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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction07/06/22 02:01 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction22/07/22 10:11 AM
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Inner Game life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction15/06/22 06:20 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction11/06/22 07:53 AM
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Fundamentals life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction06/07/22 03:26 PM
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Fundamentals life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction08/07/22 09:02 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction26/06/22 05:57 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction07/08/22 02:48 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction18/06/22 08:30 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction12/06/22 03:03 PM
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Escalation & Calibrationlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction07/08/22 10:04 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction31/08/22 11:19 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction04/09/22 05:09 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction12/09/22 08:03 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction26/08/22 10:07 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction25/06/22 08:23 PM
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Inner Game life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction24/09/22 08:39 AM
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Inner Game life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction16/06/22 07:28 PM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction29/07/22 08:24 AM
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Inner Game life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction23/09/22 06:51 AM
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Conversationlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction08/08/22 06:29 AM
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Outer Game life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction17/08/22 07:45 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction20/06/22 07:26 AM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction12/08/22 03:20 PM
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Field Reportlife_long_learnerabc/r/seduction08/06/22 06:21 AM
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Fundamentals life_long_learnerabc/r/seduction16/07/22 04:39 AM
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College isn't good place. IMO Girls have identity and reputation to protect. ​ clubs/bars is the place.
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:34 AM
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Maybe it's wrong place, wrong time situation, ​ Where are you picking up girls?
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:01 AM
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Ohhh. You will find someone great or she gonna come back.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:56 AM
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There is no chemistry, move on!!
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:53 AM
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How did it go bro?
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:19 AM
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Build on top of experience you have. ​ Don't reset yourself. Distract yourself with exercises and plan the next move.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:13 AM
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Text her a song or something. Maybe cute dog video or meme.
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:05 AM
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Thanks, I promise, I will get laid someday, haha.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:57 AM
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Don't overthink. I think you didn't text anything bad. Text in a day later, you will be meeting her weekend, just play cool.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:56 AM
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> At one point I told Betty straight out that I'd be down to smash, but it would be as a FWB situation, I wouldn't want to ruin her friendship with Veronica (as Veronica is my relative and Betty's best friend). This was mistake, would say. Never be direct for romance. Girls have image to share with society. You should have leaned in and see if she lean in or not. End of story.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:45 PM
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Update: I asked for coffee, let's see what happens.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:56 PM
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Well you don't need a place to attract someone. If someone is willing to hookup you book an uber and go to your place which could be anywhere.
/r/seduction26/08/22 10:26 AM
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Thanks bro. ​ I just want some stability. I totally agree, seduction is about progression. I always thought, kiss before sex is only way out. Apparently not.
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:44 AM
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Keep on gaming bro, You did what you wanted. Now do what you want. ​ Stop whining. It's ok to retrospect.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:02 AM
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You also missed the golden chance, haha
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:27 AM
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Any advice on why I can't hit the iron when it's hot and why I try to take my own time(turn off for girl)?
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:48 PM
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Start somewhere. start small That's all I can say
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:55 PM
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This!!
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:20 AM
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You just need one to carry this phase. Start making friends if you wanna survive, haha
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:37 AM
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Same boat bro!!
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:31 PM
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Man, I am so bad at taking hints. ​ What the hell.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:49 PM
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Bro, heard of 3 strikes rule? In dating it is only 2 strikes!
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:21 AM
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Take this advice. You been FriendZoned. Don't expect much!
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:31 PM
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I think she might flake on me. She is taking time to decide when to meet on Friday, she wants to meet her friend too. What should I suggest? Should I tell her that I am gonna for her? or should I take her out to restaurant? HELP! PLEASE!
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:47 PM
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I think she might flake on me. She is taking time to decide when to meet on Friday, she wants to meet her friend too. What should I suggest? Should I tell her that I am gonna for her? or should I take her out to restaurant? HELP! PLEASE!
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:47 PM
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I think she might flake on me. She is taking time to decide when to meet on Friday, she wants to meet her friend too. What should I suggest? Should I tell her that I am gonna for her? or should I take her out to restaurant? HELP! PLEASE!
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:47 PM
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Yep, this advice.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:30 AM
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Bro, try, try, try again, till you succeed. Failure is best teacher. ​ Go get someone else and don't bet with friends. Do it for yourself.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:29 AM
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can you be specific? which behavior shows that? Chasing now? Or chasing before?
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:26 AM
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Yeah but she lives in another city and probably has weekend plans. ​ She agrees for dinner, I am gonna crook for her and ask her to help me. ​ Won't go to restaurant! just me & her and my place. Wish me luck.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:25 AM
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I proposed some activity on weekend, but she is busy. I have invited her for dinner, she agrees. She lives 1 hour by train in another city, so I have to wait for her now. I am gonna cook for her and not go to restaurant. Wish me luck, will keep you posted.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:23 AM
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kinda https://www.healthymale.org.au/news/what-are-blue-balls-real
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:21 AM
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Practice, practice, practice, With cashier, with waitress, just strike up a conversation.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:53 AM
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Well if you get enough signs then you should go for it. For e.g I find this really cute waitress, We made eye contact few times but then she starting ignoring. ​ When we paid the bill, I went for loo and stand then, she is coming towards me, she took sharp right from very far away, I said to myself, "Let's not make a scene and get out of here", haha Generally I would also look at any engagement rings on left hand, then skip too.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:47 AM
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Little bit of success not much. What made me realize was "It's ok to be rejected", "It's ok to go home empty handed", "It's ok to fail"
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:30 AM
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Bad advice. Never be direct!
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:27 AM
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This hit hard and actually truthful. ​ Why tell your qualities? Woman knows all of it!
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:43 AM
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How about both? Haha I realized, things have to start with lust rather than love.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:10 AM
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Yeah, I should stop playing safe. ​ I am bit broken and just trying to find love, lmao.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:09 AM
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Yes, Fear of rejection is big thing but I am not afraid. It's just that I play safe, hoping to find true love but I realized that you have experience things first rather than commit.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:06 AM
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Yeah, I just don't wanted to come out as needy. I have fucked up coming out needy sometimes and it just set me back to play safe!
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:05 AM
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This "dumbass" will change for sure. Haha Wait for next story!!
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:04 AM
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Wonderful post! Now the hard part is to implement it! If I guess success in future, I am gonna link to post for sure, haha
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:32 AM
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Aiye Aiye captain!
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:35 AM
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Setting an exemplary example for all. ​ Way to go, champ! Cheerio
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:22 PM
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You are right. I didn't learn how to tease the right way! I thought of teasing but it went other way!
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:15 AM
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Learn your city! I met a local DJ who plays a bunch of shows all around New York. I've attended so many events he posts on his Instagram and I've benefitted so much because of it! Attending his events has helped me discover so many new locations in my city, learn bar etiquette, meet new people, and dance with girls! But then there are girls/women too there.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:36 PM
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Stop being needy!
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:07 PM
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Nopes, nopes, nopes. ​ Had two dates saying yes to "second date" just trying to be nice but flaked later on. But had chance to bang on first one, relied on second date, take it slow strategy, but didn't work.
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:01 PM
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Some memes or songs once a day. That's all. A "hi" once a day is good too. "Busy day" gif is also good.
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:00 PM
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Why bother? Plenty of fishes in the sea!
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:51 PM
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hey, We all make mistakes. I would not try to over-correct/ over-steer. ​ Let seriousness come from her side. IMO. Keep it as usual. Cheers
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:48 PM
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Dance classes might help.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:42 PM
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I feel bad that I am behaving like coward, but it is what it is. Cheers
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:08 PM
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Right. Also I keep apologizing when I dance with her, telling that I am beginner and say sorry when I step on her foot. Man, what will happen to me?
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:10 PM
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But I can't stop overthinking. I was enjoying myself but hey, I can't remain dumb forever. I need to learn better, it's been 1 month and I had only 1 success out of 4 times.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:09 PM
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Should have made a move!!
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:51 AM
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Right, right, right. ​ Thanks for videos. Didn't knew.
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:49 AM
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Thanks mate. ​ Solid advice. Cheers
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:49 AM
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Perfectly summarized. ​ Thanks
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:43 AM
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This advice rocks. ​ But what's the game during dancing? When do you introduce yourself? When do you go for kiss? What's strategy?
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:19 PM
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Replace it with something healthy. Go for salsa/bachata classes!
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:47 AM
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Go for run 6 KM. Plenty of fish in sea, also don't risk your career. It's risky to flirt with co-workers.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:45 AM
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Thanks for the tips. I see the mistakes, I made. ​ So next time, to turn conversation to my place or her place. Can I ask "What's the most interesting thing at your place? That people get impressed?" Can I say "Don't fall in love with me, I am heartless guy and laugh?" Can I ask "Intimate question when I am kissing?" Can I ask "Let's feel each other better when I am kissing?" Can I say "I don't sex, I just want to spend quality time?" Will it come too needy?
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:43 AM
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Grow some balls, don't lie.
/r/seduction26/06/22 09:39 AM
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You will find love in most unexpected places. Keep all your options open.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:30 AM
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Well done, be an inspiration.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:22 AM
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Isn't being responsible a thing too for short relationships?
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:55 AM
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Bro, I noticed that women learn from another women. Their mom, friends, every female company talks about it when they are kids. They know this game long before men hit puberty!! It's not intuition, IMO, it's just more experience. Cheers
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:32 AM
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WOW, WOW, WOW. Is this real or a movie script? Definitely good.
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:06 AM
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Hi, I am "ABC", what's your name?
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:43 AM
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Congrats! Game On!
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:27 AM
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Thank you! Quality post
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:15 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:59 AM
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Absolutely!
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:58 AM
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Right! Makes sense.
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:53 AM
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My bad, sorry. Mixed up the terminology.
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:52 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:36 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:36 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:35 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:34 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:33 AM
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Update on this: This single mom, literally never enjoyed life. She had kid at 19. She never been to festival, so she just wanted to go to festival, have fun, that's all. I gave her company, I hold her hand and hands on back, all that stuff. I tried to make a move multiple times but she only let me kiss on the cheek. She had to go to her children(which were at her friend's place already) So she left after sometime but asks me drop at train station, so I gave her company and bid adieu. I don't kno…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:33 AM
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Thanks Browski
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:50 AM
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How can you politely reject? let's say she pretends to forget her wallet? Who pays then?
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:27 AM
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I have some frozen pizza at my place, so I am gonna offer that or cook something for her. But thing is I don't wanna come as rude, her free ticket costed money? So it's fair to spend some money on her? Wish me luck!
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:24 AM
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Dating co-workers is always risky. She is replying so that you can help her with her tasks. If things are not getting personal. She doesn't want to be close. I would skip dating colleague. It might affect your promotion, it might affect your connection with other. Always plan for the worst case, she might poison your connections too. Move on bro.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:22 AM
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Actually she offered me free ticket to festival. That's why I am doing this. She hasn't mentioned dinner at all but I think it would come up during our conversation. So thinking through.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:15 AM
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Thanks Actually she offered me free ticket to festival. That's why I am doing this. She hasn't mentioned dinner at all but I think it would come up during our conversation. So thinking through.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:15 AM
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Actually she offered me free ticket to festival. That's why I am doing this. She hasn't mentioned dinner at all but I think it would come up during our conversation. So thinking through.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:15 AM
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yep. Done lot of that stuff already. Breaking silence to make myself look nervous & needy. Silence is gold.
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:54 AM
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Thanks. Gonna do that. There is always little guy in you, hoping things would turn around, haha But not with girls for sure.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:28 AM
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Ahh, ok. It's just me "Nice guy" mentality. haha Gotta change that.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:27 AM
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Don't run behind girls, you run behind your goals of being confident!
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:45 AM
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Don't run behind girls. Attract them!! Let me tell even after you kiss a girl and make out, s*x is not sure shot to happen, Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. Get a hobby, workout, carry an attitude.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:39 AM
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I would skip dating colleague. It might affect your promotion, it might affect your connection with other. Always plan for the worst case, she might poison your connections too. Move on bro.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:37 AM
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Don't surprise if she isn't with you. ​ ​ Girls hate their plans ruined by surprises.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:34 AM
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Sorry about your situation. Why would someone bite you till you bleed? Oucch I would not ask someone directly to my place, you at-least need to kiss before asking that. IMHO. ​ After kiss, bit of make out to make sure, she feels the little boy down there, then do the house move.
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:22 AM
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Right. I generally go for walk first and see if there is match. Was thinking to cut the walk short without buying drinks but it seems very rude to call someone and not offer drinks. I can call it off after drinks then. ​ Probably just buy her drinks and but not to myself and leave?
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:18 AM
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How would do it if you are sitting face to face? How would do it if you are on a walk?
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:16 AM
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Hahaha, I get it, It's a bad thing to say "I do this every week". Thanks
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:16 AM
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Makes sense Thanks
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:18 AM
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Miser = Stingy with money Both parties = Me and Her
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:04 AM
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COURAGE!!!
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:47 PM
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Never go raw even after blood test. STDs takes time to appear. ​ We could not stop CORONA from spreading. STD is way dangerous bro.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:12 PM
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hahaha Worth the s*x, haha BTW do you know why post has been removed?
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:51 PM
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Thanks man. Just a newbie in this cruel world, haha. Lessons learnt. BTW do you know why post has been removed?
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:51 PM
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Fun ways. Interesting. Thanks, I just don't want to appear miser, right? So need to flirt right way to keep both parties invested!! Thanks
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:48 PM
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But chivalry? if she asks me that she wants a drink, what should I reply? At-least 1st drink is fine, right?
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:57 AM
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Well, spent a bit of money on her and now feel like used. :(
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:13 AM
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Thanks. But then how do I take her to my place? I mentioned I would show around my place and play some instrument, so I wasn't direct that much.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:14 AM
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This. THIS. THIS.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:03 PM
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Right. I am just late this sub, 2 years. Started dating in Corona. Hopefully no more dry-spell.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:01 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:58 PM
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Ofcourse. I even do video call before the date sometimes.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:58 PM
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Sometimes, I zoned out and completely submerged in the feelings. Thinking that she might be my LTR and I don't want to put it on like this note. So I wait for second date which she obviously rejects since she was looking for fling.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:57 PM
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Thanks. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:55 PM
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Thanks for bringing this discussion. I couldn't have thought with this perspective.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:53 PM
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Really appreciate the comment. Will be improving with your help now.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:52 PM
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Appreciate the feedback.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:49 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Bit of army upbringing, that's why. Any resources on inner game? Appreciate the help.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:49 PM
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Last Minute Resistance
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:48 PM
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Why not ask the number? I read it here all the time. If she gives the number, she is interested.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:57 AM
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This gives me hope!!
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:38 AM
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Haha, didn't try to deceive. Lol
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:13 AM
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You are god.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:13 AM
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It just gives me chills that I didn't post my experience here after my first failure.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:13 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:12 AM
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Sometimes girl have said no to holding hands.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:11 AM
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But she played bit hard to get. It turned me off, I said in my mind "Your loss, not mine".
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:09 AM
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Yeah, I feel bit sad to disappoint them. ​ I made the move twice, she said, it's just our first date. One time, I said, I have a crush on you and then tried to kiss her. Didn't work. My game is so PG-13.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:08 AM
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Some girls don't prefer holding hands. I tried to "scratch" while walking but then she walked side-ways. I am unable to understand the girls.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:07 AM
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Hello brother, ​ Same boat. I have noticed to keep trying, keep trying.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:36 AM
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I even went to her place, make a move, which she blocked. ​ I am like hope-less to figure out, what's wrong!!
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:05 AM
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Using boost on dating apps. Mainly chatting on dating apps, ask out on second day or first day.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:08 AM
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You are my brother. ​ I fucking hate this happen to me. I just can't be too sure whether she wants to be kissed or not!!! ​ Let's face it and stop being "pussy".
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:01 AM
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end of date kissing is not recommended as I read on here. ​ she already made up mind to leave and probably gave you window
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:42 AM
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Yes Sir, Keep it under $20
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:36 AM
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I made a move once. She rejected but she expected a move again since she kept hanging for 1 more hour. ​ Don't want to sound wrong, but I feel like more a dominant guy who just can't take a no. I want to improve.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:30 AM
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I am unable to learn the escalation. They sometime reject my first attempt at kiss and then I am like " No bitch, you don't test me". ​ I just can't get over my ego and handle rejection.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:56 AM
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