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Outer Game Yerebeets/r/seduction31/05/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah that’s how you make a counter argument haha. Are you 12?
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:35 PM
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Don’t know where you got that from but while I do work long hours, I also invest a lot of my time into working out, reading and travelling. Does that make me an ant?
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:34 PM
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Misogyny is a hatred towards ALL women. I never said that I hate women, I said that there is an alarming percentage of women in their 20s who seem to be lazy. This is a small percentage of ALL women. You are mentioning a word “incel” a lot. Incel means a small PERCENTAGE of ALL white men who can’t get laid and blame their problems on women. So I am putting a percentage of a population on the spot, while you are also putting a percentage of a population on a spot. If that makes me a misogynist, d…
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:32 PM
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Great to hear that! Keep up the grind
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:58 PM
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Congratulations on your business success! Care to elaborate in which industry you work in? If that's stresses you out, please communicate that with her. This could be a hard conversation and maybe even a "trigger" for a breakup, but you should do it. Tell her how you feel and if she's a good person, she will understand it and try to find the solution. And maybe she will let you know why she is the way she is so you can understand her and help her improve herself. Let me know if I can help you in…
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:30 PM
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If you directed this question to me, no I did not. I don't think I ever insulted you in my replies, just stating my point. But I see that your comment made quite a few people angry. However, you are of course entitled to having your own opinion.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:13 PM
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I'm located in Central-Western Europe. Yeah I think my outlook was a bit skewed since I parted ways with lazy guy friends a long time ago and am only surrounding myself with men who actually want to make something out of themselves. But when I was dating, I came across a lot of women that I am describing above. My girlfriend is a very productive person, but she also has a few friends that like to lay in bed until 4pm or something. Another female friend of mine was also telling me how she was rea…
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:08 PM
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That's actually really interesting, thank you for writing this. One of my college professors was telling us that men do everything for sex. A lot of men hustle and try to earn 6-figure salaries or more just so they can "flex" while being around women. Women on the other hand rarely, if ever, wanted to make more money just to attract other men. Most of the times, they have a different goal / vision and making more money is just a by-product of it. And living surely is more fun with more money lay…
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:04 PM
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Did you read my post? How can I be labeled as an incel - involuntarily celibate - if I’m in a happy relationship? I wonder if you would say the same if I posted that “all men are lazy nowadays”
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah that's why I put that in my disclaimer. Looks like I have a biased opinion based on people around me. Thank you for your input.
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:59 AM
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it's unambiguous fact that women are exceeding men in education and qualifications. i don't think that's easy. Yes, but education and qualifications don't necessarily mirror hard work, persistence and burning passions to achieve something. A lot of people are studying, just because it was expected from them to do that this is very likely some form of mental illness which, yes, is running rampant in the younger generation. What do you think is the cause of it and how can we make it better? i thin…
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:55 AM
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Nah man, I'm Pete Davidson's ex girlfriend
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:48 AM
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Jesus christ just stop feeling sorry about yourself, you’re a good man, irregardless of whatever happened to you. Start immediately, not the next month and lose that whining attitude. Didn’t you read in your 15 years of studying that women don’t want some nagging pansy? Just go down and do a few pushups, start small and progress every day
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:17 AM
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Stop feeling sorry about yourself and get yourself an ultimate goal to get a sixpack. If you’re still going to feel like a loser when you’ll have a sixpack, find a therapist and work those things over. I never saw an example of such low self esteem
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:07 AM
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To be honest you wouldn’t even have to study anything, just go out and socialize and it should happen, idk what you were doing. How old are you, how tall, what’s your bodytype?
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:01 AM
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You were studying for 15 years and didn’t find a good girlfriend so far? That’s literally impossible
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:49 AM
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No it is not. If you send 1 or 2 messages a day to a girl, she will forget about you, unless you really make her sugar walls leak. Keep a normal conversation, escalate to the date asap and then just wing it from there
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:43 PM
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If you’re going to be 100% invested in her, this will (or already does) look really needy. You have to polarize yourself, go into extremes. Don’t just compliment her, also tease her a bit. Give her space and don’t text every minute, and on the contrast, wreck her ass in bed when you two come together. This is a dynamic you two should be striving for. The romance shouldn’t be like a continuous backburner or something, it should be intense pulses of energy
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:52 AM
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What would you say is the most important thing that a man has to do to keep you actively invested in the relationship? Is it being adventurous (not having every-day-is-the-same lifestyle), having an active sex life and rocking your world in bed, giving you all the time and energy he can, …? You seem to be very down to earth and since you had multiple relationships, I’d like to know what kept you in and what made you go look for a more compatible person
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:38 PM
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Don’t overthink it, ask about her day and tell her about yours. Send her a funny meme that reminds you of a story that happened to you and then tell it to her etc. On dates, do something fun and easy, my gf’s favorite date was picnic in a park, explore some ruins together if you did all of the classic dates, go hiking, just do shit together basically
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:17 AM
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Excuse me for asking, but are you retarded by any chance?
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:14 AM
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It’s $2000 for upper line in my country which is something like 2 monthly salaries and you can pay it in various installments. I know it might be costly to someone but it’s worth it
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:02 PM
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As a guy that had crooked teeth in the past, I strongly recommend Invisalign. Instant attractiveness and confidence booster. Other than that - great image in my opinion
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:09 PM
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My man, I totally understand you, but if we are real, you don’t have 20 seconds to read her “I just got my nails done, look at them” message and reply with “Damn they look good, you gotta show them to me in person. What are your plans for today?” Message? I doubt it.
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:20 PM
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Being introveterted doesn’t make you a simp. If you are introverted, try being a “mysterious, silent guy” rather than “weird, silent guy”. The difference between those two is your presence. Be dressed nicely and mind your business, but do it in a confident way. Speak firmly when you interact with someone or when somebody asks you something, etc.
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:11 PM
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A lot of guides, old school PUA and “experts” have this stupid rule of not texting for multiple days because “you are busy”. Of course women will think you’re not interested if you don’t text for multiple days, that’s something like mini ghosting. You can find 10 seconds to text back after 2-3 hours of work and in the evening before bed. You can have short conversations for 5-10 min and then go back to your work for a few hours. This is a bare minimum. People are on their phone all the time and …
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:00 PM
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God damnit guys, those two jokes were the bomb!
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:38 AM
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Nothing beats having an intimate relationship with one person you love, the sex gets better and better and so do the other things. I’d advise you to get one amazing babe and build that relationship, you’ll probably be more fulfilled than having random Tinder sexcapades
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:29 AM
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This subreddit changed my perception on dating in a positive way so I like to give advice back and join discussions
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:25 AM
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Yeah I instantly nut when I read someone’s “I can’t pull no women even if my life depended on it” post
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:23 AM
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Freelance Entrepreneur, 22, currently living my best life with an adorable woman (21) I love dearly.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:14 PM
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Doing this would probably look like “get banned speedrun”
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:33 PM
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That’s how you show that true animalistic part of you after all ;)
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:32 PM
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It’s funny how you wrote an essay but then proposed exactly the solution that could trigger her. Going down on her and then telling her a few days later that her hair was in my way which can be interpreted as “I didn’t like it” can be a big hit to her ego, she can start wondering “did he had a bad experience doing it? Did he hate it? Does that mean he doesn’t like my body?” I don’t agree with your method and other things that you mentioned are greatly exaggerated, but thank you for your response
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:31 PM
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Basically it’s really simple and straight forward. Be the best version of yourself. This means find a nice career or start a business, be healthy (you don’t need a sixpack, just make sure to lose fat and get some muscles) and find some hobbies / interesting things that you do when not working. Dressing nicely helps a ton (no need for expensive clothes, just some nice, fitting pieces of wardrobe) Get out there, market yourself. Use real life connections, use online dating. I had most success with…
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:35 PM
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And start bumping my chest like Tarzan?
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:53 AM
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Yeah that’s basically the most logical and correct explanation. But although I wouldn’t have any problem if I was asked that, some people mind find it in a negative way
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:52 AM
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No, that’s the consequence of having multiple sexual partners who were all shaven down there. The experience was much better, much hotter and consequentally, I strongly prefer it
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:51 AM
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Looking at my post history looks like it, yes. I didn’t get a single upvote in women dominant subreddits and I really don’t think that’s too much to ask. After all, she shaves her armpits, her legs, so why would that be inappropriate so suddenly?
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:50 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate your input. That’s the exact reason why I would like this - I think it will be easier to satisfy her and I will enjoy this experience much more myself
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:49 AM
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Thank you. I agree with you but as we all know, words can sometimes be interpreted incorrectly and it would break my heart to see her feeling ashamed or something. I’ll ask her, but if she doesn’t feel comfortable doing that, I can and will accept that.
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:48 AM
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You can’t be serious hahah, shaving someone and dirty talking to them while doing it? Does your barber whisper sweet nothings in your ear while cutting your hair as well?
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:45 AM
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This is something that a basement-dwelling, neckbeard sprinkled with dorito dust, mommy make chiccy nuggies virgin would say. You are well versed with a splitting ax? Do you not see how out of touch, hilarious thing this is to say? Are you even with touch how real life and relationships work? Get a grip man and get a life lol
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:44 AM
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Don’t worry my man, you will find someone soon if you put in the work. If you need any guidance, you can message me and I can let you know what helped me get girls
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:07 AM
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Yeah, just look at that post upvote ratio and comments as well. Idk why asking someone to be cleanly shaven down there is such a big issue? I wonder what the responses would be if I was a woman, asking my man to shave.
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:06 AM
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You stop having unrealistic expectations? You probably aren’t buying a ferrari if you make 15$/hour, right? So I don’t know why you are trying to fuck Beyonce level chick if you are not there.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:25 PM
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You lower your criteria
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:18 PM
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Are you trolling?
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:59 AM
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Maybe it would be the best if you become realistic. Not everyone can get 9s and 10s. Even if you max out your stats, there is still a possibility that you can be “only” 6 or 7. Remember that most of people are 5. And that’s okay. You can become a 6 or 7 and fuck 6s and 7s, but unfortunately you probably will not succeed with women above that range and this will only take a toll on your mental health.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:28 PM
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This seems like a very unusual thing to say if she wanted to test you / reject you, so it’s probably true. Go out when she’s free but if she reschedules multiple times just move on
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:58 PM
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Yeah honestly if it weren’t for someone I’m in a long term relationship with or see a bright and long future with that person, I wouldn’t fly across the country for some pussy, seems like a waste of time & money, but you do you my man
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:55 PM
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It’s a numbers game Create a good profile (I have 1000 followers and 5 posts, 3 of those are selfies and 2 of them are travel related so it’s kind of a bad profile tbh) Follow a LOT of women Wait for a story they publish to which you can reply (as you already did) After the initial comment take the conversation to the other subject and make it about her. Very simple text that can work is “I think I saw you somewhere before - and add something that can take the convo further like “I think I saw y…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:50 PM
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Looool have fun being a lonely virgin while other people have meaningful relationships
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:00 AM
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It’s not hard, you literally see everyone having someone by their side, you said that yourself didn’t you? Looks like you are the problem, not women
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:09 AM
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I think you should see a therapist my man
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:00 AM
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What?
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:57 AM
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Just have fun dude, make new friends, hook up with girls, hit the gym, the life is your oyster. We were in the covid lockdown most of my college years so that really sucked
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:55 AM
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Jesus christ this comment thread is like a r/niceguys reunion. Get a hold of yourselves and change your mindset. The world is not so black&white, there are good women out there but maybe you are just lack the basic capability to get one
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:50 AM
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r/niceguys
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:42 AM
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Totally agree
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:12 PM
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Oh my god I’m sorry my man. But a positive thing that came out of that sudden shitstorm is that she has shown her true face before you guys got married. It’s kind of a blessing in disguise. Hope you sort this out and find a better significant other in the futurethat’s worth being yours.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:41 PM
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That’s a bit too generalistic, this is the same behaviour as “all men are pigs” and mindset like that won’t benefit you at all.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:44 PM
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Nah I don’t agree with that. Esepcially not with the Indians being above slavic men on the dating market. Slavic men are “white people” after all, they tend to be taller on average which is also a plus and being “boring” might just be a stereotype you have about them, which is probably based on a few examples. I’d say that afroamerican and white people are equal in the dating market, while asians tend to have a bit more trouble with that.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:22 AM
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I mean it should already be obvious based on how you invite her on the date, I make my intentions clear feom the beginning
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:22 AM
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I agree with what you have written, but I wouldn’t wait for 6-8 days since this is too much if we were in contact daily and might seem like I’m ghosting her. She didn’t left me on read, she hasn’t opened my message yet, but if she wants to see me I’m sure she’ll reply to me. If not, I can shoot my shot in a few days or otherwise I’ll just move on to the next woman. Thanks!
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:48 PM
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Lol what
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:45 PM
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Yeah the thing is that was Instagram “photo reply” text so I don’t have a screenshot of that unfortunately. I’m sure I’m not the only one she was texting with while being in a relationship, idk why he’s obsessing over me since I was even the first to stop the conversation😂 Thank you!
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:33 AM
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Well first of all, of you’re a 5/10 and dating 5/10s, you’re not “punching down”. You are punching exactly where you should statistically be punching. With game you can get more attractive females and if you’re lazy or inexperienced, you can always go for the lower grade girls to not be in a dry spell or practice. Women do have inflated egos, but in long term, these women usually stay single unless they start realizing their true worth. But most important thing is to improve youself so you’ll be…
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:11 PM
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Grow a beard, nowadays it’s almost rare if you are a guy and have a smooth face.
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:41 PM
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I’m looking for a girl who is attractive obviously, has a healthy lifestyle, shares my values and wants to settle down so I can focus on my business 100%. But until I find such girl, I am meeting new women in real life and also online and see where things can go. I have fun but I also have an end goal in mind, I’m not just mindlessly putting my dick wherever I can
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:37 PM
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Dude how many times your masturbate isn’t relevant here at all. Just start doing it and you’ll see results quickly. Always look back on your approaches, see where you went wrong and fix that in the future
/r/seduction22/05/22 01:15 PM
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She’s interested in you.
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:35 AM
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The one that worked best for me was a late night drink with a walk by the river / in the park etc. It’s easy, cheap, can be ended anytime and you have a nice chill + active combination where you have tons of room for escalation and making a move
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:33 AM
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I don’t think you can go wrong in any way if you directly ask her for it. Especially if you see her again and she comes to you, you can be straight up like “yo you seem like an interesting person, what’s your insta?” And if they are just a bit interested, they’ll be happy to give it to you
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:26 AM
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Hm, that’s a weird one for sure. Maybe some girls want to test you a bit with telling you to go after another girl and expecting an answer like “nah, i only got my eyes for you” or some shit. Like a defense mechanism or validation seeking of some sort. Maybe girls you date have very low self esteem and cannot comprehend a man liking her or something
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:24 AM
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Well you can never really know. Some girl might like chubby guys, but majority of them prefer a slim guy
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:52 AM
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Well based on your post I do believe you have good communicating skills and that you are an interesting person. But women want to get to know guys they want to fuck, so they have to get that initial physical attraction somehow, and it’s way easier to do that if you look like you’re going to rock her world and not offer her a hot dog
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:33 AM
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Lose weight, get groomed and dress better. You HAVE to look presentable and a healthy individual. Being overweight means that you lack self discipline and that’s not very attractive
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:13 AM
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Yeah she shouldn’t do that if she’s an exclusive relationship with you. Try switching the sides, would she be okay with you posting shirtless after gym sesh mirror selfies? Probably not
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:09 AM
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Yeah change that from “her talking” to “talk about her” as others have specified. Make assumptions about her, ask her a bit deeper questions that are not too personal if it’s a first date etc.
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:48 AM
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For me social skills do not equal PUA tricks. This is what I was targeting. Majority of 2000s pickup artist trickery won’t work today anymore.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:06 PM
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Yeah I was exactly like the person you described in the last sentence. But you gotta improve and start hitting up girls and options will come
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:27 PM
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No problem, of course you'll feel nervous, I wouldn't say this is nervousness, it's more excitement (a positive kind of stress). If it isn't an absolute dirty shithole, she won't mind. Just keep it neat and clean and make her feel good and slam that vajayjay. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:33 PM
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There's a big difference about what women say vs. what women feel. She might have this rule, which is fine of course and tells quite a few things about her character, but maybe that's just her "anti slut protection" so she doesn't seem too eager and keep you in a bit of a mysterious shroud, increasing your attraction to her. Don't talk about having sex, you can flirt but you shouldn't too eagerly show that you want to fuck her brains out on the first time together. This is something you can try …
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:21 PM
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Go out, take a walk and say you want to sit down on a bench somewhere and talk for a bit. After a bit of chatting, stop speaking, look her in the eye, have a smirk on your face and lean in for the kiss. It's simple as that. Another example is when you get back to your car or something, turn her around and do the same. It's not that hard and if you don't make a move soon, you'll lose her.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:18 PM
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PUA burlesques work only short-term. You *can* get a girl with games and gimmicks, but if you aren't a valuable guy they will smell it and go away after a few hook ups. What works is really simple and shouldn't be overengineered: Be a well situated (fitness, mental health, career, education, living conditions, money), well spoken, well mannered and well dressed guy, this will significantly improve your confidence and you won't have problem finding girls that are attracted to you, with whom you c…
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:15 PM
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Bruh why u dating such ratchet hoes?
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:05 PM
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Yeah, that’s because you only started. Don’t date only 1 girl or you’ll feel a bit shite if things go south. You have been in a LTR, have some fun now. If you date multiple chicks, you hardly get attached to just one
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:47 AM
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Don’t listen to others, have a “fuck it” mentality, it might work. But don’t overdo it. First, try to make yourself known to her. Be in her proximity for a few minutes just so she acknowledges you or make an eye contact with her. If she looks back at you a few times, you can smile to her and then “focus on your studying” If you find a girl interesting, you can simply walk past her at the end, give her a piece of paper that says something like “Hey, you seem like an interesting girl, I’d like to …
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:43 AM
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Your advantage is being somewhat “exotic” to them, use it wisely. I’m from central europe and some chicks would probably hook up with you just to say they were “with an american guy”. Also consider that girls over here are a bit more reserved and not necessarily open to cold approaches, especially in their day to day life. Since you’re a bit shorter fella, Spain would probably be best for you since the average man is shorter I believe, but height doesn’t really matter if everything else is on po…
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:30 AM
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There are two things you should take into consideration. Girls who fuck you on the first date usually do that with multiple guys so if they ghost you, it doesn’t necessarily mean you are bad in bed, they maybe just want to jump on another dick #femaleempowerment Maybe your bed game is not the best, so you should improve. This can be only done with having sex most of the time so maybe get a fuck buddy or two, improve yourself and meanwhile, start looking for a girl, worthy of a long term relation…
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:27 AM
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Who the fuck starts describing a person with their zodiac sign jesus fucking christ some of y’all are wild😂
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:24 AM
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Big nose, many hoes
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:23 AM
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Yep, this is very normal. I was in her boat multiple times in the past few months and was also on your side a few times. Sometimes you get a very good vibe on the first date and everything feels alright, but then you find out you don’t see a future with this person on the next few dates. Everyone of us has loads of options nowadays so we just skip to the next prospect to see if there is more compatibility. There’s nothing wrong with you, nothing wrong with her, but she just didn’t feel you that …
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:36 AM
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This doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t wanna meet you. Continue texting if you want and ask her out the next week, if she still declines, move on
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:23 PM
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Telling a girl she’s curvy can result in a negative response, if she’s feeling insecure about herself. Watchout the next time
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:48 PM
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A funny thing I figured out through talking to chicks on parties is that if they are really hot, they appreciate if you talk to them like they are normal human beings and poke fun at them. I said normal human beings because most of men talk to them like they are aliens, always pushing for something, trying to portray their best image and put them on a pedestal. The more you show them that you are on the same level with this playful banter rather, more success you will have.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:40 AM
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Women love positive energy. They don't want to hear you whining about random Joe, they want you to focus on the positive and make her interaction with you fun and light. It can also come up as "why the fuck is he talking shit about other men, does he try to compensate for something and make himself look better"? And this is something no chick will like.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:18 AM
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I work from home in a small village and don't do day game at all. A lot of my success comes from a good Instagram profile and replying to interesting girl's stories with something interesting to spark up a conversation. On Instagram you can find women you could never meet in your day to day life otherwise, so it would be stupid to not use it as a tool. Get some good pictures, crank up your followers number and it will be really easy to get new prospects on a weekly basis.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:16 AM
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Social butterflies can like other social butterflies, but they can often also like calm, grounded men. You have to find out what kind of person you are and go for the girls that are receptive to your personality. Don't change your whole persona just to get laid with some chicks.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:14 AM
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Coach Kyle is a good example of a pickup youtuber. I learned a lot from him and regarding his looks, this is also something you can learn from him - he looked like a scrawny kid in his early 20s and looks way better now. Overall, he seems like a genuine guy and has good tips.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:28 AM
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I had a very similar experience but her being always “busy” is a lie, no matter what you tell to yourself. Every girl can find an hour or two a week if she wants to see you. You’re just not a priority so it’s best to move on.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:54 PM
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Congrats dude and an 8 hour date? Don’t you guys have anything else to do in your lives?😂 Happy for you mate!
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:28 PM
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In my experience, get rejected a LOT of times and it won’t affect you anymore hahah
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:33 PM
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If you value your worth based on the outcome, you will feel bad when rejected. You have to shift that (and it's not easy, I know) mindset and know that irregardles of the outcome, you are still a good person. Rejection might happen irrelevant to your looks / mindset / confidence etc., the girl that rejected you might just be going through a diffucult time or something bugged her and she didn't want to go through with it.
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:17 PM
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If you are still nervous around women, you interact too little with them. Maybe you feel too much of a pressure since you always want to go "for the kill". Start slow. Start talking with a cashier (normally, not in a flirty way), make a little remark of the situation when a cute bartender brings you a drink, start interacting with women overall and go from there. Make female friends who can introduce you to other women. After you feel comfortable just talking to them, you can start approaching w…
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:27 AM
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Oh I love what you have written! The thing is that women feel our energy, they subconsciously know if we are grounded, relaxed, calm and if they feel that, they will feel secure and calm themselves which is the only way we can successfully escalate the situation to the bedroom. Of course it will be hard for you as a guy at first, but you should expect failures in the beginning and focus on improving each interaction so sometimes down the line, you will totally feel content when doing your thing.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:12 AM
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If it feels forced and cringey, you're presenting something fake while deep inside you know you're still not there. That can be a good sign since it means that you know you can be better, so you have to improve. You should play a long term game. Improve yourself internally (mentally, physically, career wise) and don't stop pursuing women, even just for the sake of practicing. After a while it will start to feel natural and you'll get better and better results. Let me know if you need anything el…
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:55 AM
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I am not asking for the advice though?
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:53 AM
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Lol idc, I know my strategy works and I never got flaked on this kind of an approach. Of course some girls rejected my offer, but that's okay since we have to weed out unreceptive women asap.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:13 AM
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Jesus christ some of you are desperately trying to appear “alpha”, “high value” and “I’m doing shit if you’re coming with me or not” type of bullshit. She should know you are high value based on your career, lifestyle etc., not how you invite her out lmao. She knows you like her, just simply text her “You seem interesting / fun, I’d like to have a drink with you. How’s Thursday or Friday at 7pm?” Giving more options, you lower the chance of her having things to do on a specific day and if she is…
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:47 AM
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I usually take it out and slam it on the table, just so I can show dominance
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:13 PM
8

One example that I can think of is if you are talking with a girl that is telling you about her studies or having high grades in her college classes, you can reply with something like "oh so you're a good girl, too bad I only like the naughty ones ;)" with a bit of a smirk on your face. It's light, it's fun, it has sexual innuendo and her response to that can tell a lot about her interest in you. She can reply with something like "well ... I didn't tell you about this side yet" which clearly sho…
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:16 PM
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Sure thing! Let me know in DMs if you have any more questions regarding that.
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:02 PM
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Don’t tell her you’re going to kiss her, don’t tell her you pussied out the last time. Show that with your actions. But you unfortunately already missed the chance with this one, learn from it and do better next time.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:07 AM
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She knows that you flirt with her and decided to not give the same energy back. That means she is probably not attracted, you should simply let chicks like this go, maybe you can spark up something after a few months or you can simply stop hanging out with girls like that
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:41 AM
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Start flirting slowly, add sexual innuendos in the conversation and escalate from that. Always try to push boundaries a bit and recalibrate if yo think she gets uncomfortable. There is always a possibility that you will appear creepy to some girls, but you should play this game to win (get women) instead of playing not to lose (being too safe)
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:37 AM
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Often being too “nice” or “friendly” means you haven’t struck any intense feelings in her body. You were too accepting, there was no polarity, flirting, strong eye contact etc. A lot of guys just chit chat with women like their grandma, she should know you have a dick!
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:05 AM
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Do that my man! No reason to lose energy for people that don't want to do anything with you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:29 PM
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Nothing happened afterwards, the last time I asked her when she’s free she left me on read, after about a week or two I was kinda bored and sent her “I didn’t think you were the flaky type ;)” text just to see if she would reply anything but as you can probably guess, she didn’t even open my message but is watching my IG stories. Fortunately I have quite a few options to date so it didn’t really bum me out, so I wouldn’t even go out with her now if she hit me up, since she clearly doesn’t deserv…
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:32 PM
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Yeah dude I was in the same boat about a month ago. Went out with this really good looking girl, we made out and she seemed really interested, but after the date her replies were always “busy with work” until she left me on read, I should have stop pursuing her after she declined my invitation the second time but I was trying my best to get her out again. Never making the same mistake again. Everybody has at least an hour or two per week to meet with someone if they want to.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:08 PM
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Thank you. This is what I was trying to say with the 3rd paragraph. A lot of girls have some rules regarding how fast they let you escalate, but even the ones who are very conservative will accept you invitations for drinks, hanging out and reply relatively quick. I totally agree with you that you should be persistent for a short amount of time, but even while doing that, you can often see if it is working or if you are talking to a wall.
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah, she was probably stringing you along and now that she knows she can lose you, suddenly the situation changes.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:21 PM
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Yeah the most useless thing you can do is lose your time / energy wondering about the person you don’t hear back from, meanwhile the other person probably forgot that you even exist if I exaggerate a bit
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:19 PM
1

She accepted me but didn’t follow back. Since not following back isn’t the best scenario (follow back would def show interest), I’ll probably wait for her next story where I can comment something funny and possibly connected to our convo yesterday and go from there. Thank you for your advice!
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:19 PM
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Please do not do that. Girls don’t want to give you permission to kiss, you have to read her signal correctly and just make it happen.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:01 AM
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Lol no. You’ll still be a pussy, just with more muscle and potential roid side effects, not worth at all. Build on your confidence in other areas
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:20 AM
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When in doubt, always go for the classics. This can pretty much be a global rule.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:18 AM
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Knowing a girl is fantasizing about me would turn me on more, we also like to feel wanted and that’s completely normal.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:17 AM
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Nothing changes with money. You’re still gonna be a beta buck in a ferrari. You should earn more while improving your game with chicks. Only way to win, everything else is just procrastination.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:15 AM
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Lol please stop giving out an advice like that.
/r/seduction24/04/22 06:04 AM
1

Thank you for your advice. Well we basically always had a 1-2 messages per day dynamic (excluding the breaks), it was never frequent texting so I'd like to keep that "balance". I don't know if I should push for a date immediately, since both of my messages before directly or indirectly pointed towards the date and she said she'll let me know when she's free because she has a lot going on. And now we're here where I messaged her again with this "how did your exams go" text. Do you think it would …
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:46 PM
1

Stop using Tinder and start using Instagram and real life approaching
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:41 PM
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I think that was him yeah. And it totally makes sense. We can't be mad at women for having those standards, instead we should meet them. This does not mean we should do all the work just to get laid, but getting your physique, mindset and money in order will tremendously improve your life quality.
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:50 AM
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I don’t know who said it, but you cannot be short, fat and poor. This way, you’ll go straight to the bottom of the dating market. If you are short, which unfortunately you are, please get in shape as soon as possible and dress nicely, have a career, and you will meet girls that would love to be involved with you. And hit the gym, we don’t want you to be skinny fat! You can probably lost it relatively fast and this will also impact your confidence, which will make it easier for you to talk to bab…
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:46 PM
1

Hmm, makes sense. Thank you!
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:15 PM
1

Yeah I know you’re probably right, I’ll see if she texts me or responds to my story or something in the next days which would mean she has some interest, otherwise it’s probably better to focus on other chicks
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:15 PM
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My hairline started receeding at 18, it’s now clearly seen that I’m gonna be bald in a few years and I somehow tried covering this up with linger, thinner hair. BIG mistake. Grow a beard, get a very short cut or even a buzz cut if you don’t want to shave it all off and hit the gym. You can look great if you get muscular, grow a beard and shave or buzz cut your head.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah, girls can basically smell the needines. That's why it's important to never put your eggs in one basket till you are 100% you want a long term relationship with someone. Otherwise, you put too much pressure on making things right with 1 person.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah maybe thinking about your "golden 30s" is just one way of finding motivation / something too look up to if you are struggling. I had a year long dry spell between ages 21 and 22 and my problem was exactly what you described. I had some medical issues, then improved myself a lot, but I didn't take action. When I started looking at dating as a numbers game and fixed my oneitis illusion, everything changed. Thank you for your input and your posts, I looked at your field reports and they are ve…
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:39 PM
5

I actually never thought about it like that but it makes total sense. Suddenly there is a lot more criteria when it comes to picking your sexual partners
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:23 PM
2

Where exactly do you think you have problems? I had a year and a half dry spell till last summer and saw results quickly after fixing some things. Maybe I can help
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:21 PM
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Will do that, thank you
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:28 PM
1

Thank you, this makes total sense.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:27 PM
1

Sure, crying like a soy boy on reddit and not getting any luck with the chicks are two of the most common problems a rich, jacked guy can have. You are pathetic but please continue making a fool of yourself, I like to watch you do that more than watching an amazing movie lmao, you’re a lost case incel
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:01 PM
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Dude stop crying, nothing good can come from this. I don’t think of myself as a guy with a great face, I’m actually a bit chubby and a bit under average regarding height, but I still get plenty of success. Hit the gym, make money and have an interesting life. And the girls will come to you.
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:22 PM
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Thank you for such a long and thoughtful reply. Although she didn’t reply to my text, she sent me something on instagram. I’ll give her some space for a day or two, and then reply to her and make plans for another date. If there wouldn’t be any interest, I doubt I would get that Instagram story tonight. I won’t reply to her immediately because that would seem needy, I’ll wait till Sunday and hit her up again, hoping for the best. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:19 PM
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Lol wtf :D When I leaned in, she said she doesn't "hook up just like that", while she was totally comfortable with me holding her and initiating a kiss. After that we were making out and she was very into it. A lot of girls do that because they don't want to seem "too easy". If you can't understand that, I believe you are in the wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:48 PM
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I guess sometimes it's good to hear the same thing you are thinking, but from the other person's mouth. Thank you, will definitely do that!
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:12 PM
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Yeah dude girls can smell negativity like this a mile away, I believe a lot of guys go through this kind of “resentment of women” phase, but don’t lose hope.
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:57 PM
2

"First time she did this and I responded "oh I thought you probably just forgot about me" and her respond was "If I forgot about you I would reply quickly"..." Big Oof, I would never reply after that text, it would actually lower my attraction to her since she has such a bitchy behaviour
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:18 PM
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Strangely enough, I had more success on insta than tinder. But yeah, since I live in a small village and also work from home, I believe I gotta move my ass to another city and start meeting women in person, through shared activities and friends
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:27 PM
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Do you want the girls to decide on swiping based on your height? It’s really irrelevant since your average. I know girls that told me that they had a requirement about guy being significantly taller and they ended up with a guy that didn’t meet that criteria but had other, much better attributes that made height seem meaningless.
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:55 PM
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Yeah I just hope she’s mature enough (she’s 25 and i’m 22) to know that. Thank you!
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:30 PM
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I don’t know for sure, but she might. The friend of a girl who now ghosted me, also saw me going on a date with another girl previous week
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:57 PM
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Well I’ll try to make it as short as possible. I asked her out and said I’m available on either next friday or sunday and we can go to a cocktail bar nearby at 8 o’clock. She said she’d love to go out and that saturday suits her better. Then after 5 mins she told me that she forgot that she already has plans that day. I didn’t reply but sent her (and others) an insta photo that lasts for 10 secs of myself going out, she liked it and asked me “Where are you going?☺️” so she clearly has shown some…
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:08 PM
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Thank you, I guess I can try again in a few days (we planned something for friday so maybe I can reach out on wednesday) and if I get "seen" or "delivered", I move on to the other prospects :D
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:51 PM
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Maybe that really is the best thing to do, thanks man!
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:24 PM
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And don't you come back no more, no more, no more, no more, hit the road jack?
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:23 PM
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I'm texting with 6-7 girls at the same time because I'm well aware of flaking or conversations just not going in a right direction, but sometimes you just want to get this one haha
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:22 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:08 PM
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I think this is the perfect answer I was looking for. I think I just wasn’t in that state where I would dominantly, sexually flirt with her, I was holding a bit back since I didn’t go on any date in a month because of sickness and I wasn’t vibing with the absolutely PACKED cafe with little to no proximity to other tables. Thank you for your input and hopefully I’ll be in a better scenario and better mindset so I can freely sexualize the conversation
/r/seduction21/11/21 09:05 PM
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I used an excuse - checking out her watch - to touch her and hold her hand. She didn’t pull back so there was no problem regarding touching etc., but the lack of the eye contact confused me af since I think this is where the magic can easily happen. As I stated in other comment, I’ll give it a week, spend my time with other chicks and hit her up for meeting once more. Thanks!
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:57 PM
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I’m not a strong believer in the last minute of the date kiss, I like to make a move before, possibly when I’m switching from cafe to a walk and we find a nice little bench to sit for a bit. But since the weather is bad now I don’t think it’s a good idea to freeze outside to follow that pattern. If we are going with my car and it’s raining, I think I could use that situation to move her close to me - under the same umbrella, walk her to my car and before she goes in telling her something simple …
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:55 PM
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To be honest I think my flirting was too “friendly” if that makes sense, it wasn’t powerful since I couldn’t emphasise my words with a strong eye contact or something. I think I’ll hit her up after a week and let her know that I’d like to see her once more and try to sexualize it more and just go fuck it mode. I can either close or calmly move on, knowing that she just wasnt for me. Thank you for your input!
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:49 PM
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Any recommendations? It’s kinda wack that I’m living in a small city that doesn’t offer a lot more than your ordinary cafe, cocktails, dinners and a walk in the park with the current covid restrictions
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:45 PM
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She's actually dated only 1 guy before and is always hanging out with her female friends. She was actually showing me something on her phone and there were no guys hitting up her dms whatsoever. So I don't think that's the case here
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:57 PM
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The thing I saw after I distanced myself from her is that she started replying faster and more motivated. I don't want to ignore her completely though. I guess i'll move her to the side till she comes back from the vacation and focus on other girls, and then when she comes home I'll see where we are standing and then probably tell her what you recommended. Thanks!
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:12 AM
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