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The end goal is to live a life with no regrets. I don’t want to be 60/70/80/90 years old with a failing body and a cursed mind wishing I’d taken action when i physically could. What would I regret? Not working on my own business, not treating my family like friends and my friends like family. Doing those things i tend to put off longer than i should. Being a little bit better than i was the day before and enjoying it as much as i can. Something something memento mori
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 09:50 AM
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Soft next, could tease her about it “Fine but you can only go if he’s cute” ( if she goes she thinks he’s cute, if she doesn’t go you win xd) “Studying? Sounds booooooring” (you can “study” and I’m going skydiving) But yeah, don’t say no unless you can play it off jokingly.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:35 PM
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I mean, it would be pretty alpha if you just didn’t give a fuck and didn’t block her and somehow instantly got her out of your head and started fucking with other bitches but most guys aren’t like that and can’t just tune that shit out of their head whenever they want. The second best option is to just tune her out in the actual world so you’re not tempted to get drawn back into her bullshit. Which you did. It’s not as alpha as the above, but it’s better than creeping her and actually messaging …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:08 AM
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This isn’t about her at all, this is about you. If you feel like you need to block her and you’re better off doing so then do it. Her opinion of you is irrelevant. I blocked some exes and didn’t block others. Sometimes you just need to for your mental and other times it doesn’t matter. I think the general rule around here is to block if it was serious though. I blocked my serious relationship exes too and it helps you pay attention to other things instead of constantly looking for whatever she’s…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:36 AM
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Nothing. He’s smart enough to make his own choices. You can give him the pill but you can’t force him to swallow it. And well... he chose her. Be his brother, not his mom.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:35 AM
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o k b o o m e r
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:12 PM
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Couldn’t you just drive out of town for a few days or go on vacation or something? That way you can “move out” for a bit and still carry the benefits of saving roughly $15k/year.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:02 PM
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How much are you eating?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:19 AM
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Then I highly suggest doing/trying that. Programming should be a safe bet and there are plenty of online resources, and a good demand, if you can handle it. Also might be worth looking into photoshop, premiere, finance, and accounting courses for business jobs in marketing or finance. If you have contacts and are flexible you can start by looking for what people need and then start taking the courses so you’re not wasting time learning how to create marketing and promotional videos when you coul…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:41 PM
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I’m already hitting the gym and doing calisthenics when I can’t make it. I figured there probably weren’t any options but just wanted to see if anyone who’s actually experienced with this stuff has come across anything. I’d prefer to go to an actual fighting gym but am even open to suggestions for online tutorials at the very least that get me even a little bit of the actual experience without risk of head injury.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:22 PM
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I mean, for getting a job there’s a few things you need to consider. Certification (ie degree or diploma) Relevant experience (from previous jobs or otherwise) Contacts (someone who can get you a higher chance of being hired) * a business plan (start your own thing, become your own boss) If you can’t get certification, do you have any relevant experience for a job you want? Do you have friends in that industry? If you have any local Post secondary institutions you should still drop by and ask th…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:34 PM
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Why are you trying to bring your brother down? If he has something you want you should learn to become his friend and maybe he can teach you a thing or two instead of kicking his ass. Is he alpha? Nothing you’ve said about him is “alpha.” He’s just gifted with status and looks. Not sure being unconfrontational in this case counts as beta. If I were super rich I’d avoid fighting poor people too. If he lets his girlfriend step all over him then that’s beta. But maybe she hasn’t done anything wrong…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:20 PM
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Maybe you’ll get your answer if you run into her when she’s not working.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:03 AM
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What do you want?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:58 AM
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It’s like trying to forget or trying to sleep. Directly trying to not care is counterproductive. Spend your effort focusing on things that actually matter to you and the rest will move out of focus.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:52 PM
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Start by having a normal “boring” conversation with girls. Learn to close with exchanging names and contact info Learn how to keep conversation lighthearted and more fun (Laughing, teasing, saying things that are more interesting than the boring conversation) Learn how to apply kino/sexually escalate In that order.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:44 PM
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Live action role playing?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:41 AM
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Honestly the hardest part is just being on a consistent schedule starting out. Pick a routine you kinda like and follow it daily. I do full body Monday Wednesday Friday. Not the best workout schedule but definitely good when you’re short on time and starting out (as it builds a lot of key muscle groups that you can focus on later). it’s the same schedule I’ve been on for almost 2 years now. Once you get used to how everything feels, you can start to adapt your workout for whatever goals you want…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:40 AM
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Bc they’re emotional. Long stories with lots of adjectives generate a lot of feelies. Guys aren’t as feely. We only need to know useful information from each other, not get each other’s emotions sailing.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:11 AM
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If you already texted her last don’t bother. You have options and things to do, focus your energy elsewhere. If you found a hb9 once you’ll find a hb9 again probably
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:27 PM
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Just remind yourself that if you don’t approach now you might not get the chance again. Just go for it. Beginner game, start with basic conversation (whatever you’re comfortable with) and find openings to escalate into something funny, interesting, or exciting from there. If you have a life, look for openings where you can share exciting stories relating to the conversation.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:21 PM
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Stop worrying about girls. There’s more to spend your energy on
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:17 PM
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Tbh you might be raising your smv by bringing her with you. Seeing you with another girl makes other girls question “why is she hanging out with him.” You might be hindering your SMV if you’re more focused on the girls than the gains though but that doesn’t seem to be the issue here.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:07 PM
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No porn. Fap is fine
/r/askTRP13/11/19 06:27 PM
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Small things Start lifting Keep reading Try new things and start breaking routine What helped me get out of my head was meeting up with people. Old and new friends. Can try meditating, I’ve only just started with that and don’t have much feedback on personal benefits yet though. Good luck Also should go NO CONTACT
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:36 PM
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Kinda, none of TRP is set in stone it’s just a rule book. And the rule book says that women have lots more options and always look to get someone above them. That means there’s the possibility that she has someone else on her list of studs that hasn’t broken frame and that automatically puts him above you on her list of options. (In theory, she may not have a better option than you but this doesn’t guarantee that she won’t find one) I’m pretty sure it’s a bit of a subconscious psychological thin…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 05:17 PM
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Yeah so I don’t think slut shaming her was where you fucked up but rather where you tried apologizing and fixing her feelings afterwards. You’re a free guy, you should be able to say whatever’s on your mind worrying about offending some girl. If she doesn’t like what you’re saying you have other options. As for fixing it, my games not great but I’d just ignore her and work on finding other options. You kinda broke frame so she’s picked up on that and is either unattracted or keeping you around f…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:38 PM
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What’s the question
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:23 PM
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Simple Sidebar. Lift. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:22 PM
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You shouldn’t care about what she says. You know how you look. Her opinion of you shouldn’t make you question your own perspective. Play in your frame.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:15 AM
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Just assume she was/is and you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:41 PM
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I met the guy who introduced me to the sub at a music club at my university. I don’t think he was a “perfect” alpha but he did a lot of alpha things and showed me a lot of how I could improve myself even before I started reading on this sub. Just talk to new people all the time and always try to close conversations with exchanging names and contact info. That way you have a way of meeting up and getting to know each other. If you lived with them before, maybe they have other friends they can get…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 12:45 AM
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“I agree but I don’t think discipline necessarily equates to being redpilled.” Correct. But you won’t find a truly red pilled individual who isn’t disciplined. “Likewise, just because a CEO isn’t married doesn’t automatically make him redpilled either.” Correct again. But he has the status of CEO. If you find a disciplined individual at the gym, and a CEO you can learn how to make consistent gains at the gym (improve looks) and improve your financial situation (improve status). Only thing you ha…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:13 PM
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If he’s a bigger dude at the gym he’s probably super disciplined (or genetically gifted) and he can show you how to make important goals for yourself and filter all the bs from your life (bad habits, stupid people, etc). That’s a pretty big part of being alpha/trp. (ie being your best self) Talk to the single CEO’s, that is if they have time for you. (Also, a job is only alpha based on the status it gives you. Talk to married CEOs to learn how to improve status NOT how to be alpha). ... no, this…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:49 PM
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Problem is, alphas probably don’t want to hang with you because they’re busy killing it at life. However, you can start by getting to know some of the bigger dudes at the gym or in general. Get to know dudes that hang out in your social circle or places you frequent. The more connections you can make the higher your chances of finding someone you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:28 PM
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Just take a mental break for a bit. Spend your time listening to music and recording bits that come to mind while you’re on break. Work on them when you’re ready. “Pick a day to rest or your body will pick it for you”
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:25 PM
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Lift Sidebar
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:21 PM
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Women love differently than men. Not to say that it isn’t love, it’s just not the love that a lot of men are looking for. Someone commented on another asktrp post with this on love. Recommend https://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/01/the-hierarchy-of-love/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf As for nihilism, trp teaches men how to get the most out of life through self improvement and sexual strategy. The hope is that one day men do find a mission one day that gives their life meaning…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:05 AM
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If they provide virtually no positive value then there’s no reason for them in your life. Idk who’s telling you it shows a “lack of assertiveness.” You’re not their parents, you’re their friend. You shouldn’t have to force them to behave how you want lmao. If they dont click with you you have your personal priorities in check and don’t have time for those people. Emotional maturity? More like a lack of patience for people that don’t mean anything to you. I’m sure you’re more than emotionally mat…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:21 PM
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What is black admixture? Maybe see an orthodontist for your chin. They might be able to recommend something for your jaw/chin. Can also look at mewing (Dr Mike Mew) although I’ve been doing that for a year with minimal if any changes. Supposed to be a technique where you push your tongue against the roof of your mouth which will gradually change the shape of your face. Not sure what to do with a small skull. Maybe get jacked so everyone just assumes your heads only small proportionately to your …
/r/askTRP30/10/19 08:11 PM
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Yes but why? Too long? Too fat? Scars? Weird eyebrows? Lazy eye? Weird skin tones? Jacked up teeth? If your face is REALLY the problem you may have some options to change things so that you’re happy with them before having to just live with it.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:59 PM
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What’s wrong with your face?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:51 PM
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I’d work on it if you care about improving your relationships with people. Being unemotional makes it hard for other people to relate and connect to you making relationships.... unfulfilling. Normally a good skill to have for being able to widen and improve your social network. This can open many doors for you in your dating, professional, and personal life. If you dgaf about other people and relationships with them (for example, someone in monk mode who’s only focus is achieving personal goals/…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:25 PM
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Define “deep and meaningful relationship”
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:37 PM
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Stop overthinking. You want her over. You invite her over. Maybe she stops by maybe she doesn’t. You’re undeterred because you have other things to do if she doesn’t stop by. If she says no though then just disappear and wait for her to get in touch with you. If she’s interested she’ll make time to meet you.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:20 PM
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He’s right, it could be almost anything. Maybe he’s got great game, money, maybe she’s trying to get her boyfriends attention/make him jealous, maybe she’s looking to get off the cc and settle for mr beta, maybe the athletes game is just trash or he said/did something really unattractive, maybe mr virgins the alpha and chads the beta. No one is going to be able to give you the exact reason. The 3 of them probably couldn’t give you the exact reason why it worked out like that. Women make decision…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:16 PM
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If I were in your shoes I would just work hard and make/save as much money as I can now until I find a goal later. Like moving out. And keep hitting the gym obvi.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:25 PM
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They’re feelings. You don’t have control over them. They might go away they might not. If you don’t want to deal with her past then let go and move on. You’re allowed to find your own mental peace. Or just get over it. You can sit there and worry about her ex and her past or you can accept that shit happens and right now she’s fucking with you and let it go. Up to whether she meets your standards dude.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:13 AM
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What’s the question
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:07 AM
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Go back to why you’re doing things I’m doing my undergrad cosc + business not for the job, or the money. I want to prove to myself that I can make it all the way through, no matter how much my mind screams for me to quit. You went to MD for a reason. Meditate on that.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 04:15 AM
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Prob yeah, sounds like you’re on the blessed side though
/r/askTRP26/10/19 12:50 AM
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Sit with new people in your classes Try a club Talk to people at the gym Find a job on campus and connect with people at work
/r/askTRP26/10/19 12:01 AM
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If I was in your shoes (ie financially stable) I’d spend it trying to find things to fill the void. Try travelling, start a business, outdoor stuff like skydiving, rock climbing, surfing, hunting, learn a martial art, try learning an instrument. You’ve met your basic needs, now you need to fulfill self fulfillment needs (look up maslows hierarchy of needs). Explore the world and find something to live for.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:46 PM
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My back got a lot better after lifting and consciously lining myself up. Then I saw a picture of myself and realized my neck posture is really bad. I’m just trying to make myself conscious of it as much as possible so I can straighten it out. Maybe take pictures/video of yourself from multiple angles?
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:40 AM
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What’s the question
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:36 AM
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So you're saying that even if me doing my own thing means having maybe one close friend and just getting laid or networking on the side, that's more than enough? Yes if you are truly happy doing your own thing. Realize that one close friend could vanish at any moment. You can’t rely on them to complete you because when they leave it will destroy you. I'll be honest with you I don't particularly care to have a lot of friends. The issue is that you can go to events alone, but at some point, won't …
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:32 AM
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Well now it depends on whether or not lifting is worth the time saved from working on finances. I’m more of a brute force kinda guy so I would just get finances figured out ASAP and then get on a consistent workout schedule after. But if you’re mentally crippled from not being able to lift then it’s probably better for you to do them side by side, not for gains though but just for your mental state.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:59 AM
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You don’t worry about people now because one day you will have people that care. Even if you don’t it’s their loss. You should be happy living and doing your own thing. Friendships are very... liquid. You are the only constant in this equation
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:51 AM
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Finances. Money has more power than physique. You don’t necessarily need supplements though, just a lot of protein and good food in general. Supplements are there to... supplement the process. If you can afford to eat well then maybe you are able to lift and do finances. If not. Finances first
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:43 AM
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Was thinking about this the other day. Just trying to figure out how high can we set our expectations for women with TRP knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 04:39 AM
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Alpha does what alpha wants
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:41 PM
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Are you able to do some sort of trial for judo? That way you can try it and see if it’s for you and you can decide for yourself whether it’s worth the money/time. Maybe you can sign up for 1 month, 3 months or whatever length of time someone would recommend that you need to learn the basics. I’ve never tried a martial art, did a tiny bit of boxing on my own which I would continue if I had time (uni and gym are my primary focus atm).
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:15 PM
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If you want to approach you approach. Put yourself on the spot. Ask for directions, tell her her dress is pretty, better than staring her down and not doing anything about it. Worst case scenario, you make yourself look like a goon in front of some girl. Everyone will forget in 5 mins. Idk how to help with the club scene, I hate it for the same reasons as you. It’s easier to hold a conversation when you’re both working on the same things. Ie asking for directions helps when you’re both heading t…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:49 PM
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I’d say if you don’t like where you are get out. That being said, I’m pretty young and haven’t really started my career and don’t know how much of an impact this decision might have in the future. But I’m sure there’s plenty of people around you that are willing to help you out and this one person shouldn’t deter you from finding better things.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:41 AM
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You can’t have 2 advisors? There’s no other advisors in your field?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:50 AM
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Sounds like she’s just being nice but you could have done better by giving her an actual date instead of saying “we should do this again sometime” I’d give her time to message you back first. If not, you can try and hit her up with actual plans in a few weeks “hey let’s go get drinks/get ice cream/coffee,” something with a little more substance than “walk and talk” Which even that’s kinda... pushing it, but you don’t have much to lose. In the meantime, work on your mission
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:17 AM
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So you’re looking for reasons to start a conversation in random places where you have literally no reason to start a conversation?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:10 AM
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What exactly is stopping you?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:05 AM
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What makes you think she’s not worth a shit?
/r/askTRP21/10/19 02:11 AM
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You don’t. You’re a human and you’re allowed to have feelings and emotions. But you also have knowledge. You’re smart enough to know what she is capable of doing to you. You know what you are capable of controlling in yourself. When oneitis hits me, I try my hardest to convince myself she is just like anyone else and that I’m capable of finding someone better. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn’t. Other times I just try and distract myself, work towards my goals or relax and breathe a little…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:08 AM
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The easiest way to grasp this concept for me was to be more invested in yourself and your goals. When you are busy trying to reach your own goals you don’t have time for unimportant things and people. Atm I’m busy with school and gym. When I’m doing those I don’t have time for small talk or dates or hanging out or parties etc. I’m focused on the grades or the gains. It would help for you to have your own goals. Whether it’s school, gym, work, music, your business, sports, reading sidebar, Chad’s…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:25 AM
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Uh
/r/askTRP12/10/19 08:19 PM
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Because self pity is a waste of time. Use what you’ve learned so far to get what you want for your future.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:34 AM
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Someone’s always going to have something you don’t. Figure out what you ACTUALLY want and make a plan towards it. If you want to look like a model, start by lifting If you want to party or meet famous people you should probably start by socializing and getting to know all kinds of people and making connections. And stop comparing yourself to others. You’re probably* studying for a reason. You’re already working towards something and one day you’ll get to enjoy what you worked towards.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:31 AM
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I think this falls under “red pill strategies, blue pill motives.” You’re not supposed to aim your focus on making this kind (or any kind) of woman like you. Focus on improving yourself and your game in general. Once you’re reeling in all kinds of girls you can pick the ones you like. That being said, you can probably find vegans at local vegan restaurants. Maybe meet some vegan guy friends and increase your circle that way. As for non drinkers, church maybe if you’re lucky? Not sure why those 2…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:34 AM
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Want to add sleeping in complete darkness helps get better sleep than sleeping with windows open or any other light in the room. I think it’s supposed to help with melatonin production or something but I felt more rested when I blocked more light/closed windows. Also no porn
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 12:07 PM
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Things are only ever awkward when you make them awkward. The class will eventually end and none of you will see each other again. You’ll just remember that one time you could have and would have but didn’t for the rest of your life. Or you’ll get over it and move on. It’s really just another approach.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:05 PM
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There’s not much to lose. It’s just like any other approach. She says yes, you’re in. She says no, you were focusing on yourself anyway.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:57 PM
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Just relax, lighten up, and be your best self. It’s a date, not a court hearing. If it’s seriously your first date you should just be yourself and use this date as the bar for future dates. Eg “maybe I should scout the venue first next time” eg2 “next date definitely needs more action” eg3 “I was escalating too much/not enough. Need to be more receptive on when/if to escalate/back off” If she’s your second swipe you’re bound to make more matches soon. Abundance mentality. Also, I think there’s a…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:59 PM
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Any girl you don’t see from a red pill mindset. If you think she’s innocent you’ve already lost.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:55 AM
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Not sure about body fat%, I’m around 5’10” height though if that helps. I’m 20 y/o though and my metabolisms always been pretty good. (I’ve maybe been skinny fat at my worst but still lean/skinny) so my goals just been to bulk as I’d burn most/all the fat easily anyway. I packed last years calendars away so I don’t have the exact numbers but from what I remember, February 2018 I was 140lbs, then I hit 160lbs in December 2018 before I broke my wrist. I started hitting the gym again in February 20…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:44 AM
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I mean if you know you’re going to let it get to you and ruin your night you probably shouldn’t. Like if it was a party with my ex I wouldn’t bc I know it’s gonna mess my vibe. But if there’s people there that you’re good friends with and can “probably” have a good time with then go and have a good time. Act like there’s no past between you 2 and you didn’t spill all your feelings over her unless she EXPLICITLY brings it up. Be honest but not more than you have to. Go to catch up with friends, m…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:02 AM
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I started at 140lbs and started getting looks at 160/170lbs. Nothing crazy but enough to notice I was getting looked at more. Especially when I started paying attention to posture (neck and back) and wearing better clothes (stuff that outlines your physique/figure)
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:57 AM
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Do you want to party?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:52 AM
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Go to work to work. Be professional regardless of what others are doing. If they’re dating and shit hits the fan it’s going to be awkward for both of them. That could be you. Part of abundance is the mentality that you will get options regardless of what your current situation is. Be patient, keep working on yourself, stay classy. You should also be trying to talk to other girls too. If you don’t have abundance mentality you should be creating it. Not applying bandaid fixes to this one girl. It …
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:08 PM
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When I got dumped my friend introduced me to the pill by just teaching me redpill things. He took me to the gym and got me to start lifting He taught me basic things for talking to girls (ie not giving a fuck, stop putting so much emphasis on every interaction, be your best self, etc) Taught me basic fashion stuff Then suggested the book of pook. I started reading it and agreed with a lot of the points, then came to the sub after. But I wanted these things. If he doesn’t care about lifting, and …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:58 PM
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Isolate each half with your exercises. ie instead of doing a bench press, do dumbbell bench press so one side isn’t compensating for the other Don’t push harder than your weakest part. ie if you can only do 20lb curls on your left arm do 20lb curls on your right, even if your right arm is capable of doing more. Maybe lower the weight on leg press and do one leg at a time. Not that I’m a super jacked full time body builder but if I was in your shoes that’s how I would approach it. I intentionally…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:22 PM
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She’s using you. Grow a pair, tell her to fuck off, go monk mode. There’s nothing wrong with being a loner for a bit to focus on what you want/need in life, and you don’t need her. You might never lose those feeling for her but men don’t react based on their emotions. Logically there’s nothing good that can come from spending more time with her. Take care of yourself. She likes your dog. Great. Everyone should like your dog. Your dog is the fucking tits. Unfortunately, not everyone will have the…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:25 PM
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Stop watching porn For me, it was easier to make friends when I was doing things and going out because I had things to talk about in a conversation. Try new foods, routes to work, books, shows, video games, places to eat, events at your uni, clubs you can join, classes to take, go to an arcade, or rock climbing, or an art gallery, check out local music, learn how to cook, just do new things. The easier places for me to make friends was at work and in uni. Sit in new spots in class, try and have …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 10:40 AM
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1 is read the book of pook. That’s one of the first things I did when I started and it answered A LOT of my initial questions 2 is work on a mindset change We don’t care about how she responds to our emotions. We are confident and sure of ourselves Our feelings do matter, but no one else is responsible or cares about them. You’re in charge of dealing with them, not her or anyone else To stop focusing on her happiness you focus on your own. You do that by working on your mission. If you don’t hav…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 12:38 PM
1

Find a way to dress well in proper work attire. You’re working for them and you should follow their rules on dress code. Learn how to get the most out of your work attire. ie nicer jeans, T-shirt’s/polos that compliment your figure, shoes that don’t clash with your outfit and whatever accessories you like to go with it. I always have my watch and a necklace, if it’s bright I’ll have a nice pair of sunglasses, if I have one on hand I’ll wear a bracelet. It’s up to what works with your style. Dres…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 05:52 PM
15

Any feedback on omega 3 or vitamin d?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 05:08 PM
2

Will keep this all in mind. Thanks for the explanation
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 11:44 AM
1

Can you still invite her along when she only has a vague idea of what you’re going to do?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 01:20 AM
3

Won’t giving vague one worded answers just kill the conversation? ”What are you doing this weekend?” “In the city” .... okay.... sounds REALLY interesting Wouldn’t it be better to say something like “What are you doing this weekend?” “Meeting up with some friends downtown to check out a local concert, nothing crazy. What about you? Any plans?” Sure it’s not great game, but at least it shows that you’re not at home alone jerking off or uninterested in the conversation. Unless a dead conversation …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 11:44 PM
1

Edit: leptin*
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:49 PM
1

You don’t love them, you love their attention, that’s why it bothers you when you can’t attract them. Yes I’m sure, you shouldn’t be asking women for dating advice. They don’t know what they want, it’s your job to show them that you are what they want. You focus on school by maintaining frame and having an abundance mentality. School is more important, there will always be girls. All of these things are in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:02 PM
1

I’m trying to understand your question. Why do you feel insecure? Because you’re comparing yourself to other people. You’re comparing your success at school to the success of others, you’re comparing your looks to other younger guys. Stop doing that, you’re always going to find people better than you and it’s your fault for not starting earlier. Accept it, learn from it, and move on. Focus on yourself. Your game is why girls want you? I don’t know why girls want you, I don’t know why girls want/…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:53 PM
2

You do what you want not what they tell you to do. It just sounds like you broke frame by caving into her expectations for you. If you want to show affection, you show it when they do what you want as a reward and only sparingly otherwise they get bored of you.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:13 AM
1

She doesn’t care about your job. Broke guys still get pussy. She might care if she’s looking for a beta to lock down, this doesn’t seem to be the case here. She cares about how much of a man you are and your SMV. Lift ASAP and learn game. Give her something money can’t buy, like an emotional rollercoaster. Not sure how you’re gonna have time for women if you don’t have time to work or lift first. Imo you should work on those things second after studying. Worry about somebody when you graduate or…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:41 AM
1

Cheat day referring to eating everything you can one day a week to increase leptin production to boost metabolism and ultimately lose weight faster long term than not having a cheat day. Not sure there’s been enough evidence to prove/disprove that it works/doesn’t work in losing weight. Personally my metabolisms still good so I haven’t had a need to try it. If I had to lose weight I would try it though. If you make progress good, if not you can always go back to no cheat days. Make sure you give…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:14 PM
2

If you want to go you go. If you don’t want to go then don’t go. Try looking at the event. If you want to go clubbing then you’ll go clubbing regardless of who’s going to be there. If it’s not your thing then skip out. If you’ve never been it’s probably a good idea to go for the experience. It’ll give you something to talk about, you might make more connections, and it might be something you really enjoy. Otherwise you’d rather work on your mission during that time and you shouldn’t gaf about wh…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:21 PM
5

Focus on improving yourself first and then work on finding your mission. Start by fixing your bad habits, fix your diet, start lifting, and reading sidebar. Work on making a social circle at work or school. Talk to new people whenever you can and hanging out with the few that you really connect with. If you’re depressed and lost your focus at this time shouldn’t be finding a girlfriend. It’ll fuck you up when you get rejected and it’s easier to develop oneitis as you don’t have a solid foundatio…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:53 AM
2

Because she wants the attention from 2 guys. If she admits she’s wrong to either of them she risks losing them and the attention she’s getting from them Also because it gives her an emotional rush of being able to trick 2 guys. She wants to see if she can control them. This is fun for her until she does get control. Then they are boring and she moves onto trying to control chad. Why? It’s just how women are. Chad doesn’t care about how or why women do “x” because he’s invested in himself. Gj for…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:51 PM
4

Alright first, get a fucking grip. You’re lifting and have a good job. You’re already ahead of A LOT of guys Next, dating sites are WAYY harder. All that’s really on there are pictures of you. Unless you’re a Greek god you’re not going to pick up the hot chicks. You need abundance mentality. You don’t have any girls now but ONE DAY you will. Be patient and keep improving yourself. Sooner or later one of the girls you talk to will like you. Just talk to as many as you can mentally handle. You hav…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 12:33 AM
2

I’m not a gaming expert (actually, my game could be a lot better) but asking for nudes over a selfie on Snapchat is not going to make her attracted to you. By doing that you’re showing her that it’s easy to win your attention. She’s already won your respect without doing anything. She then gets bored of you and moves to chad. Try gaming her another way
/r/askTRP14/07/19 12:00 AM
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Abundance mentality. You don’t ask because you’re busy getting nudes from other bitches. Stop watching her stories. You’re too busy working on your mission to gaf about some broads social media endeavours. Wait for her to send you a selfie. If she doesn’t she’s not interested in you. Even if she does she’s probably looking for attention but at least you’ll have an “okay” reason to engage her You are the prize.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:51 PM
1

Not really sure but when I stopped drinking it I lost 10lbs and had a lot more energy. Switched to almond but soy milk has a lot of protein too. But i did develop an intolerance. I can’t drink plain milk anymore or it fucks up my stomach. Just milk though, I have no problems with things like yogurt, cheese, and ice cream.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:02 PM
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8 hours sleep, no/minimal porn, 900mg omega 3 + 1000 UI vitamin d daily, no dairy milk, sunlight is good too. Also good rest. Sometimes you’re just tired and need to rest. It’s not a bad thing to take a break once in awhile
/r/askTRP06/07/19 08:18 AM
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Everyone, especially yourself. Have you ever met someone and been like “man what a fucking loser, that guy was too honest.” Or “that person would be so much cooler if they just lied more” Chad has no reason to lie to others because he is confident and proud of who he is and what he’s done. People love him for who he is, not who he isn’t. He doesn’t lie to himself because it doesn’t help him improve. He doesn’t tell himself he’s worked extra hard today and can skip the gym, or that it’s her fault…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:33 AM
9

Honesty
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:56 PM
2

Not part of this post but holy fuck I needed that response for my own shit. Thanks dude!
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:37 AM
72

Basically this You told her you don’t want her wearing that, she’s doing it anyway. That is disrespectful to you. Idk what that “I like it when you’re overprotective” line is about but it’s probably verbal affirmation so you show you’re more invested in caring about whatever the fuck she’s doing and she doesn’t have to worry about you leaving her. Good luck
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:08 AM
1

If I was directly in your shoes trying to f close I would be trying to get her at the date. That in of itself is one of the harder parts because you succeed or you fail and there’s no more steps to take. “Let’s go to the local art gallery/museum/new cafe/smoothie bar/vr arcade/trampoline park/whereeverthefuckyouwanttogo on xDay at yTime.” Sure it’s not perfect but its assertive and gets the point across. Tailor it to however your style of texting/initiating is. If she says no (or any variation t…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:57 AM
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Not really, no. In my experience she will tell you she’s free or she’ll give you a new date right there. But she says she’s dealing with shit so maybe you’ll get lucky. Regardless it doesn’t matter. You did all you could do. If you start texting her and bothering her to hang out with you your chances will become nearly nonexistent. DONT TEXT HER FIRST Also in my experience, you get rejected A LOT more than you secure the date. Don’t let this one get to you. Keep working on you, try again with ot…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:10 AM
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Yes you should ask her out, no you shouldn’t treat her like she’s special. You said you’ve fucked a bunch so I’m going to assume you know how to set a date, escalate, and close. This lengthy post also sounds like oneitis which you may also want to keep in check. You’re overthinking it. You like her, ask her out. Worst case scenario she rejects you and fucks off for a very long time. Unless you want to maintain friends. Then I wouldn’t risk making it awkward.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:03 AM
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You set the date She said she’s busy and she’ll get back to you You don’t have anything more to do. If she gets back to you re-set the date, if she doesn’t it doesn’t matter because you’re working on your mission.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:53 AM
1

We’re all learning
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:35 AM
2

We’re all learning
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:35 AM
1

I’d assume you don’t know the whole story. Maybe he’s paying her to hang with him. Maybe his text game is better than you think. Maybe she’s just crazy. Maybe she’s in the area anyway and wants to make her ex jealous. It really could be a million different things. You shouldn’t really care regardless. You should be happy for him that he’s had success.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:31 AM
1

These are just the arguments, you don’t have to read all this. The argument is this guide already exists, there’s sidebar and other field reports. Sidebar is fantastic but it’s massive, and confusing at times. Then you post your question here and the answer is “just read more sidebar.” And you should. But if the sidebar I just read doesn’t make sense, how do I know the sidebar I’m going to read will make sense? I just want to share the stuff I understood and what I wish I understood sooner. Fiel…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:16 PM
1

Damn, I think I’m gonna start journaling now. That sounds like something that’s super useful to have/use. Thank you
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:28 PM
1

What even is your argument? “You don’t matter” Nothing matters “I didn’t make the post because EC said so” There’s no EC’s on my post. In fact, there’s people telling me to write it and that it will help them “Molehills aren’t mountains” They are to ants. “You have a long way to go” Don’t we all
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:45 AM
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There’s already content out there for getting pussy. There’s nothing out there giving you a detailed first hand experience of how you go from being full blue pill to getting your FIRST sexual encounter, at least not from what I’ve read so far. It’s all “be confident, cocky, jacked, and dgaf and she’ll probably fuck you.” These are all well and good but what do you do when it doesn’t work? Is it your social skills? Your approach? Did I fuck up a shit test? All those basic blue pill questions that…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:24 AM
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This post is a survey. I’d write thing regardless for personal reflection but I wouldn’t share it to the sub if no one cared to at least give it a full read(which some commenters voiced that they would be interested and this post served its purpose and in fact wasn’t a waste of time). It has nothing to do with approval. im offering a detailed field report from how I dealt with getting dumped from ltr, how I started lifting, what sidebar shit stood out and helped personally, what my goals were, e…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:38 AM
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You need a new mindset. You dumped her for a reason, then she fucked a bunch of dudes. What kind of positive emotions could you be feeling towards her? I was in a 2 year ltr a year and a half ago and it still fucks me up thinking about how I could possibly miss her after she lied. Emotions are stupid. You have to be sure about what you know is true and trp is true. Everything (mostly everything at least) trp says she has and will do is true. More importantly, everything trp says you should be is…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:17 PM
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It is hard as fuck. Some guys will NEVER have the balls to do what you did. You should be PROUD of yourself for taking that step and putting your values before hers. If it’s bothering you that much then you should block her before she drags you back in. Otherwise just ignore and focus on you. Blocking might make you look bitter but you shouldn’t care about the opinions of people below you. King does as he pleases. Your mindset should be “I’m too busy, too important, and too focused to recognize …
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:20 PM
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It’s like you haven’t read your own post lmao Ltr a plate Has orbiters Eye fucks your friend She gives him her # She’s openly giving herself to him in front of you Do you really want to go exclusive with that? Id say you did the right thing, and if they’re tucking you shouldn’t gaf bc now you can go back to your mission or plating or w.e the fuck you want. And fuck your friend, can’t find his own plates lmao. Have some confidence in your shit man. You felt the need to drop her for a reason. You …
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:03 PM
1

I’ve gotten around 100-200 matches in around a year-1/2 but only ended up meeting up with one match. We went on 2 dates, nothing crazy. And I’m pretty sure a lot of it was based on the fact that we knew each other from high school. I tried making a handful of dates but it never happened. I can’t drive and I’m living at home until I’m done school though so I haven’t really tried as hard as I could (can’t drive us, can’t bring her home). Sounds like you’ve done better than me so far
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:42 PM
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I’ve messaged the wrong person at least twice on Facebook (both times being my mother) Ignore him, live your life. You don’t have to drop him, just ignore him. Maybe he’ll message you in a bit and let you know what’s up. If not you’re too busy to care. It’s not like he hurt you, you don’t need to confront him, especially when you don’t have a solid case.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:40 AM
14

Dude you’re free. You have cash and no responsibilities besides work. Gym isn’t just about gains, it increases your confidence, and your testosterone which is super important for boosting your mood and energy. There’s a reason it’s near the top of things to do when you’re on trp. You got rejected and you’re going to continue getting rejected. Trp teaches abundance mentality. There’s lots of options out there, talk to as many as you can and eventually you’ll get one of them to like you. Shrug it …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:19 AM
1

Do you have friends at work? Get to know them, they might not be women but they can increase your social circle. Same thing if you’re in school (doesn’t sound like you are but might be worth mentioning). Even if you’re not in school, look at colleges/universities to see if they have any public events. I got a number from a public Brazilian dance lesson event that our schools International centre was running. I don’t have any friends at my current job (they’re all significantly older than me) so …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:40 AM
1

Exactly. Just make sure you don’t agree to her plans if you would rather do something else with your time. You’re allowed to say no.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:30 AM
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Everyone has off days. You spoil yourself, get it out of your system, then get back to the grind. Your body sends you signals for a reason. It will tell you when you need a break and it’ll tell you when you’re being a lazy fuck. Work hard, treat yourself. You’re a person, not a machine. If you have to be consistent at something be consistent at ALWAYS getting back to your mission regardless of how much effort/time it takes.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:26 AM
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If you want to do x why would you do y? If she wants to pick the place and you want to go there too then go. If you don’t then say no or suggest an alternative. She’s a person too. She can make choices for your relationship without it being a shit test. I’d take it as a shit test when she wants you to break frame. Eg, You made plans a week ago that she agreed to and now she suggests not going or going somewhere else purely because “she’s not feeling it” Ie she’s seeing if you’ll change your plan…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:15 AM
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To keep you around for later or because she doesn’t want you to think she’s a bitch She’s not gonna flat out say “hey stop texting me” especially when you’re giving her free attention Regardless you shouldn’t care about why she does or doesn’t do something. That’s what women do. You should be focused on your mission and increasing your chances by talking to more women and forgetting about the ones that don’t give you what you want.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:14 AM
3

Bottom line: she doesn’t want to meet up she’s not interested in you. Either up your game or move on. You’re an orbiter to her and she’s probably using you for validation or attention.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:06 AM
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Try reading the manipulated man. But yeah, abundance is a big thing too. That and maybe patience. You don’t cure oneitis overnight, there is no “hack”. It slowly goes away as you meet more women and internalize AWALT. You’re a human, not a robot.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:52 PM
10

Honestly happy for you man. You had enough balls to do something a lot of men will never do.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:05 AM
4

Imo you won’t really find them (full blooded red pill guys) because they spend their time on their mission and not necessarily making friends. If you want to find more alpha guys though the gyms a good place to start. Talk to the bigger guys you can find and take interest in their shit. The 3 bigger dudes (bigger than me at least) I started talking to had their shit together (one of them introduced me to the red pill). We related over music/guitar and computer hardware so it was easy to keep a c…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:11 AM
15

Because they won’t take responsibility for their actions
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:51 AM
3

Be glad. Some people never start.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:33 PM
12

Good read. Man knows how to maintain frame and all this bitching makes it look like her whole focus is on him and breaking his moral frame.
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 04:44 AM
1

That you should defend people that are right, whether or not their beliefs align with yours. This post is ironically immature. We’re supposed to be composed enough not to let women’s childish opinions and behaviours get to us. We’re supposed to GYOW and be happy doing it. instead we’re worried about what women say on the internet and do with other men. Posts like these don’t develop us as men at all and defies the purpose of this sub (at least the purpose I joined the sub for). Just trying to co…
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 06:22 PM
0

Using any generally accepted variation of the term “mature” she’s still right
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 05:43 PM
0

She’s still right then
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 03:45 PM
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Correct
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:32 AM
0

I mean she’s not wrong. Some women never mature either.
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 01:15 AM
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Patience, one day at a time. Rome wasn’t built in a day. If any turd could go and get multiple chicks in a day then this sub wouldn’t exist. You will have plenty of chicks eventually, it just takes time. Shit like that gets me through it. I’m 20, working and in uni full time, and I’m still living at home to save cash so I don’t have time to talk to all these women (barely have time for gym) and it sucks when the one new girl I talk to doesn’t reciprocate positively. Then some of that shit I wrot…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:08 AM
2

Just keep losing and you’ll learn to get used to it. I lose all the time (school, games, hobbies, women, family, friends, etc). You just develop an “oh well” attitude. This one streamer I used to watch said “you win some you lose some” and now I say it all the time. (It’s funny when you lose most of them). Be proud. Some people don’t have balls to play at all.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:03 PM
6

I’d consider buying you drinks if you put on more foundation and talked less zZzZ
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 04:23 PM
1

Something along those lines is probably fine if this is an extended thing that’s been going on. - if you can’t respect my availability then this isn’t going to work out What’s probably better is to not explicitly say anything though. - stop responding to her contact as often or at all - laugh/ignore her request. Shrug it off like it’s nothing - A&A, be super sarcastic Pretend like you’re a 10/10 guy in every category. You think a 10/10 is even going to CONSIDER her input? Do you think a 10/10 ha…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:39 AM
2

Giving in is something I would have done (and probably did) in my old ltr before I came to the pill and maintaining frame is something I wish I knew to do more often and probably would have saved my old relationship tbh. Will she like you? Yeah maybe for a bit. Then she asks for more, and more, and then you’re whipped. Then she gets bored of you because you don’t stand up for yourself so cheats on you with chad or leaves you or both. This can happen over a long term period if you want that for a…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:19 AM
6

Maintain frame. You’re not going on dates because you don’t want to and would rather be home with your family. End of story. If she has a problem with that she can gtfo
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:50 AM
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A big part of the pill is not caring about how others see you because you’re sure of yourself. You’re blue pill because YOU know and believe it. Not anyone else. That being said we’re all a little bit of both. Red/blue pilled is more of a spectrum. You can be alpha and still show beta traits (and vice versa) some people just lie on one end more than the other. My family still thinks I’m gonna get married one day. I just laugh. I don’t care about what their perceived future of me is because I kno…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:56 PM
3

You’re giving her too much free attention. If you keep complimenting her and asking for her social media and stuff she gets all this validation for little effort Also asking when she’s free and working around her schedule is not good because you’re supposed to be busy with your mission and abundance mentality. If I were to arrange a meetup with a random girl online I’d say “hey I’m doing x on y at z. Would you want to come check it out?” Something very minimally interesting. Like an art museum, …
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:13 PM
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No. If you’re in a serious relationship it’s implied you’re exclusive. If you’re not satisfied in the relationship you man up and tell her that it’s not working out and then go fuck all the girls you want. If you’re not exclusive and it’s not serious then that’s different as it’s clear you’re both cool with you fucking whoever you want. Trp doesn’t justify/unjustify cheating but it does mention dread. I don’t think that(dreading) counts as cheating. Just my personal opinion. If you have the urge…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:36 PM
3

She’s not interested. As soon as she says “I’ll get back to you tomorrow” and doesn’t she’s not interested. If she was she would get back to you ASAP as it’s on the top of her mind. You should have stopped messaging her after this You messaging her asking if she made up her mind shows that you don’t have better things you could be doing. You should be filling that time slot with other girls or working on your mission when she hasn’t gotten back to you when she says she will Should mention I don’…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:16 AM
1

Just sounds like you need more confidence. Lift, make money, talk to girls, abundance mentality. Once you’re at the top you won’t care about opinions from the bottom. Having options makes confidence. Lifting, money, and girls gives you power and options. Imagine going up to a guy and being like “bro ur ugly as fuck 😂😂😂.” You think he gives a fuck about your opinion (whether it’s true or not) when he’s hooking up with a new bitch twice a day?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:12 PM
1

Well you know what you should do already. Just take it one step at a time. Log out of your YouTube to make more time for gym. Fix one meal at a time. Make a plan to visit one place this week. Etc, etc. You’re not where you want to be. Just take the first step in getting there
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:44 PM
17

Own it. You shouldn’t feel the need to lie. You shouldn’t hang up on her mid sentence either. Say you have to go and close the call
/r/askTRP16/06/19 11:56 PM
2

Just be patient. Yeah your life might be shit rn but there’s no rush. Keep working on yourself, keep lifting, keep gaming, and over time you’ll start winning from sheer numbers. Just gotta give it time. Results don’t come overnight
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:13 PM
48

You have 2 plates. You don’t need her. I wouldn’t give her anything. She left you for someone else.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:28 PM
2

The first week a lot of the redness went down, for you to actually notice pigmentation being lightened I think it was around the end of the first bottle. It is definitely working but the results are somewhat minimal (probably only you will notice for awhile) but again, it does work. Not for everyone though, the bottle costs around $80 CAD but there might be similar/cheaper stuff out there. If you’re impatient, broke, or dgaf about your scars/pigmentation then you should probably pass on it. You …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:07 PM
11

Vichy vitamin c serum (20% concentrate) helps lighten acne scars but has taken awhile to get noticeable results. I also started taking zinc (25mg daily) for acne prevalence but also changing pillow sheets more often has also reduced acne by a lot. Starting to learn more about teeth, I’m using an arm&hammer pro sensitive toothpaste that’s made from mostly baking soda and it’s gotten rid of morning breath. My friend recommends a mouthwash and occasional white strips to promote whiteness.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 02:21 AM
2

Sounds like a lot to take on at once. If you’re feeling overwhelmed drop one thing at a time instead of quitting your journey. Also recommend taking more hours at work and saving up some cash. Try to find some more hobbies, musics one of my favourites but if I had time I’d get into self defence. Should also be getting 8 hours of sleep for optimal gains.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:38 PM
5

Accept that others are gonna do better than you. You shouldn’t be jealous, you should be proud of them. As for yourself, be patient. You may be able to reach a lot of your goals but not in the timeframe you wish. Empires aren’t built overnight. As for the thoughts, try a vitamin D supplement or getting more sun. Those are pretty good mood boosters for me.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:22 PM
1

Usually try to aim for x3 full body a week but it usually varies around 2-6 times depending on how much time I have that week. Each workout lasts around 30-60 mins Not the best routine for gains but really good if you’re short on time and can’t hit the gym every day.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:02 PM
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I wanted to make a post on this too but more generalized for bathroom routines (things like hair care, teeth, skin, etc) I’m told the best is cutthroat razor, but is very dangerous. It’s the cheapest (long term) but requires blade maintenance and A LOT of practice. It will give you the closest shave though and allows the most maneuverability. I personally use a DE safety razor (Merkur futur) with feather razors (I haven’t tried any other DE razors or blades) and the shave is A LOT closer than my…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:28 PM
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Not that I’ve been in this exact situation or have much experience with plating yet but this just sounds like oneitis with more steps and a lack of abundance mentality. You dumped your first LTR to work on yourself (good thing) and then went back to her to get her to break up with her bf to be with you. ie you weren’t consistent in your emotions (bad thing) Then new chick rolls along and isn’t cute enough for you so things drop off and apparently she’s cuter now so that changes EVERYTHING (sarca…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:14 PM
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For mindset changes you should be reading. I’d start with the book of pook but the manipulated man also helped me helped shape my perspective on women. Lifting, plating are also good and things you should be doing (will help you build confidence) but reading really helped improve my mindset. Also accept that the thoughts won’t go away over night. You have to be consistently working towards your goals. Read the sidebar and remember, YOU ARE THE PRIZE!
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:26 PM
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Not as good but still pretty good with the right diet. There’s not as much resistance so you won’t build as much strength as a lifter. But you’re still putting in a lot of work and tiring your muscles so you are still making some gains. Proper diet should help make those gains optimal. Recommend doing both though
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:58 PM
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Abundance mentality. Just because you aren’t getting any now doesn’t mean you’re not getting any later. Focus on your own shit, be patient, your HB7-10’s will come later. Probably want to make sure you don’t have oneitis either. Other than that it’s up to you. We shouldn’t hold you back on who you want to fuck
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:58 PM
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I originally started taking vitamin d to help me stay awake but it didn’t really help with that. It did improve my mood though, supplement is really good in Canada where there isn’t much sun during the colder months. It’s getting brighter/warmer now but I’ll still take 1000 IU/day. For staying awake just moving from 6 up to 8 hours of sleep/night is a dramatic improvement with lot of things (focus, gains, mood, etc). I will keep an eye on zinc though, found a post on trp from awhile ago recommen…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:02 PM
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You sound like guy #1. You’re content but lack drive. A big drive booster for guys is by increasing your testosterone. You can do this by Lifting, lowering intake of artificial sugar, increase vitamin d/sunlight. Try no fap/no porn, get 8 hours of sleep, drink 1 gallon of water/day, don’t drink alcohol excessively. Start by doing one of these at a time and seeing if they make a significant impact on your life. I’m trying to increase intake of zinc, omega 3, and magnesium as well but I can’t say …
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:31 PM
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Simply I’d say there are 2 things that can help classify those that work on themselves and those who don’t: You are 100% happy where you are You have the drive to get closer to where you want to be If you’re happy where you are but you’re not driven to achieve, you get comfortable. Good example is the alpha who gets ltrd and stops lifting, having friends etc. Why should he climb? His ltr makes him happy If you’re unhappy and have goals you want to achieve you will do whatever it takes to achieve…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:23 PM
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The way I see it is her phone calls deserve more attention than you. Sometimes they do matter like family or possibly work but if it’s some random she doesn’t care to fill you in on she’s not really respecting you. As for what to do about it I can’t really give much of a heartfelt opinion bc I don’t have experience plating (yet). I’d stop giving her attention though. You gave her attention already and she decided to spend it on the phone for seemingly non urgent issues. You have plenty of other …
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:27 AM
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Quickly ask yourself “what’s the worst that could happen?” And make the decision If I’m gonna miss my bus and wait an hour just to “maybe” get something from her then fuck that lmao I value my time more than some random If the class is boring then fuck it, go talk to her, if the class means more to you then oh well idgaf there’s other chicks out there and this class is more important to me You’re hanging with your friends and she’s over there chilling? Lmao talk to your friends when she rejects …
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:30 AM
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Girls probably won’t throw themselves at you unless you’re famous (ie public display of high SMV) Sounds like you’ve come a long way though, should probably start/continue talking to/meeting chicks and putting a little effort in. Remember your mission though, should always be your priority over women
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:41 PM
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Find things you like to do and/or want to do and meet people in those groups. If you like playing music go to a place that teaches music and see if they have any groups/events If you like concerts, do some searching for local stuff If you like reading check out the library If you like dancing, go there You’re probably lifting, talk to people at the gym See if there’s events at the gym you can go to meet people I’m in school, I sit beside random people and talk to them before/after class I work a…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:34 PM
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Trying to work on this too. Goal right now is to constantly try new things. New music, food, workout routines, events at uni, read different stuff from the sidebar, try meditation, boxing, new skin products, skydiving, talk to old and new friends and try to hang out and do new things together, etc etc etc. Helps keep my mind at ease, even if it’s only for a bit.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:22 PM
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Besides the sidebar? First trp book I read was the book of pook. Don’t forget to lift
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:13 PM
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There’s a lot that goes into “looks” You can “look” dependable by having money things (nice car, nice clothes, etc) You can “look” strong by lifting You can “look” interesting by having a good social life You can “look” like a great catch by showing abundance Women care less about looks (in men) than men (care about looks in women), and men can do a lot more about their “looks” than women can. Be realistic though, strictly based on looks a natural 10/10 guy just has better odds with women than t…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:17 PM
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You’re not getting your life together for women, you’re doing it for yourself. Women are a byproduct. They might not like average guys but your goal shouldn’t be to be average. You’re supposed to keep improving until your SMV is high enough where you can pick whoever you want (realistically) Lift, work, study, sidebar
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:38 PM
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Question: if you’re setting up a date then do you pay? Is it better if you don’t pay? Does anything change if she offers to pay? Should you only be paying if you are having sex? Where’s the line drawn between being over invested and leading her around? (Or does the rule of 2/3 be loosely applied everything)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 10:34 PM
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Yes, make sure you keep your protein intake up and get lots of sleep.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:33 PM
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Read the manipulated man.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:41 PM
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Yes, still learning how to reddit. Pt 1 answers the question a lot better, having a lot to talk about doesn’t make you attractive. Talking about yourself and your life and what you’re doing etc etc gets exhausting, instead you want her to open up and talk to you, have her chase you, not be her entertainment for the evening. Will do some more reading. Ty for the posts
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 08:24 PM
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Where’s pt1? Also, how could one use this to generate attraction?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:48 PM
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I used to be super sore after taking a hot shower from the gym, cold shower helped but now I don’t notice it as much. You could also take a hot shower and rinse with cold before you get out and it does the same thing. A warm shower helps open your pores for a clean shave though. I don’t think hot or cold has affected my gains enough to notice.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:45 PM
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Idea 1 Just take it one step at a time. Change your mindset from “I feel like shit, I’m gonna skip the gym today” to “maybe I’ll just go for 20 mins.” “I don’t feel like practicing day game today” to “maybe I’ll just try talking to one chick.” “Not going to practice guitar today” to “maybe I’ll just noodle for 10 mins.” Maybe you’ll change your mind to finish what you started doing maybe not, but the fact that you got your ass to go to the gym to do one set of bench is better than sitting at hom…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:19 PM
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Will get started on those ASAP. Thank you for the insight and encouragement
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:25 PM
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Yeahh Im working on the reading, theres at least 30 links here and A LOT more on the actual trp subreddit (literally 16 full books just under the theory reading and i dont even see the "book of pook" or "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" linked anywhere) Hopefully I have most of it read by the time im in my thirties as a lot of my time is eaten up my school, work, working out, and commuting. I just thought I'd have more to show from working up from when i started over a year ago to this point…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:31 PM
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I won’t unfriend her but for future reference, how would unfriending her show that I’m bitter? I can understand if I unfriend her after she straight up rejects me but we never fought or anything, I’m just not interested in being on standby as a second option for when Chad from tinder is done using her up. In what way am I showing emotional attachment? Is there anything you can recommend for generating a push/pull dynamic? Sidebar or otherwise? I’m just a little frustrated because this is the thi…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:46 PM
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How am I showing obsession here? The 2 times were initiated by me and the 3rd I decided wasn’t worth the effort because I don’t believe she was showing enough interest. Your response doesn’t give me any steps to improve. If it’s already “doomed” did I fuck up somewhere? Did I do too much or too little? What should I be looking to do better next time?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:16 PM
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In the meantime, I’m gonna work on myself and improve my game with other women but I don’t want her to think I’m gonna sit and wait for her to get back to me after she’s gotten bored with whoever she’s on tinder with. Is it too much to unfriend her on everything? (She did send the request first, I did recently unmatch with her on tinder since our conversations got moved to Facebook and Snapchat)
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:21 AM
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One of the harder concepts I’m trying to grasp is the idea of taking initiative, leading, and doing whatever I want while also not coming off as needy and BP. Like if we’re walking around I’m not gonna wait for her to take my hand and lead me and I’m going to always grab her hand first. If we’re just getting food and chilling, I’m gonna lead the conversation with whatever’s going on in my life (the interesting stuff like concerts and skydiving), especially when I’ve tried giving her room to talk…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:07 AM
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Thank you for the encouragement. I’ll definitely be paying more attention for applying kino and doing some more reading into shit tests. Do you have any recommendations on where to start? Sidebar or otherwise?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:50 AM
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So as of right now I’m right to assume she’s not interested. I have no reason to contact her for another date.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:44 AM
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In other words, I’ve got the general idea and I just need experience to fill in the gaps. Nothing about what I did stands out as a big mistake?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:40 AM
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