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| 6 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ? | Yeahrightyeahright2 | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:33 PM |
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| 1 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?I'm curious to read about it because I respect the character. He definitely has interesting things to say. Don't agree with his views on relationships or on religion but he's very wise. I watched chunks of the podcasts and a lot of his videos. I usually shy away from books because they're not my favorite form of entertainment but they can be very valuable and I have more than once bit the bullet to improve as a human being. I want to improve my knowledge and learn valuable things. I have goo… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?No more mister nice guy Mark Manson's "Models" What colour is your parachute 12 rules for life | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?'' just Groom, look(presentation) your best possible'' Doing that '' You should simply be comfortable in your own skin '' Rarely am, anxiety problems '' have good posture '' Definitely need to work on that, I slouch too much, thank you for the suggestion '' have a masculine swagger about yourself '' Could definitely be improved, my only masculine element is a very deep voice and perhaps aloofness '' be able to make eye contact, and talk to(flirt with) a bitch. '' No problem doing that … | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?Haha, I'll make a thread on the main sub when I'll have fixed my shit so I can guide others, but for the moment I am not worthy | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?I will add that to my list of books to read, thank you for the suggestion. Weirdly enough I would say I definitely have a huge ego problem. I want to kill my ego and stop talking about me. Not in the sense that I wanna let others people fuck me over, but in the sense that I wanna become someone people can rely on and that is strong. Someone that isn't egocentric. You are right in saying that if I was 100% alpha I would be in jail. I think I'm more alpha than what I used to be but I'm not there… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?Let me ask you a question , whats the biggest thing you;ve ever done with your life that has meaning? Could be anything, getting jacked, completing a well known marathon, competing in a sporting event and won, finished a challenging DIY project? Hard to say... I would say that time some dude on the street was getting harrassed by a guy that wanted money from him and I pushed the dude away and told him to fuck off. Lots of his friends showed up and I punched one in the face. We ended up running a… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?I'd say it's probably due to a lack of fucks and because holding frame is exhausting. Also a hard time controlling my negative emotions (they last for long and they are quite intense). | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?That was a good read. I feel like I definitely have had enough evidence of AWALT in my life and don't really want to get hurt anymore. I think one of the main reasons I still go back to the well is because I try to rationalize that it could be untrue, that maybe there is a girl out there who's special but that's pretty delusional considering my countless experiences with women fucking me over. I've been wondering why I always wanted a girlfriend. I tried to go to the root. I never really found… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?Opening up about my struggle with employment due to my ADHD and about my ex girlfriend leaving me due to us having different values (she values money a lot and wants a man with cash, I don't care about cash and value people for their personality and how interesting they are) seems to be enough to fuck me over, they see me as low value male who can't get over his ex (accurate assessment). I do it on purpose so they reject me and so I can move on. I like to push boundaries and see how far I can … | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?'' You sound like you have low self worth '' Yes '' no actual boundaries '' My boundaries are not perfect but I definitely don't let people push me around and I definitely get rid of people that happen to be toxic. I'm not a king of boundaries but I made some progress on that '' I don’t get the sense that you really know who you are '' I have an approximative idea and it isn't a pretty painting. I am insecure, low confidence, gloomy, anxious but I'm smart, funny, decent looking, knowledgable… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 8 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?Gotcha. Very interesting take. So basically opening up is fine but it has to be done because I feel like being genuine, not because I'm craving for her support. Abundance mentality and detachment from her reaction I suppose ? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I refrain from acting beta with women ?I appreciate the encouragements. I try to remain myself but I think just being who I truly am doesn't work as it gives me negative feedback. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with randoms making fun of meWords are just words. I let people talk shit all they want. I don't even answer them or try to come up with a witty come back. Who the fuck am I, Eminem ? The opinion of irrelevant people should be irrelevant to you. Unless somebody wants to get in a fight with you, or unless you're the victim of legitimate bullying, all you can do is ignore and keep working on yourself. Can't win with idiots. That's what it means to hold frame. Showing others that you don't give a fuck what they say. Looking … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | How to get over oneitis for an asexual woman that's lasted several years?The only thing that worked for when I had oneitis was just not talking about them anymore, not stalking them on social media anymore and just going out there and slaying girls. Also realizing that AWALT and that no girl is inherently special. I hate asexual girls, they have this weird sense of superiority, give 0 affection, give 0 value to monogamy, look down on you for being a normal man with desires, are most of the times fucked in the head (could be sexual abuse tbh) and, well... won't give… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What made you guys go "oh trp is legit and true"? Or something along those linesNot liking to talk is fine, probably just means you're more introverted. You can be alpha and introverted. Talking can be very exhausting. However that's no excuse to not learn how to talk to people and be sociable when it's required. To get a girlfriend you need to take initiative and it's gonna require you to talk and to be sociable. There are some introverted girls out there and there is no doubt a lot of extraverted girls like aloof men. The extraverted/introverted dynamic can work well, it'… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What made you guys go "oh trp is legit and true"? Or something along those lineshahahaha definitely looked like him | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | What made you guys go "oh trp is legit and true"? Or something along those linesI was a weird kid with glasses that watched anime and played games, lots of girls back then called me ''weird''. I slouched all the time too. Still do tbh, that's what feels comfy to me. From an objective lense I was still ''weird'' in the way I expressed myself (not very talkative, bad communication, bad body language, sharp teeth, long unkept jewfro, acne, glasses). Not saying it's necessarily bad but I was just... weird, y'know. Nothing wrong with having such hobbies but females usually go … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Incel ConundrumYe, one thing I forgot to mention, your anxiety could be chemical. Try to have a healthy diet and healthy sleep patterns. Could be placebo but I feel like Tianeptine Sulfate (antidepressant) did a lot for my lifelong anxiety. Ashwagandha is good too but it makes me sleepy. Look up nootropics, CBD and microdosing. Be careful with substances though, some of them can break you. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Incel Conundrumno problem fam read the sidebar and feeling good by David Burns | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why not fuck tgirls instead of dealing with girls? This sounds weird but hear me out and my experienceBecause it's fucking gay ? Idk fam if we follow your logic we can literally just fuck female escorts (and a lot of red pill men do... well... just that) Also the higher your SMV the easier it is to have your own harem and to fuck for free, I use escorts to empty my balls but it's a once in a month kind of thing. Seems like a troll post though | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Incel ConundrumWork out min 5 times a week, only one cheat meal a week, stop caring about things you can't change (your dick size), drink plenty of water, change your sheets and pillow case every week, talk to doctor for your acne, don't touch your face '' I'm deathly afraid of being an incel '' Delete that shit word from your existence, you are a human being before any shitty etiquette '' Do any you guys have any advice on how to improve on this before it's to late? '' It's only too late when you hit 60. … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How to get over mental/body issues and lose virginity at 20.fuck a hooker | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 4 | What made you guys go "oh trp is legit and true"? Or something along those linesJust looked at every time women rejected me. I thought about how I acted with them VS how the men they decided to go for acted (spoiler alert, it was always the older, taller, more athlethic, more extraverted, more agressive, more handsome, more masculine, more normal, more sociable and more confident guys) | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:21 PM |
| 2 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.That's something I struggle with. I suggest meditation and mindfulness. Tried these and had moderate success. When you're upset take deep breaths and observe your inner dialogue, your negative emotions and the situation at hand. Don't try to suppress the anger or sadness. Let it flow through your body until it evaporates and do not react. Think carefully of the words you're gonna utter and speak with a neutral tone. Focus on improving your frame for a couple weeks. It should be your focus in lif… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 2 | How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental.This is a process I often use. I use why until it doesn't make sense anymore (kinda like a kid asking his father why until he gets tired of it). To solve a problem you need to go to the root. Once you find the roots you need to shift all of your focus to solving the different roots one at a time. Intent is important for self-improvement. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | With this tinder pics of mine, I seem to attract girls from certain raceIdk I only attract arab girls because I'm one myself. Some archetypes attract some archetypes. You're looking good by the way. I would delete this thread, though, it's not good for your reputation to be associated with the red pill. The first rule of Fight Club is to not talk about fight club type shit. Also I would ditch Tinder and approach IRL, the success rate is 100 times better IRL. Got my first GF by meeting her IRL not by texting tinder hoes. If you do get to slay women with tinder then k… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach tips pleaseYeah definitely don't take THC unless you know how it affects you Maybe CBD ? | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Tinder makes me frustratedFeels good reading that shit, Tinder makes me feel like some disgusting fucking oger but I get 100 times more positive attention from girls IRL, this shit's just toxic as fuck I'd rather smash an escort every once in a while like you said than to waste one more second on this garbo giving attention to dumb cunts that can't hold a conversation without making me wanna eat a shotgun barrel | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How did you find out about TRP community?I had an internet friend who was always a natural chad, he sent me the link and told me to read the entire sidebar (he was tired of me being a beta virgin loser that chases girls, get friendzoned and get 0 pussy). That was 5 years ago. At first it depressed the shit out of me because my worldview got shattered. I made a lot of progress (8 coochies slain but 5 were escorts, 3 were not escorts and only 1 of those 3 was decent-looking and she was my ex) but I'm not there yet. TRP allowed me to have… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Triggered her panic attack whilst making her cumI would ask if she's ok just so that on paper it clearly looks like a consensual exchange happened. It's also the decent human thing to do. Keep screens, keep the conversations, don't block. If she wants to meet leave on read forever or make up some bullshit excuse about not being ready for relationships and wanting to focus on your shit or some shit like that. What she did wasn't rational at all and is bathshit crazy, she has a lot of issues and it's not her fault, that's some very sad shit. Lo… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel when a woman says she hates men?That's a red flag. Plate only. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 08:52 AM |
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