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We are not property to give away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:29 PM
4

So the victims are at fault. Once again, women are responsible for the actions of a guy. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:57 PM
3

He's just using her as a bangmaid and I am so saddened. No cuddling, no talking, just using her like a cum rag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:51 AM
7

I highly recommend the book: Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. It's a lifesaver and game changer. She puts the concepts so beautifully and easily to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:48 AM
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I love this so much, thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:38 AM
6

I got shivers, serial killer vibes on high alert. You never know who and nobody thinks it will happen to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:37 AM
5

He's taking what they said WAY too personally. To quit his job because some people don't think of him as high value is not a healthy mindset. Not everyone will think of someone as high value, I mean hell, most guys think of women as less than human so he really can't complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:44 PM
3

This sounds like co-dependancy. She's trying to control his environment and him in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:20 AM
2

Uhm, relationships shouldn't be a business deal. What worries me the most is the "we" part. Who is we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:56 PM
6

I feel this, this was my younger self and I am cringing at embarrassment for my actions as I now see how they are. I hope she realizes her worth soon and focuses more on her kid than chasing this guy who is using her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:38 PM
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Sooo the normal stuff every person should be doing automatic for those they care about was deserving of the highest praise he was untouchable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:48 PM
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I decided to go through my ex's phone after noticing a change in behavior from him and our friends. They used to be so happy for us when suddenly they stopped talking to me completely. Figured something was fishy and found many text messages of him talking really badly about me to them and they just blindly supporting him that I am a toxic human being, immature and not right for him. I asked him about it, he denied it till I told him to cut the c**p. He said he doesn't regret 'venting' to them a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:27 PM
11

Scrotes gunna scrote is now my new motto xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:52 PM
22

Shows how much they care about her vs getting their ding dongs wet. I shake my head so hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:49 PM
55

I'm pretty certain no 20 year old is excited to have to take care of someone when they're just getting started with their life. Need I say more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:33 PM
2

Do they not remember that to some women we use "fine" as code for "I am not okay with this"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:24 AM
5

I'm going to write this down and memorize it so I can say this anytime I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:12 AM
1

Reaalllyyy hoping this is a joke though I wouldn't doubt it if it actually happens. =\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:24 AM
3

Do they literally have nothing better to do? I don't understand, nor will I try. All the lurkers getting mad at us probably don't remember how they tell people "If you don't like it, then leave".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:42 AM
3

He's using her to be closer to his wants and she's catching on. He doesn't seem to care how she feels and doesn't seem to want to budge. =\ Time to dump the leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:09 AM
1

Calling us bitches and thinks WE'RE a problem. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:43 PM
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If he's not quite fitting what you want, that's okay. There can be one thing that bothers me about someone and I don't need to try and force myself to get through it for the other checks I ticked. Some things are really important and I have to check off all of those. As for him mentioning his ex was abusive, there are ways people show if they're being honest about it or just misdiagnosing their ex for the sake of getting pity or as a way of convincing themselves they didn't do any wrong because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:40 PM
8

I would just tell them, "I cook, for myself." Then leave it at that. Can't talk reason into someone who thinks they're reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:12 AM
5

Threw up in my mouth at the fact he said 'girl' in the same sentence as her not knowing how to cook for two reasons. 1.) He probably is referring to someone underaged. 2.) He's a s*xist pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:09 AM
1

Insecurity...check... Defensiveness...check... Blaming...check... Verbal abuse...check... Manipulation?... probably a check... Too many red flags and SHE thinks she might be a problem? Someone get this woman a better therapist ASAP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:03 PM
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Absolutely HATE when anyone says this to me. In fact, I suggest you all check this out about defensiveness when you have the time. https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-to-talk-to-someone-who-always-gets-defensive A wonderful read about what certain behaviors mean and how to not get caught into it's trap. Very helpful especially when a boy wants to try and make you feel bad for expressing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:57 AM
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I absolutely love this, it's so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:28 PM
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What really gets me is the fact in the bible apparently god created Adam from practically nothing, then had the audacity to be lazy and grab a rib from him and make a woman. Couldn't even make women from an equal standpoint as men. We all know this was written by a man who wanted people to feel that women were somehow created from a man when uhhh, news flash, can't have a person without a woman since last I checked, men don't give birth xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:06 PM
3

This is co-dependancy at it's finest. Sadly so many people are sucked into relationships with substance abusers and don't realize how damaging it is to their health. I hope she finds the happiness she deserves soon and realize it's not with Mr.Piss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:20 AM
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Never apologize for not wanting to accept bad sex. If it hurts their fee-fee's you have a different definition of bad sex then too bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:50 PM
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Anyone catch the 4 year difference? If he is 24 and she's 22, subtract 4 years from each and you get a 18 year old with a 22 year old. She's BARELY legal while he had been for years already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:32 PM
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"One bullet and you all gone." Powerful statement! XD Watch all the butthurt guys be like "BuT ThAT iS DiFFeReNt"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:50 PM
1

If it talks like sht, looks like sht, acts like sht then more in likely, it's sht.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:43 AM
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If you think it's cheating with him looking at another woman naked on real life then why the heck would it be okay for him to see thousands of naked women on the phone screen? Why is the phone considered okay but the physically there not? It blows my mind the loophole they pressure us to accept to continue just pretending to have sex with a bunch of other women. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:40 AM
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This was insane to hear! Omg, he knew on the radio she would feel put on the spot. This is why I don't pick up random phone numbers unless I am expecting a call from someplace not in my contacts. Scary stuff, pressuring her to agree to something she very clearly doesn't want all to keep up appearances and not be called a 'B$&*h' or some other nasty word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:37 AM
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One of my ex's thought it was comedy in one of his videos he made of himself in film school where he grabbed a womans breast with a quick muttered, "sorry". Immediately afterwards she slapped him in the shot and cringed away. He said that she consented to the scene. We had a long difficult talk about how that's still sexual assault in the viewpoint of the viewer. I also mentioned how terrifying it was to see as a woman constantly assaulted in that way for him to shrug it off as comedy and there …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:26 AM
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I'm in the exact same boat, I usually want to date but now, I am burnt out from all the lies and toxic behavior unsure who to trust. My solution is focusing on myself as there is nothing wrong with choosing yourself. I'm bettering myself as a human in many aspects with therapy. I know it's hard to trust after so many people have broken it, however in the end working on yourself will then end up attracting more healthier people. I hope you find good people who give you hope to open up your heart …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:38 AM
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I highly recommend for the codependency behavior getting the book, "Codependency no more" by Melody Beattie. It's been super helpful and packed full of information! I highly recommend this book to everyone, it may seem overwhelming at first, if it does, power through and do your best not to make too many comparisons, it's okay to read the book and not know how to change any behavior one may feel they're struggling with. 💜 Love yourself and be kind to yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:03 PM
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They're threatened by us, why else would they care about one subreddit/site? What about alllll the others that are about toxic masculinity, about fetishizing rape and child rape? Convenient they only care about the one that doesn't benefit them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:08 PM
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A boy trying to tell me what to do with my things is out, heck any person who decides what happens to my belongings gets the boot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:52 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/magazine-34602822 Here is the link to the 1975 "Women's day off" movement that shook all of Iceland. An interesting and inspiring read. Shout out to @Rayne2522 for bringing this piece of history to my attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:16 PM
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No place is safe it seems from the scrotes Dx Except here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:14 PM
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I've been looking since I was in high school, at least Mars seems promising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:06 PM
2

Dafuqu???? The audacity of a scrote. I fear he's done this more than once, I bet he guilted the other women he went onto his dates with to give him 'compensation' and maybe succeeded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:54 AM
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I am so proud of you! 🥰💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:52 AM
2

This woman says it how it is! I absolutely love how simple and easy she put it! Guys usually change to someone we don't like after the first couple months in the relationship, why is that so hard for them to get?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:15 AM
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Mom has her head on STRAIGHT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:39 AM
5

Absolutely brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:09 AM
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I have NEVER allowed a guy I date to look at other women and be with me. If he wants to do that he can find someone else, I will not allow him to casually date me while calling it a serious relationship and expecting me to do so much to keep the relationship alive. I'm so sick of people telling me I'm asking too much because I want a guy to only look at my naked body which means not looking at the porn in movies. A half naked woman having sex with a guy IS porn, people want to say it's not becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:56 AM
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Gross, this guy doesn't love his wife nor find her attractive, he much rather look at other women and when she's understandably angry, he of course can't see he is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:46 AM
2

That's creepy!!! He doesn't know anything about this person he messaged!!! Predator alert!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:37 PM
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This can be used emotionally too with the injury verbally or of a act that emotionally hurt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:43 AM
2

He’s a psychopath for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:35 AM
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They wouldn’t support objectifying people if they cared about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:48 AM
3

Would love to know if they’re still together in 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:46 AM
8

What the heck? Why is he so mad he’s helping someone he supposedly cared for at one point and someone who can’t work as well as him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:38 AM
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Everyone deserves better than a mall for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:24 PM
1

I didn't think of it like that, you're right. I appreciate the advice, I will keep that in mind, especially since a lot of the other people have been saying to block and delete. I will do this next time it occurs. Thank you =]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:49 PM
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He's looong gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:42 PM
1

I'll do that next time. I am still working on this, at least I can confidently say that I didn't give in and watched him flail around like a fish out of water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:42 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I felt pretty good to tell him all that stuff though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:40 PM
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Something I wish I did before because it was one sided for so long where I was just being used for him to pleasure himself without much if anything back. Boys act like them sticking their pencil inside you is enough to satisfy you, uhm, no sir, it's called more effort than low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:09 PM
2

This is what I used to say to my friends when I talked to them about it. They saw he was an alcoholic before they even met him. That says a lot. Thanks! I am really glad to be out and really proud of myself for standing up for myself. I didn't want to be with someone who disregarded my feelings so he could do whatever he wanted while living out a fantasy. I hope you never have to deal with someone trying to do that to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:39 PM
3

Oh my gosh, this was my last relationship xD Every time I said I FELT concern for his drinking he would interject with either "You're blowing this out of proportion!" "That hurts my feelings!" "I disagree!!" And every time I had to tell him that his response was uncalled for. Eventually he claimed I was stepping all over him and was done with me after I broke up with him. He didn't like how I had all these valid reasons for leaving and had to go and shout literally the same things back to me. LV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:17 PM
7

I just watched this movie yesterday, I was thinking the whole time how much I wished for a Gomez Addams. He absolutely loves his wife and does what he knows she loves and they stay in love. What a concept xD he even feeds the baby and has talks with his children with no level of complaint. T_T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:23 PM
4

I had a Hispanic bf. He was sweet and everything I wanted in the first couple months. Then he tried to slowly put me under his thumb. How dare I not completely trust his family I barely know, he would tell me I was "stepping all over him" when I told him only what I was feeling and as soon as I was done telling him how I felt he would jump into how uncomfortable that made him and how he didn't like how I felt something. I thought it was so weird. He also fought me on normal behavior when I light…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:18 PM
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Me at the moment. I have my career to focus on, had a wonderful birthday by myself with family and friends and I feel SO GREAT to not worry about anyone saying or doing anything to ruin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:31 PM
47

That smell is a turn off but don’t dare mention anything for fear of being shamed for something unrelated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:24 PM
5

He can’t even spell the abbreviation of picture....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:59 PM
8

Yikes, low effort much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:57 PM
3

I feel sick...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:54 PM
4

When I catch myself thinking of the good times and the way his lips tasted, I remember how bad the lies tasted, the way the hurtful things he said tasted and then, the sweet times I can find elsewhere, become more valuable with someone who doesn’t lie or say nasty things to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:30 AM
4

If he asks, I suggest letting him know you're looking for the right guy to have a long term relationship with and the right guy comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:06 AM
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I would word it as you're looking for the right guy to be in a long term relationship with, the right guy comes first. =] I hope this helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:03 AM
2

It's one of those tricky topics. On one hand you don't want to start the first date with mapping out your five year plan with a guy you barely met. While on the other you don't want to hide your feelings. Just don't go in with and giving the mindset you are lowering your standards to be with someone. That's all I was trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:01 AM
4

This is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:06 AM
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Dude is all, “Oh haha, plz don’t think I am a creep.” That ain’t cute, basically saying don’t call him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:14 PM
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I like to call those guys, boys. Men are the HVM's to me. Though I 100% resonate with your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:01 PM
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What in the heck?! I hope you were able to report that...though I know the police hardly believe us as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:26 PM
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I wish to correct this post, it should be women, not girls. =]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:25 PM
2

Best comment ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:58 PM
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Yeessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:57 PM
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Just exited one of these relationships last night and I feel pretty dang great about it! I can finally breathe and find someone who accepts my feelings as feelings and not an attack onto his to then tell me how uncomfortable he was I felt that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:50 PM
1

In the end it seems like she touches him in away that's sassy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:15 AM
3

A very clear example of how porn effects people in negative ways. Why our education on this matter sucks. This society needs a change, a good change and soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:19 AM
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Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:44 PM
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