How did you guys get comfortable dancing in the club?

mightymite88 · 2022-03-05T06:54:57+00:00

i took dance lessons. bonus; dance lessons are a great place to meet women and/or take women on dates.

PlusGoose8448 · 2022-03-05T08:13:32+00:00

Close your eyes and just go for it king. When in doubt, just remind yourself you're the man

Edit: for dancing follow this apparently https://slate.com/human-interest/2015/01/northumbria-university-dance-study-the-science-behind-good-dancers-video.html

Worked well for me

Top-Conversation678 · 2022-03-05T07:18:33+00:00

You just dance bro it doesnt have to be perfect also nobody really cares how you dance imo everybody too busy with themselves and their companions

Liberaler · 2022-03-05T08:42:41+00:00

If you are relaxed and loose, it will be good enough, even if you have virtually no skills. It's about not taking yourself so serious.

You have to risk it and get your body into motion and your blood flowing. Once your heart rate is a bit up you will stop caring. You adrenaline will kick in, it's impossible to feel insecure then. Force yourself to break through that glass wall.

If you don't believe me, try it out at home. Turn some music on and start to dance. I'll guarantee you, as soon as your heart rate is up, it will automatically stop to feel ridiculous.

Hesitating causes the bad feeling not the act itself.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-05T08:34:35+00:00

Super easy. Find a mirror. Turn on music. Start dancing and don't stop until it looks kind of good. Took me a few days tops.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-05T13:53:36+00:00

Let me tell you a secret, it doesn’t matter at all if you suck at dancing when you are in a nightclub.

Because it’s not a competition.

In the nightclub people are begging to have fun, everyone’s there pretending like they are happy and having fun but the reality is most people are not, music is too loud to have conversation, a lot of people is focused on not looking dumb or trying for hours to build the courage to approach the person they like, and that’s why, for all those reasons, they drink to loosen up hoping the night will get better because meanwhile they are not truly enjoying themselves.

This means that you just have to dance for yourself, move and do stupid moves with a smile, like nobody is watching you…

Even if you feel dumb dancing so bad, you need to act like you don’t give a shit how dumb or how ridiculous you look while dancing, the only thing that matters is that you look like you are enjoying yourself.

The girls will notice that, and will get close to you, they will come near you and will want to dance with you, because they just wanna have fun, and they appreciate that you are not trying to protect your ego like all the others, and that you are not on “hunting mode” trying to prey on every girl of the nightclub.

When you dance like nobody is watching, as if you were a little kid who just wants to move and jump and do crazy stuff with the music like he is all alone, that will get you female attention who just want to have fun with you, many of them will make out with you if you make your move without shame and just dance with them closely without even knowing their name or sharing a word.

Drop your ego, forget the world is watching, forget about impressing people with your dance moves and just enjoy yourself.

Title	How did you guys get comfortable dancing in the club?
Author	Yo_Techno
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	March 5, 2022 6:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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