as well as indicators of good health and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:11 AM
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I honestly have no idea how strong the relationship is between n-count is to any personality feature that I would care about. A high n-count woman could be getting peer pressured into behavior she finds unnatural. She could also be in a gender-skewed environment like a university. Maybe you have an average 'good girl' who gets addicted to the high of sleeping with top 10% men when she wouldn't otherwise. A man might want lots of sex, but can't get it. I personally have serious anxieties about so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:47 PM
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I see women as individuals who should be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. We all have wacky beliefs. Some of which are actually true. So no, I'm not going to dismiss a woman just because she subscribes to a particular belief set (within reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:24 PM
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Most of the engineers at my workplace have SOs. They're not super attractive, but they're mostly looksmatched. As for those engineers who don't have SOs, I'm pretty sure it's just because they're not that attractive to women physically or in terms of their personality. I don't think it has that much to do with stigma attached with in certain fields. Nobody is saying 'no' to Henry Cavill, for example. That said, the trappings of STEM and nerddom certainly don't do us any favors. I've never met a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:14 PM
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It’s not like she’s losing anything by not getting to be in a relationship with those men Debatable. She could be training herself to only be satisfied with very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:23 PM
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I think we underestimate the degree to which women were capable of feeling attracted to men in older days. I don't think women decreased interest in men is because they are pursuing only the men they are 'legitimately' attracted to. For example: We know that women are hypergamous. Women were of lesser status in the past. Therefore, the portion of men that could satisfy their hypergamny was higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:23 PM
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> most women have less casual sex than men. Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:04 PM
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I think men think average women are getting above average men. I see it go both ways and I don't get out enough to figure out the pattern closely. To be clear, I see good looking people of both sexes out with less good looking partners. I see short guys with hot girls. I see average men with not-so-average women. What I DO see, however, are legions of single, frustrated men and not-so-great single women ignoring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:00 PM
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I think it is because they care about money due to knowing what true poverty is like and to them a nerd is going to have money. No, I don't think so. Even European and Japanese women have treated me a lot better, as well as foreign women who had no chance of locking me down in a relationship due to the circumstance of us both being travelers. The common denominator is the women not being from the US, not poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:03 AM
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People have always kinda hated PUAs. You apparently haven't paid attention these past 15 years. Even someone like me, who sees the utility in a lot of the stuff they teach, gets irritated at all the wannabe PUAs out at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:43 AM
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and also hate nerds Interestingly, I seem to get treated WAY better by foreign women. Like, night and day difference. I honestly wonder if it's because there isn't as much nerd stigma as there is in the U.S. I'm going to travel out of the country this year and one of the things I hope to discover I've literally had women clearly wanted to have sex with me who then did a 180 once they found out I sometimes play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:31 AM
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