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Yo helium is great imo, HODL and let that bankroll grow. I got into helium about 2 years ago and it’s gonna pay off well I believe.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 09:12 PM
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True. I have metabolic issues, completely fucked testosterone and thyroid hormones but even then I’m only fat because I let myself be.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:06 AM
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You can realistically stay in good enough shape to fuck better than half the young dudes around these days up into your 50’s if you don’t have some unforeseen physical medical problems.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:03 AM
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Welcome to the majority of women. At least in my experience. Most don’t seem to have any depth to them at all, and that’s fine for sex, I couldn’t care less about it, but at the same time I’ve had my eye out for one that could potentially raise children and have yet to find one that meets my standards. It’s crazy how slim the pool is.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 11:16 AM
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The amount of guys not getting laid in this comment section.
/r/seduction02/04/22 11:23 AM
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No we’ve had conversations about it. She isn’t physically attracted to me at all, and that’s why our sex life suffers. I’m very redpilled though, so I’m not naive, I just read the situation for what it is and understand if she ever leaves it is what it is. That being said the only confusing part is that she’s an attractive woman who doesn’t get anything out of me other than my company so I don’t know if I should assume that she’s fuckin one one else or not, it would seem like a waste of energy t…
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:15 PM
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So what if your girlfriend isn’t attracted to you, but still wants to be together? There’s no financial ties, or status ties, etc. like she gains no benefit from being in the relationship other than being with me. It goes against a lot of what I know of women, and I’ve seen no proof or subconscious tales of infidelity. Though I do think it’s going to cause the relationship to end.
/r/seduction27/03/22 07:48 AM
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Nah she openly stated that it’s by far the biggest penis she’s ever seen.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:55 PM
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She definitely ranks pretty high up there for me as well.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:33 AM
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For me still a young Christina Aguilera, and also Jennifer Lopez. Jennifer Aniston as well.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:33 AM
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Right of course. That’s why bootcamps are a bad gig. It’s a lot of work, but you know an hour a day and 6 months later and I’m nearly job ready for some entry level software app jobs. I think within the next year I’ll be more than capable of having a six figure salary. We’ll see though.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 03:03 AM
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Boot camps are bad because they cost so much and you can learn everything they teach online for free, but there are good boot camps and you can get jobs at the end of them for sure.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 02:45 AM
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How so? I went to a few IFBB cons in my city and I regularly met very big guys who were strictly keto. Im down to be enlightened im just not sure how it holds you back.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 01:18 AM
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There is more to health and results than CICO. Sugar and additives are bad for your health big time. I think personally being keto and organic as much as possible is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/21 12:39 AM
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I don’t actively go out to pick up women so I don’t really bother with any of it. If they come across my path so be it, but I have zero desire to schedule out time to meet women, and if I’m at the bar it’s with friends and I’m there to hang with them. Not saying you’re entirely wrong I just don’t think he was really MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 05:39 AM
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I don’t think it was MGTOW. I agree that bars aren’t the best place to get women. Good looking sluts for sure, but it all depends on what you’re looking for.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 05:36 AM
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I’m not moving any goal posts buddy, You talked about having to put in effort even as a top 20% male. Im telling you that you don’t have to put much in at all, but practically every man in existence has to the majority of the time. You are wrong on this one bro, just accept it and move on. Also, if you are a top 20% male, you would understand this.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 09:14 PM
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I’m sure it has happened, but I bet it is extremely rare that a girl ever comes up to a guy she doesn’t know and has no rapport with her, and just says “ I want you to fuck me” you will always have to put some effort in, it’s natural.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 08:47 PM
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Because you refuse to accept anything other than your own personal belief.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 08:29 PM
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You’re wrong about this. Of course women will never come up to you and just say “fuck me please I beg you” that’s not realistic even for the highest value man on the planet even celebrities etc have some very low level bickering involved.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 04:50 PM
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I think Vaz is good. He may not have a specific place he sources his women. I mean I have a ltr now, but you can approach women anywhere. Also, attraction has a subjective aspect to it, what he finds attractive may objectively be more common based on genetic probability etc, and therefor he has a wider base he’s willing to accept lays from. Like for example if a 5-6 normie doesn’t cut it for you, but they do for him, or let’s say just some other guy, that guy is going to have a lot more women to…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 12:35 PM
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I don’t know how to quote on Reddit. I was responding to the part where you mentioned that girls don’t just fall in your lap. For the most part if you have what I stated previously, those 5-7’s do come to you with practically zero effort.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 08:24 PM
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Alright then! So I don’t know if you will agree or not, but most of the time people reference someone’s accomplishments or background as a means to an end when vetting their advice or words of wisdom. If you want men to take this more seriously then perhaps you could try to become as distinguished as you feel is necessary to further become a beacon of that wisdom and guide more men to the proverbial “light”. Then you would not only get closer to seeing what you want but you would actively have a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 05:35 PM
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This is the last branch I’ll offer you. I would say it to your face because it’s good advice, I couldn’t care less if you were Bruce Lee himself and the size of Dave Batista. If you’ve got the dedication to realize the goal of a Black Belt in any martial art then you’ve got the experience already to know that dedication and hard work bring success and to that end I am curious as to why you stated the opposite in a former comment. Everyone experiences anger that is true, but not everyone has ange…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 04:36 PM
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You’re an obvious troll at this point. Am I rich? I have more wealth than 95% of the people in the world, but am I rich by the standards I’m sure you’re attributing to that status? Probably not, yet. I will be in a few short years. If your objective is money, you have options for that, if your objective is passion, you shouldn’t care about money. If you have no objective then you need to work on your mental health. If you don’t want to do that then you’re accepting the life you have and you shou…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 03:56 PM
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You clearly have access to the internet, which means you have access to all the information you could possibly want or ever retain in 1000 lifetimes even if you were the brightest person in history. Do something with it. You could learn to code for free and in a year have a job, 5 years down that career path you could be making 250,000 a year. You could invest that and in 10 years be as rich as is practically useful. So within 15 years you could get rich. You’d still have a lot of life to live e…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 03:24 PM
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I think you’re likely not as high up the chain as you think you are man. Make 6 figures, be shredded, and don’t be a COMPLETE dork/creep and you should be able to bag 5,6, and 7’s all the time. Of course when you go for those 8-10’s you’re gonna have to be more than just successful in life, those girls are the top women, so they get to play the life of a woman amongst the top men.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 03:16 PM
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I actually don’t have any friends. I don’t speak with anyone outside of work and my home life.
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:26 PM
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My question, is what can I do to not be such a technical person. It actually kills my life in many many ways. I don’t need all this technicality and such a literal mentality in order to be immensely successful in this world we live in, and I have a hard time even being genuine with my girlfriend because of how in my head I am all the time.
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:38 PM
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At the end of the day, the IDGAF mentality wins, you want what you want and if they don’t want that? Don’t give a fuck. It’s truly so simple and yet so powerful.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 12:58 AM
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Technically PUA is just people who apply tactics based off of trp principles. Trp itself isn’t about pick up game. Nothing wrong with knowing how to get a woman going though. I’m curious as to why you’re here trying to shit on redpill. If you read through the material you would understand it’s more about self improvement not picking up women. Just a lot of guys here focus solely on the getting women. In fact true redpill wants you to subscribe to the idea that if you’re only in it for women you’…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:34 AM
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I mean it’s the opposite of incel shit actually. If you read the principles of trp and apply it appropriately you will see success. Trp actually teaches that pretty much regardless of your hand in life if you do your best to be your best you’ll see success. You don’t have to agree with it but it works in practice.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:25 AM
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Redpill is amoral. So all tactics discussed and theories around the SMP will treat both men and women as objects.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:20 AM
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Yeah I’m actually kind of struggling with that myself. I have a very solid LTR. Like so far no flags, hasn’t cheated, etc. I’ve known her for years though and now that the “new” is wearing off I find myself looking at other women a lot now. I used to not, but I don’t want to compromise my morals so I’m at a bit of a roadblock. I know I won’t likely find another woman as solid as she is as awalt.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:46 PM
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That’s true but the effect would be lessened if the average woman had a more acceptable body. Plenty of men out there really don’t give two shits about face but just want a nice ass to plow. All I’m saying is that an average woman can get tons more attention these days because the rest of the women around her are overweight and would otherwise offer competition.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:18 PM
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If you’re top 5% you generally speaking get pussy thrown at you with minimal effort.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:10 PM
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Yeah but they are still in high demand. Obesity plagues the majority of the country, not just rural America.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:06 PM
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Genetics play a role in how quickly or how far you can go with things, but in this world today, in modernized first world countries and the like so many guys don’t even try that your genetic limit is still going to be top 1% if you truly hit your genetic peaks. That’s incredibly hard to do but I do mean genetic peak, just being near the peak easily puts you top 5-10%. This goes for men and women alike. People don’t try anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 07:55 PM
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Is this even really legit though? I’ve heard a lot of bad shit about it, and I’ve read up on wholesaling after seeing quite a bit of shit on tik tok about it and I got the impression that legitimate wholesaling is extremely difficult to break into.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 01:51 PM
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I definitely won’t be trying to be a doctor. I’m trying to get into software development for sure.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:29 AM
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That’s the plan, just have to get out of machining. It’s a dead industry. Low wages, tons of work, and it’s not even menial labor, you have to know a ton of shit to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:23 AM
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Yeah. That is one of the big thing for me. I want to invest more but I really just don’t have the funds to do it with any seemingly meaningful amount right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:05 AM
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I’m self teaching coding, hopefully I can get my foot in the door eventually, the salaries in software are very bloated, but I actually like it a lot so far.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:03 AM
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I don’t know. Maybe so, but I feel extremely far from that 150 number.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 02:57 AM
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I just want to make 100k a year and I’d be happy with my life. I find it very hard to get to that point right now. My field pretty much caps at 50-60k and that’s with tons of overtime.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 10:56 PM
3

Well, good head is honestly kinda common, good pussy and sexual skill is not when it comes to women.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:29 PM
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Okay but what they are looking for generally speaking does matter. Just because they say they are looking for something else doesn’t mean they actually are. What they legitimately are looking for does matter. Plenty of women out there aren’t going to give you a shot if you don’t fit their criteria.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:30 PM
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I think you’re right and wrong on some things. But I’m at work so i can’t really get into it. I know plenty of nice guys who fuck well or so I’ve heard that get laid all the time. Different guys get laid for different reasons, it doesn’t all come down to being alpha as fuck and gaming her well. You can’t be a total cornball I’m sure but I literally know someone who works in tech and gets pussy all the time because the women he puts it to, he does it well, and they talk.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:50 PM
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I like how redpill puts meaning behind actions but at the end of the day, if you fit what a woman is looking for you’ll get some, regardless of where you are in all of those metrics. Scumbag with a huge cock and no social/emotional ties just to pump and dump? Yeah women will go for that all the time. They just won’t commit to that, but girls spin dudes as plates constantly without really caring about their value as a man. Just the sex.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:13 PM
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Pro eh? Stage a match with Logan Paul and retire now.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:09 AM
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TRP is really a shield/scope through which you will operate and view the market. It by no means is universal truth. There are good looking women who don’t really operate like your average woman and won’t fuck their partners over. It’s just really fucking rare these days. The absolute best looking women almost never are like that though, and In/not in their defense, if you were a 10/10 and had straight 9/10’s throwing pussy your way you would have a very hard time being faithful. It works both wa…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:46 PM
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This is true, if one sex in its majority held the other accountable for their actions it would permeate a new culture. The reason this can’t happen is due to society creating very low value men who are so far from their own personal ceiling that they will jump on opportunities presented to them. So women would start being shunned by high value men and work their way down the ladder until it is no longer viable for their own best interest to branch swing etc, but that is a very, very long ladder …
/r/askTRP28/05/21 06:47 PM
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This had me rolling.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Hmm, if she is she’s hiding it extremely well. Guess I gotta split.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:11 PM
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So you’re saying she isn’t having sex with me because currently she’s fucking someone else, but she’ll come back to me once it’s over?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:09 PM
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No, like when I say 50/50 I mean like when we go anywhere etc we calculate who owes what and we pay our own portion. I literally spend no money on her.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:36 PM
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I mean you think so? She also initiated the relationship.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:19 PM
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I don’t spend money on her. Literally 0$. Ever.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:39 PM
1

I don’t know, she said it’s just because I’m not her type. The sex has generally speaking been pretty good.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:37 PM
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Oh god I spent a scary few minutes online talking about it. Lol, I’ve been on my shit in my life. It’s also been fairly uncomplicated for the most part and very low effort.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:36 PM
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Nah actually a really shitty dad, but it took me a long time to realize he was extremely red pill and alpha as fuck. He just sucked at the rest of being a dad.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:29 PM
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Yeah maybe I’ve thought that. She did tell me that if she ever wanted someone else bad enough to cheat she would just break up with me. Maybe she’s honest. She’s very consciously red pill aware too. We’ve talked about it without it being framed as RP
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:07 PM
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I’m not hamstering. For me it’s worth it in current circumstances given the sex doesn’t stay dried up. Up until now we fucked daily.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:03 PM
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Well there’s a lot more to the story than just that. For one she gets absolutely nothing from me. I don’t literally spend anything on her. Everything is split 50/50. & she’s with me despite constantly getting shit from her mom for it.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:58 PM
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This was part of my thinking, but mainly that I was taught from a young age that if you don’t keep your woman fucked good that she’s getting it somewhere else.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:35 PM
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Well she was upfront about not being physically attracted to me, and I’ve vetted her in every other way and it’s checked out. So idk, but it’s been a while.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:29 PM
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See my LTR and I haven’t fucked in over a month and she says it’s depression. She does have a lot of shit going on in her life so I feel I may be evaluating it wrong but I can’t shake the feeling that she’s fucking someone else.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:49 PM
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Hopefully this feeling comes to pass. It makes you realize you’re a lot more alone in the world than you were led to believe. Which is okay, but it doesn’t suck any less having believed the opposite was true for a few decades lol.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:48 PM
1

I would start a business doing custom computer tower designs and builds, which is what I want to work towards to begin with, which is why I’m looking to swap career fields. Money is a means to an end to do what I want
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:36 PM
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This is true, something about their mental really turns them into monsters in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:20 AM
2

You don’t have to hope my G. I am right. I promise you that.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:43 PM
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Bro you are really too much in your own head, being chad is a mental game first and a physical game second. You gotta get your mind right then get your body right. Get ripped up, get swole, get your life together, learn game, all these things will put you far above so many other men. Just being in shape puts you above most.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:53 PM
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Yeah it’s part of life, everyone is better worse in different aspects of life. You’re lucky you live in a modern world where you can obtain status and wealth despite a plethora of shortcomings that in caveman days would have halted you.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:45 PM
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If you’re 5+ there are definitely still a lot of women that you can make cum hard with it, don’t give up bro.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:48 PM
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Yeah I suppose it is, I’m also a bit overweight so I know the fat compresses but not entirely, and not like it does with a ruler for sure, so I got more to give once I get in better shape.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:48 PM
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Small dick is hard to work with I’m gonna be real with you on that. Sure if you’ve got everything locked down then you can probably turn them on enough to give them good sex, also depends on how small we’re talking here. I have struggles with my LTR and I’m like 7 bone pressed and she tells me I don’t get deep enough in most positions to make her cum. In a more practical sense you’re just gonna have to find a woman that is okay with you getting them off with everything else but your dick and the…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:09 AM
1

I can’t find any UGL around me, tbh. I don’t know anyone who knows anyone. Fuck I hardly know anyone anywhere
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 03:46 PM
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It’s not impossible though, on my old Reddit account I had made posts about it. I got my blood work done multiple times by multiple labs to account for mishaps etc, my doctor didn’t believe it either when she saw it. First test came in around 20 ish and then second one was 12 I remember. I literally make none, and my FSH/LH was very high, my body just doesn’t make it. I seemed to have gone through puberty fine, though I don’t know if I did miss out on any of it due to this, and I haven’t had any…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 12:38 AM
2

How so? I’m supposed to be on it, I’m 25 and when I was 23 I tested and it came back something like 12 ng/dl which as far as I know is less than a woman. I got a lot of blood work done, but then covid happened and yada yada I couldn’t afford to get on it but I’ll be starting soon. It wasn’t so to aromatization either and I’ve never juiced. I’ve been a lot more emotional my entire life than I’ve ever wanted to be, I just control my reactions etc. how has it changed you mentally and how long did i…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 11:14 PM
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I actually haven’t had any social media outside of Snapchat since 2014. 25 here. I also only have my family my LTR and a few old friends on there and don’t subscribe to anything. My Reddit usage is down to an hour a day or less as well. I still am plagued by a lot of these issues. Even if you do your best to avoid all of these things the reach of media platforms pretty well infects everyone around you, hard to get away.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 04:47 PM
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This had me crying laughing.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:13 AM
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Yeah it really is diet. Most food out there is outrageously bad for you. Look up Fat chance 2.0: Fructose on YouTube.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:52 AM
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I am you can PM me or post it here
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:18 PM
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I appreciate that I’ll check it out once I get off work.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:17 PM
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Is this a video?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 10:27 AM
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Yeah I would like to start a business I just have no idea where to start. I’m also interested in computer science but I have to be sure before I pull the trigger on 4 years of schooling.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:01 AM
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I’m 6’ exactly.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:01 AM
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Well, I’m pretty average as it gets, I just know how to operate. Point is, if you’re an average guy, there absolutely are below average women whom you could hold the key to commitment to. It really is relative. I would say there is still a fair share of men who are so below the bar that they pretty much have to get lucky to get anywhere. I’m pretty overweight and barely break 50k atm, but it hasn’t stopped me from swinging above my weight class, pretty significantly so. I don’t bag 8’s and above…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 08:11 PM
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All men do, values are relative at any given moment. All that matters is that you are perceived as the highest value man at the moment.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:03 PM
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No shit lmaoooo
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:10 PM
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Dude this is no shit.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:40 PM
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I used to hang around a lot of guys like that until I stopped being one of them and realized how much it was holding back mine and their lives. Then I stopped talking to them and they don’t get it, but I just don’t jive with them anymore, I get a negative atmosphere every time I’m around them.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:37 PM
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Exactly. I still read up on redpill and when I think I’m slipping more than I should i reread material or watch some videos but for the most part If you’re constantly in your head then you are just swapping blue pill sorrow for red pill sorrow. Staying inside your own head is a recipe for depression and never living in the moment in a fulfilling way.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 08:32 PM
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I think the idea is to ignore social norms for this hypothetical. Otherwise social norms dictate everything, which in reality they mostly do. It’s impractical brainstorming but interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 01:47 PM
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Yeah it’s still a bit awkward between us and I’m not getting her off very well, don’t really know what to do different, every other girl I’ve fucked I’ve had no issues making repeat customers out of them. I literally can’t get this chick off for anything. She wants to be “railed” but when I do that she says it just hurts, when I don’t she seems somewhat lifeless, and she always has to use a vibrator to get off, even in foreplay and I’ve always been praised on my good foreplay. So idk if she just…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:49 PM
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Yeah so I ended up fucking her. Really odd honestly. She tries to fuck me nearly every day or I get a blowjob. So it’s a nice turn of events.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 12:34 PM
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Well yes, and also just don’t be feeling sorry for yourself. The less of a problem it is to you the less of a problem it is to her, and that goes with just about everything. If you have a positive frame for her to be in she will be positive. Like I said though, if you’re not doing well or she is on her purpose and is out working you, not a lot you can do to stop her from seeing you poorly.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:45 AM
2

This. Be all “I’m going to kick life’s ass and pull myself outta this situation” when you’re in the dumps, and all “I appreciate what I have but it took everything I got to get here” when you’re doing well. ALWAYS keep your current status out of your interactions though. Even in an LTR the less your immediate circumstances effect you mentally the better off you will be, not to say that consistently doing bad or even running into bumps won’t change your woman’s way of thinking about you as it alm…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:42 PM
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I realized this when a former really good female friend of mine explained to me one day that she really wanted to Be with me...mentally. “Like in my mind I want you so bad, and I want to have sex, I know you’d be so good for me, but I just don’t feel anything and I don’t know why” Those were harsh days for my blue pilled self. Most Women literally cannot rationalize and consciously put forth what it is that gets them going and gets their pussy wet. They just go on their feelings that’s it. It’s …
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:18 PM
1

Well I’ve got weight to lose, but I think my overall charm works in my favor pretty heavily.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:28 AM
1

I appreciate it. There’s a good chance she’s just not interested and nothing comes of it. She seems pretty low interest. Gives a lot of mixed signals, we aren’t together so I don’t hold anything against her but she goes through my phone and shit, and tries to play it off, and I know she talks to other dudes as well. So I’m just seeing what I can get from it.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:41 AM
1

I see what you’re saying. If employing dread game is a tactic then I’m in the wrong headspace as opposed to just applying it naturally. Well I’m attempting to use it in a bit of a dark triad frame to get what I want, she got a fat ass and her head game was great. I live with her so it just seems like if I can secure it then it’s super easy low effort pussy.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:33 AM
1

Nah I won’t do anything for sex, just to see if this could turn the tables, I don’t Simp out for her. I have made it clear what kind of relationship I want froM her, sex until I leave which will be sometimes next year when I go into the military, which she is also going to be doing.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:14 AM
1

I live with her, she put out, then told me it wouldn’t happen again and the following day hit me with a text saying “I’ve been so depressed lately” which I recognized as trying to put me as an emotional tampon so I promptly ignored it. I’m trying to get her to put out more
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:05 AM
14

Yeah but everyone is doing that, women always go for the best then filter down. So unless you are 10/10 chad thundercock it’s the same for you
/r/seduction24/11/20 05:28 AM
22

If you haven’t made a move yet, you’re likely in orbiter territory. Make the move, she’ll just say no if she’s not interested.
/r/seduction24/11/20 12:40 AM
2

I can still get hard and fuck though. I just don’t hardly get random boners. Or morning wood.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:41 PM
1

Well I make no testosterone naturally and can’t afford trt lately. So I pretty much never get random boners.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:39 PM
1

Hmm, I’m in the opposite boat. I haven’t masturbated or watched porn in months, due to current circumstances I haven’t busted a nut in almost 2 months. I wonder if when I have sex again if I’ll have issues lasting, I normally don’t go this long.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:35 PM
3

Some business require that kind of effort.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:19 PM
1

I think he means being excessively busy. Like someone trying to get a business running who might be putting in 100 hours a week and being exhausted when they are off and not doing the other errands your average person would do already.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:55 PM
1

I can’t fuck her though.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:10 PM
-1

There is a girl I know who fucked a guy she knew I hated and teased me for a long time, some kind of power play on her part. If I ever get the chance I’m going to go full dark triad on her and then leave her. I think she gets a hint of that in her mind too which is why it never happened so far. Shits real.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:36 PM
1

Maybe so, or maybe you personally have a warped perspective yourself. I personally have never had issues lasting in bed, even after a dry spell. Most girls I’ve talked to about their sex lives say that most men don’t last more than 20 minutes, and even a friend of mine who is a legit sex worker said that most men don’t last for more than half an hour at most. Idk. I think if it’s hot and heavy and you’re really into the chick you might not last that long, but any broad idgaf about that I just fu…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:37 PM
1

I’ve tried to initiate. At least initiate in ways that have been successful with me in the past. I could give it one more to and be more aggressive about it. Either way I’m just trying not to have SHTF while I’m here.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:04 PM
1

Yeah it’s dead bedroom because we aren’t together. If I was in a different situation and my finances weren’t devastated by COVID I wouldn’t be around her at all.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:03 PM
1

So you are saying I should try to force it and then when the rejection comes anyways just go sleep on the couch and give up this comfortable ass bed? I actually don’t think it would even change the dynamic in terms of her fucking me but that isn’t my goal for one, and then her roommate is up at night in the living room with her boyfriend because they work night shifts(the roommate and her boyfriend)
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:26 AM
2

This is gold. Yeah I mean the manipulation is blatant at this point. I’m surprised she actually outed herself to me, maybe she’s just dumb? Idk. She made it easy for me to move forward in a way I just don’t want to go full ghost mode while living with her and have her go nuclear on me.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:47 PM
1

How do you know?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:44 PM
1

You think any half ass male can actually pound for 40 minutes? Most of the shit I hear about seems like most dudes barely last 10-20 minutes if they’re really pounding.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:25 PM
3

Surgeons work bonkers hours but are also usually filthy rich. It’s a trade-off.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:14 PM
2

Do you also have an 8 inch dong? This man is the true Chad Thundercock
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:58 PM
1

So long as you can always dip out you’re fine.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:58 PM
1

Ignoring pain generally means you are ignoring a core part of your identity. It’s not healthy.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:25 PM
2

Yeah exactly. I’m just saying looks matter. To me the rest of it is easy so long as you maintain no emotional attachment to the woman.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:45 PM
3

Most women have a physicality threshold. If you don’t pass that first the rest of this shit doesn’t matter. In my experience. I’ve banged women out of my league in the past but most of them aren’t proud to put me on their list, and to be fair it was usually some form of “I don’t know why I did that it just happened” but regardless I’ve found most women do have some level of physical attraction requirement.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 12:10 PM
23

Money and status don’t make you alpha. Alpha is a mindset. Make no mistake there are slumlords with nothing to their name that bang 10’s.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:23 AM
2

I feel like this is true except I’m ugly and it keeps me from getting the women I want. Being ugly fucking sucks, nothing I can do about my face
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:12 AM
1

I don’t think there is a unicorn in terms of a woman treating you how a man would treat a woman, pretty much no woman will put up with beta antics.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:22 AM
5

By having a lack of opportunity to catch feelings for other girls and then thinking that the feelings you have are special and hamstering those feelings into something more profound with no substance.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:50 AM
8

He’s not wrong though. Not all women are savages, they just have that potential. Redpill is meant to be a more enlightened glass through which you look at life but is by no means an end all be all of all female interaction. If you just spin plates and live your life you MIGHT get that good one that comes through, doesn’t mean you can be a beta bitch and expect her to put up with your shit. It just means she won’t fuck you royally or cheat on you. Then again you might never find that person, as m…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:47 AM
5

It’s crazy seeing these stories. A good friend of mine(female) did everything she could to get her man on his purpose and off drugs and to be better for himself, he never did so she left eventually but she gave him 4 years of good sex and love before she left. Maybe there are outlier women or it was because it was her first relationship idk. When I see these stories it just makes me wonder how men don’t see these things coming a mile away based on their personality alone. I can smell an apatheti…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:23 AM
1

Well, you don’t have to necessarily have an abundance mentality. Is it ideal? Yes it is. Is it required? No. Let me explain When you meet a girl and you have the abundance mindset or reality you would maintain frame because you have no true need for her in your life. What if you treated her the same because you genuinely felt like you didn’t need her regardless of having other women or not? It has nothing to do with abundance. You need to keep the mindset that you are more than worth it to these…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 09:29 PM
1

You think so?
/r/seduction14/11/20 08:55 PM
1

Do it
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:05 PM
1

He caught feelings for her.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:58 PM
7

Yeah that tends to happen with awesome FWB situations though. Which is really how most LTR’s come about for a redpill man anyways. Plate -> FWB -> LTR
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:57 PM
0

He ultimately did mate guard if the story is accurate. They went back out to drink after the hotel. So it’s my assumption she was sobered up a bit more than at the end of the night when she was initially handsy with the guy. The thing is that she was drunk, period, people lose self control drunk. I don’t take away any of her accountability for being drunk but the point is that you shouldn’t be surprised that a woman acts this way hammered, most of them get nearly unnaturally horny and don’t care…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:56 PM
1

I am the same way naturally but I’ve been learning to turn this part of my brain off. Slowly but surely I’m actually becoming a much happier person without my external circumstances improving. In fact due to COVID etc my financial situation etc has gone downhill to a scary point. Like I genuinely am stressing about what I’m going to be doing in the near future to keep from losing everything. Still I am becoming happier as a person.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:55 PM
10

I think he’s an analytical person and is trying to figure out why his own personal success by standard metrics are not fulfilling him. When by and large people claim fulfillment from said metrics.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:56 PM
9

To an extent yes but don’t underestimate your conscious minds capability to think above your emotions.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:54 PM
4

Women can’t fight their vagina. End of story. No other explanation needed.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:19 AM
1

In terms of overall capability on your part though, it isn’t. Emotionally involved sex will always be better.
/r/seduction07/11/20 05:03 AM
1

There’s no substitute for experience at the end of the day, but people without experience won’t understand that. & lots of sex with one woman isn’t as good or the same as the experience you get by having sex with a lot of different women.
/r/seduction04/11/20 05:57 AM
2

Tbh most guys who are successful PUA get enough experience to be great in bed. Not all but most.
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:01 AM
1

Maybe so. I had tons of friends through high school and my early years though. I only became this way in the last 3-4 years.
/r/seduction02/11/20 03:42 PM
1

I had this realization that my oneitis was realistically a 6-7 in the face but her body was a 5. Still for some reason she gets my sex drive going like nobody’s business.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:48 AM
0

My issue is that I’m genuinely so uninterested in the people that I meet that I would have to give it 100 shots just to find the one that I would even remotely care about engaging with. Not really sure why I am like this but I seriously just can’t force myself to engage with most people because they don’t interest me. Idc how hot they are.
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:37 PM
1

Bro it’s even better reversed. Tbh a legitimate 10/10 male will have pussy thrown his way. Women can’t fight their vagina.
/r/seduction01/11/20 08:58 PM
10

This is true. Thing is some guys think they are dealing with a HB6 when in reality they may be an HB8 or higher and it’s just personal taste that makes them less attracted to them. I think having an objective sense of beauty is important in understanding why any given woman acts out of your league. At the end of the day if you’re an above average SMV male she’ll still go for you. I’ve seen it. Women can’t fight their vagina no matter how self aware they are.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:44 AM
15

I spent 4 years alone due to life circumstances and being homeless, shit gets to you after a long time. It’s easy to buy into the female narrative when you are in that kind of situation because they feed morsels to string you along. Redpill is kind of a brick wall you have to break through.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:40 AM
3

I built many homes on shitty foundations, lasted for a small while then collapsed.
/r/seduction29/10/20 04:02 PM
1

Nah don’t block, but don’t reach out either. She’s likely to come back later as a plate at that point do as you wish. The most stress free care free option though is to just forget about it entirely. If she comes around next her. In this world connections only ever benefit you if you play it right rather that is sexually or monetarily or with emotional support etc.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:00 PM
1

You’re getting in your own head at this point. Let it go, damage to your frame doesn’t mean your frame is over with. Move forward and just remember to speak less. In my opinion it should be an iron rule that you speak less, do more. The less you say the more mystery you keep about yourself, the more she is spending time rationalizing things. The more time she spends doing this the more emotionally invested she becomes subconsciously.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:30 AM
8

Sidebar material. Go to history all times and look at most upvoted posts. There are some golden eggs in there. This will pretty much give you all the information you need to connect the rest of the dots on your own. My biggest is advice is that humans are creatures of habit. Your habits will shape your perception and how you interact with the world. Start changing your habits to more self improving ones and spending your time on more self improvement and you really begin to internalize redpill m…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:56 PM
2

I would say ever since TRP left reddit. This isn’t really the place anymore the forums are.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 10:54 PM
19

Same here my guy. I love a nice ass. They can be average by all means but if the hip to waist ratio is there and the cheeks are fat I’m game. Given that they are clean I can’t stand a smelly cooch.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 05:10 PM
2

This is true. I hate that I’m still overweight. I get mine occasionally and I have internalized a lot of redpill ideals in my life now but fuck if losing weight isn’t taking its time and I hate that I ever let myself get like this.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:32 AM
1

Yes but not caring if you win is a different matter and in my opinion more important. Not caring if you win means you never put expectations behind it. You do your best and let the hand play out.
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:55 AM
1

Well saying just rejection is really oversimplification of the subject at hand.
/r/seduction19/10/20 03:13 PM
7

The confidence thing is a catch 22. Sure confidence is attractive, but from my experience it’s less about confidence and more about not caring about the outcome.
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:32 AM
2

Read sidebar material. All of your answers are there.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:50 AM
14

Just revert back to old ways, recognize shit tests. In general having moments where you are clingy won’t be a problem, but it will trigger shit tests, pass the test and they forget about it. Also dread game is a great way to get through this if you can actually utilize dread game and she isn’t your only prospect.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:52 AM
2

I think it would be a good move to ask and then take her somewhere else and then bring the original answer in later down the line as a no brainer filler.
/r/seduction16/10/20 11:47 PM
1

Being a parent comes second to being yourself. You must be yourself before you can be a parent. Parenting is just a product of that self image.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:15 PM
2

It depends on the kid but my brothers kid absolutely knew right from wrong in context of what they were shown before 3 years old. Still did stupid kid shit all the time but she knew.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:14 PM
2

Ehh. I’m working on my fitness and my mind is much further along than my body because I have a lot of catching up to do.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:43 AM
12

To an extent a sales person has to lie to sell the product if the product is bad enough.
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:38 AM
1

So I follow redpill advice pretty religiously, but what about the women who are out there with no kids etc who bust their ass 60-70 hours a week trying to make careers for themselves and only have the occasional off fuck when they are ran down from their job? I’ve seen some women who act more like men in that regard and genuinely aren’t riding cock carousel etc. though I know the long game is the same surely there are signs that some women are less succumbed to hypergamy than others.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 08:07 AM
1

Post things you want to post. Some of it might come off douchey if you’re big ballin and always flexing your belongings but post things you like posting. Your vacations, your nights out, your animals etc. basically show that you have any kind of life at all and let your physical attractiveness do the rest in terms of reigning them in. The rest is on you if you fold or not.
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:02 AM
1

Yeah at it’s core looking good feeling good is most of it. There is a lot to be had in the ways of game though if you can consciously work it without being a dork and looking like you’re forcing it. Like shit tests for example. A guy may fall to these all the time while still following the basics but not realize them for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 05:19 PM
3

Yeah but with this sub you have absolutely no business being involved in conversation unless you have read sidebar material. & sidebar gets referenced constantly so anyone who has put any time on this sub will have seen it is a critical point of being redpill.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 05:13 PM
9

I feel like a lot of people who make shit posts do read the sidebar, they just don’t get it. There is some type of subconscious rationalization going on when they try to consciously depict their thoughts and questions. That subconscious being conditioned by their life up to this point would obviously conflict with the new things they are learning.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 03:17 PM
8

To an extent. AMS hammers the fundamentals in nearly every video as a reference point so that guys who don’t get it start to make the connection. He really wants men out their to start holding themselves to a higher standard. So he hammers fundamentals but he does speak on a broad range of RP Ideas.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:25 AM
2

I agree and I would like to speak with you more on this
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:02 PM
1

I don’t know much about Marcus aurelius I will say there is a lot of credit to what you are saying. However validation by its very nature cannot come from within. If you don’t have a need for validation then you have no drive to validate. Having a purpose and a drive to accomplish something in itself is your chase for validation. I agree with a lot of what you are saying but I think it is a lot more complex than that.
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:34 PM
1

It’s not about validation it’s about fulfilling needs. You can’t argue that men have a fundamental want to have sex, and have sex with a lot of women. A man who can not accomplish this will tend to be unhappy. It has nothing to do with conscious validation. To be fair though biologically speaking women are the only thing that validate a man. A man through history has only one goal and that is to be with as many women as possible to have as many offspring as possible. That is his validation. Cons…
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:29 PM
1

Getting laid and entertaining romantic interest in the opposite sex is a core part of being human. It doesn’t matter what the man thinks or considers of others opinions. His lack of women will hinder his happiness.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:50 PM
1

I can agree it does you no good, but it doesn’t change the fact that just because a man is ugly he is still going to want the attractive women and never be able to have them. Nobody wants to settle. You being ugly and being forced to be with an ugly person still won’t make you happy. Life just actually sucks for some people.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:48 AM
1

That’s true but those smut romances all have something in common. A hot main character. When women read the novels they get to imagine their ideal physical appearance, the movies always use incredibly above average actors for the same reason. I’m not saying dominance and your ability to put her in her feminine frame isn’t important. It is, but a truly ugly male is pretty much fucked. The only reason I have success is due to my build, even though I’m overweight I’m a large person. It seems to pla…
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:35 AM
2

I would tell your gf to cut the shit and if she doesn’t get rid of her.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:57 AM
1

Well outside of reddit and Snapchat which I only use to talk to people I already know in my circle, I have no social media, I just speak from my life experience. I’m a young guy and a realist. I’m confident in myself but just see what happens around me and to me in comparison. Women aren’t looking for character in their youth. They are looking for a hot fuck.
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:53 AM
1

I’m gonna just say from what I’ve seen that isn’t the issue most guys have. The average man in the United States at least just doesn’t have many women, confidence or not. Looks really are paramount in this regard. Of course a shy hot male won’t get as many partners as he otherwise could but he will still get far more women than an average looking male even if the latter is confident. The hot one especially if like truly way above average in looks just has women approaching them consistently.
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:12 AM
1

And for most women your words will do nothing for her mind unless she finds you attractive. There have been a lot of studies on this one specific subject. Women are more engaged with someone they find attractive regardless of what is being said. That being said game can get you farther than you otherwise would and I’ve seen this happen for myself even swinging well above my weight class a handful of times, but for the most part you need to have looks.
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:10 AM
1

Yeah but I find it’s not hard to not have personality. Most people are fairly forgiving on personality but not looks this is why you see average and above average looking people consistently having a dating life of some kind.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:45 AM
-4

You’re very wrong about this.
/r/seduction08/10/20 02:22 PM
2

Family or not if you don’t have a deep emotional connection with them you’re not gonna feel it. That’s why emotional investment always reveals the most about people. This applies to women, everything. You might be friends with a woman for years but the guy she lets plow her knows her better than you ever will etc.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:48 AM
51

Do not answer this. I see you fbi
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:04 AM
6

Except your words don’t change what we see on a day to day basis. Nice guys really do get the girl past her prime in their middle age looking to hang the towel because they aren’t what they were and want to settle. Assholes don’t inherently get women either. Masculine men who are on their grind and set the frame of the interactions they want get the women.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:06 AM
5

It’s just the context in which it gets used. Most people use it as a filler to their sentence and it usually does off as insecurity in what you are saying or insecurity in your character.
/r/seduction05/10/20 04:30 AM
6

I find that lol and haha do a great deal to remove your masculinity in the conversation. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:40 AM
1

Yeah I have to agree with you here. Money is an unfortunate necessity. Not everyone has places they can crash or couch hop until they get it together.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:20 PM
1

I guess you could but I don’t see you getting anything worth while from it.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:14 PM
2

For me it doesn’t really go away. My objective logical reasoning when seeing it all for what it is provokes a negative emotion out of me. Doesn’t mean I don’t want pussy. It also meant for me that I needed more goals in my life and more things to occupy my time because if you have time to think about these things then you have time to be doing more for yourself. That’s not to say that introspection isn’t a good thing. Sometimes you require silence and time to think through things to understand t…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:47 PM
2

Well there is more to it than just that. & yes some people are genuinely just unattractive it’s a poor fact of life but more than likely that’s not you.
/r/seduction29/09/20 01:41 AM
2

I mean, I’m fat and I think I’m ugly and I’m broke recently due to covid shit fucking my life royally and I managed a few above average broads my age(24). It depends on what the woman is looking for and what you are conveying to them.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 11:41 PM
5

There’s a big difference. One is obese. Just don’t be fat and you’d be surprised how much girls standards aren’t that incredibly high.
/r/seduction28/09/20 11:20 PM
-27

Ur simping mate
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:01 AM
-9

Women still act like their idols and they idolize these kind of women.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 05:27 AM
3

If she makes a statement like that, and follows through with the action. You withdraw your attention from her. Never explain yourself on it to her, don’t defend yourself about it. Just withdraw your attention act like it didn’t happen. What ends up happening is she will think about it so much herself and determine for herself if she made the right call. The boundary you should set is if after going through this process once or twice, does she change? If not then she just doesn’t respect you at a…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:17 PM
4

You should care about abs.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:45 PM
3

But she not moon.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 03:24 PM
1

Like I said. I’m just drawn to the woman. I can’t help that. It’s not some fairy tale dream shit I entertain in my head I just have an emotional draw to her.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 03:15 PM
1

Never LTR’d one. I’ve been with roughly 30 women in my life so far.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:13 AM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP27/09/20 10:09 AM
1

Not once.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:19 AM
1

She’s not my ex dude. I said she was a friend. I used to be very beta, met her in high school we’ve just known each other for the past 7 years. I know I’m zoned on this one that’s why I made the conscious decision to have this conversation with her.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:04 AM
1

You didn’t get it.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:02 AM
1

This gave me a lot to process. I’ll come back to this comment tomorrow after I’ve slept.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:01 AM
1

Of all the women I’ve met, if I was going to LTR any of them it would be her. That being said, she’s totally zoned my ass so that’s not gonna happen. At most I would be lucky to fuck her, she’s just not physically attracted to me in the slightest. I’m going into the military within the next few months, so I’ll be away from her anyhow. This was a good reply. & yes while I will say I don’t let her get in the way of what I want to do or how I live my life, I do still have some emotional attachment …
/r/askTRP27/09/20 08:30 AM
2

Right and I mean from a logical standpoint I do understand these concepts. Internalization is the process of convincing yourself of something to the point of effortless faith in the concept. I still can’t change that I feel deeply within my body a lack of an emotional connection to a woman. I toss that up to genetics, not necessarily my upbringing. I am on my purpose and I dump time and effort into it every day, I have goals that I’m in the process of realizing and I bust ass to get there. None …
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:39 AM
1

I understand the concepts. You didn’t understand my post.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:52 AM
1

Yeah I get all of that. That doesn’t even relate to what I asked.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 06:37 AM
1

It means he wasn’t going to put himself in the hot seat. He might he might not but he knows that on a subconscious level that if he wants to make a lasting imprint on you emotionally and have any long term or short term goals work out it is in his best interest to keep you interested. If you already know the answer you have nothing to stay interested about.
/r/seduction27/09/20 02:36 AM
2

Set the premise, move on. The interested ones will talk to you.
/r/seduction27/09/20 02:17 AM
1

If you don’t get rejected and you get her number, give it some time, then hit them up. Stay busy, don’t project the outcome you want onto them. Allow the conversation to carry naturally. You’ll hit some eventually. It’s a numbers game my guy. The fact is you’ll run into women who would otherwise be incredibly attracted to you, but for some reason their emotional/mental switches aren’t in the right place for you at that time. So you can imagine there is a whole host of reasons you might get rejec…
/r/seduction27/09/20 01:47 AM
2

The DGAF attitude. When you actually don’t care, your actions and body language follow.
/r/seduction27/09/20 01:17 AM
1

If you are being friend zoned this isn’t pick up skills. If you are getting numbers and always being zoned or ghosted then I’m afraid you probably don’t have skills. The entire idea of game and seduction is the same attitude and approach you have towards the woman when “picking them up” is the exact same as when you speak with them afterwards.
/r/seduction27/09/20 12:06 AM
1

If you chase you turn most women off, it needs to be push pull a bit, this kid is in over his head so he’s got a lot of rejection to fight through before he becomes a natural.
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:47 PM
1

Bro you are so head over heels for this chick already. I’m assuming you are young, like high school tops. Read RP sidebar material, keep your head straight, let the girl come to you, if you chase her you’re gonna put yourself in a bad spot.
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:39 PM
5

It was definitely a one off thing and we were young and she knew me, weird shit happens when you’re teenagers.
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:24 PM
27

There are too many variables to know why that is, but it is definitely still in the way you do things. I’ve been overweight and I’m fairly ugly in my own right my entire life and I still managed to have women interested me, even to the point where one actually asked me to date her, didn’t do it even though I should have, and she’s pretty banging, back then she was chill nowadays she has an onlyfans and legit prostitutes to fat cash daddies in the city but it is what it is.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:29 PM
3

Macros are the big 3. Protein, carbs, fats, micros are all the vitamins.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:25 PM
53

Emotional strength is the ability to have something dig at your emotions or attempt to ruffle your feathers and having it roll off of you. So your emotions are STABLE. It’s more than just showing your confidence to a woman when you are strong like this. They want to be able to pull your emotions, it validates them, by not letting that happen you make yourself more of a challenge and women enjoy cat and mouse.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:56 PM
1

I don’t think she finds me attractive in the slightest. She would rather masturbate than let me get some action. She has a couple guys on her line as well, and I’ve seen how she talks to them, fairly sexual etc. Either way it doesn’t bother me though.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:50 PM
2

I know a girl who acts on female nature subconsciously and then consciously realizes it, it is a bit weird. It’s almost like she knows she operates on a faulty system but doesn’t want to change it.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:08 PM
1

So I know a girl who has multiple ear piercings, a nose ring, a belly ring, she also watches a lot of lesbian porn and says she thinks she’s bi, but never done it, she still seems to fill her boredom with other men’s attention. Is it safe to say she is either crazy or a closet whore? Far as I can tell she doesn’t hoe out, but it’s not my life so I wouldn’t know. Edit: she does also have herpes but I know that’s common.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:51 PM
1

Yeah but I am sick so I mean to me it’s pretty believable. This bitch shit tests me more than you can possibly imagine. I think that’s the product of having known her for so many years, living with her, and becoming RP in the process. If shit never happens with her so be it when I move on from here in my life she gets left behind anyways. So her opinion of it all doesn’t really phase me lol.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:06 PM
2

The end goal is to not think about those things and just be who you are with your new internalized set of ideals. You don’t actively think about your political ideals day to day, but yet you act and think accordance with them on a subconscious level anyways and in the moment can actively speak on them with no effort. It’s the same idea. You eventually won’t think about her trying to break your frame or you trying to maintain your frame you’ll just act accordingly.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:55 PM
1

Read sidebar material you wouldn’t be asking this question. Girl I live with was messaging me yesterday, I left her on read all day, she messaged me like 8 times I never responded, when she got home we bullshitted about a few things and then inevitably it came out, “why did you leave me on read, that shit is disrespectful” the whole time smiling big as hell. I fucked up by saying I was sleeping, bc I was because I’m sick, but under normal circumstances I would have just ignored it and changed to…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:37 PM
1

The differences become less apparent the more ambitious someone is.
/r/seduction18/09/20 11:06 PM
3

I think he’s talking about the ability to take what you want given what you are, and there is no doubt about it that white men in America absolutely reign king in that aspect. Racism or not, whatever you believe led to that outcome that is currently still the status quo.
/r/seduction18/09/20 06:47 PM
5

To not overthink it like you are by asking this question on here. You maintain frame by not caring. When you don’t care your actions follow. Give your attention to new prospects, keep bettering your life. If you lost your frame by divulging your feelings in too earnest a way and too early on the only thing you can do is pull back. It may or may not work, accept either outcome.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:49 PM
1

It’s going to depend on what your bloodwork comes back like. I take 200mg of Test E a week and my estrogen stays bottomed out, no kind of elevation at all. My free T is disproportionally through the roof for my total T as well so it’s a win win, I’m primary hypo and I’m only 24. Just gotta see what your estrogen levels are amongst a few other hormones, might go on. hcg as well if you’re able to in order to keep everything else in line.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:07 PM
2

It seems to me you are asking if women like alphas and if you are a beta. The answer to both is yes. Self improvement isn’t easy and it is time consuming. If you don’t have the ambition to do that you will never get anywhere.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 10:04 AM
1

Sounds like you’re probably just fat. Like really really fat. Pounding hard will get anyone out of breath quickly but you have to learn to breathe deep. Even being very overweight myself I still put it down for an hour or more if I want to, but I pour sweat like nobodies business.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:28 AM
1

Bro I would opt to me him in a public setting, privacy doesn’t entail seclusion. Make sure you understand that difference.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:34 AM
7

Maybe. I just don’t connect with most people. I’ve been told on multiple accounts by both men and women that I have a very above average personality that is attractive but that my face is too much to get past. I’m not deformed or anything but I think I’m just naturally very ugly.
/r/seduction17/09/20 04:21 PM
12

All of my sexual experiences have been with people I never cared even the slightest about, some were downright out of desperation. I’ve only ever been emotionally/intellectually connected to very few, like 3 women in my life and they all seem to be able to pull much much more attractive dudes than myself so it never worked out in my favor. The girl I cared the absolute most about and still do to this day as we’ve been good friends for years now I had some very very awkward sexual experiences wit…
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:56 PM
5

The exercise itself has nothing to do with how well you handle the nerve stimulation of your penis. It helps with erection strength. To an extent lasting longer isn’t about not cumming, it’s about being able to stay hard. Have sex for a long long time and even without cumming you’ll notice a change in your erection strength. So pelvic floor exercises are good in that aspect. In terms of actually lasting longer it really comes down to your mental state and just experience.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:31 AM
7

This was great lmao.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:28 AM
1

You seem stuck on this idea of “I’ll take my shot and even if it fails I’m no worse off” you are framing your interaction very poorly. Take your shot if she brushes you off then you need to brush her off and move on, she could come around too, you never know.
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:06 AM
1

While I think you’re completely right about this. I think that’s the natural course of things. You can’t be friends with love interests. It’s not healthy.
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:02 AM
11

Given our modern society and culture this just isn’t going to happen. RP men aren’t going to live in an area just because other men in that area are RP, the entire idea of RP is to be good on your own with yourself no matter the circumstances. Community support isn’t necessarily part of the ideology.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:30 AM
2

Yeah, don’t entertain someone who isn’t interested. It’s not in your best interest. That’s life man I’m assuming you’re probably pretty young. Learning to separate yourself from people and handle those negative emotions is something that will benefit you more the earlier in life you learn to do it. I promise it’s all for the best.
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:22 PM
1

No, wait to see if she texts back, if the conversation is holding good energy then set up a date. Be concise. Don’t use a Bunch of lol and don’t ask questions. Just be like “I’m going to X place this day, you’re coming” she’ll say yes or no. Don’t let it get you in your head.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:16 PM
3

Set up a date when you feel the energy is good then man, not when you think she thinks the energy is good but when you think the energy is good, the whole point is about maximizing your life and time not performing tactics to settle for mediocrity.
/r/seduction14/09/20 01:11 PM
1

You gotta get to that stage first.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 05:39 AM
1

Except for dating apps where women know that they have supreme reign. Hell I know a 5/10 maybe at best 48 year old woman who downloaded bumble and she had like 500+ likes or whatever in under a few days.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:55 PM
13

Shouldn’t it be illegal for them to do that?
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:20 AM
2

I have.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:11 AM
13

Welcome to the female personality.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:32 PM
1

I just use reddit for casual reading, breaks at work etc. in time frames where I can’t reasonably use it for much else, and usually I’m just reading useful shit sometimes I go looking for shit posts
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 05:19 PM
3

Bro it was a mentality thing, tbh the sweat turned a lot of girls off. Because i poured it lmao.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:14 PM
8

Hey bud, even when I pushing 300 pounds I found a way to pound it out, just got sweaty af is all.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:39 AM
33

This is something I’ve noticed quite a bit.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:34 AM
3

OP take up a yoga class. With your bodybuilding physique you’ll be taken seriously, which means you will then have the opportunity to actually pick up the women there. Yoga classes are filled with dimes.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 08:12 PM
1

Yeah it is for me, and I’m wanting to go into the Air Force before the end of the year, so it is definitely for more than just getting women. I don’t think doing it to get women is wrong though, I doubt many men truly have the idealistic alpha redpill mindset when it comes to getting in shape. Getting women is a big part of life and I think it’s okay to do it partly for that. That being said, there’s really only one bitch at this point I want to pipe that me looking better would help, not to say…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:30 PM
1

I do lift, I’ve also got a lot of muscle under the fat already. Like I’m 270 and 30% body fat at 6’0 so my calculations put me somewhere around 215-220 at 20% body fat and somewhere around 195-200 at 15% body fat which is my initial goal. I know maintaining a super shredded physique is hard, but I want to at least have some veins and definition.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 03:15 PM
3

I wish I knew how important this shit was when I was young so I could be in shape already. I got like 50 pounds to lose and while this isn’t a ton it just seems like it’s taking forever. I dread when it slows down a ton and I can’t lose like 20 pounds a month.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 03:08 PM
1

To me if she left you on read and hasn’t contacted you in three days this chick ain’t shit homie. I’m all for redpill mindset, but just look at the facts. Y’all been dating 2 months, she should still be fully hooked at this point. If she doesn’t feel the want to text you for 3 days this isn’t bc of some stupid shit text. This hoe is 100% entertaining another man.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 04:36 PM
5

I mean it’s pretty true, the only girls that aren’t like this are usually the unattractive ones. Most hot girls are constantly getting pipe.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:43 AM
2

The causes of the genetics and gene expression sure. It still comes back to genetics mostly.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:51 PM
2

No they are two different things, one isn’t a labeled as such because it’s a product of a different cause.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:22 PM
5

Nah bro, there is definitely a chemical neural response that is responsible for emotions of all kinds. Environment can have an effect on it for sure, but you absolutely can be born a sociopath or a psychopath.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:45 PM
15

I’m pretty much the same way, typically I have to keep my narcissism in check, I’m sure you do as well when you think about it. Not much you can do, you were born this way, and no meds will fix it. Most of the time you’ll just get prescribed an anti-depressant and it’s just going to take any kind of creativity and ambition you do have away from you. Do you feel compassion for animals? I do, a lot. People, not really. I still have feelings for one girl and she’s the only one I ever did, not reall…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:36 PM
21

I do this already, good to know I’m doing it right already
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:21 PM
3

Seriously, lots of trophy wives in the small towns retired on husbands money getting pounded by the young ones just getting out. It’s a real thing lol.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 02:42 PM
3

Invest in your retirement account they offer, don’t waste your money, save it. Get a degree while you’re in, get more education when you come out. You can do a ton of good for yourself with the military but you can also come out of your 4 year enlistment with absolutely no money and exactly where you started as well.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:13 AM
5

Ehh to an extent yes, you’re also just seeing generations of genetics at work which also happens to bring good looks with it. Kinda sucks but it is what it is. A lot of attractive people just have good genetics for ambition etc. so did their parents.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 07:36 PM
2

Tbh, 500 miles of driving just to see someone once a week is a stretch, but never doing it? Your point still applies. It wouldn’t be a big deal to do it say every other week at the least.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:42 PM
3

Hmm maybe. In my experience you can find a lot of 10/10 milfs in the small town areas. Go for them. You might be surprised how you like it.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:38 PM
1

Depends on the person. A test level of 500 which is pretty normal can hold on to quite a bit. There is more to it than just testosterone though.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:52 AM
2

Yeah that’s not true bro. If you’re not at your genetic potential already you won’t lose it so long as you keep training hard and eating right, most people just don’t know how to eat right, even less know what legitimate hard training is.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:01 AM
4

Probably the part where I realized I wasted the first 24 years of my life not having this direction or knowledge. Wasted so many good years being a simp and getting no pussy or having any fun memories or relationships with women.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:12 PM
1

Yeah I want to go higher on my test tbh because my free test is incredibly high compared to most people, and my estrogen is still rock bottom. Like even with free test in the 250-300 range my estrogen still scores below the cutoff on my bloodwork. It’s weird.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:06 PM
3

Yeah that’s a self control thing. I had a test deficiency hypogonadism, was first put on 100mg Test E a week, kept me around 500 peak and 300 in the troughs, decided to up my dose to 200mg a week and I sit around 850 peak and 600 in the troughs now. & the difference is immaculate. My pumps feel better, my strength went up basically on its own, working out feels way better and that’s not even close to a cycle dosage. My only downside is the acne.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:45 PM
5

I would say you’re partly wrong. Most women love the jacked look, just not the freak juicer look. One or two cycles done properly won’t hurt most people, and you can definitely get jacked with it. IMO natty is still the way to go, but if someone did a cycle of test they would get some pretty ridiculous results if they aren’t close to their genetic potential.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:43 PM
1

Yeah that’s why I brought up the trust issue to OP. A lot of times girls start feeling guilty about either their emotional acceptance of the events at hand or just the overall events that happened and then just drop some of the truth to ease their conscious.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:18 PM
1

Guess this is true.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:36 PM
1

Well I have money saved I can leave if I need to. So I’m going to shit all over my dinner plate and dining set. Might even wipe it on the fine china and wine glasses while I’m at it. I agree I am choosing to believe her on the matter but I’ve vetted her honesty through the years even on very serious matters and I do believe she is telling the truth, also noticed her phone isn’t blowing up like it used to in the past, not that I pay attention particularly to it but it used to get annoying hearing…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:20 PM
2

I mean it might be a blue pill goal, I just want to fuck while I have a chance, once I leave for the military I’m likely not associating with her anymore or seeing her again.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:01 AM
3

No worries, I’m not going to get married to anyone while I’m in the military.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:21 AM
1

Haven’t lived with her for a while, just known for a long time, we weren’t even around each other for a solid 5 years. Then only saw her randomly over a 2 year period at events.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:20 AM
2

That means that I haven’t been slipping up and acting like a friend or a bitch.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:19 AM
2

No worries, I’m 24, I already have a nice vehicle. I’ve read a lot about things.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:18 AM
15

Then I would just confront him and don’t budge on your stance. No need to go overboard calling him a piece of shit etc, no matter what cowardice he might show or what shit he spews back. Concise statements, “Xtold me you got handsy, that doesn’t fly with me, from this day forward you’re not going to speak with her or put yourself around her, understood?” Leave it at that, don’t associate with the guy anymore he sounds pretty toxic and not cool.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:43 AM
1

True, to be honest I think part of the reason we haven’t hooked up in the past is just that I’ve been overweight. Now that I’ve started the process on going in to the Air Force I’m getting in shape, I don’t blame her for having physical standards either, but I’ve pulled actual 7’s in the past just on game and humor, basically accidentally tbh. So it’s weird that I can’t get her, and that might be some of the reason on why I want it as bad as I do. Edit: we don’t really talk about each other’s pa…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:31 AM
1

Yeah I have, I get other women, like I said it’s not oneitis. Just wanting to fuck her before I leave.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:33 AM
5

It’s a long story, we don’t live together romantically nor were we ever romantic. I live with her because we are both going into the military relatively soon and we have known each other for 7 years.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:15 AM
27

How much of a friend was he to you? Can you trust your GF? I would bring it up and be solid on your stance and get his side of the story, then based on that move forward. Beating the shit out of him won’t get you anything but temporary satisfaction. Either you believe your girl and drop your friend or you believe your friend and drop your girl. You should know women can twist things pretty easily to comfort themselves.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:48 AM
2

No they say zaddy or some weird shit like that lmao
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:56 PM
1

A lot of those girls want a zaddy
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:12 PM
1

You would have unlimited access to young hot women, I don’t see how this is an issue.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:59 PM
1

Yeah I just think of old school drake but quieter LOL. Like it’s literally monotone rhaspy whisper kinda idk I figured it out on my own a bit. Some people might have issues imagining what it should be.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:22 PM
1

“But prawn isn’t like real sex” /s
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:37 PM
2

Exactly. I’m not saying every woman is into domination, but most are, and few ever actually experience a guy who is genuinely like that. It’s why there’s always jokes about the best sex a woman ever had is from a guy who’s in prison. It’s because the hyper aggressive mentality they assign to it. Thing is, I’ve had one off hookups with women who otherwise would have never given me time of day but due to their circumstances it happened, and when you put it down like that you hook them. It’s not ev…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:35 PM
2

So what I meant by that was using the quietest version of your actual voice without actually whispering. Almost like morning voice.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:27 PM
1

Oh well I’ve read both of those actually I just didn’t know that’s what you referred to.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:51 PM
11

Tbh I learned a lot by running milfs for a few years. People who weren’t afraid to declassify the information. I also had a female friend who is my age(24) tell me that she has to not be able to see through it. So same thing, the confidence in the domination and not just doing it because you know they like it.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 03:10 PM
14

Yeah the sexy voice is something that makes a huge difference. The bass whisper. Just enough oomph to use your actual voice but quietly.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 03:01 PM
2

What do these stand for? I want to read them.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:42 PM
31

This man fucks.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 02:41 PM
0

I’m not blaming them for anything, it’s the people around them that give them their perception of themselves. You’re really putting words in my mouth at this point. But like the alpha I am I’m going to walk away from this conversation because you clearly just don’t get it.
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:35 PM
1

Never once did anything I say even imply anything you just said. I don’t care what women think about me. I was adding to the conversation.
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:14 PM
10

Yeah but both are because of the same thing. Tall buff dudes just says to a woman they can be dominated.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:58 AM
1

I don’t want them to like me lmao that’s the whole point.
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:55 AM
0

I get women that people would consider out of my league on a fairly consistent basis.
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:34 AM
0

You can think how you want, but people who operate as an alpha in this realistic framework are fucking those hot cultured women who are married to the men who operate in your framework. It’s reality.
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:21 AM
-3

You can assume what you want. Most people operate in the framework my ideals operate in. I can’t convince you though.
/r/seduction01/09/20 01:11 AM
-5

I shouldn’t entertain this hilarious response, but I will. Yes everyone can have standards, everyone should strive to be happy and confident. This doesn’t mean that average females don’t have inflated egos due to our society and the type of beta men that exist these days. If I bring in a 6-7 woman it’s almost ALWAYS because of everything else I bring to the table, not my looks. Be realistic with yourself and understand that MOST not all but MOST women don’t bring anything else to the table for t…
/r/seduction01/09/20 12:52 AM
-4

When a 4 or 5 is making you chase like a 9 or a 10 and still have huge egos inflated disproportionately by the betas of the world.
/r/seduction31/08/20 11:26 PM
1

I wouldn’t think women would do this to their girlfriends? I get that it’s disrespectful as fuck, but I’ll be honest, next time it happens I’m not letting her get off so easily.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:22 PM
1

Yeah this is true, if a girl is really into you she is okay with her phone being blown up at least to an extent
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:13 AM
1

If the five has a nice ass, idk man.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:41 PM
3

Lmao I get what you are saying man. I just love getting involved in intelligent conversations so much it’s almost like a passion of mine so I’ll get caught up in those conversations and it turns women off so often. Sometimes it’s better to just throw caveat statements out that show you know your shit with confidence without overdoing it. It’s a fine line to walk, I’ve only ever met a few women who were genuinely intrigued by my mind.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:02 PM
1

Bro it’s up to you. She put the ball in your court. You fuck if you want the pussy, so what if she doesn’t come back, put it down right and she’ll come back. Ignore it if it isn’t a big deal to you and you actually feel disrespected. Like I said, ball is in your court.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:10 PM
2

Lean body weight though. Someone who is 250 and 30% body fat has no business taking in 250g of protein. More like 170-180 max.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:01 PM
1

Vice versa when you go for the 10 first if she turns you down and you play it cool and keep cruising say at a party, the 5 is likely going to take you after anyways. This is the beauty of abundance and confidence.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:00 PM
1

Yeah this is true. That book really changed my perspective a lot and confirmed some things that had been lurking in my mind. Next bitch gonna get her soul taken.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:58 PM
1

Holy shit this had me rolling.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:45 PM
3

Yeah same, I’ve been told I’m too intense as a person. Truth is people only value intelligence if you are willing to submit yours to theirs or if they have it themselves. Sad truth. Although I’ve been told the intensity works in my favor in certain situations. Just not with women. I’ve been told that due to my intelligence women feel like I could manipulate them. Yeah no shit I could, but when they create a conscious evaluation of my ability to do so it turns them off, they want to feel like the…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:45 PM
4

Basically the world from women’s perspective.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:42 PM
1

Dinner for Schmucks, Wanderlust, Office Space. Some off the top. There’s a lot of good ones out there.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:59 AM
7

Honestly no. In terms of showing realistic romance scenarios. They all propagate the feminine fantasy of romance. Stick to comedies imo. It’s good stuff.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:55 AM
1

Yeah I think that’s the best bet.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:16 AM
1

Long story, but it’s a temporary situation until I leave for the military.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:14 AM
1

I’ll start trying this out sometimes.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:13 AM
2

Yeah the hardest part has been ignoring her, because we stay in the same room.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:04 AM
1

So I’m in a spot myself. Girl I’ve known for years says she feels like when she thinks about sex with me it’s because she owes it to me. I’m sure this has been due to my beta nature over the years but I’ve changed recently and her attitude towards me definitely reflects it. I’m just playing it cool and letting whatever happens happen, but does anyone have any advice? For context, we live together, but it’s temporary until we both leave for the military. Not trying to get LTR rn, just smash.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 11:24 PM
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I would say just don’t be fat. I’m fat and Although I’ve gotten girls in the past, I definitely get Nexted on my weight alone over guys with fucked faces who aren’t and shit personalities that aren’t even that attractive to be around. Legitimately being overweight kills 99% of your chances with anyone. It sucks.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:03 PM
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Yeah truth of it is that you can put yourself miles ahead of everyone else nearly completely disregarding size. Which is more than enough to keep a lot of women coming back to you as their primary source.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 11:56 PM
1

That’s true. I feel that a bit though, I’m a big guy so a lot of chicks assume I pack, which I’m above average but not huge, so I’ve let down quite a few lol, was actually a hit to my esteem when it happened, but eventually I got enough experience to know I was above average.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 09:42 PM
0

That’s true, but some girls also just have to have big dicks. It’s a painful truth for some.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 07:17 PM
3

I mean racism exists. So does an inherent bias towards races, it’s not something that can be escaped. We are all animals after all. People just typically are more comfortable around their own race that’s just how it is, and it’s due to familiarity which really falls in line with what you just said. What you know and are used to is what you’re going to pay more attention to.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 05:17 PM
7

The thing with the fetishizing the black man is that yes it’s true but it’s from a stance of dominance and big dicks. At least from what I’ve seen and been told. So basically it’s because most white dudes are pussies these days and that’s honestly the truth. Most of them are. A dominant white dude with a big dick still kills the game though.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 04:14 PM
1

You didn’t follow through, also age. I feel redpill becomes more relevant in the 18-35 range for men when applying it to 18-30 women.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:12 PM
2

Yeah the ultimate goal here is to lay down your law and what you’re cool with and then let that filter out the women in your life for you. You do this and you should be good. They fit your frame not vice versa, keep that in mind at all times and you should be golden.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:08 PM
7

Yeah they do idolize white women, this seems to be the case across most races. Idk if it’s just a contrast thing or a status thing because I’m white and I 100% prefer the attractive women from basically any other race, latinas are absolutely my favorite.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 02:57 PM
15

I’ve seen a lot of Indian dudes talk about how when they come to America they can’t get women.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 12:53 PM
0

You can’t consider porn. You said you read sex god method so you should know psychology is the biggest part. Porn actresses have 30 people around them in a not so comfortable environment and it’s work for them. I’m 7x5.5 and I’ve made quite a few girls cum from PIV. Even when I wasn’t good, I just think it really boils down to how it’s played out. I don’t think being big just magically makes it good, but you can give some sensation and it’s like being able to continually tease, instead of just t…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:30 AM
0

Yeah I’m gonna say dick size actually matters in this respect. Not that you have to be huge, but having something helps for sure.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:07 AM
1

I would say sure once the kid is old enough, it really depends on the environment they get raised in though , I tend to think open environments and the average male not addicted to vidya games learns enough, rather they have motivation or not is another story. Just make sure you don’t allow your wife to teach him how to romance women.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:05 PM
5

Yeah I agree, I think people miss the point that the ultimate goal of redpill is to be aware, nothing else. In terms of outcomes, it’s to be able to successfully manage a LTR. There are women who won’t cheat and it isn’t because they are controlled. It’s because they fall on a spectrum just like men do, where there are beta cucks there are the equal on the female side. Idk people take this shit too seriously.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 10:32 PM
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Tbh most women don’t just lose respect for occasional instances of severe issues occurring. I think it’s more of a “don’t be a whiny bitch all the time” type thing. I also think it’s about the bounce back more than the event itself. If something tragic happens and you show that it keeps you down that is an issue. If it happens and you eventually show resilience to the situation I don’t think it matters to most women. There is a lot of overly alpha shit perpetrated on this sub these days. Which m…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:22 PM
5

You know I would agree that female love, more or less human love period cannot be truly unconditional, but I would say there is a spectrum of human mentality and I have met a few, very few women who generally fall more in line with how men think and how we are in these situations. To be honest most of these women have been either openly bisexual or entertaining the curiosity of being with women themselves and they do seem quite a bit more introspective.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:35 AM
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Bro....this behavior on your end is really self destructive though. Like I’ve been there I used to do that shit but you need to really take a step back and analyze your own behavior. These temporary good feels you claim to get from investing your brain into these kind of situations is exactly the shit that will hold you back. I sincerely hope you can break free from the internet soon and start working on your shit. If you don’t already seriously start working out, even if you ignore all TRP shit…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 12:26 AM
1

Did you not read the rest of my comment you fuck? I said you would change it. Yeah they are doing it for validation but not necessarily to cheat, some do it just for the shit test.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:48 PM
1

It’s not hamstering. I was speaking in terms of the potential situations at hand, not a particular situation. I never do assume what is in front of me is the truth but you can’t be a controlling sociopath and expect shit to ever work, nor would you be happy yourself either.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:44 PM
1

I think the issue might stem from people who now are redpill aware, but are not on there shit. You know ultimately it really comes back to men not having a purpose in their life anymore. Most women don’t either, but they never really had to because they can find their purpose in their children. Men often do not.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:24 PM
3

The fact that this got downvoted shows where this sub is going.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:19 PM
2

This is why you have to have them invested. Also consider this, if you’re really on your shit and you’re a jacked stud with a successful career and you’re solid on gaming your woman and seducing her, how realistic is it that she’s going to run into a guy who is like you but better in every way? The ideal LTR material is going to be a chick who is crazy about you from the jump, then you get her invested. This shows a lot of insecurity at the end of the day.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:18 PM
3

Yeah, I think people have the wrong mentality about what alpha is. While in its fundamental sure it is alpha, we live above other animals, and we have social structures. You can’t suppress your woman and expect her to be happy. & if she isn’t happy she’s going to seek validation and what she wants elsewhere even more. I think people need to realize, alpha is ultimately not giving a fuck, if your woman is going out of her way to post legitimately slutty pictures that’s bad behavior, next. If she …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:14 PM
1

Yes & no. I think this is a bit too far. You can change a woman’s behavior who is really invested in you. It depends on what your game plan is. Some women do this because they think it’s normal, it’s not really for themself and they know that, but at the same time they may not have any interest in straying. If you have a more reserved woman wanting to feel better about herself and it’s not outright thirst traps, just them looking good, there isn’t much reason to kick them to the streets. You can…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:06 PM
1

Bro I live in Texas and I’ve worked construction before, my dad was a master plumber, I’m not about this heat. Seriously. You’re off by 4 but don’t feel like doing anything and the OTR job I’m interviewing for is about 1300$ a week and I 100% won’t make that at any construction company for a while.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 03:22 PM
1

I will as soon as I can, my living situation is dependent on her, covid turned my life upside down, and it was either move in with her or be homeless. So I moved in. Believe me as soon as I have my own place she is dropped. I’m just unsure if I want to fuck with her head later down the road or not. I likely won’t have the time or energy to entertain it so we’ll probably never speak again. I’m contemplating taking an OTR trucking job just to get away and make better money.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 02:28 PM
0

Yeah I know, I can’t really do what I want until I do, unfortunately the market for jobs is complete shit right now and tons of overqualified people are looking for jobs. As soon as I’m out I’ll likely never speak to her again, I can’t decide yet if I want to entertain her for the laughs down the road and manipulate her or just say fuck it and never speak to her again.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 11:29 AM
3

I mean...they gotta know what’s up right? If I was ever in an LTR and my woman came home at 4:30 a.m regardless of her explanation she’s probably out the door.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 08:44 PM
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I’m curious because this is my current situation, bitch went on vacation, fucked my best friend whatever oneitis I had lurking died off pretty immediately. She’s above average, I wouldn’t say smoking, she’s like a 6.5. She comes back and the script has flipped, and in maintaining frame. So far I’ve had her buy me food and give me money kekW. Im still overweight, looks are improving but it’s gradual. I can tell she’s annoyed as fuck at my new attitude towards her but I’m not breaking. Not being a…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 08:39 PM
3

This is true. Largely just being fat in and of itself is a turn off, vice versa, if you’re ripped, you can get tons of pussy on that alone. As to the quality of said pussy, ehh...to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 03:29 AM
2

Yeah I mean even the chick I watched it with said the only good scene was the shower scene to her.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 12:29 PM
8

I mean different in nuance sure, but AWALT applies to certain aspects.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 11:38 AM
1

Off topic but I was recently the emotional tampon for a bitch, she has no sexual interest but I unfortunately live with her, she was my “one” until she wasn’t and she doesn’t mean shit now, and so by literally not doing anything, and I mean literally not doing anything, she turns into psycho turbo cuntacula just because I’m not responding. So In this case her not dominating is actually the problem, because she sees no value in me past that. Long story short she didn’t really start acting this wa…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:47 AM
2

“Everything happens for a reezon” - said every free spirited whore ever.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:44 AM
2

Well, not many guys understand where the pressure should be applied, if you have a full grip barely any pressure is too much, just saying.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:37 AM
1

No you don’t. Objectively that movie was so trash. It had like a few sex scenes and they were okay at best. The rest of the movie was so bad that i couldn’t be forced to watch it. Ofc I didn’t watch it for myself, but even then I would rather watch the fault in our stars 3 times back to back.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:35 AM
1

This is how I go about it. Aggressive betas are the ones that pen it up and end up going ballistic....not figuratively?
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:26 PM
1

This ultimately boils down to not giving a fuck. When you actually don’t give a fuck all of these things start to manifest themselves. The reality is that these people asking these questions pretty clearly still give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 03:14 PM
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I agree with this a lot. It’s hard for your mind to reconcile it’s own progress subconsciously when it is constantly being fed input, the problem is that when most people remove those outside stimuli they can’t handle not having it so they create their own stimuli and “live in their head” this has been my problem my entire life but due to recent events I had to get rid of my TV and my computer, I unplugged from social media in high school, and I can feel my own progress in a much more intense wa…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:36 PM
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