Hello my fellow queens, I would like to share this new Ah-ha moment I had! When on those first dates with the guys, remember to focus on finding the right man, not a relationship. What you’re looking for is the right person, if you’re looking for a relationship you could easily find one in a week. I don’t recommend telling them on the first date or second date that you’re looking for a relationship. You wouldn’t jump into one with someone that soon right? So I don’t recommend telling him you want one so fast even if its true you wish for a relationship. If he’s a HVM and interested he won’t need to ask, he would be able to tell by how you act. Instead tell him you want a good man to spend your life with, the man needs to come first before the relationship, make sure to take your time knowing him, don’t rush it. More power to you all!