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Inner Game Youcandoit-1111/r/seduction17/04/25 04:02 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction25/03/26 12:18 PM
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Inner Game Youcandoit-1111/r/seduction04/05/25 06:26 AM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction05/04/25 02:19 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction11/01/26 04:18 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction15/04/25 09:51 AM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction01/04/25 02:48 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction08/05/25 05:00 PM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction15/04/25 02:15 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction17/05/25 11:20 AM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction26/03/26 11:28 AM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction11/03/26 08:51 AM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction27/03/26 07:40 AM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction09/05/25 08:31 AM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction31/01/26 09:38 AM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction08/05/25 05:48 PM
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ConversationYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction14/05/25 07:25 AM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction05/02/26 08:47 AM
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Field ReportYoucandoit-1111/r/seduction25/03/26 10:32 AM
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Love you too buddy
/r/seduction28/03/26 04:35 PM
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Did not read the post. I feel sorry for young generation they born in fucked up time. Old men like me late 30 would tell you before this internet booming shit. You move your fucking ass to a bar and club to dance. The most important social circle friends at uni. You you meet women at anywhere. Library, festival, book store, restaurant. Trust me I saw the ugliest person with character and fun bag models. My advice to you if you want to kill your whatever anxiety approach is to talk to every human…
/r/seduction27/03/26 09:59 AM
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‏you are really have no clue. The price are same dump ass. Without a job I could afford to live more years
/r/seduction26/03/26 07:42 PM
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Sometime it work, but the losers here would say ''dude you are simp for texting a dead conversation''. which dead gif do you mean?
/r/seduction26/03/26 07:09 PM
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Sthlm
/r/seduction26/03/26 04:47 PM
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As you know having a roster with the internet speed of rotation and validation from other. The girls fade away naturally. You only person who got my intentions of the post
/r/seduction26/03/26 03:15 PM
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What’s twerp?
/r/seduction26/03/26 02:06 PM
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Sorry to hear it happened to you but you taking your personal experience and saying it will happen to all men on this sub. If you sleeping with women causally with consent then you are in the wrong sub. You always turn the topic to like women are the victim. WE ARE BOTH ADULT AGREED ON CONSUAL SEX. I had girl come to my house without even drink coffee sober but this not the main debate of the topic. Its just which one is better drink date vs coffee date for any man to have one night stand. Nobod…
/r/seduction26/03/26 01:24 PM
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I agree with the value part, I don’t get these young lads who never closed a hot girl in their life saying if she ignore you. I was next to girl last week and picked her phone thought it was mine. You won’t believe how many guys were in her DMs and messages but guess who was inside her 30 mins ago.
/r/seduction26/03/26 01:11 PM
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See a man with a plan. I like your way of thinking
/r/seduction26/03/26 01:07 PM
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Admit defat. You are one of people on the internet would go around the topic and argue non sense to prove a point “ yeah maan but then they drink they would accuse you of rape broooo. Don’t have sex”. Let’s use logic if we make a poll here and ask all people on the sub. coffee date vs drink date to have “consental sex” to have one night stand with women. I bet 90% would say late night drinks over morning coffee, let’s be real. I think I made my point. If you want to get laid on first date make h…
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:50 PM
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Alcohol makes women lose and lower their gards. After few drinks they will open their legs. Coffee is more like a formal-ish tent to be serious. It’s hard to bouns from coffee to coffee like bar to bar then take her home. Do I need to explain to you more why drink > coffee date? From your reply you seems to fixated about the expenses
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:40 PM
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Dude! It’s written there coffee is same price as beer smart ass. Some time it’s cheaper in some cool dive bars.
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:33 PM
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I love how you flipped it on her.
/r/seduction26/03/26 10:38 AM
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I agree! The key word is experiment.
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:28 AM
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I can not see it, send it to me
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:27 AM
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YES! The fact you asking the question worry me of your level of game. Dress very well for lunch date. Make fun of her and have mega fun yourself. Tell her about places you go to and things you like to try. Tease her for a bit Tell her to join you for one of your activities or the bar you want to check. Set date and time or tell her you will text her details later. Meet her and close. Thank me later. P.s I assumed it’s on your lunch break from work. But anyway the key is to have mega fun yourself
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:22 AM
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Some of the answers are typical newbie - dude you have been ghosted move on. I know but I said I want to experiments - they don’t get it.
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:16 AM
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People sometimes take it too serious
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:00 AM
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True!
/r/seduction26/03/26 04:59 AM
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Why this? I don’t get it myself
/r/seduction26/03/26 04:58 AM
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They for sure a block
/r/seduction26/03/26 04:57 AM
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Stay away from jail buddy
/r/seduction26/03/26 04:57 AM
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waiting
/r/seduction25/03/26 09:18 PM
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I wish men would read this, coming from woman. I am a bit old and been around the block. I totally agree i could have casual without feeling anything for years but meeting a special one for like couple of weeks then you could fall for them without a doubt. The problem we both made when i use to start with casual we both say - ok this just sex and no more. We both agree to be fwb but as nutrally being togather you act like a lover and can not control yourself or other from fall in love. The most …
/r/seduction25/03/26 09:13 PM
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I love this line, i had to google it. I did not even get it after checking google
/r/seduction25/03/26 09:01 PM
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I also fuck few girls after each other but with condom. This is a game. Do you think the girl you are fucking she might not fuck anybody else? Then FWB is not for you.
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:58 PM
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Sometime when i am super bored on toilet i fuck around on my phone even just text an old mate. But i like the hail marry
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:20 PM
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Sometime you bored, people watch netflix for like 20 hours a week or do stupid shit
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:19 PM
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Its private nobody ever seen it. I do not check it myself
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:17 PM
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In her profile she said she is looking for a long term fuck buddy and on another app a partner. She matched me on both apps several times. On the first date she told me straight she was waiting for me because im her type. After hooking up for like a week or so. I know she came out 10 years marrage with a girl. She is rich designer move back from living in London and Milan for years. She bought a new house and invited me there the first night we met. I told her we only going to be a hook up buddy…
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:17 PM
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Love it, its super fun.
/r/seduction25/03/26 08:04 PM
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Man, you picked chicks in 1980 - love it
/r/seduction25/03/26 07:59 PM
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I want to slap to wake you brother but in same time want to help you. I am African moved here like 10 years ago and I get laid left and right. Sorry to hear but it’s your limited belief brother. When you snap out of it and work on yourself everything is possible. Reach out for help
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:59 PM
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Ok stranger from the internet.
/r/seduction25/03/26 03:02 PM
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Don’t focus on them rejecting you and the number ratio. I got reject it last week for a girl I was fucking for 6 weeks guess what it did not bother me, move to the next. At our last conversation I told her I fucked another girl. Brother you need abundance. You need to choice them not the other way around. You don’t want to stuck with wrong one believe me
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:59 PM
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Usually if you meet out they will be shy and they will approach your first
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:55 PM
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I agree too many hoes as I write I want to experiment with the hoes
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:47 PM
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Yes sir
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:22 PM
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What do you say about majority of comment say “ dude move on you got dumps/ghosted - no way”?
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:16 PM
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I am bored and would like to know how other done it. I hope it answers your question
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:13 PM
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Did managed to revive at least one? Haha
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:05 PM
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Who say demand sex? Dude how old are you?
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:00 PM
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All people message - Dude you got dumps, you loser, they never had girls before. I know they moved on
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:00 PM
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I would share my reviving message which work not all the time “ I am curious about..” They mostly replay like with “ what” “?!” Short answers - I take it from there or ignore it
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:58 PM
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I like it
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:56 PM
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Ignore this guy mate. I bet he does never had a threesome or know what poly is from his tune of comments
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:42 PM
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Open your eyes broski. He lost the first half of match, there is still second match to win the game. You could see I told him on my first comment that she using him for emotional dump but she was in his house even having a BF - think about it player
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:39 PM
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Having boyfriend does not mean she would not fuck around. She went to the dude house for fuck sake!! open your eyes. He could easy closed her there.
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:13 PM
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What is that? Feel to drop them all. Give more of Hinge style If i use them would share with you the answers
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:10 PM
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You are welcome. You are came to the OG with long experience in field not beind the screens. From poly mention you either from EU. What is your take from my input?
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:53 PM
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I KNOW! Its already dead why not just experiment with it.
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:47 PM
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Love these suggestion. I bet you pull them from your saved notes - Gold
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:45 PM
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I am curious! Why would you walk her home? You already fucked her for like 1.5 years before. She got a full time boy friend. I am afraid she using you as an emotional dumb, complaining about her boyfriend with then go to sleep with him by end of day! If you want to fuck her just say like something like come over for a film x because y and bring z. A girl who got a boy friend she does want to be seeing hanging out with an ex or anybody on date in city. Go to direct Me: I would take her offer that…
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:41 PM
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Its Field report. You ask too many question mate.
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:00 PM
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Dudeeeee! How come I am gatekeeping when I am giving you what is working now? Notice I said the place was famous for meat market no longer exist. Please be careful buddy. The place was called Scandic hotel in Medis, you welcome
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:46 AM
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No! I would write list just follow what I told you. Facebook a club with a big attendance for tonight and go there. This my advice
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:10 AM
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There is plenty places depending on the day/weekend. Trädgården is my favourite but closed now, there plenty outdoor places in summer
/r/seduction24/03/26 06:52 AM
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Why you are asking?
/r/seduction24/03/26 05:16 AM
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Facebook events - it depends on periods
/r/seduction24/03/26 05:15 AM
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If you here for short time, just hit the clubs. ONS here is mega easy, girls kicked me out after sex because i snore. This maybe happened like 5 times, like wtf. Girls here will fuck you and next day ignore the hell out of you. To be honest girls here select guys not the other way around. This the level of causal is casual in Stockholm. Me and my friend just came for club one hour closing. This place was famous for like last place to check 'meat market'. I went to to bar with my friend to order …
/r/seduction23/03/26 08:36 PM
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Without eye contact I would wait until step in same station or give a compliment on my way out if she stop me then we will be exchange contact because I am anyway leaving - next time
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:05 AM
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''Us women want the next challenge to be bigger than the previous one, we want to play the game too, you ended the possibility of their game very early on by showing what's the mose one can get out of you.'' I love this part. This is reason i wrote the post. Could you break this down for me? I think i get what you mean but i would like to hear it from you. It will useful to everyone.
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:18 AM
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I have never paid for them we always do 50/50 here where i live. I am not sure about where you come from so nobody is using other my friend. The other thing we both adult 40+ with high paid jobs would care about the price of glass of wine. I just want to clarify it for you and other up coming comments.
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:11 AM
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My man here wants an action haha
/r/seduction30/01/26 09:03 AM
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You don’t need show me nothing. Your new statement confirm my concern 5-6 NEW bitches a month so you killed the girls from the pervious month. You saying you get more less a new roster each month with 5-6 girls! Even if all of them just ONS!!! Man! I live in one of biggest city in the world. I repeat no hate it’s just can’t get it. You must work full time pick up artist
/r/seduction30/01/26 08:59 AM
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When I read 65 in year, you lost me there dude. We have 52 weeks a year - don’t this bitches go celebrate holidays with their families haha. I would read the rest but next time don’t start with unrealistic statement. Well done anyway, it’s no hate.
/r/seduction30/01/26 08:01 AM
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People here take every word very seriously
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:31 PM
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Dude I get your point but it comes like an advocate of other genders. I want to let you know there is no limiting belief in whatever you want todo in life! If I want to have one night stand (fast food) as you say in any environment then I can do it. There no rules says no! Things might not work for you but does not mean does not work for other.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:30 PM
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I don’t get the I need to use app x y or z to for hook up or not! It’s my choice the internet is free place if girl ask me out in whatever app I would do what ever I want. You comparison of fast food and elites resturang show your limited believe. No everyone is like you - get it Your comment is all based on what you know and what you have experienced in your life and by end saying girls do this and this for me - it shows me you are insecure if you have to write it down. I am the prize - think a…
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:08 PM
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You so judgemental! ONS is an agreement between two adult. Grindr is gay male!! It’s seems you have hate because other have other choices than yours
/r/seduction12/01/26 02:11 PM
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Being honest I don’t see her as gf more of like one night stand therefore I was thinking why I should go her way. I could cancel and reschedule next weekend to know she can over to my place just for sex
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:34 AM
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What do you mean? I did not get it
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:01 PM
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How I would know when you will be talking and walking in same time while exploring! I rather set up a drink date next where I live then escalate- she is not GF material just ONS
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:48 PM
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It’s two hour date in museum walking around looking at paintings. There is no window for escalation
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:46 PM
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It’s not about my way or high way! I don’t think for real to be able to chat because I would be checking the art!
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:02 PM
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It’s an ego thing! When you use to always close you forget about the small steps but it’s a good reminder from you. I will try it tonight to tease this old Women with small touch before the close. In my experience they don’t like to kiss in public
/r/seduction17/05/25 02:01 PM
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I agree with you, I could not touch her because we were on opposite side when we had picnic. I am going on date in two hours with old Italian women so I will try my sit next to her and to Touch he before escalating
/r/seduction17/05/25 01:56 PM
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I am use to seal the deal always on the same night, I am not of texter waiting to set up the next date
/r/seduction17/05/25 12:36 PM
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Dude! It’s the opposite I have abundance to limit that I have lined a dates for the upcoming 3 days!! I am just in new city I can’t handle waiting for dates
/r/seduction17/05/25 12:35 PM
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Umm dr.phill
/r/seduction10/05/25 09:34 PM
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It’s a really cool story bruv with a cliff hanger, love it
/r/seduction09/05/25 11:12 AM
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I don’t know how this is connected to approach anxiety! Now we need to go back to every person childhood to understand if they have approach anxiety or not. It’s could 10% factors but it’s not excuses to drag with you the rest of your life with you. The equation sounds like because x happened to me in past now I can’t do Y in the present moment.
/r/seduction09/05/25 04:20 AM
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Don’t make an assumption. I have not read seduction advice before talking to people. I mentioned i am really love talking to people everywhere regardless your gender. I am wired this way.
/r/seduction09/05/25 04:10 AM
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I disagree not neurotransmitters. Believe me i was an alcoholic for a full year, fully aware my brain and liver are cooked. Your statments does not apply on me. Are you saying everyone who go an issue with approaching has unbalanced level of neurotransmitters?
/r/seduction08/05/25 07:37 PM
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I have never thought about it from this point of view ever in my life. This makes me question why women would make up lies like pervert or stalker. If I am a decent human and just approach a woman normally in a social environment like a bar or club, not a hospital. I feel this scenario you are talking about is very rare. If you are a normal person approaching another human respectfully, nobody will make up lies about me. I am not Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. Thinking this way is like shooting yourse…
/r/seduction08/05/25 07:31 PM
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I am very happy. I was thinking about this topic for a while. I want to understand the other side thats just it
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:52 PM
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Are you saying people who has approach anxity not normal?
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:50 PM
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The way you think that you need to get out of the interaction will set mostly to failure. If erase this part from your game whatever you call it, you will go way further. Women get crazy in my opinion when they wonder why he does not want to get into my pants!!
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:12 PM
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I have been in 2 Cairo and Rio its totally different calutue, rio almost naked by the beach you do not need game to pick up girls. In Cairo you will probably meet hookers where gringo meet ups if you not local or speak arabic.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:18 PM
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Do you think Rio or NYC is same environment as Cairo?
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:47 PM
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I agree
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:49 AM
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I smell limited believe but good you know what works for you. I do not understand why i does not work for you the classic even i hate categories natural behaviours
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:27 AM
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I use to remember the old days when you go online just to ask for IRL wingman. After you see them on the field you could match their world with their actions
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:23 AM
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Dude you are over the place. Reading you post made worry about you for real
/r/seduction19/04/25 11:55 AM
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It’s a great one, I would add have no expectations to get pussy by end of the day = Abundance mentality
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:27 PM
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I ususly never talk sex via text, its big no no for me. Set a meet up and close. Its simple. specailly if you never met her yet
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:31 PM
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Check the vibe then ask her for avaliblity to join you for a drink or x y z. Make it sounds like you going for example to this measum and she shall join you. This way you won't come as needy
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:13 PM
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Its called abundance. Please do not put hot girls on pedestal. In my opinion it does matter who chase who at the end focus on the results.
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:38 AM
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Dude did you even read the post. Your comment is confusing af but when I see your nickname it makes sense. It’s the other way around, how to let them down
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:43 PM
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I am not trying to defend myself but it’s an assumption to try where they come from. My guess could be wrong. In same thing you categorise women as undesired this is bit of general statement. Believe me these women can get any man they want. I have tried to put them gently but did not work what next. My post to ask you how you handle it so I can get an inside
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:22 AM
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I don’t need to be living in other person shoes to express my view. My post is most about how to handle people who can’t accept rejection and your boundaries
/r/seduction15/04/25 04:02 PM
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Not really, why you asking?
/r/seduction15/04/25 02:58 PM
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I disagree, I would like seeing men picking up girls in augmented reality
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:00 PM
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It’s like going to boxing match with no confidence and thinking you would win! Your opponent will smell your lack confident and kill you.
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:28 AM
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Send me dm
/r/seduction14/04/25 08:17 AM
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I lived in Sweden for 15 years and got laid off a lot from just offline, had an 3 long term relationship ship with Swedish girl. I am tall, black so not usual Svensson. I live in major city but I use to go out a lot an approach everyone during the day and evening no matter. Go to a social bars and event rather than clubs. I actually just go to club to dance. When I dance and have fun sometime by myself guys and girls approach you. Work on your inner game and try make new friends I know it’s mega…
/r/seduction13/04/25 08:40 AM
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I stop counting, and I do like that question. It’s not competition haha
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:57 PM
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I live en Europe. I am not a teacher just sharing my perspective on the status of my current dating life.
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:42 PM
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Eye contact and say hi. It’s that simple believe me. There is no trick you need to learn to better at approaching. Just lock eye contact if she feels you then you will get a green light to approach.
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:27 PM
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I am not big fan of generalisation. It’s a filed report and my personal opinion overall. I am happy for people who get 1000 matches and know how to max the online game. I was just sharing my experience
/r/seduction05/04/25 05:01 PM
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Why did she break up with after investing 17 years with her? Did she fucked another guys when you were on ''Break''. This is your qoute ''I live in Scandinavia too. 2 000 likes on Tinder. '' WTF do you mean this it. If you want to know about my career or econmic status. I will drop my linkdin here and see who got it better and share my apartment value. would you do it? Just to show I am man of my word!!
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:59 PM
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Dude you can eat the soup with you hand. I feel you give me retaed incel vibes with your comments.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:50 PM
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Please share it with me after. I feel people talk the talk but never walk the walk.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:49 PM
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I will fuck her and send you a picture. What more do you want?
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:48 PM
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She works for commeical so i would rate her 8ish. She is 185cm tall blone with green eyeys. She works for Zalndo atm
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:26 PM
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I just mentioned a few facts to help clarify my point of view, not to brag about it. As you can see, I’m not very familiar with Reddit, but I’m a straightforward man. I’m not a fan of exaggerating just to prove to others that I’m 'the MAN'
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:24 PM
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I KNOW!!! People have a busy lives in Major city, our conversation was quite vague nothing of more seducative but we live two metro stations apart and decided why not continue the chat. We found we have common interess so we exchange numbers. I was coming from a football practice so i was dressed so down and ugly.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:18 PM
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I could prove the majority of these hookups with pictures, names, locations, and I’m willing to share all my flights to these countries. I’m almost a 40-year-old man—I have no intention to mislead or inflate my ego for no reason. I’m just sharing my experience, and hopefully, my post is useful.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:06 PM
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Btw She just texted me back with my name ''XX from the train''. See my comment about his post past.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:01 PM
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Scandinavian people level of english is very impressive. It does not matter if you speak the local language just approach with confidant even with broken English.
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:59 PM
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I love your comment—being sooo cocky statment, you got 2,000 matches a week!!!! Why did you make a post last month titled 'Finding your true "soulmate," but the relationship just doesn’t work'? It’s funny—you call me out, yet you’ve been with women for 15 years and now you’re divorced!!! What a stud. I read it quickly. If you have 10,000 matches and are still thinking about one girl, you lack abundance. I stand by my advice: if you ever travel to 56 countries, then maybe we can talk. But for now…
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:57 PM
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I have cool fiends and it’s more cool stories even my ex-gf love them when they mention it.
/r/seduction01/04/25 03:37 PM
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Laugh at his bad jokes, easy
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:14 PM
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Eye contact
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:50 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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