Hello all,

Time for another story.

So I was at a party few days back, now we were doing some salsa and zouk in arena and clubbing in another.

I choose zouk because I took few lessons, so I am asking random ladies for dance and we dance for 1 or 2 songs. I pick this newbie, who doesn't know zouk, so I taught her few dance moves and then we get bit sensual and hugging and front grinding for 30 minutes. Then we started touching cheeks to cheeks, while doing it, I gave a small kiss and then back to dancing.

Now she tells me that she needs a drink, foolish me, didn't thought to give her company, I thought she wants it with her friends, poor me, I went on dancing with other girls, after some 20 mins, I asked her again but she says may be later. She was from another city and trying to get laid since I saw her hopping here and there till mid-night trying to find Mr. sexy but couldn't(haha)

Why am I not learrning? Strike when the iron is hot? Ask a lady for drinks?

Maybe I learned wrong way from this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejH7ViDkYIg just try to tease her.

Anyways, I thought to not give up and try clubbing, so I get into groove, got some glimpses from few girls, so I thought to approach after showing them moves, they are smiling at me, asked one to dance but she said no.

So I moved to closer to DJ, there is pair, gave me smile, I took the hint, I asked her to dance, she complied, I did some bachata and zouk moves with her, got to hug her, we dance like 10 mins, now me "trying to game" I thought to dance with her friend (maybe mistake 1)

She got distant and dances with someone(I can understand feeling of rejection since she was into me, I am like 5, she is like 4 on hypothetical scale) but then leaves him and dance alone.

I got distracted and still dancing with her friend, after 5 mins she looks at the watch possibly see that public transport will stop mid night and leave.

How could I have handled these two situation? I don't want to be woman pleaser buying drinks and stuff but also behave like gentlemen.

How could have I handled situation 2? Could I have got her back?

When on Earth I will learn seduction?

Cheers