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1

I bet she knows you're not attracted to her anymore. It's not that hard to tell the difference between someone who think's you're hot and someone that's using you as a fleshlight because they have no other options.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:18 PM
1

Were you attracted to her when you married?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:06 PM
1

Rookie mistake. You posted an actually unpopular opinion, so of course it got downvoted. The unpopular opinion sub has been for popular opinions for years. Try the tenth dentist sub instead.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:33 PM
1

She's either a prude, just not all that into you, or has herpes.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:03 PM
5

By realizing their way of life isn't attracting the kind of person they can keep
/r/askTRP24/05/21 05:00 PM
1

There's absolutely a ton of cases where it's some insecure fat chick surrounded by insecure social reject guys - people looking for validation. The other scenario is where both people are fairly sure of themselves and don't really give a shit about sex as a special thing, and get off from each others stories and they go to swingers clubs and whatever. Those people are usually somewhat further along in life. So like, two zero fucks given people getting together. A lot of times those people are 40…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:15 AM
0

Open/poly relationships only work with secure trustworthy people. They are more difficult than standard closed relationships. It's also incredibly obvious when someone suggests it whether they're asking because they think it'll be fun for everyone involved versus selfishly asking because they want to attempt a monkey branch without giving up their meal ticket or to retroactively justify cheating.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:37 AM
12

The good kind of neediness is called "being invested"
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:52 AM
3

I hate that. Usually I'll realize like a moment after I finish swiping. Not only is it someone who doesn't take care of themselves, it's also someone with zero confidence.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:15 PM
16

Op is either swiping everyone or knows they'll the only ones that will match with him.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:07 AM
3

People can get into shape at any age. Doesn't mean they can compete with a hot 20 year old, but they can beat out other 50 year olds.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:46 PM
2

She's going to have a rude awakening
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:44 PM
2

It's the hurt boy's dream to have an ex beg to have you back after you fix your shit, but it really means you're letting them live rent free in your head and you're still as much of a little bitch as they thought you were when they left. The dad here should get in shape for his own sake and spend some time enjoying life on his own now that he's free of that charlatan.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:43 PM
18

That's good but you got the joke wrong
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:57 PM
1

That's exactly what she's testing for - to vet against the sort of person... you actually currently are. To pass the test, you'll need to self improve to be the sort of person who passes the test.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:42 PM
1

Friends don't let friends watch Corey Wayne without the 2x playback speed option.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 11:25 PM
3

Absolutely crabs in a bucket. They can't stand to see him succeed because it makes them confront their own failure to do so.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:37 PM
2

Dude looks kinda like Aziz Ansari
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:39 AM
1

I've had more than one coworker like this. Sweet-talked his way in and came in and fucked everything up through his incompetence. Company is still recovering.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 09:36 PM
4

Or for younger people... My name is no. My number is no. You need to let it go.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 11:40 PM
2

She went out looking for an upgrade, couldn't land it and now she's settling for you. At least until something better comes along. How nice of her.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:08 PM
1

In the example she gave her availability. Then when the time came "something came up." It'll be that or "I drank too much earlier" or "I hurt my finger" or any of a million other unverifiable things said by flaky people that think they have everyone fooled.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 09:04 PM
1

Chess club here I come.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:01 PM
2

Naw, unless you're planning to cut her brakelines they'll side with her bullshit for a whiff of that stank pussy. Time to hang out with some new friends until the old ones come around.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:59 AM
2

I cannot stand to rationalize with this woman It's pointless to try to convince her, because she doesn't actually believe anything she says. She's not dumb, she's manipulative. She knows exactly what she's doing and that she'll be able to do whatever she wants with no accountability as long as she keeps up the act.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:52 PM
1

Less true for younger people. but way more true for anyone past 30.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:51 PM
20

Sometimes exes come back as orbiters, and that's great for self esteem. Easy shit-test practice as well if you need it.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:03 AM
1

Not impossible. We get teens on here sometimes.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:32 AM
2

How would you react if a 5 year old said that to you for not eating paste with him?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:14 AM
1

Guy treats you like a bitch because you take it like a bitch. Stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:57 AM
4

Lube is for cutboys. Grow your foreskin back like a real man.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:55 AM
1

Have you tried behaving like a man?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:48 AM
187

The dick she jumped to didn't work out. Now she's going back to her backup plan, which is you. Even if you want that, too bad. You're there for validation now. As soon as you make her feel wanted again, she'll put herself on a pedestal and go looking for another new upgrade. You feel bad about it? Don't. She feels about as much remorse for trying to upgrade from you as you do to your old smartphone when buying a new phone.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:35 AM
9

He was too decent a man to blow the lid off and expose what a slut piece of shit bitch your mom was. See, that's the thing about women - they never have to worry about being a decent man.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 01:48 AM
1

Most definitely. Nothing turns someone's entitlement up to 11 like cheating on them. The moment it happens they start rewriting history to justify their actions.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:27 AM
53

Only safe place is the prison pocket. Problem is, she'll find it the next time she's pegging him.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:10 AM
1

Notice how you say you like spoiling her? This is what a spoiled person looks like. Giving her 65% is telling her that she's at minimum 15% more valuable of a person than you are. In fact, she's decided that she's so valuable to you that she doesn't really need to do anything and she'll still get money, and if you don't pony up she'll divorce you and take it by force. Of course she's mad. Her living ATM is malfunctioning.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:07 AM
7

r IllegalLifeProTips
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:04 AM
1

I finally told her that if she doesn’t start earning it then I’m going to have to cut her stipends down. She claimed that I didn’t have the right to take her money away. Check your local laws and talk to a lawyer. Depending on what state/country you're in your paycheck may be considered communal property.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:04 AM
11

"Then why did she match with me?" Because she's bored and matches are so trivial for girls they'll use it to kill time.
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:48 PM
1

If he's hot, bring him in for a threeway
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:30 AM
3

Shave your head, hit the gym. Bald with muscles will always have a buyer.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:54 PM
12

"This bitch goofy" is a good example of staying in your own frame though.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:19 PM
12

Some people when they see a wall they wonder how strong it is. They start tapping on it to see if little chunks fly off. Sometimes it turns out it's just styrofoam painted to look like a wall, and they just keep idly picking at it out of boredom. Eventually there's a big hole in the wall and a pile on the ground, and with a disappointed "yeah, thought so" they go looking for a better one.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 09:08 PM
4

Only the ones in red suits. What can I say I'm a whore for presents.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:28 PM
-5

And gay guys aren't really attracted to men they're just confused?
/r/askTRP10/12/20 10:55 PM
9

Do you let your friends make all your decisions for you?
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:50 PM
30

Some boys like them thick.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:48 PM
4

Free money is never free
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:22 AM
3

That thing that people like to throw around "when all you know is privilege, equality feels like oppression" applies here. Of course they're bitter about it; they've never had a reason for humility before.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:47 PM
26

In bdsm we call that bratting.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:43 PM
8

You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact some times that's not right to do.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:43 PM
2

The people who are most motivated to improve are the people who don't feel like they're good enough on their own.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:01 PM
1

Bitches ain't shit but tricks and hoes Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:56 PM
–

"Read my book 100 times, btw I'm going to spend 30 minutes on a 5 minute topic so better set the speed to 2x" - Coach Corey Wayne
/r/seduction23/11/20 07:04 PM
3

“Baby, don’t worry, no ones ass is a good as mine”
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:25 PM
3

I use an app called Cabinet. Lets me keep track of my plates. Which ones are clean, which are dirty. Which ones I used most recently. The fancy ones for special occasions. It's great.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:04 AM
0

If you're having trouble getting over your family, go have 10 other kids. Then you won't have time to worry anymore.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:23 AM
10

Next time don't let your workplace know about your side gig.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:45 AM
1

It's not going to be the most RP comparison, but like playing Civ 6 there are many paths to victory. Some guys take the charisma route and get really good at chasing, some go for strength or intelligence. Exceling in an area, and ideally more than one, is more important than which area you excel in, so you're best off picking something that plays to your strengths and the cards you've been dealt.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:19 PM
1

Not me. My personality is shit so looks are all I have to go on.
/r/MensRights17/11/20 06:25 AM
4

DNGAF and take your sobriety seriously. It sounds like you only recently got clean. Tell them that you don't like being that person, so you're making a change. Stick with it and you'll have a reputation for being someone who beat addiction.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:36 PM
4

You can get used to anything
/r/askTRP13/11/20 06:26 AM
2

Check the link automod posted
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:30 AM
17

Yeah, just don't spoil yourself that Kaizer Soze was Darth Vader's Father the entire time.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 07:14 AM
19

Those rules were there to get people to stop following rules. If people actually followed them the fight club wouldn't grow.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 02:28 AM
1

Pick up some olympic rings
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:04 AM
6

Its 911
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:26 AM
2

Wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:07 PM
14

You'll be in his pants in no time.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:31 AM
4

Same thing you do if a 5 year old calls you a poopyhead.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:30 AM
16

Just like there's a ton of immature man-children in the world a lot of women act like overgrown teens, especially the ones that have never had any social pressures forcing them to mature. Best you can really do is try to vet and judge by the company she keeps.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 09:09 PM
7

This exactly. Small changes turn into big changes. If you fall off the cart start small again and you'll be back on your feet in no time.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:13 AM
2

Not if you legalize prostitution
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:16 AM
6

Easy girls create hard men.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:14 AM
1

Avoids the problems of dinner dates. Dinner is expensive so you filter out freeloaders and FDS types and don't establish yourself as a living ATM, at a dinner you're trapped with the girl for longer so it's easier to leave if she sucks, everyone loves coffee, etc.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:57 AM
7

She already knows whether she's attracted or not before you say anything.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:19 PM
-1

I would have loved there being tomboys when I was in scouts.
/r/MensRights24/10/20 06:30 PM
2

Holy fuck dude. It's not just over, it's been over for a while.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:00 PM
8

You think it's gay to eat pussy or something?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 08:53 AM
1

If you're not seasoned, why are you so salty?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:26 PM
9

Also called the halo effect
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:26 AM
1

Incels don't tend to go for fat chicks, but the femcel fat chicks don't go for incels either.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:59 AM
2

Easy for some people, hard for others.
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:35 AM
1

Oh wow. Holy shit.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:57 AM
9

Lift.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:36 AM
1

With the other factors in play, I'd assume she'll say anything. I wouldn't take anything she says at face value. I wonder if she's even paying him rent at all.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:45 PM
9

It might, if she's weak. Getting a result like that isn't really the point of rejecting ultimatums.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:44 AM
1

She "likes" you because she "likes" everyone. Also, she's living with an ex. You want that sad beaten down boy beating on your door crying that you stole her from him? Come on bro, you can do better than that.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 10:11 PM
4

The closest I've seen to the real thing on youtube is AMS, and even then so much of his stuff seems motivated by insecurity. Turns out naturals don't tend to go about making dating coaching channels because they're too busy punching sharks or whatever.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:48 PM
22

Step one is to quit feeling so fucking sorry for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 01:21 AM
1

I'd say nothing. If she doesn't find that fun then she's not going to enjoy a lot of other things I like, so we're not sexually compatible. More importantly, she's showing immaturity by letting her friends do her thinking for her. You can't trust someone like that.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:25 PM
1

Both of those sound defensive and like you're trying to change her mind, which is the opposite of abundance.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:01 PM
4

Superglue your dick to your leg. By the time the glue wears odd either the habit is broken or you have a new fetish.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:29 AM
33

Maybe a month or so ago was on a sub and a woman chimed in that hey not all women love muscles she's with a skinny guy right now and he's the best. Moments later she talked about how she used to exclusively date muscular guys. Funny how that works.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:41 PM
7

Lift
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:03 AM
1

Unless you used gold as bait and attracted a goldfish.
/r/seduction02/10/20 04:35 PM
1

Yeah. They feel amazing after a workout.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:52 AM
2

Is it him she loves, or the money?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 06:08 AM
1

Less rejections? No. Be rejected more often. So often you no longer care about it.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 04:54 AM
21

If she's not attractive to you all the money in the world won't make it any better Same reason guys can't buy love
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 08:47 PM
8

Dude spends 30 minutes on a 5 minute topic and scolds you for not memorizing his book.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:33 PM
0

You antinoun or something?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/20 10:50 AM
7

Is it actually sexest though? I'm reading it as something in the text like the authors name or male pronouns that would give away that it wasn't her that wrote it.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/20 06:57 AM
1

The reality is once you build yourself up to a certain point, the challenge falls away and you start to wonder what you were ever so worked up about.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:26 AM
5

If you have trouble retaining your semen, go on grindr for additional donations
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:15 AM
2

Kill need with abundance
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:15 AM
2

Not joking. It's a lot more like having a regular in person conversation than a text based chat room. Did a lot of that during the more locked down days of corona until I adapted to the isolation.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:36 AM
1

After getting fucked over a couple times and recovering.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:02 AM
4

I put on my vr headset and chat with some blokes on Bigscreen
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:58 AM
8

Practice starting conversations with anyone and worry about doing it in a flirty way later. I like commenting on whatever the first obvious things is. Old club song comes on store playlist and girl looks like the club type? "Remember when this song used to play in the clubs constantly?" Guy is doing shadow boxing at the park? "Are you a boxer?" Girl is dressed head to toe in t-mobile work attire? "So I'm guessing you work for sprint?" Guy at the gym benching 4 plates per side? "Shit dude, I bet …
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:50 AM
2

Like my best bud.. so I should prank her and suck her dick?
/r/seduction24/09/20 12:35 AM
1

Sometimes you just got to improve yourself until your abilities match your ego
/r/askTRP20/09/20 09:21 PM
5

You're never going to be the biggest guy in the gym, so don't worry about it. It's way easier to be the biggest guy in every room but the gym, unless you're in Hollywood or something.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:22 AM
2

There's even good people with BPD, believe it or not.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:44 PM
5

It's cheaper than practicing on children too, and you don't even need excuses like bad grades.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 04:16 AM
1

And suck a whole lotta dick
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:36 PM
10

Want to dominate? Learn to fist, both front door and back door. Then give yourself a high five and transition into shoulder press. That's how dad did it. That's how America does it.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:39 AM
1

TBH some of my best lifting days have been during a 48 hour fast. YMMV
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:36 AM
4

OMAD is better for cutting.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:34 AM
4

If you've been lifting for 3 years, you should already know what a plateau is and how to handle them.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:33 AM
1

Holy shit man, it's only been two weeks. Give it some time.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:31 AM
1

If you're worrying about being a beta male you're still a beta male.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 06:15 AM
1

If a 36 year old guy only dates women under 30, I'd be side-eyeing him Lucky for me then I also date guys under 30.
/r/seduction17/09/20 04:20 AM
3

Takes a shitton of money in new york to stand out on that metric.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:59 AM
14

Guys like younger partners as a general rule. Call that what you want, but it is what it is. And yeah, guys love being persued because it's such a rare thing. Guys eventually realize girls in their early 20s are immature and can change into a totally different person when they find themselves, so an older girl who has her shit together starts looking like a much better option.
/r/seduction16/09/20 11:57 PM
18

Trying to fuck his clients seems like something to lose his license over. Did you report him?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 04:32 PM
15

How could you be so controlling?! /s
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 04:27 PM
6

There's also the crap she can easily do herself, sometimes indirect like saying "it's cold in here" when the window is open, expecting you to close it for her. Also, it's never "I'm cold," it's "It's cold" as if it's a statement of universal fact.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:52 PM
12

That's the thing about irresponsible people. They know they'll regret it later, but they go "yolo" and do it anyways. Don't go back. If she does it once she'll do it again. Find someone who doesn't fuck up.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:42 PM
18

Believe it or not, they do have feelings and attachments that last after a breakup. They still like you, they just don't want to date you and catch strong feelings again.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:29 PM
5

This sort of thing is why girls shit-test. Guys need to get in the habit of vetting too.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:17 PM
35

Need space = need to ride some strange dick and see if it sticks
/r/askTRP12/09/20 08:14 PM
1

Yeah. Sure as hell do, lol.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:45 AM
5

Tricking someone into calling you master is kind of weak. Also seems like it kind of robs you of those great dom/sub moments where she's on her kness looking up at you with sparkling eyes waiting for your command, as well as most of the other kinky fun things you can do with subs.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:37 AM
7

Have you never dated a sub before? They get off on calling you master, and they want to be the ones buying you gifts. You're only a creep after-the-fact if she decides she's accidentally been submitting to a beta all this time.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:55 AM
3

Joe Rogan's. He's traditionally masculine and alpha without the insecurity and ego that makes people metaphorically beat their chest all the time. His guests are all sorts of interesting people, and it's just him and like Mike Tyson shooting the shit for four hours. You never get that kind of idea of a person from a short, formal and structured TV interview.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:00 AM
3

Try saying fat can be changed to the copious amount of drug addicted fat girls on their third kid. So many of those on tinder its insane.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:17 AM
2

Because tons of women are conniving and two faced?
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:14 AM
2

Challenge yourself. Fail faster.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:27 AM
2

I know my bros always come first
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:13 AM
5

You also don't have to want to shag your guy friends.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:54 AM
2

It was alpha cucks all along
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:49 PM
8

She's wants your money bro, use that to your advantage. Use your beta bucks to lure her in then reveal you're actually red pill alpha material. Her WAP will melt in an instant.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:01 PM
4

When I lose my parents I expect that to knock me out for a good couple years. Only been two days for OP. He absolutely needs to take time to process this.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:07 PM
1

You could say the same for any dating sub
/r/seduction23/08/20 08:27 PM
1

A version of this was on there yesterday.
/r/seduction23/08/20 08:25 PM
1

Results not typical. Some people just have a crying fetish.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 10:14 AM
1

Different girls have different tastes
/r/seduction22/08/20 10:12 AM
1

Ding ding. We have a winner. She's trying to ease her bruised ego.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:51 AM
8

Hey, I came here to make the obvious joke
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 03:08 AM
3

By the time someone is trying to play power games, the relationship is already dead and starting to fester.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:34 PM
29

You're buying a car just because it's got wheels on it. That's a good line. I'm going to have to steal that one.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:51 PM
3

Every morning I break my legs Every afternoon I break my arms At night, I lie awake in agony until my heart attacks put me to sleep
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:53 PM
6

"Oops, branch swing didn't work out. Sorry for leaving. I guess you're good enough until something better comes along. Thanks for being my back-up plan."
/r/askTRP12/08/20 11:09 PM
1

The real answer is "hard body." Means they're in shape.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:40 AM
1

If you're used to saying "yes" to every girl that looks your way and having zero standards, it's pretty normal to over-correct for a while as you adapt to your new mindset. If you seem to be nexting everyone you can lower your standards a little, but if all you get is bad options you need to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 10:14 PM
2

If it's the sort of bar where people are open to talking and everyone knows each other, it's not that odd.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:35 PM
11

You've drank too much red juice. Screenshots are supplication.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 04:34 AM
63

The hedonistic treadmill. It's possible to get bored of anything and anyone. You'll stop loving any song or movie if you play/watch it every day. Pair that with getting half the guy's stuff in a divorce and there's no real consequences for screwing around.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 10:52 AM
3

Being fake-busy is pathetic.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:36 PM
1

Turns out judges don't care much for dishonest people
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/20 07:31 PM
6

I love playing pranks on my friends
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:46 PM
24

There's no need to stop, bro. Women will only hurt you so men are the only relationships worth having. If anything you should watch even more. Just make sure you're sticking to "gay for pay actors" that are only being gay for the money, and that the balls don't touch. Then it's just two straight guys going at it. Two bros being hoes, if you will. If it's good enough for greek warriors it's good enough for us.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:30 PM
3

Or you could be a man?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:22 PM
6

That's why gay guys are so happy
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:04 AM
36

They also do things for you. Girl version of bp supplication
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:44 PM
10

There's an incest joke in there
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:25 PM
1

Look the part, act the part.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:57 PM
9

Girl's being shitty, yet her fiance is the one getting arrested. He played himself.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:36 AM
1

I also have that problem, and it seems like I'm only attracted to damaged girls with daddy issues so my biology is keeping me in that unhealthy bubble.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 06:22 PM
1

It's so fucking weird being bi. On my gay side I'd been messing around since Jr High and sex has always been easy to find, but I didn't lose my straight virginity until after college and hot girls can still be intimidating to talk to.
/r/seduction08/07/20 06:09 PM
7

A college degree shows an employer that you're likely debt bound and will put up with otherwise unacceptable working conditions.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:53 AM
4

Sounds like you got some firsthand experience with BPD.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 05:03 AM
1

Doesn't justify the women's actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 12:22 AM
3

And bad OP
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 12:19 AM
1

Sounds like she denied her own pussy pass
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 12:19 AM
1

How did Henry the 8th lose 180lbs? He got rid of his 200lb wife.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 12:17 AM
2

Rockstar pay comes from being able to draw rockstar crowds
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 12:08 AM
7

Never dip your pen in the company ink. It's not worth the trouble that comes with it.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:18 PM
1

dressing like a bf Maybe something like going around in an argyle vest or formal work clothes all the time? Looking chaste.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:14 PM
5

Enjoy your upcoming trip to prison
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:10 PM
3

If she asks if you want to build a snowman, run.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:29 AM
23

FemaleDatingStrategy is way more of a male hate sub than TRP is a female hate sub. Guess which one isn't quarantined or facing a ban?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:42 PM
1

Two different disorders
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:14 PM
1

Keeps me in the right headspace
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:41 PM
1

Some girls can't make any decision without the approval of their friend group.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:40 PM
10

They let their emotions do all their thinking for them, which is great for sex but dangerous once they turn on you. If a girl says she has BPD, run.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:41 AM
1

Says she's busy, reschedules: she's interested Says she's busy, doesn't reschedule: she's not interested
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:29 AM
6

Just bring a grocery bag and you're good
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:12 PM
6

My father is an awesome man, and a good man. Always in control of himself. Can fix anything. Plays multiple instruments and speaks multiple languages effortlessly. Refuses to criticize his kids, because he'd rather encourage them to keep trying, but also cannot be crossed. He loves my mother dearly, while also having and old flame that still wants his attention after decades. I 100% lucked out having him. He is selfless out of strength. I can't even think of a single negative thing to say about …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 04:41 AM
7

Yeah, on a project. I don't know what I was thinking. Damn girl can't keep her legs together without it.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 08:05 PM
68

Ran out of leg crazyglue
/r/MensRights18/06/20 08:50 AM
2

Yep. That's normal. She hates that she misses you, and can't go back because she probably told everyone what an "abusive monster" you are. Same thing as a shit test, just taken to extreme levels. Just keep ignoring, as you're doing.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:41 PM
1

The shitty behavior means she's still got feelings and is butthurt about things not working out, and has to be constantly vigilant about demonizing you so she won't go back after talking a ton of shit about you after the breakup.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:12 PM
0

Intermittent fasting works well
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:11 AM
9

If your friends aren't respectful of you, they aren't your friends.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:27 PM
13

Just a sucker with no self esteem
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:58 AM
8

I’m not used to this female attention. I’m used to getting scraps. You too huh? I'm about 15lbs away from having visible abs in the first time in my life. Even without that I've been getting way more attention lately than ever before.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:21 PM
1

No one said they actually succeed.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:25 AM
1

Female Dating Strategy subreddit run by female incels, valuing things like having a guy pay for expensive dates then ghosting him.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:02 AM
5

Thanks, but I have enough firsthand experience with BPD to last a lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 11:23 AM
7

Not just physical. Also fullfilling every sexual fantasy eagerly until she turns on you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 10:54 AM
1

It's pretty gay to be ignorant too.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:04 PM
-1

Its pretty gay to know they're out of fashion bro
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:57 PM
1

There are rockstars that can get away with that too
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:54 PM
1

Keep lifting until you're not.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:24 PM
2

im almost too confident. Riiiiight
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:51 AM
2

Especially when you live with your brother
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:01 PM
–

True. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:25 AM
–

Yeah, if she's attractive
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:33 AM
3

That's how it goes. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:36 PM
5

I find it interesting how well insecurity drives achievement. Maybe a few more breakups before they don't affect you anymore. That's what I tell myself anyways.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:53 PM
2

She sensed weakness, and couldn't get over it so she dug deeper. That's all it is.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:45 PM
5

Caring too much about being a top achiever + hiding from people when he doesn't meet their expectations = insecurity and weakness. Might be why she lost attraction.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:41 PM
18

My poor boy - they do care, just not enough to imagine that they'd ever be attracted to you again. Why else would someone go through the whole song and dance of manufacturing break-up reasons? Why else would so many girls break up to immediately either fuck a ton of people or rebound with someone who looks like an off brand version of you? It's her version of "go fuck ten other women." It's because there is guilt there, but the attraction is gone and everything and everyone is telling her to jum…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:36 PM
11

My ex tried that whole "quit your great job you love and move to a shitty one on the middle of nowhere" line too. It's a shit test to verify that you're as weak and wrapped around her finger as she thinks you are. By the time she's going out partying with her trashy friends it's already over. She's mentally broken up with you long before you find out about it and she's building up excuses to leave because she knows she's full of shit and wants to do it without feeling guilty. This is why she ask…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:21 PM
2

Fucking someone with an actual real live boyfriend is asking for trouble. Why tempt fate just for pussy?
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:30 PM
1

Oh my sweet summer child
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:26 PM
3

"Is he cute?"
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:48 AM
0

Any animated sitcom
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:39 AM
2

I usually go from the waist then pull them over my shoulder
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:39 AM
1

Drop this incel shit. You're over-compensating for inner weakness.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:35 AM
1

Head shaving is purely between a dom and his sub. I can't imagine why anyone else would want it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:17 PM
1

Girls with daddy issues love old guys, just not sad lonely needy ones
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:01 AM
3

Fucks her one time and he's talking to her like they're a couple having an argument
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:00 AM
11

The best thing about the semen retention crowd is that if their will breaks and they lose some of their semen they can just go on grindr and get some more to restore the balance.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:33 PM
2

Watched most of the video... Shit dude, if you want giant hooks in your back and your forskin forceably taken and then being forced to eat it, just go for it dude. Stuck hundreds of fire ants in your urethra, and cut it open to get it out again. I charge a nominal fee for my services, but all you ever had to do was ask.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 02:00 AM
8

If she presses further, tell her "It's not wise to upset a Wookiee"
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:15 AM
6

Lol. Congrats daddy, she's got you for 18 years.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:09 AM
4

I see you're also connoisseur of AMS
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:46 AM
1

What is it people like about whatsapp for this stuff?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:48 AM
2

99% sure op is a white guy
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 08:19 PM
1

Because they're shallow and insecure?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:11 AM
5

This is beautiful - she chose to open that door and can't accuse you of being controlling. After all, you're not telling her what to do, you're just "following her lead." And why there's go going backwards - it's not for this time, it's so she learns for next time that if she opens a door like that then that door is going to stay open, so she'd better be proactive if she doesn't want everything to be on the table. If you just accept the apology, she learns that all she has to do is apologize aft…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 05:58 AM
3

Someone good with money would be saving it up. Most guys in their early 20s don't have that level of self control.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:04 AM
1

The richest man in babylon has such a cringeworthy writing style
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:03 AM
10

Buy the house from them. Now it's my house. My house, my rules. I'm the dad now. Make my parents sleep in separate bedrooms. It's easy because they already do that. That just makes it easier to fuck my mom. Because I'm the dad now. Make myself a little brother. I'm like a father to him. I raise him in my image. Eventually he gets a job at 23 making the 23 year inflation equivalent of 70k per year. Eventually he buys the house from me, fucks my mom and makes me and dad sleep in the other room whi…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 06:29 AM
2

Welcome
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:31 AM
9

Self-grooming behaviors fall under IOI.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:09 AM
1

Anything that long sounds rehearsed and try-hard.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:06 AM
1

Or on a plate. Eat your enemies to gain their strength.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:06 AM
1

Guy sounds insecure and sees you as a threat for some reason.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:05 AM
4

Maybe you're not following? Asking less directly has to do with her not catching on that you're checking for daddy issues.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:12 AM
7

Might go more subtle with that. "What are your parents like?"
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:34 AM
53

It's not like reddit doesn't have tons of gone wild subs
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:30 AM
1

She did you a favor and outed herself as an unreliable piece of shit. Aren't you glad you found out before getting married?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:31 AM
2

Lol 10 is nothing. Are you so pathetic you don't think you can hold the attention of anyone but a virgin?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:30 AM
6

Well of course prostitutes don't help. Paying for it comes easy so doesn't boost confidence. Show yourself that equal or better people are accessable so you can learn more abundance.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:24 AM
7

Can't believe I just got friendzoned on trp
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:29 PM
1

Being stronger than your own impulses.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:43 PM
4

She took it badly, blocked me, and started an onlyfans. C'est la vie.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:19 PM
3

How is her self control in general? Does she cheat on diets? You'd think it would be easy in a relationship to simply not fuck other people behind the back of the person you supposedly care about, but apparently some people don't quite seem to grasp the general concept of monogamy.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:47 AM
48

Incels and femsels should just fuck each other already.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 01:54 PM
2

There's always time for the long answer later.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:23 PM
1

Don't be dating people during a pandemic Seems like you're blocked, so move on. Interested girls don't block you.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:20 PM
5

There we go. If you don't call her bluff, you've proven you're afraid to lose her.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:37 PM
2

Unfortunately it's only going to get more antagonistic from here.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:35 PM
3

It's a tough thing to have someone humanized and still hold frame. When her attraction is based on her perception that you're better than her, you're placed in an unfortunate position. You get the same thing in a business context - it takes a lot to fire someone you feel a have connection with, and if an employee catches on they may take advantage of that. Staying mentally disconnected is a crutch in some sense, but a lot of people can't operate without it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 10:06 PM
21

From what I gather it's a "it works on me so it should work on him" kind of thing. Same reason guys send girls dick picks. A girl sending nudes works on him, so why shouldn't it work on her too right?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 09:54 PM
31

If that doesn't describe most of my exes, I don't know what does. Imagine not being able to know if you like something or not because you don't have your friend's opinion on it. That's the reality insecure girls live in. One day I'll learn to vet better.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 09:50 PM
1

This is gayer than anal sex with a man
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:25 AM
2

You're too hung up on her to not fuck it up.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:36 AM
2

The stuff they put on mcdonalds hamburgers. It's actually carboard dyed green and soaked in grease until it becomes translucent.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:11 AM
2

Continuing this, Total Cock Distance (TCD) is a more interesting method of measurement because you can unlock achievements. $5 Footlong A stone's throw The whole 9 yards The mile long club There and back again Around the world Across the universe
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:02 AM
3

A less fun way of measuring the total inches of cock that have been inside someone
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:31 AM
4

Only 50?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:29 AM
1

We don't have a vaccine yet so...
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:10 AM
2

American phone number format
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:28 PM
1

Insecurity is a liability for any kind of committed relationship. Do you really want her to be with you out of desperation? You shouldn't. That's shakier ground to stand on than the San Andreas Fault. That kind of person wants validation so bad they don't care who they get it from. Expect "it was only a kiss," "ok, it was more than a kiss," "I don't know, it just happened," "well it's your fault anyways." Insecure women will jump at every opportunity, because who knows when their next chance is …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:21 PM
4

See: Codependency, BPD, Splitting, NPD, Bipolar
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:01 PM
5

In fact, they're at least half good
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 09:19 AM
1

Everyone getting hit up by exes but me. Guess I already ran out of those with this one.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:02 AM
7

Because guys mistake tinder for grindr. Guys are visual. Seeing pussy makes them horny, so they think girls are the same.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:28 PM
1

Some hiking would be nice
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:27 PM
1

You haven't been with enough girls to find the ones that make it tough for others to measure up
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:22 PM
47

It's not too late for OP to bang his sister
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:50 PM
3

Nope. I'm better than ever.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:41 PM
2

She wants to endlessly complain about the nail in het forhead and refuse to actually pull it out because then she can't be a victim anymore.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:16 AM
1

That's pathetic. Do you jerk off to this revenge fantasy shit?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:13 AM
1

You can only get them back when you are no longer sure want them back. Girls are crazy like that.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:11 AM
2

Or keeping it
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:06 AM
11

No, cop! No! Stop!
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:54 PM
1

Learn new skills. Succeed at more things.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:25 PM
1

No better time to be a plague doctor
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:19 AM
5

From everything I'm reading here, it's clear you're in a festering zombie relationship with a girl who doesn't respect you and wants to fuck this other guy more. There is nothing you can do to salvage it. It's time to tell her that you're unhappy in the relationship and that it's time to go your separate ways. You probably should have done that months ago.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:32 AM
1

It still exists, but is quarantined and has the sub count forced to show "0".
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:23 AM
2

Just be as swift as a coursing river. Its that easy.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:21 AM
1

True for me. Gradually been finding my way here and finally landed.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:02 AM
1

And here I am stuck with oneitis for someone with both. The sex was really that good.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:01 AM
5

That's the decoy account
/r/askTRP14/04/20 08:59 AM
46

Naw fuck that. I'm putting my friend first.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 09:33 PM
1

Someone that will bring in a lot of money when sold on the lotus market
/r/askTRP11/04/20 09:12 PM
2

Right now it's terrible. You couldn't get people to leave their houses if their life depended on it.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 07:28 AM
1

Run over them with your car to get your money back.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:11 AM
1

Oh my sweet summer child. She doesn't want to fuck you because she's not physically attracted to you. I bet you buy her whatever she asks for.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:07 AM
2

Are they really worse.. or are you better and they look worse now in comparison? I'm getting kind of tired of immaturity too.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:22 AM
-1

And on the playground there's the cold slide
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:43 AM
-5

Thanks. It's crazy how many people overlook the obvious.
/r/seduction02/04/20 08:30 PM
–

Be an interesting person
/r/seduction02/04/20 08:24 PM
1

That is the face of a man with zero confidence. Guy is so whipped he doesn't even know he's whipped.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:23 AM
1

There goes her child support based retirement plan.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:52 PM
3

/r/wosh
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:48 PM
4

Cop has the patience of a saint
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:46 PM
0

The straight kind?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:39 PM
1

A guy with a woman like that is exactly the sort that needs a barber shop like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:37 PM
2

To shreds you say?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:35 PM
1

Link?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:34 PM
1

In the doghouse
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:33 PM
3

Oh no, anything but that!
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:10 PM
1

Damn right. I want my half sandwich. Taken was a pretty decent flic tho. Git that one but skip the sequel.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:08 PM
7

Then pretty soon she's 32 but the best guys are going for girls under 25. Didn't bother her when that was her, but it's "gross" now that she's past her prime. Oh how the turn tables.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 11:07 PM
25

I've seen some of the shit my BPD ex has spewed about me. Was I giving her one less piece of chicken at dinner because I'm a full foot taller and am working on putting muscle on at the gym... or was I actually literally starving her because I secretly hate her? Guess which interpretation she went with and tells people...
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:28 PM
49

BPD girls will fuck you up and you won't even know what hit you. It fucks with your head because you found this person that was great at first and is the most giving caring person you've ever met... but gradually they start taking all their baggage out on you and thinks every random hair they find is proof of you cheating while concurrently cheating on you the whole time and seeing no problem with it and ripping off their toenails because the voices said to it's like what the fuck happened to th…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 12:41 PM
1

Maybe not, but if they're ready to act like a normal person I wouldn't mind them texting me.
/r/seduction25/03/20 08:58 PM
2

Fuck his mom.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:04 AM
4

As an introvert, I feel like I've been training my whole life for this.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:07 PM
5

SHIT ON HER FACE.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:26 AM
2

In another way, women love you the way you love your job. If there's perks and enough pay it's great, but when things get tight out the door you go.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:57 PM
1

Secure confident girls are repelled by manipulation. Make sure you're just having fun with a chill person.
/r/seduction20/03/20 06:57 PM
9

The lower her self-worth, the more she thinks you must be garbage for valuing her.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 08:16 PM
10

Sip on ice water to maintain appearances. Say you're drinking straight vodka. If she wants a sip, don't give it to her, use it as a way to establish dominance. When she finally gives in to you, give her a sip and counter whatever she says with something like, "I keep myself to a higher standard, I don't put poison in my body." Or, "What'd you think? I was an alcoholic like the rest of these losers?" Or, "Hey, you're the alcy that wanted to drink straight vodka!" Stop. Stop. Stop. I don't think m…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 08:30 PM
–

If you trick a girl into falling for you, now you have a girl who falls for tricks.
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:36 AM
1

You still have the wrong mindset. This isn't about lines, or things to say, or getting a reaction, or trying to make her behave differently. You should be feeling disappointed in her, because she isn't meeting your standards. It isn't really necessary to directly communicate as long as you can be in the mindset to actually feel it. If she asks, you can calmly tell her that you expected more from her. However, the question you have to ask yourself is, "is this something a guy would put up with he…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:23 AM
8

Either 2 or 3. She knows she shouldn't be doing that, and doesn't respect you enough to hold back. The only reaction it deserves, if any, is disappointment. ​ "hey werent you the guy who asked me for advice on how you can get a girlfriend at that party a while ago? This breed is more for boyfriends, bro." "Wow, my boyfriend seems really threatened by this guy. He's afraid of losing me and thinks this guy has what it takes to take me away. Maybe he's right." You're the prize. Don't mate guard.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:57 AM
2

Works even better on a hill. Just make sure your parking brake is off too.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:30 AM
14

Just culked my toilet and bathtub
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:43 AM
20

Off to complain on social media how "gross" it is that men only want to date beautiful women.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:56 PM
12

So I shouldn't be seductively washing girls' hands right now?
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:48 PM
12

Taking a girl on a 4 day trip and paying sounds a lot like a serious date to me. She doesn't seem to be taking it very seriously, but hey free trip right?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:47 AM
1

You are nothing. Everyone is basically nothing. Great parenting advice too. "Sorry kids, you're just sentient dirt scooped up into a squishy mech suit for lump of jelly that basically only exists to make more copies of itself, and nothing you do will ever matter in the grand scheme of things."
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:23 PM
12

"Live your life, do anything you want, so you won't regret anything yo hadn't done when you are in your deathbed" he whispered, wiping the blood from his hands.
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:20 PM
3

Crazy bro is so good at sex though, and it's only gay if you bottom.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:15 PM
2

Well, you're the last man holding out on that
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:13 PM
4

Oh yeah? Tell daddy all about it.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:12 PM
35

Yep. Pheromones are totally real. Some people's natural odor just smells fucking amazing.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:12 PM
4

The LeFou to your Gaston. Let him follow you to the gym and start getting in shape.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:07 PM
1

That doesn't sound one-sided / exploitive then. As long as you're not pining for any of them I don't see a problem.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 07:01 AM
1

When you say they return the favor, does that mean they're also treating you to things like movies and concerts?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:05 AM
1

How far are you into buying them things anyways? Just small things or are you treating them to things like movies and concerts?
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:21 AM
3

More than that, the fear that if you stop buying them shit they'll stop wanting to be your friend. If you have to buy their friendship, they're already not your friends. You can't buy respect, and trying to buy it loses it.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:59 AM
3

Holy cannoli. There it is.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:08 PM
0

Better yet, read the things linked in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:12 AM
6

Good book. 95% sure his Nice Guy syndrome is another name for codependence.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:31 PM
25

"So, what's your favorite star wars movie?" If she says anything other than Empire Strikes Back, she's trash.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:29 PM
3

Are you my ex-girlfriend?
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:06 AM
2

While the sex is great, the instability of someone with BPD has serious negative effects on your own mental health. It's not something to mess around with.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:28 PM
2

She probably also accidentally slipped, fell and landed on his dick. Time to accidentally break up with her and find someone less accident-prone.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:59 PM
1

You never get bigger, other guys just get smaller.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 01:37 AM
5

Don't shit where you eat, unless you like eating shit
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:45 PM
11

The Welsh were the first to innovate preventing pregnancy through the use of sheep intestines. The English later improved on this idea by removing the intestines from the sheep.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:45 PM
1

Unless you're allergic to antibiotics, there isn't much to actually be worried about. If you're worried about HIV, get on PREP.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:41 PM
14

"Nice"
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:16 PM
6

BPD girls are strangely addicting. They feel every emotion in extremes, so when they like you you get 100% acceptance and idolization. Then when they split and suddenly hate you, it's like what the fuck? I'm the same person I've been the whole time. You go from soulmate, to a "monster", and back to soulmate on a dime, because the very definition of their psychological condition makes them see the world in black and white and gives them zero resistance to their impulses. Its codependency taken to…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:31 PM
2

As long as you want their approval, it's going to radiate out of their body in ways you don't expect and can't control, and in exactly the way girls are tuned to pick up.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 09:31 PM
2

No More Mr Nice Guy is always a good start. Essentially about breaking out of codependent cycles though I don't think it ever directly refers to codependency by name. Models by Mark Manson is also great. It focuses on authenticity, which is about as far away from following formula as you can get.
/r/seduction09/02/20 09:53 AM
2

Lol. There's only one god and he's writing this comment.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 08:22 PM
3

The biggest sign I look for is when she pulls out my doodle and slaps it on her face.
/r/seduction08/02/20 07:51 PM
1

better yet use two
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:17 AM
12

Even simpler, the person who wants it less is the one who sets the terms and creates the hoops for the other to jump through. The more you chase her, the more you're on her terms. If she has to chase you, you're golden. Dating advice for both men and women are all about trying to become and remain the one getting chased.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 01:52 AM
19

OP still has AIDS but undetectable
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:04 AM
3

Oneitis: If she's the one that got away, as long as you want her back you're not going to get her back, and she'll use you for attention and validation. If you fake not wanting her but also make it easy for her she's going to have the same problems as before only she'll be even more disrespectful when she figures it out and won't own her decision. If you manage to reluctantly take her back and make her work for it, best case is you get a few months to a year of better behavior until she eventual…
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:57 PM
9

The only thing that could kill him was love
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 04:40 AM
1

Yeah. Every time I go to the gym on a day I don't feel like working out, I feel like working out once I'm in the locker room.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:55 AM
8

Follow his example and even you can have a hot sister as well!
/r/seduction02/02/20 08:16 PM
5

Time to find a rich widow
/r/seduction01/02/20 09:24 PM
4

I was actually just making a joke, like the language latin vs ancient greek, but for dancing. Thanks for taking the time to write out a detailed response. People like you make reddit a better place.
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:07 AM
7

Latin dancing seems like it might be too hard for me. Is greek dancing any easier?
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:51 AM
6

I think it's time for me to read models again.
/r/seduction26/01/20 03:59 AM
–

Yesterday's video more or less says they're getting pressure from Youtube to stop doing pickup focused videos and if they don't change they'll lose their livelihood.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:04 PM
2

So... how long did she make you wait in the relationship before having sex?
/r/askTRP25/01/20 05:42 PM
1

It's you that can't take a hint. She'll do that for a guy she lusts over, but not for you.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 05:41 PM
2

On the one hand, I find it way easier to believe this guy as a player than someone like RSD Tyler, but I noticed after watching him for a while that some of his approaches to things seem like they're being done out of a fear of being hurt. I feel like someone who truly dominates in the dating world would be the kind of natural that wouldn't make a youtube channel or be a dating coach because he's too busy racing fighter jets or whatever it is guys like that do.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:33 PM
1

Sounds like maybe you have a rant stored up about this guy?
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:21 PM
1

Elaborate on that. What makes you see him as low quality?
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:10 PM
–

What do you think of AMS?
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:01 AM
1

It means she resents being attracted to you
/r/askTRP25/01/20 03:41 AM
3

I am Jack and Jill by Adam Sandler
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 07:00 PM
6

Clearly someone put it on the internet
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/20 09:21 AM
4

Fun fact: if you use manipulation to get a girl, you'll only end up with girls that can't see through bullshit. Thats not a fun thing to deal with.
/r/seduction22/01/20 10:02 AM
3

The kind that gets busted by an uncover cop posing as a high school girl.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 11:51 PM
4

Didn't work out so well for Justin Laboy.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 11:49 PM
1

> Puts on bio that he's just looking for friends > "OMG these girls just want to be friends"
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:07 AM
15

Yep. Until they start splitting...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 02:48 AM
26

They're the ones who will do anything for validation, including fucking randos at clubs because she got paranoid about you cheating over finding one of her own hairs from when she'd dyed it. An insecure girl is also going to decide what she likes and doesn't like based off the consensus of her friend group. Did she like anal before? Oops she let it slip and her friends judged her for it, so now it's suddenly degrading and disgusting despite her having loved it 100 times before.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 02:45 AM
3

Lift his girl
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:39 AM
3

I wonder what he's have been like if he got and stayed in shape
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 07:11 AM
5

Not a high percentage of people wanting to go to town on Danny Devito, .. but through a sheer numbers game that's still a shitload of people.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 06:58 AM
18

She kept complaining how shes not as important to me as I am to her and blah blah. . Well fuck yes youre right. Funny how that works. She wants to be number 1, but also wants the things that come with making your career number 1, oblivious to how those things go together.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:31 PM
3

I don't know about you, but that shit wears me down
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:48 AM
3

High highs come with low lows. Expect her to be easily slighted later on and paranoid about cheating when you're working late.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:40 AM
6

When going in, be confident of your kids and talk about how great they are. Show your excitement about them. Girls that like kids will recognize you as good dad material. Worst thing people with kids can do is wait to bring them up until the 5th date like they're some dirty secret you're afraid of.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 11:28 PM
2

Wood chippers work pretty well
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:08 AM
25

"I dont like guys with too much muscles" IS a thing. It is, but not in the way chubby basement boys think. She still prefers a body that takes some kind of achievement or self control to have, like rock climber guys. No one wants fatties for their bodies outside of people with specific fetishes for that sort of thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 10:18 PM
55

It's like Africa only lower.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:00 PM
41

H: "Myself" "Have u meet me?" "If you get me in the right mindset I will give you anything u desire" Girl has literally nothing of value to offer other other than sex.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:58 PM
44

"It's 8PM"
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:39 PM
12

I prefer a gently expanded canadian
/r/seduction08/01/20 06:29 PM
4

Sounds like BPD
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:56 AM
1

An affair with a hedge trimmer always leads to a cut off dick.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:28 AM
0

Fuck dude, have you seen Owen Wilson? Fucked up noses don't matter.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:05 AM
2

I wouldn't call it dread, but I mostly agree. Matching the tone she's picked for the interaction (mushy, etc.) can be thought of as letting her lead, being supplicating, and operating in her frame.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 07:33 AM
0

Context is king. Word choice like that only matters that much when a sentence is taken in isolation. Real life is much more forgiving for anyone who isn't a politician or on trial. Your example of "we lost your loved one" is an example of what linguists call a set phrase, like "raining cats and dogs." You're usually only going to have it mean something else when it's a non-native speaker. At that point the listener will generally realize something is off about the usage and follow up sentences a…
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:57 AM
–

When someone says they are"afraid of losing them" they believe they have them. By that logic anytime a doctor shouts "we're losing him" as a patient starts to flatline he believes that the patient is currently the property of everyone in the room. So yes, you're over-analyzing word choice.
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:26 AM
1

No one thinks they actually have a girl, only the people who over-analyze wording.
/r/seduction30/12/19 09:30 PM
1

Girls love rocketships
/r/askTRP29/12/19 02:43 AM
2

Let me phrase that differently. Do you think that's the ideal way for an office culture to look like? I see the ideal as everyone on the same team working towards a common goal.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:02 PM
3

You think its normal for an office full of adults to be acting like highschoolers?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:44 PM
33

YOU are secretly voice recording it all Don't do this before checking carefully into local recording laws. Recording audio, especially secretly, can fall under wiretapping legislation. At the minimum find out if you are in a two party consent state. Video is generally more flexible. Also if it's not clear, Mark is just my made up name for this guy since OP didn't provide him one.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:34 AM
127

First off, go lift until you stop looking like a boy. An unphased guy with balls would throw it back his way, with the risk of getting fired. "You forgot to include yourself, Mark." You are not that guy. It probably won't be a popular opinion on this sub, but harassment does not belong in the workplace and you may want to talk to HR about this. I'd consider it public humiliation. Document what happened and the witnesses that were there.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:50 AM
1

To get rid of the, just talk to them about your problems.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:40 AM
1

They sure do. They can dish it out all day but can't take it at all.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:52 AM
1

One of several girls you're casually dating/fucking at the same time. They often have some knowledge that you're not exclusive with them. Term comes from the circus act of plate spinning.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:43 AM
1

Or second guy...
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:11 AM
3

Read uncle v's guides on these things. Know about and use safewords (the stoplight system is simple and clear so it makes a good default) and discuss what you're going to do one last time before starting. Being in control also means looking out for the safety of your sub, and realizing that sometimes in subspace they'll forget safewording is an option. She may find that some things work better for her in fantasy than in reality. It's not hot to have safewords, or spontaneous to have discussions …
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:27 AM
3

She'll probably flake. Subs fantasize about all sorts of shit when they're horny and once they get off they shut off the phone and go back to watching TV.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:40 PM
3

I don't know about you, but I don't want to raise someone else's kid.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:50 PM
10

Agreed. Not the kind of leader I strive to be.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:18 AM
5

Tease about something that they wouldn't actually be insecure about.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:01 AM
3

Some succulents, a cactus, and some herbs. They're pretty great
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:39 PM
1

Shit dude, if even the making out is bad I get bored. How desperate are you? Enthusiastic fucking is way better than some starfish. If she sucks, tell her to get dressed.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:32 PM
-3

Fuck me down and I will fart greater than you can possibly imagine.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:12 AM
5

You have. You just forgot about it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:56 AM
18

I'm a guy that has had orbiters on occasion ever since getting in shape. Sometimes girls, sometimes guys. Most recently had an old neighbor lady get a crush on me after I answered the door shirtless. She started watering my plants for me and kept it up for a few months. I imagine the way I feel isn't too far off from how girls feel. I feel kind of bad about it because I don't want them and give them nothing to indicate otherwise, but they're kind of insisting on sticking around and it feels good…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:22 AM
7

Are we gonna sing the incel anthem now? You.... got what I need...
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:15 AM
3

My big problem is always over-committing. I don't value being alone enough so I end up sticking around and trying to make things work even when things are bad.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:24 PM
2

Yes, breaking up is the right move. If something isn't working have the balls to break it off. She'll eventually respect you more for doing it and sticking with it. Also, whatever you (op) do don't chicken out and try to get her back after - you'll have the same problems but worse because you'll have shown her you're both indecisive and can't live without her.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:00 PM
18

Start eating food off of her
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:39 AM
5

So a normal looking guy insecure about his looks, nothing close to burn victim levels, no cystic acne, hadn't had a stroke, etc.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:12 AM
2

Plastic surgery often makes insecurities worse, if we're not talking boils growing out of face or burn victim levels of deformity.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:04 AM
6

She's throwing herself at other guys because she's trying to move on, she's desperate to have anyone right now because she's afraid of being alone. Rebounds aren't meant to last.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:35 PM
3

Serious answer: get a dog
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:19 AM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:02 AM
6

Nibble his ear
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:43 AM
1

Sounds like an oreo
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:12 AM
56

And help take care of their 3 kids.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:10 PM
71

Iirc it was the welsh who first innovated the idea of using sheep intestines as a means of preventing pregnancy. The english later improved upon this idea by taking the intestines out of the sheep.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 12:20 AM
1

AWALT, but SWABTO
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:08 PM
22

There is no OP that will not also ride the cock carousel
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 07:35 PM
6

They're only like that until they gain the slightest bit of confidence, then the selflessness goes away and they overcorrect and start getting extra-awful. Or their friends and family will go out of their way to ruin everything wonderful about their personality.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:24 PM
1

Actually yeah, if it's in person I can see that being done as a tease. I wouldn't use those over text.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:16 PM
33

Can you imagine if Obama said this about men?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 07:38 PM
1

Those are all butthurt responses. Instead, how would a dad or a good boss answer? - "I'll think about it" - "Not right now" - "Yes, I think you've earned it"
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:48 PM
9

Think of girls asking for you to buy things as a compliance shit test. Girls like it when you tell them no and respect you for showing them they have no real sway over you. When you realize standing your ground is more attractive than being her ATM, it gets easier to play the game.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:50 AM
0

Don't shit where you eat. Sounds like you want to learn the hard way.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:21 AM
33

Experience, for one. With each new girl the beta dies a little more as you remember how much money was lost on previous girls.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:29 AM
2

You probably acted like a desperate bitch getting excited over table scraps.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:33 AM
3

She cheated. Have a little self respect bro.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:21 PM
3

You need to learn to make paragraphs bro, but yeah that sucks ass. That's the problem with a girl being into you based on materialistic things and attention without the dominance and metal strength to go with it. Once she sees a crack in your armor she'll instinctively try to widen it to see if you fall apart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 11:53 PM
2

The usual shit-test approaches. You don't get mad, you don't take her fully seriously and you tease her for it like a stubborn kid sister that's putting on an act, or just calmly state your boundaries with certainty. She wants you to say no to her, as if that's the easiest thing in the world. She tries to fuck with your head to see if you're really the man you say you are, and she wants to fail in her attempts to gain control. If she feels power over you, she'll reject your leadership. Being bot…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:47 PM
1

Yeah, that's all physical though. Where things always fall apart for me is when a girl senses a little weakness and vulnerability and she just starts to be shitty, pick fights, and just fuck with you just to see what you'll do.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:26 PM
3

The same problems you had before will come up again, and this time they will be even worse. 1 month is not nearly enough time for either of you to improve in any meaningful way.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:20 PM
2

Make friends with gymbros
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:51 PM
1

Guys that worry about this should get a better understanding of the halo effect. It's like that comic where a girl looks at this muscled guy and goes "bald guys are hot" then sees this balled slob and corrects herself to "hot guys are hot."
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:30 PM
15

heaped love and praise on her Funny how that works. You get her to feel good about herself and then she starts getting greedy and thinking "hey... you know I thought I was a 4 and was able to get a 7. Now that I know I'm really a 7 I bet I could get a 10. Yeah fuck this I'm going places, and this fucker is holding me back from my obvious greatness." Then she proceeds to give up a good thing for the mere chance of winning a slightly bigger dating lottery, and soon realizes oops guess the grass wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 08:46 PM
2

You still need the right body for it, and just like girls you need to be early 20's to be able to look feminine enough to get any real attention. Fat hairy crossdressers in their 40s are as repulsive as you'd expect them to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 08:41 PM
1

That's how it went with my ex. Every time I pointed out it might not work out so well for them suddenly they didn't want it so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 08:07 PM
11

Probably the same place all the cowboys went
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 07:53 PM
9

Lying that you have a girlfriend is pathetic.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:51 AM
1

Stop believing
/r/seduction13/12/19 07:27 AM
1

So... did your BPD ex talk a ton of shit about you afterwards too?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:56 AM
1

Yep. Hooking up with coworkers does not go well. LTRs that develop slowly can, but if it goes south someone will likely need to leave the job after if HR doesn't kick you out beforehand. Weigh your options and decide if it's really worth it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:40 AM
14

Based on the title, starting later seems to miss the point
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:31 PM
1

Hey so since my standards seem kind of low when it comes to what I consider adding value to my life, what would you say is something that would make a friend high value to be around?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:26 PM
1

Yeah, you're right. I'm still being outcome dependent. Thank you.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:06 PM
1

Old enough that a neurotypical person at my age probably wouldn't give a fuck, but instead here I am stuck on the autism spectrum with the maturity and social skills of a person half my age.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:42 PM
1

High energy/enthusiasm person, so fun to have around when she's not being moody. Also good at drawing.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:31 PM
1

Fucking her is off the table too. She dresses really trashy now and it's hugely unattractive. It would be nice to keep her in my life, if I can get rid of the bitterness about prior bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:27 PM
4

Not true. I do stuff like that and some people absolutely love it when you're dominant. It's polarizing.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:58 AM
3

It is normal for teens to date and have sex with each other. Use protection.
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:42 PM
3

Every day.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:48 AM
1

Que pasta?
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:08 AM
2

Girl who doesn't value you doesn't care that you're breaking up. Big surprise.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:11 AM
1

Girls do to get me what you do to get girls, and they're thrilled about it. You should try it sometime.
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:54 AM
2

That's silly. If a girl happily doing dishes is abuse then so is your paying cab faire and you're "mentally weak" and "boring" for doing it.
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:32 AM
3

My hookups fold my laundry and wash my dishes. I think my formula is better.
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:03 AM
2

Try teasing more and be a little harder to get. You should value yourself enough to know you're worth at least a $10 cab ride.
/r/seduction08/12/19 03:56 AM
3

"Nice lips sink ships"
/r/seduction08/12/19 12:01 AM
4

You're overthinking it - stop trying to minmax for that extra 0.1% of growth. Just work out hard, e.g. PPL, with proper rest days and get 1g protein / pound of bodyweight and you'll be fine. I'd also visit the leangains subreddit.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:59 PM
1

Girls take it even harder
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:51 PM
13

Yikes, just how desperate are you bro?
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:30 PM
2

Mateguardnig is an abundance problem and a boundary problem. When you truly see yourself as the prize, you won't feel the need to guard. She's simply disqualifying herself, and disappointing you. You can calmly tell her to knock it off the way you'd tell a kid he's not allowed to take another cookie after this one. You're giving her a chance to to the right thing before you have to kick her out and find a replacement. That's how boundaries work. You let her know there is one, and if she ignores …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:07 AM
3

Try the Ikea
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:17 AM
4

Yeah you know me
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:14 PM
1

Sure, no problem.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:57 PM
1

Expecting perfection from yourself is unrealistic. I wouldn't want to base my safety entirely on whether I'm going to eternally prevent myself from slipping up from time to time. Testing your situation lets you know what you're dealing with so you can prepare ahead of time and get out early if needed, ideally before you get attached.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:47 PM
1

If I never plan on crashing my car, why do I need airbags? Crazy people don't need a real reason to go after you. Remind her she's on a diet because she wanted to lose weight and probably shouldn't be grabbing bags of chips at lunch? Guess who is a crazy controlling narcissist who secretly hates her and is literally trying to starve her?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:40 PM
1

So why would you ever tell a woman anything? To find out how easily she gets to that point. I don't know how you're not understanding this. All wild animals are dangerous when cornered, but I want to know whether I'm dealing with a raccoon or a grizzly bear. If you think all women are crazy to the same level, you're either very naive or you've never dated someone with a severe personality disorder.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:35 PM
1

You need to find out what you're dealing with. Some women have self control and self awareness. Some are quick to jump into personal attacks and have no regulations over their own emotions.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:24 PM
1

Some are built better than others.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:24 PM
3

I have this happen with my gym bros. It's great practice for passing them.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:09 PM
1

She gave you what you asked for, now she won't want to give that up. You're going to have to leave.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:21 AM
15

It's not even just dating. I'm more muscular now and arguably a worse and more selfish person, but people are more friendly and I get IOIs now where I didn't before. Used to be weird, now I'm "eccentric." The halo effect is disappointingly real.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:12 AM
26

Every time I improve my surface appearance, it disgusts me how shallow the world it. The sad part is now I'm getting to be more shallow too.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:40 AM
26

I feel like whacking her with the folding chair was going too far
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:11 AM
1

Did he die?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 11:57 AM
34

My thoughts too. This guy definitely read Pooks stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 12:35 AM
1

I am all ugly girls on this blessed day
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:42 PM
7

I am 100% not going to fuck the elderly neighbor lady that has a crush on me
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:57 PM
1

only approach girls that eyefuck the shit out of you. so ugly girls then
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:44 PM
4

Sort of. Just being forgetful isn't enough. It's treating them as unimportant.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:34 AM
3

Responded more in depth to the other guy, but small violations over clear preferences that a considerate person would not make. Food preferences, stuff in bed. Things they should be asking before doing. This tells you when they're no longer caring about how their choices affect you. Edit: another is mentioning a minor insecurity during peacetime and watching for if she'll bring it up in an argument as ammunition.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:57 PM
5

They should be real things that you don't like, but could tolerate if you had to. Someone who is acting in a considerate way will not ignore your preferences even when they don't think they're a big deal. This is also different from someone encouraging you to try new things that you're reluctant to try - this is about things you have already tried and have a set opinion on. If she does a lot of cooking, an straightforward one is with foods. I wouldn't go as far as faking an allergy, but if you d…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:33 PM
4

Slipped, fell, landed on his dick.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:02 PM
2

If people didn't do bullshit behind your back, there wouldn't be a need for trust issues.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:02 PM
6

"Trust but verify" It's also useful to have some "canaries" sitting out. Put up a couple small boundaries you don't care much about (i.e. you won't be emotionally compromised) and see if she's willing to violate them. When she does, that's a sign that the air is going bad and it's time to withdraw yourself.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:00 PM
2

I always have this problem, and it burns me every time. You'd think I'd stop jumping into the pot.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:57 PM
0

YMMV. If you want to have threesomes, a girl that is already used to them isn't a terrible choice.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:49 PM
4

I suspect there's a lot of overlap between placeholder relationships and rebounds, and you probably get them the most with people who are afraid of being alone.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:48 PM
1

Everyone likes different things.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:26 AM
1

Could be she's just incompetent. Have you told her what you want her to do?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:37 AM
43

Give out free pizza at the gym
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 11:31 PM
2

Fuck I've been watching all info youtube channels at 2x lately. Thought I was the only one.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:58 AM
3

The reason I stopped watching Corey's videos is that he focuses too heavy on having people follow memorized formulas instead of rebuilding yourself into the genuine article instead of an inconsistent artifice of rules. It's good for a start, but wears thin after a while. He also somehow manages to always turn what should be a 10 minute video into a 30 minute video instead.
/r/seduction20/11/19 10:16 PM
7

Reminds me of what the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" says about that - people that go out of their way to appear flawless are Teflon men. Humans stick to each other's rough edges.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:26 PM
3

Just like the gym. You only grow the muscles you train. If you want to get better at doing a thing, go do the thing. Want to get better at starting conversations random strangers on the street? Go out and fail until you start to succeed. They'll forget about you in 24 hours.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:17 PM
2

When they have so little they suck at sex and don't want to do the weird stuff because their friends might find out and they don't realize 99% of girls like a big strong man to pull their hair and spank them.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:16 PM
0

Sleep is for the weekend
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:08 PM
22

It's one that for a lot of them comes at their partner's expense.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 07:51 PM
1

Seen that one bedfore. Lots of encouragement to go cheat as much as possible. IIRC its actually against their rules to say cheating is bad and that people should respect their partners and just get someone who wants an open relationship if that's what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 07:51 PM
9

"Dreadful day, isn't it?"
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:44 PM
67

It's obvious. Reject a gay guy next and he'll go around telling everyone you're straight.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:52 AM
5

Some women are into being approached. Some aren't. Guess how you find out which is which?
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:45 AM
6

Eyes wide shut is pretty tame by modern standards
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:01 AM
1

There is some truth to it. When you're a beta bitch and your girlfriend accepts a massage from you much more in shape and dominant coworker, that's a sign bro. Guy taught me so much about women.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:32 PM
1

Sure. Don't be the orbiter. Be the heavenly body others orbit around.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:13 AM
4

Only low value men push for commitment. Men with options wait for the woman to ask "so... what are we?"
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:10 AM
1

Men can have female orbiters.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:59 PM
3

I’ve seen plenty of big boys carrying a woman’s shopping bag in public. I used to do this kind of thing. Thought i was just being a good helpful boyfriend and that it would be paid back in kind. That's what happens in an equal relationship right? Imagine my surprise when the favor wasn't returned and just went to the bitch's head instead.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:44 PM
28

Establish dominance by seducing the boyfriend first. She'll see his submission and follow suit.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:09 PM
34

some girls are just monogamous Until no one is looking
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:03 PM
6

Toughness is forged in fire. Do difficult things and get through them. Get cheated on and dumped in really shitty ways and let that scar over.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:28 AM
3

If she's validation seeking, give her crums. When she needs it enough she'll ask to come see you, which you'll unenthusiastically accept.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:43 PM
1

Logistics
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:21 AM
16

Know what sucks? When they're super fucking hot and also super fucking crazy. On the one hand it's like wow, I had a 11/10 in my hands for a bit and the sex was amazing and I don't know how others could compare, but they're also nuts and that's why no one else wants them for long in the first place.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:03 PM
4

Doesn't do anything by itself, but to be a man requires learning self control. Self imposed challeges are one way to practice that.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:54 AM
4

You can either train her to be the girl you want her to be, or you can let her do whatever she wants and let her act like an untrained dog. Be careful of the behaviors you reinforce with attention.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:14 PM
23

He's dead jim
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:47 AM
5

About the time she gets pregnant. Then I toss my burner phone and fake ID and move on to the next city.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 11:46 PM
16

Could have done without the music
/r/seduction03/11/19 11:42 AM
4

Means the cat is both dead and alive
/r/askTRP03/11/19 08:53 AM
2

Don't cook for her. Cook together instead. It's a good way to be dominant and hand down instructions for what you need done.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:54 AM
6

If someone is hot for you, they won't care that they don't know you. The minimum time is 0. Also, learn to cook.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 09:00 PM
3

It feels like you're overthinking this. If you don't want to pay for dinner, then don't pay for dinner. The date is a test to see if she's good enough for you. When a girl asks you to buy her things, the correct answer is "I'll think about it." Same line that bosses and dads use all the time. If she then asks what she can do to earn it / convince you, you're golden.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:49 PM
2

That boy ain't right
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:36 PM
5

Step 2: make mistakes and learn from them
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:20 PM
21

I wonder what age she thinks women stop being useless.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:38 PM
2

First you get depressed that no one gives a shit about you and that nothing you do matters to anyone else. Then you realize it's freedom, because those people aren't out to get you either - they just don't care.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:44 PM
19

Yeah now that you mention it, the "Hey I'm not crazy! ... but" is a common daygame approach.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:56 AM
0

Unfortunately the only way to learn how to not let people get to you is to grow a thick skin through practice.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:33 PM
6

She hid it well because she's had practice. The longer you stick with her after this, the less respect she'll have for you for not dumping. No good comes of staying - she just learns you're willing to be cheated on and are so desperate that you don't have the balls to kick her out. If for some reason you're still dumb enough to want a relationship with this two faced bitch, you have to break up anyways while there is still some respect left and make it final. Then you go fuck 10 other women, and…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:21 AM
8

Idk i'm not into cars
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:59 AM
9

Women's jokes tend to boil down to "i'm a woman! I have a vagina! Aren't periods gross!"
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 10:00 AM
2

She wants to see your strength by trying to tear you down and failing, over and over until she's convinced you're the real thing. If she can get to you, anyone can.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:04 PM
5

Yeah, as a last resort when she's in a dry spell or hits the wall.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:45 PM
10

Orbiters don't matter. They're there to be strung along for validation and free stuff, not for sex and dating except maybe when she's at her most desperate. The very act of orbiting is unattractive because it puts her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:42 PM
1

Yeah, I wouldn't try it over text. Tone of voice plays a huge role in whether someone thinks you are serious or not.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:43 PM
1

Use insecurity in a playful way to shittest for secure women. They do it to us all the time.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:42 PM
2

I recently got with someone really hot, like what would be my 11/10, and I found out just how completely incapable of a person they were with almost nothing to offer other than their looks. It really helped with fixing the pedestal mindset. Now the rest don't seem as intimidating.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:41 PM
1

Sounds like a good opportunity for hate-fucking.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:45 PM
6

All criminal cases require a unanimous vote, while civil cases do not.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 08:23 PM
3

Consensus in civil cases has different requirements than criminal cases.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 08:22 PM
2

When you contacted her to get back together, you put yourself in a position of weakness and boosted her ego. This never works out in your favor because, as a rule, girls don't date down. Showing that you want her back automatically puts her a notch above her, and even if she does happen to take you back she's going to make your life hell. It's never worth it to chase an ex. If you want her back, work on yourself and forget about her. Drop social media, hit the gym. Any games you play to try to m…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:59 AM
1

You don't have to be abrasive either, and you can be amicable without being needy. People start off at a default level of respect, and that can go up or down. For me that's a little above neutral. Unless someone is trying to sell me something, I assume people don't suck until they give me reason to think otherwise. That gym guy came off in a super needy way that assumed things you didn't agree to instead of letting a relationship form naturally. He's acting like you're suddenly best friends, and…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 05:41 PM
8

"Oops. Failed the branch swing. Time to go go back to ol' reliable." - This bitch probably
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:32 PM
2

I do push/pull 4 days per week using wed and weekends as rest days. Legs still look good from high school years later. That was a change from doing full body MWF which didn't give enough rest time.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 11:19 PM
1

If you're thinking about getting laid when talking to these girls, you kind of are.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:59 PM
2

You'll get past that. It's a skill like any other and them sensing the lack of anxiety will help. You can also back off from flirting and have regular conversations.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:18 PM
1

There's always the "I have a problem, won't somebody solve it for me?"
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:12 PM
2

Girls will chase men of high value
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:11 PM
1

Then use a condom or double down on working out, but that'll take a couple years. The halo effect will make up for other faults enough for a lot of people to not care. Humans are shallow.
/r/seduction15/10/19 03:00 PM
1

Don't ask her out again, it'll only validate her snd secure her belief she can have you anytime she wants. Continue to be less invested until she asks you, and get mentally to the point where you're not really sure if a ficle girl like this is worth dating or not. She'll be more interested if she wonders where she stands with you.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:55 PM
1

Girls can sense desperation. Work out and try lowering your standards until you get kissed/laid by someone who wants you more than you want them, then gradually raise them up again.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:51 PM
3

Go lift weights. Most people are shallow and a fit body has pretty much universal appeal. They can learn about your personality after they're in the door. Practice talking to people that you feel somewhat anxious to talk to until it feels normal, then move things up a level. Same thing with places and activities.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:48 PM
1

As long as you still see her as replacable, you don't need to worry about coming off blue.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:31 AM
1

Fuck the boyfriend first to establish dominance
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:09 AM
2

70, not so much, but closer to my age and kind of a loser... I'd enjoy it indefinitely because I'd have the time and freedom to spend all my time persuing my ambitions. That's the difference - for women like that their only ambition is spending money as fast as possible.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 09:54 AM
3

Tryhard
/r/askTRP15/10/19 06:50 AM
5

People only value what they have to work for and lust after what's just out of reach. Why love the iPhone 9 in your pocket when the iPhone 11 is just around the corner? Sure, if the 11 breaks she might pull the dusty old 9 out of the box in the meantime until things get fixed with the 11, but it's old and obtainable. The sort of thing you'd only use as a last resort. When she says "I still love you" and "I still miss you" she's feeling insecure at her failure to do better, and wants validation t…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 09:52 PM
3

In this case IIRC it was something about my mom's fish tank, possibly cleaning it or something, but that's not really the important part. It's less about the actual topic and more to do with that they agreed on what responsibilites were fair for each of them to handle, he's holding her to that agreement, and she likes that he does that and that his words mean something.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:43 PM
3

I've only met a handful of people like this before. My dad, my high school physics teacher, my high school art teacher, and a few other people like that. There's a variety of personalities - my dad and art teacher are reserved and focus on their work, the physics teacher is an amazing storyteller and a giving person. You can tell they all really give a shit, their confidence is unwavering and their talent is real, they can command a room calmly and effortlessly. They're on their mission and are …
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:12 PM
9

The opposite is a concept I keep dwelling on called "a leader worth following." Narcissism: Instead of simply thinking yourself to be great, your greatness is authentic and self-evident. Machiavellianism: You don't have to manipulate and back-stab to be put in charge because your extreme competency makes you known as the right man for the job. Psychopathy: Instead of psychopathy, you have rationality, empathy and solid and unwavering code that no one can push you off of, informed but otherwise u…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:43 PM
2

It is a lot of fun to be with someone you can casually toss over your shoulder
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:31 PM
0

Weakness is the default.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:33 AM
2

Hammer time can never be stopped
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:17 PM
1

He completely ruined fathers day for me.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:53 AM
2

Breakup sex is good. Had breakup bondage on the last one. That was something. Sort of a "her still wanting to feel desirable" sort of thing.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:05 AM
-6

Tbh I'm kind of into that
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:28 AM
2

Girl writes 7 words, dude responds with a paragraph and pats himself on the back.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:55 PM
1

A surprisingly effective strategy
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:55 AM
3

But it feels soo good
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:54 AM
4

Karma will come to that girl sooner or later. You can't do shit like that and just assume you'll get a permanent pussy pass.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:12 PM
2

The oldest bull walks up the hill, wipes his dick off and says "your turn"
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:59 PM
11

I lost count after Andre 3000
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:59 PM
1

As long as you're worried abour her approval, you aren't in charge.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:44 AM
3

Take her back to the store for a refund.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:00 AM
2

Old habits die hard and some lessons have to be learned more than once.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:58 AM
1

Most people just become more like themselves.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:57 AM
1

Give too much validation and she'll start getting full of herself, think she's in charge, and will decide with her newfound confidence that she's a better catch than she thought she was - time for an upgrade and some free cash to go with it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:53 AM
3

2 meals a day of all the dirt you can eat
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:46 AM
2

By keeping her butt plugged
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:41 AM
1

If you can't overwrite her objections, why should she submit to you? She craves feeling the mental leash around her neck and she can't do that if you're not willing to yank it. She needs to know she's replaceable if she doesn't tow the line.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:41 AM
20

And then when they finaly open up it's like shes not the same girl anymore. Yep. Once that great shy girl finally gets that confidence her friends get her to go clubbing and slut it up. Funny how that works.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:51 PM
1

When he's ready he'll find it on his own.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 11:55 PM
6

She then said "yes absolutely!" I told her great and that I was going to bed cause I wasn't feeling well. Next morning she messages me that she forgot she had plans that day. Blow off #1. Lmao, how typical.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:42 PM
2

I will never not cringe at looksmax as a term. Feels more incel than redpill.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:31 PM
2

They want a dominant masculine man, but one that's also savvy, wildly competent, and ideally rich as well. Someone to look up to that makes them feel like a little girl. Thugs fulfill the first part but lack the second.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:07 PM
17

Okay, both of them then.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:36 PM
1

She couldn't keep her dick in her pants, and didn't even give you the courtesy of breaking things off first. She's not worth the scum she licks off the bathroom toilet.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:15 PM
2

She's just not that into you.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:11 AM
15

That's what people do at the bachelorette party as well.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:32 PM
2

Basically free, and always looks masculine
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:13 PM
2

That seems low
/r/askTRP31/08/19 01:28 AM
12

Well of course. It strokes their ego the same way orbiters do.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 10:06 PM
3

Dear Future Husband may as well have a line that goes "If you suck up to me, I just might let you fuck me"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 08:52 PM
15

Past 1 billion listens on Spotify and nearly 2 billion views on Youtube. Seems to be working.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 06:41 PM
52

The worst one for me is the Nice GuyTM song Treat You Better by Shawn Mendes. You know, the one that goes: I won't lie to you I know he's just not right for you And then I know I can treat you better Than he can And any girl like you deserves a gentleman Tell me why are we wasting time On all your wasted cryin' When you should be with me instead Like holy shit dude, calm down. Guy is having a breakdown over his infatuation of some girl with her "jerk" bf. Like fuck how can this girl be so stupid…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 06:30 PM
2

So true, but damn it's fun fucking her
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 05:05 PM
9

If he's 15 she's 10.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:15 PM
35

It's always fun to tease her and make her work a bit for me to say it back. She loves me. "Oh do you now?" She gets embarassed. It's the cutest thing.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:14 PM
2

Let's say you're not looking for just sex, but want to try your luck at marriage in the future. It wouldn't be dishonest to say: "If the right woman came along..." Open, but without desperation. After all, you're not going to settle down with just anyone.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 08:36 AM
1

Slap him on the ass as you walk by. Here's lookin' at you kid.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:21 AM
1

Star Trek: The Original Series. No woman can ever come between that man and his ship.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:04 AM
1

Faceplant some glass. Scars are cool.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:37 PM
3

As a dude that makes this joke all the time, I feel like it's pretty played out at this point.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:32 PM
27

Holy shit that was sad. She just naturally "fixes her hair" as an excuse to pull away like she's done it 1000 times.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 07:31 PM
2

That's why it's best to just tie them up when you're not around, rope safety be damned.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:50 AM
2

You can communicate an action is disrespectul without showing fear and insecurity, but if you have those feelings then don't expect to be able to hide them. Feelings that keep you in the right headspace are disappointment and disgust. She should feel as if she is being tested. You want her to make the right choice, but if she doesn't you'll have to let her go. She disqualifies herself.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:49 AM
1

Deliver the spankings as only brother daddy can.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:39 AM
7

Shit man, it's not like the entire purpose of life is to reproduce itself perpetually or anything.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 08:52 AM
3

On the plus side if you get married it simplifies her paperwork. Or if you want to make things fun she can get a doubled up last name. Good night Susan Smith, good morning Susan Smith-Smith.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:18 PM
6

You can be both big and muscular. A 6' guy that is 300lbs is going to look way different at 75% bodyfat vs 25%.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:20 PM
23

Todd looks like complete shit and he's not even that fat. Meanwhile big guys can look fine if there's muscle underneath giving them shape.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 10:16 AM
3

Calling her out on it was the right move. Keep it up and she'll figure out you don't do that anymore.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:07 AM
6

He's a bagholder in recovery. He'll get there.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:03 AM
6

There's a tipping point where a guy goes from stud to scary Fortunately that point seems to require steroids. You'd have a tough time getting there naturally
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:03 PM
2

I feel like most people go to the gym to make up for their butterface.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:01 PM
1

Reminds me of Rocky Horror Picture Show. a short while after getting engaged to beta Brad Janice: "I don't like men with too many muscles" a few minutes later, after seeing Rocky Janice: "I'm a muscle faaaaaan" a few more minutes later Janice: "Touch me! I want to feel dirty!" screws most of the cast
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:42 PM
1

Didn't care for it. It spent an ungoldly amount of time telling a story just to convince you to stick a fixed percent of your income into longterm savings. Like super basic level advice.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:22 AM
1

That's why I eat my nuts constantly throughout the day.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:34 PM
3

So much blood
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:43 PM
1

Everyone has to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:49 PM
1

I usually save that for the 2nd date.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:48 PM
1

Great advice. Follow these steps and she'll feel full no matter how small your dick is.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:47 PM
4

Of course. I wouldn't eat pussy if I didn't enjoy the meal.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:44 PM
2

Assume the first time is going to be awkward. After you're done, you'll probably be thinking "oh, is that all it is?" and wonder why you were so stressed about it in the first place.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:43 PM
2

Hol up. Are you not supposed to use a knife? She says it's the only thing that makes her feel alive
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:45 AM
31

Women are nothing if not full of contradictons
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 03:26 AM
28

Sure. Taken less literally you're looking for a "hell yes." People that are excited to spend time with you will make a point of doing so. A maybe means you're plan B at most, and no self respecting man wants to be some girl's backup plan.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:31 AM
7

The downside is that they are not going to lock me down. Unless they're already high interest, in which case they'll see it as a chance to try to lock you down.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 12:23 AM
114

Mabye is a soft no. It's the Brad Pitt rule. How would she act if her celebrity crush asked her out? Would she say maybe to him? A girl who is actually interested will move mountains to be with you or will try to find a different date to meet if she has a real obligation. The response is indifference. How would a man respond that has 5 other women eager to spend time with him? He'd have a tough time caring because she's not his only option. The responses can be "okay", "ok, see you next time" "o…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 12:21 AM
6

I'd imagine a lot of men don't know hot to ask for consent in a sexy and dominant way. I like the cold reading style "I bet you want x, don't you?" approach.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 12:41 AM
2

It's less fucked up than you think. A lot of women have the emotional control of a teenager and can change on a dime, like getting upset over weird things that make no logical sense. Accepting that means taking a step back, as you would with a kid that similarly has no control over their emotions instead of going along with the ride. How else can you stay sane when a girl can get upset and accuse you of cheating by finding one of their own dyed hairs.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:30 PM
7

Put her in a diaper and give her crayons to draw you a picture with. Once you're daddy you're golden.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 04:26 PM
1

Stop fucking boys and fuck more men.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:27 PM
3

When you become a social ostrich, stick your head in the sand. When you stop caring, other people will too. It's like they can sense your guilt and react automatically. I'd take a wild guess that you're young - this stuff basically stops after high school. Older people don't care so much unless it's an ex-wife.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:23 PM
5

you are making them bigger feminists Funny how insecure humans work. Providing them with counter-evidence only makes their beliefs stronger.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 04:25 PM
12

Oops! Accidentaly showed her biases too much! Better recant!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 04:23 PM
2

OP needs to be fixed so he can see how these things fit together. OP is like the guy everyone knows who just steals things constantly and wonders why people don't like him or trust him.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:20 PM
2

Lol. What did you think was going to happen? You can't lead someone who doesn't trust you.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:17 PM
4

Classic sign of an owner that has no idea how to effectively train a dog, and let the dog train them instead. I don't think I'd really call it "hard" once you know what you're doing, unless it's a dog with low motivation for both food and affection/attention.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:10 PM
9

For a pulling dog, you need to do just a few things to retrain him. Set aside a day when you'll have a ton of free time, alone, on a distraction free route. Your normal walking route is going to take 2-3 time as long as usual. Anytime he pulls, become an anchor/rock. Make it so the only option for moving forward is to walk without pulling. Carry treats. Treats are used in two places - for the moment when he stops pulling, and while he's been walking by you without pulling for a reasonable amount…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 07:04 PM
2

Of course. There's always a bigger fish, but there are also local maximums and niches that you can fill. If you aren't a big fish, find a way to have a smaller pond. Be good enough at your specific combination of abilities that you're hard to replace - the guy she still thinks about years down the line and compares everyone else to. Like if you play classic rock on guitar and she's really into classic rock on guitar, you beat all the people who don't play guitar and let her live out her dream of…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:32 PM
12

If evolution was pushing you to submit, you'd probably want to be picky about who too.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:20 PM
11

The original or the remake? I hear "Springtime for Hitler" really brings out the authoritarian in girls.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:39 PM
3

Really makes you feel wanted, ya know?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:45 AM
6

It establishes dominance and marks her as your own, which keeps other competing alphas away when they smell your scent on her.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:11 AM
2

The way women tend to have a rapid dropoff in attractiveness in their late 20s, especially heavily drinking club girls, leading to some amount of desperation as they increasingly get passed up by guys for younger girls.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:48 PM
1

Exactly, you've hit upon the key thing here. When you're playing for challenge, then once you master the game the game stops being fun.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 07:59 PM
3

"I AM CALM!" - Mom
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:16 PM
3

Fancy equipment, mainly. Cages, motorized rigs for suspension bondage, themed rooms (e.g. doctors office), etc. Also the ability to learn from experts.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:05 AM
1

Find a TNG ("the next generation") or a 20s and 30s group to avoid the old people. If you're in college, also see if there is an on campus group. You may have to find some similar aged friends in the area and start a group yourself. If you do, make sure they're reliable people suited for running a group. BDSM parties can be a range of things. Some don't allow actual sex, for instance, depending on the rules of the facility. They're generally organized by the local bdsm social groups, and the par…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:45 AM
2

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:27 AM
2

fetlife
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:16 AM
4

The easier things get, the less invested you have to be to keep them going. People value things they have to work for. Don't change for pussy. But fuck man, it's only 3 months in and she's already bored of fucking you? She shouldn't even be past infatuation yet.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:39 AM
1

What's the name of the video? I'm scrolling through his page and don't see anything obvious so far.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 06:12 AM
0

Why are you asking TRP? This is a question for the personalfinance subreddit
/r/askTRP29/07/19 05:08 AM
2

Usually push/pull 4 days a week. Kind of lazy about leg day but they still look pretty decent from my high school days.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 07:50 PM
7

Fuck his dad too for good measure.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 08:59 PM
1

Those beta males, so unstable, so full of bugs and inconsistencies. Throughly unfinished and untested. It could make a brogrammer cry.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 05:50 PM
1

This remake is getting better all the time.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:46 PM
3

I knew a girl who absolutely adored the David Tennant and Matt Smith years of Doctor Who. Here was a handsome and capable mysterious and mesmerizing man that never backs down, always comes out on top and takes girls away from their boring life to lead them to fantastical places and exciting adventures. Just look at how wonderful her life would be if she could just find a man like this. She was so repulsed when he turned into the old man of Peter Capaldi that she stopped watching the show entirel…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 05:42 PM
8

How about this one? I couldn't care much what she wears or what she looks like It all depends on what she cooks like!
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:42 AM
10

They're lyrics. It's a song.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:34 AM
8

It's like people don't even question an obvious rhyming scheme complete with line breaks.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:33 AM
4

Finally someone who understands!
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 09:20 AM
2

I'm not, but I can see how you might interpret it that way from my phrasing. The game you create is made for yourself first, not to pander to what charts, graphs and focus groups say your audience wants. Based on your comment, it sounds as if you have forged the reality you wish to live in, and other people see you living that reality and want to participate.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 08:34 AM
8

Too much tongue out of cheek, not enough tongue in cheek.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 08:08 AM
16

TL:DR - Most people are bored/boring, and everyone wants to consume. You create your own reality which women are drawn to. From the woman's side, this can be compared to the experience of playing different video games. You don't often run across a game you feel like you could play forever that just blows everything else out of the water. Same for a songs, movies, tv shows, etc. It's rare to find one you won't tire of eventually.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 07:28 AM
6

Sure, tiers of men are covered in the post. The equivalent of a human beta would be a game that expects a lot of investment for very little payoff, while also being unstable and full of inconsistencies. The reality he's attempting to bring a girl into is a chaotic mess that he's allowed to happen through mere inaction, rather than one carefully crafted by forging oneself into something greater.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 04:06 AM
30

Games are just an analogy. This is a post about women making choices about who they are with based on novelty and utility, and treating men like a form of interactive entertainment by living in the reality that man has created around himself.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:59 AM
8

If it was a game, I'd disable permadeath.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 02:32 AM
2

Go to places where people go, and talk to strangers. I meet tons of people at the gym. After a bit figure out who you have the best rapport with and invite them out for a drink, live music, etc. With coworkers, invite them to join you for lunch.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:41 PM
47

The Dark Souls of men: - You're kind of dark and brooding and depressing to be around, but also addictive in a way. You probably have some kind of disorder like BPD. - You don't ever really tell her anything directly about yourself. Things just kind of get exposed in brief anytime she asks you about one of your items. There are entire wiki sites devoted just to trying to figure you out. - You're kind of sadistic, but in a consistent way that makes it always feel like her fault for just not being…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:53 PM
7

I agree with that analogy. I tend to think of longer term relationships as behaving like roguelikes. After a relationship ends, you restart with a new challenge that has different variables, but various things carry over.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:24 PM
12

I'd rather unwind with something interactive than watch sports. Other than working in the industry, my life doesn't revolve around them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:03 PM
85

It's popular, but I actually like the Dark Souls series better. I'm more of a loner than a social guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:01 PM
2

It's not showing interest that's the problem, it's interest that can be mistake for desperation.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:47 PM
1

No idea what you're talking about, but you don't learn to ride a bike by reading book after book on biking.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:01 PM
7

My first experience with Non Living People was the night me and my high school friends snuck into the morgue. The girl had only half a brain and gave us the cold shoulder, but eventually she warmed up a little.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:59 PM
1

They can only talk over you if you let them by allowing yourself to be interrupted. The way to practice solo is to grab a mic and some heaphones, and find something that will play back your audio in realtime as its recorded. Every time you talk you'll also be interrupting yourself.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:48 PM
5

Talk to her about how much you've enjoyed threesomes in the past and guage her interest.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:45 PM
1

Not me. I like girls that want me so much they're eager to be my pet.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:14 PM
19

Muscle memory is an amazing thing.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:24 AM
3

Assert even more dominance by slicing your hand open with the machete you carry on your back and becoming blood brothers with her.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:58 AM
8

What if that's the reason everyone is mad at him all the time? Routinely giving too little information on everything.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:02 PM
39

You probably imagine bond racing some cool as fuck car, shooting guns in a suit, and taking the girl home. Bond already does that in his day job. On weekends he probably plays flamenco guitar and sips brandy in a cigar jacket. If you're going to be a janitor, the one from Scrubs has mystery all over.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 09:54 PM
1

Well that's a tryhard response if I ever heard one
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:36 AM
1

I like this one.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:36 AM
5

The STDs wouldn't
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:24 PM
3

Rules are stricter, guidelines are looser. That's how I see it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 05:57 PM
5

I see this kind of thing repeated a lot as if a traditional family is some kind of impossible mythical thing that only happens in movies, and I have to wonder if everyone that truly believes that came from a dysfunctional home or have parents that are divorced. Blue pill goals are possible... for the right kind of man. My dad is one of them - a man of skill, certainty and inner strength that doesn't stress about things too much and is generally great to be around, and my mom admires him for it. …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 05:53 PM
3

Even if you don't lose your job over it, do you really want to be in the same workplace as an ex if it doesn't work out?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:18 PM
1

The best thing you could do is be unphased by it and find it funny in a cocky "I know something you don't know" kind of way. As if you've got $10 million bank and a 10 inch cock, or $10 in the bank with a 10 million inch cock. Your mindset should be irrational confidence, like "wow, these girls want me so bad they're trying to smear me in the eyes of my girlfriend so they can have a go," and they're so transparent you can't help but burst out laughing at their desperation and the absurdity of th…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:08 PM
1

Maybe if you're Brian Peppers that's true. Think of it as being interesting, and as something that adds a couple points onto your baseline SMV.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 08:54 PM
3

Nor is a feminine penis
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:48 PM
23

Masturbate before the date to last longer. Masturbate during the date to establish dominance.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:44 PM
42

I'll keep this in mind the next time I'm having aural sex.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 09:41 PM
2

She knows that I live with parents and I can't invite any girl to fuck. If you want women to take you seriously, you've got to change that asap. I would say "I have job to do", and changed. You don't have to give any explanation at all. Stop volunteering information, especially if it's a lie. Be a mystery. OK so, this is not a soft next. Maybe not yet, but it's will be if you don't give her space. Things like the medical stuff is what girls say when they're trying to get out of a date but they'r…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:01 PM
1

So close dude. Why the fuck would you say "I will have a guest in the evening?" I said "be closed off." That means not volunteering information. Next time just leave that last part off. Hope you actually have someone coming over because if you don't it'll be obvious that you're lying and trying to make her jealous, i.e. still orbiting and being all about her. Instead, act like a guy with options by not initiating contact. From this point, don't initiate any contact or schedule any plans with her…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:05 PM
2

She can only manipulate you if you let her. You don't have to explain yourself. If she presses, just say that it's private and be closed off in general. Especially don't talk about feelings right now. If you get emotional over this, hide it. The less you say, the less you can fuck this up. Even if she gets mad in the moment, she'll probably respect you more afterwards. If it's going to be too tough to stick to your guns after canceling, turn your phone to airplaine mode, mute her, turn off notif…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:15 AM
4

When she's already deliberately ignoring you, this is when you back the fuck off. If her first message is something that isn't canceling, say something came up and cancel. If her first message is canceling, just respond "ok" and don't respond to anything else for at least a week.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:56 AM
3

Nope. You should cancel the date completely. Say something came up and you'll meet some other time. Don't get in contact again until you're uninvested in the outcome.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:54 AM
0

Couldn't agree more.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 11:29 PM
3

You seem way too invested in this. Stop chasing and let her chase a bit, and meanwhile go fuck some other people.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:35 PM
1

Lol, you dork. Of course it still has a failure rate. I bet you saw hints of the problems that ended the marriage long before you got married.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:09 PM
27

I don't understand how people get married that early. At 4 months everyone is still infatuated and on their best behavior. You'll have a much better idea of where things are going longterm if you just wait a couple years first.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:18 AM
2

Self control / restraint as well. Other than the sex, it sucks to be with someone who goes overboard on everything.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:55 PM
1

Eh, so what? Get over it. Don't you have more important things to worry about? Or casually ask him in person what the deal with the caps is. Being passive agressive is being a whiny little bitch.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:48 PM
7

They dropped ELO scores not too long ago, so it works differently than that now. IIRC they don't penalize you for that anymore other than running out of swipes.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 08:42 AM
3

Soft nexting should be about passing on someone who doesn't meet your standards. People come back sometimes but it seems odd to treat it as a deliberate tactic unless your goal is to find people with abandonment issues and separation anxiety.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:30 AM
4

It is really great. He's one of the few guys that give a dominant vibe that feels genuine. All the Real Social Dynamics crew feel like an artificially crafted persona. After seeing a ton of his videos it feels like he's still plagued by lingering insecurities and paranoia from those days he talks about when he was chubby, but then again aren't we all.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:56 AM
1

More than life.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:15 PM
1

They're with the 30 year old guys.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:24 AM
2

“here is how you talk to girls without being weird or creepy” Most of that is just getting out there and failing enough to no longer be invested in the outcome, but I'd agree that more writing on the matter would be good. Sometimes it gets like trying to learn to ride a bike by reading book after book about how to ride bikes. A big part of creepiness comes from being inauthentic, and I feel like Models by Mark Manson handles that side of things well.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:44 PM
5

The misogyny is super unattractive to women. That's the rub, isn't it? You have to love that women are crazy.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:02 PM
2

Old style pickup was about putting on an act of what was perceived to work, regardless of your authentic self. When that old style pickup artist slips up the illusion is lost and the act is dropped and the unattractive guy full of weakness and incompetence is revealed, and the girl feels conned. She thought she was getting gold, but upon closer inspection it was just a veneer. ​ New style pickup is about actual self-improvement and ascension, authentically becoming the real deal. Changing your c…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:42 PM
1

You're not acting like a leader. You're being butthurt, not someone she can look up to.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:22 PM
22

Thanks bro you're pretty great yourself
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:51 PM
39

Sounds like a good idea but I'm not sure what to do after the making out step. Do I play the bottom or does he? What if he finds out I'm not gay?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:24 PM
0

Happier and with your mouth more open
/r/askTRP28/06/19 05:20 PM
8

Just because you're out to dinner or on vacation doesn't mean she won't pick a fight over stupid shit in the middle of it. Just because you bailed her out of a shitty situation doesn't mean she'll remember the favor 2 days later. Give her rides to work because she can't drive? Guess who is her personal taxi now.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 09:34 AM
1

Why would you need to test someone who isn't even trying to pass? You test someone who acts like they're hot shit to see if they're the real deal. With someone submissive they're not testing just manipulating.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:16 AM
1

"This guy is being weird as fuck" - girl
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:04 PM
3

Well a woman who'll smash on the very first date is usually a hussy. And a woman who'll smash on the second time out is anything but fussy. But a woman who waits 'til the third time around... Head in the clouds, feet on the ground! She's the girl he's glad he's found. She's his shipoopi! More than three, next.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:50 AM
3

Try your friend's wife
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:34 AM
18

Never trust
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:52 AM
11

Having a massive cock doesn't hurt.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:34 PM
1

Get more experience and it will go away through deliberate practice.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:45 AM
3

Love confessions only work in movies. In real life you'll just sound like a stalker and put her on guard. If you're going to send something, plan to do something interesting and invite her to come along. Keep it concise, and don't try to answer all her questions before she's had a chance to ask them. Err on the side of looking less invested. If she's into you, she won't need convincing. How would you invite someone out who didn't need convincing? You'd say something like: "Hey, it's been a while…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:36 AM
5

They do, but only when they see you as the more dominant one. If she feels in charge, she won't feel like she can trust you to be in control and the most you'll get is a reluctant starfish.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:27 AM
1

Practice in the mirror / shower
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:26 PM
5

Getting caught is a legitimate concern with potential legal consequences. There are ways to decline and still lead.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:59 AM
6

Yep. The problem OP has is talking her too seriously.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:56 AM
5

That's the problem isn't it? Girls only date up, so men have to date down. Find your accomplishment elsewhere. They're just women.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:10 PM
59

Then ask "And what does he do?" in your best Arnold voice.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:13 PM
4

Just roll with it. It's great.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:13 PM
1

That's just our lot in life. Women are coddled and showered with gifts (albeit with strings attached), men are expected to man up because no one's going to just give things to you. That's not changing anytime soon so you may as well get over it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 05:58 PM
1

Strike a balance. Initiate roughly 1 out of every 3 times, ideally coming from a reality of her liking you a little more than you like her.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:27 PM
1

Join fetlife, and read the alt.sex.bondage faq. If vanilla has you down, try some other flavors.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:46 PM
21

Girls never have to approach, so they also never learn to handle rejection.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:39 AM
2

The only time to consider that is when you no longer have feelings for her. Exes can be fine as fuckbuddies as well, but if you're wanting her and orbiting around when she's not into it then you're just being a little bitch and securing yourself in the lower position. Never be "just friends" with a girl you are attracted to.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:37 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat. No good will come of it.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:08 AM
5

That's what beta bucks are for. Get the best genes, then control the wimp with the resources.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:21 AM
13

She's going to fuck him either way. Might as well cut your losses before she starts turning super shitty.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:39 AM
25

Lol. Yep. Me talking to my ex, while we were briefly entertaining the idea of getting back together: "I haven't had sex since the breakup.... and if I did I would have used a condom!" Riiiiiight. Just like that other time I'm supposed to forget about. Like who are you trying to fool with this bullshit. We're broken up. You don't have to lie about this.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:35 AM
9

She'll respect you more if you go through with it. And she'll do more than kiss if you don't once she sees you'll put up with it. Women are like that. Find someone who can keep their damn legs closed.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:32 AM
2

Gosht or ghosht refers to tender meat, cooked for a long time, and used as an ingredient in a number of Middle Eastern cuisine, Central Asian cuisine and cuisine of the Indian subcontinent. The word stems from the Persian word gosht گوشت, meaning "meat" or "flesh", especially that of goat.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:08 PM
2

Possibly two
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:08 PM
1

Alright then.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:49 PM
1

Major skills take roughly 10,000 hours of dedicated practice to master.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:38 PM
1

You can't master every skill.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:10 PM
1

The gym is a decent place
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:24 AM
1

It's insane how many pretty women have nothing else going for them than their looks. No skills, no hobbies past instagram and phone games. What a waste of a good life.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:17 AM
2

You have the wrong mindset. Don't look to impress a girl. Look for a girl who sees your world as is and wants more. A girl who sees you as a 10 is the best thing ever, and will worship the ground you walk on. Nothing else compares.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:13 AM
1

Yep. If you want that be a big fish in a small pond. Start a band, run a group, etc. Just have a leadership position where you're cop dog in your own little circle.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:48 AM
8

When you are the kind of person that will walk out on disrespect, it will show up in your personality. You can tell from a mans behavior whether they're someone who can be fucked with.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:41 AM
5

Women don't need to actively do anything. They live in natural abundance.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:40 AM
1

That or weak inner game
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:32 AM
1

I can see things like RSD being effective training wheels for club pick and day game for getting past the "this is impossible" stage.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 06:39 PM
1

Just finished reading The Book of Pook a few days ago. I agree with a ton of what he said, but near the end of one of the chapters he suggests saying "let's go shopping" to a girl who is having a fit. While Pook is not suggesting buying things for her, this one rubs me the wrong way. It's rewarding bad behavior with fun and attention, like giving candy to a screaming infant or treats to a barking dog. Pretty soon the dog and toddler will realize shitty behavior = reward. I should know - I've tri…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:22 PM
1

This. The more muscle you have the more you can weigh without having a belly.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:57 AM
3

That's her frame. She sees you as below her right now. If she saw you as above her, she's be more worried about disrespecting you. Don't neg an LTR. That's just being a bad leader. Be a benevolent dictator instead that simply doesn't put up with bullshit. A submissive girl should admire her man, and negging is a quick fix that builds resentment. Make serving you the highlight of her day by making a point of praising good behavior when it is offered, even if she's doing a shitty job of it. That c…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:14 AM
4

You've shown some kind of weakness that turned her off such as yelling in a fight, which is what powerless people do. The more you put up with it, the less she'll respect you. Break up, live life and don't contact her. When she calls you, then let her make it up to you. If you don't break up, you show her that you value her more than your own respect, and she'll know you're whipped. Actions, not threats or ultimatums. She knows she's full of shit and she's trolling on purpose to see if you're re…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:43 AM
1

Do you want a family in the next 5 years? Say the answer that is true. You'll only resent your answer if you say something you don't mean. It's weak anyways. Hell yes, or no.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:27 AM
16

Tinder matches. Always know your competition. Do yourself a favor sometime and make a female account on tinder or a dating website. It give a remarkable look at the buyer's side of the market, and a clear idea of what your competition is and how they behave. I may do a longer write-up on this later.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:54 PM
13

Saw your progress pics. You look fantastic. Nice job.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:48 AM
33

Looks open doors and are a multiplier for charisma, but hot guys with a bad frame can't keep a girl, and hot guy with no frame can barely even get one. You're focusing too much on the tangible. There's looking like you have options, and there's behaving the way someone with options behaves. Without the behavior, you're just tryhard.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:26 AM
6

Well said. There is no one so attractive or intimidating looking that no one will attempt to humiliate them. Instead, become someone who can't feel humiliated. If it's a facade, they will find the crack and drive a wedge into it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 04:57 AM
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SMV is everything SMV is everything, but a huge factor in SMV comes from frame. She had power over him because he believed it, and she saw that he believed it. How willing would she be to do that if he had no tolerance for disrespect and was willing to leave at a moment's notice? He's on her insurance? Doesn't matter if she thinks this crazy fucker will leave anyways. When you're weak, appear strong.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 04:15 AM
1

Furry threesome. Bark means yes, woof means no.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:50 AM
0

Good way to end up with a gun in your face.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:44 AM
2

I fucked the juice box and now the straw is stuck in my dick
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:28 AM
5

She wanted her cake and to eat it too. sounds familiar
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:21 AM
1

You can make your time even more efficient if you use a loudspeaker to talk to all of them at once.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 10:08 AM
5

It's not so much that you can't tell her that she's pretty, it's that you can't do it while her guard is up or she's sensing desperation. Don't put her on a pedestal or do it so often it loses meaning or gives her an ego, but if she's gone through the trouble to make herself look extra nice for you, tell her she looks beautiful. You compliment effort towards the things you want to see more of.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:16 PM
4

Surely it's dry by now
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:35 PM
3

My thoughts exactly. We train people how to treat us, intentionally or not.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 10:20 AM
3

Thermos full of cheap vodka. Oldest trick in the book. "Oh, you know just gotta stay hydrated." Gets em every time.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 10:13 AM
5

If you really want to stick it out, man up and tell her calmly that you don't like the way she's talking to you. If she persists, hang up. You don't have to say "do this or else." Just hang up after she ignores you and keeps going. This will make her mad, but after she calms down she'll either respect you more for having a backbone, or she'll temporally get even worse at which point you'll repeat the process. Don't make threats, just take action. Eventually she'll figure out that if she can't ta…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:58 AM
18

Thats respectful
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:37 PM
1

Wedge and Layer Method Aka baby steps. The key to forming or breaking habits isn't going cold turkey or trying to jump in head first. Exceptional people can do that, but in me that just causes burnout. The approach I have the most success with is building a tiny easy-to-accomplish habit as a foundation, then building the real one on top of that. If you're failing, lower the bar until you can't fail anymore then gradually raise it back up. ​ Making habits. When I've been out of the gym for a whil…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:37 PM
1

I see that you're mgtow, but try not to let the bitterness get to you. The real thing exists, for the right kind of man.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 05:09 AM
3

Not going to happen. It's been like 50 years and they're still crazy about each other. Whatever my dad had to prove he did a long time ago, and continues to do so by being himself. He has the internal frame to attract her every day forever, and mom knows she lucked out. Dad is the real deal.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:44 AM
1

Bullshit. My dad is a natural alpha. He stands his ground and my mother swoons over it.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:00 AM
1

When you do things you don't want to do to please a girl, she loses respect for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 03:57 AM
3

Oh tons. My life is pretty great. I had a lucky draw.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:05 PM
5

20% chance of ruining my life? Where do I sign up?!
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:13 PM
3

That's actually a really good point, and you're right. Now that you've said that, his whole thing is "memorize my book" so you can do y when x happens. It's formula instead of changing your core, and that's the same flaw as old pickup. You can give the illusion of attractiveness, but eventually the core comes out and people will see through the facade. It's another thing entirely to be the real deal.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:30 PM
1

I'd add Models by Mark Manson to that list. ​ Don't know if it counts as RP, but also going to be reading How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne next.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:12 AM
12

A lot of people have a book to sell.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 08:06 AM
1

For some people it probably feels like a validation power trip. For other people it's a lack of enough self control to keep their junk in their pants and follow the terms they agreed to.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:46 PM
1

Lift, obviously, though a gym membership to a decent gym is going to be easier to do after the job. Until then, focus on calisthenics. Check out the bodyweightfittness subreddit.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:34 PM
6

I think it's a lack of guts as far as asking women out on the friend's part. Turns out when you teach men that asking women out is wrong and creepy, guys stop asking women out.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 08:59 PM
4

Most alpha guy I know is super friendly and likeable.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 10:07 PM
7

I think you may have missed the implications of my joke.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:55 PM
2

More like the highest value man that's at the bar that night.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:53 PM
7

Yeah, that's like less than one a year.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:52 PM
2

They are absolutely still in the anger phase. An uninhibited attractive girl can get sex anytime she wants without trying, and free meals to go with it. If anything they're butthurt that the girl has had more sex than them.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:44 PM
1

Time to get over the bitterness stage. As long as sh'es up to date on here STD tests, I can't give a shit how many guys she's been with. Anyone reasonably attractive has lost count by the time they hit their mid 20s. Virgins suck at sex, and they're like that because they're full of inhibitions. Prime candidate for starfishing in bed. I'd rather have someone who has no hesitation enthusiastically licking my taint and doing all the other weird shit I'm into.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 05:36 PM
1

Only 12? Seems low to me unless she just started.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:28 AM
1

That sounds tryhard, and women are great at detecting bullshit. You'd be better of being direct. Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 03:50 AM
1

Best outcome for a girl like that is proabably ending up with a daddy type.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 05:33 PM
1

What's stopping you from having one? Also, do you really have a solid unibrow or was that fake?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:03 PM
8

Some girls just like the validation. Show interest but don't chase. Follow the 2/3 rule - if she's interested for real, she'll be doing most of the pursuing. You're the prize, not her, so don't appear more excited than she is at any given time.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 07:55 PM
6

"Eh, he's not good enough for me" gets dumped "Wait... what if I'm the one who isn't good enough? I should see if I can get him to chase me again."
/r/askTRP05/05/19 06:07 PM
5

Doesn't matter. The hardest part of lifting regularly is getting started and forming the habit. Plenty of time for adjusting plans afterward.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:14 AM
2

Try out stronglifts 5x5, and eat 1g protein per lb of bodyweight. Can't link directly to subreddits here, but check out: fittness bodyweightfittness brogress
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:55 AM
10

Massive Irreconcilable Faggot. Found my new band name. Gotta fuck men like a man.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:39 AM
11

Go lift and they'll halo effect your weirdness into being quirky instead.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:36 AM
8

Keeps your head covered
/r/askTRP03/05/19 02:56 AM
1

I had a girl try to get me on common law marriage before. Thankfully I'm in California.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:51 AM
1

And 3/4s of assassians are FBI stings
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:50 AM
3

Being a man means deciding what's right for yourself. Some men choose to go traditional even though it's just a symbol of an older time. I'm great with kids and have always wanted to be a dad, and that ties into marriage for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 02:49 AM
10

Be careful with gold diggers. Their greed knows no bounds.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:35 PM
10

Even if something good stays the same, it stops being new and she'll get used to it. Just a worn out recording of a favorite song. Progression is fun. Staying in place is boredom. You need the feeling of moving forward. Think of games or tv shows - they have to change things up every once in a while to stay interesting, otherwise people tire of it and move on to something else. Edit: It's not just one constant thing all the time either. You need tension and release, periods of excitement and rel…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:57 PM
3

After a breakup I use the desire for "revenge" to motivate a step up in gym progress. By the time you're over them you'll be in the habit and won't need it anymore.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:14 PM
3

What's the 3 second rule, other than the food one.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:07 AM
1

Don't bother responding to the comments.. If you see people in person you'll actually probably get a lot of complements on the weight loss. You'd say something like "yeah, I was in pretty bad health back then so I've been making some changes". Everyone loves a success story.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:01 AM
1

Yeah, but the other guy got greedy.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:53 AM
0

Sure, but 1 out of 100 people rip their dick off
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:49 AM
2

If your dick is small, use your hands. No dick is bigger than a fist and a forearm.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:47 AM
1

Practice looking while thinking about something else. You can't focus on what people are thinking of you if you're busy thinking about something else.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:10 PM
5

Find out who the other guy is and make sure he's the one on the hook
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:23 AM
1

One thing outdated in those - Tinder no longer uses ELO. Source
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:49 AM
1

Name brand diapers are expensive though
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:45 AM
2

There's a women driving joke in there somewhere.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:11 AM
1

The morality of cheating isn't the problem here. He put the girl in a position where she has to take action to save face with her friends and current boyfriend.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 01:40 PM
5

You're an idiot, you're rationalizing, and yes she has every right to report you for sexual assault. Even if she was consenting, which I doubt she was, you're in front of mutual friends on a couch. How was this supposed to not going to get back to her boyfriend? How was this not supposed to brand her as a cheater in front of her social group. Stop thinking with just your cock, you fucking twat. This is the kind of stupid bullshit that got the main sub quarantined. Also, congrats - you just poste…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:46 AM
2

You expect a girl like that to be able to follow her own rules?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:19 PM
2

All you have to do is do nothing, because that's what a secure person would do. Trying to "fix" things will only make everything worse. Like some scab you keep picking, if you stop poking at it and do nothing it will likely get better on its own. You're too stuck on this girl. It's also okay to offend her. Not being willing to offend is supplicating and needy.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:43 AM
1

Gotta wait more than 15 minutes for your answer, champ. From here, stop fucking with it. Leave it alone. Go out for drinks or something.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:40 AM
1

Nope. Don't ask. Just keep your bullshit detector open. Have you noticed any phone guarding lately?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:32 AM
2

Needy if you show jealousy and accuse her of lying. A subtle check for red flags is just covering your own ass and lets you plan ahead for separation - if she's cheating there isn't anything you can do to fix it and you're best to get out asap. Otherwise you're just teaching her that cheating isn't a disqualifier for you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:28 AM
3

Don't start packing the bags quite yet, but see if she's hesitant to talk about this "work event" afterwards, when asking in a innocent way. I think you'll spot something fishy in her reply, or she'll get mad/defensive. Everyone brings their phones at work events. People that don't want to have it ring put it on airplane mode or silent.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:00 AM
2

Lol, well she should step up her game then. Don't buy it. She's just trying to keep you down.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:11 PM
1

Heavy bdsm adds like 3 points for me. Keeping a sub as a pet is a lot of fun.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:21 PM
1

If you're that kind of guy, you don't
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:49 AM
8

The problem with hiring friends is that you're bringing in an existing dynamic of being equals, unless they already see you as a leader. You're going to have to use a lot more effort to keep the boss/employee relationship intact compared to a relationship that started off that way. You're going to have to hold your ground and if he pushes on something you're not going to budge on then let him know that if he continues you won't be able to keep working with him. By mixing business with friendship…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:23 AM
3

The fall
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:58 PM
1

Body shape note is a big one. The better you look, the more you can get away with wearing just about anything.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 06:08 PM
3

If she's trying that hard to get a reply out of you, I bet she'd hate it if you say nothing in a cocky way.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 09:05 AM
2

Thanks for watching.
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