| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 51 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead on | YamiYugi23 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 04:02 AM | |
| 11 | Why does it seem like to get the girl you want you have to ignore her | Fundamentals | YamiYugi23 | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Would you consider this being lead on by F(20) or did I M(21) read the signals wrong | YamiYugi23 | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 02:05 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)i’ll do that for future reference. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)Can you please update me with the end result I had an extremely similar situation really want to see if ends like mine or if it needs differently | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?Yes only Indian or Pakistan I don’t know why I’m white and all white goes literally reject me, I’ve been with black girls on date but only twice and got friend zoned both times no kissing or anything. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 8 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?I’ve taken lots of action with various different girls this year mostly been rejection I was only close to sex 2 times and fumbled both Confidence I do shot my shoot lots of times as mentioned but I’m scared on the inside and it never goes away no matter how many times I approach or ask for a date or try to escalate it sexual which has never worked I haven’t even got a kiss yet This how do you get multiple women is the hard part especially if you don’t drink, I’ve done girls in my course, cold a… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Asking for number without starting a conversation?This is the best way to do it in my opinion Let’s say if your at super market or Library Hey sorry to disturb I would hate to leave the library or supermarket without getting your snap If they give it to you ask for the name if they don’t ask for you name back get the snap and leave it’s just low interest they feel pressured to give it to you cuz they don’t know how you react. If they ask for your snap be like btw what you studying or what you shopping for I’ve easily had 10 minutes convo using … | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?Yeh it’s my fault I blame myself for all of it I don’t know man I feel like I started to crumble because I’ve never made so much progress with a girl before and I self sabotaged as the pressure got to real for me. Also I know this stupid but I have so many insecurities and I don’t feel like any girl will like probably due to the fact in my early years I quite lame and never got any female attention, it’s only recently that I’ve really up my level and have put in the effort to talk to women what … | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?I regret it a lot man that was my favourite girl I’ve meet so far her personality was amazing and she was so funny and she’s wasn’t even my type but she was still so cute. Out of every girl I’ve meet in my life she put so much effort in me and for the first time it felt like it was one sided in the opposite direction I never really felt like I was chasing her, everything felt so easy the connection was instant. All the other girls I had to put so much effort and it was always one sided on my par… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 41 | Is approaching girls even worth it?Yes The first 20 cold approaches I was scared and would run away after getting their Snapchat and never ask for their name or make small talk Recently I’ve made up small talk of 10 mins in my last 5 approach and even had dinner with one of the girls I cold approached I haven’t got laid yet but I made so much progress First couldn’t even speak to a women I don’t know Secondly couldn’t even make small talk after I did homie how to approach Thirdly I didn’t know how to set up dates/dinners till now… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?Yeh it’s his fault when the contact re-started he should have made his intentions know or asked for yours I know how you feel I have this girl best friend for 2 years who I would never date but I have such a strong gut feeling that she keeps sabotaging all the girls I’m into especially the last one I was talking too which I really liked a lot and it’s getting so annoying I don’t like her and only like her as a friend as she’s a rlly cool person but I’m so tempted to cut her off | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?He wasn’t really a fake nice guy he could have been scared to tell you how he really felt and eventually built up the conscience to do so I was in similar situation there was this girl I talked to everyday for one month and I only saw her as a friend but at the end of the month I was reflecting I was like she’s funny had a great personality and I strongly felt like she had a crush one she was giving of a lot of signals from my perspective and for not being my type she was hella cute and up until… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!How did you do it I’ve been trying for a year and have got like 6 rejections most of them don’t even go past first date | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!How did you do it I’ve been trying for a year and have got like 6 rejections most of them don’t even go past first date | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onI never got to ask her out on a date She rejected my walk invitation I was going to ask her out at the end of the walk | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onI guess you not wrong 😑 | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onNo I’m not a freshman Im in my third year of uni not sure what’s that called in the states | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onYeh but the thing is I didn’t know the real her until I interacted with her From the outside perspective she seemed amazing She was quite, shy, a good cook, a scholarship student and when sex scenes come on in movies she would cover her eyes she seemed so innocent and sweet but obviously her whole personality is a facade | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onYeh it sucks a lot though because I made some really good friends and it sucks that one girl destroyed it all There’s this is one girl who has always appreciated me and in all my life she probably appreciates me the most so it sucks im going to have to loose her it’s just she’s not sexual attractive to me which is why I never asked her on a date and just kept her as friend I’m looking at new clubs right now that the uni has to offer thinking about basketball fashion and anime at the moment | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 4 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onI didn’t know about this during the chasing process Just found out now This information is so hard to take in because some things don’t make sense She would hide from me in different libraries but always asked me through text if I wanted to go study with her | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead on💯💯💯💯 I agree with everything It’s just hard to move on when everyone asking us why we don’t speak to each other and she told yeh story to one person and I lost my friend and we all have the same friend I’m probably going to get kicked out the group All because she’s a girl that acts shy and innocent and cry’s when she tells her story | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onI can’t lie she did I learnt a lot and it will never happen again I will ask for the date quicker next time that why I know the answer | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onYou think I haven’t already cut her off I have done it and everyone keeps asking what’s wrong between us because we have the same friends and I’ve already lost one friend and I will probably loose more because this girl personality is a facade she acts shy and innocent and always cry’s when she tells her story so everyone always symphysis with her | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead onWhat do you mean | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Would you consider this being lead on by F(20) or did I M(21) read the signals wrongIt’s kind of too late I cut her off and have given her the cold shoulder She’s been gossiping about me to everyone trying to find out why I’m mad at her she thinks it’s cuz she rejected my walk so now she’s calling me childish and calling me an extra problem that she deal with on top of her other problems and depressions and now she’s saying she hate all boys and is crying over one guy and when talking about the one guy she also brought my name up and went on a rant | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider this being lead on by F(20) or did I M(21) read the signals wrongShe plays with her hair and jewellery all Time around me but not sure if she does that around others I’ve never paid attention. It could just be because she’s shy She has never laughed at one of my jokes even when I have the whole room laughing but I heard her say one time behind my back that I’m funny even though she has never actually laughed at my jokes Not really she never asks question most of the time I ask her questions or she will start talking about a topic and I listen One time she was… | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?The thing is I talk to a lot of other girls but I just don’t see any romantic interest in them and most of them are very religious so a casual hookup is out of the question I think my problem is I have a certain type of girl and it’s a hard type to find I like the small silent nerdy girls with curly hairs She’s the only girl that meets that criteria that I know off | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?Thanks for the response and your right I was being silly Tbh I know I come across as putting her on the pedestal but I’m not really that far gone. One time she wanted help from me on an assignment and I said I would help her but then I was just thinking about the way she was treating me that specific week and I knew she didn’t deserve my help so I never went to help her and I ghosted all her messages and phone calls that day | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?How do I let her earn it | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:44 PM |
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