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After grabbing drinks, I noticed a really sexy 40+yo MILF kinda eyeing me from the other side of a table we were on. TL;DR- She found OP attractive so it was smooth sailing from there, the rest of his "game" did not matter. In fact, he could've ruined his chance by being way too analytical (ie-- don't be impressed, demonstrate value, strong eye contact, use silence for sexual tension, be cocky)... these are all good, but they should be a part of your natural character, not things you think about…
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:06 PM
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To be fair, I partly blame guys who put all women on a pedestal, even overweight women and especially in online dating. They have no shortage of guys chasing their tail... maybe not the guys they want but they get plenty of attention nonetheless. It conditions them to believe they are the prize, and these double standards become a part of life.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 03:05 PM
1

The pressure to look a certain way comes from women themselves, the competition is fierce on that side and women compete with one another on looks more than guys do with themselves. Guys usually don't care if you're as skinny as a stick and they don't dictate how much makeup you wear... they just want to get laid. Girls will straight up condemn guys that are under 6 ft though, but that's a different story
/r/MensRights24/10/16 04:54 PM
2

Is this real fucking life?? Hot girls playing Pokemon?! How do you end up in the same location as other people playing? I'm also having a hard time believing hot girls are playing this at a bar.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 03:59 AM
2

Did you add her or did she add you? If she added you then you have all the right to send her the first message. If you want to avoid coming off as creepy ask her something you genuinely want to know... maybe something about one of your mutual friends or whether she went to your school, or whether you two have cross paths before since she added you on fb. This is how you break the ice... but that is the easy part. After breaking the ice, I highly recommend you play a more assertive/aggressive gam…
/r/seduction05/07/16 04:37 PM
1

The best way to get a response is to open with something relevant to the girl... comment on something she wrote in her profile or on one of her pics (not on how hot she looks of course). "Hi I'm [name]. How's your week/weekend/holiday going?" does not warrant a response. It's so bland and common... how many of these "Hi" messages do you think they get? The struggle for most guys in online dating is to get matches/responses from the girls... for girls it's the opposite, they have to filter throug…
/r/seduction05/07/16 03:04 PM
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But surely you don't regret sleeping with that chick now though right? As in, you probably don't even think about it.. it's not the type of regret that lingers on for life... or do you still think about it and feel disappointed in yourself?
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:05 PM
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Say that to my face and see what happens fuk boy
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:03 PM
1

Another ugly bitch like Amy Schumer is a feminist? Who would've thought
/r/MensRights04/05/16 09:03 PM
-2

U didnt even fuck her? Lmao what a beta
/r/seduction13/04/16 12:23 AM
-7

This... And I would let her fuck me when I was 15, it would be the best day of my life
/r/MensRights22/12/15 02:06 PM
1

Are you Sebastian? It was actually a pretty good video, thanks
/r/seduction22/10/15 08:42 PM
-1

Everyone is high fiving the kid, that's why... I'd love to fuck her when I was 15. ....And Im a part of the reason mens don't have rights
/r/MensRights30/09/15 12:58 AM
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I'm aware that there are guys and girls with low self esteem who use sex as a form of validation. All I said was the truth, something that should be common sense by now... girls are humans just like guys and will hookup with someone they find attractive because they have sexual desires just like guys. But no, let's flip this into a "self esteem" and "self-validation" issue I'm happy for them to hook up with each other but I'm not interested in having that kind of person in my life. You and I hav…
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:15 PM
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And a lot of girls do, more than you would think because you're not used to it. Not to mention being attractive makes hooking up 10x easier and girls will be more open to your advances
/r/seduction02/09/15 05:11 PM
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I'm fun to be around, I provide more entertainment for the person I'm hanging out with than vice versa
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:59 PM
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and yet a girl isn't going to hook up with a guy just because she finds him attractive. You have no idea what you're talking about
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:58 PM
1

Use some common sense, if she's on her phone all the time do you think she didn't notice your texts? She's not too "busy" to spare a minute or two to text you back, she's most likely not into you as much as you think regardless of her paragraph texts
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:44 PM
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Lmao you are the one raging hard you pussy virgin faggot, stop embarrassing yourself, you're out of your element
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:21 PM
-2

Have you even kissed a girl before? "Dat v shape. What's your back routine/pullup routine like?" "Looking good you have an athletic body type now, definitely more impressive than what you looked like skinnyfat." "Yo bro if you cut for 1 month or so you gonna be looking lean and athletic as fuck." "Hahaha you stupid little bitch, acting all tough and then calling other's internet warriors. I'd beat your ass in real life you autistic faggot." Non-lifting virgin of peace
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:18 PM
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I'm providing valid responses to legitimate oppositions, you are a waste of time and you admitted that you are mad. Stay mad bro
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:00 PM
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I don't get how I benefit from this? It's not like I am going to see the results
/r/seduction02/09/15 02:04 PM
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Why do you care about your reputation with some random chicks who you'll never see again? It's a worthy sacrifice to train yourself to be desensitized to awkwardness. I'm not promoting a strict IDGAF attitude, but you definitely need a good dose of that and you sound like you're on the opposite end of the spectrum.
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:52 PM
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You sound like a cool guy actually
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:45 PM
1

Show him some clues that you're interested with body language... the typical guy will try to notice how you look at him, if you play with your hair, what you do with your lips, how close you get, etc whether they are legitimate signs of interest or not. It gives them confidence to make the first move. If you're at a bar or a loud place get real close when you talk to him, like up to his ear with your cheeks touching. That's when I usually just go for it... if he still hasn't made a move by the e…
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:44 PM
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That's why I dislike this method. You're frustrating others for your own benefit. Not cool. I don't get what you're saying
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:22 PM
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Less awkward ways, sure, but the best way to learn is to jump in with both feet
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:21 PM
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That's because you are an insecure beta
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:20 PM
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That's the point. You need to get rid of insecurity and reach a certain level of humbleness to be able to do that to yourself
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:19 PM
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That's where I'm coming from, I'm glad some people get it
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:18 PM
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You should learn both as you said.... learn to be friendly and talkative with everyone, and learn to not be awkward with girls. My post only helps with the latter
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:17 PM
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You mad on the internet bro? No wonder you need help
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:15 PM
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Thanks, I don't really understand the rage either.... well, half of them don't get the point of this exercise and the other half are most likely socially awkward and insecure themselves so they can't comprehend doing something like this
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:14 PM
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Lol... so you actually have no problems approaching girls and/or putting yourself into awkward situations?
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:13 PM
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No you are just an idiot
/r/seduction02/09/15 01:12 PM
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No just you because you are obviously upset. I'm sorry that you're sexually frustrated but don't take out your anger on me, virgin
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:31 PM
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After about 10 times doing it all the way through I started to feel the IDGAF attitude (first few times I gave up and left or talked to the girl without making myself feel awkward). I'm in introvert at heart but not socially awkward.. but I used to be pretty uncomfortable and shy when approaching girls, so many 6/10 on the AA scale.
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:28 PM
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That's how I started too, and it's definitely one of the best ways to start imo. It's kind of the same idea of doing something that's scary until it's not that scary anymore.
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:39 PM
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"hey man heres how you fix your problem, make it like 10x harder and just do it, then the original problem wont be so bad!" Hah. I get it, and that is actually what I'm saying. Except you are told exactly what to do and you don't have to think or come up with your own material. Just sit there and feel the pain. It's easier to do something when you're just following directions
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:37 PM
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You're not "training" yourself to do anything other than creep people out. You seem to care a lot about what people think; you're too insecure to put yourself in an awkward situation and allow yourself to be seen as a creep in order to challenge yourself. I'm willing to bet you've been reading PUA stuff longer than me but not anywhere near my level in approaching There is no quick and simple way to deal with approach anxiety. Nothing about this is quick or simple. This is actual practice and it'…
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:33 PM
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I did this at a bar with an outdoor area with plenty of space where people socialized. Sometimes the girls didn't say anything and carried on with their own convo as if I wasn't there. I just kept smiling and nodding and looking at whoever was talking. It felt incredibly cringeworthy and awkward and I just felt like crawling under a cave. The girl I opened to eventually said "uh well.... it was nice meeting you!" and walked away. One time after 10 mins of silence I burst out laughing out loud wh…
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:23 PM
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:-)
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:18 PM
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How about do the same thing and try to hold a conversation instead of being the weirdo who only came up to say hi and eavesdrop. That's easier said than done. Not everyone can "hold a conversation" as well as the next person, and yes practicing will help of course, but this is a specific routine (instead of something vague like "hold a conversation") that targets awkwardness and anxiety. If you do this a lot you will actually feel less awkward, because you are essentially training yourself to be…
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:10 PM
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It's hardly attractive to go up to a group, say something idiotic and just stand there. You obviously don't get it. This is not about being attractive or caring what the girls think about you. This is purely training for yourself. I honestly don't know why I read this sub sometimes. Probably because you have approach anxiety lmao!
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:50 PM
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If you're doing this then you don't need to reduce approach anxiety, you're already acting in spite of your anxiety. Not really, you can force yourself to act in spite of anxiety and it will be tremendously painful at first. But once you feel it enough you will start getting used to it and you will find it easier to be yourself without the anxiety clouding your thoughts. There's nothing wrong with being nervous. Singers go on stage and they're nervous every time, but they can still sing, and you…
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:49 PM
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I trained myself to become used to it, and to be more immune to it
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:29 PM
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In simpler terms AA can only be beaten by approaching. Nothing else. Yes, by practice, and what I mentioned is basically doing practice. The only difference is that you are purposely putting yourself in an awkward situation. It's practice in hard mode, but it's not as vague as "just approach and be fun/confident"... this a guideline to practicing that anyone can follow, and it really does help because it is actual practice, and the more you experience the awkwardness the more you'll become immun…
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:20 PM
2

FYI-- These weird British people call highschool "college" and college/university "Uni"
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:07 PM
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Well first of all you will get a better chance in real life depending on how you approach a girl... if you seem fun and confident they will talk to you and you at least have your foot in the door. Unless you're particularly attractive, most online girls will not even reply to you.. and it's extremely difficult to convey how fun, confident, and what kind of guy you are in general when you're messaging online. The same girl who wouldn't reply to you online because you don't look like a male model,…
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:40 PM
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7 out of the 10 of us did
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:34 PM
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No shit, and I wanted to get my dick sucked... its a mutual beneficial relationship
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:32 PM
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It's much easier than online dating, but you need to get over the approach anxiety first.
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:50 AM
0

You look fine, if you come off as confident your looks will be good enough to get the job done
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:46 AM
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I was in vegas this weekend. Me and my boys looked rich and got bottle service. We had the best/biggest table in the club with 15 bottles. Girls were swarming around us like a hawk, they knew we weren't some average chumps. That's just an example but if you are rich girls usually pick up that vibe
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:28 AM
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Girls are humans, who have sexual desires and lust like a man would. Yes, handsome guys have a much easier time. Girls will often approach a good looking guy themselves, and attractive guys can get away with a lot more than an unattractive guy can. Trust me, I was fat in highschool and good looking as fuck now so I've seen both sides. Feels good man
/r/seduction06/07/15 10:08 AM
3

Lose the tanktops and train in 100x earth's gravity
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:39 PM
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Remember, it's not abuse if a woman does it. Thanks feminists
/r/MensRights15/04/15 01:15 PM
6

But a fucking retard man. Come on! anybody on the fucking normal bell curve fine. But dont fucking tell me she was attracted to him even for a moment. Why does it matter? She could have felt sorry for him, she could have been drunk out of her mind, she could have been so horny that she didn't care. Maybe he approached her differently than you did because he actually tried and you were in the impression that you "had it in the bag"... women pick up on a lot of subtle cues. It's also kind of rude …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:10 PM
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So naturally I thought it was totally in the bag. She turned me down. I took a lot of shit from people who found out she passed on me, especially the friends who did have sex with her. I thought about this last night, and it actually hurt. I can't lie. She fucked guys who were lower than me but turned me down. That attacked me to the core. I know that might sound like I'm a pompous dick who thinks he is above certain people, but we all are. Like you said, stop being a pompous dick who thinks he'…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:53 PM
1

You're in the right path on self-improvement; don't just do it for the girls, keep doing it for yourself. And don't worry about not having a girlfriend, it will come. The ones you flaked were probably not attracted to you. But you will find ones who are. And when you ask girls "let's go shopping together and cook something" hopefully you've built some rapport before that because that is a little boyfriend-level stuff for a random girl
/r/seduction24/02/15 04:08 AM
0

lol you are hilariously insecure
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:25 PM
1

sometimes its just for fear Fear the feeling of "I should have done it" even more... trying > not trying, no matter what the outcome. Be afraid of the disappointment that comes from not doing something rather than a mere rejection. Rejections are funny when you look back at it. sometimes its not to be creepy Who cares, it should be a compliment to her when men want her; a girl will respect a man who tries to get the woman he wants rather than a man who stares from afar wishing he could have her …
/r/seduction10/02/15 08:19 PM
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Normally I keep my texts short and to the point. And I usually end the text convo first, rather than allow the girl to end it when she stops responding. That being said, there are no rules... text her when you feel like it, text her if you genuinely want to know something and don't worry about playing these mind games. But as a rule of thumb keep the interaction one-to-one, meaning give as much as she gives back... don't be texting her 5 messages in a row when she gives you two word replies. wit…
/r/seduction10/02/15 08:04 PM
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Do a few lines of coke. It'll wake you up and make you feel like scarface, serious. Edit- before everyone downvotes me...he asked a question and I answered truthfully
/r/seduction10/02/15 04:54 AM
1

Honestly, I dunno what to tell ya. Women my age like men who are confident and assertive. When a man displays his intentions and attempts to get what he wants, instead of beating around the bush like a little bitch, women will him more attractive. But I'm not sure about highschool girls, their brains haven't even fully developed yet; when I was in 10th grade I think the girls only liked the good looking popular guys... but I was too pussy to approach girls back then so I wouldn't know. I wish I …
/r/seduction10/02/15 04:50 AM
1

I have this person visualized in my head of someone who is a smooth, confident and charismatic but I'm the furthest thing from it. Why don't you work towards becoming that person? I always visualize a better me too, and I ask myself, what do I need to do and what do I need to change to become that person? If you need to change your tone, practice the type of tone that you want to develop, if you need to improve posture, looks, etc put in that effort to work out in the gym, if you need that confi…
/r/seduction10/02/15 02:59 AM
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If youre like me, fuck a girl in the bathroom, move onto the next bar, fuck another girl, move on, and then go over to a girls house. Loled hard at "if you're like me"....whatever you say little virgin boy He's right though, the 2 nights of the year that's easiest to score chicks imo is Halloween and Valentines day. Those are nights where you should take full advantage of being single. There will be a lot of thirsty and lonely girls hoping to suck dick by end of the night, and that dick... could…
/r/seduction10/02/15 12:24 AM
2

This is all true, but I don't agree with the idea of if you don't prove height you're insecure
/r/seduction07/02/15 07:02 PM
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While that is very true, any attractive girl will have multiple guys trying to message her everyday... so unless you look like channing tatum or have the girl completely under your spell.. the guys will have to do some of the heavy lifting if they want a chance.
/r/seduction03/02/15 03:27 PM
4

If she's hungry just blow a load in her mouth (serious)
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:08 PM
1

Suggest it as a joke and see how she reacts to the idea
/r/seduction15/12/14 06:19 PM
1

but did you call her a slut?
/r/seduction02/12/14 04:20 AM
1

So what is it, STDs or is your dick in a cast? If you have STDs it should go without saying, but don't spread it... if you dick is under construction then do everything else besides sex. Act like you're one of those special guys who won't fuck until it's the right time. You know there are people who have relationships without having sex for a while right
/r/seduction01/12/14 09:36 PM
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Oh wow you managed to sound immature AND insecure thru one text. I can't imagine her thinking you're anything short of a bitch. Just call her a slut and end this
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:42 PM
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You know how people normally eat turkey? We fucked ours instead
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:11 PM
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Instead, focus more on "What kind of woman do I deserve?" If you live the life of a sedentary, eating chips and playing video games all day, do you really deserve that intelligent, independent, perfect 10 that you may want? No. Agreed. But tell that to the 5/10s out there who will not speak to a guy who isn't 6ft tall and doesn't look like brad pitt
/r/seduction18/11/14 08:45 PM
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Great read.... I need to stop procrastinating, I really do, but later
/r/seduction18/11/14 06:56 PM
1

I tried once, but she didn't seem to catch the bait - so I'm a bit hesitant to try again. Do you mean when you said "i'm even free now"? It didn't sound like a direct question that needed a response so I think it's fine to ask again. Don't ask via Snapchat though, I would try to get her number for that. You can wait a day or two to text her again, but honestly don't over-think this... she's already showing you that she is interested.
/r/seduction18/11/14 05:45 PM
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Some girls like to prove that they are not a slut... instead of just accepting that having sex is enjoyable for both parties. It's okay that you didn't stay... it'll make her feel less of a slut and I'm willing to bet that next time you can take the interaction even further. Don't ask her if she's ready to fuck this time or some dumb shit like that...don't even bring it up... just continue escalating from the kiss until your dick is deep inside
/r/seduction18/11/14 05:41 PM
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Seems like you are solid. Have you tried texting her for a meetup? She clearly wants to hook up, I would set up a date somewhere but meet at your place.. and go for the kiss within minutes and do what you need to do at your place
/r/seduction18/11/14 05:37 PM
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It seems whenever I get to talking with a cute girl at a bar and her friends, things go great...until they meet my boys. Then it's basically game over. No it really isn't. You're an idiot if you think girls won't sleep with you because of your not-so-attractive friends. Unless you are approaching girls in groups, how your friends look to them should not matter at all. When I'm in clubs I approach girls alone because a lot of my other guy friends aren't as confident and ballsy as me. I still end …
/r/seduction18/11/14 04:45 PM
1

Wow... you are a freshman in college and already "tired"? I wish I could go back with the knowledge and experience I obtained throughout college and beyond... college was THE easiest place to get laid, and once it's over, it is done for good. Keep approaching, learn from experience, and fuck as many girls as you can in college
/r/seduction17/11/14 09:06 PM
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I'm trying to understand what you are saying, because I assumed from the title that you meant older women like you more than younger girls do. But you prefer older women (25-40), is that correct? But you don't know how to approach them because you think they all have boyfriends and husbands? Well from my experience, older women are much easier... as women age they usually get more 'desperate' (for the lack of a better word) because they have more pressure to settle down. If you want to hook up w…
/r/seduction17/11/14 09:00 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/YJpgQ3k.jpg
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:48 AM
1

I get your point, but everyone gives them the benefit of the doubt, god forbid one person questions their integrity.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 09:18 PM
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You're not a feminist, you're just normal. Feminists only advocate woman's privileges and demonize men
/r/MensRights06/11/14 07:42 PM
1

Yes I am cold, I may not be the hero us men need, but the one we deserve... or is it the other way around. I still stand by my intuition that she is lying
/r/MensRights06/11/14 02:49 PM
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There is a new post on TwoXChromosome where a girl asks "should I tell my boyfriend I was raped?" Translation: How should I tell my boyfriend I cheated on him when I was drunk. But at least she is keeping it to herself, I can't stand the women who will ruin a man's life over a lie
/r/MensRights05/11/14 03:31 PM
0

Just read a lot. Not just posts from reddit, read books and and college-level reading material like The Economist magazines
/r/seduction03/11/14 07:31 PM
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This has got to be the worst fucking routine i've ever heard
/r/seduction13/08/14 11:20 PM
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Silence is awkward if you make it awkward. Let it happen sometimes, stop worrying about shit like that or what she thinks, and talk about things you genuinely want to talk about and discover. You won't run out of things to say, but you might if you keep worrying about it
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:53 AM
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Why the fuck did I read this
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:45 AM
-1

If she's working out in front of a mirror... like bending down or some shit... I usually stand right behind her and flex so it looks like I'm pounding dat ass from behind. This usually breaks the ice and I end up talking to the girl for a bit.... before being escorted out by security.
/r/seduction04/08/14 03:26 PM
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Yes because gaming women is more important than your own physical health and overall attractiveness...... GTFO of here
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:39 PM
1

Honestly you would know your interaction with her and how she is more than me so I don't know. But going off your texts I would give it a few weeks.. and if she's really that interesting I'd text her again, but if it goes nowhere that would be the last time
/r/seduction08/07/14 11:15 PM
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Keep talking to her. Be playful and make fun of the situation on how you are trying to get with you bosses daughter. Make it sound exciting, like a secret. Ask her if she wants to go on a date when you're not working.
/r/seduction08/07/14 08:52 PM
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This is not advice, I'm telling you the truth. You SOUND pushy, she SOUNDS like she is avoiding you which is pretty clear to me form your convo. You: Hey you wanna hang? no reply You: Hey you still wanna hang? Her: Umm I don't feel good, lets do it later You: Ok give me your schedule Her: My schedule is random You: Meet me in _____ at _____ Her: vague reply It doesn't take a genius to see that this is clearly one-sided, and that she would be putting more of an effort to hang out with you, or at …
/r/seduction08/07/14 08:49 PM
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Id like to date her in the fall at school but she's even getting a little flirty with a couple other office guys and I'm getting pretty frustrated. This is not a direct advice to your situation, but I just wanted to comment.... don't allow yourself to be "frustrated" by girls who you are not even dating. If you can keep your emotions at a distance and set yourself free of any kind of trivial jealousy... it will make your approach and interaction with her much easier. But with that said you shoul…
/r/seduction08/07/14 08:12 PM
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You sound way too pushy, and she sounds like she is avoiding you dude. Forcing yourself to hangout with her is not gonna get you anywhere. She is getting your texts, and she is not THAT busy, just move on
/r/seduction08/07/14 08:02 PM
4

Um yeah, go to grocery stores if you want to holler at moms and married women
/r/seduction08/07/14 01:34 PM
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And half of the time the girl will pull away and be like "wtf are you doing?" If you're a noob and can't play off the rejection in a cool way then don't try this, you will probably make the situation awkward as hell. If you are confident like Julien by all means this is what you need to do.
/r/seduction08/07/14 01:28 PM
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approaching is approaching... you can literally say anything you want. Most guys are afraid to simply approach, but if they do the sky is the limit. It's really about how you carry yourself in the conversation... are you gonna approach like a scared awkward shy boy or a confident cool guy? If it's the latter you can almost say anything you want as long as you own it. I usually just approach with "hey what's up" and if they're dancing I get their hand twirl them around or some lame shit, but noth…
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:50 PM
1

Finger her hard... guys think ur supposed to be gentle down there but from my experience most like it ruff. Then smack her so hard that u knock her out, jizz on her hair and make her sleep on the floor.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:16 PM
2

What if i go up to them and twist their nipples?
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:25 PM
1

Therefore, don't waste it on just anyone. Don't be that guy who goes up to every girl at the bar because they will all see it and assume you have no self respect. How do you find the right girl if you don't approach many girls to see what they are like?
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:14 PM
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Dude you just need to approach them. Don't worry about changing yourself, acting a certain way or any of that BS. From my experience SE Asian girls love white guys... but you gotta approach them and be assertive
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:20 AM
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You just gave a genuine reason for texting her... you want to see what she's up to so just do it. It will not look creepy unless you keep thinking it will. There are a thousand ways to say 'what's up'... do whatever comes to mind and don't over think it
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:16 AM
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I did not see the match right away. So no matter when I respond, it'll be late. I will nearly 100% see her within the next week regardless of Tinder. So... what do I do? How do I approach this without getting something like, "HA omg it's so funny we matched each other even though we're friends?" or "ew so weird that you matched with me" or "just seeing if you matched me"? Wow, that's a great opportunity to find out if she actually has any interest... don't be awkward about it, be cool and tease …
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:06 PM
3

I've been refraining from doing my usual long winded text game at the nagging of a good friend who's getting me to tone it down. Now that I have a second date, I don't want this girl thinking I'm not interested in talking to her - is there any time for text-game or just small talk leading up til Wednesday or should I maintain minimal conversation until then? You have a good friend. Every girl and situation is different, but personally I do not text unless it is directly to meet up. She kissed yo…
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:27 PM
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I just read the bold parts.... and I disagree with you. But I only watched Tyler's vids and in fact, most of his points are the opposite of what you just said. He discourages routines and tricks... he says to be socially congruent... meaning act the way you feel, don't try to go in with fake energy because you will not be able to maintain it, if you are tried.. approach as if you are tired. And about focus on getting laid.. his advice mainly revolves around having fun and socializing... he has t…
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:20 PM
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No not necessarily. If you get a woman under your spell and make her attached to you she will be hurt much longer than the guy.... regardless of the fact that girls "have more options" available to them (it's no secret almost any girl can find a guy to hook up with). I've seen it both ways.. I've seen a hot girl still cry about her ex 6 months later... and where a girl seems to get over a relationship quickly while the guy remains depressed.... and this happens because by the time they broke up,…
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:10 PM
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TL;DR: less attractive friend ends up doing all the talking and banging multiple girls while OP goes home and jacks off But in all seriousness OP is right about missing all shots that you don't take
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:28 PM
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I'd love to date a stripper, but this is not one
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:09 PM
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I kind of disagree. I've been seeing a girl recently and been on 3 "dates" with her: First date: went to a bar, strip club, then back home for sex Second date: bar, stripclub #1, stripclub #2 (after-hours), then back home for sex Third date: another stripclub, then home for sex, and sex again in the morning before I dropped her off nothing romantic, but we both enjoyed it and there was no pressure, just pure fun edit- keep the downvotes coming, im just telling a true story
/r/seduction18/06/14 04:07 PM
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Highly unlikely unless you are extremely good looking
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:57 PM
2

Sometimes the shy girls are the ones who are bottling up their sexual desires and just waiting for an assertive guy to break them out of their shell. I don't make myself more timid or shy just because they are shy, they are more in need of a leader. If you are talking about some ultra-conservative or religious girl that's different. But shy girls are not too bad to deal with. Don't rely on alcohol to make you confident or a girl more horny... it's just a bad mindset to have.
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:20 PM
7

You're not gonna go anywhere messaging random girls on facebook. Force yourself to go out and approach girls in person to build your confidence and kill your insecurities
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:08 PM
14

How do you talk to beautiful women? The same way you would talk to ugly women... with confidence and without over thinking about how you're being judged. Never follow a scripted routine, talk based on the situation and talk about what you genuinely feel like talking about.. it's more about delivery than what you actually say.
/r/seduction16/06/14 08:14 PM
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True story... I usually don't approach in the gym because I feel like it would annoy the girl more than anything. A few weeks ago I saw a stunning girl who I couldn't get my eyes off of (no creeper). I just said fuck it and approached her.... went up to her and said "hey how's it going" ...she replied back with a smile and I felt even more comfortable and ballsy so I said... "I saw you staring at me over there so I just want to come say hi... my name is ____ " ...she laughed, said something like…
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:50 PM
1

13 was unexpected but I have to agree... I'm picking up boxing because i think it'll teach the basics of how to throw proper punches which will help the most in a street fight
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:36 PM
2

You don't, but you do it anyway
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:21 PM
7

Just talk to them, the hardest part is approaching a girl and starting a conversation.. but you will never get used to it if you don't force yourself to do it. Don't worry about memorizing any pickup lines. Just go up to them and start talking and approach as many as you can until you're exhausted. "How's it going?"... "You look bored"..."You wanna get me a drink?".... something along those lines. Guys are supposed to approach girls and work for what they want, so stop thinking it's creepy. It's…
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:18 PM
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I always start with "Sup girl"..... it doesn't make you sound like a nice guy or boring/lame like "hey" or "how's it going" ....im not a fan of canned pickup lines either
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:10 PM
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Not off the top of my head, I know there are vids on youtube and if I find some after work I will let you know. There's one thing that took me a while to realize, and I used to do this too.. but there's this thing called "up talk"... it's when you say a sentence and your voice becomes higher pitched / light at the end of the sentence, making it almost sound like a question. This makes a guy sound not confident and unassertive... you gotta end your sentences strong with a deep/assertive voice.
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:39 PM
1

i think oneitis comes at different levels. mild-medium oneitis for a girl you are already fucking can feel like a dose of coke and is fun as heck. i wouldn't give it up for shit. I see what you're saying and it's funny that you mention that because I slept with a girl I met at a bar 2 weeks ago, she's 12 years older than me (i like older chicks) and it was probably the best sex I've ever had. I've been out of town since then and I haven't even texted her because I want to avoid useless chitchat …
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:33 PM
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If you are married that's a different thing... I associate the term 'oneitis' as falling in love pre-maturely. If you're in a long serious relationship where you both love each other and she means the world to you, then 'oneitis' is fine. And to that above list I also want to add: work on improving BODY LANGUAGE and TONE (it goes with confidence, but almost everyone needs to work on it and 90% of guys don't realize how important this is)
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:08 PM
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Confidence is everything. Never get oneitis. Be assertive and dominant. Make the first move and do it quick. Stop beating around the bush and stop being her friend, create attraction. Jealousy, insecurity and drama... avoid it like the plague. Don't trust a girl completely. Don't go out of your way for a girl, do as much as you would do for a normal friend. Know the difference between being a nice guy and a good guy. Approach as many girls as you can. No matter what there are always more fish in…
/r/seduction29/05/14 12:51 AM
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Don't be honest enough to give her ammo against you. Before saying how much you think about her or how much you love her (if that's what you really feel).... think about how you may feel if she said that to you and you weren't as attracted to her. Especially if this is a girl you have just met not too long ago, then usually less is more. It may seem sweet and honest to you, but to the girl it may come off as needy and unattractive. Be honest in ways that make her feel good and doesn't hurt you. …
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:24 PM
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Nice, i like that you are agressive
/r/seduction20/05/14 01:07 PM
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look though my post history virgin, i'm actually super nice on seddit
/r/seduction20/05/14 12:48 PM
-12

Wtf is this bro? Are you the kid with the acne?
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:45 AM
0

Just use protection and go fuck the shit out of as many girls as you want
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:40 AM
2

It takes courage to start talking to hot girl. But next time, say something that will actually help you. You should have asked her to hang out or her #, might as well at that point
/r/seduction19/05/14 11:21 AM
1

Yeah like the dude below me said, stop going into interview mode and asking questions one after another. Ask about what you genuinely want to know and talk about what you like talking about regardless of what you think about them. I would practice talking to random strangers and starting a convo.. I used to do that to get better
/r/seduction14/05/14 03:26 PM
1

The things you should be picking up from The Game are the universal traits that girls find attractive and things that they find unattractive. Don't get too absorbed into the PUA routines and mind games.
/r/seduction02/05/14 01:58 PM
3

virgin detected
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:29 AM
2

If i was dating her i would cheat too
/r/seduction01/05/14 10:13 PM
5

Lol at this subtle brag thread with useless info. Pathetic
/r/seduction01/05/14 10:11 PM
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