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Pulling this funding ultimately wasn't a "feminist" initiative. It's the Labour government using right wing fiscal policy, which basically just means cutting funding to things poor people need.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 02:49 AM
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Perhaps some classic left wing perspectives here. To the readers, if the following list doesn't sound amazing to you (largely, I mean I am generalising a lot of the points, but you get the idea), you may be looking for another of many male advocacy subreddits that are not left wing. Here goes: The minimum base level of survival and dignity should be granted to all, irrespesctive of their capability to work or make any other productive contribution. This includes chipping into a common fund throu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 02:33 PM
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We desparately need to realise and accept as a society that many or most, if not all demographic groupings face different challenges and issues. Sometimes these are shared, sometimes they're unique or disproportionately affect one or some groups more than others. Platforming each of these issues is valid. Trying to stir the pot by attempting to undermine or overshadow one issue with another is not valid and that's obviously a two-way street many many people do not understand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 10:00 AM
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Because that sub already exists, just by a different name.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 07:12 PM
2

You've not seen what kind of stuff ppl post online that might also be using Pinterest.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 10:03 PM
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"Oh but bone marrow babies" you really don't want to put humans through the suffering created by being born out of nothing but bone marrow DNA, if the child survives at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/24 07:26 PM
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I would say that the pressure to get married or be in a relationship at all tand the subsequent feelings of failure and self-worthlessness are a key issue.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/06/24 02:06 PM
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I was gonna say. That old dude and the democrats to me (as somebody from outside the US) are a bit of a sore excuse to be called left wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 05:06 AM
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The injustices in themselves are not really reasons. It's much rather that mainstream left wing politics gives no attention to them, discredits/denies them or offers approaches that don't fix the problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 05:21 PM
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The pattern of the right wing to attain main stream popularity with especially young people is to take whatever subject they might be able to intersect with and fuse their talking points with. For example, I am actively witnessing nazis subtly injecting antisemitic rethoric into angered people who really started out just wanting to stop the slaughtering of Palestinians. You would be surprised how readily people grouped together to a cause can be made to believe other things that you attach to th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 05:19 PM
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I've really eapecially witnessed trivialised commentary ever since I can remember vaguely understanding the social context of what people said around me. Amd every time somebody pointed out how it might actually be odd, the usual response would be "well, of course I don't actually mean-" Then don't say it. Simple as. Is it kind, true, funny, helpful, interesting or has any other redeemable quality? If not, really consider not saying something. Goes a long way and I am yet to master it too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 05:22 PM
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The last time they tried adding women, everybody went "abolish it entirely instead" but all those people either won't even see this news or will not give a damn after all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:39 PM
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If it has a name, somebody is into it. That's the general fetish rule on the internet. A reddit rule would be that if it's a kink, there's a subreddit for it.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 08:30 PM
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I'm sorry you're having to make these experiences. All I can do is tell you truthfully that I see you. And in more ways than not, I understand and send you all the warmth and comfort I can!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 10:54 AM
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The whole war thing confronts us with a simple conflict: Do our values mean anything at all or do we condemn people to experience fates and take on "NaTuRaL RoLeS" by putting all the responsibility on them for how they were born? Any society in which each individual can choose their own role is a better one in my eyes and I would rather be exiled by my own people than be forced into roles which I am not ready to fulfil.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 08:21 PM
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I think that you feel so bothered by that screenshot says... something. This is not about men's feelings, sorry pookie.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/24 09:18 AM
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Which is so silly anyway because there's far more than 2 combinations of these chromosomes naturally occuring.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/24 04:01 PM
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Tbh AI partners are detrimental to everybody. It's on theory sexist against women in a lot of ways and against men in some ways too, but ultimately it's turning relationships into pure capitalistic consumerism, instead of actual human connection. It separates people even further and inhibits the general public's ability to organise and resist against an oligarchy.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/24 01:20 PM
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Considering the political development in a lot of western countries, I'd say it's not lost any importance whatsoever
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 05:07 PM
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Ppl really be out there thinking 50% of the world's population shares a hive mind like the Borg If we did, we wouldn't be so lonely now, would we
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 04:52 PM
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No, I'm actually talking about his personality, skills and underlying emotional intelligence. You don't get to tell me what I see in a person, that's quite demeaning and hurtful, thank you. And per your last sentence, I'm inclined to agree, however this establishes categorical boundaries as to whether or not somebody is "truly masculine" and that's kinda part of the problem and in the example I brought - or really with any person - that is an assessment impossible to make unless one is super clo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/23 10:37 AM
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He's literally not muscular 90% of the time irl and in well over half of his roles. I'm talking about the man I see in interviews failing horribly in putting on some kind of public persona and helplessly surrendering to being his joyful self in front of everybody (assuming they are just as well-spirited).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/12/23 08:25 PM
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True positive masculinity is being more like Taron Egerton 'Nuff said
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/23 08:54 PM
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Plus AFAIK in olaces where surrogacy is a thing, there is a hard limit to how often you can do it to make sure your body doesn't function as a baby oven only. It's a choice for each individual deciding to become a surrogate and is professionally handled.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/23 10:06 AM
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Love her, she's so wholesome!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 06:24 PM
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Honeyboo, look around the political landscape
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 05:15 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 05:14 AM
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Exactly. The data needed to determine somebody's eligibility for a loan should be completely unimpeded by their demographics. That's straight up discrimination, not a weighing of risks. "Sorry, computer says noooooo because you're muslim and have dark skin and we already used up this month's allotment for your people getting loans." Like, what the fuck? Ban that shit this instant!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/23 03:58 PM
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Iirc uber does track the rides, so there would be a way of finding out if such a sign exists.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 09:33 PM
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It feels like it's not dependent on her own genetic background and more based on attitudes commonly held by some people in the US in general.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 09:32 PM
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"Oh shieeeeeeet darn dang Mary mother of Jesus Christ, this latino man is driving me past a sign that mentions Mexico on it, I sure must be being kidnapped right now and I better shoot him this instant!" Sigh
/r/MensRights22/06/23 09:30 PM
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The human rights and dignity of one group of people cannot be allowed to tale priority over another, especially since any such grouping can be chosen by an arbitrary characteristic. Where would that lead to? Can we only advocate for the issues of a group that has x y z characteristics? Are other people forbidden from having their voices heard? That's my comeback to the "we should tackle women's issues first". We need to tackle all issues or else we're all fucked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 03:22 AM
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"However, being in a conservative country (...)" There's your answer
/r/MenSupportMen23/05/23 04:49 PM
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Relationships that require this level of documentation of who does what are not relationships I personally would pursue at all. It's teamwork based on love, trust and sincere desire to support each other and help one another. It's a fundamental basis of human connection. An app to artificially replicate and maintain forced results of this dynamic when it doesn't exist sounds very counterproductive to healthy relationships. Surely to introduce this app into a relationship at all, either both must…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 09:23 PM
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Intimacy coordinators: they wanted you to do WHAT? Hell naw! Tell me who and I will beat them up!
/r/MensRights30/04/23 12:09 PM
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Which is why I said mostly. You see people rambling on about how people saying their gender is a clay brick is not constructive to the movement at all and then you get enbyphobia in the next comment. Wonky stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 12:08 AM
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r/truscum for some sanity, for the most part
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:02 PM
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Controlling your child's birth gender prenatally seems very eugenics. Being male is not a disability you could potentially counteract to make a child's life easier and I'm not even sure I'd be promoting that if it was a thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 04:03 PM
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Being unruly teenagers seems to cross the gender divides like nothing else 😂
/r/MensRights30/03/23 04:10 PM
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Knowing the kinda girls I saw at school, there's no way a reasonable person should think only boys carry drugs lmfao. New strategy: give the girls in your friend group the stuff if almost only boys get searched, like
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:12 AM
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Where I live, if you're about to pee or poop yourself, nobody cares who's toilets you use as long as you don't make a mess outside of a toilet where some poor soul will have to clean it up (and if you have a shred of dignity, you offer to do it yourself).
/r/MensRights22/03/23 03:58 PM
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Because nothing celebrates women, the overcoming of inequalities, struggles (with way still to go), gender norms and womens' achievements like exacting mild physical torture and tyranny on little boys that weren't even born two decades ago. Cool and normal! Suppose those boys felt the celebratory spirit, were definitely not having people among them that could take serious grudges and become jackass misogynists because of this pointless and fruitless exercise of "we'll show these boys that weren'…
/r/MensRights13/03/23 12:25 AM
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Not reading the article so my comment will be based on many broad assumptions. Roughly said: this opens a can of worms no court will really want to work theough if all parties take it very seriously to fiddle with and calculate every darned ass detail.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 03:23 AM
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It's a very complex subject, so making a competition out of it as soon as one statistical anomaly is brought up is pointless. What needs exploring is what behaviour results in these statistics. What reasons do the suicide victims have for killing themselves and what reasons are behind repeated failed attempts? How do those reasons affect people and how may they affect men and women differently? How may the use of suicidal actions differ along this dynamic? What differentiates victims with differ…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 04:12 PM
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Glory, honour and fighting for your country. The age old lie.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:04 PM
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Part of this dynamic is that men respond to flirty hot women in s desireable way when the woman intends it, but the same doesn't work the other way around (and if it does by far not often enough to make it worth trying strategically). Saying this just to add another explanation as to why it happens at all. The immorality of it you pointed out absolutely perfectly. Should not be part of the professional world unless that profession directly involves intimacy, in which case enjoy the show!
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:27 PM
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Omg true
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:14 PM
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"We don't have enough police." "We refuse to interview and hire the demographic most likely to apply for a job." And on top of that, police forces worldwide seem to suck at weeding out abusive dickheads. Everything is wrong with policing the way it is now.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:51 PM
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It will be curious to see what legally constitutes "staring persistently", which I'd assume includes being told to stop. The other ones would just be forms of what I'd consider verbal harrassment anyway, so depending on how it's all worded, it can be decent but it could also turn out very shit.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 02:25 AM
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Bullies: bully Bullying victims: asshat Bullies: omg stop being so insecuuuuuure-uh
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/22 04:58 AM
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While I do appreciate having a day to highlight the importance of access to proper plumbing facilities, gender equality is still lacking here.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/22 12:42 AM
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No policy is equally applied under Muskyboi
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/22 06:40 PM
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Great. Suppose we can expect even worse then.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/22 04:13 PM
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According to owner Elon Musk, all hate speech and inciting genocidal violence is ok, because free speech. Unless you throw shit like that his way, of course. How dare we criticise a billionaire that runs every business into the ground and sells it off before it goes under?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/22 12:40 PM
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Same here. Proposals I usually hear to establish equality of outcome by force tend to involve achieving it by taking away equality of opportunity entirely for everybody.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/22 05:12 PM
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They'll like you more if you're not straight. Lack of reciprocation is a other crucial aspect.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:36 PM
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The chance they'll lust over you is very low. They will be dedicated to one man religiously and that man meets the following criteria: Is a film, television or music celebrity, no matter how niche Is completely unattainable for several reasons Is likely committed and they fully support his relationship
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:23 PM
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What better way to combat labour market inequalities than by simply hiring people racist higher-ups don't like? You could of course fire the racists instead, but no, that would give everybody equal opportunity! Can't have that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/22 11:04 AM
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You'd be surprised about the groups of fellow 19 year olds I'm in that lust over men 40 and older
/r/MensRights11/11/22 09:31 PM
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Look at the way famous men are talked about online and you'll see the looks thing applies to everybody.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 06:16 PM
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Based and unbased at the same time.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 10:31 AM
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Why call it "all gender" when it isn't? They should call it "no men" because that's really all they were looking for.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 03:42 PM
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"Insecure boys who can't handle baddies" = "I'm an emotionally abusive ass and of that bothers you, go away." Gladly
/r/MensRights03/11/22 02:07 PM
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Wasn't there some country's episode of some show where they put two groups on islands, divided by male or female, and they had to bring the men over to fix some stuff? Might have been a hoax that just got thrown around, idk.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/22 06:51 PM
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Because apparently, without spinning the whole oppression thing 180°, there can be no "justice". Not like we have tons of artwork in all sorts of mediums or history to tell us why that mentality is a load of shit.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 02:22 AM
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People hate seeing others happy once they're more than 5 years apart somehow. They'll even complain about an 18 year old kissing a 17 year old if nothing else is available. Sadly, the threat of abuse, power dynamics and paedophilia are very real and frighteningly common compared to what you'd hope. So many people experience one of these things as the victims that apprehension towards anything sharing even a remotely similar detail sets off warning sirens. Unfortunately, this negatively and frequ…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 03:29 PM
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This does work both ways as curtailing the global population by about half brings just about everything in need of human maintenance to a grinding halt. Extend that to 30 days and A LOT of people will die. It's just never the funny thought exercise anybody makes it out to be. It's a thought exercise for people who like to hate and gossip. It doesn't stir up any new intelligent thought whatsoever.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 05:36 PM
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They say "abolish it instead" when lawmakers consider making it gender equal, but once women are spared they stop caring as if the topic doesn't exist. Well, it's no longer important because women are no longer part of those affected directly, even though they could argue that wives, mothers and daughters can be affected by the loss and strain on the men in their lives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/22 07:33 AM
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Oh my-
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:24 PM
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So what if I raise the price of ibuprofen to a million dollars per miligram? Would she not deserve pain relief just because she can't afford it? What a vile thing of her to say!
/r/MensRights15/10/22 10:50 PM
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Homeless women: omg poor ladies what happened to them we need to help them so they don't resort to crime out of desparation Homeless men: stinky bstrds, die and rot in the streets, filthy rapist criminals!! The double standards are extreme
/r/EverydayMisandry15/10/22 10:10 AM
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The MensRights sub is a WILD ride that plunges you into heights of sanity and deoths of insanity, sometimes within the same posts and comment sections at once. Got a lot of good stuff in it, but its popularity has introduced narrow-mindedness and buzzword level thinking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/22 09:11 AM
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100%
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/22 09:05 AM
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Because not a lot of people spend too much time with the subject and all that happens in conversations is a quick exchanhe of buzzwords and head nodding?
/r/MensRights14/10/22 10:14 PM
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If you know you were created by a sperm donation, it might be worth doing a little test 🤣 Same test as paternity test btw.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 04:29 PM
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Hope they don't fall in love with each other because oof
/r/MensRights14/10/22 04:06 PM
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Humans drop their moral standards when they despise somebody. This is reflected in this event and many others. It makes us see beyond sexism and human property dynamics for war. It makes us see beyond pointlessness, hypocrisy and the sheer cruelty of capital punishment. There is a reason most countries forbid death penalties and torture, because if it was allowed, people would make it happen at far higher rates than it already does, perpetuating cycles of violence and abuse. What we observe here…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/22 02:00 PM
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And the German one. They only paused the constitutional article that enables it. Can be re-activated at a whim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/22 12:39 PM
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We do need to organise, but you actually complained in your original comment that people would rather pursue a happy life for themselves than decide to feel like absolute dogshit while commiserating over the same talking points all the time. My life could never work that way.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:28 PM
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So you actively want people to choose feeling miserable when they have the means to be both aware of issues and find happiness in their lives? Geez, I wonder why your attitude isn't very popular with them.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:11 PM
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I find this to be a general phenomenon in the political sphere. Most decent people, which is more or less most people (or else we wouldn't have societies nearly as functional as they are), will agree with the basic principles of equality and kindness and try paying a bit of attention to them. Outspoken people tend to act fanatically, and that fanaticism is ironically exactly what can turn them bigoted towards other subjects, even closely related ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/22 01:56 PM
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Wasting public funding like that is hopefully thoroughly punishable
/r/MensRights01/10/22 12:41 PM
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The only thing (excluding medical conditions) that can just plain out decrease penile sensitivity is cutting a part of it off, like the foreskin and especially the frenulum.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 01:28 PM
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When the enemy is at the gates, suddenly the pretender progressives who often only claim to have values that I'd agree with, become the most traditional conservatives on the planet. Gender roles and all.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 06:34 AM
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The simple answer why it's always male pedos that impregnate little girls is that boys are unlikely to even think of impregnating somebody forcefully and the fact that you need a man to impregnate a woman. Were it possible by other means just as easily, you would see other perpetrator demographics too, like with the rape of boys that are being forced to impregnate an adult women and later find themselves being sued for chile support.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 09:43 AM
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They think it's safer for men to go out alone at night. That's so rich.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 11:20 AM
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I mean, it should be a no-brainer that misandrist attitudes make boys more vulnerable to polarisation.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 01:38 PM
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Lingual translation oopsies happen, don't worry. And to this comment I agree, though I'd also like to point out that there are distinct benefits to masturbating every day.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 09:31 AM
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You cannot claim to have empirical evidence and yet say it's not scientific. Either your evidence is no more than personal accounts with little to no weight or somebody actually sat down with a theory and used solid methedology to try and disprove it. If unsuccessful, peer review can help affirming new conclusions. Since this hasn't happened, I do not care what kind of benefits you claim stem from abstinence. I've tried and nothing changed except my next handful of orgasms being a bit more inten…
/r/MensRights21/09/22 08:37 AM
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The absolute BS out of some noFap circles that I've had urogolists laugh about is ridiculous. Aside from controlling yourself when you have addiction problems, most of that stuff is ass. Sorry to tell you.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 04:51 PM
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As long as you don't get drawn into the anti scientific bs circulating in no fap circles and just focus on having control over your habits, nobody can stop you.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 11:45 AM
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I suspect political idealogues are downvoting this. Your polarised politics won't fix your structural problems, people. Political nutjob politicians of your kind are no better than the ones that ree at everything you say. They don't care about you. Mainstream politics can only pretend to care about misandry and men's issues. At this moment, the only motion for meaningful change to better equality and life for everybody, working to abolish the notion that spite will get us anywhere except for mor…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 05:28 PM
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As soon as the slight majority victim group of something is women, then it's a women's issue and male victims get entirely neclected. If men are the vast majority victim group of something and there's a noticeable and significant, or perhaps even a "negligible" portion of women, then it's still treated as a predominantly women's issue. Ffs
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:52 AM
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I find women that aren't ignorant towards my lived experience and listen to theirs. Filtering out the ideological narratives can then be done a bit easier and you see the core of real women's struggles, which are more than plenty enough and quite serious.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/22 10:27 AM
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Thanks for this! I'll check back occasionally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/22 01:53 PM
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The only thing that could be missing if you cheat sexually is sex with sincere emotion, and I don't think that's something men like to not have. And if you're lacking sincere emotion in general to a point where you seek it elsewhere, talk to your partner. It's you two vs. the problem. If you don't make a team effort, you're only making it worse by adding secrecy and betrayal. Like, it's so obvious. I don't care what you are lacking in your relationship. Take some damn responsibility for your own…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 07:08 PM
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I find that talking to men about it is easier, though when it comes to legal inequalities and socio-economic struggles, people in my social circles do show serious concern when I talk about it, regardless of gender. It doesm't come up often, but the people I know generally seem to acknowlledge that anybody can have serious struggles. Perhaps we're not as absorbed by the internet as as some others of our peers. I know just one person that is chronically internet and she's into the No Fap bullshit…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:45 AM
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100% agreed. There are assumed boundaries, both legally and morally, that require a person's explicit consent. This was one of them.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:33 PM
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I made some edits to my comments for more factual accuracy, but here's the video: https://youtu.be/zFJmYzKELFg
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:53 AM
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Yup. I was just as baffled as you. Still saw it. Still can't believe it. No repercussions, no criticism, just a whole audience laughing at the guy getting sexually assaulted on stage while clearly not being ok with it. Correction: he did keep it smiles, but that flopping in the ground and tve uneasyness afterwards make me uncomfortable
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:35 AM
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Exactly. I felt disgusting just watching it. That poor lad...
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:29 AM
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Reminds of how the ppl that did Little Britain were live on stage, got a male audience member up and proceeded to expose his naked butt to the audience. The guy clearly didn't know this was going to happen and looked very surprised, though not entirely unamused.. Not just embarrassed, but thrown off by it. Everybody laughed. I have lost respect for the Little Britain guys since then. Edit: factual corrections, here's the video: https://youtu.be/zFJmYzKELFg
/r/MensRights04/09/22 09:11 AM
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What I find is that with every new social environment and with every new chapter in life, I can use my previous experiences to become a better person, friend, partner, worker etc. I think that the woman you're talking about sees this in the divorced men she's made positive experiences with. People that have learned something from their past that has ended but that they can now use to live something better and healthier.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/22 08:26 AM
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Right, yeah
/r/MensRights02/09/22 10:36 AM
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We do not punish children for having parents with shitty morals
/r/MensRights02/09/22 10:10 AM
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Ik it's so funny
/r/MensRights31/08/22 11:39 AM
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Glad I could contribute to a positive image
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:16 AM
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You can cope and seethe all you like. The tax revenue from higher earners will always subsidise lower earners unless you strictly enforce everything to have equal outcomes, which is highly undesireable.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:16 AM
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If you wanted to remedy this issue you're pulling out of your ass, you would not only have to enforce an exact 50% gender balance in every profession, but also micromanage every action, not let couples choose whether one of them focuses more on career while the other does more house work or spends time with the children etc. You'd need more than the North Korean regime to not have higher earner's taxes subsidise lower earners. This mechanic exists independent of gender btw. Prrrrthanks
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:06 AM
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Your article by a political editor (after skimming it) only seems to talk finances and going on about the gender gap. I wonder how individual choices in career could possibly affect that? And no, I stuck to your original comment. You can stop being a spiteful ass btw, it won't help you. Not here and not anywhere else.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 10:00 AM
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"Underperform in literally ever single job" Nurses would like a word
/r/MensRights31/08/22 09:58 AM
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This sub is not for anti-women sentiment. You equating women to parasites and calling them unqualified for every single job on the planet is anti-scientific and sexist and we do not welcome that here.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 09:55 AM
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She's great!
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:17 AM
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The fact that the Tate guy says "men are lonely" and then so many people suddenly blindly listen to and defend all of his bullshit because he simply acknowledges something true (you will see a lot of Motte and Bailey fallacies when you see people defending him) says a lot about how society treats male issues. With ignorance. As soon as anybody voices even a shred of sympathy, all flock in in desperation and eat up anything else that's being said to them that reaffirms their impression of the wor…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 03:57 PM
3

I agree, though this is not only down to modern educators. The system we use in the western world is more or less comparable to that of Prussia and has been out of date for well over a century now. That this environment makes it easier on girls is what the modern stuff does.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 12:34 PM
4

It's Hungary. Except perhaps teaching staff, nothing there is "tOo fEmInIne". They teach you bs history to make you feel like a proud Hungarian and all.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 09:40 AM
1

Wouldn't the officers need to stare?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 07:18 PM
1

I mean, you might not be entirely straight in the first place. Converting isn't a thing, like... ever. Your preferences widen a bit with time. And you wouldn't be the first straight person to try out hooking up with the same sex and discovering something new for themselves.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:28 PM
19

If he does defend himself, he's arrested and jailed because "believe women" enables her to just make up a sob story
/r/MensRights25/08/22 09:58 AM
8

Thank you for sharing your important perspective!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 09:04 PM
11

Zootopia is a movie really showing us why misandry is bad (though its in-universe history doesn't match).
/r/EverydayMisandry24/08/22 08:05 PM
105

It's far more likely for a man to be attacked alone at night.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 01:32 PM
7

The best "fuck you" is to enjoy your life and never pay attention to her again.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Offmychest has notoriously ridiculous moderation. Everybody just uses r/trueoffmychest
/r/MensRights20/08/22 08:06 AM
5

They always think society would help men. It basically never does and never tried. Society does help women sometimes and men rarely, often enough as a side effect.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 09:03 PM
0

The Honda will be more reliable and/or not spontaneously combust while parked, so either way you got the better end of the deal lol
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 08:19 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights19/08/22 07:39 PM
2

Usually, posts in this sub have way more upvotes than comments when they show up on my timeline. This one sadly doesn't. While this might also be due to people being absolutely tired of hearing about that jackass scammer that the media decided to have a hayday with, I do worry that a good chunk of downvotes might come from lurking fanboys, who I must stress I do not welcome here. This space is mainly used to point out hypocrisy and dramatic failures in society's understanding and implementation …
/r/MensRights19/08/22 07:28 PM
22

They decided men don't deserve their own strategy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/22 07:03 PM
3

In a way, a policy like this was overdue, it's just that there's a massive hole in it that says "anybody else suffering that violence won't be protected this way".
/r/MensRights17/08/22 07:32 PM
1

Despite what society tells us, women have a far stronger in-group bias, meaning they are more likely to defend another woman without questioning whether allegations are valid by virtue of being the same sex than men are likely to do (which does also happen, but at a smaller scale in my experience). I'd say it's a general phenomenon increasing in prevalence the more people are taught to tie their sense of belonging to something. For a lot of good reasons and enough bs reasons, women have a strong…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 11:52 AM
28

I wish we could see confident self-expression as enhancing both femininity and masculinity. It gives you a look into a person's true core like nothing else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/22 06:05 PM
28

It never really shows me that stuff. I follow the dadvocate and her (Lauren) page is amazing. She has three main series: Womansplaining men to women and womansplaining women to men and she's mostly on-point. Third "series" is reacting to videos of toxic partners that think what they're doing is justified. There's a bunch of men's advocacy pages which I follow, and some more unrelated stuff, but yeah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 11:16 PM
4

True. And smutty fanfiction.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 05:14 AM
2

True
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:29 PM
47

Only people that have never been part of an orgy think it's all just rape.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 08:11 PM
15

I'm watching myself too and I realise I sexualise men quite openly, so I'm trying to put a lid on that. I think it's perfectly fine to think those things and keep it all private and maintain respect for the person you find this physically appealing. But public sharing is definitely going too far in many ways. I find it degrading and disrespectful towards the person. If I found it being done to me, I would be flattered in a way, but also ignored as a person. It would feel a bit... no, it would fe…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 06:56 PM
254

If you look at the way women talk about pretty men on the internet, then it's very clear that women sexualise men at least at the same level as men sexualise women.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:02 PM
18

Bisexual, pansexual (etc.) men should hit on the women in gay bars to balance it out teehee
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 09:23 PM
1

A person like that would refuse to listen to Elton John out of principle and I have never felt deeper confusion in my life.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 04:45 PM
15

It cam be transferred thriugh much more than sex, which is important for people to know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/22 01:20 PM
8

100%! Arousal non-concordance is such a disregarded topic that gives us a lot of awareness about each other. It is the fundamental basis on which we know that victims of rape do not enjoy nor consent simply because their body had a physical response, the likes of getting wet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/22 06:41 AM
56

I think improving sex ed by talking extensively about arousal-nonconcordance would help a lot, yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/22 08:06 PM
8

I love Lauren! She makes great videos!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/22 08:42 PM
1

Those jobs would suffer severe underdemand by women and be forced to accept about the same male to female ratio as they have now.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:11 PM
4

Every mortician and other funeral home worker can tell you plenty of stories of people coming in wanting a hair for a DNA test to somehow contest where the inheritance goes against the will of the deceased. I'm fairly certain they have stories of people trying to get sperm too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/22 06:56 PM
21

That's a great insight! The white imperialism part is pretty buzzwordy though. There's not much content in that.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 10:17 AM
-3

"Beta males" In case you're using that term seriously: HAHA LMFAO In case not: uhm lol
/r/MensRights16/07/22 09:37 AM
22

Because how dare you suggest men face a legal and social inequality?
/r/MensRights15/07/22 08:23 AM
1

Is it part of your title and job description? If not, or if you are the only one doing certain things other people should be doing too, "perhaps it is appropriate to re-evaluate the work that I am doing and whether it would make sense to match my job description and title, along with additional compensation for the additional duties I am asked to perform regularly."
/r/MenSupportMen12/07/22 08:26 AM
3

That's some hardcore cultist behaviour
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:17 PM
11

Because men have much less social leverage in many cases than society is willing to admit.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 06:05 AM
3

I think it would be nice to also see female construction workers, simply to show kids that everybody can be everything successfully with enough effort (though the socio-economic factors in a life can thoroughly mess with that, but let's not burden our kids with it yet). That your gender doesn't determine which jobs can be the right fit for you. I think it would also help getting more perspectives across the genders, more handiwork knowledge into a different space. It can have many positive impac…
/r/MensRights02/07/22 11:56 AM
9

That sub tends to have tendencies in it that I dislike too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/22 09:48 AM
3

Mayhaps
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:02 AM
21

They stop caring when the victims are male. AH energy
/r/MensRights26/06/22 10:58 AM
16

Also they make something as menial as taking a DNA sample dependent on child consent, but when it comes to genital mutilation, that's suddenly not important anymore.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 10:53 AM
3

And 3) that person no longer having sex won't change a damn thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 09:09 AM
12

This is the reply
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/22 04:14 PM
1

Same
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 06:48 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 05:27 PM
2

Yeah, it's funny how people can be reasonable about covid but turn into nutjobs when it's about trans people. Humans are weird.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 05:20 PM
9

You have encountered what are called "tucutes". What you are arguing is what little scientific base we have for being trans, which in itself should be getting a lot more research funding to clear up the detailed questions. What I would regard your views as is "truscum". It heavily intersects with transmedicalism and views the state of being trans as an innate circumstance, aiming to (when possible) take steps to transition to the de facto gender identity in both social environments and physical …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/22 05:17 PM
6

It's safer for you, it's safer for women, it's a win-win from even a feminist standpoint. I can't fathom why they would complain, but I suppose always keep it open from now on, regardless od who's with you.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 08:28 AM
6

Yeah, my age group (we're likely in a similar one) is like that too. Was everybody sexually repressed when they first discovered alone that they have desires and sensations?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 05:51 PM
45

My mother, sister, cousin, both my grandmas and both my aunts say that a lot of women actually want a sweet, cuddly, friendly guy. Problem is that's not what peaks your attention when you first meet somebody. Those are qualities of people that approach less often, less aggressively and they are qualities that truely reveal themselves only a bit further into thorough conversation. They unravel across the dates as you get to know each other better. At least that's my take. What I have realised as …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 02:29 PM
5

Fell for the foreign wife trick. I'm so so sorry you are burdened with this!
/r/MensRights14/06/22 10:16 PM
16

Yay! Baby win!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 09:29 AM
1

She doesn't, no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:43 PM
4

The dadvocate on tiktok is definitely one of the best creators relating to men's stuff out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 01:23 PM
2

Why make spaces wide enough for everybody (especially for those of us who are overweight or simply old and gained mass) when you can force everybody into discomfort?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/22 11:47 AM
1

While an international commemoration of universal access to waste water plumbing being on what could have been an international men's day with wider recognition is likely just a coincidence, it is sad that the proposal was shot down.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 11:23 AM
2

How about women put it up instead? Does that make me sound whiny and pedantic? Absolutely, which is why anybody giving enough of a crap to hang up the first sign should get a grip and put it down themselves. It's a matter of 2 seconds.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 05:12 PM
1

If people have to walk on eggshells around their wives and are scared of them, I don't think those relationships are currently fit for marriage. You'll have your ups and downs, sure, but when the ups don't come back, something's gone terribly wrong. And either partner may or may not have contributed to creating that situation. Generally, if your wife pulls you into something legal, she's highly likely to win, and I think most people instinctively know that, which is why anybody with a bit of ins…
/r/MensRights09/06/22 07:50 AM
5

Because it breaks the narrative of male privilege. When you point out that having it better and worse in one or the other situation doesn't constitute your social position as some societal overlord, people freak out. Oddly enough, it always seems that the vast majority of people already stand against the "pAtRiArChY" in which case wouldn't that relinquish the patriarchy's power in most of everyday life?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 11:41 AM
1

Because why provide equal opportunities (hard work to make systems fairer) when you can do fuck all work by forcing equality of outcome? Politics!
/r/MensRights07/06/22 11:02 PM
17

In order to prove defamation, it was sort of required to prove that: The Op-ed was about Johnny. The accusations harmed his career. The accusations about violent abuse were false so that one might prove that: The accusations were made maliciously to defame Johnny, when in actuality he is the abuse victim. So the entire defamation case is built on settling where the gravity of the abusive dynamic, whatever it was in detail, lays, since it determines whether the accusations were truthful and there…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/22 10:55 PM
26

MeToo should be satisfied with the verdict. An allegation was taken seriously and thoroughly investigated and there even was plenty of evidence to paint a clearer picture. Everything MeToo >supposedly< stands for.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/22 07:37 PM
21

Because they explicitly favour women, subconsciously perhaps.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 06:41 PM
7

What people need to realise is that, just because I can be arbitrarily grouped into categories, doesn't mean the average statistics for that way of grouping people actually describe my lived experience. I can have it so much better and so much worse than people in whatever category I'm forced into.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/22 06:19 AM
1

Yup
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/22 05:56 AM
71

And many people also don't acknowledge that many parts of transphobia are rooted in misandry. Especially the TERFs. "It's just men trying to get into women's toilets!" "Men trying to get close to women to rape them!" And all that TERF bullshit you will hear. It's distinctly anti-men. Trans men also face tons of transphobic prejudice, but coming from different motivations. Transphobia against trans women seems to very often come from "ew men, men bad!"
/r/MensRights30/05/22 09:04 PM
24

We know that women receive lower sentences andnare arrested less often for the same stuff, so they're anti-science here
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 07:14 AM
13

Lock all entrances from now on too
/r/MensRights28/05/22 06:39 AM
1

If anybody else here spends at least 5 minutes on celebrity instagram, the realisation that the sexualisation and objectification problem affects everybody, but it's not as taboo to do to men. Most fandoms I've seen call out the sexualisation of their faves and advocate for men experiencing this issue too, but anytime it does happen it still sees wide popularity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/22 06:31 AM
11

That's why I left. From humorously criticising xenopronoun bs, they turned into a transphobic pile of yeet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/22 05:34 AM
10

How about instead of gendering this, we centre it around necessity? If you have your period affecting you to a point where working to a sufficient standard becomes inhumane, you should be able to get a free doctor's note, hand it to your employer and from there on be entitled to the monthly three days. Perhaps meet up with the OBGYN every 6 months adter forst starting it to assess whether you still need to continue having the extra days off (e.g. when during those days you don't feel better than…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/22 12:14 PM
2

Call off the alarms https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/un16lx/he_bought_a_new_house/i858z3h?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 07:20 PM
7

It's very unlikely, since the whole hospital can get into big trouble if you didn't sign off on some fine print that says you agree to it (read everything you sign), but fanatics can exist everywhere. Also accidents can happen. Under normal circumstances you'll be fine just saying no, but I'm a bit paranoid in this area, since the very "research" actively accepted and promoted by the American medical establishment is very smelly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/22 12:43 PM
2

Some of this will be very obvious, but I'll be as detailed as I can for the sake of completion. The advantage you have is your experience with your struggles and you can support your child in approaching life's difficulties with that experience in mind. It is important that your kid has you as the safe haven to always turn to, whether it dropped a plate or made somebody trip and fall on purpose. You are both lawyer for the defendant and judge/jury, so both consequences and resolution might often…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/22 08:56 AM
6

Watch over him with Eagle eyes. It is very rare, but I have had stories of people where their sons were taken away for a "diaper change" and came back mutilated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/22 08:06 AM
2

Onligtapry /s because there are people reading this that will not get it lol
/r/MensRights04/05/22 05:06 AM
10

Her reasoning basically debunks the patriarchy when you look at the scientifically evident problems disproportionately affecting men.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:37 PM
27

Either you put up physical standards needed to perform tasks sufficiently or you admit that they can be lower for everybody. If you discriminate in this category, you should be restricting people fulfilling only lower requirements to tasks where the actual requirements are unnecessary. Either you have the strength to move something out of the way, or you don't. A pile of bricks doesn't care about your gender.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 09:21 PM
4

The public is almost unanimously behind him. It's just random ass articles nobody needed that keep whining about the poor wahmen
/r/MensRights01/05/22 09:37 AM
9

Them: Noooo why are you not on our side politically by default, why do you allow different opinions? Why should we listen to other people the algorithm doesn't even recommend to us before we discard what they say after disagreeing?
/r/MensRights27/04/22 04:39 PM
19

This. Even if steroid creams and stretching exercises don't work (and if you follow them diligently, they almost always should), there is far less invasive surgery to remedy the issue, like a dorsal slit.
/r/MensRights26/04/22 12:42 PM
34

That would fit the definition of something called sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/22 04:23 PM
1

Insist on 50/50 wherever you can. A court will willingly strip you of your children forever.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 11:16 AM
4

🤗
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/22 06:02 PM
48

Tradcons are the misandrists before modern misandry became a thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/22 05:38 PM
1

This is gonna be a drama mainly taking place in the US too. In Europe you see women laying on beaches topless all the time and nobody bats an eye at it, often even in countries like Greece where an orthodox church upholds a public disdain towards showing too much of your body. People are just chill.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 10:43 PM
1

That's only gonna result in Ukrainian men abroad surrendering their citizenship or staying away until they can, because Ukrainian authorities have no authority abroad.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 11:17 AM
39

In terms of dating advice, the internet is even worse than it is with medical advice, regardless of gender tbh. There are great people out there saying great things, but the most bollocks advice gets way more attention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/22 10:27 PM
10

Thank you!
/r/MensRights08/04/22 08:13 PM
8

That's highly undemocratic
/r/MensRights08/04/22 04:49 AM
2

Probably yeah. It's a "look we're doing something" but not much happens.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/22 04:10 PM
2

Raising the question is something they can easily do. It's just that these questions will be asked, a Tory MP or the Prime Minister will make some snarky personal comment against LibDem or try calling the SNP guy fat again and that's how far it'll get.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/22 04:04 PM
3

I'm not surprised at all. LibDem will hold onto relevance in any way they can and you offered them an oppportunity to increase support. With their party I can actually imagine that they'll stick to what they told you here, even if the 99% figure is entirely unscientific. Putting out this question to parliament sounds very important and it is, however as a very minor opposition party, it's going to be one of those questions and depending on how the Tories handle it, it'll likely go nowhere except…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/22 04:02 PM
1

I see what you mean
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 04:04 PM
2

What I was trying to highlight is that the Bible tells a bunch of stories and people pull out of their arses about it what they want. The field of theology is so specialised and divided that two theologists might not understand each other in the slightest. Faith is used as arbitrary tool of prescribing other people what they should and should not be doing. You mentionrd the misgynistic aspect, which is one of the religious cruelties. Also I wouldn't blame feminism as a whole. The problem with fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 03:42 PM
22

Whatever the Bible "teaches" depends on the demonination of Christian you ask. If you look for an answer in the common populous, he reply is unlikely to correspond with temporary agreements within the field of theology, and if they share a result, the reasoning might be off. In either case, a lot of tradcon bs stems from the use of religion to manage societal structure, so whatever of value you might find in the Bible is something that you'll probably have to find yourself. I'm an atheist, and w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 06:14 PM
1

From my sister's experiences, I can fully understand the benefits of a female only gym. I'd like a male only gym. Somehow I'm more comfortable that way. Even if there's somebody staring, I'm somehow more comfortable if it's another guy (and I'm gay and would think that it would annoy me more, but no).
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:03 AM
3

Either she proves that shit in front of court (and you better hire someone to find out if it's real) or she can stick it up her backside. If she's so hindered by needing to care for the child, simply suggest 50/50 custody or you getting full custody yourself with visitations for her. Problem solved, innit
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 09:13 AM
2

3.7k is more than most people will ever earn in a month. Of course it's too much!
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 09:12 AM
20

"Regular feminists" that are only unterested in the topic for outrage, npg because they actually follow "regular" feminism, joining them in droves in 1...
/r/MensRights27/03/22 07:20 PM
8

Gender roles are the origin of gender-based suffering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/22 07:19 PM
3

When it comes to Putin, perhaps killed either way
/r/MensRights22/03/22 05:32 AM
2

Russia will care about its manpower eventually because their population is one of the fastest shrinking on Earth. With every year they grow weaker, more and more young people leave the country etc. This war is going to cripple Russia like nothing we've seen before.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:35 PM
8

If you add a civil uprising to this mix, Ukraine will fall, and being under Russian rule will only make things worse for men.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:33 PM
20

I highly suggest to NOT go to Russia or Russia friendly countries. You are at war. I've heard of Russia taking prisoners based on ethnicity (though don't rely on me for information). Just going near there is a big risk that's more likely to get you killed or arrested than staying put.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:32 PM
17

I thought about organising aid specifically for the men that have to remain, basically an emergency manpower reserve, so that there is no public "omg he dares to take food donations" kind of bs. Meanwhile do everything to stay mentally sane right now. Go for those stupid mental health walks, flail around in bed like a fish, acquire a regular masturbation cycle, do things like staying neat and tidy to create a space where the world seems whole and ordered, to contrast with the disorder and chaos …
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:29 PM
1

"You lot" I'm not trans lol, no need to get yourself upset now. I'm highlighting feminist hypocrisy, which (especially in the UK) get increasingly transphobic, often saying young people don't have to learn about the existence of such a thing, but then promote things like this textbook that slap modern politics right in children's faces. That's what I highlighted and I sincerely hope that's what you manage to see now, after I have explained it to you.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:37 PM
5

TERFs will be like: no you can't teach young people like that about gender identity!! Also TERFs: OMG WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:38 PM
3

The notion that having an apple slice wonder hooha makes you more peaceful than having a willy one-eyed wonder wiener is exactly the type of gender stereotyping I thought feminism is supposed to be against.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:09 PM
3

Best of luck to you!
/r/MensRights12/03/22 02:30 PM
11

You say your sperm production is slowed? As in: not died down entirely? Is it just the low amount that's the issue or are they produced infertile straight away? Because if it's just the low amount, could there be a way to collect them (through a medical professional) until there is a sufficient amount to inseminate your wife?
/r/MensRights12/03/22 11:32 AM
8

I've known no political party in the UK where misandrists weren't capable of impacting public image and policy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/22 09:16 AM
11

Unless you survive. Then you've faced not only death, but the other shit too.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 10:45 PM
2

r/trueoffmychest is better anyway. Stick to personal experiences there though.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 10:13 PM
10

In the end, any pro-male policy will find its competition in tradcon inclinations and worker-unfriendly abolishment of rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/22 05:08 PM
16

In short: that he got elected is a net negative
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/22 01:34 PM
0

Huh, I think that's the one candidate Claire Luvcat didn't have an interview with.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 05:56 AM
5

That influential voiced in feminism, that are broadly supported, would actually fall under the "not real feminists" umbrella puts the whole movement in a very problematic position. There isn't a wholly unitary approach to each topic feminism tries to address due to its sheer size. In itself, it simply cannot categorise a gender equality movement when so many different perspectives, good and bad, find significant audiences. It's also only remotely true that feminism is for men too. If it was for …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 10:41 PM
18

I'm a gay man and eventually picked up on lgbtq+ activism. I admired and still do admire how many people have a burning fire in them to assert their right to exist and function as a normal person, for themselves and for others. In genersl, equality of opportunity and sensibly tackling issues of various population groups has been around me more or less for my entire life. People were never really deep enough in it though to bring avross FDS level things. I did notice double standards though. It w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 06:49 PM
2

My mother finds that cute. So would all the instagram girls. They currently grow up to like this sort of stuff.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:00 AM
1

If you have a partner that gets out of that transaction what they want too, then all power to you!
/r/MensRights04/03/22 10:05 PM
1

If you think one partner in a relationship being treated like an emotionless servant is "traditional" then you know fuck all about history.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 10:02 PM
1

Oh, so she's your bdsm friend plus? Why didn't you say that before?
/r/MensRights04/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Yeah idk what makes you so entitled but this way you're not finding a partner that is loyal out of love. Best of luck to you!
/r/MensRights04/03/22 09:52 PM
1

Yeah, "punishing" my partner like a child will definitely impact our relationship positively. 🙄
/r/MensRights04/03/22 09:48 PM
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I wish you could witness the effects of positive encouragement the way I do, in order to change things, instead of being held back by what upsets you today.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 09:43 PM
36

Hip hip hooray for supportive women! Much appreciated!
/r/MensRights04/03/22 09:21 AM
9

Don't take my word on this, but I read somebody say that it would force schools to disclose to parents when they catch wind that a kid isn't straight.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/22 08:18 PM
1

The UK's biggest problem is the voting system. A party with a minority in popularity can have a vast majority in government. Anything is better than the tories right now, so vote strategically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/22 01:14 PM
3

Comments just telling her "this is what you think, because I say you do!" Kinda misogynystic if you think about it. "Know your place, stay in your lane you evil anti-feminist!"
/r/MensRights03/03/22 09:13 AM
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Masculine gay man here, 100% agreed.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 02:46 PM
8

Suggesting abstinence is some 19th century bs. Just doesn't work. Humans are hard-wired to fuck. Always practice safe sex, never let anyone toouch your condoms before, during and after sex and with anything else, your partner must take precautions.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 04:16 AM
2

Sounds like very good advice. The responses to the three Ts would be: You mean China, Chinese Taipei, and what was that third thing again? Some square? There's so many town squares, how am I supposed to know that one?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/22 09:39 PM
6

I'm curious. What's it like living in a country with a... particular style of government that actively enforces regulation of what you say sbout it? You're here on reddit, so I assume you have a way of avoiding that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/22 07:57 AM
1

In South Korea, the non-cringe pro-male sentiment is a bit better than elsewhere, being able to cause major controversies and have effects like these. Sadly they still have a huge MGM problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/22 11:11 AM
1

Depends on your location and which services are offered.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 11:03 AM
7

"B...b-because PATRIARCHY REEEEE!!!" Lol
/r/MensRights16/02/22 08:45 PM
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Patriarchy theory is unscientific. Every time an observation doesn't fit the narrative, the goalposts for what is to be observed are moved. If your theory will not change according to new observations, then you're being unscientific and by extension rationally ignorant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 08:59 PM
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Also instagram teenagers seem to fetishise feminine men to a level that I find a tad bit intrusive. It's the stereottype of "straight person goes to gay bar with their gay bestieeeeeeeeee." I'm not an accessory, thanks! Also: Random celebrity: exists Random social media fanpage: pauses video on a weird frame that looks as fem as possible UWU SOFT BOI I mean I get it, I too find a iot of dudes unbelievably cute, but if it's not a honest expression and only a frozen movement that happens to not lo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/22 05:53 AM
11

Quora is about tbe worst forum to ask any question tbh. Even worse so that it's the first suggestion.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 07:14 AM
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It changes the anti-male narrative from wannabe-progressive double standards to tradcon shitfuckery. Either way, the forced gender norms for men persist, the legal inequality will persist, all of this will be more or less the same, except that the ideological parroting will be a different one. The only way to champion equality and freedom from prejudice is to push at all fronts of the political spectrum without falling for the fallacies they use to fuel their tunnel vision.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 12:20 PM
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If you challenge the notion of universal male privilege with the explanations that explain with factual correctness the discrepancies and disparities between races and how fortunate their circumstances are, then a lot of the modern gender debate ideas collapse. This induces a state of panic, because people are hell-bent on being polarised, thinking that if they're wrong, the other person could be right, which isn't necessarily the case. Idiots can say correct things to try and justify morally re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/22 07:56 PM
1

Yup
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 05:25 PM
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I entirely agree with you, though the second part of point two makes it sound like we have the year 1880 where not being married to a man as a woman means your life is fucked so you're forced into it by social, economic and legal circumstance. Marriage doesn't come with gender role obligations for women anymore. Being married in a legal sense entails a certain level of exclusivity in your relationship, some shared tax advantages and other things being handled as one instead of separate, but real…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 05:10 PM
3

She refuses to work enough to make a decent financial contribution AND wants shared accounts? This smells very fishy. If you do end up divorcing, and I hope you find a better solution that leaves both of you satisfied without the drama, then make sure ti get a darned good lawyer because otherwise you'll be paying her bills through alimony instead. And don't have kids ever unless this is resolved once and for all.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 05:03 PM
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If you wanna write a movie script, get some lessons.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/22 06:42 AM
1

Go for it, OP
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 02:38 PM
2

That changes a lot. Thanks for providing the info!
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/22 05:20 PM
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Gym bros tend to be the most open-minded, accepting, inclusive, supportive and personable people. I'm glad they're there for you!
/r/MensRights23/01/22 04:50 PM
25

"Women also violent. Men bad, women most affected."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/22 12:06 AM
3

I mean that's not surprising, consdering that the same hateful speech against other groups is luckily being shut down by both companies and society already.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 05:59 PM
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I second the comment by u/SomeRedditNewb and want to add that a bad marriage will have lasting negative impacts on your children that are far more consequential than a divorce. They're at an age where they don't fully comprehend the scope of what's happening and damages to their emotions and psyche can be limited, mediated and remedied. Try keeping your children if the toxic aspect in the relationship originstes with your wife. The way court bias works, you might have to fight with tooth and nai…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/22 09:22 PM
10

Same experience here, except I'm not into bara or yaoi.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 01:46 PM
13

Insta stan culture-like behaviour fetishises me as a gay man very clearly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 01:44 PM
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The issue is split into two parts. Criminal sentencing and punishment directive biases, sometimes including the way laws themselves are written (-> systemic legal discrimination). The socio-economic factors affecting men in certain ways that results in a heightened crime rate. Tackling both of these parts is crucial for social justice and equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 09:32 PM
1

Yeah, I really get what you're saying. Thanks for being so elaborative too!
/r/MensRights04/01/22 03:49 PM
2

I agree with most of these things and appreciate you adding info, though I want to emphasise that we need to teach our children healthy dating behaviour because they will date around sooner or later any we cannot control it in the slightest. While useful and in many ways constructive, some of your formulations give off the idea that the risk is too high to ever enter any sort of relationship at all. That is entirely up to personal choice, but as mentioned before, teenagers will date around. Henc…
/r/MensRights04/01/22 02:52 PM
3

The title of this post alone... why isn't it obvious that suggesting a mass killing of half the planet's population is stupendously idiotic?
/r/MensRights04/01/22 10:18 AM
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Teach carefulness and red flags, but don't instill paranoia into him. There are millions upon millions of people in happy relationships on this planet and some things must inevitably be going right in this world for that to be possible. Perhaps also sneak in a tiny "and if you don't feel like dating anybody or wanna have fun with men instead, go do that" and teach about the things to look out for in those situations. Whatever it will be, don't forget to teach about safe sex (her saying she's on …
/r/MensRights04/01/22 10:12 AM
1

Die Zeit ist reif für den Äqualismus. Gleichberechtigung, keine Diskriminierung jeglicher Art und vor allem: Meinungen durch Offenheit und Toleranz ändern. Die Intoleranz kann sich nicht beschweren, wenn sie während der Ablehnung auch noch toleriert wird.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 09:18 PM
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I agree with you. Both things are horrible but can't be compared as better or worse. These things are simply shit and we all wish they wouldn't be a thing.
/r/MensRights01/01/22 01:21 PM
3

"Toxic masculinity" erases and ignores the socio-economic factors in men's lives, that many will claim don't exist anyway.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 08:59 PM
2

"I'm a wahmen and I'm a walking red flag."
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/21 05:04 PM
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FGM is already illegal. Improving enforcement is all that can be done. The excuses for FGM are also the same as for MGM btw, and in both cases the excuses are bullshit. Men face systemic discrimination here.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:57 AM
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One day it's "I'm wearing my makeup for me, not for men" and the other day it's this. Sigh.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/12/21 01:50 AM
3

Exactly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/21 08:02 PM
13

Reminds me of that book somebody wrote where she disguised herself as a man for one year and now sees the problems both genders have in a more balanced and... equal manner, having been able to experience both. Distinguishing good and bad feminism is also incredibly difficult, because the people you agree with might turn around and say something about a different topic that you find absolutely abhorrent. It's a result of individual opinions and unavoidable, leading to much judgement. Then there's…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/21 11:49 PM
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It's also a double standard. Women talking sexually about men and staring at them is very commonplace and rarely spoken against. There is a distinct difference between looking at somebody attractive to check them out and flat out staring at people (though in some cultures everybody just stares at random people, but that too is a different thing), the latter of which is not appropriate. Becoming aware of and interested in somebody's presence is, as you said, perfectly normal. I also argue it's in…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:56 PM
1

Crypto ppl are yeet in the head without sexism already
/r/MensRights25/12/21 03:51 PM
1

I feel like I've found a connection to my being male and it feels good!
/r/MensRights24/12/21 09:05 PM
2

In this world I can't believe I'm glad to say I'm gay. The relatively low levels odf homophobia and hate crime in my country make the biggest threats to me being ignored as a rape victim and presumed guilty on accusation.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 08:28 PM
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Of course they are lol. Even I would exploit that.
/r/MensRights22/12/21 08:18 PM
2

Reddit actually prohibits bans like that, but they can't really and won't ever enforce it.
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:32 PM
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Every time I've seen former male prisoners talk about rape and domestic abuse/violence, they tend to point out how every inmate hates those people with a burning passion, so the "rape culture" is definitely not perpetuated by some male hive mind, even in criminal circles.
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:14 AM
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This. For that very reason, birth rate is one of the factors used in the Human Development Index.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/21 11:06 PM
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Low birth rates also won't be changed much by banning abortion at all. Most of it is because: having children is MUCH less affordable than it used to many more people practice safe sex people take into consideration having a different purpose than mere reproduction and make personal lifestyle decisions without following traditions people are less reliant on offspring for retirement security There are more factors, but these are among the bigger ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/21 11:05 PM
8

Almost three quarters*
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/21 02:25 PM
8

If the entire content of anybody's life is their spouse, they seriously need to take some alone time.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:33 PM
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That's the basic concept of menslib. Men stuff only matters because it hurts women more. That's their premise. Invalidating victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/21 11:10 AM
8

As a gay man, we both want to be picked by men. 🤭 Lads, shoot your shot!
/r/MensRights12/12/21 07:58 PM
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Being female has never been, will never be and simply cannot be antithetical to the concept of promoting men's rights. Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you can't have a mind of your own. Having been amab doesn't mean you're not a woman, it just means that people didn't see you as one until you realised your true gender identity. This makes it possible for you to suffer from problems men usually face, but transphobes in general see you as a man anyway. Especially TERFs are a wide-spread c…
/r/MensRights12/12/21 07:57 PM
3

Ignorance can only be maintained through lies and social pressure. That's why this is a thing.
/r/MensRights12/12/21 12:23 AM
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As a gay man myself, I have found appreciation for my fellow men and work to get rid of the few prejudices I still hold on occasion. Every time I see prejudices that I no longer have be in power though (because men do not have power over how society regards them by some magical hive mind), I get frustrated. How can people be willfully ignorant of misandry while trying to do the best to be kind and inclusive? What is it about me having a perfectly normal gender identity like any other that someho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/21 12:22 AM
5

Same. Also anytime I address in MRA spaces that being angry, salty and toxic is understandable, and that it is not any of our own responsibility to stop people from being ignorant and having shit attitudes, we're still a version of the "put stick into spikes of bicycle wheel" by being overtly aggresive and "reeeeee."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 09:26 PM
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I'd say the whire feathers stuff caused a lot of men to die in battle back in WWI
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 03:16 PM
8

I mean the WHO is just America's bitch and they really don't care much as a whole.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/21 06:30 PM
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Not unnheard of. Alimony laws and their enforcement are pretty sexist and if you're a man, you're fucked. Under some laws, she might be able to attempt and get half of all your assets because "fuck you" - your legislation. At least ask a qualified professional and immediately hire the best one you can find if it does go into legal proceedings. And don't select payment by evaluation of your assets because that ends up in an overevaluation and you'll pay a shit ton of money for very little use of …
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 09:23 AM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying too. I don't know why people interpret this as a silly "women have it worse" thing. I uust wanted to acknowledge gender roles for women to the contrast it by hitting home with something as abhorrent as "die." It's meant to display what you just said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/21 07:41 AM
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Gender roles for women when they were legally enforced (and sometimes still are): you cannot do this without a man and without a man you're kinda screwed financially (but don't worry, there will be plenty of uncomfortable courtiers, try weeding out the bad ones), also school's not for you beyond this point because the stuff it would qualify you for is for men only k thx now go find a husband and have kids because yay no self-determination! Also if there's a foreign invasion you kinda need to pre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/21 10:22 PM
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Which would roughly translate to society is spoiling a good bunch of women at this point. Sad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/21 05:05 PM
2

Ah, that's true.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 10:14 PM
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The possible complications of MGM and FGM are very similar, so I will assert that they are not much different beyond what the genitalia is named and who owns it.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 10:10 PM
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These statistics are based on a "study" by Brian Morris and the numbers are more or less pulled out of his arse and are much likely to be quite decently lower than he asserts. Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/facts/comments/q9o7lw/circumcision_ablates_the_most_sensitive_parts_of/hgzzvzz?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/MensRights25/11/21 10:05 PM
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LONG COMMENT This website will give you pretty much any knowledge plus the respective sources on genital mutilation: https://en.intactiwiki.org/wiki/Main_Page Long fact: Genital Mutilation (GM) has never been required for hygiene and still isn't. Tons of wild animals with similar prepuces (or pretty much the same ones) as those of male and female humans don't really have problems with it and neither did we. If it were so incredibly unpractical, we never would have evolved it millennia upon mille…
/r/MensRights25/11/21 10:02 PM
2

Depends on how well it's hidden, but generally I can see what you mean.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/21 02:33 PM
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The only way I see to pretty much 100% prevent it is a vasectomy (which is reversible, however not without risks, so get professional advice for you as an individual first).
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:24 AM
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Good bot
/r/MensRights23/11/21 04:29 PM
4

Soviet Union would like a word with you.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 11:47 AM
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r/trueoffmychest is a far superior sub anyway and it's decently moderated. The main mens rights sub is very emotionally intensive and the moderation more relaxed, with an emphasis on just letting people express themselves to a larger extent. I'd lie if I said I never see one or the other comment that says something not very gender equality out of sheer spite (which makes it understandable, however not responsible). Overall it harbours a lot of useful stuff though. Just make sure you've got a bit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 10:19 AM
6

I'm not a conspiracy nut but jesus fuck!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 04:11 PM
12

When I talk about men's issues with my Gen Z friends, they seem concerned for the men around them, aware that everybody can face different, unique or common issues from/with them and it creates a spirit of empathy. There definitely are people who listen and care!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 09:27 PM
3

O
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 06:32 AM
5

It started as a joke, but some are following it like an ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 05:44 AM
3

A meme green pass? Yay!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 05:43 AM
2

Don't start dishing out punches if you're gonna complain when they come back at you.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/21 12:10 AM
1

Note that the super predator narrative was often used to purposefully imprison what turned out to be largely black men. Hillary let off that racist comment and you'll not be surprised to hear absolutely 0 difference in Trump's words, who suggested executing them.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:03 PM
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It's only suspended, not abolished and can be reintroduced at a whim at any point in time. Luckily it's easier to get out than in other countries. My father did the first weeks to complete the basic training and then refused service. If you refuse before the training they used to pull you into an interrogation and ask really stupendously unprofound questions and a big ton of kafka traps would be used to take any reply as your agreement to stay in service. If you did the weeks of basig training h…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 12:01 PM
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I often forget the name of the study so I uploaded it to google drive. This link should be public. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Yi1sYtEXQoDRcV3fXFc7O_sYFgmo29yl/view?usp=drivesdk
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/21 08:40 AM
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It also increases rationality and fairness in bargaining behaviour, so that alone is not it either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/21 08:26 AM
4

The system is pitched against yiu. Follow the no-contact principle. Any escalation means a guatanteed loss for you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/21 12:04 PM
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I think you'll find comfort in r/truscum It's a trans community but they're tired of uwu cutesy treegender bs and they're aware men have issues too.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:55 AM
2

Also take a picture of documentation that says you've got full custody of your daughter. Wear your ID and make sure your daughter has one too. That way everything can be proven in a worst-case scenario.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 10:24 AM
5

Right, because being able to separate fiction from reality suddenly makes people hypocrites?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/11/21 09:19 PM
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Though only a more recent addition, my former school advertises both a girl's day and a boy's day to promote the specific fields of work in which each gender is underrepresented in order to promote and nourish interests where diversity is lacking. It is now a mutual effort to diversify professions through education and advertising in order to reduce divisions at the workplace. I think it's a very healthy approach to take! Remove any trace of hiring discrimination from the equation and pure promo…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 09:04 PM
1

Oh wow, noticed that I'm really just talking about my homecountry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/21 12:22 AM
2

I sometimes wondered why there were slightly more women on the planet when I was younger, and anybody I asked told me the birth rate was about 50/50. The day I learned that there are issues disproportionately, or almost exclusively affecting men answered that question. Edit: A concise and informative correction has been made in a reply to me, concerning a misinformed statistic on my part. It is my homecountry in which I noticed an imbalance, not the world as a whole, which has a ratio of about 1…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/21 04:54 PM
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I'd say it's not the one and only 100% defining aspect, but what I would say is that it certainly plays into it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/21 01:28 PM
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Tradconnery is the original source of sexism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/21 12:27 PM
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Yeah. I'm more of a lefty at heart, but this sub, despite its name, really seems to be MensRights but without political polarisation. It's quite refreshing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 01:55 PM
1

It would mean that women go perfectly together with women and same with men and other men. I'd say I'd have it easier because I'm gay, but then again there's nobody in my life that would ever be attracted to me because they're all straight. All of them. It's just the most common form of sexuality. In that way, I have it even harder, because most people here, despite mostly accepting environments, remain closeted. Yay for me!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/21 05:35 PM
2

I think the difference in like counts speaks volumes.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 09:25 PM
2

You simply posted too early. You linked a post that empathises with men that live with abusive girlfriends or wives that act possessive and therefore abusive of them. The post has over 6000 upvotes and some of the top comments were posted at least three hours after the post you made here. Sorry, but you were too eager to find horribleness being popular, when after long edits in the original post calling out that exact horribleness, thousands of people are agreeing that men deserve to have abuse-…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/21 02:55 PM
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It will be defended with "it's inclusive of pre-op trans people" to which I say yes and no. Of course there will be trans people with unmatching genitalia, but that's either because they cannot afford surgery, are anxious to get it done, other mental factors, parental pressure, not having access to such surgery, being at threat of health from any surgery or simply being a tucute trender that just wants the uwu trans aesthetic that is ruining the community. The reason trans people undergo genital…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 10:40 AM
2

Personally, "Lehrkräfte" makes more sense than adding "Personen" to everything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 10:36 AM
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These pepple simply don't care about women. All they seek out is feeding their ego by shitting on everybody else, even if it means using women's frequently lived experience to do so.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 12:08 PM
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While it could be used to deviate the topic to look into the social and economic factors that disproportionately affect men and lead to this kind of behaviour, it's more of a "black gun crime victims are mostly killed by other black people" thing. A horrible reasoning, and while technically true, the implications have fatal consequences. Something cannot be dismissed just because you share an arbitrary characteristic with the attacker. You are still a victim and your gender could not have preven…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 04:45 AM
2

So you still want to be angry at me so desparately? Fine then. Hope it satisfies the common internet need to beat each other in emotional and verbal attacks until one succumbs to the other's narrow-mindedness. The "straw man quote" is what you sound like from the outside. Of course it also depends on my perception, and my expectations about you, but that's not the only two things that are separate. There's a difference between what we think and what we end up saying too. I get it, you think beca…
/r/MensRights13/10/21 09:01 PM
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"You agree with some of the things they say and get upset at me being snarky at other things they say, therefore you're one of them because yay generalisation to keep my black and white thinking up, all the while deflecting my claiming not to be a radical by radically shoving you into the other side because how dare we agree on some things and disagree on others! There are only two sides and you are on the wrong one and therefore you are EVIL!!! You're just another hateful bigot and you [insert …
/r/MensRights13/10/21 08:47 PM
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Could say the same to you, makes both points no less right. "You're just ignorant." Same to you. Learn to see nuance. Pointing out numerous flaws in people's thinking here doesn't equal you being a misandrist hatemonger that wants to deny men space to talk about their issues. Similarly, me saving time by describing your throwing of words like "bigot" and "projection" and basically repeating the tribalism of the comment you replied to, as if your version was somehow correct because you're just th…
/r/MensRights13/10/21 08:05 PM
1

It's odd how intact countries magically don't have the billions of costs then, or how other animals don't have the supposedly studied problems. 🤭 Also comparing the rates of STDs and STIs from the US to intact western places is a study in of itself, do check it out. Also odd how only the American and Jewish medical associations assign benefits to circumcision (but only for men, even though the same bullshit excuses were used to try and keep FGM normalised) while all the other ones that made expl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/21 08:00 PM
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No, he and you are both right. This effect isn't exclusive to one side. Radicalisation isn't exclusive to one side. Both feminism and this subreddit here will turn straight toxic if you point out their flaws. Your buzzword salad and mere accusations also make everything worse. There's no point, so don't even try. Only thing it does is eat away at your own energy.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 03:32 PM
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There's so much to debunk in this, I can't even be bothered to write it all up anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/21 08:32 PM
3

The "you're taking away from" stuff is mostly used to shut you up when you point out that they are the ones taking away from other victims in favour of their narratives.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 06:10 PM
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I mean we managed to get Female Genital Mutilation banned, likely because the cultures practicing it have less international leverage. A lot of people seem to not care about MGM in the same way though, for a varoety of reasons. Sometimes you just get the impression that people don't care mich when the victims are male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/21 04:27 AM
15

Sorry, but wrong. Creating a serious open wound before modern medicine is and always has been a potential risk of death. Even if by infection. With no disinfectants or sterile environments available, any such undertaking would have been a blatantly stupid risk. Apply your reasoning to female genitla mutilation (which luckily has already been illegalised and somehow still manages to be done to little girls) and open your eyes. A crapton of other species have also developed very similar prepuces a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/21 04:25 AM
76

The Americans cling onto it because of Kellogg and people don't want to face the possibility that they're harming their children. The WHO pedals it because they're America's bitch. They claim bogus disproven benefits to justify it. The things actually helping, such as condoms and education, are not emphasised enough. Genital mutilation, for both men and women, serves the express purpose of reducing sexual pleasure. Always has, always will. There never was any other reason in history, especially …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/21 09:36 PM
18

Something this blatant needs serious susbstantiation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/21 01:59 PM
8

Her church? Mate, she's not changing her mind. Make sure you set up a good path for yourself when you finish school/turn 18 and then get the hell out of there, perhaps in touch with your dad if you like.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:41 PM
3

Ideology is religion without a god.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 01:56 PM
2

AITA is generally a shitty ass subreddit even if you substract gender from the equation.
/r/MensRights05/10/21 12:42 PM
66

Let's see... wars, the pyramids, the Mongolian Empire, pretty much everything humans have made that required construction workers, most mathematicians, leading physicists... Granted, some suppression of women and them not being allowed in a good number of fields for a long time plays into that, but for the most part, men built and maintained this world as women sat idly by and were only expected to be wives, mothers, cleaners, cooks and not cannon fodder. Though we also can't really set an ultim…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/21 05:42 AM
8

Which is also why a wealth tax is bonkers because those people would already be paying that money if anybody simply bothered to outlaw transferring your earnings into tax havens untaxed. Is it dodgy? Yes. Is it barely legal? Yes. Will any government ever take initiative and stop the bullshit? Nah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/21 12:13 PM
1

The UN and WHO do whatever the US does and the US has always done a lot of bullshit.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 12:08 PM
1

Yeah. Nobody is immune to human failings and I wish we spent a little more time trying to work on ours than just pointing them out in everybody else.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 09:03 AM
3

I have decided a while ago that I will stay away from Portland in any capacity possible.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:58 AM
3

Many men have no idea that there are patterns in society of shared problems either. Even if it is reported on, often it will find a way to make it a "women most affected" thing or blame the victims somehow because of course you have to stay true to the narrative.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 02:37 PM
1

There is the occasional person who's musk you'd want to smell.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/21 06:00 PM
18

So women as a group not being as successful as an extreme minority of men means misogyny? It's pretty one-sided. Of course women will have problems, often even entitely different from the problems men face, but this sort of ignores what other people here ignore too. The ambiguity of parallel problems. Everybody can face shit, and whether men or women have it bad somewhere cannot fully be measured simply by comparison.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 03:34 PM
3

One thanketh thee
/r/MensRights28/09/21 10:39 PM
1

Yeah, of course arguing against divisionist revenge politics and the endless cycle of hate coming with it is labelled as trying to divide here. It's a hard truth to swallow, and even if it isn't our fault, responsibility or turn to be better, nothing and nobody will ever truly be ready to listen if all they see surfacing is misandrists providing screenshots of Poe's-Law-suitable commentary that paints us like we're madmen swinging our fists into the air on an empty plaza nesr Cutty Sark, where t…
/r/MensRights28/09/21 07:17 PM
-4

Consisering some of the things I witness from time to time, I plead with Poe's Law
/r/MensRights28/09/21 03:20 PM
-4

Your reply is literally the same thing. Ever seen Gran Torino?
/r/MensRights28/09/21 12:47 PM
-6

That's like excluding straight and white and male and female actors all to only hire black/latino/otherethnicities, lgbt actors for about the next 100 years of entertainment. It's a bullshit revenge sentiment. Sorry but this kind of rethoric is usually pedalled by the woke. Don't be like them.
/r/MensRights28/09/21 12:16 PM
59

Hong Kong police actually being prosecuted? That's not just PPD, that's literally CCP-PD
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/21 11:50 PM
19

Female sex workers will also confirm that many of their clients simply want somebody to cuddle with, somebody to hold them, or even hold them as they cry. It's very sad. Although I also agree with the comment by u/TheDandruffian
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/21 03:58 PM
1

Example: apple crying a unified charging system would put a stop to innovation and be bad for the consumer when in reality the opposite would be true. Less exclusivity in a tech product means companies have to be more innovative to compete.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/21 09:02 AM
19

There is empirical evidence showing this is true.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 03:04 PM
2

They could make it make sense and retire the role of James because we have No Time To Care anymore and then reassign the 007 alias to a female agent in canon if that's what they really wanna do. It's not gonna make a difference in terms of people not wanting to see a switcheroonie anyway.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 01:12 PM
1

Misandry crates legislation that ends up causing harm to society thriugh purposefully harming men. Malicuous intent creating rules that screw people over is a very old concept and it's about time we had activism against it.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 02:11 PM
3

It shows that knowing about biases, fallacies and wrong conclusions doesn't make one immune to them. You're growing and that shows things are getting better!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 11:42 AM
7

She's stuck in a pyramid scheme and there's not much you can do unless there's an organisation near you specialising in deprogramming. Keep your money separate and don't give her a cent, it's all going into the money pit scheme even if that means starving herself. It's worse than religion: straight out brainwash. Protect yourself and your kids, but unless you know you can pull her out of this, there is nothing you can do to protect her from the consequences. Prioritise yourself and the children.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/21 11:50 AM
9

Tradcons backing women having to bear the same burdens as men do? Wow!
/r/MensRights21/09/21 10:04 AM
1

The only people that have ever told me not to cry were peers in my early childhood. Aka the age where idiots get the most attention and will make you give them attention. The most supportive and comforting people I've ever encountered when it came to emotional expression and help have been my parents, grandparents and my current peers. Now only strangers seem to say weird ass bullshit. I've just realised how supportive my daily environment is. I'm happy!
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:25 AM
1

Depends on how often it comes up and how fundamental it is. I've been taught that with relationships it's either a hell yeah! And if it isn't that, it's a no. People either look for hookups, relationships or not at all. I also think there is no such thing as looking for short-term relationships. You don't just fall in love and after a couple of months say goodbye for no reason other than some alotted time ran out. Relationships have a goal of lasting, so don't be afraid to be picky.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:02 AM
6

Even if police knows for sure the perpetrator is not the man, their written and obligatory procedures might still prescribe to arrest the man. The police doesn't have a choice what they can and cannot do in a lot of situations, so the flaw is systemic and institutionalised. Example: There's these crazy looney toons people who are nuts and claim they're global citizens or some bullshit and try to resist the police, usually getting out of their vehicle. Now regulations vary depending on where you …
/r/MensRights19/09/21 09:04 PM
2

To answer the question in your post title, we'd probably have to dig through a lot of history, psychology and so on and so forth. The problem with historical record is that the authors aren't immune to biases or even ill intent. Any reputable historical source is aware that they need to cross-reference several sources wherever possible, however that depends on whether there even are the resources to afford such luxury. A lot of rewriting of history has also happened to suit narratives of all kin…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 07:33 PM
4

It's entirely different. There's masc bottoms, masc tops, dominant bottoms, dominant tops, submissive bottoms, submissive tops, dominant/submissive fem tops/bottoms etc. Strangely enough a lot of bodybuilding dudes are complete bottoms and there's this strange phenomenon where scrawny dudes have big dicks. Might just be cliché, but I don't have enough experience to establish any partterns. And a lot of people aren't any of those things. Your dating pool as a gay man is small as fuck. It can happ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/21 09:22 AM
1

Oof
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:33 PM
5

It's more likely some algorithm is taking down anything mentioning killing and trans and women in too close of a context to save on review sampling staff and avoid controversy. Or somebody reported and the mod reviewing it was ass.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:30 PM
2

Depending on country and location within that country, there are usually several kinds of people who can give a written agreement legal force. Since this is about divorce, that person will have to be qualified/licensed/whatever to certify divorce agreements. A google search isn't guaranteed to give results here, but if there is a service for simple legal questions that you can call for free or a simple one-time fee like $10, then ask them. Otherwise wait for more replies. Since you and your soon…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 07:23 PM
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Which of course means it's still a problem we can be aware about, but the point stands.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/09/21 07:10 PM
2

Source: @thetinmen on instagram
/r/MensRights12/09/21 02:37 PM
1

It's done this way every day. It's pretty much the standard way of doing it. Shameful
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:56 PM
3

Glad to see I've used reason to a point where only your emotions are left. My job here is done, good day!
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:29 PM
3

Let's mirror this: Conservative = evil nazi KKK supporter "But those aren't the same." You: oMg nO tRuE sCoTsMaN While that fallacy is indeed often used (e.g.: "this is not representative of true feminism"), you're essentially using the fallacy called "argument from fallacy." Differentiating between things isn't inherently false simply because from your view the distinction is non-existent, which is the basis for it being regarded as a fallacy to begin with.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 11:25 AM
3

Then let me hammer the thing home you refuse to acknowledge: don't expect diversity of opinion and your opinion to be tolerated (which it should) when you refuse to look deeper into something, simply because your outrage alerts get activated by the word "left" Left left left left left left left left left weeoo weeoo
/r/MensRights11/09/21 07:18 AM
2

Using fallacy as last defense at the sight of a comparison is deflection. Don't complain about woke bigotry if you yourself aren't open to diversity of opinion.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:39 AM
3

That's like equating conservatives to nazis. For the woke, anything right of them is evil fascist. For you it seems anything left of you is a cringe SJW she/they demigirl with pink hair screaming about bollocks like whiteness. LWMA is perfectly sane and many posts from here are also posted therr and vice versa. It's up to you whether you want to be closed-minded, but they certainly won't blame you for it.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 04:27 AM
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Nowhere does it say "stay out if you're not on the left" Don't conflate left with woke, same way being a conservative doesn't make you a nazi.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 08:38 PM
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MensLib: Men's issues "through a feminist lens." Bluntly, they believe feminism can solve all of men's problems that are really just there because something something misogyny toxic masculinity and patriarchy. Aka things and words that are easily misinterpreted and in one way or the other blame victims. This sub: low censorship, but also more aggression, outrage and being at liberty to vent your angers and frustrations in excess can cause you to overgeneralise and sometimes unfairly judge what y…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 03:55 PM
2

It's a bit like including a tsunami in your car insurance, but nothing is impossible. One day you might just happen to take a drive on a coast near a tectonic divide and poof you'll be glad to have had that covered by insurance while you climb the steep hill to save yourself. There aren't all too many coasts like that and the majority of people on this planet will never go to them, but it does happen enough for it to be imaginable by everybody.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:12 PM
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The Australian government itself is shite, even the other popular party is just shite lite, funded by the same fossil fuel overlords, so it wouldn't surprise me if the courts were bullshite as well.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 04:15 PM
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Except equal opportunities are great as a concept and the problem really is their push for equal outcomes. Establishing equal opportunities would be done by weeding out those who discriminate, while estabilishing equal outcomes ignores the -istaphobes, lets them keep their positions (looking at you, Disney execs and studio heads) and instead bans and punishes innocent people looking for work. It's all put onto the worker and consumer yet again. People claim to be for the people but the equal out…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 04:14 PM
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Wear a dress and some eyeliner, claim you're gender non-conforming (for not conforming to gender norms or expectations) and apply anyway. If they decline, write a review and tag them on twitter calling them transphobic (even though being GNC and trans aren't related). Then watch the magic happen.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 04:11 PM
0

Where I live it's acceptable for both genders to go into the other's restrooms whem shit's full. You gotta go when you gotta go.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:18 PM
17

Spot-on! Academia is the source of the greatest thinking, but the mere notion that education makes people not turn into zealots over various things is ridiculous and a sad realisation to make when e.g. your name is Sabine Hossenfelder, your study particle physics and suddenly realise that quite a bunch of your fellow physicists keep pursuing a theory that didn't produce any evidence or progress in 30 years, which is slow for physics. Normally in the scientific method, you would consider pursuing…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/21 01:52 PM
1

He met his wife while working on an early movie, something involving a prison I think. It's a very sweet story.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 07:09 AM
2

Collect all the evidence you can, go to all of your accounts and kick off all devices that aren't your own, change passwords, enable two step verification, isolate your digital life. Send an explanation to everybody you know, make sure to tell your bank to only let you do any transactions, grab all posessions dear to you and head into the cheapest hotel you can find (hostels will usually give you a bed, communal shower and some food for a couple of bucks a day). Then get a lawyer. Don't spend an…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 06:42 AM
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Collect all the evidence you can, go to all of your accounts and kick off all devices that aren't your own, change passwords, enable two step verification, isolate your digital life. Send an explanation to everybody you know, make sure to tell your bank to only let you do any transactions, grab all posessions dear to you and head into the cheapest hotel you can find (hostels will usually give you a bed, communal shower and some food for a couple of bucks a day). Then get a lawyer. Don't spend an…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 06:42 AM
2

Yup. Just like any other group of people, the big gay exists everywhere 🤭
/r/MensRights07/09/21 06:09 AM
1

I think gendered language is actually a much more complicated topic than many think. There are imstances where I agree with the pushes for neutral alternatives and there are instances where people simply take it too far.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 06:09 AM
3

Same here! It's like the way your ears and mind are accustomed to (I'll assume:) western music. You'll be able to unconsciously pick up on the cues and techniques and thus understand what the music conveys. With the common character tropes, you somewhat know when you're supposed to laugh, cry, feel empathy or have a dislike towards a character. And until those character tropes are publicly criticised for their negative portrayal of both men and women, they will find active use. Some of these tro…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 08:00 PM
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Being a gay man myself, it disgusts me how Hollywood fetishises me on one part, then tries feeding me off with cheapskate "representation" (aka ignoring my person in favour of highlighting the mere aspect of who I wanna love and fuck), and THEN does nothing against the homophobia in the very industry and studios that try calling me -istaphobic against myself for rejecting their shitty ass fake wokeywoke cashgrabs. Especially at the top level they keep all the discrimination mindsets in their job…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 07:53 PM
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They even shadowbanned channels and changed the youtube algorithm in her favour lol.
/r/MensRights06/09/21 07:44 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/Male_Studies06/09/21 07:41 PM
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It's not a women movie, it's a wahmen movie. Three Wishes for Cinderella (1973) with Libuse Safrankova (bless her soul, she passed away from cancer not too long ago) is unarguably the best Cinderella movie of all time! She even manages to be a kickass and powerful woman in her own right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/21 05:33 PM
6

Sorry, I don't entirely understand what these findinds are trying to say. I'll read the study later in more detail, but in case you find the time to briefly explain, I'd much appreciate the gesture!
/r/Male_Studies06/09/21 11:47 AM
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Np
/r/MensRights06/09/21 07:04 AM
3

This is absolute shitfuckery and it sounds like that commission was established by the government, which is a load of oil and gas suckups anyway. Australien government, lead by the Shite Party and funded by your fossil fuel overlords, just like the most likely party to run for our position: Shite Lite
/r/MensRights05/09/21 04:49 PM
12

They're really good unless you look up political things
/r/MensRights05/09/21 02:24 PM
8

I'll make sure to do so!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/21 02:18 PM
4

It's also odd we ever got here considering how normal it was to see the shape of slightly squished balls in swimsuits from decades and decades ago, a thing that has carried over into the modern day in just a few types of sport clothing, e.g. wrestling suits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/21 07:53 AM
9

She's one of the twitter crazies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/21 09:17 PM
2

I want choccy and flowah! Don't mind the deodorant or aftershave for my birthday that I'm usually too much of a miser to buy though. Or something new to do on a night out. Actually, just some cuddles would be great right now! . . . Oh, and if he's into it: "Suck the fucking shit out of his dick!" - MikeMGTV
/r/MensRights04/09/21 04:30 PM
0

Probably just a clickbait headline with some tumblr screenshots, but still ew
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 04:05 PM
9

This. The "you have to be a stronk male" mentality being displayed and upvoted here is disgusting and no better than a radfem crying about how her fiancé is too weak to support her and buy her a new $10000 necklace.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:40 AM
8

This. The article misses the point entirely.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:39 AM
9

Some of the comments here are very disappointing. "High value males" "hurr furr feminine men I don't have anything against them but man has to be man" "ree Lil Nas Cringe" (as stated in the article, and I agree he is cringe, but not as cringe as losing your shit over him) Y'all sound like you're straight out of FDS. People here keep forgetting that the original creators of gender roles were wealthy tradcons and the more you perpetuate their shitty rethorics, the more you will harm men. Cut it! T…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:38 AM
2

This
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:34 AM
5

Same. The conservative trap has a large and wide funnel. We're already less prone to being woke, now we need to work on not going all the way around the bend to the other side of the political crazy.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:32 AM
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Yeah, this article sounds like a bollocks rant from an angry tradcon. Tradcons, the original misandrists before feminism became a thing, just to make everybody aware of that again. Tying Lil Nas Cringe into all of this and praising China for banning people from behaving for however the fuck they want and complaining the west doesn't give a shit is the cheapest way to discretely suck the CCPs cock I've ever seen. The west not giving a shit is a problem, just not in the way this ideological bull i…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 09:25 AM
5

Well women, like men, are indeed not being drafted. They just have to register like men now.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 06:19 AM
12

It almost sounds like the way they approach things is accompanied by bigotry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/21 05:44 AM
2

I'm happy to report that the most popular comments are supportive.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:50 PM
2

The CCP deserves to be raped anally by the most fem of sissies out there!
/r/MensRights03/09/21 08:19 AM
1

Exactly that
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 07:06 PM
7

It makes you an egalitarian. Everybody will face injustices somewhere in the world. If we have the simple value that all humans should be treated as any other human then we're going far beyond the details that are men's issues or women's issues or the issues of certain ethnic minorities and majorities and all that jazz. It makes you a promoter of all of these things, so technically you are still correct. An egalitarian is, in a way, MRA.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 02:21 PM
0

It's clearly been 20 years since you've seen that movie. That song occurs while they're cleaning the children's room (which was a big mess). The phrase itself comes from one of the Sherman brothers who worked on the movie (and are wrongly credited by google for the roles of one Penguin Waiter and the Old Bird Woman). One of the brothers has a son who back then went to kindergarten or primard school. There he got some medicine, and to make the entire ordeal more pleasant for the children, they we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 06:48 AM
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They do it because it lets them ignore it by equating the victim to the perpetrator, stripping both of their individuality, agency and personal responsibility. It's victim blaming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 06:09 AM
1

Not in the movie
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 05:47 AM
2

Aren't civil defendants free? They might not be of much help since most of their cases go through the courts like some industrial factory but if there is no way to afford a lawyer, that could be an option. It's crazy that the courts managed to take so much away from you. Did they not inform you of the option to be your own legal representative? Without much knowledge, the use of that is of course very limited, but if there was not a single person speaking for you in there, then all the court can…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 08:19 PM
4

Kinda makes me sad because the mother in Mary Poppins is such a sweet lady and out of being oblivious of some of the things managing to foster in that movement. Do note though that the movie plays in 1910 before the war and the main topic seemed to be getting the right to vote, which was given to the lower classes pretty equally for the most part from such campaigning, iirc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 07:16 PM
3

No, I mean as in people who have attitudes that I can understand well and that I myself hold on the occasion, but they're not productive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 07:11 PM
1

They also have non-statistical posts that I think woulf serve more to advancing our cause than some of the stuff being posted here. We have all reason to be upset, but if we are going to pull a woke people move and ree and waah then all we will face is counterattacks and being publicly ridiculed. The fact that people would rather drown in their own misery rather than being a positive contributor to the change that would relieve their emotions to begin with shows even in this very comment section…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 05:17 PM
4

Do not go light on this, because she won't. You've had tons of money taken from you, now don't waste any expense to make sure you get what you think is fair in this separation. She won't go easy on you, as you might have noticed, and the only way to not drown under her determination is to be more determined yourself. You can do this! It's a crossroads in your life and one from which you want to take the highway, not the 250 year old mountain pass.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 12:47 PM
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This. What needs to be raised awareness about is that tradcons are the original gender role enforcers and carry their own flavour of misandry. Tradcons are the direct opposite of an answer to men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 10:24 AM
2

mensrights has more bad apples than this place
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 10:20 AM
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Pretty good breakdown. I also like this sub more. It has less of an outrage quota than the main mensrights sub and outrage makes people more prone to countering prejudice with prejudice, creating a field that the opposing side can attack.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 10:17 AM
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And since we know there are plenty good men, there are also plenty good women. And they keep procreating. Could we maybe be outbreeding the manipulative and bad people?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 07:05 PM
2

Other people have already said lots of things, so I'll just add this precautionary advice: be careful treading debated and controversialised territory. The heavy debates will highlight the worst on both sides so don't be put off immediately if you actually encounter the occasional person fulfilling the negative stereotypes. There are always some people in every group.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 06:40 PM
1

I was specifically replying to the comment for mentioning him and expand upon it.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 03:34 PM
1

This. Donald got his own pussy pass denied. In fact, he never had it. He's not at liberty to pass freely after grabbing pussy. We need to protect them from him.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 03:16 PM
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What the other comments said but also NEVER do anything for her again, even out of pity, unless it can 100% not be used to fuck you over because clearly she's trying to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 09:27 AM
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This reminds me of Phineas and Ferb and the character Baljeet. He's a stereotypical nerd that gets bullied by Buford, but something sticks out for me when I think about him. Throughout the show he develops into a valuable friend and vital part of the friend group. Even his relationship to Buford is actually surprisingly amicable and they do like each other. The bully-victim trope transforms into what almost feels like a subculture and turns into a matter important to both of them. In one episode…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/21 06:10 AM
2

It's less about actively making somebody comfortable (society can't oblige you to do anything), and more about not belitteling, minimising or denying that every once in a while, the world finds ways to have everybody face crap in their lives. Just, you know, treat everybody equally.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 06:01 AM
3

Yup
/r/MensRights31/08/21 05:58 AM
18

Unless they're pretending trenders, actual trans people don't choose being born in a body that doesn't match their brain.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 02:54 PM
2

I view them like I view islamophobes and racists. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 02:53 PM
5

Oh dear... well, I hope this doesn't affect your emotional or mental health at the end. I regularly see people on reddit who become mad crazy from the injustices that exist in this world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/21 01:09 PM
6

A certain group more than others? This source would confirm that: https://bigi.genderequality.info/#_how_to_rank_bigi_scores Just scroll down a little for a neat list.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/08/21 01:07 PM
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It contributed in some ways to making society more open in many aspects, but nothing comes without its downsides. Severe ones at that.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 11:29 AM
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Society finds ways to treat us all like crap. The fact that people have competitive mindsets is harmful towards raising awareness for women's and men's issues. They're not mutually exclusive and often even tie together or happen at the same time in nearly the same place.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/08/21 06:29 AM
17

Part of it is that you made this experience in an online roleply community where generally the worst kind of people find that their presence is being tolerated or even popular, but yes, this kind of stuff does happen in real life to a good number of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/21 06:27 AM
5

Tbh audiences receive signals when to cheer and clap, but still
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 01:19 PM
11

It's a bit like rich people having no idea what it's like not to do or fix something because it's not financially viable for the average person. It doesn't even come to mind unless you seriously pay attention or know what it's like and haven't forgotten. 🎵 Nobody knows what it's like to be the bad man, to be the sad man. Behind the idk.🎶 We should be celebrating men. Example: 🎵 IT'S RAINING MEN! HALLELUJA! Something something every woman find the perfect guy.🎶 Just a song where the singers go "h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 11:32 AM
6

The mere suggestion that having a wiener makes you incapable or irrelevant for having that need fulfilled is not just unscientific, it's blatant sexism. Stop with you 50s gender role bullshit!
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:25 AM
3

The mental issues, remember them in case you need to steep low and use them for leverage in the worst case: court.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/21 07:34 PM
1

I love how most of the things I'm reading there are absolutely sane and peiple exchange sound arguments for either cases.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 10:26 AM
6

This particular author tends to make these Boris Johnson type U-turns
/r/MensRights27/08/21 10:01 PM
0

Which are undesirable for other reasons, but that's besides the point, I admit
/r/MensRights27/08/21 05:50 PM
8

It's definitely better here than most other places. I watched a class of 13/14 year olds spend a school lesson on thinking about diversity quotas before coming to the conclusion that they cause more problems than they solve and don't solve discrimination.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 10:53 AM
15

Fellow German here. While most people I talk to see why loads of trendy political things are nonsense (and in class even bring up counter arguments themselves) but lots of those things simply don't spend so much time in a single person's mind and they don't even have that time to think it through and see whether some aspects of it might be bonkers. That's why I see a lot of people simply pulling along with things while only a handful (really, you can count them by your fingers) in an entire Gymn…
/r/MensRights27/08/21 09:32 AM
13

I mean a support structure for perpetrators to explore why and why they shouldn't is actually a pretty good concept, but it portrays the whole issue from just one side. Classic duluth model. Reading further, pure nonsense starts popping up, wuich ither comments here habe described sufficiently.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 01:03 AM
4

Step 1: Write a book called "I hate women" Step 2: Publish your book "I hate women" Step 3: Observe rightful disgust Stel 4: Realise people don't give a crap about men based on the basic human value that law usually prescribes everybody.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 04:16 PM
7

Sadly, yes
/r/MensRights26/08/21 10:11 AM
12

It doesn't affect women, so it doesn't find its way into the mainstream narrative
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:56 AM
25

Both feminists and tradcons get up in arms together when you suggest making the system equal. If you try abolishing it, it'll likely only be the tradcons opposing it.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:55 AM
0

I mean it's blatant transphobia, but in a way it protects trans men from having to register under such an inhumane policy.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:37 AM
3

What irks me the most is when people say that the evil cishet white males control everything whine they're usually the ones changing legislation, political discourse, even the whole of entertainment at their whims. Sometimes for the better and sometimes not. Everything has up- and downsides. I can totally see that in some areas their view would be factually undeniable, but when it comes to leverage over Western society?
/r/MensRights25/08/21 08:07 PM
3

She became verbally and physically abusive and you think the problem was YOU for not accepting that? What the fuck? She has to work on herself! Wishing her the best of luck, but if this isn't a HELL YES for you then it's a no, and I'd say it's a no because it never ended well in the past and without change on her part, it won't get better. You'll become increasingly unhappy and embittered. If you love her and if you love yourself, please choose your next step carefully.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 02:44 PM
1

Granted, my own experience is merely anecdotal, but I recall my female classmates almost all telling stories of being cat-called randomly, especially when they were clearly underage. One of them pointed out that compared to how many men she randomly passes on the street, the amount of people actually showing such rude behaviour is comparably negligible. When it came to worse things, nobody could speak of any personal experience. Two knew somebody else who had.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 10:49 AM
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There have been stories in which hospita staff have taken the child and done the procedure anyway. What you can do if you ever have a son is to not only very clearly refuse to have the procedure done, but also make sure he NEVER ever leaves the supervision of a trusted and awake person (e.g. the father when you need to sleep and vice versa) and at best doesn't leave the room. If he has to, not unattended by a person who knows when to step in. Being the change you want to see in the world is real…
/r/MensRights25/08/21 12:05 AM
1

Law specifically privileges women in marriages.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen24/08/21 10:27 PM
12

Which is why I like how in Labyrinth, our female protagnoist tries to save the baby brother she doesn't even like.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/21 10:07 PM
1

No, what I'm actually saying is that the chance of terrorists actually coming to Europe is so piss damn low that being anti-immigration for that reason is idiotic, as you seem to agree.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 08:37 PM
1

I understand both OP and the comments. Don't think therr is an ultimately right choice.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/21 04:03 PM
2

It assumes that being offended at targetted insult makes you anti-women.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 03:56 PM
2

Record and document the events. Will help with the court proceedings for divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/21 10:44 AM
1

They think the men are either collaborators or should sacrifice themselves. You could say it's a neat mix of ethnic based discrimination with the main ingredient misandry because "but but but terrorists" yeah guess what, the past attacks in Europe were committed by people that were already under watch and it's a failure of the authorities that they still succeeded. The proportion of people seeking help to actually suspicious people is also low as heck!
/r/MensRights24/08/21 10:44 AM
11

The assumption that all MRAs are tradcons (who come with their own fair share of misandry, usually) is a gross misrepresentation and an assumption based on seeing right wing people spend time in subs like this.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 08:00 AM
11

And how she could have possibly stumbled upon those websites? Unless she herself-
/r/EverydayMisandry24/08/21 07:58 AM
3

The hardliners will track down comments such as mine. An important lesson when it comes to wanting success as an overlooked and diminished movement is being better in self-criticism. Feminism tolerates its hardliners and we rightfully criticise the impact that has on the movement as a whole. If we cannot ever do the same (because belonging to a group doesn't make every member of that group perfect or good or right) then we are doomed to become a mere reflection of feminism, toleratong the same h…
/r/MensRights23/08/21 07:43 PM
2

Perhaps
/r/MenSupportMen23/08/21 05:33 PM
5

Same here. Kids need a diverse range of people that are examples on how to be... people. If for example mother or father are absent, it will be more of a challenge for the single parent to raise a healthy and balanced individual. Yes, toxic relationships are even more damaging, but overall the intact family (or getting friends on board for extensive exposure to the other sex) is advantageous in raising kids. Can easily imagine the same being true for daycares etc.
/r/MenSupportMen23/08/21 05:21 PM
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From child educators I've in turn heard constantly how much they wish more men were around to give children, and especially the boys, a male role model since there are women galore. Helping out at events or being at weddings and other occasions (I'm 18, barely an adult mind you) usually ends up with kids flocking around me. I don't even have much of a heart for children, they just seek out any guy that can remotely relate to them. At kids specific events when I did volunteer work, specifically t…
/r/MenSupportMen23/08/21 05:06 PM
-1

I mean we ourselves suck at shutting down anti-women people but your point still stands.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 08:52 AM
6

In fact when such topics do come up, I find my classmates have very different views and regularly debunk nonsense in a matter of minutes when it comes up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/21 08:17 AM
28

sigh of relief from the German education system being prohibited from taking any political stances except you know analysing why nazi Germany was a piece of shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 08:10 PM
3

They're trying to appeal too much in a way that split the voter base in England and gabe rise to the shitpile that is the tories. I wish they had a more balanced approach.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 12:35 PM
2

Get certification of her mental problems in case you need to secure custody. Due to her terribly low income, you would probably end up with alimony but not child support if you have the custody. Children would need their mother and other healthy female role models.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 12:04 AM
4

And you rudimentary legal code. Someone being able of defending themselves doesn't absolve the perpetrator of responsibility. Of course somebody bigger is capable, but why does anybody use that to shame the victim if they find themselves physically or emotionally overwhelmed? How does that make it any better or less wrong? Oh, philosophy, what greaaaaat mysteries you provide us!
/r/MensRights20/08/21 09:42 AM
3

"Abuse is ok if the victim is supposed to be stronger because that absolves the perpetrator of the personal responsibility for the intent of committing abise because they know they can get away with it." Victim blaming ass!
/r/MensRights20/08/21 09:38 AM
2

Good bot
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/21 08:45 AM
17

Don't forget to mention the bias in grading when it comes to education. Thanks for also mentioning transphobia that comes with the ways people mistreat men!
/r/MensRights17/08/21 11:02 PM
26

MGTOW aspects I like: We don't owe womenas a group, you can be perfectly happy on your own and without marriage (which institutionally discriminates against men), we don't have to be in a relationship and don't have to do anything. MGTOW aspects I dislike: the immediate classification of all women as too great a risk to even be feiends sith if that just happens to come about. Not every man is out to rape and not every woman is out to ruin your life. The fewest are. Yet, some people fail toacknow…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 03:46 PM
0

This would also speak for the research about gender dysphoria, meaning that gender is not simply what your bits down there are but rather something ingrained into your mind, and if your bits and the mind don't match, you're not gonna feel all too fine about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 03:30 PM
2

Conspiracy theorists, flat earthers, scientology, Qanon. They're world-renowned inspite of, I'd argue, being far more easily dismissed and yet find more than your alleged 5000 supporters. Why are you so bent on this? What is it that is bothering you with MRA not being unknown to everybody you encounter? Isn't that a good thing? And why is all of that in turn directed at me? Aren't we both supportive of men's issues in this sub? Also I'd like to refrain from sticking to American mainstream media …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 02:51 PM
2

I see what the problem here is. The context of the word "influence." This is not about who has more influence within society, it's about influence within a group itself. Within feminism you get lots of borderline FDS ideology. Within MRAdvocacy you get lots of people that immediately regard any women as a danger to men through the ways women have advantages over men in society, which is comparable to the falsehood of "all men this and that ree and waah." It happens, and it happens often, but doe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 12:43 PM
2

YES! This shouldn't be considered optional. Just for the sake of formality, hand everything to somebody who knows exactly what everything is about and when it comes to the divorce being finalised, made LEGALLY BINDING then you bet your backside you want everything to be in perfect order and without quick changes or surprises that could end up costing you a fortune. A lawyer is not an expense, it's an investment!
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/21 12:28 PM
2

A subreddit with over 300k members alone would far outmatch that estimate, but the exact number is entirely irrelevant to my point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 12:25 PM
1

As with anything, sometimes it applies, sometimes it doesn't and sometimes the contrary happens, but in general I'd saythe theory has a solid basis.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 07:56 AM
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Similar to the men's rights community, feminism refuses to acknowledge the influence that its worst members have. I'm not a feminist and I'm not an MRA either. Both are too tainted with mutual hate and known for putting each other down that I would ever want to be directly associated with them. I'm an Egalitarian
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 07:48 AM
1

Arousal nonconcordance is a vital piece of sex education missing in the public conscious. Here's a TED talk by a sex educator about it: https://youtu.be/L-q-tSHo9Ho And yes, people do try to legitimise rape against girls and women on the basis that they got wet. It's just that the success rate of that is much lower.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 10:56 PM
3

Eton elites will be cleared for anything. I wouldn't call this a win for our team necessarily, it just managed to not be a loss.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 07:28 PM
7

Happy separated parents are probably going to give your son more happy times than unhappy parents in an unhealthy relationship. In time he will understand, but at the moment this is sad and I hope both you and your ex will do your best to provide comfort for this vulnerable being that is a child.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/21 09:41 AM
1

I myself find comfort in the knowledge that people don't actually harbour ill intent and don't understand the severe implications of what they're saying. In part I can't blame them for being influenced by the public unconscious. People always say it's a decision, however it's not one you make at whim. The decision to not let words affect you is a process one has to work through and it's never easy, but I do try. If I manage not to let the words of others have power over me, I get an advantage.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 07:26 PM
5

Make sure no sexual encounters and especially no relationships can be proven or are in any shape or form documented or in any other way accessible to your ex until the divorce is finalised, everything is signed, ruled and finished. It can VERY easily be used to get money out of you or make some bonkers cheating accusations that sway the negotiations and/or the court to hate you and blame you for everything. If you're both cool with the divorce and there is at least text message screenshot proof …
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/21 08:25 PM
1

Tbh our own sub is prone to seeing a thing and drawing quick and fateful conclusions but your explanation about the naming of this product is solid and makes a lot of sense and the inventor is credited on every product sold. I think this is not anti-women whatsoever.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 01:41 PM
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Sad. There is r/Male_Studies that deserves a lot more attention though. Please make sure that anything you post is peer-reviewed and has a large enough sample size, because anybody can write a "study" about their own family.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 09:11 AM
3

The tory government doesn't care enough for rape victims to ever fix anything like this. A shame what the UK has for a government and legal system.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 09:22 PM
2

She do look really young tho This also isn't a ppd, it's just you going "haha woman getting negative reply" Hush away
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/21 01:53 PM
15

Men's rights are human rights and giving any human the right to live like any other human should not be up to discussion to begin with. Topics being claimed by one side and therefore opposed by the other is the mentality that will destroy us and usher in the next era of oppression and authoritarianism, irrespective of which side it comes from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 01:46 PM
5

Only thing about that episode is that they fail to mention risks or the moral implications of the procedure.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 01:33 PM
13

We can be ironic and call it "patriarchy at work you bitches" 🤭
/r/MensRights10/08/21 02:17 PM
3

Tradcons are the original source of gender based forced norms, laws and discrimination before the parallel "man bad man bad" sentiment gained traction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 09:25 AM
2

Both happens, it's just that society and those in control in western countries are much more aware of the shit women get and not at all of the shit men get, which is why we see action to protect women but not men in the same stroke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 03:54 PM
-1

There is where I live, but not in the public conscious at the moment.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:54 PM
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Not at all, but it's nice ragebait
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/21 09:03 AM
1

How does one make the connection in their minds that liking someone younger is somehow supposed to be tied to wanting to fiddle with children? It's an awful accusation, complerely strips the younger adult member of the relationship of any leverage to speak for themselves and completely disregards the endless positive experiences from people in such relationships. Just ask around in r/GayYoungOld or other places. Sure manipulation exists, but that's far from exclusive to age gap relationships. Wa…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 08:55 AM
1

I'm afraid this way you contribute to keeping us confined in such a perception.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 08:54 PM
2

Continue not engaging. Document your visits, screenshot messages etc.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/21 08:21 AM
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While I generally agree with the sentiment present in this community, we have to acknowledge that there will always be vile and toxic people within any group and if we deny their existence they will be the forefront of what people see it as. Same goes for the political left and right. Wokelords are the worst of the left, KKK-types are the worst of the right and neither are the only members of those groups. And I can really understand when somebody looks shortly at MGTOW and comes to these conclu…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 08:14 AM
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Tbh I've never seen it anywhere except here. Really depends on the sub.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 08:08 AM
9

And rather than making a proper judicial system, the government shitlords relieve their pockets instead. Welcome to "democracy but every party is trying to fuck you over for money."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/21 08:01 PM
0

Correction: I mean no forceful retraction beyond the corona of the glans as that separation needs to happen naturally.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 06:26 PM
3

be present don't mutilate the dick NEVER pull the foreskin back beyond the glans shower him in your affection and love use positive reinforcement wherever possible watch out for society teaching prejudices about men, women, people with different skin colours and ethnicities, sexualites etc. and make sure to instill a mindset that rejects judgement based on superficial irrelevance teach compassion, making the first step towards resolving conflicts and starting healing processes teach self-protect…
/r/MensRights03/08/21 04:41 PM
1

Generally, when it comes to Korea, people aren't very aware that the only people describing themselves as feminists over there are the ones that would be waived off as "not real feminists" in the rest of the West.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 06:28 AM
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I'd argue the whole gender debate is just one of those divisive things to distract from rather simple matters. You can make small money in few ways. You can spend big money in endless amounts of ways. Who pockets the difference? Money is power, however so is publicity and legislation. With enoigh organisation, our democratic systems can be used to force beneficial legislation for us. If only we weren't so divided. Wonder who makes sure it stays that way?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/21 10:47 PM
81

And entitlement to alimony, child support, child custody, reproductive rights, genital integrity etc.
/r/MensRights30/07/21 08:25 AM
2

Sorry, but a bunch of empty accusations and denying people's lived experience (the results of which are statistically sound) doesn't come across as very productive here. Who did this to you?
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/21 03:53 AM
14

It's called sexism
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/21 07:09 PM
7

A good lawyer and spending lots of money on said lawyer. Only downside is that you might lose the money to the lawyer instead of the gold digger. Idk, try creating a charity and donating all your funds to it before the trial.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/21 04:47 PM
14

General misandry applies. Assumptions, stereotypes, prejudices and legal inequalities for men etc. are mostly shared. Especially when you don't go around parading your sexuality like your only personality trait. Some people will coddle you almost like second degree women when you come out to them but before that, you're one of the evil cishet white males!!!!!!
/r/MensRights29/07/21 12:07 PM
2

"KAM is just a joke, it doesn't hurt anybody"
/r/MensRights29/07/21 08:37 AM
9

Ye
/r/MensRights29/07/21 08:35 AM
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Fellow gay here. I'm relieved to never face the risk of divorcing a woman, paying alimony or child support and that I can marry for love without the same consequences as straight guys. Subs like these here, and divorce men subs have taught me a lot about how much men are utterly ignored, silenced and despised and there have been moments where I wanted to throw things at a wall just to break them.
/r/MensRights29/07/21 07:53 AM
1

PER MONTH?
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 04:16 PM
3

I second this. After putting Schadenfreude aside, this doesn't do any good.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 04:16 PM
0

It sounds more like she's trying to express in a more simple way that, because when she's with you, she already has you and that all that is missing is the mother. I wouldn't be surprised if she longs to have you both and only ever gets one of you. It'd make me feel not lonely, but incomplete too.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 02:51 PM
2

Bogus. HIV spread a lot in Africa because cut guys were made to believe they had lower transmission rates. The only other thing for which it is "prescribed" is phimosis, which can be treated using something as non-invasive as a steroid cream or stretching exercises. From a medical standpoint, every western medical agency (except Israeli, American and the WHO, because Israel, because America makes billions off of it and because the WHO is America's bitch) will rightfully tell you that it's comple…
/r/MensRights28/07/21 05:06 AM
8

The problem of raising our boys just to be husbands to women (or raising girls just to be wives to men) is that the children will forget themselves over making their partner their lives' content. It's not healthy. It's also a mentality that doesn't even necessarily come from parents. Glad you found a way out of it!
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/21 08:20 PM
1

Judging by the amount of roleplay requests for femboys and sissies and whatnot, I'd say that both are much desired. There's nothing inherently with a fem guy, I mean it's literally the very most common cliché about gay men and they're still men, with confidence in being men. I too like it more when guys are "masculine" as long as they don't artificially blow up their ego through it, but that goes for everybody. It is a problem that being naturally masculine is being demonised for no reason, but …
/r/MensRights27/07/21 07:43 PM
27

The health benefits are debunked by the majority of men living intact and not having it "less good." For example, the rate of HIV in the US is higher than in many places where nobody feels entitled to YOUR PEEPEE
/r/MensRights27/07/21 06:22 AM
14

It's sad how people didn't get your comment is sarcastic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 05:39 AM
6

It's completely unscientific. Actually, it goes right against scientifically evident facts about child psychology. This person sees men as defective women and thinks every problem is solved by erasing masculinity from male children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 05:36 AM
1

There is actually a sub related to this specific issue pertaining to the disadvantaged position of black men in western societies. I will edit this comment with the name of the sub in just a second. Edit: r/BMJA
/r/MensRights26/07/21 04:29 PM
-1

People are gonna stamp it off as "patriarchy in action."
/r/MensRights26/07/21 07:28 AM
1

You severely underestimate the impact of a decade of fame over a stretch of just 20-30 years. This lady could have retired in 2000 and would still be living a better life than any of us ever will.
/r/MensRights25/07/21 03:09 PM
23

SS times 1.5
/r/MensRights25/07/21 12:37 PM
29

As long as the peasantry keeps blaming parts of itself, it can be influenced and controlled. It would no longer work if the peasantry pulled a French revolution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/21 08:49 AM
3

Right now, if I sort by "best", the top comments are concerned for OP. I have seen a great many posts on r/teenagers that made its front page complaining about double standards and injustices boys and men face. People here tend to easily paint that sub in a wrong light before its true colours have even been put to canvas.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 11:59 PM
6

Be a man and you got the short end of the stick. Be a black man and you might not even get any of that stick. It's basically an amplifier added to misandry at this point. Racial prejudice combined with sexism. "Super predator" vibes.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 09:24 PM
2

Not really. Somebody else being richer doesn't mean you can't be rich with much less. You're comparing mountains to Mount Everest while forgetting the world is a giant Mariana Trench. Tom Hanks is worth $400million Leonardo DiCan't remember the spelling: $260million You can't tell me that paying for your own security, luxurious villas, yachts etc. makes you too poor to be considered rich enough. Especially your claim about new celebrity being much richer wuth much less time is even bigger bs. Pu…
/r/MensRights24/07/21 08:44 PM
5

She's estimated at $120million, she's insanely rich
/r/MensRights24/07/21 11:27 AM
3

She's estimated at around $120 000 000 she's doing fine with money.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 11:27 AM
1

Lol. Perhaps smart to change fight to start though.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 08:04 PM
1

That's an amazingly paid job! Wow!
/r/MensRights23/07/21 05:40 PM
8

Good bot
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 05:30 PM
5

I've heard of courts finding bullshit excuses to ignore your prenup so have it worded carefully like it's written law because it will be treated as such and put into question.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 05:30 PM
5

She definitely knows a lot from trying to help men in need herself and being (forgive the coming pun, it came through intuition:) bombarded with threats until feeling forced to flee to a different country to escape the backlash. All her donors, the government, people didn't want her to help men in the same way she did so many women and their children before. I'd say she is quite aware of the regard society holds for men.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 03:05 PM
10

I'll note down that quote: "If you cannot create an army through the will of the people you should not be fighting a war." Perhaps I'll amend it for aesthetics: "If you cannot create an army through the will of the people, you should never set out to try and start a war in the first place."
/r/MensRights23/07/21 12:46 PM
1

Depends on the currency what the number ends up being. A server at a restaurant would usually be a minimum wage job. Minimum wage in Germany, for example, is currently 9.60€. Multiply by 9 for approximately nine hours of paid daily work, times five for five working days in a week, times 4.3 for the amount of weeks in a month and your monthly salary is: 1,857.6€ Multiply by 12 for a year: 22291.2€ Adding approximate daily tips of 15€ gives you an additional 3,870€. Together that makes 26161.2€ pe…
/r/MensRights23/07/21 12:38 PM
1

People would be blessed earning 300k in 10 years.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 05:39 AM
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India is in a state where a court order can cause: unconsensual extraction of your sperm, in turn any other operation of their choosing as result of this precedent unconsensual storage of your sperm unconsensual impregnation of a woman with your sperm unconsensual fatherhood essentially rape by court order Future prospects if this man survives: this shit costing him a fuckton of money having a child or multiple children the court will oblige him to provide for even if he were to divorce and give…
/r/MensRights22/07/21 04:02 PM
1

Hopefully from any other finances you wish to keep as well.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 08:24 PM
8

In the past it has only been ideological zealots who have claimed that any incongruence with their narratives, which in their eyes could never contain a single fault, is the inevitable path of the "evil enemy!" One cannot always be right and one has to find out when one is wrong. This is not possible if any attempt at bringing up new viewpoints is suppressed because how dare anybody put up a measure of comparison by which to measure whether something is actually correct? That kind of suppression…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 08:23 PM
22

The meme with equal responsibilities and all
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/07/21 02:15 PM
3

It's a legality, but if it were to be enforced, those would be the consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/21 01:10 PM
4

Consequences of not signing a letter that signs away your right to live to any arbitrary government include: fines being denied a driver's license (cars are life essential in the US) being barred to run for any public office jail revoking your right to vote at worst, although this is more of a thing in other countries
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/21 05:25 AM
10

Depends. I witness more that people will talk down to you, patronise you etc. Thanks for this insight though, I will make sure to pay attention to it from now on!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 05:11 AM
3

Arousal nonconcordance is a sex related response of your body to a sex related stimulus. Many rape victims actually experience it, which of course doesn't mean they enjoyed being raped. With this effect you can be straight and get a boner seeing two guys kissing. Sex related stimulus, sex related response. You didn't wanna have sex and that's fine. If your gf is upset that you asserted a personal boundary in that moment and that she isn't entitled to your or your body then oof.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 05:09 AM
0

Cute when all powers were always quite fond of that speck of mountains. Still no justification for slavery, sorry.
/r/MensRights20/07/21 09:11 PM
2

You think a Swiss army is what would have deterred the German war machine? Oh please! The EU is all around nowadays.
/r/MensRights20/07/21 09:07 PM
2

It's funny that those advantages, for which this exceptionally peaceful country hasn't seen need for in over two centuries, justify the implications of this policy in your eyes. This isn't about familiarising people with gun safety, it's about the state, any government, having the ability to sign your death sentence and treat you like property, like a slave, at their arbitrariness. That is about one of the most inhumane systems I could come up with were I assigned to create one. It is this syste…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 08:44 PM
3

Yes. Her tiktok content is quite different though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 09:18 AM
5

The mere premise that a climate adaptation of your skin is supposed to prevent you from getting people shitting on you is ridiculous. For some sanity, I recommend thisissavvy on tiktok (I have that app mainly just to watch her videos, think she's on youtube too).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 06:55 AM
2

Adam Goldman putting TERFs in their place right there
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/21 02:53 PM
2

Arousal non concordance is an important piece of sex ed most people are missing. Basically, arousal non concordance is a sex related response to a sex related stimulus. This means you can be straight and get hard from gay porn. It also means you can get raped and have an orgasm. The lack of knowledge of this phenomenon has resulted in excuses for rape based on sexual arousal.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 01:35 PM
3

u/Deadlocked02 already made a really good comment to which I want to add: social media It fosters behaviour such as this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/21 05:51 AM
2

Right, that makes sense now. Thanks!
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:53 PM
1

70+19=89 100-89=11 If 70 is men and 19 women, who are the missing 11%? I'm just theorising. Could it maybe be children?
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:14 PM
2

The courts won't own your kids, she will, unless you fight with tooth and nail (it will be costly whether you win or not) depending on her attitude. Screenshot text messages, do not behave erratic, ever. Do not get in a new relationship etc. If it comes to tension, anything can and will be used to get money out of you and you away from your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 06:07 PM
2

I assume (example: Yemen) that the missing 11% are the combined margin of error attributed go both groups?
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:05 PM
1

Knowing Australia, this might as well just be a government job to make people "see what the bad libs and the left have done to our families" so people keep voting the nutjobs currently in government (or their opposition: nutjobs lite, sponsored by the same oil, gas and coal companies as nutjobs original) so they can remove the ban and paint themselves as heroes. Cool and normal! Only a theory though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 04:18 PM
0

I've seen most staunch feminists condemn that sub (because there is always nuance). Reddit won't ever ban it as they have publicly stated that their rules meant to protect users don't apply to men, especially if they're cishet white because hurrdurr privilege just deal with it man up or something.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 04:16 PM
4

Try r/TrueUnpopularOpinion but honestly they're long aware of FDS
/r/MensRights15/07/21 04:14 PM
7

I would more accurately categorise her as tucute. They tolerate crazy narratives.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/21 06:59 AM
3

It's much more likely that a direct family member will rape you than a stranger. Do you then go ahead any treat all of your family like potential rapists? No, because the chances of that are so low that you're pretty sage ignoring what little risk there is. Almost half of this planet's population is men. See how ridiculous the paranoid assumption of "aaaah evil man he will rape and harass" is? It's prejudice, nothing else. It's like driving through a muslim neighbourhood in Germany and being afr…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/21 06:16 AM
2

Her having borderline could help you in getting custody. If she doesn't agree to anything fair, don't cave in. Go to trial if you have to.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/21 10:41 PM
144

There is rising radical feminism and actually lots of opposition to it from both genders. When they sneak their shit into ads it's still getting cancelled, but military service continues to be sexist.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 09:26 PM
5

If you feel the giggity, jerk off. Notice how quickly it passes and how rational your thinking gets.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/21 07:07 PM
106

So basically: men at highest risk of covid, women most affected and thus most protected because yay sexism and male disposability enforced on a national level. This is all part of our government's preparations for the eventual global policy of Total Fucking Dead People and Bullshit as soon as the rich have made you so poor that you're little more than mindless slaves in front of your consumption devices. smile
/r/MensRights12/07/21 08:38 PM
18

And a pedophile, creep, incel etc.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:02 PM
2

Scientific fact doesn't care about political affiliation. Only data interpretation does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/21 03:58 PM
15

Scientific fact doesn't care about political affiliation. Only data interpretation does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/21 03:58 PM
8

It's also more than just a way to rub genitals. I'm not into that stuff myself but from all I gather, tantra is about the entire person and spirit as a whole, connecting on a much deeper emotional level than something superficial as mere sexuality. It requires a mutuality, being personable and is best for everybody involved when people are just being nice and friendly humans wanting to spread joy. That this is healthy is undeniable.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:15 PM
29

And tantra isn't simply a sex thing either. What a sad world we live in. Double standards and theme abuse.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 12:30 PM
4

Good, get your kids out of the grasp of that wicked woman!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 03:33 PM
6

You better get a fucking good lawyer and find out what her new man should earn on average in his field. Fight with all of your energy or all of that money will go to that cheap... well, expensive entitled bitch. Remain rational and calm at ALL times. Screenshot all messages. Don't talk about the topic on the phone. Don't show any anger or threats. Anything can and will be used against you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 03:22 PM
0

Quite a blanket statememt. Women as a collective group can't be made responsible as that passes over individual responsibility. Usually it's the parents, early childhood troubles, difficulty to make social connection early on etc.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 10:09 AM
4

Not at all. I'm explaining what makes people victims to begin with and why it is so hard for them to get out of it because it takes a toll on you and few people are generous enough to burden themselves with the plight of others. Good day.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 08:31 PM
3

Eddit told me something went wrong and didn't close the editing window, but magically it all worked when I added more words. Have that several times a day. Really odd.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 08:30 PM
7

That one controlling guy is basically one lazy patriarchy depiction. Bet they'll blame men if it doesn't get a resounding success (and tbh it's being shown so often and it's Marvel so it's impossible to not make about maybe twice it's budget in revenue).
/r/MensRights10/07/21 04:17 PM
115

Touch-starved, lonely people. Which can happen for many different reasons. Problem is that there are few who reach out to actually help them because their situation has corrupted their character. :/ Sad but happens.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 04:13 PM
9

Touch-starved, lonely people. Which can happen for many different reasons. Problem is that there are few who reach out to actually help them because their situation has corrupted their character. :/
/r/MensRights10/07/21 04:13 PM
12

Touch-starved, lonely people. Which can happen for many different reasons. Problem is that there are few who reach out to actually help them because their situation has corrupted their character.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 04:13 PM
9

Touch-starved, lonely people. Which can happen for many different reasons. Problem is that there are few who reach out to actually help them because their situation has corrupted their character.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 04:12 PM
1

You can't generalise anything here. I have a personal example that discredits the position some people here will have, however that doesn't mean that the stance some herr automatically adopt never applies. Female friend of mine was asked as a little girl by her older brother for sex. They had a very close relationship before that and she thought, despite not knowing the consequences of these actions, that denying it would be rude or she could upset him and didn't want to see his feelings hurt. S…
/r/MensRights10/07/21 02:05 PM
3

Just 10?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/21 09:47 AM
28

There's up- and downsides to everything. I'm me and it is good how I am as long as I try to keep improving.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 09:32 AM
6

While both my grandparents and parents and even female peers today can tell stories of being treated like shit for being women, I agree with your post as it displays the fundamental workings of society. The main issue when enough comfort was there for women's suffrage to come about (because there were things women could contribute in labour now but weren't allowed to because societal conventions) was people being stuck in the old ways. Still are in other ways today, always have been and always w…
/r/MensRights09/07/21 11:00 PM
1

You want 50/50 and to not go bankrupt and scratch for every penny or minute you can get? Good luck mate!
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 05:52 PM
8

Rapist: Wait, I'm not supposed to do this? WOW WHAT A REVELATION!!!! ^ example of why this is all bs
/r/MensRights09/07/21 05:24 PM
2

Arguing daily seems like they talk a lot, perhaps even too much. They have completely different views on life. Sounds again like they talk a lot. Talking is not always the easy fix some people make it out to be. This situation is desparate.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 02:11 PM
2

Please yourself and divorce
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 02:09 PM
28

Women going after you after you say you're gay are even worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 12:26 PM
7

Rom-Coms, Superman, Batman, nearly every time a guy goes shirtless on screen Of course men are being sexualised. People like hot men and people like hot women (and tend to like hot actors as a result) and there is nothing wrong with that. What's problematic is if a person is erased in favour of their looks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 12:06 PM
3

"Waaah now I will have to pax taxes like every other person!!!"
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/21 05:04 AM
20

Make sure to not lose yourself in the sacrifices you make. Otherwise I cannot really add anything to the other comments but letting you know that I admire your stamina.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 04:26 PM
5

Mix of both men minding it less (or not noticing it due to not expecting to be approached for anything but their physical labour anyway) and society coddling women because evil men!!!
/r/MensRights08/07/21 04:23 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/MensRights07/07/21 07:05 PM
13

Your friend doesn't happen to have notes in English we could all read into? XD
/r/MensRights07/07/21 06:05 PM
9

Depending on her tone, it's not the worst thing (some might call it a microaggression) but it's generalising your entire person by an incorrect stereotype based on a mere aspect of your gender identity, so yes, it's sexist.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 02:18 PM
2

Not looking back is difficult for a lot of men because the courts are biased against them.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 07:50 PM
1

It's probably a mix of both. Having a child is not getting cheaper, especially as prices keep rising faster than the wages. Protection resulted and can still result in fewer unwanted pregnancy and education plus health improvements in terms of child and infant mortality have put an end to a lot of families having thirteen children.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 03:19 PM
4

Make sure your money stays yours
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 11:28 AM
23

I think the director said they're not gay but people ain't having it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/21 07:27 PM
5

Basically what I replied to the thing that you linked. People look at people and it's nobody else's fault or insufficiency if they do. You're not losing your interest in your partner simply because you see somebody that's pretty.
/r/MensRights05/07/21 07:51 AM
1

She's probably buying herself sweet things from the child support money while neglecting the children. Granted, I'm making a baseless accusation, but it's not very far-fetched.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/21 06:46 AM
3

She's probably buying herself sweet things from the child support money while neglecting the children. Granted, I'm making a baseless accusation, but it's not very far-fetched.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/21 06:46 AM
3

Both this and the quoted post have a point. There are men like this out there and there are women like this out there. Both need to be called out for hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights05/07/21 05:46 AM
14

Watch what happens if men stop building houses, farming, fighting and mining. Oops.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/07/21 09:44 PM
50

Just because you're grouping everybody in with one kind if evil doesn't mean everybody is just that one type of person. Are you happy stalking these comments just to sound like you're smashing windows left and right? Everybody you will address like this will not gain your conviction from it, so where is the point? Take quality time for yourself. Watch a movie, take a walk, meet friends, call relatives, whatever. Just please do something that makes you happier than all of this.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/21 04:42 PM
5

Tbh it always has been. While we cannot ignore the many instances where there is now equality where it previously hasn't been, with advantages for everybody, the general sentiment has often been getting the rights without the downsides. The common man only ever got the vote because in times of war, he might be forced to fight to his death even against his own will. The state owned you, which is why you were granted the right to participate in deciding who controls the state. This obligation was …
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/21 04:39 PM
1

Same here
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/21 04:36 PM
82

They're mad that problems exist and instead of being the change they want to see in the world (or maybe they are) they're being detrimental to any progress.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/21 04:35 PM
3

This. I've never seen anything ASD related to "reeee" at all. I only ever saw pepe the frog. This suggestion that I implied something to be demeaning towards somebody else than I was actually targetting and thus labelling me as the evil whatever is quite the leap. What's next? Is using waah as onomatopoeia going to get me accused of being ignorant of ageism and insensitive towards babies or would I just have been menaing to point it at people who whine?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/21 05:57 PM
8

The chances are low as hell. It's just that society teaches women to be paranoid outside and that male privilege ree and waah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/21 10:39 AM
8

I'd like to submit this question: This will not be an easy question to answer, or maybe it will be, but what do you think can be done beyond the usual platitudes of constructive discussion, that isn't being tolerated by multiple sides, to make people aware that being male doesn't equate to an easier or better life and that everybody will have problems of their own? How can this common knowledge reach the radicalised tribes?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 03:25 PM
2

My relatives always wanted and still want to know me safe after a trip. They stopped asking my sister and me to message them about regular nights out when we turned 18.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:18 PM
2

Being a man is enough for them to hate you
/r/MensRights02/07/21 02:40 PM
6

Or work on how bad you are for being a man, like Gilette said.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 01:58 PM
92

A reddit admin has publicly stated that their rules against harrassment, bullying and discrimination don't include cishet white men because hurr durr privilege. No, I'm not kidding.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 12:20 PM
3

Haha tanga ka Just kidding, putangina Go eat Jollibee
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 12:04 PM
1

Get as much of the custody as you can. Now child needs a mother like that. I'm fairly certain you'll be capable of finding more positive female role models.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 08:44 PM
1

The requirement to change this status should be gender dysphoria anyway.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 07:55 PM
4

TLDR News made a video about it https://youtu.be/oILTOL7L0sU
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/21 04:23 AM
3

From what this sounds like, she's treating you like property and exploiting you for your investment in a relationship and the fruits of your labour. Make sure she doesn't get anything from the divorce settlement. You earned all of that for yourself. Any marriage, or relationship for that matter, is a mutual effort. This problem you have cannot be solved through talking or couple therapy. It is so severe that you better not bother with her and get out. And make sure to not get her pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/21 09:12 PM
1

I simply think marriage is an unnecessady hassle to begin with. I think I'd opt for an alternative ceremony down by a small, secluded river where me and the man of my dreams would get wed privately to each other, all surrounded by nature and just each other's presence. That would be the bond I want.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:09 PM
2

Sweet-sour, peanut, BBQ or secret sauce?
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:06 PM
3

You got a great court deal. Make sure it stays that way.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/21 06:40 AM
6

They've never heard of the Queen and the German Chnacellor, have they?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/21 06:31 AM
2

Events described in this sub do happen (especially in the US, refer to r/DivorceMen for personal accounts) but in case you did notice the fearmongering of women being out there just to take everything from you, that is indeed being overdone. Generalising women as only using men is about as logical as saying all men are rapists. The amount of people doing it is frequent enough to constantly be noticeable, but infrequent enough so that you're more likely to never have it happen to you. Now I shall…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 03:00 PM
1

I think they're stuck in the old idea of the oppression of women and can't believe that the fight in the western world is much less necessary than elsewhere. In many ways there are even inequalities affecting men and putting women in a much easier position (although LOADS of things have become gender equal). Women face problems still, so do men, addressing either shouldn't be exclusive.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 05:21 PM
47

"Discrimination is bad, but believe me, this time it's justified." - every ist ansd phobe ever.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 01:36 PM
2

Yup
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 01:35 PM
25

If he succeeds, it could set an important precedent against the social media mobs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 05:34 AM
3

Of course this post was one of the ones getting removed amongst the humongous flood of posts addressing the same thing over and over again. Definitely not telling at all.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 05:07 PM
25

I would definitely say that there are toxic MRAs, even those who generalise all women as potential family court dangers (which could be called, you guessed it, sexism) but I can't say that on the MRA sub directly without receiving 300 downvotes. I think that youtuber might have a point about there being a bunch of people who have gotten so spiteful that they're not advancing any cause whatsoever, however the overall men's right's goal of addressing and removing inequalities and stigmas that men …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/21 04:42 PM
1

The point she was trying to make sounds like "if you don't like chocolate you're discriminating against those who pick the beans used to make it." No, you simply wouldn't like chocolate. What we are experiencing here is a logical fallacy that passes collective judgement based on one vague metric that you didn't even look into for causes. The scientific method is beyond these people and they just want to find reasons to be spiteful.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 02:55 PM
16

Not exactly, but a female teacher of mine once asked the catcalling question. She said that in a way, it's still a compliment, right? Well, I said that the difference between a compliment and overstepping boundaries could be defined as follows: Compliment: Your hair is beautiful and I think you're drop-dead gorgeous. Wanna go for a drink sometime? Objectification: Haha nice booba lemme fuck you! Both point out positive visual/physical aspects of (in this example:) a woman, however one of them ov…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/21 08:09 AM
26

Men are taught to shut up and take the verbal beating and constant berating by society on their basis of their mere existence. One could call it sexism, aka misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 05:26 PM
2

Generally, when it comes to my peers, I have noticed that they tend to be more intelligent and productive than any mainstream conversation will ever be and as long as you explain calmly and in an orderly manner why you would like to point out certain details that influence your exact stance on things, oftentimes you will encounter agreement. What's important is empathy and attempting not to judge people, generalise them or attack them when mentioning them or entire groups and concepts in convers…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/21 02:43 PM
3

Reddit mods innit
/r/MensRights20/06/21 06:55 AM
2

I don't really agree with lots of conservative stuff, but this doesn't sound very pleasant.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 06:42 AM
2

Yeah. Being ftm or mtf is rare enough, actual nbs are even more rare.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/21 05:54 PM
61

r/science is about one of the worst places for sciency things
/r/MensRights19/06/21 03:24 PM
4

There's so many more AFAB nbs because girls are more exposed to tiktok and tumblr "uwi cutesy bun/bunself" bs TERF-like rethoric.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/21 11:29 AM
8

The moment they declared their anti-harrassment, anti-discrimination and anti-bullying policies and rules are excluding cishet white men because hurr durr privilege (funny how they literally privilege everybody else and still claim the reverse is true). They wouldn't bother if people actually commited mass murder against men.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 09:46 PM
2

Lovely to hear of productive conversation! It shows that calmness and patience are key.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/21 05:36 AM
1

Thanks! It appears to be true. Quite awful.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 11:25 PM
0

Idk, "Unless non-tabloids are seriously reporting on this" sounded like a decently visible "didn't check up on it, just be careful" to me. Always had the option there.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 11:24 PM
-1

And doesn't mean we should take it for granted either. It makes us no better than wokelords reading outrage headlines and then going on about the evil cishet white men!!! Yes, problems like these exist, but jerking around in a circle because of one of the most unreputable news sources is pretty much a waste of time. You never know when you can take this paper seriously. I don't care how mad that possibility makes you, it's still a possibility and we ought to self-reflect if we demand that level …
/r/MensRights16/06/21 11:12 PM
-1

No, but the daily mail is the number one paper for pulling stories like these out of their own backsides just to feed the confirmation bias we know we both have. The mere suggestion that this is automatically false is naturally foolish, but it wouldn't be the first time.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 09:20 PM
7

Tbh this is the daily mail and they might just be looking for your outrage click. Unless non-tabloids are seriously reporting on this, I wouldn't be so sure it actually happened.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 04:15 PM
3

"It disproportionately affects women." First of all, no it doesn't, look at the vast majority of the homeless population. Secondly, if women were the majority, then at what percentage would this person acknowledge men too? 1%? 25%? 50%? 70%?
/r/MensRights16/06/21 05:51 AM
1

The show even ends with him becoming a good guy and overcoming the traumatic events of his life. He's a great dad!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 04:42 AM
8

Still appreciate Dan Povenmire and Swampy Marsh for giving us Dr. Doofenshmirtz.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/21 04:33 PM
1

How'd it go?
/r/MensRights14/06/21 02:22 PM
17

That men are being treated like shit on the basis of gender and have the least access to homeless shelters when they're the ones needing them the most. Society's fucked up. That's literally what I said before.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 12:50 AM
11

The men get to sleep outside on the street because the shelters are constantly packed when they allow any men at all.
/r/MensRights13/06/21 11:32 PM
1

Yes, but here somebody brought up dress codes for women. If you read my comment, where I never said anything about what dress codes are like for men and how stupid it is to force people into such norms, and the only thing you could do was thinking of a way to get upset at me for something I never addressed and especially didn't deny. You pulled it right out of your backside. Look at how superior you are for pointing out another problem men have that is actively overlooked and that bad me forgot …
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/06/21 11:04 PM
-1

Prescribing women what to wear is sexist against both genders. It prescribes women guilt when they do get raped and prescribes men an inherent uncontrollability, which is simply not there, as somehow the world is not full of fucking dead people and bullshit on every street corner.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/06/21 06:44 PM
3

They're basically going against the "male gaze" at gyms now. Wtf?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/06/21 08:03 AM
21

Problem with divorce courts is that they're often biased against the father. All she would need to do is allege you did something horrible and she could win. It's fucked up!
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/21 01:02 PM
14

This sums it up the best and with the least judgement. Thanks for your contribution!
/r/MensRights12/06/21 10:24 AM
2

If we actually had magical privileges and such an alleged hive mind as the patriarchy and if it actually had any power, these people wouldn't be able to (and they should be able to say these things, free society is best) make everybody believe this.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 04:17 PM
18

Does she expect us to snap our fingers and everything will be fine? Who are we? The infinity gauntlet? So darned delusional!
/r/MensRights11/06/21 05:37 AM
2

I'm gay so nobody is ever surprised.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:46 AM
8

Depending on the exact country, I hope you will be able to remain safe and find a way to live and love the way you are!
/r/MensRights09/06/21 11:47 AM
17

No, not women, but assholes that have the female gender.
/r/MensRights08/06/21 03:30 PM
3

"Men should not be free from the state owning them like a slave because they were born male and are physically more capable." No, fuck that shit!
/r/MensRights08/06/21 08:34 AM
7

The court might still be biased against you. Do NOTHING without a lawyer, make sure to make a point of how her business was made with your moned, make a point how she earns more etc. The court might try to screw you over by giving all kinds of things to her on the basis of her and your gender. Beware.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/21 04:55 AM
1

Contact your landlord and stop paying rent. Get your stuff, say bye bye to her.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 04:07 PM
4

Things like the Elton John AIDS Foundation and many stars being gay men (or having died of or with AIDS) has contributed a lot to the image in the western world. The general support for LGBT probably helps too. While there is 99.9% preventative medication and ways to avoid contracting it, ever since its discovery, AIDS has not seen the successful development of a vaccine in decades and governments don't treat it as urgent as it is when you look at the case numbers. We got vaccines for covid so q…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 07:36 AM
17

I thought gender advocacy to be rather left wing in nature. It's the tradcons that I'd call right wing. What might be falsely perceived as right wing are paranoid men who think every woman is a high chance threat of screwing them over in life, which is rightfully perceived as unfair prejudice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/21 11:12 PM
6

The system is biased against men in general, even when it comes to custody
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/21 08:16 PM
2

This is how assholes think, not entire genders
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/06/21 07:50 PM
5

Be my guest
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/21 07:49 PM
8

I'm already gay and I'd blow him
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/21 07:42 PM
19

I wanna know too haha just to see if we could have seen it coming
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/21 07:41 PM
3

Both the original post and this one are missing the points relevant to the situation that would help fixing it.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/06/21 03:05 PM
2

Np
/r/Male_Studies03/06/21 02:03 PM
2

Sometimes it's the only way to convince people who have it ingtained in their minds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/21 06:56 AM
0

Beware that courts are often biased against men, so grab a lawyer and plan carefully if you really wanna go through with it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/21 06:34 AM
4

Bunch of men and women work with fictional partners to solve a problem. In the end, they are tasked to divide a reward among themselves and their partner. Men were found to give away more of the reward than women.
/r/Male_Studies03/06/21 06:30 AM
8

Also gay guy here. I fucking love men! Can't understand how people can get so absorbed by hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/21 06:20 AM
4

They think we're all tradcons that want to forcefully re-introduce old gender norms.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 10:33 PM
5

I mean when misogyny actually occurs, some of these I will agree with ,but some other stuff is based on misconceptions and preconceived notions about men in general, where two debsting sides simply often talk past each other instead of listening.
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 08:14 PM
7

She even has a Karen haircut lol. Reading on the youtube channel info though, it's staged. Legal Eagle would probably laugh a little as well. Epic stuff though!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/21 08:00 PM
0

I'm so damn glad I'm gay
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 08:42 AM
4

Well, nobody is truly "privileged." We all have problems of our own. The only difference is which problems we do have and which we don't and the nature of these problems is different. Some do have it a lot harder, of course. The problem with being spiteful about who's more privileged or more oppressed is that it turns into a race for who is the most privileged or oppressed so people can be assigned or detracted brownie points, which essentially serves as a mechanism to hate people. To have an ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/21 08:31 AM
2

True, yup!
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 06:39 AM
7

I feel like tradcons are part of the problem, which makes it easy to just say "they just want the old times back" and we all really just want personal choice free from discrimination, right?
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/21 05:20 PM
3

And don't forget to mention sexism against women, you might need that as a safety hook in case people get all upset.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 02:15 PM
1

!remindme two weeks
/r/MensRights31/05/21 02:13 PM
2

So much this!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/21 01:29 PM
12

And it's definitely not radfems protesting whenever somebody tries fixing these problems. 100% victim blaming.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 09:06 PM
211

That pussy pass should have been granted, but sadly there still are very selective mods in that sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/21 09:03 PM
4

Australian authorities being incompetent at nearly anything is not news, sadly. Recommend thejuicemedia for some insight into common government shitfuckery. The problems these new regulations will solve are... crunches numbers in calculator fuck all! However the problems this will create, oh boy!
/r/MensRights30/05/21 04:37 PM
2

I know tons of married couples, but the happy ones are where both are deeply invested in the relationship and usually care fuck all about politics ir gender stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 06:50 PM
5

Why? Because according to society, violating men's personal boundaries is totally fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/05/21 12:46 PM
4

As long as I can remember living.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/21 12:35 PM
1

And they wonder why fuckwits like the Tories still get voters (although they're no better when it comes to treating men fairly).
/r/MensRights28/05/21 05:03 PM
-2

Yes and no
/r/MensRights28/05/21 08:43 AM
3

There's also no push for representation of women in the jobs that usually get you disgusted or condescending stares. "I clean sewage pipes of cities." "Ew, that's gross!" As an example.
/r/Male_Studies27/05/21 04:21 PM
0

I think you kinda missed the joke?
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 03:40 PM
14

Well, starting with the tweets on the image. Twitter person claims that if a woman cheats on her man, it's his fault because then he failed to deliver. While missing something is indeed a common motive for cheating, it is ultimately up to a person to decide what they do and they are responsible for their actions (same with criminal law, just as a comparison). By saying women aren't responsible, the twitter person tries to blame men for being cheated on. What this would mean is that a woman canno…
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 11:49 AM
6

No, that was a question to highlight a failure in the narrative. By pushing the blame for women cheating onto men, you are stripping women of their agency. That is what the question pointed out. Because this dehumanises women, the first tweet is actually sexist against women, despite trying to trash men. The question encompasses all of that meaning in a little bit of sarcasm. It's called humour.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 11:41 AM
5

I mean this sub here does have its problems, but I still encounter lots of useful things here.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 09:04 AM
35

Those people circling right back to misogyny is no surprise to me.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/21 08:27 AM
7

They're basically asking to abolish reproduction at this point, because what else can that lead to?
/r/MensRights26/05/21 07:50 AM
0

Seems kinda homophobic, generally dehumanising etc.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 07:48 AM
15

"Omg didn't she wear the same dress last time?" - not a man "What?" - a man
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/21 10:00 PM
3

At this point I'd report that company to a local feminist group just so they have to change.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 02:45 PM
4

Big F
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/21 10:54 AM
1

Screenshot all of the texts and document how she is being horrible in every single way possible. That can be a strong tool to getting your offspring into your arms.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/21 09:26 AM
2

Depending on how much that is, it could end up saving you lots of money if the court knows it exists.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/21 11:19 PM
39

Also reminds me of how boys always got a talking to for disturbing the lessons while loud girls where simply ignored. Everybody regardless of gender also tried calling it out a couple of times, but the teachers just shrugged. It's so deeply ingrained in people's minds, they can't even explain it or realise what is going on. Absolutely crazy!
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/21 11:10 PM
1

Please be aware that institutions can be pitched against you. Get every bit of that custody that you can. Fatherlessness is a big problem.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/21 06:53 PM
3

Good bot
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 04:09 PM
2

It would also be nice to know how much of this could come down to impairment through genital mutilation.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen22/05/21 03:06 PM
1

Somebody submit this to guys posting their Ws online.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/21 01:35 PM
1

Tradwives make me want to vomit.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:41 PM
1

Tradwifes make me want to vomit.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:41 PM
1

"Omg why do people get upset that I feel entitled to other people's earnings? How dare they not pamper me like a pretty princess!" I hope she shares her social media with every guy that meets up with her, just so they can all dodge that entitled bitch.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:39 PM
4

"Omg why do people get upset that I feel entitled to other people's earnings? How dare they not pamper me like a pretty princess!" I hope she shares her social media with every guy that meets up with her, just so they can all dodge that entitled bitch.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:39 PM
1

"Omg why do people get upset that I feel entitled to other people's earnings? How dare they not pamper me like a pretty princess!" I hope she shares her social media with every guy that meets up with her, just so they can all dodge that entitled bitch.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:39 PM
4

Even feminist subreddits ban FDS members by principle. There are standards.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 06:38 PM
3

I mean, our comments are getting mostly upvotes it seems, but some people were really set off by that and that did wow me a bit.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 03:11 PM
5

Yup
/r/MensRights17/05/21 11:24 AM
7

Much agreed and very wise words! Groupthink is the enemy of progress.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 11:12 AM
10

The downvotes that person got sadly reflects a certain sentiment of being injured. It gives the "MRAs are just misogynysts" kind of people a platform and that's entirely counterproductive to our cause. When will people learn that being spiteful doesn't earn one any sympathy?
/r/MensRights17/05/21 10:51 AM
9

Was gonna say this too. Having a constant predisposition of distrust, fear and loathing is not going to result in great relationships. It's a setup for drama, heartbreak and toxicity.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 07:00 AM
1

GDPR: Hm, lemme see
/r/MensRights16/05/21 08:07 PM
3

I think this is nearly a decade old, actually. Yahoo questions has some of the craziest shit in general.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/21 09:38 PM
9

NoFap can turn into an addiction too at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/21 12:36 PM
10

That's the thing though. The father does not have any legal influence at all if she makes a decision within legal boundaries to abort because he can't force her to make her body undergo the pregnancy or not. Of course you could argue that's selfish, because the father would lose the child without influence of his own (and most couples will make that decision together anyway) but from a legal side, he has no say here. The carrier of the child is given the decision by law and nobody else. The fath…
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 10:02 PM
6

Such as?
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 09:40 PM
18

PragerU is pure shitfuckery and the last time I heard of them they were busy posting fancy, imcomplete and misleading graphs without measurement indications.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/21 02:46 PM
7

And all that even with th "conservatives" in power. They're just clowns running after whatever is trendy with the voters, as are all of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 08:51 PM
2

The last sentence of their definition of DV says it all, because it is entirely unnecessary, despite statistically holding up. It is not too far off to assume that they included it with an aim to frame all men as the evil ones and all women as victims. Whenever I notice shit like that, I really get what people mean when they tell me I can be glad I don't get stares in public for not looking like most other people (e.g. skin colour). This shit absolutely wrecks me!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 08:50 PM
6

You being aware is a very strong help for your son already! Just make sure he doesn't eventually drift down rabbit holes in politics. Especially when we all think we're finally comprehended it all, we become vulnerable and susceptible to radicalism.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 08:43 PM
1

Gonna follow him
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/21 10:07 PM
2

Oddly reminiscent of the "super predator" phenomenon, which was rooted in racism.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 05:18 PM
1

Gay guy here too, similar experiene.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 10:18 AM
47

How does it come that everybody talks about the "oppression of women by men" even outside radical circles? Maybe feminism as a whole has lost the equality focus as soon as that mentality appeared? Gender equality isn't a women's issue. There are inequalities still going both ways and they need work, but not just for one of the genders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 01:48 PM
1

"Ree and waah equality is bad, we want privileges!" Fuck off!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 10:30 PM
6

It's the guardian, they're producing lots of bollocks
/r/MensRights04/05/21 02:53 PM
3

Doesn't that just prove some mysterious female privilege?
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/21 09:48 AM
11

Because it would destroy patriarchy and privilege theory.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 07:08 PM
1

opt out
/r/MensRights01/05/21 03:57 PM
2

Spot on!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/21 04:21 AM
1

Woah, that sub is being unusually competent!
/r/MensRights28/04/21 05:40 PM
14

Nobody should ever be forgotten!
/r/MensRights26/04/21 10:34 AM
5

Of course she's a journo. I do support women's rights but I voted no out of spite. Gotta take some of that own medicine.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/21 04:51 AM
16

Especially 50 shades is made as a wet dream for women to lust over, so I would much rather worry about what the audiences take away from it, and when takimg that standpoint, I completely agree with your post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/21 04:41 AM
4

I think you both have a point.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 08:53 AM
10

Which is why as a gay man, if I ever end up with a partner and a child, I'll make sure that we meet some female friends on a regular basis so that a little bit of both is provided. There is a reason men and women need each other to reproduce and why it works so well. The more healthy role models in general, the better. You cannot convey enough richness of character, openness, safety and self-care, so the more the better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/21 03:16 PM
14

They're the same picture
/r/MensRights23/04/21 08:36 AM
4

Thetinment podcast episode with Erin Pizzey gave me a bit of hope
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 05:14 AM
3

Actually saw one of the students in a thread somewhere here on reddit and he described that apparently it was all the vice principal's idea and nobody really took it seriously afterwards and pointed out how stupid it was. Don't take my word for gospel though.
/r/MensRights21/04/21 09:31 PM
8

Haha, another one would be "ooooooh you want to sex me so haaaaard"
/r/MensRights19/04/21 11:32 AM
19

And when you ask them to name a legal right men have and women don't then they quickly move on to insults instead.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:36 AM
7

And what about the religious freedom of the sons? Why do we allow parents to force their religious convictions onto their children and thus mutilate them? Are they not deserving of the freedom beause of their age? This is so fucked up!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/21 03:17 PM
104

Responsibility and disadvantages of being male: exist Staunch feminists when they have to endure them because of equality: omg misogyny
/r/MensRights17/04/21 07:42 PM
19

There is no in-group bias among men, however this has been studied and there is an in-group bias, a collective, among women. Despite that, it woild still be wrong to stereotype them too. Exchange "men" for any minority imaginable and you'll quickly see that the phease "men, as a collective, accusation accusation accusation" is incredibly fucked up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/21 04:44 AM
3

My mother would just laugh
/r/AntiFeminists13/04/21 01:46 PM
36

Classic identity politics and I'm not surprised it's a therapist saying that. The mental health stuff is not very friendly to men in many instances. By putting an emphasis on the gender of the attacker, she is essentially blaming victims for being attacked because they're the same gender as the perpetrator. It's like telling a woman she shouldn't have worn revealing clothing if she didn't like to be raped. Classic victim blaming and a common mentality that undermines your life as an individual.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/21 01:45 PM
12

Did you listen to The Tin Men podcast episode already? She's on there and it's on all kinds of platforms, from what I know. I listened to it on Spotify.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/21 03:22 PM
21

Erin Pizzey says that as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/21 03:15 PM
2

Well, being hated and then using transition as an escape cannot be called gender dysphoria, which in itself is innate to a person, which is all the more reason why we need clear diagnosis and resource allocation to make sure transitioning is made possible for actual trans people and not for any other reason. What you're describing is basically people entering a powerful team in the oppression olympics just to not actually face rejection from society. Ironic!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/21 05:18 PM
3

Sounds like the vice principal is a crazy Kevin/Karen and a lot could be done to stop this stuff in its tracks by parents, of boys and girls alike, rallying together to complain. This kind of stuff is spreading like a wildfire throughout Western education and needs to be stopped.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 10:29 PM
2

Perhaps because religious people tend to expect of the man to provide, thus need him to earn more. You wouldn't need a study to know that.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 08:09 PM
3

Most false accusation victims have traumatic experiences with women. Would that justify misogyny? No, neither is misandry justified by the bs "hurr durr traumatic experiences with men!!!!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/21 03:10 PM
2

Yeah, this. As an adult you're gonna have to learn to pay for your needs and wants. If you just get a man to suck his money, you're abusive, so I agree with what you say about everybody paying for themselves. Here in Germany, it is very common to say "getrennt" (separate) to a waiter so they know to put items onto different bills for each person, making it very easy to know how much you owe the place.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 03:39 PM
0

Reminds me of the USSR actually. As long as you're employed you get the money, whether you do the work properly or long enough or not.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 08:39 AM
4

For being born American and male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 11:14 AM
10

Yeah, I do notice it taking a hold and people don't really think much about what "feminism" means right now and blindly parrot myths such as women being more in danger at night on the streets, but it hasn't turned into bigotry so far. When I told my very pro-women mother about some of the crazy "ree cishet white men" stuff on the internet she cringed and laughed intermittently because she could easily see how stupid and divisive it was.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 07:48 AM
31

German here. Back in... like 7th grade (we were all 12 years old) the quota thing was a hot topic so our teacher decided to let us discuss it. Again, we were 12 years old and after maybe 15 minutes of discussion we came to the conclusion that the intent is well, but that the execution is horseshit, boys and girls alike. When I look back to more recent years, I actually notice certain ideas from American politics dripping over, but people are generally still capable of criticising themselves and …
/r/MensRights01/04/21 05:37 AM
5

Thanks for the advice!
/r/MensRights01/04/21 05:32 AM
11

OP replied to you, so if you happen to share a stord, would you mind tagging me in it so I get notified? I'd be interested to read. Thanks!
/r/MensRights01/04/21 05:30 AM
10

F
/r/MensRights31/03/21 11:05 AM
40

Mind you this is mainly a US thing in the Western world. Kellogg's propaganda. I'm glad we didn't listen when he proposed pouring acid on vaginas. Why did we listen to him at all though?
/r/MensRights31/03/21 09:49 AM
7

The feeling I imagine makes me understand why there's people that claim to be feminists without thinking much about what that means. Imagine if women were as disregarded as men are and men as celebrated as women are and them hear a casual "of course I'm a male advocate." You'd IMMEDIATELY think "but what about women?" and putting that off as whataboutism would be ass. That's why "what about men" is not whataboutism and we need to empower all people, not just women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/21 11:42 AM
4

Men were being cruelly forced into dying all around the world. Conscription laws do that to this day. No, I don't want conscription for women too. I want to abolish conscription. If you want to fight for your country all that much, go right ahead, but I'm not dying over imaginary lines on the map we collectively agree exist, all under the thumb of childish politicians that cannot behave themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/21 05:37 AM
3

She was fired because she's a racist, sexist cunt!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/21 02:38 PM
3

On a side note, I really recommend r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates And avoid r slash menslib at all costs
/r/MensRights28/03/21 11:03 AM
4

Ah, so all one has to do to be sentenced to death by the hate mobs is to not have the "right" opinions. Now, where have we seen that before?
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 09:38 AM
17

They also keep this sub very orderly and free of mad people. Thank you mods! You're a role model for all the other reddit mods, or at least how they all should be!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/21 09:02 AM
5

They've always been twats, just about different things. What they all have in common is that they want you to believe they're the good guys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/21 10:43 AM
137

They would be silenced by their feminist peers one way or the other. "She has internalised misogyny reeeeeee"
/r/MensRights27/03/21 08:46 AM
4

I've completely underestimated the people on that sub. They all appear to be way smarter and better informed than the rest of the internet. I am super proud of these people now!
/r/MensRights27/03/21 08:29 AM
3

Even AskFeminists bans FDS users for being this idiotic
/r/MensRights26/03/21 01:06 PM
3

"Too many Jews, we need to reduce their numbers." "Patriarchy is the root of all evil, we need to exterminate men to defeat it." "Jews secretly controlling the world is the root of all evil, etc." It's the same damned thing
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:18 PM
2

"I'm sorry for existing." EVERY DAY I WANT TO END IT MORE
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/21 01:04 PM
5

The page being called "adolescent" tells you all you need to know that you shouldn't listen to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/21 06:23 AM
2

:D
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 07:28 PM
2

Rare but necessary. :)
/r/MensRights24/03/21 06:09 PM
3

Oh, they are separate events, both focussing on fields where the gender is underrepresented. The focus is really on exposing kids to things they might like but haven't considered due to social convention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 04:43 PM
4

Mentally healthy, well-adjusted humans don't bother with politics ball online. Yes, I'm calling myself out.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 03:26 PM
2

Whether it's dick pics or begs to subscribe to onlyfans, DM sex people are the worst! The question is what can we really do about it? Well, doxxing them is certainly not a wise choice!
/r/MensRights24/03/21 03:22 PM
1

Yes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 02:42 PM
1

Good point
/r/MensRights24/03/21 11:47 AM
2

Yes. Aggression tends to alienate people, which is why I actually prefer r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates as it is much calmer and doesn't detract from men's issues the way r slash menslib does.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 11:46 AM
2

Am in BW btw
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 10:12 AM
3

Despite "ree and waah wage gap"
/r/Male_Studies24/03/21 10:09 AM
1

Tbh the models on the pictures I've been seeing over the last years were almost exclusively dorky looking people. It made not being a pretty pretty person feel quite normal, as it is. Lovely!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 09:45 AM
2

We've been spoonfed post-Gymnasium education info for 4 years now. I am glad to inform you that there is lots of guidance now. Teachers will still be able to tell you about the many shortcomings of the system, however I do think some good work has been done. Friend groups are gender mixed, people don't segregate themselves based on superficial qualities and stuff. The people at my school treat each other as people. I am sitting in a room full of kind and understanding people this very second.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 09:37 AM
3

Thanks for the insight!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 05:21 AM
2

I don't know the exact statistics, however from acquaintances I know that do pursue the fields you mentioned, the playing field is pretty levelled here, although for the medical assistant job my sister is training for, the class is almost all girls. It falls into the care stuff though, as most of the medical things do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 10:27 PM
40

We are used to education being all about girls and neglecting the boys, however this poster at a school in Germany is quite different. Women are underrepresented especially in certain scientific fields. For that purpose, the Girl's Day advocates for girls to consider pursuing studies and careers in scientific fields, technology, etc. A common talking point we bring up is that men are severely underrepresented in other fields themselves. This project has thus come up with the Boy's Day to promote…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 09:26 PM
16

It is sexism. Similarly, "not all women have only fans profiles during a relationship where the partner doesn't want it, but we don't know which" "Not all muslims are terrorists but we don't know which" "Not all Jews" "Not all Gypsies" "Not all black people" And so on and so forth
/r/MensRights23/03/21 07:58 PM
4

Same here
/r/MensRights23/03/21 06:56 PM
11

I think they read "victim" and the algorithm misinterpreted that as you perhaps having suicidal thoughts Then again, I just read someting in the comments against that so I might very easily be wrong
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 11:57 AM
1

Hero! Thank you for your commitment!!!
/r/MensRights22/03/21 01:53 PM
2

Yes, a lack of empathy that sadly persists through public narrative. I don't blame anybody for falling for it.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 01:44 PM
10

Plus men also kill themselves more. Who's suffering now? That's right! Everybody can suffer and most people don't! :D If you want to blame somebody exclusively for that, fuck you!
/r/MensRights22/03/21 11:29 AM
55

It's called having daddy issues
/r/MensRights22/03/21 10:49 AM
12

That would probably have been because of hearsay abd lacking opposition. Were she one of the crazies, she'd be throwing a fit.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 09:30 AM
45

Halle Berry expressed deep compassion for men who are forced to pay it. It's obviously not a problem for her, but I'm super glad she is aware now and is not one of the political crazy people.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 09:27 AM
5

I'm so glad these boys have such wonderful parenting in their lives!
/r/MensRights21/03/21 01:36 AM
9

Sometimes I feel like the biggest reason why misogyny is still a thing is FDS idiots.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/21 02:05 PM
9

Kam and then having very questionable tendencies in other parts as well is just more indication of mindless parroting of narratives people read online and don't spend much thought on how they are actually meant and meant to work
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/21 12:37 AM
2

Gotta find a good company that doesn't use child slavery, get all the legal stuff set up and then I can roll. Will definitely post about it!
/r/MensRights20/03/21 12:09 AM
2

You gave me an idea, thanks!
/r/MensRights19/03/21 08:14 PM
8

"I don't feel safe when I see muslims because I don't know if they're a terrorist"
/r/MensRights19/03/21 01:20 PM
1

I think if you chatter me up at the bar I'd get quite flirty, but I'm a guy so idk if you'd be interested haha
/r/MensRights19/03/21 01:19 PM
6

If you feel intimidated by my existence then the problem is 100% with you!
/r/MensRights19/03/21 01:17 PM
0

Exactly. I noticed we got downvoted even further. That is why I have a tendency to prefer r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates which is basically this sub but more friendly and engaging in meaningful conversation instead of mutual affirmation (even though a bit of mutual affirmation is something we all need on occasion).
/r/MensRights17/03/21 08:21 PM
-5

I tried pointing out something similar recently too. I was responding to somebody that was talking as if the presence of a woman automatically meant there's immediate danger of being falsely accused and all the shennigans we know are real. What bugged me was prejudice. I argued that this automatic collective judgement of women was no different from the "we know it's not all men, but we don't know WHICH men" misandrist bs on twitter sparked by the recent tragic murder of Sarah Everard. As a resul…
/r/MensRights17/03/21 04:12 PM
2

Coming full circle. The classic!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/21 12:13 AM
3

I don't owe anybody and will change nothing about my "not my business, so you mind yours too" attitude. What I am certain of is that I'm not gonna join the "all women potential dangers to men" crowd because that's the same shitty rethoric as "all men potential rapists."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/21 09:25 PM
9

It's almost as if a term that doesn't accurately explain its supposed meaning is highly impractical and should be dropped, noooo, "ooooh but that's not what it means, stop your male fragility ree and WAAH!!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/21 02:16 PM
1

This
/r/MensRights16/03/21 05:18 AM
3

I agree
/r/MensRights15/03/21 10:49 PM
3

agreement noises This is one of the weirdest comments I've made so far
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 10:09 PM
-5

Sorry, but this just sounds like a reverse version of "we know it's not all men, but we don't know which it is"
/r/MensRights15/03/21 06:53 PM
17

I understand your anger, but mass cancelling women seems to be entirely counterproductive and contradictory.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 04:33 PM
0

These people talking on behalf of everybody else (it's usually white women and white male feminists) as if they owned minorities and had any right to speak for an entire ETHNICITY. Not only do they speak on behalf of minorities and shut them up when these minorities correct their bs, they also automatically assume someone is poor, incapable of mathematics and qualitative writing because of the colour of their skin. Who's actually the white supremacist here?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 03:30 PM
1

Perhaps we shouldn't. They'll just double down and switch to "kill all white men."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 03:27 PM
5

Wonderful comment!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 03:14 PM
7

Can attest to this. Source: am German too Also the political tribalisation is far less advanced her ein in the US or UK, partly due to the language barrier, however I already see signs of political stuff all over the place. It appears to be coming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 03:12 PM
7

Well, abuse trauma can be intense, however the problem with future relationships is with the victim, not potential partners. Your point stands though. In this scenario, the abuser is the problem, not men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 03:00 PM
2

Good point!
/r/MensRights15/03/21 02:52 PM
5

This paper: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:59 AM
19

India's got lots of work to do for everybody. I wish you all well!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 08:54 AM
29

And the core of that patriarchy is that men are somehow obliged to protect and provide for women in a time where women have the ability, permission and responsibility for their own lives and to work for a living. The patriarchy seems outdated to me.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 08:52 AM
3

Yes. With this process I had to give myself some painful reality checks on occasion because political and controversial stuff winds me up way too much. It's been a healthy experience!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/21 07:46 PM
1

She literally said herself that they're fabricating shit, what the fuck If you're in a EU country, you can demand they delete the footage btw
/r/MensRights14/03/21 06:41 PM
22

You'll like r/menkampf
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/21 02:45 PM
9

I see what you mean and I'm inclined to agree. The "what is she doing out late at night" that people were doing was a condescending "well, if she doesn't want to get killed, she shouldn't be out" kind of thing though, which carries an unwarrented tone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/21 08:56 AM
1

She was afraid because a man exists? Statistically speaking, it's much more likely her own family members will kill her than some guy entering a shop to pick up an order. The sensationalism seems to put too much fear into people. I empathise with everybody who is afraid, however we need to ask how we can restore the courage of these women because they apparently are being set up to be too shocked to think straight. What can a generous person do for a lady?
/r/MensRights14/03/21 02:13 AM
12

Even speaking from mere statistics, suspecting every stranger on the street to be lethal danger is entirely unreasonable. The highest chance of emotional, physical and sexual abuse and violations is from people you know personally, especially your parents, both of them. The chance of a muslim being a terrorist is so incredibly damned low, saying "but we're weary of all of them" is choosing to lead an unhappy paranoid life. An important talking point I don't see addressed as much is that there we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/21 02:08 AM
17

There's a lot of fearmongering. Compare the amount of people that live to those that get murdered and you'll be disillusioned rather quickly. The risk is incredibly low and being afraid of every man because "stranger danger" is about as bollocks as being afraid of every women in case she wants to sue you for you looking her way. Most violence and abuse (emotional, physical and sexual) is somethong you will receive from relatives, friends, partners and acquaintances. A stranger is the least of yo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 03:52 PM
3

I'm a bit of a "ree woke crap" person but if I want to be able to complain about them, the same has to be possible the other way around. I assume that to be common sense, because how can we guarantee to be able to give criticism to something we both dislike when anybody that gets upset by it can punish us for it? I don't care if you hate white people, I don't care if you support Donald Trump, just admit to it and engage in meaningful conversation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 12:46 PM
30

It's almost like becoming a damaged, evil person isn't a trait you automatically inherit through your gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 12:38 PM
18

Watch them say nothing when the vitcim is male
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 10:10 AM
4

What a wonderful sub, thanks for introducing it to me!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 03:48 PM
3

I totally see what you mean and agree entirely! Somebody should try taking an actual nazi propaganda text and switch out "evil jews!!!!" for other things, send it to several biased news sources and then see whether they get published.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 03:44 PM
3

That sounds interesting. Would you mind expanding on that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 03:31 PM
2

You're welcome! :D
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 02:02 PM
18

The extreme right, just like other extremist organisations around the world, systematically target alienated young people (mostly men, however they take any women they can get too) because it is easier to convince somebody you're the good guy if you're the only person not treating them as lesser. They even go as far as telling them they are something better, which is even more dangerous. The people (rightfully) complaining about the extreme right growing might also be part of the people that ena…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 02:01 PM
15

It is because we've allowed hateful rethoric to enter progressive circles. Granted, awful people being somewhere isn't unique to any ideology, but them taking over and determining the public narrative is something I haven't observed in the same way too many times before.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 01:18 PM
13

The Independent is pulling the same political bs. I have switched to TLDR News on youtube, which is a truly independent news service run by university students and except for the genius sarcastic undertones on topics where governments screwed up, it really tries to be neutral and tell a story from all sides, bringing up their arguments and afterwards how they'd evaluate it. They don't appear to try and push you into any direction whatsoever and I really like that. It is a bit UK-centric though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 01:16 PM
2

I have been holding up well so far but I too begin to notice the effects this has on me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/21 01:13 PM
3

Wonder what they'll do when we collectively stop paying women for stuff
/r/MensRights12/03/21 10:19 AM
9

devolved* we appear to be past the peak of civilisation
/r/MensRights12/03/21 10:18 AM
2

Because a criminal is gonna stick to curfews lmao
/r/MensRights12/03/21 10:17 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/21 05:34 AM
1

Plus what message are you sending when you don't include minorities with the "regular people." Full-circled woke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/21 04:31 PM
1

Exactly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/21 10:49 AM
6

I was told off by a mod on AskFeminists after commenting under a very popular post (that of course got removed) asking if perhaps the term "toxic masculinty" is highly impractical and too easily applied in harmful ways. I commented why I thought that assessment was correct. As expected, I got told that the sub is meant for feminists to reply. While that is entirely true and reasonable, the mere suggestion that I am not supportive of addressing women's issues by my post history detailing I care a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/21 10:00 AM
10

"I cannot develop feelings if the money ain't right." If I was high earning, I'might take you out to nice places, make gifts and do that out of the goodness of my heart for you and not expect something equal in return. That's all you'll ever see of that money though. I'm never going to give it to you, I'm never going to marry you without a VERY detailed prenup and I will certainly not have children in this modern day (wouldn't want them either way). If all my attraction value is my money, fuck r…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 04:46 PM
1

Those asshole grins disappeared off their faces really quickly. Pussy pass to be an ass denied!
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 04:39 PM
14

Here is a link to a screenshot in the comment section of this post on instagram, mentioning several factors that play into how this statistic ends up being what it is: https://twitter.com/Errik51584789/status/1369317893784145930?s=19
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/21 04:04 PM
1

Welcome! Just as a heads up, this whole debate stuff can be a pain and I recommend controlling your internet use as soon as possible. Oftentimes people do not want a different perspective and will get VERY militant when having to face it. People will accuse you of being -ist and -phobic and others will try to paint you as a communist for whatever you do and say so it's best to start ignoring them now, it saves you a lot of pain. The aggressive conversation has turned me into an ass in the past a…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 12:52 PM
3

This entire article is a wall of clickbait text based on one tweet by some guy claiming to have been told something by a "reliable source." This neither confirms nor denies anything.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 10:47 AM
18

A lot of extreme stuff becomes more common as soon as you cross the pond to the west. :P
/r/MensRights09/03/21 09:41 AM
2

That makes sense, thanks for your response!
/r/MensRights07/03/21 07:27 PM
5

xD
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 02:15 PM
3

Didn't Anthony Rapp also accuse Spacey (and Spacey eventually came out as gay)? What happened to that?
/r/MensRights07/03/21 11:18 AM
95

Idk about you but to m that sounds infantalising and patronising of women as if they can't fend for themselves. What happened to strong, independent women?
/r/MensRights07/03/21 09:50 AM
67

As soon as you are made to feel sorry for the way you are born, you draw the line. As a German I can attest to the detrimental nature of some mentalities going around right now, concerning bogus like "whiteness" that nobody outside of the US and UK has even heard of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/21 08:59 AM
208

Idk, perhaps they could work for a living. This just clearly reveals the "men pust pay for their wives" standard and it's blatantly sexist.
/r/MensRights07/03/21 08:56 AM
37

Thanks for sharing your experience, that was quite an insightful read! Just as a little info, the collective of alcoholic beverages is "booze" not boos ;)
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 08:23 AM
94

I mean, granted, this is a weird image and reality tv is very scripted, however from my personal experience, this doesn't appear unrealistic at all, considering how many female friends of mine describe how awful girls can be to each other. I only have a one-sided view on this, however I'm not too worried about the view itself right now at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 12:36 AM
4

"You're just a toxic male" - shitheads That is what is radicalising boys and they've got themselves to blame for it. Who'd've thought that if you attack a person based on the way they were born, that person is going to affiliate themselves with people that don't?
/r/MensRights06/03/21 10:03 AM
4

This is the kind of post we all needed, thank you!
/r/MensRights06/03/21 09:36 AM
6

Sometimes I'm really glad I'm gay
/r/MensRights06/03/21 09:30 AM
18

Self-esteem, huh? looks at male successful suicides Idk, seems like there's lots of self-esteem problems there
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/21 11:39 PM
95

Person: "We need to fight toxic masculinity, men are allowed to cry" Also the same person: "MALE TEARS HAHHAHA DKNEIENIDEKEKEKEKE"
/r/MensRights03/03/21 10:47 PM
22

Implying a man has to "do" something to have his mere existence based on his gender be acceptable in the world is the core problem of the feminist ideal. There's normal and there are arseholes. None of these (admittedly generalised) categories are gendered. Prescribing that one gender has an inherent trait that needs active correction or else face to be exiled from society is incredibly sexist, regardless of who you use this method on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 09:29 PM
1

Because for the reeing internet crowds, it's not about equality, but about bickering and being mad about things.
/r/MensRights03/03/21 05:59 PM
15

Feminism is based on the assumption that an in group bias amongst men is actively trying to oppress wome which is bullshit.
/r/MensRights03/03/21 07:17 AM
37

Is an article from The Guardian, so I'm not surprised. It's basically the Marie Sue except that for entertainment, they talk about political bs in general.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/21 10:59 PM
1

And people that can't properly walk so you can walk past each other on the sidewalk :P
/r/MensRights01/03/21 10:52 PM
6

Brighton is both wonderfully and awfully progressive. Being gay, I am constantly conflicted about that place when things like this come up and when you take a walk from Churchill Square up to the station at night, you will see at least 3 homeless men sleeping in people's doorsteps.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 01:43 PM
2

It is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/21 09:10 AM
3

The various variations of "oh, you want to be oppressed so badly" Like, nah, I'n saying things because I don't want anybody to be "oppressed."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/21 05:34 AM
7

There are still normal people everywhere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/21 11:21 PM
4

This. It quite shocked my grandma when I told her that it's not just men that can be pedophiles. She's usually not into the modern politics stuff but that one seemed to have gotten to her and I'm glad she was open to new info.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/21 11:11 PM
3

Wonder how they'd react if I took a mirror to reflect the "you want to be oppressed so badly" copypasta.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/21 11:04 PM
11

"1. That's none of your business. 2. I didn't ask your opinion. 3. I'm not an object for you to like, you can put your opinions about my looks up somewhere."
/r/MensRights28/02/21 10:55 PM
4

Where are the cancel mobs when you need them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/21 11:34 AM
4

I mean people do get a bit spiteful in here but I agree with you entirely.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 10:49 AM
2

I second this comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/21 08:35 PM
4

Enough videos of Karens and Kevins refusing to wear a mask out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/21 03:58 PM
1

Pretty much sums it up, yes
/r/MensRights26/02/21 02:38 PM
3

That actually makes a lot of sense, thank you!
/r/MensRights26/02/21 01:10 PM
-1

I think this woman engaged in research about quantum gravity is much more qualified and capable of explaining this than I ever will be: https://youtu.be/9qqEU1Q-gYE "Particle Physicists Continue Empty Promises" https://youtu.be/WIMGAFL8DVk "Does the world need a larger particle collider?"
/r/MensRights26/02/21 10:45 AM
4

There are many predicted particles they haven't found and they've been testing a lot. The theory hasn't changed for years and years. Usually when using the scientific method, you test your theory. If the results of the tests end in your theory not being confirmed, you try altering the theory to see where you might have been wrong. They're not doing that though, they want to continue until they get results they like, which is, of course, idiotic. The theory of all of these undiscovered fundamenta…
/r/MensRights26/02/21 09:45 AM
16

I mean, many particle physicists can't get their head around "the particle collider hasn't discovered new particles, perhaps it's time to rework your theory" either.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 09:00 AM
20

I sincerely wish this becomes one of the weekly top comments!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/21 03:07 PM
-37

This!!!
/r/MensRights23/02/21 11:31 PM
2

The thing is, I don't think there's a superior position for abortion in relation to deciding when it is or isn't done. You don't want people to be able to force women into certain things, however the father should have just as much say as with what happens with his child. These two factors are in a deadlock and can be spinned in circles over and over again. I can understand why anybody would have any position on it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/21 11:28 PM
3

I think I get it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/21 03:22 PM
9

Not entirely 0% because I'm gay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/21 11:06 AM
1

RIP
/r/MensRights23/02/21 11:04 AM
7

My former classmates were also VERY progressive, however they never accepted woke crap and thought for themselves. We debunked "women quotas" in our 8th year of school, an age where kids don't (shouldn't) be really thinking much about politics. In retrospect, I'm incredibly impressed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/21 07:23 AM
4

Exactly lol. The ideology cannot be questioned or they'll come for you. It's almost like we've seen this before.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/21 10:38 PM
3

Patriarchy n shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/21 10:34 PM
1

There are several reasons to test, even if you're certain you have it and especially if you are uncertain.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 02:14 PM
3

I'm not talking about the press. I'm talking about a photo of a powerpoint at a school that just lists "objectivity", among other things, as an inherent trait of "whiteness" that is then applied to all white people by default because there are no qualifiers people can and will use to to accuse you of "whiteness" other than the colour of your skin. That the media neglects minorities is the other side of that same coin. I don't like racism and I will not tolerate it no matter in which way it goes.…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 02:11 PM
14

I seriously saw some CRT shit claim that "objectivity" was a tool of "whiteness" to oppress minorities. I wanna see them subjectively judge the severity of the next pandemic without objective data. Or, other example: "I subjectively think I am immune to bleach. dies from drinking bleach"
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 12:35 PM
6

I mean, her reporting that she's been told it's her fault for trusting abusers to begin with is inappropriate and shows that we too aren't immune to assholes among our midst, however just as inappropriate is collectively blaming people. Holocaust survivors don't blame Germans and I admire them for the calm and oftentimes even forgiving attitudes for the incredible horrors they were forced to live through. That all of a woman's abusers are going to be men simply comes down to the fact that in mos…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/21 11:59 PM
28

Men: die Feminists: that clearly means women are oppressed!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/21 11:32 PM
1

Should have been Abuela and Mirta from Jenny Lorenzo's youtube channel. "AY, MY ARTHRITIS! AY!"
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 11:29 PM
9

Might as well identify as female and demand money at this point. :(
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:25 PM
2

Oh
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 04:26 PM
10

Accent not Swiss in the slightest. They're speaking modern Hochdeutsch, like basically any other German their age. Source: Am actual German
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 12:54 PM
149

Welcome to Germany! We still have some sane people.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 10:29 AM
3

Those numbers actually still sound too good to be true because both polls are not too far from 50%, indicating that many people wouldn't intervene either way. I hope these numbers are true because it would mean the disparity is not too large, however from experiments on the street, we are used to else.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 11:10 AM
11

Justice!
/r/MensRights20/02/21 10:52 AM
7

u/uwuwizard
/r/MensRights19/02/21 08:58 AM
32

Thank you for being... a normal, decent person!
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 07:42 PM
3

That thread is awesome!
/r/MensRights18/02/21 03:50 PM
14

Actual female victims: you ruin our credibility and chance at receiving justice! Male victims: you diminish our chances of even being paid attention to at all. False accusers in general: mhhhhm compensation monies
/r/MensRights18/02/21 03:33 PM
3

This sub itself gets a bit intense for my liking, so I underatamd where they'ee coming from, however menslib is basically mental gymnastics to somehow say "male problem, women most affected" and it's ass. I recommed r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates which has not really anything to do with "left wing" at all but is more moderate than this sub and I want it to stay that way.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 10:59 AM
5

No, I think the comment you replied to refers to a majority group of self-proclaimed "feminists" that are just calling themselves that by default. They don't even realise the horrible mentality harboured within.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 09:08 AM
3

It's funny because the British were the first to abolish slavery (because they were convinced it was wrong, not through violence) and took great efforts to stop all slave trade. Slave traders in Africa actually refused, because it made them so much money. Eventually, the Empire grew strong enough to suppress it. They still did all other kinds of shit, but the end if slavery is something they did first.
/r/MensRights17/02/21 05:06 PM
36

Considering how men are sometimes portrayed by Shakespeare, it would have made more sense had we complained about it first. We're not that childish though, I hope.
/r/MensRights16/02/21 12:20 PM
1

"I want sex, therefore anybody has to give it to me because humabn rights are certainly not a thing." Entitled bitch.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/21 10:33 AM
3

I mean, there are differences, but this is ridiculous!
/r/MensRights15/02/21 10:45 PM
7

Your hair smells damn fine!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/21 07:07 AM
53

Hair and skin products with good smells should be ungendered! They're just too good!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/21 10:02 PM
1

Win Stupid Prizes material
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/21 07:56 PM
1

If yes we should think about changing the name because it wouldn't accurately reflect the intention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/21 01:05 PM
4

Sounds just like another way to blame men, honestly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/21 10:33 AM
5

Someone make this band a thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/21 10:22 AM
2

"That's like saying the only way we can improve civil rights is if civil rights protestors and the KKK stop generalising each other." Uhm, it is? It goes far beyond this, even. People treat many more people like the KKK than actually hold such horrible racist beliefs and people with tendencies supportive of KKK-type thinking are far too quick to group everything in as "evil communist marxist ree and waah." They are both contributing to each other's growth by shunning anyone that refuses to speak…
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:19 PM
1

The response to the picture shows how ridiculous it is and how needlessly it bashes on men by simply reversing it onto women. It's equally as nonsensical. Having problems with what used to be basic life skills (such as patching up a hole in a wooden wall or cooking) is not a gendered thing to begin with.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/21 07:25 AM
1

instagram*
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 08:20 AM
3

I mean, she doesn't even expect a pussy pass here. She seems perfectly reasonable in her conclusions and that makes me like her even more.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 08:18 AM
18

It's sad what happened to "it don't matter if you're black or white"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 08:10 AM
3

I'm not surprised why there's people leaving California
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/21 08:29 PM
2

Reeeeeeee you evil -istaphobe!!!!!!!! Jokes aside, I agree completely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/21 12:09 PM
1

Love a man that doesn't let himself be used for $$$
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 02:32 AM
2

If anybody has to resort to name-calling of anybody just to make a point, then their attitude needs work. I admit to being guilty myself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 11:27 AM
18

What has happened to our left wing? Why did we let these people in to begin with?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 09:29 AM
9

It's a method to try and frame all men as complicit in rape to justify misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/21 07:19 AM
40

It's become a bit of a buzzword to avoid having to explain "overly aggressive political idealogues" over and over again. Inaccuracies in it actually being related to "social justice" happened similarly to how people use "literally" in every second sentence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/21 05:17 PM
2

Plus if most of the perpetrators are men, the underlying problem is that there are more things happening to men that enable this violent behaviour than women. What can we do about that? How do we help men like that? How do we help anybody committing crime to realising there is no gain in it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/21 07:01 PM
6

As anybody else should be free to do, women should shape their lives however they want to. Problem is, when they do like the housewife stuff they get accused of having "internalised misoginy" by twitter Karens.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/21 10:14 AM
44

That's the thing. They go reciting back the well-intended openness stuff and then get surprised when you're a person with needs and desires. And isn't it ironic, don't you think?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/21 10:09 AM
8

It's always important to point out injustice. I'm glad the accusations didn't manage to do that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/21 07:27 AM
4

I mean often higher imprisonment rates also boil down to higher crime rates. The reason for people committing crime can often be rooted in those very discriminatory problems though and in terms of imprisonment of innocent people to keep those prisons profitable, the racism and misandry becomes pretty clear when looking at the proportions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/21 05:27 PM
2

Great!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/21 09:59 AM
11

"and nearly half are minorities" So it's basically everybody. The only special thing about minorities is that they are more likely to have a low economic status, but otherwise I am completely surprised a male-friendly article made it into such a mainstream outlet. Nice!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 06:01 PM
1

I see what you mean
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 05:56 PM
1

The only instincts I've ever heard of were some sort of joking way to describe parents acting correctly in just the right situation. This is a new one. I'm interested in the discussion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 05:17 PM
6

"The universe is so complex, it must have been made by someone!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 05:15 PM
19

Example: https://twitter.com/JoeBangles11/status/1353350568291524608?s=19 A decisive, and usually swift attack isn't something your gender will magically shield you from. Somebody crazy enough to attack people won't give a crap about your gender. Now, there are more factors that go into this. Both men and women might be attacked for different reasons, however the overall consensus is that nobody is really safe either way. You could argue that more attacks involving kidnapping and rape are affect…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/21 09:34 AM
2

I was confused by the description because there was foreogn student stuff and all and though New Zealeand was the country of origin. I am concerned with Spain specifically because unless you can disprove an accusation within a certain timeframe, any accused man will be declared guilty by default. The same does not apply to women and it opens up a huge opportunity for abuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/21 08:38 AM
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