Yo_Techno Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
222	"Wow you have beautiful eyes."		Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	17/05/19 07:10 PM
130	Turns out my looks were never the real issue…	Escalation & Calibration	Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	21/03/22 04:03 AM
43	Here's a simple game I like to play		Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	15/02/19 07:46 PM
5	How did you guys get comfortable dancing in the club?	Fundamentals	Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	05/03/22 06:53 AM
4	Going out solo to a concert for the first time tonight…		Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	30/11/21 05:01 PM
0	Can someone explain what it means to speak emotionally?		Yo_Techno	/r/seduction	07/12/18 05:17 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Cold approach is ineffective What in the fuck even is this logic? I have a sales portion of my job and I convert 1 in every 3 or so sales. Does that mean 33.3% of my cold approaches should become dates? sex? Become more attractive, develop your social skills and you'll get dates from cold approach.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 04:56 AM
1	Will having a lot of sex make me happier? Happy is probably not the right word. After my breakup with my 5yr I went a full year without being with anyone, definitely not for lack of trying. After a couple years in this sub, weeding out all the bad advice and taking the good to heart, I do have a pretty solid dating life. I would say I’m marginally happier, maybe. But in reality I think the true benefit is a combination of confidence and less stress about dating. I don’t worry about potentially being alone forever or if I’ll fall into an…	/r/seduction	10/05/22 01:36 AM
2	How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s? 1, people don’t realize how rare it is to go out and meet a single girl in their late 20s early 30s. I’d say that’s every 1 in 10? It’s not even realistic to limit yourself to that. Also if you’re just looking to have fun it’s almost shady to be see women in their 30s since they’ll be more likely to be searching for serious romantic partners. But honestly just tell them to fuck off. Basically they’ve seen people on the internet get,rightfully, dragged for grooming children so what they’re doing …	/r/seduction	16/04/22 02:46 PM
13	it felt weird being going out all by myself The more you do it the more comfortable you’ll feel and the more comfortable you feel the less it matters that you’re solo. Just keep at it. Try to find some other places that might make being alone less awkward. When I go out by myself I’ll usually walk around and hit 3-4 bars before I find that Goldilocks bar where I feel almost zero insecurity about it. Comfort is key. Everyone will tell you you need to get out of your comfort zone, which is true, but it’s important that you’re not putting yo…	/r/seduction	09/04/22 05:27 AM
2	Turns out my looks were never the real issue… Reading a LOT. Writing, journaling. I do a lot of word association and word games. Also actively choosing to be more conversational at work and around ppl. Things like that. Freestyling is pretty much the ultimate expression of this.	/r/seduction	21/03/22 09:55 PM
2	How did you guys get comfortable dancing in the club? Lol nice! I feel so awkward doing it (even alone) but I’ll definitely give this another shot and report back	/r/seduction	05/03/22 09:47 PM
3	Going out solo to a concert for the first time tonight… Thank you for taking the time to respond :) all great notes. Really gotta get it out of my head that there’s something abnormal about going solo	/r/seduction	01/12/21 03:37 AM
2	Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviors I’m taking a public speaking class rn and I learned more from your comment than 11 weeks of school lol	/r/seduction	26/11/21 10:16 PM
1	Lifting....Changed everything Amazing! Great job :) There’s been very few times in my life where I look back and think I played my cards perfectly, but the 2020 lockdown is one of them. Spent the entire time reading books and weight lifting, played with hairstyles and clothing styles, etc. Now my skincare, grooming, and fashion is on point all the time and I get told from everyone at work that COVID was my glow up. I finally feel clever enough to approach a girl and not be terrified that I’m just gonna fumble over my words a…	/r/seduction	10/08/21 04:45 PM
79	Knees touching when sitting side by side When in doubt a simple "can I kiss you right now?" is great. It's not smooth, but it will get you where you need to go.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 05:49 AM
1	Cold Approach Maybe start using more observational openers instead of being direct? Could also be an issue with tonality and body language but definitely don't stop approaching. I know this would be hard after a number of rejections but keep expecting every interaction is going to be the best approach ever, if you're expecting rejection they'll read that quick.	/r/seduction	23/05/21 05:42 AM
1	Tip: Take Improv Comedy Acting Classes. I second this. I noticed a massive increase in confidence during those 8 weeks. The main takeaway for me in terms of pickup is it's totally okay to say something stupid as long as you recover from it quickly, and improv really gives you the composure to recover from dumb statements. Women are a lot more forgiving than you think, if you make a joke that doesn't work they'll often chalk it up to not understanding it fully or just appreciate that you took a chance in the first place. So long as you…	/r/seduction	27/08/19 07:15 PM
1	This girl got me fucked up Stay strong, keep putting yourself out there and someone else will crop up, but you'll experience this same issue over and over if you keep investing this much stock in women. They can't fulfill you, only you can. Don't stress about where you're at in life. If you're motivated and have purpose women will see that and respond to it. The ones who won't aren't worth your worries anyway.	/r/seduction	03/04/19 08:51 AM
1	Here's a simple game I like to play This is dope. Thank you!	/r/seduction	17/02/19 03:36 AM
2	Here's a simple game I like to play For me the game is about overcoming my social anxiety around women. I could just spend my time practicing approaching, but this makes it fun and incentivizes getting better every single day. Otherwise I'd get complacent. I can say I feel less needy now than any point in my adult life, but there are other factors playing into that	/r/seduction	16/02/19 06:06 AM
1	Here's a simple game I like to play Negative	/r/seduction	16/02/19 04:14 AM
2	Here's a simple game I like to play I'm pretty sure if you explain any aspect of "learning game" to a woman they'd be turned off. I'm not gonna disagree with you and say it's definitely not a needy act, cuz I see where you're coming from, but for me it's just that extra bit of incentive to take action vs sit on the sidelines. It's turned an anxiety inducing part of my life into a fun one, so just for that I have to say it's worth trying.	/r/seduction	16/02/19 04:13 AM
12	Here's a simple game I like to play Lol no I keep 3 as the maximum. That way if you have a really lucky week you won't have an insurmountable goal to reach. It's more an exercise to help beat anxiety and expand your comfort zone around women. And an excuse to buy yourself some cool shit as well	/r/seduction	15/02/19 07:58 PM
3	Got angry with Cocktease colleague need advice So you misinterpret her signals, she ends up forgiving you for misinterpreting, then you denigrate her for not having sex with you and wanna know how to get back in her good graces? Umm, yeah. The moment you get angry with a girl for choosing to not fuck you is the moment you need to reevaluate everything in your life. Just be chill, she doesn't owe you anything, move onto the next one.	/r/seduction	21/12/18 09:30 PM