| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Public School Teacher Pension Insight or Experience? | Yeti_Dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 10:35 PM | |
| 6 | Divorce vs. Legal Separation.? | Yeti_Dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 09:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | How did you handle knowing your Ex had start sleeping with another guy?This is so well articulated and spot on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 6 | My divorce broke everything inside and I don’t know how to move forwardPickup Unplugged Alpha by Richard Cooper | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to Live an Exciting LifeHealth (gym), diet, finances, and get yourself to a point where you are comfortable being alone. Then start to build yourself up from there. I also bought a bike and have been riding it daily (as weather permits) for a release. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 06:07 PM |
| 10 | Wife is now the breadwinner and wants a divorceAs Steve Miller says Take the money run brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 11:46 PM |
| 6 | She wants a divorce after 40 yearsTHIS……. is why anyone not married should really question - what is the point. The system is so broke and bias, it honestly doesn’t make sense to get married anymore. So sorry to hear this man. Hang in there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Wish I was enough.You are enough - especially for your kids. Just remember that. These are all normal feelings. Mine has been final for almost 6 months and I still feel these same feelings at times. Same stuff everyone else says here - hobbies, get back in the gym, find yourself, (don’t laugh) but journal (write down all of the things that you may have contributed to this over the years and how/what you can change). But the biggest thing is to focus on making yourself better for you and your kids. Don’t even for … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 08:38 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know why I did it. I just did.Oh for sure - I agree with you. Even though I think that - I couldn’t be that absolute with a new girl. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 09:52 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know why I did it. I just did.I’ll also add - just my opinion (as a recent divorced guy) neither partner should follow, or be friends with anyone of the opposite sex on any social. That may be a hardline approach/opinion but if you want to limit “opportunity”, avoid it at all costs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 09:08 PM |
| 13 | I don’t know why I did it. I just did.Red flag boys - anyone married using Snapchat. Don’t tell me to communicate with kids - just use text or call. 100% to cheat, don’t kid yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How much did you spend on your divorce?Sorry to hear that. I represented myself and spent $0. I know it won’t work for every situation but it can be done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 01:47 AM |
| 12 | Do you regret getting divorced?I’m in the same boat. It’s amazing how many similar situations I read about. When I was married, I was oblivious to this epidemic of middle aged women thinking/wanting to be independent and happy. Crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Freedom in post-divorce eraI fully agree with this as someone who’s divorce was finalized on 4/24. I thought it was life shattering but, I am happier than I’ve been in years. Best of luck partner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | I don't know, guys....In almost the same position - 45m and 19yrs. Never thought I’d be able to move on but time is a wonderful medicine. Looking forward to the next chapter in my life starting hopefully this month. Best of luck and don’t give up on yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/24 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Divorce vs. Legal Separation.?I can keep health insurance as my wife is a teacher. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I’m a sole financial provider for my stay at home wife, and 2 kids.. I’m at a point in my marriage where I feel like i’m only as good as what I can provide (my income, and occasional sex). There’s awkward silences, and I feel like maybe we’ve both grown out of love. Anyone else been here?Talk to her - communicate what you are feeling. Don’t hold anything in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/24 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Go work out they say…Work out and focus on your health. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 5 | F Her MentalityYou can’t but it gets better with time, guaranteed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Public School Teacher Pension Insight or Experience?Yes - 50/50 split. It's what her attorney quoted and it meshes with the dc.gov outlines as well. I'm the 60, she is the 40. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 08:52 PM |
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