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At that moment there are more important goals than "having" a women. Like a job, or a house or a car.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:51 PM
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She wants to be seduced in a way, so she can wrap it up in an exciting story for her girlfriends.
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:20 PM
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It's okay not to date at all for some time. I don't know how people go on a date with 3-4 new people a week. Unless it's just that one week and then break. I can meet one person a week on an intimate level and be all present, after that I'm tired and mix all the information who said what.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:15 AM
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She is just a regular person to majority of people in her life. She might have a mess in her room, leave plates unwashed for days, wear her socks two days in a row, enjoy eating marmite and perhaps shat her pants once or twice in her life. She is normal, but you are wearing tinted glasses. Look for imperfections because you are now staring at a picture in your head, not a person.
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:10 AM
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She knows you are a virgin and tells you she would sleep with you in a very indirect, feminine way, and you take it at face value. Don't ever tell her you don't find her intimately interesting / fuckable as she will get offended for sure.
/r/seduction09/04/24 10:31 PM
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When there is a mutual attraction, stalking looks like gesture of infatuation. When the attraction is enteirly missing, all looks creepy, even an approach to kissing.
/r/seduction27/03/24 07:50 AM
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French people usually add something which sounds like "se su-a" at the end, which seems to make women smile instantly.
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:23 AM
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TLTR?
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:40 PM
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Just to add an anegdote, the girl I'm dating for a while and knows I'm divorced told me something along the lines "Why I haven't met you before?". I remained silent and just smiled. But in fact I thought, yeah because I was married lol.
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:08 PM
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I imagine all the traumatic events in her live coming back again within seconds. All the exes who broke up, dead end relationships, biological clock ringing, all her girlfriends who have husbands. All you can say is: I'm sorry for my behaviour the other night, I know it was hurtful. I wish you all the best. It's a lost cause. Move on.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:28 PM
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Teasing is the key. I start with an ear and go slowly down, only to back up and start over again. Some women can orgasm from ear stimulation as well, which I find fascinating. I remember watching a great video somewhere how to make a woman squirt like a fountain by stimulating her g-spot with fingers. It is an amazing technique, but looks quite brutal. That's why I don't introduce it right away. She needs to get comfortable with my touch and presence. Also relaxed. That's why I learned how to ma…
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:42 PM
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But my name isn't Randomly... Make it more personal. Presentation, behaviour, character or anything that she can control. Not her looks only.
/r/seduction20/03/24 11:49 PM
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Just be yourself, own the consequences. Match the tempo, have your life. It's sounds like you are in a long distance committed relationship, but flirt with other girls. Not cool tbh. Either be single and commitment free and flirt or committed and committed.
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:25 PM
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Because I've been in a similar situation too many times and after the realisation I was there only to give attention and social validation, the best outcome I had was when I moved on. If you haven't kissed already, cuddled, hold hands in public etc, I suggest what I said earlier.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:29 PM
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Do not apologise for what you want. There is no need to do that. It's likely she is not attracted to you. Even if you made your move earlier, nothing would have changed. You should move on. Limit the time you spend together gradually if you want to keep her as a friend, but start looking at other options.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:10 PM
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If this is your goal, you need to adjust your tactic. If you are rated 2-4/10, but work actively on your lifestyle and appearance, my advice is to approach women who you don't find overall attractive, but have a characteristic you find attractive. Like idk blonde hair, blue eyes, something you could fix on. First date doesn't mean marriage. You can go on one, have a good time and never see each other again. Pretty normal. So approach it as testing your tactic.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:48 AM
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What works for me is consistency and being brief. I'm better in person, so I don't want to disclose all things about myself on the app. I have just verbs separated by comas. They match what you see on the pictures. So it is like: Niche travels, cooking, languages, EDM music and longboard.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:37 AM
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If the girl is attracted to you and likes you, your banter is funny. If she is not attracted to you, the banter will be creepy. Simple like that. So be yourself, notice girls who give you ioi and you will have the vibe you are looking for. I got very comfortable with it after attending a couple of comedy stand ups. The commedians don't need to be funny either (or I didn't find them attractive).
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:30 AM
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All my younger years I was after crazy girls. They were exciting, had so many problems I could challange myself to solve. I noticed that pattern. Worked on it. Now, when I date, I date only girls who don't give me vibes I was used to. These women are so chill. Feminine, compassionate, supportive to what I do. I don't find the same anxiety I used to have. And that's so good. I can work on my business, friendships, skills, hobbies. And when we meet, there is no drama going on. I prefer it that way…
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:17 PM
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Just put it in the box with the other girls glasses.
/r/seduction07/03/24 06:17 PM
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Pub crawls, free walking tours, booking a night in a hostel to join activities and social scene, they all sound like good idea. You could also play basketball with locals or join any other sports.
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:37 AM
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It sounds like a generic question from bumble prompts. Or someone who googled what questions to ask. I don't know what I would answer in the moment. But with retrospection I would make it a funny answer. I like to go out, eating new food and I like my friends. So maybe: eating out friends?
/r/seduction28/02/24 11:37 AM
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I guess so. I'm glad I changed the perspective on them. There are fun now and we both have good laugh.
/r/seduction24/02/24 03:14 PM
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That's a good one!
/r/seduction23/02/24 09:49 AM
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Tenerife then. I would check a cheap holidays website with a .uk extension and see which towns are mentioned.
/r/seduction20/02/24 11:49 PM
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Considered as such by whom? Regarding the books, I second Models by Mark Manson. It's about honesty and vulnerability. And No More Mr. Nice Guy, about self development. I would add something about communication. I liked Cashvertising. It's not really about seduction, but quite applicable.
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:41 PM
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Just go where Brits go on holiday. Magaluf, Benidorm or some Greek party towns.
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:09 PM
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Are you in England, was my first thought too! Cheers on that!
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:07 PM
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Open your arms and hug her as a welcome. That is a must. Move your head as if you do not want to kiss her accidentally. But hug is a must. No more touching for now. Just one compliment directed on her style. Something she chose to wear. Go for a coffee. If you are of legal age, go for a drink. Have two max, you want to be relaxed and fun, not drunk. Talk about the old days, something you discussed. Become phisically familiar. You are the same person she knew, talked to for a year etc. Offer to g…
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:04 PM
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So she said a soft no, and acts as you both agreed on. As friends. You have a friend, and so does she. It's hard to accept, but moving on is the best solution. It really is.
/r/seduction19/02/24 03:44 PM
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Wear it for you, so you feel comfortable in your skin. I like to wear JoMalone. They are rather unisex and kind of green scents. I use also Hermes Jardin Sur le Nil. However, I wear them because I love to travel and they remind me of jungle vibes and tropical islands I visited.
/r/seduction19/02/24 03:22 PM
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Then ask her, if you have nothing to lose at this point. Mention that you enjoy your texting routine and like to text her. Just ask if she would like to stay penpal friends and how often is comfortable for her. It's not really about seduction after all.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:52 PM
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It might not be fun for her anymore unfortunately. You are more like penpals. Could you just video call her instead to make things more exciting? But from my experience, if you are never to see each other and not actively planing to do that after 3mo, this relationship will dry up anyway.
/r/seduction17/02/24 05:23 PM
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The only girls that sent me their nudes or underwear photos were somehow not stable emotionally for a relationship material. And I never asked them first. Honestly, now I hope the girl won't send me photos like that because I connect it with a red flag. I would rather see the girl I'm dating wearing something feminine and something she is comfortable with. Like holiday pictures while she wears a summer dress.
/r/seduction17/02/24 07:48 AM
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Are you planing your whole interaction with imaginary-her before you actually open your mouth? So many uncertain scenarios can be paralysing. It boils down to two things : - Experience of having had random conversations before and feeling comfortable with it. - Saying Hi to open a new one. If you don't have the first one, just ruin a couple of new conversations, feel a bit awkward and you will be okay with it. This girl is not any special, and there will be many more not-any-special girls you ar…
/r/seduction17/02/24 07:45 AM
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Have you ever had an argument with someone not on the Internet? Did something that may cause you a rejection? Said something controversial to your date? Tease them like an older brother would tease them? Steering away from conflict is just boring. And women love emotion. A good mix of everything. From being teased, complimented for their choices, surprised by your move, taken care of when you walk down a cobbled street, uncertain about your feelings, disagreeing with your opinions and trying to …
/r/seduction15/02/24 09:08 AM
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I like to listen to good music on my way there. The same I would listen heaving fun on my longboard. It puts me in my mood. And I tell to myself why I'm going there. To have fun and to give fun to my partner.
/r/seduction14/02/24 11:30 AM
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Compliments about looks? They are cheap. Compliment about style and choices? You need to actually be knowledgeable about fashion and matching to make them. I find them they work better. I recently went on a date with a girl that loves vintage movies and she wears glass frames which resemble frames worn by one of her favourite actresses of these times. She loved it.
/r/seduction14/02/24 11:18 AM
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To me this sounds like a limerance. Just take her out, have fun and go for a kiss. Set sails, go into unknown, risk ego death and rejection. Even if she doesn't reciprocate, at least you have clear seas ahead of you and you can look for pastures new.
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:02 PM
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Most likely these women moved to a new city and are looking for friends, just as they say. Deception is not a good strategy. Just befriend them. Put them in friendzone if you like. Some people really want to be friends with someone first before considering them a partner. But you can spice it up. Have a couple of female friends, let them know about each other somehow, go out with them to pubs and meet more women there. That will give you a social proof.
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:40 AM
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So you basically don't know this person and I presume you are going to pay her share of the bill. She might turn up the most boring person ever with a big appetite. That will put you into overinvested scenario and you will be at disadvantage. I go on coffee date in the afternoon first. To get the vibe. Everyone pays their own drink and it's fair. They don't know me yet, I don't know them yet at that point. If the vibe is good, I suggest moving to another spot. The second date is actually the fir…
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:30 AM
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If you cover a lie with another lie, over time you become a compulsive lier. You should tell the girl, that you only cheated on her and disrespected her boundaries and faith believes using gaslighting and manipulation like you did here. Right after, you should send her a video about narcissism. There are plenty on YouTube.
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:11 AM
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It will help you out filter any women who are not into hunting and firearms. Which is like 99.9%.
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:40 PM
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Yes, this. I asked my ex how she knew I was attracted to her. She told me that you put your leg so our knees touched when we first met. At the same time I felt comfortable with her.
/r/seduction17/04/23 02:31 AM
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Can someone explain me why "are your hands cold" approach is better than touching her hand when walking and asking instantly "May I hold your hand"? I use the later and it feels more straightforward and aligned with my intentions? After all why should I lie I care about her hand temperature.
/r/seduction16/04/23 11:05 PM
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Maybe she wanted to be helped with homework and not to be seduced. Some people are just deadly honest about their intentions from the begining.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:23 AM
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Better start saving for that hotel and make it a weekend away. If you are so desperate for that sex you are setting up her and you for a big disappointment.
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:51 PM
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If you are insecure about your jawline, then start growing a beard. Also, do what women do. Hang out with less handsome men/colleagues and you will stand out.
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:44 PM
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Thank you! I spoke to her again placing my boundary again, explaining that this is what hurt me in my last relationship and that it causes me to loose trust and attraction for her. She received it. One week later she told me she initiated contact with two of her exes (one of them just had a baby) and mentioned another man suggesting a polyamory. It's not my thing, so I told her straight that I do not see our relationship going anywhere and I want to break up. Done and dusted. I moved on. In retr…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:46 PM
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Could you elaborate on the second part, please? I am lost if she is honest or manipulative.
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:44 AM
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Everyone has a different taste of humor. I find situational jokes and language humor the best. Some words got more than one meaning and if you connect two dots (situation you describe and how you describe) you can come up with a sense of humor. I think it's important to come up with more jokes about situation or self rather than your date partner. To develop it, watch tv shows and indetificate a sense of humor you like best. Then find more tv shows with a similar sense of humor. Your brain will …
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:33 PM
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That's why I said you BECOME. I'm not here to offend you. Go and play video games if this is what you like. I was just sharing my view of why women don't find it as attractive as real sports.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:16 AM
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Yes, you become more athletic and improve stamina playing non-pro basketball. I'm one of the 99.999% who spent more on videogames than I made. And while indeed you can make money playing videogames if you make it a full time job, it would be so interesting to have other things as a hobby instead of video games after hours.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:12 AM
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It has no potential for making a real change to her world nor it has a potential to bring more money to the table.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:23 AM
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I think you may want to ask more open questions like Why or How. That way you can learn about the other person motives and behaviours. And you can avoid awkward silence by letting them speak for 80% of time. So even if the silence happens, you can always share a part of your story. I usually don't tell much about myslef at all. Only by the end of the long chat she says 'and what about you!?'. People like to talk about themselves as you already said. And they like people who let them talk about t…
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:08 PM
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When not knowing what to say, saying nothing is a masculine way to go. Let the girl do the 80% of talking. And the best way to get people talking is by asking Why- questions.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:25 PM
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If she will bother to put a makeup on, she doesn't do it for nothing.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:16 AM
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Have in mind that you will have fun and you are there for fun and everything you say is not so important as long as there is fun involved. By the last hours of the party ask yourself if there is anything you would regret not doing while being there and just do it within 3seconds.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:07 AM
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So do you want to hang out with her or walk the dog? You played it safe. There is nothing wrong with you wanting to hang out with her, no need to put a dog walk disclaimer. Instead of texting her, just call about the weekend her instead. And thanking her for letting her dog play with yours. Are you really that thankful or playing it safe again? You are not risking enough but puting her on a pedestal already.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:58 AM
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If you feel that the girl clearly want you just off the phone, then I would take it as a sign of low priority and just contact someone more emotionally and physicaly available. Not necessarily another girl, but friends instead. It wouldn't work out the long run imo anyway. I would rather have a good weekend with friends than a date with a girl whom I somehow persuaded to go out on Friday night.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:46 AM
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It's like not having a girlfriend but the opposite. If you like that feminine energy and are at peace with your own masculine energy then you will like it. The fact you never had a girlfriend is not a turn off unless you make it so. But deffinitely it will help if you just hang out with girls as friends having fun together first. Otherwise you run into a risk of having a oneitis.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:39 PM
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All what others have said. But do it intentionally. It's not like tapping her leg to exaggerate your point in the conversation. It is like putting your hand on ther lower back because you want you both to feel closer while you are saying something.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:15 PM
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Confirmation bias is the name. Anyway, overthinking what is the best day to talk to someone is just a sign of insecurity and I would rather ask what is the best day to work on it. Which is today.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:45 PM
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Your age is not a problem. You are in your prime attractive years now and for the next 5 years at least if you are in decent shape, have no addictions, earn above average money and have interesting lifestyle. Dating apps are not great really. Go find women in real life by exposing yourself to new situations. I am generally shy. I met so many attractive women solo travelling, doing new activities and going to festivals by my own. I had no choice but chat to people. And contrary to my believe, I s…
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:04 PM
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Shower and clean everywhere (clean out the 'cheese'), nails, trim/shave your beard, haircut. Smell nice. Dress nicely and polish your shoes. This is all not too much and will make you feel really confident. For the date, do some activities before going to hers. I mean pool table or bowling is great. So you can high five, hug, laugh etc. Eating in a restaurant and chat is cool, but girlfriends do that. Oh yeah, the pushing and pulling. Put more effort into foreplay and she will be happy and pleas…
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:50 PM
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This. I mean that was an opportunity to have a flirty situation and some fun, but missed.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:17 PM
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What girl would want to be with Ryan who would continue to do other girls' homework presumably, leaving no time for his own life and even less than no time for sharing it with someone.
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:03 PM
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In retrospection of my last first kiss, I think what I unconsciously said was pretty amazing, at least for shy me. I said "Can I kiss you, I really want to kiss you." And went for a kiss half a second later. I think it was pretty cool line.
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:08 PM
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Just accept it. Make a conversation go on your best/annoying traits and mention it inbetween. Then you can even make fun of your logical conversation topics.
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:53 PM
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You put her and your health at risk. She was driving. You molested her.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:33 PM
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Honestly, no one you see on the street knows you are a virgin (they don't even think about it) and getting that first time with a hooker probably will even mess up with your self image even more. Meet people with an intention of having fun instead for starts. And the rest will follow.
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:48 AM
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How do you find them on Insta, can you tell, please? I assume you travel solo and so do they. This is what I do as well but never considered Insta as a medium.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:23 AM
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