TL;DR — I think I'm doing all the right things, but I'm still not getting laid. I know pedestalizing women isn't great, but a man's n-count is an important metric nonetheless, so I am concerned.

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I don't understand what the hell is going on, but there must be something missing. At least one thing.

I discovered TRP two years ago after, you guessed it, my ex cheated on me (with at least 12 other dudes) after 6 years together. Like many, when I first took the pill, it was very difficult to swallow and I reacted pretty badly to it. That said, I didn't really follow many of the TRP teachings for another year or so — the first having been spent largely hating women, feeling like shit, and generally realising I had been living a life for the first 21 years of my life.

However, for about a year now, I've been lifting heavy, reading a lot, investing in my friendships, going places, doing well at work, and now setting up my own business on the side. My body fat is down from 27% to the current 13%, I've seen significant gains in strength, speed and overall fitness. I have a great job, earning nearly 6-figures and only 23, and am about to launch what I believe will become a multimillion dollar business. I think I'm smart (my grades and feedback from friends, associates, etc., certainly indicates so), dress well and am not a boring person all things considered.

But where are the girls?!

Isn't this the blueprint for getting laid like crazy? Improve yourself and the girls will come? None of that right now. Instead, I have massive oneitis for a colleague and often masturbate myself to sleep. It's pretty pathetic.

I know, and agree with, the notion that women aren't the prize. Sure, but they are a byproduct of being a man of value, right? And if they aren't flocking over in their hoards, I must be doing something wrong.

Any pointers appreciated, fellas.