XxLongoTxX Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
154	Too many women want a father, not a husband.	CMV	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:32 PM
44	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date?	Question For Women	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 04:43 PM
11	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?	Question For Women	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 06:28 PM
9	Ladies, have you ever turned down a guy because you wanted him to try harder to get you, and if yes how does no mean no?	Question For Women	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 09:23 PM
5	Assuming the table represents the relationship itself and we’re talking about a man and woman then what should each bring to the table?	Discussion	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:06 PM
1	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents	CMV	XxLongoTxX	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:26 AM

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1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Then in the situation that the wife and husband separate and the wife doesn’t get alimony why should the problem of being a stay at home parent be an issue? Like I said you can be a single income household and then they would get alimony since the bread maker would make enough that it would be viable. If they’re a two income household then they should split work 50/50 at home and then the alimony won’t be an issue since they both make an income so it won’t need to apply. Your issue is bringing u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 02:46 AM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Of course most men aren’t millionaires, but those in the single income families nowadays are more likely to be due to the increased cost of living https://www.marseelaw.com/gender-and-alimony-who-gets-it-who-pays-it-whats-changing/#:~:text=Today%2C%20it%20is%20far%20less,is%20closer%20to%2010%20percent. You’re definitely correct on the percentage of people who receive alimony. But there’s ways they calculate whether someone should or shouldn’t get alimony. The decreased rate of alimony is also d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 07:47 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Of course, and if they need money then it’s only right to work for it in one way or another. The trade off of having a husband who can provide a life for you that allows you to not have to work is in turn taking on the responsibility of the majority of house work. Traditionally the work still left to the man is making repairs and yard work. If the house you have is too large to reasonably expect a single person to keep alone then you would presumably be able to afford a maid cleaning service onc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:20 AM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. There’s a father role and a mother role. The father traditionally provides income for the family while the mother role does house keep and food prep. Wanting each person to fill their role isn’t really a bad thing, the issue is when someone wants someone to fill that role without filling their role. This goes for men and women. If you are providing enough of an income for your partner to be a stay at home partner, then you’re doing your job. Usually the trade off is you have to mow the lawn and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 12:43 AM
1	Are single fathers attractive to women? Yeah, this was when I was living in a more well off neighborhood. Probably a few of those parents who just assume the worst of everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:52 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. I totally agree. I dislike how America thinks you need to work yourself to death for an income and you’re selfish for caring about your body and family. I wish we could change it but I don’t have that power. Maybe if someone who did started to care about that then maybe we could see a law put in place to raise minimum required PTO and sick leave but I doubt it’ll happen anytime soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:51 PM
2	Are single fathers attractive to women? I’m fairly average overall, I’ve always gotten along with kids since I’m the oldest of 5 myself. I just say sure and push them like I do my own kids. I try to be more gentle with them since I’m fairly rough on my own girls so they don’t end up crying from someone just poking them. They fall and scuff themselves up pretty regularly because they’re tomboyish and I don’t see anything wrong with it. But I’m definitely not going to be rough with anyone else’s kids without knowing their parenting styl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:40 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Fair enough, though that does bring up another issue of whether women should or shouldn’t be treated equally at work. Now that sounds bad but think about this, at least in the us a lot of jobs only give so much time off a year paid if you’re lucky, and only allow you to take so much time off without pay. After that you’re penalized. If let’s say a woman had particularly bad period cramps they would either have to take sick time off, taking away from their non paid time, or take PTO every month f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:33 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. No lol it’s someone that’s supposed to clean and cook and make life in genera a little more comfortable at home for the working spouse. If they can’t do that, then they need to get a job to contribute to the house in some way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:22 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Yes I agree that there’s plenty of men who aren’t fit to be husbands or fathers just as there plenty of women who aren’t fit to be wives or mothers. 7 million out of 162.4 million isn’t that bad statistically. That’s only 4.3 percent. Btw the statistic is actually 3.34 million for men and 3.31 million for women. https://www.statista.com/statistics/193261/unadjusted-monthly-number-of-unemployed-men-in-the-us/ This one is for men statista.com/statistics/193264/unadjusted-monthly-number-of-unemploy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:20 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. It’s a fenced in back yard that has little to no dangers. You act like generations on generations of kids weren’t allowed outside alone like this or if you’re like me and my wife just straight up locked outside and told not to come in unless we needed to use the bathroom. Our water came from the hose and we had fun still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:14 PM
7	Too many women want a father, not a husband. My wife and I both agree that home keeping is MUCH easier than having a job. Cleaning, cooking and watching the kids isn’t that hard. You don’t need to have a constant eye on the kids 24/7 there about half of your time you can leave the kids to their own devices because helicopter parenting is bad parenting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:45 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. True, I feel it’s a mix of failed fathers and absent fathers seeing the rate of that rise drastically over the last 20 years	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:43 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. No I’m saying you’re using what you do as a basis for everyone else. Your setting the standard you want everyone else to live up to as if it should be natural. Single parents have it harder because they have to both work and clean. You’re making it sound like you think that just because someone else can do it, that everyone else should do it. Is a hard working parent supposed to expect their spouse that doesn’t work go to their job on the weekend and do some of it for them? The whole trade off o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:19 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. That’s great that you’re able to do that, but that’s the standard you set for yourself. Don’t just expect everyone to do that. It’s like bill gates wondering why there aren’t more people starting incredibly successful businesses from their moms garage cuz he did it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:11 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Or, or, the wife could be understanding that he just worked a 10 hour or longer shift and may be so physically and mentally exhausted that something small like that didn’t cross his mind. OR BETTER YET! Just be decent people and understand that both husband and wife can make mistakes and COMMUNICATION is important. Talking not nagging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:02 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. That’s a dangerous mindset. You really see taking care of your own house and kids as slavery? Jesus Christ, calm down with the victim mindset before you abuse your kids for asking for food because they’re you’re oppressors or some crap. Being a mother and a wife means taking care of your family. Just the same as a father and husband. In traditional houses with HEALTHY relationship (which I know may be a foreign concept for you) don’t give a shit about doing chores and making food, they don’t car…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 06:53 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. You’ve been commenting on pretty much every comment I make. You REALLY must have a chip on your shoulder about this and idk why. You refuse to see that healthy relationships exist and see that while yes divorce happens, the women get alimony. They get child support. They get a lot of benefits for leaving and that’s why you need a prenuptial. If you build the wealth together then fine she’s owed half. But if you marry a millionaire and expect him to give up half of his fortune offer a handful of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 06:50 PM
6	Too many women want a father, not a husband. So you mean to tell me that if let’s say the man stayed home, he should expect his hard working wife to come home and clean and cook along with him because house work is soooooo hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 06:47 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. You’re completely missing the whole issue. Idk why you decided to avoid the topic of, why is it expected to have a traditional husband but not be a traditional wife, and also ignore the fact I said I have no issue with people being in 50/50 relationships and went straight for attacking me personally? Do you not have anything constructive to add or are you just trying to discredit my viewpoint by saying “you said this, or you’re broke, or you’re just whining so it doesn’t count”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 06:41 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Both men and women bag on the opposite sex far too much. I know you’ve heard someone say “men ain’t shit” at least once lol. I don’t think it’s ok to be hating eachother so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 05:27 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. You’re both mentally Ill. I make more money than my wife currently. She also has over 20,000 in student debt and I do just as much as she does with taking care of the kids. Neither of you seem to be in a relationship or have kids and sound like you need to helicopter parent which is bad parenting. You also seem to assume that I’m taking advantage of my partner on absolutely no basis. You assume that since I’m in college I don’t also have a full time job. You assume that since I have my kids play…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 05:10 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. And what of the women who live off of men? Most of those relationships are perfectly fine until the woman decides she wants more and divorces the man for something or someone else. 60 percent of divorce is started by the woman, 80 percent when the woman is college educated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 05:02 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Yes, but my mom and siblings also do, and I don’t get them anything since I can’t afford that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:54 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. No not in the slightest. Currently we have a 50:50 relationship because I don’t make enough for her to be a housewife, which she wants to do. I teach the kids how to cook, and how to clean. I help with homework and with teaching them how to clean themselves etc. why would you assume that I just leave everything to my wife? You don’t need to watch them 24/7. My back yard is fenced in and the kids have been self sufficient for a while. My 5 year old daughter can make food for herself and her siste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:54 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Yes she works, and I help with housework. We split things 50/50 until I’m out of college and get a job making enough for her to be a housewife which is why she wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:48 PM
3	Too many women want a father, not a husband. What? Idk where you even got any of that from. My wife agrees with my views on this matter and I don’t hate my wife in any way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:46 PM
0	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Bare minimum of self care? Man you must not be that great with time management. That or you don’t trust your kids enough to take a shower. I can put my kids in the back yard to play while I take a shower, wash the dishes, clean the living room and they’ll be just fine. Parenting for me is passive because it allows them to solve their own problems and use their imagination. Btw my kids are 5 and 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:45 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Some crappy guys yes, not all guys, just like the group of women I talk about who want men to be daddies they can only sometimes sleep with and not have to do anything is only some women. I’m addressing the problematic people, not women as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:44 PM
5	Too many women want a father, not a husband. No not really. My point in my post is that if one person can make enough to provide for the other, then the one being provided for should do the housework. I used man and woman examples because that’s generally how it had always gone and is only more recently shifting to the opposite. Which in those cases those relationships more often than not fail due to an ingrained idea that the man shouldn’t have to ask the wife for money and should get them gifts. The man in that situation would have to us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:42 PM
3	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Yes I would, if I were done for and a woman or man (I’m bi) who was somewhat attractive said “I make 75 k (or more or something around that anyway) and I want you to move in with me.” I’d jump on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:28 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Agreed, like I said it isn’t the problem of avoiding them. The problem is they’re spreading that idea. And it’s pretty obvious that they is inferring to the women who have these beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:24 PM
-5	Too many women want a father, not a husband. If you make enough money to comfortably live without the need of someone else’s income then why not? What’s the point of them having a job if you can easily provide for both of you? He’d be better off supporting you and your career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:23 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. It is for some people. They may be joking but many jokes has some fact in it. I highly doubt these women would say no to a man who makes enough to live that lifestyle if they got along well. (So long as they were single anyway)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:21 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Idk about you but I don’t make enough to buy presents for anyone but my wife and kids. We live paycheck to paycheck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:20 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. As a parent myself (and yes my wife agrees with this, we’ve had this conversation before) parenting and taking care of the house is MUCH easier than a job. We both agree on the views I’ve voiced here and I’m not suggesting the dad just goes to work, comes home and ignores the kids. That’s just being a shitty dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:19 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. True, but there are women out there who will settle with someone they find unattractive because they want the money more. It happens all the time. That isn’t to say tons of women are like that, but there’s enough that most unattractive rich men can still find attractive women to sleep with because enough of them want it. I think you’re misinterpreting my problem. People that expect too much for little in return is the issue. If you want a man to play the “dad” role and provide and protect them t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:17 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Never seen the show lol. Saw little bits here and there when my grandma watched but beyond that no. These are things I’m getting from real women while I’m at work or socializing with my wife. Some of the more extreme examples are from social media but I know they’re outliers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:12 PM
1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Of course, but that’s what babysitters and child care is for. If the man is making enough that the woman doesn’t have to work, they should be able to afford a babysitter once or twice a week for the parents to have me time and go on a date or whatever. These are all little things that get brought up along the relationship. Things like “I’m exhausted! I need me time! I need to not constantly be a mom” The dad says ok thanks for telling me, and takes some money out of savings to pay for child care…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:11 PM
10	Too many women want a father, not a husband. No I totally agree it’s unfair! If a man is the only one working then the wife shouldn’t complain about having to do all the housework. But if both of them have to work they should split the housework. Just keep things even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:08 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. True, but the problem is that they’re promoting the whole idea that you SHOULD find a man like that and that every women deserves a man like that. And that if he expects them to do housework in exchange that he’s the toxic one. It isn’t a super large group of women who are asking for this exact thing but the group is growing the more they expose these ideas to younger girls and tell them this is what they should want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:04 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. I doubt many of them would turn down a decently attractive man who said “I make 75k a year (which in our area is easily enough to cover all the bills and then some) and I’d love for you to move in with me.” There’s no issue with having someone provide for you so long as both parties are happy. The issue comes when you complain about problems that are part of the role you signed up for. “My wife is always tired” yeah cuz she spends all day cleaning the house, maybe hire a maid service once a week…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 04:02 PM
5	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Have I asked? No. Have they flat out said “I don’t want to have to make money anymore, where’s a man I can find to pay my bills?” Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:56 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. I never said it was a gotcha, at the end I even said that how you have your relationship is up to you. If you want a protector provider man then you should play the complimentary house are part. If you’re progressive then don’t do that and split the housework. You don’t have to have the first type of relationship, it’s just that in areas like California and New York where the price of living is higher, more and more women are asking for a man who can pay for everything while still wanting the pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:55 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. It is realistic, but only in certain areas or with certain jobs. Where I live the average income is only 30,000 a year. That’s just in Michigan. If I were to say, become a welder and make 30 an hour starting pay, I could reasonably pay for all of my bills and my wife wouldn’t have to work anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:52 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Good point, I’m not sure if I properly addressed it but I don’t think you should be doing those types of things if your partner has to work too. If the man is the only one working, then often times they have an incredibly exhausting job that they work around 60 hours a week at. The wife could understandably take care of a left out plate from time to time. While it would be simple manners for the guy to take care of it, I feel the picking up clothes and taking back the dishes is a small price to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:51 PM
-1	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Of course, the purpose of the post is to catch attention to get the conversation going. While they aren’t EVERYWHERE, there’s enough that it’s starting to be a problem in some areas. I don’t think wanting a man to provide and protect is an issue, so long as you play the complimentary part to that role and take care of the household chores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:48 PM
2	Too many women want a father, not a husband. For clarification these are views from real women that I interact with. Either from work, out socializing with my wife, or at things like family reunions. While some of the more extreme examples are from social media. I don’t think it’s wrong to want a partner to provide for you, I just think that if you want someone else to pay all your bills, you should take care of the house. It seems like an even trade off to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:46 PM
13	Too many women want a father, not a husband. Of course, dating is all about vetting people so you get with the type of women/ men you prefer. There are tons of selfish women but from what I’ve seen (social media so that’s probably super biased) they tend to be in richer areas like California and New York. They expect a lot for little in return. Just as common, if not more so in places like Michigan and Wisconsin where the price of living isn’t so high, are women who are completely normal and wish for a partnership instead of a provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:40 PM
1	Are single fathers attractive to women? I feel this works in the same way many things do and it really depends on your level of attractiveness. Hot guy with kids is a perfect 10, ugly/ fat guy with kids is questioned as in where their mother is and is kept an eye on so they don’t kidnap someone or potentially hurt a kid. Society sucks sometimes but it’s an experience many fathers have had to deal with. I’ve both had mothers talk to me about how adorable my girls are and how I’m a great dad, and had parents side eye me for pushing my g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 03:37 PM
5	Assuming the table represents the relationship itself and we’re talking about a man and woman then what should each bring to the table? AW FUCK	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:18 PM
5	Assuming the table represents the relationship itself and we’re talking about a man and woman then what should each bring to the table? I’m thoroughly enjoying these responses. People seem to be rational and expect from their partners what they expect to put into the relationship. I haven’t seen anyone claiming the weird crap like “I am the table” or anything like that. Cudos to everyone here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:12 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Well where I live 19 an hour isn’t bad. Michigans average is only 30,000 a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:45 PM
1	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Personally it’s because I’ve seen videos talking about it and I wanted to know the validity of said videos. Best way to do that was to ask all of you lovey ladies what your opinions on the matter is. I’m going to do whatever I want to because that’s how I’ve always done. I just find it endlessly entertaining to see how people interact with eachother and why they do/ think why they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:36 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? The problem with that is that people say that what’s inside is what matters when most people won’t give someone a chance if they don’t meet other criteria first such as looks or income respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:14 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Way I work my bills is I have a plan for each paycheck. First and foremost x amount of money is taken for whatever bills are upcoming, the rest is assumed to be for food and gas. If I have extra then I can get something fun but I try to save for emergencies. Problem is even working 12 hour shifts as a security guard making 19 an hour doing just over 40 hours a week I still live just barely over paycheck to paycheck..	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:59 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? The context is because many people just live to live especially men. Plenty of guys out there who make less than 50k a year and are happy because they enjoy their job or the people they work with and don’t struggle at all. Beyond that why do you need excess? Or that’s a fair consensus among many guys. Why do you think so many guys see nothing wrong with having a tv on the floor and 2 bean bags for furniture? It doesn’t take a lot to make us happy and having a lower income is fine for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:55 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Idk the responses here tell another story to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:51 AM
0	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Relationships are just transactions. I believe that wholeheartedly. Courting is a man spending money to impress the woman. It’s essentially a bidding war with the added caveat of attraction. You could have one person bid 100k a year and another bit 120k but give it to the lower bidder if they’re hotter. Dating is a financial transaction more often than. Not in the modern dating sphere and it has no rules as to what is and isn’t acceptable. Some women say you should never cold approach them, some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:46 AM
2	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Then women are nothing if they won’t fuck me whenever I want because screw your misandrist opinion. See how closed minded that sounds? Essentially saying “their opinions and feelings don’t matter because I don’t care” is what makes the guys you seem to dislike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:28 AM
3	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Yeah that’s pretty much how things work. The problem is everyone lies. Everyone says it’s the inside that matters when we all know that the outside matters far more. If I got fat or my wife got fat we’ve both been honest and said we’d have to lose the weight or we wouldn’t date each other anymore. We aren’t hiding our preferences out of love, we tell the other how it is so we don’t have to fake it because of what we used to have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:26 AM
4	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Some women want maniacs, idk the psychology behind it but the evidence is how popular stories about murderers are and how at least Ted Bundy (if that’s the right one) used to get love letters from “fans” in prison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:18 AM
3	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Because it’s not like you can just hand women off. Many women would see that as pure objectification or suggesting that those women aren’t worth the other guys time. Idk if either of those opinions would be true but there’s always something nut to offend people when you do something like tell them no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:15 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? I make nothing near six figures and own a home lol. But I’m seeing a pattern emerge that people have argued with me in past posts don’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 01:12 AM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Is that on the low or high end? Because if it’s high then that severely limits your potential dating pool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:49 PM
2	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Michigan, the average is 30,723 a year	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:46 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Lol definite baby face for sure, I’m 27 and if I shave I can pass as 16. I just need a skin care routine and maybe go to a barber to actually get my beard going in the right direction. I have stuff wt home but have no clue what to do with it besides guess since I don’t have a dad. But that’s nothing a little money and a trip to the barber can’t solve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:38 PM
4	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? I get that mindset, but with my wife and I we just see our money as the family money. We don’t have our own money. We wanna go on vacation? Do we have enough in savings for it? A date? Sure I’m getting my check this Friday let’s go. Our money is our money, we rarely ever bring up who brings in more money and if she gets her book published and makes good royalties imma ride that out with her and she knows it and is planning for it. She is of the same mind as me on the whole, no matter who makes t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:36 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Ok that makes much more sense lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:28 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Sweet mother of, do you live in California or New York? I’m in Michigan and average is 30,723 a year. Edit: I’m talking about the average not your requirement because the average is something I’d accept depending on location.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:22 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? I guess a 4 depends on how your grading scale goes. I’ve seen women rate literal male models as fives so I figured a 4 would look something like me. Im fairly average in height (5 foot 8) weight (178) build (small dad bod tummy but otherwise in good shape, was in the marines so I thank that for being in decent shape) and facial build. <image> This is me and I’d say I’m around a 3 on a bad day and a 5 on a good. Use this as a base or suggest your own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:20 PM
2	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Sorry you had to go through that. Im sure plenty of people here, men and women alike can relate to being in that kind or relationship. It’s sad people like that are out there and so willing to hurt someone they claim to love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:14 PM
9	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? Respect for not trying to hide your requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:08 PM
0	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? What happened with the last one that makes you say never again if you don’t mind me asking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 06:45 PM
0	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? What about not having a college education and doing construction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 06:38 PM
3	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Of course, that makes complete sense, but I’m taking like 100,000 US dollars a year type of income. I wouldn’t doubt most normal women would be fine with 50,000 or least even though the average is low 30,000 a year for income for men in the us. But if a woman has good income and expects to have a man who can make around as much if not more she’s severely limiting her dating pool due to an unnecessary rule. You should be living below your means especially if you have that kind of money. No need t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 05:33 PM
5	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Lol usually other teenagers. It’s like how I don’t piss of my coworkers if I can help it because I gotta see them almost daily. A “don’t shit where you sleep/work” scenario. I try to get along with everyone but it obviously doesn’t always work. Work would suck if everyone was a smoker and ostracized me for not smoking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:37 PM
5	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Exactly. The problem is the women who say they’re ok with a man who makes less but the man still has to make above a certain threshold to be considered. They say it shows drive and confidence and other things to have a good job but when you make enough for a family to easily live off of you just need someone who can keep the house and watch the kids for you. Along with being a great match as a partner of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:33 PM
5	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? It is, it’s a social stigma they’re giving eachother over not putting out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:31 PM
2	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? I think he may need therapy to see why he feels failure when his family is being provided for. From my perspective as long as my family can comfortably live I’m good with it no matter which of us makes the money. The shifts are long but luckily I only have to work 3 days a week with the 4 day week every other week I could get extra shifts if I wanted but we aren’t hurting for money so no need to take away the time I have with my kids for some extra toys. And I cherish every second I get with my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:30 PM
0	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? That’s interesting seeing as most men I know love tall women. Maybe it’s a cultural thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:24 PM
4	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? That’s something I’m learning late in life. I didn’t have a dad and nobody in my family gave me any advice except my mom who made me get a factory job right out of high school because I didn’t know what I wanted to do right that moment. Ever since then all she’s ever told me was that I needed to go to work. And yeah home life is easy. Keeping an eye on the kids. Can be a handful sometimes but I cook, I clean, I entertain, I tech, I guide and I have fun. Idk what kind of home life you have but ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:23 PM
3	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? The issue is that they’re still limiting themselves. They need to make around what the woman does. A rich man will Mary the McDonald’s cashier if she’s cute and has the wifey properties they’re looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:17 PM
2	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Your dad is a crappy guy. Nobody should force their loved one to close down what they enjoy doing especially if they’re successful for their broken pride. I won’t say sorry because that just shitty behavior as a partner and is setting a bad precedent as a parent. I play with my kids, teach them to cook and play with them when I can, but I work 12 hour shifts as a security guard on night shift so my time with them is pretty limited. I’d love to either work enough that my wife can provide the prop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:16 PM
1	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? That’s a fair stance to have, and that’s great! I sincerely hope you find someone that fits your criteria. But what’s wrong with someone wanted a housewife? What’s wrong with someone wanting to be a housewife? I mean there’s people that want both so if they get together what’s wrong with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:10 PM
5	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Oh I know that, I have two toddlers and a house. My wife and I split things 50/50 and the only reason I don’t make enough is that I’m indecisive. Idk what I want to do for a living so I’ve never gone to college or started a proper career path.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:52 PM
2	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? So the guys won’t resent you for making more. The guys that will are just crappy guys in the first place. If my wife was the bread winner and I didn’t have to work I’d love it! I’d be able to spend time with my kids and teach them how to cook, clean, fix things, build stuff, take them to the beach and park, etc. Idk why any decent guy would resent their partner making more unless you were holding it over their head for dumb stuff like complaining why you should pay for the date even if you’re ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:50 PM
0	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Maybe, but I find it better to undervalue myself a little when it’s more realistic a woman might grade me as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:42 PM
1	Being a traditional women does not benefit women I believe if a woman stays traditional it’ll be much easier to attract the type of men you would want considering that the modern women are everywhere and the traditional s seem to be the diamond in the rough nowadays. Or you can do what one woman did: She decided she wanted to marry a dentist, applied as a dental assistant or desk clerk and hit on the dentists until she caught one’s eye. Now she stays home and does the stereotypical housewife stuff and is loving it. She also loves her husband o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:40 PM
6	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Of course I would be. I’m interested in the facts so if it turned out someone went out and got videos of them doing the same thing but it came back the opposite I’d be talking about both videos or if the other was the only one then I’d be talking only about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:24 PM
3	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Of course, but what’s wrong with living off of one? You don’t need to work, you just take care of the house, hell, having kids isn’t even something that’s guaranteed. All you gotta do is keep the house nice and make food. Beyond that you’d be golden. I know that sounds like a good life to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:23 PM
8	Being a traditional women does not benefit women So from what I understand is there’s 2 types of men who want a traditional wife. The men who are willing to work long hours at hard jobs to make the money necessary to allow their wife to never have to work and are willing to fix things, teach the kids the usual dad stuff and do the yard work. Men who haven’t grown up and want a new mom to do everything for them and still work. I think the second type of men don’t deserve a traditional wife until they reach what the first type of man can do. You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:00 PM
8	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? True, but he does have women and men who have differing opinions. I mean at that point what is a credible source? Because we all know that pretty much every news source is biased to one side or the other. So I can only really find someone I think I can trust. I want to trust him. I know I can’t trust fresh and fit because literally ALL the women they talk to bar a few rare sane ones are just crazies who want Ryan Reynolds’s and expect all men to fit his standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:52 PM
12	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? That is true, I haven’t heard of the opposite where they’re fine with a man who makes less or nothing even. But I have heard of the woman who wants a man who makes more. So my opinion may be biased. It’s not like I took a poll on it myself. Though the data on average men and women is fairly clear. Height, attraction, and money, are all the main determining factors in most women’s “must haves” for dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:49 PM
5	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? I feel that. I’m married but her friends and coworkers have said I’m more attractive than they were expecting lol but I still say I’m a 3, up to a 5 on a good day. I’m not a guy that attracts the ladies (which is relevant cuz my relationship is open) and I’m fine with that. It hurts a little but it doesn’t matter too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:20 PM
13	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Well ok then, I suppose anything I say is just out the window. Thanks for the conversation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:59 AM
8	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Watch the YouTuber it’s complicated. He asks randoms on the street their required wage for someone to date them and it’s absurd. Women actually saying things like 2 million or a average that a lot say is 100k a year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:54 AM
22	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? Then why do most women have as a basic requirement that their man HAS to make over either X amount or if the woman already makes good money that the guy makes more than them. It’s a more recent phenomena thy successful women are struggling to find partners. While this is from fresh and fit or a similar podcast, so take it with a grain of salt, but the woman who was making serious bank, like around 100k a year said her man HAS to make more than her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:49 AM
37	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? This is true to some extent. The general horniness of men and the proclivity of women to toss it around but only to a certain group of guys makes for some bad things. Back when I was in school we had one or two school sluts that slept with a lot of guys. But from what my younger siblings are telling me the number of “school sluts” is growing fast. My sister says it’s bad if you’re still a virgin in high school for the girls now. If they’re just giving it out to guys to not be virgins and nobody …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:02 AM
15	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? No, this is just a mentality that puts you in a bad place and you might need therapy for. Women at large have these tendencies to only go for men that can provide for them in multiple ways. The problem with this is that they all claim they want a man for who they are on the inside when statistically that’s as far from the truth as it gets. Generally (again not all women but a majority) women won’t give a guy a chance if he isn’t hot or at least look like he has a lot of money, that being wearing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:56 AM
120	Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s? As a guy coming up on 30 I definitely understand. This all boils down to mindset. If you decide to focus on yourself and get on that grind and better yourself the women will naturally come and it’ll feel amazing! You may just look at it as “man I’ve never felt this confident before!” You may also look at it as “none of you wanted me just a few years ago when I wasn’t making 50k a year.” A big difference is most men tend to become more financially stable around 30 and really start to develop arou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 08:54 AM
1	If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you? I’d say I could probably get around 20 if I’m lucky, probably closer to 10 though. I’m fairly average overall, I’m 5 foot 8, 175 pounds with a small belly. I’m decent looking and got a pretty decent sense of humor along with being very understanding and non confrontational. Also no size issues uh, down under, if you catch my drift. I feel I’m adequate for maybe 20 percent of women if I’m lucky but I think realistically it’s closer to 10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 12:20 AM
3	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. Now you do seem to be focusing on him pretty heavily, but this is also what women want men to do for them. If it seems hard to keep up it’s because it is. Women want men to do this all the time but don’t want to reciprocate. My suggestion is to simply have a sit down occasionally to talk about some of these things. You going down on him? DO NOT STOP, just make sure there is reciprocation. Maybe say you don’t want to just go down on him from now on and make a deal that you’ll do that for him anyt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 10:12 AM
–	CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching. The point being that no should mean no. It’s holiday mean no, until I change my mind. That’s a VERY dangerous precedent to set. Because that could lead to yes means yes until I regret it later and say no afterward and ruin your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:03 PM
–	CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching. It’s not hurt ego, I couldn’t care less about that. My problem is their way of thinking. If they need to reject someone to find them attractive then who knows what that may implicate. It could be something small but it could also lead to something more. Let’s say hypothetically it could lead to you being in a great relationship but they have a need to reject you multiple times just to see if you get mad, or maybe they find it funny to say no and confuse you for a bit. What happens if you propose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 05:27 PM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents I may have conflated red pill and blue pill for red and blue politics. I’ve apologized like 4 times in the comments for the mistake. Edit: sorry, I don’t mean to sound like a dick, just getting. A little annoyed by the “you know you’re wrong, right?” Comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 10:33 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Yeah man, a bit late, I’ve had this out with a few people already. I didn’t read the sub description. I never do so I’m constantly ignorant of what a sun is supposed to be. I thought this was a middle ground for politics in the us since we use red and blue for politics in general. I also only ever heard of red and blue pill being a problem in the us so I never thought that this would be an international group so that’s my bad and partially on the media I consume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:27 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents That’s ok I give massive props to you for saying sorry. I admit I’m wrong all the time in comments if I realize I was. So im glad you did too even if your “wrong” was pretty small in comparison lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 05:51 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Ok you’re right I am American but that’s kind of rude to generalize us all. I didn’t know the blue/ red pill was an issue outside the states. Most of what I hear is centered in the us. So honestly blame the media. If I heard about it being a problem elsewhere I would’ve never thought this was about American politics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 05:45 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Honest mistake and that’s ok. I only posted to get conversation about the topic going and seeing if anyone knew more about it so I could learn some. I just suck at reading subreddit descriptions. I honestly don’t know the real purpose for almost any of the subs I’m part of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:56 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Whoa dude, no need to be aggressive. I honestly wasn’t trying to be rude I just was trying to say I saw your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:50 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Yeah I did, that’s my bad, I didn’t read it and made assumptions about the sub. I thought this would make for interesting conversation though apparently not in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:49 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents I saw your first comment, pls calm down. Wait maybe that’s the wrong way to put it. I mean no need to comment multiple times. I’ve done it before too so no hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:48 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Ah ok, I didn’t know I thought this was a political sub. My bad, I didn’t read the description so that on me. Though I don’t really appreciate the vitriol in your comments, but not much I can do about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:47 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents I figured red is republican and blue was liberal though maybe I have it wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:45 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents Wait is this supposed to be gender and dating exclusively? I thought it was just a middle ground for red and blue pill political debates	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:42 AM
–	Guns aren’t the leading cause of death in children and adolescents It is, gun control is very much a political matter contested between red and blue pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 04:42 AM
1	CMV: If men are trash you're the dumpster https://www.youtube.com/live/6G0wAbpdSGw?feature=share This isn’t the exact ones I was talking about and the guys seems a bit annoying but the videos are the important part. I came across the videos I was talking about months ago and didn’t save them so I might be out of luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 05:54 PM
1	CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real world If op is 5 foot 10 then any guy that’s more than just an inch taller than them is 6 foot. It wouldn’t be hard to tell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 04:47 PM
1	CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching. Wait… so I have to be rejected to be found attractive? Yeah that makes sense. If a girl said no to me then asked me out later I’d say no. I don’t want someone who flips their opinion of me so fast over something so small. I’d rather be given a chance to go out with them in a public space or something to get to know them than to be given a chance because I didn’t start flinging my own poop when I got rejected. (Idk man first thing that came to mind when I though freak out was a monkey)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 04:39 PM
1	CMV: If men are trash you're the dumpster I’ve seen plenty of interviews with women that suggest otherwise. The women literally say that a stable and trustworthy man is boring. They want a scammer or a criminal because it’s exciting and they don’t like a relationship where they aren’t arguing a lot because it’s not exciting so they’ll end up cheating on the boring guys to try to start drama. I know it’s not every woman but enough to be able to make a compilation out of so there are a few of the “dumpster” women out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 04:25 PM
1	CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it. Depends where in the world you mean. Most other countries haven’t changed all too much. America though has changed drastically. The quality of both men and women have fallen hard. Due in part to social media and the economy. Let me address women and the economy first; women (or around 30 percent of women) fought for equal rights and that led to a drastic change in the economy. Basically overnight the work force doubled by including women and now there was much higher demand for jobs but not as m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 06:01 PM
1	Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental health A small list of things I’ve also heard women say give them the ick: Having pets, Not having pets, Liking children, Not wanting children, Having a big truck, Having a small car, Liking salad, Not being vegan, Using lotion, Saying I love you too often (specified as more than once a week), Complaining about work, Liking fishing, Liking hunting, Having a beard, Cleaning (they said it made them seem too feminine), Not paying for the first date, Not buying her a 1,000 dollar purse, Making less than 10…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 03:25 PM
2	Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMV Height is a weird factor in this whole thing. I’m most countries where they use the metric system this isn’t such an issue. But in America where we have the imperial system it’s a huge problem. When it’s in centimeters there’s a gradual shift based on height. When it’s in feet you have a gradual decrease to 6 foot and a plummeting decrease instantly at 5 foot 11 inches. American women find 6 foot to be some sort of magical number for absolutely no reason and it’s a purely american problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 12:26 AM
1	Do you prefer slim or curvy? Slim or curvy Now we need to discuss what curvy is. Because curvy to me means curvy. As In “I have fat in just the right spots to have nice curves” not having. A muffin top. Nothing wrong with having one in my opinion, it’s just that I feel it’s not accurate to call someone who’s got rolls like that curvy. It just doesn’t make sense to me because in my mind it’s more lumpy than curvy. I feel thin is someone who doesn’t have many curves, small chest and butt that makes them overall flat and thin.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 03:45 PM
–	I don't understand why those fake "bad boy" dating profiles work It could be the shittiest phase to some, but for some people settling down just isn’t what they want. So honestly if they keep themselves in shape and all that jazz and keep getting laid, I’d say they’re in the best phase. If you’re looking to settle down you tend to have a hard time because what he said is true, physical attraction is the most important thing. It gets your foot in the door to even open the option for dialogue. If you aren’t attractive the girls generally won’t give you the chan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 03:38 PM
–	Are average guys really “struggling”? In reference to this I challenge any woman who wonders this to try this experiment: Find a friend or family member of yours you find to be average and ask to use their pictures. Make a profile for them using what you think would work well, not including making them rich, 50,000 a year salary at most. Make a dating profile on whatever dating app you feel would work well and give it a go for a few months to half a year. Make matches and try to pick up women, do your best and get back to us with yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 03:48 AM
-1	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it That’s fine, just don’t get upset that your partner feels insecure about your decisions then. Have fun explaining why your ex was good enough and they aren’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 04:56 PM
0	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it It’s not that it’s the only thing he wants, it’s more of why isn’t he good enough to get it early like her exes? That’s what they care about not about how soon you put out. Make a rule that you don’t do it for a month or so, then it’s fine, but just don’t break the rule for a guy you find hot or you’ll create that insecurity in the guy you really want later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 04:50 PM
-5	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it I think you’re missing the point. If a woman as a rule doesn’t fuck on the first date then fine, like if she makes every guy wait at least a month first or something similar then it’s ok, it’s fair. But if she fucks one guy on a first date and not another then that’s where the problem starts. It’s the idea that you aren’t good enough for her to do that for you. What did you do wrong? What can he do that you can’t? Why aren’t you good enough? That stuff hits guys pretty hard. Just imagine that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 04:48 PM
1	Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this. Boundaries are pretty much anything you would like it to be so long as it is there to protect the integrity of the relationship. If I said no girls nights out because I know her friend like to go out to clubs and get slammed, that’s seen as controlling. I don’t have that rule because my wife prefers to stay in to hang with her friends but the point still stands. As for preference, I have seen plenty of times where someone just stated a preference and was attacked. “I just don’t find bigger women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 03:52 PM
1	Who do you think has it harder in these two scenarios? Men are at the top and the bottom of pretty much everything. It’s been a big issue with feminism. They complain about men being in the top 1 percent but men are also in the bottom 1 percent. I feel it’s the same when it comes to this question. Attractive men get modeling offers, many women want to sleep with them, they’re likely to be accepted for jobs because looks matter more than we care to admit. Ugly women have it better because they can still get laid. I know a guy in my school who only ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 08:48 AM
1	The RP obsession with older women's looks is anti-traditional and shallow Idk if I’m understanding this properly because it’s late and my brain isn’t working at full capacity rn, but let me give a pov on something. When it comes to women’s looks and looks on people in general I feel you should try to look good. If you’re single you should try to look good to find a partner (if you want to stay single it’s just as a presentation thing in general and not look homeless in public at least) and if you’re not single then you should try to look good for your partner. The amo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 08:35 AM
4	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? Unfortunately some people aren’t quite right in the head and believe that a guy they don’t find attractive simply asking to go for coffee or even saying hello is SA. Luckily not many believe this but there’s a few out there who do and will accuse people of it. The accusation alone is enough to permanently ruin your life, even if it’s proven false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 01:35 AM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? In my experience it’s okay to do things separate. My wife and I have similar hobbies and some that differ. I’m an adrenaline junkie and she definitely isn’t. So if I want to go bungee, jumping I have to go alone while she watches the kids, and she goes shopping with friends or goes to restaurants I don’t like with them. She doesn’t have many, go out to do something, hobbies that I don’t also enjoy so it’s not a big problem for us. The problem is that many of my friends and family members who lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:41 PM
2	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? What’s wrong with asking for their number or snap chat? If someone is busy and you might not ever see them again it’s the best idea to have some sort of way to contact them when they aren’t so busy. Get the number and send a simple text like “hey I’m mike, I got your number outside of meijer. You seemed busy so just let me know when you’re free to talk.” (No my name isn’t mike I just used a generic name) I feel it’s efficient and honestly allows someone to very simply think about how they want t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:35 PM
2	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? I get that, but the best type of man many could hope for would be a boring man who’s predictably at home taking care of the place you live together and the kids. Many people have complained that they never know what their husband/ boyfriend is doing or they complain they want to go golfing with friends, or fishing, etc. There doesn’t seem to be a way to win, you’re not interested in your girl if you’re off doing whatever even once a week. But if you stay home and never go out, you’re anti social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:29 PM
6	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? So if you want to give advice to someone I’d suggest not calling them a freak. Give your opinion on the matter without attacking the person if possible. I simply asked for opinions on when and where was appropriate to approach women. No need to act as if I was personally walking up to women at random and asking them if they wanted to do something horrible. God forbid a man asks a woman out to get to know her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 10:25 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? You’re definitely right, the nothing risked nothing gained mentality is definitely the right approach. But what about the poor guys who just don’t meet the standards? I’m not taking about the basics like general hygiene and being a generally nice person, I mean like height or maybe they just lost the genetic lottery and have like a massive nose or something else that might be a petty reason they’re getting denied. You can only really ask so many times before you begin to think you aren’t worth l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 09:31 PM
2	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? I’m not asking because I want to offload responsibility. It kind of sounds like you may have had a few bad experiences and I’m sincerely sorry for that. I asked the question because I know friends of mine that are struggling to meet people and from some media I consume showing women who have conflicting advice on how to pick up women. It’s usually part of a social talking point on the differences between the two genders but it tends to come up a lot. It got me thinking and I wanted to ask it her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 08:32 PM
1	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? Not everyone can just be interesting. There’s tons of people who have to work a ridiculous amount of hours just to afford their bills and have to take care of their house still. Do they not deserve to get a date because they’re busy? Not everyone can just get a hobby like skydiving and become interesting. Lots of people are boring because they don’t have a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 08:05 PM
6	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? The problem with that is that the signs are very different from person to person. One woman could say she really likes your hair and will run her hand through it, pretty obvious. And another woman’s sign will be to look at you out of the side of her eyes twice, which is only just slightly off from how she looks at someone she’s uncomfortable with. Now I’m pretty thick headed and can see I’ve been flirted with a lot in high school in hindsight, but I know for a fact that I won’t act on signs even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 08:03 PM
0	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? You shouldn’t fake a personality to get a date either. I mean if you try to be interesting but I’m everyday life you’re more focused on work or chilling out to relax then she’ll just leave you later because you’re boring. Men shouldn’t have to become captivating to actually make someone interested in them. Love someone for who they are, not how well they keep your attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 07:35 PM
2	What places are acceptable to approach women for a date? That’s assuming the girls friend doesn’t intervene. It doesn’t always happen but I do know that a lot of friend groups have the friend who wants to “protect” everyone and cock blocks because they assume the guy is bothering them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 07:33 PM
1	To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not? As someone who identifies as a more purple pill leaning a little red, I feel there is a sort of prime, let me explain. For men the statistics show their more desired by women when they’re in their 30s to 50s, the actual statistic says specifically 50s but the thirties is where it starts to pick up. It may have something to do with them developing wealth, or maybe it’s because that’s around when develop grey hairs and women like a little bit of grey. Women on the other hand have been shown in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 05:05 PM
4	If men know how other men think then why is it seen as controlling rather than protective to have a say in what clothes ur girls wears My wife and I have an understanding of what is and isn’t acceptable in public. Bikinis are ok only if you are going somewhere to swim or tan, otherwise you should never show that much skin. I should never walk around outside without a shirt unless the goal is to tan while I do yard work or go for a run. And my wife should never go outside to do menial things in booty shorts and a crop top, again unless it’s to do yard work or for a jog to get a better tan. We don’t need to show ourselves off to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 04:47 PM
3	Do men really care about anything other than a woman's looks when it comes to attraction? I believe looks get your foot in the door with both men and women. After that it’s many other things. I feel men are more accepting of things they may not like in a potential partner sexually than women. It may be that way for relationships but I’m not sure. I feel men are more accepting than women because most guys that I know have said something along the lines of “who cares if she’s ugly? I can get a bag.” Or “what’s wrong with a big nose? The rest of her is hot” while still rude comments it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:21 PM
11	In the US, why are Republican couples happier than Democrat couples? Because many people get complacent, in a marriage you start to focus on the kids and yourself now that you got to the final stage of a relationship. This often leads to one or both people neglecting their partner in some way, be it emotionally or physically. You need to continue treating it as if you were a new couple and continue going on dates at least once a month. And make a schedule for sex, it sounds weird but if you don’t one person may withhold it because they’re tired, or they just don’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 06:52 PM
0	How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father? Why would she be being used? I said if she’s happy and they’re good to each other and we’ll off it’s good. What more could you really need? Does that mean that any couple that isn’t the same age is the older one using the younger? That doesn’t really make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 06:00 PM
1	How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father? Of course lol it’s not just anyone I’d be ok with. That’s why I mentioned the part about them being a good person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 11:09 AM
3	How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father? If my daughter found a guy my age that made her happy and they were good partners to eachother as well as being comfortable financially then I couldn’t care less. I have plenty of years before I have to worry about it but I’d be fine with her decision so long as he’s a good guy and treats her well and vice versa. I will not let my daughter be with someone just because of their money though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 11:05 AM
–	treat men like they treat women in debates and they fall apart. So you’re upset, that people get upset, at being insulted personally during a debate? And you’re calling them immature? So I think we found a definite hard blue pill guy here. Not an ounce of red pill in his body. Now watch as he insults me, my ideals, my family, my friends or something else similar to those since this seems to not even be a post for discussion but to troll. This will be my only comment here have fun :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 04:57 AM