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Donot date these women from metropolitan areas. They are as bad as their western counterparts. Only from small towns. Hard rule
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 01:09 PM
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Motherfucker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 12:31 PM
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Then why to women cheat on men in the military and cops?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 04:31 AM
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Who cares. Just keep smashing.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:53 AM
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If you gave her shit after breakup, you would never live down the shame. You would be up there in the hall of fame with beta bux. Mine needed the money to pay salon bills. She was getting her hair done and had half the 1500 dollar bill. Hit me up for the rest. Fuck her to be honest. She wasnt a gold digger while she was with me. Always paid half or close to it. I was baffled by the request and inclined to give her the money but my redpill mental conditioning told me it's good money down the drai…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 01:46 AM
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Obviously. She realised he was a simp as soon as he put his life on the line for her mother. Not even her. Her mother. She realised given a chance he would even die for her. Then who provides for her for the rest of her life? Should she whore herself out to feed her children and herself after he's dead? She chose the right option. In another news my ex asked me for 750 dollars (after she brokeup with me over the phone and refused to meet me) and I told her we were exs and not friends so she can …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 07:10 PM
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Same. Kept asking me to marry her or atleast discuss. I kept deflecting. Eventually she became bitchy and started finding faults in random things to justify her eventual plan. She broke up. No matter what she says she brokeup because I was too dismissive about her marriage conversations. I didn't want to be the beta male provider. Lol
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 08:00 AM
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True words. She once broke up with me and i instantly blocked her everywhere. She regretted it the same day and wanted back but I didn't speak to her for 10 days as red pill says she needed consequences. I gave her that. She came back more submissive. But never let go of the fact that I blocked her. I told her it was her own fault. She said she knew that but me blocking her showed her I can't handle things. She was very hurt by me blocking her. I had to since she was trying to explain shit to me…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 07:51 AM
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Cut your losses. You now have a problem on your hands. If you take her back you'll develop an scarcity mindset 'about her'. You won't be able to dump her if she makes inexcusable mistakes. You'll always wonder if you go too far she might go to that other guy. This is called dread game and the one playing it will be her.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:58 AM
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It happens. Sometimes the the facade shatters in a few months sometimes in a few years. I have had girls literally tell me that they'd kill themselves if I leave them. Eventually they were the one's who left. Not me. So it's all just love bombing. Women feel things in a moment and verbalise it. That doesn't mean they won't cheat or tell you to fuck off 2 months later. You could be hardcore red pill and they might find it attactive at the start and be dejected after a year or 2. My ex told me she…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:51 AM
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Mate guarding. My only crime. Told my ex she can't be friends with a guy from bumble she met before me. She said he's just a friend and has no value. She wanted me to trust. Lead to a huge fight. Took her 8 more months to break up but she did
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah getting the last word in has lead to my doom too. This lead her to believe that I don't handle situations well. Lol. I am the most level headed guy. Losing frame even 1-2 times can activate light switch
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:04 AM
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Don't worry she could not have had guy friends and still be texting old hookups. The girls I meet now 25-29 range, most of thier friends are from bumble or hookups. I mean wtf. My ex broke up with me because I told her she can't hangout with bumble friends from the past. Since then I have dated a few girls and all of them had bumble guy friends they probably hooked up with. I have started to believe that it's the norm now.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:00 AM
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What i used to do is try to win the argument. If she would bring up complaints I would bring up my complaints. She would get pissed and would ask me to complain as soon as I feel something not when she is complaining. What I feel is that if the attraction is high you can murder someone and they'd help you hide the body. What needs to be understood is that we aren't the only people at fault and 'chicks be crazy'. I complained about her behaviour too. But I was calm. She was already pissed with me…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 04:01 PM
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We have all been that beta. I was 20. She fucked her ex who was 30. I had hella game & abundance mentality and that's how I pulled her. Once she cheated and I found out, she tried to be friends. I went no contact for 2 months and then relapsed. She kept calling and I kept writing long sonnets about how much I loved her. Eventually we hung out a couple of times and I was disgusted by her mere presence. She didn't want to be togather but wanted to be friends. Every time she spoke I wanted to slap …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 02:42 PM
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She monkey branches when she's around 45-50 because she gets introduced to eat pray Love & her friends are getting divorced (probably not out of choice) and projecting a life of freedom and party to them. They feel it's thier last chance to see what's out there before they turn literal grandmas
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 02:31 PM
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How did you break frame? Did you complain about your problem?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 02:29 PM
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How magnanimous of her
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:16 PM
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Probably a girl answering it or someone virtue signalling
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:14 PM
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When Hihihi was the worst part.
/r/seduction26/12/21 12:54 PM
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He didn't do anything wrong. You don't know if there were physical signs of escalation. Only OP knows. You don't want to end up like Aziz Ansari where the chick accused him of making her uncomfortable after she already had his dick in her mouth. She says "after some sexual activity, I started to feel uncomfortable. He's asked me to perform sex on him once more when I refused he called me a cab". Result- His successful and critically acclaimed tv show on Netflix cancelled and he had to go undergr…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 04:12 AM
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Females think you are a mind reader. I'll tell you by experience- tell her honestly how you feel about the situation. Remember she won't acknowledge you feeling because she's a chick. So don't be angry if she keeps blaming you. Then let her reflect on it. She might get back to you or she won't because"something just doesn't feel right" or "something is just missing". Once you have said your piece don't argue. Let her blame you. If you argue you "just don't get it" in womenise. Reachout to her ag…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 04:06 AM
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Those are some weird dynamics or some new age bullshit
/r/askTRP13/11/21 08:01 PM
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Don't as don't tell policy. But if she tell you it's 24, I bet you'll have atleast a couple of sleep less nights
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:52 PM
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This. That is a major red flag of she still wants to have dinners with casual partners from the past
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:46 PM
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Like bro!! Why do you keep harping about the same thing. We are glad you are happy with a body count of 30. Maybe she's a nice girl but some people aren't. Some aren't happy with "their" gf having casual sex since they get paranoid about it and lose peace of mind. Some aren't comfortable with dating past cheaters. Now you might also have a theory about "how cheating makes a girl grow" so she won't cheat again but that doesn't give some peace of mind. The fact is "some" people don't want to lose …
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:43 PM
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You don't have to. It's not as if I am browbeating you into doing something. We are entitled to our own opinion
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:46 PM
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Not burned at all. You are casually forgetting you are not an AI which is being replicated like terminator all over the world. Just because you are an outlier doesn't make everyone so. Also relationship have ups and downs. The true nature only appears when it's down. Everything is hunkdory when it's on a high. Past character is always a good indication of future behaviour. It's easier to hop away if you have done so many times. It's harder if you don't even know how. The attachment is strong whe…
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:16 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's 7 or 10 or 12. If you are comfortable it can be 30. It's all about your comfort. Even being a hypocrite isn't wrong per se. To hell with morals if you can't sleep at night. Don't let some inexperienced lefty loonies who might not have been in a proper relationship tell you otherwise. Some people have been in a FWB but would prefer their gf hasn't been in one. It's not wrong to think like that since morals and desires hardly reconcile ever. You might want to feel a certa…
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:55 PM
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If it's ok with you then who am I to judge. She anyway got that experience somewhere. It's just people who gave her experience don't have to be in a relationship with her. But if she's a nice lady for you then it's all cool I guess. Whatever you can live with is cool
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:49 PM
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As long as you are happy I guess it's all fine. You have to live with her not us. If she makes you happy then she's the one.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:46 PM
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You seem to be a child lurking over here. Get some experience with women. You will realise there's nothing wrong with what I said. Facts cannot be denied. Feeling don't matter
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:43 PM
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It's not how many she slept with. It's why. Were they FWB. Were they ONS. Were they all bfs. If yes then why did they break up with her or she with them. Do you seriously believe a person goes through 7 or 10 boyfriends? Why aren't the relationships lasting. If you have been in a relationship you will know 6-9 months is the honeymoon period. Are the relationships falling apart as soon as that is over? Can be seriously believe none of the relationships lasted a couple of years? These are pertinen…
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:37 PM
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This. Some who usually indulges in casual sex but wants to be with you in a relationship instantly has nothing but sex to offer or that's what they think. They think relationship will start after sex and when it doesn't they move from one to another.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:31 PM
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You are rationalising just so we can tell you it's all ok. Why do you even ask a question if you want to argue against an answer. Seems like you mind is already made up. You are going to do what you want regardless
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:28 PM
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That's what women want you to believe. Having sex with people isn't an issue. Getting fucked by a whole city is another. FWB and ons are another issues. You don't want women who yolo. Because they will never stop and eventually will fear their passing youth and would want to live it up
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:21 PM
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Don't let the flowery words of captain save a Ho's tell you what to do. Just because something works someone doesn't mean they work for you. You shouldn't ask or tell but if they actively inform you then you should only accept what you are comfortable with. Eg; there never really a real FWB. one is always more invested than the other. Now imagine if it was the guy or your gal. If it's her she will be always open to his charms with "what ifs" whenever things with you are a little bad. Decide Simi…
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:18 PM
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Have you not heard John Mayer sing " anything other than a yes is no, anything other than stay is go" . You have your answer. If she's not chasing you (even if she's your girlfriend) you are chasing her. Which is always a pitiful place to be. It's either she lovingly complains and chases you or you keep your emotions in check and go about your day. Don't you ask her again or double text. Shes gotta respond first or you will lose respect
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:52 PM
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I don't need dating advice bro.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:48 PM
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Thanks man. I'll have just force myself into doing the above things until I get into a habit. Hopefully I will feel better.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:24 PM
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Around 70k per year. It was low since I just got out of college and had no experience. I could have done so well if I just applied myself. I gradually let the time go by
/r/askTRP18/03/21 02:41 PM
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Lol. Why so edgy man? Are you a 35 yrs old?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:37 PM
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Man I have started hating women. It feels like they are always trying to take my freedom away while they do whatever they want. I have let go of so many opportunities to bang women who were an upgrade on my gfs and in turn the said gfs would emotionally cheat all the time at with classmates and work peers. Guys buying them 'coffee' just to talk to them and falling in love with my gfs. While I am not even allowed to have a platonic relationship just based on texts msgs. It's fucking bullshit. It'…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:31 PM
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Oh they want to bro. They just want me to agree that I won't waste their time if they don't make any incurable mistakes. I chick told me she was tired of guys wasting her time by going on dates and eventually she finds out he just wants to be alone for a while.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:12 PM
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Unnecessary verbal abuse. You have no idea how I deal with them. Bitches are going mental due to covid etc. They want a reassurance that I won't waste their time. Which I am know to do. Although not to them but I guess they can sniff it
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:10 PM
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Bitchs be crazy man. You never know until your dick is in one and then you try to walk back
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:08 PM
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Bitch might cut me up later
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:59 PM
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Well bro most gatekeepers aren't letting me in without lying. And I am no Leonardo dicaprio. I lie I get sex. I don't . No sex.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:59 PM
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How do I sleep with them without false promise?
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:29 PM
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There were in hindsight. But I over looked because the sex was the best of my entire life
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:56 PM
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No. Never asked.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:22 AM
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Ok bro. Done. How do I demote her? Should I keep whispering sweet nothings and let her stay comfortable and eventually ditch her. I spend no money on her at all and she doesn't stay with me so I guess I can also keep side pieces
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:04 PM
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So plate or tell her to fuck off? How do you demote a gf to plate without her finding out. Since I spend no money on her at all, should I just let it stay the way it is for now until I have better prospects to choose from?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:02 PM
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No bro different girl. I just asked because we broke up but that saga hasn't ended.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:32 PM
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24
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:13 PM
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I suspect the list is of the sex lineup. I am not sure. But my gut says that.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:45 PM
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/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:43 PM
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It's alright. Watching hoes beg and plead does sooth your pain a bit. It's also helps you move on knowing they still want you 'if' they can have you. The more they squirm and beg the more respect you lose for them and when they start hamstering and blaming you for their fault you know she belongs to the streets
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:32 PM
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Yes to all of the above. Although you are obviously interested if you are hanging out with her. Just don't over do it by complimenting her needlessly. Just be a bit pre occupied. As if you are just so amused by shit going around you that you don't even care that you are on a date. Behave as if you have known her for a while and act accordingly. Don't talk about any negative shit like politics etc. Play some arcade games with her in the "play area" of the mall. You will come out looking like a co…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:25 AM
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Next time take them to a mall. Get them a coffee and walk around commenting on ppl and stuff on display (dont be mean). Keep it easy going. DONT ASK personal questions or display a lot of interest. Just walk around talking about random stuff what ever comes to your head like you dont even care she is a chick. Go to some thrift shop and buy her a hair band or a keychain or something. Something really cheap like 2-3 dollars etc. (Something to reminder her of you when she leaves) Go to a spectacles…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:17 PM
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She won't come over to my place to hang for the first time. She wants to meet outside but I don't want to spend any money on a flakey bitch. Should I risk it or nah?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:16 PM
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Fuck her man. I was having a hard time after my break up. Then I had a chick who wanted to date me for a while come over and fuck my brains out on valentines day after she found out I was single again. Didn't even have to buy her dinner. Just gave her half a bottle of leftover vodka and some chips. Also half a packet of M&M (chocolate flavor). I felt nothing for her but nutting in her (twice) boosted my confidence. Now my ex wants to come back but I feel nothing for her. My mind has been made up…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:13 PM
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Okay. That was a mistake. I won't do that now. Should I still ask her out even though she didnt even mention it since last Thursday. We haven't spoken since then.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:29 PM
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Rational Male and 3% Man
/r/askTRP23/02/21 05:13 PM
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Never posted about her before
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:59 PM
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You probably don't want to know. If she was comfortable she would talk. Chicks are talkers. Don't pry her open until she wants. Why take her trauma yourself
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:42 PM
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It won't work. It fits bubba. Go waste someone else's time
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:52 PM
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Lol. You rationalising your inherent homophobia and trying to pass it off as an insult. Laughable joker
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:49 PM
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Haha. Elaborate pls
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:48 PM
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Hamstering lol
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:48 PM
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Using gay as an insult is so 1990s. You know it's not a crime to be gay right grandpa? Homophobia isn't a virtue jackass.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:45 PM
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Nah. I don't think so. You are just hurt by my comment so trying to hurt me back. Go to sleep grandpa
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:39 PM
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I removed wife because I doubt someone would agree to be with you bro. Mom is a guarantee since I was inside her. Haha
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:32 PM
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Ask your mom bro
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:29 PM
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Because I tricked the chick. While she agreed to become his whore. I wonder if my fwb calls it fwb. I doubt it.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:42 PM
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Man if she becomes a gf she eventually wants to marry. And you can't tell her you won't because she had an fwb. But I seriously wonder if she specifically classified him as that then it's a red flag. She could have said we dated and it didn't work out. What kind of weird fucked up post truth world is this that she has to call him that. It means they just met for fucking. Which is kind of distasteful if you want a LTR
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:41 PM
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That's why I am hereto ask this question.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:27 PM
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Lol. What kinda retarded advice is that? He's with a hoe.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:46 PM
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Tell her to organise your cupboard. And clean the plates and cups. I get my plate to clean utensils after I ordered food from outside lol
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:35 PM
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Not cohabiting. She just comes over sometimes and stays over for a day or 2. I have demoted her from relationship material to just someone I might fuck somewhere down the line with no repercussions. So streets or no streets? I fear attachment
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:33 PM
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How is it done than bro ?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:09 AM
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I don't know man. I haven't been in that many. Only 2.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 04:30 AM
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Lol still the chick thinks it's immature that I blocked her. She expected more maturity and a civil discussion over her telling me "I don't think we are right for each other". Who got time for that kind of negativity. I suffer enough being on my grind.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 04:29 AM
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Bro how about I just get set up through church or something? That's an option for me. Tired of these hoes. I don't mean a bible thumper but I am from a small town and women there although aren't as hot in the instagram sense as big cities but they are quite homely.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 04:25 AM
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I tried that bro.when a chick broke up i blocked her all over when she went mental over it and begged me to take her back I said no she would occasionally call me every other day wanting to fix it. Eventually I said ok after like a week she begged me. Later she called me and said she didn't want to get back together right now since she had to study. Lol
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:51 AM
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Lol. You are at the wrong sub bud. Visit blue pill. They'll definitely validate your blunder and coax you into even more blunders .
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:09 PM
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Bro, power dynamics have been irreparably damaged. She will always know you love her more. She didn't win you. You just fell on her lap. She's some amazing unicorn that you never met before. Wait for shit to go down which it eventually will and see how she reacts. It's gonna be a shit show.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:08 PM
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You are just fooling yourself if you think you don't need a reply to your I love you. Or maybe you just jumped out of romeo and juliet
/r/askTRP16/02/21 09:02 PM
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Lol you are so fucked. Do you even know how fucked you are? Did you just watch love actually ?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:59 PM
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Time will pass and she'll age. And she'll age worse. Let him enjoy his young puss.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:58 PM
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Lol would the age gap be better if she was 30 and he was 40 ?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:53 PM
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Man it's so fucking hard to deal with all this drama. I wonder if being a simp is better. Simps are in multi year relationships and id throw a party if mine lasts 2 years with all the bullshit women keep pulling.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:52 PM
1

Again ? So what? All he wants is more sex and some semblance of physical fitness. He isn't looking for stimulating conversation
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah I tell them the same thing. I just say "you said I don't want to be with you or we aren't right for each other and I cant be with someone who isn't sure and doesn't want me". They answer "you could have tried to make me" "you could have told me you love me and can't see me go". I blocked a chick and she went mental because I didn't have a conversation with her after she told me it's over. She wants back but keeps accusing me of not loving her enough .
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:47 PM
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So what?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:41 PM
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But these things should not concern you because vetting is not that easy and women are great liars
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:14 AM
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Bro believe me if you stay with her the baby daddy will never be out of the picture. You guys fight she will go running back to him. You raise his child still will have no say in his upbringing. And if the child turns out to be an asshole he will just tell you to stop disciplining him since you aren't his father even though you pay for the food in his mouth. There will always be a man around that she loved enough to marry and have a child with. Don't do it bro. And from your post I can see there…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:05 AM
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It will take time. You have to look for things you got out of that relationship. Did you want sex? Did you get an insane amount? Did you get to do the kinky stuff? See you have to find things you got out of it to tell yourself that it wasn't time wasted. I had a FWB. We maybe fucked 5-6 times tops over a span of 2 years. Most of the time I didn't even fuck her. Id take her to a hotel and she would blow me twice in the night. We'd watch a movie and go to sleep. No cuddling. When she started fucki…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:53 AM
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They do it so you don't find out something through the grapevine and explode. They want you to explode now when feelings aren't involved. My guess- she had done a lot of things before that you would hate to find out. She will trickle truth you over months to improve your tolerance. Eventually you will delude yourself into believing that's it's very common and everyone does it. You will look for example similar to her in real life to validate what she did was ok. It's not a big deal perse to stay…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:38 AM
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I don't get that at all. She most probably didn't just kiss him
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:35 PM
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They are all sluts. My ex disappeared for 2 days came back and broke up with me. Told her to take a hike she again came back begging. Didn't take her back. No crying would help her. Told her to come over so we can be casual and just fuck. She refused. I said bye bye. You need to fuck her and then dump her to the side of the road. She literally cheated. Or maybe in your dictionary she will only be a cheater if she admits to deep throating a guy. I broke up just based upon suspicion and you need a…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:35 PM
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I think you are right. Have to start somewhere. Or days will pass and it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. I have to take action now. Do you think I should just give up on girls for a while? I was just trying to sleep with as many as I can to alleviate my suffering. It hasn't helped. I have dates lined up for the coming weekend.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:17 PM
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Man I have nothing else. My LTR imploded. I dont feel like fucking new girls even if opportunity presents it self. It's seems like too much of a chore to behave like a dancing monkey to amuse them and seduce them to get them on my bed. I quite my job to study for this. Can't go to the gym due to pandemic. Although I try to excerise at home. Money isn't a big motivation to be honest since I have seen it doesn't bring much happiness and I have saved up a lot of it while I was working. I don't have…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:04 PM
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Every girl wants something for birthdays and anniversaries. It's the fact that she actively cribs about it is a cause for concern. Mostly chicks will have a sour mood that's all.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:57 PM
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Doing anything for money is kind of sketchy. I will have severe doubts if someday she would even become a prostitute if things turn sour financiallyinstead of like being a waitress. Don't get too deep. Keep fucking her but donthave children. She will never be able to instill good values in them
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:54 PM
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She's a bit bitchy to be honest. No girl worth her salt will constantly complain about material goods. Although you should still get them something. Don't marry her. She won't let you rest and the cost of gifts will keep on increasing
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:49 PM
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How is she a slutbro
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:44 PM
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Should have took pictures and made videos when you banged her. It's always nice to whack off to those later when you are a bit down.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:43 PM
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Haha
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:41 PM
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Absolutely. I came between my slut ex and her old fuck buddy. Later a new guy came between me and her. It's not nice when the shoe is on the other shoe. But you gotta remember that you are the prize. What you bring to the table should always be more than the hoes. You just don't give it all to them. But if they toe the line then who knows
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:34 PM
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What are your thoughts on LTR breakdown, then both partners ride others and eventually again rummage through that old trash relationship because feels?
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:32 PM
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It's really hard man
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:26 PM
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I am working out now. But I feel agitated all the time. It's like I am constantly on the edge. I can't even sleep properly. I worry about the impending exam or my fucking ex. Can't even focus on other girls trying to meet me. I game them through texts to get them to commit to a date but I have no mental strength to go through the date at all. Even if sex is on the table. Desire is missing. I whack off to old sex tapes of my ex and me. That's the only kind of porn I like to watch. It's so tragic …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 02:12 PM
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Thanks man. I will try this method. It's bloody tragic to see myself withering away and unable to focus. I will do what you told me.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:43 AM
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From my experiences it's mostly a self fulfilling prophecy. You crib about her taking a hoeing job. She does it anyway (feminism; since men can't dictate terms etc). Now you are caught in a situation where you lose her by breaking up with her or your manhood and self respect in her eyes. So you gotta choose neo. If you want it to implode then ask her to stop. If you want to continue then passively try to discourage her and if she doesn't stop then agree with whatever she does and possibly motiva…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:33 AM
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Sex is awesome. Rest of it is pretty shit. They do try but mental problems are hard to over come. Specially undiagnosed
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:23 PM
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Nah man. That's about something else that was going on. I am already on to bigger better things. I keep these on the back burner and activate them when shit goes down. That chick is done.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:53 PM
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I have to. Since my ex wayback in colg cheated on me and another ex monkey branched I pathologically need orbiters and plates with LTR to make me feel safe.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:48 PM
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Okay. That's a good observation. I'll try to train the hot one since sex is a skill that can actually be taught
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:33 PM
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Great technique. You are right I have never felt the genuine desire for any girl ever. As soon as I fuck them for a few months, she's just an average jane to me. Even if she monkey branches it's not that hurtful because I had already fucked her. Dont think it doesn't hurt. It does but the intensity isn't that much. Yes I have vetted them. Both are LTR material but sex is extremely important to me as I have quite a big appetite for it.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:26 PM
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No one is down to fuck. The one who is up for anything is tired all the time and sleeps for like 9 hrs every day since she has gruelling work hours. The other one is a bit prude. Sex has to be initiated. She is into it but won't swallow or get a facial.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:18 PM
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Man I think it's time to get married and have some kids. Id love to have a few tots of my own. I have kept them at plates but unable to make a choice. I love the body of one but my depraved cravings are satisfied by another. How do I choose? Should I marry the hot one and try to reform her later
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:16 PM
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What does trp says about it?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:12 PM
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This could go a few ways. You can confront her and risk her telling you she doent want to be with you. That will be a blow to your self respect and ego. On the other hand she might beg for your forgiveness and ask you to take her back and she will pledge endless love and devotion. This would be a lie. But you will have an opportunity to kick her when she is down. Huge boost to ego. Also will be able to make her feel like shit that she is. Pick one. Just don't show anger. Be calm and cool.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:37 AM
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What if she wants to come back like a day after she broke up pleading temporary insanity? Does listening to her cry and beg to be taken back count as therapy or closure?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:07 PM
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Bro you shouldn't even be worrying about such lame stuff. It makes you look controlling and women are like cats. Let them roam around and they come back when they want to. That doesn't mean cheating. But instawhoring is common now a days since every woman needs validation and likes. You can't pay much attention to that. It's a phase. Also don't worry too much about her getting dms on insta. World is full of horny betas who will try to bang your gf. It's not worth worrying about. As long as she i…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:02 PM
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It's not that awful to give her an explanation without being condescending. Don't point out her flaws or take the blame yourself. Take the middle path. Maybe tell her your values don't align with her if there is a scope to say that. Or tell her you aren't ready to a long term relationship considering your mom is a bit sick right now and you'd like to spend time with her. Blame covid. It's not necessary to be aweful as long as your feelings and mental well-being isn't being affected. You seem qui…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:31 PM
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Fuck off incel
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:43 PM
1

Lol. Stop making fake profiles Grand hurricane. You are just a child for using profanities unnecessarily
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:32 AM
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Lol you with a fragile ego making a fake account to abuse me. Loser
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:32 AM
1

Hoes gotta eat too- Ludacris
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:46 PM
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Yup I told her to fuck off. She begged. Next day she blamed me for not paying heed to her begging lol. Told her to accept her own decision to break up
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:45 PM
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Yup. Hearing her beg to be taken back does feel good considering how much shit she put me through. Bitching and moaning for hours on the phone about one thing or the other. Such bullshit and I didn't even get to go balls deep for 10 fucking months. Fuck covid and fuck her.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:44 PM
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Lol it's over. Told her I don't want to be with her since she broke up with me and now needs to accept her decision. No take backs. She bitched about the fact that I didn't care about her killing herself and take her back. Told her don't want to talk about it. She hasn't called me in 2 days since. I think my approach worked. And guess what she isn't here and neither she killed her self. I guess all I needed to do was let her beg me to take her back.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:39 PM
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Well it's better if no one kills themselves you fucking clown. Why do you want to see anyone dead? What fucked up logic is that
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:37 PM
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I called her so she wouldn't invade my home. Told her I don't care about the relationship at all anymore since she left me so she didn't have to have a difficult conversation. She also bitched that I don't care if she kills herself in my love. Told her don't care to discuss it. Haven't heard from her in 2 days. I guess my approach of calling her once worked better that just blocking her. I actually got an ego boost since she kept on begging and pleading after torturing me.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:35 PM
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I called her and told her not to come as my parents will be visiting. Anyway ho is probably too cheap to buy tickets at such short notice.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:32 PM
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Yup. I think you are right. As per her she Broke up with me because I would have questioned her why she couldn't spend time with me but go drinking with friends. Then realised can't live without me so went hysterical. Begged and pleaded.i said no. So now she is angry that I didn't care that she threatened to kill herself. Told her I don't want to talk about caring etc. Haven't heard from her in 2 days
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:31 PM
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Told her not to come my parents are visiting
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:28 PM
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Called her. She begged and pleaded. Stuck to my 1 line. "you broke up with me". That's it. Haven't heard from her in 2 days.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:28 PM
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Lol. And you probably have never worked a job where you need your full focus and can't have some bullshit case foisted on you. Do you even fucking know how much it costs to defend yourself in the court.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:26 PM
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We all learn. Not everyone is an oracle like you
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:24 PM
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How old are you actually? I can't believe an adult would be so mis informed. I never said I'd be convicted. All I said that cops and the justice system will make my life hell.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:22 PM
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I spoke to her on the phone so she doesn't visit me. She was even more enraged that I was not in pain or care about her threatening to kill herself. I was just, meh. 2 days no calls.i guess it's finally over. I am not even feeling any loss. Haven't even fucked her for 10 months. I guess I don't fundamentally believe itS a relationship until I am balls deep
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:20 PM
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Why are you angry unnecessarily? It's weird man.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:18 PM
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I spoke to her so maybe I can stop her from coming. She begged and cried but I was firm. Now 2 days have passed no calls. I guess it's over for good. She probably won't put more effort. Ho friends of hers would have told her to ride another dick
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:16 PM
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Yeah I just kept harping the same line. Refused to argue or discuss anything over the phone. Kept telling her all things considered it's she who broke up and didn't even see me for 10 months. So I am glad it's over.No take backs now. Ruin my mood for 2 days and now trying to get back with me. Fuck that. How is this a relationship when there is no fu king involved for 10 months. Bitxh trying to pull one over me by swearing undying love. Can't feel love until I am balls deep. Till then It's only w…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:12 PM
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Yeah she tried that. She tried to blame me for not caring that she was begging me and threatening to kill herself. She thinks since I didn't immediately take her back after she said it I don't care about her. I hung up as soon as she started bitching. Then called her back told her not to complain and she apologised. So I guess I handled ot well. Now since then she hasn't called me for 2 days so I guess it's over from both sides.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:09 PM
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Nah man. I didn't even give in when she threatened to kill herself. I think she will cut her losses and move on. It's been 2 days and I have had no calls or msgs. I think it's over and done. Friends must have told her to ride some other cock. I think she wouldn't have been a great partner. Saying I love you every day don't mean shit when the actions are anything but loving.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:07 PM
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Nah I guess it's over. She put the ball in my court. I didn't reply to the msg. 2 days no calls. I think the storm has passed. Friend must have told her to ride some other cock
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:05 PM
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That's how I feel. No fucking for 10 months so it's practically over. No matter how many times she says I love you it won't mean shit since women are slave to feels. If I am not balls deep in her then I don't believe they have any stake in the game. Can't give my non sexual attention forever. This isn't fu king romeo and Juliet.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:03 PM
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She probably won't come and make a futile journey since I already said it's over
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:01 PM
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I told her that she broke up with me not the other way around. And just because she now feels she made a mistake that doesn't take away the problems we have. She just feels abandoned since I didn't beg her to stay. She called me up a day later to complain how I didn't care about the fact that she was threatening to kill herself and was begging me to stay with her. I just told her we can't do this over a phone call as we might end up saying something that we might regret. I told her we shouldn't …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:00 PM
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You are a 16 yr old teen if you think an ex killing herself isn't a problem. Welcome to real world. I'll be running to police station for months and will probably have to get a criminal defense lawyer. Cops are douchbags
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:35 AM
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Bro you need to just pin point one thing that you want from this engagement. If you aren't getting it consistently you need to let it go. No point wasting time on some woman's bullshit. She will feel different things at different times. You need to analyse how much bullshit you can tolerate and when it's starting to affect your mental well-being. Let's say you want sex. If you aren't getting it and the woman keeps on droning on the phone for long hours or keeps wasting your time on texts, you ne…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:01 AM
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Calling her out on Snapchat drama - wrong move. You shouldn't care about what drama she pulls on social media. Hell you shouldn't even be on social media for validation. All its good for is reading news or memes. That's it. All you should care about is ploughing her and having a good time when she is with you. Don't control her as long as she's not disrespecting you by trying to hang out or play text games with other guys who wanna fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:22 PM
2

You think I should hand over our call recording to the cops where she is threatening to kill herself?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:23 PM
1

I own the apartment.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:17 PM
1

Bro abetment to suicide laws are a bitch where I live. You just don't get it. I can lose everything and fucking go to jail.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:16 PM
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Nah man. I dated her for 19 months. Didn't see her since March due to covid. It's been 10 months and she didn't agree to see me at all first blaming covid and then her wanting to study for her exams. Bitxh went to her friends house though and drank for 2 days and when I asked to meet for 2 days before she told me can't spare the time since even if she studied for 3 hrs it's better than nothing. All in all haven't seen her for 10 months.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:14 PM
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I blocked her but she was going nuts and people were calling me from random numbers begging me to talk to her since she was fucking suicidal. I don't want cops or someone blaming me for driving her to slash her wrists. I have a career to protect.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:06 PM
1

She has my address
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:05 PM
1

I worry she might press rape charges
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:45 AM
1

I hope corrupt cops listen to me. All I know is my pristine reputation in my apartment complex will be in tattars once it's all done
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:44 AM
1

It absolutely is. I can now count 7 people who have tried to get in touch with me and we're blocked
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:42 AM
1

I don't know what she is telling them. That's why I told the reality to her friend's bf, so maybe she would lose support.She didn't. I don't know what are they all cooking. I am not even that big of a catch to moan about it so much. It's not as if I am a billionaire
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:42 AM
1

I know that. Didn't know a chick would fly 300 miles to see me in pain. What kind of sadists are they 😞
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:40 AM
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I regret giving her my home address
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:38 AM
1

Yes I am doing that now. All I don't get is why freaK out over a guy you broke up with. She literally gave the impression by disappearing that she was fucking someone. Then told me to fuck off.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:37 AM
1

What should I do if she flies to my city this weekend which she is saying she will do? Can't really turn her away. Can't risk the drama in my apartment complex.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:17 AM
1

Can't turn her away if she flies to my city this weekend which she is saying she would do. Can't risk drama in my apartment complex.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:16 AM
1

Nothing as far as I know.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:15 AM
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Okay. I'll ask someone about it.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:46 PM
3

Can't do that. Police will visit both our houses.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:45 PM
1

She went to her friends house and got drunk for 2 days didn't take my calls or reply to my msgs. I called her like 10 times because I was worried something might have happened. She came back apologised on text for disappearing and said she wanted to think about us so she needed space hence she disappeared. Then she texted "it's not going to work between us". She called me up we spoke for like 7 mins. I asked her what changed so suddenly since she was talking about getting married to me and swear…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:25 PM
1

Man random women are calling me now telling me to talk to her. I am just hanging up and then blocking them all over so they can't text me msgs that might affect my mental peace. I didn't even know she had these many friends
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:06 PM
1

Bro she is the one who dumped me. I maintained my frame. Told her to take a hike and blocked all over as the red pill teaches you. I am the prize
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:23 PM
1

Yeah. I was being love bombed only 2 days before she broke up. 1 day before I was being referred to as "baby" "babe" etc. Lol. Women just pretend. Not gonna lie I made mistakes too but it is what it is. She made her bed. I was willing to mend it. She didn't so she has to make peace with it now
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:22 PM
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Yeah who even know what she is doing
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:17 PM
2

I am doing it bro. She is still calling me 3-4 times everyday after more than a week. The guy who came to visit me texted me today that he was forwarding a msg my gf sent him to forward to me since you blocked her everywhere. He said he sent it on a different number which I have temporarily stopped using. Now he is sending it to me on my new number. I told him to not do it and leave it. Then I blocked him too on all social media.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:16 PM
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I am doing it bro. She is still calling me after more than a week. The guy who came to visit me texted me today that he was forwarding a msg my gf sent him to forward to me since you blocked her everywhere. He said he sent it on a different number which I have temporarily stopped using. Now he is sending it to me on my new number. I told him to not do it and leave it. Then I blocked him too on all social media.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:15 PM
1

Blocked her number already. We were together for 1.5 years
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:56 PM
1

I am doing most of the things you mentioned. But my hobby is reading. I need to get some fun hobbies. I lift too. Never stopped doing that. I am now sleeping well too since I broke up with her. Mentally I need to be more zen.i worry about shit too much maybe because I don't have a lot going on right now. Also I did sleep with a 22 yrs old orbiter the very next day. Now I am gaming another girl who goes to Uni in my town. I need to do more though.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:05 PM
1

Everyone connected to her has been blocked bro. She's calling me 4 times a day. Still haven't called her back
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:43 PM
1

you want to destroy her more What do you mean bro?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:42 PM
1

She broke up with me bro. She should have won automatically. Although I broke up with her a week ago because of the shit she pulled but she begged me to take her back. Still I have been dumped. Don't know why she even bothers.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:41 PM
1

Trust me brother. I ain't breaking. She is calling me 2-3 times everyday. Sometimes 4. I don't even feel like talking to her. I know she will spin some yarn about how she tried everything and she doesn't deserve me etc. I don't give two shits about her explanation. I know she will get more desperate as time passes. I hope she doesnt and starts fucking one of her orbiters. They should also get a discarded T bone once in a while.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:38 PM
1

It's actually a 10 hrs drive bro. Even the train takes like 7 hrs. Although I get your point
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:31 PM
1

It's not the food bro. I am just a guy who doesn't turn people back if they are standing at your door asking you to speak to them for a bit.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:25 AM
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And I bad mouthed her in front of him. Told him the reasons she ruined the relationship. He's not going to have sympathy for her. Anyway who gives a shit. At that point of time I did what I felt was right. I also needed to talk to
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:24 AM
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I am not going to talk to her. I know it won't work. She'll just keep looking for someone else. Women cannot forgive being looked down upon. My blocking her has hurt her
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:20 AM
2

3 dates lined up. 2 former plates 1 new chick. Visiting my home all through the weekend. Thank God for TRP. I always maintained orbiters. Else I'd be a wreck probably.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:15 AM
2

She is still blocked. All her friends are blocked. But I am suffering bouts of anxiety regarding the situation. This has happened before but can't believe the light switch . How suddenly it flips. Although I think not giving her a chance to rectify or not rectify it is a good decision. Eliminating drama is the right move.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 05:10 AM
1

Bro do you think I shouldn't have blocked her since she always had a tendency to walk back on break up as she was a bit depressed and whenever she was depressed she tended to find faults in her life. Sometimes shelanded on her relation ship with me. She presumed I didn't love her enough. So she would break up and fight and eventually we made up the very next day. This time I didn't give her any chance to walk back. I just escalated it way beyond her imagination. I went on a rampage and didn't bu…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 04:05 AM
1

Thanks for this man. Although I never got angry and was always uninterested as I already read the sidebar. She was quite miffed with that too. She insisted that I was not taking an interest in her past life. I told her if they were bothering her she should block them or tell them to fuck off. But all she wanted was to hear her bitch about them.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 02:10 AM
2

By her logic I wasn't enough romantic, I told her I can only be romantic when we hang out and can't really chit chat about it on the phone like a teenager. I waste my time and don't even get to fuck. Similar the bone of contention was the fact that I brought up her different moral values as soon as she discussed other guys "she has slept with". I wasnt possessive , I just didn't want the image of other guys fucking my gf in my mind. Why do we even need to talk about that if we are together. Does…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:23 AM
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In my case the i don't know if the branch swing failed or if there was even an attempt. She went mental as soon as she broke up because I blocked her within 5 mins of her saying we need to break up.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:15 AM
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Yeah I was also tempted to talk to her when the guy was at my place but I remained strict because I knew anything other than her begging me to take her back would be catastrophic for my morale until I start fucking some new girl. I just told him there is nothing to sort out on the phone. She broke up with me I have no grudge against that. If she wants to walk back on it it's her who needs to do the leg work and it needs to happen face to face. If not then I think we have nothing to discuss on th…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 01:13 AM
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I have never been cut off hard. It has always been trickle downed and it keeps dragging forever until one of us just gets tired of the casual tone. You remember how you used to talk and now it's just like friends which isn't what anyone wants. If she breaks up with me and I still keep talking to her forever it would lead to me suffering even more and becoming someone to be pitied on. Once she breaks up and it feels permanent, she should be blocked everywhere. This shows her you aren't no bitch t…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:44 AM
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Absolutely it's ego. I broke up with her a week ago and she begged me to stay. Then 1 week later she broke up with me after she has thought about it with a cool her. Happened to me twice. I have now decided to take up a homely wife. Lol
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:36 AM
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Absolutely correct. That's the reason I told the guy that visited me about her keeping in touch with some guy she met on tinder a while ago. Since she doesn't care about me suffering by her badgering, I did it out of spite. I know her friends will rationalise it but still they'll know she wasnt all that and she won't be able to bitch about me as much. Lol she even claimed that I was misusing her honesty since she was the one who told me that the guy was from tinder and not some random friend and…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:35 AM
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I think they just say all that to keep you hanging until they find someone else. As soon as someone else is laying the pipe you be damn sure the feelings disappear. Even in my case I think that was happening. No matter how much she lies she probably has someone lurking in the background. I know 1 guy for sure.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:26 AM
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I didn't apologise at all. Ever. I think that was also a problem. She complained that whenever she talked about some guy from her past I would say "just block them" and if she would still complain about something he texted her "I would just tell her to not put yourself in that situation". She didn't understand why I couldn't just accept her talking about other guys she has slept with in platonic terms. I told her a couple of times and as soon as recently a week ago that that kind of shit she doe…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:22 AM
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How do you know bro?
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:11 AM
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I think everyone thinks I am being immature and cruel by blocking her as soon she said "I don't think it will work between us". But sooner rather than later it had to be done because she would have kept sending condescending texts about "caring for me" or "I'll always be there for you" eventually she would try to come back as they all do probably in a week or maybe not. But frankly I don't have time for the emotional highs and lows it would bring. These hoes aint loyal. It's amply clear by her c…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:10 AM
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I won't do it. Any conversation with her is going to be extremely mentally exhausting. I am currently going through moments of euphoria and bouts of depression. I think I will get out of it eventually but talking to her will prolong it.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:02 AM
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I deeply regret what I did that day by meeting that guy and hanging out with him. I just thought her friends should also know the bullshit she was pulling about asking to hang out with a guy she met on tinder a few years ago. I know they will still justify that shit by saying she just asked me but didn't do it. And she even apologised profusely for even asking. But it showed she just doesn't get why it was morally wrong for her to do that. And even then I let it slide after she broke down comple…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:58 PM
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I will not bend. I will not unblock. We are done. I am being taunted by some people in my circle (a woman) that blocking her is immature. Even then I won't unblock. I know she will get off on explaining me the reasons.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:32 PM
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I wasn't bribed. I was being courteous since he was there to solve a problem he had no business in
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:47 AM
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Yeah that she did. I am so happy I didn't break up with her. It would have lead to long drawn out chaos. Morally I wouldn't even be able to block her. Now I can. All I have to claim is that it's affecting my mental well being
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:54 AM
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Bro they only succeed if I do what they want. As you can see he stayed for 8 hrs. All he wanted was for me to talk to her for 5 mins. I didn't do it.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:53 AM
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Told him yesterday too. I won't do it. It's over from my side
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:35 AM
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I have always been like that. Won't tolerate disrespect. But can really break up with anyone. Keep forgiving them over and over.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:34 AM
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Yeah bro he even said that she asked him to visit me or else he wasn't going to invade my privacy and he was feeling awkward doing it. He lives quite far away and took a cab to come see me. He stayed here for 8 fucking hours talking to me. Told him to leave but he said it's alright let's go get something to eat etc. He is an emergency room surgeon and he had a night shift . He called the hospital and got someone else to cover for him
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah man I get that now. He's not really a loser though. He is a very busy resident emergency room surgeon. Not some teenager. He's 34 yrs old. He was here because his girlfriend made him come and talk to me.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:29 AM
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Yeah I made that mistake because I was hurting too. The guy was a sympathetic ear. He got my point too. Probably shouldn't have told him shit but I guess it made me feel better about it too. I am not an asshole. This is just self preservation. And since I didn't break up with her I am not guilty of shit
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:27 AM
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I know if she visits me we are gonna fuck no doubt about it. She'll cry her heart out and then that's gonna happen. I know then she would have conquered me and I will have no leverage. I am just hoping that doesn't happen because she doesn't have that kind of time and won't spend unnecessary resourcEs on me
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:23 AM
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I won't bro. No way I will get on a phone. She should come crawling back. Spend resources. And then we can talk. But thats never going to happen. I gave her stiff conditions. And if she tries to do it I'll say I have changed my mind
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:16 AM
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She can't say rape because I have tons of videos of us having sex with her consent and where she knows camera is on. I also recorded the phone call where she is breaking up with me. I also have screen shots of her texting me that we arent right for each other. I am covered. Still a woman can find ways to fuck shit up for you if she feels discarded. I am just surprised in this case bekasur she broke up with me. Not the other way around. She can just go to the guy she was going to have smokes with…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:14 AM
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Lol she told me it's because she was bored at home. Fucking hell then meet me. How about that. She was like "I can spare 15mins but not 2 days"
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:59 AM
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I told him that because he kept on insisting I talk to her as she was suicidal. I did it so he wouldn't guilt me into it and because dejected women are assholes. What if she tries to fuck my life up somehow?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:46 AM
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Bro she broke up with me. I wanted to stay with her. I do not have a tendency to jump ship in case it enters troubled waters. I am the kind of guy who makes things work. I have told the guy it has to be face to face not on a phone call and if she needs to break up then that has already happened and I need no more explanation. If she wants to walk back she has to visit me in my city to talk to me (which is a tall order and I don't think she will spend resources on that)
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:36 AM
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Yes. I think if I give in she will keep dumping me in hopes she can get back with me in any case as soon as the next day. Why calibrate your behaviour when there are no consequences
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:27 AM
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This is so complex and fucked up. I wish things could be more simple. I frankly donot want her to suffer but I am tired of her bulllshit
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:22 AM
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I think that too sir. She will bitch and moan about my faults and then it's bye bye. She and her friends are begging me to talk to her. Fuck man she is suicidal over the fact that she broke up with me. Does that make any sense? Shouldn't I be suicidal? Not gonna lie I am sad at the demise of relationship but I know Ill get over it.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah she is probably trying to get with other guys behind my back. She's just stupid to seek my permission to clear her conscience.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:03 AM
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I think me blocking her has struck her ego and she can't believe I would do that. I am not known to escalate situations unnecessarily. On top of that I didn't crawl on my knees just blocked her. Didn't even seek long winded explanation on why she was behaving this way suddenly. Had a exact 5 min conversation on the phone about what was happening. Then hung up and went on a blocking spree.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:01 AM
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I meant I appreciated his gesture since we aren't even friends. I have met him 2-3 times max. It's about being courteous to people who visit your house. Atleast when they come in peace and bearing gifts. It's not about the food. It's about his gesture.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:58 AM
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I know I think it's over. She hasn't tried to contact me since 24hrs I told that guy I won't be talking to her over the phone even once as it's affecting my mental well being. All she needs is to get rid of her guilt but I ain't having it. Reconciliation seems more impossible the more time passes.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:54 AM
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I realise that now once I am out of it. Constant seesaw was affecting me mentally to. I deserve someone stable to be with. No girl is stable I know but someone who keeps finding fault where there is non is toxic
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:50 AM
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She is emotionally very unstable that's why she keeps having negative thoughts. She keeps imagining things about how our relationship has non existent problems and how I will leave her for someone else. I have told her that wouldn't happen but she has low self esteem. I hAve suggested ways to cope up like not staying up all night and going to bed at 7 am. But she has no willpower to rectify her behavior. I miss her but I was becoming her saviour and it was taking a toll on me. I am a bit glad th…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:42 AM
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I am a bit sorry I explained my position to that guy but he is a nice guy not an asshole and he got my point of view too. In hind sight I shouldn't have spoke to him about it but I guess I was lonely and needed someone to talk to
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:21 AM
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I just let him in because he is a nice guy. We have hung out 2-3 times before and he wasn't very pushy. Just wanted to figure out why I was doing it. I told him my mental well being is more important now and I am done with the makeup breakup seesaw
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:19 AM
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Will do That. The more time is passing the more clarity I have. The best thing I did was to cut immediate contact so I can give myself time to think and act rationally.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:17 AM
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Man I just thought he was a nice guy and I was lonely in my apartment. He actually is a nice guy we have hung out before as a couples do. I know he was biased and he even claimed that he will favour my gf since he knew her before but he also said where I was coming from. And to be honest he changed his mind after he knew the facts. I didn't ask him to leave cause he is also a busy guy and if someone spends money and spares time just to hear you talk it felt like a little disrespectful. He didn't…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:16 AM
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/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:14 PM
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I frankly little bit love my now ex gf. But I know the difference between right and wrong too. Won't tolerate disrespect. And won't ask her to stay if she wants to leave
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:08 PM
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I have a job but pandemic is keeping me indoors in my country.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:03 PM
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The day before she asked to end it she visited her friend and they got drunk. Possibly discussed pros and cons of dating me. She came all ready for the power grab but it all came crashing down once I blocked her after a 10 min conversation. Maybe she wanted to break my spirit so I would ask her not to do this and she wouldnt. I flipped the script
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:26 PM
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She probably can't understand why am I not asking her for a chance to fix it. It shouldn't come as a surprise because the couple of times she suggested break up I always showed her the door without fail. I think this was supposed to be some sort of power grab move which failed spectacularly because uncharacteristically I blocked her this time. Yeah the guy will just tell her I said talking to her wasn't good for my mentally well-being right now.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:17 PM
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Man thanks. I needed that firm kick in the ass. I was envisioning her crying so my heart was a mess. But now I realise it's either her or me. Survival .
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:11 PM
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Bro msg me your screen shots of text so i can figure out if its the same shit i am going through
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:57 PM
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I won't bro. She and her friends are all blocked everywhere because I fear she might send me a text through them
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:53 PM
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I won't I know I can get fucked up if I gave her a chance right now. I need to watch her squirm and still come out as a good guy. Her friends should tell her that i seemed like a great guy it's all her fault
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:52 PM
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Yeah I am done after today. Called the guy and told him, that I appreciate his gesture and concern but I was soory I will not call her as this cant be mended over phone call
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:39 PM
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Told them. She insists she wasn't branch swinging. She just asked me if she could meet for 15mins with some guy since he kept asking her to meet. And as for her msg to break up is concerned maybe according to them she regrets it. I told them I will do nothing to mend fences she broke up with me she will do all the heavy work if I decide to take her back which I probably won't
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:33 PM
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Told them. She insists she wasn't branch swinging. She just asked me if she could meet for 15mins with some guy since he kept asking her to meet. And as for her msg to break up is concerned maybe according to them she regrets it. I told them I will do nothing to mend fences she broke up with me she will do all the heavy work if I decide to take her back which I probably won't
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:31 PM
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Yeah. Still don't get why she is so worried about me since she broke up with me. She instantly started losing her shit as soon as she broke up. She got cold feet. I blocked her instantly since she was getting on my nerves for the last 10 days. Then this all started that I should talk to her atleast once.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:26 PM
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That guy isn't my friend. I just told him these things because he was insisting that I talk to her and that would be mature. So I told him that I am myself mentally disturbed by her antics just as she is. I am no monster. I am just too tired of dealing with her. I in a way was trying to gain his sympathy so that I am not projected as a jerk. I felt the need to out her to her friends. Because otherwise she would just manipulate them. Although now I understand it want required.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:21 PM
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Yeah..I made that mistake. I thought her friends should know the real story too. She shouldn't get sympathy
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:05 PM
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Fuck man I engaged with the bf of her friend. No one else. He brought alcohol and food so we kind of hit it off a bit. I told him my complaints and why I won't unblock her at all. If she wants to mend it she needs to visit me in my hometown where I currently am. If not she can go her way. Won't let her vent it out on phone call. I frankly made that mistake. I shouldn't have given her an opening but I think she won't visit me and it will end automatically
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:04 PM
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Yes. I told the bf of her friend the same thing. She only wants closure which actually I should be needing since she broke up with me. He thinks she regrets it as she thought she can rectify it In a day or 2 but since I blocked her (which I never did before) she probably feels rejected. Even if I agree to forgive her she might never change her ways as she knows she can't tame me she also might branch swing to a more accommodating beta male provider.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:59 PM
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Yes and I also feel that. But her friends bf said if she didnt "love" you she wouldn't go through the trouble of sending me here to mend fences. All she wants is to talk to you once. Honestly I hate for her to suffer but it's her who ended things and made me suffer mentally because of it. I told her friend I won't unblock her because I don't want to discuss and suffer more. If she wants it can happen face to face. But now I am thinking it's also the wrong move because she can say crazy hurtful t…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah she is the one complaining that I am not able to study or focus on anything.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:54 PM
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I told him that because he was under the impression that I was being a dick to her by blocking her all over. He didn't even know that she broke up with me. I told her about her antics and he agreed with me that it's alright to preserve my mental well being and not engage is such drama
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:56 PM
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I am thinking about the same thing. The guy was insisting on a call or meetup. Told him if she wants to walk back on the breakup she needs to take a 2 hr flight and visit me in my hometown where I will be for a month or so. I don't see a point talking to her on the phone as it cannot be resolved over a phone call. or visiting her if all she wants is to point out my short comings and reason for breakup. I did this to see if she is serious if not she can take a hike and ride some other dick if she…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:53 PM
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I have even told the guy today that I was mentally suffering from her antics and wouldn't like to talk to her since it might disturb my mental peace even more
/r/askTRP27/01/21 02:33 PM
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Bro she sent a boyfriend of her friend to my house yesterday. He came unannounced to talk to me. He wanted to be a mediator and rectify any situation. He said my ex was suicidal and couldn't study at all. He needed me to talk to her for 5 mins so we can figure it all out. He said if she wanted to breakup she wouldn't sent him to meet me. Her head was fucked up. She regretted breaking up. I refused to talk to her. Explained my position to him. He understood where I was coming from but still wante…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 10:06 PM
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Yup. Done that now. Won't unblock. No way I can waste my time on drama for no reason. She randomly broke up. No fight nothing . My time is finite
/r/askTRP26/01/21 07:45 AM
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No man. Not at all. I am just unable to understand her behaviour. I am frankly scared of her coming to my home
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:56 AM
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She's now emailing me relentlessly that my behaviour is affecting her studies. She's a doctor. How is her breaking up with me affecting her studies. They should affect me right?
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:12 AM
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Yeah. Bro also I told her after she broke up with me that I might be in line to be appointed as a judge in a county court. I didn't brag it just came out of my mouth because I was telling her how she is distracting me away from my preparation for the final interview. She probably thought she could do better
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:10 AM
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Ok I will read Pook today. I have read TRM. I get the hamster bhut here she broke up with me and had also time to think about it. It was not a rash decision. So why bitch about it now . Thanks anyway. Will read look
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:06 AM
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Okay bro. Why is she doing it? I just don't get it. She probably fucked some dude when she disappeared for 2 days. Don't get why is this happening.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:56 AM
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Thanks for all the help. I wouldn't be able to tolerate this BS without help from trp bros
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:53 AM
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Oh ok. I just didn't want her to bitch and moan about stuff. And possibly blow up my phone. I just thought out of sight out of mind.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:31 AM
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Yes bro. Have been hitting the gym hard. And focusing on reading more and more books. Time to cut off from the toxicity. I was gaining nothing and losing days catering to someone else's drama. Time to be a little selfish
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:27 AM
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Told her. She was giving me shit about how my behavior might have caused the break up. I told her fine. I wouldn't like her to text or call me. She said ok she wouldnt. Conversation was over so I ended it and blocked her all over.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:23 AM
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she is now texting my friend who lives in a different city. She is asking him to ask me to call her or she will come to my house in my hometown which I am currently visiting. She's in effect threatening to come here to talk to me. I know she will only talk shit and get things out of her chest. I don't get why it's happening. She broke up with me. I should be the one begging her to talk to me.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:17 AM
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And bro she is now texting my friend who lives in a different city. She is asking him to ask me to call her or she will come to my house in my hometown which I am currently visiting. She's in effect threatening to come here to talk to me. I know she will only talk shit and get things out of her chest. I don't get why it's happening. She broke up with me. I should be the one begging her to talk to me.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:16 AM
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bro she is now texting my friend who lives in a different city. She is asking him to ask me to call her or she will come to my house in my hometown which I am currently visiting. She's in effect threatening to come here to talk to me. I know she will only talk shit and get things out of her chest. I don't get why it's happening. She broke up with me. I should be the one begging her to talk to me.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:16 AM
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And bro she is now texting my friend who lives in a different city. She is asking him to ask me to call her or she will come to my house in my hometown which I am currently visiting. She's in effect threatening to come here to talk to me. I know she will only talk shit and get things out of her chest. I don't get why it's happening. She broke up with me. I should be the one begging her to talk to me.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:15 AM
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Sorry bro if I wasnt clear. I don't fulfill their request but they do tend to waste my time a lot by needless chit chating. They'd want to hang or visit me and then seek my advice subtly. If someone is in legal trouble they'd seek discounts or even seek free advice which I have to say no to and then I get long text msgs/hate letters. It's not good for mental health to let toxic people hang around you
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:12 AM
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Thanks man. People were telling me that it isn't red pill to block women. I just don't want her to cloud my mind everyday. I don't need her to emotionally manipulate me. I get nothing out of that kind of toxic relationship and she gets her pound of flesh. I know I need more of an iron will to withstand emotional abuse but until then if something saves energy and my mental well-being I think that's ok
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:39 AM
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Yeah bro but I know her. She will try to keep me engaged and might even seek my advice on issues for free. I am a lawyer at good firm so I am of immense value even after break ups. I charge a ton for legal services which the hoes try to obtain for free after break up and then guilt me if I refuse.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:31 AM
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Thanks bro. 4 of her friends were calling me all night. She is still calling me in the wee hours of the morning . She broke up with me. Now she wants to run her mouth and break my spirit. I am not even sad about the break up. I already called up an orbiter to hang today. If it wasn't trp I would be devastated right now
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:50 AM
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Yes. She disappeared for a day. Wouldn't answer my msgs and calls. Comes back tells me she was taking some time to decide and thinks we are not a good fit since I told her she has low moral standards if she wants to hang out with an ex one on one. Then she calls me and says the same thing on the phone. I briefly listened to her hamstering and then hung up. Blocked her everywhere. I don't need to give her satisfaction of feeling better about herself. She wants a discussion and for me to maybe beg…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:46 AM
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I want undying loyalty. And I am willing to offer it in return.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:36 AM
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I don't tolerate my woman hanging out with other guys alone and I don't tolerate disrespect. Neither to I apologize for fair criticism of my woman's behavior. Nor do I take back the line drawn in sand. If I tell her this is the limit if she crosses it she is out until she apologises and begs and agrees to not repeat it again
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:17 AM
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What should I have done bro? What would you do if you were me ?
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:02 AM
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Yes bro. I did set boundaries initially and she agreed to them but over time she thought I have become soft because we said I love you etc and tried to pull one over me . Told her to fuck off I cant have a gf hanging out with her ex. Fuck that, I should be enough. I should have also asked her to cut contact with exes over msgs but since she said there were only casual hellos occasionally on festivals, I let it go. I thought she would think I am insecure.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:56 AM
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I didn't fail any shit tests. Whenever she threatened to end things I always told her to take a hike. I was never a simp nor did I give her undue attention except I did talk to her on the phone a lot because she wanted to keep the romance alive when we weren't able to meet. I didn't Vet her well. He tendency to remain cordial with her ex's was accepted by me thinking it was just a mature way of doing things. Eventually that was our downfall because I broke up with her over her asking me if she c…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:50 AM
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She became an ex today bro
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:40 AM
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Yes. I was thi king the same thing as it shows I can't control her . But then I thought it's not worth it since I have other shit to do in life aside from her emotional drama. I know even after we break up she will try to linger in the back ground forever because that's how she is.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:28 PM
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I understand bro. I was just sad because she is emotionally fragile. But I did it since it had to be done
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:27 PM
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I have chosen to maintain silence and not respond at all. They cant mess with me if I don't give them attention. They'll just tell her to ride another dick which to be honest she probably already is doing. I am just sad but will do what needs to be done
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:25 PM
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I did. It was good while it lasted but she's now affecting my mental peace. I feel sad but needs to be done
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:23 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. All she does is bitch about lack of romance when she herself is never free for hanging out. I can't do romance on the phone
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:21 PM
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Yeah. All I get is drama every 2 days. She complaints about not getting enough love when she knows I am very busy with my work. She also has an exam but her sole focus is our relationship and how she is unhappy because I don't care that much about her feelings. I was just feeling a bit guilty as I know she has an exam coming up and wondering if I was messing her head up.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:20 PM
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Thanks bro. I just don't want her to occupy my day with her drama. Since she is flip floping on the break up for days it's imperative that I make it final so I have some clarity to move on. I just don't want her to ruin my day by endlessly discussing her reasons for feeling that way.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 08:01 PM
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Yes blocked her already. Now her friends are all up in my case.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:47 PM
1

She met him on tinder few years ago. Not now. It didn't work out. She met me and for some reason he keeps asking her to meet her even though she said she is in a relationship. - Her Version
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:07 PM
2

Great bro. Will send her verbatim.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:14 PM
0

Thanks bro. I needed that shake up.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:35 PM
3

Full confession- I have actually started things with a way younger woman for a couple of months now. Thanks to this sub I was hedging my bets. I have just been dragging my feet with her due to my girlfriend. That girl and me have engaged in all kinds of acts except me putting my dick in her. Also I could see my girlfriend online in the night all the time for a few weeks even when she claimed to be studying. I am sure she was texting that guy. Also I have literally not stopped using bumble since …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:24 PM
3

I know. Any more help would be appreciated. If you have time pls elaborate
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:14 PM
2

Lol bro she's still texting me and telling me she is waiting for me to call back. Because I just texted Go. Hoe wants to have a discussion about it. Knowing her well I know my GO isn't sitting well with her at all. She's a special kind of retard to ask me me again about the same guy
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:13 PM
1

Thanks man. Any suggestions for a clean break
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:04 PM
0

How do I get out of this clean bro?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:04 PM
0

Updated post bro
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:03 PM
1

You should have said "do I have permission to touch your penis at this time" . LMAO
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:36 AM
17

My Ltr told me we need to take a break because I wasn't as interested in getting married as she was. I told her break means nothing to me let's break up. Then I hung up and went to sleep. She calls me up in a couple of hours and started scolding me for not begging her stay with me. I told her I never will. Leave those dreams. If you want to stay never try to take a break or you can just break up altogether. She thinks I love her less and care about her less. So she tries to gain an upper hand oc…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:37 PM
1

Lol. She called me up in the evening and went on a rant that I didn't stop her when she asked for a break and neither did I reach out again to mend things. Told her why would I because it's her who wanted to break it off. Then she went on a rant about what if we were married and she got angry and said to leave me. She thinks i would not stop her. She was crying her eyes off. Female manipulation of the worst kind
/r/askTRP11/12/20 02:42 PM
1

I didn't just hang up I also told her to shove the offer of 'break' and accept my offer of a breakup. Then I told her that I don't wish to speak to her anymore and then I hung up
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:01 PM
2

Nah bro. I am like 5- 6 years older than her. She's in her mid 20s while I am 30. That's the reason I don't get this obsession with marriage she has with me. I am not wasting her time I just don't know why do we have to talk about it when it's not going to happen for like atleast 2 yrs. What context are you missing? I wanted to know if I did the right think to show her the door when she said she wanted a break if I didn't fall in line and stop complaining about the fact that I don't see here any…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 07:13 AM
1

Who hasn't got their dick sucked by an easy fatty during a slump. Even I was ashamed to go to cafes and later hotels (since I never brought a fatty home, didn't want my neighborhood to see her, losing money at the hotels was acceptable) with her but I had no choice at that time. But never make her your girlfriend because then she starts taking you pictures and posting it on Instagram for social validation. Only photograph yourself with a chick you don't feel ashamed of being with.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 07:03 AM
0

Even if she doesn't feel like it she'll do it just to please you. But if she actively resists it then she's got to go. My girlfriend was too tired to have sex on her birthday even after she got a present from me but she's low energy so I didn't give a fuck. Told her get naked because it's happening. Then fucked the holy ghost out of her for 2-3 hrs. We went to sleep and then fucked her again in the morning. The gist is that even if they don't want to because women are low energy humans, theyd st…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:14 PM
1

Best advice. Even if she moves away then bang someone else and keep her until you find better replacement . When she comes to visit fuck her too. If she fuck someone else its not a problem since you already cheated.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:30 PM
1

Theres literally no chance of you guys meeting often until she moves and it takes a toll. She wont be abke to share her day to day life with you because texting and calling is tiresome when you are an adult and have things going on. Regardless i'd suggest you dont break it off suddenly and instead start dating other chicks. I know its cheating and all but do it for your own sanity because if you arent satisfied and secure you will eventually make both of yours life a hell. You will suspect that …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:21 PM
1

Bro I think I phrased it wrong. My gf didn't defend her she just said it so I won't think that what goes on in their parties. She just said aside from her hoeing the girl has been with her through thick and thin
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:36 PM
1

No she is not. Read again bro.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:35 PM
1

No man my gf didn't make excuses for her. She just said it so that I wont think that's what goes on when ever they party. Also she has even stopped meeting her friends for party u til I am also going. If I say no she doesn't want to go because as per her "I don't like meeting anyone u til you are also there". She even said that she wants the guy to marry someone else because her friend spent deserve him. She just said that aside from all the hoeing she has been a good friend to her through thick…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:34 PM
0

That's not the point. It's not as if I think about it day and night. This only crosses my mind after we hang out as a group and everyone pretends as if nothing is amiss. And specially when I see that poor guy dumping as if the hoe is literally some victoria secret model. She's not. She's just young and he's not even that old
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:30 PM
1

He's 33. I am damn sure everything will implode once I tell him. I have command over my gf so she might throw a hissy fit but I'll get her in control. But the going to parties together will be over and she would probably not share things with me because in her eyes id be a judgemental prick
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:11 AM
2

I am not cheating. I just have that chick on the side if gf decides to branch swing. She's more like an orbiter. All I do is respond to some texts. Don't even hang out alone. See her only at work. Even told her to date someone else because I am in an LTR but she chooses to wait. Not my problem
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:03 AM
1

I mean I am not fucking the side chick currently. I fucked her before I got in LTR. She's just in love with me . I told her to move on but she doesn't. Her choice not my responsibility. I just have her just in case my gf decides to branch swing. Having her on the side keeps me sane since I can just call her to come fuck whenever if my gf decides to cuck me. It's low investment. I just have to reply to some msgs now and then
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:00 AM
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No not friends with him. But have hung out with him at the parties that he throws. Seems like a stand up guy who any decent girl would be happy to have. He earns decent amount of money hence I don't get it why can't he see her for the whore she is. It's just odd behavior. I just feel sad because he deserves better.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:28 PM
3

The problem is she doesn't want to get married because she is in her prime hoeing years. That is 23-24. He is like 32-33and wants to have kids and shit. He seems as retarded as a worst kind of bluepilled beta bux. She keeps telling him she might break up if she ends up liking someone in the college but he is hell bent on tieing her down
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:25 PM
8

Yeah. I can't believe he still wants to marry her after she literally told him on his face that she doesn't want to introduce him to her friends circle because they might break up eventually after she gets into her masters program. Like wtf! Couldn't believe my ears. Didn't even have the decency yo not day that in front of us. And she keeps saying if again and again that she might start liking someone else once she gets into her masters
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:19 PM
3

I still feel guilty about it when i see him being thoughtful and shit. He even pays for her to fly back to her home and back in another state. She lives with him in his apartment rent free and even then he buys all the food and other stuff and pays all the bills. I feel sad for him. But what bothers me is what happens if he forgives her. What if she spins some yarn about them being on a break and some shit like that. I will lose my girl, her friend & him. I know ill be the only person who gets c…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:00 PM
0

should i speak to my gf about her response to it. She pretends to be reformed now.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:39 PM
28

What if he flips out on me or doesnt believe me?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:37 PM
79

yeah. cant trust these chicks
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:37 PM
-3

What if he flips out on me? or doesnt believe me?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:36 PM
1

whats the right way bro? What if he flips out on me? or doesnt believe me?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:36 PM
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I have been cheated on before and was crushed to the core. lost a ton of weight and was literally laying on bed for 2 months without eating. Had to go to a doctor to get checked up. I wouldnt risk that again. Not at my age. I already have a side chick 10 years younger than me.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:35 PM
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She told me she doesnt want her friend to marry the bf because he is too good for her. And that she will be happy if they break up because the bf is a nice guy and her friend doesnt really care about him that much.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:32 PM
9

It's not about that. The guy is genuinely good guy. He should be with someone who isn't milking him until she can find someone else
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:21 PM
1

Man I am going through the same thing. LDR is working hard to get into med school and corona has torn us apart as I moved away from her to care for my parents during the pandemic. She doesn't seem inclined to meet before her exams conclude in January. We text each other everyday and have phone conversation every other day or every 2 days. It would have been 9 months since we saw each other in January. She doesn't even want to get naked on the video chats so I can atleast jerk off. No pictures ei…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:19 PM
10

Absolutely. The end game is to fuck enough women so when you are on your death bed you have no regrets of fucking the shit out of the 21 years old when you had the chance. A heart break is still a heartbreak but if you still had sex then all is not lost. Something gained something lost should be the philosophy
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:36 PM
2

I asked her. She told me she can meet me for 1 day in October and I have to drive 250 miles to her because she's scared of using public transport to come and meet me due to corona. She doesn't have a car. I agreed initially but later I called her and told her it's not worth it to come that far just to hang out for a day. I will decrease contact from tomorrow.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 04:13 PM
3

I have decided to leave her to her devices. She can choose to pursue me or not.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:32 PM
4

Did just that today. 21 yr old is in the bag now. I am tired of not having sex for 6months . I probably wouldn't have done if if the gf wouldnt have said can't meet till january. Who knows she might not feel the same way then.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:22 PM
3

I don't know man. But I crossed over to the dark side and slept with that 21 yr old. I don't feel good about it but it is what it is. Maybe the gf is hanging out with friends when she tells me she is going to bed early. Who knows man. Chicks are liars
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:21 PM
3

I know bro. She is increasingly making less effort because she feels she has a sucker who is waiting for her without even getting sex or any comfort. Who does that if they have options. And I am doing that even when I have options. Recently she doesn't even text as much because she has an exam coming up in November. Well just like wallstreet I need to diversify
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:57 PM
3

Actually bro the transport services in my country aren't working due to corona. You are only allowed to travel by your own car. She doesn't have a car of her own. But the fact that bothers me is she keeps saying she misses me but she never made an effort to ask me if I could visit her. Once we vaguely spoke about it and she said living in a hotel is problematic due to corona while she asked me if I could go to a party with her to her friends place (which eventually she decided not to go) . So ho…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:48 PM
6

Yeah, I called her over we watched a movie and had sex. She just left. Frankly I have never done this to anyone and I am not feeling very good about this. I know hypergamy and all and that she'd probably won't even blink before she branch swings to a higher value man but I know how being cheated on feels. Now I can't go back so I'll let it all play out as it may. I'll keep the 21 yr old as a plate while let the gf do her thing. I have decided to not waste my time on her gibber jabber everyday. I…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:37 PM
3

I called the chick over . I'll see how I feel when she's here
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:39 AM
1

Thanks for the truth my man. I know. It's just my girlfriend keeps begging me not to leave her while she works towards getting into the college for post graduate degree in medicine. She keeps saying she wants to be with me forever and if I left her she doesn't kNow what she'll do. She is not that bad when she is with me. We have amazing sex and she is up for anything when we go out. She follows me even if we do something that she doesn't like. And she even splits the bill on dates even though we…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:38 AM
2

Absolutely. What I don't understand is why it's always the suggestion that relationship should be ended. Why not just keep milking it as long as she is providing value ? Aren't we man enough to keep being enough detached when we are aware of hypergamy that we don't get in too deep. If you want aex and you are getting sex and ahe isn't affecting you negatively why not just let the relationship continue .
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:39 PM
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Its time to breakup bro. You cant have her disrespecting you like that. Your woman shouldn't be touching other guys anywhere. But do tell her exactly why you are breaking up with her so she knows her fuck up. Although she & her friends will rationalize it and tell her she did no wrong but still put it in her head why she lost you
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:58 PM
4

If you aren't in a ltr, sleep with whoever. Innocent girl will have to learn to deal with it. She might even want to lock you down sooner. The innocent girl wouldn't think twice about you before fucking someone at a party if you weren't an ltr.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:30 PM
1

If she agrees to take a break, she has already lost significant interest in being with you. You should break up. A girl who considers you alpha would never agree to a break because she fears you'll fuck someone and start liking her. That shitty friends sitcom has instilled that fear in women
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:00 PM
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You have to be a little bit beta if you want them to keep coming back. You can't keep them in turmoil forever. Bread crumbs have to be thrown, but seeds of doubt also need to be sown.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:23 AM
1

Yeah maybe. But she always comes to my place after her 8 hour shift. Maybe shes tired. Who really knows.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:42 PM
2

You can't trust these hoes. Lol
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:12 PM
1

Yeah she keeps coming back and stays over sometimes for a day or two. But she isnt that eager to have sex. I think she like Amy company more than the sex. Sex is just a bonus.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:58 PM
1

Yeah, but she could just not say anything if she is lying. Why lie.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:57 PM
1

Well she doesn't initiate sex anymore. We just lay on the bed and kiss and then I escalate and that results in sex. When we started this she used to be very eager to have sex now she is not that eager if the sex isnt in progress. She is loving and caring and seems to want to build a relationship, but I feel she has grown to like having me around more than the sex. I could be wrong. Maybe shes just more comfortable. Maybe the sex has become too routine. Should I sow discord and also pull back ?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:54 PM
1

Always remember to cheat on the gf if an opportunity which is worth it presents, because your gf would cheat on you in an instant. It's just female nature
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:48 PM
1

So I am technically fucked. You just can't win. I was borderline asshole so women used to break up with me in 3-4 months. Now I am stable because I dont indulge their drama so i am beta bux. Fuck our lives.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:15 PM
1

It's a good feeling when someone is chasing after your affections.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:13 PM
1

Thanks bro. I needed to hear this. I also feel that my taking charge and not being swayed by emotional turmoil has a good effect on women. But I dont want to think that just because I am sensible, I am boring.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:12 PM
2

Well she was chasing way before she found out what I did for a living or whatever my value was. As far as I can tell she was chasing so much before we had our first date that it felt weird that maybe she saw something in me that even I didnt see. But then I remember that 'I am the prize'. She asked for exclusivity a month later by that time we had fucked multiple times (she didnt hold back sex) so there was no gun to my head to agree or disagree to the proposal. And yeah she did chase me based o…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:10 PM
1

What should be my course of action
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:58 PM
0

25
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:57 PM
0

What is unpredictable? How do you incorporate that into your life?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:51 AM
-1

Yeah you are right. It has been fed into my find that you are a beta bux if you stable and girls only truly want unstable bad boys who create constant drama.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 11:50 AM
4

Absolutely on point. I was seeing 3-4 girls at a time and all of them would bitch about me being distant and busy all the time. I used to get multiple calls during the night (apparently women like to hear your voice before they go to bed, who knew). A couple of weeks later I recognized my muscle gains going away. I was so busy seeing them and talking to them that I would skip gym and my diet. I was so tired going out and having them over that I wouldn't be able to keep my schedule. I'd miss my g…
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:48 AM
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Use it as dread next time. I use it on my gf sometimes when she is bitchy. Just ask her 'do you need a break', 'you should take it if you need it'. Scares the shit out of her. Shows abundance mentality
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:19 AM
28

Specifically one from CW
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:13 AM
16

Accept my condolences my fallen comrade
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:12 AM
3

It's a 50:50 gamble. The threat usually has no bearing on her telling you or not telling you. It is only so that she knows if I find out somehow, there will be no forgiveness and she'll lose whatever we have forever. Also it re-enforces your masculine frame that you dont really give a fuck about her beyond a point. Her telling you usually rests on the fact that if the guy fucking her wants to date her or not. If he tells her to fuck off after he fucked her, you'll never know. If he agrees to a r…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 03:30 AM
10

Yeah. I told my LTR if she cheats, it would be like she never existed in my life ever. There would be no discussion or chats or phone calls or texts about feelings and rationalizations about why it happened. There would be no forgiveness. We would just be done forever and I would never see her face again until the day she or I died.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:15 PM
8

Yeah. My gf, keeps texting me she misses me every other day. Sometimes I reply me too sometimes I just ask how much? or some bullshit question like that. I hardly ever (let's say never) tell her I love her. When she says it first I just say love you too. I know it's not a healthy way to behave but who gives a flying fuck about a woman's feelings because she wouldn't give a fuck about mine. They need to be kept on edge and fed bread crumbs of your validation. She should never have it all. That's …
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:33 PM
1

Okay. Thanks for the creative input.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:58 AM
1

Currently I have no reason to believe that. She seems way too much in love with me and depression (because she believes I dont love her the same way) to fuck around. But you never know with chicks. I dont know shit about the guy and she maybe lying about what transpired although I have no proof of that .
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:57 AM
1

Why does it even matter? Assume shes a liar. Which she is. Then proceed as it doesn't matter because it doesn't. You should only concern yourself with her behavior towards you. If she provides value, sexual as well as non sexual (satisfies emotional needs and increases smv in case you breakup and want to date someone else) there is no need to publicly judge her for her past. You should only look to extract value because she is doing the same with you. Get into a relationship with her if you want…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:41 AM
1

Yeah. The primary way is to keep doing your own thing even in ltr. Go to the gym. Talk to other women non sexually. Focus on your work or studying. Dont call her or text her all day , let her do it. If she doesn't for a day, just go to sleep no need to check in why she didn't call or text. She'll text if she wanted to talk. Keep doing pullback of 2 days every month or every other month. Dont tell her every little detail of your day. (Key)
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:56 AM
2

We should always be prepared for a start over. All relationships are destined to end.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:52 AM
2

Yes. That's what I think. If it isn't affect me negatively then what's the point of not accepting her love. Seems like a win win scenario. I can also get her to do more for me if she has hopes of future with me. If she stabs me in the back then fuck her, I know how to maintain orbiters even while in ltr. I don't fuck orbiters but still have "friendly coffee hangouts". It creates passive dread in the gf .
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:51 AM
1

Yeah I feel so too. I dont get where the arbitrary timelines came from. I have known women for years who were exactly like me, had the same tastes and fucked me like there was no tomorrow. And still I couldn't get myself to even be in a casual relationship with them. It was always a series of staggered one night stands. And I have been with women who didn't share my tastes in movies and music and still got along well in other aspects. What really is love? No one knows. You should hold frame alwa…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:41 AM
1

How do I make her earn it ? Can you suggest some ways. She already pays for meals on dates half of the time and even when shes comes to my apartment she brings food for the both of us. I never travel to her place she always comes to mine. I already mentioned the sex and motivation part in my post. What else?
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:15 PM
1

I know she has definitely given herself away without commitment. Men have taken what they could before dumping her. I could have done it too. We had sex like 20 times before she asked for commitment. Hell I could do it right now. I have prospects lined up as we speak. As far as i can judge usually men tell her to fuck off because she tries to be upfront about her past relationships and that they didn't work out. But she seems to not care as she is way too much into honesty and being upfront so t…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:37 PM
1

Yeah that's why I say one thing but do another. I tell her I love her but she is still anxious because I only say it after she says it . I then encourage her to discuss her "feelings" (beta behavior) so I can get insight into her insecurities and manipulate my behavior accordingly. If she feels there is a long term problem in being with me due to certain behavior of mine I modify it without telling her that I am going to do it because she bitched about it. I also try to explain my feelings and s…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:27 PM
2

I know I have to be the same guy she fell in love with if I want to keep reaping benefits. I can't go beta now that I have her wrapped around my finger. I feel I can get more out of her if I get her to lower her guard even more. Shes still suspicious of my motives and my long term reliability. If I keep her where she is I have the upper hand but I'll possibly lose some benefits of LTR.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:16 PM
1

Who really knows man. I will twist my mind applying logic all the time. All I know if she stops fulfilling my needs, she'll be out the door. Shes no pure girl. She has herself been upfront about it. I have no way of finding about her past but still she is upfront about mostly everything. I dont tell her shit about my past still she voluntarily tells me about her. She wants to know about my past relationships and want me to know about hers and even if I dont volunteer she is ready to talk about h…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:13 PM
1

Yeah. It gives me social proof among women my age. Even my married friends are jealous. Lol
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:01 PM
1

Definitely. I just said it once over text because she was very depressed that I never say anything good about her and always reciprocate after she says it first. From now on she will only hear those words (even I miss yous) if she says them first. I'll enjoy the relationship while it lasts and eventually if it fizzles out I'll find someone else.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:55 PM
13

Yeah. I have started to engage with her a lot since she said the L word. She has started to call me all the time and I do respond. I think I need to pull back for 2 days at least to reset the clock.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:47 PM
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But I didn't want to create emotional turmoil in her life or my life unnecessarily. She is already sleeping with me regularly & practically worships me. Her friends provide positive feedback (its important if you want them to chase you) about me because I know how to play them the right way. I feel there is no reason to drag it forever. I have been elusive for the last 3 months while she kept on stroking my ego. I can't change her. I'll accept her as she is because her behavior hasn't affected m…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:45 PM
3

Yeah. She asked for it. And I liked her enough to say yes. She pursued me, she said I like you , she introduced me to her friends (especially called them to a bar to meet me) and she said I love you. And she is not the women without any options. She was actually in a casual fling with some guy and she says she didn't like him enough to even introduce him to her friends let alone have a relationship with. She has had her heart broken and I was also fucked over by a hoe in college a few years ago.…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:36 PM
11

I did that even before I knew what reddit was. My relationship in college started because I was mysterious and subsequently ended because I was mysterious and she was always anxious that I was fucking someone on the side when I was at home cramming for the exams or just going to the gym. I had a tendency to ignore all calls and texts when I was doing anything even if it was taking a shit. Now I have learned balance and some other tips from trp. Still women are anxious because i dont miss them . …
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:27 PM
2

Man love is a fickle creature in today's environment. You have to try it out to see if it works. Currently its working for her lot more than it's for me (except that I dont despise her and love the great sex) Shes also not a leech and pays her way during dates and doesn't get me to pay the bill alone all the time. But I am a pessimistic person who wouldn't know what love is if its staring right into my face. But I definitely like her better than the others. She doesn't play games and is very hon…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:30 PM
3

Oh..dont worry about that even if I say i love you, I am the kind of guy who would still give her anxiety. If I was married my wife would be anxious. I just live my life that way. Very secretly.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:05 PM
4

Well the point here is that we like each other and if I dont throw her a bone she'll eventually run maybe in a month or so. She is not a girl without options and neither am I. So we both are cautious. I like seeing her and so does she. Frankly I would have loved to not be in a relationship and keep fucking her but that isn't a possibility because she thinks i am great catch and her friends agree and if i dont reciprocate it will unnecessarily create drama in both of our lives. I guess since I li…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 05:03 PM
9

Ok. I dont say it at all until she says it. I only texted her once because she was very apprehensive that I only reciprocate her words because I am trying to be nice. I just threw her a bone to latch on to.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:23 PM
5

Yeah man just keep doing what you were doing but now since you guys said the word, watchout for her needs and subtly fulfill them. The girl I am with has conveyed multiple times that she likes waking up to my texts. But that doesn't mean I'll do it every day like a simp. I'll do it twice in a week 3 days apart and maintain balance. Similarly she was apprehensive and worried that I didn't say' I love you" because I felt It but said it because I was being a nice guy and didn't want to hurt her. I …
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:22 PM
95

Thanks man. I know trp is important for a stable productive relationship. I like trp and I think I only got her chasing following the principles of trp. I will keep following it to maintain balance. But I also dont like being a dick to women in general. I know they dont care about us and are only after the value we provide but who isn't after value. I wouldn't be with her if she didn't add value.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:12 PM
13

I will still stick to trp. I will still meet her once a week. But I think I have to take her calls now and reply to her texts because I dont want to be a dick. And I think it would be a good experience for me if I want to marry someone in the future. I am already not making the mistakes I made in my last relationship. So I think I learned from experience. Now I will be more better even if this doesn't workout. She's also apprehensive of it not working out. But I have decided to take it one day a…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:09 PM
14

Nah. She's 25 I am 29. You dont have to be teenager to have doubts . Our past relationships affect us more as we grow older. Teenagers are pure they have no reference point. Older people know how shitty some people can be.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:06 PM
21

Thanks man. I was just worried if I give her what she wants she'll lose interest. But now that seems counterproductive since if I dont give her what she wants she might hang on for a bit , annoy me with all the relationship questions and then eventually go with someone else because I dont reciprocate. I think I will be better off in a relationship with her because she adds value and as long as she adds value I will stay. I have to think like a woman thinks in such scenarios. Also her friends dig…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:25 PM
1

Bro..when she is not with me I do whatever I want and only reach out when she reaches out. I try to not see her even once a week. I make it a point to see her once every 10 days. I only reply to I love yous and I like yous . Never say it on my own. Sometimes I even reply with a simple thank you.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 12:13 PM
1

Oh..but why did she say that then...she introduced me to her friends and all of them made a huge deal about it.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:13 AM
1

She does and she swallows.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:58 PM
1

Best advice man.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:57 PM
0

ILU
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:42 PM
1

The girl I am seeing is 5 years younger but the new girl is even more young. I feel I can handle young women well. That's the only charm of the new girl because the current chick is really good in bed and "currently" loves me. (According to her)
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:49 PM
1

I work at a very time consuming job. I don't have a lot of time to game women because I am on my purpose and my purpose takes a lot of time. I usually keep platonic women friends with whom I can flirt with but don't sleep(intentionally) because that leads to escalation into relationships. I try to sleep with one chick and keep orbiters. This keeps my life simple.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:48 PM
1

How do I know if she has earned it?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:44 PM
0

I love you.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:42 PM
4

I have never cheated before but was cheated on by my hoe ex in college. It hurt like hell and ruined a fucking year of my life (I was young). I hated cheaters before but now I take it as womenly nature (hypergamy).
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:41 PM
1

What do you think from her behaviour? Bang or no bang.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:35 PM
0

Sorry. Forgot. Also how do I plate her. She's already seeing some dude.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:17 PM
2

Aptly put. So what's the out here? How do you keep women from being attached because sometimes the sex is insane and she'd let you do whatever in bed. So it's sad that her feelings suddenly changed.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:22 AM
1

Now she is calling me all the time and it has only been a day of exclusivity
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:42 AM
1

She was crying at 5am on my bed because I wouldn't tell her what I thought about her and I asked her if she wanted something more than what we have and it fucking escalated from there. Then she asked for exclusivity and I caved and told her I also want that. I did that because she is great in bed and let's me do whatever I want to her. Also she is like 4-5 years younger than me so I know it probably will eventually die because she has post graduation coming up in 5-6 months.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:38 AM
1

Man up bro! She was never yours it was just your turn. You can still fuck her and be in a casual relationship with her but don't trust her and worse don't plan a wedding. Try to make her an alpha widow. Also keep fucking other girls or at least cultivating prospects. I am currently dating a chick who has had a lot of cock (atleast 4-5) in the past but since I think I have higher SMV she is latching on to me. I have grand plans to make her an alpha widow. She'll never get to have my complete devo…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:35 AM
1

Twice a week is too much. Reduce it to once a week even if it means being on her schedule and not yours. Also set a rule that she should inform you 2-3 days prior to the date she wants to hangout with you. It's ok once in a while to be spontaneous and hang twice or on short notice but not all the time. You are a man, find shit to do other than girls. They should complement your life not be your life.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:24 AM
1

All I will say is she fucked someone else. Nobody brings that shit up if they have nothing to hide.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:20 AM
2

Seeing them once per week is the key to all relationship problems.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:17 AM
2

Just hang out with her a couple of times and try to escalate. Create opportunities for sex (invite her to your place etc) and see what happens. If she's down for it great. If not, don't give a fuck but stop hanging out. If before (when she ghosted you) she went with the other guy it's not really her or your's fault. Girls usually choose a guy who they have history with over some random dude they have known for a few weeks. Women usually need stability no matter how much of a hoe they are. A hoe …
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:08 AM
1

It was fine until today. That's how I got her to come to my apartment all the time without even going on dates. Then she cried today and I didn't know what to do and I agreed trying to pacify her
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:31 PM
2

How do I rebound from this? Or the only way I can get out is breaking up with her withing 24 hrs of commitment.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:30 PM
1

Well I get great sex. (It's actually quite great, she swallows). But she just called me up and sprung up on me. I couldn't decide at the moment. I should have said let's meet up and discuss.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:29 PM
1

It was in the heat of the moment. And she told me she cheated on her boyfriend in college, so now this seems like a fucking mistake of epic proportions
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:28 PM
1

She asked me if she can tell her friends and I fucking said yes. Now I realize the collasol mistake I made.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:32 PM
1

Should I call or text or meet in person. I am going out of the city tommorow for a week. Can it wait a week?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:27 PM
1

Oh. Never thought about that. Such a rookie mistake. Fuck. I am in a relationship from today. How do I get out of it?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:22 PM
1

Yes. And now we are in a relationship. Fucking hell
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:21 PM
0

She cried and kept asking me reasons for not commiting to her.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:10 PM
1

I meant you just say it that you are exclusive with her.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:17 PM
2

That's what I was saying. It's just since the chick is asking for exclusivity why not just say you are ok with it. Since she isn't going to know about it anyway. And chicks are always looking for someone else so she with be happy for the time being
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:16 PM
0

It's a jungle out there. Girls don't give a fuck and we are supposed to stick to some outdated code of ethics.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:45 PM
-1

Is it wrong to ask a question. I see girls doing it all the time. Why is it wrong for guys?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:36 PM
1

Never say never.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:55 AM
1

She says she has nightmares after watching horror flicks. Her friend also likes horror movies. Maybe I should hit on her.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:54 AM
1

I don't give a fuck as long as I smash. I can watch the movies I like alone. Or watch them with my orbiters.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:53 AM
1

That's what I do. I always have a bottle of JW at home. A 2 hour movie gives me a chance to recharge
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:52 AM
1

Haha. Will put on Top Gun. And then Maverick my way into her vagina.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:51 AM
1

But you gotta be mindful of the chick explicitly says she has nightmares after watching a horror flick
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:51 AM
1

I don't feel cheated as long as I get to smash. I can watch a horror movie alone. I don't need a chicks company and her annoying questions/commentary while I am engrossed in a movie. Chicks are dumb as fuck can't even figure out basic plots.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:50 AM
2

Yeah. I played Basic Instinct and halfway through the movie she got sleepy (aka bored). Then we smashed. Although we smashed even when she watched four weddings and a funeral
/r/askTRP06/08/19 10:48 AM
1

Man I have given up. I have become too scared of my dick falling off. I was having raw sex with this chick for 3-4 dates. Now I will Insist on a wrap. I just want the Lord to give me another chance and not give me Aids this one time.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:39 PM
3

Also it makes you feel like you own the girl. I know it's weird but maybe it's some primal instinct
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:33 PM
1

I can't do it but I am going to try. It takes a lot of time to cum in a condom and it hardly ever is as pleasurable
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:32 PM
1

Because you have high SMV bro. Having more shirts doesn't make your SMV high. It's All pretend. If you pretend you got options you are automatically high SMV
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:31 PM
1

Haha. Follow the 12 steps man.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:30 PM
1

Congrats. Raw is just better. I feel it's pleasure as well as that weird feeling of power that comes in nutting in someone raw.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:29 PM
1

Yeah I would get attached but I am too self aware to do so. Even if I am attached, I never let the chick know. She'll ruin my life if she finds out.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:28 PM
1

Only if your SMV is higher than hers. No way she lets a lower value man nut in her. I have girls bitch about ex's who wanted to raw dog but she thought he was a douchebag. Now she herself wants me to put it in her raw. She herself takes off the condom if I don't come soon enough. It's all in the woman's head to be honest.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:27 PM
1

Sadly if she has a lower SMV than you, she might want to cling.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:22 PM
5

Nah. I will take care from now on. I just want Jesus to save me once and not give me all of the above shit.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:21 PM
1

Yeah I feel the same now. Girls usually are unwilling to get raw dogged. Maybe she thinks my SMV is higher than hers so couldn't resist. She could change her mind if she get pregnant an want to marry or some bullshit. No body wants 18yr drain on the bank account. I am not 50cent.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:21 PM
1

Lol. Bro seriously? It's ok playing Russian roulette some of the time but not all of the time.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:18 PM
1

Yeah but still you gotta feed the chick her morning after pill. Can't take the risk of pregnancy.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:17 PM
1

Yeah and then the girl talks about you going "soft too soon" . When you were hard like a fucking rock for 30 straight mins during foreplay. I only go soft after there is a condom on my junk. God hates us all.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:17 PM
1

Now the deed is done man. It's out of my hands.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:06 PM
1

Neither do I do it with everyone. I only get lured into it if I have this voice in my head that if I had a gun to my head and had to be with this chick in a relationship, it wouldn't be so bad. I can't get myself to do it with women I just wanna fuck or get a bj. They are disposable and I can't risk getting tied to them or spending hard cash on abortions.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:36 PM
2

I am already scared shitless. Don't scare me more man. I feel raw sex is like our kryptonite. And if I wasn't into RP I would probably fall in love or get attached to the girl giving it to me.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:22 PM
5

My god does it feel good cumming in someone raw. It feels powerful. Like you fulfilled your purpose. But always feed her the pill next morning.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:02 PM
1

Yeah even I don't cum in people I would be atleast willing to consider as a long term partner if there was a gun to my head. (Maybe she is good in bed or fun to hang out with or always stroking my ego and trying to please me). I only have done it once because I considered her worthy even though she has had multiple sexual partners before. She was ok.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:01 PM
4

I don't worry about pregnancy much. The kind of girls I tend to fuck all have something to lose by getting knocked up (promising careers, family values etc) I did cum once inside a girl but she had a lot more going for her than me at that point and I made sure she took the pill. But she still would let me fuck her raw but want me to wear a condom when I was about to cum.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:59 PM
1

Hahaha. Although it's the truth but alas casual sex requires a little finesse
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:42 PM
1

Hahaha...in what world has that ever worked. She'd think I am some sex maniac .
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:13 PM
7

Hahah. That would probably be the last time I'd see her.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 10:50 AM
0

Thanks bro. I'll read it. I feel being completely stoic or detached wouldn't work beyond a couple of months. You need to feed them scraps occasionally for them to keep coming back for more. They never know if it's an act or are you a good guy or a bad guy. It's all illusion.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:32 AM
3

Well put bro. Totally agree. Everything is good in moderation. You convey high value by not chasing and being understanding. But everyone wants a lover when they are with you. If they don't get that they'll think you are just a one trick pony. You need to provide an experience to women (like a performer) . It's not about her, it's about you getting good at game. She never knows what's the reality, she is always confused. She is living in your reality which is hot and cold. Hot when together or o…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:23 AM
1

Yeah, I hear on the forum to keep women at arm's length and just fuck them but I feel that if you want her" soul "and you want her gushing to her friends and want her friends to push her towards you you got to feed the hamster sometimes and project high value. I feel that's it's not enough to have her body (because women are hoes these days) you need to have her mind, heart and soul but don't give these things back in return. She'll be like a drug addict thinking and talking about you when you a…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:17 AM
4

Man this maintaining frame is a full time job. Sometimes I go corny and stuff but then I have to retrace my steps and be mysterious again by going incommunicado and responding only to texts and not initiating convo.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:13 AM
17

Great advice. I used that a couple of days ago. I was having pancakes at some restaurant and she texted me what are you doing. I told her. She said she'd love to have pancakes. I replied jokingly, that I can suggest a few good restaurants she could go to.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:11 AM
1

Ams gets how things work. He's the elder brother I never had. You keep moving ahead in life and women just follow like ants .
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:33 AM
1

I already do that before any woman comes over. I lock away all my cash and credit cards, my spare phone, my watches and my condoms (just take out a couple before) And I never let her out of my sight except when she is in the bathroom. Can't trust these chicks anymore. I also hide my laptop. Don't want her trying to check her email and looking over my history.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:31 AM
2

Overly emotional but always assertive that she is independent woman who does what she wants.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:38 PM
1

Hey . Thanks for the explanation bro. When you said pull back & push hard you mean pull back(no text or calling) when she isnt with me right? Like don't get in touch between dates. I usually just see any woman once a week. What do you mean by emotional/social intelligence? Can you give an example of that? I'll take it from there.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:41 PM
1

Ok. I get that now. ONS it is. She's coming over tonight so may be she will be a plate now. Also should I not bring up the hangout I suggested on Friday because she just said I am glad you asked me out and didn't agree or disagree to the plan. What's my move?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:29 AM
1

Whatever
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:47 PM
0

Like taking steroids makes you experienced.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:30 PM
0

So now you are the authority on this with your steroids? How nice. Not everyone who disagrees is defensive. Get a life.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:01 PM
1

Yeah maybe for you. But not all guys lose "sexual energy" with just one wank. Some of us can go 3-4 rounds a night. So don't generalise.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:09 AM
3

"She gotta lick a whoooooole lotta ass. I don't care what you guys say, that's how it is"
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:10 AM
-1

Lol. Why would I agree to that just because you said so. Get the fuck otta here
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:19 PM
1

Yes I should be on my purpose. Not worrying about this shit.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:23 PM
1

Yeah I could see it dying but didn't pull the plug. Bad move. Ill go back to my old ways of not texting or calling and let her do it, if she wants
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:05 PM
1

I am currently having the run of my life on bumble. And I am not red pilled enough to do this on my own.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:54 PM
1

If there is no reply plate will fall off
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:46 PM
2

I understand. My initial rationale was that since I never ever call her and whenever she calls me I talk for 15-20 mins and tell her I have to get back to work. And I never ever msg her first and keep the replies to 3:2 ratio, it wouldn't be harmful to just call her once in like 15 days. Made a big mistake by stretching it too long. I think I need to go underground for a while. Revert to monk mode and try to wipe out today's call by being the way I was before.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:45 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:19 PM
1

But we are told to only use phone calls to set up dates not to chit chat. And it got worse, she was the one who asked to hangup because she had to go do something.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:18 PM
1

Ok. Good advice. Should I not respond to msgs. She seemed quite happy with my call. But the nightmare got worse when she was the one who said she needed to do something so she has to hang up.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:15 PM
1

How long ?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:13 PM
1

On the phone.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:21 PM
9

Bad ass
/r/askTRP20/07/19 10:14 AM
20

First of all beat your meat in the morning when you are going to meet her. This will keep you calm in the bed. Second do a lot of foreplay (look for erogenous zones of women on Google and kiss and bite those areas gently but not too gently. Give her hickeys on the neck that she is able to see when she takes a bath next day.(this will remind her of you). Third be a giver in bed once the chick gets wet or in the mood she'll literally do what ever you demand, so satisfy her first.(she won't bitch a…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:27 AM
35

Man my plate told me she has never been satisfied by any of the guys she's been with except for 2-3 times when the guy was so hot it didn't matter. This bought her the ticket to "platetown". Now she told me this when I hadn't even fucked her and it was she who was after me like a mad woman. To be honest I was a little turned off by the disclosure. I didn't wanna hang with a hoe. But then I swallowed my anger and thought about the fact that if I didn't fuck her someone else who didn't give a fuck…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:17 AM
3

My man AMS. I can hear his palms rubbing together.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:08 AM
3

Being in your mother's womb is the biggest shit test we need to pass.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:07 AM
8

Women essentially need three things to survive: shoes, handbags and attention. Water, food and air are secondary requirements. Only one of the the above 3 things you are able to provide her. Rest she can get on her own. Depriving her of it should be the message. No need to actually say it. No matter how much a girl says she likes open conversation and you should air out grievances, never do it. She'll just laugh at you behind your back and never change. Only way to change her is to treat her lik…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:01 AM
1

We are maybe each other's plate. 😂 As long as it gets my dick wet so... 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:06 AM
1

How about I buy her a Casio watch. They are cheap as fuck.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:15 AM
1

Thinking about stealing my sister's new watch and wrapping it up nicely to give to the plate.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:00 PM
2

Absolutely. Even I feel I need to go and pretend a bit. I don't want to become a bitching topic among her friends like the sex and the city after they are drunk .
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:58 PM
1

Yeah I can see that now. We'll see how it turns out. I have been trying to increase the number of plates diligently but plates used to fall off in a couple of months because they caught feelings and wanted more. This is the first time I am able to maintain the number 3 without one plate wanting more and when their was non compliance, cutting ties. But now I live by "Treat 'em like mushrooms; feed 'em shit and keep 'em in the dark."
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:56 PM
1

They are supportive because they know how to keep a girl hooked. You feed her scraps from time to time to keep them coming for more. You don't want them thinking that you are an asshole. You want them thinking you are "their" asshole.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:50 PM
1

Yeah I gave my plate a book called bottle of lies after I finished reading it. Can't have her not knowing shit when I want to discuss that subject while drinking.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:48 PM
1

I don't have abundance mentality yet. I care about all three girls. I would love to keep them in rotation and for that I need to be nice on certain occasions. Also full disclosure I get msgs everyday from the plates that I answer because I don't wanna look like a dick. But I don't answer right away I take 12-16 hours to reply. Sometimes if they call I'll talk to the for 15-20 mins but that happens once a week.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:52 AM
0

That's what I feel. But some poor dudes on this sub keep accusing me of losing frame or entering her frame. How am I losing frame if I don't even care who she fuck as long as she fucks me. I never call or text. But it's important to call the plate when she has an exam coming up to wish her luck or when plate has her birthday otherwise you end up looking like a dick and the plate runs away. Being alpha doesn't mean being a dick to women. It means being on your purpose and not being pussy whipped …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:49 AM
1

No dating. Just hanging out having fun
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:45 AM
1

Yeah. But my plates want to probably date me. I try to implement what I learn on this sub diligently. I am mostly unavailable to them so they probably want to hangout more. Maybe this is why I get invited to social gathering they are attending. I am new to this and frankly do not have abundance mentality. I have to reinforce this in my head everyday. I used to be the guy who would be with just one girl at a time while she was making orbiters left right and centre.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:53 AM
17

Lol. I have to. I have finally managed a 3 girl rotation. I have to water the grass to keep it green.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:34 AM
6

Sorry to say this but you probably haven't had plates so you don't know how to manage a rotation.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:33 AM
14

Hmmm. Will have to find some trash around the house.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:22 AM
0

I don't even wanna go.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:22 AM
11

You gotta feed them scraps from time to time if you gonna keep them hooked.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:22 AM
1

What?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:12 AM
2

What should be the budget bro? 30$ or 50$?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:09 AM
1

Oh. That's when she wanted me to fuck her raw. I said it's none of her business. But I can guarantee I don't have STDs.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:08 AM
1

Where?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:43 AM
1

Great advice man.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:54 PM
-2

Nah bro. The girl didnt talk about her ex. And the incident I am referring to happened a while back where the girl wanted to know my sexual history so she could fuck me raw. That's it.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:53 PM
0

I don't think that's appropriate 😂
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:29 PM
1

They still want to know. Once a girl brought it up mid fucking. It was very irritating.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:26 PM
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Nobody cares that much. You could have a large frame and work at the Walmart loading unloading boxes. It's not the deciding factor in any interaction
/r/askTRP18/07/19 08:39 PM
1

How is frame due to genetics? You could always go to a gym
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:23 AM
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You don't have to be a Greek god. All things you mentioned are achievable except height but usually men above 5"7 - 5"8 are good to go. Below that your options become limited.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 08:03 AM
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What guy is that?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:50 AM
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Yes you are absolutely right. This is why I looked for advice because usually I don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:36 AM
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Thanks for a rational reply. All I am ever suggested here is to cut ties when I clearly have said that I like sleeping with her and hanging out sometimes. Not all the time as she is a bit volatile and open (likes to talk about everything even if it's personal). She has expressed her apprehension that maybe I only like her chasing me. Seeing her for a month. She has expressed her "like" in various ways. Verbally as well as non verbally. Although I am no sleazeball but I'd prefer to keep her as sh…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:30 AM
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Yes I thought so too. She's wasting my energy making me all hyper. Already started it today. Soft next for 5 days. Closed off all communication lines including imessage and WhatsApp.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:56 AM
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I never do. It's her game. She wants to hang and then she doesn't in the same conversation.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:16 AM
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Nah bro. I am not trying to find a career driven woman. I just read on this sub that if women have something going on with their life they aren't as nuts as the girl who has not a lot going for her. So I thought some who has a demanding profession would have her own shit to deal with rather then fuck with me. I just thought it would be an easy smash and I could rotate them easily because they wouldn't fuck with my mind. That hasn't been the case. At all. First they chased and are still chasing b…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:52 AM
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I found it.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:30 AM
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But I asked the question here. She doesn't know about what I am thinking. I am still doing what I was doing keeping her at arm's length. When she wants to come over I say ok. When she says I am busy, I say ok. Isn't that what outcome independence is? I have never bitched or whined to her about anything. Except I once just said that she can't plan anything for shit in a playful way. She god defensive but I ignored.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:28 AM
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I know I am not as cool but I have to currently work with who I am while improving myself. I can sit at home reading rational male without trying to implement it in the real world. I just want to get better at this. That's all. Even I want a sane person, but that hardly ever happens with me. All I attract is crazy. I tried to not bottom fish and get a women who have something going on with their life, even then both are crazy/hoes. What are the chances of a doctor and a professor being nuts.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:26 AM
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I understand that but it's had to drop the crazy hoes. They are so much more willing to degrade themselves in the sack. Also I only attract crazy. I have two plates both professionals and both are nuts. I have no other choice if I want to smash.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:05 AM
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Yeah. But both are great in the sack. Suck a whole lotta dick and balls so yeah I'd like to keep smashing. 😈
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:02 AM
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Because I want to smash more without falling for the shit test.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:01 AM
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Glad to be of help. Although I am not a Pro like some guys here but I have suffered enough bullshit from chicks to know, if you react they win. Be calm. At all times. Even if she shows you a picture of her fucking another dude. Be Zen . Say 'thats cool'. I hope you had fun. Have a serial killer calm mind. Your aim should only be to fuck or get a bj that night. Everything else is secondary. She can take her words back and her feelings can change but she can't take back the sex. Also if she bitche…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:56 AM
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Already smashed. Would like to smash more. Would like to construct a nice rotation of plates.
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:53 AM
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No. Two different girls. Ones a doctor another is a literature professor. I tend to attract the crazy.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:52 AM
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I soft next her everyday. Never approach at all. She does all the approaching. It's been more than a month .
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:52 AM
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How do I counter this?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:19 AM
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Lol. She herself suggests that she wants to come over after 10pm. Then she herself backs away during the same conversation. (It's like she is thinking out aloud) "Can I come over" "yeah" " but I can't because I have such and such problem" "okay". It happens every alternate day.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:18 AM
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Ok. But when she suggests something to do and then she herself backs away later (during the same conversation after I have agreed). What should be the appropriate response other than what I give currently to her (I never suggest anything to do with her. I only want to fuck so I don't pursue her. She does all the pursuing) I feel she is going for the power grab. She wants to be the alpha and want me to pursue.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:09 AM
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K
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:03 AM
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Mature response.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:02 AM
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Thanks for the help. I'll read it asap.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:39 AM
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Yes. I know that. I haven't let her know that she is fucking with me. Ironclad frame control. I do fuck with her as I said in the post. I just wanted to know how to deal with this kinda shit better. Or am I doing fine.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:38 AM
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Atleast tell me the name of the topic . There is a lot of stuff on sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:22 AM
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What is that bro? Can you elaborate pls.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:16 AM
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I am still learning from you guys and although I don't think I am truly outcome independent because I am new to this but I do have insane self control. I don't just text as soon as I am provoked . I dwell on it and weigh all my options and then follow the advice on this sub where it say to be non reactive at all times. I never get in to her frame when she creates drama. I just back off and if works fine for me.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:15 AM
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Bro. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Especially with women, they are attracted to a guy through her ears not eyes. That means you should get better at what you say to them. Better body does help too. But mostly it's what they hear that makes them fall for you. You should always try to be the guy they want to date not just some dude they fuck and forget. That's another thing that you may want to pump and dump. But remember in that scenario the power is in your hand not hers. If you ar…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:47 AM
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Bro it won't matter in a couple of years. It will be an asset . I am 28 . Look like 23-24. Girls who are 21-25 find me really attractive because I have the maturity of a 28 year old but looks of a younger guy. Same thing will happen to you eventually in a couple of years. Until then my suggestion is to just lift weights at the gym. Get your body right.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:04 AM
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to keep giving her the D
/r/seduction17/07/19 07:54 AM
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Lol. We had sex after she said that and stayed over for the whole next day
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:28 AM
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Well that's what I read on some redpill blog
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:33 PM
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Definitely. Time to reclaim the power and stabilize the mind.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:32 PM
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Haha. True that. But being good in bed keeps them wanting it more and more. Although all it's good for is massaging your ego. But well we all need a little ego massage now and then. Also little dick hardly matters to women because they rarely cum from regular fucking. They need the expertise you gain after disappointing a few women in the past.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:16 PM
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Baller
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:08 PM
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She seems a bit nuts honestly. And she drinks too much. She's also like a bit young.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:21 PM
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Brilliant!! Man this requires a serial killer calm mind.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:05 PM
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Yeah bro. I get that but she said this before we had sex that day and then she came again the next day. Now she wants to hang out too. That's what's weird.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:04 PM
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Yeah. Me too. Who wants to be an orbiter.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:01 PM
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Great advice man. Just be like who cares. She's a liar anyways. No need to thump your chest. Be Zen.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:00 PM
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Yeah. So one she stops sleeping with me . I need to let go
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:54 AM
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Well I don't give any attention at all. She is the one who texts me. She's the one who calls me. I only call back if she asks me to. I never call her on my own. But I do answer her texts with enthusiasm so she doesn't think I am telling her to fuck off. Also what's the point of saying it before we've had sex during that night . Also it was a one night stand. But now she wants to hang out and talk on the phone
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:53 AM
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Hmm. Nice point. Although she said 'whoever you are you are great in bed' and 'you know where the Gspot is not many men do' (not bragging just telling you for context) (also she could be lying just to get in my good graces, who knows with chicks they are master manipulators) I am telling you this because if there is a chance that she cuts ties or wants to be friends, I want to do it first. I don't want my ego to bruised unnecessarily. Also I have already had sex so why even take a chance.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 11:48 AM
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I just prefer to not be friends with people who were sleeping with me. Because they then have a tendency to overshare. I am not a fan of that.
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:41 AM
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Yeah she said the 'title' before she fucked me. Then she stayed over for a whole day and preceding night . We fucked multiple times. But her statement still bothers me.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 11:38 AM
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Ok. Bro but now she texted me and wants to go to some bullshit new age cafe. And she also asked if I'd like to meet her friends when she was leaving my apartment to go meet her friends. What does that mean? Should I Cut ties?
/r/askTRP16/07/19 11:29 AM
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But man this friendship with women I have slept with makes me very uncomfortable. I fear getting taken advantage off.
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:13 AM
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Yeah man, tell me about it. It has happened to me thrice. They talk to me, they come home and say shit like this and then we fuck. They still want to pursue romantic endeavors. Once I told a girl I love going to comicon and she was like - that's unexpected from someone like you. My friends don't take me there and I am shy of going alone . Please take me when you go and even if this doesn't work out, please be my friend. WTF. I am perplexed. Why say that at all?
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:10 AM
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Nah after that she slept with me. And then she came over the next night too . So I doubt my neck is on the chopping block as of now. 😂
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:56 AM
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Haha. Couple of girls have said this to me. Although I troll through their Facebook profile to know what kind of a person they are and what are their views on stuff like politics and other shit. Then I become the person she herself is. I once read the whole fucking encyclopedia of human body before meeting a doctor chick. 😂
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:55 AM
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Don't fix them. My ex hoe told me she was told by a doctor to eat less junk food or she won't be able to have kids. She begged me to make her a diet chart she never followed. She begged me to stop her from eating junk off of McDonalds and KFC. I obliged. When she fucked some other dude behind my back one of the reason she gave me was that I considered her fat. 😂
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:52 AM
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Just get chicks of bumble and tinder. Sleep with them. Eventually they may or may not fall in love with you. If they do - great. You get an orbiter. If they don't (and you don't care who they fuck) - make them your friend. Easy. Then invade their social circle. And become friends with their friends. Then fuck them too.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:48 AM
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She was just a one night stand off of bumble.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:42 AM
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Haha. There is no break up. We aren't even together she was just a one night stand.
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:39 AM
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So should I cut ties because she brought it up or just let it slide? I didn't say anything just let it be. Who wants to argue. She also added - it would be awesome to have you around even if it is as a friend because you are a unique guy. (Whatever that means) 🙄
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:38 AM
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So I shouldnt cut ties just because this was brought up randomly on the first date? (Also the whole sentence included- because you are a really awesome guy & would be great to have around)
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:35 AM
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But why say it even before getting into a relationship. What's the point? Why do one night stands say it? Why do random hookups say it ?
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:23 AM
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Yeah you sleep with me -fine. You don't - I'll find someone else.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I focus on my purpose most of the time. She's a bit clingy and has transformed in to "10-15 msgs at a time girl" (sometimes when she is annoyed with me) . I do enjoy her company a little bit but I still can't handle women who are sleeping with me talking about ex lovers but I maintain frame at all times and pretend I don't give a shit. All I say is "that's cool" and change topic. Do you know how to handle such convo bro?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:01 PM
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I always have shit to do bro. I am on my purpose. If someone doesn't have shit going on they are doing it wrong .
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:56 PM
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Definitely better than church.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:14 PM
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Haha. I think she is wants free alcohol more than the food. Although she fucking ate all the food my mom cooked me (she visited me for a day or two) . Which was a bummer.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:13 PM
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Yeah. LTR usually bitch about state of affairs in the relationship a lot while plates usually are fun. Even their bitching can be handled because they know their place and know not to demand or push too much.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:09 PM
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Yeah but mental gymnastics are tiring sometimes. You wanna talk but you can't msg. You want to say more but you can't send more than one msg.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:57 AM
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Sorry bro
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:01 AM
1

Yeah it's hard to do that if they have their tongue down your throat.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:42 AM
1

You mean I am following RPT a bit too much bro?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:29 AM
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Ok great. I just don't want to mess my plate up. She's getting ideas that we can hangout aside from my apartment. She wants to take me to some bullshit hippie cafe. But she is flaky so who know she might not follow through. She'll tell me she will come over the next day and then make some excuse. I just keep calm and reply 'okay'.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:19 AM
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Nah man I love it. I just want to know if according to the redpill theory we are allowed to let girls stay over and all through the next day.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:15 AM
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Ok. But it was a Sunday so I had no excuse to leave. My office & gym are closed. I was afraid if I pretended that I had errands to run, she might ask me to go do my business and let her sleep in my apartment. I don't think I can leave a girl alone in my apartment because she might rummage through my stuff. And she asked me if I wanted to meet her friend and her boyfriend so I was scared that if I pretended to meet my friends she might want to come along. She's way to lovey dovey for someone who …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:13 AM
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Yeah if I text or call them from my side they gradually get accustomed to my texts and then bitch about me not getting in touch if I withdraw for a few days. Gradually the attraction fades. Wouldn't it be nice if we could just be normal and not play mind games? Where are the real women ? All I see around are hoes.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:05 AM
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Should I be kicking her out? (I am trying to do things by the book now a days, tired of the hoes) Or let her do her thing and stay during the day?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:02 AM
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Man there is no victory for a guy in case of alpha widow.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:22 AM
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Don't be looking for sympathy here. You are here to fuck shit up not wallow in your misery
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:00 PM
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Man it does help if you are a giver in bed. Have a lot of foreplay to be honest don't get down to business for like an hour or so (possibly until she starts begging and even then delay). And don't be serious during sex. Keep it casual and fun like you do it everyday with someone. Don't make a big deal about it. Pretend you get pussy all the time and you are just having sex with her because you like her. And never be butthurt over anything she says just ignore or make a joke out of it. Pretend sh…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:58 PM
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This. They ate always fucking someone. If not physically then mentally.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:52 PM
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So keep fucking her?
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:30 AM
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Ok. I will bro. Currently she's after me like a maniac. But probably would be fucking other guys from bumble or tinder. I always keep that in my mind when I see her. I have dealt with a hoe like her 6 years ago in college. But you need to keep practicing to stay on your toes. I am not into reforming her. I always listen to Big rich town by 50 cent on full volume before I see her 😂. He lays some good verses about dealing with hoes and staying on your purpose all the time.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:48 AM
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Yeah bro! I also feel I need to do this not for the sex but for mental toughness. It's like a mental exercise for me. I feel if I can persevere and not get attached I'll come out more resilient. I just need to see it as a part of stoicism. Be calm like a serial killer and let the "cat" run all over the neighborhood. Feed & pet her when it comes back. I want her to depend on me like a drug addict, just for the sake of the bro that she cheated on just because the other guy was hot. I feel for him …
/r/askTRP14/07/19 06:27 AM
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So bro, should I stop fucking her and cut ties? I try to fool her by being all romantic without spending any dough. She just comes over and I feed her the food I already have. Or she orders for herself. I don't text or call. And respond to all msgs politely and keep them short (learned from you guys) . How do I proceed? (Asking because you have handled a hoe like this).
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:35 AM
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Ok man. You know so much about this. Have you dealt with bullshit like this ?
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:59 AM
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Great advice man. No weaknesses. She'll later use them to justify breaking up with me.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:58 AM
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Yeah man, she's insisting I let her come over today. She was just here the day before. I have deflected and she was a bit pissed. Wanted me to live in the present etc. I read enough of TRP to understand push and pull. I deny whatever she wants initially, then I let her have some of it. Like if she says she wants to meet, I just deflect a bit then agree non chalantly
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:57 AM
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Yeah it's pretty fucked up how she just wants to come over to my apartment all the time and not go on dates like I am the ugly partner in this relationship. Fuck her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:42 PM
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Great advice. Should I only see her occasionally? She wants to come over every other day and mess up my routine. She stays for like 16-20 hours and all we do is talk, sleep and fuck. I can't even take calls because I don't want here whoreing her way into my conversations with other chicks. Have to turnoff notifications from bumble and WhatsApp. I am not complaining about the sex but I don't like her continuous pestering about me not opening up to her. It's irritating.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:14 PM
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Elaborate bro
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:11 PM
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Yeah man I used to date a pretty basic chick 6/10 maybe. But she got into her head that she can do better because her ugly friend said so. The ugly chick was mad at me because I didn't want her hanging out with us outside the college campus because I had to pay for her too. Be it movies or food. Fuck that . I was a poor college student. Great advice . I think I can dodge the bullet until a couple of months down the line when she has her birthday. Maybe I'd have to go to the party. If it lasts th…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:10 PM
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No. But I will definitely spend it on something.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:25 PM
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Thats very good bro. I need to remember that. Thanks
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:25 PM
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That's what happened to me but I had to score with her and it was 5 am . Why waste the effort before you get a bj.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:24 PM
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That's what I am gonna do. 🙂 Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:23 PM
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Relax bro. No need to get all manic.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:22 PM
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Thanks man. I feel the batshit crazy coming on. Yesterday she said she'd withdraw sex if I didn't open up more to her. She wants me to commit but her to keep fucking any one she wants. What a dotard.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:06 PM
1

Why not. It's still 20$.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:02 PM
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No trust man. I secretly despise her from the core of my heart. She's crazy so you can wonder how the sex is like. That's the only reason I didn't kick her out of the apartment when she told me she cheated on some dude. She also provides a source of ego boost because she keeps on complimenting me on sex and knowledge etc. I am just seeking opinion on how just to keep her a plate. What are the rules? Should I not hang out with her outside of the bedroom. Won't she quite fucking?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:28 AM
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I know that's why I am actively dating other people. Although secretly from her. She said she hated lies (pretty rich coming from a cheater) so I don't want her to know. But how do I keep it on the down low with her. I know what's coming. She'll soon ask for exclusivity. It's just a matter of time, unless she's a bigger hoe than I have judged her to be. I know I have to be Zen about this. Should I not hang out with her. I like having sex with her but I secretly despise her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:25 AM
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You mis understood man. This girl didn't cheat on me. It was some chick in college 6 years ago. I dumped that bitch and go in a new relationship right in front of her with a chick of higher value than her. In the above comment the girl I am currently seeing is talking about some other dude she cheated on because the other guy was just hot.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:06 AM
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Amen brother amen! She is crazy I can attest to that. She's after me like a maniac. Always wants to share everything and wants to know how I feel about her etc. It's like she wants an ego boost. Although I won't deny, I am fairly good looking (that's what others say) but the way she is after me is just unreal. She made me doubt my red pilled mind and that's why I came here to seek opinions. She forced her way into my house just to fuck. I think she has got her heart broken by some dude and just …
/r/askTRP13/07/19 11:03 AM
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Yeah man I feel it. I have been cheated on too. I was filled with disgust when she said she cheated on someone like it didn't mean anything at all. Then she went on to narrate why she did it. The only reason was that the guy was hot. And she just need the D. Fuck her man. I won't actively try to hurt her but if in the process she does catch feelings, well it's just karma. I just hope I don't catch feelings first. Have any tips ?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:57 AM
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Thanks man. I think I'll just keep sleeping with her in the mean time. And try to actively go out with more women so I don't catch oneitis. She does seem crazy. She slept with me on the first date and spilled all the beans after that. No sane or rational person would ever do that.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:55 AM
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Yeah she seems crazy but is very addictive. I think i am justifying it but thinking she will reform herself for me. I know won't happen.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:17 AM
1

Elaborate please !
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:15 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 08:21 AM
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Bro how should I handle her constant invitations to meet her friends because according to her they all make collective decisions about a guy any of them is seeing. I am not inclined to be a show piece at some weird witchy event. How do I dodge the bullet ? She pretends as if she is in love with me(which is bullshit).
/r/askTRP13/07/19 08:13 AM
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What I meant was how can you be attached to one girl while sleeping with 4.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:14 AM
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The girl I am casually seeing told me a couple of days ago that she is at her friends house. And she and her female friend were studying for the finals and her friends boyfriend was also there who was making them coffee and how sweet this was. Then she steps further over the line and says she's going to sleep on the same bed with them, (lie/truth) who knows. I was although annoyed but kept my calm and told her "Great. Have a good time". She instantaneously became all caring and asking me when I'…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:24 PM
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If I had gold I'd give you
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:01 PM
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I'd beat the shit out of the roommate first. Then think about the common hoe you are dating.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:58 PM
1

Yeah. I will do that. But should I read too much into what she said or just let it go?
/r/seduction08/07/19 08:22 AM
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Well LTR is out of the question now. It seemed weird that she'd text me something like that. But I guess she wants me to chase her. Which I don't. She's young (24) so I guess she needs constant drama.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:52 AM
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Haha. That's quite simple.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:47 AM
1

I thought the same. She can never be ltr. That's for sure. Can you help me out? I know how to proceed (done it before) but I don't want make any mistakes. This operation needs to be of surgical precision.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:39 AM
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I haven't slept with her yet. Went on a couple of dates and then I had to leave town for work for a couple of weeks. And I haven't told her to not do these kind of things. She's 24 and had a couple of breakups in the past. She tries very hard to comeoff as someone who is fun. Sending me pics of her drinking with her friends etc. In short she admitted that she is 'chasing me'.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:39 AM
1

I thought about that but she texted me 15 hrs later that she atleast deserved a reply. And I somehow feel that she probably is going through a rough time and I should be compassionate towards a fellow human being. So I replied. But now she says she wants to call me whenever I am free. I said no.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 10:45 AM
1

Thanks man. I wrote her back this - It sounds as if you aren’t happy and don't want this to proceed any further. I totally understand your point of view. I have really enjoyed our time together and although I don't know why you are doing this suddenly, I guess you have your reasons and have thought this through so all I can say is best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:12 AM
2

Yeah seems a bit unstable. Even if you feel such emotions you need to not say them out loud to people you just met.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:24 AM
2

Seems a lot of work and her emotions are all over the place.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:23 AM
1

In this case should I not reply or would ghosting her be disrespectful?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:22 AM
1

I was actually sleeping. I just saw these at 8 am. 20 texts were just waiting for me in the morning. I still haven't replied to the texts yet. I have enough sense to not jump in without advice from wise people. So what you are saying is that I shouldn't even recognize the fact that she texted this mumbo jumbo and move on as if nothing happened?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:21 AM
2

Man I met this girl online and she looked different in all her 4 pics on bumble. We spoke on the phone and texted a bit. She sent me two of her pics and she looked entirely different people in both her pics. Then she used to change her display picture and she'd look different in all those pics. I was really amazed.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:59 AM
1

I can tell you how to alienate them.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:59 AM
1

Why risk getting murdered?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:58 AM
4

Nobody knows why women to stuff that they do. It's better to look for greener pastures than to sit around dwelling on what ifs. Believe me there is always a new day after the dawn.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:57 AM
2

Don't say you are busy. It comes off as rude. Take some time between texts. Don't go back and forth all the time. It shows you are completely smitten. Answer the text and go on with your day. When you next happen to check your mobile - answer another (if it's there)!
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:01 AM
4

I feel you shouldnt call her if she clearly was the one who was supposed to call.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:48 PM
2

I'd advice you to be passive if this happens to you again and again. Keep breaking routines with women. If you meet every weekend try not meeting one weekend and be a ghost and don't even talk to her. Keep her at arm's length for a couple of days. It keeps hoes on their toes and teaches them to not take you for granted. Take some time to yourself every other weekend. Don't make a big deal about it and relax. This break the mould and since you won't be dependent on her affirmation you won't feel …
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:47 PM
5

Hoez are dime a dozen. Theyll always be all over you initially but then they'll find someone else because a TRP male doesn't usually suit their taste. But you gotta believe that you'll get someone else because you always do.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:43 PM
2

They think they're lit, when in reality they're shit.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:41 PM
2

She's shallow as fuck. Try to fuck but never get into long term with her. No matter how good the pussy
/r/askTRP21/06/19 01:13 PM
3

Good advice.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:09 AM
1

She wants to talk every night. I try to not engage but I have to reply so as to not look like an asshole.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:07 AM
2

She insists on details. Friends of her work where I work, she can catch me lying. I am following the shaggy rule.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:06 AM
0

Sure. Appears that way.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:47 AM
0

You have sadly missed my point. I don't give a shit about all that. All I wanted to know if I could course correct her because I do like her but can't seem to agree with her positions on various matters. She insists on us talking about it and posts about it on Facebook literally every other day. Frankly it's quite cringy that she would do that so often like she's a reporter or something. You coming after my nativity is just sad to be honest. All I needed was advice and you chose to be a bigot. I…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:11 AM
1

Would you count posting long rants on Facebook about politics and current controversies 'wearing politics on the sleeve'. The posts appear literally every other day.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:50 PM
1

Well, I have a bit of a prestigious job. I don't want anyone to mess with that. Metoo has fucked up the dating scene. I am crowd sourcing opinion if I should deal with this and how.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:47 PM
4

She has other extreme views too like believing our votes are not counted after the election and some powerful people randomly install the government. She wants trains and buses to be free for women.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:32 PM
-1

Well how do I explain her extreme views on males and patriarchy etc.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:11 PM
1

Wait for an occasion and wish her. Birthday , new year etc. See how she responds. If shes eager go for the kill or just fade away.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:05 PM
1

It's awkward if the girl isn't beautiful. It just becomes a chore and I just send her a 👍
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:02 PM
1

The women in this video wasn't desperate at all . She was just mesmerized by his wealth and his behaviour. He just simple seduced her in like a week.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:59 PM
1

I get that but what I meant is that while we talk in absolutes here but in the real world our "game" has to evolve based upon given situations. Conversely the fact that although he wasn't rich he pretended to be loaded and maybe that's why he was able to get away with his clingyness.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:35 PM
1

They also go into detail about how he seduced her. The fact that people tell me it's clingy to send women "good morning" texts is contradicted by what happened to her. She loved it. She gave him 200k within 4 weeks.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:28 PM
2

Well it's not his fault though. He belongs to a place which is essentially a non-country.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:53 PM
1

"She's not yours, it's just your turn": does that ring a bell? One of the core principles is that all relationships, assuming you don't die first, are destined to end. While she's out there chasing a Chad who's probably fucking 5 girls at a time, you are gradually sinking towards the depths of oneitis. If you were a Chad you'd be more preoccupied with your own life and not her's. My advice- Presume the relationship has ended, until she gives you an indication that it hasn't. Always after you sle…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 10:22 AM
39

Yeah man. When I was in the first year of college, me and this girl used to be in the same classes but we never spoke. A year later I was at my hometown during the break, she comments on my Facebook post and we get to texting each other and talking on the phone and other bullshit. This girl fell in love over the bloody phone. ( She said I love you ) I almost died laughing. But was semi redpilled so didn't say it back. When I went back she wanted to hangout and get into a relationship. By that ti…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 06:40 AM
1

Explain? How do you know it for a fact? Maybe we can give you perspective. You are too close to the situation to make rational decisions
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:08 AM
15

Tyrone always stealing your girl. Bad Tyrone.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 06:52 PM
5

All your signs point to the fact that You'll learn the hard way my friend. But you will not be the first. Take comfort in that.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:19 PM
9

Now let me tell you what actually happened. It was she who was friendzoned. Then the guy found out about her going out with you. Got jealous because he was losing a plate and told her some bullshit about how he can't stay away from her and wanted her. She put you on hold. Went out with him. They 99.9999999% fucked. He got what he wanted ie. Validation from her. He again bolted ie. Became distant as he was usually because he didn't want her. She realized he will never commit to her and went back …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:16 PM
8

This. 1000x this. He probably told her to take a hike and now she's making stuff up to fool you. She'll run back to him as soon as he wants her back.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:09 PM
2

I know that bro. I was asking if I should cut ties because I am technically fucking over another guy
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:34 PM
2

You are right bro. I need to change my attitude.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:18 AM
1

In the words of Ariana Grande - Thank you, Next.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:53 AM
1

I fear I have become an Instagram thot. I need these girls hovering around me to feel worthy. I work more harder to break their walls and get these numbers than I would ever work to sleep with them. Need to make some changes. I felt this was wrong this is why I ask on asktrp.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:58 PM
2

You get it man. It's just so exhilarating sometimes. Just knowing they'll give it up if you want it. But you don't want it because who wants to be with someone who actively wants to be with you. You only want someone who isn't into you.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:26 PM
1

Maybe bro. Good catch. How do I know for sure? I certainly do feel validated when they subtly bring up stuff to do together. I usually decline their advances until the absolute breaking point.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:25 PM
1

Nah. Bro. But I feel left out when I read you guys talking about your closing rate. Which obviously means sex. But I just feel great knowing that if I wanted to I can fuck them . I don't have to. But I could. I like them hovering around me. Trying to understand how my mind functions. I can say anything I want and they seem not to care because I don't actively pursue them.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:23 PM
1

Maybe you are right man. Some of them do keep pushing for dates. Those are the ones who volunteered to go back to a hotel or my place. I think I have overdone with the abundance mindset philosophy.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:20 PM
-1

Hahaha. Looks like it but it seems unhealthy. I feel unhinged. I literally unmatch women on bumble if they give me their insta Id. I'd rather spend my time cultivating new prospect.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:13 PM
0

Bro there is no end game. I just like drawing it out of them. Sex is just a byproduct. If it happens naturally I guess it's fine . But I don't like to spend a lot of time with these chicks listening to them bitch about life and shit. If they force my hand I guess I'll go out with them.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:11 PM
1

Yeah, sex is ok. Who doesn't love getting oral. But the real achievement I feel is when they surrender their phone number. I don't even feel like sleeping with them. I just feed off the validation when they send me horny texts. I feel like a thot.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:08 PM
1

Lol. What logic is that bro. Really?
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:07 PM
1

You'll be fine bro. Eventually. I went exactly through the same thing in college.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:37 PM
4

Like we could stop her .
/r/askTRP30/03/19 10:27 AM
1

I used to meet with her but I moved away for a month to a different city for my work. That's when we became 'gay best friends'. Fucking hell.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:53 PM
1

Thanks man. I needed to hear that. Should I unfriend her on social media? Wouldn't I make me look like a butthurt bitch ?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:18 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:02 AM
1

Yeah . I fell for the texting trap because she behaved as if she was insane about me. Confession- I spoke to her thrice on the phone in one month for like 2+ hours each, even when I knew the rules of never talking on the phone. We even exchanged 50+ voice notes. In hind sight, I should have known the rules are to be followed to the hilt. I just thought the situation was unique. Big mistake
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:01 AM
1

Bro I think women have fragile egos. It hurts more than you think if they are left on seen. But they wouldn't think twice before leaving you on seen
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:55 AM
1

Bro. I shouldn't unfriend her on social media (fb, insta etc) should I? I would look like a butthurt bitch. I don't like her posts or anything.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:53 AM
1

Ok since her birthday has passed like a week ago. Do you have any suggestions as to how should I approach it delicately? Thanks in advance .
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:42 AM
1

Lol. She was running around me in circles for like a month. Kept demanding I start texting her on my own more frequently. 'A girl needs to be pampered', she said. You are a fucking 30 year old woman
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:41 AM
1

Ok this seems like the right move. It feels weird contacting her again after she didn't reply. And with me not responding to her insta DM question I guess I leave the relationship with the upper hand. I have high self esteem/ego. Lol.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:38 AM
1

My brain says fuck her. Move on. But the only reason I stopped texting her is because I was catching oneitis. Bro Are you sure double texting is the right move?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:35 AM
1

Bro, as I mentioned I sent it simultaneously with my text. Also I sent it 3 other women along with her. (She doesn't know that) That's how I maintain my plates when I can't see them all every week due to work etc. I don't talk to them but occasionally send them a song or a video etc.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:32 AM
2

This. There's no turning back now. He can't claim the power back. Just have to wait and pray she contacts him.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:28 AM
2

Yeah man . These rules are to protect us. I too found out the hard way. Drove away a chick that would have jumped off a roof for me. Lol. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:26 AM
0

Well if you continue on this path of yours eventually you'll be miserable and you will deserve it.
/r/seduction27/03/19 08:03 AM
-1

Well you don't have 'it'. So obviously it's nonsense to you.
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:40 AM
1

It's confidence without cockiness. it is never misplaced and it cannot be simulated. it is the sexual equivalent of writing a check for $10k knowing you got it in the bank account. In simpler words it's confidence. It's never say never attitude. It's tricking your mind into thinking that when you didn't get what you want, it's because you didn't try hard enough not because you are a loser or a bitch. You are the best a woman can get.
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:11 AM
31

In the famous classical epoch, the Iliad, the whole reason King Menelaus brings the Achaeans, Argives, etc.. To battle the Trojans is because his thot wife Helen ran away to Troy to bang Prince Paris. No one would remember him if he didn't have big dick energy. Some will say he didn't have abundance mindset but maybe he thought it as an opportunity to capture Troy. Fucking over his thot wife was just the spoils of war.
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:40 AM
1

You can make friends at work. Who's stopping you?
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:36 AM
-3

You can always have 'big dick energy' even if you don't have a big dick. If you have that, you are unstoppable.
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:35 AM
4

She gotta suck a whole lotta dick.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:52 AM
126

To be honest , Ex's don't spring up. He was always there. She just hid it from you. She most definitely used you to make him jealous because he was the one she always wanted to be with and he wasnt offering commitment. You were a rebound. It wouldn't have mattered if you gave her commitment. She still would have left you for him. He probably has history with her. So it's better you didn't give her commitment. At least your ego isn't bruised and you heart isn't attached.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:25 AM
2

Bro, it took me 3 years extra to graduate High School (failed twice in a single grade) . Not because I was stupid but because I didn't have the work ethic. Inshort didn't grab life by the balls. Worked hard to get into a mid tier law school. Joined a gym (I used to weigh 125 pounds). Worked my way up to 160 pounds of muscle in 3 years. Girls wouldn't even look at me in High School now it had multiple plates. A couple of years later my LTR cheated on me with her ex. (She was a perpetual hoe,I was…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:40 PM
5

Relax but don't let go. Keep kicking yourself everyday to do better.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:10 PM
2

Don't worry dude. Every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:09 PM
1

Hey sad little turd! Don't like it don't read it. Go to you basement and cry to your momma.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:59 AM
3

Valid point
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:43 AM
-2

He clearly said they are not religious.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:36 AM
3

People will always try to do what they want to do at your expense despite having an agreement not to. Once they get comfortable, they test you to see if they can get away with more. People always need a reminder or an 'attitude adjustment'. Always have leverage and other options and be ready to execute. You're gonna need them. Life is one big power struggle. Nothing but chaos. Learn to get comfy in it. You need to soft next and pull way back. Stop initiating contact and reply in concise statemen…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:35 AM
5

It says right there in the comment that she is a woman. Are you replying from a parallel dimension where the comment doesn't exist?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:49 PM
-4

Why mention that you are a woman? You won't get any points for being a girl in this sub. Be gender neutral if you want to reply. Read the sidebar. No need for a complimentary "as a woman" . Nobody cares.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:33 PM
14

If this is not bullshit , I don't know what is. The dude is probably living in a parallel universe. What I don't understand is why is he on this Reddit ? Why not use your own Reddit in the parallel universe.
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:59 PM
0

Yeah. It would be better if you backed off for a bit . Don't text or call her. Let her text you. Ask her when she's free. (Never ask her out before asking her when she's free, she won't be able to flake and you won't look like you don't have anything else to do) Then can suggest a date, time and place which is set in stone. Don't let her change anything except the time +-2-3 hours. If she changes anything then bail on her. Dont agree to reschedule and tell her you'll let her know when you guys c…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:21 PM
1

I'll try to sleep with her just once. Will that be fucked up?
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:38 PM
1

Great advice. Thanks. Although she has called me out once before for my texts being concise. But I'll stick to the plan and keep it short. Let the chips fall where they may.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:50 AM
2

Absolutely. Thanks bro. I have self control. I haven't texted her and won't do it if my life depended on it.
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:34 AM
1

Thanks man. Great stuff.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:32 AM
1

Thanks man. I made the mistake of thinking she was different. Now she is sending me posts on insta DM. Should I respond? If I don't respond would it not seem like I am butthurt that she didn't text me.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:31 AM
2

I am seeing other women (actually went on a date today) but can't seem to get her out of my head. I am disappointed when I open messages and some other chick has texted me instead of her. But you suggestion Seem like the right move. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:29 PM
-1

Yeah but deleting here would make me look butthurt.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:23 PM
-1

Yeah man. I'll try to do that. It's embarrassing to even think about what I have become. I think this will eventually pass. But since I am going insane even when she isn't fucking me, what should my move be if she gets in touch.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:04 PM
-1

It's hard man. Although I am seeing other women simultaneously, my mind keeps fixated on this girl. I don't take any action because I have read it here that would be suicidal but I think about her all the time.
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:44 PM
1

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:41 PM
6

Holy fuck dude. Great insight.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:49 PM
1

Having oneitis isn't a problem. Not curbing your impulses arising out of oneitis is definitely a problem. Never deviate from the play book. 5 times is too many bro. Next time make it 2. Then remember since she cancelled twice you need to spurn her effort to date you at least once in the future. Tell her you are busy or something if she asks you out and will hit her up in a few days, then don't. Reschedule a week later. It's important for her to feel that you aren't just sitting by the phone to t…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:35 AM
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