Hey guys, I'm feeling very low in my life today and need some advice and encouraging words.

I'm 2 years out of university and I've been making 80-90k in the past year so I had been doing pretty okay money wise. I've also been dating a girl for around a year. We progressed very slowly from no touch to holding hands and cuddling to doing more sexual stuff but I was always the one to initiate and it always felt like the girl didn't want me. After waiting for almost a year and getting very little affection, one day as I was walking with her and noticed many couples holding hands, I tried holding her hand too and she quietly just kept it in her pockets, trying to avoid holding my hand. I decided enough is enough and wanted a no BS explanation from the girl and she finally admitted that she was never into me sexually but maybe because she has some other issues in her life which made her that way. I broke up with her shortly after and it tore me to shreds as I was emotionally attached to this girl and it meant a lot to me. This was 2 months ago.

I've also been working super hard on my career and couple of weeks ago, I got a job which pays in the mid-upper 100's range with expected progression to mid 300's in about 5 - 7 years. I hoped that once I achieve this I would share it with her and celebrate together but I can't anymore.

I've received advice in the past about investing in the gym and working out but I've been investing most of my time in trying to get this job because of the impact it will have on my overall life for a long time.

Today, I went to a party at my cousin's and didn't have a good time. All the girls that I tried talking to were disinterested in even holding a conversation which is why I'm feeling very bad right now despite other parts of my life working out nicely. I thought that if I get my career sorted, I wouldn't be lonely but I'm feeling as low as ever.