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Legal RightsYoDaddy1069/r/MensRights07/02/21 07:08 PM
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Inner Game YoDaddy1069/r/seduction21/03/22 10:04 PM
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This is very much my experience as well. That hit deep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:44 AM
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Butt hurt much?
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:33 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:27 PM
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5’8 here and decent looking. I’m 22 and been with 21 women. I used to be bad at talking to women but I’ll make a list of things that really helped in the last two years. Making strong eye contact. Women love that and it’s something I’m always trying to keep working on Fun and flirty vibes. You need to be an interesting person that is clearly fun to be around. As the song goes, "girls just wanna have fun". Start watching a decent amount of pick up content. My personal favorites are Austen Summers…
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:59 AM
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Women always think that they want a guy to ask for consent, but they really never do. If she’s even remotely interested in you and showing IOIs, I always go for it
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:07 AM
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I like attractive women, but are you gonna arrest me if I offer you a joint?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:52 PM
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I don’t know you and there’s not enough information to make any assumptions. However, if I were to make an assumption then I would say that your skills are not as good as you think they are online and you’re a very good looking guy. I’m an above average looking guy who has had far more success in person so I deleted my dating apps and am much happier approaching women in person. When it comes to online dating, the black pill hits hard
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:51 PM
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I approached around 200 girls this semester. I usually get the number 30% of the time, but there’s an unbelievable amount of flaking that gets on my nerves every once in a while. Went on 10+ dates with many different girls and slept with 4 of them. A lot of it is just being able to carry a conversation in a somewhat and flirty way. A few of my lays at college occurred because I put myself out there and I’m very good at remembering names. Often times girls are flattered when you remember their na…
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:58 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:53 PM
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I couldn’t help but laugh. So many times in my life, women have attention whored so hard and just because I refused to notice they assumed I was gay.
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:16 PM
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For some reason, a lot of girls ask me if I’m bi. Idk why. I think of myself as a decently masculine guy, but it happens anyway. Don’t give it too much thought
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:09 PM
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Auschwitz
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:37 AM
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This was the answer I was looking for. #MeToo totally would come down on Barney for some of the stuff he’s done. He lied so many times about his identity to get women into bed. Feminists consider that as rape
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:14 AM
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I totally agree that she’s prob a virgin. I had a very similar experience with a girl like this
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:46 AM
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I appreciate the honesty. I’ll point this out to women all the time and most will deny it till they die
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:09 AM
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This might be why I’m better than average at carrying conversations with people. I literally talk to myself all the time. Sometimes I do it without even realizing it and people think I’m a crazy person lol
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:00 AM
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You think I do well because of my looks? It’s hard to say whether or not that’s the case, but I think my looks just get my foot in the door. I think everything else is also a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:32 PM
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But don’t you think that most relationships that involve porn are less healthy on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:15 PM
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Kinda shows those girls probably wanted you, but are tryna keep you around for backups probably That’s exactly what it is. You hit the money. Women love feeling desired especially by men of decent value and having them as options. Problem is that I wasn’t the first choice, I was prob second or third choice. I even went on a coffee date with a girl two weeks ago who was clearly into me only to find out after that she had a bf. She didn’t want to leave him, but she was clearly unhappy in her relat…
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:02 PM
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It gets worse. I’ve asked out so many chics that said no and when they saw me with another girl, they started wanting me all of a sudden. I’ve also had times when that would quite literally happen on the same night. I hit on a girl at a bar, she rejects me, and then she wants me when I’m hitting it off with another girl. In conclusion, women are a lot more territorial than you might think
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:34 PM
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As a guy that’s not a good enough answer for me (I’m against porn). Remember this, just because something is “common” or “normal” in society does not AT ALL make it “right”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:28 PM
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I (22 M) had a pretty bad porn addiction and realized I had to stop. It certainly wasn’t easy, but it warped my mind in a way that gave me thoughts that were very disturbing even to me. I personally think porn is the devil and am very against it. I’ve been told by a few partners since I quit that their sex lives with me were much better and healthier than the guys they’d been with that watch lots of porn. One thing I realized also is that I find my partner much more attractive and tend to crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:24 PM
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I’m really sympathetic and I’m sorry to hear that. When you have a bf especially, that must be frustrating. However, the only thing I ask is that you don’t discourage men from trying to meet women because men are struggling with that right now. When you say the things you say, it discourages guys from approaching. I think the main problem is the harassment specifically and guys that keep pushing when the girl clearly doesn’t want it. I’m willing to bet that if I approached you, you’d be quite fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:31 AM
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There’s no need to insult me just because of my success with women. You’re coming off very salty rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:53 PM
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I might be a decent looking guy. But I’d also like to add I’m only 5’8 which has been a major disadvantage for me compared to my 6 foot tall friends. However, I do a lot of looks-maxing. I always have good hygiene, dress well, have my hair combed and work out. I constantly work on my game and my social skills. I can’t say these things about the average guy, so I don’t like seeing people like you discourage others because of looks. Yes, looks is a factor, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get laid …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:46 PM
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If you’re speaking for yourself, then you must be beautiful Ms. Popular who has 3 guys approach her every day. For girls that almost never get approached, it’s actually quite flattering, especially during the day time. I’ve approached women with their headphones on who told me they didn’t want to be bothered. What did I do? I left them alone and walked away. I did not at all persist because she doesn’t owe me anything. These are my beliefs and the way that I act, so I don’t want anyone to discou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:40 PM
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This is my problem. You don’t speak for all women, you’re speaking for yourself. When you say things like that, it discourages guys from approaching girls and women like being approached
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:33 PM
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Went on one last night with a girl I approached at a cafe with her AirPods on. I don’t see what’s so hard to believe about that. Every girl is different
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:08 PM
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Idk, you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:07 PM
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Sorry, gonna have to disagree. I’ve approached many girls with headphones and gotten dates with them. It doesn’t always mean they don’t want to be bothered, some people are just addicted to music
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:31 PM
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There’s a couple things here. 1). Whenever I approach women, I always try to look my best and make sure I’m well dressed and hygienic. When I’m not put together, I’m less confident in approaching women and less likely to receive warm responses from them. 2). I doubt you’re getting shitty responses from all women. Women actually do like getting approached. I prefer day-game over night game because women aren’t expecting it as much during the daytime and because of that women are much kinder to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:29 PM
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Scream it louder
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:04 PM
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You really do enjoy acting stupid, don’t you? I pointed out that you even admitted yourself to using words incorrectly. Do you still want me to buy you that dictionary?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:27 AM
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Give me one example of a coach that has taught men to “prey on women”. I’ll wait
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:25 AM
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You don’t even refute my points and get easily triggered instead. Very typical of a retard
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:20 AM
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You even admitted yourself that you incorrectly used the word “coercion”. How are you gonna diss me rn? Are your parents siblings?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:19 AM
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Despite what you keep saying, coaches teach seduction techniques, communication skills, and kino in order to have better success with women. You keep saying time and time again that these coaches teach men how to “prey on women”, yet you’ve never provided a single example. Only a retard would make such definitive statements without anything to substantiate it
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:16 AM
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Unlike you, I actually use words correctly. Would you like me to send you a dictionary? :)
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:14 AM
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< You’re as dumb as the coaches you rely on. Once again, the irony you display is rich. I’ve read all your comments and you don’t even use terms like misogynistic and coercion correctly. You’re an SJW who has a preconceived world view and are incapable of fathoming the possibility that some men want to build the skills to sleep with lots of women. I’ll let you in on a little secret. Some women also like sleeping with lots of men too. It’s not a big deal. Just let people live their lives and stop…
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:08 AM
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I don’t have anything against him. I have something against you. You’re pushing lies while you literally shit on coaches for trying to help guys like me be better with women. There isn’t someone for everyone. Do you know how math works? Or do you want me to explain you the numbers again?
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:53 AM
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I actually get girls, so there’s no problem in my dating world. But you’re just pushing blue pilled lies. Look it up. There are more men than women in the world. Depending on who’s delivering the numbers, it’s somewhere in between 101-107 boys for every 100 girls in the world. With just sheer numbers alone, not every guy is gonna find a partner. That’s not even taking other things into account like attractiveness, compatibility and location which can affect your odds. Stop shitting on dating coa…
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:47 AM
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< There is someone for everyone. You say that dating coaches are full of shit and then go and say that. The irony is rich
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:20 PM
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What is so bad about what he said? You’re coming off really butt hurt rn
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:17 PM
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The problem is that liberals keep denying differences between men and women that the red pill points out. It doesn’t matter how much progressive propaganda you shove down people’s throats, you can’t get rid of tendencies we have that has resulted from thousands of years of evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:45 PM
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This is something I’ve been noticing for a while. Not just here on this subreddit but also in the real world. It’s basically guys making excuses for their lack of success. Instead of taking personal responsibility they blame all the women in the world. It’s a victimhood mentality
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:01 PM
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I don’t disagree with a lot of the things you say, but my main question is why does it have to be one or the other? Does he have to either work on himself OR talk to ladies? Why can’t he do both at the same time? Dating coaches talk a lot about guys who work on themselves and think women will magically come to them and I’m telling you man, it doesn’t work like that. Then when the women don’t magically show up, they have to pay thousands of dollars for boot camps on how to talk to women. You can …
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:53 PM
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The success rate is very low. If you can sleep with 1 out of 15 women that you approach, that’s a very high success rate. But it’s helped overcome my fears in women and made me way more confident around them. Right now I don’t approach a lot of women in groups, but that’s something that I’m still working on. I mostly approach women sitting alone
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:36 AM
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When you’re alone, try not to always have your headphones on. That makes women very unapproachable. Also when you’re around your friends, don’t try to cling on to them so hard. Try to be more comfortable keeping some space between them that way another guy won’t feel overwhelmed by your friends
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:30 AM
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For me personally, my dating life drastically improved once I got off the apps. I saw that once I forced myself to only be able to go after girls if it’s in person, it got rid of a lot of my approach anxiety. For me, the apps were a real crutch to not do cold approach, and I see the same thing in other men who are too scared to approach
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:26 AM
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Your idealism only works in a world where women actually have the balls to make a first move. That’s not the world we live in. You can talk smack about PUA all you want, but it’s helped many men including myself get laid. OP is coming off desperate around women probably because he’s just not comfortable around them yet. By doing lots of pickup and gaining experience from being around attractive women, over time you start to get less intimidated by attractive women and your game will have a notic…
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:19 AM
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Dude it is absolutely blue pilled advice. To an extent, you’re not wrong and he should absolutely be doing that, but you can’t just forget about women when you’re a young horny dude. It just doesn’t work like that. I hate it when people on this sub keep saying to “just keep working on yourself bro” as if women are just gonna magically show up for you one day. Life doesn’t work like that. That’s a fantasy, and that’s exactly why your advice is blue pilled. It quite literally only works for physic…
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:56 PM
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This is such blue pilled advice. It’s responses like this that really make this subreddit truly shit
/r/seduction19/02/22 04:55 PM
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Dude, this is such terrible advice. The reason why this community even exists is precisely because you’re not supposed to talk to the women you’re interested in like any Joe Shmoe on the street. You have to display interest or else you’re gonna be friendzoned
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:46 AM
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It’s possible that she either has other options and you’re just not at the top of her list or she wasn’t that into you. I’ve had many women act like they’re interested in me and then ghost me. Women can be vile like that
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:44 AM
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As a guy that ACTUALLY gets pussy, it’s hard AF and took me years and tons of looks-maxxing to be halfway decent
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:47 AM
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I always do find it funny you think you understand what being a woman is like. All your kind somehow think that. What’s up with these massive generalizations and assumptions? What did I say to make you think this? Everything that goes against what you've personally experienced isn't propaganda. Maybe, if nearly every woman on earth says they're experiencing something... it's being experienced. I’m not at all denying women’s experiences, but it’s undeniable that we’re living in a period where eve…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 11:05 PM
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Easier said than done homie. You talk like it’s so easy for people to be able to change on a dime after constantly having propaganda brain wash them.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 10:34 PM
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This is def something that really bothers me in the dating world. There’s a lot of misandrist propaganda that constantly tells me how shit I am as a man. That doesn’t bother me. What bothers me is when women become scared of me due to that same propaganda. That makes me particularly sad because I really don’t see myself as a scary person at all.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 06:00 PM
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“Do you have a man in your life?” I find that asking a girl if she has a bf puts a lot of pressure on her and it’s a difficult position to be in because it’s a yes or no question. Women sometimes answer yes when you put them on the spot and they’re only casually seeing another guy. When I ask “do you have a man in your life?” 1) it’s a sexier question to ask 2) I find that it gets a more honest answer out of the girl in terms of what her relationship status is with other men
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:41 PM
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How? It couldn’t be more the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:30 PM
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Yes. If she was constantly only texting me back an hour or more later, yes. Women love to act like they have so much going on in their lives and are so busy. It’s so obviously not the case and women almost never stop staring at their phones. If I was see minimal effort CONSTANTLY being put in for me despite that I’m showing obvious interest, then yeah, I’m just gonna give up and move on. Why would I invest in someone who doesn’t reciprocate much interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:52 AM
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This was totally relatable for me. This describes exactly what I felt when my long term gf broke up with me last October. I was actually pretty excited to put myself out there again, until I started actually approaching. I couldn’t believe how scared I was of women. It really surprised me. Before I was in the relationship, I was able to do it so easily, why was I being such a pussy? The truth was that I actually wasn’t being a pussy. I was nervous because it had been so long since I approached a…
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:47 AM
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How is giving a # making you look easy? Stop being insecure and just have fun with a guy that’s interested in taking you out. And don’t play hard to get. When you play hard to get, you become hard to want
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:43 PM
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The problem is that there’s too much overlap between this behavior and the behavior that comes from a girl that isn’t that interested in you. If I was pursuing you and you did this to me, I’d give up and walk away pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:34 PM
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Hot girls have a tendency to act like this. They’ve been handled with kid gloves by society and enabled by simps to act like a spoiled brat without any words of criticism in return. This is especially true since you guys met on tinder where you are just one out of dozens of guys that she can use for her own personal validation. Lower your expectations man. I’m sorry, it’s very unlikely anything is gonna happen between you two
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:23 PM
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This is phenomenal advice. It’s also what has worked for me the best
/r/seduction29/01/22 12:41 AM
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Dude, don’t even think about it. If the details you provided about the date were accurate, that probably wouldn’t have worked. If I were you, I would’ve told the girl “you let me know when we can have a real date where it’s just the two of us” and walked away
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:24 PM
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That was the move of a guy who knows his value. Don’t put up with someone who disrespects you like that, just walk away.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:17 PM
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What’s up with that? I feel less attractive because I mainly get OBVIOUS attention from the less attractive women. Is there something about the less attractive women that makes them more bold than the prettier ones?
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:50 PM
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Alcohol helps me. Weed hinders me. I just think so much slower when I’m high and I lose my wit. Alcohol might hinder me a bit at times too, but it also numbs my senses to the point where I also don’t care either
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:07 PM
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You’re talking about Asia Argento. There’s also a good chance that Anthony Bourdain’s suicide was related to these incidents. There is a special place in hell for that woman who commits statutory rape and yet screams to the top of her lungs about sexual assault. Also, I give a lot of respect to Rose McGowan. She’s been pretty vocal about women like Asia Argento and Alyssa Milano have weaponized the movement for their own political agendas
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:23 PM
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My literal thoughts exactly, lmaooo!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:07 AM
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I’m very much against it. I’ve noticed that when I come up with more unique compliments like complimenting her hair or her clothes that I get a better reaction.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:53 AM
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22 yrs old. Been in 3 relationships and never cheated. I’ve been cheated on and the pain that caused me is the type of pain I wouldn’t even wish on my worst enemy. I would never want to cause someone else that kind of pain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:21 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I just had a VERY similar experience with this hot cheerleader last week. Same exact thing, she’d get flirty and handsy with me and we’d make out, then all of a sudden she grows distant. Some girls just want attention dude. Plz do not let there chics live in your head rent free. They just want attention. If they weren’t hot chics, society would look at them as total losers. They are not worth your time of day.
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:09 PM
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I think it would make a difference considering all the incels that have caused acts of violence. There’s certainly some of it that has absolutely resulted from sexual frustration in men and I think prostitution could be a legitimate antidote for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:50 AM
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It depends what your priorities are. In my experience with women, the ones that gave it up easy to me also gave it up easy to a lot of guys. Those women also often cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:33 AM
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It’s always weird for my like that too. I go through periods where it’s almost like I’m a woman repellent. Then I go through other periods where women never leave me alone. I wonder how much of that is in my control often times
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:49 AM
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Same reason why guys sleep with girls they’re not attracted to. We’re all people who make mistakes from time to time. It’s perfectly human Edit: a girl can still find you physically attractive and not be “super” comfortable around you. If you’re a good looking dude, you can be on the receiving end of this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:13 AM
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When a girl likes you, she makes you wait. When you wait, the sex is better and more intimate because she feels more comfortable around you due to the fact that she took more time to get to know you. Im a guy and even I understand this concept
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:52 PM
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I experienced this realization too around high school with a girl I used to go to middle school with. I was into her, but after she was awkward with me I stopped liking her. How uncomfortable she was was making me uncomfortable and I started avoiding her
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:57 AM
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Let me know how hot it is in hell
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:45 PM
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If i were you, I’d get a private investigator
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:54 PM
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Let’s put it this way. I wouldn’t have gotten the success I’ve had with women if I didn’t expose myself to those books and videos. If I didn’t learn the tricks that I learned, women wouldn’t even give me the time of day. Am I a little bit of a fuck boy? Honestly, kind of. But if there’s one thing I wish women knew about me is that I’m not scared of entering relationships and I don’t treat women poorly. I love taking girls out to dinner and doing fun things with them. But I just don’t feel that m…
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:36 PM
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Relationships where you love and lust each other are the best. Who doesn’t want to be best friends with their partner? That’s what real love is man
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:25 PM
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Ok, here’s a post that I (M 22) can relate very much to and I’d like to share my story. Around October my girlfriend who is absolutely gorgeous broke up with me and left me for another dude. Not only were we best friends but we also were very physically attracted to each other. She was absolutely beautiful too. She was the type of girl that has loads of simps constantly throwing money at her to get her attention. She didn’t even want that kind of attention, but it just came to her regardless of …
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:02 AM
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This is what I would do if I were you. When there is an opportunity for you two to be alone, you should try to find a way to hold hands with her while facing her and making good eye contact and smiling. I would try to make a comment on her hands like “I like your nails, may I see them?”. And then after a while let there be a moment of silence and you tell her you like her and ask her out. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Learn to take risk man, girls like that
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:14 AM
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I've had women at bars/clubs approach me first, ask for my number, and then still not respond when I reach out to them. It truly drives me insane sometimes how fickle women can be. I’m glad to see that even other women get annoyed by this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:00 PM
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Dude, you keep outing yourself time and time again. You clearly don’t know anything about women. I mentioned these things because these are the things that women are attracted to. This is how I get laid
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:02 PM
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It’s literally the advice you should give young men if you want to create incels. It’s beyond stupid. As if I’m supposed to “work on myself” and women are just supposed to magically fall out of the sky
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:01 PM
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You demonstrate your value in so many ways. The way you act, the way you dress, your body language, making eye contact, being confident, using smooth lines, and passing women’s shit tests. No one is born knowing these things. It’s not a state of being, it’s a skill you have to learn. You have to learn these skills and demonstrate them.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:59 PM
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When I say “selling” yourself, I mean that you have to demonstrate that you are a high value man. That’s how you get women attracted to you.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:53 PM
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That’s the second time you’ve called me an incel. Are you going to use your brain and actually argue the points I made? Or are you gonna tap out and admit you don’t know anything? Edit: I’m editing my comment because you clearly just edited yours. Is English your first language? When I say “selling” yourself, I mean that you have to demonstrate that you are a high value man. That’s how you get women attracted to you
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:50 PM
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How is that not similar? In evolutionary biology, it’s a known fact that women are the gate keepers to sex. Until very recently with the invention of birth control, during the vast majority of time that humans have existed on this earth, having sex with a woman meant that she’d get pregnant. Despite the fact that we have all these modern day advancements, our brains haven’t evolved and adapted to these changes. We are basically apes living in a modern day progressive society and still have a lot…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:48 PM
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Dude this is retarded. I used to work in sales. When you’re trying to pick up a chic, you’re essentially selling yourself to her. Why the hell would I ever ask the customer for advice on how I can sell to them? They don’t know anything about sales techniques. I obviously would have more luck asking advice from other sales reps with more success than me.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:40 PM
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You are blue pilled AF. You should check out Alexander Grace
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:35 PM
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This is nonsense. In psychology, it’s a known fact that women score higher than men on agreeableness. Also men score higher than women on assertiveness. Because of this, women are less likely to get involved in confrontation and therefore probably won’t say hurtful things even if they are true and need to be said. Women are ABSOLUTELY more likely than men to give answers to questions that are misleading. The important thing to remember is that women are not intentionally trying to mislead men. I…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:32 PM
2

It’s the most bull shit advice that keeps constantly being thrown around here on so many subreddits
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:27 PM
1

Only way you can get girls to approach you is if you have drugs. When I start smoking weed outside a bar, the ladies come to me
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:30 AM
2

What else do you want? Fish to start flying?
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:27 AM
12

I’m 5’8 (22 yrs old) and I pull. Not all the time, but I go out 1-2 nights a week and pull a new girl every 1-2 months. If I’m being honest, I’m a good looking guy who’s in shape, but I’d never be able to stand a chance if it weren’t for my confidence, social skills and humor. I read books, listen to podcasts and watch a lot of stand up comedy in order to sharpen my skills because when I’m at a party, I strive to be the coolest guy in the place. These are the types of things you gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:53 AM
2

Exactly this. You can work on yourself but you also have to be a social person who enjoys talking to people
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:00 AM
1

Back in the days when Jim Jeffries was based
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:24 AM
1

How does teeth on your dick feel good? I feel like I’m talking to virgins, lmao
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:04 AM
2

Really? Was that accurate?
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:50 PM
3

You just described my dream woman. I also don’t want to have the deal with a partner that gets hit on all the time. A little bit here and there, but if it’s all the time, that would drive me crazy
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:48 PM
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I’m sorry, but this is so unbelievably tone deaf. No woman who is honest would ever want to get in a relationship with a guy she is friends with. Should you respect women? Absolutely. But you can’t treat a woman you’re romantically interested in as a friend. That’s nonsense. You have to treat her more intimately if you want an intimate relationship.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:39 PM
2

Holy fuck!!! Is that girl currently on suicide watch?
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:25 PM
14

I don’t want to put OP down, but only guys who have never received a PHENOMENAL BJ say stuff like him. Only about 20% of the women I’ve been with give good BJs. Once you have a really good one, an average one is no longer fun anymore
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:23 PM
0

Wtf planet are you on?
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:21 PM
4

I’d say the average guy doesn’t even know what a good BJ is. In my opinion, unless a guy has been with at least 10 partners ranging from the ages of 18-40, he doesn’t even know the difference between a bad, average, and phenomenal BJ.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:20 PM
0

I have no idea why you'd want a relationship with somebody you don't respect as a friend first anyway What did I misunderstand exactly? 🤔
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:17 PM
2

You are so ridiculous. How is OP not respecting women?
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:08 PM
4

Because the advice you’re giving out is trash. What happens to you if you try to be friends with a woman you want to be intimate with? You go right for the friend zone. Yes, there are some cases where a guy and lady are friends and develop an intimate relationship. But to act like this is the norm that happens all the time is so disingenuous. Women don’t want to get in relationships with guys they are friends with, that’s why women start wanting you after you cut them off and they see you with a…
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:07 PM
2

This is the best advice I’ve seen so far
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:55 PM
8

Black pilled and based!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:48 AM
1

Same here. I’m not looking for a relationship, but now I’m starting to wonder if I could even get one if I wanted one
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:10 PM
5

I just think it’s better for appearances to have my man doing stuff for me publicly and I do stuff for him privately. I’d still be unashamedly open that I love him. It’s more of an acts of service thing. This is a MAJOR red flag OP. This is really controlling and manipulative and shows what you want just to be seen in the way you want publicly. I wouldn’t want to date someone if I knew this about them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:36 PM
11

Yeah OP, I keep seeing this over and over again from you. You keep using the term simping incorrectly. Your boyfriend who loves you and shows you love in your committed relationship is not simping. Simping is when a guy goes out of his way to please a woman who clearly doesn’t have feelings for him and is never ever going to date him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:31 PM
1

Ok sorry. Hey the internet is hard to convey messages man 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:24 PM
1

r/whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:20 PM
0

I have a wife who likes to fuck much bigger guys than me in front of me. It’s a really enjoyable experience. I don’t understand why it gets a bad rap. I don’t get to touch my wife nor sexually reciprocate my love to her in any way because she’s repulsed by me. What’s not to love? I’m in on the fun and having so much of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:17 PM
1

I’m totally with you. A big reason why I’ve learned to enjoy pickup is because I’m basically thrill seeking as an adrenaline junky. It feels sooo good to be that guy amongst your group of friends who is the only one with the balls to go talk to that 10/10 girl. So what if you get rejected? Just by making that move, you’ve proven yourself better than 95% of guys. And I’m with you on the “different state of being” thing. I also become a completely different person when I see someone I’m attracted …
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:13 PM
2

The vast majority of animal species are NOT MONOGAMOUS. The only ones I can even name off hand are sea horses, swans and penguins. I see the pattern that you keep doing. You keep looking for exceptions in your life and the real world and trying to use that as a way to debunk the generalizations I’m making. Often times in life, it’s the exception that defines the rule. Because some of the things you mentioned happen so rarely, it gives me the right to make generalizations about things that occur …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:10 PM
3

Studies are 100x more reliable than anecdotes. I actually do have real life experience, but only an idiot would think that would be more reliable than empirical evidence conducted through studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:05 PM
30

No, sometimes men are literally not allowed to have an opinion. That’s why feminists will talk about certain subjects and proudly say that men shouldn’t have a say on that subject
/r/MensRights11/01/22 12:24 PM
2

Actually this is one of the most accurate things I’ve ever read and I’m gonna repeat this in a conversation with my friends soon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:02 PM
2

You clearly don’t understand Darwinian theory. You just basically described monogamy which is a human made idea. In Darwinian theory, there is no monogamy and the alpha male or leader in the tribe would get majority of the women. That is still scene today despite how drilled in society the monogamy is. Leaders of our country, rich powerful billionaires and famous celebrities can bang almost any women they want and even take women from guys they are already committed to because those are our mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:48 AM
4

What evidence do you have to support your view? I’ve literally never heard of this and it’s in complete denial of Darwinian theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:31 AM
1

Dm me and let me know how it goes. I want a full field report ;)
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:56 AM
1

Exactly. You can’t hesitate. It helps a lot for me that I’ve also learned to love the rush. I’m an adrenaline junky so taking chances for me in general is a lot of fun. This might sound lame but when I was more hesitant when I was much younger (I’m 22), I used to have a rubber band on my wrist. Whenever I’d hesitate to do something like raise my hand, I’d count to three and then pull the rubber band and let it snap on me and then I’d do it. Helped me a lot in life actually
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:50 AM
0

Some excitement and a little bit of nervousness. I’m still experimenting on some stuff. As of right now, i like to give a nod and a smile with an occasional wink. If it’s reciprocated, then I walk up to her and say “you can’t stare at me like that without saying hi”. I used to be scared, especially when first getting back out there just fresh after the breakup. I had to get rejected a lot to reduce the anxiety. It’s still there, but just not as bad anymore. The key is to not think and just do. S…
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:43 AM
1

I totally agree. The longer you wait the worse it is, and I’ve missed many opportunities because of that. I’ve also noticed that women almost have short attention spans and lose interest quickly. It can be really easy to go from interested to boring to creepy in the eyes of a woman which gives you more reason to act within the first 5 seconds. The key is to get out of your own way and give yourself less time to think. More time to think = more tendency to hesitate. As far as what I think in the …
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:35 AM
6

I’m the opposite. I’m more likely to approach a girl if I find her attractive. I find myself losing incentive when I don’t find her that attractive
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:27 AM
2

Dude, if this is satire, then this is one of the funniest things I’ve ever read
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:37 AM
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Same here. This shit radicalizes me sometimes. I try to remember that not all women are like that
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:22 AM
3

And add to the fact that women are also chasing education and careers and actually don’t really need men to take care of them (a lot of them), I’m sure that gives them even more reason about being passive about finding a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:10 AM
0

How are you dateless if you have a decent job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:51 AM
3

Yeah, but sometimes they do that on purpose cause they want to get you to chase. I’ve hooked up with girls like that. Don’t just give up just because they don’t text you one time not right away
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:37 AM
7

I agree with you and follow the “three strikes and you’re out” rule. My last Hail Mary attempt is usually “I didn’t think you were the flakey type” or “if you’re not interested, just let me know if I should stop trying”. Those two have worked for me the best and have always gotten a response back at the bare minimum
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:35 AM
4

I’m disappointed in the comments here. Shit tests ABSOLUTELY exists. It usually comes from a place of insecurity from the girl because she’s afraid that you’ll hurt her. A prime example of this is when you flirt with a girl and she says “you’re a player, aren’t you?” or “I bet you say that to all the girls”. It 100% comes from a place of insecurity in the girl.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:08 AM
1

You’re making me thing harder about this than I’d rather want to. 1. I was trying to take home the girl I was making out with. She was DTF, but made it clear that I wanted to make her wait. I went along with it and one date in, I decided that I wasn’t interested in her, I was just drunk and horny that night. 2. I would’ve definitely gone for the blonde if I had a chance again. I talked to one of her friends who said she had just broken up with her bf and was looking to hook up with another guy. …
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:38 AM
1

It was really weird. I had a little bit of a struggle with her because I didn’t want her anymore. It was almost as if she was trying to cock block me, but was being also being flirty with me. I got her to eventually go away and be alone with the other girl that I ended up making out with (nothing else happened). Like I said, she was trying to go for me, but my ego got in the way. That’s what drives me crazy about women. They really want what they can’t have.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:15 AM
1

Yeah, this has happened a few times. I’ll never forget one specific night when I was at a club and there was this blonde hottie that I was trying to dance with. She was a little drunk, but I tried dancing with her and we danced a bit but then she later pushed me off her. I assumed she wasn’t interested. Then I later started putting some moves on a less attractive girl outside on the balcony. She came out and saw me talking to her and inserted herself in the conversation and was clearly trying to…
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:04 AM
1

So because I have a dick, I can’t have an opinion? That’s retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:40 AM
4

Bad ass dude. Hold on. You seem to have dropped this 👑
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:40 AM
3

There’s been sooo many times when I’ve been to a bar/club and I go for a girl and make it clear that I’m into her and then she rejects me. Once she sees me talking to another girl and getting along a little bit, then she starts to get jealous and want me. Girls want what they can’t have. It’s something that has always driven me crazy about them.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:31 AM
2

No, there’s a lot of fat people, both men and women who are def butt hurt about people not being attracted to them. It’s just people who are too lazy and not willing to put in the work to better themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:35 AM
1

You just described me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:34 AM
10

Thank you for the honesty. I’m tired of people acting like there’s something wrong with not being attracted to fat people. We’re literally hardwired to not be attracted to that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:52 PM
1

This is interesting. I don’t have a HUGE nose, but it’s def bigger than average and it’s one of the physical features that I’m most insecure about. I’m starting to find out that a lot of women actually are into that and actually like my nose
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:37 PM
10

So true. The guy who made the documentary “the social dilemma” highlighted this
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:36 AM
1

I view it exactly the same as when girls post photos on social media that is clearly showing off their boobs and/or ass. The response is always “WE dOn’T dO iT FOr yOU, wE dO iT fOr oURsElVes”. As a result women expect us to play this stupid game where they’re clearly whoring for attention but pretend like they don’t know what they’re doing and also simultaneously expect us guys to pretend like we don’t know what they’re doing as well. It’s insanely obnoxious and extremely unattractive. I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:52 AM
1

That’s really nice to hear. Thanks for the perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:40 PM
1

I talk to other women to get another perspective. The same way that there are a lot of guys that are invisible to women, there are also plenty of women that are invisible to guys. These women that are invisible don’t experience the luxuries that attractive women get to experience. That’s the only thing that I was trying to get at. That doesn’t make me a LARPer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 PM
1

All I can say is that you have to develop a thicker skin. Don’t ever let a woman’s perception of you dictate your self esteem. If you do, you’ll be just as miserable as your average girl on the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:14 PM
1

There are nights where I face nothing but rejection. That’s ok for me tho. You shouldn’t take it personally. I enjoy putting myself out there and at the very least making new friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:38 PM
1

I’ve never pretended to be a chic. In the real world nor online
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:35 PM
1

When things were opening back up where I live, I was cold approaching like crazy and having some success. It was a lot of fun actually. I’d go out with friends and do something at the mall and while doing that, I’d see some chics and go talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:33 PM
3

No dumb ass. I’ve never lied about my gender. WTF?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:46 AM
3

I’m a guy. I was trying to point out to you the real world outside your point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:34 AM
1

I’m really sorry to hear that. I promise you that I only meant good things. I don’t think you’re a woman hater, I was only making a comparison because that’s how you sounded to me. I wish you the best and hope your life improves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:33 AM
1

Ok, now I’m interested
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:24 AM
2

I think you just described me as a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:21 AM
3

How is that relevant? Neither do women. You know that there are some women in the real world that almost NEVER get approached? Try to notice them in the real world. They’ll be with their hot friends and completely get ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:19 AM
0

Listen, is tinder a hookup app or a dating app? Cause women get pissed that guys look for sex when it’s a hook up app, but there are also plenty of guys that genuinely want a relationship on there and still can’t get matches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:09 AM
2

Sorry, but the same thing can be said for the other way around. There are also incels that punch way too high above them and also have nothing to offer to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:07 AM
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Sorry dude, I’m sure you’ve had it rough, but you might want to consider re-evaluating yourself. Maybe something is off about you and you might just be unaware of it. You remind me very much of man hating feminists I know that struggle in the dating scene and are totally oblivious to how unattractive they are both inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:02 AM
1

Dude wtf? Do you live under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:52 AM
1

That is true. I do cold approach, and I’ve noticed depending where you are that it can get kinda tense in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:51 AM
3

No, but now it’s even worse. For example, we just got mask mandates again and people are going out less where I live. It’s now harder to pick up girls at the mall (my favorite spot for cold approach), and now I can only go to coffee shops and try to approach women. I def have less freedom during Covid, but I refuse to do OLD for the same reasons being stated in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:50 AM
4

I feel like cold approach is more intense now then it might’ve been back then cause people are less social now. But back before social media, it must’ve been fine, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:46 AM
5

Exactly, another example of a chic explaining how she understands what it’s like to be a dude, but then outs herself mid-explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:42 AM
3

LMAOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:38 AM
3

This might actually be real. It’s def true for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:02 AM
79

Honestly, I’m not even mad and agree with the same when it comes to women. So many women think they’re “queens” when their egos could use a reality check. When I factor in things like weight and what women look like with no makeup, I consider myself to be better looking than 90% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:51 AM
1

That’s usually what I use. Is that good or bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:05 PM
13

I agree with this. However, it still doesn’t negate the fact that women ESPECIALLY give TERRIBLE dating advice to men. I don’t believe for a single second that they’re doing this on purpose and are trying to set men up for failure. I think women just have a lack of perspective and don’t realize they have a completely different set of standards for men depending on the level of attraction that they have for them. The biggest issue for us men is that we don’t know how attracted to us you ladies ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:28 PM
1

Weed? yes. Shrooms? Fuck no. Not sure what planet he’s on
/r/seduction28/12/21 06:55 PM
2

This would be great advice if we lived in a perfect utopian society where all women were as direct as you. But a lot of women aren’t into that and want playful banter. That’s why it’s literally called “game”. Women can ask that question and get away with it, but the average guy just can’t. I don’t mean to come off bitter, but it’s just the way it is. Guys need better flirting skills than asking questions that come off so strong it might scare the girl away
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:29 AM
1

The reasoning behind it is because “do you have a bf?” is just too strong of a question to ask if you don’t know the girl. If you only know her on a first name basis, she doesn’t want to feel like you want to be her bf cause that would be coming off way too strong. It’s a very black and white question that causes even women who are into you to maybe panic and say yes just because it comes off strong. “Do you have a man in your life?” is just a much sexier question period and women are flattered …
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:23 AM
2

Totally agree with you. I saw an Austin Summers vid where he covered this. Instead, you should ask “are you seeing anyone?” Or even better “Do you have a man in your life?” That line alone has scored me some points in mediocre approaches
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:00 AM
2

Dude, you are a douche and a half
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:18 PM
1

Oh buddy. Let me pray for you. You’ve seriously lost. Abandon her and move on. Use this as a lesson to learn from. Start escalating and showing interest next time.
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:04 PM
4

Honestly, I kind of agree with the “female”. If I’m serious about seeing the girl, I’ll respond right away it I can. If she’s still playing hard to get after, then it makes it easier to move on. When you get caught up in those stupid games, it could quite literally drag on for ever and you never know where you stand
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:48 PM
1

Please, drink bleach
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:50 PM
1

Buddy, if that’s your game, it def needs work. First opener should be something like “hey, I saw you while I was walking over there. Your black shirt looked sick and it matches my jacket, I just couldn’t help but come say hi”. Sometimes I can’t think of something unique and my back up line is “how much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. Hi I’m Ben. See you’re not the only one who can be cute ;)” That line works 3/4 of the time cause I’m not emphasizing on her looks like you, I’m c…
/r/seduction09/12/21 06:37 AM
1

I bet your success rate would be higher if you texted them a little in between the time of approach and date. Not a lot, but just a little. Like “how was your day, I did xyz, did you do anything crazy today?” You have to keep them somewhat engaged if your date is 3 days from the time of approach or else they’re obviously gonna flake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:46 PM
1

Possibly, you look like someone I’d hit on ;) But I’m 22
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:41 PM
-5

Certainly not a pedophile, but depending on the situation the 20 year old could be a groomer. There’s a huge difference between a 20 yr old and 16 yr old. That’s why they don’t have the same rights.
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:56 AM
3

I have various plays that I like to pull that I’ve come up with on my own. The main thing that has worked for me is just making good eye contact with the girl, being confident and flirtatious. When I see that we have some sexual chemistry and that I’m having an effect on her then I try to touch her hand and make some comments on them (nail polish, temperature of hands, softness, etc). Sometimes I’ll give a palm read. Eventually I try to put her hands on my shoulders, keep the eye contact strong,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:20 AM
1

I’m 22 and really into attractive older women. How would you react if someone like me approached you? I get a wide range of reactions from the Milfs
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:19 PM
2

This is BIG. It really is about mind set. When I go out, I just want to have a good time and when I see an attractive girl, my main focus is now getting her to like me. Before, when I was sex obsessed, I’d get nervous and fuck up. Now that sex isn’t the end goal anymore, I see better results in my game
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:38 PM
1

I still have it sometimes, but now that I’m out of a long term relationship, I now have the freedom to approach all the women I want. The thrill of being free again is stronger than my fear of rejection. My problem is that sometimes it makes me a little too bold sometimes, which the shy girls do not like at all
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:30 PM
3

I’m really glad to hear this. I just got out of a serious long term relationship and I’m trying really hard to put myself out there and approach a lot of women. Unfortunately, I have a cell phone full of #s but I just can’t seem to land a date. It gets me down sometimes, but after seeing this, I’m gonna keep my chin up. Thank you!
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:46 AM
9

You must be a seriously good looking dude. I’m a decent looking dude myself. I’m only 5’8 and sometimes get discouraged about my height, but you’re so right, as I have gotten better with game using my confidence, wit, and charm, I’ve gotten better results. Like you said, I’ve noticed that looks, while they may help, are certainly NOT EVERYTHING. I’ve also gotten that too. I’ve had times when girls were interested in me by my looks too and they just start slowly shutting down the more I talk to t…
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:15 AM
8

From now on, practice making eye contact with ALL women you meet. Start off with women that you’re not interested in at all. Use that as practice. Then gradually you’ll start getting better with the women that you are actually attracted to
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:08 AM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/08/14/why-the-former-ussr-has-far-fewer-men-than-women/%3famp=1
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:11 AM
15

Before Covid, i was doing pretty well with the ladies, now I’m grinding back straight from scratch. It’s a grind dude. I’ve had some success tho, keep working hard and bettering yourself dude. Keep believing in yourself, you got this
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:14 AM
9

Yeah, OP isn’t looking for self improvement. He’s looking for pity and validation. Sorry, it’s tough being a man in this world, and he can’t get away with that shit 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:53 AM
51

I’ve been looking at a lot of your responses OP, and your attitude sucks. Do you really think the average woman wants to bang a guy that her friend was with? Women talk a lot. If these guys get a reputation as players, some women will still go for them, but less will. You need to become friends with them, maybe ask them to help you out a little bit. There’s a lot of women that you can try it out with. If one isn’t feeling you, you can just move on to another so easily in your position. You think…
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:32 AM
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Jesus Christ, is that really all you got out of my comment? It’s not relevant, but you’re in a situation with a PHENOMENAL guy to girl ratio. Usually, guys have to go all the way to Eastern Europe to have that kind of opportunity. Take advantage
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:24 AM
182

First off, I’d like to just tell you how lucky you are to be in the situation you’re in. I’d kill to have the chance that you have. If I were to guess, it sounds like you don’t have much experience with girls. There’s a good possibility that you come off as desperate and needy and you don’t even realize it, HOWEVER, even the dumbest of chics can smell that shit from a mile away. I’d recommend using this as an opportunity to learn how to be comfortable talking with women. Use this as a giant oppo…
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:22 AM
2

Vous pouvez le faire!
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:55 AM
1

This is one thing I want to improve on in my game. Approaching a woman in a store is hard AF
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:00 PM
3

Dude, approaching women is scary. I’ve done it so many times that I’m not afraid of rejection anymore, but OP said he just started. In the beginning, it was really hard for me. I really had to force myself out of my shell
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:51 PM
2

Only someone that would do what he does clearly lacks empathy. So I’d rather argue to what benefits him to hopefully make him stop doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:40 AM
3

There’s no difference in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:15 AM
2

The best part is that I’m into cougars too. What kind of bars should I look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:24 AM
2

That’s smart AF. That’s not lame at all. I’ve never thought of this. I’m gonna do this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:21 AM
3

Imagine putting effort in a girl you don’t even like. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:08 AM
13

Just because it’s not happening to you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:28 AM
5

I’m 5’8. You’d be surprised how often I get dismissed by women purely because of my height. Especially short girls who are 6 inches shorter than me will often be pretty open about their opinion of my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:38 AM
1

In my city (Buffalo) every club except for one to my knowledge is 18+
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:30 AM
2

Fuck those guys. My first and only love was my best friend. Now that I’m single again, I won’t settle for anything less. Enjoy your match made in heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:05 AM
6

Get on that shit now. This is a HUGE turn off for a guy. Most guys would rather be alone than be in a relationship with girls like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:01 AM
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It’s evolutionarily built into us. We’re wired to think like that. Birth control was only recently invented compared to how long we’re been on this earth and our evolution still hasn’t caught up yet. Before birth control, sex meant that you would reproduce and that your family lineage would continue. Sex for men quite literally equals survival
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:53 AM
18

This right here. I hate how both political parties always want to make certain things a race issue, when it is sooo clearly way more a gender issue. Affirmative action is another great example of this
/r/MensRights21/11/21 12:47 AM
2

I get used to get nervous in public. I’ve met people with anxiety (even dated a girl once with it), so I sympathize with it. When I was anxious, I would start simple. Let’s say I was at a bar. I’d start talking to only guys there. I’d hang with the dudes for a while and then after hanging there, then I’d start approaching ladies. When women see that you’re social, they’re much more open and receptive to you. So that was the method I started using when I first started picking up women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:10 AM
2

Yeah, but I like dating and talking to women, so I don’t mind putting in the work. Sometimes you start liking the chase. But if you prefer to focus on your career, good for you. I like focusing on both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:49 AM
6

Oh honey 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:41 PM
10

SOOO TRUE!!! Preach!!!
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:31 PM
6

I somewhat agree. I think if a woman does it, it’s not “as bad”, but it’s still bad and that needs to be acknowledged. Be an adult and communicate your interest to the guy instead of invading his personal space, like wtf?
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:24 PM
3

Is this really what women do to try to make it OBVIOUS when you like a guy? I would never be able to tell you liked me if you gave me hints that shitty
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:54 PM
1

It’s not relevant. According to the studies, women swipe right 14% of the time. This is in general, so it doesn’t matter how big the sample size is if the men. Women in general will swipe right at the same rate regardless of how many men are there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:26 PM
1

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:06 PM
1

That’s interesting. Life really is cruel to men. When you’re at your horniest, you get the least attention from women. And as you get older and want sex less, you get more attention. Shit blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:44 PM
1

Ok, actually, I know the type of dudes you’re specifically referring to. I actually have friends like that in my friend group. You’re talking about guys that are very social but they don’t have the guts to flirt or hit on a girl. I know guys that have both, and they do as well as me if not better. You’re right tho, that as a man, you have to put more effort than women and that does get me down every once in a while. I’ve heard that the dynamics change once men start getting more successful in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:32 PM
1

I’m 22. You’re just gonna have to accept that as a guy, you’re not gonna have women approaching you and going out of their way to take you to dinner like a 22 yr old girl would. That’s life. I take ownership over my dating life and approach women that I find attractive at the bar/club or park/mall. I’m flirtatious with them and unapologetic about it. If I see a girl that I find attractive, I let her know and tell her that I want to take her out for dinner. That’s just me, and I do pretty well wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:30 PM
2

Oh, that’s an easy answer my friend. Women love the validation. It’s basically the online equivalent of a girl friend-zoning a guy or having beta-male orbiters around her. It’s all about boosting the ego. My rule in life is that a girl is not into me unless I make out with her. Even then I’ve had a few times when we made out and she wasn’t into me. Women can be fickle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:22 PM
1

Dude, I’m the guy you’re describing. I just got out of a serious relationship. Being social has gotten me 5x the results I would’ve gotten if I solely relied on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:36 PM
1

That’s not relevant. Studies have shown that the 80/20 rule is very accurate regardless of what the raw numbers are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:33 PM
1

I like how you call it “fools gold”, because that’s exactly how I view it. A shit ton of available women that will never be available FOR YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:32 PM
1

I’m on my way out of university and having this problem. Now I only meet girls at bars/clubs. Sometimes if I’m really feeling it, I’ll go to parks and coffee shops just to approach girls. Basically, women aren’t coming to me as easily, so now I have to go to the women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:19 PM
5

I’ve had so many women not care at all about the boundaries of other men and then go rant on social media about how men need to respect their boundaries. I honestly don’t even know how to manage this epidemic of impossibly oblivious women
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:08 PM
-3

Maybe lower your standards? No offense, but your comment made me really sad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:36 AM
6

I’m very against verbally asking out the waitress. She’s nice to you just so she can be paid in tips, so if she’s giving you googly eyes or being flirtatious, even if it seems genuine, unfortunately because of the circumstance, you have to take it with a grain of salt. If a waitress who is cute is like that with me, I leave a big tip and then leave my # on the receipt. Sometimes they text me, sometimes they don’t. But I’d rather not get the text back than but a waitress in an impossibly awkward …
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:28 AM
4

And women on average are having more sex than men, so they’re more likely to carry diseases, but I don’t even think that’s honestly relevant. I think women ask that to me because they’re either nosey or they think I’m a player. (I’m a decent looking guy btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:24 AM
3

What’s interesting is that I get this question from a lot of women, but I honestly don’t really care how many a woman has
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:56 AM
1

I’ve always hated the catching a fish analogy. When you’re trying to get a date with a girl, you’re essentially selling yourself to her like a salesman. If I wanted to learn sales techniques and be able to close deals, I’d never ask the customer for advice, I’d only ask other successful salesmen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:15 PM
2

You literally just described me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:10 PM
3

Bro, I’ve had many average nights, some PHENOMENAL nights and some really shitty nights. Last night I had a decent night out. I got 4 numbers and made out with someone. Last week I had a really shitty night out where I got rejected by every girl I approached and even lost my phone. I could’ve let last week’s bad experience let me down last night, but instead I decided to brush it off and start new. Just go out with the intention of having a good time and girls will want to be around you. They wo…
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:39 PM
2

Sounds like you hit the jackpot. It’s hard to find people that you have really good chemistry with. Keep it going!
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:27 PM
11

I wish I had a time machine and stopped dating apps from being a thing. The dating scene is so stupid now and it’s now all of a sudden become old fashioned to approach a girl you like in public
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:23 PM
-2

That’s not the point I was trying to make. Guys like you that have “good profiles” get their pics professionally taken. I’m not willing to put that much effort to wow some girls that have 1000+ matches. A few years ago I put a decent amount of effort and it didn’t work out, it did for you and congrats to you. I’m gonna stick to the real world, that’s where I get laid
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:07 PM
3

THIS!!! I’m a 22 yr old that hates social media. Women think I’m crazy now because I ask for their # instead of Snapchat which is always the go to. It’s like the other lady was saying. It’s almost as if there’s this social stigma that wanting the number is pushy now, but I want it because it comes off as more genuine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:55 PM
2

THIS!!! I hate social media for a lot of reasons and really don’t care if a girl is popular on it or not. It bothers the fuck out of me when young women judge you for your lifestyle choice and automatically assume you’re a loser, meanwhile most people on there are faking how great their lives are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:49 PM
1

Yeah, I go through this sometimes. Kind of annoying but I try not to give it too much thought. I refuse to do social media because it makes people try to be something they’re not, and I can’t stand people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:43 PM
2

I wish that were true. I hate social media and have almost no tolerance for superficial BS that people clearly use to cope. I personally haven’t found girls who think it’s a plus that I have little social media presence. To be fair, I’m also only 22 so maybe it’s the older crowd that would be more into it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:38 PM
7

Yeah, this is exactly why I can’t do dating apps. There’s so many complications and effort that needs to be put for little to no results. Not to mention how much competition there is. This is why I have more success in the real world. I’d rather compete in the real world, a world where most guys don’t have the guts to approach a girl and flirt with her rather than a superficial one where every woman has 1000+ guys sliding in her DMs
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:38 PM
1

I agree with you, but this is a guy who needs to build his confidence. Congratulate my mans
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:46 AM
3

You are my spirit animal. I also love riding that thin line while I pick up girls. When I’m there, I feel like I’m at the peak of my night in every way, and the confidence transfers over to my game.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:37 AM
2

OP, you’re so god damn nervous cause you’re placing the chic on too high of a pedestal. I’ve messed up with many women that I prob could’ve gotten with had I not. I’d apologize, own up to it, then ask if I can make it up to her. Sometimes it works, sometimes it don’t, a lot is out of your control rn so chill out and lower your expectations. There are other fish in the sea
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:33 AM
1

My hero
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:13 AM
9

As a younger guy (22), do you think you could share with me some of your best advice? Or maybe some things you’d tell your younger self?
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:08 AM
1

Good message. The way you described your ideal guy is actually the guy that I try to be. I doubt myself sometimes, so it makes me feel really good that I’m doing the right thing.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:02 AM
6

Totally agree with you. I’m trying more day game now because I only meet low quality women as soon as the sun goes down. I don’t like the way I look at women when I’m constantly surrounded by toxic women all the time too.
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:42 AM
1

Approach and texting etiquette- anyway works. Just you putting even an ounce of effort to show you’re interested in me goes a long way Foreplay- I love making out and giving love bites Date ideas- it’s Halloween and I’m taking a girl to a haunted house. Gonna try to be brave Bedroom- snooze
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:34 AM
10

Wow, I took notes
/r/MensRights26/10/21 01:30 AM
1

I wish I could’ve picked a couple options, but the fact that women believe so many lies that have been thoroughly been debunked so many times is the most frustrating thing to me about feminism
/r/MensRights24/10/21 04:39 PM
1

You can make a woman as rich as you want, your average guy doesn’t become more attracted to her. Most guys don’t care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:10 PM
0

I disagree. Hypergamy in women is a spectrum in itself and not all women have the same level of hypergamy in them. The woman who likes a guy for the primary reason of money and his other qualities might stay with him if he lost his money, you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:34 PM
2

No you silly goose. The survival of your genes. Some people will take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:06 PM
1

But that’s still on a spectrum of obviousness. I’d never judge a woman who had that as the main point, but also clearly likes other qualities in the guy. I become judgmental when it’s CLEARLY THE ONLY thing she likes in the guy. That’s not common, but I’d also argue that it’s not that rare
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:47 PM
2

Evolution and survival
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:11 PM
1

This is a good question that took me a while to think about. After being rejected by women countless times myself, I think my most pleasant rejections have been “sorry I can’t, I have a boyfriend. By the way, I like your....”. I’ve had women tell me that they have a boyfriend when I 100% know they don’t. I’m ok with this, because it’s a really nice way of telling me that they’re not interested in me. Also only give a guy a compliment if you really mean it. Disingenuous compliments are easier to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:58 PM
7

THIS!!! It might not be the case every single time, but I see it similarly to the incel mentality. The person sees themselves as a much higher SMV than they actually are and therefore their standards are just unrealistically high. Lower your standards. I have a list of things that I want in a partner and I’ve been really happy being in relationships with women that check 3/4 of my boxes. Nobody is “perfect” for you, but some people are very compatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:08 PM
9

I can count on one hand the number of guys I personally know that are either 5’6 or shorter. (I’m 5’8)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:04 PM
1

This absolutely happens, just doesn’t happen as frequently as the Redpillers want you to believe. The reason why is because it’s so obvious to everyone that sees it and people will definitely say nasty remarks about it behind your back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:54 PM
-11

Yeah, I’m with you. Even if it’s something I agree with, I can’t help but hate something that comes off too preachy for me
/r/MensRights19/10/21 09:29 PM
1

Hate the right because they’re too into Q-anon Hate the left cause they’re too into identity politics No one on either side is gonna sway me I’m staying in the center and looking for sane people
/r/MensRights15/10/21 06:34 PM
-1

Actually, I’m going to give a very controversial opinion right now and probably am going to be down voted to oblivion. I consider myself an MRA, but I like to focus more on legal issues like affirmative action, alimony, etc. This issue never really bothered me because as you stated, yes, most of the perpetrators are men. So having that said, the way we have to deal with this problem is on our own as men. On some of the legal issues, it’s more serious to me, because the enemies we are going to ha…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 09:15 AM
2

I feel you very much rn too. I’m also 22 (M) and REALLY into older women in their 30s. They’re really hot, but they’re everywhere. Just go to a bar and find another one
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:11 AM
2

It doesn’t sound to me like she was ever into you. It seems a lot more likely that she checked on you and initiated conversations in order to see that you were ok and to build rapport.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:55 AM
1

I’m so fascinated by lesbians. So often, a lot of you come off as needy simps, but no one hates you for it. It’s prob because no one sees you as threatening. I’m gonna repeat some advice I was told by a female friend of mine. “If you’re wondering if a girl likes you or not, she prob doesn’t.” Women often times let a guy know if she likes him. And when I say women, I mean real actual adults, not kids still in highschool
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:47 AM
13

Women will usually say it’s #1, sometimes they’ll say #3, but we all know it’s def #2 the majority of the time
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:27 AM
12

I’ve been there a few times. It sucks even more when you’re almost positive that she’s into you, but unfortunately the friends just HAVE to get in the way. One guy on here said that you need to involve the rest of the friends in the conversation, and he’s absolutely right. This is exactly why I prefer bars over clubs. It’s so almost impossible to engage the whole group when you have loud music
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:25 AM
6

Thanks, this is something that most men already know, but it feels good when someone actually admits that this is what really happens. It feels good when this is actually acknowledged because when women deny this, it drives us bonkers
/r/MensRights12/10/21 03:51 AM
3

Yeah sorry. I don’t even know what to say. Your story is just so unbelievable that I honestly don’t even know what or who to believe in this scenario
/r/MensRights08/10/21 10:21 PM
9

What in the fuck
/r/MensRights08/10/21 10:05 PM
2

Are you referring to the PC fraternity? Great episode
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:55 PM
2

Wait, on America that’s punishable my jail time in the majority of states. What is the UK’s laws?
/r/MensRights07/10/21 08:51 PM
2

This is exactly the type of comment that pushes this movement back. Just to let you know, I’m absolutely an MRA, but I also acknowledge certain issues that women face such as sexual harassment in the work place, legitimate concerns for their safety and struggles they have with maintaining their job/career when it comes to having kids. I keep telling other guys in this movement, that we have a responsibility in this movement to be better than the feminists. The media wants to label as as much as …
/r/MensRights07/10/21 08:05 PM
-2

It pains me to see how you said a perfectly reasonable and rational thing, yet get downvoted beyond oblivion. This is exactly the type of thing that keeps this movement back. The feminist movement is nothing but a bunch of reactionary and emotional people that just blame their boogeyman (patriarchy). Unfortunately there are too many people in this movement that see this and say “if they can do it, we should be able too”, instead of saying “these people are terrible, let’s set a better example”. …
/r/MensRights07/10/21 07:52 PM
2

Completely agree with you. I hate when guys turn this movement into an anti-feminist/anti-SJW reactionary movement. Most of feminism is about nothing more than reacting to very trivial things, and I see guys on this subreddit literally complain about that, and then show the same exact behavior themselves. I made a post one time talking about this and I didn’t get nearly as much support as I was hoping. The biggest things I care about are specific policies that are biased against men. Title IX, a…
/r/MensRights07/10/21 07:44 PM
1

A constant struggle on both sides is the constant dumb dichotomy that people won’t let go of which is feminist vs MRA. Just because you’re pro one side, does not at all mean you’re against the other. Both sides clearly are only pushing for their side and that’s ok. The one thing I have a HUGE problem with feminists is when they go out of their way to create obstacles for men by either being condescending and belittling them for talking about their problems and shutting down speeches and meetings…
/r/MensRights04/10/21 12:37 AM
3

Men have continuously acknowledged that. A reason that drives men to be MRAs is the constant media and societal focus on improving women’s overall well being in life and not at all paying attention to men falling behind in education and being victims of court biases when it comes to crime, marriage, and child custody. These are all areas where feminists claim to be fighters for, but in reality, it’s all talk and verbal gymnastics with no actions to follow. As many MRA’s will claim, I’m not a fem…
/r/MensRights04/10/21 12:30 AM
3

And this is exactly why men can’t talk about their problems and they just use suicide as the solution instead. Feminists just aren’t willing to listen.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 12:15 AM
8

Women: men never talk about their problems or feelings Men: I’m personally bothered by our alimony and child support laws. It makes me sad to see implementations like Title XI and affirmative action making huge disparities between men and women in education as well as taking away athletic opportunities from men. Women: wow, what a pussy
/r/MensRights01/10/21 08:58 PM
5

Yeah, it makes me scared too. I almost think that part doesn’t even make this worth it. But I’m totally free to letting people argue with me on it, cause I do think it’s a worthy cause
/r/MensRights01/10/21 08:37 PM
3

What a great nuanced view on the movement. You summed it up perfectly
/r/MensRights28/09/21 03:37 PM
1

Jeez dude, this really touched me because I feel exactly like you do and was the same as you before the lockdown. Only difference is that now I can finally get back out there, but I’m amazed in myself how unnatural it feels to be social again. Then again, it’s also a skill I haven’t used in a long time
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:16 PM
1

It’s not about “controlling women”, it’s about having even a little say over the outcome of our child which men currently do not have. As for the foster care system, have you done anything for it either?
/r/MensRights09/09/21 10:44 AM
3

This is a comment I needed to see. I don’t need a woman that’s on my side. I just need a woman that’s not against me.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 10:37 AM
1

Very well put. I completely agree
/r/MensRights11/05/21 08:41 AM
19

This right here gets me. A lot of feminists I argue with always support these scholarship opportunities and affirmative action policies because they think women in society have it hard and it evens the scales. I try to point out to them that while many women are getting opportunities, a lot of men like you who are probably capable of the exact same things are left behind and are invisible to society, thus not making these policies as leveling the playing field, but policies to enforce superiorit…
/r/MensRights08/05/21 06:40 PM
3

I hope you don’t mind me asking, but I’ve always been curious about women with your experience. What made you be on the side that you’re on? I’m against these kinds of policies, but the feminists that I argue with always make some points that seem ridiculous but maybe it’s still important to them. I’ve noticed that a lot of women do genuinely feel underrepresented and maybe it is tough being one of few women working in the field. I’ve heard also that sometimes women are discouraged from these po…
/r/MensRights08/05/21 06:25 PM
82

This is a great suggestion. I hate to be a downer, but I don’t think it will work with these people. This is why I think feminism is so cancerous. Their entire ideology DEEP ROOTED in the victimization of women. Thats why they believe in a patriarchy that’s keeping women down. They see men the ones who are oppressing women and that they need to dismantle the system that allows this. I’m honestly pretty nihilistic at the thought that these people can be reasoned with. Me personally in my pursuit …
/r/MensRights11/02/21 12:53 PM
1

No joke, someone recently this week posted something in the sub Reddit complaining about the M & M Super Bowl commercial cause a guy said “sorry for mansplaining”. I rolled my eyes for a second and moved on with my life. Don’t post about it and give it more attention than it deserves for fuck sakes.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 12:38 PM
1

Thank you!!! I don’t take feminism seriously because so many of them talk about such little trivial issues. Feminists don’t seem to care a about big issues that lead to the ruining of men’s lives as well as their deaths. I came to the Men’s rights movement to join the fight and tackle issues like that only to come here and find bull shit posts like this?!?!? Really mother fuckers?!!?!
/r/MensRights11/02/21 12:34 PM
1

How the fuck is it possible that she’s been charged 3 times already and you still don’t have custody?!!!?! Please tell me you’re lying, cause extreme stories like this ruin my day
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:19 PM
6

I’m sorry man, I care about some Men’s rights issues but, this complaint that I hear about semantics seems really trivial. I hear feminists complain about certain things people say that offends them like “be a man”, “don’t be a pussy”, the fact that women are called “bossy”. My response to them also is “I don’t give a fuck”. I care a little bit more about our young boys falling behind in education due to affirmative action policies and lack of scholarship funding, or men having their bank accoun…
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:02 PM
16

No, the guy is actually right. Liberals and black people themselves were criticizing her on that. She always identified as Indian American her entire life, but as soon as she decided to run for president she decided to identify as “African American”
/r/MensRights09/02/21 04:56 PM
5

This is literally 95% of male feminists. And women still want me to be a feminist, SMH 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:12 AM
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Totally agree with you on emotionally healthy girls. Way better options
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:38 AM
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I don’t either. I was just pointing out that women are emotional creatures and they need to feel something. That way when they see you a second time, they think “oh I remember this guy, this guy made me feel this way”. Girls with daddy issues date assholes, and guys that are socially awkward that don’t make the girls feel anything have no chance with them
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:01 AM
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Don’t put her on a pedestal just because she’s hot. Doesn’t sound like this girl has much of a personality or very much intelligence. I’ve been on dates with pretty girls before, there’s only so much effort I’ll put if I find out she’s another basic broad that watches “the office” and listens to Call her Daddy. If you’re just looking to smash and I was you, I would’ve tried to get in a position where we can both talk to each other for a little bit without distraction, like a park bench (preferab…
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:50 AM
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I wouldn’t call that stuff a huge waste of time. There’s definitely some moves that I’ve learned and some things to say that I use that may or may not have helped me in terms of success but have definitely helped with my confidence and conviction when I talk to a girl. I do think its important to be more aware of how you sound and how you say things because women are hyper sensitive to that sort of stuff
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:38 AM
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Rejection is a part of life, learn to deal with it. Don’t take it personally, it just means the girl is not into you the same way that you’re not attracted to certain girls. What would you prefer? Girls that are not into you be forced to go out with you? (Rhetorical question)
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:29 AM
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I used to put women on a pedestal man. What I did to change that is work on myself and try to get more confident first. Find out who you are, what your identity is. Try to build informed opinions on a wide variety of topics. Politics, social issues, economics, philosophy, religion, etc. With this, you’ll find your place in this world. Then once you know who you are and your identity, you’ll have a better picture of what kind of girl you want and what makes a high value woman. Yeah sure, many wom…
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:41 AM
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Not thrilled about the advice I’m seeing here. Me, I’m a big fan of standup comedy so I developed pretty solid humor through that and I also watch videos on YouTube about seduction and game. The important thing about women is that you need to make them feel some sort of emotion, that’s key. Negative emotions are better than no emotions at all, that’s why complete assholes get more girls than "nice guys". Start off the conversation, feel free to drop some jokes and feel her out. If she’s into the…
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:10 AM
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I guess I would fall under the category of “dancing monkey”. I’m a very funny guy and all my friends try to push me to be a stand up comic, but I’d rather stay in school. I’m ok at flirting, but I do very well at being funny and building attraction through that. I’ve had girls who are 10/10 gorgeous girls that I’ve went through this scenario with. The best advice that helped me, is that right when I feel I’m at the peak of excitement, I find an excuse to leave and tell her I’ll be back. Then lat…
/r/seduction27/09/20 04:30 AM
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There’s been times when I’ve flirted really well to the point where the woman is speechless and gets weak to the knees. It’s obvious to me when that happens, but if something happened to me like OP described, I’d literally never be able to tell that it was because she was nervous. I would’ve assumed that it was some spoiled, snotty girl that thought she was too good for me.
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:20 PM
2

The grocery store? How does that work? The park and the mall are the most ideal places for me
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:14 PM
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I’m actually a pretty funny dude. I approach a lot, and have my fair share of successes and rejections. I’d say my main problem is that I’m a little too much of myself sometimes (edgy in humor and often crossing the line). Like you said, I’m confident in who I am. When it comes to women and what they think of me, it’s always very black and white. They either hate me or absolutely love me, never usually anything in between or neutral. I’m def not a pussy
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:10 AM
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Doubt that’s the case for me, but I’ll try to keep an open mind
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:12 PM
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Lmao, I didn’t even need to get red pilled to realize how true this is. I just followed the advice from women and then got shot down time after time, then I started noticing that the very women that were giving me the shitty advice were going for guys who were the EXACT OPPOSITE of what they told me to be. At that moment I realized that there is a huge difference between what women say they want and what they really want
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:33 AM
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Guys, you don’t need this. If you wanna learn how to get laid, read this. All you need to get tons of pussy is to go buy this one cologne they sell at Macy’s. The guy who made this is a genius, you might recognize his name, it’s “Bill Cosby”. Anyway, you buy the cologne, you spray it on a piece of cloth, then you walk up to the girl you like and cover her face with the cloth. Instant pussy.
/r/seduction21/09/20 11:01 PM
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You might be right. Our college women over here in this country 18-22 tend to be very attractive, maybe more so than over in your neck of the woods. But considering our obesity epidemic and that the fact that the average woman in this country is 5’4 and weighs 170 lbs (clearly overweight), vs women in England who on average are 5’3 and weigh 154 lbs, I’m willing to bet that American men in their 30s prefer UK women.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:27 PM
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