New to TRP, but isn't it kind of contradicting how when you begin to work on yourself to maintain respect and frame instead of giving her attention, she will start going to her orbiters and possibly even consider cheating or some sort of validation from other men?

Typical for especially higher paid successful married men who have lots of stresses and workload going only to find their wife sleeping with some average joe because he doesn't see her as often.

So is there some neutral middle ground basis you have to work with? Or simply 'it's only your turn. bound to happen'?