YankeeTripper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Dating multiple women		YankeeTripper	/r/seduction	25/11/13 03:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	If you find yourself writing more than a paragraph or two about an individual woman, you have a terminal case of oneitis. So true. I've had this happen in the past where I was doing great with a girl until I started getting somewhere with her, developed oneitis, and started acting like a little bitch, totally shooting myself in the foot.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/17 09:33 PM
–	Would you rather have a stable GF or be a single stud It honestly seems unlikely that you could try all of those places and only be finding what you've basically described as "dumb sluts". Statistically that just doesn't make sense. Unless you live in the middle of nowhere. Maybe you should try and change up the types of girls you approach. Regardless, you should definitely be picky when you're looking for a girl for an LTR.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 11:07 PM
–	7 Texting Mistakes That Put You in the Friendzone Do you have any good resources to improve texting game? (Other than what's in the sidebar). I used to be of the "don't waste time texting" school of thought, but have had a few girls flake out recently, and have been trying to improve my texting game.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 10:48 PM
–	Would you rather have a stable GF or be a single stud What's "everywhere"? Where do you typically meet girls?	/r/seduction	05/05/17 06:47 PM
14	Guys who successfully transition hookups to fwb/ booty calls what's your strategy? Step 3.5: Make sure it's at that weird porn angle pointed at your balls from behind.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 05:25 PM
–	Would you rather have a stable GF or be a single stud but there are no quality girls like her anywhere. That simply isn't true. You just aren't looking in the right places.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 05:08 PM
–	Would you rather have a stable GF or be a single stud It sounds like you're still caught up on your ex. To answer your question, I'm 30 and I still enjoy being single and smashing for the time being. Frankly, the work and maintenance of a relationship is just too much effort for me to want to deal with right now. I'm a bit selfish right now, and I'm ok with admitting that, and don't hide that fact from any of the women I date. I'm sure this will change at some point and I'll want to settle down, but for now I'm happy where I am. If your only reason…	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:55 PM
–	what is acceptance? how to deal with depression? If what you're saying is true, then I would say that this subreddit probably isn't the best place for him to be getting advice. Not at all because we don't want him here, but because pretty much all advice here revolves around the incredibly difficult process of self-evaluation and personal development and change. And self-acceptance is actually a part of this process. But I would argue that it's completely possible to accept yourself as a person, while still identifying characteristics and trai…	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:48 PM
2	My co-workers are awful My group of friends, and even myself, did this kind of thing to each other in college. Not out of any malicious reason, we all just constantly ripped on and berated each other because we thought it was funny. Looking back, we probably took it too far and should have supported each other more, as we now do in our adulthood. We honestly were just immature, and didn't know the right way to treat each other. Regardless, I found that the best way to deal with someone going too far was to throw it rig…	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:36 PM
–	My co-workers are awful How do you think they would respond if you tried to tell them not to try and fuck you over when trying to talk to women?	/r/seduction	05/05/17 01:39 AM
–	Is there a way to be happy but not be a nice guy? First, please define a "nice guy".	/r/seduction	05/05/17 01:12 AM
–	My co-workers are awful Shit man. It sounds like they want the girls too but are too afraid to make a move themselves, so they just want to see you fail. My only advice is to try and get away from these guys. Why do you even eat lunch with them?	/r/seduction	05/05/17 01:11 AM
–	Is there a way to be happy but not be a nice guy? Yes.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 01:04 AM
1	Forcing yourself to be not happy (smiling) and just be mean only = Boring person Uh, what?	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:29 AM
–	To date her or not to date her First and foremost, read all of the links in the sidebar of this subreddit. This will give you a good base and foundation of the knowledge here. And it should definitely give you enough to get started back on the dating scene again.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:24 AM
2	Asking a co-worker on a date Are you on mobile? It's possible that you can't see it by default. Normally on a desktop browser it would be on the right hand side of the page right now. On mobile, at the top of the /r/seduction subreddit, click the small "About this community" link, and read every single thing there.	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:20 AM
–	To date her or not to date her Sooo... what's your actual question? Either you want to be exclusive with this girl, or you want to get out there and sow your oats. We can't answer that question for you. If you do truly want to get over this girl and get out there into the dating scene, then the answer is to stop talking to this girl so much, and start talking to other girls more. In all likelihood, this girl will not seem nearly as amazing or important once you've got others on your radar. I'm guessing that you're a bit rusty…	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:17 AM
–	Asking a co-worker on a date I've banged girls at work before. One time it actually ended up in a pretty great year-long relationship with a smokeshow, and the other 2 times it blew up in my face and made my work life awkward and miserable for a while. Up to you! Yes you should ask her out. Start by reading the sidebar and come back when you have an actual question other than "guys how do I bang this girl I like?"	/r/seduction	05/05/17 12:10 AM
1	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" Cool, thanks. I'll try giving the fewer messages approach a shot, as I normally do pretty well, but have had a couple of girls flake out on me recently after relatively long chat sessions.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 11:02 PM
11	My thank you gift Number 4 is an important one...	/r/seduction	04/05/17 11:00 PM
2	Can anger be a sign a girl likes you? I suppose it can manifest that way. But more likely it just means that she is angry/frustrated with you. You're not giving a lot of information to go on, so no one here will be able to give a good answer to your question. What specifically makes you think that she's in love with you? I'm going to go out on a limb and say that if she's in a LTR, and anger/frustration are the primary emotions she's giving you, I would guess that you just have a crush on her, and are desperately trying to interpret…	/r/seduction	04/05/17 10:41 PM
–	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" Genuine question, what's your flake rate like with that strategy? I.e. you flirt with a girl, get her number, try and set up a date, but either she stops responding or cancels.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 06:44 PM
–	what is acceptance? how to deal with depression? instead you guys are inferior than me If we're inferior then why are you asking us for advice? Are you autistic or something?	/r/seduction	04/05/17 06:42 PM
–	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" Fair enough. Maybe I need to reevaluate my own texting practices. I usually have 50-100 messages before meeting up.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 06:22 PM
–	Small Town seduction? What exactly is your question? "How do I find attractive women in a town where there are no attractive women?" You can't find what isn't there. Move on to greener pastures.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 06:04 PM
–	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" I agree to an extent. Far too many guys want to text and chat for too long before making an actual move. But that's not always an option if you met her online in the first place. No girl is going to want to meet up with a random internet guy if she hasn't chatted with him enough to feel at least a little bit confident that he's not a serial killer.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:56 PM
–	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" Honestly in some cases it might be a shit test, seeing if you'll take the bait and get excited that they're drunk and vulnerable. That could explain why you've had varied results. Maybe when a girls says it next time, respond back with "Oh good, I get to take advantage of you now!" or something similar. (This is my personal favorite way to deal with shit tests; over-exaggerate and turn it right back around on 'em) Even if it's not a shit test it's still a funny thing to say.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:50 PM
–	Your experience with women telling you they're drunk... "I'm kind of drunk now FYI" Does it really matter exactly why they're saying it? Either way it's a good opening to tease her about it and escalate.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:36 PM
–	I don't know how to deal with girls not treating me like a regular person I'm what most would consider a very handsome dude, tall, dress decent, etc. Great, but that doesn't mean you're attractive to women. Good looks are only a small part of female attraction. If anything, walking around with this attitude that they should be attracted to you only based on your looks is going to make you seem aloof and arrogant. Maybe they ARE actually initially attracted to you. But I guarantee that it's going to quickly fade when they realize that you can't hold a basic conversatio…	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:27 PM
–	what is acceptance? how to deal with depression? how do i deal with my depression? This isn't the place to be asking that, but it does seem like that's what you need to work on. I would suggest going to see a psychiatrist or therapist to get diagnosed first. guys i have my own unique piece of personality which is not common among you guys and hence i struggle that's the last thing i understand. Get out of the mindset of being a unique and special little snowflake who the rules of seduction don't apply to. These techniques are usable by everyon…	/r/seduction	04/05/17 03:36 PM
–	I just texted my crush "Wassabi" after 6 months after she basically rejected me the first time. Stop wasting time with someone who rejected you 6 months ago and will barely even remember you. Find some new girls to text.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 03:30 PM
1	I lost all interest in looking for a new partner since my ex You clearly see her as more than a friend and are still caught up on her. As long as this is true, you'll never be able to move on, and will be miserable. The solution is to stop hanging out with her and find some new friends and girls to sleep with. Trust me, you're not the only guy who's gone through this.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 09:16 PM
3	Are there any books that you would recommend for self improvement? With a focus (perhaps) on seduction? Just spend a few hours reading through the sidebar here. There's a really good section on inner game that might help you. But if you want a book to help with your self esteem, honestly, just pick up a book on bodybuilding, or learn some other equally interesting and beneficial hobby. If your feeling of self-worth is shit, the best way to improve that is to make yourself better. This, in turn, will make you a more interesting person, which will help your dating life get better as well.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:28 AM
31	The Author of the Game Says It Is Nonsense Yeah he's married to a lingerie model. "Doesn't work," my ass...	/r/seduction	15/10/15 05:11 AM
2	I lost all interest in looking for a new partner since my ex YOU have a chronic case of ONE-ITIS: One-Itis/Oneitis- This is when you have an unhealthy infatuation with a certain girl (usually the feeling isn’t mutual). Typically, this feeling turns you into a bumbling fool. It’s also usually accompanied by the fact that you’re too afraid to make a move on the girl, or have already tried and failed. The solution is to stop seeing this old girlfriend completely, and find some new women. You don't think so now, but there are EVEN BETTER girls out there. And …	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:57 AM
0	How do I make sure I don't end up in the friendzone with this girl? I dunno if essentially professing his love to her is really the right way to go here... and if it is, this question should be in /r/relationships.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:48 AM
2	How do I make sure I don't end up in the friendzone with this girl? You have 2 options: Make a move in the very near future, and take either the success or the rejection that comes of it. Put yourself into the friendzone by doing things that a friend would do, such as giving her a shoulder to cry on, and not making a move on her. You will become the "safe" guy that she likes to flirt with but never hooks up with. I suggest option number 1.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:35 AM
1	So a girl complimented me... Yup, he permanently killed her lady boner.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:21 AM
1	The Power of Smiling Just do a sly half-smile. It actually works better in my opinion.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:17 AM
5	Hey guys. I've been pussing out of approaches for a few months now, and tonight I did not. Nice work. You should text her anyways just so you can have some practice flirting, even if nothing comes of it. What's your plan for your next number?	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:12 AM
2	I'm over this. Ok so imagine that someone really wanted to go bungee jumping, and was standing at the edge of the cliff for the first time. But then they stopped because they were scared. Then they look at you, and ask you for advice on how to jump. What would you tell them? You'd probably say something like "Dude, just jump." If you know what to do and how to do it, then no one can give you any more advice. You just have to do it.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 04:10 AM
15	Starting out for older guys? At 34, all of that same advice for the "younger guys" still applies to you. The entire sidebar in fact. I guarantee that whatever town/city you're in has plenty of cool bars with everyone 25+, working professionals. If bars aren't your thing, find some new people to go with and make them your thing. Literally just go out with some people and start approaching women you find attractive. You're in your 30's, you work out, and you have a good job. Women will want to date you. But only if you get ou…	/r/seduction	15/10/15 03:39 AM
3	Asking out a coworker I've banged girls at work before. One time it worked out and actually resulted in a pretty good year-long relationship with a smokeshow, and the other couple times it blew up in my face and made things miserable and awkward for awhile. Your choice!	/r/seduction	15/10/15 02:45 AM