| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | Wife caught cheating on husband in a grocery store parking lot......Really shitty from the guy to put it out on the internet. This is personal life not public life. He just did it to hurt her. He would have been better off moving on over that | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Wife caught cheating on husband in a grocery store parking lot......I mean you can do whatever you want, you might have issues, afraid to tell your partner you don't love them anymore, whatever. But not taking responsibility for your actions that you were hiding while there's proof, and being angry for getting busted, that's disgusting | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesThat’s not seduction bruh that’s attraction. If girls chase him for his looks he’s just getting the same thing beautiful girls get from guys, he’s being objectified. That may be abundance mentality in sexual relationships but it’s not abundance mentality in serious relationships. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 10:44 AM |
| 6 | It all comes down to this!certainly not some sort of power dominance over your partner | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 11:11 PM |
| 25 | It all comes down to this!It’s called "keys to power", not "keys to a healthy relationship" | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Yes, setting goals like this worked for me. I went from talking to 1 new person at uni every week, to getting to know at least 2 new persons every day. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayIt means nothing mate. At least you talked and you didn’t fuck up, it’s just that you could have done way better. It’s like having a 5/10, you pass but you can do better. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Really struggling with turning conversation flirtyYou compare yourself to the others, that’s not productive even though you can’t help it. I’d advise you to keep trying to flirt. When you feel that interview thing happening force yourself to say a flirty thing. There’s no shortcut other than trying. This is how to best pick up artists came up with their "techniques" which are actually their personality + trial and fails until they find something that works for them and with who they are. The mindset to have must be as natural as you can so you … | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Ego is just a small three letter word....You’re full of bs guys don’t listen to him. Anybody confident enough has to have some ego. Too much ego is bad like everything else in life in excess is bad, but ego is necessary. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Models Study GuideI said "before". First approach 20 girls/sets okay maybe with some canned opener and a simple outgoing mindset, and then after that read theory. But Models is heavy theory and imo is useful only if you already have a lot of action | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Models Study GuideYou don’t know what you’re talking about | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Models Study GuideTaking action before any theory | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Models Study GuideThis book is shit for beginners idk why people here worship it. Mark Manson was the guy that was already getting laid, but his problem was serious meaningful relationships. This book is for people who already get laid and can have sex when they want, but can’t have serious stuff. It has 0 practical advice (except at the end of the book) it’s only mindsets. The thing is, a mindset is not something you read in a book and you have it, it’s your actions irl that define your mindset. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | 88 DAYS REMAINING IN 2019Thanks I needed this | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Advice pleaseDon’t worry about seeming creepy or not. Your mindset should be "I’m attracted to all those girls, I feel the desire to go and talk to them, I go and say hi to each one of them and try to get to know them and see what happens" | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How To Have The Most Confidence You've Ever Had In Your LifeThanks for explaining the meditation part. I never understood how it could help and how to do it, but now that I know that the purpose is not to overthink, I think it might be a very useful exercise for me | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Netflix's Lucifer is a women's romance novel in disguise.Film and series stuff is not reality. It may be fantasy, and it may appeal to women’s fantasy but nothing says they want men like that irl. They’re secure and in control of their fantasies in their thoughts, unlike in real life situations | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 09:40 PM |
| 8 | What is the crossing line on touch escalation?Trust your guts bro. If you feel like giving her a hug, do it as you want. Do you feel like standing in front of her, open your arms and say "hug?" and then wait her to hug you? Do it. Do you feel like Giving her a back surprise hug? Do it. Do you feel like tickling her or putting your arm over her shoulder and tell her a stupid joke or whatever crosses your mind and then step back right after or whatever? Do it. There are many contextual elements we aren’t aware of and we can’t give advice abou… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 05:57 AM |
| 19 | Long time no post - so I thought I'd post about a casual encounter todayThey had us in the first half, not gonna lie | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Stressed during casual social approaches at university contextBullied at school and rejected by basically a lot of people at school so yeah. But I wish I knew how to work on it because whenever I talk to girls at uni I’m anxious af. I want to have that "I’m a social guy" mindset but I still always blush and stress | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I will leave this hereAlthough you can’t compound improve like this to the infinite, this is somewhat true for the beginning | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Easy Confidence Hack, Yet Most Don't Do ItBig change for me since I started buying S tshirts that fit me properly instead of wearing the L tshirts that my mom always bought me thinking it was perfect sized while it wasn’t. Now when I put on an oversized tshirt I just cringe in front of my mirror seeing the difference | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Just failed my first cold approach and I feel greatThis is the kind of person you have to run away from in real life, guys | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 08:28 PM |
| 12 | I finally know seduction isn't bullWow under 5 months you made such a great change. What tips from this sub helped you? | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 07:55 AM |
| 5 | How I Learned That 'Looks Aren't Everything'I always get things like "Join a club", "Get a job", "Do charity" I mean personally I’m so anxious that I can’t even talk to people sitting next to me at uni. My problem is what the hell to talk about with these guys when I have nothing in common. I wish I knew how to banter and have fun with simple light jokes like some people do, that don’t require me to have an insane amount of general knowledge. If anybody knows a book about social skills that would help improve conversation, plz tell me | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Did 2 cold approaches today, 1 rejection and 1 phone number...here to report back to anxious fucks like meNow just keep going. I got rejected for my first approach, the girl went away saying "Oh not again that’s really anoying" while amused and laughing but being a bit upset at the same time. And after that I thought too much about it, lost momentum and my balls and I didn’t approach again. Now I’m as afraid as at the beginning | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 07:28 AM |
| 25 | A girl is like a protein shakeYup, there are guys living in vans that go and pick up girls and have girlfriends. Some guys in prison for robberies are fathers. Just go out there and get girls. It will improve other parts of your life because being okay with wanting sex and showing it to other girls is part of being a man, so you become more of a man | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 05:10 PM |
| 3 | My Insane 3 Year Pickup Journey - From Hardcase Short Asian to SlayerThanks for sharing your journey and congrats! 2000 approaches sounds insane, but now we know what we will have to do to succeed. Voice and posture is sooo true, I’ve been exercising direct openers alone at home and I randomly lose my voice. I was definetly on the good path by exercising alone then! Did you consciously work on voice and body language or did it improve somewhat by itself? (it could be testosterone levels increasing naturally and making you more masculine) Also, I am tall, but bone… | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | On my way to approach girls for the first timeI appreciate that, will try. Good luck to you too man | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | On my way to approach girls for the first timeI edited the post. I approached but it could’ve been better haha | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | If my girlfriend rubs my penis and it gets hard, what are the chances of precum (and sperm) leaking onto her hand?They didn’t explain it in my biology class because it’s somewhat taboo, they just told us to protect us. No detail about how long sperm lives after ejaculation. I learned it on the internet. And the time you spend to write your useless message, you could’ve written an actual answer to his question or do nothing and keep going on with your life. I hate your kind of attitude | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women)by "ask" I think they meant actually trying to seduce them, and out of 100 at least one will agree to have sex | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.They don’t react to you as a person, they don’t know you. They react to the way you make them feel. And you get better at making others feel good, but only through practice. You can do it when you realize that it’s not personal | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.They talk about 2500 units of money currency, not 2500 girls approached | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 02:26 PM |
| 3 | As a 24 year old kissless virgin, I honestly have no idea why women arne't attracted to me.There are PUAs that cold approached or went in bars and nightclubs gaming for 2 to 3 years before becoming really good. They’ve been through thousands of rejections and failures and learned from them the hard way. Admit that you have a harder time with girls than other guys, it is how it is. And then prepare yourself to put all the hard work in it to change. It’s not going to be easy but you can do a lot with hard work. And when the results and success will come to you, you’ll be there like "dam… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 01:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "İ'm too tired"It reminds me when during my first date the girl rejected me, and me turning a bit colder than before made her come back towards me and at the end of the date I didn’t kiss her when I had the chance. 10 minutes after the end of the date she texts me "Why didn’t you kiss me?" and I was like "you just rejected me" and it was so clear that I got rejected that I didn’t even think about kissing her. Now I think that she rejected me just so she wouldn’t come off as an easy girl or a slut, but in reali… | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I just realized that my entire outlook on women and dating was wayyy out of touch.I just got it and will start read it, how do you compare it to the Mystery Method? | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | First TryAWWW that's so god damn cute I never approached a girl and I think I will do the same, asking for a fake number if she says no, even telling her the truth "gimme a fake one so I don't feel too bad about myself" with a touch of humour in body language. And I have a new book to read now! Tim Ferris Ted talk about deconstructing things to learn them was very inspiring, that guy is smart as hell | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.Neediness and non-neediness if only the result of having abundance in your life or not. You can't just not be needy if you have nothing, it may look not natural and people still might feel it. It is not the attempt to not be needy anymore that is going to change something, and what bothers me is that people talk about it like if it was the thing to do that will change your life, while I believe it's the result of a good lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaksYou display value through your pictures, social life, you project a cool guy image of yourself. Simple selfies without any context won't help average guys that are not in the top 10% most handsome guys. Same goes for girls, when you ignore their beauty, what's more to them other than their looks? These are the hot girls with 10 pictures of them alone. There must not be much to them other than looks | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 12:00 PM |
| 2 | My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclubI don't know if there's a pickup principle behind doing this but it felt like the right thing to build some more general rapport instead of just continually making out. I've been reading the Mystery Method and that's what he advises to do, build comfort and trust before going further. That the time from approach to sex should be between 4 to 10 hours, going through attraction, comfort, and seduction phase. This kind of behavior seems to work to be more attractive. Imo I feel that while a beginne… | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 04:56 PM |
| -1 | When did this become the “how to I reply to this” sub?When you don't have any experience, nothing to say, it's not about insecurity and desperation. It's about "what do I even say", "how do I interact". At the beginning, asking people this kind of stuff is the best way to put yourself in the right mindset, because when you say the things that you were supposed to say if you were experienced (confidence comes from experience), it helps "feeling" the mindset, feeling what is right, and therefore when you want to say something else, you'll feel when i… | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | This is pathetic as fuck, but I got someone's number tonight and am beyond happy!Man I recognize myself in you because I negative self talk myself too whenever I do something great. We have to stop doing that it's really bad for us | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 05:38 PM |
| 3 | 7 Body Language Tricks That Help You Attract WomenMy first date ever I sat side by side with the girl in a starbucks, it was perfect. It could turn my eyes to her when she said something I found relevant, or to show my interest. I could also touch her arm when teasing her and saying "I'm just joking :) ". And I had the choice to look in front of me when I felt anxious, by taking a sip out of my drink. Compared to the times after than when we went to the restaurant, it felt more natural | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 12:08 PM |
| 3 | What value does a male student have, other than socially?I’ve met an anti social girl once from the internet and it was not beautiful. :/ She had problems, I had mine, we didn’t get along. But it may have been bad luck. Does it kinda work for you? (Even just friends) | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What value does a male student have, other than socially?I want to believe you. I’ve got hobbies, passions, even though I don’t meet people through them. Because when I think about inviting somebody to a coffee I just imagine them saying "no sorry" and looking at me in a weird way, kind of like the fear of getting rejected by a woman, but now it’s potential friend. Also I tell myself that these were the same generation of people that I couldn’t make friends with and it blocks me. I’m always afraid of a random "you’re shy/you don’t talk much/sex life q… | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginityMark Manson - Models | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 09:43 AM |
| 11 | Lost my virginitythere’s that book this entire sub reads, about being 100% natural and stuff, and they all think basic seduction techniques don’t work anymore. This is good advice, don’t be needy, don’t cancel things you wanted to do especially to spend more time with her. People like a bit of challenge, that’s how it works | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | I gave up on pick-upthat’s not a lot, it takes time. Take a break, clear your mind, and start again later but don’t quit bro | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Watch What She Does, Not What She Says (How To Identify Cognitive Dissonance in a Girl)Yea the biggest fear of a woman is that the man might hurt or kill her. I don't really get what it has to do with Cognitive Dissonance tho, if somebody could explain cuz I didn't understand from the video | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What to talk about when you want to get a girls number on the street?I didn’t give advice, I said what other puas said. At least I said what I observed that seemed to work. It wasn’t saying "I have no experience but you should do this or that based on what I believe". Or some imginary made up scenario. There’s enough of that bs on the internet and I know it. But you don’t see it that way and so I don’t think we can get to an agreement. | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What to talk about when you want to get a girls number on the street?They say that it might be better to let the girls know asap that you're attracted so the compliment is here for that. Otherwise they might think that you are here for another reason like selling stuff or something. And the thing to talk about is impro and asking questions about her, getting to know her. I know all this from James Marshall pua videos if you wanted to know. Oh and once I asked a girl how I should approach girls and she told me not to ask where they are going because guys did it to… | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | What to talk about when you want to get a girls number on the street?Haha I didn't give *my* advice, I just told what I saw in so many videos from puas and it works for them. Nothing wrong about that. | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Best overall book that has improved game and lifestyle?I’ve started reading Neil Strauss’ The Game recently but it’s basically made-up lines and hypnosis techniques during night, rather than natural seduction. It still works though | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What to talk about when you want to get a girls number on the street?I have no experience at all with cold approach but I’ve watched a lot of pua videos and most of them advise to say something like "Hey I was walking by and I saw you and I wanted to come and talk with you/meet you because I think you’re really cute, my name is X nice to meet you..." | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 01:59 AM |
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