Hey guys . My girlfriend and I have been together for more than a year. We are stuck in diffrent cities 250 miles apart due to corona for the last 5 months. She's preparing for her exam due in January and told me we can only meet after then. Although I do understand it will be tough for to travel because it's the same for me but what bothers me is that she isn't making an effort even to suggest that I visit her and we could get a hotel or something. She just calls me and blabbers on about her problems and how she wants to marry me as I am the best thing that's happens to her. Now I met a girl in my city who's like 21 (I am 31). We have been out once for like an hour just as friends yesterday and now she is asking me if she could come over and watch a movie or something today. I am not the cheating kind. I have been cheated on before by a hoe in college and it felt horrible. But I am also very weary of the fact that what if my relationship goes up in flames due to the long distance and I even loose the opportunity to mess with this younger girl. Am I wrong to not take the opportunity? What if the relationship survives the long distance? I'll always be scared of her finding out.